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Speaker 2: What to said the Ugly Side Cookie.

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Speaker 1: And on the inside we'll interview insiders and other titans

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Speaker 3: This is another episode.

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Speaker 4: Of the Inside of Show. Welcome to Cannabis Talk one

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Speaker 4: on one's Financial Fridays with the inside investor Tony k.

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Speaker 4: We're the world's number one source for everything cannabis.

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Speaker 5: at the Insider Investor. Now, you guys, I created Financial

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Speaker 5: Fridays to make your money game. Right After twenty years

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Speaker 5: I want to share with you stories that can inspire you.

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Speaker 5: legal information and opportunities. You all have heard my show

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Speaker 5: before at this point, and you know that I always

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Speaker 5: your health is your wealth. You can't be truly wealthy

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Speaker 5: if you're not healthy. That's why I send all my

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Speaker 5: friends to my personal concierge, doc, doctor Chalmers.

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Speaker 5: You know, now, this dude is not just my doc,

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Speaker 5: but he's the doc that other docs send their patients

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Speaker 5: to when they can't fix the issue. At Chalmers Wellness,

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Speaker 5: they work with patients to identify, treat, manage a wide

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Speaker 5: variety of issues, including weight loss, digestive problems, chronic fatigue,

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Speaker 5: I get that HRT, and of course addiction treatment alternatives. Blue.

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Speaker 3: you know, I had to call him yesterday and my stepfather,

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Speaker 3: talking about Wow, like he he is so intelligent and

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Speaker 3: he just did that Ted talk, you know, and so

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Speaker 5: The dude had seven eight thousand followers on Twitter. He's

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Speaker 5: If this is something that you guys want to know

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Speaker 5: Better yet, follow him on Instagram Keith Yaki. Now to

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Speaker 2: This is exciting, dude, Let's talk about sex, baby.

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Speaker 2: Room financial Fridays. But there's two currencies we all love,

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Speaker 2: Hey, it's honored to be here, both of you, guys. Tony,

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Speaker 5: Blue.

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Speaker 2: You and I have been friends for a minute since we

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Speaker 3: The things you do when your kids, you know, listen

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I'm originally from Orange County. We went to

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Speaker 3: I used to pray with me. I was I was

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Speaker 5: Bro. Yeah, but then he wasn't allowed to play with

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Speaker 3: We were moving.

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Speaker 2: We just moved into our dream house, Like I'm a

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Speaker 5: Plain Devil's advocate here, because you know, obviously I'm not

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Speaker 2: And because here's what's happening. Most guys become their C

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Speaker 3: Ever, dude, So you're not moving fast enough.

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Speaker 2: It's an energy. Yeah, people follow your energy. And so

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Speaker 3: It's very quick.

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Speaker 2: in your life? That's when you give her some grace.

431
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Speaker 2: I always say this. You know, hey, how long you've

432
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Speaker 2: been a douchebag? Two years? All right, Well it might

433
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Speaker 2: not turn around and plug in two days. Yeah, you know,

434
00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:30,119
Speaker 2: you got a hole you're digging yourself out of. But

435
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Speaker 2: once you become the best version of the year. Give

436
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Speaker 2: her some time, because every woman when they're about ready

437
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Speaker 2: to leave a man and he starts to.

438
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Speaker 3: Change, what do they think?

439
00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:41,879
Speaker 2: How long is this gonna last? Yeah, so she's gonna

440
00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:43,800
Speaker 2: test you, because people test what they want to trust.

441
00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:45,720
Speaker 3: Sure, you start going to the gym every day, and then.

442
00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:46,600
Speaker 4: You're there and then you quit.

443
00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:48,359
Speaker 2: Exactly where how do you really go?

444
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Speaker 5: I find this interesting because usually on Financial Fridays would

445
00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:52,840
Speaker 5: jump right into money and out of that you make money,

446
00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:54,760
Speaker 5: And how's this going to represent money? But this is

447
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Speaker 5: this is a currency. And I think you mentioned the

448
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Speaker 5: five pillar, which actually feeds right into our financial five

449
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Speaker 5: which we do on Fridays. But we're gonna take quick bake,

450
00:20:01,840 --> 00:20:04,359
Speaker 5: come back with more Keith Yacky, let's go do it.

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Speaker 4: We'll be right back with the Financial Friday five on

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Speaker 4: Cannabis Talk One on one's Financial Fridays with the Insider

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Speaker 4: Investor Tony K. Welcome back to Cannabis Talk, one on

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Speaker 4: one's Financial Fridays with the Insider Investor Tony K. It's

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Speaker 4: now time for the Financial Friday five.

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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Speaker 5: Another one of my favorites always representing here in the

458
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Speaker 5: studio is the Bear Flag Group. They are your white

459
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Speaker 5: label partners. They're known to be on time, accurate, and

460
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Speaker 5: they always do quality copacking. They've been doing the shit

461
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Speaker 5: since twenty fifteen here in California. I love that about them.

462
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Speaker 5: They're not fly by night at the Bear Flag Group.

463
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Speaker 5: They do what they say they will do, which is

464
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Speaker 5: rare in this game. Go check them out online at

465
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Speaker 5: bear flagroup dot com. We're back here with Keith Yaki,

466
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Speaker 5: the owner CEO of Married Game. Now, you were just

467
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Speaker 5: about to tap into the five dials you call them,

468
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Speaker 5: I believe, which is ironic because we have the Financial

469
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Speaker 5: Friday five. But I want to hear about you first

470
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Speaker 5: because that is a currency. I never thought about its having.

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Speaker 3: One of the It's the biggest currency in the world.

472
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Speaker 3: I mean, that's more I would say than the money, right.

473
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Speaker 3: I mean, you know it's like I'm not, you know,

474
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Speaker 3: the Married Game guy, right, this is this is Pet's lane.

475
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Speaker 3: And I'm proud of you, bro, Like you know, you know,

476
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Speaker 3: I'm a super proud of you. I mean, like I said,

477
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Speaker 3: we we go back and have an extensive history. I

478
00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:26,000
Speaker 3: mean we've ran around the house together with women in

479
00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:29,600
Speaker 3: the house and friends and and we've we've shut down

480
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Speaker 3: the freeway Tony. He's a short guy.

481
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Speaker 5: Boy hurts boy.

482
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Speaker 3: But we I mean we physically shut down the freeway.

483
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Speaker 3: We've been arrested together, you know. Uh. And and we

484
00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:46,800
Speaker 3: at one point kidnapped two thousand people on the freeway.

485
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Speaker 2: We've been in jail naked together.

486
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Speaker 5: Yeah, yea, literally, that's that's that was a crying game,

487
00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:54,760
Speaker 5: not the marriage, you know.

488
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Speaker 3: And uh, you know, Paula Bella's coming in town tomorrow, Yeah,

489
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Speaker 3: tomorrow or something. But anyways, you know my I think

490
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Speaker 3: my point was it's it's the biggest currency in the world.

491
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Speaker 3: And and and I think a lot of people don't

492
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Speaker 3: put the value on that. And that's why it's so

493
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Speaker 3: exciting to have Keith here. I mean, you have to

494
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Speaker 3: think about this. People miss it all the time. And

495
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Speaker 3: and in the game that you're spilling right now, you know,

496
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Speaker 3: it's funny. I know it. You know, I live it,

497
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:22,920
Speaker 3: right and and sometimes I get off my my rocker though,

498
00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:25,000
Speaker 3: and and so when when you're saying it right now,

499
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:27,360
Speaker 3: so refreshing because I'm like, that's who the fuck I am,

500
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Speaker 3: you know, And I see so many people that aren't that,

501
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:32,199
Speaker 3: and I'm like why the fuck aren't you like this?

502
00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:34,720
Speaker 3: And it's they need some keith yaking in their life.

503
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Speaker 3: You know, they need the marry game. So anyways, man continue, Yeah.

504
00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:44,359
Speaker 2: Two words sex cells. Yeah always has guys do ship

505
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 2: for sex that believe what are you doing like I'm

506
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:50,439
Speaker 2: trying to get laid. Yeah, guys want to get paid

507
00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:52,760
Speaker 2: and guys want to get laid, and a lot of

508
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:55,200
Speaker 2: my clients know how to get paid, but they forgot

509
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Speaker 2: how to get laid within their marriage.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, Right, I mean there's no

511
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Speaker 5: better to.

512
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Speaker 2: Bill Gates has Bezos looks is the most unfus.

513
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Speaker 5: He's still trading up. They keep trading up when they

514
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Speaker 5: go through that.

515
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Speaker 2: Think about it. Status. You walk in the room with

516
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Speaker 2: a really hot chick, your status is instance instant. When

517
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:27,199
Speaker 2: I used to go in the strip club, I had

518
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Speaker 2: a friend I called her a ten three. She was

519
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Speaker 2: smoking hot ten, but her her attitude and their intelligence

520
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Speaker 2: may it was about a three. But I picked up

521
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Speaker 2: more girls in the strip club with her for a

522
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Speaker 2: threesome than anybody because I walk in and she's like,

523
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:43,320
Speaker 2: not a little stunny, not a little beautiful, She's all

524
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Speaker 2: the way beautiful. There's like, no fucking flash, she didn't

525
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Speaker 2: have a toe that She's like, what the fuck is that?

526
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:49,959
Speaker 2: You know what I mean, she's just the toe. You're like,

527
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:54,840
Speaker 2: that's fuckable. And so it's currency, it's status. And so

528
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 2: when a guy loses himself, because most guys, when they

529
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Speaker 2: say I do, they think it's done. They think, oh,

530
00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:02,960
Speaker 2: I made it to the finish line. No, motherfucker, you

531
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:05,880
Speaker 2: just stepped into the starting blocks. These are frame shifts

532
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:07,960
Speaker 2: that guy. Like when I say it's ninety five percent

533
00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 2: your fault, it's because, dude, a woman who's attracted to

534
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:14,560
Speaker 2: a man will do anything for that man, not a

535
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:16,240
Speaker 2: little stuff, all the stuff.

536
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Speaker 3: And it doesn't And I want other men to know

537
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:22,160
Speaker 3: this because it doesn't matter how tall you are. It doesn't.

538
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:26,160
Speaker 3: It's it has nothing to do with I mean sometimes

539
00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 3: your size, I guess, but not always though. It's really

540
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 3: your energy. It's the way you project yourself to the world.

541
00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:34,919
Speaker 3: Like you know, you go walk into a room. I mean,

542
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Speaker 3: we were at what was it, Joey's in Newport and

543
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:41,199
Speaker 3: and and these guys are like like amazed, I'm over there,

544
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Speaker 3: boom boom. I mean, it's one of the hottest places.

545
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Speaker 5: In Newport Beach and it's like a pinball and a

546
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Speaker 5: pinball machine from the host. I'm over there.

547
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Speaker 3: I'm getting phone numbers and a table and they're.

548
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Speaker 5: Just like there's lesbians that he was splitting up. One

549
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 5: over here, one over.

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Speaker 3: There, I mean, and he's freaked out, and I'm like

551
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Speaker 3: looking at him, like, well, we're at a business.

552
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Speaker 5: I was like, calm down, bro, your.

553
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Speaker 3: Buddy was trying to give me the doctor Chalmers was there.

554
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Speaker 5: We'll ask him later, you.

555
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 2: Know, hey, but you know what you're saying that I

556
00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:11,200
Speaker 2: love so much and the reason why I work with

557
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 2: married guys or guys in long term relationships. I go, dude,

558
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:14,639
Speaker 2: she's already your type.

559
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:16,360
Speaker 5: You know your your type.

560
00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 2: She said yes to you and said I'll build a

561
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Speaker 2: family with you and pop out babies with you. You

562
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 2: are her type. You just are not an attractive version

563
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:28,440
Speaker 2: of yourself anymore. And she goes, oh fuck, I'm settling

564
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 2: being with this guy. And that's the real reality. And

565
00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:32,959
Speaker 2: so a woman's like, I don't want to settle. This

566
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:34,760
Speaker 2: is some bullshit, dude. I don't want clow seats my

567
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:36,639
Speaker 2: whole life. Let's get some leather fucking seats up in

568
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:39,920
Speaker 2: this bitch. So let's talk about the five dials, and

569
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Speaker 2: I think you'll see because basically I realized that our

570
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:46,720
Speaker 2: women are judging us on these five things. Number one,

571
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Speaker 2: how good of a parent are you?

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Speaker 3: Dude?

573
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Speaker 2: Listen, my wife said, I don't even want to have

574
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Speaker 2: another kid with you. You were such a bad dat.

575
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Speaker 3: Wow.

576
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Speaker 2: And you know I was good with my other three kids,

577
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Speaker 2: but with this one. I didn't change a diaper, I

578
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:01,960
Speaker 2: barely watched her. She didn't even want to go out

579
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:04,639
Speaker 2: on girls' night out because she's like, can you handle this? Like,

580
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 2: how fucking pathetic of a man to be such a

581
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:09,679
Speaker 2: bad dad that she doesn't want a second kid with you.

