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Speaker 1: Nicky Gazer. Yes, here's Nicky. Hello, welcome to Nicki Glazer Podcast.

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Speaker 1: It's Nicki Glazer. It's Thursday. UM, thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for listening and watching on our YouTube channel. You can

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Speaker 1: find a link to that, you know, at Nicki Glazer

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Speaker 1: Pod on Instagram. It's the link is in our bio.

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Speaker 1: I overheard no, uh um this morning you were on

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Speaker 1: Zoom with Andrew and Mark our kind of technical creative

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Speaker 1: producer producer. UM love him Mark and uh, you guys

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Speaker 1: were talking about the YouTube comments and I was putting

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Speaker 1: my dube on my on my comforter wrestling with your dube.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I told Andrew, I go tell them I'm

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Speaker 1: putting my duvet on so I'll be there in two days. Um.

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Speaker 1: So yes, I was get I was getting some cardio

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Speaker 1: in before the show, and UM, I heard you saying

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Speaker 1: that you've been You said, you know, UM, I'm really surprised,

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Speaker 1: like the YouTube comments are actually really really nice, you know,

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Speaker 1: aside from some of the spam. And I didn't hear

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Speaker 1: you say spam. I just thought like, besides aside from

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Speaker 1: and then I was like, I think I kind of

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Speaker 1: went like like I kind of think I your muffs

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Speaker 1: so I wouldn't hear. And then you guys are like

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Speaker 1: elaborating on the spam and how you're working to like

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Speaker 1: get those comments removed or whatever. But I feel like

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Speaker 1: even spam is positive. You know, it was like free

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Speaker 1: sex or something like that, so oh my god, that's

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Speaker 1: positive too. It's sex positive. UM. I'm grateful that the

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Speaker 1: comments have mostly been nice. I'm definitely not reading them,

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Speaker 1: but I was thinking, like it might be fun to

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Speaker 1: um try to make art videos the most positively UH

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Speaker 1: commented on videos on YouTube, Like I think we might

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Speaker 1: be able to do it, Like I think that if

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Speaker 1: I asked my fans, I think and honestly, I think

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Speaker 1: it might be good for people people's souls. I don't

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Speaker 1: want you to say anything that isn't true. So like

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Speaker 1: if all you can say is, um, I like the

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Speaker 1: mask the dog behind you is wearing UH in the shot,

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Speaker 1: or I like that shirt or what are like you

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Speaker 1: have arms? Like you can literally go right, you have

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Speaker 1: arms and with an ext like three exclamation marks, that's

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Speaker 1: that will be. I just want to bombard the comments

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Speaker 1: with positivity and I and not because I mean, let

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Speaker 1: me just say it is it is double sided. Here,

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Speaker 1: like or it's um many levels to this. I wanted

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Speaker 1: because I want people to say nice things about even

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Speaker 1: though I'm not going to read them, because I'm just

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Speaker 1: scared that people might say something mean, like you might

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Speaker 1: have an adjective about my arms, and even if it's

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Speaker 1: a good adjective, it might not be the one I want,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, So, like you look. A

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Speaker 1: lot of people say I look jacked a lot of times,

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Speaker 1: which I take as a huge compliment because I don't

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Speaker 1: do fucking anything for my arms. So if anything like,

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Speaker 1: I'll get back. Let me put a pin in that

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Speaker 1: thought for a second, because I do have a good

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Speaker 1: point about that, and we'll return to it. But I want.

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Speaker 1: I think that when you write something positive, and like

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Speaker 1: I was saying the other day, when you do a

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Speaker 1: positive like a service for someone else outside of yourself

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Speaker 1: and just spread positivity, it comes back to you. And

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Speaker 1: I know that's just like, so if you spread cheer,

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Speaker 1: it will come back, like we all know that, but

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Speaker 1: maybe this will help you, or like, honestly, don't even

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Speaker 1: write it online, like let's just go on YouTube under

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Speaker 1: accounts and like write positive things that and spell them

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Speaker 1: right too. So we don't. So we you know, like

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Speaker 1: does YouTube. It's not of spell check? Is that what's

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Speaker 1: going on there with why people just can't It's just

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Speaker 1: YouTube comments are notoriously like the dumbest things you read, right,

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Speaker 1: people are just like smashing their keyboard and pressing answer.

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Speaker 1: You know it's keyboard cat like doing this on the

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Speaker 1: keys um, which is my favorite way of saying of

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Speaker 1: laughing on text is like just typing a bunch of

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Speaker 1: nonsense and sometimes it auto corrects to like words. But

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Speaker 1: you know, that's I think the best way to be

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Speaker 1: like I'm laughing really hard. Um. And I've been doing

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Speaker 1: that since you know a I M days of like

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Speaker 1: harder to do with you know, autocart. These days, we

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Speaker 1: start go back to being positive because I don't know

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Speaker 1: if you saw ed my Let's post from a couple

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Speaker 1: ed my let. I know, well, I started following him

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Speaker 1: he's he's he's very positive and like, uh so anyway,

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Speaker 1: so so I don't know if you saw, but he wrote,

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Speaker 1: um something about that you can't force anyone to do anything,

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Speaker 1: but you can owe it. But you can repel negativity

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Speaker 1: away from your life. Misery loves company, and if you

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Speaker 1: create enough positive energy around you, it will become almost

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Speaker 1: like a force field. Then the negative people in your

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Speaker 1: life have two options. And then if you want me

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Speaker 1: to either get positive or get out, Yeah, that's what

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Speaker 1: it is. Like. It's either you'll repel the negative people

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Speaker 1: away by your positive energy, which I've experienced, or um,

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Speaker 1: they'll they'll want to borrow some and it'll rub off

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Speaker 1: on your friends. They'll they'll they'll want what you have.

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Speaker 1: You know. That's a thing in in you know, recovery

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Speaker 1: programs of you know, when you're trying when you see

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Speaker 1: get recovery from. Um, you know, it's it's it's lead

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Speaker 1: like meme thing that they say. There's so many like

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Speaker 1: good quotes and you know, uh recovery program stuff like

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Speaker 1: you should do this, like should are someone said something

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Speaker 1: that your shoulders hurt, and like you, you your shoulders

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Speaker 1: the way Andrew would pronounce shoulders if he was reading

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Speaker 1: it shoulders. Um. So no, but like you, it's so

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Speaker 1: when you first get like recovered from let's say, you know,

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Speaker 1: I wanted to be like you should do this, read

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Speaker 1: I just say, hey, if you are interested in stopping that,

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Speaker 1: I will totally talk to you about it, but like,

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Speaker 1: to me because you know, especially in people close to

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Speaker 1: It's never gonna be exactly the same, but man, you

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Speaker 1: Like no one makes you do anything you don't want

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Speaker 1: And that's the best part about these kinds of places

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Speaker 1: I've I've been in those places before, been in I

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Speaker 1: and it was just not it was like suddenly, this

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Speaker 1: Sometimes it's having someone to commiserate with. UM. But I've

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Speaker 1: also be like, what the FUNX she has? Pink eyes too,

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00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:51,760
Speaker 1: and then it's like, oh, I chose the pink guys,

428
00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:53,280
Speaker 1: so like you can't be mad at me about it.

429
00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:57,960
Speaker 1: It's like something I chose. But also I don't. I

430
00:22:57,960 --> 00:22:59,560
Speaker 1: don't know what I'm getting at. But someone wrote to

431
00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:01,320
Speaker 1: me and said that the fact that I one time

432
00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:04,400
Speaker 1: said that, like God wants me to be let's say fat,

433
00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:05,879
Speaker 1: I said, God wants me to be fat today if

434
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:08,280
Speaker 1: I'm feeling fat, and I'm having a negative connotation about that,

435
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 1: which you shouldn't, but if you, let's say you do God,

436
00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:17,480
Speaker 1: whatever the universe, I this is what I'm meant to

437
00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:19,520
Speaker 1: be today, and let me just get through today being

438
00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:20,600
Speaker 1: like this. It doesn't have to be the way I

439
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:23,080
Speaker 1: am tomorrow, but it's the way I am today. Just

440
00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:26,080
Speaker 1: fucking accepted. And you're supposed to be that way today.

441
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,200
Speaker 1: Everything was leading for you to be this way and

442
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:30,439
Speaker 1: not the way that of the girl on Instagram that

443
00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:32,720
Speaker 1: you wish you looked like, they wanted her to be

444
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:34,240
Speaker 1: that way today. And guess what, she's not looking that

445
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:35,679
Speaker 1: way today. She has a lot of filters and she

446
00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:39,639
Speaker 1: just you know, look at her tub. It's warped. Um.

447
00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:42,720
Speaker 1: She definitely you know body tuned to that. I hope

448
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:44,720
Speaker 1: this helps someone, it helps me. Thank you for letting

449
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:48,240
Speaker 1: me go on you know, body image spiel. And let's

450
00:23:48,280 --> 00:24:01,040
Speaker 1: get to more funny stuff. Let's bring in and what up? What?

451
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:03,639
Speaker 1: I feel like you're just doing Alligator Boy now like

452
00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 1: we've lost Island Boy. How does island boy go? Is? No,

453
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:16,840
Speaker 1: that's alligator boy? Man boy man, I knew no get

454
00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:20,359
Speaker 1: a good reaction starting sunglasses today? Why are you going sunglasses?

455
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 1: I mean I should have gone sunglasses. No. I just

456
00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:26,800
Speaker 1: feel like it's you know, I've the people have already

457
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:29,119
Speaker 1: seen what my eyes look like on this video. It's fine.

458
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:32,359
Speaker 1: I put some more pink eyeliner underneath. I thought the

459
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 1: old can canker eyes. No canker. The cankers are coming back,

460
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 1: by the way, what dude, It's just like I gotta

461
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:42,280
Speaker 1: get more sleep. Yeah, I just I don't want to

462
00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:45,320
Speaker 1: go to bed early because that's the only time. That's

463
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 1: when my day is done and I want to hang out.

464
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:52,160
Speaker 1: And last night I usually got a bet around one

465
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:54,680
Speaker 1: like I fall a sleep around one gotten bed at

466
00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 1: midnight and I was supposed to wake up at us

467
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 1: to have a call with my book lady. Um the

468
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:05,680
Speaker 1: woman I'm writing a book with at nine o'clock and

469
00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:08,200
Speaker 1: I was I had a homework assignment that she was like, right,

470
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 1: this story, that's like the easiest thing to do. And

471
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:13,359
Speaker 1: I was gonna wake up at seven and do it,

472
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 1: just like I didn't high school college right before it's

473
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:21,680
Speaker 1: do And um, I woke up at and my throat

474
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:24,040
Speaker 1: hurt so bad, and I was just like, no, no, no,

475
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 1: I of all the things that I can cancel today,

476
00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:29,719
Speaker 1: this is the only one that I actually is not

477
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 1: necessary and isn't you know, costing a lot of money

478
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:34,239
Speaker 1: and people depending on me. And so I wrote her

479
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:36,680
Speaker 1: and I was like, I feel sick and I can't

480
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:39,160
Speaker 1: do it today. I'm so sorry, and it was true.

481
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:41,199
Speaker 1: I just couldn't do it. I'm just I got too

482
00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:44,679
Speaker 1: much going on. And I just told her, you know,

483
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:48,280
Speaker 1: I hate canceling, and I'm sorry. I promises a priority,

484
00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:50,919
Speaker 1: but I got a lot going on and this is

485
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 1: the one. I just was honest. And she was so

486
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 1: nice about it, and she was like, yeah, this is

487
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 1: the one thing that like, let's keep kicking this can

488
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 1: down the road. Who cares? Yeah, I mean it's always

489
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:03,399
Speaker 1: nice when you direct, Like just today, when I like

490
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:06,639
Speaker 1: accidentally formatted that card. I was like, and you're so

491
00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:09,479
Speaker 1: cool about it. So when someone's cool about something like that,

492
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 1: you're like, oh yeah. But then it's like sometimes I

493
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 1: guess people's worries, like well done, it will happen again,

494
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:19,640
Speaker 1: she won't do her homework assignment. If I'm not angry,

495
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 1: you're gonna probably want to do it more next time.

496
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:26,199
Speaker 1: I think of. Positive reinforcement has been proven to be

497
00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:29,200
Speaker 1: the thing that works more than negative reinforcement, Like being

498
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:33,159
Speaker 1: punished or screamed at doesn't yield the same results as

499
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:36,720
Speaker 1: like you know, in dog training anything. They're just like,

500
00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:41,800
Speaker 1: don't punish, just reward and put a cheese it in

501
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:43,640
Speaker 1: my mouth and say next time, be a good boy.

502
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:48,360
Speaker 1: The thing about punishment or admonishment is that sometimes I'm

503
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:51,679
Speaker 1: not doing it to be like, oh this will make

504
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 1: him never do it again. I'm doing it because I

505
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:57,160
Speaker 1: have no control over my anger and I'm really mad

506
00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:03,399
Speaker 1: about something else. Source. Yeah, you know, so what happened

507
00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 1: to your uh knocks pop nuts? My nucks um? Today?

