WEBVTT - The Battle of the Braxtons Recap with Claudia and Dustin

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<v Speaker 1>Well look, ray jobs, you have the three of us

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<v Speaker 1>on a fry day night.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, Happy Halloween. We're we're not.

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<v Speaker 3>A costume, Nope, but what's up boo?

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<v Speaker 4>Happy Halloween? Hey, candy is like fifteen dollars a bag.

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<v Speaker 4>Are y'all giving these little mofuckers and the candy this year?

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<v Speaker 3>And a right? Are you even opening the door.

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<v Speaker 1>So back in the day the way that it used

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<v Speaker 1>to work that I want to know if that's still

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<v Speaker 1>the case. The porch light has to be on in

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<v Speaker 1>order for that's that's the welcoming sign.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay it should be, but they don't give a fuck.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, rules and traditions are going out of the window.

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<v Speaker 5>They'll ring the doorbell and bang on it with the

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<v Speaker 5>lights off. They don't care no more these days, they

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<v Speaker 5>don't mind.

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<v Speaker 4>My front door is really scary, Like it's like a

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<v Speaker 4>twelve foot high like iron door but has black glass

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<v Speaker 4>where I can see them and they can't see, Like

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<v Speaker 4>if I don't have the lights on the inside, Like

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<v Speaker 4>walking up to my house is really scared. Maybe I

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<v Speaker 4>might just mess with the kids a little bit and

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<v Speaker 4>then just like you know, scare them.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, you should you should.

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<v Speaker 4>I do have film and I'll share it with you

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<v Speaker 4>guys on Monday.

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<v Speaker 5>I remember it. You just made me think about it.

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<v Speaker 5>I remember that door.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to go to Dallas when I know I

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<v Speaker 1>have to make a trip. I do miss having some

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<v Speaker 1>one on one time with Claudia.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean they say I beg you to hang out,

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<v Speaker 4>so I'm not gonna say it anymore, but like thirsty

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<v Speaker 4>that the comments got your number, begging follows to hang out.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't want to hang with her begging for a job.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, do you not know our sense of humor

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<v Speaker 4>by now right? No?

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<v Speaker 1>We all have a humor. And that's why for Halloween,

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<v Speaker 1>I am Dustin Wroth Claudia, so like, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>got on or whatever, and you know, fuck the motherfucker's

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<v Speaker 1>calling me Justin and ship I'm gonna fuck nigga.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really fucking hamas don people, because you know

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<v Speaker 2>I'm the man and I got everything going on, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>So I so Ray Drowns. I am Dustin Ross for Halloween.

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<v Speaker 3>I love it, and I this hard.

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<v Speaker 5>Know I need somebody to play me in a movie

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<v Speaker 5>because I want to look at the screen the way

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<v Speaker 5>Whitney used to be looking at people singing her songs

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<v Speaker 5>on stage.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to do that just now, so I'm with you.

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<v Speaker 1>There you go, allay, Halloween, that was MIA's Dustin, Claudia

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<v Speaker 1>be carlos.

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<v Speaker 2>Key for Halloween.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, bitch, Oh my god. I love all the girls. Oh,

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<v Speaker 4>I love everybody, and I am not gonna talk about

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<v Speaker 4>about anyone even when they're wrong. Yes, bitch, yes, hold on,

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<v Speaker 4>I got some kim Y in my teeth. I am

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<v Speaker 4>single out on these streets. I don't ask me any questions,

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<v Speaker 4>but don't worry about who I was in Europe with.

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<v Speaker 4>But anyways, yes, are you ready? Are you ready?

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<v Speaker 3>Mm hmmm mm hmm. And no.

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<v Speaker 5>And notifications yep, yes, notifications.

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<v Speaker 4>On Tuesday. I'm not gonna say who it is.