582
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 2: So and and here's the thing, and a guy goes, dude,

583
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:16,200
Speaker 2: my wife shouldn't love her kids more than me. Let's

584
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:21,639
Speaker 2: look at the stats, motherfucker you ready, Moms divorced dads.

585
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 2: They don't divorce kids. Yeah, a hundred percent of the time.

586
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 2: So you want to fight nature, good fucking luck, you're

587
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:28,320
Speaker 2: gonna lose.

588
00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 5: Okay.

589
00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:31,960
Speaker 2: So are you a good dad? Well, I don't become

590
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Speaker 2: I didn't become a good dad, so my wife would

591
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:35,200
Speaker 2: want to fuck me. I became a good dad, because

592
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:38,359
Speaker 2: that's what a fucking dad should be. That's what I

593
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:39,919
Speaker 2: need to be there. I need to be present. I

594
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 2: need to be sharing with her. What does it mean

595
00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:45,240
Speaker 2: she needs masculine energy? Kids don't need two moms. You

596
00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:49,320
Speaker 2: need a dad and a mom. That's that's why you

597
00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:52,360
Speaker 2: need both of them to fucking make the baby. All right.

598
00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:55,719
Speaker 2: So I was a horrible fucking kid. I mean a

599
00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:58,400
Speaker 2: parent to my child. I was a pretty good kid.

600
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Speaker 2: I got a lot of trouble, but you know, you're

601
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:03,800
Speaker 2: pretty good. I learned how to be an entrepreneur, Thank

602
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:06,399
Speaker 2: god I was. Heh fucking man, dude, all right. The

603
00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:09,159
Speaker 2: second thing that she's asking about that she needs you

604
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 2: checking you on? Are you a good partner?

605
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:11,679
Speaker 5: I do?

606
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:15,679
Speaker 2: My wife felt so alone being married to me. She's like,

607
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 2: I would, I would. I'm more alone with you than

608
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:20,400
Speaker 2: if I was single. Wow, and best And I call

609
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 2: it the best friend out, Like, am I really listening

610
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:24,920
Speaker 2: and leaning into my wife? Or am I just saying hey,

611
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:26,960
Speaker 2: if I if I put in fifteen minutes of eartime,

612
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:29,199
Speaker 2: am I gonna get some cardio upstairs in the sheets?

613
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:30,680
Speaker 2: And it's that taker energy?

614
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:30,920
Speaker 5: Rather?

615
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,720
Speaker 2: No, I love my wife. My wife's my favorite human being. Yeah,

616
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:35,960
Speaker 2: there's not a guy on planet Earth or a woman

617
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:37,880
Speaker 2: on planet Earth that I would pick above my wife.

618
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 2: She's that fucking cool. She understands my heart. And I

619
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:42,080
Speaker 2: actually give a shit about like I care, Like, what's

620
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:44,120
Speaker 2: going on? How are you doing? Tell me about your mom?

621
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Speaker 5: Like I Actually, it's not nagging when you get home,

622
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:49,159
Speaker 5: it's actually you're genuinely interested, which is rare amount my

623
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:50,160
Speaker 5: married friends.

624
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Speaker 3: We're not just coming home and doing the least amount. Yeah,

625
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 3: you're doing the most amount, right, And it's it. And

626
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 3: it doesn't look like you know what you think it does,

627
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 3: because you don't even look like you're else. You've lost

628
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 3: complete control of who you are, right, I mean I

629
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:05,440
Speaker 3: see it, and I, like I said, I can see

630
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:07,800
Speaker 3: it in myself too, when I'm not being one hundred

631
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 3: yeah you know, and and and it's it's like I said,

632
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 3: it's refreshing. It's so great to hear, you know.

633
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:14,879
Speaker 2: And I'm teaching men how to be fucking men again.

634
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 2: And men can kill somebody and fucking make love to

635
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:22,280
Speaker 2: their wife within a night and they go, that's my guy,

636
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 2: because dude, a woman, a wife wants to look back

637
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 2: and go, that's my guy. Yeah, not Oh that's my

638
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:28,400
Speaker 2: fucking guy.

639
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:29,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no, dude.

640
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 2: A woman goes, that's my wife's so proud of me.

641
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:32,760
Speaker 3: Dude.

642
00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:34,199
Speaker 2: Anytime I walk by and she on her face time

643
00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 2: with them, and she goes, pull your shirt off, show

644
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 2: my mom your abs and you know what I mean.

645
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:43,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, so Blues been doing that around the studio. It's

646
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 5: not abs, right.

647
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 2: Hey give him sixty days. I know what this guy

648
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 2: can do.

649
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 5: Now that you're back. Now that you're back, he's a challenge,

650
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:53,160
Speaker 5: except which is awesome.

651
00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 2: That's the second dial, all right. The third dial is

652
00:28:56,440 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 2: the producer dial. This is what we thriving. We're kill

653
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 2: the buffalo, bring back the pelts, bring back the meat.

654
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 2: We're good at this dude. Jesse was like, we're moving

655
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 2: into our dreamhouse. You know how to make bread? You

656
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:09,560
Speaker 2: got that, And a lot of guys do get that,

657
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 2: but they think that's the only thing they're supposed to do.

658
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 3: And I'm good enough because I did that.

659
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, Hey, where's my self. I provided produce.

660
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 5: I protected that's his currency in that moment.

661
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 3: Yes, I want bend over.

662
00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 2: But that's but they're like, but that's but that's what

663
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 2: they've been taught because we've been sent off to school

664
00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 2: to be taught by feminine teachers, female teachers. We're come

665
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 2: home raised by uh women, babysitters, and we talk with

666
00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 2: our dad, what thirty minutes a day because he's out

667
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 2: at work. And that's the only thing a dad's supposed

668
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 2: to be. No, motherfucker, that's you was just supposed to

669
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 2: be able to do that, right, That's what you were

670
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 2: built for. It's why you have broad shoulders. Dude, Like,

671
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 2: what the fuck? Okay? Fourth dial and fifth dial there's

672
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 2: where all guys just fuck up. Fourth dial is the

673
00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:58,560
Speaker 2: player dial. Player dial. Now, I'm not saying go bang

674
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 2: a bunch of random chicks and have one night stands. No,

675
00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 2: I'm saying, are you having any fun with her?

676
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:04,600
Speaker 3: Sure?

677
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 2: Because, to quote the great American poet Cindy Lapper, what

678
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:12,280
Speaker 2: did you say? Girls just want to have fun?

679
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 3: Dude?

680
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 2: When you were in the beginning, dude, you were dating,

681
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:19,000
Speaker 2: You were taking her out, you were buying her flowers.

682
00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 2: You weren't wearing your dad's.

683
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 3: Opening the door.

684
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 2: Dude, you were being you were putting in an effort.

685
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 5: I made a picnic basket once and went to the

686
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 5: fucking beach.

687
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, she goes, oh this Tony's the guy. Until Tony goes,

688
00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:32,719
Speaker 2: I'm not doing that anymore.

689
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:33,560
Speaker 3: And so what you've done?

690
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, you fucking you've changed the contract. You go, No,

691
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 2: I get all the benefits, but I don't put in

692
00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 2: any effort. Where would that fucking work? Yeah, no place ever.

693
00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:45,200
Speaker 2: So here's what I say to guys. I go, like,

694
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 2: when's the last time you took your wife on a date? Like,

695
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 2: I don't know, six weeks ago. I go, okay, well

696
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 2: what was it? They're like, oh, you know, we sway

697
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 2: by home deepot to get up some you know, some

698
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:54,800
Speaker 2: parts for the house, and then you know, went through

699
00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 2: the chick Flay drive through. It was great. I'm like, well, no,

700
00:30:58,080 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 2: wonder you're not getting more ass in the toilet sea

701
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 2: so nova. Yeah, that's bullshit, dude. So here here, here's

702
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:09,120
Speaker 2: a reframe. It's date night, No reframe. You're single right now,

703
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:12,080
Speaker 2: right now, you're single. And the hot chick from high

704
00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:16,000
Speaker 2: school Kristen Bennett. Yeah, I sat next to you in

705
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 2: geometry banded. I want to he was cute, man, but

706
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 2: I never I never got it.

707
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 5: I blew Did you take it down?

708
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 3: No?

709
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 2: No, the cheerleaders down?

710
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 3: I'm sure I did. I just don't remember. I'm a

711
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:31,600
Speaker 3: time traveler. I don't live in the past like it.

712
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:36,320
Speaker 2: So you're immediately single on the hot chick from high

713
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:38,960
Speaker 2: school d ms you right now and goes, Wow, looks

714
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 2: like life's good. Let's catch up. You go perfect, it's

715
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:45,720
Speaker 2: a date. How would you show up to that date? Yeah, dude,

716
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 2: you'd be doing your twenty push ups out the door.

717
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:50,280
Speaker 2: You'd be smelling good, you'd be you'd be planning things,

718
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 2: you'd be putting in effort. Why because you want to

719
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 2: get laid game?

720
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 3: Listen up, people, This is game, man, this is real game, dude.

721
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 2: It's it's it's how I've helped hundreds of men, and

722
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:05,480
Speaker 2: I make every single one of them the same guarantee.

723
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 2: If you do the work and this doesn't work, I

724
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 2: don't want your fucking money, zero refunds hundreds of men

725
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 2: to come through my program. I'm I know I'm right

726
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:16,120
Speaker 2: because not only did it work in my marriage, because

727
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:19,560
Speaker 2: my wife fucking adores me, dude, like loves me. We

728
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 2: have tons of sex. I'm I'm I got vagina for days.

729
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 5: Guess what good?

730
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 2: But guess what? It works because I show up and

731
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:33,120
Speaker 2: I put in effort as if She's a prized possession

732
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 2: because she was at one time. And most guys fucking

733
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:39,000
Speaker 2: forget that. They're sloppy, they smell like shit, they're in

734
00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 2: their work clothes all the time, they don't shower. You're like, dude,

735
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:45,480
Speaker 2: are if if somebody came up to your wife and said,

736
00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:48,200
Speaker 2: do you think your husband cheating? And she giggles like,

737
00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 2: who the fuck would want to fuck him? Right? That's

738
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 2: a problem. Yeah, because here's the difference between short term

739
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:56,479
Speaker 2: attraction and long term attraction. I want to make sure

740
00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:57,720
Speaker 2: I'm not coming up on the commercial break.

741
00:32:57,760 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 3: Do we get close?

742
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 5: We don't need commercials.

743
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 2: Check it out. Short term attraction. You know why it

744
00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:10,320
Speaker 2: works As a man, you have options. She knows it. Oh,

745
00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 2: I'm just I'm just Tina. He knows Jeanette and you

746
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 2: know Shelley, and he's got options. But once a man

747
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 2: becomes committed in a monogaousan relationship, he acts as if, oh,

748
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:26,160
Speaker 2: this is it, and it is it for most relationships,

749
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:28,720
Speaker 2: So you no longer have options, but you still have

750
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:33,080
Speaker 2: to remain a man who has the perception of options.

751
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:36,200
Speaker 2: Every girl Jesse go Jesse, My wife knows, she goes.

752
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 2: You think that girl wants you, I said, Jesse, you

753
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:39,760
Speaker 2: don't have to ask me that question anymore. I know

754
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:44,240
Speaker 2: every fucking girl wants me. You know why, because I'm rich,

755
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 2: I'm ripped, and I'm old, which is the rarest fucking

756
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 2: animal on planet Earth. So of course every woman wants me.

757
00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 2: And my wife knows that. And guess what, my wife's youthful,

758
00:33:55,400 --> 00:34:00,080
Speaker 2: sexiest shit and fucking horny. She's also very rare. We

759
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 2: know in our relationship who we are, and we continue

760
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 2: to show up as the best version of ourselves and

761
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 2: we're the one on the inside. We've got the inside joke. Yeah,

762
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 2: you all want us, but most guys lose that player

763
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:13,880
Speaker 2: edge and so there is no perception of options. Their

764
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 2: wife's like, fuck, I'm settling being with this piece of shit.

765
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:18,719
Speaker 2: And that's why I'm saying it's ninety I.

766
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:21,000
Speaker 3: See and they see your truth. That your truth, I mean,

767
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:24,319
Speaker 3: your truth is every day lying, you know, because you're

768
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:27,440
Speaker 3: coming home lying about this and lying about that. And

769
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:29,879
Speaker 3: it's just because you're not putting one hundred percent effort in.

770
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:32,319
Speaker 5: Blue speaking of Lyon now, you know, go through the

771
00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:33,240
Speaker 5: financial services.

772
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 3: It's lying like an untruthful thing. It's just the reflection

773
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 3: of what you're doing.

774
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:40,200
Speaker 2: They just go talking this, but you're really your actions.