508
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:13,560
Speaker 1: I was trying to unscrew um my steamer um and

509
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 1: the hand like it was just it just screw. You know,

510
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:19,159
Speaker 1: my hands get dry. This could be from digging in

511
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 1: my purse. Like my knuckles just will drag on something

512
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 1: very lightly and start bleeding like crazy. So yeah, I got.

513
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:29,359
Speaker 1: I got into a fight with a steamer with Stanley.

514
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 1: I love steamers. I would have burned myself if I

515
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 1: had to steam my hair, I would be I look

516
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:40,200
Speaker 1: like Freddy Krueger my hair. Oh I meant steam your hair.

517
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 1: I would make it so frizzy. Yeah, I actually didn't

518
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:49,200
Speaker 1: mean that, but I didn't mean just using anything hot.

519
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:52,879
Speaker 1: Steamers are so dangerous. People don't understand because it just

520
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:55,679
Speaker 1: looks like like beautiful miss Yeah, but it is. It

521
00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 1: will burn you so freaking fast there. I feel like

522
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 1: they're much more dangerous and quicker than an iron. No,

523
00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:06,159
Speaker 1: but um yes, because irons unless you have an ironing

524
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 1: board already set up, and it's usually like and then

525
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 1: you got to go under the thing, or if then

526
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 1: you forget that it was on ten minutes before you

527
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 1: put it on, and it has no water in it,

528
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 1: so then you have to put the water and it

529
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:28,359
Speaker 1: goes it's spitting everywhere, and then sometimes the iron like

530
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 1: starts leaking on your shirt, like the water comes out

531
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:35,359
Speaker 1: too much because you over field on the steam. The

532
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 1: steam shoots water some Yeah those are mauthfunctioning ones. That's

533
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 1: when you know you got to replace it. You're supposed

534
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:44,280
Speaker 1: to use distilled water. Why because it clogs up like

535
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:48,800
Speaker 1: the chlorine and stuff like. Yeah, cruelty free water. Um,

536
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 1: women have to like you go from the heating. You

537
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: have to deal with heat so much as a woman. Yeah,

538
00:28:56,760 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 1: your hair on, are you over ease? Yeah, that's right.

539
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 1: We've been there with heat way more than guys in

540
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 1: the kitchen, in your hair, on the clothes, on your ovaries.

541
00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 1: I mean it's everywhere. Yeah, we take the heat a lot,

542
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 1: can take the heat a lot. We uh yeah. Do

543
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 1: you do you iron clothes or steam? I? Steam? I

544
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 1: don't have an iron, just the steamer. Do you have

545
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:25,000
Speaker 1: like a little travel one or you have like a

546
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 1: big one? Um? I have one that an ex gave

547
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:32,720
Speaker 1: me for like my birthday. Oh a boyfriend steamer? Who

548
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 1: is it like baggy and like varsity numbers on it? Um? Yeah?

549
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 1: Does know does ever use it? Does he sense that

550
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 1: you have? Like have you ever used it on his

551
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:47,280
Speaker 1: own clothes? And we barely use it. We just dry

552
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 1: our clothes and just fold them while they're hot and

553
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 1: that keeps that's so responsible? Or do I have a

554
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 1: steamers that I've never once taken the clothes out on

555
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 1: time unless I'm floating in another load. You know what

556
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:01,880
Speaker 1: I mean? My clothes are wrinkly as fun. And that's

557
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 1: why I love a steamer, is that you just have

558
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:07,240
Speaker 1: I have a hangar in my in my bathroom that

559
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:09,480
Speaker 1: stays there, and then I have the steamer already hooked up,

560
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 1: so I just turned it on and it's like, within

561
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 1: a minute, I'm getting I'm getting steamed. A dryer should

562
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 1: for some for I think someone like us should have

563
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 1: a snooze button where you're like, Okay, I waited too long,

564
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:24,240
Speaker 1: it's wrinkled. I need another ten in there. Do you

565
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 1: know that? I know there's a quick dry, but no,

566
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 1: there's a quick there's a steamer button that is it's

567
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:32,120
Speaker 1: twenty minutes and it kind of injects steam so it

568
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:37,200
Speaker 1: makes it wet again and then it dry. Yeah we do.

569
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:39,720
Speaker 1: Oh man, I didn't never notice. I'm glad we brought

570
00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 1: this up. That's amazing. Yeah, you hit it. Um. Yeah,

571
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 1: I was just gonna steam. I was actually just gonna

572
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 1: steem my duvet because it is so wrinkly and just

573
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 1: like a nice flat white or not why it's it's pink,

574
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 1: but like a nice duvet. And the brand that I love,

575
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:58,959
Speaker 1: by the way, is All's Well for sheets and betting

576
00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:04,680
Speaker 1: All's Well, it's all swell, all swell. Yeah as well,

577
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 1: it's so good. I really recommend them. I use that

578
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 1: duvet and they have the little ties in in the

579
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 1: corners that you tie it onto your thing, and I

580
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 1: just put it on and I think I'm gonna steam it, um,

581
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 1: because how long do you think start to finish? You

582
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 1: finished less seven minutes long Duve Olympics. I bet you

583
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 1: there would kill it. I used to maricondo all my

584
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 1: clothes that folding pattern. Do you know what I'm talking about?

585
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 1: My older brother can fold like a like a fucking boss.

586
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:34,240
Speaker 1: Because you worked at Bloomingdale. He does like that. We

587
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 1: lifts up the middle and it's just like, yeah, if

588
00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:38,560
Speaker 1: you worked in retail, you can fold anything. Yeah. I

589
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 1: was maricondoing um for a while, which is you put

590
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 1: you fold everything so that it it's like uh, and

591
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 1: then you you can stack it. They all stack upright. Um, No,

592
00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:53,760
Speaker 1: you fold once and then give me that sweatshirt over there,

593
00:31:55,000 --> 00:32:00,200
Speaker 1: I'll show you had a condo. Okay, so I I

594
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 1: believe if I remember correctly, you fold it like that

595
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 1: and then you're gonna do wait, and then you do

596
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 1: one half. So it's different for everyone. But what you

597
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 1: want to end up with is like a little taco

598
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:17,520
Speaker 1: of a shirt. So you fold it so that they'll

599
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 1: have to watch the video for this, you guys, and

600
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:21,160
Speaker 1: if if not, just look up Marie Condol folding method

601
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 1: and you would take that. Wait, so this one, I

602
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 1: would actually do this because it doesn't have long enough

603
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 1: and you do that. Wait, hold on, really this and

604
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 1: then this and then that would be like that, and

605
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 1: then in your drawer and they would all be stacked

606
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:39,000
Speaker 1: like this, so when you open the drawer you can

607
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 1: see it perfectly like this. And you can do that

608
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 1: with pants, tank tops, underwear, socks. Everything did become Did

609
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 1: she get on like Oprah or something? I think her

610
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 1: method is just really good and the way she writes

611
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 1: is very beautiful. Like I, I was totally sold on

612
00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 1: the book when I wade. Did you ever read it? No? No,

613
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 1: I got into condo right before I met you. I

614
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,720
Speaker 1: think in two thou seventeen. I started condoing. But I'm

615
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 1: out of it now. Now I just throw. I I

616
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 1: do a method that I used to see Amy Shumer do,

617
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 1: which I always used to um place a lot of

618
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 1: perfection onto her in terms of like she she just

619
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:18,520
Speaker 1: was the first friend of mine that like had her

620
00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 1: own apartment in Manhattan and like just had things going on,

621
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 1: would have like check sling around for like I remember

622
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 1: seeing a check for like thirty thou dollars one time

623
00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 1: on her table and I was just like, what is

624
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 1: that money? And why would you? Like she was just

625
00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 1: killing it and like a woman, you know, And she

626
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 1: had this apartment that smelled so good and like, you know,

627
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 1: it was just it was a cool, little like lower

628
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 1: level whatever. And I remember I was just like, God,

629
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:44,720
Speaker 1: she has it so together. But the one time I

630
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 1: opened her closet, her like drawers, and it was just

631
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 1: all of these clothes like thrown in like no folding,

632
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 1: just all a mess. They're all clean, but she would

633
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:57,080
Speaker 1: just dig through it and then she would steam it.

634
00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 1: And it was like but she had it all in

635
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:00,240
Speaker 1: there so no one could see it. It was a

636
00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 1: mess in there, but it was all like you know,

637
00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 1: long sleeve shirts. Nothing was folded, just a mess short

638
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 1: sleeve shirts, nothing folded, all mess and I was like, oh,

639
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 1: you can just do that and that that's fine because

640
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:13,680
Speaker 1: sometimes when I fold stuff, I can't. I have to

641
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:15,200
Speaker 1: go through it and then it gets messed up anyway.

642
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 1: I don't understand people that can just that's the Marie

643
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:19,239
Speaker 1: Kondo method. That's why it works because we're looking for things.

644
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 1: You can see everything at the top. You don't have

645
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:24,200
Speaker 1: to dig around when you stack things you unfold, it's

646
00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:25,880
Speaker 1: like you suck it all up. What I what I

647
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:30,719
Speaker 1: do is I'll fold it and then i won't have

648
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:34,160
Speaker 1: room in my drawer, so I'll push it all in

649
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:36,439
Speaker 1: and while I'm pushing it in, it unfolds and become

650
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:38,920
Speaker 1: shitty anyways, So it's like what are we doing? But

651
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:41,359
Speaker 1: I mean it really is exactly who we are. I mean,

652
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:45,359
Speaker 1: unfolded shirt inside a nice dresser, you know. I mean

653
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:48,759
Speaker 1: mine is a little bit more apparent on the outside,

654
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 1: but like we all are like like that's more us.

655
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:56,360
Speaker 1: It is, like, look, I try to be more organized

656
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 1: at times, and I really do want to be an

657
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 1: organized person. I think a about it. It's not your fault,

658
00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 1: you know, you're not choosing to be disorganized because you

659
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:06,800
Speaker 1: want to be dirty and bad like we all would

660
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:08,920
Speaker 1: like to be, and you just go, well, why don't

661
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:10,879
Speaker 1: you just put an extra effort and put away that

662
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,400
Speaker 1: spoon after you use it? But it's like it doesn't

663
00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:15,239
Speaker 1: occur to me. If it occur to me, I would

664
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:17,560
Speaker 1: or it does and it scares me. I don't know

665
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 1: what the funds wrong in my brain. But the thing

666
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 1: that you told me that one time where the housewife

667
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 1: lady said, if you're going to just throw it on

668
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 1: the floor, then you're gonna have to pick it up

669
00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 1: off the floor, you're just adding, yes, that was a

670
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:33,200
Speaker 1: good thing I think about. Still Okay, so what is

671
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:36,359
Speaker 1: it again because I forgot that. Essentially, it's if you're

672
00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 1: just gonna like, it's gonna take you the same amount

673
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 1: of time that you just put something up on like

674
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:43,560
Speaker 1: the dresser, than just to put it away in the drawer.

675
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:46,400
Speaker 1: Now you're just adding another step and adding if you

676
00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:47,920
Speaker 1: just drop it on the floor because you don't want

677
00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 1: to hang it up, you're gonna actually have to pick

678
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:54,239
Speaker 1: that up. Or yeah, so just do it now. I

679
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:56,399
Speaker 1: used my therapist to say, if it takes under three

680
00:35:56,400 --> 00:36:00,640
Speaker 1: minutes to it, that's everything. Yeah, that's the anything about

681
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 1: all of this ship doesn't take long, and then you

682
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:06,719
Speaker 1: learn it and then you forget it. I get overwhelmed

683
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:08,640
Speaker 1: by how much stuff I have, and then when I

684
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:11,440
Speaker 1: start going through it, and then I go, you know,

685
00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:14,840
Speaker 1: yesterday I had this bottle in my like all my

686
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:17,000
Speaker 1: toilet trees, and it was like this vitamin that I

687
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:19,839
Speaker 1: used to take, and I'm like, what, I don't take

688
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 1: that anymore? Why is that siliar? Because there's one vitamin

689
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:24,200
Speaker 1: left in it? And I go, should I take it

690
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:26,680
Speaker 1: even though I don't take this anymore? Or should I

691
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:29,680
Speaker 1: just keep it in case I take it? I just

692
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 1: know I was so proud of myself. I threw the

693
00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:34,759
Speaker 1: pill away with the bottle. I said, I don't need

694
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:37,600
Speaker 1: any of this, goodbye. I had to make a choice

695
00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:38,920
Speaker 1: and it was hard for me to do because there

696
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 1: was still one left, and that used to be that's

697
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:43,719
Speaker 1: very expensive vitamins. I'm like, should I donate it? Who's

698
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:46,440
Speaker 1: going to eat have one of these? Oh? I mean,

699
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:48,400
Speaker 1: it's the story of my life of having protein on

700
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 1: top of the refrigerator. Every guy and woman at this point,

701
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 1: yes has a protein jar on top of the refrigerator

702
00:36:55,719 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 1: that it is probably three mold three point is turned

703
00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 1: into its own. Person went through our refrigerator and was

704
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 1: just like when I was doing recycling one time, and

705
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 1: she's like, can we just go really quick through the refrigerator.

