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Speaker 3: My best friend's brother is the father of my child.

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Speaker 2: No, we're yeah, that could be cool.

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Speaker 3: I feel like this has to be sung, like my

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Speaker 3: best friend's brother is the father. Fourteen years ago, my

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Speaker 3: twenty seven female parents passed away. Oh, my grandma took

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Speaker 3: me in.

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Speaker 2: Yay.

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Speaker 3: My grandma's best friend is also the grandmother of my

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Speaker 3: best friend amandas twenty seven female complicated, that's kind of fun.

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Speaker 3: Their family took care of us a lot whenever we

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Speaker 3: had problems. They also took us on vacations with them.

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Speaker 3: They were also early investors in my business I started

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Speaker 3: when I was twenty oh right, I will always be

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Speaker 3: to the r slash Okay Storytime Suffered It. I'm Sophia,

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Speaker 3: Hi Riley, I'm Keon. We're here to give good advice.

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Speaker 3: Goofy but we don't know anything.

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Speaker 1: We really don't.

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Speaker 3: We only know what we know, which is nothing. But

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Speaker 3: we want to know what you know, which might be everything.

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Speaker 2: Does it look like we know something?

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Speaker 3: What can they do about it? So tell us, Opie says.

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Speaker 3: My best friend's younger brother, Alex nineteen male, moved into

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Speaker 3: the apartment next to mine last year for university Saucy.

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Speaker 3: I own both the apartments, saw I'm also his landlady.

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Speaker 3: Oh to lessen his rent, we made a deal that

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Speaker 3: he would make breakfast and dinner for both of us

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Speaker 3: and also feed my cat.

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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 3: Is he a good cook? Though?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't want to walk into that if he

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Speaker 1: doesn't know how to cook.

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Speaker 3: He's like making you ramen every.

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Speaker 1: Night, and you're like an oatmeal for breakfast.

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Speaker 3: It was a bit awkward in the beginning, but we

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Speaker 3: jelled with each other after a few weeks. It became

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Speaker 3: routine for him to enter my house, make breakfast, then

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Speaker 3: leave for his classes, and at night he would be

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Speaker 3: making dinner. After I came from work. We would sit

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Speaker 3: together and watch Netflix or feign dramas dude. This was

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Speaker 3: a recipe for romance man, a recipe How old is

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Speaker 3: Zopie at this point, I don't know. That's what I'm wondering,

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Speaker 3: because she said she was twenty seven, but I don't

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Speaker 3: know if it was at that point because he was nineteen.

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Speaker 1: I thought she was twenty whenever they invested in her business.

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Speaker 3: That's what I want to know.

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Speaker 1: I think they're twenty seven.

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Speaker 3: They're both twenty seven.

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Speaker 1: Now he's nineteen.

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Speaker 3: They're both. Oh. When I was twenty, both of our

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Speaker 3: tastes were similar because he liked to follow whatever his

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Speaker 3: sister and I did. Since we were young. He became

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Speaker 3: like a best friend to me. He would share what

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Speaker 3: happened throughout the day. I talked to him about my work.

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Speaker 3: He would talk to me about his school. He would

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Speaker 3: debate about the actions of characters in an ongoing drama.

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Speaker 3: Before long, this had become normal for us.

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Speaker 1: Guys are so nerds. Oh, my guys show words.

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Speaker 3: After my boyfriend had passed away due to cancer three

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Speaker 3: years ago. Oh, this was the first time I had

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Speaker 3: gotten close to another man. Wow. At the beginning of

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Speaker 2: Booh.

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Speaker 3: They made a beautiful couple. They were perfect for each other.

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Speaker 3: This also caused his time together with me to decrease.

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Speaker 2: Wait, would you say, young, It's just an obstacle.

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Speaker 1: Just think Lolally, it.

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Speaker 3: Seems like the universe wants some to be together because

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Speaker 3: they're constantly being put to Well.

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Speaker 1: The universe or hey, this this living arrangement, you have

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Speaker 1: to cook for me? Ope, he's called the shots here.

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Speaker 3: It's true. He knew she wanted OP. He's like, you're

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Speaker 1: Yeah that was Op, not the universe.

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Speaker 3: That's true. The days he would make dinner for me

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Speaker 1: No, grass, you, they're dating and making out.

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Speaker 3: Seeing them made my heart hurt. Seeing him holding another

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Speaker 1: Dude, I know for a freaking fact they watched the

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Speaker 3: Best friend's brother. They're stuck together she was.

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Speaker 1: Like the whole time it was happening, m because she

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Speaker 3: She wanted it just one It's too bad. I started

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Speaker 3: distancing myself from him and focused only on work. So

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Speaker 3: for nothing. It was a hectic time for my business too. However,

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Speaker 3: was only time. Your time was your only obstacle. Yere

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Speaker 3: somewhere inside me. I was happy, but he was having

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Speaker 3: a hard time processing the breakup. Well, yoah, give a minute.

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Speaker 3: We started spending more time with each other. He would

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Speaker 3: gotten an internship on the other side of the country.

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Speaker 3: The day before he was leaving, my cat passed away. Boo,

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Speaker 3: this is sad, sad. I was completely distraught. She was

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Speaker 1: Ah no, the one that passed from cancer.

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Speaker 3: I was suddenly reminded of the hard times when my

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Speaker 3: Alex helped me bury my pat in the park one note.

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Speaker 1: Oh this is a little rabbit hole, But I hope

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Speaker 1: they bury the cat deeping off because if not, animals,

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Speaker 1: certain animals know how to dig.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and they have to eat well. Circle of life.

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Speaker 2: Circle life, have you not seen the lion king?

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Speaker 1: I have seen the lion king, but this is not

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Speaker 1: the situation is a circle of life? Personally, that's a

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Speaker 3: Personally, when I'm passed away, I'd rather be fed to

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Speaker 3: That's not my like number one way to go, but

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Speaker 3: it's better than being married to the box. That's what

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Speaker 3: I want. I want to do the tree.

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Speaker 2: That's my number one.

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Speaker 3: That's my number one. I want to be a tree.

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Speaker 1: I'm afraid to be a tree because they'll probably call me.

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Speaker 2: Do you want to be like a tree that like

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I want to be a fruit tree. I want

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Speaker 1: Your fruity arse will definitely would want to be a

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Speaker 3: When we came back to my house, he offered to

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Speaker 3: While I went in for a shower, seeing my face

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Speaker 2: Oh spawn.

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Speaker 3: But then things got intense and we ended up having

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Speaker 3: for you to do that, but you know it happens.

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Speaker 1: You literally said someone's gonna eat her cat. Some dogs

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a total, totally different thing. Next morning, I am,

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Speaker 3: I am so against what you actually you said it,

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Speaker 1: Man, I was just hoping they do it. Also, someone said,

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Speaker 1: oh Gie, this is crazy smoot. Yeah, this is I

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Speaker 1: think we're reading. Oh I'm always scared of these stories

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Speaker 3: We are We're not hearing too fantasies in your head.

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Speaker 1: Were you ever read stories? Yeah, some of the stories?

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Speaker 2: Do that?

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Speaker 1: Wait, we are that vice for you.

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Speaker 3: Next morning, I woke up early and saw him sleeping

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Speaker 1: Oh all right.

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Speaker 3: I already and wrote a letter explaining that last night

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Speaker 3: too much anime together? Oh stop it, obey. I left

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Speaker 3: only did you do the spicies sleep. But you did

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Speaker 1: Style ciscus with a side of roll. What with a

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Speaker 1: what I said, you did a doggie style with the side.

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Speaker 3: If I were to explain my feelings at that time,

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Speaker 3: I was mostly scared. I had no family left. In fact,

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Speaker 1: It's dude, It's because of the shows they watch all

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Speaker 1: the time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: They put things in her head where she thinks, Oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh. I have to hide this from everyone, and

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Speaker 3: I could not show my face to her. I had

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Speaker 3: he's a father? Yeah, this is messed up, Opie. I

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Speaker 3: know you're going through it, but this is messed up.

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Speaker 3: You literally like dropped this guy because of your emotional

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Speaker 2: No, I've been bulking. I'm just I've the belly.

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Speaker 3: She already has two kids. Luckily, Alex has gone on

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Speaker 1: Ohh uh oh oh, Okay, Now we're gonna see if

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Speaker 3: At first she was really angry, like, how how dare

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Speaker 3: Eventually she calmed down and heard my side of the story.

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Speaker 1: Come on, this is so cood, right, all right, I'll

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Speaker 3: I didn't know how much he heard, but he had

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Speaker 2: It's like it's like a sitcom. There should be enacting

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he kept on staring at me. Before we could

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Speaker 3: with him not taking responsibility. I have confidence in myself

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Speaker 3: want to restrict him in his life. He is studying

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Speaker 3: Start telling him the truth, girl, Stop running from your feelings.