775
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,200
Speaker 5: Ye, it's your actions or lying. I mean, at the

776
00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:44,719
Speaker 5: end of the day, you know, you know, twenty years

777
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:47,759
Speaker 5: on Wall Street, I would see so many marriages destroyed.

778
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:49,920
Speaker 5: It wasn't always the dude cheating. Sometimes it was the

779
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 5: chick cheating. I had a fascinating conversation, destroy your relationship.

780
00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:55,759
Speaker 5: That's that's. This is the part that I'm kind of

781
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:57,799
Speaker 5: teeing up for Keith here because when we're sitting down,

782
00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:01,799
Speaker 5: he's he exposed me to something monogamy plus, Now, this

783
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:04,160
Speaker 5: is something that I thought was fascinating. One thing I

784
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 5: love about you, I said it, Can we talk about it?

785
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:07,279
Speaker 5: He goes, well, I have nothing to hide. There is

786
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:08,920
Speaker 5: nothing that you're going to be able to dig up

787
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:11,080
Speaker 5: upon me that I won't talk about, which is something

788
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:13,319
Speaker 5: dear to my heart. We talked about this because when

789
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:16,400
Speaker 5: people these keyboard warriors walk around, they're like, man, I

790
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:18,279
Speaker 5: saw that you were a banned from All Street. Oh shit,

791
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 5: it's on my first podcast with you. You're like, there's nothing

792
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 5: that is off limits. Now again, seeing all the divorces,

793
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 5: there was always money or cheating a cause of divorce.

794
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:31,319
Speaker 5: Now we've already talked about money financial Fridays. We know

795
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:34,320
Speaker 5: making money, that's the number one game. But there's plenty

796
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 5: of guys that are rich, I default, their spouses are rich.

797
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 5: Or maybe she's making money, but one or both parties

798
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:42,279
Speaker 5: are cheating. I'd love to talk to you about that.

799
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:43,480
Speaker 5: We'll be right back.

800
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:45,680
Speaker 3: Talk one on one.

801
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:48,799
Speaker 4: We'll be right back with more Financial Fridays with the

802
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:52,640
Speaker 4: Inside Investor Tony Ka. Make sure you follow Tony at

803
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Speaker 4: the Insider Investor. Welcome back to Cannabis Talk one on

804
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:08,399
Speaker 4: ones Financial Fridays with the Inside Investor Tony Ka. Make

805
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:10,720
Speaker 4: sure you like, follow and subscribe to the show.

806
00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:13,239
Speaker 5: Now we've been talking about turning something special, but why

807
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 5: don't you turn something typical into something special? When it

808
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 5: comes to infused products, the flavor you taste should be

809
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 5: just as enjoyable as the feeling your experience. With the

810
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:23,959
Speaker 5: segment we've had, you would think what we're talking about

811
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:27,320
Speaker 5: sex toys or something, but this is actually flavor enhanced products.

812
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Speaker 5: I use them at home when I cook. You guys,

813
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814
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 5: We're back with Keith Yaki, the owner CEO of Married Game.

815
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 5: You just finished up the five dials, right, hit four.

816
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:40,319
Speaker 2: We got the fifth ones, the fourth and fifth.

817
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:41,399
Speaker 5: We're not combined all right though.

818
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 2: Oh so the fifth dial is the power dials. Ah,

819
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:48,319
Speaker 2: this is show powerful because you can be a good

820
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:50,840
Speaker 2: parent guys like I'm a good dad. You can be

821
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:52,640
Speaker 2: a good partner, like, hey, we get a long okay,

822
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:54,279
Speaker 2: And a lot of guys are like, dude, eighty five

823
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:55,919
Speaker 2: percent of my marriage is straight. I'm just not getting

824
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 2: my gick suck. Just like that differ Biden. They're like, hey,

825
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 2: we got the house, that the exp how to do

826
00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 2: the boat, We got a hit, I take her on

827
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:05,359
Speaker 2: date nights, you know, blah blah blah okay. And then

828
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 2: the last one is the power dial. And this is

829
00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:13,359
Speaker 2: where a guy he's doing things for validation, right, his

830
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 2: motivation isn't to do it because it's his standard. And

831
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 2: the way I can best summarize the power dial is this,

832
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:22,839
Speaker 2: do what you say you're gonna do when you say

833
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 2: you're gonna do it without fault. And it's not like

834
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 2: because these what do guys say? My word is my bond? Nope? No,

835
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:33,319
Speaker 2: most fucking guys lie they go, I'm gonna be here

836
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:34,759
Speaker 2: at this time, they're not there. I'm gonna, I'm gonna,

837
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 2: I'm gonna pick up this. They don't pick it up

838
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 2: for me. And my wife's like, can you hang this

839
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 2: painting in the hallway? Yeah, you'll get to it. A

840
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 2: month later. Can you hang them buck, Yeah, you'll get

841
00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:42,279
Speaker 2: to it two weeks later? What the fuck, dude, it's

842
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 2: been like eight weeks.

843
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 3: Can you hang it?

844
00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:46,360
Speaker 2: I'm like shit? And what happens when you don't do

845
00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:48,600
Speaker 2: what you say you're gonna do, it becomes more often

846
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 2: they exactly, and they lose trust for you. So when

847
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:54,839
Speaker 2: the trust goes down, the lust go down. She goes,

848
00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:57,239
Speaker 2: I've got all this resentment because this motherfucker said he

849
00:37:57,280 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 2: was gonna do something. He said he can take my daughter,

850
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:01,160
Speaker 2: our daughter out this. He didn't do it because he's

851
00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 2: at where he said he's gonna get home at this time,

852
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:04,839
Speaker 2: but he's working late again and again and again. So

853
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 2: what happens is they start to resent this dude and go,

854
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:10,560
Speaker 2: I'm supposed to want to fuck you. I hate you.

855
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 2: I hate you. So what happens is a guy loses

856
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:17,400
Speaker 2: his power because he's now he edits an audits to shine.

857
00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:20,200
Speaker 2: She goes, what's your real opinion? Oh, and he goes,

858
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 2: I don't want to fucking I don't want to upset her.

859
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 2: What's your opinion, motherfucker? What do you believe?

860
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:26,719
Speaker 3: Well?

861
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 2: I believe this. Like my I usually wear short shorts,

862
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 2: are tight shorts like this, and you can see my

863
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 2: fucking ding dong, and my wife's like those aren't the

864
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:32,920
Speaker 2: best shorts, but.

865
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 3: I love them right, and I'm not changing.

866
00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:37,919
Speaker 2: I got a beautiful dick. What can I say? Dude?

867
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:39,719
Speaker 2: The world needs to see it. No, but the beautiful

868
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:44,440
Speaker 2: thing is is like this. Hey. The bottom line is

869
00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 2: most guys they edit who they are, hoping to win

870
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:51,600
Speaker 2: their wife's approval, and their wife's like I'm with a pussy, yeah,

871
00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:52,640
Speaker 2: And they drop into.

872
00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:56,239
Speaker 3: And then they see somebody walk by with their chest

873
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:58,560
Speaker 3: out and believing in themselves, and they see that energy

874
00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:00,520
Speaker 3: and they can not only see it, they can read it.

875
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:04,880
Speaker 3: Like you, I could look like not unshaven, you know,

876
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:07,400
Speaker 3: not wearing the coolest ship, maybe even a little body

877
00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:09,919
Speaker 3: sweat from working out, and then walk into a room

878
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:12,239
Speaker 3: and be like boom, and right away, you know the

879
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:14,440
Speaker 3: hottest chicks in the rooms. Are you know, Hey, what's up?

880
00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:16,640
Speaker 3: What's up for this guy? Yeah? Where did he come from? Right?

881
00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:20,440
Speaker 5: You guys literally went to the same school together, Yeah, exactly,

882
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:25,920
Speaker 5: and trained with each other. Is the woman part of

883
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 5: this process? When when somebody goes through your program or

884
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:29,920
Speaker 5: is she just sitting at home waiting for the guy

885
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:30,439
Speaker 5: to get better?

886
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:32,239
Speaker 2: A lot of the guys don't even tell their wife

887
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 2: they're no ship, and for good reason. Yeah they can't,

888
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:37,400
Speaker 2: they can't. It doesn't matter. But I just go listen.

889
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:40,880
Speaker 2: You've been talking a long time. She doesn't believe you

890
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 2: anymore like that, So why don't you actually show up

891
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:48,319
Speaker 2: like the dude? Don't fucking do your personal development for

892
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:50,719
Speaker 2: her and get but hurt if she doesn't notice, do

893
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:52,280
Speaker 2: it for you, motherfucker.

894
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,720
Speaker 3: And and and and if it doesn't work out, god forbid.

895
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:55,879
Speaker 3: Guess what.

896
00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:57,000
Speaker 5: You're not going to get the ship.

897
00:39:57,360 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 3: You have almost a great new slate to start from with.

898
00:40:02,640 --> 00:40:05,439
Speaker 2: You mean, like your ballsack and your backbone back and yeah,

899
00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:08,120
Speaker 2: yeah it works, dude. When you dial the power dialing,

900
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:10,080
Speaker 2: you get confident for you.

901
00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:12,359
Speaker 5: And you realize if she's the right one, she rows

902
00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:14,759
Speaker 5: with you, her temperature gauge increase with you. If not,

903
00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 5: you cut her and move on.

904
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:18,840
Speaker 2: Because you when you become the best version of you,

905
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:21,880
Speaker 2: I don't need her validation. Yeah, I got plenty of validation.

906
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 2: I got inward validation.

907
00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 5: But under this assumption, like when your wife left and

908
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:27,839
Speaker 5: you were telling me like you literally like she left,

909
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:29,879
Speaker 5: there was a U haul gone six months, you brought

910
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:32,000
Speaker 5: her back in your mind though you told me like,

911
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:33,920
Speaker 5: out of all the girls I've been with, this was

912
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:36,480
Speaker 5: the one I fucked up. Right, most men will look

913
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 5: at her like she also has some ship she needs

914
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:40,319
Speaker 5: to fix. I mean it's very rare that the man

915
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:42,759
Speaker 5: will look in the mirror and say it's all me.

916
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:45,439
Speaker 5: I mean that's a very very rare quality, much less

917
00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:48,160
Speaker 5: than have the wife be like, no, she's perfect. How

918
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:49,480
Speaker 5: does she then fix herself?

919
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:50,480
Speaker 2: She was perfect?

920
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 3: No, you're right, you didn't know. It's true. What happens

921
00:40:56,520 --> 00:41:01,880
Speaker 3: tony is that you know is sailing in the right direction.

922
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 3: And so either she's gonna jump back on the ship

923
00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:07,400
Speaker 3: or you can't fix it right. But you can only

924
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:09,840
Speaker 3: fix you right. You look for help, You help yourself,

925
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 3: and then you can help somebody else. That's why we

926
00:41:12,120 --> 00:41:14,239
Speaker 3: put our mask on first. I always tell you to

927
00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:15,040
Speaker 3: put your mask on.

928
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 5: First, Yeah, are you encouraging her then to go find

929
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:18,920
Speaker 5: her own personal development?

930
00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:20,440
Speaker 2: I want, I want to I want to make one

931
00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:22,560
Speaker 2: key point. It's really interesting that you said this, because

932
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 2: you said it's a rare man that will look in

933
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 2: the mirror and be honest. It's also a rare man

934
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:31,239
Speaker 2: that's radically fucking satisfying his marriage. Interestingly, that they're both rare,

935
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 2: very true. So you have to get to the truth first,

936
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:36,160
Speaker 2: and you have to be honest about I looked in

937
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:40,800
Speaker 2: the mirror when I lost Jesse, and I thought, when, no, wonder, dude,

938
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:43,520
Speaker 2: you've been fucking pounding Chipotle burritos like the fucking tick

939
00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:46,640
Speaker 2: tacks I got. I got up to two forty Yeah,

940
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:49,399
Speaker 2: when he wants a two forty six foot guy, that's

941
00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:51,759
Speaker 2: fucking chubby. I looked like the fucking football coach that

942
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 2: used to be in shape. That's not what. That's not hot.

943
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:55,760
Speaker 3: Yeah.

944
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 2: I was a horrible parent all these things. So I

945
00:41:57,960 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 2: had to look in the mirror and go, well, what

946
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:01,560
Speaker 2: do you want to be, Keith? Well, I want to

947
00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 2: be fucking Jack Cannon juicy. So I need to go

948
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 2: become that. If she comes back, awesome, if she does

949
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:09,719
Speaker 2: it so so I actually I hired three coaches immediately.

950
00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:11,520
Speaker 2: I've always hired a coach. You know, if I want

951
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:13,480
Speaker 2: to learn something, I'm a hired coach. They've they've they've

952
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:15,279
Speaker 2: got the A to Z quicker and with less pain.

