WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Sweet Sixteen Dates

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up dated. There's a new trend that's happening

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<v Speaker 1>right now where people online are posting dating rapped videos.

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<v Speaker 2>Like you're Spotify rapped, but like, wait, how many matches

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<v Speaker 2>and s are you got?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Like an end of the year recap of their

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<v Speaker 1>dating life from the past three hundred and sixty five days.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like that.

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<v Speaker 4>Could go really wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like who you swipe on, what you don't like,

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<v Speaker 3>who you know?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's just it's like a.

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<v Speaker 3>Type of person.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, or like the total amount of dates that you

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<v Speaker 1>tried for the past year and you're patting yourself on

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<v Speaker 1>the back.

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<v Speaker 3>Again, Okay, it's not about the failure.

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<v Speaker 1>And today's caller, Kelly, mentioned in her email that she's

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<v Speaker 1>dated around a lot over the past year, so our

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<v Speaker 1>producer asked if she could give us a dating rap

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<v Speaker 1>for herself.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, so.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna hear that in a second. First, Kelly, welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to the show.

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<v Speaker 5>Hi, thank you, thanks for having.

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<v Speaker 1>Me, Thanks for being on with us. We want to

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<v Speaker 1>hear about what's your dating rap briefly for us if

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<v Speaker 1>you can.

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<v Speaker 3>Every time you say rap, I wanted to like break down.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, don't you don't need this.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I wanted.

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<v Speaker 6>Just give me.

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<v Speaker 3>I can give you a beat if it would make

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<v Speaker 3>the wraps way more through.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a quick breakdown. What was your dating life like

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<v Speaker 1>last year?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's funny. I wish I could wrap my rats.

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<v Speaker 5>But it was sixteen first dates total, okay, mostly mostly Americans.

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<v Speaker 5>I had two Australians, one Irish guy, one guy who

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what his action was, but I think

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<v Speaker 5>he may have been homeless also or just.

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<v Speaker 1>That your version homeless just pick accents from raf wow judgment.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's good. It sounds like you're keeping your options open.

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<v Speaker 1>Was there anything more? What what did you think about

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<v Speaker 1>the sixteen guys that you were with?

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<v Speaker 6>That sounds like.

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<v Speaker 1>That you know what I meant? The sixteen guys you

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<v Speaker 1>met separately during the year, how did they go?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? You know, like the sixteen six made to a

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<v Speaker 5>second eight out of those six, only three made it

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<v Speaker 5>to a third date or more right, Yeah, Now all

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<v Speaker 5>the guys two flat out rejected me right after the date.

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<v Speaker 5>Eight were like mutual ghostings. Three I rejected and told

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<v Speaker 5>them it just wasn't going to work. And one block

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<v Speaker 5>to me like immediately after the date. But I was

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<v Speaker 5>he was a little suss I think he might have

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<v Speaker 5>been married.

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<v Speaker 4>Oho, oh god, yeah, nothing you did wrong there other

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<v Speaker 4>than go out with him.

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<v Speaker 1>I suppose alexis looking back at her sixteen first dates.

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<v Speaker 1>How would you grade her overall experience?

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<v Speaker 3>It's not like a good but one sixteen for being blocked, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>that's not bad?

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<v Speaker 1>What sixteen?

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<v Speaker 2>And it wasn't for something she did exactly, that's a

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<v Speaker 2>good aspect.

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<v Speaker 5>And out of the sixteen, I only had to pay

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<v Speaker 5>half on like one of them. And I'm really old fashioned.

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<v Speaker 5>I prefer the guy pay That's just how my mom

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<v Speaker 5>and dad taught me.

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<v Speaker 3>Old fashion your cheap, let's be honest, I mean both.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so that's how it was. And I cried over

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<v Speaker 5>two guys last year and ended up with zero.

