WEBVTT - Closure Call: Sister Secret

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<v Speaker 1>We all say things we regret when we've put back

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<v Speaker 1>one too many.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey it was, Hey, how you do it?

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<v Speaker 1>Trust me? You do not want to hear the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of that recording with the banana demonstration. But as bad

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<v Speaker 1>as that sounds, it was even worse for one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners because what happened after one drunken night out

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<v Speaker 1>at the bars has led to an entire year of

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<v Speaker 1>her and her sister not speaking a word to each other.

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<v Speaker 1>So now she needs our help to try and bring

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<v Speaker 1>their family back together. You'll find out what happened in

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<v Speaker 1>your closure call right after this. It's Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. And if I've learned anything from watching

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<v Speaker 1>the movie Frozen over and over, it's that sisters always

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<v Speaker 1>get along.

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<v Speaker 3>The sisters always have each other's back, and it's love.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't mean that they always get a lost Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>that's it might be a little annoying sometimes and accidentally

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<v Speaker 1>cast a spell that sends the whole country into a violent,

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<v Speaker 1>eternal winter that threatens to destroy everything, But you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>for the most part, zero drama.

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<v Speaker 3>Seriously, sometimes she can be in a mood and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>just like.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yeah, that's normal. Though Strangely, it's not the

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<v Speaker 1>case for one of our listeners named Amelia, who's reached

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<v Speaker 1>out for a closure call, needing help with a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of her family drama.

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<v Speaker 3>That's happens.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk to her. Name is again, Amelia, Amelia, welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, you're welcome. Do you have more than one

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<v Speaker 3>sister or is it just you and her?

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<v Speaker 4>It's just the two of us.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, what's awesome?

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on with you and your sister? What made

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<v Speaker 1>you reach out to us?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, this is a lot, but I'll give you the

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<v Speaker 4>close notes. So I am traditionally super close with my family, Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>close with my mom, and we all kind of live

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<v Speaker 4>near each other. And like my little sister Carissa was

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<v Speaker 4>like in the same boat.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like you lived on a boat together. That's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of cute.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a tropical version of frozen.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Okay, I know you're close with all of your family.

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<v Speaker 1>That's nice.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, But I mean sisters are how they are. I mean, like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not going to sit here and say that my

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<v Speaker 4>sister and I didn't fight a lot about trivial things.

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<v Speaker 2>But I was just talking about this with Alexus because

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<v Speaker 2>she lives with twin sisters, and like, the thing about

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<v Speaker 2>sister fights is you could like literally feel like your

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<v Speaker 2>blood is boiling and then twenty minutes later it's done

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<v Speaker 2>and over it and you move forward.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, And that's always been the case. I mean, we

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<v Speaker 4>had fights where like you would have thought we would

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<v Speaker 4>kill each other before the fight ended. So it's volatile,

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<v Speaker 4>but like it's not anything out of the ordinary work.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so there were a lot of little fights, but

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like it leads up to one big fight.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so things have gone completely off the rails and

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<v Speaker 4>now I just have no idea what to do.

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<v Speaker 3>So why what happened?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, one night we were on our way out and

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<v Speaker 4>like before we even went to the bar, I noticed

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<v Speaker 4>that she was wearing my mom's jewelry with a necklace

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<v Speaker 4>like a little pendant and this ring that I'm obsessed

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<v Speaker 4>with that's like this pearl ring that's surrounded by a

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<v Speaker 4>little tiny diamonds.

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<v Speaker 2>It's adorable, and you're always jockeying, like, hey, mom, you

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<v Speaker 2>should really give that to me when you kick the bucket.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like I'm the oldest I wanted on these things.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god. At my grandmother's house.

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<v Speaker 2>We just put our names in masking tape on the

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<v Speaker 2>stuff that we wanted.

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<v Speaker 3>All my grandparents were still a live.

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<v Speaker 1>God. Well, at least that gives you a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of perspective, Amelia, your situation could be worse. You could

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<v Speaker 1>be Brooks sisters. So wait, how did she get the ring?

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<v Speaker 3>Though?

