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Speaker 1: From Hollywood. See you, thank you for listening to us

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Speaker 1: with Ryan Seacrest. Well, we did it. We got out

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Speaker 1: and we voted. We got out and we voted. We

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Speaker 1: made it through election day. And uh to everybody that

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Speaker 1: did their early voting or got out yesterday, good on

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Speaker 1: you exactly. I gotta feel satisfying, and I'm just happy

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Speaker 1: that the commercials are done. I couldnt take honestly. I mean,

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Speaker 1: with all due respect, I got it whatever we're but

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Speaker 1: I can't. I can't with the commercials. For me. It

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Speaker 1: was a text messages. It was so it was just

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Speaker 1: like stopped texting me. I didn't get any or maybe

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Speaker 1: I got them. If anything, I think it was like

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Speaker 1: when I, I think applied when I signed up for

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Speaker 1: voting or whatever. I must have not. I must have

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Speaker 1: not unchecked a box. But because I don't think I

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Speaker 1: see though. If I see anything that doesn't have something

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Speaker 1: really familiar to me, I don't even open anymore. Can

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Speaker 1: smell your toothpaste from here, very fresh. I always I

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Speaker 1: always always mouth water after mouth wash, mouth water, mouth water,

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Speaker 1: my mouth wash after I have my coffee, so they

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Speaker 1: have a mouthwatering scent. Thank you for that. Yeah, Because

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Speaker 1: the coffee gets You ever get coffee tongue at the gym?

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Speaker 1: You ever go work out with coffee tongue on a weekend.

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Speaker 1: Coffee tongue is the worst. It's stick, it's chalky, it's murky.

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Speaker 1: And I have been guilty of like rushing my coffee

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Speaker 1: and then going to the gym on a Saturday and

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Speaker 1: breathing around people. It's the worst. Yeah, kissing with it, like, well,

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Speaker 1: I don't you don't kiss? Well? Actually, yeah, wait what

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Speaker 1: don't know. That's not okay. That's not okay for anybody

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Speaker 1: to see tongue, Guys, I'm not like it's nothing. It's

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Speaker 1: the sound effect. Oh, the sound effect lifting up your shirt.

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Speaker 1: You came with no shirt on for Halloween? Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: I stand by my decision as a modern woman. I

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Speaker 1: will dress however I want. Thank you very much, But

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Speaker 1: you didn't dress you did it? Actually? Wait, so did

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Speaker 1: she come without a shirt? I'm confused? Remember her costumes?

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Speaker 1: She was was like open when she was Harry's house.

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Speaker 1: You know what I seem to forget every Halloween under

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Speaker 1: costumes that you had to try on. I just know

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Speaker 1: I gotta get through Halloween to focus on the good ones,

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Speaker 1: and the good ones are still coming, Thanksgiving, which goes

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Speaker 1: by too fast, and then of course Christmas, Christmas the best.

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Speaker 1: You know. I love it that the commercials are already Christmas.

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Speaker 1: I love it. You know what I purchased for Christmas

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Speaker 1: this year, reads Snoop on a Stoop. The album Snoop

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Speaker 1: dog It's like Elf on the shelf. Why do I

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Speaker 1: love it? I don't know, but I loved it too.

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Speaker 1: It popped up on my Instagram feeds. It's holiday themed

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Speaker 1: and there's a Martha Stewart one sickly Snoop Dogg dressed

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Speaker 1: I think, yeah, he does have a little that's a blunt.

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Speaker 1: But yes, it said, what's the difference in a joint?

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Speaker 1: it is really funny. But I'm gonna put him on

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Speaker 1: will not move. He will just stay in one spot store. Holiday,

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Speaker 1: isn't it great? Fast? Alright? Anyway, we're getting into it.

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Speaker 1: November nine. Today, it's Wednesday, midweek, the day after election day.

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Speaker 1: We've got rain ending later this afternoon, but it's cold.

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Speaker 1: It is winter. Literally. I think we're gonna be in

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Speaker 1: the upper fifties for highs today. Also this morning we

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Speaker 1: have another hump day helper much later to text us

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Speaker 1: your relationship questions any and these are more like intimacy conversations. Love.

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Speaker 1: These conversations bring him on, like to ask for our

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Speaker 1: friends sometimes during these so textas anything about your relationship

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Speaker 1: some really provocative and interesting questions. So coming up after

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Speaker 1: seven o'clock, this is interesting. She's on TikTok. Her name

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Speaker 1: is Vivian two. You've heard of her, I have yes,

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Speaker 1: And she gives really good advice when it comes to

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Speaker 1: after seven o'clock on kiss Now assist. And it's an

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Speaker 1: interesting you know what gets under our skin, and for

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Speaker 1: me it's different than for you. But you've an issue

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Speaker 1: don't know. I thought it was great. I had a

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Speaker 1: And I was like, I'm gonna give it a few

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Speaker 1: He's like, you need to call your doctor Tomorrow's like

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Speaker 1: I will. So I'm online trying to research, like what

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Speaker 1: I read chewing a lot of gum could be an issue.

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Speaker 1: It's gas related. It's literally I'm swallowing air and I

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Speaker 1: Like I was chewing so much gum, you guys that

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Speaker 1: it's the zylotol, I don't know ingent ingredient, sugar free

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Speaker 1: gum and it makes you very very gassy. That's happened

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Speaker 1: to me in twenties seventeen when I was chewing a

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Speaker 1: So I used to be all about gum and now

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Speaker 1: well no here. For different reasons, I always felt that

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Speaker 1: I'm dripping like sugar and my stomach more. But I'm

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Speaker 1: just chewing gums. You think it would like suppress my

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Speaker 1: so it's like, I'm not a doctor, but like did things.

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Speaker 1: What about sucking on lollipops? I don't know it sucks

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Speaker 1: Why can't he suck a lollipop? You can do whatever

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Speaker 1: but I see them sucking lollipops what about alt toits?

