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Speaker 2: Ahead, Thank you so much, dear blog.

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Speaker 3: Something that's been weighing heavy on my heart and like

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Speaker 3: my mind lately is that children these days, they don't

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Speaker 3: experience a lot of things that we did growing up.

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Speaker 3: We know that already and that's not new, it's not

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Speaker 3: lost on me. But one thing that I don't like,

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Speaker 3: I have an issue with is not knowing how to

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Speaker 3: write cursive.

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Speaker 1: That's on your heart this morning, it's really heavy, Like

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Speaker 1: give your kid the gift of cursive?

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Speaker 2: Well, I like, please like do like because here's the thing.

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Speaker 3: My mom actually made a comment or maybe somebody else

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Speaker 3: did you recently that because she works in a school

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Speaker 3: and a lot of times the kids would have to

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Speaker 3: come in and sign paperwork and this is sad, but

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Speaker 3: they don't know how to sign their name.

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Speaker 2: And that got me thinking, well, you don't.

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Speaker 3: Know how to write, but then you don't know how

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Speaker 3: to write cursive, because when you sign a signature, isn't

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Speaker 3: it typically cursive?

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Speaker 2: Is that how you guys were taught.

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Speaker 1: If you have a print signature, then you are a

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Speaker 1: serial killer, or you're a child I don't know mature

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Speaker 1: is print? Or you're my niece Polly who's four exactly, Yes.

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Speaker 3: Why are like twelve, thirteen, sixteen year olds not signing

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Speaker 3: their name? Like to me, I thought that was just

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Speaker 3: something that you grow up kind of learning, and that

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Speaker 3: really shook.

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Speaker 1: Me to my They don't teach cursive it, I don't

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Speaker 1: think they. Okay, they for a while.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm looking it up. It says twenty ten.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if it's banned, but like it got

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Speaker 3: it stopped because of common Core, which I don't know

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Speaker 3: what that is.

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Speaker 1: So don't even like math, I think, right, So what

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Speaker 1: is math? I think, but it might be it might

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Speaker 1: be for the reaching and I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's common core something and.

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Speaker 3: Me too, and they're not teaching kids cursive, which bothers

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Speaker 3: me because like I have a child who's almost two,

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Speaker 3: and I'm like starting to like look at schools.

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Speaker 2: I know, I'm a little I'm crazy whatever, but I

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Speaker 2: want her.

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Speaker 3: To go to a school where, honestly a caveman's school

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Speaker 3: this point, like I want her to use her hands

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Speaker 3: and figure things out. I don't want iPads, and I

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Speaker 3: truly like parents don't have me, don't don't don't fight me.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to give my kid an iPad unless

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Speaker 3: like we absolutely have to. You know, I'm talking about

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Speaker 3: like the long plane rides, all of that car rides,

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Speaker 3: like long car rides. I'll do that, but I'm not

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Speaker 3: just gonna give it to her like on a Tuesday

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Speaker 3: afternoon when she's two years old, just because like.

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Speaker 1: I don't get school looking at Harvard online, Well we've.

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Speaker 2: Gone to Harvard.

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Speaker 3: You guys want my kids a genius because yeah, my

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Speaker 3: kid is like really smart for almost two. Like I'm sorry,

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Speaker 3: I'm a big flex on you. It's like if my

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Speaker 4: Remember during the draft recently, I think that there was

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Speaker 4: a young kid who didn't know how to sign his

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Speaker 4: like NFL contract, like you know where literally just says,

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Speaker 4: I sign your name here. And I think he was

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Speaker 4: had to ask for help because he's a never signed.

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Speaker 1: A contract before. But b they don't like know what

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Speaker 2: It is crazy.

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Speaker 3: I feel like basic life skills, like I don't know

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Speaker 3: how to boil an eggtels like twenty five years old.

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Speaker 1: I admit that right then, a basic lis.

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Speaker 2: I think I should be the boiling.

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Speaker 1: Egg, like I really learned that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, now, I'm sure all the technology we cauld boil eggs.

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Speaker 2: Laid it probably does.

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Speaker 3: But like my whole point is like I just want

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Speaker 3: she's twenty years old going to.