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Speaker 2: Stop making this. I'm not gonna lie op. He's making

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's literally a K drama.

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Speaker 2: It's like a drama. You're like, you want to make

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Speaker 3: Start worrying about your child.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I blocked him because I couldn't take the emotional you know, turmoil,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like you literally had with him and then just

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Speaker 2: That's not Riley, this is camp.

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Speaker 1: We are not in the woods around fireplace.

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Speaker 3: It's actually he wasn't he on a camping trip.

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Speaker 1: He was on a trip camp.

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Speaker 3: Who knows what happened on that trip. Update. So we

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Speaker 3: I started the conversation. I told him everything, my feelings,

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Speaker 1: Oh.

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Speaker 3: Actually writing it all down on redd it helped me

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Speaker 3: I'm grateful for. You listened to everything without saying a word.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow.

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Speaker 3: After I finished, he touched my belly all of a sudden, Wait,

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Speaker 2: Did you allow that? Yeah? He's like, look, it's like

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Speaker 2: a basketball.

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Speaker 1: He just mockaeled Jordan your belly.

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Speaker 3: He starts going, I mean to be real.

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Speaker 1: You never mind, I'm not never mind?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what was going on in his mind,

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Speaker 3: but he had a happy expression. Then he shared his part.

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Speaker 1: Oh he's always wanted to be a dad.

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Speaker 2: He's also president.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's also regnant with your baby.

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Speaker 1: And he's always had a crush on you, and he

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Speaker 3: He told me he's always had a crush on me

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Speaker 3: wear really lousy clothes when I'm home all alone, like

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Speaker 3: I always dress prim and proper. Her sister was a tomboy,

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Speaker 3: completely shattered. Wait, I'm sorry. He like, he met you

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Speaker 1: You're kind of.

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Speaker 2: Lazy, you kind of a dude.

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Speaker 3: Oh, you kind of ugly alone. However, staying with me

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Speaker 3: all the time made him look at me in different ways.

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Speaker 3: He's like, actually, don't mind the the boxer shorts. It's

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Speaker 3: probably like this is what she looks out without makeup.

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Speaker 2: Eh, I don't Yeah, I don't mind.

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Speaker 1: That kind of grew on him.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, He's like, no, no, you were ugly at first,

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Speaker 3: and then I liked it.

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Speaker 2: It's the beauty on the ends.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Anyways, he never thought of crossing the line with

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Speaker 3: he pushed the thought out of his mind, even though

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Speaker 3: he was tempted sometimes. When he finally made a new girlfriend,

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Speaker 3: he was infascuated with her. As he was talking about her.

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Speaker 3: It made me a bit sad, but I didn't say

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Speaker 1: This is on you.

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Speaker 3: But slowly he started missing the time he spent with me.

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Speaker 3: He would try oak mill. He was like, every every

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Speaker 3: He would try to make excuses so that he could

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Speaker 3: and so on. His girlfriend finally got frustrated with him

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Speaker 3: and left, but before breaking up, she cheated on him

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Speaker 3: with one of his first friends he made after coming

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Speaker 3: here Yanks all right, ka drama. Remembering those days made

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Speaker 3: him a bit sad. Told me that he was even

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Speaker 3: my business. Then came to talk about that night. He

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Speaker 3: didn't know how to feel that day. It was as

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Speaker 3: if he was tugging along, not knowing what to do.

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Speaker 3: But when I kissed him at first, he was like,

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Speaker 3: is this even happening? He was genuinely shocked, he told

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Speaker 3: because I'm feeling lonely? He kissing him was also clouding

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Speaker 3: it out by saying he blocked out everything and just

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Speaker 3: was talking about this topic. He had gotten completely read

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Speaker 3: and was fumbling with his words. Dude, he likes shitnags, he.

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Speaker 1: Likes you.

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Speaker 3: Looking at him closely, I realized how much I like him. Oh,

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Speaker 3: you guys like each there.

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Speaker 1: You guys gonna drive us out for another two months

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Speaker 1: before you do anything about it.

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Speaker 3: However, what I did the next day hurt him a lot.

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Speaker 3: What'd you do when she goes to them?

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Speaker 2: Oh and blocked him?

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Speaker 1: I thought she did that again.

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Speaker 2: She was like, this was a mistake.

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Speaker 3: Well good, she's realizing things. He said that he had

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Speaker 3: him made him very angry. Anyways, he became busier with

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Speaker 3: he tried to act normal, but seeing my suspicious behavior,

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Speaker 3: I was trying to hide my pregnancy. He assumed that

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Speaker 3: and also that he was the father, his mind went

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Speaker 3: completely blank. He had thought of the scenario occurring, since

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Speaker 3: we didn't use any protection that day, but he couldn't

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Speaker 1: It's funny how things like that work.

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Speaker 2: He's one, for one, is pretty, he's straight, muge.

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Speaker 3: How it happens after he stormed out of the apartment

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Speaker 3: that's when he realized that now he is a father too,

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Speaker 3: says Kay Drama. We talked about our future and I'm

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Speaker 3: not gonna going into too much details, but yeah, decided

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Speaker 3: or till the time he completes his university whoa, whoa,

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Speaker 3: whoa what he's got a better deal? Yeah? Yeah, dude,

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Speaker 3: this all adds up for him. Dude, this is all

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Speaker 3: he's wanted the whole time, free creasing. Since we both

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Speaker 3: into a pseudo relationship and test it out.

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Speaker 1: What does that even mean?

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Speaker 3: Like like a kind of not a fake relationship, but

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Speaker 1: M think so wait wait, speaking of the monk, speaking

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Speaker 1: to the mark, come here.

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Speaker 4: I think the pseudo you're in a relationship if you're

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Speaker 4: it or not, I don't. I don't think pseudo is

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Speaker 2: Yeah, is the pseudo the baby.

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Speaker 3: The Pseudo is the baby's we made along the way.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the baby's name is Pseudo.

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Speaker 3: That's a cool name. Rules being we can't see anybody else.

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Speaker 3: It's kind of a relationship being completely honest with each

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Speaker 3: other and prioritizing the baby. All of this was thought

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Speaker 3: up by him, say, and obviously we have to kiss

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Speaker 3: each other and hold hand.

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Speaker 1: And they're still going to make each other food and

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Speaker 1: hang out. And if they have a girlfriend that you

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Speaker 1: can't call a girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's just that's just not fun. That's like all

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Speaker 3: the perks of that's like all the.

444
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Speaker 2: All perks no label.

445
00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:18,960
Speaker 1: I don't know that. Having a car but you don't

446
00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:21,960
Speaker 1: have those no remonstrations for it. Yeah yeah, that's okay.

447
00:18:22,119 --> 00:18:24,119
Speaker 2: You still have a car, but you can't drive it.

448
00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:26,720
Speaker 1: You can drive it, you're driving it illegally.

449
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Speaker 3: We are still discussing about the future. As for my

450
00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:34,960
Speaker 3: best friend being Alex's sister, she gave him a good thrashing.

451
00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:41,280
Speaker 3: Why she gave her brother a good thrashing? You baby, Sophia, Yeah, yeah, true.

452
00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:43,280
Speaker 3: She only stopped when I told her that she's going

453
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Speaker 3: to be coming on.

454
00:18:44,800 --> 00:18:48,560
Speaker 2: She's like, wait, hold on, the reality is setting in.

455
00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:50,840
Speaker 3: She has also decided to support all my decisions in

456
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Speaker 3: the future. I don't think you should do that if

457
00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:54,959
Speaker 3: he doesn't make a lot of good decisions. We are

458
00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:56,800
Speaker 3: still planning on how to bring up the topic of

459
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Speaker 3: my pregnancy with his parents.

460
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Speaker 1: Oh, do that because they already.

461
00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:00,840
Speaker 3: You as his dog.

462
00:19:01,240 --> 00:19:06,080
Speaker 2: Hey, pseudo, mom and dad, you're gonna be grandma, grandma

463
00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:07,440
Speaker 2: and grandpa.

464
00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:10,439
Speaker 3: However, at this point of time in my life, I

465
00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:13,560
Speaker 3: feel completely relieved, like a huge burden has been lifted

466
00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:17,320
Speaker 3: from my shoulders because you're telling the truth. Yeah, should

467
00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:19,960
Speaker 3: should continue to do. It's amazing how support from the

468
00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:22,680
Speaker 3: people you love can be so precious. Thank you everyone

469
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Speaker 3: for your supportive messages. And that is the end of

470
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Speaker 3: that story. Okay, that was pretty far.

471
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Speaker 1: I like that one.

472
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Speaker 2: Do we think that was real?

473
00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:33,280
Speaker 3: Though not entirely. Shouldn't ask for advice.

474
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Speaker 1: People that write stories that aren't real don't usually ask

475
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Speaker 1: for advice.