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<v Speaker 4>So my mom does have quite a few pieces that

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<v Speaker 4>are heirloom pieces, and she has given Carissa a few,

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<v Speaker 4>and she's given me a few, and so you have them,

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<v Speaker 4>and like, I have one that's really similar. But like

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<v Speaker 4>my issue with it is like we're going out tonight,

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<v Speaker 4>like to the bars, Like you can't throw on some

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<v Speaker 4>cheap stuff from forever twenty one, like you have to

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<v Speaker 4>wear Mom's like precious stuff. And so I just didn't

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<v Speaker 4>think that was a good idea, and so I had

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<v Speaker 4>a bad attitude. I accept that, and maybe that led

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<v Speaker 4>to her drinking a little bit more heavily than she

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<v Speaker 4>would have. Like I've come to terms with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Did something happen?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, so the ring is gone. She took it off

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<v Speaker 4>to like wash her hands or something, and like, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>good on you for washing your hands. I'll give you

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<v Speaker 4>points for that, But like, why did you have the

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<v Speaker 4>ring on in the first place if you are someone

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<v Speaker 4>who takes them off to wash their hands, yike?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, So how long ago was the ring lost?

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<v Speaker 4>So this was over a year ago?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>A year? Yea, I know?

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<v Speaker 4>No, why are you waiting a year to yeah to

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<v Speaker 4>us to talk to her?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? What's happened since that night with you your sister?

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely nothing except she moved out of state. That's all

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<v Speaker 4>I know. We have not spoken.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing, but she moved a thousand miles away so she

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<v Speaker 1>would never have to see me.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, you guys aren't talking.

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<v Speaker 4>No, we got into a huge fight and like, granted

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<v Speaker 4>I said some things that I should not have said.

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<v Speaker 4>I was very angry, but like she was drunk and

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<v Speaker 4>said some things too. Like we really got into it.

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<v Speaker 4>And then about a month goes by, she moves out

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<v Speaker 4>of state and that's it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wait, did your parents know what happened?

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<v Speaker 3>Do your parents know that she lost the ring and

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<v Speaker 3>that was the start of all this?

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<v Speaker 4>No, she won't talk to anybody, Like I know what happened.

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<v Speaker 4>It's between us and you guys now. But like she

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<v Speaker 4>literally just fell off the face of the planet.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, okay, I get it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a huge deal, but it's not a big enough

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<v Speaker 2>deal that you should break up your family over it.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you agree you need to get on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and apologize to you. I think Brooks saying that you

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<v Speaker 1>should find a different sister to replace.

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<v Speaker 2>This. There's a replaceable that makes me so sad for you,

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<v Speaker 2>and I bet it would break your mom's heart. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>of course your mom's going to be upset that the

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<v Speaker 2>ring's gone, but she would be even more upset to

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<v Speaker 2>know that your girls aren't talking because of it.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's why you reached out to our show to

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<v Speaker 1>do this closure call, so we could try and help

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<v Speaker 1>you get back in touch and maybe try and mend

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<v Speaker 1>some broken fences with your sister.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, she moved exactly, and you haven't had any chance

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<v Speaker 2>to apologize to her until now, right, Because.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I would have had she been able to

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<v Speaker 4>return a text call. But I don't want to, like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, dump on her via text and just be like, well,

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<v Speaker 4>I said it, so I'm good, because like that's not

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<v Speaker 4>helpful either.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to have a healthy conversation back and forth. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so do it the healthy way by going through a

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<v Speaker 1>radio show. I like this, and so You've been working

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<v Speaker 1>with our producer off of the air before we made

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<v Speaker 1>this call to come up with the four questions that

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<v Speaker 1>you wanted to send to your sister Clarissa and try

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<v Speaker 1>and get some answers for her to help you get

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<v Speaker 1>some closure and get you guys talking again. So we've

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<v Speaker 1>sent those for you, and I will tell you Clarissa

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<v Speaker 1>did respond back.

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<v Speaker 3>Did Clarissa explain it all?

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<v Speaker 1>Come on?

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<v Speaker 3>Laughing?

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<v Speaker 1>Text in funny because it was I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>was said. I haven't even read what she wrote. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't haven't read the questions. I haven't read the answers.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to find all of this out for the

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<v Speaker 1>first time when we come back. I hope not too.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna happen when we do your closure call. Right

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<v Speaker 1>after this. We're in the middle of a closure call

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<v Speaker 1>with our listener Amelia. Just a quick recap of what's happened.