706
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, please, don't. I don't want to look at

707
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:11,360
Speaker 1: that stuff. I don't want to have to deal with it.

708
00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 1: And she'd started pulling things out and I'm like, wow,

709
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 1: that took two seconds, and the refrigerator is so much

710
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:19,480
Speaker 1: better looking. Yeah, I thought it was gonna stay there

711
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 1: for it. I thought that was the refrigerator now, you know,

712
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:24,600
Speaker 1: it's like it does feel like I just I kind

713
00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:26,239
Speaker 1: of hold my breath when I opened the refrigerator. And

714
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:29,000
Speaker 1: when my dad is the same my dad. You know,

715
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:31,719
Speaker 1: I think a big reason why he got remarried is

716
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:37,239
Speaker 1: because he couldn't clean like after himself. Like his if

717
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 1: if you saw his office, this is a doctor with

718
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 1: all cancer like papers everywhere, cancer papers everywhere. And then

719
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:47,279
Speaker 1: you get to the house. He had like one die

720
00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 1: pepsi and he'd have a pizza box with like half

721
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:53,279
Speaker 1: you know, just four pieces of cruss still in there.

722
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:55,040
Speaker 1: It's kind of like the one vitamin. It's like, why

723
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:57,480
Speaker 1: is that even in there? Well? The vitamin doesn't like

724
00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:01,839
Speaker 1: attract roaches and like buck, yeah, they're not healthy. There's

725
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:04,479
Speaker 1: this is the thing. It's like, there's a way, there's

726
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 1: a way to have a trash space or a messy

727
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:11,120
Speaker 1: space that is not disrespecting yourself. Like everyone, I always

728
00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 1: look at my room and as an extension of like

729
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:15,799
Speaker 1: how I'm doing mentally, And I don't need to do

730
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:17,359
Speaker 1: that because a lot of times I'll be like, you're

731
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 1: a failure, like you're messy, Like this is who you

732
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 1: are is your room or this your car, and the

733
00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 1: cleanliness is who you are. However, if my car has

734
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:31,880
Speaker 1: like like wet food like things that are just gross,

735
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 1: that's me not respecting my Like that's me actually, Like

736
00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:39,200
Speaker 1: you know, when I clean up for other people, it's

737
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:41,719
Speaker 1: like why do I respect people more than myself? Why

738
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 1: do I want to a nice space for it? Do

739
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 1: you respect them? Or do you respect don't want them

740
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:50,320
Speaker 1: to judge. I want them to think and I also

741
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 1: know that they don't live like this, and I don't

742
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 1: want them to think that. Um yeah, I don't want

743
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:58,879
Speaker 1: them to judge me left it just dirty? I don't

744
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 1: I do not really ty a little bit though. That

745
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 1: gets me because that's the way I wanted to look anyway,

746
00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:06,920
Speaker 1: and I and I know that I want to show

747
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:09,279
Speaker 1: my mom respect, like she's coming over. Like that's the

748
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:11,759
Speaker 1: same way I like dress up for shows, Like I

749
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:13,880
Speaker 1: could just wear jeans and a T shirt and everyone

750
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:17,359
Speaker 1: be fine. That photo you posted on Instagram where we're

751
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 1: both wearing the same button, like we've both come so

752
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 1: far fast. I wouldn't have dressed like that at Caroline's

753
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:24,399
Speaker 1: ever the way I'm dressing now, But like, I want

754
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:26,319
Speaker 1: to dress to show that people are spending a hundred

755
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:28,120
Speaker 1: dollars for a ticket to me for me. I want

756
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,839
Speaker 1: to show that I put in effort. So my mom,

757
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:33,319
Speaker 1: I wanted to show her like you're coming over, Like

758
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:35,759
Speaker 1: I know you're coming over, and I'm excited. Here's what

759
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 1: I have to present. Um. But I really have let

760
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:42,239
Speaker 1: go of what my room looks like when I have

761
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:46,440
Speaker 1: like guys in it or you know, all those guys

762
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 1: and the g B comes by. No, it's just like

763
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:53,880
Speaker 1: on my nightstand. Does not mean I'm a bad person.

764
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:56,640
Speaker 1: If you can clean your room like you do your asshole,

765
00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 1: you would be. I mean the time I spend on

766
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:03,680
Speaker 1: my ass all, that's so true. I need a room, douche.

767
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:06,799
Speaker 1: Let's get to the news. Like a room up for

768
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 1: your dude. I just locked room up in my bathroom

769
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:11,840
Speaker 1: because he was just trying to get away with like

770
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:14,160
Speaker 1: not tiding enough. And I go, you finished the job.

771
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:17,440
Speaker 1: He's stuck in my bathroom and shut the door and

772
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:21,319
Speaker 1: I turn off the light. What dark by himself? Just

773
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 1: it really is sad. I didn't mean to turn off

774
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:25,200
Speaker 1: the light, but then I was going to turn it

775
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 1: back on, and I was like, what, room doesn't need

776
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 1: a light, but I do it as sentient heat. Oh,

777
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:35,320
Speaker 1: he's definitely complaining. He's but butter buttering up against buttering,

778
00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:38,520
Speaker 1: like hitting the ramp. But he did. He had not

779
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:40,279
Speaker 1: cleaned up everything. I said, room, But you stay in

780
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:41,840
Speaker 1: there and you finished the job. You're not leaving your

781
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 1: room until you get it done. Let's get to the news.

782
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:47,480
Speaker 1: Hopefully you learned the lesson through this very negative affirm affirmination.

783
00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:54,719
Speaker 1: What's the words? We definitely heard affirmination for the first time.

784
00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:59,120
Speaker 1: Oh man, it is Thursday, so you all know what

785
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:02,799
Speaker 1: that means. It is Thursday. We have a great day

786
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 1: coming up or tomorrow. We're going to Milwaukee and Indianapolis.

787
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:11,480
Speaker 1: Milwaukee talkie. I've never been to Milwaukee. Oh, it's it's awesome.

788
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 1: It's kind of reminds you of St. Louisa. It's just

789
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:17,279
Speaker 1: like I love Milwaukee. I love a small city. I

790
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:21,200
Speaker 1: love the Midwest. This is a little Midwest run Milwaukee

791
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 1: in the Indianapolis. Tickets still available. I believe having all

792
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:30,280
Speaker 1: the swells out there on the Roadma okay. First story.

793
00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 1: When it comes to his three daughters, Joe Rogan says

794
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 1: he's taught taking an active role in their knowledge of

795
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:40,400
Speaker 1: self defense. My kids, he's quote unquote, my kids are

796
00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:43,279
Speaker 1: allowed to hit me as hard as they can. I

797
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 1: teach them. They're taking martial art classes, but I teach

798
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:48,920
Speaker 1: them it hurts. I went from being a kid who

799
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:51,520
Speaker 1: was terrified of conflict of being a martial arts champion.

800
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 1: The reason why I became a martial arts champion is

801
00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:57,239
Speaker 1: I was being picked on all the time. I was like,

802
00:41:57,320 --> 00:41:59,480
Speaker 1: I do not like this, So I'm going to become

803
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 1: what I am terrified of. Well, what do you mean

804
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:08,320
Speaker 1: He's going to become a bully? You know that doesn't

805
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 1: really know that he wants to become the people that

806
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:14,440
Speaker 1: he's scared of that are picking on him. I guess

807
00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 1: or at least become as tough or tough. Yeah, like

808
00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 1: he thinks he's so weak, and like the thing he's

809
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:23,000
Speaker 1: scared of is probably fighting, and he wants to be

810
00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 1: able to do it. Yeah, able running into the cables

811
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 1: to handle confrontation. Ah, confrontation, that's probably what he's scared of.

812
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:34,919
Speaker 1: It is funny to handle confrontation with a leg kick.

813
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:39,480
Speaker 1: It's like, oh what, oh my reports and on time

814
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 1: confrontation is so terrifying. People that are good at it,

815
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:45,120
Speaker 1: I don't. I mean, and people that are good at

816
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 1: it are oftentimes like bullies. And people to be good

817
00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 1: at it, I think is to do it, uh in

818
00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 1: the best way, but like or to do it thoughtfully

819
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:58,319
Speaker 1: and like think about it before you do it. People

820
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 1: that you know just snapped a confrontation and not usually

821
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 1: the people I admire. There's say, there's a way to

822
00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:08,239
Speaker 1: do it where I'm not good at it? I mean, yeah,

823
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:11,279
Speaker 1: I mean they're a wild boy. Like I got it

824
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:15,040
Speaker 1: the other day when we were late for the airport.

825
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:17,719
Speaker 1: When we were at the airport and there were people

826
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:18,800
Speaker 1: in front of us and we were going to be

827
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 1: late for the plane, asked those people in front of us,

828
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:25,319
Speaker 1: Andrew stepped up and asked the people in front of

829
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 1: us when we were checking our bags because we were

830
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:28,719
Speaker 1: running late, if we could go in front of them

831
00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 1: because we were running late, which is a very very

832
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:34,520
Speaker 1: few people are able to do that. I did it

833
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:37,719
Speaker 1: attacked and like, yeah, it was very nice the way

834
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:40,759
Speaker 1: he did it. Old man, look at me again, motherfucker,

835
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:43,680
Speaker 1: look at me. And they were so nice even though

836
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:45,279
Speaker 1: you said that to them, because they were hard of

837
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 1: hearing and they were they were just like, oh, sure,

838
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,279
Speaker 1: we're here early, and you were, you know, like you

839
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:54,759
Speaker 1: probably assessed them at first. They're an older couple. They

840
00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:57,120
Speaker 1: didn't seem frantic or like nervous, so it didn't look

841
00:43:57,160 --> 00:44:00,160
Speaker 1: like they were in a hurry we were. And I

842
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 1: I really admired that because it, um, it's not easy

843
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:06,280
Speaker 1: to do, and when you're running late for the airport,

844
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 1: you just feel so foolish and you feel like so

845
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:12,600
Speaker 1: annoying and like frazzled, and to like beg people to

846
00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:14,280
Speaker 1: let you go in front of you at the line,

847
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:16,360
Speaker 1: it should be a lot easier than that. We should

848
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:19,279
Speaker 1: just know as a as as people that you let

849
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:22,319
Speaker 1: people ahead. If that guy was an at like if

850
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:24,880
Speaker 1: he turned around, goes, no, I'm we're actually kind of

851
00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 1: late to I don't know what I like. That's when

852
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:30,400
Speaker 1: I get that's when it doesn't work out, you know,

853
00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:33,840
Speaker 1: That's where I would step yea, honestly, if he was,

854
00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:36,839
Speaker 1: He goes, you should have gotten here early. We were.

855
00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:38,799
Speaker 1: This is just the way it is. I would have gone.

856
00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:41,000
Speaker 1: Have you ever been late for anything in your life? Sir?

857
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:43,319
Speaker 1: Have you ever have the events in your life never

858
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:47,399
Speaker 1: lead you, based on whether you were negligent or not,

859
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:49,839
Speaker 1: led you to be late? And you wish someone would

860
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:52,920
Speaker 1: have extended this to you? Have you never? Has that

861
00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:57,919
Speaker 1: never happened? That's what I would have said, where were

862
00:44:57,920 --> 00:45:01,080
Speaker 1: you thirty years ago? I wish someone would have done

863
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:02,839
Speaker 1: that for you, sir? And guess what you can do

864
00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:05,000
Speaker 1: that for me today? Have you let us go in

865
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 1: front of you like that? The initial one is scary

866
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 1: to me, but once someone has given me reason to

867
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:15,480
Speaker 1: be confronational, I'll get in there. And I don't love it,

868
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:19,240
Speaker 1: but that's when I also respect to the old person.

869
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:23,840
Speaker 1: Two uh, that has patience and I know that or

870
00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:27,160
Speaker 1: was that sign or occur? No? Seinfeld when he's at

871
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 1: He's like, how are you not thinking? About your death

872
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:34,719
Speaker 1: every day. They also did a thing where, um, they

873
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 1: realized Jerry's parents were shoplifting, and she was just like,

874
00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:42,759
Speaker 1: I'm old you like my way out kind of thing.

875
00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:45,399
Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean it was very nice, but yeah,

876
00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:47,480
Speaker 1: there is a way to like, there's a way people

877
00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:50,480
Speaker 1: do conflict where they don't raise their voice. They raise

878
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:53,360
Speaker 1: their voice just enough where if you go, why are

879
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:57,399
Speaker 1: you yelling, like I'm not yelling? Remember, yeah, go ahead,

880
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:03,759
Speaker 1: go ahead, you go, okay, stopping so confrontational. There's a

881
00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:08,319
Speaker 1: there's a way I feel which I would love to

882
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:12,680
Speaker 1: achieve and learn how to be more assertive verse aggressive

883
00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:18,879
Speaker 1: and assertive. This is going into something like at full height, calm,

884
00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:22,480
Speaker 1: having confidence and just you know, being able to settle

885
00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 1: the situation in like a very diplomatic manner. And then

886
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:31,480
Speaker 1: there's aggressive where it's like very emotional right, or it's

887
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:36,200
Speaker 1: there's the i'm sorry, I'm so sorry, like cowering before

888
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:39,279
Speaker 1: you even ask, I'm really sorry to bother you with this.