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Speaker 1: What about the mints, what about the I'm honestly scared

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Speaker 1: But that was my fear of So I would eat

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Speaker 1: craster the art of scraping your incredib what fresh? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: scrapers this Christmas, you'll thank me. I got a metal one. Wow,

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Speaker 1: it's impressive. I don't even know they existed. You over

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Speaker 1: rake the tongue, rake over those they're not going to

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Speaker 1: come off. It's just tell you there's a level of

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Speaker 1: just like, really, I have made it in my relationship

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Speaker 1: that close to anybody. It's really a beautiful thing. Your

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Speaker 1: d uh. This is a very timely hack. I think

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Speaker 1: by May three three. Yeah, that's why I'm here to

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Speaker 1: now May third, it's going to creep up on you.

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Speaker 1: But you have to like really go Ryan, Like you

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Speaker 1: can't send like someone to go get this for you.

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Speaker 1: I know that, Like you tried at Coachella and they

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Speaker 1: would not give me your Coachella passes or like he

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Speaker 1: needs to comment, sup, Like it's like that serious? Do

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Speaker 1: you know that? And would not release your Coachella tickets

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Speaker 1: to me? I really tried. How come people can use

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Speaker 1: my credit card without me? Then don't. That's that's my

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Speaker 1: name is on my credit card and that's not me.

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Speaker 1: Charge charged. Char It's so hard to get your Coachella tickets,

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Speaker 1: It's very simple. Actually, we're just focusing on compounding essentially

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Speaker 1: when a recession happens. Uh. There's two sets of people.

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Speaker 1: I would actually say three. There's very very wealthy to

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Speaker 1: people who are very much going to continue to live

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Speaker 1: their lives, invest and make money during the recession. They

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Speaker 1: actually see this as a time to buy things on sale.

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Speaker 1: There's folks who are unfortunately living paycheck to paycheck, and

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Speaker 1: they are probably going to struggle and suffer the most.

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Speaker 1: And then there's this pool of people in the middle.

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Speaker 1: And these people in the middle have this opportunity right

431
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Speaker 1: now to make a decision on how they want to

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Speaker 1: spend their money, and if they make some really smart

433
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Speaker 1: choices right now, that could set them up for the

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Speaker 1: next five years, ten years, however long, and give them

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Speaker 1: financial security a lot faster than they thought they could

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Speaker 1: achieve it. Because if you have some discretionary income that

437
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Speaker 1: you might think to buy a new bag with or

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Speaker 1: by yourself of a nice dinner out, or go on

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Speaker 1: one extra vacation during the year that money, Yes, would

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Speaker 1: it be so fun to spend it on those things,

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Speaker 1: of course, But if you have that discretionary income, if

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Speaker 1: you can set aside part of it, half of it,

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Speaker 1: all of it, whatever away to investing right now, you

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Speaker 1: are going to get low, low prices in the market,

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Speaker 1: lower than they have been in the past two years.

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Speaker 1: And inevitably, the market has never not recovered, and once

447
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Speaker 1: it ticks back up, you're gonna be able to ride

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Speaker 1: that wave back up, just along with all of those

449
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Speaker 1: other very, very wealthy people who are continuing to dump

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Speaker 1: money right now. So I'm in my car, I'm hearing

451
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Speaker 1: your voice. I'm hearing what you're saying. What's the first

452
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Speaker 1: thing you would tell me to do? Yeah, if you

453
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Speaker 1: wanted to prepare for recession, I would say, first and foremost,

454
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Speaker 1: it's really important to have your emergency fund. I would

455
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Speaker 1: set aside six months of living expenses and really really

456
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Speaker 1: prepare because a recession isn't something to be scared about.

457
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Speaker 1: It is just a time of really big uncertainty. So

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Speaker 1: it is possible that you may lose your job and

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Speaker 1: need to find a new one. It is possible that

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Speaker 1: you know your groceries get more expensive, gas prices are expensive,

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Speaker 1: So just having that emergency fund is going to make

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Speaker 1: it a lot easier in case like a tire comes

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Speaker 1: off of your car. So first and foremost, you want

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Speaker 1: to have your emergency fund set Okay, Vivian two with us.

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Speaker 1: She's on TikTok talking about how you can actually really

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Speaker 1: prepare and profit from the recession that is imminent. Can

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Speaker 1: you help us understand how investing twenty bucks can compound

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Speaker 1: into something big over time. Yeah, think about it like this.

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Speaker 1: It's essentially a fancy way of saying your money makes

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Speaker 1: you money. So if you have a hundred dollars and

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Speaker 1: you put that a hundred dollars into an investment that

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Speaker 1: gives you, let's say ten percent for ease of numbers,

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Speaker 1: at the end of the year, you would have your

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Speaker 1: initial hundred dollars and then the ten percent on that

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Speaker 1: a hundred, so in totally you would have a hundred

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Speaker 1: and ten dollars. The next year, if you have another

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Speaker 1: ten percent return, you don't get ten dollars, you get

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Speaker 1: eleven because you already had a hundred and ten dollars

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Speaker 1: in that account. It gets bigger and bigger and bigger.

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Speaker 1: And then next year you have, you know, a hundred

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Speaker 1: and uh one dollars, and then you get ten percent

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Speaker 1: on that and suddenly it's not ten dollars or eleven dollars,

483
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Speaker 1: it's twelve dollars and ten cents. But it's the same.

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Speaker 1: And can you tell me what's going to give me

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Speaker 1: ten on my money right now? Right where? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So I think people struggle with this a lot, but

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Speaker 1: investing in I diversified portfolio index funds that just track

488
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Speaker 1: the broader stock market over a long period of time,

489
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Speaker 1: we'll get you an average annualized return of ten percent.

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Speaker 1: So that doesn't necessarily mean you're going to get ten

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Speaker 1: percent every single year. So yes, exactly, some years get five.

