WEBVTT - Made Whole BA Q&A

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<v Speaker 1>It's time for the b a qa a to b

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<v Speaker 1>a q a with Tiffany, to b a qa usually

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<v Speaker 1>with Manday, but to be a qa just made today.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm here by myself because Maddy had mom things

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<v Speaker 1>to get to.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's what right I thought.

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<v Speaker 1>She will be back in black and brown as ever,

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<v Speaker 1>but it is Made Whole week. My new book Made

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<v Speaker 1>Whole came out earlier this week, and to celebrate, I

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<v Speaker 1>am going to be answering questions that you can also

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<v Speaker 1>find the answers to in part in Maidehole, my new

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<v Speaker 1>book a little bit about Maidhole.

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<v Speaker 2>It is going to teach you in.

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<v Speaker 1>Ten steps how to create financial wholeness for yourself. That is,

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<v Speaker 1>financial holeness is the financial foundation for the rest of

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<v Speaker 1>your life. If you achieve these ten steps, budgeting, savings,

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<v Speaker 1>that credit, income, investing, insurance, your financial team, net worth,

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<v Speaker 1>and estate planning. If you learn to manage and maintain

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<v Speaker 1>those ten steps, things can happen externally to you financially,

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<v Speaker 1>but you'll be okay, Meaning what session can happen, you'll

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<v Speaker 1>be okay. Job loss will happen, you could be okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Inflation happens, you could be okay. If you master those

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<v Speaker 1>master and maintain those ten steps, and inside of Made Whole,

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<v Speaker 1>I walk you through, step by step by step how

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<v Speaker 1>to do so. It is the workbook version the companion

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<v Speaker 1>book to my New York Times bestseller Get Good with Money.

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<v Speaker 1>It is more concise. It allows you to do the

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<v Speaker 1>work with each and every step right away, so you

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<v Speaker 1>don't forget the work itself. There's in real life stories

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<v Speaker 1>of people who completed these steps via its sister book

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<v Speaker 1>and Get Good of Money, so you can be encouraged.

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<v Speaker 1>And I also have quick steps where if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to do the whole step because you feel a

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<v Speaker 1>little overwhelmed, if you do this one thing, it will

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<v Speaker 1>make a huge difference in your financial life as related

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<v Speaker 1>to that step. So that's how Madehole is a little different.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's get into some questions. But remember this then

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<v Speaker 1>I'm answering questions. But I'm not your doctor, your lawyer,

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<v Speaker 1>your mama, your father. No, I'm just a smart brown

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<v Speaker 1>girl who have some opinions that you're going to take

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<v Speaker 1>with the smallest grain of salt.

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<v Speaker 2>Then you are going to lean into somebody that you

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<v Speaker 2>pay for advice. Okay, okay, let's start all.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, So we have some. I think I might do

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<v Speaker 1>three in you know, because it's made whole, made whole week.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh sidebar also too, made wholes available wherever books are sold.

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<v Speaker 2>But also you can go to.

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<v Speaker 1>Mad Whole Workbook dot com, Maid Whole Workbook dot com and.

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<v Speaker 2>Get yourself a copy.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, So question from Terry from ig Terry says,

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<v Speaker 1>good day, ladies, or anyone on the team who might

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<v Speaker 1>be not identifying as a lady.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a very important question that I'm sure parents

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<v Speaker 1>are listening. Would love to know. I'm expecting my first

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<v Speaker 1>child in three weeks. Can congratulations?

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<v Speaker 2>Terry?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well you wrote this a little while ago, so

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<v Speaker 1>the baby's here already. Congratulations. And after looking at stocks

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<v Speaker 1>like Amazon and others, I would love to know what

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<v Speaker 1>are things I can do to get her invested into

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<v Speaker 1>this economy. So she's having a girl, she will absolutely

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<v Speaker 1>be a beneficiary on my assets.

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<v Speaker 2>Awesome. But what are some things I know to open?

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<v Speaker 2>She said?

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<v Speaker 1>What are some other things she said, I know to

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<v Speaker 1>open a wrath? And when she starts to have earned income,

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe you could speak to that as well. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>here for any advice please and thank you love the show. Okay, first,

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<v Speaker 1>congratulations because I know baby girls here because you wrote

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<v Speaker 1>this to us a little while ago. So some things

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<v Speaker 1>that you want to consider is one, what does your

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<v Speaker 1>life insurance policy look like, Terry like, have you updated

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<v Speaker 1>your life insurance policy? Your partner do they have a

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<v Speaker 1>life insurance policy? How is baby girl provided for in

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<v Speaker 1>the life insurance policy?

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<v Speaker 2>So that's one. Is it enough? Do you feel?

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<v Speaker 1>Here's a rule of thumb directly from Made Whole. So

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<v Speaker 1>in the I will tell you right now and made

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<v Speaker 1>hold of the book, I told you.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the main whole episode.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, the chapter eight it's called Get Good with Insurance, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So in it I talk about how much life insurance

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<v Speaker 1>you have should have basic kind of where you are

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<v Speaker 1>in life. If you have children, you want to try

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<v Speaker 1>to provide for a minimum ten years worth of you

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<v Speaker 1>financially supporting them. So however, you if you the rule

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<v Speaker 1>of thumb is, let's just say you make one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>thousand dollars a year. Ten years times one hundred thousand

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<v Speaker 1>dollars is a million dollars. So you want to try

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<v Speaker 1>to get a policy, ideally a term policy for a

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<v Speaker 1>million dollars or more so that way, if you're not

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<v Speaker 1>here for ten years, the finance, the finances that you

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<v Speaker 1>brought into your daughter's life will still be able to continue.