953
00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:16,800
Speaker 2: I need to know what the fuck they know because

954
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:20,120
Speaker 2: I haven't done it yet. So I decided I hired

955
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:22,680
Speaker 2: three coaches and after learning and I actually didn't believe

956
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:24,359
Speaker 2: any three of them actually went through what I went through,

957
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:28,719
Speaker 2: but they had psychological enough psychological truth that I go,

958
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:32,400
Speaker 2: this is what I'm learning. If I want to move on,

959
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:34,840
Speaker 2: I need to move on, and if I want to

960
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:38,560
Speaker 2: get her back, I need to move on. I go, oh,

961
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:41,680
Speaker 2: I played football, you mean I have a one page playbook.

962
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:44,480
Speaker 2: Become the best version of me and move on. Yeah,

963
00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 2: And then guess what I did move on. I didn't

964
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:49,759
Speaker 2: think I was getting Jesse back. I didn't, dude when

965
00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:52,319
Speaker 2: I when she first left, I created powerpoints, I wrote

966
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:57,319
Speaker 2: her songs, I did everything, and I looked pesthetics. I

967
00:42:57,480 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 2: had a mixtape.

968
00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 3: What part did she love me?

969
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:09,479
Speaker 2: And she's like, you look pathetic, and I go, yeah,

970
00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:12,320
Speaker 2: I've become pathetic. Yeah, no, wonder you fucking left me?

971
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 2: And I told her, I said, congratulations, dude, you did

972
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:17,120
Speaker 2: what was right. Jesse is the real MVP for not suddling. Dude.

973
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 5: I love. I love to have her back on the

974
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:21,040
Speaker 5: next time we be back. This will not be the

975
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:23,400
Speaker 5: last time, but I love to hear her viewpoint. And

976
00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:25,279
Speaker 5: I think there's a lot of women sitting home being

977
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:28,560
Speaker 5: like these fucking households are sitting here preaching. But she's

978
00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 5: a testament so that this works and that you guys

979
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:33,520
Speaker 5: have an amazing marriage and when you came in here

980
00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:36,359
Speaker 5: like I fucking have. I love my wife, I love

981
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 5: my life. I'm making money and I love what I'm doing, so.

982
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 2: The power go ahead.

983
00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:43,239
Speaker 3: Well I'm just saying to say, you know, she has

984
00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:47,319
Speaker 3: a very strong personality, beautiful woman, you know, and and

985
00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:49,840
Speaker 3: and a beautiful mom. I've watched her and seen her

986
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 3: around the family and stuff like that, even with your kids,

987
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 3: which you know she she you know she stem yeah

988
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:57,399
Speaker 3: as a step mom, you know what I mean, She's yeah,

989
00:43:57,440 --> 00:43:59,800
Speaker 3: it's tough, you know, and she's taking that on and

990
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:02,120
Speaker 3: and I think you know, I remember, you know, I

991
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:05,360
Speaker 3: could see I always keep an on Keith, you know

992
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:06,879
Speaker 3: what I mean, Like it's just one of those things.

993
00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:09,120
Speaker 3: Your boys, you got to look and you know there,

994
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:11,280
Speaker 3: you know, how's you doing? You can and we're we're

995
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:14,400
Speaker 3: we're on we're public figures the same world. We're public figures.

996
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:17,920
Speaker 3: We put ourselves out there, you know, and we go

997
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 3: through roller coasters. I mean, I've had my weight forty

998
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:23,000
Speaker 3: pounds over, you know, I know what it's like, you know,

999
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:25,719
Speaker 3: and your sex drive is not down because you know,

1000
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:28,160
Speaker 3: you got so and so blowing in your corner and

1001
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:29,759
Speaker 3: and then you come home and it's like, yeah, you

1002
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:31,000
Speaker 3: got my blue Job'm.

1003
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:33,799
Speaker 2: Good, Yeah, you know exactly, and you pull off the gas.

1004
00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, or or sometimes you're not getting any of that

1005
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:39,000
Speaker 3: and you're just tired because you know, and this is

1006
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:41,239
Speaker 3: something that I want to you know, make a connection to.

1007
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:45,920
Speaker 3: Is testosterum. You know, like you know which doctor Chalmers

1008
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 3: and and we're all going to sit down, but you

1009
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:51,120
Speaker 3: know a lot of these men they're tests some so low. Yeah,

1010
00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:52,840
Speaker 3: and they don't realize.

1011
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:54,879
Speaker 5: That I don't even know what the problem and whether

1012
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:57,120
Speaker 5: it's is it your is it your lack of desire,

1013
00:44:57,320 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 5: is it just that your fucking other checks? Is it

1014
00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:04,640
Speaker 5: the testoster There's so many excuses that they're getting older, No, motherfucker.

1015
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 3: Are you getting better? You know, until you're really getting older,

1016
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:09,960
Speaker 3: And that's an excuse, but people do it all the time.

1017
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:11,320
Speaker 3: And that's that laydown.

1018
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:13,400
Speaker 2: Forty four year old Keith could kick twenty two year

1019
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:16,000
Speaker 2: old Keith's ass in a heartbeat. Yeah, I'm the best

1020
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:17,320
Speaker 2: version of me right now, period.

1021
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:17,760
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1022
00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:20,000
Speaker 5: I do want to hear his answer about this monogamy

1023
00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 5: plus because out of everything that I've already learned from

1024
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 5: him today and by the way, man and the very

1025
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:25,840
Speaker 5: we have a lot of mutual friends we'll touch on

1026
00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:28,520
Speaker 5: in a second, But out of all the guests I've

1027
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 5: ever been interviewed, I think I've learned the most from

1028
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:32,600
Speaker 5: you in a very brief amount of time, with just

1029
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:35,279
Speaker 5: these little nuggets that you've dropped on me and your

1030
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 5: viewpoint on because again, fifty percent of all marriages felt

1031
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:43,239
Speaker 5: because of this perceived you know, cheating or lack of monogamy. Right,

1032
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:45,760
Speaker 5: what is your viewpoint out on? How do you tackle

1033
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:48,800
Speaker 5: that fifty percent of the problem and marriages that are splitting.

1034
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:50,439
Speaker 2: But I think most of the cheating is because people

1035
00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:53,000
Speaker 2: aren't attracted to their current spouse. That's that's it. I

1036
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 2: don't I don't think you know, being monogamy or not

1037
00:45:55,200 --> 00:46:00,640
Speaker 2: monogamy has anything to do with that personally. I'm gonna

1038
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:02,359
Speaker 2: answer that in one second. I just want to put

1039
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:04,600
Speaker 2: a real quick bow on this. So when you dial

1040
00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:07,680
Speaker 2: all those five dials up, we call that a provocateur.

1041
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 2: We've given it a name. That provocateur is a man

1042
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:15,160
Speaker 2: who provokes his wife to lust after him. If you

1043
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:19,280
Speaker 2: don't provoke your wife to lust after you, why would

1044
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:22,520
Speaker 2: you be shocked she doesn't lust after you? Right? Duh?

1045
00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:24,840
Speaker 2: I know you're beaten off to porn. Why doesn't my

1046
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:27,360
Speaker 2: wife moan like that or fucking gobble my cock like

1047
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:29,880
Speaker 2: like like yeah, like she used to, or like that

1048
00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:32,399
Speaker 2: one amount of things. Well, you're not that guy. Yeah, yeah,

1049
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:34,359
Speaker 2: you don't have the energy, you don't look like him,

1050
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:35,959
Speaker 2: you don't show up like him, you don't do nothing.

1051
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:37,960
Speaker 2: And I believe, and my wife will be right here

1052
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 2: and tell you for a fact that a wife that

1053
00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:44,600
Speaker 2: has a very masculine man who is this provocateur, she

1054
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:47,040
Speaker 2: wants to flow in her feminine and that feminine is

1055
00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:48,759
Speaker 2: where you get the moans and the coops, and that

1056
00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:50,960
Speaker 2: I'll do anything for you. I'll go down any path

1057
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:52,759
Speaker 2: of pleasure. You want to go to my wife and

1058
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:55,680
Speaker 2: I say, we want to fill each other's sexual fantasies.

1059
00:46:56,520 --> 00:46:58,360
Speaker 2: Who the fuck else do you want to help you

1060
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:00,800
Speaker 2: fulfill your sexual fantasies? And people are like, oh, I

1061
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 2: could never say that to my I know, because you're

1062
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 2: not a provocateur.

1063
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:06,640
Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, people people don't even think they can bring

1064
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:09,319
Speaker 3: that conversation up, and and and and you know, it's

1065
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:12,359
Speaker 3: something that I'm pretty open with, you know. I'm like, hey,

1066
00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:17,279
Speaker 3: you know you like women, Like, yeah, okay, cool, you know, and.

1067
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:19,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, well you're.

1068
00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:22,759
Speaker 3: But a lot of people don't. A lot of people don't.

1069
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:25,879
Speaker 3: They're afraid to have that conversation. Yeah, and and and

1070
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,400
Speaker 3: maybe they are or maybe they want another man in

1071
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 3: their life whatever that looks like. But but I think

1072
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:33,880
Speaker 3: there's so much fear behind that. And there's a difference

1073
00:47:33,880 --> 00:47:36,520
Speaker 3: between being monogamous and being a piece of shit of course,

1074
00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 3: you know. And I think a lot of people, you know,

1075
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:41,560
Speaker 3: they're like I I you know, straight up the total

1076
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 3: chick that I know, and like we're dating and I'm like, hey,

1077
00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:46,640
Speaker 3: she's like I'm going to Mexico. Cool, go get late,

1078
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:49,919
Speaker 3: have fun. Yeah, what why would you say that? I said,

1079
00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 3: because I want you to have fun, and if that's

1080
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:54,080
Speaker 3: part of your fun, then go get LAD. And I

1081
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 3: know how sex, how much sex you like to have, Like,

1082
00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 3: don't think, I don't think that you're gonna get drunk

1083
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:01,880
Speaker 3: and see some cute guy with the fucking tan. It's

1084
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:05,160
Speaker 3: hanging out of his shorts in Mexico with your girlfriends

1085
00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 3: and not feel like you want to get lad. That's it,

1086
00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 3: that's it. That's almost immature.

1087
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:12,279
Speaker 5: My favorite quote from his website is if you if

1088
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:14,480
Speaker 5: you're not having sex with your spouse, she's not your spouse,

1089
00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:17,399
Speaker 5: she's your roommate. Yeah, and it's true, and it's really true.

1090
00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 5: You're living with your best friend.

1091
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 2: And there's a lot of like is there's there's soul

1092
00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:23,920
Speaker 2: mad issues and then there's roommate issues, and both affect

1093
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:26,400
Speaker 2: the marriage. So let's get to the thing that you

1094
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:26,960
Speaker 2: want to get to.

1095
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:28,759
Speaker 5: I'm done here.

1096
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:30,359
Speaker 3: He's trying to figure out how to ask his chick

1097
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 3: to be monigamous.

1098
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:34,920
Speaker 5: I'll tell you about that later, but I've been waiting.

1099
00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:41,120
Speaker 2: For so so monogamous plus is simply this. We don't

1100
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:43,600
Speaker 2: have an open relationship. I don't go on dates with chicks.

1101
00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:45,839
Speaker 2: She doesn't go on dates with guys. We don't do that.

1102
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:49,880
Speaker 2: When you get deep in business, you want to keep

1103
00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:52,120
Speaker 2: reinvesting your profits back in your business to grow your

1104
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:54,360
Speaker 2: core business. And a lot of guys fuck their business

1105
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:55,799
Speaker 2: up because they go, oh, I made a little bit

1106
00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:56,880
Speaker 2: of don't let me go do this, and let me

1107
00:48:56,880 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 2: go do this, and next thing you know, they're all

1108
00:48:57,960 --> 00:49:00,680
Speaker 2: spread out and you're like, your fucking mediocre at everything,

1109
00:49:00,719 --> 00:49:02,640
Speaker 2: and the next thing, the whole thing crumbles. I'm like,

1110
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:06,920
Speaker 2: damn it, all right. So same thing in my marriage, dude.

1111
00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:08,319
Speaker 2: If I have extra time, I want to spend it

1112
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:11,920
Speaker 2: with Jesse. If I have extra money, extra, whatever, everything extra,

1113
00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:14,799
Speaker 2: I want to be with Jesse because this is my

1114
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 2: fucking girl and she's my favorite sexual partner that I've

1115
00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:20,359
Speaker 2: ever had. And that wasn't always the case. It's only

1116
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 2: in this last couple of years where we've been putting

1117
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 2: up top ten billiard charts, Dude, bill Board, my top

1118
00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:31,920
Speaker 2: ten slots are Jesse because now we have soul sex.