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Speaker 1: Some years you lose money. How do you look at

493
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Speaker 1: spending a couple of bucks on a lottery ticket? I think,

494
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Speaker 1: as my realistic teacher in high school said, the lottery

495
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Speaker 1: is a tax on people who don't know how to

496
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Speaker 1: do math. You never know. It's one listen. I think

497
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Speaker 1: if you're buying a lottery ticket for entertainment, for fun,

498
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Speaker 1: totally go for it. If you're buying a lottery ticket

499
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Speaker 1: to bank on making money, it's just not a sustainable

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Speaker 1: or good strategy. You're great, Thank you, Vivian. I want

501
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Speaker 1: to spend more time Vivian. Two. You can follow on

502
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Speaker 1: TikTok at your rich bff. But she says, don't panic

503
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Speaker 1: be smart going into this. Yeah, all right, thanks for

504
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Speaker 1: me for coming on. Take care, Thank you so much,

505
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 1: thank you so right now, she's like, what was my

506
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Speaker 1: return on investment of that time that I spent talking

507
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Speaker 1: to them? In terms of how many followers somebody get like,

508
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Speaker 1: she's in there this day. I really have hope. He

509
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:23,399
Speaker 1: seemed giddier today. I said, well, yeah, Tuesdays Tuesday, but

510
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Speaker 1: I have hope today. I hope. Yesterday was election, but

511
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Speaker 1: today I really have hope. Because the weekend is near.

512
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Speaker 1: I believe if everything goes as planned, I'm spending time

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Speaker 1: with my niece Flora this weekend. And she's at that

514
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Speaker 1: age there it is, you're exciting to see your knee. Yeah,

515
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Speaker 1: because we play the poopy game. We call each other poopy.

516
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Speaker 1: You can do that with your uncle, My mom my,

517
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Speaker 1: mom my, her mom, not my mom my, sister. Her

518
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Speaker 1: mom gets so like, don't say that, but then she

519
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Speaker 1: always calls me poopy boopy. The influence, the great influence.

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Speaker 1: It's fine, It's okay with your uncle. Uh. Ruby from

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Speaker 1: l A class of did you just realize that? No?

522
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Speaker 1: I just was like, I hadn't thought about that in

523
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Speaker 1: a while. Class takes the gig here at Kiss Works

524
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Speaker 1: in the back room with Michaela. Mariana and I know

525
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Speaker 1: that they talk about us, talking about the stuff we

526
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Speaker 1: talked about, talking about us. Yeah, what's fine. I want

527
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Speaker 1: them to that's the whole point. Why talk about this

528
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Speaker 1: if they will talk about us talking about this. But

529
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Speaker 1: then we bring her to this side of the glass

530
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Speaker 1: and we asked her how's it going? And she brings

531
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Speaker 1: up her boyfriend often, and I have to wonder, like,

532
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:42,040
Speaker 1: is there like when we bring up our relationships, there's

533
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Speaker 1: like an aftermath or there sometimes it's heard by others. Yeah. Yeah,

534
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Speaker 1: But by the way, that was a great story. Your

535
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Speaker 1: husband he's reeling in the in the love since she

536
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:56,360
Speaker 1: stretched him out. But you guys been together for over

537
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 1: eight years. Does he have any issue with you asking

538
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 1: for advice on the air about relationship? No, but I

539
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Speaker 1: do get d M s or like text or my

540
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Speaker 1: little sister is like, hey, my friend heard like is

541
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Speaker 1: Ruby engaged? I heard like the break this morning and congratulations,

542
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Speaker 1: But she didn't text my sister and she's like, oh

543
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Speaker 1: my god, wait did it happen? And well, that's what

544
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 1: this is about. So you think you know where he's

545
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 1: going to propose. So my family is like, in my ear,

546
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Speaker 1: we're going to Vegas for New Year's Eve and they're like,

547
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Speaker 1: oh my god, what if he doesn't. Yes, But I'm like,

548
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Speaker 1: it is not the place, not the time. Why isn't

549
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Speaker 1: everything you do going to be thought of that way

550
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Speaker 1: to Bed's just way from here on out. Now that

551
00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 1: you guys have looked at reins, your nails have to

552
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Speaker 1: be done every Yes, Um, is your family and your

553
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Speaker 1: ear a good thing? Or you don't mind it's a

554
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Speaker 1: good thing? Um, I just I don't want it. So

555
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Speaker 1: I don't know, like, is there a gentle way to

556
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 1: maybe suggest, like if that's what you're thinking about doing? Like,

557
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Speaker 1: don't we know there's that? Um? Why why is it

558
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 1: a know? Anyway? I just I don't like Vegas for

559
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 1: New Year's Eve. I just feel it gets too crazy

560
00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 1: with you for eight years, what it does I'm going

561
00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 1: out there, his family is going to be out there.

562
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 1: Ums just happening. As an outsider has never been through this.

563
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:20,920
Speaker 1: You he's been waiting for eight years and to say

564
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,320
Speaker 1: no about anything that he's planning for this long, it's

565
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 1: gonna burst his bubble. If both of the families are

566
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:30,520
Speaker 1: going to be there, it's happening. No, you think so too?

567
00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:33,480
Speaker 1: Listen when why are both of the families going to

568
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 1: be there for New Year's Eve in Vegas? Well, but

569
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:38,640
Speaker 1: it's mostly his family, like my siblings are TVD. But um,

570
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 1: I just feel like you keep them. It's very clear.

571
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:45,680
Speaker 1: Maybe that's part of it. I don't know, cliche, nobody

572
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:48,240
Speaker 1: cares about that when you're not gonna care. Once you're

573
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 1: you're engaged to be so much happy, happy, happy. I

574
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 1: gotta tell you, I don't want to be told how

575
00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:55,000
Speaker 1: to do it. I don't want to be told how

576
00:31:56,480 --> 00:32:01,200
Speaker 1: you can't one right here. Yeah, you've really don't want anything.

