1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,720 Speaker 1: Right now it is time to ask the CLO our 2 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This is from Ed in 3 00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:10,320 Speaker 1: Durham's COLO. Ed writes, my eight year old son told 4 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: me that his mom is getting remarried in April. I 5 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: didn't even know she had a man. She told me 6 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 1: that she met this guy online. And it's none of 7 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:21,320 Speaker 1: my business. I want to meet the man that will 8 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:23,680 Speaker 1: be in my son's life. What should I do here? 9 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:25,800 Speaker 2: Brother? That ain't your business. 10 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, really, she's getting married now, it's not his business. 11 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:34,319 Speaker 3: It's not See the eight year old boy told her 12 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:35,479 Speaker 3: my mom getting married. 13 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:38,520 Speaker 2: He's surprised. He ain't even know she had a man. 14 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:41,599 Speaker 3: She met him online and it ain't his business and 15 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 3: it's not his business. 16 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:46,560 Speaker 1: But I don't think he's trying to get into her relationship. 17 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 1: He just wants to know, Like he said, who what 18 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 1: man is going to be around his eight year old son? 19 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 1: So that's that. 20 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 2: Meet him or not. You're not going to stop the wedding, 21 00:00:57,760 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 2: you see what I'm saying. 22 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's not trying to stop the wedding though. 23 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 3: But no, surely he is upset is that she got 24 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 3: somebody because he didn't know? Uh huh I didn't even 25 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:11,400 Speaker 3: know she had a man. Now, I want to meet 26 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 3: the man that's gonna be round my No, you want 27 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 3: to know who he is, where he come from. Let's 28 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 3: just keep it real. You're not going to stop the marriage. 29 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:22,480 Speaker 3: So you meet the dude after the wedding over at 30 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 3: the house one day. When you go pick him up, 31 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 3: he'll come to here. Bring him to the door. You 32 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 3: can meet him there, because it don't matter if you 33 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 3: meet him before or after. You're not gonna stop this wedding. Okay, 34 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 3: I'm just telling you real facts. 35 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 1: So what if he meets him before and he doesn't 36 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 1: like him though, she. 37 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 3: Gonna marry the man she want anyway, and she got 38 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 3: every right to do that. 39 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 1: Okay, all right? From a man, all right? This one's 40 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 1: from Denise in Camden. Denise writes, I go to a 41 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 1: boxing class and I love it. I was at a 42 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 1: reception with my husband and talking to his coworkers about 43 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 1: my love for Bob. My husband told me that my 44 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 1: hobby is not lady like, so I shouldn't brag about it. 45 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 1: What's his problem? Is this jealousy? 46 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:08,800 Speaker 2: I don't know. 47 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 3: I don't know your husband, but why can't she talk well? 48 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 3: It just depends on what she's saying. When she had 49 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:16,920 Speaker 3: she is she was at outing with her husbands, right. 50 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:20,079 Speaker 1: And for workers. Yeah, what is question? 51 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's probably what it was. 52 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:24,680 Speaker 3: What you know, I be banging with the best of them, 53 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 3: you know, I beat I beat full four people. 54 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:32,639 Speaker 1: That's what she's saying. So he's telling her that, lady, like. 55 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 3: You know, just looking at you, I could probably I 56 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 3: could probably put these hands on you. 57 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 1: I can take you confident. 58 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:43,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, matter of fact, I'm I'm looking at 59 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 3: I'm trying to see what Clarissa Shields doing because I 60 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 3: think I'm going for the title. 61 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: Oh wow. 62 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 2: You know you know her husband wants you to tone 63 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 2: all this down. 64 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 1: Yeah it up a little bit. 65 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:56,919 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, because she's out here talking about what you 66 00:02:57,040 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 3: looking at? 67 00:02:57,520 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 2: You want you who owe some of this. 68 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 3: Me? 69 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 1: I takes boxing, all right? 70 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:07,679 Speaker 2: All right? 71 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 1: He may have a point there, all right. Moving on 72 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 1: colo to Miranda and Staten Island. Miranda Rights, I bought 73 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:17,920 Speaker 1: a car from a man I've known for years. I 74 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 1: didn't know it was the car he'd bought for his girlfriend. 75 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:24,400 Speaker 1: He sold it when they broke up. She stepped to 76 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 1: me and tried to pull me out of his out 77 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 1: of the car. This is a ghetto mess. Should I 78 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 1: sell this car? 79 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 3: Well, unless you want to get pulled out at a 80 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 3: lot of traffic lights. 