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<v Speaker 2>But that was good. That was good, Glaudia, that was good. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So so Dustin, you turn to be Claudia.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, look, let me see what the comments are saying.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't want to check it quite of the comments

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<v Speaker 5>they're saying that I don't know, looking like I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just saying I ain't saying you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know, just looking like the comments are saying, well, personally,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Know funk that. Listen if she doesn't want to go

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<v Speaker 3>do the that's my girl, Claudia.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, look, well we'll do the real impressions when we

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<v Speaker 5>go out, okay instead of our new show.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right, that'll be good.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, no, that'll be good. That'll be good. It goes

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<v Speaker 2>to show that as friends we could do that. Like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm actually funny. I love that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, and party is right because on our show, we'll

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<v Speaker 5>have a wardrobe budget for the holidays. So just think

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<v Speaker 5>about the things we will do for like Christmas, the

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<v Speaker 5>things will do for the Halloween episodes. Just think about

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<v Speaker 5>episodes because it's gonna come back year after year, especially

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<v Speaker 5>once we start snatching them trophies.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm excited.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't wait. I can't wait to move to Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Q one, Q one Q one.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and that city has good men, Like that's where

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<v Speaker 4>I have the best luck. In that city. I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>going to say the city, but that's the city I

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<v Speaker 4>have my my you know, I've.

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<v Speaker 5>Had to Well, they tell you up front the fruit

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<v Speaker 5>is big, so you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>I listen, not all the big apple.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what. The fruit was definitely big there, I

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<v Speaker 4>will say that.

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<v Speaker 1>So yes, very exciting and I love taking a bite

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<v Speaker 1>out of the big apple. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>They else have good weed and good mushrooms.

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<v Speaker 3>See what else do you need? Industry? We men, you

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<v Speaker 3>know what I'm saying, good dropping.

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<v Speaker 4>Good Italian food, good Indian food.

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<v Speaker 5>Trying to tell you, lady Vans, bring your wife.

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<v Speaker 1>On that note, imagine being sandwich where you are in

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<v Speaker 1>between two aries.

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<v Speaker 2>That that is what it feels like when you're around Claudia.

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<v Speaker 5>If you want to say, you'd like to thank the

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<v Speaker 5>academy after you get out from the middle on it, Okay, we.

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<v Speaker 4>Dream it should be for you. You gotta fire around,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, and I know I know everybody likes being rammed.

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<v Speaker 3>You got two rams, that's right, big, that's right.

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<v Speaker 4>Who don't like a ramming?

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<v Speaker 3>All capital letters like that truck ran Dorothy.

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<v Speaker 4>Horns too like yes, like they can't like when they

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<v Speaker 4>can't go all the way around, can't to this.

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<v Speaker 1>Hope you guys are joining your Fridays as much as

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<v Speaker 1>the two of us are.

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<v Speaker 2>But listen, don't be sad. We will be back on Monday.

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<v Speaker 4>So you've been I think we're gonna be a time

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<v Speaker 4>on Monday.

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<v Speaker 1>We are going to be on time every Monday. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>we'll see how the week breaks us. But as announced

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<v Speaker 1>this past Monday, due to the overwhelming demand, we are

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<v Speaker 1>here to discuss the latest episode of The Braxtons and

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<v Speaker 1>just in general discussing the season overall. This is the

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<v Speaker 1>second okay season of The Braxtons, because prior to that,

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<v Speaker 1>they had I think quadruple ten seasons of The Braxton

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<v Speaker 1>Family Values, which is the longest running black family reality

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<v Speaker 1>show in the world, so they took some time off.

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<v Speaker 2>The show came back last year.

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<v Speaker 1>This is season two of The Braxtons and it features Twanda, Tamar, Tony,

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<v Speaker 1>and Trina. As we all know, the great Tracy has

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<v Speaker 1>passed away, and yes, rest in peace, Tracy, and let's

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<v Speaker 1>just get right into it.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen. This season it's unhinged.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like nothing I ever expected anticipated, and to be

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<v Speaker 1>honest with you, even wanted to see you know, when

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<v Speaker 1>it came to The Braxtons.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll speak for myself. I'd love to get your thoughts. Obviously, guys, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Fell in love with this show because how funny they were,

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<v Speaker 1>how they would sing a song on.

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<v Speaker 2>At the drop of a dime, how.