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Speaker 1: Harvard, Like I want her to be able to sign

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Speaker 1: her name. Well, people over here, you know, we learned.

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Speaker 1: I think I brought this up before and you guys

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Speaker 1: didn't know what I was talking about. But I'm not

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Speaker 1: that much older than you guys. But we had print.

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Speaker 1: Of course, we learned how to write in print, and

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Speaker 1: then we had Danelion, which was which was one step between.

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Speaker 1: I looked up with there one night and in New Orleans.

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Speaker 1: She was incredible. No, I worked with her at at Lebert. No. No,

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Speaker 1: it was a mixed but it was like the step

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Speaker 1: had like the little endings on it. And then you

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Speaker 1: went from Danelion to cursive because you like, basically you

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Speaker 1: learn how to write each cursive word in cursive without

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Speaker 1: connecting them. That was Danelion, and then and then you

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Speaker 1: stopped poleasing cursive, I started writing in print, and I

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Speaker 1: me a very long time to write something. I bet.

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Speaker 1: I wish that I had sort of paid more to

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Speaker 1: I don't know, kept up captured my cursive because like,

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Speaker 1: it's so much faster to write in cursive than this

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Speaker 1: then print, and I write in print, and so I

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Speaker 1: wish I didn't. But common Core are the learning standards,

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Speaker 1: not just now I remember them. However, whatever that is

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Speaker 1: no cursive Montssori school, someone said could send them there.

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Speaker 1: Some Catholic schools still teach it, I guess. I'm sure

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Speaker 1: they teach a lot of things. Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. You're right though they don't. I don't

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Speaker 1: because where they assume that people just don't have to

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: I know we live in a very digital world, but

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Speaker 3: I think again, like, boil an egg, write in cursive

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Speaker 3: two things that we just got to teach our kids.

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Speaker 2: And I'm gonna start now.

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Speaker 3: Gigi's gonna learn how to write her autographs.

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Speaker 2: And make my eggs, make mommy her eggs age too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I get it. I get Mommy a beer.

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Speaker 1: And that you're more upset about the egg thing.

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Speaker 5: I am, because I'm like worry, like why I don't

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Speaker 5: know how to boil the egg specifically.

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Speaker 1: But like how long are you supposed to boil it?

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Speaker 1: Like I didn't know, I had to look at but

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Speaker 1: like you could probably boil it too much. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm sure you can't. Honestly, if you gave me a

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Speaker 1: I could probably figure it out, but it would take

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Speaker 1: it like a little trial and error, and who.

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Speaker 2: Knew about the ice path after?

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Speaker 1: And then to get the shells off easier? This is

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Speaker 1: not people are just bring with this, Kiki, come with

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Speaker 1: it with the original program, you know, like.

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Speaker 5: Jame, it's brown on the phone right now.

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Speaker 1: I got a little like a little machine for it now.

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Speaker 1: And what do I need that for?

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Speaker 2: You need to know, bro, what if the machine is broken?

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Speaker 1: Then I guess it's I don't. I didn't realize deviled

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Speaker 1: eggs were such a staple of survival. Well, I don't

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Speaker 1: have to mail. I gotta make that too. Yeah, this

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Speaker 1: is the fread show. Dame is taking over Las Vegas

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Speaker 1: this January for his seven night Presidents Adobe Live at

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Speaker 1: the January twenty fifth show to night Hotel State Park

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Speaker 1: MGM January twenty fourth through the twenty sixth and round

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Speaker 1: thanks to Live Nation, Honor a fresh show. It's Kiki's

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Speaker 1: Court Rise the Honorable Ow Kiklik is here, you're or

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Speaker 1: take it away? Please?

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Speaker 5: All right, let's get into the courtroom. The gavel has

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Speaker 5: been hit, it says Kiki. Am I wrong for ruining

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Speaker 5: Christmas because I won't travel with a newborn. I gave

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Speaker 5: birth six weeks ago after a rough delivery. I'm still

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Speaker 5: mother in law insists that everyone travels six hours to

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Speaker 1: However, this year I.