476
00:19:36,600 --> 00:19:38,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know what, that's all right. We gave

477
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Speaker 3: her advice. And that's at the end of the day.

478
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Speaker 2: If you're in that situation, don't do it all dead,

479
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Speaker 2: don't do it.

480
00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:47,040
Speaker 3: I'll be dead it ready. Go after yourself.

481
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Speaker 1: My fiance's mother stole my cat, give me back my

482
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Speaker 1: fiance Mail and I twenty eight female. I've been together

483
00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:57,400
Speaker 1: for five years and engaged for one. Anyway, two months ago,

484
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Speaker 1: my grandmother gave me a two month old kitten that

485
00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:05,119
Speaker 1: was bred from her cat. It was her cat's only

486
00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:09,880
Speaker 1: litter and she has three kittens. A by the way,

487
00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:12,320
Speaker 1: this comes from my kitty is gone. And if you

488
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Speaker 1: want to submit your own stories, go to our slash

489
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Speaker 1: Okay storytime, super at it and we're.

490
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Speaker 3: Here to give good advice.

491
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Speaker 1: Goofully. We don't have any answers. We're gonna guess them,

492
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Speaker 1: but if you have any answers, let us know. We'd

493
00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:26,280
Speaker 1: like to read them. And the cat itself is special

494
00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:28,760
Speaker 1: because she comes from a long line of cats that

495
00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:31,359
Speaker 1: have been in our family for a very long time,

496
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Speaker 1: taking about the late eighteen hundred.

497
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Speaker 3: Jan geez, how are you getting those cats to geez man?

498
00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:42,720
Speaker 1: I know they got a family tree of these cats,

499
00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:44,760
Speaker 1: and all of the older cats have like.

500
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Speaker 3: Old top hats of them. Oh yeah, that's sick.

501
00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:50,679
Speaker 1: Yes, the cat is purebread, but we do not breed

502
00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:53,359
Speaker 1: and sell them. All the cats stay in our family.

503
00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:56,280
Speaker 1: It's been a tradition and my whole family loves it.

504
00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:59,080
Speaker 1: Having a pet lineage that goes back to our own

505
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Speaker 1: is extreme special.

506
00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:02,640
Speaker 3: Wait are you telling me that all these cats are

507
00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:03,480
Speaker 3: incest cats?

508
00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:03,760
Speaker 2: No?

509
00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:07,800
Speaker 3: I think it's like sugar incestgarning incestin cats.

510
00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:11,320
Speaker 1: I think they like call up if it's important to them.

511
00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:13,280
Speaker 1: They probably call up people that also have pru bread

512
00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:14,280
Speaker 1: purebreads around here. Yah.

513
00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:17,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, and they're like, hey, we got some cats here. Yeah.

514
00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:20,679
Speaker 3: I got to keep this line going from the eighteen hundreds,

515
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:24,200
Speaker 3: you know, because cat lives like what like twenty?

516
00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:25,720
Speaker 1: How many generations is that? Yeah?

517
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Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, Like, like.

518
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Speaker 1: What's the lifespan of a cat?

519
00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:31,639
Speaker 4: I believe cats, if you take care of them, they

520
00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:34,400
Speaker 4: can live up to twenty years. Yeah, in like your

521
00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:37,399
Speaker 4: house indoor cats can go twenty or north of that.

522
00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:41,600
Speaker 1: So that's at least sixteen generations. Yeah, because one hundred

523
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Speaker 1: years is five cats.

524
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Speaker 4: It's twenty twenty, so like eleven yeah.

525
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Speaker 1: In one hundred years. Yeah, how many twenties are in

526
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Speaker 1: one hundred and five?

527
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Speaker 3: Wait?

528
00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:49,720
Speaker 1: I did my math wrong?

529
00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:52,159
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like, what are you tell you?

530
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Speaker 1: Are you nothing? Sophia? You were correct? You're laughing at me.

531
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Speaker 1: A month ago, my grandmother passed away and it has

532
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Speaker 1: completely devastated. Having a kitten from her own cat has

533
00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:04,880
Speaker 1: made me feel closer to her and I've bonded with her.

534
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:07,800
Speaker 1: This last month, my mom received my grandmother's cat since

535
00:22:07,840 --> 00:22:10,399
Speaker 1: she didn't have one of her own, and in total,

536
00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:14,760
Speaker 1: with that one, there are only four cats remaining.

537
00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:15,480
Speaker 3: Uh oh.

538
00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:18,000
Speaker 1: Now for the problem, which still has me in tears.

539
00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:21,160
Speaker 1: My fiance has never approved of the whole cat thing.

540
00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:25,600
Speaker 1: It says we support breeders and unliving of shelter animals

541
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Speaker 1: because the cats are full bread.

542
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Speaker 3: But that's silly because you're breeding only the like within

543
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:36,080
Speaker 3: the family. Yeah you're not. You're not buying from a breeder.

544
00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:39,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that doesn't make any sense, not profiting off

545
00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:40,240
Speaker 1: of these animals.

546
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Speaker 3: Yeah.

547
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Speaker 1: Like I said before, we do not sell the cats

548
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Speaker 1: and they stay within the family. So I have no

549
00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 1: idea where he gets this idea from. I also live

550
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,560
Speaker 1: in a rural part of the country and own my

551
00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:53,600
Speaker 1: own house on a big piece of land, and have

552
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Speaker 1: dedicated my life to helping animals. I help out the

553
00:22:56,480 --> 00:23:00,320
Speaker 1: Humane Society and take in farm animals and foster them

554
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Speaker 1: until they find new homes. I currently have one horse,

555
00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:06,119
Speaker 1: three goats, four rabbits, and many chickens.

556
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:08,399
Speaker 3: That's cute. That's nice life.

557
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:10,520
Speaker 1: You would want this life, but you wouldn't want to like.

558
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:15,880
Speaker 1: In addition, I also have two rescue dogs and two rescue.

559
00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:17,679
Speaker 3: Cats that I love. Where's he getting this from?

560
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:21,800
Speaker 1: She's literally to be fair. Okay, not everyone can have

561
00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 1: this many goats and horses. She's doing more than the

562
00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 1: average person.

563
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:27,800
Speaker 3: And has two rescue cats and dogs, and he has

564
00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:29,920
Speaker 3: the audacity to be like, yeah, it's not barning this.

565
00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:34,880
Speaker 1: You're killing shelter animal. She's literally saving them. Yeah, come on, dude,

566
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,040
Speaker 1: just for that common alone, dump them.

567
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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's done. You're not my fiance anymore. You're my

568
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Speaker 3: fiance nay.

569
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Speaker 1: So it was kind of insulting in her foal to

570
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:49,119
Speaker 1: be told that I support kitty mills and breeders. It

571
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 1: wasn't until my grandmother passed away that he began to

572
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:54,440
Speaker 1: express these feelings, and I was thinking that he would

573
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Speaker 1: just get over it. Instead, it's turned to a disaster.

574
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Speaker 1: I came home from work two days ago to find

575
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Speaker 1: my kitten missing. I searched everywhere and couldn't find her.

576
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 1: She's only four months old, so she likes to hide

577
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:08,359
Speaker 1: but never for a long time. It was my fiance's

578
00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:10,560
Speaker 1: day off, so I asked him if he had seen her,

579
00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:12,720
Speaker 1: and he said that he saw her playing by the

580
00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 1: doggy door and that she must have gotten out.

581
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Speaker 3: You freaking liar, You're a little liared dude.

582
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 1: This is where I lost it. I just broke down

583
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:25,480
Speaker 1: and started crying, and I've been a mess since then.

584
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:29,119
Speaker 1: These cats cannot survive outside. They don't know how to

585
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:31,919
Speaker 1: climb trees. Their long hair will on the live of

586
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:35,120
Speaker 1: them and the heat, and there are tons of coyotes outside.

587
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:37,440
Speaker 1: My fiance hugged me and told me that it would

588
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 1: all be okay and that we could just look around.

589
00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:42,520
Speaker 1: So we went outside until it got dark with our

590
00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:46,399
Speaker 1: flashlights and searched for hours and nothing. He said he

591
00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:49,000
Speaker 1: was tired, so we went back home. And since he

592
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,160
Speaker 1: gets annoyed when I bring her up in.

593
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Speaker 3: Tears, I don't trust him. He's a liar. He's a

594
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:55,880
Speaker 3: freaking liar. Man.

595
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:59,240
Speaker 1: You gotta stop stole that kitten because he got tired.

596
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:03,000
Speaker 1: I don't buy it. I don't buy it, all right.

597
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:07,080
Speaker 1: I'm devastated, as you should be, and hurts. He doesn't

598
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 1: even care about what's happening. He wouldn't even help put

599
00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:12,840
Speaker 1: posters for her because he says no one lives near

600
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:16,600
Speaker 1: us anyway. This whole change in attitude has sideswiped me

601
00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:18,880
Speaker 1: and made me look at him in a different light.

