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Speaker 1: Allen rights today, there's no place like Vegas. There's no

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Speaker 1: higher achy there archy. Oops, it's just a bunch of

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Speaker 1: degenerates with the same common goal. Well I don't know, Okay,

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Speaker 1: Well I think there are a lot of goals in Vegas.

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Speaker 1: I mean there's the drunk goal, there's the gambling goal,

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Speaker 2: Ladies to be a degenerate though, like everyone has a

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Speaker 2: nefarious goal, and like I was talking about this with Jason,

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Speaker 2: and there's just there's no one's better than the other.

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Speaker 3: We're all just, you know, we want to just have

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Speaker 4: The land of the equal.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, except that's not true.

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Speaker 4: They go for shows. I feel like they think they're

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Speaker 4: better than everybody.

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Speaker 1: I just go for the shows in the eating. That's

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Speaker 1: your way of saying, like, I'm not like the rest.

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Speaker 6: Of you better than Yes, yeah, that's true, that's true.

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Speaker 1: I agree. I agree. I just I just go to

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Speaker 1: eating for the shows. That's that's the people saying to you,

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Speaker 1: I'm not like you. I don't gamble, I'll go to

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Speaker 1: the club. I don't you know what, You're right, You're

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Speaker 6: Yes, I turned into that. Yeah, that is me. I

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Speaker 6: am the person.

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Speaker 2: I am the one you go to your shows because

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Speaker 2: we're trying to be degenerates.

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Speaker 7: Okay, roller coaster in Vegas for my wedding, Like.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's a lot going on.

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Speaker 4: Oh well, Kaylin was changing outfish.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, listen, I love it. It's a beautiful place.

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Speaker 5: I know, we do.

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Speaker 3: I have one tear going down my face right now.

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Speaker 5: It's beautiful.

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Speaker 1: It is that place, right it's you know, anything goes

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Speaker 1: what happened in Vegas. So yeah, I had the extra drink,

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Speaker 1: you know, that's what you're supposed to when you're there.

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Speaker 1: How was the trip you were going Thursday through yesterday?

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Speaker 1: How was the trip?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I went Wednesday night, so like that's a

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Speaker 2: long time to be in vague.

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Speaker 8: You know. It was a.

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Speaker 3: It was a difficult adventure.

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Speaker 2: I decided to embark on going to Vegas for four

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Speaker 3: That's that's a little too much. But it was fun.

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Speaker 2: Lots of I don't know, basketball, but then that ended

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Speaker 2: sadly for me. I didn't really gamble as one would

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Speaker 1: I guess already, degenerate gambler, Why didn't you gamble in Vegas?

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Speaker 1: Is it just not as appealing when it's just, you know,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it feels like naughtier that way or something.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: And then I tried to use my app, but it

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Speaker 2: says because I wasn't in Illinois, I couldn't use it

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Speaker 3: But I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Justation.

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Speaker 1: This morning a spider was hanging from the ceiling in

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Speaker 1: my kitchen today. Yes, now they have gone too far.

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Speaker 1: This is a bathroom insect. What are you doing in the.

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Speaker 9: Kitchen exactly by my food? How dare you?

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Speaker 10: Like?

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 9: I hate seeing a spider in the shower. But at

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Speaker 9: an acceptable spot, right, Like I'm vulnerable, I'm naked, I'm wet,

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Speaker 9: there's water everywhere, right, but like, okay, if I'm gonna

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Speaker 9: see you anywhere in my home, then like, oh.

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Speaker 1: My god, I had a sip of coffee in my

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Speaker 9: gotta chill, Like you got to chose, you're doing too much. Yeah,

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Speaker 9: How dare I just set you know, a lesson or

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Speaker 1: And he's not gonna be able to tell his friends

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Speaker 9: stop it here exactly no, but as we.

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Speaker 1: Learned, your fear of spiders was not. In fact, you

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Speaker 9: One. But you asked, but you wanted that that was

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Speaker 9: something you wanted, yes, and that spiders can be in

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Speaker 5: Like did your parents lie to you growing up?

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Speaker 1: Because I've had this, I've had this on my okay,

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Speaker 1: this is this sit with you to this day. Eight five, five, five, nine,

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Speaker 5: And it's a lie.

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Speaker 1: You know, the toy stores closed, the ice cream stores

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Speaker 1: I guess Polly tries to body slammer all the time.

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Speaker 1: Now there's a reception?

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Speaker 5: Is she with the phone? Go figure it out by

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Speaker 5: Why A big, old lie.

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Speaker 1: Complete and total lie. However, parenting experts are saying that

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Speaker 1: if you believed that that your parents did a nice job,

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Speaker 1: Of all the lies you can tell your kids, of

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Speaker 5: So why don't you even a lie?

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Speaker 1: is that even a lie? If you tell your kids

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Speaker 7: you know, like that holiday magic for kids, because once

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Speaker 5: It's not magical.

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Speaker 7: This is anything about magical.

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Speaker 7: But my kid of kind of has an attitude already.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so let's get to the real eyes. Like, okay,

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Speaker 5: Like immediately, yes, yes, with the same thing.

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Speaker 15: Yeah, well now I know.

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Speaker 16: Now I have my own kids that sent me.

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Speaker 5: You're too glad you call uh heinikoll good morning.

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Speaker 17: How are you guys?

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Speaker 5: Now? It is just your parents lied to you about this?

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Speaker 5: Damn I had to call them out. Yeah, they told

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Speaker 6: That fish because it was kind of traumatizing once you

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Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. I refuse. Hey, Samantha, Hi, this

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so I lie.

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Speaker 10: To her saying that Chuck E Cheese has to invite us.

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Speaker 12: Yep, I tell her.

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Speaker 4: Oh, he called me.

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Speaker 1: He's amazing. That is a that's a really good one.

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Speaker 10: Yes, thank you too.

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Speaker 5: I love it.

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Speaker 1: He said we can go this week, but you better

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Speaker 13: like when you're in second grade learning about immigrants and

443
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Speaker 13: you know alis Iowa's, everyone would tell me and my family, oh,

444
00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:48,200
Speaker 13: Papa swam here from Croatia, That's how he got here.

445
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Speaker 13: So why would I ever think that my strong Croatian

446
00:18:52,760 --> 00:18:56,159
Speaker 13: grandfather whatever lie to me. So it wasn't until I

447
00:18:56,200 --> 00:18:58,359
Speaker 13: was twenty years old that I was swimming in the

448
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Speaker 13: Adriatic Seat with my cousin that I thought, hmmm, I

449
00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:05,680
Speaker 13: don't think Papa actually swam and no one knew.

450
00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:09,720
Speaker 14: But yeah, no one, no one knew.

451
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Speaker 13: I was still believing this.

452
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Speaker 12: Kale.

453
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Speaker 5: Yeah, wow, yeah, I know.

454
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Speaker 1: He Yeah, he in fact did not swim from Croatia,

455
00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:19,159
Speaker 1: but that would have been quite a few exactly.

456
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Speaker 13: He still calls himself the Adriatic Seat champ.

457
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Speaker 5: So there you go. Let him have it.

458
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Speaker 1: Have a good good morning. Yeah you too, appreciate you.

459
00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:34,440
Speaker 1: Hey's Steve, cool, Good morning, Steve. You a lot of

460
00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:35,359
Speaker 1: your kids about this.

461
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Speaker 5: What is it?

462
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Speaker 16: Well, we used to tell him that if they pulld

463
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Speaker 16: us a lot a dot would tramp on their tongues.

464
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Speaker 15: But our adults could shoot.

465
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Speaker 13: Well, they couldn't lie to each other, but that way

466
00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:46,800
Speaker 13: we could catch them when there are.

467
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Speaker 1: I see, yeah, our eyes in the back of the head.

468
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Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of some of the other ones

469
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Speaker 1: that had to do with lies. Yeah, right, but your

470
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Speaker 1: parents had lie to detectorir ability.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. Well, do you think they still lie to you

472
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Speaker 5: or no?

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Speaker 11: Oh?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, rappinly.

475
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Speaker 1: I didn't believe you. Thank you, Steve. Have a good day. Okay,

476
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Speaker 1: wait a minute, Nicole, Hey, Nicole, good morning.

477
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Speaker 10: Hello, Hello, good morning.

478
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Speaker 5: Uh what did your parents tell you? This is a lie?

479
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Speaker 5: Your parents told you?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, so, like it was ever like any event going

481
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Speaker 10: on or anything, and the weather it was like really

482
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Speaker 10: bad or it was raining, like it always forecasted, like

483
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Speaker 10: rain on my birthdays. My dad would always say, oh,

484
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Speaker 10: they don't worry about it. I called the weatherman, like

485
00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:31,480
Speaker 10: the weather's gonna be perfect. And I seriously thought that

486
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Speaker 10: the weatherman could control the weather when I was younger,

487
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Speaker 10: and so it's sweet, but lo and behold, my dad

488
00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:38,520
Speaker 10: just kind of looked at the forecast and like he

489
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Speaker 10: knew it was gonna be sunny later.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he didn't call the weather man. He didn't call

491
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Speaker 1: Chuck e Cheese, he didn't call anybody, didn't.

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Speaker 10: No, I don't think so.

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Speaker 5: I don't think you did, Nicole. Thank you, have a

494
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Speaker 5: good day.

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Speaker 10: Thank you too. Bye.

496
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Speaker 1: Here's some of the other, like more classic ones that

497
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Speaker 1: I think we were probably all told at one point

498
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Speaker 1: or another. As kids reading in the dark will ruin

499
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Speaker 1: your eyes. Not true. According to eye doctors at Harvard.

500
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Speaker 1: It might cause a headache because it causes strain, but

501
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Speaker 1: I guess it does not actually damage your eyesight, which

502
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Speaker 1: I can tell you. I was today years old when

503
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Speaker 1: I learned that, because I read in dim light all

504
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Speaker 1: the time, and I'm convinced that that's why my eyesight's

505
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Speaker 1: going if it is, and I just now learned that's

506
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Speaker 1: not true. Oh wow, knuckle cracking leads to arthritis.

507
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Speaker 5: That it does not.

508
00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:26,720
Speaker 1: Apparently, Swallowing gum takes seven years to digest.

509
00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:28,280
Speaker 5: Apparently it does not.

510
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Speaker 1: In fact, your parents didn't want you to chew that

511
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Speaker 1: chocolate milk come or just swallow it. Rather, chocolate milk

512
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Speaker 1: comes from brown cows.