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<v Speaker 2>Does that make sense, you know?

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<v Speaker 1>So that's one, making sure that your life insurance policies

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<v Speaker 1>are all the way together to make sure she's looked after. Two,

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<v Speaker 1>what does your will look like if you have a

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<v Speaker 1>child you needed a will like yesterday? You know, like

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<v Speaker 1>if something happens to you, something happens to your partner,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, where would that money go or who would

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<v Speaker 1>be looking after her?

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<v Speaker 2>In what way?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you want to set aside for her? So

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<v Speaker 1>consider those things. Also, you also want to consider that

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<v Speaker 1>the issue with just a life insurance policy directly to

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<v Speaker 1>your daughter, if something were to happen to you, the

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<v Speaker 1>state where you live might hold that money until she

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<v Speaker 1>turns eighteen. So one, what that means is that money

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<v Speaker 1>won't be as helpful to her because she's still really young.

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<v Speaker 1>And two it might she might be getting too much

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<v Speaker 1>money when she turns eighteen.

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<v Speaker 2>So consider.

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<v Speaker 1>Potentially, I don't know, like what your financial situation looks like,

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<v Speaker 1>a trust as well, because then you can make the

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<v Speaker 1>trust the beneficiary to that life insurance policy and then

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<v Speaker 1>it can be pieced out to her as you as

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<v Speaker 1>you consider, as as you deem necessary. So some to

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<v Speaker 1>look after her while she's still young, maybe some for

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, when she is ready to go to

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<v Speaker 1>college or otherwise, and some beyond.

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<v Speaker 2>So consider that as well, Terry.

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<v Speaker 1>And another thing, I know you talked about considering maybe

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<v Speaker 1>getting a raw iray for her and so IRA as

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<v Speaker 1>an individual retirement account. And the only way to have

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<v Speaker 1>a retirement account is that you have to be earning money.

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<v Speaker 2>The great thing is is that maybies.

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<v Speaker 1>Can earn money. So let's just say, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, like your child was a child model, like

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<v Speaker 1>she could have a raw IRA because she'd be earning

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<v Speaker 1>income as like a baby model.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>So my step daughter works for me from time to time.

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<v Speaker 1>I opened up an IRA for her, so I pay

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<v Speaker 1>her and I pay her enough to make sure she

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<v Speaker 1>can fully fund her wrath IRA every year, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>under my guidance and the guidance of my financial advisor

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<v Speaker 1>on Julie. You know, so consider like you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to wait till your daughter's grown for her

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<v Speaker 1>to have that wrath IRA. And so earned income is

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<v Speaker 1>just that they are working. You obviously have to prove

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<v Speaker 1>that it makes sense. I have my own business, so

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<v Speaker 1>it's a little easier, but that's one of the ways.

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<v Speaker 1>And lastly, consider opening. I have this for both Alyssa,

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<v Speaker 1>my bonus daughter, but also my niece and my nephew.

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<v Speaker 1>I have something called a not lastly, but I have

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<v Speaker 1>something that I prefer right now over a five twenty

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<v Speaker 1>nine plan, although five twenty nine plans can be very helpful.

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<v Speaker 1>So just for clarity, a five to twenty nine plan is,

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<v Speaker 1>let me get the right wording for you. Five twenty

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<v Speaker 1>nine plan. Okay, So a five twenty nine plan is

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<v Speaker 1>a college savings plan and it's states sponsored. It enables

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<v Speaker 1>you to save money for beneficiary and pay for educational expenses.

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<v Speaker 1>So the good thing is not just college expenses. You

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<v Speaker 1>can set aside money and pay for educational expenses too.

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<v Speaker 1>You can withdraw the funds tax free to cover nearly

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<v Speaker 1>any type.

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<v Speaker 2>Of college expense.

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<v Speaker 1>Right. So what that means is is that you put

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<v Speaker 1>say money right now into a five twenty nine plan.

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<v Speaker 1>Not just you, but other people you know can contribute

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<v Speaker 1>to this five twenty nine plan. Grandma and grandpa, aunties uncles,

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<v Speaker 1>and then when it's invested and when it grows, ideally

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<v Speaker 1>you could pull the money you put in and the

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<v Speaker 1>investment that it's grown to out for expenses. A lot

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<v Speaker 1>of laws have changed where it's not just for college

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<v Speaker 1>expenses that they're even letting you use five twenty nine

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<v Speaker 1>plan money for other educational expenses, you know. So some

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<v Speaker 1>of the advantages are you have some federal income tax

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<v Speaker 1>benefits and some state benefits. It's low maintenance, high contribution limits,

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<v Speaker 1>semi flexible. And then some of the cons are the

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<v Speaker 1>funds must be used for education, there are limitations on

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<v Speaker 1>tax benefits. There's no self directed investment, so there's not

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<v Speaker 1>investments that you can kind of choose yourself. There are fees,

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<v Speaker 1>and there are some ownership rules. Although there are favorable

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<v Speaker 1>financial aid treatments, meaning like if you have a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of money in your five twenty nine plan, it doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>mean that your daughter won't be eligible for financial aid treatment. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>But the good thing, the tax benefit that I really

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<v Speaker 1>do like about the five twenty nine plan is that

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<v Speaker 1>you can use it for college tuition fees, books, supplies,

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<v Speaker 1>some room and board costs, and up to ten thousand

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<v Speaker 1>dollars in K through twelve tuition per year, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and up to ten thousand dollars in student loan repayment

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<v Speaker 1>per beneficiary and per sibling.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's pretty good.