602
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:21,399
Speaker 1: I know he didn't like her, but to be so

603
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:24,600
Speaker 1: cold and uncaring is cruel. I even asked him how

604
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:27,439
Speaker 1: we would feel if it was one of our other cats,

605
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:30,399
Speaker 1: and he said it's different because they've been with us

606
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:30,879
Speaker 1: for years.

607
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:33,480
Speaker 3: So just because there's a baby cat, he's like, I

608
00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:36,080
Speaker 3: don't care about babies because it's when you guys have

609
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 3: a baby. He's like, I don't care about that baby.

610
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:40,680
Speaker 1: Because it's a baby cat, and like not and it's

611
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 1: pure bread too.

612
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Speaker 3: Yeah, which is crazy because it's like the audacity to

613
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 3: be like, oh, the fact that you have this purebread

614
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:51,240
Speaker 3: cat is awful, and you're supporting like the people putting

615
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:55,479
Speaker 3: down pats and stuff, and then he seemingly does something

616
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 3: to get rid of a like living animal. Dude, pretty hypocritical.

617
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 1: He was the most important connection to my grandmother I had,

618
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:05,960
Speaker 1: and now she's gone. I feel like all the healing

619
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 1: that I had from her passing away is undone and

620
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 1: I can't even go to work now. Any advice please,

621
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:14,680
Speaker 1: We are a quarter of the way through here.

622
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:18,400
Speaker 3: Dang man zang. My advice is I don't trust your fiance.

623
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:20,440
Speaker 3: I think he had something to do with it.

624
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 1: My vice has always put a tracker in your dog.

625
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:25,879
Speaker 3: That's true. Well this is a cat, but yeah, I

626
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 3: don't know if he can put a tracker and a

627
00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:28,360
Speaker 3: cat that small. Though.

628
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:29,400
Speaker 4: You can chip your cat.

629
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Speaker 3: You can chip them when though, because I think this

630
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:32,159
Speaker 3: was like a baby.

631
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 4: I have two cats. We chipped Pablo when he was

632
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:34,639
Speaker 4: a kitten.

633
00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 3: Okay, so ceci yeah, so maybe, okay, maybe you could

634
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 3: have chipped this cat.

635
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:41,119
Speaker 1: Dude, have you seen the size of chips?

636
00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 3: But have you seen the side of the kittens at it.

637
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 1: I just spoke with some friends at the Humane Society

638
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:48,920
Speaker 1: and they know someone who has a tracking dog and

639
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:50,960
Speaker 1: they're willing to come out and help look for her

640
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:52,880
Speaker 1: as a thank you for everything I've done for them.

641
00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:55,040
Speaker 3: Dude, I'm freaking scared that this dog is going to

642
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:55,800
Speaker 3: eat that cat.

643
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 1: No, they're usually trained pretty well. Okay, okay, it's not

644
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 1: like a hunne and he's.

645
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:05,120
Speaker 3: Like there and he's just gonna be smelling your your

646
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 3: fyancet like, what, that's not like you're trained wrong, But no,

647
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 3: he's trained right.

648
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 1: If it said hunting dog, I'd be like, I'm also

649
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:17,919
Speaker 1: going to skype my fiance now at it too. I

650
00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:20,639
Speaker 1: just finished skyping with my fiance. He knew something was

651
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:22,639
Speaker 1: wrong off the bat. He got really quiet, and he

652
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 1: said he would try to come home tomorrow to help

653
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 1: look for her. He's also apologized for the way he's

654
00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 1: been acting because the way he grew up wasn't as

655
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 1: family focused as I was, and crying was seen as

656
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 1: a weakness and he was often grounded for it. So

657
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 1: it's something he has no idea what to do about.

658
00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 1: I asked him again what happened that day, and he

659
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 1: said his mom visited him in the morning and actually

660
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:47,240
Speaker 1: lectured him about how he wasn't doing enough and continued

661
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,399
Speaker 1: to insult him about how he wasn't the one that

662
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 1: wore the pants in relationship because everything we had came

663
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 1: from me.

664
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Speaker 3: He says.

665
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:56,400
Speaker 1: He asked her to leave and went to the room

666
00:27:56,480 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 1: to take a shower and afterwards doesn't remember the cat

667
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:05,720
Speaker 1: was there. Okay, so maybe prime suspect he wasn't part

668
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 1: of it, But revenue prime.

669
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 3: Suspect, we know who might have been.

670
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 1: His mom isn't an active member in our lives. She

671
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:17,240
Speaker 1: hates the wealthy and has constantly called me spoiled, and

672
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 1: now I'm thinking she may be part of the kiddy's disappearance.

673
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 1: I asked my fiance if he would ask her about it,

674
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:26,679
Speaker 1: and he said he would do whatever I wanted to

675
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:29,920
Speaker 1: do to find the kitten. Update next day, will today? Yeah,

676
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 1: we know where it's at.

677
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 3: Well, now we know, let's just go pop on over

678
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,240
Speaker 3: there and bring that track and dog. It'll sniffer it

679
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 3: out real good.

680
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:38,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly best course of action.

681
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:41,520
Speaker 3: Hey, it's Sam. We'll get back to the stories, but

682
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 3: here's three minutes of ads from our sponsors.

683
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:45,960
Speaker 1: My fiance is back home and we had our friends

684
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 1: from the Humane Society join us with their dog. The

685
00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 1: dog was super sweet and smelled everything outside and found

686
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 1: no sense. We're not sure if it's just the dog

687
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 1: or it's just because the cat was never outside, but

688
00:28:57,000 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 1: everyone agrees it's more towards the latter. A few of

689
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:02,920
Speaker 1: them have helped me put up posters, and the vets

690
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 1: and people who work at the shelters know of the situation.

691
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 1: I spoke one on one to my fiance, and he

692
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 1: went more into detO how he was raised. This included

693
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 1: opening up about his childhood. Why are we getting a

694
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 1: backstor in his childhood?

695
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's like, well, you have to understand why I

696
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 3: stole the cat when I was a young lad. My

697
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 3: mother was a cat. You know who does this too?

698
00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:25,200
Speaker 3: But evil villains? Yeah?

699
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 1: Is he explaining his plan monologing? He said everything he

700
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 1: and his siblings did was always watched, and one thing

701
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 1: his mom hated the most was crying. He would be

702
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 1: punished when he would cry because his mom said if

703
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 1: he needed to cry, she would give him a reason. Sees,

704
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 1: in my fiance's eyes, being stoic about some situations is

705
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 1: what he was taught to do and he doesn't know

706
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 1: other ways of reacting to it. He does talk to

707
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 1: his mom once a week, and he says he talked

708
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 1: to her the week after my grandmother passed. She told

709
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 1: him if he didn't stop acting like a woman and

710
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 1: catering to my knees, that I would leave him.

711
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, his mother sounds terrible.

712
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 1: Oh, my son's pretty colmage. So this kitten has brought

713
00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 1: up so many things. Yeah, he's like, you don't understand it.

714
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:14,640
Speaker 1: Wasn't just the kitten, he was everything my whole life.

715
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:17,560
Speaker 1: She also gave him a lot of scolding about the kitten,

716
00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 1: since she's the one that's put the whole purebred animals

717
00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:24,560
Speaker 1: are evil mindset in their family. He said he did

718
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 1: think of the cat as part of her family already,

719
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 1: so he began to feel overwhelmingly guilt for owning her.

720
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 1: That's the main reason why he started pulling back and

721
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:36,600
Speaker 1: going into the mindset he grew up with again. I

722
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 1: asked him if he would like to come to therapy

723
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 1: with me on Friday and talk more about it, and

724
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:43,840
Speaker 1: he agreed. He also apologized for the way he's been

725
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:47,040
Speaker 1: acting and said he understood how it looked terrible on

726
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 1: his part. Finally, he called his mom. Every call he

727
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 1: made went straight to voicemail and no text message was answered.

728
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:54,240
Speaker 3: Pretty suspicious.

729
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:56,800
Speaker 1: He's also been blocked on social media by her, and

730
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 1: I really do believe she had a big part in

731
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 1: the kitty's disappearance. My fiance is not a very good

732
00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 1: liar and has been honest about everything so far. He

733
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 1: said he doesn't know exactly what happened that day, since

734
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:10,719
Speaker 1: he shut down with his mom's yelling and that it

735
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 1: wasn't until I got home that he really got out

736
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 1: of the days he was in. I think the mom

737
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 1: sold the cat.

738
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 3: I think so too purebread. I think I think she's

739
00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 3: like I think she is the type of person to be,

740
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 3: I don't know, very hypocritical like she Oh, she complains

741
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 3: about it but then sells the cat. Oh. I think

742
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 3: there's yeah. I think this is a bad mama.