1119
00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:33,680
Speaker 2: Another thing that I want to say real fast is

1120
00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:36,479
Speaker 2: we believe honeymoon sex is for minor leaguers, and soul

1121
00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:40,280
Speaker 2: sex gets better with age. Jesse and I keep pushing

1122
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:44,279
Speaker 2: the boundaries of our sex together. I want to lay

1123
00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:47,759
Speaker 2: that foundation. But we also came to the realization that

1124
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:52,719
Speaker 2: you know what fucking's fun. And she understands who I am,

1125
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:55,480
Speaker 2: she understands how much game I have, she understands she

1126
00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:57,920
Speaker 2: sees how women look at me. She goes, you know

1127
00:49:57,960 --> 00:50:05,480
Speaker 2: what should taste the spoils? And I know that you

1128
00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:09,600
Speaker 2: love me because of how you show up. So monogamy

1129
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:11,879
Speaker 2: plus was simply her just saying, listen, dude, if you're

1130
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:13,520
Speaker 2: on the road, you're out and about and some girl

1131
00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:17,239
Speaker 2: wants to suck your dick high fives because I know

1132
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:20,279
Speaker 2: you're not going anywhere. I know that you love me,

1133
00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:23,360
Speaker 2: and I love you, and we show up. So monogamy

1134
00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:25,560
Speaker 2: plus because some people ask me, billionaires ask me like,

1135
00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 2: is this the answer to getting laid? I go no, no, no,

1136
00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:30,200
Speaker 2: A work bull ring for being the goat.

1137
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:32,560
Speaker 5: There you go, well, and that's important.

1138
00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:35,160
Speaker 3: I think that's what makes you want to more. Of course,

1139
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:37,040
Speaker 3: right because now all of a sudden, you know you

1140
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:39,960
Speaker 3: have that power, and you take that power away. Right,

1141
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:42,480
Speaker 3: So I take the power away by saying, hey, look, dude,

1142
00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:44,640
Speaker 3: if you're out and about and you want to get laid,

1143
00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:47,080
Speaker 3: go get laid. I have no problems on that to

1144
00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:50,000
Speaker 3: you know, don't fuck my friend. Don't sit there and

1145
00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:52,040
Speaker 3: fuck someone in my office and make me the last

1146
00:50:52,040 --> 00:50:54,440
Speaker 3: person to know exactly because you do that, fuck it,

1147
00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:57,799
Speaker 3: I can walk away easily and feel good about it.

1148
00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:00,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, but there's a difference between what you're talking about

1149
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:02,080
Speaker 5: where I mean, a lot of my friends or people

1150
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:05,120
Speaker 5: have open relationships, and what I found in those is

1151
00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:07,160
Speaker 5: that usually involves a problem because the guy ends up

1152
00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:09,520
Speaker 5: meeting another girl that he wants more of vice versa.

1153
00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:13,000
Speaker 5: What you're talking about is something different. It's you've developed

1154
00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:15,319
Speaker 5: such a bond that you almost don't want to do

1155
00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:17,319
Speaker 5: it. It really has to be you see what I'm saying.

1156
00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:20,640
Speaker 5: It's not just another Friday night of Joe. It's it's

1157
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:23,799
Speaker 5: something special that when you meet that person, you know

1158
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:25,279
Speaker 5: what I'm gonna do it. It was a playmate. I was

1159
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:27,279
Speaker 5: at half nurse place, No big deal. You come home

1160
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:29,399
Speaker 5: and tell your wife you high five, but you've put

1161
00:51:29,400 --> 00:51:31,799
Speaker 5: in the work, you want to develop it together. There

1162
00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:32,160
Speaker 5: you go.

1163
00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:34,839
Speaker 3: But here's the other thing, too, is what I think

1164
00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:38,640
Speaker 3: they're there for me. I believe that they are parallel

1165
00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:42,640
Speaker 3: what you're saying, right, because if you have that confidence,

1166
00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:45,440
Speaker 3: she has that confidence, you don't want to go out

1167
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 3: and play. So you don't miss the fact that a

1168
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:51,480
Speaker 3: lot of times you're sitting there going, you know, oh my,

1169
00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:54,120
Speaker 3: is she gonna cheat on me? Were you good to me?

1170
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:58,920
Speaker 3: And now you start creating weakness right and showing and desperation,

1171
00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:01,239
Speaker 3: and now all of a sudden you you ain't that man.

1172
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 3: And you weren't that man when you when you rolled

1173
00:52:03,719 --> 00:52:05,759
Speaker 3: up with the flowers and everything else.

1174
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:07,880
Speaker 5: And I think, but I think more often than not,

1175
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 5: the men think they have that privilege without putting in

1176
00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:12,080
Speaker 5: the work. And I think putting in the work is

1177
00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 5: what I'm you know what I mean. Honest, it's very

1178
00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:16,640
Speaker 5: rare that you see a man, yes, call himself out,

1179
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:18,560
Speaker 5: say you know what, fuck what she wants to do?

1180
00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:21,080
Speaker 5: Let me fix myself first. Yeah. Right, We've talked about

1181
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:23,200
Speaker 5: that in personal development. It's like how many people are

1182
00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:25,680
Speaker 5: out there blaming other people looking at not looking in

1183
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:28,520
Speaker 5: the mirror, but looking at the outside external forces instead

1184
00:52:28,520 --> 00:52:30,640
Speaker 5: of saying, hey, I'm let me fix me. And then

1185
00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:32,239
Speaker 5: if she's there, if she can fix it, that baby.

1186
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:35,360
Speaker 2: Here's the other thing, because you know my view on monogamy,

1187
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:38,719
Speaker 2: we coined the term monogamy plus because we are like,

1188
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:41,920
Speaker 2: I'm a monogamous Like I don't need I don't want girlfriends.

1189
00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:43,800
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't I don't want to go spend

1190
00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:46,560
Speaker 2: time with somebody and hang out hear their emotions.

1191
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:47,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I want to.

1192
00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:50,759
Speaker 2: I want to get deeper with my wife. But guess what,

1193
00:52:51,440 --> 00:52:52,880
Speaker 2: I want to get my dick suck. I'm gonna get

1194
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:55,640
Speaker 2: my dick suck. You know why is my wife probably

1195
00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:57,640
Speaker 2: be fucking cheering there, rooting me on, being like, so

1196
00:52:57,800 --> 00:53:00,160
Speaker 2: get harder, bitch, she likes it hard or whatever. I'm

1197
00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:01,680
Speaker 2: getting a little rude here, but it is how I am.

1198
00:53:01,880 --> 00:53:05,000
Speaker 2: But here's the thing. Our culture doesn't believe in this,

1199
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:10,200
Speaker 2: and it has fucking horrible results. Pastors who are beating

1200
00:53:10,239 --> 00:53:12,560
Speaker 2: off the porn and fucking the secretary saying you shouldn't

1201
00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:14,560
Speaker 2: do this because the Bible said, why don't you take

1202
00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 2: your Bible and show it up your fucking ass. I

1203
00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 2: like the Bible, but you, my friend, are not the

1204
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:24,520
Speaker 2: example of that. I am. I'm more loving, joy filled,

1205
00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:31,120
Speaker 2: self controlled, honest, fair, tender, loving, patient, kind, and all

1206
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:33,480
Speaker 2: the fruits of the spirit than any Christian I know.

1207
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:38,680
Speaker 2: So guess what go fuck yourself. So normally people will

1208
00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:42,400
Speaker 2: take a book or a society, which our society is failing,

1209
00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:45,359
Speaker 2: it's crumbling right in front of our eyes because men

1210
00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:49,000
Speaker 2: are fucking weak. Men are fucking weak, and they go,

1211
00:53:49,239 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 2: oh I could. I could never do that. I know

1212
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:53,759
Speaker 2: you couldn't. Like the guy that goes, the guy who goes,

1213
00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:55,200
Speaker 2: I don't want a Lamborghini because you.

1214
00:53:55,120 --> 00:53:56,040
Speaker 3: Can't afford.

1215
00:53:57,719 --> 00:53:59,840
Speaker 2: I can afford, and I don't want one. If you

1216
00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:02,480
Speaker 2: can afford it and you don't want it, I'll listen

1217
00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:05,120
Speaker 2: to you. I can fuck any girl I want. Guess

1218
00:54:05,160 --> 00:54:08,279
Speaker 2: what I want, Jesse. That's way more power than you

1219
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:10,520
Speaker 2: saying it. Well, I would never do that. You couldn't

1220
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:13,000
Speaker 2: because your wife doesn't fucking trust you. Your wife doesn't

1221
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:15,560
Speaker 2: believe that if you go and fuck some other girl

1222
00:54:15,719 --> 00:54:18,240
Speaker 2: that when you come home, she's got the greatest fucking

1223
00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:21,480
Speaker 2: husband on planet Earth and she would be crazy to

1224
00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:24,040
Speaker 2: leave you. That's fucking real. So if you want to

1225
00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:28,040
Speaker 2: take all your bullshit, that's fine. But guess what, I'm right.

1226
00:54:28,560 --> 00:54:30,960
Speaker 2: You know why I'm right because I'm living a fucking

1227
00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:35,759
Speaker 2: dream that every guy wants, and it's not with consequence.

1228
00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:37,880
Speaker 2: It's not Oh no, I don't look over my shoulder.

1229
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:39,560
Speaker 2: I don't look over my back. If a married woman

1230
00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:42,080
Speaker 2: came in and approached me, I said, I don't fucking cheat.

1231
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:44,240
Speaker 2: I don't you go deal with your ship with your husband.

1232
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:47,279
Speaker 2: I don't need you. I don't because people used to

1233
00:54:47,320 --> 00:54:48,960
Speaker 2: try and make me like, oh, well, you know he's

1234
00:54:49,040 --> 00:54:49,840
Speaker 2: monogamy plus.

1235
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:52,440
Speaker 5: You can't be you can't be.

1236
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:54,719
Speaker 2: Not only am I like, I'm not afraid to talk

1237
00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:57,920
Speaker 2: about it, bitch, you can't be me. You could be

1238
00:54:58,080 --> 00:55:00,200
Speaker 2: if you fucking put in the work and if that

1239
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:03,640
Speaker 2: doesn't align with your values, monogamy plus cool, guess what,

1240
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:04,880
Speaker 2: don't don't fucking do it?

1241
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:07,920
Speaker 3: Like a lot of people, that's that's their that's their value,

1242
00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:09,640
Speaker 3: and they don't want to do that, and there's nothing

1243
00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:10,200
Speaker 3: wrong with that.

1244
00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:12,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not. I'm not trying to convert people into

1245
00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:12,960
Speaker 2: moogny when.

1246
00:55:12,800 --> 00:55:14,840
Speaker 3: I'm but if you catch your girl getting slammed in

1247
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:19,080
Speaker 3: the back room, it's because you're not putting in work

1248
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:21,080
Speaker 3: on yourself.

1249
00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:24,560
Speaker 2: But you know it's not that. I don't mind talking

1250
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:26,000
Speaker 2: about monogamy plus, I really don't.

1251
00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:28,480
Speaker 5: You don't want to misinterpreted because I feel we're going

1252
00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:29,719
Speaker 5: with that, because I mean, if I look in the

1253
00:55:29,719 --> 00:55:32,760
Speaker 5: mirror and not being honest with myself. I'm nowhere close

1254
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:35,440
Speaker 5: to asking a woman to say, hey, be okay with

1255
00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:38,640
Speaker 5: monogamy plus because I'm nowhere hitting the stride of being

1256
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:40,839
Speaker 5: the best version of myself. I know I've seen it.

1257
00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:41,960
Speaker 5: I've seen glimpses of it.

1258
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:42,359
Speaker 3: Right.

1259
00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:44,239
Speaker 5: We talked about this earlier two three years ago when

1260
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:46,080
Speaker 5: I came into this world, and I was like, Okay,

1261
00:55:46,120 --> 00:55:48,359
Speaker 5: I get it now, I get that. I've been like

1262
00:55:48,400 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 5: you said, you know, you're eating the bond bonds, You're

1263
00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:52,040
Speaker 5: eating the tick tacks, You're eating the burritos like their

1264
00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:54,320
Speaker 5: tick tacks, right, And I started really thinking about it.

1265
00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:55,759
Speaker 5: I had. I didn't know what blood work was, I

1266
00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:58,520
Speaker 5: didn't know what testosterone was. I didn't surround myself with winners.

1267
00:55:58,640 --> 00:56:00,359
Speaker 5: I surrounded myself with everything I want.

1268
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:03,800
Speaker 3: You know, grow well, you everything you wanted, not everything

1269
00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:06,279
Speaker 3: you grew up because because because I know you. Yeah,

1270
00:56:06,600 --> 00:56:08,920
Speaker 3: we just had this conversation in the back literally, I

1271
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:10,520
Speaker 3: mean I pulled you in the back room, and what

1272
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:12,920
Speaker 3: I tell you, I was like, we need to be better,

1273
00:56:13,560 --> 00:56:14,960
Speaker 3: Like you know what I mean, Like when we're.