577
00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 1: I want to go through the whole thing based on

578
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 1: what I think is the thoughtfulness of listening, making notes

579
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 1: and hearing it all out, and then I will propose

580
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 1: where I think you will best receive it. But I

581
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:15,440
Speaker 1: don't want to be told everything. It kind of ruins

582
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 1: the fun. You would be crushed. I do it now,

583
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 1: I may not do it now. Well I don't. Yeah,

584
00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 1: I mean it's a little petty, but little dark. You know,

585
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 1: you could just disappear in the outlet mode so I'll

586
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 1: never find you true. Actually, all right, we'll keep us posted.

587
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:36,120
Speaker 1: I guess. I hope you don't get proposed to not then.

588
00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 1: I don't know any other plans like Presto Pasta for

589
00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:44,640
Speaker 1: launch in the future, like it's gonna happen there, all right, Well,

590
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 1: it rolls on the saga on air with Ryan Seacrest.

591
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 1: So jingle presented by Capital One, and we're gonna play

592
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Speaker 1: Do you have some music for this game? Oh? Yeah, Hey,

593
00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 1: look at that. I mean the right man, That's what

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00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 1: I'm picturing the thing. The game is called do you

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00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 1: know Us? If you know us, you'll know we don't

596
00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 1: like that music. Now here's the way, here's where it goes.

597
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 1: You can win your ginger Ball tickets presented by Capital One.

598
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 1: It's a simple yes or no game. Let me get

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00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:27,960
Speaker 1: contestant here Edwin on the line of monta Bellow, and

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Speaker 1: then I'm gonna pay some bills. Edwin, Good morning, a

601
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 1: man of battle. How are you good? Thank you good.

602
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 1: You're gonna play a very easy game. It's called do

603
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:38,440
Speaker 1: you know us? Um. I'll ask you simple yes or

604
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 1: no question about one of us. You say yes or no,

605
00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 1: and we'll reveal if you're right. If you get three

606
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Speaker 1: correct before you get three not correct, you'll win your

607
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:51,440
Speaker 1: tickets to jingle Ball presented by Capital One. Okay, okay,

608
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Speaker 1: here's the first one has sinsony thrown up in two. Yes,

609
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 1: I don't know, but yes I would guess. Yet no,

610
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:11,280
Speaker 1: not even with your gas no, not even with my gas. Sorry,

611
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,320
Speaker 1: the answer is no. We should have re engineered that

612
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 1: question would have been yes, because I was very partner.

613
00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:20,680
Speaker 1: You're still in it. You're still in it. Has Tanya

614
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:24,719
Speaker 1: ever paid the premium version of a dating app? You're

615
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:26,839
Speaker 1: paid for the premium version of a dating app? Yes?

616
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:37,400
Speaker 1: Or no? Yes? No, yes too my boyfriend? All right,

617
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 1: so to stay in it. These facts are offensive, by

618
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:43,439
Speaker 1: the way, we'll take it up in the post show meeting.

619
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Speaker 1: Was Sisity ever suspended from school? Yeah? No, no, but

620
00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:58,320
Speaker 1: you're so bold. I kin't want to get the tickets anyway.

621
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Speaker 1: Just think, what what makes you think, ed when I'm

622
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 1: ro honest, And what makes you think, after your insistent

623
00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:07,200
Speaker 1: all these years that she was suspended from school like

624
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:12,919
Speaker 1: a straighty student, goody two shoes, a s B varsity cheer.

625
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 1: Never what makes you Edwin thinks she was suspending? What?

626
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 1: I don't about you? Because I'm a little wild because

627
00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 1: you threw up. I had a child inside my stomach

628
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:32,040
Speaker 1: and I'm sorry you didn't. I gotta stick to the rules.

629
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Speaker 1: Thank you very much for playing Oh my god painful.

630
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Speaker 1: I don't write the question. Y'all come up with him

631
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Speaker 1: and they're signed off on by y'all. I did not

632
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Speaker 1: sign off on these. Sarah, good morning. You're in for Edwin?

633
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Speaker 1: Are you ready to play? Do you know us? Because

634
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Speaker 1: he didn't you not? Here we go for jingall tickets.

635
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Speaker 1: Here we go. Can you name three people Taylor Swift

636
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Speaker 1: has dated? Can you know? Can Ryan name three people

637
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 1: bowl Taylor Swift? Like? How you just messed that one up?

638
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:09,520
Speaker 1: Says Ken Ryan Us. I was just reading it though

639
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Speaker 1: I thought it should be read. Can I I should

640
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:16,879
Speaker 1: say I name three people Taylor Swift as David? Can I? Sarah? Yeah?

641
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:21,080
Speaker 1: Come on right, I don't know, but let me try.

642
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:26,480
Speaker 1: Okay try Joe Owen, Yes, Jake Chillen Hall good, Okay,

643
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:36,520
Speaker 1: now your sweater? I ripped a hole in my sweater.

644
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 1: Was so excited? Also interesting three like what a what

645
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Speaker 1: would you have guessed? Honestly? I was that was the

646
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Speaker 1: same boat as he David like Joe for like a second, Yeah,

647
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Speaker 1: but that was that's for sure. Caln Harrison been up.

648
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Speaker 1: They Okay, breakers, Here we go. So that's one check correct?

649
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Speaker 1: What a fun one for you? Next one is, I

650
00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 1: can't believe I ripped this like a good sweater. I

651
00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:03,839
Speaker 1: can't believe you've ripped that either. There's been a lot

652
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 1: of excitement. All right, So is Tanya currently carrying more

653
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 1: than twenty dollars in a purse? Do you know us?

654
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 1: Yes or no? Um? I don't think so. Oh, I

655
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:26,800
Speaker 1: don't know something that's nothing. Nah, I don't think though? Correct?

656
00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 1: Have I worn this again? I'm not seeing these questions.