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<v Speaker 1>She and her little sister have not spoken to each

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<v Speaker 1>other in over a year after a big fight that

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<v Speaker 1>they had when they went out to the bars one

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<v Speaker 1>night and her sister drunkenly lost their mom's heirloom jewelry. No,

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<v Speaker 1>so that led to an argument. Some things were said

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<v Speaker 1>that Amelia now regrets because the sister ended up moving away,

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<v Speaker 1>and nothing is worth losing a family member like that,

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<v Speaker 1>which is why she's asked us to help her reach

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<v Speaker 1>out back to her sister to get some answers.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't imagine what you said.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, honestly, do you want to repeat some of

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<v Speaker 1>those things right here on the radio, Amelia?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I will say I said a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>regretful things, but nothing that merits a year of silence,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I'll say that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's fair.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll see if she says the same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I know Brooke has said there's gotta be something else,

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<v Speaker 1>some other reason, because a jewelry fight isn't a big

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<v Speaker 1>enough reason to do that. And that got me thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>what if she never actually lost the jewelry?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 1>What if she went and ponned it and lied and

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<v Speaker 1>now feels guilty about it because that's the night.

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<v Speaker 3>They were drinking, she had it on when they left.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's what I would have done. I would

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<v Speaker 1>have gone right to the pawn show.

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<v Speaker 3>This entire time.

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<v Speaker 4>If anything, this ring has more sentimental value than financial value.

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<v Speaker 2>Your family heir, like my family, are looms like we

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<v Speaker 2>love them. They're very sentimental to us. But then you

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<v Speaker 2>go get it a praise and you're like, well, we

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<v Speaker 2>could give you twenty six dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah right, yeah, Okay. We can all call our parents'

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<v Speaker 1>jewelry cheap later. But now we need to get into

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<v Speaker 1>these questions because, as you know, Amelia has already worked

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<v Speaker 1>with our producer to send these four questions to her sister.

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<v Speaker 1>We have her answers ready to read. Amelia, are you

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<v Speaker 1>ready for this?

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<v Speaker 4>I am?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, here we go. Let's go to the first closure

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<v Speaker 1>call question we said. First of all, I feel completely

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<v Speaker 1>terrible about the last time we hung out. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to apologize for getting so angry and blowing up at

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<v Speaker 1>you about mom's jewelry. I went way over the line

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<v Speaker 1>with what I said, but I don't think it's worth

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<v Speaker 1>moving out of state and breaking off contact with me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm super sorry. Can you forgive me?

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<v Speaker 4>So?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean that, but would hit me wrong. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 3>tell you everything in front of it.

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<v Speaker 4>Ye, I mean, I wish it was a little more brief.

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<v Speaker 4>I probably ran I haven't talked run so long, but

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<v Speaker 4>it gets the overall point across, I guess, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Also I'm not a very good reader, so they'll put

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<v Speaker 1>some of that on me.

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<v Speaker 2>Jeff, I know exactly how she felt in her tone

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<v Speaker 2>of her response.

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<v Speaker 3>What she said, we're.

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<v Speaker 1>Basically asking for forgiveness, and your sister wrote back she said, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I do appreciate you saying that, and I can one

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<v Speaker 1>hundred percent forgive you. Oh, I will let you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a friend tell you that I moved out

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<v Speaker 1>of state, But really I just moved to a new neighborhood.

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<v Speaker 1>What I'm about seven blocks away from what?

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<v Speaker 4>No, that's what. That's all ridiculous. I haven't run into

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<v Speaker 4>her seven blocks away.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, actually, that's not I had a friend who moved

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<v Speaker 1>into the same apartment complex with me, and I never

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<v Speaker 1>once saw him ever in a year that he lived there.

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<v Speaker 1>She might be actively trying to avoid you, even when

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<v Speaker 1>you're out in about.