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<v Speaker 1>But the reason why I didn't open a five twenty

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<v Speaker 1>nine plan for my nieces and nephews and my stepdaughter

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<v Speaker 1>is because I felt like it was a little restrictive

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<v Speaker 1>for me. So instead I have a custodial account for them.

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<v Speaker 1>And so basically this is just an investment account that

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<v Speaker 1>I am the custodian of and I will sign over

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<v Speaker 1>to them or they are the beneficiaries of it when

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm not here, and so basically it's just a

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<v Speaker 1>brokerage account where I'm investing. I put money every single

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<v Speaker 1>year year across the board to all four of them,

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<v Speaker 1>and as the money grows, you know, it's for them,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I can decide when they'll get that money

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<v Speaker 1>while I'm here and when I am no longer here,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't because though the beneficiaries of that custodial account

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<v Speaker 1>actually goes to the trust, and the trust says the

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<v Speaker 1>money will be divvied out at age eighteen if they're

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<v Speaker 1>going to college twenty one if they're not, and then

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<v Speaker 1>age twenty five and then finally aged thirty. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>how the custodia account money pays out to my nieces

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<v Speaker 1>and nephew and Alyssa if I'm not here. If I

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<v Speaker 1>am here, then I will sign it over to them

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<v Speaker 1>as as I find they're responsible enough to use that

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<v Speaker 1>money in a responsible way. So Custodial Account in five

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<v Speaker 1>twenty nine plans the last piece of advice. So hopefully

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<v Speaker 1>that was helpful to you. Tarry another parents, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>take you know what. I'm not going to take a

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<v Speaker 1>quick break just yet because I want to answer this quick, quick,

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<v Speaker 1>funny question from Ohio Raised and Cali Living. Going to

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<v Speaker 1>take a quick break, okay, Ohio Raise in Kelli Living,

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<v Speaker 1>says Tiffany Mandy. My company offers a five hundred dollars

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<v Speaker 1>reimbursement on things I spend for my wellness. I'm talking

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<v Speaker 1>from facials to student loan payments. Your girl was in

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<v Speaker 1>it was all here for it until I read the

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<v Speaker 1>reimbursement is taxable income. It feels like a payday loan.

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<v Speaker 1>Am I trip in financial godmothers love that all ears

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<v Speaker 1>Ohio Rais and Kelli living.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is funny. Here's the thing. There's no such

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<v Speaker 2>thing as a free lunch.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it sounds like, wait, what, There's no such

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<v Speaker 1>thing as a free lunch because if they reimburse that

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<v Speaker 1>money to you, what the government says, federal and.

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<v Speaker 2>State is that you made money. It says that you

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<v Speaker 2>made money.

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<v Speaker 1>So a reimbursement is still considered money being made.

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<v Speaker 2>And one thing that this United States.

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<v Speaker 1>Of America does not want to do is see you

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<v Speaker 1>make money and they don't make no money off the

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<v Speaker 1>money you made.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's not that your company is doing something wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, they're offering you this five hundred dollars reimbursursement, and

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<v Speaker 1>if you use that reimbursement, it's made money. So for example,

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<v Speaker 1>it's similar to if I get something forgiven. So this

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<v Speaker 1>is what they were fighting about in the federal government

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<v Speaker 1>about Biden forgiving the student loans. So some people wanted

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<v Speaker 1>that student loan forgiveness to be taxed because they're like,

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<v Speaker 1>you made money, like in outside of student loans, if

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<v Speaker 1>you get anything forgiven over six hundred dollars, Like there

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<v Speaker 1>are people who had their they lost their home to

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<v Speaker 1>foreclosure and they still owed on it, and they got

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<v Speaker 1>that forgiven, especially during the recession, right, and they had

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<v Speaker 1>to pay taxes on the money that was forgiven, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because they lost it to foreclosure and as a result,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's like, wait, I lost my house, I

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<v Speaker 1>gave it up, I still owed one hundred thousand dollars

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<v Speaker 1>on it, So you mean to same, I got to

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<v Speaker 1>pay tax on one hundred thousand dollars And the government

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<v Speaker 1>is like yes, because that forgiven money is still earned money.

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<v Speaker 1>So reimburse money is considered earned money either way. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's not your job that's doing that, it's the it's

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<v Speaker 1>USA who.

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<v Speaker 2>Is doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>So hope that makes sense, Ohio, Rais and Kelli living

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<v Speaker 1>that your job is trying to do something nice by

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<v Speaker 1>giving you that money. But here's the thing, like paying

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<v Speaker 1>taxes on it doesn't mean that you're gonna pay the

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<v Speaker 1>full five hundred dollars in tax. So let's just say

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<v Speaker 1>your tax rate is twenty percent, right, So if your

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<v Speaker 1>tax rate is I don't even know, like them, that

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<v Speaker 1>might be kind of low.