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<v Speaker 1>They would have funny commentary when it comes to the mother.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, they made up a song called a dingling song,

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<v Speaker 1>they made up a song called Daddy, they made up

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<v Speaker 1>songs on the spot. They were funny, and yes there

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<v Speaker 1>was always drama, but it was never drama to the

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<v Speaker 1>point of what I'm seeing this season, and it is very,

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<v Speaker 1>very tough to watch. So Dustin, I'll start with you.

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<v Speaker 1>When you learned that this season was coming back, were

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<v Speaker 1>you excited that you thought, Okay, we're going to get

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<v Speaker 1>back to what we were introduced to on the show,

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<v Speaker 1>which is, look, a group of sisters who are talented, funny,

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<v Speaker 1>have chemistry. Yes, they fight, argue like siblings do, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know we now get to like laugh again.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, listen, I was happy to see To answer your question, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I was happy to see them return, right before A

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<v Speaker 5>few A bit different of a reason. These are black

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<v Speaker 5>women who mean a lot to the world, mean a

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<v Speaker 5>lot to the three of us, mean a lot to music,

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<v Speaker 5>mean a lot to television now right, And so I'm

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<v Speaker 5>a person who you know, I support the oars, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>a patron, I support the all rights.

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<v Speaker 3>So I want the show to continue. I want them to.

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<v Speaker 5>Continue on making money and income and their own rights,

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<v Speaker 5>and I want them to I wanted to move forward,

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<v Speaker 5>especially after the passing of Tracy. This show was literally

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<v Speaker 5>titled after their family name. First it was Braxton Family Values.

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<v Speaker 5>Now it's called The Braxtons. Similar to the change that

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<v Speaker 5>Keeping Up with the Kardashians did when they switched from

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<v Speaker 5>E to Hulu and became the Kardashians versus Keeping Up

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<v Speaker 5>with the Kardashians. It's kind of the same pattern, but

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<v Speaker 5>this ain't it. So I was happy to see them

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<v Speaker 5>come back, but I was not happy with what I

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<v Speaker 5>saw once they did come back. For years, we've seen

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<v Speaker 5>riffs between the sisters for years. We've seen them have

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<v Speaker 5>challenges in trying to have a peaceful relationship with Tamar.

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<v Speaker 5>Each of them individually have challenges with Tamar.

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<v Speaker 3>We watched that.

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<v Speaker 5>We watched Tony flat out tell us, Hey, if they

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<v Speaker 5>were not my sisters, we probably would not be friends.

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<v Speaker 3>We've seen all these things.

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<v Speaker 5>And so after Tracy passed away, which was a devastating

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<v Speaker 5>loss to them. I have siblings, you know I would

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<v Speaker 5>be gutted. Carlos, you have siblings, Claudia, you do as well.

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<v Speaker 5>And so after Tracy's lost, you would think that they

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<v Speaker 5>would be motivated by a desire to unify, to find

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<v Speaker 5>some sort of bridge and bond even in this late

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<v Speaker 5>stage in their lives. But they can't do it. And

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<v Speaker 5>we can break down the regions why as we move forward.

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<v Speaker 5>But to answer your first question, yes, I was happy

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<v Speaker 5>to see them come back.

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<v Speaker 4>A man. I didn't. I didn't watch the show before.

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I've had you know, me and Tamar have

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<v Speaker 4>had a very tumultuous relationship, but we're say that we're

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<v Speaker 4>actually in a good place now. We spent a month

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<v Speaker 4>together in a house shooting college. Hill mentioned about this

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<v Speaker 4>show that she's like, she wasn't fucking with it. She

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<v Speaker 4>says she didn't want to go back. She was just

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<v Speaker 4>gonna be like a friend of the show. And I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, how can you be it for like, it's

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<v Speaker 4>such a big part of it, you know what I mean? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>it's it doesn't seem like it'd be fun for any

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<v Speaker 4>of them. Like again, like I mentioned before, reality being draining.