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<v Speaker 2>Like she wears eyes, she wears a mustache, maybe some sunglasses.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know if she would go that.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you shocked? I am shocked, casual sounding response.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like I wouldn't put the mustache and losses

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<v Speaker 4>thing pastor. I mean, this is really immature to do,

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<v Speaker 4>like to tell somebody who moved out of state and

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<v Speaker 4>you've just been there the whole time. Like, yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>a little put off by that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, let's move on to question two. Here, we

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<v Speaker 1>wrote to her, while I am sorry I reacted that way,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you would have done the same. I

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<v Speaker 1>told you Mom's jewelry was important to me, and you

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<v Speaker 1>ignored what I said and lost it. Do you think

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I could get an apology from you?

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<v Speaker 3>God's that's what you wanted.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, accountability is important, and like she has lacked accountability

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<v Speaker 4>in other situations, so like, yeah, I do still hold

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<v Speaker 4>her to that standard.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, we're asking for an apology from her. She

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<v Speaker 1>wrote back, absolutely, I am sorry that that happened. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I drank way too much and acted like a total idiot,

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<v Speaker 1>and I feel really really bad for losing Mom's things.

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<v Speaker 3>Why is your sister so reasonable and not to you?

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<v Speaker 1>Because she's sober when she's writing back, I think the

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<v Speaker 1>fights were all.

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<v Speaker 3>It's been a year. Yeah, I'm sure she's been sober

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<v Speaker 3>within the last year.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but she keeps going. She says, that's not really

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<v Speaker 1>the main reason I've been keeping my distance, though I

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<v Speaker 1>knew it.

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<v Speaker 3>What is it? What is it does, she.

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<v Speaker 4>Say, right, what is it?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm more confused now than ever, honestly.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, maybe we'll get some more answers as we

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<v Speaker 1>keep moving through these. We're going to the third question

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<v Speaker 1>in the closure call we sent. We haven't been able

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<v Speaker 1>to catch up in the year since you moved, So

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<v Speaker 1>is there anything else I should know? Your sister wrote back, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm nervous to tell you this, but the main reason

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<v Speaker 1>why I cut contact and moved a little farther it

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<v Speaker 1>is because I met someone, oh well, technically re met

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<v Speaker 1>someone and we became very very close. Okay, please don't

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<v Speaker 1>hate me forever. But for the last year or so,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been seeing your ex Ryan.

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<v Speaker 3>What gosh did you hear that?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I heard it, but like, no, I also did not

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<v Speaker 4>just hear that, because that is like, that is such

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<v Speaker 4>a boundary? Are you kidding me? Ryan and I literally

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<v Speaker 4>lived together when she was living like a few balks away,

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<v Speaker 4>when we were living in the same complex. Like it's

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<v Speaker 4>not even okay, even if like nothing started when we

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<v Speaker 4>were together, Like you can't go fishing in a different pond,

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<v Speaker 4>like you have to go after my exes? Are you

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<v Speaker 4>kidding me?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you understand. That's why she said she mad, it's inappropriate,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's why.

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<v Speaker 4>She's that's disgusting. I'm completely disgusted. I'm not mad. I

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<v Speaker 4>am literally physically ill right now.

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<v Speaker 1>She does keep going and says, I'm really really sorry

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<v Speaker 1>it just happened, and we didn't want to hurt you,

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<v Speaker 1>so we've tried to keep it a secret.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, that's way. That's way better, right, that's super better.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I love how she says, I don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>hurt you, but I'm not going to talk to you

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<v Speaker 2>for a year.

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<v Speaker 3>Like what do you think? Yeah, are you still in

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<v Speaker 3>love with Ryan?

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<v Speaker 4>No? I mean, like I'm all said, that was the

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<v Speaker 4>first guy I ever lived with, Like we were together

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<v Speaker 4>like through college and then we moved back Like she

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<v Speaker 4>wouldn't have even known him if I had not moved

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<v Speaker 4>in with him back home.

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<v Speaker 3>That's kind of creepy on his part.

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<v Speaker 6>Like and what if like what if they are like

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<v Speaker 6>living together they like you know, like like when they'm

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<v Speaker 6>going to be family with him? To no, Like no,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm super close to my family, Like I cannot even

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<v Speaker 6>believe that this is Like, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean, I'm so sorry, but we're running out of time

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<v Speaker 1>here and I have to get to the fourth and

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<v Speaker 1>final question that we sent.