743
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:36,360
Speaker 1: At this point, he was sad. I've never seen him

744
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 1: full on cry, but it looked like he was close

745
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 1: to it. He blames himself for not being more careful

746
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:44,240
Speaker 1: and promised to do anything I wanted to repair the damage.

747
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 1: He also said he wants to cut contact with her,

748
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 1: but doesn't know how to because she's constantly forcing herself

749
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:50,720
Speaker 1: into his life.

750
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:55,600
Speaker 3: Cut contact, cut her out. She literally maybe potentially stole

751
00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 3: your fiance's cat. Probably you need to set those Yeah,

752
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 3: probably need to set those boundaries before you marry this guy,

753
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 3: because if he can't set boundaries with his mom, then

754
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 3: you're never gonna have a good relationship with him.

755
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 1: It's gonna be three people in a relationship. He went

756
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 1: to fiance's mom city and arrived at her house around

757
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 1: six am, but she wasn't there. My mom knocked on

758
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:17,440
Speaker 1: the neighbor's door and said she was gone for the

759
00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 1: week visiting her son. Fiance's brother lives all the way

760
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:24,000
Speaker 1: in Armarello, which is almost eight hours away, which.

761
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:24,680
Speaker 3: Is in Texas.

762
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: And that's the spot I stopped at while coming to

763
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 1: La No Way.

764
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 3: Never been to Texas.

765
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 1: It's like at the north part of Texas, m creaking place.

766
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 3: I loved it. It is beautiful.

767
00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 1: We went to vets around the area to drop off pictures.

768
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 1: We also filed a police report inner city later.

769
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:48,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think, Okay, she stole the cat, all right,

770
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 3: sold it because it's purebread. Probably made a couple thousand

771
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:53,040
Speaker 3: and went to sell it.

772
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:54,400
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

773
00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:58,240
Speaker 3: And then she's gone on her way to Japan. She's

774
00:32:58,320 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 3: using her couple thousand, and.

775
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 1: She's h vincent.

776
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:03,479
Speaker 4: What do you think she has a weird hang up

777
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 4: with Like it seems almost classic. Yeah, she didn't like

778
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:09,960
Speaker 4: how it's pure bread. And you guys mentioned that like

779
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,680
Speaker 4: she had issues with like money and yeah, like OP

780
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 4: earning more, op earning more. I think, yeah, I think

781
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 4: the mom is the main thing, and the fiance is

782
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 4: dealing with the product. Yeah, the byproduct of that. But

783
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 4: it's good on the fiance for recognizing that and thinking, hey,

784
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 4: I need to grow past this and cut contact, because

785
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 4: that like a horrible, horrible trauma that they're working through.

786
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, this one sounds intense, she does, I'll think too,

787
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 1: get it. Not A lot has happened since I last updated. Ah,

788
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 1: what do you mean are we updating? Well, sorry, we'll read.

789
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 1: I still don't have my getting back. But we made

790
00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 1: post about it and reported her missing with her microchip.

791
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 3: Oh so she did have a microchip.

792
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, how microchip works. It's kind of like if they

793
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,240
Speaker 4: find the cat, they can scan it. Oh, it's not

794
00:33:59,280 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 4: like a tracker.

795
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 3: What what's the point.

796
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 1: That's what I'm about to say.

797
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:05,280
Speaker 4: It's like they find the cat and they put it

798
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:08,359
Speaker 4: on that little uh like self check out beep. They

799
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:08,920
Speaker 4: know what it is.

800
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 3: This is a lettuce, they know whose it is.

801
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 1: I've now been to therapy twice with my fiance. Overall,

802
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:17,240
Speaker 1: he seems to be reacting well to it. It says

803
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:19,520
Speaker 1: he feels like a huge weight has been lifted off

804
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:22,360
Speaker 1: his shoulders. His past is a lot darker than I

805
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:24,719
Speaker 1: would have thought, and explains why he acts the way

806
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:27,719
Speaker 1: he does at times. I've noticed he's become more open now.

807
00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 1: He talks about things that he would have otherwise ignored

808
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:33,399
Speaker 1: and tells me how he's been feeling instead of staying

809
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 1: quiet about it. He looks like a happier person and

810
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:38,759
Speaker 1: he will continue to go to therapy separately.

811
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:42,279
Speaker 3: Nice. Look at this, he's figuring stuff out.

812
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 1: His kitten seems too.

813
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, your kid actually helped in the long run.

814
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:50,320
Speaker 1: As for his mom, we went to her home again

815
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:54,440
Speaker 1: after she got back, and we're met with yelling and threats.

816
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:57,319
Speaker 1: She accused us of stalking her and sending people to

817
00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:59,600
Speaker 1: spy on her. She went to rent about how she's

818
00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 1: happy kitten is gone, because then I would feel how

819
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:04,640
Speaker 1: she did when I robbed her of her son.

820
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 3: Yi. Yi, she's like my little boy, So I stole

821
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:12,640
Speaker 3: your pet. That's not equivalent.

822
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:14,160
Speaker 1: Why do we have this mindset?

823
00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 3: Nikes?

824
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:17,439
Speaker 1: Man, it was just suck.

825
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:19,640
Speaker 3: That's why your son doesn't want to talk to you.

826
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 1: She said, he turned to a kiddie since he started

827
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:25,840
Speaker 1: dating me, and she's wish he could have found someone

828
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 1: who was actually a woman of the house. Apparently she

829
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:31,360
Speaker 1: hates that I'm the breadwinner and makes him look like

830
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 1: he's just a sugar baby. I did see firsthand how

831
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 1: he gets with her yelling though he tenses up and

832
00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 1: just blanks out, like if he mentally shuts down. My

833
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 1: mom called her the sea word and told her she

834
00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:46,239
Speaker 1: was a horrible mother, and then fiance's mom tried to

835
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 1: attack her. My mom grabbed her arm, twisted it, and

836
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 1: fiance's mom.

837
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:56,440
Speaker 3: Screaming, mommy mom, I did not expect this to joodo flipping.

838
00:35:56,800 --> 00:35:58,920
Speaker 1: The neighbor came out running of their house and ask

839
00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:02,239
Speaker 1: if everything was okay, and fiance's mom started yelling how

840
00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:05,879
Speaker 1: we were attacking her in her own home and she

841
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:08,960
Speaker 1: wants a restraining order. We left after that and went

842
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 1: back home. My fiance's phone has been blowing up with

843
00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:14,400
Speaker 1: texts and calls from his brother asking why we attacked

844
00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:18,279
Speaker 1: his mom and how he portrayed them. His mom did

845
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:20,799
Speaker 1: follow the police report against my mom, and I don't

846
00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 1: think we'll be able to get near.

847
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:27,280
Speaker 3: Her to see if she took her cat. Oh no, dude,

848
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 3: it's so frustrating. I just want you to get your

849
00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 3: cat back. Frown this crazy lady.

850
00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 1: She has it.

851
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 3: She absolutely has it. There's no way that she would

852
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:38,520
Speaker 3: be this like defensive if she didn't have the cat.

853
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,240
Speaker 1: Sadly, it feels like you have to record every altercation

854
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:41,919
Speaker 1: you have with this woman.

855
00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:43,880
Speaker 3: Now I think so. I mean, you're not seeing her

856
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:45,760
Speaker 3: that much. It's not that much record.

857
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:48,000
Speaker 1: That's true, because if you recorded this, you could like

858
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:49,560
Speaker 1: show like, oh, this was self defense.

859
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:52,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, you can see here the moment that my mother

860
00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:56,480
Speaker 3: twisted her arm. She was trying to kick a cat.

861
00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:58,920
Speaker 1: Of day three, four days later, I just got a

862
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:01,360
Speaker 1: call from a vet in a motown between war I

863
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:04,200
Speaker 1: live and fiance's mom's house. They had my kiddy, They

864
00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:04,840
Speaker 1: had your kidding.

865
00:37:05,160 --> 00:37:07,439
Speaker 3: What you about it at the vet?

866
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, someone brought her in and wanted her microchip, but

867
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 1: she already had one.

868
00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:16,719
Speaker 3: So she sold your cat. Yeah, yeah, she sold that

869
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:17,759
Speaker 3: thing and they did that.

870
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 1: They did that like it worked. It wasn't useless after all, Vincent,

871
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 1: thanks the whole reporting her missing with it worked. Thank

872
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 1: you for everyone who suggested that I'm crying now, I'm crying.

873
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:33,360
Speaker 1: You got your cat back, not yet, I wanted to

874
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 1: press charges. I know for sure my fiance's mom sold

875
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:38,839
Speaker 1: or gave her to that person. A person who has

876
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:42,760
Speaker 1: her is insistent that it's her cat and is still there. Liar,

877
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 1: how much wanted you to pay for this cat?

