1 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:09,320 Speaker 1: Hello, my loves, Welcome back to the Get Them Lalla Podcast. 2 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 2: I'm somewhat freaking the fuck out. 3 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:21,759 Speaker 1: Yes, you know you are the signature giggle laugh voice, 4 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:24,640 Speaker 1: all the things that just like made all of us 5 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:28,640 Speaker 1: fall in love with you. I have Brynn Whitfield from 6 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 1: Real Housewives of New York. I was telling you, Grin. 7 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 1: I am very very picky about who I. 8 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:37,200 Speaker 2: Have come on the podcast. 9 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:41,159 Speaker 1: Yea, I have the team sending me people all the 10 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 1: livelong day. I'm like, I'm sure they're interesting to a 11 00:00:44,320 --> 00:00:48,920 Speaker 1: lot of people, not to me. I've had one guest 12 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 1: since we've done YouTube, which, by the way, we just 13 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 1: hit ten thousand followers on YouTube. Not that not that 14 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 1: I've had one person. I've had Stassy. So you're my 15 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 1: second guest and I'm honored to have you all. 16 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 3: I'm so I'm so thankful to be here. It's like 17 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 3: she's like the cool chick in high school, like the 18 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 3: kind of scary one you want you desperately want her 19 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:10,480 Speaker 3: to like you, Like that's you, Like I I'm the 20 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 3: one that's honored. 21 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 1: That's so crazy because that was not the actual reality 22 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:15,960 Speaker 1: really of me in high school. 23 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 3: You seem like you would have been like the Regina George, 24 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 3: like the most popular, the most beautiful, but kind of intimidating, 25 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 3: scare scary, like girls wanted you to punch them in 26 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:24,400 Speaker 3: the face. 27 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:25,680 Speaker 2: Not at all. 28 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:28,479 Speaker 1: I was actually the theater geek who was like getting 29 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:31,040 Speaker 1: finger banged by the head of the football team. 30 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 3: Okay, more more, and that's about it. 31 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 2: That's that's as odd as cool as I got. 32 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 3: Was like, oh my god, it was a finger fingerpanging. 33 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:44,680 Speaker 3: That's also the best. I was just having a conversation 34 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 3: with this last week. That's like the best, most underrated. 35 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 3: If they're good at it, it's the best, right, So 36 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 3: do they have to be good at fingerbeing? I think 37 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:54,640 Speaker 3: fingerhanging is one that you don't you don't actually even 38 00:01:54,720 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 3: like be a specialists, just like you don't shut it's 39 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 3: not go ahead have the same as a hand job 40 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 3: or like a handome. I feel like it's about how 41 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 3: they like to do, and there's like a thing and 42 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 3: whatever the same thing. I think is just more like 43 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:13,079 Speaker 3: how quantity over quality. 44 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:16,799 Speaker 4: It's like, really, oh, I totally disagree, because that could 45 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:20,920 Speaker 4: hurt If I'm fingered aggressively done, I'm passing up. 46 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:23,920 Speaker 2: There is there is if you're. 47 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:29,920 Speaker 3: Doing a good finger. It's like clittorus. They're getting around clitoris. 48 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:32,080 Speaker 3: Can I get it in a sentence? And you can 49 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 3: be the root of the word clit taurus say it's 50 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 3: so cute. But that's good to know. So you're just 51 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 3: you're not You're not picky with the fingers. I'm not 52 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 3: picky with the I mean, okay, it's it's more so 53 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 3: like I just love the effect. You can do it anywhere, 54 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:49,359 Speaker 3: you know, that's table. That's the hottest thing. I once 55 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 3: stated guy in Venice. He was crazy like Venice Beach 56 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:56,640 Speaker 3: are like actual cool man like Venice, nice Venus. And 57 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 3: I remember I had on these like this cute mar 58 00:02:58,440 --> 00:03:00,959 Speaker 3: Hoffman like jumpsuit. He's like, hang on one second. He 59 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 3: goes down to his garage, comes back up with the scissors. 60 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 3: I was like, what the fuck, Like Andy, he's really intense, 61 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 3: but I didn't get it. Hold out the pockets and 62 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 3: I think cut the pockets out of my jumpsuit. And 63 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 3: I was like, this is mar Hoffman sample sale, Like 64 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:14,080 Speaker 3: this can't be created and he's like no, so I 65 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 3: can figure you a brunch, which god at the Rose 66 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 3: restaurant and bed and I was like that I fell 67 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 3: I'm still in love with that guy I did. I 68 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 3: texted him in this weekend. I'm like, hey, I'm in town, 69 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:29,239 Speaker 3: you know, and he's like, nice, hear from you. Hope 70 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:30,359 Speaker 3: I got the hope you're doing well? 71 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 2: Text Oh like I'm married with four kids. 72 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 3: And now they able the vibe like he's aiding someone 73 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 3: and he's like, hey, thanks, thanks for the invite. Can't 74 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 3: do it. I hope you're doing well. 75 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 1: By the way, give it a few months. They all 76 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 1: start creeping at some point. I don't want to be 77 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 1: the person they're creeping with, but like they all start 78 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 1: to stray all right, where he's gonna be hitting you 79 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 1: up and you're gonna be like, I'm good, I saw 80 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 1: you on Instagram. 81 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 2: Hey. 82 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 3: The second that you like, even like energetically or anything, 83 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 3: you move on the I mean, they all just come in. Yeah, 84 00:03:58,600 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 3: they can sense when you're happy. 85 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, what is that to your life? 86 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:05,800 Speaker 1: And then they do because then you catch me in 87 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 1: my closet in the dark with my vibrator. 88 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 3: Oh my god, wait have you have you used your 89 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 3: vibrator in secret? 90 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:13,480 Speaker 2: Oh? 91 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 3: Like, when you're with someone, in halfway with someone. 92 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 2: I cannot creep around. 93 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:21,840 Speaker 1: So when I would see that dudes were sliding in 94 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:23,720 Speaker 1: the d M, and I knew I couldn't respond. It 95 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:27,160 Speaker 1: was so sexually frustrating that it's like, oh and then 96 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:29,040 Speaker 1: when the ring cameras went in, it was like, now 97 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 1: I'm really fucked. Where am I supposed to do that? 98 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:35,159 Speaker 3: All of us masturbate in the privacy round class? 99 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 2: You know? 100 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 1: I mean, okay, So I have a couple episodes ago 101 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 1: you spoke about swallowing and you were like, all you 102 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:49,240 Speaker 1: have to do is like gag on the day. 103 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I was. 104 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:54,839 Speaker 1: The BJ's So I was talking to my mom and 105 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:57,480 Speaker 1: my best friend, where's this going? 106 00:04:57,880 --> 00:04:59,719 Speaker 2: I want to know? I want to know your thoughts. 107 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 1: So my friend asked my mom were were you? Are 108 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:07,479 Speaker 1: you a swallower? And my mom was like, no, I 109 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 1: never swallowed. My friends told me that come has way. 110 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:15,840 Speaker 2: Too many calories. No, do you know anything about this? 111 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:21,719 Speaker 3: She cares what her fit because I like, I'm mon keto, sweetie, 112 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 3: I can't no, no, no, I need that. 113 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 2: No. 114 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 3: I don't think it is calories and sodium, right, maybe 115 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:29,720 Speaker 3: a lot of sodium. I do, so does the thing 116 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 3: I really saw. 117 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 2: That's how I know that I like someone is if 118 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:33,359 Speaker 2: you swallow it. 119 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:37,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I used to be a freaking gangster. 120 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 1: I used to like give the beeja swallow and then 121 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:45,719 Speaker 1: grab the bottle of vodka because naturally they would have 122 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 1: that near my bed at this point. 123 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 2: In time and chase it with like bottom shelf vodka. 124 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:55,560 Speaker 2: Oh my god, Yeah that's hard. I used to be 125 00:05:55,640 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 2: a bag of fun. 126 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:58,600 Speaker 1: Now someone puts that thing near my face and I'm like, 127 00:05:58,720 --> 00:05:59,840 Speaker 1: I kissed my child with. 128 00:05:59,839 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 2: It away from me. 129 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 3: I I had a guy heard who told me we 130 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 3: were telling like you're sharing her stories. He was like, 131 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 3: this is the creepiest thing ever. He's like, don't ever 132 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 3: do this. Did a girl give him a blowjob and 133 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 3: she's trying to be really hot and I guess she 134 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:14,839 Speaker 3: like had it in her mouth and she goes like 135 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:19,599 Speaker 3: watch this and winked and then no, gargled gargled, Yeah, 136 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 3: gargled it and then like and he was like he 137 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 3: just told me, He's like, no, no one should ever 138 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:25,160 Speaker 3: do that. 139 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 2: That's disgusting, right, that's like a bad point. 140 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:30,159 Speaker 3: I wasn't thinking you have like a party trick and 141 00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:31,559 Speaker 3: then it's like just false. 142 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 1: I think it's also a teeth whitener though, so if 143 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:37,600 Speaker 1: you switch it around a bit. 144 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 3: I feel like men made that up like a man 145 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 3: was like a cures cancer can. It's great for your skin. 146 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 3: It'll make it so much younger. Put it on your face. 147 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:52,279 Speaker 3: It's good for your skin. Breast milk literally heard that, yeah, 148 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:54,599 Speaker 3: heel ship Like I had a wedding one day, scrape 149 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 3: myself and my friend's like just put some like and 150 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:58,600 Speaker 3: literally the next day it was fine. It literally cures 151 00:06:58,680 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 3: like that's very and things and it's great for your skin. Right, yeah, 152 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 3: not semen, see they light to us. It's always us 153 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 3: curing answer. 154 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 1: It's not them, No, but that is true with the 155 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 1: breast milk because when I was pregnant with Ocean and 156 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 1: my skin was freaking out, I would just literally just 157 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 1: like squirt a little on my finger and put it on, 158 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 1: and it like helped a lot. 159 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 2: I'm gonna see if I can squeeze them. 160 00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 1: Out a little later, like have any left over because 161 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 1: I'm suffering from a breakout. 162 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 2: So I I have. 163 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 3: So many questions, let's go, let's have at it. 164 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 1: First of all, I want to know, because we were 165 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 1: having this conversation before we started. 166 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 2: I want to know what you're driven by. 167 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 3: Personally me what I'm driven my life? 168 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean we just learned that you were a 169 00:07:46,960 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 1: pre med student. My mind cannot even grasp that at all. 170 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 1: Like you throw me into the wilderness, I'm fucking surviving, right, Yeah, 171 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: you throw me into a college and bitch, I'm running. 172 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 3: I think, well, at this point or twenty twenty three, 173 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 3: like the wilderness would be actually more useful. I I 174 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 3: don't know. I've always just answered to myself. I think 175 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 3: that my grandmother raised me. But she wasn't very she 176 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 3: wasn't hands on, you know, like we've turned her, we've 177 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 3: canonized her into a saint. I think my brother and 178 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 3: sister and I. But she wasn't by any means perfect. 179 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 3: Shed a lot of shortcomings and staying on top of 180 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 3: us or if you had your homework done or anything 181 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 3: wasn't in her repertoire. So like she sat down and 182 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 3: taught me how to do her signature so that she 183 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 3: didn't have to sign papers and permission slips and things 184 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 3: like that. Oh wow, be bothered. So she went shopped 185 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 3: our games. She'd get mad at us if we didn't, 186 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 3: you know, hit a home run or she's very tough 187 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 3: on us. So it was more so like I had 188 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:44,920 Speaker 3: to kind of like create rules for myself and like 189 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 3: what my expectations were, what was and I had to 190 00:08:48,880 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 3: do it. I don't know, like I don't know if 191 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 3: something inspires me. More so, it's just like I just 192 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:56,640 Speaker 3: don't want to be lazy. I don't like lazy people. Okay, 193 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know what drives me, you. 194 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 1: Know, some like I'm driven by the amount of Instagram 195 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:03,560 Speaker 1: followers I have. 196 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:06,560 Speaker 2: I'm driven by those money. I'm for those people. 197 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:10,800 Speaker 3: I think in a way, I'm driven by money. I 198 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 3: think up until it was like up until I turned 199 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:15,719 Speaker 3: thirty and I started around company. I honestly, if you 200 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 3: had asked me, I was like, you know, junior vice 201 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:20,559 Speaker 3: president or whatever. I was in my twenties, and had 202 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:21,679 Speaker 3: you asked me, I was always worried that I was 203 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:23,520 Speaker 3: still gonna work at McDonald's. I literally would go or 204 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 3: see McDonald's like I could still end up there, like 205 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 3: it was always chicken little and it's only taking me 206 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:30,440 Speaker 3: the past several years. Then now I finally don't have 207 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:32,559 Speaker 3: that feeling anymore of like I could be poor, could 208 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 3: I might have to go back on welfare, I might 209 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 3: have to do something like that, like that was always 210 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:40,120 Speaker 3: in me, so I was scared. But now I don't 211 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 3: have that. I can honestly say I don't have that 212 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:43,800 Speaker 3: feeling anymore. And now it's like I've read all those 213 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 3: books about manifestation. I've done everyone from like Abranham Hicks 214 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 3: to Eckart totally to whatever that the Tony Robbins guy, 215 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 3: I've done all that stuff. So now I do believe 216 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 3: like you are your thoughts, you create everything, Like what's 217 00:09:58,280 --> 00:09:59,960 Speaker 3: for you is gonna come do you? Now I subscribe 218 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 3: to all that Venus shit. I picked it up when 219 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:03,719 Speaker 3: I lived in Venice. Yeah, So now I'm just more 220 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:07,199 Speaker 3: like it's like I'm scared of nothing, and I've had 221 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:09,360 Speaker 3: so much fucked up shit happened to me in my life. 222 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 3: I was telling someone, I was like, I'm fucking bulletp 223 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:15,679 Speaker 3: like I'm unafraid, Like I'm literally David Goggin says this thing. 