889
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:42,520
Speaker 1: And then when the person doesn't say it's okay, and

890
00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:46,879
Speaker 1: you say sorry, fuck you, honestly hate that fuck you.

891
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:49,400
Speaker 1: I dealt with this woman that was at the in

892
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 1: the lobby of this hotel and I had to store

893
00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:54,680
Speaker 1: my bags in this closet because I had to go

894
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:57,640
Speaker 1: run and get lunch and my car was you know,

895
00:46:57,719 --> 00:46:59,839
Speaker 1: I I didn't have a hotel room anymore. We checked out,

896
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 1: which is standard procedure at any hotel. Store the bags,

897
00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:05,839
Speaker 1: and I had to get something out of my bag.

898
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:07,480
Speaker 1: She is in a lobby, there's no one checking in

899
00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 1: it is, there's nothing that's going on, and I'm like,

900
00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:12,960
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I forgot there's something in one of

901
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:15,080
Speaker 1: my bags that I have to grab. Can I get

902
00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 1: in there real quick and just grab it? And she

903
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:20,800
Speaker 1: just grabs the key and just starts walking towards the closet,

904
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:24,360
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, I'm so sorry, thank you nothing nothing.

905
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:27,359
Speaker 1: I'm in there digging around. I know what's in here.

906
00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:30,840
Speaker 1: Two seconds. So sorry. So I'm so like, just me

907
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:34,279
Speaker 1: just begging for her to say it's okay, nothing, thank

908
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:36,200
Speaker 1: you so much. Finally get it. Thank you so much.

909
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:43,239
Speaker 1: I really appreciate it. Thank you nothing wild wild. I mean,

910
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:46,160
Speaker 1: I could not believe it. I think it's so rude.

911
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:49,879
Speaker 1: And you know, why do I need that? Because I

912
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:54,879
Speaker 1: just because I did feel bad there. Yeah, I know,

913
00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:59,000
Speaker 1: I didn't feel that she she has her own ship

914
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:02,759
Speaker 1: obviously going on, and we could say that right, yes, um,

915
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:07,440
Speaker 1: for sure, you know she sees you. Was she older? No, No,

916
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:10,759
Speaker 1: she just wasn't she was She was probably having a

917
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:13,120
Speaker 1: bad day and she probably didn't care for my like

918
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:17,280
Speaker 1: she probably Um, you know some of these some women

919
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 1: out there, like never say sorry, don't ever say I'm sorry. Women,

920
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 1: all we do is apologize. Stop saying sorry. It's like

921
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 1: she might be one of those girls. That's like when

922
00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:28,000
Speaker 1: she hears a woman say it, she's just like so

923
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 1: disappointed and how I'm a bad feminist because I apologize.

924
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:35,319
Speaker 1: It's like I'm not apologizing for my existence. I'm apologizing

925
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 1: because I want you to like me because my mom

926
00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:42,320
Speaker 1: drank a lot. Yeah, I'm sorry that, Like I'm working

927
00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:44,600
Speaker 1: on myself. I don't want stop this whole thing of

928
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:49,120
Speaker 1: like women never say sorry, stop your week. If you

929
00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:54,080
Speaker 1: say sorry, especially in business, never apologize, It's like fuck you.

930
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:57,480
Speaker 1: But what if you turned it around and instead of saying, oh,

931
00:48:57,520 --> 00:48:59,080
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, so sorry, like at the end, you

932
00:48:59,120 --> 00:49:01,080
Speaker 1: just said thank you so much for your time or

933
00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:04,239
Speaker 1: just thanks for going out of the way I say

934
00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:06,880
Speaker 1: instead of sorry, But I just don't think it shows

935
00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 1: as much because what if they have assertive What what if?

936
00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 1: But what if you can't thank someone until they've given

937
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:17,400
Speaker 1: it to you. So if I'm going up to say

938
00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:20,360
Speaker 1: I have to get into my bag, may I please

939
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 1: get back in that closet? Um I could say I

940
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:29,400
Speaker 1: would really appreciate your patients while I dig through this bag,

941
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:32,080
Speaker 1: that's just so much. I just rather say sorry, I'm

942
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:35,320
Speaker 1: really sorry. I exist. Well. I think there's a there's

943
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 1: like a way to do for me when I hear assertiveness,

944
00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:41,960
Speaker 1: it's like nails on a chalkboard for me when like

945
00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:44,160
Speaker 1: someone like let's say you're late to your flight and

946
00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 1: you go up to the take a counter and this

947
00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 1: assertive dad goten top and he goes, look my family. Okay,

948
00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:56,879
Speaker 1: exactly all right, so let me look my family. You

949
00:49:56,920 --> 00:49:59,839
Speaker 1: are responding to aggressiveness. No, but I think people think

950
00:49:59,840 --> 00:50:04,080
Speaker 1: that dessertive when when someone's taking charge of the situation,

951
00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:06,839
Speaker 1: and sometimes people listen. It's like when you talk like

952
00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:09,880
Speaker 1: this and you pause and you think everyone's waiting for

953
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:14,920
Speaker 1: your for your magical thought. I don't know, I don't know.

954
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 1: I just think people anyone that thinks they're more important

955
00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:20,480
Speaker 1: than they are just annoys me. Yeah, and so like,

956
00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:22,239
Speaker 1: I don't know, I feel like I'm pretty damn good

957
00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:24,000
Speaker 1: when I go up to a ticket counter and handle

958
00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:27,319
Speaker 1: like a situation like that, where like you don't have

959
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:32,080
Speaker 1: to be like I, I'm in control. I know that

960
00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:35,279
Speaker 1: being mean to people at ticket counters and being a

961
00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:38,440
Speaker 1: bitch and like being aggressive does not get them to

962
00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:41,880
Speaker 1: give you what you want. What does is being kind

963
00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:44,759
Speaker 1: and understanding that their job fucking sucks and that they

964
00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:47,960
Speaker 1: don't owe you anything and that they can maybe do

965
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:52,840
Speaker 1: you a favor. And you know, it's it's not yelling

966
00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:54,520
Speaker 1: at Someone's never going to get you what you want.

967
00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:57,000
Speaker 1: I've never seen it work. Any Karen who's yelling and

968
00:50:57,120 --> 00:51:00,040
Speaker 1: being filmed has she ever gotten what she wants? It

969
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:02,840
Speaker 1: just you know, I understand why it happens, because you

970
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 1: get so embarrassed by your kind of anger in their

971
00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:08,440
Speaker 1: response to it, and they make you feel crazy, and

972
00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:10,279
Speaker 1: so you get even more mad because you just are

973
00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:13,320
Speaker 1: trying to I'm not I'm shouldn't be embarrassed. I'm angry,

974
00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:16,880
Speaker 1: like and it's like I'm panicking. Why are you not panicking?

975
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:19,239
Speaker 1: It's like because I'm not getting on a flight. I

976
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:21,839
Speaker 1: don't like my job. I'm driving home in like four hours.

977
00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:26,000
Speaker 1: We were behind a desk and like making you know,

978
00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 1: you did great the other day when our car, our

979
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:30,440
Speaker 1: rental car wasn't there on time. You like ended up

980
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:33,680
Speaker 1: becoming friends with everyone in there. Oh yeah, they will.

981
00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:35,960
Speaker 1: They recognize me, so that always takes it down and

982
00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:38,759
Speaker 1: not they didn't recognize me. They just go because I

983
00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:41,839
Speaker 1: have my guitar, They're like, you play music, and I go,

984
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:44,760
Speaker 1: it's just a hobby. And they're like, what's your Instagram?

985
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:46,880
Speaker 1: Do you do your music on Instagram? And I was

986
00:51:46,920 --> 00:51:49,520
Speaker 1: like no, and they're like what's your And I'm like,

987
00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:52,440
Speaker 1: I'm a comedian, Like I think I volunteered because I

988
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:56,000
Speaker 1: was trying to get a little bit of like they

989
00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:59,319
Speaker 1: fucking at this rental car place, they don't I go.

990
00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:01,600
Speaker 1: They even admitted, they go, we're not paid enough to

991
00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:05,319
Speaker 1: like honestly to work hard. And I'm like, I'm with you.

992
00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 1: I go, that's the problem with our world is like

993
00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:10,920
Speaker 1: I don't blame you guys like for the for they go.

994
00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:13,279
Speaker 1: The guys washing the cars out there don't even they

995
00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:17,479
Speaker 1: make nothing. They make minimum wage to wash cars and

996
00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:19,680
Speaker 1: they're supposed to get through three in an hour. They

997
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:23,440
Speaker 1: don't because they're they're not there. They could if it's

998
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:25,240
Speaker 1: not this job, they could go get this job anyway,

999
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 1: Like there's always a job that will pay this much.

1000
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:29,360
Speaker 1: This one is just one of them, so they have

1001
00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:32,239
Speaker 1: no incentive to actually do the work. I go, do

1002
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:34,800
Speaker 1: they get tips? They go. They don't ever interact with customers,

1003
00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:36,879
Speaker 1: so they have no chance to get tips. And we're

1004
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:39,360
Speaker 1: dependent on those cars. So we get through people and

1005
00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:41,160
Speaker 1: we promise cars that are supposed to be done, and

1006
00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:42,799
Speaker 1: they we can't get them to work harder because they

1007
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:44,839
Speaker 1: don't make enough. And I go, I don't blame them,

1008
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:46,960
Speaker 1: and they don't blame them either, and I was just

1009
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:49,600
Speaker 1: like and then um yeah. And then they looked me

1010
00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:51,759
Speaker 1: up on Instagram. And the funny thing is the guy goes,

1011
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:55,319
Speaker 1: oh my god, I've watched you, like he talked to

1012
00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:57,640
Speaker 1: me for a really long time before he realized that

1013
00:52:57,680 --> 00:52:59,440
Speaker 1: I was the girl in the black dress with the

1014
00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 1: lightning bolt on it. That he walks my degenerate special

1015
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:05,959
Speaker 1: just because of the dress. The power of dressing sexy.

1016
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:08,280
Speaker 1: It gets people to watch you and then not remember

1017
00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:14,399
Speaker 1: that dress. I flew that dress. I forgot it. That's

1018
00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:21,919
Speaker 1: right at twelve pm. That was okay, it looked great

1019
00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:25,799
Speaker 1: and that's sorry. That is like fire. Thanks man, you

1020
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:28,960
Speaker 1: helped me ddit it too. It was so good. Um okay,

1021
00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:30,440
Speaker 1: let me think. And you were there for the taping.

1022
00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:37,040
Speaker 1: You're the only one there were about that. Everyone seemed

1023
00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:39,239
Speaker 1: on edge. I guess people are nervous. We were like

1024
00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:41,360
Speaker 1: in a green room in a tent outside and it

1025
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:44,600
Speaker 1: was in Vegas, and it was like a weird setting.

1026
00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:46,640
Speaker 1: It was like a you know, the degenerates, like you

1027
00:53:46,719 --> 00:53:48,719
Speaker 1: gotta be dirty, Like they didn't have us hang out

1028
00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 1: with each other. We were kind of just like a

1029
00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:51,880
Speaker 1: weird group of comics that didn't really know each other.

1030
00:53:51,960 --> 00:53:54,239
Speaker 1: We all had like blankets because we were freezing. Yeah,

1031
00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:57,200
Speaker 1: it was. It was a weird night. H um Olivia Newton.

1032
00:53:57,320 --> 00:54:03,320
Speaker 1: John admits that physical lyrics were raunchy for nineteen Physical Physical.

1033
00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:06,239
Speaker 1: Everyone knows the chorus, but you want to know what

1034
00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:09,759
Speaker 1: the first verse? Yeah, I'm saying all the things that

1035
00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:12,800
Speaker 1: I know you'll like making good conversation. I gotta handle

1036
00:54:12,840 --> 00:54:15,359
Speaker 1: you just right, you know what I mean. I took

1037
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 1: you to an intimate restaurant, then to a suggestive movie.

1038
00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:20,879
Speaker 1: It sounds like a guy who was written for a guy.

1039
00:54:21,000 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 1: There's nothing left to talk about unless it's horizontally, and

1040
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 1: then the second verses even is more creepy. I've been patient,

1041
00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:32,440
Speaker 1: I've been good. I tried to keep my hands on

1042
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:36,279
Speaker 1: the table. It's getting hard, this holding back. If you

1043
00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:39,680
Speaker 1: know what I mean, I'm sure you'll understand my point

1044
00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:42,279
Speaker 1: of view. We know each other mentally. You've got to

1045
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:45,160
Speaker 1: know that you're bringing out the animal and me. I

1046
00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:47,640
Speaker 1: love it, but it definitely was written for a man

1047
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:49,600
Speaker 1: to saying, yeah, I feel yeah. I think it was

1048
00:54:50,320 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 1: the first hard part too. I'm getting hard. Yeah, the

1049
00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:56,480
Speaker 1: the hard like being difficult, Like God, he got so

1050
00:54:56,560 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 1: difficult the other night. No, I think he's saying, is

1051
00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:06,200
Speaker 1: Dick's hard? I mean, it's on Tandra, but it's definitely

1052
00:55:06,520 --> 00:55:09,680
Speaker 1: tried to keep my hand on the table. It's getting hard.