513
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Speaker 5: Never believe that.

514
00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:42,040
Speaker 1: Cross eyes. Crossed eyes will get stuck that way, they won't.

515
00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:45,800
Speaker 1: In case you're wondering, swim too soon after eating and

516
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Speaker 1: you'll cramp up and drown.

517
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Speaker 5: By the drowned part, no one ever.

518
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Speaker 3: Told me that.

519
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Speaker 1: They did say you have to wait ninety minutes after

520
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Speaker 1: showing down or something might happen. But according to the

521
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Speaker 1: American Academy of Pediatric the American Red Cross, that is

522
00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:05,399
Speaker 1: not true. If you finish swallowing at least before jumping in,

523
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Speaker 1: then you'll be okay. The hour weight was just made

524
00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:12,359
Speaker 1: up completely. Watermelons will grow in your stomach if you

525
00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:15,119
Speaker 1: swallow the seeds. Not true. Sitting too close to the

526
00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:18,119
Speaker 1: TV will cause eye damage not true. Apparently touch a

527
00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:21,840
Speaker 1: toe you'll get warts. Not true. I'm trying to think

528
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Speaker 1: of some I'm skipping over some of these.

529
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Speaker 5: I don't. It's too early for this.

530
00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:31,040
Speaker 1: Keep your eyes open when sneezing, and they'll fall out.

531
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Speaker 3: It's terrifying.

532
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Speaker 5: What parent was teaching their kid that? That is terrifying?

533
00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:40,720
Speaker 1: Oh, the family pen's living happily on a farm up stair. Yeah,

534
00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:44,280
Speaker 1: that one goes back to the Uh. Sometimes it's just easier.

535
00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:47,080
Speaker 1: I guess drinking coffee will stunt your growth. It won't

536
00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:50,920
Speaker 1: the toy. The candy story is closed. Eating carries will

537
00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:51,960
Speaker 1: let you see in the dark.

538
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Speaker 5: Really.

539
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Speaker 1: Oh and here's the most classic one. And I grew

540
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Speaker 1: up in Arizona where everybody had a pool. If you

541
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Speaker 1: pee in the pool, the water will turn blue. The

542
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:03,880
Speaker 1: water will turn red. There's some kind of a chemical

543
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 1: in there that will make it so people can tell

544
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:07,720
Speaker 1: if you pee in the pool or not. That is

545
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Speaker 1: not true, and in fact that Okay, Caitlyn, it is true.

546
00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:15,760
Speaker 5: More Fredshell.

547
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:16,520
Speaker 19: Next.

548
00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:21,960
Speaker 1: Okay, I've ever been left waiting by the phone.

549
00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:25,840
Speaker 5: It's the Fred Show. Hey, Abby, good morning, Welcome to

550
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:26,720
Speaker 5: the show. How are you?

551
00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:29,040
Speaker 14: I'm good, guys, how are you doing?

552
00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:30,840
Speaker 5: Great? Welcome to waiting by the phone.

553
00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:32,520
Speaker 1: So we're trying to figure out what happened with this

554
00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:35,000
Speaker 1: guy Patrick, and we got to have the backstory.

555
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:36,280
Speaker 5: So how did you meet?

556
00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 1: Tell us about any dates you've been on and and

557
00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:41,120
Speaker 1: how those went, and then where things are now?

558
00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:41,959
Speaker 15: Right?

559
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:46,560
Speaker 14: So first I met Patrick at a Saint Patrick's Day party,

560
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 14: the irony there, and we just we just talked for

561
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:58,720
Speaker 14: like hours. We both have kids, and we bonded over that,

562
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:02,720
Speaker 14: like we're both single parents, and you know, just talking

563
00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 14: about like the funny stories that our that our kids,

564
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:10,720
Speaker 14: you know do, So we just like really clicked right away.

565
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 14: It was like instant connection. Then we like the more

566
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 14: we talk, Like he was asking, like, you know, whereabouts

567
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:19,160
Speaker 14: I lived. We found out that we lived pretty close

568
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 14: to each other, and he asked for my number before

569
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Speaker 14: he left, which was like, you know, I was excited

570
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 14: because like I thought he was really cute and we

571
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Speaker 14: feel like I felt like there was definitely connection there.

572
00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 14: So we had been kind of texting back and forth

573
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Speaker 14: after he got my number, and then a few days

574
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Speaker 14: later it was a really nice day and Patrick was like, hey,

575
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Speaker 14: you know, like I'm going to take my son to

576
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Speaker 14: the park, which was not too far from my house

577
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Speaker 14: because I said it was pretty close to his, and

578
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:50,160
Speaker 14: like I said, we lived pretty close, and he was like, hey,

579
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Speaker 14: do you like want to come and join. It's like

580
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,399
Speaker 14: I felt comfortable because it's like a big thing, like

581
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Speaker 14: introducing your children to any other adult that you had,

582
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Speaker 14: like even if he's like not my boyf and it's

583
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:03,960
Speaker 14: just a lot to introduce to anybody coming into our lives.

584
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 14: So I really appreciate him saying like if I felt

585
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:11,359
Speaker 14: comfortable like bringing my kids over so I grant, so

586
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:13,920
Speaker 14: I have two daughters, and I said, sure, you know what,

587
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 14: like what why not? You know, it's it's innocent. It's

588
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 14: not a date. You know, it's just kind of meeting

589
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:20,760
Speaker 14: up and kind of getting to know us better. And

590
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Speaker 14: you know, we had like a real like it was

591
00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 14: a really it was really nice to see him again.

592
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,159
Speaker 14: We tried a lot, the kids had a lot of

593
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:31,879
Speaker 14: fun playing. But after that, like I never heard from

594
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,359
Speaker 14: him again, Like it was very weird, Like he didn't

595
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Speaker 14: like I turned him a text afterwards, they said, hey, like,

596
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,440
Speaker 14: you know, thanks for inviting us. We had a great time.

597
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:41,840
Speaker 14: You know, talk to you soon or like, love to

598
00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:44,960
Speaker 14: see you again, you know, let me know. And it

599
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 14: was just cricket. So I just don't know, like what

600
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:49,640
Speaker 14: happened if I said something, you know, It's just I'm

601
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:51,880
Speaker 14: just sitting here trying to figure it out.

602
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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's interesting because you guys, you did meet in

603
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:56,399
Speaker 1: the wild per se, you met in person, so this

604
00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 1: guy wasn't a total stranger. And you have kids and

605
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,800
Speaker 1: he has kids, so you know, getting them together and

606
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:03,720
Speaker 1: figuring out, you know, if they're going to get along

607
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 1: and stuff. I suppose that's the innocence enough and since

608
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 1: things went well in your opinion, then it's like, well,

609
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 1: wait a minute, what's going on?

610
00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 5: Why wouldn't this guy call me again?

611
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:13,600
Speaker 10: Yeah, it was just.

612
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Speaker 14: Very strange, Like I feel like both interactions, like the

613
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,760
Speaker 14: first and the second, you know, like you know, hanging out,

614
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:22,760
Speaker 14: we're fine, like totally you know, innocent but fine, and

615
00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:25,680
Speaker 14: you know, there was no awkwardness at all. So I'm

616
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Speaker 14: just I'm kind of stumped of what could have happened.

617
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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, let's call this guy Patrick, see if we

618
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:33,479
Speaker 1: can get him on the phone. We'll ask these questions

619
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Speaker 1: for you. You'll be on the phone, of course, at the

620
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:37,119
Speaker 1: same time. At some point you're welcome to jump in

621
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Speaker 1: after we get you some in phone. And the hope

622
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:40,920
Speaker 1: is always is that we can figure out what happened

623
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:43,199
Speaker 1: or what's going on. Set you guys up on another

624
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 1: date and we'll pay for this. All right, let's find

625
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:48,480
Speaker 1: I was going on for to waiting by the phone

626
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 1: right after Lowly Young back in two minutes, stay right

627
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:53,920
Speaker 1: in here a commercial trees, the Fread show on the radio,

628
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 1: and the iHeart app check in live and then anytime

629
00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:58,679
Speaker 1: get caught up and make us a preset search for

630
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Speaker 1: the Fread Show on demand. Hey Abby, Hello, Hi Abby,

631
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 1: let's call Patrick. You guys met at the Saint Patrick's party.

632
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 1: You talked for a long time. You thought it went

633
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:09,480
Speaker 1: really well. You bonded over the fact that you both

634
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 1: are single parents and you have kids, and so you

635
00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:14,879
Speaker 1: decided collectively to get together at a park or a

636
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:16,040
Speaker 1: playground or whatever.

637
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:16,439
Speaker 5: With the kids.

638
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 1: And it wasn't really a date per se, but you know,

639
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 1: the kids got to meet each other and you guys

640
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:21,960
Speaker 1: got to talk some more, and you thought everything went

641
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:25,360
Speaker 1: really well. Except you have not heard from Patrick since then,

642
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:26,120
Speaker 1: and you want.

643
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 14: To know why exactly. So I'm just kind of racking

644
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 14: my brain. What's happening? So I don't know, Like at

645
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 14: this point, I need some help. I need some intervention.

646
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 1: Look at mom multitasking over there. I got the kids

647
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:42,399
Speaker 1: in the background. Still try to figure out. Yeah, you know,

648
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 1: I mean you got needs or I understand. Let's call

649
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 1: this guy now, Good luck, Abby, thank you?

650
00:27:57,560 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 5: Hello? Hi is this Patrick?

651
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:00,400
Speaker 1: Yes?

652
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:02,320
Speaker 5: This is he Hey Patrick, Good morning.

653
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 1: My name is Bred I'm calling for the Fred's Show,

654
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:05,879
Speaker 1: the Morning radio Show, and I have to tell you

655
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:07,679
Speaker 1: that we are on the radio right now. And I

656
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:10,560
Speaker 1: would need your permission to continue with the call. Is

657
00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 1: uh is it cool if we talk for just a second.

658
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, that's that's fine.

659
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:17,639
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, thank you for calling on behalf of a

660
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:19,399
Speaker 1: woman who reached out to us. Her name is Abby.

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Speaker 1: I guess you guys met at a party recently and

662
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Speaker 1: went on a date. I guess it was kind of

663
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Speaker 1: more of like like an outing with your kids. Do

664
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Speaker 1: you remember this woman?

665
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Speaker 14: Uh?

666
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, I remember Abby.