224 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:17,080 Speaker 3: He's like, when the devil goes to sleep at night, 225 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 3: make sure he's looking under the bed for you. And 226 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:20,439 Speaker 3: that's how I live. And I'm like, no, no, the 227 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:22,640 Speaker 3: devil's scared for me because I'm like, I've take I've dined, 228 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:25,040 Speaker 3: with the devil, like I picked up the tab, you know, 229 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 3: Like yeah, so I'm like unafraid, Like I think that's 230 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 3: like my superpowers too. Like I'm just like I don't 231 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:33,439 Speaker 3: give a fuck. I mean I do when I care. 232 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 3: I'm not one of these like I don't give a 233 00:10:34,640 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 3: fuck bitches. But I'm like there's something in me where 234 00:10:38,559 --> 00:10:41,480 Speaker 3: it's confidence, but I can be I don't have confidence 235 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 3: all the time, you know, Like I don't know, it's 236 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 3: just this thing where like I'm not I think is 237 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:47,839 Speaker 3: the worst things in life that could have happened to 238 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 3: a child or a woman. And like there's ten percent 239 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:51,400 Speaker 3: of my life I've shared on the show to date. 240 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 3: Everyone's like, oh my god, your story. I'm not giving 241 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:57,319 Speaker 3: other people my full story. That's my story and I'm 242 00:10:57,360 --> 00:10:59,720 Speaker 3: going to share it over time. But I've only shared 243 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 3: ten percent. I know what's happened in my life. I've 244 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:02,200 Speaker 3: been the most fucked up shit happen. 245 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 2: I have chills right now. 246 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:05,840 Speaker 3: I love. I feel like that's the way too. Even 247 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 3: like how we've known each other, I've always picked up 248 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 3: that from you, like you've like been through shit too, 249 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 3: Like I don't know, I just feel always like you're 250 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 3: kind of the same, Like, I don't know, I've just 251 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:16,160 Speaker 3: felt that connection noice to you. 252 00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 1: I can't imagine, though, with what you went through because 253 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:23,320 Speaker 1: I had the luxury of growing up and so did Easton, 254 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:28,680 Speaker 1: of two phenomenal parents who loved each other, who there 255 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 1: was never any pressure. Whatever we wanted to do in life, 256 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: we could achieve. And if we didn't go to college, 257 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:37,440 Speaker 1: no big deal. If we didn't make a lot of money, 258 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 1: no big deal. Like they just wanted to see us 259 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:43,960 Speaker 1: happy and healthy, right, So we did have that luxury 260 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:48,559 Speaker 1: that not everybody has. There are things that have obviously 261 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:51,360 Speaker 1: happened in my life that have shaped me and I 262 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 1: personally have said, you know, I'm bulletproof, like you cannot 263 00:11:55,679 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 1: take me out if this didn't take me out nothing. 264 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, And as we talk about that, is it 265 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 2: the experience or does that come with age? 266 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 3: I think it's getting both. I read somewhere the answers 267 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:11,720 Speaker 3: always both for a good question. 268 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 2: I like that. I love the great. 269 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's always like I think it's a little 270 00:12:14,880 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 3: bit of both. Definitely with age. I thought I was 271 00:12:18,280 --> 00:12:20,439 Speaker 3: I was confident. I thought I knew everything in my twenties. 272 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 3: Now in my thirties. It's just crazy, whether it be 273 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 3: life or my own self confidence or high and with men. 274 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 3: I'm like, I just I was so like now like 275 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 3: I love like the each age I get older, I'm 276 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 3: like less dumb and I feel better about myself and 277 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, this is easier, and shit kind of 278 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:38,720 Speaker 3: goes into perspective. But I think it's also it's not 279 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 3: the experience. I think it's just getting through having the 280 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:44,960 Speaker 3: experience and then not like dying or failing, you know, 281 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 3: or even to times when you felt and like I'd 282 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:48,960 Speaker 3: feel like I wanted to do that, Like I think 283 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 3: getting through it and saying we like, for example, if 284 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 3: it's like a breakup, or if it's something you know, 285 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:56,320 Speaker 3: anything or family or death or something and you're like 286 00:12:57,400 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 3: you were scared of that thing happening, or like, oh 287 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:01,439 Speaker 3: we always say we had if a plane goes down 288 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 3: with all my family and I won't be able to 289 00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 3: live right. And I've said this too. I love my 290 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 3: brother so much, and I remember one time I was 291 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:09,080 Speaker 3: talking to him just thinking about I was like, well, 292 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:11,280 Speaker 3: if you and my sister and grandma, if you guys 293 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 3: all died, I'd kill myself too. I can't live after that, 294 00:13:13,920 --> 00:13:16,920 Speaker 3: He goes, No, you you'd be sad for about a year, 295 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:19,120 Speaker 3: but then you move on because you have to. And 296 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 3: now I feel that way, like I don't know, I 297 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 3: don't know. 298 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:24,920 Speaker 1: I'm so like on your page. It's so crazy because 299 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:28,480 Speaker 1: as you're talking, I it's when my dad passed. I 300 00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 1: as a child used to lay in bed and this 301 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 1: is not normal for a child. 302 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 3: And I would like and imagine and imagine how sad 303 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 3: you'd be, right, Yes, yeah, I did that too. 304 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:41,200 Speaker 1: Yes, And listen to Celine Dion some song about like 305 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:42,720 Speaker 1: saying goodbye when your mom died. 306 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:44,920 Speaker 2: Saw me, I was like an elementary. 307 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:47,520 Speaker 3: S I listened to the way and I know you're 308 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:50,480 Speaker 3: shining down And I would lay and think about my 309 00:13:50,520 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 3: grandmother dying because I loved her so much. 310 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 2: And you're like, how will I function? 311 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 3: And sometimes I think that it's been two years and look, 312 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:57,520 Speaker 3: she was eighty two and it was fucked up. What 313 00:13:57,600 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 3: happened with my family and stuff with her. They cremated 314 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:02,720 Speaker 3: her against her last wishes, and then. 315 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 2: No, God is devastating. 316 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:06,760 Speaker 3: She's in a storage unit, like a storage it's used 317 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:09,079 Speaker 3: to barrier. It's fucked up. That's a whole nother that's 318 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:12,160 Speaker 3: a whole nother thing. But that's that's my family. But 319 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:14,480 Speaker 3: like I would, I was always so scared my whole 320 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:16,079 Speaker 3: life about she's gonna die, She's gonna die, and I 321 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:18,360 Speaker 3: would like premeditate. I did with my dog too. I 322 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 3: was like so sad before it happened. And I think 323 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:24,520 Speaker 3: sometimes the reason why I'm still like having trouble, like 324 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 3: you know, speaking sometimes about her, and like a lot 325 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 3: on camera too. For some reason, the camera's fucked with 326 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 3: me and having to say things on camera, having to 327 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 3: say my grandmother's dead. I would start like just bawling, crying. Yeah, 328 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:37,720 Speaker 3: I made it real. I think in my self preservation way, 329 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 3: I just go about it and I tell my story, 330 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 3: and I'm a publicist and I can narrate things that 331 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:42,480 Speaker 3: I can speak. But then all of a sudden, it 332 00:14:42,560 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 3: was like in the Confessionals and like still tells about 333 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 3: MEMI and I would just like start shaking. I was 334 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 3: like get away, Like I was like, fuck off, I'm 335 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 3: not talking about it. And we had to keep doing 336 00:14:49,680 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 3: confessionals and confessionals and they would wait the questions at 337 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:54,040 Speaker 3: the end, and then finally I'd be like take like 338 00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:55,640 Speaker 3: three shots I come, only you go you have five 339 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 3: fucking minutes, and I'm like, and it's so crazy because 340 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 3: they're all weirded out because it's me for like like 341 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:03,840 Speaker 3: and then I like abe, and then I was just like, 342 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 3: go answer the quote you have five minutes. 343 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:07,880 Speaker 2: Like you'd make it of you. 344 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:10,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, and everyone's and then then then they're like get 345 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:11,240 Speaker 3: her out of here, like is it? And then I 346 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:13,000 Speaker 3: would just be like dark for two days, like it 347 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:16,080 Speaker 3: was just very but but yeah, but I would do 348 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:17,440 Speaker 3: the same thing. You just ad as a cave. And 349 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:19,280 Speaker 3: I think that's one of the reasons why I think 350 00:15:19,320 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 3: it's like not glorifying of it. What's it called when 351 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:23,920 Speaker 3: you keep you build it up so much in your 352 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:25,680 Speaker 3: in your head. Like I'm not saying we're not as 353 00:15:25,720 --> 00:15:27,960 Speaker 3: sad as we are about parents dying. 354 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 1: No, but you do find a way to move on, 355 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:32,240 Speaker 1: Can I ask you? Do you believe in God or 356 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 1: a higher power? 357 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 3: Yes? Yeah. I grew very, very Catholic, but I've dabbled 358 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 3: in and I've fallen in love with a lot of 359 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:40,600 Speaker 3: different religions. Okay a little. I've dabbled a little bit 360 00:15:40,640 --> 00:15:44,760 Speaker 3: of Islam. I've tried to convert three times to Judaism. Wow, Yeah, 361 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:46,800 Speaker 3: I love religion. I think it's beautiful. I think everyone's 362 00:15:46,840 --> 00:15:49,600 Speaker 3: an idiot because we're all actually praying to the same shit, right, 363 00:15:49,640 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 3: and it's all the same. But then there's like we're 364 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:53,960 Speaker 3: all fighting over it, but it's all the beautiful parts 365 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 3: of it. We're all wanting the same thing. 366 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 1: I feel the exact same way Easton and I grew 367 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:02,600 Speaker 1: up in Utah, so religion and scares me. Spirituality and 368 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 1: like the talks of God or a higher power it 369 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:08,680 Speaker 1: felt very forced to where it kind of turned me off. 370 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:14,840 Speaker 1: But I also think that leaning into that when you 371 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:19,360 Speaker 1: actually do experience loss instead of it just being something 372 00:16:19,560 --> 00:16:23,440 Speaker 1: you're imagining, like when this happens, I'm done, let's call 373 00:16:23,480 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 1: it a day, it happens, and then for me, God 374 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:31,120 Speaker 1: has a very strange way of helping you compartmentalize. And 375 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:34,160 Speaker 1: if you I'm not saying everyone is like this, just personally. 376 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 1: If I can lean into that, there is a way 377 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:40,960 Speaker 1: where I can remember, you know, my dad, the way 378 00:16:40,960 --> 00:16:43,000 Speaker 1: he deserves to be remembered, and I can move on 379 00:16:43,080 --> 00:16:46,720 Speaker 1: with my life yet still have the most vivid like 380 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:49,480 Speaker 1: I remember every wrinkle, I remember the way his hands 381 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 1: look the way his hug feels, and I can. 382 00:16:51,880 --> 00:16:56,400 Speaker 3: Write it, write it down, Oh girl, I did. Yeah. Yeah, 383 00:16:56,440 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 3: when they come up little things, keep writing. 384 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:01,480 Speaker 2: And he's saying, yeah, yeah, all of that stuff. 385 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 3: Things because you start to, like so many memories I've 386 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:05,520 Speaker 3: come up over the past two years, little things about 387 00:17:05,520 --> 00:17:08,320 Speaker 3: her house or her hands or how she would touch something. 388 00:17:08,359 --> 00:17:11,200 Speaker 3: And I was like, why where did this memory come from? 389 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 2: It? 390 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 3: And I don't know where it came from, but I 391 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:14,640 Speaker 3: want to I just so therefore, I don't know where 392 00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:15,879 Speaker 3: it's going to go, so I want to keep it. 393 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 3: So I always write, write them down now, and I 394 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:19,560 Speaker 3: have like this long list of just the things she 395 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:21,240 Speaker 3: used to do, how she used to snore, how she 396 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:22,960 Speaker 3: used to live, all these little things. 397 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:25,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that you do that your I love 398 00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:28,600 Speaker 1: that you call your grandma Mimi, because that was our grandma. 399 00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:31,960 Speaker 2: Her name was Mimi. Really, yes, And oh my god. 400 00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:34,360 Speaker 1: It's so cute and just when you talk about her 401 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 1: and I know what you mean where you're like, I 402 00:17:36,040 --> 00:17:38,879 Speaker 1: know that this person wasn't perfect, but she was my Mimi, 403 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:41,359 Speaker 1: you know, and she took over in a time that 404 00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:44,400 Speaker 1: was like you were a little baby. I can't even 405 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:47,840 Speaker 1: imagine let's talk about this part when she said, you 406 00:17:47,880 --> 00:17:50,960 Speaker 1: go to medical school to marry a doctor. First of all, 407 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:53,160 Speaker 1: who's getting into medical school to where they won't even 408 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:55,440 Speaker 1: have the option, Yeah, to marry a doctor that way? 409 00:17:55,760 --> 00:17:57,920 Speaker 3: Seriously, No, I remember. I wanted to be a doctor 410 00:17:57,960 --> 00:18:01,879 Speaker 3: my entire life. I just studied as a child, NonStop anatomy, physiology. 411 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:04,879 Speaker 3: I would watch I would watch like cardiac surgeries, like 412 00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:06,480 Speaker 3: I don't know how I got my hands on videos. 413 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 3: I had a little white robe that said doctor Brenn 414 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:11,480 Speaker 3: on it. I would do every book reporting school about 415 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:13,600 Speaker 3: doctor Christian Minord. He was a South African doctor who 416 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:16,600 Speaker 3: did the first human heart transplant, doctor Ben Carson. I 417 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:19,080 Speaker 3: loved him, and not you know, politically now later on 418 00:18:19,119 --> 00:18:21,520 Speaker 3: in life, but I loved him. He did the brain transplant. 