1053
00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:13,879
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, exactly. You really think that they said it's

1054
00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:17,319
Speaker 1: hard explicitly in the song and it's Olivia Newton John

1055
00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:22,719
Speaker 1: Sandy from Greece. What that for a woman to sing?

1056
00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:26,000
Speaker 1: If that's what they meant explicit I was so excited

1057
00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:29,040
Speaker 1: about it. Oh my god, that's funny. Well, the lyrics

1058
00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:32,240
Speaker 1: to the ones I heard recently that I started really

1059
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:36,440
Speaker 1: listening to girl. I want to make you sweat, sweat

1060
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:40,000
Speaker 1: so you can't sweat no more. And when you cry out,

1061
00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:44,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna push it some or what And when you

1062
00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 1: cry out, I'm gonna push it, push it some more. Elementary?

1063
00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 1: We did? We did? We did. We talked about this

1064
00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:58,239
Speaker 1: in the car on the way, you know, we talked

1065
00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:00,520
Speaker 1: about here on the podcast. Oh we did. Okay, Sorry

1066
00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:03,280
Speaker 1: I brought up in the car. I'm gonna grab a knife,

1067
00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:08,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna stabbing. I'm so into that song. I'm horny

1068
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:11,480
Speaker 1: for that song. It's like one of my favorite songs. Now,

1069
00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:14,760
Speaker 1: what are some other songs that are like very sexual

1070
00:56:14,840 --> 00:56:18,080
Speaker 1: that you're like, whoa that gets me juiced up? Um?

1071
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:20,640
Speaker 1: What's the one where I think you're on the counter?

1072
00:56:20,920 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 1: It wasn't me. Yeah, that's about like infidelity and gas lighting. Uh.

1073
00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:30,960
Speaker 1: But I'm trying to think of ones that I'm like, yeah,

1074
00:56:31,040 --> 00:56:34,480
Speaker 1: the song is good, uh, like in terms of like

1075
00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:37,280
Speaker 1: explicit explicit lyrics. But I'm trying to think of songs

1076
00:56:37,280 --> 00:56:41,640
Speaker 1: that like make me like horny. You know what's horny? U? Uh?

1077
00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:44,400
Speaker 1: Bell Biv de Vaux had some horny songs back in

1078
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 1: the day you were doing you were singing that the

1079
00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:52,000
Speaker 1: people that sing that song, you know what I mean? Yeah? Yeah,

1080
00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:55,359
Speaker 1: and then r Kelly unfortunately you know whatever happened though,

1081
00:56:55,480 --> 00:56:59,279
Speaker 1: But my body is telling me no, no, no, my

1082
00:56:59,280 --> 00:57:02,160
Speaker 1: my brain is my heart is telling me no. But

1083
00:57:02,280 --> 00:57:07,000
Speaker 1: my body, my body's telling me yes. I don't see

1084
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:09,920
Speaker 1: nothing wrong. But is there anything that you listen to

1085
00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:11,800
Speaker 1: that you go, oh my god, that's so hot. But

1086
00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:14,279
Speaker 1: probably when a woman sings, I would guess like any

1087
00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:17,840
Speaker 1: woman singing about Eva Brothers has a song called I

1088
00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 1: Wish I was and it's it's not sexual. Yeah, m

1089
00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:26,160
Speaker 1: I wish I had a wet vagina. It's weird saying

1090
00:57:29,160 --> 00:57:32,480
Speaker 1: John wrote it for herself. Yeah, but she aged out

1091
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:37,200
Speaker 1: of it. Apparently, let's get a physical physical go over

1092
00:57:37,360 --> 00:57:41,200
Speaker 1: and step on the scale and try to be thinner.

1093
00:57:41,760 --> 00:57:45,640
Speaker 1: Then you're gonna have that thing hit your knee. It's

1094
00:57:45,680 --> 00:57:51,600
Speaker 1: gonna test your reflexes about smoking and drinking. That's the

1095
00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:54,920
Speaker 1: song about getting a physical I love that song You

1096
00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:59,000
Speaker 1: got a cough when I grab your ball skin, Yeah

1097
00:57:59,000 --> 00:58:03,040
Speaker 1: I have. I should make up corny songs and shared

1098
00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:06,440
Speaker 1: on Spotify first, because there are there are definitely songs

1099
00:58:06,440 --> 00:58:09,760
Speaker 1: that I just am like so juiced up for which

1100
00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:11,960
Speaker 1: one I can't even I can look at myself. We

1101
00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:14,000
Speaker 1: gotta go take a break. Let's come back and let

1102
00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:20,800
Speaker 1: people know what I'm to stop for. Alright. So, um,

1103
00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:25,360
Speaker 1: we're gonna get to uh, you know, our sports moment.

1104
00:58:25,400 --> 00:58:27,440
Speaker 1: But I just want to share a song that I

1105
00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:30,840
Speaker 1: might be a little bit horned up for, and I'm

1106
00:58:30,840 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 1: gonna go with I just have to look at my

1107
00:58:34,640 --> 00:58:42,040
Speaker 1: um oh god, um solo Frank Ocean, hand me a

1108
00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:45,400
Speaker 1: twent dirty dancing by myself going off tabs that acid

1109
00:58:46,000 --> 00:58:49,120
Speaker 1: a circle, watch my jagger. Can't lose my jacket and

1110
00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:53,480
Speaker 1: hit it so low one time, I'm too loud in public. Okay.

1111
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:55,200
Speaker 1: So it gets to the part where it's like he

1112
00:58:55,320 --> 00:58:57,640
Speaker 1: just wants to he's alone and he wants to hook

1113
00:58:57,680 --> 00:59:01,280
Speaker 1: up with this girl, and like, just oh, really he's gay.

1114
00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:05,640
Speaker 1: I thought he was by Oh well, I'm picturing him

1115
00:59:05,640 --> 00:59:07,960
Speaker 1: talking to me during this song, so just let him

1116
00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:13,160
Speaker 1: talking to me. That one's that's the first one that

1117
00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:14,800
Speaker 1: came up on my list, And I'm like, I that

1118
00:59:14,920 --> 00:59:22,120
Speaker 1: song is sexy. Yes, um, you know, uh New Lights

1119
00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:24,480
Speaker 1: John Mayer that can sometimes be a little bit sexy.

1120
00:59:24,920 --> 00:59:27,440
Speaker 1: Back seat of my jeep. L O cool j M.

1121
00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:29,600
Speaker 1: I hooked up to that in the back of my car.

1122
00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:32,439
Speaker 1: It was pretty on the nose, but it worked. Oh

1123
00:59:32,560 --> 00:59:36,240
Speaker 1: e t by Katy Perry and Kanye West. Kiss me,

1124
00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:39,640
Speaker 1: kiss me, infect me with your love, and fill me

1125
00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:42,560
Speaker 1: with your poyson to me, I want to be a

1126
00:59:42,640 --> 00:59:51,560
Speaker 1: victim ready for affection. Uh, tonight, let's be lovers? No,

1127
00:59:51,720 --> 00:59:55,360
Speaker 1: thank you, come on, just give it a chance. You

1128
00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:56,960
Speaker 1: know what, A guy ruined that song for me by

1129
00:59:56,960 --> 00:59:59,440
Speaker 1: putting it on a playlist for me of like his

1130
00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:02,520
Speaker 1: love for being And now I'm so like disenchanted by

1131
01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:06,040
Speaker 1: that person that I'm like, fuck you ruined lover laid

1132
01:00:06,080 --> 01:00:09,880
Speaker 1: Down for me. That's a different song though. Wait, what

1133
01:00:09,920 --> 01:00:14,920
Speaker 1: did you say Let's be lovers? Oh? Oh, please do

1134
01:00:15,040 --> 01:00:21,880
Speaker 1: not say goodbye? Sorry? Okay, lover Laydown, Yeah, lover Laydown

1135
01:00:21,960 --> 01:00:24,600
Speaker 1: is nice. But yeah, let's get to the sports moment.

1136
01:00:25,600 --> 01:00:31,680
Speaker 1: Tears Andrew's weekly sports moment. Man, I was gaming not

1137
01:00:33,040 --> 01:00:36,640
Speaker 1: oh man, Okay, this is um a story that I

1138
01:00:36,680 --> 01:00:38,720
Speaker 1: don't know if you'll like, but we'll figure it out.

1139
01:00:39,160 --> 01:00:42,000
Speaker 1: Aaron Rodgers who you know? I mean, I don't know

1140
01:00:42,040 --> 01:00:48,600
Speaker 1: him personally, but I know Melaney's and he's buried to

1141
01:00:48,680 --> 01:00:52,840
Speaker 1: Shaley Woodley. Yes, and he has a brother, Jordan Rodgers,

1142
01:00:52,840 --> 01:00:55,200
Speaker 1: who is a bachelor, and they no longer talk because

1143
01:00:55,200 --> 01:01:00,240
Speaker 1: of probably religious reasons. Yeah, slams Aaron Rodgers slam ms

1144
01:01:00,280 --> 01:01:04,920
Speaker 1: woke canceled culture after criticism over postgame trash talk on

1145
01:01:04,960 --> 01:01:08,240
Speaker 1: a hot mic. He got caught on a mic apparently

1146
01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:10,600
Speaker 1: he threw a touchdown or the game ended, and this

1147
01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:13,560
Speaker 1: lady in the crowd was giving him double birds. And

1148
01:01:13,600 --> 01:01:16,480
Speaker 1: he goes and he's playing Chicago and Green Bay Chicago

1149
01:01:16,600 --> 01:01:20,720
Speaker 1: big rivalry, they're very close to each other. I own you.

1150
01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:25,040
Speaker 1: I fucking own you, Chicago, I fucking own you. And

1151
01:01:25,080 --> 01:01:28,040
Speaker 1: people are making a big deal of I guess using

1152
01:01:28,080 --> 01:01:35,360
Speaker 1: the term own. I guess. I mean it's you know, stop,

1153
01:01:35,480 --> 01:01:39,840
Speaker 1: I mean, what's she a black woman? I don't know.

1154
01:01:40,120 --> 01:01:41,840
Speaker 1: I don't know about that. That could be. That could

1155
01:01:42,160 --> 01:01:44,439
Speaker 1: And if he said it right to her face, no, no,

1156
01:01:44,480 --> 01:01:47,680
Speaker 1: well you're saying it like in the term of I

1157
01:01:47,680 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 1: owned Chicago, and Tom Brady actually wrote it's nice to

1158
01:01:51,240 --> 01:01:54,520
Speaker 1: find out that you're a shareholder now and like he

1159
01:01:54,560 --> 01:01:57,440
Speaker 1: made a joke of it. But Rogers was asked about it,

1160
01:01:57,480 --> 01:01:59,680
Speaker 1: and he talks about canceled culture. He says, and there's

1161
01:01:59,680 --> 01:02:01,520
Speaker 1: a camp still culture at the same time. He goes,

1162
01:02:01,560 --> 01:02:04,320
Speaker 1: there's a PC woke culture that exists, and there's a

1163
01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:06,520
Speaker 1: cancel culture at the same time. And it's based on

1164
01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:10,280
Speaker 1: people's own feelings of maybe personal misery or distaste for

1165
01:02:10,320 --> 01:02:13,640
Speaker 1: their own situations or life, or just the enjoyment of

1166
01:02:13,640 --> 01:02:18,760
Speaker 1: holding other people down underneath that. He really owned that sentence. Yeah, no,

1167
01:02:18,960 --> 01:02:21,560
Speaker 1: He's absolutely right. When you engage in this culture, you're

1168
01:02:21,560 --> 01:02:24,320
Speaker 1: immersed in it, and you're in it so much. For me,

1169
01:02:24,400 --> 01:02:28,840
Speaker 1: when I took time and the immersed, immersed, immersed, immersed,

1170
01:02:29,120 --> 01:02:31,480
Speaker 1: I think you said, imersed in it. Oh no, I

1171
01:02:31,520 --> 01:02:36,200
Speaker 1: just didn't hit them, okay, immersed, Okay, this sentence is

1172
01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:38,320
Speaker 1: interesting for me. I think you'll like, he goes. For me,

1173
01:02:38,360 --> 01:02:40,200
Speaker 1: when I took time in the obvious sason to work

1174
01:02:40,240 --> 01:02:43,080
Speaker 1: on myself and to work on my mental status and

1175
01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:45,320
Speaker 1: to get myself in the right frame of mind, I