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<v Speaker 4>This seems like ten times more draining than would be

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<v Speaker 4>with people that you're not friends with, you know, like

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<v Speaker 4>at least on a reality show with like housewives whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>You you can actually separate, Like when the four months

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<v Speaker 4>of filming is up. It's like, Mitch, I'll see right,

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<v Speaker 4>I'll see you when we get renewed. And I'm making

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<v Speaker 4>several hundred thousand dollars if not a million with this.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like it's ugly and then it's not over for them,

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<v Speaker 4>like they family events, funerals, weddings. I mean I was

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<v Speaker 4>invited to Tauana's wedding and tam I wasn't she wasn't dead.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, yet felt bad, you know, like I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, damn, like and I wonder if it's because

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<v Speaker 4>of the reality show making, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>stressing out the family dynamics that maybe wouldn't be there

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<v Speaker 4>if they want, because everybody got to pop off a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit extra for TV. Oh I'm not about to

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<v Speaker 4>let a bitch read me down, even if she is

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<v Speaker 4>my sister, you know. And it was so ugly this episode.

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<v Speaker 4>And then I went back and watched the episode before

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm like, I will say this, I really love

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<v Speaker 4>me some Tony Braxton. I've always loved me some Tony Brox.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the heavyweight, the littlest.

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<v Speaker 4>One talking about I'm a heavyweight exactly. I like that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I like the sisters period. I'm sure we'll dig

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<v Speaker 5>a little bit deeper. As you can see, Carlos is

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<v Speaker 5>having some sort of technical difficulties right now, but he'll

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<v Speaker 5>rejoin us shortly and I listen. I like the Braxts,

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<v Speaker 5>but the Braxtons have got to grow up at a

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<v Speaker 5>certain point.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, the childish antics.

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<v Speaker 5>That were fun to watch in the beginning, like Carlos mentioned,

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<v Speaker 5>singing them songs and telling stories and being playful, that

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<v Speaker 5>kind of got old fast for me because these are

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<v Speaker 5>not We're not watching people in their twenties. We're not

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<v Speaker 5>even watching people in their thirties. These are people in

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<v Speaker 5>their forties, late forties, fifties in some cases, And so

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<v Speaker 5>the playful nature of everything being a joke is just

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<v Speaker 5>a little unrealistic at a certain point. And these women

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<v Speaker 5>have very complex lives that they could easily feel what

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<v Speaker 5>is it forty eight minutes or however many minutes it

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<v Speaker 5>is when a show is an hour long, they could

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<v Speaker 5>easily fill up that time, fill up those blocks with

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<v Speaker 5>things to show and things to talk about. But the

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<v Speaker 5>focus seems to always be on the bullshit. You know

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<v Speaker 5>what I'm saying? Somebody always pissed somebody else to fuck off.

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<v Speaker 5>It's always a damn problem. It's always some sort of

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<v Speaker 5>disrespect or talking about somebody behind they damn back. It's

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<v Speaker 5>always that you know what I'm saying, and when it's

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<v Speaker 5>not that they're acting silly and so for me, although

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<v Speaker 5>I want to watch the show go on and on forever,

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<v Speaker 5>like it just lost a little bit of the connection

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<v Speaker 5>for me, but I don't want it to stop. I

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<v Speaker 5>wanted to still be available for people to watch. I

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<v Speaker 5>just got sick of seeing that shit.

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<v Speaker 4>It seems like they may love each other, but they

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<v Speaker 4>don't like each other very much. They do not like

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<v Speaker 4>each other. They can't stand each other in some regards,

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<v Speaker 4>and it's like I see a lot of what about me?

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<v Speaker 4>What about my feelings and your feeling? But what about

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<v Speaker 4>my feelings and how you hurt me? And you know,

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<v Speaker 4>it's hard to see past that, like to how someone

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<v Speaker 4>else might be feeling if it's just like all about

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<v Speaker 4>what you think. I don't see this show. How the

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<v Speaker 4>show can go on with this level of animosity. And

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<v Speaker 4>this is what episode.

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<v Speaker 5>Four, three three, I believe I think this was three okay, three,

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<v Speaker 5>let me see, let me check that before we get

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<v Speaker 5>to line. Yeah, it was episode.

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<v Speaker 3>Four. You're right, it was four.