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<v Speaker 1>And I do make a lot of women cry when

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<v Speaker 1>they listened to the show. Oh yeah, we do. So

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<v Speaker 1>tell me. None of the sixteen guys worked out. But

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<v Speaker 1>now apparently you say there's a new guy and that's

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<v Speaker 1>why you reached out to us.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, there's a new guy. I was hopeful. I don't

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<v Speaker 5>know yet. His name is Steve. It was like an

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<v Speaker 5>online match and it was just a casual date. It

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<v Speaker 5>was really like less than hour, like a forty minute.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh so you went out with them already.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we just got Cuban sandwiches from this little sandwich

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<v Speaker 5>shop and just went to the park and he ate

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<v Speaker 5>and talked and we were by this playground with kids

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<v Speaker 5>running around and.

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<v Speaker 4>What kind of significant in some way the playground that's

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<v Speaker 4>my kid.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's a lot of information coming at us. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>there's sandwiches that, there's a park, there's a playground, there's children.

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<v Speaker 1>Does that sound like a good date? First, Like, overall,

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<v Speaker 1>alexis no kids around the sandwich. Sandwich is okay, sandwich

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<v Speaker 1>is okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, the playground was empty.

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<v Speaker 4>I'd play on it, but it's a kid.

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<v Speaker 5>That would be a fun date, that would be No,

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<v Speaker 5>it was really just kind of a lunch date really

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<v Speaker 5>because like the sandwiches are really messy. And at one

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<v Speaker 5>point he was like, you got something on your face

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<v Speaker 5>and I was like, oh where, And he was like,

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<v Speaker 5>you pointed to like my entire lower half, and he

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<v Speaker 5>was like everywhere under your nose and.

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<v Speaker 4>That he's paying attention. You know, he's looking at you.

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<v Speaker 4>You have like a I'm not even joking. When I

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<v Speaker 4>met my husband I didn't realize I carried so much

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<v Speaker 4>food on my face until I met that man, and

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, he always has something to point out.

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<v Speaker 4>No one else before him ever said anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Amazing how the women on this show can spin anything

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<v Speaker 1>into a positive.

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<v Speaker 4>Another you heard the odds, Jeff, I don't think that's bad.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, how'd you guys end it?

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<v Speaker 5>After we ate? We were just kind of like, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>if we had a frisbee, we'd throw it, but we

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<v Speaker 5>just kind of kind of like picked up a stick

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<v Speaker 5>and was kind of playing with it and then.

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<v Speaker 1>Go get it, Go get your date.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I got no, but it got a little awkward.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 5>I was really hoping he'd say, like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 5>let's grab a drink and proceed to like a nighttime thing.

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<v Speaker 5>And he's so cute. I'm sure he gets a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of attention from women on on the app.

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<v Speaker 3>So well, he doesn't sound very good at a date.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, he didn't even bring a frisbee. He didn't

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<v Speaker 3>even get the sandwich place. He went to a park.

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<v Speaker 1>Why is the man in trouble? We're paying for the

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<v Speaker 1>sand which she's the one that date.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just saying that I don't think he's getting hit

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<v Speaker 2>on as much as she thinks because he is not

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<v Speaker 2>as experienced as he should be, which was a good ride.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure it's the man's fault somehow, but let's prove

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<v Speaker 1>it when we come back. We're gonna call Steve for

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<v Speaker 1>you and try and get you your second date update

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<v Speaker 1>right after that. Your name is Steve, you better pick

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<v Speaker 1>on hold on second date update. I feel like in

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<v Speaker 1>the first part we definitely miss something we miss and

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<v Speaker 1>by we I mean Brook.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I know that we were going there.

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke was out of it that even though the guy

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<v Speaker 1>is the one not calling Kelly back. Yes, and Kelly

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<v Speaker 1>said herself, he's very good looking and must get a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of attention on the dating apps, and Kelly's the

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<v Speaker 1>one that had sandwich pieces all over her face. Brook

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<v Speaker 1>hurt all of that and says, Nope, the guy is

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<v Speaker 1>a bad date planner. I bet no women want to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with you.

