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Speaker 1: a lot of these second data updates, we're always acting
Speaker 1: like we're the superheroes of dating, helping daters in distress,
Speaker 1: just swooping in trying to save the day. I mean
Speaker 1: kind of horror like that. You know what, that's negative thinking.
Speaker 1: Being a superhero is negative, Thicket, It's so self involved.
Speaker 1: We need to change our attitude to a more positive outlook. Okay,
Speaker 1: instead of just saving other people's lives, doing the bare minimum,
Speaker 1: we need to actually make them better and improve their
Speaker 1: love lives. You know what I'm saying. Haven't been trying
Speaker 1: to do that? No? I think by the end of
Speaker 1: this phone call, I want our listener Ivan to not
Speaker 1: only get a second date, huh, but I want to
Speaker 1: have a wedding day lockdown and names chosen for their
Speaker 1: future babies. Are you guys with me? No, you're crazy.
Speaker 1: You're the crazy dater now. Oh yeah, love is crazy?
Speaker 1: Is that what you're saying, You're I'm trying to think
Speaker 1: positive and do more than the bare minimum for these
Speaker 1: people like Ivan. I've got a lot of baby name
Speaker 1: suggestions for your future children. But before we get to that,
Speaker 1: tell us about the name of the woman that you
Speaker 1: would like us to call today and have kids with.
Speaker 1: H Yeah, that's a whole lot to comprehend there. Her
Speaker 1: name is Bridget. That's a gorgeous name that sounds like
Speaker 1: the name someone that it's your soul mate. I don't
Speaker 1: know what Jeffrey's smoking today or whatever, but you got
Speaker 1: to hit this love pipe. I'm telling you. Let's go
Speaker 1: back to Bridget. Sorry, tell us more about Bridget. How
Speaker 1: did you meet? We met on a dating app. Okay,
Speaker 1: sounds like Mary. So what what do you guys do
Speaker 1: on your date? So we messaged a little bit on
Speaker 1: the app, went out for dinner, got some ramen. Well,
Speaker 1: boy is a good choice, That's what I'm saying. It's
Speaker 1: a little bit of a messy first date, but maybe
Speaker 1: Messi's good character. Remember he's on that positive trade right now.
Speaker 1: Messi Boy, what was dinner? Like I thought dinner was great,
Speaker 1: and then we actually went out for a walk afterwards.
Speaker 1: That's always a walk is good, but a stroll is better.
Speaker 1: It's a romantic stroll. Just is what you find in
Speaker 1: the ram co agree the same thing. It's the same.
Speaker 1: Um I haven't tell us of like a highlight, you know, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you went to dinner and you went on a walk,
Speaker 1: but like, where was the connection at. I took her
Speaker 1: to this old book store and we kind of talked
Speaker 1: about our favorite books that we loved while we were
Speaker 1: growing up, and we left little post it notes in
Speaker 1: the parts of the books that we particularly liked, and
Speaker 1: we wrote down why we liked him and what drew
Speaker 1: us to the books, so that when people are going
Speaker 1: to come in and look at these books, they're going
Speaker 1: to see these little messages from previous readers of the book.
Speaker 1: That's really cute. So, I mean, that's something I would
Speaker 1: ever do. But Alexis doesn't like to read a lot.
Speaker 1: But I think that's awesome. So I mean, is that
Speaker 1: something you planned ahead, like you brought the post notes
Speaker 1: with you? Oh yeah, yeah, that was a big one
Speaker 1: that I came up with right before the date. I
Speaker 1: really liked it. What did Bridget think about the post
Speaker 1: it note idea? I mean, she seemed really into it.
Speaker 1: We stayed at this bookshop for like an hour doing this.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's a lot of going through books. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and the employee now I have to take all these posts.
Speaker 1: I don't know how did the rest of the date go.
Speaker 1: I mean, that was just the end of it there.
Speaker 1: I thought it ended well. I was like, hey, we
Speaker 1: should do this again sometime. She agreed to it, and
Speaker 1: then we said our goodbye, and I just didn't hear
Speaker 1: back from her. And I've been texting her, and I
Speaker 1: even texted her right before I, you know, reached out
Speaker 1: to you guys. I asked her why she hadn't been
Speaker 1: getting back to me, and did she respond? She texted
Speaker 1: back one word reply, Oh oh no, what was it?