657
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 1: Have I worn the same pair of underwear two days

658
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 1: in a row? You? Yes? Yes? Or no? It has

659
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:46,840
Speaker 1: to be a yes or no answer. Um, no, no,

660
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:54,359
Speaker 1: of course I have question. Well, Sarah, by default, I'm

661
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 1: gonna give you the tickets, all right. You said maybe

662
00:37:56,480 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 1: two and a half. Congratulations. You're going to arguing about

663
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:05,520
Speaker 1: present capital. That's a really stressful game. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Hang on one second. So, of course, because i've worn them,

665
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Speaker 1: I've taken them off overnight and I put them back

666
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Speaker 1: on the next day. I believe you traveling that's even

667
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Speaker 1: more gross. I've just left them on the whole time. No,

668
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Speaker 1: you don't want to sleep in your underwear? Gross bills? Well,

669
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 1: this is the game, do you know? It's now? You

670
00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 1: do rust rain? If you're still seeing it? Ending this

671
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 1: afternoon high is cold. I have this vest for this

672
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:46,359
Speaker 1: kind of weather. It's the one best. I want one

673
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Speaker 1: of those. Everybody has one of those, right, that vest vest?

674
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Speaker 1: Michael has one too. When I watched some TV shows

675
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Speaker 1: out in the woods or out in the fields or

676
00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:58,800
Speaker 1: in Montana, they're always wearing the vesta it's very Montana.

677
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 1: It's very like Connecticut, kind of happy about wearing. Sometimes

678
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Speaker 1: I'll wear the vest with a short sleeve shirt because

679
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 1: it keeps the center of your body warm. But the

680
00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:12,200
Speaker 1: does does your boyfriend Robbie have the vest? No? He

681
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Speaker 1: does not have thet know and I want one to.

682
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Speaker 1: His dad has one. It's a great idea. Where'd you

683
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:20,319
Speaker 1: get Where do you get a good one? From? Put

684
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Speaker 1: on the list? They also have ones that looked just

685
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 1: like those everywhere. Just get the vest and matching one

686
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:32,440
Speaker 1: so we can. I think they're still up and opens

687
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Speaker 1: for us? Did they close? Vests? Are us all right? So, sissany,

688
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 1: you were talking about Rihanna. I was reading something. I

689
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Speaker 1: don't know if it was the same interview or not,

690
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 1: but something struck you about Rihanna. Go ahead, I think

691
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Speaker 1: as as a Rihanna fan, you know, it's been six

692
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 1: years since she released music, and so we were very

693
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Speaker 1: excited one when the announcement came out that she was

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Speaker 1: going to be doing the super Bowl halftime show, which

695
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:57,239
Speaker 1: is going to be here before you know it. And

696
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Speaker 1: then we get this single or this t act lift

697
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Speaker 1: Me Up from the Black Panther a Conda Forever soundtrack.

698
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:15,879
Speaker 1: Here's a little taste, so you know, I think after

699
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:18,400
Speaker 1: the song is out, we're all just drooling at the

700
00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:21,359
Speaker 1: idea of when are we going to get more new music,

701
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Speaker 1: like the whole album? Is she in the studio, like

702
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:26,319
Speaker 1: we know she just had the baby six months ago

703
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:28,600
Speaker 1: and all that, and which is great, she's a new mom.

704
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 1: But then she does this interview and kind of I

705
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:34,160
Speaker 1: think lets us all down. She said anything about a

706
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Speaker 1: new album, it's not true. Super Bowl is one thing,

707
00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 1: new music is another thing. Do you hear that? Fans

708
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 1: like it was very direct. I don't see that as

709
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Speaker 1: letting us down and also not forcing herself to make

710
00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:53,919
Speaker 1: music just because she's got a deadline of this super

711
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:55,920
Speaker 1: Bowl performance. I kind of like it. But now wait

712
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:57,840
Speaker 1: for this because we can dissect this next line. And

713
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Speaker 1: this is what makes me think that maybe there is

714
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 1: an album still, but just we're still gonna have to

715
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 1: wait a little longer for it. She says, the second

716
00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:07,359
Speaker 1: that I announced this, I said, oh my god, they're

717
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:10,400
Speaker 1: all going to think that my album is coming. I

718
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:13,880
Speaker 1: need to get to work. So the fact that she

719
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:18,080
Speaker 1: said my album is coming, it almost she said, she

720
00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 1: makes it seem like it exists already. Really, that's what

721
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:23,600
Speaker 1: you heard. I don't know. I kind of dissected the

722
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:26,480
Speaker 1: album is coming. Well, clearly in her mind, let's just

723
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Speaker 1: be Rihanna for a second. I always want to do

724
00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:32,440
Speaker 1: this anyway, So clearly in her mind she's got another

725
00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 1: album in the future at some point. The question is

726
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:38,319
Speaker 1: was that even laid out on the horizon in terms

727
00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:41,040
Speaker 1: of the calendar schedule. Was it going to be during

728
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:43,800
Speaker 1: the Super Bowl time? Could it be moved up? But

729
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 1: I think I hear her say, I'm not going to

730
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 1: be pressure I love it. I'm not going to be

731
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:50,840
Speaker 1: pressured by this performance to give you guys an album

732
00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:52,719
Speaker 1: till I'm ready to give it to you, which is

733
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 1: why she is a billionaire. I feel like she's been

734
00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:59,320
Speaker 1: so annoyed because everybody's literally just been asking for the

735
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 1: past six years. She's like, I'm making billion dollars, I'm moggling, mogling,

736
00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:05,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna mogul you guys go to the bunny Slope.

737
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:09,400
Speaker 1: So this fashion show that's coming out, the Savage by

738
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 1: Fancy Show, Volume four Fashion Show, it's out on Amazon

739
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:14,279
Speaker 1: Prime today. She says, it's going to blow all the

740
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:17,160
Speaker 1: other ones, all her other watch on Amazon Prime. Yea,

741
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:20,800
Speaker 1: so definitely check that out. It's going to be amazing

742
00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 1: muggling and powerballing the best gigs to become a billionaire.

743
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:27,399
Speaker 1: This is an interesting turn of events. Earlier in this hour,

744
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:31,240
Speaker 1: that's Leon kiss. I like it this batch up. Earlier

745
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:34,720
Speaker 1: this hour, we were talking to Sarah. She came into

746
00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 1: the game. Do you know us? What? She called back?