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<v Speaker 4>Watch watch can street them like if every episode is

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<v Speaker 4>no one's having fun, because imagine if what the producer

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<v Speaker 4>is going through. If every episode none of them are

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<v Speaker 4>having fun, it's just on ten arguing I don't see

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<v Speaker 4>how the show can continue.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Carlo is so sick of it. He got off

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<v Speaker 5>the damn screen. Carlos cut off se So listen.

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<v Speaker 2>The spirit definitely blocked me from that.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's let's just get into what happened in this

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<v Speaker 1>episode that their tonight. So what we did see was

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<v Speaker 1>the continuation of this sister's dinner. So at the sister's dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>Tamar who decided to bring on her brother's daughter. So

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<v Speaker 1>I want to make sure you guys know that Ashley,

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<v Speaker 1>their niece, is the daughter of their brother, who has

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<v Speaker 1>never been involved with the show. He may have seen

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<v Speaker 1>him once or twice, maybe five times the duration of

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<v Speaker 1>both shows.

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<v Speaker 2>Being on the air.

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<v Speaker 1>His niece made posts about something she experienced in her

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<v Speaker 1>childhood teenage years.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>She did allude to the fact that it was something

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<v Speaker 1>in regards to an aunt's former husband, but I don't believe.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to make sure legally I don't say the

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<v Speaker 1>name because Ashley never said the person's name.

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<v Speaker 5>Right enough picture for us, Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>And Tamar decided to have her a part of her

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<v Speaker 1>live podcast to talk about it. Tamar received a cease

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<v Speaker 1>and desist from the family attorney. According to Tamar, she

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<v Speaker 1>walks into the dinner, she opens up a vanilla envelope.

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<v Speaker 1>The ladies are saying they did not authorize this, they

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<v Speaker 1>had no idea it was happening.

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<v Speaker 2>They said their name wasn't on it.

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<v Speaker 1>Tamar is livid because she said she was served at

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<v Speaker 1>her doorstep, whereas the place that she lives with her

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<v Speaker 1>minor child logan and she's very hot, she's very heated,

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<v Speaker 1>and from there they're denying that they had anything to

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<v Speaker 1>do with this. What I will say is this just

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<v Speaker 1>to really talk about cease and desist.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>A cease and desist is a form of documentation. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a legal documentation where you send that to prevent somebody

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<v Speaker 1>from saying things, detailing things, repeating things that you.

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<v Speaker 2>Believe is associated with you that isn't true.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's sort of like a it's a threat of

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<v Speaker 1>if you do proceed with this, I will take legal action,

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<v Speaker 1>and legal action is a form of a lawsuit. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>which is why Tamar said, you guys are trying to

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<v Speaker 1>impact my business.

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<v Speaker 2>Claudia, what are your thoughts on that?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you do you think that the sisters had no

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<v Speaker 1>idea My sisters, I mean Tony, Tawanda and Trina, that

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<v Speaker 1>those three had nothing to do with a cease and

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<v Speaker 1>desist even coming Tamar's way, nor giving her address away

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<v Speaker 1>when she said that her address is not even listed publicly.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I think that they someone knows what they're not

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<v Speaker 4>going to say because they know her temper. They know

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<v Speaker 4>it's going to be a big argument like who else

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<v Speaker 4>would do it? You know what I mean? I will

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<v Speaker 4>say I've had to send seas and sist letters and

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<v Speaker 4>it does have to trace back to a lawyer, right,

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<v Speaker 4>and you contact the lawyer and you ask them like,

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<v Speaker 4>who's this coming from? That that's what they can they

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<v Speaker 4>have that right to ask? Yeah, I do think it's

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<v Speaker 4>someone that.

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<v Speaker 2>Has a lawyer.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's ask the question, does the lawyer have the right

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<v Speaker 1>to disclose who it came from?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm much with the lawyer's on that, but I've always

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<v Speaker 4>had my lawyer say it with his chest here, tell

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<v Speaker 4>that bitch is from me? Yeah it is. I'm like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>it's from me. Like why you send it? You know,

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<v Speaker 4>like because I think in the seasons, sister, you have

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<v Speaker 4>to like kind of say, like I mean, in mind

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<v Speaker 4>I've sent out. It's basically like stop saying this and

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<v Speaker 4>give an example of what they're saying that it's like

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<v Speaker 4>false or defamatory because you're threatening a seasons. This is

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<v Speaker 4>a warning shot for a lawsuit. So you document that

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<v Speaker 4>you tried first and then before you proceed to a lawsuit. Right,

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<v Speaker 4>you tried first before you because you can't just come

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<v Speaker 4>out the gate with a law so you have to

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<v Speaker 4>least try to give him some kind of warning. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know how they don't know who is from

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<v Speaker 4>because it's always been very clear who is from when

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<v Speaker 4>when I've said one out or when I received one.