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Speaker 5: Said no because I'm dragging a new I don't want

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Speaker 5: Christmas morning instead.

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Speaker 1: Well, my mother in law lost it.

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Speaker 5: She said I'm being lazy and dramatic and accused me

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Speaker 5: sent a family group text saying Christmas was basically canceled

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Speaker 5: because some people refuse to make sacrifices. Now half of

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Speaker 5: to deal with it for one day, and my mother

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Speaker 5: in law says I stole her Christmas and her grandkids.

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Speaker 1: Am I wrong? I mean I have a lot of

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Speaker 1: thoughts with Kiki, true.

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Speaker 5: And you know, as the childless aunt, I want to

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Speaker 5: give grace to the mother in law who probably looks

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Speaker 5: forward to making memories with her grandkids every year, Like

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Speaker 5: every holiday, I look forward to being around my nephews.

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Speaker 5: I look forward to it. I'm so excited I want

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Speaker 5: to give I want to give grace to the mother

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Speaker 5: in law, right. But after that, what you have to

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Speaker 5: learn as an adult is that people are allowed to

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Speaker 5: set boundaries and make decisions for their families, and postpartum

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Speaker 5: is real. And if she doesn't feel like attending this year,

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Speaker 5: give her this year. Hopefully she doesn't make this a

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Speaker 5: new tradition where you never see your grandkids because you

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Speaker 5: threw a fit. So it's just like, I understand the

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Speaker 5: frustration of the grandparents, and you know, traditions are being

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Speaker 5: you know broken in their opinion, But this lady is

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Speaker 5: going through postpartum. So if she doesn't want to attend

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Speaker 5: this year, give her that. That's my opinion.

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Speaker 1: I mean, in the mom in the room, I assume

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Speaker 1: you have no dispute there.

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Speaker 3: I can't think of one. And if she if she

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Speaker 3: never wants to go back to see her mother in law.

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Speaker 3: I also wouldn't be mad at that either, like truly, no,

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Speaker 3: not in a bad way, but like she's got three kids,

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Speaker 3: she got to drag around Like I'm barely getting around

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Speaker 3: with one kid right in my little Nissan.

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Speaker 2: Like it's a lot of work to get around town

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Speaker 2: with the kid. So now pack up three kids, go

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Speaker 2: across state lines. No, and like, yes, she's six weeks postpartum,

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Speaker 2: she's in a diaper. Like it's a lot. I'm serious,

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Speaker 2: it's a lot going on in her world.

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Speaker 5: But I feel like you're so used to your family tradition,

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Speaker 1: So we're breaking a multi generational tradition of being together

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Speaker 6: time for them. They should be waking up on Christmas

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Speaker 6: they need to be prioritized. So Grandma needs to go

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree with at minimum. At minimum, what she's

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Speaker 5: And that's so real to say when you say you

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Speaker 1: What did you say, the extended family? Send family? Yeah, hard,

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Speaker 6: You know true, and my parents too. My my family

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Speaker 6: it's not about anybody else. Yeah, Eason with Christmas and

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Speaker 1: Traditions need to change. I think the harder you push,

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Speaker 1: and that can be hard to Dominique, Thank you so

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Speaker 6: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: You guys too, Glad you called. Hey Kimmy, good morning.

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Speaker 7: Do it next year.

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Speaker 1: Kimmy. Hey, Kimmy, Kimmy, I tell Kimmy, Kimmy, I just

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Speaker 1: I just picked up the phone. I don't know what

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Speaker 7: Oh I'm sorry. Okay, Well, what I'm saying is that

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Speaker 7: am going to tell my mother in law. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 7: but we're doing this next year. You all go ahead,

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Speaker 7: everybody else, go ahead, do it.

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Speaker 1: I'm not offended.

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Speaker 7: Please by all means, go ahead. I'll wait till next year,

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Speaker 7: and I'll see you all next year.

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Speaker 1: Let's face time. Yeah, yes, Kimmy, thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: I'm really glad you called. No, that's what it is.

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Speaker 1: how are you doing? Great? Kiki's court? What say you?