667
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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, So what happened?

668
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:32,880
Speaker 1: Because she we just talked to her a second ago

669
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Speaker 1: and she was talking about how she met you at

670
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Speaker 1: the party and you guys bonded over being parents and

671
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 1: and you know, she thought everything went great. You guys

672
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:43,239
Speaker 1: apparently decided to meet up with your kids, and she

673
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 1: hasn't heard from you since.

674
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Speaker 5: So what what happened?

675
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 10: Yeah?

676
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:49,520
Speaker 8: Yeah, I was I was going to take my son

677
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 8: out to a park and just called her up to

678
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 8: see if she wanted to join. You know, nothing serious,

679
00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:56,240
Speaker 8: but yeah.

680
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 4: We met up.

681
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Speaker 5: She's she was great.

682
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Speaker 8: You know, she's really fun to be around. Honestly, her

683
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 8: her two kids were just paris.

684
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Speaker 14: That was kind of my opinion.

685
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 8: Yeah, well, I just in the in the way that

686
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 8: they terrorized my son, and I guess me, I do

687
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,360
Speaker 8: want to say, though, you know, I'm I'm a dad,

688
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,920
Speaker 8: I'm a single dad. I understand how kids can be.

689
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 5: But her her two kids were just next level.

690
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:31,760
Speaker 8: I mean they they spent most of the afternoon just

691
00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 8: double teaming on my son, taking his toys, pushing him.

692
00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:38,920
Speaker 8: One of her daughters sneezed at one point. You know,

693
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 8: I said, God, bless you, and she just made a

694
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:44,280
Speaker 8: bee line straight for me and wiped her nose and

695
00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:46,520
Speaker 8: just wiped it all over my jeans. You know, we

696
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:48,600
Speaker 8: kind of laughed, but I was thinking, this is this

697
00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 8: is really out of line, and so I tried to

698
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:54,040
Speaker 8: get him to play some games. They just didn't want

699
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 8: to listen to me. One of them just straight up

700
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 8: told me I was ugly and then just took off running.

701
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 5: And okay, I.

702
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,800
Speaker 8: Mean that hurts it ego a little bit, and I'm like,

703
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 8: all right, whatever.

704
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 5: But you know the.

705
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Speaker 8: Worst part of it, they they're biers. Both of her

706
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 8: kids bite like one of them literally bit me. I

707
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:16,480
Speaker 8: don't know if you've ever been bit by a kid,

708
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 8: but that hurts.

709
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Speaker 1: I'm sorry to laugh, but I mean, okay, so yeah,

710
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:25,200
Speaker 1: robing germs on you. They're biting you, they're calling you ugly,

711
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:28,800
Speaker 1: they're roasting you. And what is during all of this? Like,

712
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 1: what what she just watching this and laughing? Is she

713
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:31,719
Speaker 1: enabling it?

714
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Speaker 5: Is she?

715
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Speaker 1: Is she trying to correct them? I mean, what's happening?

716
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Speaker 1: What is her?

717
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Speaker 8: Well, no, she wasn't trying to correct them. I don't

718
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 8: know that she was enabling other than just not stepping in.

719
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Speaker 8: But it just seemed like they ran the show. I

720
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 8: could tell that there's probably no consequences at home, you know,

721
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:51,360
Speaker 8: if they get in trouble. It just felt like they

722
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Speaker 8: were in charge.

723
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Speaker 5: So I don't know it was.

724
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Speaker 14: It was just a lot for me for an afternoon.

725
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Speaker 8: She never really told them to stop, and I didn't

726
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:01,240
Speaker 8: really feel like it was my place.

727
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 5: To do that.

728
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 8: So I thought, I'll just remove myself from the situation

729
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 8: after this afternoon, we can kind of be done with it.

730
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Speaker 1: Yeah. I did like that much either. But let me

731
00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 1: bring Abby in. I forgot to mention that Abby is here.

732
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Speaker 1: You didn't say was that your kids were biting this man?

733
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Speaker 14: Okay, so my two year old cuz, like, we are

734
00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 14: working on it. I told her to apologize, like, first

735
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:27,080
Speaker 14: of all Terris is like really extreme and like I

736
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 14: really don't like that word, especially associated with my children.

737
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Speaker 14: So I really hate that, Like that's just for me,

738
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:35,560
Speaker 14: Like if he's turned off by me, that's fine. Like

739
00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:37,960
Speaker 14: him using that word to describe my children, that's a

740
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Speaker 14: huge turn off by for him, like for me towards him.

741
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Speaker 14: They're not They obviously were like a little more on

742
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:49,480
Speaker 14: the excited side obviously to like meet new people, meeting

743
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:51,720
Speaker 14: new kids, Like they weren't ganging up on his son.

744
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 14: I did try to interject, there's just so much like

745
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 14: it's hard to be a single parent, like you know,

746
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 14: like it's kind of hard since he like I devoted

747
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:02,960
Speaker 14: some issues like with my acts, like I don't have

748
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 14: much of support from my child's father, so it's me

749
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 14: doing it all. So it's like really hard that he's

750
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Speaker 14: like blasting me as a mother. It's just very hurtful

751
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 14: because I was trying so like he's kind of going

752
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:18,479
Speaker 14: to the stream, but I did nothing.

753
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean my mom, my sister and I were

754
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:23,160
Speaker 1: raised by my mom primarily, and she was a single

755
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:27,239
Speaker 1: parent for a while, and and I commiserate with what

756
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Speaker 1: you're saying. I think though you know your kids can

757
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:33,680
Speaker 1: act up. But just from my perspective, if it were

758
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:36,000
Speaker 1: me and I'm Patrick, I guess what I would have

759
00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 1: been looking for is less about what a two year

760
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 1: old's doing and more about maybe what you're doing about it.

761
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Speaker 1: Because he certainly couldn't discipline the kids. That would have

762
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Speaker 1: been unexcittable.

763
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Speaker 14: But that's what I'm saying. So you're listening to what

764
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Speaker 14: he's saying that I didn't discisten my childrend Well.

765
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Speaker 5: I'm asking you if okay, I'm not criticizing you.

766
00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:57,400
Speaker 1: I started resulting out by not criticizing you, But I'm

767
00:32:57,440 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 1: saying if I But I.

768
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Speaker 14: Had argued, I had already explained that when she did

769
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Speaker 14: go to bite him, I put her aside and said,

770
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Speaker 14: you cannot be doing that and you need to apologize.

771
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Speaker 5: Is that what happened? Patrick? She did?

772
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Speaker 1: She was Are you not giving her enough credit for

773
00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 1: her trying to manage your kids?

774
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 10: Well?

775
00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 5: No, no, she did. She did step in.

776
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Speaker 8: I mean, it's not like she didn't do anything. It's

777
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 8: just that I didn't see necessarily the results coming out

778
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 8: of her telling her her kids what to do. I mean,

779
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Speaker 8: it's not like they just continue doing it. They would stop,

780
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 8: but then it would they would back up. So and

781
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 8: again I have one hundred percent support for her for

782
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:39,000
Speaker 8: single moms, and I do apologize for using the word terrorists.

783
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 8: That may have been a little harsh. That's not necessarily

784
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 8: what I meant. It just it was a lot for

785
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 8: me and my boy. We're just not used to that

786
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 8: kind of energy.

787
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:48,760
Speaker 14: So it was just a lot, And that's fine. But

788
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Speaker 14: like also I feel like he's trying to come off

789
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Speaker 14: at like their boat says like his son, Yes, his

790
00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:55,440
Speaker 14: son has behaved, but his son also like through stand

791
00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 14: at my daughter's a few times.

792
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Speaker 8: I want to.

793
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 14: They they weren't biting the child like by like I said,

794
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:06,960
Speaker 14: only my two year old bid him. And like again

795
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:09,440
Speaker 14: I try, I disciplined them. We're working on it. Like

796
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:12,759
Speaker 14: she's too so like maybe she got scared, you know,

797
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 14: like we're trying to communicate with her. We're trying to

798
00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 14: explain that that's not okay. Sometimes her older sister will

799
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,000
Speaker 14: get upset and bite her back, but my other my

800
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 14: older daughter does not bite other people. Like it's a

801
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:27,120
Speaker 14: it's a sibling thing between them that like we're trying

802
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 14: to work on. So the fact that like it's all

803
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:31,920
Speaker 14: coming down on me, it's just like really hard, like

804
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:36,320
Speaker 14: I'm trying my best, and I know he's trying his best,

805
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 14: Like I would never have used that like, you know,

806
00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:41,000
Speaker 14: feeling that he didn't disciplined his son enough or that

807
00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 14: his son was doing things like I give everybody like

808
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:46,560
Speaker 14: I give everybody like the greatest ault I give everybody

809
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 14: like you know, I feel for I feel for every

810
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:52,400
Speaker 14: single parent out there trying the best they can.

811
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Speaker 6: Yeah, we all feel for you. We are not trying

812
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:57,000
Speaker 6: to criticize you. We are not trying to criticize you

813
00:34:57,120 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 6: at all. But I think we have to respect his

814
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:00,759
Speaker 6: decision to not I want to be a part of

815
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:01,440
Speaker 6: that right now.

816
00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 4: It was a lot for him.

817
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:08,760
Speaker 15: And you can admit that, right, fine, you can admit that.

818
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 14: Is totally fine. I can admit that the whole thing

819
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 14: is is just like be a man and say, you

820
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:14,360
Speaker 14: know what, I feel like this is not working and like,

821
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:15,720
Speaker 14: you know, like it's better off.

822
00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:16,399
Speaker 10: Exactly we see.

823
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 1: Okay, but hold on, hold on, I mean just one second.

824
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 1: This is not an indictment on parents to sell parents

825
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:23,279
Speaker 1: as a whole. And I also understand we're talking about

826
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:27,440
Speaker 1: your children, and so understandably you have emotion about this

827
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:31,320
Speaker 1: and you should and that is fair. But that's probably

828
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 1: why he chose not to say anything and just sort

829
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 1: of fade away, because he probably didn't want to have

830
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 1: to tell a woman who he just met, I think

831
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 1: your kids were unruly and then get into this sort

832
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:46,399
Speaker 1: of conversation because I understand why you're defensive. I totally do,

833
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:49,360
Speaker 1: but I also think you need to understand from the

834
00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 1: other side that it's a difficult conversation to have with

835
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:53,880
Speaker 1: someone when you're talking about their kids.