878
00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:46,439
Speaker 3: That's crazy. Yeah for her to be like, it's my cat,

879
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:48,880
Speaker 3: what are you talking about? And they're like, ma'am, this

880
00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 3: cat is a tracker on it. It's someone else's cat.

881
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 1: She's like, no, mine, I bought it, which I mean, yeah,

882
00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:54,759
Speaker 1: they brought me.

883
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 3: You better get that money back, girl. Update, we just

884
00:37:57,760 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 3: left the vets.

885
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:04,799
Speaker 1: I have her back, We got kittie back, kitty rescue mission.

886
00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:06,880
Speaker 3: We got a whole house full of animals.

887
00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:10,120
Speaker 1: Now she's been purring like crazy and it's her happy

888
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:13,759
Speaker 1: little self. I'm bawling. I missed her so much. When

889
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:17,800
Speaker 1: we got there. The lady was indeed fiance's mom's friend. Oh.

890
00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:20,279
Speaker 1: She was finding tooth and nail to keep her. We

891
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 1: told her we filed a police report as well as

892
00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:25,359
Speaker 1: had her missing with her micro trip. This lady did

893
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 1: not want to hear it. I told her I could

894
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 1: call the police and let them decide. Good answer, because

895
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:34,800
Speaker 1: I had her paperwork, her CFA registration, her health records,

896
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 1: and much much more.

897
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:38,840
Speaker 3: That's how you do it. You just say, okay, you

898
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 3: can keep complaining about how much you want my cat,

899
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:44,759
Speaker 3: but uh, you're gonna also get the police look at

900
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:46,799
Speaker 3: the papers she brought receipts. Uh huh.

901
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 1: She backed off after that. My fiance was the calm

902
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:52,319
Speaker 1: one and explained to her that we were going to

903
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 1: press charges against his mom for robbery and that she

904
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 1: could either be considered an accomplice to that or she

905
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:01,959
Speaker 1: could test the against her. I don't think she thought

906
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 1: we were serious until my fiance said that. She said

907
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:07,960
Speaker 1: my fiance was a horrible son for thinking of turning

908
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,319
Speaker 1: on his own mom like that. I countered that my

909
00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:13,400
Speaker 1: fiance's mom was the one who stole my kitty. She

910
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:16,800
Speaker 1: went into my home, took something that wasn't hers. Person's

911
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:19,520
Speaker 1: your fiance's mom's friend. Well, I mean she's not gonna

912
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:20,239
Speaker 1: do the right thing.

913
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah. If she's friends with that mom, it's pretty

914
00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:25,880
Speaker 3: telling by what type of person she is.

915
00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 1: During all of this, one of the assistants called the

916
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 1: police and two of them arrived shortly after.

917
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 3: Mom'm gonta get arrested the friend. I think the friend.

918
00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:38,000
Speaker 3: They're talking to the friend, but I thought the mom

919
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:38,480
Speaker 3: was okay.

920
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:41,239
Speaker 1: We got her to make a statement against fiance's mom.

921
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:45,120
Speaker 1: Nice and they also got ours. They said it was

922
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:47,359
Speaker 1: a good thing that we already had a paper trail.

923
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:50,480
Speaker 1: It de escalated after that and we were able to

924
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:53,240
Speaker 1: talk through everything. I guess this woman was just lonely

925
00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:55,680
Speaker 1: and had been talking to fiance's mom about it, And

926
00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 1: shortly after fiance's mom took my kitten and went and

927
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:01,879
Speaker 1: sold it to her the same day. She said that

928
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:03,880
Speaker 1: she only bought her for fifty.

929
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 3: Fifty dollars for a purebread cat. She lowballed that price there, dang,

930
00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 3: she could have got like I have got way more money,

931
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:14,319
Speaker 3: bought big ones. Yeah, and that the kittie was so

932
00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:15,680
Speaker 3: sweet that even.

933
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:18,080
Speaker 1: When she knew we were looking for her, fiance's mom

934
00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 1: told her that she didn't want to give her up.

935
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:21,839
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, it's the best guy ever.

936
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 3: She's like, this is such a cute cat. I just

937
00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:25,359
Speaker 3: paid fifty dollars for it.

938
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 1: Also, forever she spent she sold it for fifty bucks.

939
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:28,800
Speaker 1: That's like gas.

940
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. Purebread animals are so expensive, or

941
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:34,799
Speaker 3: that at least they can be.

942
00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:36,160
Speaker 1: I was looking for a certain dog.

943
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:39,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, seven grand Yeah, no, it's crazy. She ended up taking.

944
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:42,359
Speaker 1: Her to the vet because the kitty kept scratching her

945
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:44,799
Speaker 1: ears and had a lot of fluid in them, and

946
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:47,480
Speaker 1: she was worried about her. That said, Kitty is fine,

947
00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:50,279
Speaker 1: but she has a used infection in her ears. That's

948
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 1: what's causing her eyes to water more than usual, and

949
00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 1: that it's causing discomfort in her ears. He gave us

950
00:40:56,280 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 1: some drops and said, use him twice a day and

951
00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:02,040
Speaker 1: she should be good in a couple weeks. What do

952
00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:03,239
Speaker 1: we think of those stories so far?

953
00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 3: Boy, oh boy, it's a lot. I did not expect

954
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 3: twists and turns onion. I think that we now now

955
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:12,680
Speaker 3: that we know that the mom sold this cat. Yeah,

956
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:16,920
Speaker 3: just went through all of this trouble to steal Ope's pet.

957
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:18,320
Speaker 1: Emotional damage.

958
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:20,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, you could totally sue him. I mean like you can.

959
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:24,080
Speaker 3: Probably they're filing a police report. So yeah, but I think, yeah,

960
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:27,640
Speaker 3: definitely having a conversation with your fiance about relationship with

961
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 3: what his relationship will be like with his mom going forward. Yeah,

962
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:35,280
Speaker 3: about no contact because she freaking stole your pets. Yeah,

963
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 3: and just kind of getting on the same page before

964
00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 3: you think about getting married.

965
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:39,960
Speaker 1: I've got a line of stuff up here. After that,

966
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:41,680
Speaker 1: I spoke one on one with a lady and told

967
00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 1: her I could sponsor an adoption for a kiddie if

968
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:46,600
Speaker 1: she wanted me to, and she said she would love that.

969
00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 3: Wait, this lady just wanted a cat. She just always

970
00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:52,479
Speaker 3: wanted a cat. She was like, wait, I liked that cat.

971
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 3: It was really cute.

972
00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 1: She's older and really wanted a companion. We're going to

973
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:58,200
Speaker 1: meet up next week to do that.

974
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 3: Oh wait, now I feel bad for that lady. She

975
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:04,839
Speaker 3: just got in a bad squeaze. Yeah, she just got swindled. Yeah,

976
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:06,839
Speaker 3: she paid fifty dollars for a cat she doesn't even get.

977
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 1: As for fiance's mom, police seem hesitant on arresting here

978
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:12,720
Speaker 1: for just a cat, so they didn't want to do anything.

979
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:15,520
Speaker 1: They said it was up to the San Antonio Police

980
00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:18,880
Speaker 1: Department to do it. So that's our next step. I guess.

981
00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:21,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're taking this all the way to the Supreme Court,

982
00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:23,960
Speaker 3: your wrestler. I would file charges she broke into the

983
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 3: house and stole something. Well, I think she was invited in.

984
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:30,200
Speaker 1: She stole something, yeah, I mean yeah, and then sold it.

985
00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 3: I mean the friend could absolutely file charges for being

986
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:35,279
Speaker 3: sold something that wasn't you know, hers to sell.

987
00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 1: When he asked, wonder how much the cat is worth?

988
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:40,759
Speaker 1: Because over a certain amount, the seth could be a

989
00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:43,719
Speaker 1: much worse charge. It could be like a felony.

990
00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 3: You have a lot of options here. We're almost on.

991
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:47,239
Speaker 1: Now, and I want to upload a pick of hers

992
00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 1: so y'all can see how adorable she is. I'm worn

993
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:52,760
Speaker 1: out and feel like I can take a nap for days.

994
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:54,920
Speaker 1: Upday four, got another update.

995
00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:56,320
Speaker 3: I have no further thoughts.

996
00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:59,040
Speaker 1: Update four. I finally got my kiddie back.

997
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 3: After two weeks.

998
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:04,399
Speaker 1: She's home and acting like nothing in the world is wrong.

999
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:05,720
Speaker 3: She's just a little kiddy.

1000
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 1: I did not expect the boyfriend to go or the

1001
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:12,439
Speaker 1: fiance to go through like so much of emotional breakthrough, truly, Like.

1002
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:14,440
Speaker 3: We find out that that this like cat's been stolen

1003
00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:16,359
Speaker 3: by his mom, and he's like, I had a whole

1004
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 3: realization that my mom is like not great and I

1005
00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:24,280
Speaker 3: had this childhood trauma. And she's like, oh oh, oh okay.