1274
00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:19,720
Speaker 5: We keep each other accountable because we're around yeah.

1275
00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:21,719
Speaker 3: I literally, you know, Chris and I were talking about

1276
00:56:21,760 --> 00:56:24,319
Speaker 3: it's like, hey, we we we started, you know, I'll

1277
00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:27,760
Speaker 3: put ourselves on each other. Literally went out and we're

1278
00:56:27,840 --> 00:56:29,160
Speaker 3: drinking every night, you know.

1279
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:31,160
Speaker 5: Sending pictures of my dick. And then he's like, oh,

1280
00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:31,959
Speaker 5: I need to do better.

1281
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:34,920
Speaker 3: Yeah. And then and then I was like, what's that bump?

1282
00:56:36,320 --> 00:56:43,719
Speaker 3: You know, shake it vetarian.

1283
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:46,560
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1284
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:49,600
Speaker 3: So we came to a point, Keith where you know,

1285
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:53,080
Speaker 3: in the last year that we've been here, you know,

1286
00:56:53,120 --> 00:56:56,120
Speaker 3: we we've had a lot of great success and we're

1287
00:56:56,320 --> 00:56:58,640
Speaker 3: rebuilding off the COVID, which I've told you. You know, we

1288
00:56:58,680 --> 00:57:01,520
Speaker 3: had a great education platform. We were mentoring people in

1289
00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:03,960
Speaker 3: the cannabis industry, and then you know, the radio show

1290
00:57:04,040 --> 00:57:07,200
Speaker 3: was launching. We came and we were hurting from COVID

1291
00:57:07,239 --> 00:57:09,400
Speaker 3: and then we you know, we've came back quick. But

1292
00:57:10,239 --> 00:57:13,160
Speaker 3: we changed the model right, and that was difficult because

1293
00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:15,319
Speaker 3: we didn't know we're building a plane in the middle there.

1294
00:57:16,040 --> 00:57:19,360
Speaker 3: And while this is happening, you know, we were having fun.

1295
00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:21,920
Speaker 3: You know, it's like, oh, we got a little disc going, Oh,

1296
00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:23,960
Speaker 3: we've seen a score here, we've seen a score there.

1297
00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:26,600
Speaker 3: Next thing, you know, you know, we're out four days

1298
00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:30,439
Speaker 3: a week drinking and you know, quite frankly, we're coming

1299
00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:32,960
Speaker 3: home and a little bit later the next day, not

1300
00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:36,040
Speaker 3: as sharp, the next day, not as as on point,

1301
00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:39,480
Speaker 3: and as soon as we caught it, you know. And

1302
00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:41,880
Speaker 3: I'm one of those guys that I could run all

1303
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:43,640
Speaker 3: the way to the end of the cliff and then

1304
00:57:43,680 --> 00:57:45,680
Speaker 3: a lot of people end up jumping off the cliff

1305
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:48,000
Speaker 3: and I stopped, and I'm like, whoa, bro, you went

1306
00:57:48,080 --> 00:57:52,640
Speaker 3: that fucking far, like wow, and I c yeah, yeah,

1307
00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:54,880
Speaker 3: And it sucks. It hurts, you know, it hurts because

1308
00:57:54,880 --> 00:57:57,080
Speaker 3: you're like, dude, I was just with this woman or

1309
00:57:57,120 --> 00:57:59,400
Speaker 3: this man, and I watched them all fucking jump off

1310
00:57:59,400 --> 00:58:01,520
Speaker 3: the cliff. And it's the ones that stop at the

1311
00:58:01,520 --> 00:58:04,880
Speaker 3: cliff and go WHOA, thank you for fucking stopping, Blue,

1312
00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:08,080
Speaker 3: you know, because if you didn't stop, I was gonna

1313
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:10,040
Speaker 3: run right down that fucking cliff with you and we

1314
00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:10,960
Speaker 3: were all going to crash.

1315
00:58:11,080 --> 00:58:13,360
Speaker 5: And to kind of summarize what he's saying, so, you know,

1316
00:58:13,560 --> 00:58:15,480
Speaker 5: usually we talk about money, but I love the fact

1317
00:58:15,520 --> 00:58:17,600
Speaker 5: that this ended up being like an episode of like

1318
00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:23,280
Speaker 5: doctor Yeah exactly, we're going to skip the financial five

1319
00:58:23,320 --> 00:58:25,280
Speaker 5: because this is way more powerful and you're coming back

1320
00:58:25,280 --> 00:58:26,880
Speaker 5: with your wife, and I'd love to have you both

1321
00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:30,480
Speaker 5: for that. But you know, when you somebody listening at

1322
00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:33,680
Speaker 5: home right now, right, you've now turned your almost like

1323
00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:38,920
Speaker 5: passion for teaching and pouring into mands or into a business. Yeah,

1324
00:58:38,960 --> 00:58:41,960
Speaker 5: would you say that this is your primary, your most

1325
00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:44,160
Speaker 5: lucrative source of income outside of real estate. We all

1326
00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:45,720
Speaker 5: own the real estate game. It is right.

1327
00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:49,160
Speaker 2: I'm all in on there. I sold everything. I'm all

1328
00:58:49,200 --> 00:58:49,520
Speaker 2: in on this.

1329
00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:51,640
Speaker 5: I fucking love that dude. And you're local. You're down

1330
00:58:51,640 --> 00:58:54,040
Speaker 5: here in Dana Point, and you have different platforms for

1331
00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:56,280
Speaker 5: men to tap into as well, which they can find

1332
00:58:56,320 --> 00:58:58,360
Speaker 5: on the website right, which you guys can click on.

1333
00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:04,520
Speaker 5: Coincidentally enough, it's funny because you know, you've known him forever,

1334
00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:06,160
Speaker 5: and we were going over the calendar and I was

1335
00:59:06,200 --> 00:59:08,080
Speaker 5: telling him I was going to do us speaking gig

1336
00:59:08,120 --> 00:59:10,760
Speaker 5: for the real business owners, our friends Trevor Kell Goodman.

1337
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:13,160
Speaker 5: You know you haven't met Trevor yet, but great, dudes,

1338
00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:16,520
Speaker 5: they're down in Utah and they're throwing an event in Texas, Frisco, Texas,

1339
00:59:16,520 --> 00:59:17,960
Speaker 5: which you and I are both going to be speaking

1340
00:59:18,000 --> 00:59:20,400
Speaker 5: at ye for somebody sitting at home, that's maybe a

1341
00:59:20,440 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 5: little bit younger now, right, say nineteen to thirty. That's

1342
00:59:24,120 --> 00:59:26,080
Speaker 5: either going into their first marriage or coming out of

1343
00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:29,919
Speaker 5: the marriage. What's from a money standpoint, what's the best

1344
00:59:29,960 --> 00:59:31,560
Speaker 5: piece of advice you've give him if you're going to

1345
00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:32,680
Speaker 5: pour into them in a few minutes.

1346
00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:34,920
Speaker 2: Okay, So I want to say something about what he

1347
00:59:35,000 --> 00:59:36,520
Speaker 2: said first, and then I'm gonna hit that that quick.

1348
00:59:36,680 --> 00:59:36,840
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1349
00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:37,400
Speaker 5: Absolutely.

1350
00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:41,280
Speaker 2: What I've discovered is what ed my Lett taught me,

1351
00:59:41,320 --> 00:59:46,919
Speaker 2: and he said, weaning is more fun than fun. Is fun? Yeah,

1352
00:59:47,920 --> 00:59:50,959
Speaker 2: weaning is more fun than fun is fun?

1353
00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:53,160
Speaker 3: Winning is more fun than fun.

1354
00:59:53,600 --> 00:59:54,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, got a.

1355
00:59:54,080 --> 00:59:57,160
Speaker 2: Second, huh Yeah, because it builds a confidence in you.

1356
00:59:57,720 --> 01:00:00,880
Speaker 2: My confidence is unshakable. And so when I talk about

1357
01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:03,120
Speaker 2: monogamy plus or whatever, and people go, is that the answer? No,

1358
01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:05,000
Speaker 2: it's not the answer. The answer is becoming the best

1359
01:00:05,040 --> 01:00:07,760
Speaker 2: version of you and then and then asking for what

1360
01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:10,240
Speaker 2: you want and being the man that if you are

1361
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:12,440
Speaker 2: really the man, your wife will be like, I want

1362
01:00:12,440 --> 01:00:13,720
Speaker 2: to give you what you want because it would bring

1363
01:00:13,760 --> 01:00:16,960
Speaker 2: me joy. That's a that's a whole different level. And

1364
01:00:17,040 --> 01:00:20,760
Speaker 2: so when you talk about making money, there's only one

1365
01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:22,440
Speaker 2: thing that people will give you money for, and that

1366
01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:26,200
Speaker 2: is the value exchange. So for a young man, the

1367
01:00:26,240 --> 01:00:29,400
Speaker 2: only way he's going to provide value is knowing having

1368
01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:32,880
Speaker 2: a skill that gives value. So I would invest every

1369
01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:35,560
Speaker 2: one of your last dollars in a skill. Very I'm

1370
01:00:35,600 --> 01:00:40,120
Speaker 2: a very skilled man. Okay. I understand marketing, I understand sales.

1371
01:00:40,160 --> 01:00:43,160
Speaker 2: I understand that all businesses show business. That's why him

1372
01:00:43,160 --> 01:00:45,120
Speaker 2: and I get along so well. All business is sues.

1373
01:00:45,160 --> 01:00:47,400
Speaker 2: We've been videoing ourselves and telling people what we do

1374
01:00:47,840 --> 01:00:51,800
Speaker 2: for fucking days, right, All businesses show business. So what

1375
01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:55,240
Speaker 2: a young man needs is a skill that people are

1376
01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:59,760
Speaker 2: happily willing to depart with their money to gain whatever

1377
01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:02,919
Speaker 2: skill advantage that they have. So I would tell every

1378
01:01:02,960 --> 01:01:06,480
Speaker 2: young man, whatever you got to do, learn a highly

1379
01:01:07,760 --> 01:01:12,560
Speaker 2: becomes skilled, because then you become valuable. Sure, my skill

1380
01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:16,200
Speaker 2: at this point is understanding men and understanding what's really

1381
01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:18,240
Speaker 2: going on. And I think that's why you enjoyed this

1382
01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:20,080
Speaker 2: so much, because you're like, oh shit, I'm starting to

1383
01:01:20,120 --> 01:01:24,280
Speaker 2: see things differently. I hope I lead the movement in

1384
01:01:24,320 --> 01:01:26,480
Speaker 2: the charge for men to become menigan and they go,

1385
01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:28,920
Speaker 2: why are we acting like a bunch of fucking pussies.

1386
01:01:28,960 --> 01:01:31,400
Speaker 2: This is doesn't mean I'm a black belt in jiu

1387
01:01:31,480 --> 01:01:34,680
Speaker 2: jitsu and not that. But I'm saying I'm going to

1388
01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:37,840
Speaker 2: live by the truth. And my value is I can

1389
01:01:37,880 --> 01:01:41,760
Speaker 2: help a man get his wife to want him again,

1390
01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:45,400
Speaker 2: and ultimately, first I got to get him to believe

1391
01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:48,800
Speaker 2: he's wantable and he has to become wantable. Sure, So

1392
01:01:48,880 --> 01:01:51,880
Speaker 2: that's my value. And guess what if people are watching like, oh,

1393
01:01:51,920 --> 01:01:54,000
Speaker 2: this guy's full of shit, I can't believe in it, dude,

1394
01:01:54,040 --> 01:01:57,280
Speaker 2: no problem, because I only know I understand this. There's

1395
01:01:57,600 --> 01:01:59,480
Speaker 2: five or ten percent of people listen to this that

1396
01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:02,040
Speaker 2: say I got the fucking problem that guy solves.

1397
01:02:02,280 --> 01:02:02,480
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1398
01:02:02,720 --> 01:02:04,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm listening, and all the other ninety five

1399
01:02:04,720 --> 01:02:06,960
Speaker 2: percent of people can say whatever they want. And guess what,

1400
01:02:07,360 --> 01:02:10,560
Speaker 2: it doesn't matter. I'm not for them. Yeah, I'm only

1401
01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:13,200
Speaker 2: I've got a very small window of a guy in

1402
01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:14,640
Speaker 2: a season of his life that I helped.

1403
01:02:14,960 --> 01:02:17,120
Speaker 5: Sure for that ten percent, if they want to find you,

1404
01:02:17,160 --> 01:02:19,360
Speaker 5: what's the easiest, quickest way to tap into what you've

1405
01:02:19,400 --> 01:02:20,400
Speaker 5: been talking about.