419 00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:26,000 Speaker 3: I was obsessed with because you're smart, dad, I was. 420 00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:29,600 Speaker 3: I was obsessed with being a doctor. I go to Purdue, 421 00:18:29,640 --> 00:18:31,400 Speaker 3: and I went to Purdue because it's a good science school. 422 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 3: It's like one of the top engineering schools. So I'm like, oh, 423 00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:35,119 Speaker 3: I'm gonna learn. I fucked myself over because I was 424 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:37,320 Speaker 3: competing with people who are now working at like SpaceX 425 00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:39,840 Speaker 3: and they're rocket scientists. I'm smart, but I'm not like 426 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 3: fucked up like it took me. I had a study 427 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:44,440 Speaker 3: for the sciences and those things I was. I was 428 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 3: an athlete when I was in elementary school. I loved math. 429 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:50,640 Speaker 3: I can't even add now, but but I wasn't as 430 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:53,439 Speaker 3: good as science. I got really in my head. I 431 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:56,280 Speaker 3: was with a very unsupportive boyfriend who basically was like, yeah, 432 00:18:56,280 --> 00:18:58,720 Speaker 3: I don't think you can do it either. Yeah, yeah, 433 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:00,600 Speaker 3: he was the worst. And yeah. I remember I called 434 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:03,920 Speaker 3: my grandma and she was like, oh honey, She's like, yeah, 435 00:19:03,920 --> 00:19:05,720 Speaker 3: it's okay. You don't go to you know, just go 436 00:19:05,800 --> 00:19:07,800 Speaker 3: to marry a doctor. Like her biggest thing for me 437 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:10,120 Speaker 3: would be to this day, I would think like if 438 00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:12,159 Speaker 3: I married a doctor, because in her generation, that was 439 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:14,159 Speaker 3: like how you made it as a woman, you know, 440 00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:16,800 Speaker 3: like like marry the doctor, marry the lawyer, marry the 441 00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:19,120 Speaker 3: doctor the lawyer, and it's oh he's a lawyer, he's 442 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:21,919 Speaker 3: a doctor. Like it was a very you know, but 443 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:24,920 Speaker 3: now I'm like, Grandma, go he ipe owed his last 444 00:19:24,920 --> 00:19:27,040 Speaker 3: company a doctor. Just get a doctor. 445 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:29,880 Speaker 2: Why would she think about you doing reality TV? 446 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:32,560 Speaker 3: She would love it, and it's I'm gonna getchoked up. 447 00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:34,359 Speaker 3: She would absolutely love it. So another thing that wasn't 448 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:38,040 Speaker 3: maybe the best she didn't like Mimi wasn't a cultural like. 449 00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:39,840 Speaker 3: She didn't she didn't like to leave her house a lot. 450 00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:42,359 Speaker 3: She sat in front of a TV right a lot, 451 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:44,919 Speaker 3: many hours per day, to the point where, like you know, 452 00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:46,439 Speaker 3: she was one of those types. She'd fall asleep in 453 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:48,720 Speaker 3: her lazy boy recliner and if you tried to move 454 00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:50,639 Speaker 3: the remote or turn the TV off, she'd be like 455 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:53,280 Speaker 3: she'd wake up out of her end to you, no, no, don't, 456 00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:56,199 Speaker 3: don't shut it off, just non stop that TV was 457 00:19:56,200 --> 00:19:58,959 Speaker 3: going on and on. So she's obsessed with television. And 458 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:00,520 Speaker 3: one of the reasons why I did the show is 459 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:03,119 Speaker 3: because I was like, if there is fucking heaven, and 460 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:05,400 Speaker 3: if there's a fucking TV in heaven, then she can 461 00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:07,200 Speaker 3: watch it, because like there's one thing like not being 462 00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 3: the President of United States, nothing like being on TV. 463 00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:13,440 Speaker 3: She would have understood that, Like she loved TV too much. 464 00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:17,920 Speaker 3: Probably it was the whole good mid one. It was 465 00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:19,119 Speaker 3: like she just sat in front of the TV all 466 00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:21,200 Speaker 3: day long, and it was like the Today Show, than this, 467 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:23,920 Speaker 3: then that, and then and then the five the five 468 00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:26,480 Speaker 3: PM News and then Oprah, and then the six pm 469 00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:29,120 Speaker 3: News and that everybody loves Raymond and the ten pm News, 470 00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 3: and then I Love Lucy and all the sickond It 471 00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:33,239 Speaker 3: was just the TV was on NonStop talking up and 472 00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:34,680 Speaker 3: we could walk in front of the TV. You couldn't 473 00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:37,240 Speaker 3: do anything for the TV. So TV. She understood that, 474 00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:39,359 Speaker 3: So she would one hundred percent understand and she'd be 475 00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:39,919 Speaker 3: so happy. 476 00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:44,760 Speaker 1: That makes my heart and soul sore. And we're all 477 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:52,320 Speaker 1: so grateful that you decided to do it. So, speaking 478 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:52,920 Speaker 1: of like the. 479 00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:55,280 Speaker 2: Dating and marrying of the doctor, are you dating anybody 480 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:55,640 Speaker 2: right now? 481 00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:58,160 Speaker 3: I'm dating no one. How do we feel about that? 482 00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:01,959 Speaker 3: I'm okay with okay, Actually I'm great with it. The 483 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:05,159 Speaker 3: only issue is I want to have a baby, and 484 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:09,920 Speaker 3: unfortunately I need balls with sperm and stuff in it. 485 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:13,400 Speaker 3: So and I need, I need, and I don't. I'm 486 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:16,200 Speaker 3: not at the point yet mentally where I I've seen 487 00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:17,879 Speaker 3: with my friends. I have a couple of friends or 488 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:20,760 Speaker 3: single moms, and I see how hard it is, and 489 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:23,600 Speaker 3: I know me and I know how I get about, 490 00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 3: Like when I had a dog and even going to 491 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:27,240 Speaker 3: the vet, I wanted that person whoever I was dating 492 00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:28,600 Speaker 3: there with me to take care of the dog when 493 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:31,359 Speaker 3: I was upset. I'm not comparing dogs to babies, but I. 494 00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:33,399 Speaker 2: Think that's a totally fair. 495 00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:35,239 Speaker 3: I want to partner. Everyone's like, yeah, but what if 496 00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:36,880 Speaker 3: you just, like, you know, what if you do really 497 00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:38,440 Speaker 3: really well with work or something, make a bunch of 498 00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:39,840 Speaker 3: moddy you can just have nannies and stuff. I'm like, no, 499 00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:42,200 Speaker 3: I think I want someone for once in my life. 500 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:43,600 Speaker 3: I want to be able to be like the week, 501 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:45,119 Speaker 3: not the weak one, but I want to be like 502 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:47,240 Speaker 3: I don't want to do it on my own. I've 503 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:49,359 Speaker 3: done everything on my fucking own. And I just if 504 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:51,520 Speaker 3: I'm gonna have a kid, which is going it's the 505 00:21:51,560 --> 00:21:53,399 Speaker 3: thing I'm going to take most seriously in life, Like 506 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:55,159 Speaker 3: I'm gonna have a kid, and it's gonna have like 507 00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:57,840 Speaker 3: the best childhood. I'm gonna be the best mother. Everything 508 00:21:57,840 --> 00:21:59,680 Speaker 3: that I didn't get, I'm gonna give it to them, 509 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:02,119 Speaker 3: and so I want it to be perfect. And in 510 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:05,320 Speaker 3: my mind, in my old school mind, it's like, I 511 00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 3: do want that person there. I want to be able 512 00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:09,199 Speaker 3: to lean on them. I want mommy and Daddy in 513 00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:11,320 Speaker 3: bed and I want them to like jump in bed 514 00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:14,440 Speaker 3: with us. It's made and maybe it's irrational or it's 515 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:16,600 Speaker 3: not real realistic, and I won't get it. But I 516 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:18,680 Speaker 3: think I'm still at the point where like, I'd rather 517 00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:20,960 Speaker 3: not have it than not have it the way that 518 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:21,960 Speaker 3: I want it. You know. 519 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:24,840 Speaker 1: I have this conversation with my friend Katie all the time, 520 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:31,480 Speaker 1: and she craves having a family over having children. So 521 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:35,359 Speaker 1: she said, if I don't have a partner, then I 522 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:36,320 Speaker 1: don't need kids. 523 00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:38,560 Speaker 2: I want a partner to create a family with that. 524 00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:41,719 Speaker 3: I'm like someone articulated like how I feel. I couldn't 525 00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 3: put it. That's it. I want a family, not kid 526 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:46,920 Speaker 3: not okay, the kids, yeah totally. And I yeah, okay, 527 00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:49,960 Speaker 3: that's it, that's what you want. Yeah, yeah, that's crazy. 528 00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:54,080 Speaker 1: I obviously felt that way before I had Ocean, right, 529 00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:58,119 Speaker 1: and now the universe and God worked in tandem to 530 00:22:58,680 --> 00:23:02,200 Speaker 1: put me in a different place then I expected myself 531 00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:06,720 Speaker 1: to be in. And now I just crave having children. 532 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:09,760 Speaker 1: But I also have the luxury of my mom picking 533 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:11,720 Speaker 1: up her life and moving to LA to help me 534 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:15,919 Speaker 1: with with my daughter. You know, so in a way 535 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 1: I can't. I feel badly calling myself a single mom 536 00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:24,920 Speaker 1: or even trying to relate to actual single mothers because 537 00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:27,240 Speaker 1: I have such a gang of support that I'm like 538 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 1: true like single parents, single mamas. 539 00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:36,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, like those are superheroes. I can't even imagine you're. 540 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,639 Speaker 3: A superhero that you don't cut yourself. I mean, like you, 541 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 3: I that's amazing. The fact that you can even like 542 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 3: think of stuff like that is like speaks to your character. 543 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:46,720 Speaker 3: That's incredible to be able to say, like you are 544 00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:50,600 Speaker 3: technico legally or like objectively by the State of California's 545 00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:54,000 Speaker 3: single mother right right, So, but that's incredible for you 546 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:56,800 Speaker 3: to say. I'm not gonna even claim that because I 547 00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:58,720 Speaker 3: know I'm so blessed because I have people around me 548 00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:00,520 Speaker 3: helping me, and I have community, and I have my 549 00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:02,919 Speaker 3: own mother and I have of course, it's incredible for 550 00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:03,560 Speaker 3: you to say that. 551 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:05,800 Speaker 1: Well, I think it's important when you think, and I 552 00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:07,720 Speaker 1: think that's what my mom taught me, is like, when 553 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:10,840 Speaker 1: you think you got a bad girl, there's people who 554 00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:13,159 Speaker 1: have it worse and they're picking up and moving on 555 00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:14,400 Speaker 1: and living life. 556 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:16,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, so figure it out. 557 00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:18,520 Speaker 3: You can always find some mess, my grandma say, make 558 00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:20,600 Speaker 3: you can always find someone who's got it worse than you. Yeah, 559 00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 3: And that's the Yeah, that's the truth. 560 00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:26,920 Speaker 1: When you go out to like find a dude. Do 561 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:28,919 Speaker 1: they have to be in a certain tax bracket? Do 562 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:29,680 Speaker 1: they have to be rich? 563 00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:33,280 Speaker 3: They don't have to be much very much prefer it. 564 00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:38,359 Speaker 3: I've always been unapologetic about like this. It blows my mind. Okay, 565 00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:39,760 Speaker 3: I grew up poor, why would I want to be 566 00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:42,320 Speaker 3: I've you know, people say like, oh, you know you can't. 567 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:44,119 Speaker 3: Money can't buy your happiness, Yes you can. 568 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:45,200 Speaker 2: I fully disagree. 569 00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:47,879 Speaker 1: Every time people have said that, I'm like, I fully disagree. 570 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,880 Speaker 3: Yes it can, mind you, it can't buy you certain things, 571 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:53,239 Speaker 3: like it can't, but it can buy you, you know, 572 00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:57,399 Speaker 3: a vacations therapist, spot, you know, whatever, everything that you need, help, 573 00:24:57,640 --> 00:24:59,840 Speaker 3: nanny's whatever, to take the burden off. Like can it 574 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:02,040 Speaker 3: literally just buy you straight up happiness like it's a 575 00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:05,240 Speaker 3: vending machine. Of course not, but nothing can. But I've 576 00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:07,480 Speaker 3: been I've been poor and I've been rich, and let 577 00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:09,400 Speaker 3: me tell you it's way better being rich. I think 578 00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:11,840 Speaker 3: it's like people just like we want someone wants to 579 00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 3: keep someone people stupid and keep them down and keep 580 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:17,160 Speaker 3: them small. No, so I don't have any And I'm realistic, 581 00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:19,000 Speaker 3: Like I know how much children cost, I know how 582 00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:20,240 Speaker 3: much when I had my dog, how much of that 583 00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:22,400 Speaker 3: costs and how much children cost in private school tuition? Again, 584 00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:25,280 Speaker 3: the way that I want to dance lessons gymnastically. That 585 00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:27,399 Speaker 3: shit costs money, all the shit I and I know 586 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,240 Speaker 3: how much because I didn't get to do any of it, 587 00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 3: you know. So when I was told the reasons why 588 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:33,240 Speaker 3: and the exact money costs, and I sat there and 589 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:34,800 Speaker 3: I did my little math and I did so I 590 00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 3: know exactly how much everything costs. So I again, I 591 00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:42,720 Speaker 3: want the family. So I've always been very unapologetic about 592 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:46,320 Speaker 3: I'm looking for. Obviously, if someone's amazing and great, that yeah, 593 00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:48,399 Speaker 3: it doesn't matter. But I I a lot of the 594 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:51,640 Speaker 3: times call me crazy. But money is associated with ambition. 595 00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:54,320 Speaker 3: And if you're trust fund kid, that's different. But you know, 596 00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:57,280 Speaker 3: in order to make money, keep money, grow money. To me, 597 00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 3: that shows a proof of concept like intelligence and ambition 598 00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:03,800 Speaker 3: and drive. And it's like that little Kim song, like 599 00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:06,719 Speaker 3: ambition makes me so horny. I love ambitious men like 600 00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:09,680 Speaker 3: I love like powerful, strong, smart, ambitious men. 601 00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 2: They're hard to they're hard to come by. 602 00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:13,119 Speaker 3: They're hard to come by in LA and that's one 603 00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:14,119 Speaker 3: of the reasons why I moved. 