747
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:38,799
Speaker 1: She said, what what now? That I know you guys,

748
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 1: I know you'll like to talk about relationships and I

749
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:44,879
Speaker 1: have a question for you. So, Sarah, thanks for coming

750
00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:48,040
Speaker 1: back on and congratulations. Enjoy your jingle ball tickets. Yeah,

751
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 1: so you're calling to tell us here now later this hour,

752
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:55,279
Speaker 1: you regret breaking up with your boyfriend. I understand Why

753
00:42:55,440 --> 00:43:01,080
Speaker 1: is that? Why regret? Because um well, being a boy

754
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:04,520
Speaker 1: with having together for a while already a couple of years. Um.

755
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:09,239
Speaker 1: So I stayed home, my friends went out, and he

756
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:12,000
Speaker 1: was going out with his friends as well, So I

757
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 1: stayed home. I was a big um. I wasn't doing

758
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 1: that good to go out. And my friends called me

759
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 1: and they're at a bar, the same bar where my

760
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:24,239
Speaker 1: boyfriend's at. So she told me, hey, your boyfriend's here,

761
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 1: and I was like, where exactly? You know? He told

762
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:30,160
Speaker 1: me he was going out to his friend's house. So

763
00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:31,840
Speaker 1: he but he got a bar here and he's with

764
00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:34,040
Speaker 1: this girl and I was like, and I called him

765
00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:37,400
Speaker 1: and he wouldn't answer, and he texted me, oh, um,

766
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 1: I'll probably a little bit baby. We're having some issues

767
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:43,719
Speaker 1: with my friends. And I was like, okay. So I

768
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 1: stayed like that, and my friend sent me a video

769
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 1: of him kissing another girl. So when he got home,

770
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:54,720
Speaker 1: everything went down for him. We went into a big argument.

771
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:59,080
Speaker 1: He denied it. After viewing the pictures and everything, and

772
00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:01,840
Speaker 1: he still denied the thing. But I could have sworn

773
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:08,920
Speaker 1: he wasn't cheating. But I guess the prow said at all, wait,

774
00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 1: you saw a video of him with another girl or

775
00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:15,239
Speaker 1: you didn't. I did, but in my mind I didn't

776
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:16,840
Speaker 1: want to believe it. I was like, why do you

777
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:18,680
Speaker 1: regret breaking up with him? Did you break up with

778
00:44:18,760 --> 00:44:22,480
Speaker 1: him before that? Or after that when he got home.

779
00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:24,320
Speaker 1: I didn't real play back to what they send me.

780
00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:30,400
Speaker 1: I why do you regret? Yeah, you cheated because I couldn't.

781
00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:33,040
Speaker 1: I just couldn't believe it, and now that I'm looking

782
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:38,759
Speaker 1: back because I was so attached to him. But but

783
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:41,359
Speaker 1: you got it all right. So Sarah, here's what I hear.

784
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:43,760
Speaker 1: You were great. He cheating on you. You regret breaking

785
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:45,840
Speaker 1: up because you liked him being in your life and

786
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 1: you probably feel lonely and that's not fun. But you

787
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:51,000
Speaker 1: got to cheat yourself better, right, I mean, you should

788
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:53,080
Speaker 1: not have regret about breaking up with a guy that

789
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 1: doesn't mind your back. So let's get on Sarah's case

790
00:44:56,000 --> 00:45:04,840
Speaker 1: about Sarah having more value For Sarah, you don't saying, yeah,

791
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:09,000
Speaker 1: you cannot regret it because you did the right thing

792
00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:11,279
Speaker 1: in the long run. If you didn't do it and

793
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:13,400
Speaker 1: this was going on, it would continue to go on

794
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:16,480
Speaker 1: and it would rear itself. It's ugly had in a

795
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 1: worse way that might even feel more painful. So this

796
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 1: is not good pain, but it could be worse pain.

797
00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:25,399
Speaker 1: But this pain you gotta go through, and you gotta

798
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:29,239
Speaker 1: treat yourself better, Sarah, and not regret a guy not

799
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:31,680
Speaker 1: with you. That's not with you. You know what I mean? Yes,

800
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:33,800
Speaker 1: I understand, that's exactly my friend. And how are you

801
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:36,280
Speaker 1: going to regret something like that? Like no, yeah, it's

802
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 1: gonna take you long to heal. But girl, how are

803
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 1: you gonna letter I keep cheating on you and you're

804
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:43,680
Speaker 1: just letting you. I understand, Sarah can't tell you saying

805
00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:48,279
Speaker 1: I do this every year. Okay, every year I do this.

806
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 1: I look out into the crowd and I see good

807
00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:57,359
Speaker 1: looking eligible guy after good looking eligible guy at jingle Ball,

808
00:45:57,680 --> 00:46:01,279
Speaker 1: and Sarah, you are gonna go find an eligible guy

809
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 1: at our jingle Ball presented by Capital One. Was going

810
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:09,400
Speaker 1: to go take a girlfriend and get out there. You

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00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:12,120
Speaker 1: have the tickets. This is the first day to the

812
00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 1: new chapter and the new you. Capital A r A,

813
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, and I'll be out there, Sarah,

814
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:24,520
Speaker 1: and you you know, you wave to me and you

815
00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 1: tell me who you've met. I'll play matchmaker with you.

816
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:31,400
Speaker 1: I'm not shy. Thank you, thank you, You're welcome you

817
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:36,400
Speaker 1: hanging there, and good luck see you at jingle Ball tickets. Uh,

818
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 1: where do you think it was going? I thought you

819
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:41,880
Speaker 1: were gonna say, like every year I think about like

820
00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:44,760
Speaker 1: breaking up. But then I look out at this pool

821
00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:46,279
Speaker 1: that's out there, and I don't want to go back

822
00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:47,719
Speaker 1: out there. So I thought I was going to like

823
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:51,400
Speaker 1: a different direction. What a story, what a narrative twisted

824
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:54,760
Speaker 1: into like olive oil or something points and I should

825
00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 1: just not finish sentences sometimes it's score goes. I was like,

826
00:46:57,719 --> 00:47:02,919
Speaker 1: unexpected turn. You're welcome. You know, you can text into

827
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:07,359
Speaker 1: the show four, one or two, seven any time about anything, really,

828
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:09,520
Speaker 1: so if you can't get three, you can do that.