836
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 14: Well, sure, but he didn't even have to bring up

837
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 14: the kids. He could have just said, you know what,

838
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 14: I'm just not feeling the vibe, like I think, you know, relationship,

839
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 14: you know what, honestly, like just say something like don't

840
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 14: leave somebody on red, like just be respectful. Like I've

841
00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 14: had to end things. They're not They're uncomfortable. They're uncomfortable

842
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 14: when you have to tell someone yeah, you know, like

843
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 14: I'm not feeling it, or like you can there's a

844
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 14: respectful way to end things without ghosting. That's all I'm saying. Like,

845
00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 14: I just feel like I deserved a little bit more

846
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 14: respect than that. After I feel like you really didn't

847
00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:28,680
Speaker 14: have a connection.

848
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:30,560
Speaker 5: But that's fine, that's I think.

849
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:33,799
Speaker 1: I think that's fair. I think that's fair. I think

850
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:36,560
Speaker 1: that you're you know, your your emotion and defensiveness about

851
00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 1: this is also fair. But I also think that it's

852
00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 1: possible that when we're talking about our own kids and

853
00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:44,120
Speaker 1: our own families and our own especially when they're our

854
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 1: own kids, that maybe you're a little blinded by how

855
00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:50,279
Speaker 1: that experience may have been for someone else and why

856
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:53,640
Speaker 1: that may not be for them. I also understand the

857
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:56,439
Speaker 1: communication part of this. So look, no one's coming down

858
00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:58,480
Speaker 1: on you, no one's criticizing you. It's not for him.

859
00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 1: He has that right. That is dating. But Patrick, I'll

860
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:04,279
Speaker 1: ask the question, I mean, would you like to go

861
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 1: out with her again? Maybe we, you know, don't bring

862
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:10,239
Speaker 1: the kids this time, and then slowly work on that

863
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:12,359
Speaker 1: whole thing, you know another time.

864
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 8: You know, Honestly, had we had this conversation, I may

865
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:19,799
Speaker 8: have understood a little more. We we kind of kept

866
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 8: it pretty surface. But I really dig the fire that

867
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:27,279
Speaker 8: she has that she's representing standing.

868
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:27,720
Speaker 5: Up her kids.

869
00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:29,360
Speaker 8: I see that she's.

870
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:29,839
Speaker 14: Working on it.

871
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 8: I'm I'm absolutely not opposed to going out again.

872
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:35,760
Speaker 5: If oh.

873
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 1: This, I did not see this coming. So you have

874
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 1: no problem being a human Kleenex.

875
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 14: Again, Well, I don't think it's going to be that way.

876
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 8: I think I just have a bit more of an

877
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:49,360
Speaker 8: understanding of what she's going through. And I like her passion,

878
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:50,280
Speaker 8: all right.

879
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:53,440
Speaker 1: I mean, look, I'm a little surprised, but Abby, I

880
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 1: I understand where you're coming from. Patrick, I I didn't

881
00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:59,319
Speaker 1: expect this. But great, So it'll be an adult date.

882
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:01,279
Speaker 1: You guys will go out again. We'll pay for it

883
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:03,399
Speaker 1: and then, uh, you know, maybe we'll check in down

884
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:06,759
Speaker 1: the road. But Abby, I appreciate your perspective and I

885
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:08,960
Speaker 1: hope that you can see his and maybe see where

886
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 1: we're coming from as observers and uh, and I hope

887
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:12,959
Speaker 1: you guys have a great taste.

888
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:13,400
Speaker 18: I can.

889
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 14: I mean, I appreciate it, and obviously, like maybe we

890
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:17,880
Speaker 14: do have some stuff to talk about, So I do

891
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 14: appreciate it. Like Patrick being honest, I can respect the

892
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:24,279
Speaker 14: honesty here, so I can. So hopefully, you know, if

893
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 14: it doesn't work, it doesn't work, Like Patrick, you can

894
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:27,239
Speaker 14: be honest with me. We don't have to do this

895
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:28,759
Speaker 14: over the radio. If it doesn't work.

896
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, you did.

897
00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 1: You did kind of chew us out a little bit,

898
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:34,120
Speaker 1: so I'm a little afraid of I'm a little afraid of.

899
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:40,040
Speaker 5: That we're talking about your kids. I get it.

900
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:45,440
Speaker 14: Yeah, I've had a rough go and I do stand up.

901
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:48,320
Speaker 14: So I mean, I really wasn't trying to fight anybody's

902
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:49,960
Speaker 14: head off, but like when you start talking about my

903
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:50,440
Speaker 14: kids and.

904
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:51,719
Speaker 13: Me as a parent, like you.

905
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:55,280
Speaker 14: Know, obviously I'm always going to defend what I believe

906
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 14: is right. So it wasn't anything against you guys, because

907
00:38:58,239 --> 00:38:59,560
Speaker 14: we all we all don't know each other.

908
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:04,400
Speaker 1: Hey, I think he's a little turned on over there.

909
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:06,920
Speaker 1: So that's right. You guys go out as adults. Have

910
00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 1: a great cent. We'll pay for it and we'll check

911
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 1: you later. And and good luck to both of you.

912
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 1: Thank you the entertainer reporting you what it says that.

913
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 4: UK with the ky I know that's right.

914
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:25,279
Speaker 1: Okay, now we take a moment to appreciate it.

915
00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:34,440
Speaker 7: And okay, let's welcome Katie.

916
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 5: Hi, Katie, how you doing, Hi?

917
00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:37,799
Speaker 8: How are you?

918
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 5: Katie? Welcome to the program. Tell us all about you.

919
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 13: My name is Katie.

920
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:46,200
Speaker 15: I work for a school districts. I'm on my way

921
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:51,360
Speaker 15: to work right now. Okay, I'm getting married November.

922
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 10: That's my fun fact.

923
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:56,719
Speaker 1: Well, congratulations. What's the lucky guy or girls name?

924
00:39:57,920 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 7: Max?

925
00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:01,000
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know, you know, I don't want to.

926
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:04,080
Speaker 1: If I say guy, then it's a girl. If I

927
00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:04,959
Speaker 1: say girl, it's a guy.

928
00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:06,560
Speaker 5: So I you the guy?

929
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I just say it. You know, you just

930
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:11,279
Speaker 1: never know these days to you, but it's all good.

931
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:13,560
Speaker 1: Three hundred bucks is the prize, which could be our

932
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:16,400
Speaker 1: wedding gift to you. Eleven and one is Kiki's record

933
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 1: filling in for the show is Shelley four straight wins

934
00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 1: or at least four You're on a four game win streak.

935
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 1: Maybe some times I'm not sure, but let's play the game.

936
00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:25,760
Speaker 1: Five question, let's.

937
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:28,560
Speaker 5: Go all right, good luck, good luck Kiki?

938
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:32,560
Speaker 1: All right, with all due respect, heeky, get the heck

939
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:34,839
Speaker 1: out off, She goes at a sound boof poof. Okay,

940
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:38,920
Speaker 1: here we go. Question number one. Bridge Aton actress Simona

941
00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 1: Ashley turned thirty over the weekend on witch streaming service.

942
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:43,440
Speaker 1: Which you find that show?

943
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 9: I think Netflix?

944
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:49,720
Speaker 1: Which actress was foun at hanging out with her anyone

945
00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 1: but you? Co star Glenn Powell amid breakup rumors with

946
00:40:53,160 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 1: her fiance. I know, okay, all right, Cardi B said

947
00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:04,360
Speaker 1: her ex husband is using bloggers to spread rumors about

948
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 1: her name her ex.

949
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 10: Uh CARDI b.

950
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:13,720
Speaker 7: Got oh this is so hard.

951
00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 1: I I know, No, it's harder to actually do it.

952
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 1: All right, two questions left. We got this. We're going

953
00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 1: to rebound right here. Sexy Red was gifted five thousand

954
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:26,959
Speaker 1: a five thousand dollars Lubiton cowboy boot thang cowboy boots

955
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:31,600
Speaker 1: shoes from country singer Caldwell. Lubaitons are famous for having

956
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:38,360
Speaker 1: what color bottoms? Oh Red and Drew Taggard once again

957
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:41,440
Speaker 1: had an unwanted visitors show up to his home claiming

958
00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:44,359
Speaker 1: to be his wife. Which EDM group is Drew one

959
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:44,839
Speaker 1: half of.

960
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:47,360
Speaker 16: The change fokers.

961
00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 5: All right, it's a three, so you did get the

962
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 5: last two? Nice job, all right?

963
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:57,280
Speaker 1: Get Kiki back from the booth food answer within three

964
00:41:57,280 --> 00:41:59,400
Speaker 1: score to beat? Are you ready?

965
00:41:59,600 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 11: No?

966
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:03,360
Speaker 5: You got this? I feel good about this for you.

967
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:08,680
Speaker 1: Question number one Brijitan actress Simone Ashley turned thirty over

968
00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:10,280
Speaker 1: the weekend on which streaming service?

969
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:12,440
Speaker 5: Which you find that show? Netflix?

970
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:15,279
Speaker 1: That is correct? Which actress was spotted hanging out with

971
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 1: her anyone but you? Co star Glenn Powell amid breakup

972
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:21,879
Speaker 1: rumors with her fiance Sydney Sweeney. Yeah, Cardi b said

973
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:24,640
Speaker 1: her ex husband's using bloggers to spread rumors about her name.

974
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:28,879
Speaker 1: Her ex offset Sexy Red, was gifted five thousand dollars

975
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:33,440
Speaker 1: Lubatan cowboy boots from country singer Caldwell. Lubatons are famous

976
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 1: for having what color bottoms? Red and Roadsaggered once again

977
00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 1: had an unwonted visitors show up to his home claiming

978
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 1: to be his wife. Which edm group is Drew one

979
00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 1: half of now.

980
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 4: Hold on it Oh three, Drew Drew two half group

981
00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 4: Marshmallows on my person?

982
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 3: Yes giving you that one?

983
00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, smoker to wait wait wait, what kind of.

984
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 9: You're judging the chain music?

985
00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:11,239
Speaker 5: Are they call that.

986
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:17,880
Speaker 1: Technically? But I think em fans might kick them out.

987
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 1: But anyway, I don't know.

988
00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:22,719
Speaker 4: I don't know, and I would not call the Chinese

989
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:24,719
Speaker 4: smokers a m a.

990
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:27,160
Speaker 2: Right, But all the groups that Drew Taggart is in,

991
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:29,600
Speaker 2: there's only one, and it's that one.