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<v Speaker 2>Say your tax rate is thirty percent. I'm just making

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<v Speaker 2>it up, right, So.

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<v Speaker 1>Five hundred dollars point times point zero three taxes. That's

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen dollars of taxes paid on five hundred dollars, So

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<v Speaker 1>you're still are coming up. You just would have to

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<v Speaker 1>be paying the fifteen dollars on the five hundred.

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<v Speaker 2>Does that make sense? Hopefully that's helpful.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, We're gonna take a quick break and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>be back back and brown again. Okay, Hey, all my bad.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know your girl is in her soft life error.

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<v Speaker 1>So you might have heard some chit chat in the background.

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<v Speaker 1>That is my cleaning lady, Ingrid and her sister. They're

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<v Speaker 1>cleaning up by beautiful home to get it ready for

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<v Speaker 1>Thanksgiving because I'm taping on Monday. You heard in the background.

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<v Speaker 1>That's because your girls living good. Okay, so judge a mama.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just joking, but no, it really was InCred I

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<v Speaker 1>will have to be like senior out get to please

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<v Speaker 1>perform vod cilensia before please. But they're really dope though,

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<v Speaker 1>So I just wanted to apologize and advance. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>and let's get back to our final question.

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<v Speaker 2>But see, here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like, I'm giving you all three questions answer,

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<v Speaker 1>So I mean, can you really be Manna?

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<v Speaker 2>You can't this question is for Monique. Hey, Monique says, Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>Tiffany and Mandy. My name is Monique and.

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<v Speaker 1>I absolutely love your podcast. Thanks Monique. I listen faithfully

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<v Speaker 1>every week because I'm trying to get these coins all

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<v Speaker 1>the way together. I have several retail credit cards that

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<v Speaker 1>I am paying off right now because I had a

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<v Speaker 1>terrible shopping addiction.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, thank you for being candid.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that credit cards can be closed if you

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<v Speaker 1>pay them off and never use them again, which I'm

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<v Speaker 1>assuming can affect my credit score.

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<v Speaker 2>This is true.

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<v Speaker 1>What is your advice regarding maintaining my credit score once

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<v Speaker 1>I have paid off these retails cards in the future,

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<v Speaker 1>if I do want to open cards, I only want

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<v Speaker 1>to use cards that I can pay off monthly and

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<v Speaker 1>then offer traveling points and rewards to think y'all. Okay, Mony,

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<v Speaker 1>this is great because this is I can give you

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<v Speaker 1>an answer directly out of my new book, Maidhole, the

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<v Speaker 1>credit chapter, which is chapter chapter five, page ninety one

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<v Speaker 1>if you have the hardcore book. Okay, so yes, if

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<v Speaker 1>you close. So you said retail let me make sure

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<v Speaker 1>you said retail cards. Now here's the thing. I am

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<v Speaker 1>not a fan of retail cards. I'm not I am.

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<v Speaker 1>I am not.

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<v Speaker 2>Anti credit cards.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe credit cards can be useful tools, but the

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<v Speaker 1>problem with a general like a general credit card, to me,

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<v Speaker 1>is better than a retail card because with a general card, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Can use it anywhere, and you can you can.

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<v Speaker 1>It's easier to be a little more responsible because if

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<v Speaker 1>I have a retail card, say, for example, I have

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<v Speaker 1>a Target credit card, like because Target only wants you

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<v Speaker 1>to use at Target, so I can't just use it anywhere.

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<v Speaker 2>Where with a retail card. With a general card.

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<v Speaker 1>I can use it anywhere, and I can even use

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<v Speaker 1>it in a way Like I tell you in the book,

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<v Speaker 1>I teach you how to raise your credit score fairly

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<v Speaker 1>quickly by doing this method of paying off a small

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<v Speaker 1>balance of your card every single month, I can say, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to put my Planet Fitness ten dollar membership

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<v Speaker 1>on this card, or I'm going to put my Netflix

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<v Speaker 1>membership on this card and paid off every month in

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<v Speaker 1>full to see my credit score grow. If I have

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<v Speaker 1>a Target card, then I have to buy something from

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<v Speaker 1>Target every single month in order to do so. So

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<v Speaker 1>that's an additional expense when I'm already I already have Netflix,

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<v Speaker 1>I already.

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<v Speaker 2>Have the gym membership. Does that make sense?

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<v Speaker 1>So I would pay off these retail cards and quite honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I will close them. Now you have to know this.

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<v Speaker 1>Then thirty percent of your score is really your balances.

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<v Speaker 1>So when you close your cards, it is going to

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<v Speaker 1>likely lower your score temporarily and pretty significantly because you

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<v Speaker 1>won't have any limit to out to outweigh the balances

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<v Speaker 1>on your card. If that makes sense. So I'll give

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<v Speaker 1>you an example. Thirty percent of your score. I'm looking

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<v Speaker 1>like directly from for those of you who might have

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<v Speaker 1>the book in hand, let's look at it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm looking at.

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<v Speaker 1>If you have the physical book, which is my favorite

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<v Speaker 1>when it comes to a workbook. I'm looking where am

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<v Speaker 1>I looking at the investment chapter? Girl?

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<v Speaker 2>Give yourself offway together tipically.