1406
01:02:20,200 --> 01:02:23,800
Speaker 2: Well, they should go to marriedgame dot com. And then

1407
01:02:23,840 --> 01:02:26,439
Speaker 2: there's a video, twenty minute video that I am very

1408
01:02:27,840 --> 01:02:30,720
Speaker 2: very unleashed on. I talked to him about how to

1409
01:02:30,720 --> 01:02:32,640
Speaker 2: not be how to get your wife back without becoming

1410
01:02:32,680 --> 01:02:34,640
Speaker 2: a pussy or push over. I love it and I

1411
01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:36,880
Speaker 2: explained it, but Keith Yakie explains a little more about

1412
01:02:36,880 --> 01:02:38,320
Speaker 2: me and if they want to follow me on Instagram

1413
01:02:38,440 --> 01:02:40,640
Speaker 2: at Keith yaki I've got We have so much free

1414
01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:42,400
Speaker 2: videos there, It's it's ridiculous.

1415
01:02:42,440 --> 01:02:44,240
Speaker 5: One last thing I want to ask before I'm going

1416
01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:45,720
Speaker 5: to pass it to you, Blue, is you know you

1417
01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:48,840
Speaker 5: mentioned even when we were sitting on tribes and the

1418
01:02:48,920 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 5: power of having good people around you. Yeah, after what

1419
01:02:52,360 --> 01:02:54,640
Speaker 5: I've gone through, that was the thing that literally saved

1420
01:02:54,640 --> 01:02:56,600
Speaker 5: my life. You and I have talked about it. You know,

1421
01:02:56,640 --> 01:02:59,040
Speaker 5: you tapped into the personal development and this whole world

1422
01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:01,560
Speaker 5: where he came from. Three years ago. I just knew

1423
01:03:01,600 --> 01:03:03,880
Speaker 5: Tony Robbins and that was it. Everybody else with me

1424
01:03:04,240 --> 01:03:06,600
Speaker 5: selling I knew you, you know, I knew you, but

1425
01:03:06,640 --> 01:03:08,520
Speaker 5: I didn't know you. I just like I helped. I

1426
01:03:08,560 --> 01:03:10,320
Speaker 5: just thought it was a random speaker. It was like

1427
01:03:10,360 --> 01:03:11,880
Speaker 5: hitting on me at the bar or something like that.

1428
01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:13,600
Speaker 5: Like literally, if you hear the story of how we met,

1429
01:03:13,640 --> 01:03:15,920
Speaker 5: it wasn't a gay experience, but it was literally we

1430
01:03:15,960 --> 01:03:18,440
Speaker 5: meet at a bar. We have something in common from

1431
01:03:18,440 --> 01:03:20,800
Speaker 5: across the bar, and he talks to everybody like he does.

1432
01:03:20,880 --> 01:03:23,800
Speaker 5: It happens talks me, and that one moment has now

1433
01:03:23,880 --> 01:03:26,440
Speaker 5: changed the trajectory of I think, both of our lives.

1434
01:03:26,440 --> 01:03:29,080
Speaker 5: But uh for somebody at home and you know, talked

1435
01:03:29,120 --> 01:03:31,200
Speaker 5: a little bit more about you know that unit are

1436
01:03:31,240 --> 01:03:33,560
Speaker 5: speaking about, or just masterminds in general. I didn't even

1437
01:03:33,560 --> 01:03:35,480
Speaker 5: know what the hell of mastermind was, sure, but what

1438
01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:35,960
Speaker 5: that is?

1439
01:03:36,200 --> 01:03:40,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, listen, we we're in a modern society where you

1440
01:03:40,160 --> 01:03:44,320
Speaker 2: can eat uh ho hos, ding dongs and fucking thirsty

1441
01:03:44,360 --> 01:03:47,040
Speaker 2: twos down at the seven to eleven and survived thirsty two.

1442
01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:50,720
Speaker 2: That is not how we are a primal animal living

1443
01:03:50,760 --> 01:03:53,160
Speaker 2: in a modern age. Yeah, you used to have to

1444
01:03:53,200 --> 01:03:55,480
Speaker 2: have a fucking tribe if you're gonna kill a buffalo

1445
01:03:55,600 --> 01:03:58,360
Speaker 2: or trap something or grow food. You needed each other.

1446
01:03:58,400 --> 01:04:01,240
Speaker 2: And I don't think we need try to survive anymore.

1447
01:04:01,400 --> 01:04:04,280
Speaker 2: But I do think we need tribes to thrive. So

1448
01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:07,160
Speaker 2: I have a close knit brotherhood where they know everything

1449
01:04:07,160 --> 01:04:09,680
Speaker 2: about my life. They can call me out on my shit.

1450
01:04:09,760 --> 01:04:11,880
Speaker 2: If I'm not living the example that I say I'm living,

1451
01:04:12,040 --> 01:04:14,600
Speaker 2: they can all go, hey, your audio and your visuals

1452
01:04:14,640 --> 01:04:17,200
Speaker 2: not matching up and I've given them permission because I

1453
01:04:17,240 --> 01:04:20,400
Speaker 2: believe competition is a feature, not a flaw. I want

1454
01:04:20,440 --> 01:04:21,600
Speaker 2: to be better than all my friends, want to be

1455
01:04:21,680 --> 01:04:23,160
Speaker 2: rich than them, I want to be more ripping them.

1456
01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:24,560
Speaker 2: I want to be fucking rare than them. I'm gonna

1457
01:04:24,560 --> 01:04:26,960
Speaker 2: be more radically in love with them. Why, That's what

1458
01:04:27,040 --> 01:04:29,120
Speaker 2: I fucking want. Love it, and I need to have

1459
01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:31,400
Speaker 2: that group of guys around me. They say comparison is

1460
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:34,720
Speaker 2: a thief of joy. Yes, if you're a loser, y, Yes,

1461
01:04:34,720 --> 01:04:37,440
Speaker 2: if you're a loser. So all I'm saying is the

1462
01:04:37,480 --> 01:04:41,680
Speaker 2: way man. The way of men has been tribes and dude,

1463
01:04:41,680 --> 01:04:44,440
Speaker 2: if you fucking showed up to the hunting party fat

1464
01:04:44,520 --> 01:04:49,360
Speaker 2: with a dull spear, you should feel fucking ashamed. You

1465
01:04:49,360 --> 01:04:52,360
Speaker 2: should feel ashamed of yourself. But guess what. People are

1466
01:04:52,400 --> 01:04:54,440
Speaker 2: walking around fat all the time now, and they're like,

1467
01:04:54,480 --> 01:04:56,800
Speaker 2: I'm fine, Yeah, because you can click some mouses and

1468
01:04:56,800 --> 01:04:58,920
Speaker 2: you can become valuable in our digital age. But you

1469
01:04:58,960 --> 01:05:01,200
Speaker 2: hang around with me and my friend, motherfucker.

1470
01:05:01,320 --> 01:05:05,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, well we're gonna Yeah, this guy's a dube.

1471
01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:07,120
Speaker 2: Yes, because because it means that you don't do what

1472
01:05:07,160 --> 01:05:09,320
Speaker 2: you say you're gonna do. And I'm gonna tell you

1473
01:05:09,360 --> 01:05:11,200
Speaker 2: a very real story. I had a guy that I uh,

1474
01:05:11,320 --> 01:05:12,840
Speaker 2: I knew him from eight years ago. He came to

1475
01:05:12,880 --> 01:05:15,040
Speaker 2: my house. He said he was gonna jump in, jump

1476
01:05:15,040 --> 01:05:17,640
Speaker 2: into our program, and the day before I said, cool,

1477
01:05:17,920 --> 01:05:19,400
Speaker 2: we got to get that credit card taken care of

1478
01:05:19,480 --> 01:05:21,760
Speaker 2: because I'm gonna invite you to my house personally. And

1479
01:05:21,800 --> 01:05:23,640
Speaker 2: I've known the guy, so it's I didn't know him

1480
01:05:23,640 --> 01:05:26,360
Speaker 2: as well as I know, believe, but we had working relationship.

1481
01:05:26,920 --> 01:05:28,320
Speaker 2: And he got to my house and I hadn't had

1482
01:05:28,360 --> 01:05:30,080
Speaker 2: a credit card yet. It was my Fourth of July party.

1483
01:05:30,360 --> 01:05:32,120
Speaker 2: I pulled him aside. I said, we got to take

1484
01:05:32,120 --> 01:05:33,640
Speaker 2: care of that first. He goes, no, I'm good. I

1485
01:05:33,680 --> 01:05:37,000
Speaker 2: said no, no, no. You said if I let you in

1486
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Speaker 2: my world and I know you haven't done what you

1487
01:05:38,840 --> 01:05:40,680
Speaker 2: said you do, that's a compromise on me and I'll

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01:05:40,720 --> 01:05:41,800
Speaker 2: never let that fucking happen.

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01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:42,800
Speaker 3: Yeah.

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01:05:42,800 --> 01:05:46,800
Speaker 2: He goes, oh, fuck, you really have the standard? I said, yeah.

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01:05:46,480 --> 01:05:47,280
Speaker 5: I'm not just talking.

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01:05:47,360 --> 01:05:51,160
Speaker 2: I have that standard. Yeah it's and he goes, ship, dude,

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01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:54,120
Speaker 2: nobody's ever held me that. Thank you, That's what I needed.

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01:05:54,280 --> 01:05:55,959
Speaker 2: I go, you damn right, that's what every man needs.

1495
01:05:56,200 --> 01:05:59,160
Speaker 2: So get around men that have extremely high fucking standards

1496
01:05:59,280 --> 01:06:02,840
Speaker 2: and live them you're as well, and eventually you'll catch up.

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01:06:03,400 --> 01:06:06,520
Speaker 2: Making money is something that you're never too late. You

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01:06:06,560 --> 01:06:08,440
Speaker 2: become valuable. You fucking make tons of money.

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01:06:08,480 --> 01:06:09,880
Speaker 5: I love that, man. I think on this show we've

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01:06:09,880 --> 01:06:12,200
Speaker 5: been hyper focused on that money. And you coming in

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01:06:12,240 --> 01:06:14,440
Speaker 5: and talking about this for anybody listening, like, well, you know,

1502
01:06:14,520 --> 01:06:16,440
Speaker 5: there's no money text to your point, this is the

1503
01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:19,240
Speaker 5: biggest fucking currency lesson you can learn. You know, this

1504
01:06:19,320 --> 01:06:21,040
Speaker 5: isn't some get rich scheme.

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01:06:21,240 --> 01:06:23,360
Speaker 3: Yeah. And one thing too, you know, Keith, I you

1506
01:06:23,400 --> 01:06:27,000
Speaker 3: know I've learned to you know, Keith, Keith and I

1507
01:06:27,040 --> 01:06:29,320
Speaker 3: again we go back to high school days and and

1508
01:06:29,320 --> 01:06:32,000
Speaker 3: and building a relationship and then you know, we'd like

1509
01:06:32,160 --> 01:06:34,280
Speaker 3: tend to lose track and then we do something really

1510
01:06:34,280 --> 01:06:36,240
Speaker 3: great together and then we'll like go off on our

1511
01:06:36,280 --> 01:06:38,320
Speaker 3: thing and we'll do something again, you know, And and

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01:06:38,560 --> 01:06:41,280
Speaker 3: it's it's awesome to have you back. And and but

1513
01:06:41,560 --> 01:06:43,440
Speaker 3: I really want to touch on one last thing. And

1514
01:06:43,480 --> 01:06:44,640
Speaker 3: I know we got to get out of here, but

1515
01:06:46,000 --> 01:06:48,680
Speaker 3: you know, I think it's it's it's super important that

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01:06:48,680 --> 01:06:51,880
Speaker 3: that men also compliment each other and and tell it,

1517
01:06:52,000 --> 01:06:54,000
Speaker 3: you know, like one thing Keith has done for me,

1518
01:06:54,320 --> 01:06:58,880
Speaker 3: you know, is I'll never forget him. I'm selling weed,

1519
01:06:59,120 --> 01:07:01,960
Speaker 3: you know, a lot of it. I'm rapping and and

1520
01:07:02,040 --> 01:07:05,120
Speaker 3: have a band and and and uh what she's in

1521
01:07:06,480 --> 01:07:09,480
Speaker 3: and and you know, he comes and he's like, hey,

1522
01:07:09,520 --> 01:07:11,640
Speaker 3: I want you to meet these guys. And it's two gentlemen,

1523
01:07:11,800 --> 01:07:14,040
Speaker 3: you know, and no need to give him a name,

1524
01:07:14,480 --> 01:07:15,920
Speaker 3: but two great guys. You know.

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01:07:16,040 --> 01:07:18,560
Speaker 2: I don't hang out with them anymore, but they probably

1526
01:07:18,560 --> 01:07:21,280
Speaker 2: thought they were great at the time, so they would

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01:07:21,400 --> 01:07:22,240
Speaker 2: not meet the standard.