Speaker 1: It was just seatbelts? Seat belts? That did that mean?
Speaker 1: Did that mean anything to you? Your guess is as
Speaker 1: good as mine. I have no idea what that meant.
Speaker 1: Did you wear seat belts in the car when you
Speaker 1: drove her home? Maybe you didn't wear one and she
Speaker 1: didn't feel safe that you weren't. To be honest, I
Speaker 1: don't even remember if I was wearing one. I thought
Speaker 1: I was maybe I don't really keep track of how
Speaker 1: many times I'm wearing a seatbelt while driving. That shouldn't
Speaker 1: be a deal breaker. Was one of the books that
Speaker 1: you read about seat belts how to guide? No, I
Speaker 1: don't remember if any of the books were about seat belts.
Speaker 1: And that's what I said to her. I was like, seatbelt,
Speaker 1: what does that mean? And no response. Nothing O seat
Speaker 1: belt mystery on our hand, and you've come up with
Speaker 1: no theories. And again that's why I'm reaching out to you, guys.
Speaker 1: This is kind of out of character for me to just,
Speaker 1: you know, put myself out there like that. Well, we're
Speaker 1: gonna play a song, we'll come back. We'll call Bridget
Speaker 1: for you, and we'll give her the code word seat
Speaker 1: belt and we'll see what she says when we do
Speaker 1: your second date update right after this. Okay, thanks a lot,
Speaker 1: I appreciate it. Got hold on it. Ivan, I've been
Speaker 1: thinking about future baby names for when this whole second
Speaker 1: date thing works out down. No, I'm looking ahead. This
Speaker 1: is gonna work. And Ivan, what do you think about
Speaker 1: our buckle? Like? Buckle like? Okay, that's cute, It's okay. Oh, really, thanks, Brooklyn. Okay,
Speaker 1: what about what about click? Be again like a robot? No,
Speaker 1: it's like click like a seatbelt. Yeah, two pieces of them.
Speaker 1: It's cute. Yeah, it's the one thing that ties the
Speaker 1: two of them together is the word seat belt. Yes,
Speaker 1: but again, I kind of just want that second date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, you know, maybe it doesn't sound amazing
Speaker 1: right now, but when I'm officiating your wedding on June
Speaker 1: twenty third next year, I just want you to think
Speaker 1: of those names. He is not going to want us
Speaker 1: to make this call because you're being psycho, because I
Speaker 1: believe in love too hard exactly, because well, you're just
Speaker 1: tuning in for the second date update. Ivan took a
Speaker 1: woman named Bridget out to dinner. Afterwards, they took a
Speaker 1: stroll visited a bookstore where they spent an hour leaving
Speaker 1: sticky notes in old books like a romantic first date
Speaker 1: book report, very passionate stuff. It's like the cliff Notes
Speaker 1: of dating. Afterwards, Bridget wasn't getting back to him, so
Speaker 1: Ivan just texted her, why are you avoiding me? And
Speaker 1: she actually was fonded to that, with one thing, saying
Speaker 1: seat belt. He's not really sure what that means, but
Speaker 1: we're gonna try and find out when we call her
Speaker 1: in the second date up that you ready to do this, Ivan,
Speaker 1: Let's do it. God, I hope we can figure this
Speaker 1: out for you, because it does sound like a really
Speaker 1: romantic date. Yeah. Yeah it was. It was a great date.
Speaker 1: I really liked her. But beyond all that, I'm kind
Speaker 1: of just thrown off by this whole seat belt thing.
Speaker 1: I almost want to find out what the whole seat
Speaker 1: belt thing was, more so than the date. Hopefully we
Speaker 1: could accomplish both. Yeah, a new dating term that we
Speaker 1: don't know yet, and it's a good like breadcrumbing or ghost. Yeah. Okay,
Speaker 1: what googled this? Let's find out. I'm going to dial
Speaker 1: the number right now. Ready, let's do it. Okay, here
Speaker 1: we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Bridget please? Yeah?