1176
01:02:45,400 --> 01:02:49,720
Speaker 1: was being selfish or non responsive, selfish and entitled. When

1177
01:02:49,720 --> 01:02:51,919
Speaker 1: I came back and said what I said, the same

1178
01:02:51,960 --> 01:02:57,240
Speaker 1: sentiments were shared. So yeah, I mean, well, I know

1179
01:02:57,280 --> 01:03:02,440
Speaker 1: I like that sentence. Why did you because is because

1180
01:03:03,280 --> 01:03:08,040
Speaker 1: the media. Really like, if he's not responding because he's

1181
01:03:08,080 --> 01:03:11,360
Speaker 1: working on his own mental health, you're being selfish to

1182
01:03:11,440 --> 01:03:13,960
Speaker 1: take care of yourself. But if you had cancer and

1183
01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:16,600
Speaker 1: he's like, hey, I gotta take these three months off,

1184
01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:20,040
Speaker 1: I'm dealing with chemo. Everyone be like your hero battle it. Yeah,

1185
01:03:20,200 --> 01:03:22,480
Speaker 1: please don't let us bug you. Yeah, no one would

1186
01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:27,800
Speaker 1: call you see that. You saw the ted Lasso finale, right, yes,

1187
01:03:27,960 --> 01:03:29,800
Speaker 1: I mean it's all about you know. This whole second

1188
01:03:29,800 --> 01:03:32,760
Speaker 1: season is about ted Lasso the coach um having a

1189
01:03:32,800 --> 01:03:36,960
Speaker 1: panic attack and getting help for his mental stress, and

1190
01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:40,560
Speaker 1: then someone close to him feeling like you abandoned me

1191
01:03:40,640 --> 01:03:43,400
Speaker 1: because you're working on yourself, Like I didn't you, You

1192
01:03:43,400 --> 01:03:46,959
Speaker 1: weren't there for me because you just disappeared when really

1193
01:03:46,960 --> 01:03:49,400
Speaker 1: he was working on himself. So it's a very it's

1194
01:03:49,440 --> 01:03:52,840
Speaker 1: almost exactly the same situation of like, now there's this

1195
01:03:52,880 --> 01:03:56,040
Speaker 1: backlash against him, um from someone who used to love

1196
01:03:56,160 --> 01:03:58,720
Speaker 1: him on on the show because he worked on himself

1197
01:03:58,760 --> 01:04:02,880
Speaker 1: and um, god, I loved ted Lasso, and things like

1198
01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:06,400
Speaker 1: an Aaron Rodgers saying stuff like this, because it's gonna

1199
01:04:06,440 --> 01:04:09,480
Speaker 1: be very exciting when this when we see the results

1200
01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:13,560
Speaker 1: of men who have never even thought about taking care

1201
01:04:13,600 --> 01:04:16,960
Speaker 1: of their mental health, starting to embrace it and almost

1202
01:04:17,120 --> 01:04:19,920
Speaker 1: think it's like, oh, that's what athletes do, Like I'm

1203
01:04:19,920 --> 01:04:22,120
Speaker 1: going to do that. Like when we see the results

1204
01:04:22,160 --> 01:04:25,840
Speaker 1: of that in the next decade or and on, it's

1205
01:04:25,840 --> 01:04:28,880
Speaker 1: gonna be it's gonna be so good for we. We

1206
01:04:29,040 --> 01:04:31,360
Speaker 1: we're gonna need it. I think there's something because things

1207
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:35,120
Speaker 1: are getting shittier. I think what will happen is, uh,

1208
01:04:35,240 --> 01:04:38,280
Speaker 1: someone will have issues early on and deal with them

1209
01:04:38,360 --> 01:04:42,080
Speaker 1: quicker because an athlete does it, rather than our generation

1210
01:04:42,080 --> 01:04:44,200
Speaker 1: where we waited till we had a full on mental

1211
01:04:44,240 --> 01:04:46,840
Speaker 1: breakdown to be like, oh, I think I need a therapist.

1212
01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:51,520
Speaker 1: Hopefully they'll like attack it earlier on, yeah, you don't.

1213
01:04:52,360 --> 01:04:54,720
Speaker 1: Hopefully it becomes more norm though, to deal with it

1214
01:04:55,040 --> 01:04:58,120
Speaker 1: before it becomes something that you can't deal with. But

1215
01:04:58,120 --> 01:05:02,120
Speaker 1: it's so embarrassing to deal with something before where it gets. Yeah,

1216
01:05:02,160 --> 01:05:05,000
Speaker 1: it's like getting a it's literally like getting a cancer

1217
01:05:05,080 --> 01:05:08,600
Speaker 1: check up every four months, just in case people go

1218
01:05:08,680 --> 01:05:11,120
Speaker 1: you're crazy, like what are you waiting for? Or it's

1219
01:05:11,200 --> 01:05:13,960
Speaker 1: me saying, you know, a week ago, Hey, I just

1220
01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:17,040
Speaker 1: don't want to do this writer's meeting like that I

1221
01:05:17,040 --> 01:05:20,600
Speaker 1: had today because I just I'm tired right now, and

1222
01:05:20,640 --> 01:05:22,640
Speaker 1: I just in the future, I might be tired that day,

1223
01:05:22,680 --> 01:05:24,680
Speaker 1: so I'm just gonna sleep in that day. That makes

1224
01:05:24,680 --> 01:05:27,200
Speaker 1: me feel lazy as opposed to like waiting till the

1225
01:05:27,280 --> 01:05:29,520
Speaker 1: last minute and going like I'm looking at my schedule

1226
01:05:29,560 --> 01:05:32,040
Speaker 1: and it's just like I can't. Like that gives me

1227
01:05:32,080 --> 01:05:34,760
Speaker 1: more authority to ask for a break than if I

1228
01:05:34,880 --> 01:05:38,640
Speaker 1: just foresee myself wanting a break, like and I will

1229
01:05:38,680 --> 01:05:40,680
Speaker 1: do you want to say? In ted Lasso, there is

1230
01:05:40,720 --> 01:05:44,080
Speaker 1: a moment where one of the characters is like presents

1231
01:05:44,080 --> 01:05:49,000
Speaker 1: his girlfriend with a six week vacation away and I go,

1232
01:05:50,000 --> 01:05:53,640
Speaker 1: what I was watching with my partner and I was

1233
01:05:53,720 --> 01:05:58,400
Speaker 1: like six weeks and he was like, yeah, you would

1234
01:05:58,400 --> 01:06:01,040
Speaker 1: never do that. I go, No one ever who takes

1235
01:06:01,160 --> 01:06:05,320
Speaker 1: six weeks European six weeks. They take two months off

1236
01:06:05,320 --> 01:06:09,360
Speaker 1: like it's nothing right in if you're in Europe, but

1237
01:06:09,400 --> 01:06:12,120
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure they take they take it insane amount

1238
01:06:12,120 --> 01:06:13,560
Speaker 1: of time off. But it was a little bit weird

1239
01:06:13,600 --> 01:06:15,600
Speaker 1: because he was like, six weeks, we leave tomorrow, and

1240
01:06:15,600 --> 01:06:19,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, she's like, she's back for six weeks in

1241
01:06:19,000 --> 01:06:20,400
Speaker 1: one night. I mean, I could do it because I'm

1242
01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:23,040
Speaker 1: a quick backer. But like most people, especially this girl,

1243
01:06:23,040 --> 01:06:25,560
Speaker 1: she wears a lot of different Bretts in her bun

1244
01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:27,760
Speaker 1: and like always has different accessories. That's gonna be a

1245
01:06:27,760 --> 01:06:30,040
Speaker 1: lot to pack up for six weeks. I love how

1246
01:06:30,040 --> 01:06:33,600
Speaker 1: she handled that conversation. It was I just didn't feel

1247
01:06:33,640 --> 01:06:38,080
Speaker 1: it was realistic. You go away for six weeks, I'll

1248
01:06:38,120 --> 01:06:42,680
Speaker 1: work on me well. I probably fun Jamie, who knows

1249
01:06:43,320 --> 01:06:47,080
Speaker 1: I do love them so much. I think seeing I mean,

1250
01:06:47,080 --> 01:06:48,440
Speaker 1: if you don't watch last time, I'm sorry for this

1251
01:06:48,520 --> 01:06:53,760
Speaker 1: last I talk. But seeing Roy's uh transformation has given

1252
01:06:53,760 --> 01:06:55,680
Speaker 1: me a lot of hope about men in my life.

1253
01:06:55,720 --> 01:06:57,360
Speaker 1: And like, I think a lot of men can see

1254
01:06:57,360 --> 01:07:01,040
Speaker 1: themselves in Roy Kent and where he's come from and

1255
01:07:01,080 --> 01:07:04,000
Speaker 1: how he's now handled conflict and things. This show is

1256
01:07:04,080 --> 01:07:07,040
Speaker 1: so good for men who are angry to watch. If

1257
01:07:07,080 --> 01:07:08,240
Speaker 1: you are a girl out there and you have a

1258
01:07:08,240 --> 01:07:10,320
Speaker 1: man in your life who's angry, it's a sports show

1259
01:07:10,680 --> 01:07:13,800
Speaker 1: and it will make them. Just just just make them

1260
01:07:13,800 --> 01:07:17,919
Speaker 1: watch it, because they will they will unintentionally learn things

1261
01:07:17,960 --> 01:07:21,520
Speaker 1: about them scenes and be like, I just didn't catch that.

1262
01:07:22,080 --> 01:07:24,400
Speaker 1: What did you say. There's a joke there, Yeah, there's

1263
01:07:24,440 --> 01:07:27,320
Speaker 1: a joke there. I think he just cried and said,

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01:07:27,360 --> 01:07:31,479
Speaker 1: I need therapy. It's a joke. Funny. Wait, I sort

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01:07:31,480 --> 01:07:34,520
Speaker 1: of see what sweater she was wearing. It wasn't in

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01:07:34,520 --> 01:07:38,080
Speaker 1: that scene. Um, okay, let's get to our weekly segment

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01:07:38,120 --> 01:07:39,560
Speaker 1: that I love so much. We have a lot to

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01:07:39,560 --> 01:07:48,200
Speaker 1: get through, so let's try to fit it. Fan tracks. Yeah,

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01:07:48,760 --> 01:07:50,640
Speaker 1: fucking pumps me up. I'm not gonna lie. It makes

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01:07:50,640 --> 01:07:52,960
Speaker 1: me want to run through a locker. All right, now,

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01:07:53,080 --> 01:07:57,240
Speaker 1: let's get into it. Run through a locker, hit my

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01:07:57,280 --> 01:08:06,520
Speaker 1: head on it that, you know, to open it up? Yeah? Yeah, alright,

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01:08:06,560 --> 01:08:10,479
Speaker 1: So our first should I read a voicemail or should

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01:08:10,480 --> 01:08:16,960
Speaker 1: I play a voicemail? Or ready to Yeah? Okay, here

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01:08:17,040 --> 01:08:22,760
Speaker 1: comes a voicemail from Emily. Oh my god, all my palette,

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01:08:24,720 --> 01:08:31,080
Speaker 1: I have hazel eyes. So yeah, I remember I got

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01:08:31,120 --> 01:08:35,360
Speaker 1: that palette and I did everything that it told me

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01:08:35,400 --> 01:08:40,719
Speaker 1: to you, and my grandma said, oh wow, you really

1279
01:08:40,720 --> 01:08:43,760
Speaker 1: wearing a lot of make up, remember vividly. But I

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01:08:43,800 --> 01:08:47,120
Speaker 1: knew I loved Tada ship. Thanks for making me remember

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01:08:47,160 --> 01:08:50,680
Speaker 1: that all my palette. It was the first time I

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01:08:50,720 --> 01:08:53,280
Speaker 1: had ever heard of like you paint your lid one shade,

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01:08:53,479 --> 01:08:59,439
Speaker 1: the crease, another shade, and then the bra The company

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01:08:59,520 --> 01:09:02,439
Speaker 1: is alme. But they made an eye pallet for each

1285
01:09:02,560 --> 01:09:04,439
Speaker 1: like whatever color your eyes are to bring out the

1286
01:09:04,479 --> 01:09:06,800
Speaker 1: color the best. And so whatever color your eyes where

1287
01:09:06,840 --> 01:09:09,000
Speaker 1: you bought that palette and it would teach you like

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01:09:09,160 --> 01:09:12,720
Speaker 1: put the lid, make it uh brown, then the then

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01:09:12,880 --> 01:09:15,240
Speaker 1: it's a light then a darker blue in the crease,

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01:09:15,320 --> 01:09:19,080
Speaker 1: and then a lighter blue on the back like your hair. Yeah,

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01:09:19,080 --> 01:09:20,640
Speaker 1: I mean that's essentially what I make up. But as

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01:09:20,680 --> 01:09:22,679
Speaker 1: you make the crease, like you have to do different.