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<v Speaker 4>I got one when I was in real house, Ius

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<v Speaker 4>of Atlanta from your girl man. But we weren't lying,

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<v Speaker 4>so it we pat it on mind.

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<v Speaker 2>Look at so much, look look Claudia so much from

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<v Speaker 2>the Halloween costume.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, okay, just tonight, go ahead, that's it.

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<v Speaker 5>So okay, let's zoom out here, right, Number one, A ceasing,

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<v Speaker 5>de cease and desist come and go every single day.

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<v Speaker 5>When you work in media, when you work in the

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<v Speaker 5>business of opinion, when you work in an area where

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<v Speaker 5>people's information can be commodified in some sort of way,

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<v Speaker 5>and then you have access to it and to disperse it.

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<v Speaker 3>You could are Are you are vulnerable.

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<v Speaker 5>To receive as ceased and desist from somebody who didn't

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<v Speaker 5>like what you had to say?

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<v Speaker 3>Right, That's something that happens.

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<v Speaker 5>My question before we tap further into that, I have

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<v Speaker 5>a producer question for you, Carlos. So do you believe

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<v Speaker 5>that the cease and desist was issued from it? Said

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<v Speaker 5>it came She said that by she, I meaning Tamar Braxton,

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<v Speaker 5>said that the cease and desists came from their family,

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<v Speaker 5>the Braxton family attorney.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, yeah, is that deep?

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<v Speaker 5>But but sorry, Seria had activated on my computer anyway.

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<v Speaker 5>So do you think that the production company that the

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<v Speaker 5>we TV, the network, or maybe some of the producers

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<v Speaker 5>of the show I wanted to interfere with that conversation

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<v Speaker 5>taking place between Tamar and her niece Ashley Braxton, or

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<v Speaker 5>do you think it would have had to.

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<v Speaker 3>Come from one of the.

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<v Speaker 2>Sisters, listen, that's a great question.

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<v Speaker 1>I emphatically do not believe that the production had anything

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<v Speaker 1>to do with sitting Tamor's season assists to stop this

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<v Speaker 1>from being on top of conversation. And the reason why

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<v Speaker 1>I say that is because, I mean, number one, it's unethical.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't get involved in altering the realcy of something

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<v Speaker 1>in the legal context.

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<v Speaker 2>Secondly, they the production company filmed Ashley to Tamar about this.

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<v Speaker 1>When it comes to the season the sith look, I

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<v Speaker 1>always look at things as as behavior right right, and

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<v Speaker 1>and the disposition of folks. When she said, you guys

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<v Speaker 1>have the family lawyer, their reaction to it to me

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<v Speaker 1>didn't seem like they didn't know.

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<v Speaker 2>They didn't know. They were very calm about it.

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<v Speaker 5>And when Towanda made that allegation against Tamar about sleeping

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<v Speaker 5>with Tony's one of Tony's past boyfriends, there was a

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<v Speaker 5>very even keel, you know, lack of reaction from the ladies.

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<v Speaker 5>And I think that's kind of what you're referring to

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<v Speaker 5>in this case. When she did mention the season assistant

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<v Speaker 5>question the origin of it, nobody really said, I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>I kind of think that's where you're going with this right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I was new.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah I would have said absolutely not. I didn't do that,

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<v Speaker 2>but would I.

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<v Speaker 1>So I always look at things what people are not

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<v Speaker 1>always what they're saying, but what they're not saying, because

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<v Speaker 1>I would have been like, I would have never done that.