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01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:25,880
Speaker 3: Now, no right, but at the time for us, it

1529
01:07:25,960 --> 01:07:28,200
Speaker 3: was it was a standard, right. And I wasn't on

1530
01:07:28,240 --> 01:07:31,720
Speaker 3: that standard, you know. And and I would I would say,

1531
01:07:31,760 --> 01:07:34,120
Speaker 3: you know, and and even Chris Frank, you know, I

1532
01:07:33,680 --> 01:07:36,200
Speaker 3: I taught him the speaking game, you know what I mean.

1533
01:07:36,240 --> 01:07:38,640
Speaker 3: And and Keith taught me, you know. And And it

1534
01:07:38,680 --> 01:07:40,440
Speaker 3: wasn't that I wasn't on stages. I had been on

1535
01:07:40,440 --> 01:07:44,320
Speaker 3: stages all my life. I've been performing everywhere. But my language,

1536
01:07:44,840 --> 01:07:47,680
Speaker 3: my language was so important because the language that was

1537
01:07:47,680 --> 01:07:51,040
Speaker 3: coming out of my mouth was just fucking horrible. And

1538
01:07:51,320 --> 01:07:54,320
Speaker 3: I and and and and the projection and what I

1539
01:07:54,400 --> 01:07:58,439
Speaker 3: was doing, and I lost focus of or belief in

1540
01:07:58,440 --> 01:08:01,480
Speaker 3: in my message and my message changed, you know, And

1541
01:08:01,520 --> 01:08:04,000
Speaker 3: I appreciate that, dude, you know, because that was something

1542
01:08:04,040 --> 01:08:06,280
Speaker 3: that you know, you got me in front of these

1543
01:08:06,400 --> 01:08:10,160
Speaker 3: you know, these gentlemen. They offered me opportunity. I took

1544
01:08:10,200 --> 01:08:13,400
Speaker 3: that opportunity, went to work for them, and then built

1545
01:08:13,400 --> 01:08:16,040
Speaker 3: my own, you know. And I know you were a

1546
01:08:16,040 --> 01:08:19,479
Speaker 3: pivotal part of building that one, you know. And so

1547
01:08:19,840 --> 01:08:23,120
Speaker 3: it's it's interesting to see, you know, all of us

1548
01:08:23,360 --> 01:08:26,120
Speaker 3: making our moves. And again, it takes a certain kind

1549
01:08:26,160 --> 01:08:29,240
Speaker 3: of person to want to be better. Yeah, and takes

1550
01:08:29,240 --> 01:08:31,519
Speaker 3: a certain kind of man to know that he has

1551
01:08:31,560 --> 01:08:34,759
Speaker 3: a problem with his wife or his spouse or somebody.

1552
01:08:35,080 --> 01:08:39,040
Speaker 3: And and that same man is myself sometimes when I'm

1553
01:08:39,040 --> 01:08:41,160
Speaker 3: fucking up here and I'm running to that edge, and

1554
01:08:41,200 --> 01:08:43,600
Speaker 3: I get to that edge and I go WHOA. Like

1555
01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:46,120
Speaker 3: we've been partying, we've been going to every event, and

1556
01:08:46,160 --> 01:08:48,679
Speaker 3: we're not monetizing this and this is just fun.

1557
01:08:49,040 --> 01:08:50,360
Speaker 5: Blue. I'm going to tell you right now, you said

1558
01:08:50,400 --> 01:08:52,840
Speaker 5: something earlier, you said, you know, sometimes we do stuff

1559
01:08:52,880 --> 01:08:54,600
Speaker 5: together and I want to go off. I'm going to tell you,

1560
01:08:54,640 --> 01:08:56,679
Speaker 5: as your friend, I'm not going to let you separate

1561
01:08:56,720 --> 01:08:59,040
Speaker 5: from this man again, because he's going to make us better.

1562
01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:01,240
Speaker 5: I can already tell by looking at the staff here.

1563
01:09:01,280 --> 01:09:03,599
Speaker 5: I mean you got some kids married, not marry dating.

1564
01:09:03,920 --> 01:09:06,479
Speaker 5: He's already had an impact on this room. I know

1565
01:09:06,560 --> 01:09:08,880
Speaker 5: you've had an impact on this audience. And I'm telling you, man,

1566
01:09:08,920 --> 01:09:11,320
Speaker 5: I really appreciate you being one of the first handful

1567
01:09:11,320 --> 01:09:13,599
Speaker 5: of guests I've had on this show. And the power

1568
01:09:13,640 --> 01:09:16,320
Speaker 5: that you resonate. It's not for everybody, but for people

1569
01:09:16,400 --> 01:09:18,240
Speaker 5: that are really ready to be real and to step

1570
01:09:18,320 --> 01:09:21,160
Speaker 5: up their marriage game. It's it's the voice of authority

1571
01:09:21,200 --> 01:09:22,680
Speaker 5: as far as I'm concerned.

1572
01:09:22,240 --> 01:09:26,200
Speaker 3: And it's bigger. It's bigger than that though. It's it's

1573
01:09:26,240 --> 01:09:28,920
Speaker 3: mentoring you know what I mean as a human beings.

1574
01:09:29,160 --> 01:09:31,960
Speaker 3: Like again, if you're not if your game isn't tight

1575
01:09:32,000 --> 01:09:34,519
Speaker 3: by itself, then you can't take care of your wife. Man.

1576
01:09:34,560 --> 01:09:37,320
Speaker 5: So before you leave today, wife, he's coming back. We're

1577
01:09:37,320 --> 01:09:40,920
Speaker 5: doing a full I mish not wait to hear her

1578
01:09:41,000 --> 01:09:42,719
Speaker 5: viewpoint on this and they get that feedback.

1579
01:09:42,840 --> 01:09:44,720
Speaker 3: Keith anything else before we let you get on on

1580
01:09:44,800 --> 01:09:47,120
Speaker 3: here websites one more time. Let's break it all down.

1581
01:09:47,200 --> 01:09:49,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can follow me on Instagram at Keith Yaki.

1582
01:09:49,520 --> 01:09:51,120
Speaker 2: You can go to marrygame dot com or you can

1583
01:09:51,160 --> 01:09:53,479
Speaker 2: check me out at Keith Yaky dot com. But is

1584
01:09:53,520 --> 01:09:55,679
Speaker 2: this a camera I'm looking at? Okay, right here? Listen.

1585
01:09:57,720 --> 01:09:59,600
Speaker 2: First of all, thank you guys. It's an honor to

1586
01:09:59,600 --> 01:10:01,840
Speaker 2: be here. I'm so proud of you, and that's not

1587
01:10:01,840 --> 01:10:04,000
Speaker 2: in the lame way. It's like a brotherly wa So

1588
01:10:04,200 --> 01:10:09,439
Speaker 2: fucking done. Listen. I don't know, I don't know where

1589
01:10:09,439 --> 01:10:10,880
Speaker 2: you're at in your life right now. I don't know

1590
01:10:10,920 --> 01:10:13,280
Speaker 2: what's going on, but I can tell you this that

1591
01:10:14,080 --> 01:10:17,760
Speaker 2: you have been most likely lying to yourself, because we

1592
01:10:18,040 --> 01:10:22,080
Speaker 2: as men lie to ourselves first and foremost and more

1593
01:10:22,120 --> 01:10:24,519
Speaker 2: than anybody does. And we are living in a world

1594
01:10:24,600 --> 01:10:28,840
Speaker 2: that's full of deception. You've got channels on TV that

1595
01:10:28,920 --> 01:10:31,479
Speaker 2: are only pouring forth lies. You've got people that are

1596
01:10:31,479 --> 01:10:34,240
Speaker 2: not leaders in leadership positions, and you're wondering what the

1597
01:10:34,280 --> 01:10:38,240
Speaker 2: fuck's going on. Listen, If you just simply start by

1598
01:10:38,320 --> 01:10:40,679
Speaker 2: doing what you say you're gonna do when you say

1599
01:10:40,680 --> 01:10:42,360
Speaker 2: you're gonna do everything. If you say you're gonna be

1600
01:10:42,360 --> 01:10:44,280
Speaker 2: somewhere five, you be there at fucking five, or actually

1601
01:10:44,280 --> 01:10:45,920
Speaker 2: be there earlier. If you say you're going to bring

1602
01:10:45,960 --> 01:10:47,559
Speaker 2: home the groceries, you bring home the groceries. You say

1603
01:10:47,560 --> 01:10:51,120
Speaker 2: you're gonna work out. You keep your word to yourself,

1604
01:10:51,200 --> 01:10:53,960
Speaker 2: and it will change how you view yourself to where

1605
01:10:54,000 --> 01:10:58,000
Speaker 2: all the outside noise becomes a distraction. You can't get

1606
01:10:58,040 --> 01:11:00,639
Speaker 2: me off of what I believe inside my head because

1607
01:11:00,680 --> 01:11:04,479
Speaker 2: my voice is fucking supreme. Why because I obey it

1608
01:11:04,840 --> 01:11:07,960
Speaker 2: and I win because of it, And I know you

1609
01:11:08,120 --> 01:11:10,719
Speaker 2: have the power. I'm not special. I've gained a bunch

1610
01:11:10,720 --> 01:11:13,760
Speaker 2: of fucking weight. I've been broke, I'm ripped and rich

1611
01:11:13,840 --> 01:11:16,760
Speaker 2: now because I fucking did what I said I was

1612
01:11:16,800 --> 01:11:19,280
Speaker 2: gonna do, and that's it. And I surround myself with

1613
01:11:19,320 --> 01:11:21,120
Speaker 2: those type of people. If you are the man that's

1614
01:11:21,120 --> 01:11:23,479
Speaker 2: struggling right now saying I'm not connected with my wife,

1615
01:11:23,720 --> 01:11:27,120
Speaker 2: go to the websitemarrigame dot com, opt in, watch that video,

1616
01:11:27,439 --> 01:11:29,880
Speaker 2: and we will help you. I am here to serve.

1617
01:11:30,040 --> 01:11:32,360
Speaker 2: I'm not here to get your accolades. I don't need them.

1618
01:11:32,400 --> 01:11:34,679
Speaker 2: I already know who I am. But I am here

1619
01:11:34,720 --> 01:11:37,479
Speaker 2: to serve you to help you have the life that

1620
01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:39,920
Speaker 2: you want. And if you and your wife are not connected,

1621
01:11:40,120 --> 01:11:42,559
Speaker 2: I understand that you are nervous about your family being

1622
01:11:42,600 --> 01:11:44,880
Speaker 2: torn apart. I understand that you are nervous about looking

1623
01:11:44,920 --> 01:11:46,880
Speaker 2: like an idiot, but going through another divorce or your

1624
01:11:46,920 --> 01:11:50,519
Speaker 2: first divorce, and it all starts on you.

1625
01:11:52,360 --> 01:11:55,599
Speaker 5: Wow, there it is good. I almost want to get

1626
01:11:55,600 --> 01:11:57,559
Speaker 5: married just so I could have problems to go fucking

1627
01:11:57,560 --> 01:11:59,920
Speaker 5: see King. Come and tell you guys right now. Listen, man,

1628
01:12:00,360 --> 01:12:02,920
Speaker 5: this has been an amazing week week here at Cannabis

1629
01:12:02,960 --> 01:12:05,160
Speaker 5: Talk one on one. It looks easy up here, but

1630
01:12:05,160 --> 01:12:07,160
Speaker 5: I'm telling you there's a whole tribe that makes this happen.

1631
01:12:07,240 --> 01:12:08,720
Speaker 5: From the bottom of my heart, I want to thank

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01:12:08,840 --> 01:12:13,920
Speaker 5: Joe Blue, Adrian Mondo, Teddy the Show Doc, Daniel cam Connor,

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Speaker 5: Beach Barcelar, Freaking Canadian Alligue, Goldie Pits, Sunday, Mark Carnes,

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Speaker 5: Chris Frankino, Jennifer Erica, Elvis. That's just what I can

1635
01:12:21,600 --> 01:12:23,519
Speaker 5: remember off the top of my head. You guys, thank

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01:12:23,560 --> 01:12:25,800
Speaker 5: you for listening to Financial Fridays here on Cannabis Talk

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01:12:25,800 --> 01:12:27,840
Speaker 5: one on one with Blue, Joe Grande, the World Timber

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

1640
01:12:29,560 --> 01:12:32,960
Speaker 5: I am Tony Kaka the Insider Investors. You guys, I'm

1641
01:12:33,000 --> 01:12:35,240
Speaker 5: here to keep that wallet tight, keep your mind right.

1642
01:12:35,439 --> 01:12:37,800
Speaker 5: I'll see you guys on the inside and remember if

1643
01:12:37,840 --> 01:12:38,680
Speaker 5: nobody loves you.

1644
01:12:39,120 --> 01:12:43,760
Speaker 4: We thank you for listening to Financial Fridays with the

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01:12:43,760 --> 01:12:47,639
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