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<v Speaker 1>Earlier sis earlier, So I like, what did I tell

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<v Speaker 1>you what page the credit chapter is on? And made

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<v Speaker 1>whole page ninety one? Oh kind, I'm here now, okay, okay, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>reduce your amounts old? Okay, we're looking at page ninety nine. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And so really I said the word amounts old or

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<v Speaker 1>your balances.

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<v Speaker 2>Another word for that is utilization.

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<v Speaker 1>So thirty percent of your score is how much if

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<v Speaker 1>your cards are you utilizing. You don't want to utilize

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<v Speaker 1>too much of your cards. The magic number is nothing

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<v Speaker 1>above thirty percent, but really you want to be utilizing

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<v Speaker 1>even way less than that, like even under like fifteen

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<v Speaker 1>to ten percent. What that means is, if you have

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<v Speaker 1>a credit card with the balance of one hundred dollars,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to keep the with the limit I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>of one hundred dollars, you want to keep the balance

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<v Speaker 1>under fifteen dollars. Thirty dollars is the max fifteen ten

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<v Speaker 1>dollars ideal paying it off even better? You know that

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<v Speaker 1>is how you're going to raise your credit score. But

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<v Speaker 1>the problem is with retail cards, you would have to

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<v Speaker 1>buy something just to navigate the keeping your balance is

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<v Speaker 1>low or paid off, and I don't want.

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<v Speaker 2>That for you. So I want you to pay off

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<v Speaker 2>these retail cards.

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<v Speaker 1>Then when you feel like you're more responsible and you

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<v Speaker 1>can automate the payments, then you can look for a

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<v Speaker 1>regular credit card that offers travel warpoints, like for business

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<v Speaker 1>I use AMEX. I also have a personal like gold

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<v Speaker 1>car for AMEX, but I have a silver, not so

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<v Speaker 1>or platinum car for business AX because I found that's

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<v Speaker 1>my favorite card for business, but also too my personal

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<v Speaker 1>card because I like to travel. I have where's my

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<v Speaker 1>Let me see if I find it. Mandy always last

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<v Speaker 1>at me because I always call it the wrong thing.

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<v Speaker 1>So I have my wallet here. Let me call it

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<v Speaker 1>the right thing.

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<v Speaker 2>For once in my life. I have a what is this?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So Visa has a Sapphires Reserve Card. I like this

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<v Speaker 1>card because they give really great points for travel. I

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<v Speaker 1>literally just use my Amex points to book my mother

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<v Speaker 1>a flight to Nigeria. She wants to go to Nigeria

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<v Speaker 1>for Christmas with my aunt, and so I was able

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<v Speaker 1>to use points, like literally she didn't have to. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she paid a little bit out of pocket, but the

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<v Speaker 1>tickets were so expensive and the points made the tickets

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<v Speaker 1>really reasonable. But like I said, I have that's Amex,

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<v Speaker 1>but you might not. You know the problem with Amex

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<v Speaker 1>is that the annual fee might not be worth it

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<v Speaker 1>for you. But I like my Chase Sapphire Reserve card.

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<v Speaker 1>You know the fee, the annual fee is more reasonable

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<v Speaker 1>and they give you a lot of great travel rewards. So,

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<v Speaker 1>for example, I just came back this weekend. I was

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<v Speaker 1>in Washington, d C. I was taping. I'm not taping.

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<v Speaker 1>I was. I had a book launch event at the

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<v Speaker 1>Eaton Hotel via Mahogany Books. This is a black Own bookstore,

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<v Speaker 1>which is so awesome. Ramunda her owner, with her husband,

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<v Speaker 1>and so my two sisters wanted to come as well

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<v Speaker 1>as my niece and my nephew Roman and Amelia who's

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<v Speaker 1>eight and six, and so I was going to buy

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<v Speaker 1>train tickets from all of us. It's about a three

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<v Speaker 1>and a half hour to four hour train ride from

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<v Speaker 1>New Jersey to DC. But because it was last minute,

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<v Speaker 1>train tickets tend to be really expensive last minute. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like my admin who was looking, was like twenty

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<v Speaker 1>five hundred dollars to buy all those train tickets, and

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, I suggest you drive. So sure enough,

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<v Speaker 1>we use Enterprise because that's where I get my cars from,

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<v Speaker 1>because I because I get cars from whenever I get

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<v Speaker 1>cars from them, so I'm like a Platinum member or

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<v Speaker 1>whatever the hell they be calling me now. And with Enterprise,

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<v Speaker 1>I told Rose, make sure you book using my Sapphire

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<v Speaker 1>a reserve card because the Sapphire Reserve card gives you

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<v Speaker 1>you know how like when you sign up to get

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<v Speaker 1>a car rental you can get what is that stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>insurance and protection if you use your Sapphire Reserve Card

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<v Speaker 1>because it's a travel card, it actually gives you that

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<v Speaker 1>same protection, so you don't have to pay for an

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<v Speaker 1>additional insurance at enterprise wherever you're renting a car from.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's one of the things I always remind Rose

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<v Speaker 1>my admein like, oh girl, remember when you're booking flights,

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<v Speaker 1>certainly use my AMX card. But you're booking a car,

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<v Speaker 1>use my Sapphire Reserve card. So there's benefits like that,

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<v Speaker 1>but again only when you're ready.