1293
01:09:22,960 --> 01:09:24,599
Speaker 1: But that was the first time I ever heard of

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01:09:24,640 --> 01:09:26,800
Speaker 1: like kind of that kind of contouring I guess for

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01:09:26,800 --> 01:09:29,519
Speaker 1: your eyes. So thanks for I love that she loved

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01:09:29,560 --> 01:09:37,240
Speaker 1: that reference. Okay, next one is from Chase my Bankkay, Nicky, Hey, Andrew, Hey, No,

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01:09:37,400 --> 01:09:41,559
Speaker 1: uh love you guys, love pod massive bestie over here. Anyway,

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01:09:41,640 --> 01:09:44,360
Speaker 1: I just really needed to call in about Subway because

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01:09:44,520 --> 01:09:48,320
Speaker 1: you guys really brought back like this cursed repressed memory

1300
01:09:48,479 --> 01:09:51,200
Speaker 1: when talking about the shredded let, like it really just

1301
01:09:52,439 --> 01:09:54,599
Speaker 1: I really blocked this guy out of my memory. Was amazing.

1302
01:09:54,640 --> 01:09:57,360
Speaker 1: So I was a senior sandwich artist at Subway for

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01:09:57,360 --> 01:10:00,280
Speaker 1: about three years in high school. Yes, senior sandwich artist.

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01:10:00,320 --> 01:10:01,559
Speaker 1: I make a point to say that because there are

1305
01:10:01,560 --> 01:10:06,120
Speaker 1: classes involved. She literally anyway. This man would come in

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01:10:06,240 --> 01:10:08,360
Speaker 1: and order a veggie sub every week, and he just

1307
01:10:08,479 --> 01:10:10,599
Speaker 1: was really creepy, like you know, just you know when

1308
01:10:10,600 --> 01:10:12,680
Speaker 1: you meet somebody and you're like they might be a pedophile.

1309
01:10:13,000 --> 01:10:15,439
Speaker 1: I don't know, like it's just very odd. Jared had

1310
01:10:15,520 --> 01:10:20,519
Speaker 1: to go visit many and glittering like thousand yards stare

1311
01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:23,240
Speaker 1: and order a veggie sub every week, and the amount

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01:10:23,240 --> 01:10:25,360
Speaker 1: of shredded let he would get on his sandwich sneaky

1313
01:10:25,520 --> 01:10:28,280
Speaker 1: like it was disgusting. He would just look me in

1314
01:10:28,320 --> 01:10:29,840
Speaker 1: the eyes every time. I would give him a ton

1315
01:10:29,920 --> 01:10:31,720
Speaker 1: because I knew this man would come in every week

1316
01:10:32,040 --> 01:10:36,479
Speaker 1: and he would always be more, more, more, That's how

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01:10:36,479 --> 01:10:39,120
Speaker 1: he would say it, and I was terrified. So I

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01:10:39,280 --> 01:10:42,519
Speaker 1: just thank you for reminding me of that, and thank

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01:10:42,560 --> 01:10:44,720
Speaker 1: you for reminding me of humble beginnings and how far

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01:10:44,800 --> 01:10:47,040
Speaker 1: we've come. And also, don't worry about that shredded let girl.

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01:10:47,040 --> 01:10:49,320
Speaker 1: I would always rip open another back for him, no hesitation.

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01:10:49,360 --> 01:10:53,120
Speaker 1: If it was you coming in girl, bags on bags

1323
01:10:53,120 --> 01:11:00,040
Speaker 1: of shredded Let this girl love her, this girl of

1324
01:11:00,120 --> 01:11:02,479
Speaker 1: you the best listeners. I've loved both of these calls,

1325
01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:06,479
Speaker 1: you said randomly, yeah and she just picked it up.

1326
01:11:06,840 --> 01:11:09,639
Speaker 1: I want to hear more. I love stories of like

1327
01:11:09,960 --> 01:11:13,000
Speaker 1: customers and the weird things, the recurring customers that they

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01:11:13,000 --> 01:11:15,000
Speaker 1: would order. And I bet someone could call in and

1329
01:11:15,000 --> 01:11:16,840
Speaker 1: talk about me at different points in my life and

1330
01:11:16,880 --> 01:11:18,960
Speaker 1: the weird because I would go places and they'd just

1331
01:11:19,000 --> 01:11:21,439
Speaker 1: be like, all right, get out the lot. Like the

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01:11:21,520 --> 01:11:25,400
Speaker 1: only difference between that guy and you as you say sorry, yes,

1333
01:11:26,360 --> 01:11:32,240
Speaker 1: that's true. More sorry, more sorry more. I read about

1334
01:11:32,520 --> 01:11:36,400
Speaker 1: in the Starbucks subreddit so many weird regulars and what

1335
01:11:36,439 --> 01:11:38,599
Speaker 1: the regulars always get, and like these people that they

1336
01:11:38,640 --> 01:11:40,960
Speaker 1: just see them coming in, they're like, okay, twelve pumps

1337
01:11:41,000 --> 01:11:47,439
Speaker 1: of you know, caramel machiato plus a fizzy water and yeah,

1338
01:11:47,479 --> 01:11:50,559
Speaker 1: they'll they'll do that. They'll literally do like a splash

1339
01:11:50,600 --> 01:11:54,960
Speaker 1: of almond milk, like fifteen pumps of a syrup and

1340
01:11:55,040 --> 01:11:59,080
Speaker 1: like a decaf shot. And it's like that's just what

1341
01:11:59,120 --> 01:12:01,800
Speaker 1: are you doing? Feel like these people light ice very

1342
01:12:01,840 --> 01:12:04,840
Speaker 1: bored people and this is like a highlight of their life.

1343
01:12:04,880 --> 01:12:06,840
Speaker 1: That drink is very expensive. Yeah, maybe they're just rich

1344
01:12:06,920 --> 01:12:09,000
Speaker 1: people that are just like I just think it's like

1345
01:12:09,439 --> 01:12:12,160
Speaker 1: they're one thing that they get to have a little control,

1346
01:12:12,760 --> 01:12:17,640
Speaker 1: a little power. Yeahs like, oh, I'm gonna do seventeen today,

1347
01:12:17,680 --> 01:12:20,400
Speaker 1: like they like maybe like pace around, like what's my

1348
01:12:20,560 --> 01:12:24,840
Speaker 1: order gonna be? Your order has definitely taken a little. Uh,

1349
01:12:25,320 --> 01:12:27,719
Speaker 1: you don't look at my order. I didn't know whose

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01:12:27,720 --> 01:12:29,200
Speaker 1: cup itt was, so I looked at it and I

1351
01:12:29,240 --> 01:12:30,920
Speaker 1: was like, oh, this is my drink. And then I

1352
01:12:30,960 --> 01:12:33,160
Speaker 1: was like, wait a second, that's slightly different than my drink,

1353
01:12:33,200 --> 01:12:36,759
Speaker 1: but very similar. I like what you put in your mouth.

1354
01:12:36,840 --> 01:12:40,439
Speaker 1: You asked you the other day if sugar free vanilla

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01:12:40,520 --> 01:12:42,680
Speaker 1: is good, and you said, why would I get it?

1356
01:12:42,760 --> 01:12:45,000
Speaker 1: I go, he goes, is that good? That drinking? That

1357
01:12:45,040 --> 01:12:47,840
Speaker 1: sugar you always get it? Is that good? And I go, no,

1358
01:12:47,960 --> 01:12:51,440
Speaker 1: it's bad. It was my way of precursing you eventually

1359
01:12:51,479 --> 01:12:54,160
Speaker 1: seen that I got it. Precurse you, motherfucker. No, But

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01:12:54,200 --> 01:12:56,040
Speaker 1: do you understand what I was doing there. I've been

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01:12:56,040 --> 01:12:58,799
Speaker 1: a little bit because I was saying, oh, it's good.

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01:12:58,920 --> 01:13:00,840
Speaker 1: So then later when you you that I order it,

1363
01:13:00,880 --> 01:13:02,960
Speaker 1: we talked about it as opposed to me just ordering

1364
01:13:03,000 --> 01:13:05,840
Speaker 1: it and you go. You can just say I want

1365
01:13:05,880 --> 01:13:08,559
Speaker 1: to try that sometimes we say that, or you can

1366
01:13:08,600 --> 01:13:10,559
Speaker 1: just get it and just be like Nikki, you're so weird.

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01:13:10,640 --> 01:13:13,320
Speaker 1: And that's fine too, because I am okay, what's next?

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01:13:14,520 --> 01:13:19,599
Speaker 1: One is for Andrew from Megan and Leah. Two girls. Hi.

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01:13:21,280 --> 01:13:25,320
Speaker 1: I'm Megan and I'm Leah, and we are best friends

1370
01:13:25,439 --> 01:13:30,080
Speaker 1: in real pod and besties in real life, and we

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01:13:30,200 --> 01:13:33,000
Speaker 1: just wanted to bring attention really quick to the first

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01:13:33,120 --> 01:13:37,680
Speaker 1: video on Andrew's YouTube channel, which is a stellar performance

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01:13:37,800 --> 01:13:40,840
Speaker 1: of a song called Pussy in the Face, and we

1374
01:13:40,840 --> 01:13:43,800
Speaker 1: were just wondering if maybe Andrew could perform at one

1375
01:13:43,800 --> 01:13:46,760
Speaker 1: time on the pod, and honestly if Nikki could be

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01:13:46,840 --> 01:13:51,880
Speaker 1: involved in the performance as well. I thank you so

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01:13:51,960 --> 01:13:54,800
Speaker 1: much for picking this voicemail. We love you guys so much.

1378
01:13:55,040 --> 01:13:58,960
Speaker 1: We love you by Oh my god, I love our

1379
01:13:59,000 --> 01:14:01,360
Speaker 1: listeners so much. No, do you have this cueue? Up?

1380
01:14:02,560 --> 01:14:05,960
Speaker 1: I don't. I thought Andrew was going to sing it. Well,

1381
01:14:06,000 --> 01:14:08,760
Speaker 1: I know that he doesn't memorize him but yeah, well

1382
01:14:08,760 --> 01:14:11,960
Speaker 1: you know, my lyrics are all repetitive. I could I

1383
01:14:11,960 --> 01:14:14,000
Speaker 1: could sing you to songwriting what is this and what's

1384
01:14:14,040 --> 01:14:18,240
Speaker 1: the history of it? Like okay, so crapoh, okay, you know, okay,

1385
01:14:18,360 --> 01:14:22,479
Speaker 1: it's gonna take I had a comedy partner named Crapo

1386
01:14:22,600 --> 01:14:25,639
Speaker 1: who who was a wookie. When I would do one

1387
01:14:25,720 --> 01:14:28,360
Speaker 1: liners as Andy Shallows. I didn't even notice was still

1388
01:14:28,400 --> 01:14:31,559
Speaker 1: on the internet. I'm not even kidding. I'm very rock

1389
01:14:31,640 --> 01:14:59,840
Speaker 1: and roll here, and and I hope you guys hate it.

1390
01:15:00,280 --> 01:15:04,920
Speaker 1: In the babe, the pussy in the pussy in the face,

1391
01:15:13,240 --> 01:15:58,599
Speaker 1: face pussy puddy fight pussy pussy. That is great. Oh

1392
01:15:58,640 --> 01:16:02,320
Speaker 1: my god, what is it over? Whenever you told me

1393
01:16:02,360 --> 01:16:17,720
Speaker 1: to stop? Okay, So to everyone, don't apologize. That was

1394
01:16:17,760 --> 01:16:22,559
Speaker 1: a fun song. It is really fun. Um, what what

1395
01:16:22,720 --> 01:16:26,160
Speaker 1: is the story behind that? Okay? So Crappo is a

1396
01:16:26,200 --> 01:16:30,360
Speaker 1: good musician. He played slide guitar when we did when

1397
01:16:30,400 --> 01:16:32,559
Speaker 1: I would do one liners, and so he had this

1398
01:16:32,640 --> 01:16:35,360
Speaker 1: place where he would perform. He had like a little locker,

1399
01:16:36,360 --> 01:16:39,200
Speaker 1: you know, a little sworde unit, little storage unit where

1400
01:16:39,200 --> 01:16:41,920
Speaker 1: he'd play with his one buddy all the time. So

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01:16:41,960 --> 01:16:46,559
Speaker 1: I came by there, I know, three chords. Yeah from

1402
01:16:46,600 --> 01:16:53,120
Speaker 1: what just dancing pretty hard. We're sitting in our chair. Yeah,

1403
01:16:53,120 --> 01:16:59,600
Speaker 1: I'm out of shape. I think I was rocking pretty hard.

1404
01:17:00,000 --> 01:17:03,400
Speaker 1: That's true. Um anyway, So yeah, I just played that.

1405
01:17:03,439 --> 01:17:06,040
Speaker 1: I put down a camera, a shitty camera on the

1406
01:17:06,160 --> 01:17:10,840
Speaker 1: on the floor, and I those girls brought that up.

