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Speaker 1: How worthless was I'm just going to assume your husband.

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Speaker 2: But he was fine.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I have literally I have a crooked ass

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Speaker 3: I was bron I was born with a crooked ass.

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Speaker 4: No, you would not come home. It be me and

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Speaker 3: Well, he was in the room because they, I guess

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Speaker 1: He wasn't there to watch your birth. He was there

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Speaker 2: This is for his This is for your husband or boyfriend,

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Speaker 2: This for my husband?

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, Well, I mean, look, the playoffs are important.

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Speaker 1: I mean, what are they supposed to do? Not play

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Speaker 2: Right, is it? I would imagine, I mean just a

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