992
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:31,600
Speaker 3: So that's how you could figure.

993
00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:34,719
Speaker 4: I would take the four.

994
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:38,760
Speaker 5: I'm gonna take. That is a win, Katie. I'm sorry.

995
00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:40,799
Speaker 1: Three is a good score, and you did clean it up,

996
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:42,319
Speaker 1: but you're gonna have to say my name is Katie.

997
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:44,319
Speaker 1: I got showed up on a showdown, and you know

998
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:44,800
Speaker 1: the rest.

999
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:47,720
Speaker 7: All right, My name is Katie.

1000
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 15: I got showed up on the showdown, and I can't

1001
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:51,399
Speaker 15: hang with the Kiki.

1002
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 5: That was you, Katie, who's getting married to a dude

1003
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:00,880
Speaker 5: not a name? Max?

1004
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:09,719
Speaker 1: Can't hang with a kik can't.

1005
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:13,240
Speaker 6: Cat, can't cash shout out to you.

1006
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:19,400
Speaker 3: Can't cat, can't cat, can't.

1007
00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:20,320
Speaker 5: Cast shut up? Who was gonna run out of breath? First? Katie?

1008
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:21,839
Speaker 1: Am I gonna run out of birth? You're gonna run

1009
00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 1: out of breath? That's what I want to know everyone.

1010
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:27,319
Speaker 1: I heard you guys. You guys are starting to get

1011
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 1: a little like Hoffy with it. To help me, Katie,

1012
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 1: hang on one second, have a great day. Thank you

1013
00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 1: for listening, and congratulations on the wedding.

1014
00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:38,600
Speaker 10: Awesome, Thank you so much.

1015
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:42,960
Speaker 1: Okay, stay right there, all right, cakes, Yes, well the

1016
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 1: job three fitty twelve and one five straight for the

1017
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:49,720
Speaker 1: show biz Kiki.

1018
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:56,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, man, I live to find another day twelve and one.

1019
00:44:56,400 --> 00:44:58,960
Speaker 1: That is really that's way better than I did when

1020
00:44:58,960 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 1: I was filling in.

1021
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:01,439
Speaker 5: Oh, excellent work.

1022
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:02,880
Speaker 3: I remember who believed in you?

1023
00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:04,359
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, that's right.

1024
00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:04,839
Speaker 3: From the start.

1025
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:08,840
Speaker 1: I always believed it. I've been saying how much I

1026
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:11,439
Speaker 1: believe in you. I'm constantly saying I can't get enough

1027
00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 1: of how much I believe in.

1028
00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:17,319
Speaker 14: Here.

1029
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 5: Judge Kiki, if you would.

1030
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 6: Yes, let's get into it. The case says, Hey Kiki,

1031
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:25,160
Speaker 6: my name is Lauren. I'm a longtime listener of the show.

1032
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:27,759
Speaker 6: My husband and I have three kids. I have one

1033
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:31,160
Speaker 6: daughter from a previous relationship, and we have two kids together.

1034
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:35,520
Speaker 6: My oldest daughter has never met her biological father, so

1035
00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:38,560
Speaker 6: my husband is the only father that she knows. For

1036
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:41,560
Speaker 6: her sixteenth birthday, she thought it would be a sweet

1037
00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 6: thing to ask my husband to finally adopt her. She's

1038
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:47,600
Speaker 6: always wanted to have the same last name as my

1039
00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:51,120
Speaker 6: other kids, and I always wanted it to be her decision.

1040
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:53,640
Speaker 6: So at her birthday party, she asks my husband in

1041
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 6: front of all of our family and friends, and he

1042
00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:59,359
Speaker 6: said yes. Well, a week later, my husband came back

1043
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:01,239
Speaker 6: to me and said that after thinking about it and

1044
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:03,839
Speaker 6: talking it over with his mom, he's had a change

1045
00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:08,480
Speaker 6: of heart. Oh my god, he doesn't want to complicate

1046
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:12,920
Speaker 6: things by legally adopting my daughter. I'm heartbroken. His excuse

1047
00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:15,319
Speaker 6: was that he already plays the father role for her.

1048
00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 6: And it's no need to get the courts involved. I

1049
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 6: told him, there's no way I'm telling my daughter that

1050
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:23,799
Speaker 6: you've changed your mind. He has to adopt her or

1051
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 6: I will leave. Am I wrong forgiving him an ultimatum?

1052
00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 5: Damn baby? What say you judge?

1053
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:36,520
Speaker 6: This is one that I really needed thirteen to weigh

1054
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 6: in on because it's really been bothering me all weekend.

1055
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:43,319
Speaker 6: Because my issue really comes in is that you went

1056
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 6: and spoke with your mother. What happened in that conversation

1057
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:49,319
Speaker 6: between him and his mother that made him change his

1058
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:51,600
Speaker 6: mind to come back and say he doesn't want to

1059
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:54,839
Speaker 6: legally adopt my kid. And I don't want to tell

1060
00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:56,759
Speaker 6: her to leave her husband because it's easy to say

1061
00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:58,600
Speaker 6: blow up your family when you're not the one in

1062
00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:00,800
Speaker 6: the situation. Obviously, he's a good guy, a good father.

1063
00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:03,399
Speaker 6: He's raised her other children and alone. You know, he's

1064
00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:05,840
Speaker 6: taken the girl in to be her father, but not legally.

1065
00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:08,200
Speaker 6: What is stopping him? It makes me think of, like,

1066
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:10,319
Speaker 6: is he worried about if they ever divorced, then maybe

1067
00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 6: he's going to be responsible for child support or something,

1068
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:15,520
Speaker 6: or you know, is there some type of legal thing

1069
00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:17,880
Speaker 6: that he's scared of getting the courts involved. I just

1070
00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:19,600
Speaker 6: feel like there has to be more to it, and

1071
00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:21,680
Speaker 6: I would love to know the conversation between him and

1072
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:25,400
Speaker 6: his mother. But for him to renegue on the original

1073
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:27,640
Speaker 6: agreement and he promised this girl this in front of

1074
00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 6: the entire family. He is so dead wrong, Like he's

1075
00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:34,880
Speaker 6: so wrong, And I feel for you, Lauren Kiki.

1076
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:37,920
Speaker 1: I lived this like this is I was adopted by

1077
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:42,880
Speaker 1: I guess quote unquote my stepfather. So is my sister. Yeah,

1078
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:46,400
Speaker 1: and I we turned eighteen, we went to court and

1079
00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:50,480
Speaker 1: did it. And I cannot imagine because that was we

1080
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 1: were never like it was ever, this is what's going

1081
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 1: to happen, or it was always do you want this

1082
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:55,400
Speaker 1: to happen?

1083
00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:59,000
Speaker 5: And it was kind of I don't know it.

1084
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:01,759
Speaker 1: It was a very thing between each of us and

1085
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:05,400
Speaker 1: this guy who raised us, and it's I just can't

1086
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:07,320
Speaker 1: imagine how I would feel if all of a sudden

1087
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:11,719
Speaker 1: he were like, not, yeah, I'm not into this anymore.

1088
00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:13,920
Speaker 1: Like it almost makes me wonder if there's that something

1089
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:17,799
Speaker 1: that's heartbreaking going on in the in the primary relationship,

1090
00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:19,800
Speaker 1: like between he and the mom or something like maybe

1091
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:22,520
Speaker 1: I don't know, because why would he I can't imagine

1092
00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:24,799
Speaker 1: that he goes to talk to his mom and mom says, yeah,

1093
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:25,720
Speaker 1: you don't want that kid.

1094
00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:27,040
Speaker 5: It's almost like.

1095
00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:30,160
Speaker 1: Giving that no, but it's it's well maybe, but it's

1096
00:48:30,200 --> 00:48:34,320
Speaker 1: almost like it's almost like mom doesn't like the wife

1097
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:36,879
Speaker 1: or girlfriend or whatever and doesn't know if that's going

1098
00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:39,279
Speaker 1: to last, So then don't adopt the guy. I don't know,

1099
00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 1: because I can't imagine that my mom would talk me

1100
00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:45,600
Speaker 1: out of adopting somewhat a child that I helped raise

1101
00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:47,960
Speaker 1: over the child, correct, I would think it would be

1102
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:49,320
Speaker 1: something something else.

1103
00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:53,200
Speaker 7: Yeah, can I say an unpopular opinion? So why is

1104
00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:55,160
Speaker 7: he consulting with his mother? Like, this is a grown

1105
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:58,320
Speaker 7: ass man and this is his family, his mother, his mother.

1106
00:48:58,239 --> 00:48:58,760
Speaker 4: Is his family.

1107
00:48:58,760 --> 00:48:59,279
Speaker 3: It's his mother.

1108
00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:01,920
Speaker 7: I'm very aware of that, but this man created his

1109
00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:03,960
Speaker 7: own family. So I'm just really confused as to why

1110
00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:07,960
Speaker 7: we're consulting mom about your family dynamic and what you're

1111
00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:09,720
Speaker 7: going to do in adoption. You know what I'm saying,

1112
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 7: Like to me, I don't like that, that that's too much.

1113
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:14,359
Speaker 7: This is your family, You're a grown ass man.

1114
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:18,360
Speaker 1: This is from the woman who calls Hobby's mom. Absolutely

1115
00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:20,480
Speaker 1: was not doing what you want.

1116
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:21,720
Speaker 5: Him to do he didn't watch the dishes.

1117
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:23,759
Speaker 7: I call his mother. This is true, but we when

1118
00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:26,239
Speaker 7: comes to our family, but when it comes to our

1119
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:29,319
Speaker 7: family dynamic, we're not going to consult our mommies. Like

1120
00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 7: that's we're not doing.

1121
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:31,600
Speaker 5: No, you consul his mom.

1122
00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:34,040
Speaker 1: So what you're saying is his mom has influence, and

1123
00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:36,120
Speaker 1: I don't think that's unfair. I don't think it's unfair

1124
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:38,560
Speaker 1: to have your mom be someone that you you can

1125
00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:39,840
Speaker 1: you can talk.

1126
00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:41,200
Speaker 7: To her, of course, But at the end of the day,

1127
00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:43,000
Speaker 7: I still feel like, this is your family. When you

1128
00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 7: get married, you create your own family. You guys know that,

1129
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 7: Like we've been preaching this on this radio for years,

1130
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:49,360
Speaker 7: Like I'm learning not too I consult my mom for

1131
00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:51,400
Speaker 7: the littlest things. I admit it. I'll say, hey, Ma,

1132
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:53,160
Speaker 7: you know I want to do this, what should I do?