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<v Speaker 3>No.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I didn't say no women. I just said I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think that he's as wanted as she thinks.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to hype her up.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, she has something to offer on this table and

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<v Speaker 2>he is going to maybe maybe he was too intimidated

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<v Speaker 2>by how awesome she is.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, the sandwich all over her face. Listen, I've

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<v Speaker 3>gotten food on my face. It shouldn't stop anything, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>But no, actually normally just eating politely once someone of

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<v Speaker 1>your dates try that. But look, the whole thing is

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<v Speaker 1>Kelly really liked the guy that she met up with, Steve.

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<v Speaker 1>They did a casual date in the park with Cuban sandwiches.

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<v Speaker 1>They tossed a stick back and forth. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>great time. Was a little straight, yeah, I mean they

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<v Speaker 1>weren't sure what else to do. It was short though, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And so now afterwards she's hoping to get one more

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<v Speaker 1>shot with him because he's been kind of ghosty.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, have you heard from him at all, Kelly?

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<v Speaker 5>I haven't. And now I'm nervous because I was really slobby.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe I was. I grossed him out. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>The mason that you had going into that sandwich is

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<v Speaker 2>what it is.

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<v Speaker 7>Understanding.

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<v Speaker 1>If you could do that to a sandwich, just imagine

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<v Speaker 1>what else you could.

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<v Speaker 4>That is right, Jeffrey, we are here to hide up sandwich.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah it's disgusting, all right, that's not what he says.

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<v Speaker 1>But here we go with Dill his number. We'll see

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<v Speaker 1>what he has to say. Let's do it.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, we're looking for Steve speaking and Hey Steve, I

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<v Speaker 1>said we because you're on the radio right now with

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>How you doing man?

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<v Speaker 6>Uh, but you're from the radio.

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<v Speaker 3>And podcasts podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>To Yeah, yeah, we got a good podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>We are multifaceted here.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're in the future with our entertainment, but we're

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<v Speaker 1>focused on you right now because one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>went on a date with you the other day and

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<v Speaker 1>really had a good time. He wants to see you again,

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<v Speaker 1>but that hasn't quite happened yet, and she's not sure why.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name's Kelly.

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<v Speaker 6>Ah Man.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay Man, Okay, oh Man.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yeah, it's.

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<v Speaker 1>The fact that you're not reaching out for another date

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<v Speaker 1>is kind of hinting that you're not interested. But we're

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<v Speaker 1>not sure if that's true or not. We want to

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<v Speaker 1>know what you think about Kelly.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh.

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<v Speaker 6>She's very nice, like, Kelly's cool, but you know, I

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<v Speaker 6>just don't think it's going to work out.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Is there is there a reason?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, did you went into it thinking that it

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<v Speaker 2>could work out?

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<v Speaker 3>Right?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? I mean definitely, but you know, like we got

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<v Speaker 6>some food and then we went to the park and

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<v Speaker 6>it just it started to get a little weird. But like,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, I don't want to blow up for a spot,

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<v Speaker 6>like I don't even know you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>So see, we didn't hear anything like weird. She said

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<v Speaker 1>she had like some food or something on her face,

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<v Speaker 1>but nothing stood out to be weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe that's weird to him, you know, like maybe it's

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<v Speaker 2>weird to him to have a female have food all

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<v Speaker 2>over their face.

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<v Speaker 6>No, no, actually I thought that was kind of cute.

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<v Speaker 3>See I talked to you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>What was the issue? You said it was weird?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, I'm like, so, you know, we were sitting

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<v Speaker 6>on the bend, were chilling and there's like a playground,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, that's in this park that we're in, and

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<v Speaker 6>oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>She randomly mentioned that to us too.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah yeah, and she so there's like a bunch of

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<v Speaker 6>kids playing, and all of a sudden, she points and

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<v Speaker 6>she's like, oh my god, look, imagine if will we

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<v Speaker 6>had that many kids and those were all our kids

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<v Speaker 6>running around and there were like like eight ten kids

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<v Speaker 6>playing on the playground.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, So she was describing a nightmare, right, Like

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<v Speaker 4>that's how she meant, like, imagine how chaotic.