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Speaker 8: I when I I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 9: When I heard this, this immediately really frustrated me because

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Speaker 8: He was born at twenty five weeks.

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Speaker 9: So the fact that there's this judgment for you know,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, always, Yeah, Well, Kim, thank you, have a good day,

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Speaker 1: good holiday as well, you too.

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Speaker 1: Hi Jaggie. What's your take? You're the jury, So no,

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Speaker 10: She's not wrong at all whatsoever. Especially the nurse even

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Speaker 1: Sure, sure, yeah, yeah, thank you guys im here yeah,

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Speaker 1: we give too much weight to the actual date of

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Speaker 1: the holiday. Why does it have to be twelve twenty five,

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Speaker 1: get together in January. The kids don't care. My family

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Speaker 1: celebrated Christmas as early as the first week of December.

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Speaker 1: If that's when extended family could get together, I guess,

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Speaker 1: I guess there's it's kind of a mental thing. Everyone

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Speaker 1: else is together on this day, doing this thing, right,

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Speaker 1: posting their pictures on Instagra exactly. So, but I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know, I like, yesterday I was at the airport.

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Speaker 1: I see the airline pilots get on this thing. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: you know a lot of these guys are gonna have

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Speaker 1: to work on Christmas, Christmas Eve. I'm sure that they

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Speaker 1: have kids. And it's like, well, we'll just do it

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Speaker 1: when I get back, or we'll do it the day

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Speaker 1: before or for your friends, right right, Because you're as

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Speaker 1: responder exactly, He's not a hobby's a firefighter. I'm on

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Speaker 1: the radio. You're my first so clear, this isn't off

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Speaker 1: on Christmas.

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Speaker 5: The Paulina so the first person I call when I

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Speaker 5: need something.

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Speaker 1: So, you know, fire in the house, Paulina. You know

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Speaker 1: I'm choking on something. Paulina. Hey Teresa, Hey, Hi Teresa,

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Speaker 1: So Kicki's court. Basically, we have a situation where a

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Speaker 1: mother in law wants her daughter in law and her

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Speaker 1: grandkids at Christmas, but she just gave birth six weeks

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Speaker 1: ago and she's saying no, and she's getting guilted for that.

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Speaker 11: I think she has ever right to say no. I

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Speaker 11: gave birth my daughter, who's going to be eighteen December

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Speaker 11: twenty first had to get released from the hospital early

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Speaker 11: because both sides of my family still expected me to host,

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Speaker 11: and I did. Wow, this mom should be empowered and

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Speaker 11: stay home.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Wow, I think my mom would tell you the

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Speaker 1: same thing. She hosted. Thanks. I mean, I think she

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Speaker 1: had me the next day, but she didn't know I was.

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Speaker 1: I was early. But yeah, I think that the expectation

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Speaker 1: was or maybe it was maybe it was it. I

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Speaker 1: don't remember one of the case. Maybe people have expectations

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Speaker 1: and oh wow crazy, that is nuts. And now it's

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Speaker 1: weird that you still won't let them come eighteen years later,

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Speaker 1: but that's that's a whole different thing. You definitely won't

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Speaker 1: let them come. So there it is.

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Speaker 11: My mother love hosts now and she's amazing.

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Speaker 1: There you go, Theresa, Thank you, have a good day,

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Speaker 1: Mary Christmas. I don't think there's I'm looking at all

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Speaker 1: these texts. There's not one counter take here. There's not

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Speaker 1: one person going.

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Speaker 5: Well, I was looking for a boomer that would like

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Speaker 5: stand on business again.

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Speaker 1: Where's my mom? She's in a sleep still. She'll text

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Speaker 1: in and she'll think it's me, but it's to everybody.

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Speaker 5: Yeah I did it, but maybe I'm a met.

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Speaker 1: I promise you, whenever the moment this is heard in Arizona,

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Speaker 1: which is gonna be somewhere three or four hours from now,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to get a call. But you know I'm awesome.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna everybody, thanks kidding you streaming and your sister.

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Speaker 2: I hear a come fress mom again.

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Speaker 1: She may have even hurt in her sleep. She gonna

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Speaker 1: wake up now, so