1133
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:54,520
Speaker 7: I want to get a tattoo. I'm still like, oh,

1134
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:56,720
Speaker 7: should I ask my mom? Like yeah, I think these things,

1135
00:49:56,920 --> 00:49:58,080
Speaker 7: But at the end of the day, it's like, no,

1136
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 7: I'm a grown ass woman. I'm thirty two years old.

1137
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,239
Speaker 7: I have a family now, I have a child, and

1138
00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 7: I have a husband. This is now my family. We're

1139
00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:06,400
Speaker 7: gonna making all decisions.

1140
00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:08,319
Speaker 1: But Pete, we don't know that that she's the one

1141
00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 1: who said don't do it, or he may have gone

1142
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:14,400
Speaker 1: to her with this, with this idea anyway, and she

1143
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:16,560
Speaker 1: may have reinforced it. So no, I mean, mom shouldn't

1144
00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:18,960
Speaker 1: be running the family. But I don't think that consulting

1145
00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:22,000
Speaker 1: family who are important to you when it comes to

1146
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:24,640
Speaker 1: making big decisions, isn't that what family's for, may to

1147
00:50:24,680 --> 00:50:26,479
Speaker 1: help you sort of work through those kind of things.

1148
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:28,239
Speaker 7: It sounds like you got doubts though, if you're going

1149
00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:30,080
Speaker 7: to go to your mom too, I would call my mom,

1150
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:31,759
Speaker 7: or let in this case, this man called his mom

1151
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:35,200
Speaker 7: and say, hey, guess what, Mom, I'm going to adopt first.

1152
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:38,680
Speaker 7: I don't know her name, that's any whatever, I'm going

1153
00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:40,799
Speaker 7: to adopt her. Like this is what we're doing in

1154
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:43,319
Speaker 7: beautiful family birth right beautiful birth up.

1155
00:50:43,360 --> 00:50:48,279
Speaker 1: And we're going to change her. Yeah, yeah, I gotta.

1156
00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:50,719
Speaker 1: I mean, no Bertha Frederick out there, We'll change her.

1157
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:55,200
Speaker 1: So that's my bigger, my bigger issue here is rightness.

1158
00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:58,799
Speaker 1: I love the name birth It's beautiful, he said.

1159
00:50:59,120 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 5: I hear it's making it come.

1160
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:03,479
Speaker 6: Actually, don't enough you know, we don't and to play

1161
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:07,440
Speaker 6: devil advocate like it all happened at the girl's birthday party,

1162
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:10,279
Speaker 6: so she asked him in front of the family, So

1163
00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:12,440
Speaker 6: I'm sure his mom was there and his family and

1164
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:14,880
Speaker 6: her family were there, So of course that opens it

1165
00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:17,880
Speaker 6: up for people to have opinions. However, you're in a

1166
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:22,000
Speaker 6: marriage and you've raised this girl. I couldn't imagine telling

1167
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:24,560
Speaker 6: a kid I don't want to adopt you, like it

1168
00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:26,440
Speaker 6: could be a kid I just met yesterday if they

1169
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:28,879
Speaker 6: asked me to adopt him. Yes, you know what I'm saying, Like,

1170
00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:31,960
Speaker 6: how could you tell somebody living in your house that

1171
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:34,360
Speaker 6: you raised that you don't want to take on that

1172
00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:36,960
Speaker 6: responsibility for them.

1173
00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:39,360
Speaker 1: Well, and I obviously don't know these people can judge, Kiki,

1174
00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:42,840
Speaker 1: but these things, in my experience, at least in my

1175
00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:46,799
Speaker 1: personal experience, they don't just happen. There's normally some discussion. Now,

1176
00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:50,600
Speaker 1: she may have surprised him, my guess a viral cause

1177
00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:51,920
Speaker 1: these things go viral sometimes.

1178
00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 5: Who knows.

1179
00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:55,120
Speaker 1: Maybe she just sprung it on him, but I doubt

1180
00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:59,120
Speaker 1: it because, Yeah, I mean, like in our family was

1181
00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:03,360
Speaker 1: discussed for a long time before it happened, and everybody

1182
00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:05,120
Speaker 1: was comfortable with it. So I don't know. I mean

1183
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:07,120
Speaker 1: maybe if she surprised him. I mean, and there are

1184
00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:08,880
Speaker 1: some things we don't know. How long is a relationship.

1185
00:52:08,880 --> 00:52:10,000
Speaker 1: Do we know how long they've been together.

1186
00:52:10,880 --> 00:52:13,960
Speaker 6: No, but she said that her daughter is sixteen and

1187
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:15,840
Speaker 6: he's the only father that she's known.

1188
00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:18,160
Speaker 5: So okay, well then yeah, then I don't know.

1189
00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:23,120
Speaker 1: Most in my experience, most adults, when the child that

1190
00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:26,839
Speaker 1: they raise that isn't technically their blood child, when that

1191
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:29,560
Speaker 1: kid wants them to be their legal father, that is

1192
00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:33,359
Speaker 1: normally the biggest honor that you can bestow on someone. Oh,

1193
00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:35,879
Speaker 1: because it's a choice, you know, it's it's I mean,

1194
00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:39,160
Speaker 1: I love my parents, and I love my mom and

1195
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:41,839
Speaker 1: my mom I got so lucky. I won the mom

1196
00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:44,440
Speaker 1: lottery with mom of Fred. But not everybody did. Not

1197
00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:47,360
Speaker 1: everybody won the family lottery. And so a lot of

1198
00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:50,280
Speaker 1: times we hear people say that friends are the family

1199
00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:52,799
Speaker 1: that you choose. Well, in this case, he's the dad

1200
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:55,480
Speaker 1: that she gets to pick because they could go on.

1201
00:52:55,600 --> 00:52:57,359
Speaker 1: I mean, how many stepparents do you know that are

1202
00:52:57,360 --> 00:52:59,560
Speaker 1: just kind of there, you know, and they're nice, and

1203
00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:02,440
Speaker 1: they're they're not bad people, but they're you're not necessarily

1204
00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:04,600
Speaker 1: running out to go to court and have them adopt you.

1205
00:53:05,520 --> 00:53:09,959
Speaker 1: So I can't imagine a world where this guy would

1206
00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:13,320
Speaker 1: be shunning this child that he raised. It's got to

1207
00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:19,759
Speaker 1: be something more. Yeah, five, it's crazy to me.

1208
00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 5: Yvonne hi yavanod morning, good morning. Hey you heard this

1209
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:26,239
Speaker 5: whole thing? What say you?

1210
00:53:27,640 --> 00:53:27,719
Speaker 14: So?

1211
00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 18: I've been with my husband for fourteen years now. He

1212
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:34,799
Speaker 18: came into the picture when my daughters were seven and four,

1213
00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:38,400
Speaker 18: and he I know, would adopt them in a heartbeat

1214
00:53:38,480 --> 00:53:42,279
Speaker 18: if he had the chance. And so the fact that

1215
00:53:42,400 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 18: he changed his mind, not only is that heartbreaking for

1216
00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:49,960
Speaker 18: the mom because she's been a second guest, you know, like,

1217
00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:52,239
Speaker 18: how does he really feel about my daughter if he's

1218
00:53:52,280 --> 00:53:55,720
Speaker 18: second guessing this, but also the daughter I couldn't imagine

1219
00:53:55,760 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 18: having to go back and tell her like, hey, he

1220
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:00,920
Speaker 18: changed his mind. It's just really sad.

1221
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:05,799
Speaker 11: And coming from like someone in a blended family. If

1222
00:54:05,880 --> 00:54:09,160
Speaker 11: I had any doubts on the way my husband felt

1223
00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:11,760
Speaker 11: about my kids, I'd be out, I believe.

1224
00:54:12,440 --> 00:54:16,719
Speaker 18: I mean, it's just you've raised this kid, I mean,

1225
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:19,400
Speaker 18: her whole life. I don't know why he would like

1226
00:54:19,480 --> 00:54:22,680
Speaker 18: have any reservations or have changed his mind.

1227
00:54:23,640 --> 00:54:26,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, this this doesn't sound like a snap decision. I mean,

1228
00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:30,520
Speaker 1: maybe I don't know. It's it's really crazy to raise

1229
00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:32,279
Speaker 1: a child and then this happens, and then have you

1230
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:34,279
Speaker 1: go never mind. I don't I don't really want that

1231
00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:36,720
Speaker 1: obligation anymore because you took it off already, you already

1232
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:37,040
Speaker 1: did it.

1233
00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 6: And it sounds like he still don't for the obligation.

1234
00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:41,279
Speaker 6: He just doesn't want to make it legal. And to me,

1235
00:54:41,760 --> 00:54:43,279
Speaker 6: something ray causing that.

1236
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:44,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I don't know.

1237
00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:46,279
Speaker 11: I don't know.

1238
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:49,239
Speaker 1: I know it's it's it's puzzling, isn't it. Thank you

1239
00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:51,120
Speaker 1: so much for listening, for calling. Have a great day.

1240
00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:52,680
Speaker 18: Thank you, guys.

1241
00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:56,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, I Mike, Good morning, Mike.

1242
00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:56,839
Speaker 5: How you doing.

1243
00:54:57,520 --> 00:54:58,600
Speaker 16: Hey you guys, good morning.

1244
00:54:58,680 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 5: How are you.

1245
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 1: I'm doing great, Thanks for listening, Thanks for calling. So Keiki,

1246
00:55:02,080 --> 00:55:03,759
Speaker 1: just to make sure I have this right. Guy and

1247
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:06,600
Speaker 1: a girl been together for a while. Dude raises his

1248
00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:10,560
Speaker 1: stepdaughter and we're kind of putting this together. But if

1249
00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:12,719
Speaker 1: he's the only dad she ever knew, then let's just

1250
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:14,880
Speaker 1: say an extended period of time that the stepdad's been

1251
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:18,840
Speaker 1: raising this woman's daughter. And so there was discussion about

1252
00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:22,040
Speaker 1: him adopting her legally, and they said let's do it,

1253
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:24,000
Speaker 1: and he said yes, and then he went back now

1254
00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:27,879
Speaker 1: and has said to the woman, to his girlfriend or wife, whatever, no,

1255
00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:32,040
Speaker 1: I don't want it anymore, which is crazy to me, Mike,

1256
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:32,640
Speaker 1: what do you think?