829
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:11,960
Speaker 1: You can also text these questions for this segment. Do

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Speaker 1: we have music for this segment? Yes, Relationship coaches, intimacy coaches,

831
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:24,440
Speaker 1: fascinating stuff that everybody's going through. I love it. I

832
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 1: love these questions that we get. Yeah, me too. So

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00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:28,920
Speaker 1: let me bring in our expert of the week and

834
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Speaker 1: we rotate Erica Angela, Erica, good morning. How are you.

835
00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:35,920
Speaker 1: I'm great? Ryan, how are you? I'm great? I'm seeing here.

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00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:38,919
Speaker 1: You're gonna be hosting Relationships Without Borders on Bravo coming

837
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:43,880
Speaker 1: later in the month. Huh. It's called Love Without Borders,

838
00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:46,840
Speaker 1: and this is the first time I am actually getting

839
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:50,320
Speaker 1: to talk about it publicly. So thank you. Love great,

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00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:55,040
Speaker 1: Love Without Borders starring relationship coach Eric Angel I'll be

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Speaker 1: tuning in. I'll be tuning in. Great stuff. Congratulations, that's great,

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Speaker 1: Thank you. We're gonna just shift all of this over

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Speaker 1: to our listeners who've been texting in heard you're coming on.

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Speaker 1: So this first question is to get into It is

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Speaker 1: from the three one oh text question what do you

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Speaker 1: do when you're significant other just won't go places because

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Speaker 1: they're not interested or they are quote not that guy

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Speaker 1: I guess means doesn't want to hang out with you

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Speaker 1: in certain places. Like what do you do to motivate

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Speaker 1: them to want to be with you? Yeah, so listen,

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Speaker 1: like some people are introvert. Some people, you know, they

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Speaker 1: just don't want to be out in certain areas. That

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Speaker 1: doesn't fight with their personalities, but at the end of

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Speaker 1: the day, with some relationships are compromised. So in a

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Speaker 1: scenario like this, you've got a good cop bad cops

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Speaker 1: of scenario. And what I mean is this like good

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Speaker 1: cop in terms of create a win win situation. Look,

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Speaker 1: I know you don't like going to these places, but

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Speaker 1: if you can just come with me for an hour,

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Speaker 1: that would mean the world to me and tell them,

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Speaker 1: like how you feel and then the bad cop is

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Speaker 1: the reality of like, hey, listen, if you don't start

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Speaker 1: meeting me halfway, I'm going to start resenting. It's gonna

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Speaker 1: start pissing me off. And I know you don't want

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Speaker 1: drama in our relationships. I don't want drama in our relationship.

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Speaker 1: So let's avoid the drama. Let's negotiate. Meet me in

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Speaker 1: the middle. It would mean the world to me. Tell

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Speaker 1: him how you feel about it. I like that advice.

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Speaker 1: And I'm watching White Lotus. I saw the first episode,

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Speaker 1: and I don't know the couple's names yet, but the

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Speaker 1: guy says to his wife, Hey, make an effort. It's like,

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Speaker 1: make an effort. Show me. Have you seen it? No?

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Speaker 1: Not the second seasons? Sicily can't all right, Erica, that's

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Speaker 1: off topic. Here we go back to the text five

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Speaker 1: six two. My husband of three years walked away from

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Speaker 1: our home, our marriage, and our life. Uh. He says,

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Speaker 1: it was my attitude. I found multiple women he was

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Speaker 1: secretly messaging on his phone. He says, I invaded his

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Speaker 1: privacy by looking in his phone. After I felt this

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Speaker 1: behavior changing, she feels like she did something wrong. That's

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Speaker 1: a lot to sort of go through. But what do

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Speaker 1: you think Ryan, I have one word for you. Gas lighting.

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Speaker 1: Its gas it is I think it's one word. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's gas lighting this out of her. Because when a

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Speaker 1: woman starts getting attitude, it's because she knows her intuitive

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Speaker 1: little knowing is going something's not right here, and so

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Speaker 1: instead of just speaking to that, we get has stopped

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Speaker 1: and we start throwing attitude. And the reality is, I

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Speaker 1: bet she spends something long before, but she didn't know

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Speaker 1: how to confront it. This guy is basically saying like,

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Speaker 1: oh no, no, no, let's not confront the mirror fact

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Speaker 1: that I'm messaging other women, which is a violation of

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Speaker 1: our trust, which is a violation of the valve that

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Speaker 1: I made with you. No, don't hold me accountable or

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Speaker 1: responsible for that. I'm going to shift it on you,

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Speaker 1: and I'm going to shift it on an attitude and

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Speaker 1: invading my privacy. And it's like, a woman is not

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Speaker 1: going to invade your privacy unless she knows that you're

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Speaker 1: withholding information from her. Gas lighting. So true, right, one

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Speaker 1: final one here? Six six. How do you deal with

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Speaker 1: clicks in the office when your manage is one of

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Speaker 1: them and there's obvious favoritism that's more of a workplace question. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but listen, relationships are relationships, and you know you can

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Speaker 1: be anonymous address it with your HR and go like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm not really crazy about this, but at the end

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Speaker 1: of the day, look, we're human beings. We're wired for

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Speaker 1: a community, we're wired for connection, and so if you're

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Speaker 1: not finding it with your boss, I mean, you've got

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Speaker 1: to form your own little group because at the end

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Speaker 1: of the day, when you're spending eight hours in a place,

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Speaker 1: you need that support, you need that morale. And if

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Speaker 1: the office managers too immature to create that kind of environment,

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Speaker 1: you've got to be proactive and creative for yourself. You

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Speaker 1: gotta follow Erica. She's at the Erica with an a

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Speaker 1: Erica Angelo on Instagram and Sierram Bravo later in the month.