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<v Speaker 2>If you had a.

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<v Speaker 1>Terrible shopping addiction, then I don't want you to jump

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<v Speaker 1>out the window to get brand new cards after you

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<v Speaker 1>pay off the other ones. I would pay off the

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<v Speaker 1>other cards. Sit for a few months. Baby, with no

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<v Speaker 1>credit cards, open up a credit card with very low balance.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe open up a secured credit card with very low balance,

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<v Speaker 1>very very low limit, like five hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>See how you do with it before moving on to

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<v Speaker 2>some of the big dogs. Does that make sense?

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that helps Monique directly out of my new

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<v Speaker 1>book Made Whole, a Practical Guide to reaching your financial goals.

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<v Speaker 1>If you would learn love to learn how to budget, save,

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<v Speaker 1>manage your credit, manage your debt, learn to earn, learn

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<v Speaker 1>to invest for both retirement and wealth. Learn how to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure you're fully insured. Learn how to pick your

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<v Speaker 1>financial team, how to increase your net worth, and how

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure you are you have the right estate plan.

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<v Speaker 1>Those ten things which I like to call financial wholeness.

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<v Speaker 1>If you would like to achieve financial wholeness, I teach

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<v Speaker 1>you step by step in this new workbook, Made Whole,

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<v Speaker 1>which is the companion book to my New York Times

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<v Speaker 1>bestseller Get You With Money. It is on sale as

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<v Speaker 1>of this week. It is launch week. It is available

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<v Speaker 1>everywhere Target. You'll see me Barnes and Nobles, which I

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<v Speaker 1>think I'm gonna go buy Barnes and Nobles to Target today.

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<v Speaker 2>See if I see my face on the shelf. If

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<v Speaker 2>you see it, please tag me. I'm at the Budgetista.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's also available online at Mad Whole Workbook dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I still have a few signed copies left.

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<v Speaker 1>If there are, it'll be on top of the page.

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<v Speaker 1>It'll say like get your signed copy here. But Made

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<v Speaker 1>Whole Workbook dot Com. And I just want to thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Brianna Bishin like this is also the week

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<v Speaker 1>of Thanksgiving, and for so many of us who've lost

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<v Speaker 1>loved ones, holidays can be really hard. Certainly it's been

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<v Speaker 1>really hard for me. But you know this, you guys

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<v Speaker 1>have been like consistent family for me and Mandy, and

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<v Speaker 1>so from our family to your family, we wish you,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just a peaceful, soft, safe holiday season. And

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you are good to yourself and good to

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<v Speaker 1>the people around you. And we'll be back next week.

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<v Speaker 1>If you haven't shared brian A. Bish with your family and.

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<v Speaker 2>Friends, what are you waiting for? We love to have

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<v Speaker 2>more listeners. All right, y'all bye, Wait before you leave, it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Me again, Tiffany. As you know, it is the launch

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<v Speaker 1>week of my new book Made Whole, the companion book

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<v Speaker 1>to my New York Times bestseller Get You With Money,

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<v Speaker 1>And because it's launch week, I wanted to give something

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<v Speaker 1>specifically to my BA fan. I want to give you

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<v Speaker 1>a ten minute clip directly from the audio version of

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<v Speaker 1>the book. Yes, this is my gift to you. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not giving it to nobody else. So if you got

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<v Speaker 1>some time and you want to listen, this is really

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<v Speaker 1>my favorite part of the book. And I hope it

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<v Speaker 1>really kiss you all that you need. If you want

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<v Speaker 1>to get your copy of Made Whole, you can go

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<v Speaker 1>to Maid Whole Workbook dot com. The link will also

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<v Speaker 1>be in the show notes. And enjoy this audio clip

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<v Speaker 1>and thank y'all for all the support for so long.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I love y'all. All right bye.

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<v Speaker 1>Chapter one. The made Home Map and mindset. Think of

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<v Speaker 1>financial honess as a destination, a place to set your

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<v Speaker 1>sights on and focus your energy toward. With this mindset,

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<v Speaker 1>you will have winds along the way, and even the

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<v Speaker 1>small steps of progress you make as you pursue becoming

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred percent whole can be life changing. After all,

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<v Speaker 1>success is like the layers of a cake. Each good

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<v Speaker 1>choice builds on the one before it, and before you

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<v Speaker 1>know it, all the seemingly small choices and adjustments you've

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<v Speaker 1>made come together to create an amazing dessert. The cake

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<v Speaker 1>you've built holds remarkable power. It represents all your growth

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<v Speaker 1>as a result of all you've learned.

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<v Speaker 2>Tiffany tip.

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<v Speaker 1>At the end of every school year, my dad always

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<v Speaker 1>reminded me and my sisters that we'd reach a new

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<v Speaker 1>level of education and that, as he said, knowledge once

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<v Speaker 1>given can never be rescinded, and that's how it'll be

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<v Speaker 1>for you as you proceed through the levels of financial wholeness.

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<v Speaker 1>To help you get prepared for your journey, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to give you a preview of the steps to come

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<v Speaker 1>and share some mindset tools to help you make the

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<v Speaker 1>most of your good work. The Ten Steps of Financial Holeness.

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<v Speaker 1>The path to financial holeness has ten steps. Each step,

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<v Speaker 1>which corresponds to one of the next ten chapters, is

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<v Speaker 1>related to an area of your finances, and some will

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<v Speaker 1>require more.