1257
00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:37,319
Speaker 16: So I'm I was kind of put in that kind

1258
00:55:37,320 --> 00:55:40,680
Speaker 16: of same situation. I've been with my wife now eleven

1259
00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:43,239
Speaker 16: years today actually, so I've known.

1260
00:55:43,360 --> 00:55:45,279
Speaker 5: Congratulations, thank you.

1261
00:55:45,680 --> 00:55:48,239
Speaker 16: I've been with I've known my fourteen year old she'll

1262
00:55:48,239 --> 00:55:51,720
Speaker 16: be fifteen here in July, since basically she was three.

1263
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:58,359
Speaker 16: So her father now is a deceased But after we

1264
00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:01,960
Speaker 16: had our second that we have three girls including her,

1265
00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:07,840
Speaker 16: that she felt left out. So my wife, instead of

1266
00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:12,800
Speaker 16: going through the adoption process, we actually petitioned the court

1267
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:18,399
Speaker 16: to her legally take my last name. My family loved her,

1268
00:56:18,640 --> 00:56:22,880
Speaker 16: they thought that she you know, she's the world to

1269
00:56:22,920 --> 00:56:26,720
Speaker 16: all of us. But yeah, even after was it last months,

1270
00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:31,440
Speaker 16: we actually mentioned, hey, you know, we know you have

1271
00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:35,560
Speaker 16: my last name. Would you like for me to adopt you?

1272
00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:38,960
Speaker 16: And she's like, no, I say, I'm okay that you

1273
00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:42,200
Speaker 16: know I have your last name. I love you and

1274
00:56:42,320 --> 00:56:45,400
Speaker 16: that doesn't change anything. She doesn't wanted to have the

1275
00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:49,000
Speaker 16: same last name as her sisters and the rest of

1276
00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:51,160
Speaker 16: my family because I come from a very big family,

1277
00:56:51,600 --> 00:56:53,040
Speaker 16: So that was kind of the.

1278
00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:53,600
Speaker 5: Gist with.

1279
00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:55,319
Speaker 10: That.

1280
00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:59,120
Speaker 16: So, I mean, yes, adoption is awesome. It's very expensive,

1281
00:56:59,719 --> 00:57:02,399
Speaker 16: but we just petitioned the court. We had to jump

1282
00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:04,920
Speaker 16: through a couple of hoops for it to happen because

1283
00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:08,719
Speaker 16: he is deceased. But other than that, I mean, it

1284
00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:09,840
Speaker 16: was kind of easy peasing.

1285
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:12,640
Speaker 1: Well, it's a nice Mike, it's a great story, and

1286
00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:14,759
Speaker 1: and that you guys talked about it and that she's

1287
00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:17,440
Speaker 1: comfortable with it or whatever. I just I can't imagine

1288
00:57:17,640 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 1: for if you had said it offered her that, or

1289
00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:23,280
Speaker 1: if she asked you and you say yeah, and then

1290
00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:25,400
Speaker 1: you come back a little while later and go, actually,

1291
00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:28,040
Speaker 1: I thought about it, and I definitely don't want to

1292
00:57:28,040 --> 00:57:29,880
Speaker 1: be legally attached to you in any way, even though

1293
00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:32,400
Speaker 1: I've done everything else in the role of your father.

1294
00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:33,600
Speaker 5: It's I don't get it.

1295
00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:36,800
Speaker 16: I don't get it either, don't understand. I mean there

1296
00:57:36,840 --> 00:57:39,720
Speaker 16: could be I mean, there could be so other like

1297
00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:43,440
Speaker 16: factors that she didn't mention, but I mean, yeah, it

1298
00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:47,880
Speaker 16: is kind of, you know, crappy that he did that,

1299
00:57:48,040 --> 00:57:52,120
Speaker 16: But I'm sure there's other reasons that we don't know of,

1300
00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:55,640
Speaker 16: you know of why?

1301
00:57:55,800 --> 00:57:59,240
Speaker 5: So yeah, yeah, Mike, Mike. Thanks for sharing that. By

1302
00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:00,040
Speaker 5: the way, I have a great.

1303
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:02,360
Speaker 16: Thanks you two guys have a good one.

1304
00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:05,840
Speaker 5: Glad Yeah, glad you called KB? Hi, KB? How you doing.

1305
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:07,400
Speaker 18: I'm wonderful.

1306
00:58:07,440 --> 00:58:08,480
Speaker 12: How are you guys this morning?

1307
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:09,240
Speaker 5: KB?

1308
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:11,760
Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. Thanks for calling. So you heard you

1309
00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:14,520
Speaker 1: heard the case in Kiki's court?

1310
00:58:14,600 --> 00:58:15,000
Speaker 5: What say you?

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Speaker 19: Oh, this is a messy mess I would definitely say divorced.

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00:58:19,560 --> 00:58:22,400
Speaker 19: But here's my reason why. So you're legally taught to me,

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00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:26,360
Speaker 19: you made that declaration, that obligation, but you don't want

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00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:28,840
Speaker 19: to do it for my children, and then you make it,

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00:58:29,640 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 19: you know, very.

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Speaker 12: Loud at the birthday party.

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Speaker 10: Then you go back on that.

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00:58:33,400 --> 00:58:35,560
Speaker 12: No, we're not going to create that type of hurt

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00:58:35,600 --> 00:58:36,480
Speaker 12: within our children.

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Speaker 19: We're just not. We're just not in Your mom needs

1321
00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:41,760
Speaker 19: to go sit down and enjoy her own life because

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00:58:41,800 --> 00:58:42,400
Speaker 19: you have your own.

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Speaker 5: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I just I got to think there's something very adult

1325
00:58:46,160 --> 00:58:49,000
Speaker 1: going on here, because it can't be about the child.

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00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:52,240
Speaker 1: I mean sixteen, she's a kid like any raiser supposedly,

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00:58:52,320 --> 00:58:53,680
Speaker 1: so it can't be about the.

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00:58:53,920 --> 00:58:57,480
Speaker 19: Did So then he makes directed by that within himself,

1329
00:58:57,880 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 19: and if he does have conversations with his mom, then

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00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:03,320
Speaker 19: he needs to talk to his wife before and say,

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00:59:03,400 --> 00:59:05,160
Speaker 19: you know what my mom said this. My mom said

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00:59:05,200 --> 00:59:07,720
Speaker 19: that it's not a flat out no, but how let's

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00:59:07,720 --> 00:59:09,640
Speaker 19: talk through it. But to just say a flat out no,

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00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:12,880
Speaker 19: that's a problem. Like the previous gentleman he said, they

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00:59:12,920 --> 00:59:15,880
Speaker 19: went through out of the name change. I mean, that's

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00:59:15,920 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 19: also an option, but to flat out no, the answer

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00:59:18,600 --> 00:59:20,080
Speaker 19: for me is not yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, KB, have a great date, Thanks for listening.

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Speaker 1: Appreciate you. Alicia, Hi, Alicia, Hi, Hey, good morning, welcome.

1340
00:59:31,040 --> 00:59:33,760
Speaker 1: What do you think you're the jury here? Tiky scored.

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00:59:35,160 --> 00:59:38,960
Speaker 15: So kind of a little similar situation. My parents have

1342
00:59:38,960 --> 00:59:42,000
Speaker 15: been together, which was my mom and my stepdad twenty

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00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:44,720
Speaker 15: seven years now. Came into our life when my sister

1344
00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:47,960
Speaker 15: was six and I was two. My sister asked, when

1345
00:59:47,960 --> 00:59:50,680
Speaker 15: she was like thirteen fourteen, for him to adopt her.

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00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:54,240
Speaker 15: He flat out said no. He said no, he wouldn't

1347
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Speaker 15: do it.

1348
00:59:55,280 --> 00:59:56,880
Speaker 3: Even though he is our parent.

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Speaker 15: He's on all of our you know, emergency contacts, he

1350
00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:01,360
Speaker 15: has whatever, he's our son dad.

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01:00:01,640 --> 01:00:03,160
Speaker 5: What words?

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01:00:04,600 --> 01:00:07,720
Speaker 15: I don't really know because I was so young and

1353
01:00:07,760 --> 01:00:11,040
Speaker 15: I've never really like asked exactly. I just know my

1354
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:15,880
Speaker 15: sister still feels hurt by it and actually, like fast

1355
01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:20,200
Speaker 15: forward to quarantine time, my mom finds out that he's

1356
01:00:20,200 --> 01:00:23,800
Speaker 15: been messaging some lady like the love of his life.

1357
01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:27,040
Speaker 10: And he also in those messages was like, I'm.

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01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:28,640
Speaker 15: Not a dad to these two girls.

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01:00:28,960 --> 01:00:30,680
Speaker 3: See, you can't trust a man who.

1360
01:00:31,480 --> 01:00:32,440
Speaker 5: See he didn't know.

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01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:35,040
Speaker 1: My gut tells me there's something going on at the

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01:00:35,120 --> 01:00:39,200
Speaker 1: relationship level, at the romantic relationship level that's making this now.

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01:00:39,280 --> 01:00:42,720
Speaker 1: That said that said that, even if they were to

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01:00:42,720 --> 01:00:45,480
Speaker 1: break up, like if my parents were to break up,

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01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:48,400
Speaker 1: my dad's my dad, my mom's my mom, they're still

1366
01:00:48,440 --> 01:00:49,960
Speaker 1: going to be in my life. They don't have to

1367
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:52,920
Speaker 1: be together. So that's weird too. But maybe he just

1368
01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:54,720
Speaker 1: doesn't want to go through all this. If he knows

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01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:56,920
Speaker 1: they're going to break up, it.

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Speaker 16: Could be, you know, maybe he's saving feelings later on.

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01:01:00,320 --> 01:01:01,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's crazy.

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01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:05,800
Speaker 1: Well, see there you go, this dude was there was

1373
01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:07,919
Speaker 1: There was nefarious niss going on here.

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01:01:08,040 --> 01:01:17,440
Speaker 6: It always is, it always is, you know, Yeah, you go.

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01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:20,480
Speaker 1: I don't know if nefarious niss is a word, but

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01:01:20,800 --> 01:01:23,520
Speaker 1: it sounds good to me. Winter, Hi, welcome to the

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Speaker 1: Friend Show.