1407
01:17:11,200 --> 01:17:13,240
Speaker 1: So funny. How the world works it is. I mean

1408
01:17:13,280 --> 01:17:15,040
Speaker 1: that you leave a video on your YouTube channel and

1409
01:17:15,040 --> 01:17:17,400
Speaker 1: they discovered it. Yeah, it must have come up in

1410
01:17:17,439 --> 01:17:21,000
Speaker 1: their algorithm. I mean I had never maybe I'd watched

1411
01:17:21,000 --> 01:17:23,080
Speaker 1: that years ago. We've been friends for a while now,

1412
01:17:23,320 --> 01:17:26,040
Speaker 1: but um nod. Oh. And then it says Andrew Colin

1413
01:17:26,120 --> 01:17:28,559
Speaker 1: my two lane stabbing. So you put your first video

1414
01:17:28,600 --> 01:17:31,320
Speaker 1: was nine years ago and then your last video, your

1415
01:17:31,400 --> 01:17:34,240
Speaker 1: video after that was six years later. You took a

1416
01:17:34,280 --> 01:17:36,679
Speaker 1: leave of absence. What did you're doing that six years?

1417
01:17:36,960 --> 01:17:41,160
Speaker 1: I found God, I hung out with Aaron Rodgers and

1418
01:17:41,479 --> 01:17:45,080
Speaker 1: the Amazon. I was working on my own mental health Nikki.

1419
01:17:46,040 --> 01:17:49,519
Speaker 1: Let's get to the final thought mental health. I really

1420
01:17:49,520 --> 01:17:52,280
Speaker 1: do like that. Aaron Rodgers said that thing, and it

1421
01:17:52,400 --> 01:17:55,240
Speaker 1: is about like when people want to just like cancel,

1422
01:17:55,560 --> 01:17:59,759
Speaker 1: take it away, like just just don't buy his record

1423
01:17:59,880 --> 01:18:04,360
Speaker 1: or don't like, don't walk like, but don't buy, don't

1424
01:18:04,439 --> 01:18:07,400
Speaker 1: support if you don't if you really don't like this

1425
01:18:07,479 --> 01:18:10,320
Speaker 1: person's art anymore because of how you heard they acted,

1426
01:18:11,200 --> 01:18:13,840
Speaker 1: don't support it. And if you hate a company for

1427
01:18:13,880 --> 01:18:18,880
Speaker 1: giving this person money after they you know, did something bad,

1428
01:18:19,240 --> 01:18:23,320
Speaker 1: don't support that company, Like show your you can you

1429
01:18:23,360 --> 01:18:29,000
Speaker 1: can purchase, like trying to purchase. Yeah, there you go,

1430
01:18:29,080 --> 01:18:33,080
Speaker 1: purchase power. People want people to kill themselves. I think,

1431
01:18:33,160 --> 01:18:35,360
Speaker 1: like that's what they want people, and not to kill

1432
01:18:35,400 --> 01:18:38,000
Speaker 1: themselves maybe, but they just want they want to ruin

1433
01:18:38,040 --> 01:18:40,479
Speaker 1: people's lives. And I've been there before. I've been like

1434
01:18:40,520 --> 01:18:43,599
Speaker 1: a woman who has been scorned and wanted to destroy

1435
01:18:43,640 --> 01:18:46,360
Speaker 1: a man's life and not like kill, like make him

1436
01:18:46,400 --> 01:18:48,960
Speaker 1: want to die, but I've wanted him to feel bad.

1437
01:18:49,360 --> 01:18:55,480
Speaker 1: I've wanted the the intent make someone want to suffer. Um,

1438
01:18:55,640 --> 01:18:59,200
Speaker 1: even someone who's done you wrong is not the appropriate

1439
01:18:59,240 --> 01:19:02,559
Speaker 1: way to feel I believe. Yeah, I think you got

1440
01:19:02,560 --> 01:19:05,200
Speaker 1: to pick your battles here. I think if you're going

1441
01:19:05,240 --> 01:19:07,920
Speaker 1: after Aaron Rodgers for saying that about the Bears, it's

1442
01:19:07,960 --> 01:19:10,360
Speaker 1: like and that's where you're gonna put your time and

1443
01:19:10,439 --> 01:19:12,400
Speaker 1: energy into. It's like, there's a lot of other things

1444
01:19:12,400 --> 01:19:15,240
Speaker 1: that you should try to be canceling than that. If

1445
01:19:15,479 --> 01:19:18,040
Speaker 1: but I also don't. It takes a lot for me

1446
01:19:18,080 --> 01:19:20,799
Speaker 1: to think someone should be canceled. I think second chances

1447
01:19:21,240 --> 01:19:26,120
Speaker 1: deserved to happen, almost especially if they always get special

1448
01:19:26,320 --> 01:19:29,960
Speaker 1: the second chances, and when you've gone out, when you

1449
01:19:30,200 --> 01:19:32,599
Speaker 1: put yourself out there being like fucking take them down

1450
01:19:32,800 --> 01:19:36,200
Speaker 1: you're gonna be eating crow. Here's the other thing. Aaron

1451
01:19:36,280 --> 01:19:39,680
Speaker 1: Rodgers is making a hundred million dollars this year, like

1452
01:19:39,720 --> 01:19:42,560
Speaker 1: he's not getting canceled anytime soon. Like like the I

1453
01:19:42,960 --> 01:19:45,760
Speaker 1: said though, that there are athletes that you know, the

1454
01:19:45,880 --> 01:19:49,080
Speaker 1: um we were talking about the the Houston Astros, is

1455
01:19:49,080 --> 01:19:52,040
Speaker 1: that right that got caught cheating by the guy slamming

1456
01:19:52,080 --> 01:19:55,599
Speaker 1: down up. That's way worse. So they cheated and got

1457
01:19:55,600 --> 01:19:58,639
Speaker 1: caught doing it, and whenever they put something on social media,

1458
01:19:58,680 --> 01:20:01,280
Speaker 1: they get bombarded with, you know, people being like you cheaters,

1459
01:20:01,320 --> 01:20:03,760
Speaker 1: motherfucker's and everything. So they just they're just like, okay,

1460
01:20:03,800 --> 01:20:06,640
Speaker 1: we'll just play baseball. Then we'll just like not be celebrities.

1461
01:20:06,720 --> 01:20:10,519
Speaker 1: We'll still we'll collect our millions of dollars. And it's fine.

1462
01:20:10,760 --> 01:20:12,479
Speaker 1: Now I can't post a picture of my wife and

1463
01:20:12,560 --> 01:20:16,720
Speaker 1: kids with and I wanted to comments, but that's really

1464
01:20:16,760 --> 01:20:19,519
Speaker 1: all that's changed. Um. Let me read one more letter

1465
01:20:19,920 --> 01:20:22,040
Speaker 1: that I got from a fan this weekend. I believe

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01:20:22,040 --> 01:20:23,600
Speaker 1: I oh, I think I think I got this in

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01:20:23,720 --> 01:20:27,120
Speaker 1: um Durham. Dear Nikki, where do I even begin? I

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Speaker 1: discovered you in college amongst the lovely group of friends

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Speaker 1: who grew up as comedy nerds. Around the time Lockdown hit,

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01:20:32,439 --> 01:20:34,360
Speaker 1: I totally binged all your content. When you went home

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01:20:34,400 --> 01:20:37,000
Speaker 1: to your parents, you made it look so fun and relaxing.

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01:20:37,160 --> 01:20:39,360
Speaker 1: When my lease was up, I felt more okay about

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01:20:39,360 --> 01:20:42,040
Speaker 1: having to live with my parents. My whole attitude changed.

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01:20:42,040 --> 01:20:43,519
Speaker 1: I feel like you're a big sister to me. You're

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01:20:43,520 --> 01:20:45,320
Speaker 1: always so positive, and it's like you encourage me to

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01:20:45,360 --> 01:20:47,880
Speaker 1: be my best self. Um whenever I whenever I have

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Speaker 1: a bad day, I know I can turn on the

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Speaker 1: podcast or one of your old specials or an old

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01:20:52,320 --> 01:20:55,120
Speaker 1: interviews and immediately feel comforted. I haven't always had consistent

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01:20:55,120 --> 01:20:57,519
Speaker 1: groups of friends, and I'm kind of weird, but you

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01:20:57,600 --> 01:20:59,600
Speaker 1: and Noah and Andrew make me feel like part of

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01:20:59,640 --> 01:21:01,759
Speaker 1: a commune to the I love all the inside jokes

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01:21:01,840 --> 01:21:04,639
Speaker 1: apparently I left so hard now at things like that,

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01:21:04,920 --> 01:21:07,439
Speaker 1: and they consistently give me points of joy in my

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01:21:07,520 --> 01:21:11,080
Speaker 1: life at my s s d J soul sucking day job.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for helping me get a meet and greeten tonight too.

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01:21:14,960 --> 01:21:17,040
Speaker 1: I love how much I love comedy because of you now.

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01:21:17,160 --> 01:21:18,840
Speaker 1: I also love how you like to wear shirts and

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01:21:18,880 --> 01:21:20,719
Speaker 1: things about what you like, because I do that too.

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Speaker 1: You're consistent you considutently, consistently will demonstrate what they wrote

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Speaker 1: it that way. By the way, you consistently demonstrate what

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Speaker 1: it means to be a good human. I wish the

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01:21:29,320 --> 01:21:31,040
Speaker 1: rest of the world was as empathetic as you. Thank

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Speaker 1: you for everything. When I'm depressed, Nikki's there. When I

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01:21:33,360 --> 01:21:35,200
Speaker 1: deal with my stomach sickness, Nikki is there. And when

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01:21:35,200 --> 01:21:37,040
Speaker 1: I'm having a great day, Nikki's also there. You are

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01:21:37,080 --> 01:21:39,240
Speaker 1: consistent source of light to everyone you touch. Oh that's

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01:21:39,240 --> 01:21:42,840
Speaker 1: so nice. All the swells, Kristen ps skeletons are always laughing.

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01:21:43,000 --> 01:21:44,880
Speaker 1: Feel free to write me or reach out anytime. She

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Speaker 1: left her number and she wrote something apparently the news

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Speaker 1: on the side, and then swifty for life and then

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01:21:51,880 --> 01:21:54,479
Speaker 1: I want to f you as I want to tofu.

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01:21:54,680 --> 01:21:57,400
Speaker 1: I love the inside jokes. Thank you so much for

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01:21:57,439 --> 01:21:59,960
Speaker 1: that sincere beautiful handwritten note that I got at one

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01:22:00,000 --> 01:22:02,160
Speaker 1: of the meet and greets. I love you guys, um.

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01:22:02,560 --> 01:22:05,120
Speaker 1: There's something about putting it on paper that it just

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01:22:05,200 --> 01:22:09,719
Speaker 1: means so much. I don't know why. I maybe because

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01:22:09,720 --> 01:22:13,320
Speaker 1: I'm old. I love you guys so much, and thank

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01:22:13,360 --> 01:22:16,679
Speaker 1: you for listening. I just yeah, you know, I can't

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01:22:16,680 --> 01:22:19,200
Speaker 1: say it enough. It's it's you've changed my life in

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01:22:19,200 --> 01:22:23,200
Speaker 1: the way that I look at what I do. And um, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I just I love I love the love and I

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01:22:25,720 --> 01:22:27,519
Speaker 1: feel it back. And you guys are my friends too,

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01:22:27,520 --> 01:22:29,960
Speaker 1: and you make me feel less alone. And um, and

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01:22:30,040 --> 01:22:31,800
Speaker 1: thank you so much for all the voice memos today

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01:22:31,840 --> 01:22:34,000
Speaker 1: think you know of for compiling those, and she said

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01:22:34,000 --> 01:22:35,960
Speaker 1: that there's so many you guys, and you guys just

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01:22:36,080 --> 01:22:39,519
Speaker 1: keep bringing just great content games. So happy Yes your

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01:22:39,520 --> 01:22:42,439
Speaker 1: a game is what she said. Thank you so much, Andrew,

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01:22:42,560 --> 01:22:45,080
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, Nikki. It was a great week

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Speaker 1: and I'm excited for this weekend. Yeah, good shows ahead

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01:22:48,240 --> 01:22:50,080
Speaker 1: of us. And there's going to be a special episode

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Speaker 1: on Monday that you can look forward to. And what

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Speaker 1: about the what about? Oh yeah, we have a live

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01:22:55,960 --> 01:22:59,280
Speaker 1: podcast coming up next week on Wednesday. All the details

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Speaker 1: of that will be released on our Nicky Glazer Pod

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01:23:02,960 --> 01:23:06,360
Speaker 1: Instagram page in St. Louis a live podcast that you

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01:23:06,400 --> 01:23:08,840
Speaker 1: can come to the taping of and um, there might

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01:23:08,880 --> 01:23:12,000
Speaker 1: be cameras there for other reasons as well, so look

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Speaker 1: out for that information on the stories or a main

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01:23:14,600 --> 01:23:16,559
Speaker 1: post of Nicky Glazer Pod. And we hope to see

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Speaker 1: you there next Wednesday. In St. Louis at Joe's Cafe,

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Speaker 1: and uh, well, don't be cooled this weekend. Please don't

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Speaker 1: and have all this well then