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<v Speaker 2>Work than others. One Build your budget.

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<v Speaker 1>Learn how to create and semi automate a personal budget

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<v Speaker 1>and open the necessary checking and savings accounts to support

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<v Speaker 1>your budget.

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<v Speaker 2>Two Save like a squirrel.

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<v Speaker 1>Calculate the savings goal number needed to meet at least

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<v Speaker 1>three months worth of expenses for your household. Then calculate

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<v Speaker 1>how much you need to save each week and month

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<v Speaker 1>to achieve this goal within twelve to eighteen months. Three

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<v Speaker 1>Dig out of debt. Write out your total debt payments

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<v Speaker 1>and interest rates using the my Debtless template at mad

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<v Speaker 1>Whole workbook dot com. This will give you a clear

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<v Speaker 1>picture of what you owe. Then choose a debt repayment

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<v Speaker 1>strategy and formulate your payoff plan. Four Score high credit.

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<v Speaker 1>Pull your credit score to see where you stand. Make

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<v Speaker 1>a list of the factors that are impacting your score

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<v Speaker 1>that come up with a game plan to improve it.

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<v Speaker 1>Five Learn to earn increase your income. List all of

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<v Speaker 1>the things you've accomplished at your job in the last

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<v Speaker 1>few years that make a good argument for you to

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<v Speaker 1>get a raise. Then make a list of all of

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<v Speaker 1>the tasks or jobs you do at work so you

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<v Speaker 1>can uncover your side hustle skills. Develop an action plan

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<v Speaker 1>that lists what you'll do next to increase your income.

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<v Speaker 1>Six Invest like an insider. Use all automated investment plans

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<v Speaker 1>for retirement and wealth building. Speak with HR about retirement

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<v Speaker 1>plans or set up your own retirement accounts. Automate an

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<v Speaker 1>amount to go into retirement, and brokeras you accounts and

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<v Speaker 1>increase contributions as your income increases.

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<v Speaker 2>Seven. Get good with insurance.

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<v Speaker 1>Make sure you have proper insurance coverage that means understanding

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<v Speaker 1>and calculating your needs around life disability, auto and home insurance,

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<v Speaker 1>and more. Eight Get rich issh increase your net worth.

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<v Speaker 1>Learn how to calculate your net worth and how to

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<v Speaker 1>achieve and maintain a positive net worth. Create a net

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<v Speaker 1>worth goal and define actions you're going to take each

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<v Speaker 1>month to achieve it.

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<v Speaker 2>Nine.

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<v Speaker 1>Pick your money team, choose an accountability partner, and find

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<v Speaker 1>yourself reliable and trustworthy financial professionals.

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<v Speaker 2>Ten.

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<v Speaker 1>Leave a legacy a state planning Actively plan for what

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<v Speaker 1>will happen to your state, cash, real estate, jewelry, and

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<v Speaker 1>other assets after you die. This is important no matter

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<v Speaker 1>the size of your bank account and portfolio. I know

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<v Speaker 1>that at first glance it may seem like a lot

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<v Speaker 1>to take on, and I want to be real with

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<v Speaker 1>you it is. But with patience and dedication, it can

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<v Speaker 1>be done, and it will be made easier if you

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<v Speaker 1>take advantage of the opportunity to answer questions and complete

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<v Speaker 1>the exercises throughout the book. These are designed to help

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<v Speaker 1>you create a deeper connection to the work, and they

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<v Speaker 1>will help you track your progress along the way financial wholeness.

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<v Speaker 2>At a glance.

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<v Speaker 1>Want to get to one hundred percent ten percent when

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<v Speaker 1>you create a budget. You'll get to twenty percent once

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<v Speaker 1>you learn to save, thirty percent if you start to

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<v Speaker 1>reduce your debt, forty percent when you up your credit score.

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<v Speaker 1>Almost halfway there, fifty percent when you start to increase

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<v Speaker 1>your income, sixty percent when you invest like an insider,

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<v Speaker 1>seventy percent when you get insurance, eighty percent when you

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<v Speaker 1>start to increase your net worth, ninety percent when you

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<v Speaker 1>form your money team, and one hundred percent when you

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<v Speaker 1>learn to leave a legacy. The made home mindset. There's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of financial guidance out there, but too often

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<v Speaker 1>the emotional element, that is what it feels like to

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<v Speaker 1>look directly at the most important facets of your financial

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<v Speaker 1>life is left out. The problem with this is that

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<v Speaker 1>not addressing your emotions can get in the way of

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<v Speaker 1>moving forward and making progress. It's so easy to get

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<v Speaker 1>stuck on the fear or feelings of overwhelm, or the

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<v Speaker 1>sadness and shame that may come up around the topic

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<v Speaker 1>of money and your history with it. But you can

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<v Speaker 1>overcome these obstacles by acknowledging their presence and making some

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<v Speaker 1>mental plans to work through them. I found that there

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<v Speaker 1>are two mindset prep steps that really help. These work

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<v Speaker 1>to sort of wipe the slate clean and set you

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<v Speaker 1>up for the kind of success that sticks. Step one,

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<v Speaker 1>share your shame. Shame thrives in the shadows, and it

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<v Speaker 1>needs silence to be strong, and the stronger and bigger

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<v Speaker 1>your shame grows, the more it can hide from you.