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01:01:23,960 --> 01:01:26,120
Speaker 5: How are you, good morning?

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01:01:26,160 --> 01:01:26,960
Speaker 16: How are you guys?

1380
01:01:27,360 --> 01:01:27,720
Speaker 5: Winter?

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01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:30,880
Speaker 1: So Kiki's court I'm just trying to make this as

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01:01:30,880 --> 01:01:33,880
Speaker 1: simple as possible, But it's it's it's the woman riding

1383
01:01:33,920 --> 01:01:34,360
Speaker 1: in right.

1384
01:01:34,560 --> 01:01:37,280
Speaker 5: Yes, so she is. And is she married to this

1385
01:01:37,320 --> 01:01:38,240
Speaker 5: guy or they just together?

1386
01:01:38,400 --> 01:01:40,360
Speaker 6: No, she's married to him and they shared two other

1387
01:01:40,440 --> 01:01:43,360
Speaker 6: kids biologically together. But she had a daughter from a

1388
01:01:43,360 --> 01:01:46,200
Speaker 6: previous relationship, and this man has been in her daughter's

1389
01:01:46,200 --> 01:01:46,880
Speaker 6: life forever.

1390
01:01:46,960 --> 01:01:49,000
Speaker 4: She's the only he's the only dad that she knows.

1391
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:52,600
Speaker 6: And the girl asked him to adopt her, and he agreed,

1392
01:01:52,840 --> 01:01:54,840
Speaker 6: But then later a week later, came back and renigged

1393
01:01:54,840 --> 01:01:55,080
Speaker 6: on it.

1394
01:01:55,640 --> 01:01:56,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, what do you think? Winter?

1395
01:01:58,200 --> 01:02:01,400
Speaker 12: So I wasn't a real very similar situation. I was

1396
01:02:01,480 --> 01:02:03,760
Speaker 12: raised by my stepdad. My parents got married when I

1397
01:02:03,840 --> 01:02:06,800
Speaker 12: was two or three, so my stepdad is my dad.

1398
01:02:07,160 --> 01:02:10,280
Speaker 12: When I was sixteen, I asked my dad to adopt me.

1399
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:13,240
Speaker 12: And now at twenty eight, I have taken that back

1400
01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:17,080
Speaker 12: where now I do have a relationship with my dad

1401
01:02:17,120 --> 01:02:20,040
Speaker 12: full into adulthood. But I was the same way, and

1402
01:02:20,080 --> 01:02:22,120
Speaker 12: I was like, no, I won't really want my stepdad

1403
01:02:22,120 --> 01:02:26,240
Speaker 12: to adopt me. But coming into adulthood, I'm like, I

1404
01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:30,760
Speaker 12: really wish I would have regretted my stepdad adopting me

1405
01:02:31,200 --> 01:02:33,400
Speaker 12: because there's still an opportunity for her to have that

1406
01:02:33,480 --> 01:02:36,280
Speaker 12: relationship with her dad that might be where he is

1407
01:02:36,360 --> 01:02:39,040
Speaker 12: coming from, where the mom is coming from, Like hold on,

1408
01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:41,720
Speaker 12: because if the dad really wants to reach out in adulthood,

1409
01:02:42,120 --> 01:02:44,800
Speaker 12: he doesn't have any right. Again, he shouldn't have a

1410
01:02:44,880 --> 01:02:47,480
Speaker 12: right because he wasn't there her entire life. So I

1411
01:02:47,480 --> 01:02:50,200
Speaker 12: see that part. But there is more sides to the story.

1412
01:02:50,200 --> 01:02:53,280
Speaker 12: Because she is just a teenager. She wants these decisions

1413
01:02:53,320 --> 01:02:56,080
Speaker 12: like yes, having that parental figure in your life, your

1414
01:02:56,240 --> 01:02:58,800
Speaker 12: entire life, and being like, no, that is my dad.

1415
01:02:58,840 --> 01:03:01,640
Speaker 12: That's how I feel about my stepdad. But I would

1416
01:03:01,680 --> 01:03:04,080
Speaker 12: have regretted it at sixteen had I asked him to

1417
01:03:04,120 --> 01:03:07,640
Speaker 12: adopt me and not been able to have that relationship

1418
01:03:07,680 --> 01:03:10,600
Speaker 12: with my biological father. So there's there's a little bit

1419
01:03:10,640 --> 01:03:13,560
Speaker 12: more to it. But I see everybody's point where like

1420
01:03:13,840 --> 01:03:15,640
Speaker 12: if the step dad came back to me was like, no,

1421
01:03:15,720 --> 01:03:16,600
Speaker 12: I don't want to adopt you.

1422
01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:18,120
Speaker 11: I get that point.

1423
01:03:17,880 --> 01:03:19,160
Speaker 5: Too, man.

1424
01:03:19,560 --> 01:03:22,800
Speaker 1: I mean the kind I mean, the abandonment ceiling that you.

1425
01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:24,440
Speaker 1: I mean, that's the kind of stuff that lives with you.

1426
01:03:24,520 --> 01:03:26,960
Speaker 1: It would stay with you your whole life. Like this

1427
01:03:26,960 --> 01:03:30,120
Speaker 1: guy that raised me doesn't want me and I just

1428
01:03:30,200 --> 01:03:32,600
Speaker 1: can't imagine a world where it's about the kid. But

1429
01:03:33,240 --> 01:03:36,040
Speaker 1: you know, we don't know everything. But wow, Winter, thank

1430
01:03:36,080 --> 01:03:37,440
Speaker 1: you so much for calling. You have a good day.

1431
01:03:38,280 --> 01:03:38,840
Speaker 12: Thank you guys.

1432
01:03:38,840 --> 01:03:39,360
Speaker 10: Love you guys.

1433
01:03:39,680 --> 01:03:41,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, I love you. So you just can't you can't

1434
01:03:41,080 --> 01:03:41,400
Speaker 5: play with this.

1435
01:03:41,760 --> 01:03:44,240
Speaker 7: Yeah, I was gonna just say when you turn eighteen though,

1436
01:03:44,320 --> 01:03:46,840
Speaker 7: you're technically an adult, right, so like you can do

1437
01:03:46,960 --> 01:03:49,240
Speaker 7: and whatever as you please. So like, if you're by

1438
01:03:49,240 --> 01:03:51,080
Speaker 7: allowed to a dad does come around and knocks on

1439
01:03:51,120 --> 01:03:53,440
Speaker 7: your door, you're legally able to talk to him and

1440
01:03:53,480 --> 01:03:55,680
Speaker 7: have a relationship with him right after eighteen Or am

1441
01:03:55,720 --> 01:03:56,040
Speaker 7: I making this?

1442
01:03:56,360 --> 01:03:58,200
Speaker 5: Yeah? I mean it's a legal thing.

1443
01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:00,440
Speaker 1: And if he's raised her in the other guy hasn't

1444
01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:03,080
Speaker 1: been around, and I don't know why anybody would be surprised, Right,

1445
01:04:03,240 --> 01:04:05,480
Speaker 1: that's the way this went. But they wouldn't preclude you

1446
01:04:05,520 --> 01:04:08,200
Speaker 1: from having a relationship with your birth father. I mean

1447
01:04:08,640 --> 01:04:11,120
Speaker 1: I could still do that if I chose to, you know,

1448
01:04:11,600 --> 01:04:12,400
Speaker 1: and again I didn't.

1449
01:04:12,600 --> 01:04:13,040
Speaker 5: I didn't.

1450
01:04:13,240 --> 01:04:16,840
Speaker 1: Well I didn't get adopted. Uh yeah, because he went

1451
01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:19,040
Speaker 1: for cigarettes. Both of our dads went for cigarettes. Ever

1452
01:04:19,080 --> 01:04:25,040
Speaker 1: came back. But I I'm yeah, I mean if my

1453
01:04:25,240 --> 01:04:27,520
Speaker 1: birth father wanted to have a relationship with me or whatever,

1454
01:04:27,600 --> 01:04:30,640
Speaker 1: then that's very that's still possible. And the fact of

1455
01:04:30,640 --> 01:04:34,120
Speaker 1: the matter is my dad who adopted me, the guy

1456
01:04:34,160 --> 01:04:36,440
Speaker 1: who raised me. I mean that's it was, that was

1457
01:04:36,480 --> 01:04:39,280
Speaker 1: appropriate for our relationship because well he was he's been

1458
01:04:39,320 --> 01:04:42,080
Speaker 1: the guy. So that doesn't mean you can't have a

1459
01:04:42,120 --> 01:04:46,600
Speaker 1: relationship with your birth father. He's not even around. So

1460
01:04:46,840 --> 01:04:48,680
Speaker 1: what indication do we have that's gonna happen?

1461
01:04:50,520 --> 01:04:51,920
Speaker 5: I don't know. I don't know.

1462
01:04:52,520 --> 01:04:56,880
Speaker 1: All right, well ki ki, yeah, man, I think we're

1463
01:04:56,880 --> 01:04:57,840
Speaker 1: headed to divorce courts.

1464
01:04:58,320 --> 01:05:02,040
Speaker 4: We are.

1465
01:05:08,800 --> 01:05:09,680
Speaker 5: Let's learn so much.

1466
01:05:09,760 --> 01:05:17,040
Speaker 1: Daois so the oldest male prophylactic ever, and I shouldn't

1467
01:05:17,040 --> 01:05:18,680
Speaker 1: say that. I don't know what other methods they use,

1468
01:05:18,720 --> 01:05:22,120
Speaker 1: but the oldest condoms ever were found to be made

1469
01:05:22,360 --> 01:05:27,280
Speaker 1: from animal and fish intestines. One particular example was found

1470
01:05:27,320 --> 01:05:30,600
Speaker 1: in Sweden. Was crafted from a pagan testine and it's

1471
01:05:30,600 --> 01:05:34,320
Speaker 1: thought to have been made around sixteen forty A. D Wow,

1472
01:05:35,200 --> 01:05:41,880
Speaker 1: the michild hair, Yeah yu yuck. So it's like, hey, baby,

1473
01:05:42,760 --> 01:05:44,680
Speaker 1: hold on a second, let me go grab you know,

1474
01:05:44,840 --> 01:05:47,160
Speaker 1: the stuff, And then that's what it is.

1475
01:05:47,920 --> 01:05:52,840
Speaker 2: I mean, I would have had a lot of kids

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01:05:52,840 --> 01:05:54,080
Speaker 2: more fread show next,