604 00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:15,200 Speaker 2: Really tell me. 605 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,040 Speaker 3: I lived in LA and I went bounced back and 606 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:20,320 Speaker 3: forth after college between LA and New York for jobs 607 00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:22,920 Speaker 3: and pre COVID. Six months before I was living on 608 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:25,280 Speaker 3: Beverly Hills and I was engaged to Gideon. Then I 609 00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:28,720 Speaker 3: moved to my own place and uh in Beverly Hills, 610 00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:30,960 Speaker 3: and then I moved to Venice, and after two hours 611 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:32,320 Speaker 3: in Venice, I was like, I have so many hundreds 612 00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:34,320 Speaker 3: of friends, but I feel lonely because I like can 613 00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:36,199 Speaker 3: be a lonely place. If you don't have, like you're 614 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:38,520 Speaker 3: driving in your car a lot, you don't. It takes 615 00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:40,560 Speaker 3: like three months to make plans with friends. And if 616 00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:43,480 Speaker 3: it rains, everybody cancels. If there's a vallet, everybody cancel 617 00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:47,840 Speaker 3: totally idle friend lived like you can't. It was the 618 00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:52,680 Speaker 3: first question, yea, yeah, but yeah, I was like, I 619 00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:54,680 Speaker 3: don't have a lot. I didn't. I have so many friends, 620 00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:56,679 Speaker 3: but I went to see them and then and then 621 00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:58,359 Speaker 3: I would just go on these dates. And then I 622 00:26:58,400 --> 00:26:59,880 Speaker 3: even turned into the person I didn't like. I beat, 623 00:26:59,920 --> 00:27:03,119 Speaker 3: I turned into a flake like everyone. It's it is 624 00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:05,120 Speaker 3: very I will say this, it is very different dating 625 00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:08,640 Speaker 3: in New York, and it is better. LA is We're 626 00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:11,679 Speaker 3: a lot of flakes here and everyone's like writing or 627 00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:14,439 Speaker 3: doing something or finding themselves. You can date someone for 628 00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:18,560 Speaker 3: several months and you know, like I met a guy's 629 00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:20,480 Speaker 3: parents when I was practically living on his place, and 630 00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:22,800 Speaker 3: then I was like, yeah, well you know it's my boyfriend. 631 00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:25,040 Speaker 3: He's like whoa. I was like, were you fucking king? 632 00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:26,719 Speaker 3: Like your mom just texted me this morning? 633 00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:27,120 Speaker 2: Right? 634 00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 3: Like what you know? And then I did the same 635 00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:30,960 Speaker 3: thing to someone and I was like, whoa. Now I'm 636 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,399 Speaker 3: turning into the thing that I hate because it's so easier, 637 00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:36,360 Speaker 3: and everyone's hot and everyone has like a cool car. 638 00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:39,919 Speaker 3: It's just yeah. But in New York, everyone's dating with 639 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:42,159 Speaker 3: more of a purpose, where there's kind of like the 640 00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:45,320 Speaker 3: expectation of this is how it goes, or if we 641 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:48,160 Speaker 3: move in together, there's an expectation every there's more accountability there. 642 00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:51,000 Speaker 3: It's a totally different dating scene. I much prefer New York. 643 00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 2: Wait, do I need to like pack up my life 644 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:53,359 Speaker 2: and move? 645 00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,720 Speaker 3: I'm telling you it's like, so I say New York 646 00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:58,080 Speaker 3: in La. New York is like the chick you marry. 647 00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:01,240 Speaker 3: She's like ride or die. She's it's amazing, And LA's 648 00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:02,800 Speaker 3: your side chick. It's like, you. 649 00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:04,160 Speaker 2: Don't want to be a side chick. 650 00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:07,960 Speaker 3: But it's like it's more like it's more temporary, it's 651 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:11,399 Speaker 3: more fun. It's more like you look better here. It's like, 652 00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:14,400 Speaker 3: you know, it's exciting, it's whatever. But LA is more 653 00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:16,840 Speaker 3: like people. It's just a different mentality. Settle down. You 654 00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:18,439 Speaker 3: really want to find a man. You go to London, 655 00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:21,720 Speaker 3: it's like fucking fishing in a stack pond over there. 656 00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:25,080 Speaker 3: Ratio of dudes to women. I don't see women there. 657 00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:29,640 Speaker 3: You don't see them. We're like thirties in London, like. 658 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:35,000 Speaker 2: Hacking up, and they have accents. 659 00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:38,640 Speaker 3: They're super chill. They almost all English dudes and like 660 00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:40,600 Speaker 3: UK dudes. They kind of I have like black dudes 661 00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:41,960 Speaker 3: or they're just like real cool. 662 00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:43,680 Speaker 2: Done yeah yeah, I say, yeah yeah. 663 00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:45,640 Speaker 3: They're always like kids who they're like, girl, you crazy, 664 00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:47,280 Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, Like that's kind of UK's 665 00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:50,640 Speaker 3: but they're like, uh, you crazy, that's a bad action. 666 00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:53,719 Speaker 3: But they're chill as fuck. Like they're chill. They're like 667 00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:56,480 Speaker 3: they think they just drink pints and like they're cool 668 00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:58,800 Speaker 3: and they're pretty hot. The accent's cute and they're all 669 00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:00,160 Speaker 3: like real jobs and they were suit. 670 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,840 Speaker 2: That's super hot. Yea, Where did you meet Gideon? 671 00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:07,200 Speaker 3: Gideon? I met in New York, Okay, and he lives there. Yeah, 672 00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:09,520 Speaker 3: he uh, he did live there when we met, and 673 00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:11,840 Speaker 3: then he moved to LA and then I moved to 674 00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:14,560 Speaker 3: LA with him, but then we broke up. I lived 675 00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:16,520 Speaker 3: in Venice and then I've moved back to New York since, 676 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:18,040 Speaker 3: but he lives in LA. 677 00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:20,600 Speaker 2: Now see, I feel like for you, I'm. 678 00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:21,680 Speaker 3: Going to set you up with Gideon. 679 00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,720 Speaker 2: Oh my god, would be really bad. I think I 680 00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:26,160 Speaker 2: would be a little too much forgeting. 681 00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,520 Speaker 3: No, no, if Gideon. If Gideon was good for me, 682 00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:32,400 Speaker 3: Gideon would be perfect for you then because we're all 683 00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:33,560 Speaker 3: kind of the same, you. 684 00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:36,520 Speaker 1: Know, but you're like pulled together and like sexy and 685 00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:40,520 Speaker 1: fun but like use big words and like pre med 686 00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:43,160 Speaker 1: student and I'm like, listen, I went to Slick Sully 687 00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:47,840 Speaker 1: Community College. Most of the time, I'm just in a hoodie. 688 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,520 Speaker 3: Now, you know, he's good with you have to I've 689 00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:53,640 Speaker 3: learned he's very good with his mother, whom my door. 690 00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:55,400 Speaker 3: You have to find a guy that's good with their mother. 691 00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:56,959 Speaker 3: That's one of the first questions I asked on dates too. 692 00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:00,000 Speaker 3: What's your relationship, like with your mother. Obviously there's situations 693 00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:02,040 Speaker 3: like me, like I would hope no one would hold 694 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:05,720 Speaker 3: my biological mother situation against me. But for the most 695 00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:07,480 Speaker 3: where you can tell with a guy if he's like, yeah, 696 00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:09,840 Speaker 3: I like her, like she drives me nuts, but I 697 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:11,720 Speaker 3: love her and I always answer her phone calls. I'm like, 698 00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:13,080 Speaker 3: if he's good with his mom. 699 00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:15,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna need him to say, I don't fuck with 700 00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:17,880 Speaker 1: my mom at all because there can't be two moms 701 00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:21,720 Speaker 1: involved because I got my own main bitch, my own. 702 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:24,000 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna need you to not fuck with your 703 00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:26,560 Speaker 1: mom that much because my mom's gonna be like living 704 00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:27,000 Speaker 1: with one. 705 00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:28,560 Speaker 2: Do you think that? 706 00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:30,440 Speaker 3: Do you think you can maybe ever find someone who 707 00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:31,960 Speaker 3: had that? Would you be open if they're like if 708 00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:33,440 Speaker 3: their mom was cool, what if you could have like 709 00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:35,000 Speaker 3: two And what if your mom that could have like 710 00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:35,840 Speaker 3: a grandma? No one. 711 00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:38,760 Speaker 1: By the way, if I find a dude who loves 712 00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:40,920 Speaker 1: his mama and our moms love each other and we 713 00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:45,840 Speaker 1: can punt them into like the poolhouse or something, they 714 00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:48,560 Speaker 1: can live together and then we can have like the big. 715 00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:50,040 Speaker 2: House, yeah, oh I love it. 716 00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:53,360 Speaker 1: Yeah you're yeah, because my whole thing is I want 717 00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:57,760 Speaker 1: to have like a compound, and I want Easton and 718 00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:00,920 Speaker 1: like the gays to move in. And then my dude 719 00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:03,160 Speaker 1: who has a cool mom and like maybe his family 720 00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:05,480 Speaker 1: want to move in, Like come one, come all, let's 721 00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,840 Speaker 1: just like create a pot of orcas. 722 00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:10,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, and just thrive. I have a couple of crazy 723 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:13,560 Speaker 3: wealthy girlfriends in New York and they're like, should we 724 00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:15,760 Speaker 3: just like buy Hampton's compound and we all live there 725 00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:17,640 Speaker 3: together and we have babies together and raise them together. 726 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:18,760 Speaker 3: Because I We're reading. 727 00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:21,120 Speaker 2: This group of women and where do I find And. 728 00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:22,920 Speaker 3: I'm like, you come hang out with us, but there, 729 00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:25,400 Speaker 3: and like they're like kind of honestly thinking about it. 730 00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:26,800 Speaker 3: Like one of them is like, well, my parents will 731 00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:28,320 Speaker 3: just like give us one of their houses. And then 732 00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:30,680 Speaker 3: we're like, should we all as women? Just could you 733 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:33,680 Speaker 3: imagine five women and we all raise our kids together? Little? 734 00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:36,240 Speaker 2: It would be It's my dream, it would be. 735 00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:39,240 Speaker 3: It would be nice because whenever we're together with the kids, 736 00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:42,160 Speaker 3: we all naturally like you know, like oh, like the 737 00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:43,440 Speaker 3: kids crest and then I pick them up and I 738 00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:45,640 Speaker 3: feed him and then we passed it. It just happens organically. 739 00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:47,400 Speaker 3: That's like biological too. 740 00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:50,000 Speaker 4: That used to be that used to be how it 741 00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:52,120 Speaker 4: was way of course, way way way when they were 742 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:53,840 Speaker 4: like nomads, but it was tribal. 743 00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:57,440 Speaker 3: All the women women took care of each other's baby. 744 00:31:57,600 --> 00:31:59,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, they like breastfed other people. 745 00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:01,320 Speaker 3: They have babies at the same time. I know that 746 00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:03,200 Speaker 3: even though if you haven't breastfed, if there is an 747 00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:05,280 Speaker 3: infant in here and you put it on the floor, okay, 748 00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:07,440 Speaker 3: and it's crying and it just laid there. Even though I, 749 00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:09,840 Speaker 3: for example, I have never breastfed before, within eight to nine hours, 750 00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:12,320 Speaker 3: I'll start lactating. Stop because the baby gives off a 751 00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:14,840 Speaker 3: ferm when it's in distress. And if your body can 752 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:18,360 Speaker 3: do it, it will start doing it. We're animals. It's incredible. 753 00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:23,800 Speaker 3: That's beautiful. So yeah, yeah, yes, wow maybe, but who's 754 00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:25,880 Speaker 3: tested this though? I read it like you tested that, like, 755 00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:27,680 Speaker 3: let's put your baby in the middle of the floors 756 00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:30,480 Speaker 3: and cries and to see if my nipples but you know, 757 00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:33,840 Speaker 3: comes out of them, like well, but I believe it. 758 00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:35,000 Speaker 2: No, I believe it too. 759 00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:37,880 Speaker 1: And also because I did, I had the luxury of 760 00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:38,880 Speaker 1: breastfeeding as well. 761 00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:40,200 Speaker 2: I've had a lot of luxuries in life. 762 00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:42,600 Speaker 3: I love that you reckon you see these things that 763 00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,320 Speaker 3: most people say, oh, I'm got a breastfed ahead, and 764 00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:46,040 Speaker 3: you're like, no, you had the luxury. You're very grateful. 765 00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:46,640 Speaker 3: That's a good thing. 766 00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:51,120 Speaker 2: Thank you. B Sobriety brought that to me. Nice, No, 767 00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:52,600 Speaker 2: but like it was. 768 00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 1: That's that's a thing where people will ask you, like 769 00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:58,560 Speaker 1: throwback women, like a different generation of like are you 770 00:32:58,560 --> 00:32:59,320 Speaker 1: gonna breastfeed? 771 00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:01,160 Speaker 2: And us because we're woke. 772 00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:03,760 Speaker 1: It's like, well, I hope yeah, because you don't just 773 00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:05,640 Speaker 1: it doesn't just happen for every mama. 774 00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. 775 00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:11,880 Speaker 1: So obviously for me, when you guys stepped onto the scene, right, 776 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:13,080 Speaker 1: I'm going to take a roney turn. 777 00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:13,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 778 00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:16,520 Speaker 1: I was a little nervous because I had watched the 779 00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:19,640 Speaker 1: OG's on my TV for so long, gone back to 780 00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:23,440 Speaker 1: Peacock or Hulu when when Housewives was on Hulu and 781 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:27,360 Speaker 1: watched the most throwback episodes. So like the og cast 782 00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:30,920 Speaker 1: was in I think everyone's mind. I'll just speak for 783 00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:34,600 Speaker 1: myself right now, and I was like a whole new cast. 784 00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:36,560 Speaker 2: I don't know about this. 785 00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:39,880 Speaker 1: In fact, I actively told myself I can't cheat on 786 00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:43,840 Speaker 1: my OG's. Yeah, and then obviously I caved. 787 00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:45,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, damn. 788 00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:47,200 Speaker 1: I didn't even have to wait and it was like 789 00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:52,000 Speaker 1: it's on tonight, I'm watching and immediately fell in love 790 00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:54,720 Speaker 1: with actually all of you guys. There wasn't one person 791 00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:58,280 Speaker 1: who I was like, this feels forced. There were so 792 00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:00,920 Speaker 1: many natural like if for me, it felt like you 793 00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:04,000 Speaker 1: guys had been on camera for one hundred years. Really, yes, 794 00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:07,560 Speaker 1: how did it feel for you? It was awkward, it 795 00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:08,080 Speaker 1: was weird. 796 00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:12,279 Speaker 3: I mean I got it. So it came to me 797 00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:16,319 Speaker 3: so haphazardly. I just had wrapped up at a tech 798 00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:18,399 Speaker 3: company here in Culver City. Actually it was coming back 799 00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:20,200 Speaker 3: and forth in New York. I was like, Okay, I'm 800 00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:22,200 Speaker 3: in a position where I can take a year off 801 00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:23,600 Speaker 3: from work for the first time in my life, and 802 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:25,640 Speaker 3: I'm just gonna like travel and chill. The economy was 803 00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:27,839 Speaker 3: about to tank, so it's like, okay, I'll start looking 804 00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:30,880 Speaker 3: in spring for a new job. And then and I 805 00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:33,200 Speaker 3: was in I was in south of France and I 806 00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:36,000 Speaker 3: get this DM from a casting company and it's like 807 00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:37,759 Speaker 3: they're like, hey, we're at the real House ives in 808 00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:38,960 Speaker 3: New York. We like talk to you. And I thought 809 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:40,320 Speaker 3: it was like a scam, you know, like a crypto 810 00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:42,040 Speaker 3: scamra one of those things. They're like, Okay, sure you 811 00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:44,560 Speaker 3: either like went to my spam because I was on private. 812 00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:47,200 Speaker 3: I had like three thousand followers or something, and I 813 00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:49,799 Speaker 3: was like what is this? And then there was a 814 00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:53,759 Speaker 3: couple more messages and then my friend Savannah she messaged me. 815 00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:55,960 Speaker 3: She's like dumbass. She's from the Delta, but she lives 816 00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,439 Speaker 3: in New York. She's hilarious. She's like, dumb ass. They're 817 00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:00,520 Speaker 3: trying to contact you for the housewhile and I was 818 00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:03,080 Speaker 3: like what, Like, I'm not you know, I'm not some 819 00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:08,000 Speaker 3: like rich Missus Bloomberg or something, you know that's like bored, 820 00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:10,919 Speaker 3: Like what do they want with me? So I did 821 00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:14,640 Speaker 3: a few interviews all mine zooms. I did three. Now 822 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:16,120 Speaker 3: I was like two two or three? 823 00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:16,360 Speaker 2: No? 824 00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:16,880 Speaker 3: Three zooms? 825 00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:18,480 Speaker 2: Did you have to dress up in a gown in 826 00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:18,960 Speaker 2: one of them? 827 00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:20,920 Speaker 3: No? No, no, But they did say like, oh, can 828 00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 3: you just like set up the camera so we can 829 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:23,960 Speaker 3: like kind of see some of your apartment. But I've 830 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:26,279 Speaker 3: obviously watched, so it's like, oh, I got this and 831 00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:28,200 Speaker 3: I have like at the corner. So I put the 832 00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:29,759 Speaker 3: thing and like I'm in marketing, I was like, I'll 833 00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:31,479 Speaker 3: just make it look this will be funny. But each 834 00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:33,680 Speaker 3: time I didn't think I did it because I was like, oh, 835 00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:36,000 Speaker 3: this is gonna be very funny to tell people, like, oh, 836 00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:37,839 Speaker 3: do you know that I interviewed my housewives, like here's 837 00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:39,400 Speaker 3: how it went down, you know. And I thought that 838 00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:41,280 Speaker 3: i'd meet Andy, but I didn't even interview with Andy. 839 00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:45,359 Speaker 3: Everyone else had to. I didn't really. I didn't even 840 00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:47,920 Speaker 3: go into thirty rock. It was all the I give 841 00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:48,440 Speaker 3: good zoom? 842 00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:50,359 Speaker 2: Do you That's rare? 843 00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:53,279 Speaker 1: How many people do the moment I see zoom, I'm like, 844 00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:54,680 Speaker 1: you got to get me in the room. 845 00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:56,800 Speaker 2: I do my best work in the room. 846 00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:59,160 Speaker 3: Well, I just got drunk before twe I was like 847 00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:01,000 Speaker 3: this is when I got And each time I get 848 00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:02,880 Speaker 3: on the zoo, I'm like I'm drunk and they're like 849 00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:05,960 Speaker 3: they're like good. And I remember at one point too, 850 00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:07,920 Speaker 3: they were asking me, so, what do guys like dating? 851 00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:09,440 Speaker 3: And they're like, what do you guys like? Tell you? 852 00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:11,240 Speaker 3: Is there any sort of like theme you always seem? 853 00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:13,160 Speaker 3: I was like, I don't know. This summer, every guy 854 00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:15,200 Speaker 3: that I meet is always like, you know, you remind 855 00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:17,520 Speaker 3: me a lot of Alexis from Shit's Creek because my 856 00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:19,239 Speaker 3: stories always like, well, one time I was on a 857 00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:21,400 Speaker 3: boat with Leo and then we were like smoking cigarettes 858 00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:23,319 Speaker 3: and me I was pretty, you know, like I have 859 00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:25,080 Speaker 3: the most random like and I got kidnapped with the 860 00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:26,960 Speaker 3: North Korean Army, like I have like random. I had 861 00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:29,359 Speaker 3: the crazy shit that's happening. People think I'm always fucking 862 00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:31,640 Speaker 3: lying in punishment. I'm like, no, I did. I loute 863 00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:35,160 Speaker 3: my stories to make them knock sound so crazy and fancy. 864 00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:37,520 Speaker 3: But there a lot of men were telling me that 865 00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:40,360 Speaker 3: I remind them of Lexus and so they laugh. And 866 00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:41,759 Speaker 3: then I was like, and I love the song a 867 00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:45,080 Speaker 3: little bit of Lexis. And then I just I know 868 00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:48,600 Speaker 3: the routine. I'm a Lamborghini. Yeah, I start doing the routine. 869 00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:50,719 Speaker 3: In my zoom interview for Housewives, I was like, I'm 870 00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:53,600 Speaker 3: a Lamborghini on a YouTube jet. I'm single even though 871 00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:56,600 Speaker 3: I'm not. I was like a little bit la la la, 872 00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:59,120 Speaker 3: la la la, a little bit of Alexis. I did 873 00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:01,759 Speaker 3: the whole thing, and literally they are just like, can 874 00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:06,120 Speaker 3: you start tomorrow and I'll say that they call me 875 00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:08,160 Speaker 3: the next day that but I was like, yeah, sure, 876 00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:10,680 Speaker 3: and then I just I thought it for and when 877 00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:12,040 Speaker 3: I got it, I was like, okay, but I still 878 00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:13,719 Speaker 3: can't do this. This is crazy, And then you read 879 00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:16,680 Speaker 3: the contract, you know, and you're like, because technically you do. 880 00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:18,719 Speaker 3: It's like a typical video. It's like if someone has 881 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:20,840 Speaker 3: to sign a video release form anywhere, if you're filming 882 00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:23,719 Speaker 3: Marvelous Missus Maisl's just it reads intense, even though it's 883 00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:26,000 Speaker 3: actually turns out that it's not. I'm sitting at the contract, 884 00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:27,120 Speaker 3: I'm like, am I really gonna do this? Am I 885 00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:29,120 Speaker 3: going to do this? And I was like, fuck it, 886 00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:31,759 Speaker 3: Like who cares? And if it blows up my face? 887 00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:34,080 Speaker 3: Because I love the Old Women too, not old but 888 00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:37,399 Speaker 3: like the original the Ogs one through four I own 889 00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:39,040 Speaker 3: on my TV. I still rewatch it all the time. 890 00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:41,880 Speaker 3: I think it's fucking hilarious. And I just thought, but 891 00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:43,759 Speaker 3: you know what I kept thinking. I was like, I've 892 00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:47,279 Speaker 3: worked in this industry for a long time. NBC the 893 00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:50,160 Speaker 3: only you know what, and this still like gives me hope, NBC. 894 00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:52,280 Speaker 3: When you have a company like NBC Universal or Bravo, 895 00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:56,759 Speaker 3: they're so big, they're not going to fuck up, you 896 00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:58,080 Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. And that's how I've always felt. 897 00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:00,880 Speaker 3: With working with my large CPGs like John's, Johnson and Uniliver, 898 00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:02,560 Speaker 3: you always have the backing of like is this good? 899 00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:05,200 Speaker 3: Is gonna work? Like they kind of they kind of 900 00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:07,080 Speaker 3: can't fuck up. I'm sure they all have. 901 00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:10,400 Speaker 2: And what they touch turns to gold. Yeah, it's just they. 902 00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:13,400 Speaker 1: Have an eye for it and something that like I 903 00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:15,480 Speaker 1: don't have that gift. I don't have the gift of 904 00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:19,319 Speaker 1: being like this is going to translate perfect on TV. 905 00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:22,560 Speaker 1: And then putting people together, did they ask you like 906 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:24,880 Speaker 1: do you have any friends or did they have like 907 00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:26,800 Speaker 1: the lineup of chicks that they were meeting. 908 00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,959 Speaker 3: I knew I knew jessel Uh and I knew Side 909 00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:31,759 Speaker 3: from working with her, and I knew Uba from seeing 910 00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:34,960 Speaker 3: her a few times. But I knew of Jenna, I 911 00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:38,640 Speaker 3: didn't know Aaron and so no, it's just like when 912 00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:40,600 Speaker 3: they were when they were putting together. It's crazy as 913 00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:42,839 Speaker 3: we start, as we're filming and you get so close 914 00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:44,959 Speaker 3: because you're filming every day, and I mean ninety percent 915 00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:46,640 Speaker 3: of the stuff that we filmed they don't show. But 916 00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:48,839 Speaker 3: we realized there's so many times, even to this day, 917 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:50,520 Speaker 3: we sit back when we're all in a good mood 918 00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:52,720 Speaker 3: and not fighting with each other or like they're fucking 919 00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:55,919 Speaker 3: geniuses because like all the things like how we each 920 00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:58,239 Speaker 3: had lost our mom. Like when we start filming, I 921 00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:00,880 Speaker 3: had just lost Mimi, but I was like deep in grief. 922 00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,120 Speaker 3: It was like eighteen months, so I had lost her 923 00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:05,000 Speaker 3: mom that summer. Jenna had lost her mom like what 924 00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:08,080 Speaker 3: three or six weeks before, three weeks before I started filming. Uba, 925 00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:10,080 Speaker 3: also very close to her mother, had lost her mother 926 00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:13,600 Speaker 3: twelve years prior. Aaron's relationship with her mother and then 927 00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:17,600 Speaker 3: Jessel's mother relationship there that's lovely. So it's like we're 928 00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:21,160 Speaker 3: all have these maternal mom stories and bonds, but there's 929 00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:23,799 Speaker 3: like thirty things like that that we all share, so 930 00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:26,840 Speaker 3: like how they but it all came out like slowly, 931 00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:30,480 Speaker 3: and it's just they're they're they're literally like geniuses. 932 00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:31,240 Speaker 2: They're geniuses. 933 00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:32,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, they're geniuses. 934 00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:35,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, And watching you guys, it feels like such an 935 00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:38,839 Speaker 1: organic fit. And I actually really enjoy for the most part, 936 00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:43,120 Speaker 1: when women on the show get together. I'm like, bitches stop, 937 00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:46,000 Speaker 1: start like ripping each other's heads off, Like, yeah, ready 938 00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:47,480 Speaker 1: for that to happen now. 939 00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:48,040 Speaker 2: You guys. 940 00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:51,440 Speaker 1: I actually like when you have those bonding moments. I 941 00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:53,400 Speaker 1: was living for Uba and I know you guys just 942 00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:55,879 Speaker 1: filmed the reunion. Yeah, so I don't want to get 943 00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:58,560 Speaker 1: you in trouble. I certainly get in trouble every other day. 944 00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:00,839 Speaker 1: By Bravos, I'm gonna watch for my mouth as well. 945 00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:02,040 Speaker 1: How did that get it? 946 00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:03,480 Speaker 3: I like it in trouble. Then I just tell them 947 00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:05,960 Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, but I like getting spanked, and they're like, oh, friend, 948 00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:07,880 Speaker 3: you know I'm that. 949 00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:09,879 Speaker 2: They're gonna be like, well, we can tell you've been 950 00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:12,080 Speaker 2: around bread and works for. 951 00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:14,239 Speaker 3: That bitch, and then they laughed. Then they forget that 952 00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:17,360 Speaker 3: they're supposed to yell at me. But your question was, 953 00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:18,239 Speaker 3: what about did you? 954 00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:21,240 Speaker 2: Was the reunion? Was it intense? 955 00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:23,480 Speaker 3: I went in there thinking, honestly, leading up to it, 956 00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:25,560 Speaker 3: I was so nervous and I was like I felt 957 00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:27,440 Speaker 3: like I was going to like a funeral, like a 958 00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:29,480 Speaker 3: family funeral, like half the family didn't like each other 959 00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:31,560 Speaker 3: or something. I was really really nervous going into it, 960 00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:36,000 Speaker 3: like physically kind of sick and like I had anxiety 961 00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:37,719 Speaker 3: the days leading up to it, and again I had 962 00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:38,960 Speaker 3: this like what the fuck am I doing? Why am 963 00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:40,480 Speaker 3: I'm a grown ass woman? Why am I signing up 964 00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:41,799 Speaker 3: to go sit in a fucking dress and in a 965 00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:43,759 Speaker 3: studio and talk about I was like, this is like, 966 00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:47,279 Speaker 3: I'm a sane person. This is dumb. So going into it, 967 00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:49,520 Speaker 3: look I had I was sober the whole time. The 968 00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:50,960 Speaker 3: entire time. I was like, who can I a lease 969 00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:54,440 Speaker 3: have a drinks, have some mushrooms. I was like begging mushrooms. Yeah, 970 00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:56,520 Speaker 3: I do Handy. I was like, can you just microdose me? 971 00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:59,719 Speaker 3: He's like I can't. I can't do that. And I 972 00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:02,200 Speaker 3: was like, it's like a little bit, you know, just 973 00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:04,040 Speaker 3: a little bit. You don't tell me we're at work. 974 00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:09,840 Speaker 3: But they But it was for me, it was easy. 975 00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:12,360 Speaker 3: I enjoyed it at the end of it. Two. I 976 00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:15,000 Speaker 3: start every time that after we're done filming, especially on 977 00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:16,520 Speaker 3: the trips, and the crew would laugh like I would 978 00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:17,719 Speaker 3: do this thing where I rip off my mic and 979 00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:20,200 Speaker 3: I just start going fu fuck Cockball's dick Dick and 980 00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:23,360 Speaker 3: I run around like Kevin from Home alone and I'm like, ah, 981 00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:25,120 Speaker 3: I'm like, you can't get me now, you can't give 982 00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:27,799 Speaker 3: me now, fuck Cockball. Like my MIC's off. For some 983 00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:29,680 Speaker 3: recent they take the mic off. I like, it's like 984 00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:32,040 Speaker 3: an adrenaline rush. No, because I am kind of in 985 00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:34,160 Speaker 3: the back of my mind, I'm aware of it. But 986 00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:36,680 Speaker 3: but no. But I had a great time, and I 987 00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:38,439 Speaker 3: was like, was that it? That was it? 988 00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:40,400 Speaker 2: Did everyone else go to no? 989 00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:42,400 Speaker 3: No? A couple of people exited the gift through the 990 00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:45,200 Speaker 3: gift shop immediately, and then there was like shit going 991 00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:47,080 Speaker 3: down on the group text. Oh you got a group 992 00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:49,520 Speaker 3: text going, we have a group text. I think people 993 00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:51,480 Speaker 3: would prefer if we didn't have a group text. And 994 00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:53,840 Speaker 3: the group text has been the past couple of weeks, 995 00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:56,120 Speaker 3: there's been some people have been like fun like, and 996 00:41:56,160 --> 00:42:00,160 Speaker 3: it's the group text has never been bad. It's always 997 00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:02,319 Speaker 3: it's been like we actually were we band together, we 998 00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:05,239 Speaker 3: share pictures, we first share funny shit. But the group 999 00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:07,799 Speaker 3: text in the past two weeks has been like fuck you, 1000 00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:08,880 Speaker 3: you're a fucking bitch. 1001 00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:11,320 Speaker 2: Like because you guys have seen the whole season. 1002 00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:13,200 Speaker 3: Now we've seen the whole season and many weeks, so 1003 00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:15,880 Speaker 3: we have left I think three more three oh no, sorry, 1004 00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:17,919 Speaker 3: three more of the regular season. This is episode eleven. 1005 00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:21,200 Speaker 3: There's fourteen episodes. We have three three more regular episodes 1006 00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:22,600 Speaker 3: and then two reunions. 1007 00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:24,120 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I cannot wait. 1008 00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:28,719 Speaker 3: It's crazy, it's crazy. But yeah, it's been more. Look, 1009 00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:33,839 Speaker 3: we all cried, we all cried a lot, we did yell. 1010 00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:37,920 Speaker 3: But again, I was pretty like I I got a 1011 00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:41,200 Speaker 3: lot of apologies. Really yeah, people being like we over. 1012 00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:43,359 Speaker 3: I think now people and they know me and they 1013 00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:46,360 Speaker 3: know that actually I'm I'm harmless and I'm silly. Like 1014 00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:49,920 Speaker 3: they've now everyone enjoys me and loves me for exactly 1015 00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:54,040 Speaker 3: what I am and they get me now. But I 1016 00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:56,839 Speaker 3: think during last year they didn't. They were like who 1017 00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:59,080 Speaker 3: is Like what is this bitch doing? And not understanding 1018 00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:01,920 Speaker 3: that that comes out of my mouth. I'm is just 1019 00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:06,239 Speaker 3: a joke. I speaking innuendos like a Vanity Farritis she 1020 00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:08,360 Speaker 3: apparently speaks. She only seems to speaking innuendos like I 1021 00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:11,440 Speaker 3: speaking innuendos or you know, I just metaphors and analogies 1022 00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:14,279 Speaker 3: and like and I think so me, I just had 1023 00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:15,919 Speaker 3: a I had a good old time at a lot 1024 00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:17,919 Speaker 3: of time with Andy. I think I asked a couple 1025 00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:19,400 Speaker 3: of times if I if I could like smack him 1026 00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:24,120 Speaker 3: around a bit, and maybe it was just gie. Yeah, 1027 00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:26,920 Speaker 3: I just had fun. But I think a couple of 1028 00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:30,920 Speaker 3: the gals, yeah, they definitely, they definitely didn't. So it 1029 00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:31,880 Speaker 3: was tough for some people. 1030 00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:35,160 Speaker 2: Uba hitting one hundred in Anguilla. 1031 00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:36,480 Speaker 3: What did you think about it? 1032 00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:39,880 Speaker 1: Well, I'd be pissed if someone took my phone because 1033 00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:42,640 Speaker 1: I get super annoyed by things like that. 1034 00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:42,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1035 00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:49,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, the fact that Aaron, my natural reaction is not 1036 00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:51,080 Speaker 1: to get physical, right, That's I. 1037 00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:51,680 Speaker 3: Was raised too. 1038 00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:53,799 Speaker 1: I was raised to use your words, your words, use 1039 00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:57,040 Speaker 1: your words. I can cut deep as a knife. 1040 00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:58,160 Speaker 3: Me too. Same. Yeah. 1041 00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:02,759 Speaker 1: However, if someone's snatched something off of my face, I 1042 00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:05,480 Speaker 1: think I would see red and I'd start swinging. Yeah, 1043 00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:09,440 Speaker 1: so I respected Aaron in that regard. But Aarin and 1044 00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:11,400 Speaker 1: I like her, I like all of you guys actually, 1045 00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:13,440 Speaker 1: but watching this, it was like. 1046 00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:20,080 Speaker 3: She's it's like, don't start none, there roll be none. 1047 00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:23,560 Speaker 1: Right, Like, you keep talking shit about everybody behind their back. 1048 00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:26,600 Speaker 1: Then you're like twisting things around and then you're crying 1049 00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:29,120 Speaker 1: in the corner. No, you're a grown ass woman. You 1050 00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:33,080 Speaker 1: fucked around. Everyone's now spoken. You're a common denominator. So 1051 00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:34,520 Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about it and you don't get to 1052 00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:35,120 Speaker 1: cry about it. 1053 00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:37,880 Speaker 3: And you fuck around and you find out. I feel 1054 00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:40,520 Speaker 3: like with that too. Look do I feel I keep 1055 00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:42,120 Speaker 3: iways tell her and like leave the jokes to me, 1056 00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:44,520 Speaker 3: like I'm the prank storm and the jokes Like I 1057 00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:47,600 Speaker 3: just think that honestly, I'm still to this day and 1058 00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:49,239 Speaker 3: it's funny and just says this morning, I was on 1059 00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:51,439 Speaker 3: the phone with Uba. We're going still back and forth 1060 00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:54,279 Speaker 3: about this because she's every episode that comes out, it's 1061 00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:56,200 Speaker 3: like she rewatches that, she relives it and she gets 1062 00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:58,880 Speaker 3: all worked up all over again. So there was a 1063 00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:01,000 Speaker 3: lot of text again to like, you know, when the 1064 00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:04,120 Speaker 3: texta so long, it goes to notes. That's what it was. Like, 1065 00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:10,040 Speaker 3: that crazy, that's when yeah, that's like essay, yeah, and 1066 00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:13,400 Speaker 3: that's how it went today too, and like and it's 1067 00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:16,840 Speaker 3: just how I feel about that. Okay. So I feel 1068 00:45:16,880 --> 00:45:18,920 Speaker 3: like I think it was a dumb ass joke and 1069 00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:20,560 Speaker 3: I think it like wasn't funny, which to me that's 1070 00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:22,360 Speaker 3: the most insulting thing because I like humor. I'm like, 1071 00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:23,600 Speaker 3: that's just that's not funny. 1072 00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:24,759 Speaker 2: What was the joke. 1073 00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:26,640 Speaker 3: The joke is I'm gonna steal your phone as a prank. 1074 00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:28,759 Speaker 3: That's not a prank. A prank is like I like 1075 00:45:29,120 --> 00:45:31,040 Speaker 3: bought a goat and tied it upside my friend's house 1076 00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:33,239 Speaker 3: in the Hampton's. That's a rank because you can't get 1077 00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:35,560 Speaker 3: rid of a goat in the Hampton and it's really 1078 00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:38,040 Speaker 3: hard and you're like, yeah, the animal controls, like why 1079 00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:39,759 Speaker 3: is there a goat here? You know, and you're like, 1080 00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:41,680 Speaker 3: how did you get behind your gates? You know? And 1081 00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:43,759 Speaker 3: then they get in trouble. So that's a funny, that's 1082 00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:47,760 Speaker 3: a problem. Taking somebody's phone is not like a prank. 1083 00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:50,640 Speaker 3: And then it's just annoying. Yeah, it's annoying. I think 1084 00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:52,640 Speaker 3: if she had done it to me, I'd be like, dude, 1085 00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:55,120 Speaker 3: you're fucking lame, Like, don't fuck do that. I'd be 1086 00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:59,560 Speaker 3: irritated with her. I don't think I would go again this, 1087 00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:02,719 Speaker 3: so that I was like with Aaron then and I 1088 00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:04,799 Speaker 3: and I experienced this, so this is literally I'm going 1089 00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:06,560 Speaker 3: First I was like, okay, Aaron, you're being fucking dub 1090 00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:08,880 Speaker 3: and I sided with Uba and then you know, and 1091 00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:10,879 Speaker 3: then but then when Uber grabbed the glasses, that's when 1092 00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:12,919 Speaker 3: I started to get like, because again I was raised, 1093 00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:15,279 Speaker 3: you don't get physical. And then personally too, we're all 1094 00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:17,840 Speaker 3: like New Yorker, so it's like that's called personal property, Like, oh, 1095 00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:19,439 Speaker 3: I'm just gonna call my lawyer. Then we can figure 1096 00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:21,959 Speaker 3: it out that way. Like we're very yeah, like that's 1097 00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:24,879 Speaker 3: technically like we get all legal andy, like legal ease 1098 00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:25,320 Speaker 3: and whatever. 1099 00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:28,080 Speaker 2: I would thrive in New York. Yeah, oh I got. 1100 00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:32,120 Speaker 3: You would, yeah you would, yeah, everything. Yes, So I 1101 00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:34,080 Speaker 3: didn't like that. But then yeah, then Aaron gets really 1102 00:46:34,160 --> 00:46:36,680 Speaker 3: upset and it's kind of like okay, but then it's 1103 00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:38,440 Speaker 3: just it just went back and forth. Then that to 1104 00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:41,000 Speaker 3: experience that, you guys, it was like ten fucking hours 1105 00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:41,600 Speaker 3: of them fighting. 1106 00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:44,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like enough already, Yeah, no bullshit, Like 1107 00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:45,640 Speaker 1: are we still talking about this? 1108 00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:47,840 Speaker 3: Yesh? And like I keep, I keep, and I just 1109 00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:50,560 Speaker 3: kept drinking all day, like because I'm bored, and it's 1110 00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:52,319 Speaker 3: like there's like nineteen forty two sitting there. I'm like, 1111 00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:54,880 Speaker 3: I'm on vacation people, you know. So I they just 1112 00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:58,360 Speaker 3: kept going and going and they're just going in circles 1113 00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:01,560 Speaker 3: and like they do love each other, but I just 1114 00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:04,440 Speaker 3: I don't know. So at their union, Uba did face 1115 00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:06,520 Speaker 3: like clarify a couple of things because Aaron kept saying 1116 00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:08,000 Speaker 3: it was forty five minutes. She did have her phone 1117 00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:09,080 Speaker 3: for like three or four hours. 1118 00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:10,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, it seemed long. 1119 00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:13,279 Speaker 3: It was a long time. So with the with the 1120 00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:16,840 Speaker 3: single girl thing, I do relate to Uba in that 1121 00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:19,520 Speaker 3: because it's like but at the same time, like, but Uba, 1122 00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:23,640 Speaker 3: we're with the crews incredible. We had security, like security 1123 00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:26,120 Speaker 3: guards of the thing. We have butlers, we have drivers, 1124 00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:28,719 Speaker 3: like if you lose your phone or your diaphragm, like 1125 00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:30,600 Speaker 3: one of the showrunners will go and get you a 1126 00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:32,960 Speaker 3: new run. Like they protect us like little passenger princesses. 1127 00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:33,200 Speaker 2: Total. 1128 00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:36,279 Speaker 3: You know. So I didn't like feel safe, like I 1129 00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:39,640 Speaker 3: actually like felt the most safe in that environment. So 1130 00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:42,399 Speaker 3: I don't know about that whole theory of like well 1131 00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:45,000 Speaker 3: single And I've told her a lot of times, like 1132 00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:48,560 Speaker 3: it's called like find my iPhone or like share your 1133 00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:51,600 Speaker 3: location with your family, like like there's technical like there's 1134 00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:55,560 Speaker 3: technology like so lusions where you don't have to literally 1135 00:47:55,600 --> 00:47:57,840 Speaker 3: text your family or send a carrier pigeon to let 1136 00:47:57,880 --> 00:48:00,640 Speaker 3: them know where you are, right, you know. Like, but 1137 00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:02,400 Speaker 3: I think it's she likes to check into the family. 1138 00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:05,879 Speaker 3: She's a very Uba is. I don't like seeing Uba 1139 00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:08,080 Speaker 3: get like that because that's not Uba Uba out of 1140 00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:11,040 Speaker 3: all of us, is she she can get. She's actually 1141 00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:14,160 Speaker 3: like the sweetest, but when she gets that mad, you 1142 00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:18,000 Speaker 3: she's the I think she gets the most intense housewife 1143 00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:21,600 Speaker 3: probably the franchise, and I've watched all of them. I relate. Yeah, 1144 00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:24,560 Speaker 3: she she goes there, she gets to that point and 1145 00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:26,799 Speaker 3: I think for her, she can't hear you, see you, 1146 00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:29,280 Speaker 3: And people think, oh, it's because of and she's admitted 1147 00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:30,640 Speaker 3: and she said it on the show too, like it's 1148 00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:32,560 Speaker 3: not because of her religion. She doesn't drink. It's because 1149 00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:34,440 Speaker 3: she's like she knows herself. She can't. 1150 00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:36,440 Speaker 2: I was gonna ask you about that, does she not? 1151 00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:39,440 Speaker 2: Is she like that off camera as well, where she 1152 00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:40,040 Speaker 2: doesn't drink. 1153 00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:43,319 Speaker 3: She doesn't drink. No, she doesn't drink. Wow. Yeah, And 1154 00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:46,160 Speaker 3: it's and she has like uba when you have you 1155 00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:49,000 Speaker 3: met her in person? No, she is the most. She 1156 00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:52,200 Speaker 3: walks and she's she's an energy field. She's like, oh, 1157 00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:55,160 Speaker 3: she's a force. She's larger than life in more ways 1158 00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:57,279 Speaker 3: than one. Yeah, she's just one of those people. Like 1159 00:48:57,320 --> 00:48:58,600 Speaker 3: she walks in the room. I've been in the same 1160 00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:00,560 Speaker 3: room with someone like Cindy Crawford's You're just like, oh 1161 00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:02,120 Speaker 3: my god, there's like a beam coming from them or 1162 00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:05,640 Speaker 3: they're on Like she's like a she's like not an avatar, 1163 00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:09,359 Speaker 3: she's like a she's like a like it's alien or something, right, 1164 00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:12,440 Speaker 3: And like she just emits like she knows everyone. You 1165 00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:14,160 Speaker 3: can't go around New York and ask one person. I say, 1166 00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:17,160 Speaker 3: everyone knows Zuba. Everyone loves Uba, really, oh my god, 1167 00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:19,640 Speaker 3: more than meat, more than anyone, more than Jenna anyone. 1168 00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:23,080 Speaker 3: Everyone knows Uba. She she gets into any private members club. 1169 00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:24,000 Speaker 3: She's she. 1170 00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:27,760 Speaker 1: She she's a freaking I love watching her. She's funny 1171 00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:32,080 Speaker 1: as ship. Yeah, she's also so incredible to look at. 1172 00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:34,920 Speaker 3: Yeah in person, the girls. I keep telling her, I 1173 00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:37,320 Speaker 3: love the Uba. Ha It's it is delicious. It's like 1174 00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:39,120 Speaker 3: a dip more though, I think than like a condiment. 1175 00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:40,080 Speaker 2: Oh I love a dip. 1176 00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:41,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, I eat it. I'm like put it in a thing. 1177 00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:43,320 Speaker 3: I eat it like hummus with chips. That's how you 1178 00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:46,920 Speaker 3: should eat. It's like a little so I'll have her 1179 00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:50,080 Speaker 3: on your butt. She a hundred people. I love freaking stock. 1180 00:49:50,160 --> 00:49:52,320 Speaker 3: It's delicious, but I'm like, that's great. I love the 1181 00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:55,760 Speaker 3: hot sauce. Can you make skincare her skin? She's fucking 1182 00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:58,840 Speaker 3: photoshopped in real life, like she her skin is just 1183 00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:03,600 Speaker 3: black mood like, she's stupidly beautiful in person, and then 1184 00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:06,040 Speaker 3: she has this larger than life personality, like when she 1185 00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:09,600 Speaker 3: enters the room, she's the most beautiful, captive, beautiful physically spiritual, 1186 00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:11,680 Speaker 3: captivating person. She's just one of those types, like they 1187 00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:13,520 Speaker 3: don't make them like that. Yeah, she's got this thing 1188 00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:16,720 Speaker 3: about her. It's like, holy fuck. So but the only 1189 00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:18,839 Speaker 3: issue is and then she knows this is that like 1190 00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:22,640 Speaker 3: when she gets activated, it's like you. 1191 00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:24,279 Speaker 2: Can't, you can't talk to me. 1192 00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:26,799 Speaker 3: Yeah. We were with the producers because you know, she 1193 00:50:26,840 --> 00:50:28,360 Speaker 3: was so quiet all season two and a couple of 1194 00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:30,400 Speaker 3: times sometimes the cameras would go and then she'd get 1195 00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:31,840 Speaker 3: a little fiery like that, and I was like, where's 1196 00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:33,759 Speaker 3: this Uba And she's like, oh, I don't know. You know, 1197 00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:36,520 Speaker 3: I don't want to get to like that. So when 1198 00:50:36,560 --> 00:50:38,600 Speaker 3: we came back from Anguilla and we're standing at the 1199 00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:40,279 Speaker 3: carousel to all get our luggage, and I see one 1200 00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:42,399 Speaker 3: of our producers is like not standing by us. She's 1201 00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:44,600 Speaker 3: so over us. She's fucking done with us. I have 1202 00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:46,640 Speaker 3: a picture of her and she's like standing just staring 1203 00:50:46,719 --> 00:50:48,719 Speaker 3: at the as the bed care. I'm like, I'm like, yo, 1204 00:50:48,800 --> 00:50:51,080 Speaker 3: your luggage and she's like huh. And I go up 1205 00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:52,799 Speaker 3: to here, I go, what's wrong? You turned your Uba 1206 00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:54,480 Speaker 3: doll on that. You can't shut her off, can you? 1207 00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:54,840 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1208 00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:57,360 Speaker 3: And she looked at me. She was like yeah, because 1209 00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:59,080 Speaker 3: we all were like, come on, where's opa at? Like 1210 00:50:59,080 --> 00:51:01,080 Speaker 3: where's opa at you? Because we know she's she's a 1211 00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:03,600 Speaker 3: little bit more vivacious, but that was like it's rare 1212 00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:06,520 Speaker 3: for her, and I know she doesn't love that about herself. 1213 00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:07,959 Speaker 3: And that's what I talked her about her today because 1214 00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:11,200 Speaker 3: she's like she has so many people and her family friends, 1215 00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:12,800 Speaker 3: even my niece has met her at the premiere and 1216 00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:14,919 Speaker 3: they're obsessed with her. She gave them her phone number. 1217 00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:18,520 Speaker 3: She texts with my nieces. Yeah, she's that person, Like 1218 00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:20,520 Speaker 3: she's like you can't make that shit up, you know, 1219 00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:21,319 Speaker 3: like she's one of them. 1220 00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:22,640 Speaker 2: She seems that way. 1221 00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:26,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, and like she's so thought and so kind and 1222 00:51:26,600 --> 00:51:29,799 Speaker 3: so therefore she can get like that. She's usually good 1223 00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:32,640 Speaker 3: about it and she's I wouldn't say she's embarrassed, but 1224 00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:36,920 Speaker 3: she's she's upset that that happened, you know. I But 1225 00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:39,160 Speaker 3: it's human. I'm always worrying on Like dude, it's human. 1226 00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:40,960 Speaker 2: Like absolutely, Actually, I. 1227 00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:42,680 Speaker 3: Think it's more relatable because who the fuck is like 1228 00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:45,160 Speaker 3: unless you're the Dalai Lama who's like happy and nice 1229 00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:45,919 Speaker 3: and whatever every day. 1230 00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:50,479 Speaker 1: I related to it, Like I go from like I'm chill, 1231 00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:53,120 Speaker 1: let's have the best time. The second someone does something 1232 00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:56,239 Speaker 1: to like that doesn't sit right. Yeah, you cannot talk 1233 00:51:56,280 --> 00:51:58,799 Speaker 1: to me and your tornado. 1234 00:51:58,360 --> 00:52:00,680 Speaker 3: Through you k new bars that you and exactly like 1235 00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:01,280 Speaker 3: in that regards. 1236 00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:02,920 Speaker 1: And then once I rip your head off, I'm like, 1237 00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:05,879 Speaker 1: didn't that feel so good? And they're like, yeah, You've 1238 00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:08,000 Speaker 1: said the meanest things anyone's ever said to me, And 1239 00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:08,239 Speaker 1: I'm like. 1240 00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:09,320 Speaker 2: I know, but I feel so great. 1241 00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:13,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, like I like you, yeah yeah, And it's a mind. 1242 00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:13,720 Speaker 2: Fuck for people. 1243 00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:17,000 Speaker 3: UBA's digs won't be so deep because I've seen your 1244 00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:19,239 Speaker 3: digs and I can go where you go where. I'm like, 1245 00:52:19,320 --> 00:52:22,160 Speaker 3: I didn't even know that I was studying. I knew that, yeah, 1246 00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:23,640 Speaker 3: but I like, all of a sudden, I talk to 1247 00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:25,480 Speaker 3: you for five minutes, I undiscovered you childhood fear and 1248 00:52:25,480 --> 00:52:27,040 Speaker 3: I'm gonna rub it in your I'm gonna smash your 1249 00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:29,359 Speaker 3: face in it. Like I get I'm because I had 1250 00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:31,200 Speaker 3: to protect myself with my words as a kid, so 1251 00:52:31,239 --> 00:52:32,960 Speaker 3: like I grew up doing that. UBA's not like that. 1252 00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:36,560 Speaker 3: She doesn't go her thing is she's she's she's tyson 1253 00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:39,960 Speaker 3: or whatever. She goes round, she goes twenty round. That's 1254 00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:41,759 Speaker 3: a long ass match and she can go round after 1255 00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:42,480 Speaker 3: round after round. 1256 00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:43,520 Speaker 2: I tuck her myself out. 1257 00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:45,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, me too. After a while, I'm like, I 1258 00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:46,759 Speaker 3: don't care. I'm just like, fuck it, I don't care. 1259 00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:50,760 Speaker 3: But she she'll just keep keep going. She's the energizer. 1260 00:52:50,800 --> 00:52:54,120 Speaker 3: But you can't. Yeah, that's wild. Yeah, it's really really 1261 00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:55,319 Speaker 3: wild to see you. 1262 00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:59,680 Speaker 1: I love cy you Uba and I Jussel, which Jessel 1263 00:52:59,719 --> 00:53:01,799 Speaker 1: I was kind of like, Yeah, I was kind of 1264 00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:04,239 Speaker 1: going back and forth at the very beginning and I 1265 00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:06,600 Speaker 1: don't sleep on said. 1266 00:53:06,440 --> 00:53:08,680 Speaker 3: Since day one when we started filming, and I've said this. 1267 00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:10,880 Speaker 3: I called her. I remember there's this long bully story 1268 00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:12,800 Speaker 3: center from London as at sew House and I was 1269 00:53:12,840 --> 00:53:14,440 Speaker 3: like working and I was like I had this genius 1270 00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:16,279 Speaker 3: marketing idea for her and stuff, and I keep telling her, 1271 00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:19,000 Speaker 3: I'm like, you are the star of the show. It 1272 00:53:19,080 --> 00:53:21,480 Speaker 3: is the justl show. Jessel's the funniest person on the show. 1273 00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:24,480 Speaker 3: Justsel in real life is out. She's out of her 1274 00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:27,640 Speaker 3: fucking mind. She doesn't even know she's on it. I mean, no, 1275 00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:29,120 Speaker 3: my thing would I say. I'm like, she doesn't know 1276 00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:31,560 Speaker 3: she's on a TV show, Like I think she doesn't 1277 00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:34,239 Speaker 3: know she's like, hey guys, it's just like let's do lunch. Ah, 1278 00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:35,920 Speaker 3: my god, he're in the net. Oh my god, she's 1279 00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:36,239 Speaker 3: coming here. 1280 00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:40,160 Speaker 5: And my god, Laala, I love your podcast, your podcast, 1281 00:53:40,239 --> 00:53:43,000 Speaker 5: give them Lala and she will have like never listened 1282 00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:45,200 Speaker 5: to your podcast, but she went on your Instagram for 1283 00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:47,120 Speaker 5: like five seconds thinks you're fab and it's like, oh 1284 00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:48,759 Speaker 5: my god, you know say and so I love that, 1285 00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:49,160 Speaker 5: you know. 1286 00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:52,799 Speaker 3: And she love her. She's so like come on. She 1287 00:53:53,000 --> 00:53:55,520 Speaker 3: was like, Undie, like did you hear what she did 1288 00:53:55,520 --> 00:53:57,080 Speaker 3: this past week with Watch your Habin's Life? 1289 00:53:57,120 --> 00:53:59,920 Speaker 2: No, but you took her with you, right, No, she was. 1290 00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:03,720 Speaker 3: This bitch watcher Happened Live asked her to be on Wednesday. Okay, okay, 1291 00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:06,840 Speaker 3: She's like no, She's like, no, I can't. I can't, Kyle, 1292 00:54:06,920 --> 00:54:08,640 Speaker 3: I have to do blah blah blah. You know, she 1293 00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:11,080 Speaker 3: has some she can't do it. So then they asked 1294 00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:13,319 Speaker 3: me and I was like, oh, fine, sure whatever, I'll 1295 00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:15,120 Speaker 3: do it. So I do it. And I was supposed 1296 00:54:15,120 --> 00:54:18,040 Speaker 3: to be on with some comedian and then they text 1297 00:54:18,040 --> 00:54:20,239 Speaker 3: me two days before and they're like Heybrin, and I'm like, 1298 00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:22,479 Speaker 3: what are you guys doing? They're like actually, we're gonna 1299 00:54:22,520 --> 00:54:26,200 Speaker 3: have Tyler Cameron Babeler who is that? Yeah he was 1300 00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:29,359 Speaker 3: on the Bachelor. Oh and single? Yeah he's single. Yeah. 1301 00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:31,880 Speaker 3: So these fuckers, the Bravo gods are trying to stupe 1302 00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:34,279 Speaker 3: it over here. So I was like, and I was like, 1303 00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:36,560 Speaker 3: you fucking devil's I know exactly what you're doing, right. 1304 00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:38,440 Speaker 3: So they're like, okay, we're gonna have you on. So 1305 00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:41,040 Speaker 3: I I didn't even know. I didn't tell the girls. 1306 00:54:41,080 --> 00:54:43,239 Speaker 3: I'm just like going about my day and Jessel I 1307 00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:45,040 Speaker 3: have this slot to text from Jessa. Oh my god, 1308 00:54:45,239 --> 00:54:46,799 Speaker 3: Oh my god, did you hear who you're with? I 1309 00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:48,879 Speaker 3: can't believe it. Literally, I'm not gonna be able to sleep. 1310 00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:50,400 Speaker 3: I think I'm gonna throw up right now. My stomach's 1311 00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:52,960 Speaker 3: doing some resaults. And she's having conversation with herself and 1312 00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:56,880 Speaker 3: she's like wait, and then it's like, I see the dots. 1313 00:54:56,880 --> 00:54:58,680 Speaker 3: Should I come? I think I should come? Should I 1314 00:54:58,719 --> 00:55:00,239 Speaker 3: just say? And I'm gonna come? Do you think they're yeah? 1315 00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:00,440 Speaker 2: Man? 1316 00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:02,399 Speaker 3: I mean fuck it, I'm gonna come. What are you wearing? 1317 00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:04,560 Speaker 3: Call me later like this? And I'm just like, what 1318 00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:08,240 Speaker 3: just happened? So this bitch tells them she can't come, fine, 1319 00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:10,640 Speaker 3: makes me take her spot, finds out it's gonna be 1320 00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:14,160 Speaker 3: this hot dude, and then she shows up. She's never 1321 00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:17,200 Speaker 3: on time for shit, and Jessel shows up like thirty minutes. 1322 00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:20,680 Speaker 3: They oh, hi, y high, and she's like I was Tyla, 1323 00:55:21,200 --> 00:55:22,839 Speaker 3: like you know, and then she was like, oh, I'm 1324 00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:25,359 Speaker 3: Jessel like and she's and then I'm staying it and 1325 00:55:25,360 --> 00:55:27,160 Speaker 3: Andy walk and Andy and are standing there. I'm like, 1326 00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:29,839 Speaker 3: what's what? He's like, what's wrong? I'm like, what's wrong 1327 00:55:29,880 --> 00:55:31,040 Speaker 3: with her? He's like, I don't know, I don't know. 1328 00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:33,640 Speaker 3: Where's like really, Jessel, she does cat She's like Undie 1329 00:55:33,719 --> 00:55:34,960 Speaker 3: but like, you know, I just had to like what 1330 00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:37,160 Speaker 3: he's like, No, Jessel, you were supposed to be here. 1331 00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:39,600 Speaker 3: You told us you couldn't do it. She's like, I know, Undie, 1332 00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:41,000 Speaker 3: but like I just huffed it. 1333 00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:43,840 Speaker 1: And the action and the texture of her voice just 1334 00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:46,920 Speaker 1: makes everything okay, Yes, yes, it's fat talk. 1335 00:55:47,120 --> 00:55:50,800 Speaker 3: She is so wild how she like goes around everywhere, 1336 00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:54,040 Speaker 3: loves to do dinners and lunches, like she lives in 1337 00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:55,520 Speaker 3: this version of New York that I don't know if 1338 00:55:55,520 --> 00:55:58,200 Speaker 3: it even exists anymore, but like you know, of like 1339 00:55:58,400 --> 00:56:01,279 Speaker 3: the who's who and the lunch and the things, and 1340 00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:04,920 Speaker 3: like she's just like the no podcast, like you know, 1341 00:56:05,040 --> 00:56:07,719 Speaker 3: like it's just love. 1342 00:56:07,960 --> 00:56:11,600 Speaker 2: She like keeps notes about whatever when I die. She's funny. 1343 00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:15,120 Speaker 2: She's deleted them, but like she wait, you're telling me 1344 00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:16,799 Speaker 2: shouldn't bring them out for reunion time. 1345 00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:19,160 Speaker 1: That's why I thought she was keeping receipts. I wonder 1346 00:56:19,160 --> 00:56:22,399 Speaker 1: if she did that before she started filming. 1347 00:56:22,040 --> 00:56:24,600 Speaker 3: A she she told us that she told us at 1348 00:56:24,640 --> 00:56:26,360 Speaker 3: first of the note list, which they didn't all. But 1349 00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:29,600 Speaker 3: the note list was absurd. It was hilarious. It was detailed. 1350 00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:31,680 Speaker 3: And I worked at Corporate America, And I'm like, did 1351 00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:33,520 Speaker 3: you have a boss that touched you or something? Because 1352 00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:37,040 Speaker 3: you're really like documenting everything like the day, the time, 1353 00:56:37,200 --> 00:56:39,000 Speaker 3: exactly what you do and how it made you feel 1354 00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:41,720 Speaker 3: and did it done all the detail? But Jessa claimed 1355 00:56:41,719 --> 00:56:43,759 Speaker 3: it was because so she She's like, well, I just 1356 00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:45,440 Speaker 3: want to make sure I like I'm good in my 1357 00:56:45,520 --> 00:56:49,359 Speaker 3: confessionals and I have that information. I'm like, bullshit, Like 1358 00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:51,839 Speaker 3: you don't need that, Like you don't need that, you 1359 00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:55,120 Speaker 3: fucking bitch that. Like it was like she was writing 1360 00:56:55,440 --> 00:56:58,040 Speaker 3: it was like a dear diary situation. It's like we're 1361 00:56:58,040 --> 00:57:01,040 Speaker 3: like a eleven year old writing like yeah, yeah, it. 1362 00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:03,040 Speaker 2: Wasn't she gives me that vibe. 1363 00:57:03,120 --> 00:57:06,200 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, it was in details, Like it wasn't like 1364 00:57:06,239 --> 00:57:08,080 Speaker 3: cliff notes to jog your memory for the meeting of 1365 00:57:08,160 --> 00:57:09,520 Speaker 3: like oh I need to hit on the three points 1366 00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:11,719 Speaker 3: or I need to remember these things or anything analytical. 1367 00:57:11,719 --> 00:57:16,320 Speaker 3: And I was like scribbles and angry stuff and like 1368 00:57:16,400 --> 00:57:18,800 Speaker 3: it was just it was so but she's so. But 1369 00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:21,960 Speaker 3: that's just a though. She's so, she's so funny. 1370 00:57:22,240 --> 00:57:24,640 Speaker 1: It's crazy to me that people, because now you've told 1371 00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:26,760 Speaker 1: me that she had very detailed notes. It's crazy that 1372 00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:29,400 Speaker 1: Uba writes so much that it goes in I'm telling 1373 00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:32,440 Speaker 1: you more than like a couple of sentences. 1374 00:57:32,520 --> 00:57:34,880 Speaker 2: Don't send it. I'm not reading it. Don't send me 1375 00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:37,960 Speaker 2: a voice note that's more than fifteen seconds. 1376 00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:40,520 Speaker 3: My phone's always on notifications. I don't like phones. I 1377 00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:43,040 Speaker 3: think the like tracking devices notifications are is off for me. 1378 00:57:43,280 --> 00:57:45,880 Speaker 3: I can't stand like hit enter and just send me 1379 00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:47,800 Speaker 3: a block. Don't do ding ding ding. 1380 00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:50,440 Speaker 2: I just don't get my biggest like text. 1381 00:57:50,280 --> 00:57:52,160 Speaker 3: Messages were created for if you're in a fucking movie 1382 00:57:52,200 --> 00:57:55,160 Speaker 3: theater or a meeting. Why are we like Charles call. 1383 00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:57,600 Speaker 2: Me on the phone so you can get it done 1384 00:57:57,880 --> 00:57:59,840 Speaker 2: and then hang up and call it a day, and 1385 00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:00,680 Speaker 2: a voice. 1386 00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:02,560 Speaker 3: Like I don't my voicemail box has been closed for 1387 00:58:02,760 --> 00:58:05,280 Speaker 3: like forever. I always laugh though, too, Like you know. 1388 00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:06,760 Speaker 3: Then that's how people always know if I like them. 1389 00:58:06,760 --> 00:58:08,360 Speaker 3: If they're like, oh, Brin has a respun my text 1390 00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:09,840 Speaker 3: about I'm like, but I respond if you tell me 1391 00:58:09,880 --> 00:58:11,920 Speaker 3: something funny, I respond, yeah, you tell me like, oh 1392 00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:14,920 Speaker 3: my god, I'm leaving this dude's house, I'm like, drop everything, 1393 00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:17,000 Speaker 3: and I'm like just waiting, you know, and you can 1394 00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:19,640 Speaker 3: send me paragraphs. But if it's not, if it's like, hey, 1395 00:58:20,560 --> 00:58:23,120 Speaker 3: what are we doing next? And then they correct spell, 1396 00:58:23,240 --> 00:58:25,000 Speaker 3: they because they said what are you doing? Three times 1397 00:58:25,000 --> 00:58:28,720 Speaker 3: they misspelled it and they can keep I'm like, what's wrong? 1398 00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:31,560 Speaker 1: No, That's why when we were texting, because I know 1399 00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:33,200 Speaker 1: how annoying it is. First of all, I know it's 1400 00:58:33,240 --> 00:58:36,160 Speaker 1: annoying texting in general, but then texting someone to do 1401 00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:38,120 Speaker 1: their podcast is even more fucking annoying. 1402 00:58:38,400 --> 00:58:39,440 Speaker 2: Because you guys are married. 1403 00:58:40,320 --> 00:58:41,960 Speaker 1: No, you're so fun. But that's why I was like, 1404 00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:44,440 Speaker 1: just lock it down, Cber. In a text, It's just like, 1405 00:58:44,480 --> 00:58:45,800 Speaker 1: here we are. This is the time. 1406 00:58:45,880 --> 00:58:47,520 Speaker 4: I put it all in one too, because that's why 1407 00:58:48,000 --> 00:58:50,640 Speaker 4: separated by paragraphs, so it's not a whole lot. 1408 00:58:50,720 --> 00:58:52,760 Speaker 1: If she has someone that wants to deal with it, 1409 00:58:52,800 --> 00:58:57,919 Speaker 1: so she doesn't have to. Like great, So before we leave, yes, 1410 00:58:58,280 --> 00:59:00,640 Speaker 1: I do an ache and relief of the week. 1411 00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:02,680 Speaker 2: Oh do you want to take a beat to think 1412 00:59:02,720 --> 00:59:04,400 Speaker 2: of yours? Or do you have your ache? In relief? 1413 00:59:04,880 --> 00:59:06,440 Speaker 3: Relief? What's a relief? 1414 00:59:06,880 --> 00:59:07,920 Speaker 2: The relief is like? 1415 00:59:08,880 --> 00:59:13,040 Speaker 1: So for mine, let me look, My ache is that 1416 00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:17,280 Speaker 1: I went to DC and I was with the Humane 1417 00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:23,440 Speaker 1: Society International for the Humane Cosmetics Act, which was absolutely beautiful, fantastic. 1418 00:59:23,520 --> 00:59:27,320 Speaker 1: We made a lot of progress and I'm looking because 1419 00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:31,400 Speaker 1: I'm very excited for publications to pick this up. Doesn't 1420 00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:32,840 Speaker 1: need to have my name attached to it. 1421 00:59:32,960 --> 00:59:33,480 Speaker 2: I don't care. 1422 00:59:33,840 --> 00:59:38,080 Speaker 1: I just want the Humane Cosmetics Act to be plastered everywhere. Yeah, 1423 00:59:38,120 --> 00:59:41,680 Speaker 1: and it's not coming through. But this stupid thing that 1424 00:59:41,720 --> 00:59:45,040 Speaker 1: I fucking said on Amazon Live about Raquel and Tom 1425 00:59:45,200 --> 00:59:50,360 Speaker 1: Sandoval was everywhere, and that for me was such an ache. 1426 00:59:50,400 --> 00:59:53,680 Speaker 1: I was like, this is annoying, and I don't know why. 1427 00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:55,920 Speaker 1: For just one second, you can write about that stuff, 1428 00:59:55,920 --> 00:59:57,600 Speaker 1: but let's also write about things that matter. 1429 00:59:58,000 --> 00:59:58,400 Speaker 2: As well. 1430 00:59:58,480 --> 00:59:59,760 Speaker 3: Or it's also like if I give you a bunch 1431 00:59:59,800 --> 01:00:01,400 Speaker 3: of stuff that people do, can you at least just 1432 01:00:01,520 --> 01:00:04,240 Speaker 3: do me a like do me a family include something 1433 01:00:04,240 --> 01:00:06,200 Speaker 3: that's relevant, Well, why don't you like mix it up? 1434 01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:08,440 Speaker 3: Why don't you mix it up like do one ce? 1435 01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:11,200 Speaker 3: So then they can't break it up like right exactly, 1436 01:00:14,680 --> 01:00:17,760 Speaker 3: like just insert it, put it into one thing. They 1437 01:00:17,840 --> 01:00:19,680 Speaker 3: have to write about it to read it like one 1438 01:00:19,680 --> 01:00:21,439 Speaker 3: of those ad libs things when you're a kid or something. 1439 01:00:21,440 --> 01:00:22,760 Speaker 1: That's what I'm going to start doing. I'm going to 1440 01:00:22,840 --> 01:00:24,920 Speaker 1: spill tea and talk about things I care about all 1441 01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:25,200 Speaker 1: in one. 1442 01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:26,000 Speaker 2: So that's amazing. 1443 01:00:26,040 --> 01:00:26,920 Speaker 3: They went to Capitol Hill. 1444 01:00:27,120 --> 01:00:30,280 Speaker 2: It was absolutely incredible. I was so nervous. 1445 01:00:30,320 --> 01:00:34,080 Speaker 1: I did a congressional briefing and I literally had a 1446 01:00:34,120 --> 01:00:36,960 Speaker 1: script and when I got up there, I just like 1447 01:00:37,040 --> 01:00:37,880 Speaker 1: threw it out the window. 1448 01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:39,000 Speaker 2: I was like, we're just gonna like. 1449 01:00:39,080 --> 01:00:42,920 Speaker 1: Speak from the heart here, and I go in that moment, 1450 01:00:43,440 --> 01:00:45,920 Speaker 1: I was because I was praying to God again obviously, 1451 01:00:46,040 --> 01:00:47,840 Speaker 1: and my dad being like, I need you to take 1452 01:00:47,840 --> 01:00:50,240 Speaker 1: over because my mind in my mouth, I can tell 1453 01:00:50,240 --> 01:00:53,560 Speaker 1: are not because I'm so nervous, And it was just 1454 01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:57,400 Speaker 1: so like I got to enjoy that moment. So often 1455 01:00:57,440 --> 01:01:00,080 Speaker 1: I do things and I'm like, because you were so 1456 01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:02,919 Speaker 1: nervous and treating it like a to do list, you 1457 01:01:03,080 --> 01:01:05,560 Speaker 1: now don't look back on that and go, what an 1458 01:01:05,600 --> 01:01:06,840 Speaker 1: incredible experience. 1459 01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:09,760 Speaker 3: And I just kind of black out when you're doing 1460 01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:11,800 Speaker 3: it because you're exactly and you're like, I did it? 1461 01:01:11,840 --> 01:01:13,800 Speaker 3: Did it go okay? Did I say something stupid or 1462 01:01:13,800 --> 01:01:16,120 Speaker 3: something like that? I always pray and I say, God, 1463 01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:19,439 Speaker 3: it's that one that from course of course of miracles? God, 1464 01:01:19,440 --> 01:01:21,360 Speaker 3: what would you where would you have me go? What 1465 01:01:21,400 --> 01:01:23,600 Speaker 3: would you have me do? What would you have me say? 1466 01:01:23,680 --> 01:01:25,640 Speaker 3: And to whom? And I just say that like three 1467 01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:28,400 Speaker 3: times and then like and it literally then I'm able 1468 01:01:28,440 --> 01:01:30,400 Speaker 3: to be present and then the stuff just comes out 1469 01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:32,520 Speaker 3: of my mouth and I don't have to like, wow, 1470 01:01:33,000 --> 01:01:33,720 Speaker 3: I love you. 1471 01:01:33,800 --> 01:01:34,360 Speaker 2: Text that to me. 1472 01:01:34,440 --> 01:01:36,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure? What do you want me? Are you sure? 1473 01:01:36,200 --> 01:01:37,600 Speaker 3: Let me text it to your voice? No? 1474 01:01:37,560 --> 01:01:40,680 Speaker 2: No, I want you to have a screenshot. And then 1475 01:01:40,760 --> 01:01:41,800 Speaker 2: my relief of the week. 1476 01:01:41,800 --> 01:01:44,120 Speaker 1: And I'm not trying to be cheesy, but is having 1477 01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:47,400 Speaker 1: you here, Oh my god, I've been looking forward to this, 1478 01:01:48,160 --> 01:01:50,360 Speaker 1: so I'm so happy to have you. That's how our 1479 01:01:50,440 --> 01:01:51,439 Speaker 1: age relief works. 1480 01:01:51,480 --> 01:01:54,160 Speaker 3: Does anyone else have one? Or if you want to wait, 1481 01:01:54,200 --> 01:01:56,760 Speaker 3: we usually just go through it quick. You have your age. 1482 01:01:57,840 --> 01:02:00,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, my ache is going to be I feel like 1483 01:02:00,640 --> 01:02:02,040 Speaker 6: I'm saying the name right, but it's. 1484 01:02:03,520 --> 01:02:04,040 Speaker 2: Lolita. 1485 01:02:04,320 --> 01:02:06,560 Speaker 6: It's the dolphin, though I. 1486 01:02:06,480 --> 01:02:08,560 Speaker 2: Don't know the dolphin. Are you talking about Miami Cea 1487 01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:10,040 Speaker 2: in Miami Dade County? 1488 01:02:10,080 --> 01:02:13,960 Speaker 6: So there's a h It's dolphin lee e l i 1489 01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:17,240 Speaker 6: apostrophy I Okay, And it's been in this aquarium. 1490 01:02:17,280 --> 01:02:18,800 Speaker 2: It's not even running right now. 1491 01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:22,360 Speaker 6: It's so Dade County. They are saying that they have 1492 01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:25,640 Speaker 6: to either rebuild it or destroy it. It's not even 1493 01:02:26,040 --> 01:02:29,320 Speaker 6: open for public. So this dolphin is just swimming in 1494 01:02:29,600 --> 01:02:30,800 Speaker 6: a dirty aquarium. 1495 01:02:30,920 --> 01:02:31,439 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 1496 01:02:31,560 --> 01:02:34,360 Speaker 6: And it has been in there since nineteen eighty eight. 1497 01:02:34,920 --> 01:02:36,640 Speaker 2: Okay, well, nobody about that. 1498 01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:39,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, so that is my ache of the week. So 1499 01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:40,280 Speaker 6: let's all try to do. 1500 01:02:40,200 --> 01:02:40,800 Speaker 3: Something about that. 1501 01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:43,439 Speaker 2: We're going to do something about that. And then no, Britan, 1502 01:02:43,760 --> 01:02:47,600 Speaker 2: I mean even he wants to know if you'll move 1503 01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:53,800 Speaker 2: into his two bedroom apartment. Yeah, he's a very ambitious 1504 01:02:56,080 --> 01:02:57,200 Speaker 2: gift card. Let's run it up. 1505 01:02:57,840 --> 01:02:59,480 Speaker 3: I'm an olive garden girl, but I'll do it. 1506 01:03:00,120 --> 01:03:00,280 Speaker 2: Ryan. 1507 01:03:00,320 --> 01:03:00,720 Speaker 3: I guess. 1508 01:03:02,400 --> 01:03:06,000 Speaker 2: About the gift card. Maybe now that you shouted them 1509 01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:13,080 Speaker 2: out on the podcast, they'll send you one garden somewhere. 1510 01:03:13,320 --> 01:03:17,920 Speaker 4: Yes, just what's yours. My relief is I love that 1511 01:03:17,960 --> 01:03:21,480 Speaker 4: your hair brand. But my relief is that the writers 1512 01:03:21,480 --> 01:03:22,160 Speaker 4: strike is over. 1513 01:03:23,360 --> 01:03:25,640 Speaker 3: Officially it was a tentative or do they do it? No, 1514 01:03:25,720 --> 01:03:26,280 Speaker 3: it's over. 1515 01:03:26,400 --> 01:03:31,400 Speaker 4: At the w g A, the A MPT AMPTP came 1516 01:03:31,480 --> 01:03:33,680 Speaker 4: to an agreement yesterday, so that's over. 1517 01:03:33,840 --> 01:03:34,960 Speaker 3: I'm so excited. 1518 01:03:35,080 --> 01:03:36,200 Speaker 2: I'm so thrilled about this. 1519 01:03:36,320 --> 01:03:39,400 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I'm so excited, so happy for the writers. 1520 01:03:39,680 --> 01:03:44,520 Speaker 3: That's the relief. And my ache is I went to 1521 01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:47,560 Speaker 3: Ed Sheeran on Saturday. That's all my ache. Ed Sheeran 1522 01:03:47,640 --> 01:03:50,560 Speaker 3: was incredible, so much swag. By the way, did you 1523 01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:56,080 Speaker 3: guys know like he's swage? No, no, no, he's sweat. 1524 01:03:56,360 --> 01:04:00,480 Speaker 4: But people, I was on the floor throwing out elbows 1525 01:04:00,520 --> 01:04:02,080 Speaker 4: like no one's business at an EDG. 1526 01:04:02,160 --> 01:04:05,120 Speaker 3: Sheeron concert. It was the most wild thing I've ever experienced. 1527 01:04:05,360 --> 01:04:09,160 Speaker 4: Beer bottles were being thrown like Ed Cheron Acoustic on 1528 01:04:10,520 --> 01:04:12,840 Speaker 4: Ed Sheeron, and people were like you could. 1529 01:04:12,720 --> 01:04:15,080 Speaker 3: Not like if you did a little elbow and try 1530 01:04:15,120 --> 01:04:17,360 Speaker 3: and get ahead of someone they would throw you back. 1531 01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:21,800 Speaker 3: Oh my god, oh wild, No, this was that so fine? 1532 01:04:22,120 --> 01:04:24,760 Speaker 2: And this was on Saturday. This is on the floor. 1533 01:04:24,840 --> 01:04:26,400 Speaker 3: Yeah well this was like on the floor. 1534 01:04:26,680 --> 01:04:29,600 Speaker 2: No, that's like paid so fine, doesn't have ga It 1535 01:04:29,720 --> 01:04:30,280 Speaker 2: was on the floor. 1536 01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:31,640 Speaker 4: It was like right in front of the stage, so 1537 01:04:31,720 --> 01:04:38,640 Speaker 4: people were yeah, yeah, yeah, it was wild. I was 1538 01:04:38,720 --> 01:04:42,080 Speaker 4: not expecting that. It was hilarious but wild. So anyway, 1539 01:04:42,160 --> 01:04:43,160 Speaker 4: that's my really. 1540 01:04:44,520 --> 01:04:47,320 Speaker 3: Okay, my relief will being here is now, Like, yes, 1541 01:04:47,360 --> 01:04:49,080 Speaker 3: I would agree, being here is a huge relief thing. 1542 01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:51,560 Speaker 3: Thank you, I mean seriously, thank you. I'm I am honored. 1543 01:04:52,000 --> 01:04:55,200 Speaker 3: My other relief would be taking my god daughter to school. 1544 01:04:55,400 --> 01:04:57,360 Speaker 3: I like, I've been doing the school drop offs, pick 1545 01:04:57,440 --> 01:04:59,760 Speaker 3: up and drop off, and I really really enjoyed that. 1546 01:04:59,840 --> 01:05:01,440 Speaker 3: It's she's so cute and like all the I love 1547 01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:03,200 Speaker 3: the little school and the kids in their uniforms and 1548 01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:05,960 Speaker 3: they run. It's so sweet. I actually have my past 1549 01:05:06,000 --> 01:05:07,840 Speaker 3: and I have to give it back, like my family past. 1550 01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:11,680 Speaker 3: Oh so cute. Do you wash her in? Like yeah, 1551 01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:13,760 Speaker 3: they let Well she's she's a little bit older, so 1552 01:05:13,960 --> 01:05:14,960 Speaker 3: I don't get to go like all the way into 1553 01:05:14,960 --> 01:05:16,560 Speaker 3: the classroom. But you know, but I'm like, it's like 1554 01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:18,560 Speaker 3: all the other SUVs, and I get out and I 1555 01:05:18,640 --> 01:05:19,720 Speaker 3: wore these things to take up. 1556 01:05:20,320 --> 01:05:21,200 Speaker 2: I like this, you know. 1557 01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:21,760 Speaker 6: I like that. 1558 01:05:22,040 --> 01:05:24,200 Speaker 3: I'm like yeah, with like my braw showing in the back, 1559 01:05:24,240 --> 01:05:28,000 Speaker 3: I'm like, hi, honey, mommy's here. And then I treat 1560 01:05:28,040 --> 01:05:30,160 Speaker 3: her friend who's my best friend from college, my freshman 1561 01:05:30,240 --> 01:05:32,120 Speaker 3: year college room. I'm so friends with her and I'm 1562 01:05:32,160 --> 01:05:33,640 Speaker 3: the mother now of her goddaughter. But I always like 1563 01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:35,640 Speaker 3: then I treat her like she's the nanny, you know, 1564 01:05:35,720 --> 01:05:37,360 Speaker 3: and I'm like, can you take the bag? 1565 01:05:37,920 --> 01:05:40,160 Speaker 2: That is hysterical and I FREAKHINGM love this. 1566 01:05:41,520 --> 01:05:44,960 Speaker 3: So that's my okay, So that's my you're relief, my relief. 1567 01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:46,840 Speaker 2: What's like putting a b in your bonnet? 1568 01:05:47,360 --> 01:05:47,840 Speaker 3: My ache? 1569 01:05:47,920 --> 01:05:48,400 Speaker 2: This week? 1570 01:05:49,120 --> 01:05:51,320 Speaker 3: I really I regret that I didn't like, really shoot 1571 01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:54,600 Speaker 3: my shot with Tyler. We hung out afterwards, but I 1572 01:05:54,640 --> 01:05:56,480 Speaker 3: didn't like hard courstion shit. Because here's the thing. When 1573 01:05:56,480 --> 01:05:58,800 Speaker 3: I actually think like I'm the biggest flirt in the 1574 01:05:58,840 --> 01:06:00,840 Speaker 3: world and I can be like that, you know, one 1575 01:06:00,880 --> 01:06:02,600 Speaker 3: actually might actually like when I start to get a 1576 01:06:02,600 --> 01:06:04,920 Speaker 3: little quiet and I don't, oh yeah, I get very 1577 01:06:05,000 --> 01:06:08,120 Speaker 3: like quiet, and I'm not like, hey, what's up, big dick. 1578 01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:12,000 Speaker 3: You know, I'm not when I actually like might like someone, 1579 01:06:12,080 --> 01:06:14,440 Speaker 3: I'm like, oh hey, like hey, what's up? Like hey dude, Like, 1580 01:06:14,520 --> 01:06:16,640 Speaker 3: I'm like kind of turned into a tomboy. Yeah, and 1581 01:06:16,720 --> 01:06:18,520 Speaker 3: I get a little shy. Yeah yeah, that's why didn't 1582 01:06:18,560 --> 01:06:20,640 Speaker 3: you do drinks and dinner something that could be lucy 1583 01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:22,960 Speaker 3: because light? Oh no, we did drink a lot. We 1584 01:06:23,080 --> 01:06:24,960 Speaker 3: drink yea day. 1585 01:06:25,040 --> 01:06:27,240 Speaker 2: Drinking is so fun. But did you get his phone on? 1586 01:06:27,360 --> 01:06:27,520 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1587 01:06:27,560 --> 01:06:28,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, he asked me for my phone. 1588 01:06:28,880 --> 01:06:34,840 Speaker 2: Should cut your pants? You're good? You should do like 1589 01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:36,680 Speaker 2: I said, you should have cut your pant pockets. 1590 01:06:36,920 --> 01:06:41,680 Speaker 3: Oh wish I'm should text that like, hey, yes he's 1591 01:06:41,680 --> 01:06:43,600 Speaker 3: going to cut my pants pockets. He's gonna be like 1592 01:06:43,680 --> 01:06:44,960 Speaker 3: he's in construction. 1593 01:06:46,480 --> 01:06:47,000 Speaker 2: So hot? 1594 01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:48,880 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, okay, so. 1595 01:06:48,960 --> 01:06:50,320 Speaker 2: You send him a message. Where does he live? 1596 01:06:50,440 --> 01:06:51,240 Speaker 3: He lives in Florida? 1597 01:06:51,640 --> 01:06:52,080 Speaker 2: He does? 1598 01:06:52,360 --> 01:06:55,840 Speaker 3: He lives in Florida. Yeah, weird. He's place in New York. 1599 01:06:55,960 --> 01:06:57,480 Speaker 2: What a random place to live? 1600 01:06:57,560 --> 01:07:00,400 Speaker 3: Okay, well now we now he knows week out. 1601 01:07:00,400 --> 01:07:01,080 Speaker 2: What's his name again? 1602 01:07:01,240 --> 01:07:01,880 Speaker 3: Tyler? Tyler? 1603 01:07:02,080 --> 01:07:03,720 Speaker 2: Tyler is slide in. 1604 01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:04,880 Speaker 3: Cameron right, Tyler? 1605 01:07:04,920 --> 01:07:05,200 Speaker 2: Cameron? 1606 01:07:05,280 --> 01:07:06,680 Speaker 3: You know I keep the I don't. I always call 1607 01:07:06,760 --> 01:07:08,000 Speaker 3: him Cameron I think his name is Tyler. 1608 01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:10,400 Speaker 2: I guess we'll find that. 1609 01:07:10,760 --> 01:07:11,840 Speaker 3: Look, I don't care what his name is. 1610 01:07:12,040 --> 01:07:13,600 Speaker 6: I don't think either. 1611 01:07:14,080 --> 01:07:15,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, I love it. 1612 01:07:15,520 --> 01:07:16,560 Speaker 2: I had the best time with you. 1613 01:07:16,680 --> 01:07:18,080 Speaker 3: Thank you, thanks for coming. 1614 01:07:18,840 --> 01:07:21,240 Speaker 1: Thank you guys for listening to another episode of the 1615 01:07:21,280 --> 01:07:22,360 Speaker 1: Give Them All the Podcast. 1616 01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:24,640 Speaker 2: I hope you enjoyed. I know you did, and I 1617 01:07:24,680 --> 01:07:25,600 Speaker 2: will catch you next week.