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<v Speaker 1>When you share your shame around financial setbacks you've experienced

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<v Speaker 1>or poor money decisions you've made, you take away its power.

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<v Speaker 1>I felt so much shame around the financial mistakes I

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<v Speaker 1>made that I became almost paralyzed to turn things around.

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<v Speaker 1>The shame kept me from seeing solutions. I finally started

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<v Speaker 1>the process of getting pad ask my shame by giving

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<v Speaker 1>voice to it. I shared my embarrassing financial situations with

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<v Speaker 1>the kindest person I know, my best friend Linda. Telling

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<v Speaker 1>her about the financial whole I've fallen into was the

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<v Speaker 1>start of my journey toward digging my way out. So

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<v Speaker 1>here's my assignment for you. Pick the kindest person you

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<v Speaker 1>know and share a financial secret with them. This person

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<v Speaker 1>might become your accountability partner aka financial bestie, who helps

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<v Speaker 1>keep you on track as you help keep them on

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<v Speaker 1>track throughout your journey to financial wholeness. But for now,

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<v Speaker 1>focus on getting your shame off your shoulders and out.

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<v Speaker 2>Of the way.

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<v Speaker 1>Repeat after me. I will share my shame with someone

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<v Speaker 1>I know, love and trust. I will not keep trying

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<v Speaker 1>to carry this weight all by myself. Step two, give

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<v Speaker 1>yourself grace and space. I made some mistakes in my

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<v Speaker 1>twenties that left me in serious financial distress. Here are

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<v Speaker 1>some of my financial stats. At the time, I had

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<v Speaker 1>thirty five thousand dollars of credit card debt due or scam,

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<v Speaker 1>fifty two thousand in student loans, and a two hundred

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<v Speaker 1>and twenty thousand dollars mortgage. My savings was depleted. I

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<v Speaker 1>had recently been laid off from my preschool teaching job.

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<v Speaker 1>I had lost my condo to a foreclosure. I had

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<v Speaker 1>to move back in with my parents. I was essentially

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<v Speaker 1>the opposite of financially home. I lacked structure and intention

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<v Speaker 1>in planning across the board, and I couldn't forgive myself

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<v Speaker 1>for it all. I know that might sound dramatic, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's true. And it wasn't until I said to myself,

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay, Tiffany, you didn't intentionally harm anyone. You made

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<v Speaker 1>money mistakes that I was able to share my shame

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<v Speaker 1>with Linda and start to forge a new financial path.

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<v Speaker 1>When I look back at that time, I realized that

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<v Speaker 1>I had to give myself grace and space before I

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<v Speaker 1>could evolve. I needed grace, the root of kindness and compassion,

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<v Speaker 1>and space the room to be simultaneously flawed and capable

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<v Speaker 1>of flourishing in the future. As you prepare to embark

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<v Speaker 1>on your own path toward financial homeness, I want you

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<v Speaker 1>to think about your own financial history and any regret

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<v Speaker 1>or remorse you have about choices you've made or circumstances

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<v Speaker 1>around which you've tied yourself up in a lot of blame.

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<v Speaker 1>No matter what your specific scenario, this story is not

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<v Speaker 1>serving you.

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<v Speaker 2>It's time to let it go.

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<v Speaker 1>First, find your own Linda, and give voice to your shame.

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<v Speaker 1>If you don't have someone to share this version with,

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<v Speaker 1>talk to me. I'm at the budget needs to on

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<v Speaker 1>all platforms, and I'm listen. Once you've cracked open the door,

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<v Speaker 1>it's time to forgive yourself by saying it's okay if

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know the next step. My future is full

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<v Speaker 1>of potential. It's okay if I made a mistake, new

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<v Speaker 1>opportunities abound, and it's okay if I let myself down.

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<v Speaker 2>My past does not dictate my future. Who is it

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<v Speaker 2>just me?

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<v Speaker 1>Or are your eyes sweating after hearing those phrases out loud?

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<v Speaker 1>Repeat after me? No matter what, I will give myself

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<v Speaker 1>grace and space creating an environment of support. Emotional housekeeping

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<v Speaker 1>is an important part of tending to your personal finances,

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<v Speaker 1>but your physical housekeeping matters too. Taking the time to

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<v Speaker 1>set up your environment in a way that makes you

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<v Speaker 1>feel calm can help you reduce stress as you get

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<v Speaker 1>started on the steps to financial wholeness. Here are some

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<v Speaker 1>things to add to the spot where you'll keep your

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<v Speaker 1>financial house in order, whether it's a whole room, a nook,

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<v Speaker 1>or just a tabletop in your home where you'll sit

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<v Speaker 1>to do this work. A scented candle, one that makes

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<v Speaker 1>you want to settle in and stay awhile. An emotional

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<v Speaker 1>support blanket, you know, the one you might have to

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<v Speaker 1>fight your significant other, your roomy, or your kids for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Fuzzy socks shoes. I love my fuzzy leopard print house slippers.

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<v Speaker 1>A relaxing, personalized playlist. Shade is my favorite this workbook.

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to hear about any additions you make

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<v Speaker 1>to your space that you find helpful. Share it with

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<v Speaker 1>me on social and use the hashtag made whole, Made Better.

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<v Speaker 1>Six