Speaker 1: This is Bridget. Who's hi? Bridget? My name is Jeffrey
Speaker 1: from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: How are you doing fine? How? I'm sorry? How did
Speaker 1: you get my number? Well, we actually got your number
Speaker 1: from somebody that you went on a date with recently,
Speaker 1: because we're doing something called a second date. Update. Wait,
Speaker 1: somebody I went on a date with gave you my number.
Speaker 1: That's kind of creepy. Yeah, okay, well we get to
Speaker 1: that quickly. I mean, true, he did it for a
Speaker 1: good reason, because he really enjoyed his time with you,
Speaker 1: and now he's wondering why you're not getting back to him.
Speaker 1: His name's Ivan. Wow, Okay, okay, he sounds like a
Speaker 1: really nice guy. Sure, yeah, I mean and he told
Speaker 1: us a little bit about the things that you did together.
Speaker 1: He mentioned that you guys went and got ramen, you
Speaker 1: went to a bookstore, took a stroll, and then after
Speaker 1: the date he did say that you were avoiding him
Speaker 1: a little bit, and he asked you why, and you
Speaker 1: texted him one word seat belt. Actually that's two words.
Speaker 1: But yeah, we thought that might be the case. But
Speaker 1: that what Ivan said to us. Maybe that's a whole
Speaker 1: other debate too. Maybe in Europe it's different, a little different.
Speaker 1: Let's forget the second date update and let's break down
Speaker 1: the word seat belt for the next ten minutes. Bridget.
Speaker 1: The thing is is he has no idea what you're
Speaker 1: talking about, but it is a total mystery to him. Wow,
Speaker 1: you know what, it's actually kind of funny that he
Speaker 1: still doesn't get it. Okay, it should I mean you're
Speaker 1: saying it should be that obvious. Yeah, like it should
Speaker 1: be painfully obvious. Oh well it hasn't been. Maybe if
Speaker 1: you just told us, we could pass along the information
Speaker 1: to ivan. Yeah, that's fine. So he picked me up
Speaker 1: and we're driving, and you know how like if you
Speaker 1: don't buckle your seat belt, like that really annoying alarm
Speaker 1: just keeps going off, thing like buckle up, buckle up.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, mine's mine, just a dinging noise. But
Speaker 1: I don't know if you're called talks cars being I
Speaker 1: know what it's saying to you. Buckle up, buckle up,
Speaker 1: buckle up, even though it's ding Yeah, you want the
Speaker 1: answer or not? Yeah, sorry, rigid apologize. I don't know
Speaker 1: if he was just like really nervous on the first
Speaker 1: date or what, but he was completely oblivious to the
Speaker 1: fact that it kept going off, and like I tried
Speaker 1: to bring it up. I didn't want I don't know,
Speaker 1: it's the first date. It's weird, but I trying to
Speaker 1: be like, you know, hey, do you hear that sound?
Speaker 1: And he like, oh yeah, there's police sirens, Like how
Speaker 1: much more? And like this, you know, it's a cute idea,
Speaker 1: like we put notes in the books, but we're finding
Speaker 1: these children's books and like writing notes for him. Um,
Speaker 1: it's what he had to do, Like he brought post
Speaker 1: it and anyways, he had to ask me how to
Speaker 1: spell words to write from the note. Okay, no one
Speaker 1: judge bad spellers. Get out of here. What's the word? Yeah?