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<v Speaker 3>Our life would be.

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<v Speaker 6>She sounded thrilled, Oh thrilled.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so that's a red flag to you. That's a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean like I've known you for like twenty

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<v Speaker 6>minutes and now now we're having eight kids together.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>In her defense, I will say, it sounds like maybe

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<v Speaker 2>she was just trying to fill the void, like maybe

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<v Speaker 2>there was like an odd because she said, like it

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<v Speaker 2>kind of died at the end your guys's date.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe she was just trying to, like I say, dumb things.

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<v Speaker 1>Could you understand that point of view? Maybe?

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<v Speaker 6>See, I mean I guess I could. But she started

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<v Speaker 6>getting like really into it. Oh she was like naming them.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh there was like another one weird thing where she

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<v Speaker 6>wasn't feeling one of the kids and she was like,

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<v Speaker 6>he's not playing nice. You would put him up for

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<v Speaker 6>an option.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, she's obviously kidding, Well that should be a positive

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<v Speaker 1>for you because you don't want that many.

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<v Speaker 3>He would only have seven.

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<v Speaker 1>There you go.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she'd say she was a good mother, just a mother, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>But that it sounds like it was all that conversation

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<v Speaker 1>kind of scared you was too much for you joking

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<v Speaker 1>or no?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? I mean you know, like, yeah, but if.

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<v Speaker 3>She was joking, maybe you could work it out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. And there's a perfect person to find out whether

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<v Speaker 1>or not it was a joke. That's Kelly, who's on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line right now, waiting to talk to you. Wait. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Kelly and her seven children say hi, Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>Did she give another one up for adoption? Or we

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<v Speaker 3>out of six? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Ever since she heard that Kelly there, Yeah, Steve, it's Kelly.

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<v Speaker 5>I am I ex fuming. I'm so offended. Yes, because

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<v Speaker 5>and you know what this is why and how I

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<v Speaker 5>realized why I had sixteen unsuccessful dates last year. It's

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<v Speaker 5>because they were all like you, Steve, like emotionally and

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<v Speaker 5>intellectually scented.

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<v Speaker 3>Why are you upset? Why are you so mad?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Because, my god, Brooke, you were totally right, Steve, you

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<v Speaker 5>stock at planning a date.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just trying to hype you up, tear it down.

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<v Speaker 1>What happened.

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<v Speaker 5>Listen, if you even had like an ounce of a

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<v Speaker 5>sense of humor, like you would get that I was

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<v Speaker 5>obviously joking, and I was for you to actually think

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<v Speaker 5>that I was serious, like, oh my god, like you

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<v Speaker 5>must be a narcissist that you would think I would

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<v Speaker 5>meet you for forty minutes and suddenly want to have

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<v Speaker 5>your babies.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, well, all right, I think we're I think

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<v Speaker 1>we're going down a path we don't need to go

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<v Speaker 1>down any farther we were. You weren't happy with Steve's response. There, Steve,

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<v Speaker 1>are you there?

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<v Speaker 6>Zerah? Yeah, yeah, you're here barely, but I'm still here.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you like to respond to any of the allegations

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<v Speaker 1>just you?

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<v Speaker 4>I thought you guys were all gonna have a big

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<v Speaker 4>laugh about how it was a miscommunication, Steve.

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<v Speaker 5>Bottom line, you planned a boring date and now I'm

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<v Speaker 5>paying a price for it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's nut, Steve. You see your data, and I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>going to go for.

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<v Speaker 5>Just the looks like I thought you were super.

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<v Speaker 1>Cute too much?

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<v Speaker 6>What kind of radio show is this? You just trash, dude?

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<v Speaker 1>It depends on how many drinks Brooks.

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<v Speaker 4>I was just trying to make her feel better about

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<v Speaker 4>you not calling her, And now I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that this was already happening and I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>realize it.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, you don't have to tear somebody else down

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<v Speaker 6>just to try to make somebody else feel fatter.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a good life. I agree with you, all right.