1006
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:25,959
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I'm still looking for my cat.

1007
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 3: I got it, buy my cat. That's all I gotta say.

1008
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:30,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, but we've got another story coming up from you

1009
00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:32,880
Speaker 1: for you, from our freaking r slash.

1010
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:36,359
Speaker 3: Okay, so it's hey John Ogi host here. We're gonna

1011
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:37,360
Speaker 3: get back to this episode.

1012
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:39,160
Speaker 4: But a quick three minute break of ads from a

1013
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1014
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:44,239
Speaker 3: I want to turn my boyfriend's grandfather's ashes into a

1015
00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:44,879
Speaker 3: wedding ring.

1016
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:46,920
Speaker 1: That is kind of creative.

1017
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:51,440
Speaker 3: And this comes directly from the Okay Storytime Separate. Oh hello, Reddit,

1018
00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:55,360
Speaker 3: I've gotten odd one here, So here's the story. My

1019
00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:58,839
Speaker 3: twenty nine female boyfriend twenty seven male and I met

1020
00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:01,959
Speaker 3: almost two years ago and we've been official since May

1021
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 3: twenty twenty four. I've had an unstable living situation, so

1022
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:07,760
Speaker 3: I moved in with him pretty fast, and he lived

1023
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 3: with his dad and grandpa. I don't have a lot

1024
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:13,040
Speaker 3: of extended family myself, no grandparents that I was ever

1025
00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:15,200
Speaker 3: able to meet, so I was happy to be so

1026
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:18,759
Speaker 3: warmly welcomed by strangers with good hearts. By the way,

1027
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 3: this comes from sad Pickle five to five. And if

1028
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:22,840
Speaker 3: you want to spit your own stories, go to the

1029
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 3: r slash Okay Storytime severed it and we're here to

1030
00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:27,800
Speaker 3: give good advice. Gooflly, But we don't have all the answers.

1031
00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:30,080
Speaker 3: We only know what we'd do, So let us know

1032
00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 3: what you would do in the comments and OPI says

1033
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:36,640
Speaker 3: his dad has a drinking problem. His grandpa was on dialysis,

1034
00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:40,120
Speaker 3: and my boyfriend spent almost his entire childhood in the

1035
00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:43,880
Speaker 3: foster care system before meeting his dad and grandpa at eighteen. Right,

1036
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:45,880
Speaker 3: he didn't have a good relationship with his dad and

1037
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 3: held a lot of resentment toward him for how he

1038
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:50,480
Speaker 3: grew up, but he loved his grandpa. It didn't take

1039
00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:52,880
Speaker 3: long for me to love his grandpa myself, and after

1040
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:57,319
Speaker 3: only two months, I loved that cranky old man. Unfortunately

1041
00:44:57,400 --> 00:45:00,360
Speaker 3: he had a heart attack. No, that's st terrible.

1042
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 1: Don't make us fall in love with somebody that they

1043
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:04,120
Speaker 1: pass away. Stop up.

1044
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 3: His grandfather's passing hit him hard, and I've done all

1045
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:09,160
Speaker 3: that I know how to do, being there to listen,

1046
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:12,880
Speaker 3: letting him cry it out, and hugging him before he

1047
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:15,560
Speaker 3: passed away. I took photos of them together after he

1048
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:18,319
Speaker 3: passed away. Our very first Christmas, I gifted him one

1049
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:20,239
Speaker 3: of those lockets you can peek into to see the

1050
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:21,880
Speaker 3: photo of him and his grandpa together.

1051
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:25,439
Speaker 1: Ah what was like for couples of No, you can.

1052
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 3: You can put it like any family member.

1053
00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 2: If you like, any loved one could just like a memoris,

1054
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:30,239
Speaker 2: give me a pet.

1055
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:31,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot of people do pets.

1056
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:34,440
Speaker 1: Don't trade, okay, as long as the pictures like the

1057
00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:36,800
Speaker 1: grandpa holding like a turtle, he's shirtless.

1058
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it just said, it's like the og screensaver.

1059
00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:41,520
Speaker 3: At a celebration of life, we each got a portion

1060
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:44,840
Speaker 3: of his ashes in a small glass jar the size

1061
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 3: of my pinky and it sits like a knick knack

1062
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:49,560
Speaker 3: on his TV stand. Oh well, now that brings me

1063
00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:52,719
Speaker 3: to the present. Okay, I love this man more than words.

1064
00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:55,800
Speaker 3: We've been through the hard times together and my becoming

1065
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:58,280
Speaker 3: homeless and him helping me get on my feet. Him,

1066
00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:01,239
Speaker 3: well us, but most him using his grandpa, while I've

1067
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:04,240
Speaker 3: been the emotional rock, working through bad habits and getting

1068
00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:07,680
Speaker 3: better jobs and becoming self sufficient adults. So here it is.

1069
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:11,440
Speaker 3: Marriage is not an if, it's a when. Oh, and

1070
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:13,919
Speaker 3: we plan to be engaged within the year. And yes

1071
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:16,480
Speaker 3: that has been openly communicated between the both of us

1072
00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:19,840
Speaker 3: regarding our wants and expectations in that regard.

1073
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:22,560
Speaker 1: Real question, Yeah, should you have that conversation?

1074
00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:25,120
Speaker 3: You should be like as no, no, no, you should

1075
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:28,640
Speaker 3: always have the conversation, but not necessarily say like when

1076
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:30,759
Speaker 3: and where. Yeah, but then it kind of takes away

1077
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:32,880
Speaker 3: the supper, like the surprise factor.

1078
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 2: Sometimes you don't need the surprise. Sometimes they just know. Yeah.

1079
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:38,279
Speaker 3: I don't think you have to surprise them with like

1080
00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 3: your getting married. I think you surprised them with like

1081
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:41,640
Speaker 3: the event.

1082
00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:43,760
Speaker 2: Oh, Vincent has a take and we need to connect

1083
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 2: that anyway.

1084
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:47,480
Speaker 4: So it's so what I say, like what I've heard

1085
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:53,319
Speaker 4: is the in getting engaged isn't the surprise, it's the proposal.

1086
00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:54,399
Speaker 1: Oh again.

1087
00:46:54,719 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1088
00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:58,280
Speaker 4: So normally, like if you're going to get engaged to someone,

1089
00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:02,640
Speaker 4: you guys both know you're both endgame, but the big

1090
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:04,319
Speaker 4: surprise is how you do it.

1091
00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:05,719
Speaker 3: Oh, got it, got it? Got it? Yeah.

1092
00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 1: So like if it's too much of a surprise, then

1093
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:12,000
Speaker 1: we're in trouble. It's like, oh no, don't want oh

1094
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Speaker 1: No to be there?

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00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:15,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, got it. So that being said, here's my idea,

1096
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:18,399
Speaker 3: and I would really appreciate all the feedback I can

1097
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:20,480
Speaker 3: get before I make any rash decisions.

1098
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:21,719
Speaker 1: Oh boy, but there is eight we.

1099
00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:24,920
Speaker 3: Bit left to this story. Any final thoughts or advice.

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00:47:25,080 --> 00:47:27,520
Speaker 1: I know where she's going with this, her idea. Never

1101
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:28,280
Speaker 1: heard of this before.

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00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 3: I need to read what the idea is and then

1103
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:32,879
Speaker 3: give the advice. I was thinking about Pops not being

1104
00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:35,120
Speaker 3: there to watch his grandson get married, and it's been

1105
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 3: gnawing at me that when the time finally comes, the

1106
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:39,839
Speaker 3: day will be happy, but there will be an ache

1107
00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:42,560
Speaker 3: from the missing spot that Pop's left behind. So in

1108
00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:44,960
Speaker 3: these little jars, sits some of the ashes of his grandpa,

1109
00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:47,520
Speaker 3: and I found sites that turn ashes into different things.

1110
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:50,360
Speaker 3: I was considering having my jar sent in to be

1111
00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:53,319
Speaker 3: turned into his wedding band. It would symbolize our love,

1112
00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 3: but it would also be a way that regardless Pops

1113
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:58,160
Speaker 3: would quite literally always be with them. I'm literally tearing

1114
00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:00,400
Speaker 3: up right now thinking about it. It sounds perfect to

1115
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:02,200
Speaker 3: me in my head, but I also want to make

1116
00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:04,560
Speaker 3: sure I see every side of this before I do

1117
00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 3: something like that, So I really need as much input

1118
00:48:07,040 --> 00:48:09,080
Speaker 3: as I can get. Thank you for reading this far,

1119
00:48:09,160 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 3: and thank you even more if you give me insight

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00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:11,640
Speaker 3: on this idea.

1121
00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:12,879
Speaker 2: It's one of our own too, right.