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<v Speaker 4>I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>So what we wrote to her was, I know we

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<v Speaker 1>fight sometimes, but I do really miss you. We're sisters

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<v Speaker 1>and we need to love and cherish each other. Is

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<v Speaker 1>there any chance we can meet and catch up in person?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Well answer hard?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you say hard?

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<v Speaker 2>Pass?

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<v Speaker 1>That was yours, which again we write before we get

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<v Speaker 1>into the answers back.

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<v Speaker 4>So right, if that did not age, well, wait, you

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<v Speaker 4>all don't want.

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<v Speaker 3>To see she should see.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you that she did answer it. She wrote, well, actually,

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan and I are supposed to go to mom and

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<v Speaker 1>Dad's for the next holiday. So if that's not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be too, Dad, she says, f Yi, Mom and Dad

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<v Speaker 1>know already about me and Ryan. They've known for four

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<v Speaker 1>or five months. We all agreed not to tell you

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<v Speaker 1>because we were worried that you wouldn't be able to

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<v Speaker 1>handle it.

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<v Speaker 3>Girl, you'll show them you can handle it, right, Like.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm literally speechless, I have no I have no words.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, like, what am I even supposed to say

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<v Speaker 4>to that? Like? So, like my mom and dad have

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<v Speaker 4>been lying to me too, Like that's perfect, that's great stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Why, well, they could tell that you're I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, no, there's no excuse, like like, you can't

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<v Speaker 4>protect somebody by like hiding the truth from them. You

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<v Speaker 4>can't protect somebody by freezing them out but not talking

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<v Speaker 4>to them. Like none of them handled this right from

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<v Speaker 4>Jump Street. And I've been sitting here feeling guilty about

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<v Speaker 4>some out of pocket comments that I made when I

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<v Speaker 4>was rightfully angry.

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<v Speaker 3>Like that makes like I get way more deep breath,

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<v Speaker 3>deep breath. Does Ryan have a brother you could date.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just saying yea.

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<v Speaker 4>If anything, I will, like I'm going after Ryan's dad.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, at least maybe the good news that came

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<v Speaker 1>out of this, as we've reopened the communication line with

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<v Speaker 1>you and your sister and we've learned it really happened.

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<v Speaker 3>I think after you sit with this will communicate. Okay, Well, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was gonna say, I think after you sit with this

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<v Speaker 2>for a minute, maybe you'll see that it's not as

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<v Speaker 2>big of a deal as.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm going to sit with it.

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<v Speaker 4>On Ryan's dad's lap.

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<v Speaker 1>That was your closure call.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually support that, Okay, Yeah, only if Ryan's dad's rich.

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<v Speaker 1>It's broken. Jeffrey in the morning, Well that was a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that was a lot, you know, not so funny

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<v Speaker 2>that there's drama and families.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, when part of the family keep secrets and the

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<v Speaker 1>other part and then it all comes out, who would

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<v Speaker 1>have known this was drama? Dude.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like the parents are at the most fault

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<v Speaker 3>in this. You have live. I believe mom and dad.

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<v Speaker 3>I blame them, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't say it, but be like, hey, you may

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<v Speaker 1>want to check on your ex.

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<v Speaker 2>Wrest one of the daughters to come clean and be

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<v Speaker 2>honest about it from the beginning. You know, like if

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<v Speaker 2>she would have gone and said, hey, do you mind

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<v Speaker 2>I have interest in I know this is sticky, maybe

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<v Speaker 2>they could have had a more honest conversation.

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<v Speaker 5>That's just too hard, Okay, keeping a secret much simpler.

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<v Speaker 3>Can get any comments on this one?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, someone said my jaw actually dropped listening to this.

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<v Speaker 5>This was a wild ride yep. And another person said,

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<v Speaker 5>as the first time closure call listener, this was pretty

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<v Speaker 5>damn good.

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<v Speaker 3>This is the first one. Yeah, you got some more

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<v Speaker 3>to catch up on Versure.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks for being here. Please hit that subscribe. It's Brooke

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<v Speaker 2>and Jeffrey in the morning.