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<v Speaker 3>I wasn't trying to tear you down. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't know, did I don't think you said anything wrong, Steve.

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<v Speaker 1>Those are thoughts that should have happened before you said

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<v Speaker 1>the terrible thing.

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<v Speaker 6>It me either, I'm it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Oh, everybody be honest with everybody. This is a

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<v Speaker 1>good chance to have Steve admit that maybe he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>plan the best first date.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah he didn't, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, And maybe Kelly didn't make the best conversation trying

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<v Speaker 1>to invent an entire family of eight twenty minutes into the.

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<v Speaker 5>Conversation that Kelly owned that, well, I'm sorry that I

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<v Speaker 5>was so bored. I had to use my freaking imagination.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that was an apology.

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<v Speaker 3>You could have imagined the kids in like a sweatshop

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<v Speaker 3>or something. Don't It's like I wouldn't have been a

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<v Speaker 3>red flag Brooks.

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<v Speaker 1>Trying to get her business planned. So, Steve, if you're

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<v Speaker 1>hearing what I'm here, and then you probably see the

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<v Speaker 1>same thing as me, which is potential for true love.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why we would be delighted to send you

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<v Speaker 1>out on another date that we would pay for. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, the same day, messy sandwiches and all

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<v Speaker 1>put it on our tap. Okay, adoption fees, brook is

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<v Speaker 1>going to cover that. Yeah, sure, what do you say?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 6>No, no, I'm not going out with her yet. I

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<v Speaker 6>don't know what she's talking about. You went on sixteen

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<v Speaker 6>failed dates like what like this? This woman is blew

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<v Speaker 6>after me only one though it's about to be two.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, dear humor some day.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, no, it's okay, Brooke. You know you're absolutely right.

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<v Speaker 5>This guy knows nothing about planning and you should absolutely

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<v Speaker 5>own this.

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<v Speaker 1>God, if you're going to hope for all women, Brooks, congratulations.

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<v Speaker 3>Not freaking Jeffrey in the morning Black Call.

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<v Speaker 1>Was a great example of the power that Brooks words

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<v Speaker 1>have with ours.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what what went so wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>I really don't.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how I went from trying to hype

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<v Speaker 3>somebody up like I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>You weren't typing anybody up though you were pushing the

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<v Speaker 1>guy down to hype because he played out. At the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the first part. Brooke could have said, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys did like a sweet little date in a

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<v Speaker 1>park out in nature. He got you a meal. You

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<v Speaker 1>guys spent time talking and getting to know each other.

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<v Speaker 2>She was feeling self conscious because she's like, this is

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<v Speaker 2>a really hot guy and he's probably got tons of girls.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm like, mad, the guy doesn't even bring a

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<v Speaker 3>frisbee to a date. He doesn't know anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you call the guy boring because he didn't book

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<v Speaker 1>a midnight laser light show with free drugs or whatever

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<v Speaker 1>types of dates that you're into. And look what happened.

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<v Speaker 7>Immediately hopped on the Brooks opinion blew up into a

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<v Speaker 7>tirade against every man who's ever let her down. Ever,

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<v Speaker 7>it's a good reminder that we, and when I say we,

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<v Speaker 7>I mean you again, Brooke, we need to stay open minded.

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<v Speaker 7>If it's not your ideal cup of tea first date

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<v Speaker 7>idea doesn't mean other people can.

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<v Speaker 4>And I just was trying to make her feel better, Jeff,

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<v Speaker 4>how many times we have to tell.

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<v Speaker 1>You that it's not worth it let other people feel sad?

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes I got to.

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<v Speaker 4>A fast food burger place with a Bogo coupon on

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<v Speaker 4>a first date and.

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<v Speaker 3>Still gone out with the guy again.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care.

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<v Speaker 7>Everybody says low as Brooks are and your dating life

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<v Speaker 7>couldn't possibly be bad.

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<v Speaker 1>We're just saying we can try and help you with

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<v Speaker 1>your date life. Email the show if you ever need help.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll call that person wasn't

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<v Speaker 5>Calling you back, Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.