1122
00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:16,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, it'd be cute. Is cute, but I I don't

1123
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:20,359
Speaker 3: know the only thing. I would just worry about.

1124
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:21,880
Speaker 2: His response and how he would react.

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00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:24,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, a ring is like a symbol of love, and

1126
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:26,319
Speaker 1: it's like, what's the grandfather doing in that?

1127
00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:29,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, honestly, I would probably if I were in this situation,

1128
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:30,920
Speaker 3: I would probably ask him.

1129
00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:34,000
Speaker 2: I would ask him, hey, could we take your grandparents

1130
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 2: your grand grandfather's ashes, and do you want to turn

1131
00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:39,320
Speaker 2: into something that symbolizes like that you can wear forever,

1132
00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:44,759
Speaker 2: like a ring or even a necklace like a because sometimes.

1133
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:47,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, I think I think asking him is the

1134
00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:51,720
Speaker 3: best way to go about this, just if you really

1135
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:54,400
Speaker 3: want to be sure, because I can't say how he'll react,

1136
00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:55,920
Speaker 3: None of us know how he'll react.

1137
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 2: That could maybe go the opposite way. It might tick

1138
00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:00,960
Speaker 2: him off like how dare you do that to?

1139
00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 1: You know?

1140
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:03,360
Speaker 2: And the remembrance of my grandpa kind of yeah, it

1141
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:05,400
Speaker 2: might make he might really think it's a great idea.

1142
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 2: But the only way you could find out.

1143
00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:09,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I think asking because I really don't

1144
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:10,479
Speaker 3: know how you'd react.

1145
00:49:10,560 --> 00:49:13,319
Speaker 2: Have you? Have you guys seen those weird like like

1146
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:15,319
Speaker 2: they do ashes, but they also do like people have

1147
00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:17,960
Speaker 2: done their own blood in like a vial or like

1148
00:49:18,120 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 2: wait wait, doing what like give their partner like a

1149
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:25,160
Speaker 2: jewelry like that into the jewelry. Yeah, so you can

1150
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 2: clone them.

1151
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 3: A lot of people are saying, I love that idea.

1152
00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 3: I would you know if my partner did this? I

1153
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:32,880
Speaker 3: would love that. I really think it is case to casees.

1154
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:34,359
Speaker 2: Chreti says that would gross me out, So.

1155
00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:37,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. I think that you kind of have to

1156
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:39,120
Speaker 3: ask to be to be sure.

1157
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:41,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a that's a new one, dude. The things

1158
00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:43,600
Speaker 1: you can do with technology nowadays.

1159
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:44,400
Speaker 3: Kind of scary.

1160
00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 1: Theoretically, I could have my I could have my hand

1161
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:49,719
Speaker 1: dropped off. Yeah, put into an ash and I could

1162
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 1: give that. I'd be like, you have a piece of

1163
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:52,319
Speaker 1: me everywhere you go, and I put that into the

1164
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 1: jewelry and make that a diamond.

1165
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:55,399
Speaker 3: But that is also the end of the story. Well,

1166
00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:57,719
Speaker 3: and we have some comments to read. These comments come

1167
00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:00,239
Speaker 3: from the video bride Zilla discarded me after you using

1168
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:03,200
Speaker 3: me for her wedding and this was posted November twenty second,

1169
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:07,080
Speaker 3: twenty twenty five. Nice tldr op grew up best friends

1170
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 3: with the couple and was asked to be a co

1171
00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:12,839
Speaker 3: maid of honor and helped plan their wedding. She ended

1172
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:16,799
Speaker 3: up organizing almost every event, spending tons of money and

1173
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:21,840
Speaker 3: running around non stop. At the wedding, she was humiliated,

1174
00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 3: kicked out and replaced in the bridal party, and blocked

1175
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:29,479
Speaker 3: by the couple. In the end, OPI had more fun

1176
00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:32,160
Speaker 3: with other guests and realized she was better off without them.

1177
00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:34,479
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, if you're curious to know the full story,

1178
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:36,640
Speaker 3: you can go watch the full video that get her

1179
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:37,719
Speaker 3: full reactions here.

1180
00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 2: Yeah. I remember this story and they all made fun

1181
00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:44,920
Speaker 2: of like she was used completely, Yeah, because they were

1182
00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:46,640
Speaker 2: all I think they were all like really rich.

1183
00:50:46,719 --> 00:50:52,000
Speaker 1: Uhl, I dude, someone had like rich friends and they

1184
00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:54,279
Speaker 1: had one person that they just give money too olds theme,

1185
00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:56,880
Speaker 1: like just it was like their their their dog. They

1186
00:50:56,920 --> 00:50:58,279
Speaker 1: were like, oh, go do this, go do that.

1187
00:50:58,400 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 3: Huh. That's terrible.

1188
00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:02,399
Speaker 2: Maybe Rabbit one says should have sued for money spent

1189
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:05,480
Speaker 2: on travel, the room, dress, and emotional trauma. And I

1190
00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:07,839
Speaker 2: think we also said that that's super messed up and

1191
00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:11,560
Speaker 2: we just lost. They premeditated using you and having you travel.

1192
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:14,200
Speaker 2: They're fully knowing they were not going to let you

1193
00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:16,240
Speaker 2: go to the wedding. They even had like a doorman

1194
00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:19,719
Speaker 2: or like a security guy, like a check with a checklist.

1195
00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:22,920
Speaker 3: She saw day. That's terrible, that's so weird.

1196
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:24,879
Speaker 2: I think the one that stuck with me is they

1197
00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:27,200
Speaker 2: were on like a because on the list, like you,

1198
00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 2: they go to like a private island or like with

1199
00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:31,720
Speaker 2: some island for the actual venue, and they're taking boats

1200
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 2: and everyone's on the boats and they're all like the

1201
00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 2: I think the groom and the grooms men are all

1202
00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:39,400
Speaker 2: sitting on the boat pointing at op and laughing at

1203
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:39,960
Speaker 2: her at the dog.

1204
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:41,960
Speaker 3: Terrible. Oh my god, that's.

1205
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:44,320
Speaker 2: Like a nightmare, you know. And yeah, we were like, whoa,

1206
00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:45,520
Speaker 2: that's brutal.

1207
00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 3: Go to the video if you're a no More.

1208
00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:50,680
Speaker 2: Cats treat ninety four to thirty four, says the wedding planner.

1209
00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:50,879
Speaker 3: Op.

1210
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:53,840
Speaker 2: You aren't allowed a lawyer in small claims. You have

1211
00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 2: to represent yourself. There are a few exceptions, but the

1212
00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:59,920
Speaker 2: situation does not apply. She should absolutely have sued them

1213
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:02,600
Speaker 2: the cost of the dress that they stole, Yeah, and

1214
00:52:02,680 --> 00:52:05,160
Speaker 2: the cost of her flights and accommodations since she traveled

1215
00:52:05,200 --> 00:52:08,200
Speaker 2: there due to their false declaration. Absolutely, she had an

1216
00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:10,759
Speaker 2: invitation to the wedding but was refused entry. She paid

1217
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 2: for the tickets, hotels, the hotel room, and worse than

1218
00:52:14,520 --> 00:52:16,680
Speaker 2: nothing since it was used by the cousin. Yeah, they

1219
00:52:16,719 --> 00:52:17,680
Speaker 2: replaced her with a cousin.

1220
00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:22,840
Speaker 3: That awful, awful, my god, these people are a nightmare. Nikes.

1221
00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:26,680
Speaker 2: Soul Child one three seven says, literally raging over how

1222
00:52:26,680 --> 00:52:28,880
Speaker 2: they treated Op in the first story very hurtful and

1223
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:31,440
Speaker 2: messed up. Hope some sort of justice happens eventually, and

1224
00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:33,560
Speaker 2: I think, OP, just like I'll move on. I'll try

1225
00:52:33,600 --> 00:52:34,720
Speaker 2: and get a lawyer or something.

1226
00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's there's I feel like this so hard in

1227
00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:39,480
Speaker 3: that situation to prove.

1228
00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:43,120
Speaker 2: And the final comment here by amazing grace exo XO one.

1229
00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:45,960
Speaker 2: I can't believe there are such disgusting people in the world.

1230
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:48,200
Speaker 2: The first story left me so angry. Yeah, there was

1231
00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:50,560
Speaker 2: no resolution, OPI was like, I'm so sad, and then

1232
00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:52,799
Speaker 2: she just partied with some hotel guests that were like

1233
00:52:53,200 --> 00:52:56,360
Speaker 2: more inclusive to her than the entire wedding.

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00:52:56,520 --> 00:52:58,800
Speaker 3: Well, I hope o Op is okay.

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00:52:58,920 --> 00:52:59,759
Speaker 1: Me too, Me too.

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00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:03,400
Speaker 3: That's the end of those comments and this episode. So

1237
00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:05,480
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