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Speaker 1: Great to talk to you and great advice. Erica, Thanks

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Speaker 1: for coming on, good luck we'll talk again. Yes, thank you.

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Speaker 1: By relationship get me all of worried about like what

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Speaker 1: we don't know ourselves. You know, it's pretty crazy being

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Speaker 1: expert and relationships. I always want to ask, are you

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Speaker 1: good at your own stuff? Then we should start with that.

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Speaker 1: On air with Ryan Seacrest, I find that choice really interesting.

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Speaker 1: Just to go back to the lottery for a second.

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Speaker 1: You know, the choice that this multi billionaire winner has

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Speaker 1: is take the lump after taxes sixty one million, get

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Speaker 1: it all now, or take the two point four thirty

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Speaker 1: payments annually sixty eight million each after taxes for thirty

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Speaker 1: years forty three million dollars after tax and it's all good.

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Speaker 1: But what would you do? It seems like endless money

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Speaker 1: either way. Either way, I just feel like the world

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Speaker 1: is so nuts. Like I want to know how many

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Speaker 1: tickets they bought too, Like do they pay one ticket

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Speaker 1: or did they go and buy like a bunge of tickets. Also,

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Speaker 1: we don't know if it's one person or if it

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Speaker 1: was like a company. Sometimes you know, you you everybody

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Speaker 1: throws in money and that's like a group of twenty

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Speaker 1: people you don't know. Well, in this unknowing this, let's

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Speaker 1: get to something we do know, and that is a

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Speaker 1: solid trending report from Tanya rat What do you have

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Speaker 1: for thank you? Okay? Well, first of all, it was

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Speaker 1: Hailey Bieber and Selena Gomez. Now it's Kristin Cavalari and

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Speaker 1: Lauren Conrad. You always do that. What's the right one?

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Speaker 1: Cavalery you said Cavalari. I said Cavalari, Christ and Cavali. Cavalery.

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Speaker 1: You said Cavalari. So you're confusing me. And if I

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Speaker 1: ever see kristin Cavalari again, I'm going to call it

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Speaker 1: a wrong name. Cavalary again. Here all the time, I've

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Speaker 1: got in my head that it's Christ and Cavalery. Just

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Speaker 1: the she like, you know, she goes she doesn't make fun.

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Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, that's not the point. The point is

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Speaker 1: that she and Lauren Conrad are making everything right in

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Speaker 1: the world again. So do you remember all that beef,

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Speaker 1: that love triangle between Lauren, Kristen and Steve and Collen.

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Speaker 1: Actually that one I do, Yes, that one I do.

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Speaker 1: They even had like team Elsie and Team Kristen shirts

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Speaker 1: made at Holli story. It was like that was like

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Speaker 1: the pivotal thing of the era. So I'll see you

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Speaker 1: as a guest on Christmas podcast and she was apologizing

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Speaker 1: for shame and Kristen when they were in high school,

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Speaker 1: and it felt like this major life moment because that

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Speaker 1: was a very big thing that that Lauren did on

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Speaker 1: the show, and they both kind of apologized for being

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Speaker 1: insecure at that age and taking it out on each

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Speaker 1: other and it just felt very healing. But I felt

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Speaker 1: like if your high school years were on a reality show,

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Speaker 1: like what is the craziest thing that we would see?

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Speaker 1: A miss um my Oh. I thought the assignment was

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Speaker 1: who did I watch on TV? That I wanted to

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Speaker 1: be in high school and dress up as at all?

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Speaker 1: So my well, then my assignment was the answer to

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Speaker 1: my assignment was going to be I love Jason Priesley

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Speaker 1: dressed up as him in high school. When I went

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Speaker 1: to class, we could I know, like if we saw

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Speaker 1: something in your high school like I used to do

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Speaker 1: um shakira performances for extra credit in my Spanish class.

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Speaker 1: I would get up and like dance and sing to

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Speaker 1: Spanish secure songs. And I think back on it and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, that is so embarrassing because I was the

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Speaker 1: only one that did it. I treated the morning announcements

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Speaker 1: like it was an international broadcasts. Well, when you look

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Speaker 1: back and you see you hearing, I'm sure you know

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Speaker 1: people thought we were dorking our own rights. But look

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Speaker 1: at us now, yeah whatever, you got your own radio show,

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Speaker 1: now look at you. That's right. Please rise for the pledge.

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Speaker 1: Why I don't you? Yeah, I pledge allgan of the

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Speaker 1: United States of America. I loved doing that. I did

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Speaker 1: that all senior year was the best. I was always nervous.

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Speaker 1: I was going to forget the words every time. Isn't

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Speaker 1: it funny? You never did like It's a one time

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Speaker 1: I had my brain left my head and I like

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Speaker 1: stopped and was your's a telephone? Ours was a telephone

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Speaker 1: at one point it was, but it became a oh,

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Speaker 1: a microphone, the speaker, the big squares. Cool, Yeah, I did.

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Speaker 1: I panicked one time. I left my brain and I

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Speaker 1: stopped and I forgot the pledge in my stomach went

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Speaker 1: upside down and I finished it. But it's like that

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Speaker 1: moment where you feel that that lightning down your spine.

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, let's stick a break, just to walk

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Speaker 1: down memory lane. Thank you, Ton, and trying to figure

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Speaker 1: out how we got there, and I in my own head,

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Speaker 1: I just realized how we got there. It's training room

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Speaker 1: for solid Thank you. On air on air with Ryan Seacrest,

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Speaker 1: tomorrow we make a Ryan's Roses call now Elton and

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Speaker 1: Brittany called me closer. We're paying your bills all day long.

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Speaker 1: Also to morow being Thursday, Kay Systey is going to eleven.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for Listen's boy, I have a great day, guys,

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Speaker 1: thanks for listening so on Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make

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Speaker 1: sure to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow