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Speaker 1: I found divorce papers in my airvent. I don't know

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Speaker 2: Maybe your ac man is trying to break up with

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Speaker 3: Now that is a great conspiracy theory.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, it's like, hey, I just don't want to

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Speaker 1: do this anymore. He went from a home fixer to

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Speaker 1: a home wrecker. Wow, cool move.

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Speaker 3: Dan the ac guy. Real cool cool.

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Speaker 1: Come on the coolest, the coolest cooling down your home

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Speaker 1: that's right by your marriage see Reddit stories.

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Speaker 3: Maybe Okay.

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Speaker 1: So, I twenty nine female and my husband, thirty male

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Speaker 1: seven and it's going fantastically well. He's handsome, cute, kind, loving,

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Speaker 1: It always starts so sweet.

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Speaker 3: The other shoe is gonna drop. We know where we're heading.

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Speaker 1: He takes me on dates, shows physical affection wherever he can,

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Speaker 1: and he also just makes me feel happy. We have

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Speaker 1: no kids, but we are trying for it. Oh no, dude,

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Speaker 1: it's so blind sided.

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Speaker 3: Seriously. So the other day I was cleaning the house.

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Speaker 1: I'm a housewife, and I was cleaning the air vent

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Speaker 1: never cleaned it since we bought the house. Also, like shout,

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Speaker 1: that's some that's some thorough cleaning, right, never cleaned. I've

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Speaker 1: event in my life, which I definitely should.

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Speaker 3: Have, should you. Yeah, I feel like all kinds of

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Speaker 3: craft gets in there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and like I guess like that you don't clean it,

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Speaker 3: Nasty, gross, nasty.

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Speaker 1: Well, when I opened it there was a box, an

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Speaker 1: unmarked box. Yeah, that's quite strange. That's like what Walter,

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Speaker 1: like Walter White hit his drug money in an air vent. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean you do not know what air vents are

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Speaker 1: you you might not be ready to understand. Also, great

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Speaker 1: place to find people's secrets. Yeah, air vents. Wow, jacket

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Speaker 1: Aren't They worried that Dan the ac man is going

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Speaker 1: to come in and just divorceipe. Yeah, come on, he

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Speaker 1: sees out here, risen up your empty air vents? Come on,

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Speaker 1: So I took out the box, and then I opened

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Speaker 3: And what do you think it was? Sam? I mean,

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Speaker 3: it's got to be the divorce papers.

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Speaker 1: It was divorce papers, yikes, already with our names on it.

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Speaker 1: The only thing that wasn't filled in was the signatures.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, I was crushed. He had just gone to

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Speaker 1: work after kissing me for seven to eight minutes and

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Speaker 1: I mean, man, it's gonna be late to work straight,

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Speaker 1: the note and it reads as follows. It is with

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Speaker 1: immense regret and sadness that your love between you and

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Speaker 1: my name has run its course. I'm sorry, Husband's name.

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Speaker 1: You didn't deserve this, or you did. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe she cheated, maybe you did. Maybe the love didn't

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Speaker 1: last for you. All those times, all those moments of

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Speaker 1: being with her are of no use. Now in the end,

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Speaker 1: She's gone, never coming back. It's okay, you effing slur

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Speaker 3: You deserve to be shot. Wait, I'm so confused. I'm lost.

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Speaker 1: What I'm thinking as of right now is there might

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Speaker 3: It says it's it's Ope between you.

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Speaker 3: Not he's not saying it's between me and op. Wow.

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Speaker 1: So it's like very very weird. It's still very strange. Okay,

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Speaker 1: sorry for that. She let another man's dong inside of

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Speaker 1: her and she didn't back off. She had an affair,

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Speaker 3: My friend.

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Speaker 1: You did everything that you could, but she wanted more.

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Speaker 1: Listen to we don't understand each other from st three

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Speaker 1: and go to sleep. Hit the gym tomorrow. I'm here

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Speaker 1: for you, take care mate, yours yours writer's name, So

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Speaker 3: Okay, I am, I am. I'm still so confused.

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Speaker 1: I see to continue, his note was from himself, by himself,

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Speaker 3: Weird, weird, very strange. I am crying now.

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Speaker 1: I've never cheated on him and never had the thought

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Speaker 3: This, So I'm like, I'm just confused. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Something like that, that he's like maybe hiding from her somehow.

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Speaker 1: Maybe this was just like a weird cathartic like lesson

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Speaker 3: It's super super bizarre, super super bizarre. There is an update.

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Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just confused. Yeah, what is your guess

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Speaker 1: this just in case. It's like, okay, if she's cheating

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Speaker 3: Let's find out. So he came home. I'm on the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, what I was sitting on the couch with

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Speaker 3: He came to comfort me, but I pushed him away.

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Speaker 3: I'm just crying and saying, why why would you do this?

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Speaker 3: You think you don't deserve me? Or you thought I

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Speaker 3: he said this. He had made the arrangements for this

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Speaker 3: a contingency plan three to four months ago, when an

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Speaker 3: he getting like red pilled right now?

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Speaker 1: I think he's like getting red pilled right He's like

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Speaker 3: He's he's going down in cell path. Oh no, oh no,

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Speaker 1: He started to get frightened about the issue as he

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Speaker 1: read many posts on r slash surviving infidelity.

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Speaker 2: Oh, bro, that is why that is not a good

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Speaker 3: Oh my god. Which also we should check out that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Also, let's devalue our relationships real quick, surviving infidelity, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I haven't heard of that. That's a new one on

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Speaker 2: I mean, he's just probably spooked and it's not anything

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 1: That's what's so crazy is like you kind of did

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Speaker 3: I mean, it went he definitely took it way too far.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: I think that what he should have done is he

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Speaker 2: should have been like, Hey, I just want to talk

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Speaker 3: It rattled me.

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Speaker 1: I know it has nothing to do with us, but

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Speaker 1: it's just like one of those things where you hear

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Speaker 3: It probably would have ended.

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Speaker 1: Instead he did this skit. Yeah, you make me sick.

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Speaker 1: At this point, we were both breaking down. He tried

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Speaker 1: Like, I'm a high value man. Just learn this in

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Speaker 3: The okapi, Oh, become a better lover?

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Speaker 2: And man, if you listen to our show, that's right,

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Speaker 2: Thanks for your personal story, Joanna. And finally, public subscriber

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Speaker 2: David Romhill says, at this point, I would tell mom

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Speaker 3: I love that great idea, and we love all of

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Speaker 3: Yeah we do.

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Speaker 1: Karen let her son steal my blind cane because she

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Speaker 3: Then the unthinkable happened. I had no idea. A blind

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Speaker 3: That's a good one, or like a blind baton. These

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Speaker 3: World's like, let me take your eyes.

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Speaker 1: There's the ladies and gentlemen. Sometimes things just happened like

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Speaker 2: So rough God he at least she can still write

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Speaker 1: Now. I've been totally blind for about a year, so

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Speaker 1: I was thinking there was serious discourse gonna happen. When

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Speaker 2: I feel like in that situation, just imagine everyone's naked, but.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that is true.

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Speaker 2: We actually had we had a sexual story recently and

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Speaker 1: Tell us we'll read it. We'll read it out out.

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Speaker 3: What's up with you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Anywhoy? So one day my husband asks if I

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Speaker 3: I can see why. Yeah, it's like, yo, you have eyes.

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Speaker 2: There is a world and where where like this husband

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you don't have like us of your

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Speaker 2: But like your life isn't over and you can still navigate.

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Speaker 3: Maybe he's a lazy piece of Yeah, imagine he he just.

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Speaker 1: There was a Walmart grocery literally across the street from

442
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Speaker 1: the bank, So I figure everything in life is an

443
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Speaker 1: experience and I'll have to learn how to shop alone eventually.

444
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Speaker 3: That's true. That's true. Yeah, that's true.

445
00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:59,119
Speaker 1: Everything was fine at first, and I was only grabbing

446
00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:00,959
Speaker 1: a few things, so I didn't really need a cart.

447
00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:03,879
Speaker 1: I was using my cane and what little echo location

448
00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:05,959
Speaker 1: skills I had at the time to get around.

449
00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:07,560
Speaker 3: Yo, she's echo locating.

450
00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:12,760
Speaker 2: I mean, Yo, that is that is super dope. So

451
00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:15,679
Speaker 2: I'm seeing like different kinds of echo location on like

452
00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:19,400
Speaker 2: YouTube videos. Right, So there's there's like the normal way

453
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:22,840
Speaker 2: where it's like people like right and like they can

454
00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:24,760
Speaker 2: hear it. But then there's the other warriors.

455
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Speaker 3: Go, I mean that seems a lot easier.

456
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Speaker 1: Just it is it is locating around you just hear

457
00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:43,159
Speaker 1: someone That sucks because I'm I imagine the more sound

458
00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:47,080
Speaker 1: the easier it is to Yeah, it's like bits of'm echocating.

459
00:21:49,359 --> 00:21:52,159
Speaker 1: It's because like again, the more sound it is, I

460
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Speaker 1: would have to imagine I would if that would be

461
00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:56,960
Speaker 1: I would be fucking around with it. Yeah, I would

462
00:21:57,080 --> 00:22:00,520
Speaker 1: just be yelling in supermarkets or like like like someone

463
00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:03,880
Speaker 1: like gets in front of me, wrong, I'm yelling at them.

464
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:06,199
Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh, sorry, echo location. Yeah, you know,

465
00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:09,720
Speaker 1: I'm abusing the shit out of that power. Love it.

466
00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:14,320
Speaker 1: But I was still bumping around into all the things.

467
00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:18,840
Speaker 1: As us. Blind people tend to do. Sometimes, Hey, understandable,

468
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:23,440
Speaker 1: it happens. Brouh. My cane suddenly hit something a bit softer.

469
00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:29,840
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. My cane suddenly hit something a bit

470
00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:33,360
Speaker 1: softer and I figured maybe I had whacked someone's leg.

471
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Speaker 1: And I apologize. Now enters entitled kid and Karen, Oh God,

472
00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:42,680
Speaker 1: here we go. Karen, are you really going to pick

473
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Speaker 1: on the blind person? Please don't just wait, just wait.

474
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Speaker 3: Me.

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Speaker 1: Shoot, I'm so sorry, Karen, Hey, you'll hit my precious on. Yo,

476
00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:58,400
Speaker 1: Karen's really about to go after a blind person.

477
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Speaker 3: Actually, this is actually happening.

478
00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 1: And and OP he is apologetic, like you could see

479
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:09,239
Speaker 1: the cad. You could hear the apology, like like, this

480
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:14,240
Speaker 1: person is blind. Yes me, I'm so sorry, ma'am. I

481
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:17,600
Speaker 1: didn't see you there. Karen starts yelling, how could.

482
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:22,200
Speaker 3: You not see him? He's right there, the cane.

483
00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:26,880
Speaker 1: Karen, please please tell the OP says like, hey, I'm blind.

484
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:31,480
Speaker 1: So uh now, I'm fully blind here. But I don't

485
00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:35,120
Speaker 1: wear sunglasses, mostly because I can't afford a good UV

486
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:38,560
Speaker 1: blocking pair, but also because I'm not looking for pity

487
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:41,040
Speaker 1: or to play the part of a generic blind person.

488
00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:43,399
Speaker 1: I just want to be treated like a normal person,

489
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Speaker 1: So I do understand her confusion, as blindness is the spectrum,

490
00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:49,760
Speaker 1: so I try to calmly explain bro OPI has so

491
00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:52,560
Speaker 1: much patience right now, so much patient.

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Speaker 2: I feel like like with her condition, she's had to

493
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Speaker 2: build a lot of patients with herself, and like, yeah,

494
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 2: well like patients like with herself, like adapting to this

495
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:07,600
Speaker 2: new situation. Stupid comments like just navigating the world in

496
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:10,439
Speaker 2: this new way, like you're that that builds your patients.

497
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Speaker 1: That's yeah, yeah, I can. I can imagine me, ma'am, ma'am.

498
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 1: I'm blind. I can't see anything, let alone your son.

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Speaker 1: That's why I use the cane so I can get

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00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:23,920
Speaker 1: around without She cuts me off. If you're blind, and

501
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 1: why aren't you wearing the big sunglasses?

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00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:30,800
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I love how Karen has like a

503
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 2: caricature of what a blind person looks like. It's like,

504
00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:39,000
Speaker 2: where's your dog yours? Just like pulls out a list

505
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:40,800
Speaker 2: and says, going down all the things.

506
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Speaker 1: Now, as a blind person, I get asked lots of

507
00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:46,280
Speaker 1: stupid questions, but I understand a lot of them are

508
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,720
Speaker 1: just people who don't know better. So I try to

509
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:52,160
Speaker 1: happily answer as many as I can. Me those are

510
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:55,239
Speaker 1: actually really expensive, around two hundred dollars a pair, and

511
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:58,880
Speaker 1: I don't really need any Inside, Karen, you're not blind.

512
00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:04,200
Speaker 1: You're faking that quick catch you got me. Oh my gosh,

513
00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 1: I'm pretending to be blind?

514
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:09,360
Speaker 3: Like what does that like? Also? What does that accomplished?

515
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 1: Like?

516
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:14,640
Speaker 3: What incentive? Yeah? Where is the children? I guess so.

517
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:18,680
Speaker 1: I can plitely tap children on the on the shin Yeah,

518
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:22,480
Speaker 1: like with it's so apologetic too, I don't get it.

519
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:25,359
Speaker 1: Here is where my blood starts to boil. I can't

520
00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:28,680
Speaker 1: think of any reason so much before the blood isn't boiling.

521
00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:32,639
Speaker 1: Now blood boils. Game time, baby, I can't think of

522
00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:35,600
Speaker 1: any reason someone would want to pretend to be blind.

523
00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:38,879
Speaker 1: It is actual hell, And nothing pisses me off more

524
00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:41,159
Speaker 1: than when someone calls me a liar when I'm not

525
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:47,440
Speaker 1: totally fair, valid, completely valid valid. Just as I'm about

526
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:50,159
Speaker 1: to respond, I feel a tug, and before I blink,

527
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:54,359
Speaker 1: I realize this little demon spawn has snatched my one

528
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 1: hundred dollars cane right from my hands.

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Speaker 3: No one hundred bucks, damn God.

530
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 1: For those of you who don't understand, that's like if

531
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,879
Speaker 1: you're shopping and suddenly the power goes out and you

532
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:10,679
Speaker 1: literally can't see a single light without my cane. I

533
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 1: can barely move it all without crashing into anything.

534
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:14,879
Speaker 3: Frick.

535
00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 1: My voice gets shaky as I start to painic. Please

536
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:22,840
Speaker 1: give it back. I really do need it. Karen, No,

537
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:25,879
Speaker 1: you're a liar, and my son deserves to play with

538
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 1: this more than you deserve.

539
00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 3: Ad you're joking.

540
00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:31,800
Speaker 1: Can you imagine?

541
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:32,280
Speaker 3: Wow?

542
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:36,120
Speaker 1: Can you imagine one like watching this and being like, Hey,

543
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 1: what the hell is going on? So bro, this is

544
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:42,720
Speaker 1: like a Walmart or something? Where's anybody?

545
00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:43,200
Speaker 3: Bro?

546
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:46,120
Speaker 1: You literally see a child snatch a blind woman's cane,

547
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:52,120
Speaker 1: and she's like clearly called like in distress. God, she's

548
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:56,359
Speaker 1: the world. I hear her shuffle away and my expensive

549
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 1: cane cracking into metal displays and such. As they leave,

550
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:02,600
Speaker 1: I start crying and waving my arms in front of

551
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 1: me to grab onto something anything, ended up crashing and

552
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:09,399
Speaker 1: falling into the center aisle display, making a very loud scene.

553
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:14,680
Speaker 1: Oh oh, this poor woman. Without fail, I somewhat curl

554
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,639
Speaker 1: into a ball and start crying. I'm alone in public,

555
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 1: in the dark, and I had no idea what to do.

556
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,959
Speaker 1: When suddenly I felt a hand on my shoulder in

557
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 1: a man's voice. He asks if I'm okay and says

558
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 1: to stay right there. I do, but begin to at

559
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:33,400
Speaker 1: least sit up and listen. This man must have been

560
00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 1: tall and built like a tank, because his footsteps sounded

561
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 1: like a giant and I felt a suction of wind

562
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:42,400
Speaker 1: when he took off. Wow, this man is moving the air,

563
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 1: this superhero. He's like freaking Superman over here, literally maybe

564
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:49,440
Speaker 1: thirty or so feet away. I hear a loud bellowing

565
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:53,680
Speaker 1: like an angry lion, and a loud crash. Then before

566
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: I knew it, the man is back and helping me

567
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 1: to my feet. He takes my hand, puts the cane

568
00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 1: in my palm, and helps me pick up the eye

569
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 1: items I dropped when I fell into the display.

570
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 3: So this guy is the MVP.

571
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:06,200
Speaker 1: These are the kind of people that restore my faith

572
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 1: in human Yes, absolutely, Wow, what a guy. If you

573
00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:12,159
Speaker 1: ever see a blind person on the floor in the

574
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 1: fetal position, please please support help me. Wiping tears away

575
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:22,399
Speaker 1: from my cheeks, Thank you, thank you so much. I

576
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 1: did not know how to handle that awesome guy. Don't

577
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:30,440
Speaker 1: worry about it. Some people are just monsters facts Karen's

578
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:34,160
Speaker 1: Karen's This guy restored my faith in humanity and even

579
00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 1: helped me finish shopping and helped me out of the store.

580
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 1: As we're lieving, I hear the familiar screeching of Karen,

581
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 1: something about awesome guy grabbing the cane, pulling it hard

582
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 1: and flinging her little devil child onto a shopping cart.

583
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 1: I don't know if she was exaggerating or not, but

584
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 1: that would explain the crash I heard. It's easy to

585
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 1: feel alone in a world with outsight, but even through

586
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 1: the sheer terror of being stripped of my cane, at

587
00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 1: least I know now there are people willing to stand

588
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 1: up for me when I need it.

589
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:05,560
Speaker 3: Humanity coming out of the wood work to really.

590
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 1: I like how we went all the way like horrendous,

591
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:13,760
Speaker 1: and then we land it back like the wholesome, land

592
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 1: back on the wholesome at the end.

593
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:16,120
Speaker 3: I mean, luckily, I think that.

594
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:19,120
Speaker 2: I mean there are people that will that will help, Like,

595
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 2: there are people that see injustice and they're like, yo, like,

596
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:23,040
Speaker 2: let's stop this.

597
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:27,800
Speaker 1: Let me not let this defenseless woman who can't see

598
00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 1: just like like imagine just like pushing grocery cart past that, like.

599
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 3: And how do you see the cane? Like?

600
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 1: Also, why just take someone's cane regardless of whether they're blind.

601
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 1: There was the first part where it's like okay, she

602
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 1: didn't expressly say it, even though it was already kind

603
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 1: of so all I will, like op said, like okay,

604
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 1: maybe not everyone like fully knows or whatever. But like

605
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 1: once Opie says I am blind, he's blind, OPI is like,

606
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:59,240
Speaker 1: why what good does it do to so dumb? Gosh?

607
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 1: By the way, speak speaking of wholesomeness, We've been starting

608
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 1: to read comments a little bit more and I stumbled

609
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:08,440
Speaker 1: upon this comment on our TikTok this morning. This is

610
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:13,480
Speaker 1: from Skully on TikTok Uh. Thanks. My grandmother passed away

611
00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 1: this morning and I needed to hear something wholesome we

612
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 1: appreciate pretty awesome because like I think for me, that's

613
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 1: kind of like the goal of this show is like, hey,

614
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 1: here's here's just some silly, fun stories that like hopefully

615
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:30,040
Speaker 1: put a smile on your face every day and you know,

616
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 1: or or in the worst case, you're dealing with something

617
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 1: terrible and you just want like something fun. And I think, like,

618
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 1: I mean, like so many of these stories are just

619
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 1: like I mean, like they're relatable, Like like these are

620
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:50,040
Speaker 1: the these are the problems and victories of like everyday

621
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,560
Speaker 1: humans around the world, and like, you know, no matter

622
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 1: what you're going through, like there's always someone on Ready,

623
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 1: it's worse and better too.

624
00:30:57,480 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 3: That's true.

625
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 1: That's true. This is me shooting my shot at you

626
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 1: because you're a criminal who stole my heart then returned

627
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:06,480
Speaker 1: it a couple of times because of the Tate references.

628
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:12,080
Speaker 3: Gina Harris, Gina, what's good? Gina?

629
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 1: Sam? Sam is fresh and single as as you love

630
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 1: Chronicle followers.

631
00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 3: Now, hey, shoot, shoot your shot. I'm actually going on

632
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:25,240
Speaker 3: a kind of a date on Friday.

633
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 1: See more more content for Sam's love Chronicles at the

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Speaker 1: end of the episodes.

635
00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 2: Only yeah, only at the end of the episode the

636
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:35,400
Speaker 2: real one stick to the end. But my my friend, actually,

637
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 2: do you want to come? My friend has his inaugural

638
00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 2: show at the Peppermint Club. The Peppermint Club, the Peppermint

639
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 2: Club show of he's a musician and he's he's doing

640
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 2: It's like like he got reached out by someone at

641
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 2: Live Nation and they're like, hey, like can you play

642
00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 2: the show?

643
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:55,320
Speaker 3: We like the music?

644
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 1: So what kind of music does he do? It's like, uh,

645
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 1: like hyper pop, okay, kind of I honestly don't know

646
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: like the exact genre. I don't even I've heard her

647
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:11,640
Speaker 1: term hyper pop, but I do you know Porter Robinson,

648
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:17,760
Speaker 1: he's yeah, he's kind of maybe DM ethereal is yea, yeah,

649
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 1: said kind of like that. Okay, but yeah, he's playing

650
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:23,480
Speaker 1: his first show. Hell yeah, that sounds awesome.

651
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:26,000
Speaker 3: I'm gonna yeah, it's all. I'll send you a link

652
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:27,560
Speaker 3: to it. None of you are invited.

653
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:30,480
Speaker 1: Hey, if you want to see Josh at the Peppermint Club,

654
00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 1: this is Prince Woods.

655
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:33,960
Speaker 3: This is uh stage name.

656
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:37,880
Speaker 1: This will almost certainly go live like four weeks after

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Speaker 1: after imagine people like four fridays from now, like a

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Speaker 1: hundred people just show up. Maybe maybe he's uh held

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Speaker 1: his like live live show career will take off after

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Speaker 1: this point, you know, have ten more shows. See there

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Speaker 1: we go. But I'm actually I'm taking this. I think

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Speaker 1: she might just be a end. I don't know, she's

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Speaker 1: probably maybe it's just a friend. But I'm taking this

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Speaker 1: girl that actually used to work at Finding Founders, but

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Speaker 1: we've kind of like stayed in touch, right, and she's

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Speaker 1: kind of cool, you know where she doesn't work anymore

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Speaker 1: there by the way. Okay, so it's it's fine. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I think I think she has to go back to

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Speaker 1: working too. And then to make we again we stand,

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Speaker 1: we stay in toxicity, so we have to create the

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Speaker 1: most toxic environment humanly possible. Yeah, shout out, and we'll

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Speaker 1: get the update on next next week.

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Speaker 3: Next week, so yeah, we'll see how it goes. Listen

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Speaker 3: in People