81 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 1: So, but she just got the car, dang. Well. 82 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 3: You know the part I don't understand is, right, who 83 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 3: does she get the car from? 84 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 1: From the guy that she's known for years? 85 00:03:57,920 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 2: Right? 86 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 1: But he bought it for his girlfriend and then they 87 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 1: broke up and he sold it to her. 88 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 2: You got to sell that car, you know? Yeah, no idea. 89 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 3: How many cousins is looking for you? 90 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 1: So just see it to have a cleaner life. She's 91 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:19,839 Speaker 1: gonna be at the light looking all over herself. 92 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, So her best bet is to sell the car. 93 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:32,840 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, get you another car, all right? 94 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 1: Coelo. Last one, This is from Leila and Scranton. Leila writes, 95 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: my husband and I are feuding over his female friend 96 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:45,280 Speaker 1: that calls him to be the handyman around her home. 97 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:48,919 Speaker 1: I know he's not into her, but it still grates 98 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 1: on my nerves when he goes to help her out. 99 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:54,720 Speaker 1: Why can't he respect my wishes and stop doing it? 100 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 1: What I keep telling you about the freeing, Yeah, I'm 101 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:00,240 Speaker 1: telling you, I can't keep I'm. 102 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 2: Telling y' all that. 103 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 3: Once you are married, all these friendships gotta go away, man, 104 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 3: because they don't interfere. 105 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:11,840 Speaker 2: Now I know he ain't into her, No, you don't 106 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 2: know that. 107 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:19,280 Speaker 1: Yeah he's going over there. Yeah yeah yeah yeah wow. 108 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: But but her question is why doesn't he respect his 109 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 1: wife wishes? 110 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 2: Because you didn't require it. See, you knew they was 111 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 2: friends before you. 112 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:31,600 Speaker 3: Got married, and you tried to play it off because 113 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 3: you ain't want to rock the boat because you just 114 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 3: wanted to get married. 115 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:36,480 Speaker 1: Oh so he should have cut her off before they 116 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:38,839 Speaker 1: even got married, that's what you're saying. 117 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:43,720 Speaker 2: You you fail for the old we just friends, You fail? 118 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:49,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean so yeah, so before they even got married, 119 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:51,600 Speaker 1: he should have let her go because I mean, there 120 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:54,160 Speaker 1: are plenty of handymen around. Why can't she just call 121 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 1: someone out? Girl? How Angie's get you yet? Man, what 122 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 1: you're not gonna do is keep calling my husband and 123 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 1: they're fighting about it right now. 124 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 2: Well you can call her husband all you won't, but 125 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 2: he better not taking. 126 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 1: It over there, right and right? 127 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:15,000 Speaker 2: See that's that's that's his problem, is to going over there. 128 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so then this it's his problem. Then the 129 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 1: husbands before going over there. Yeah, not the wife or 130 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 1: not making him drop her in the beginning. 131 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:30,160 Speaker 2: Well he got to drop us. 132 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 1: Mm hm. He need to let it go if it's 133 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:38,680 Speaker 1: causing problems in your home, right, yeah? 134 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 2: And how would you like it? 135 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 3: Hey, hey, bro, how would you like it if your 136 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:46,719 Speaker 3: wife had a male friend and every time he got 137 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 3: sick she went over to fix. 138 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:49,280 Speaker 2: Him some knee? 139 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 1: What? 140 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 2: Right? 141 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 4: Now? 142 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:56,799 Speaker 1: I better not catch him healthy? 143 00:06:57,000 --> 00:06:57,360 Speaker 4: I know that. 144 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 1: And the girl that's calling, she knows what she's doing. Yeah, 145 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 1: she is wrong to call this woman's husband to come 146 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 1: fix stuff at her house. 147 00:07:08,760 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 2: And so she lets her know. We still cool. 148 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's hard, checkmate, that's what she's doing. 149 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, darnelle got a flu. I think I'm gonna go 150 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:21,360 Speaker 2: over there and making some soup, make donnelle some soup. 151 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 1: I don't know, No, I. 152 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 2: Tell you, I'll tell you what. 153 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 3: I tell you what the lady next time she called, huh, 154 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 3: instead of him going over there, you take some tools 155 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 3: and you go over. 156 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 1: There, wife and go over to the female friend's house. 157 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, what's wrong? I got this ham on? 158 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 1: What good answer? Colo? 159 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 2: I love it? 160 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 1: Like thank you. 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