Speaker 1: They were easy words, like not more than like six letters. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but like if you're talking received, I couldn't spell it
Speaker 1: to save my life. Okay, I before E except after sea. Yeah,
Speaker 1: exactly is a thing. Yeah, it is, but it's not
Speaker 1: always true. English is very tricky. But if you're going
Speaker 1: to a bookstore, shouldn't you be good at words? No? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I read constantly. I'm a terrible speller. Well, okay, I
Speaker 1: guess everybody is allowed to have their own personal dating
Speaker 1: deal breakers. I'm looking for a guy who's an intellectual,
Speaker 1: who's smart, who can keep up with me, And I
Speaker 1: just felt like he was a little like sweet guy
Speaker 1: but a space cadet. I think you didn't give him
Speaker 1: enough a chance. I'm sticking up for the bad speller
Speaker 1: and the partially deaf person. Yeah, I don't know how
Speaker 1: else could you not hear the dinging. I mean it
Speaker 1: is a good point. You can go on a date
Speaker 1: with him. No, I don't want to. I want you
Speaker 1: to go on a date with him because I think
Speaker 1: he really likes you and he thinks that you guys
Speaker 1: had a connection. Let's see if that's still true after
Speaker 1: all that was said, because I need to tell you, Bridget,
Speaker 1: Ivan's been on the other line listening and he heard
Speaker 1: everything that you just said. Are you kidding? If he's
Speaker 1: paying attention, I don't know, Ivan, you're still there? Wait nope, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm here. I'm kind I'm kind of shocked that that
Speaker 1: sounds really petty everything I just heard. Okay, but before
Speaker 1: you how do you spell petty? You spell it, Bridget,
Speaker 1: That's how you spell it. I just didn't have this
Speaker 1: kind of a time, and I'm sorry that we didn't
Speaker 1: have the same experience. Well then why didn't you say that?
Speaker 1: Why just be all cryptic with just the seat belt? Which,
Speaker 1: by the way, are you my driving instructor? Like? Are
Speaker 1: you setting everybody you date by their driving skills? You know,
Speaker 1: if you're not, if you're not smart enough to use
Speaker 1: protection in the car. It just makes me nervous about everything. Else. Oh,
Speaker 1: it's a bold statement about life. Wow. Okay, if you're
Speaker 1: that concerned about protection, why didn't you tell me to
Speaker 1: put on my seatbelt? You know, I didn't want to
Speaker 1: be rude. You're an adult, and I thought you can
Speaker 1: make your own decisions, so I tried to hint at
Speaker 1: it and tell you, and you were completely Oblivio. Okay,
Speaker 1: So what I forgot to put my z bel? I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: I guess, But Jesus, that just sounds a little much
Speaker 1: to me. I mean, okay, I mean I think you guys, obviously,
Speaker 1: Ivan you have kind of hurt feelings right now. And
Speaker 1: Bridget you didn't know it was on the phone, So
Speaker 1: it's not your fault for just being honest, like a
Speaker 1: little brutally honest. Yeah, but like, didn't you? I mean
Speaker 1: it sounded like you guys connected in some ways, Like
Speaker 1: he put a lot of effort and thought into creating
Speaker 1: a romantic date for you. Yeah, for sure. And I
Speaker 1: think if you will find like a kindergarten teacher or something,
Speaker 1: it's like a sweet girl I think she would love. Now,
Speaker 1: now you're insulting kindergarten teachers. I'm saying somebody who's sweet
Speaker 1: and patient and can deal with you. Know, well, I
Speaker 1: don't know anybody who can pass your standards them, because
Speaker 1: my gosh, it sounds like you're looking for I don't
Speaker 1: know a robot hard and where the seat belt and
Speaker 1: is asking for a lot there, Bridget. I think you're
Speaker 1: just not my person. Dan. What huh? Dang? Okay? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you hear how annoying it is? What are you dinging? Dan? Dan? Dan?
Speaker 1: Is how you're getting back here? I think it's a
Speaker 1: diss or, maybe ye Dan, okay, Or maybe maybe it's
Speaker 1: the studio telling me that this is the time for
Speaker 1: me to ask, would you guys like to would you
Speaker 1: look guys like to go out on another date? Bridget?
Speaker 1: We'll pay for it. No, you can save their money. Dan.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm standing up for you. Stop dinging.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like he's kind of funny, though.
Speaker 1: I mean, did you hear what she just said or
Speaker 1: did you miss it? I couldn't hear anything she said.
Speaker 1: All I heard was the digging Wow. Okay, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: yes she said no to a second date. I'm sorry, man,
Speaker 1: too bad. Just want to let you guys know I
Speaker 1: passed my driver's test with a perfect score, so I
Speaker 1: don't know what she's ok. The spelling test, though, is
Speaker 1: a different story. I think moving ninety two point five