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<v Speaker 1>And you also have a look at the show. They

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<v Speaker 1>they they never fully addressed it. I've watched all four episodes.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Reality with the King and I'm Carlos King.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's get back into the show.

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<v Speaker 4>My lawyers call and I text him to ask him.

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<v Speaker 4>Should I ask him on the air?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, go ahead. Please let him know he's being recorded.

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<v Speaker 4>Please Chris, where I'm recording right now? You're on my

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<v Speaker 4>I'm on air, so I just have to let you know. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>my question about cease and assists, like, can someone.

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<v Speaker 2>Or not anybody?

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<v Speaker 4>You don't have to be a just a lawyer, right,

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<v Speaker 4>but say so, say I sent one to somebody, right,

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<v Speaker 4>Can I do it anonymously or my name has to

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<v Speaker 4>be on it? Or no?

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<v Speaker 6>No, you you really should sign your season desist so

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<v Speaker 6>they know what's going on. Okay, No, exactly who they

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<v Speaker 6>need to leave alone? They know exactly what the issue is.

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<v Speaker 6>And yes, anybody can sign their own season desist letter.

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<v Speaker 4>We're discussing a show where these ladies are saying that

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<v Speaker 4>their family lawyer sent a season syst and everyone's asking

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<v Speaker 4>like they don't know where it came from. So I

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<v Speaker 4>was wondering if it can ask them?

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<v Speaker 5>By law do people have to identify the origin of it?

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<v Speaker 4>They have to identify the origin of the seasons law law.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, you need to understand the issue. If I'm going

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<v Speaker 6>to send a season desist and put on.

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<v Speaker 2>The air right now, is just bring entertainment purposes only?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, you know, but if that's the situation, it becomes

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<v Speaker 6>I have to say, you want to hearby demanded deceasion

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<v Speaker 6>this whatever action that it is that I'm going to

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<v Speaker 6>describe in a letter. You know, let's just say calling

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<v Speaker 6>Claudia Jordan difamatory names. You know, you have to let

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<v Speaker 6>them know what the issue is that they need to

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<v Speaker 6>be ceasing and desist things from doing.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, not by law even know what the situation is.

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<v Speaker 1>By the law, does the person who sentence have to

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<v Speaker 1>be disclosed?

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<v Speaker 6>Does the person who's sens it? Well, it really should

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<v Speaker 6>be the lawyer or the individual that the subject matter is.

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<v Speaker 4>About, Like say say say y'all, was like, Okay, Carlos

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<v Speaker 4>King isn't talking about me and I needed to stop. Chris,

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<v Speaker 4>can you drop up a season assist? So you sent

0:25:39.840 --> 0:25:42.840
<v Speaker 4>the seasons and say I'm I'm a lawyer. I need

0:25:42.840 --> 0:25:46.760
<v Speaker 4>you to stop talking about Claudia. And does it say

0:25:48.200 --> 0:25:50.920
<v Speaker 4>yes for you you? But does it have to does

0:25:50.960 --> 0:25:53.560
<v Speaker 4>that say does that basically say that it's like on

0:25:53.720 --> 0:25:56.679
<v Speaker 4>my behal like I originated that behalf.

0:25:56.800 --> 0:26:01.879
<v Speaker 6>I represent Claudia, Jordan and Carlos stop saying the famatory

0:26:02.000 --> 0:26:11.280
<v Speaker 6>things about sometimes it's I mean, I've seen sometimes a manager.

0:26:10.920 --> 0:26:14.280
<v Speaker 4>Write it, but it just can't be anonymous.

0:26:15.320 --> 0:26:16.680
<v Speaker 2>George's signed anonymous.

0:26:16.720 --> 0:26:18.000
<v Speaker 6>No, that's not the way it works.

0:26:18.040 --> 0:26:20.080
<v Speaker 4>So someone's name is on it. If someone has to

0:26:20.119 --> 0:26:21.119
<v Speaker 4>put a name on it.

0:26:21.800 --> 0:26:25.840
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, somebody, somebody has society that have to tell the

0:26:25.880 --> 0:26:29.760
<v Speaker 6>person that is directed to what action that they need

0:26:29.760 --> 0:26:31.000
<v Speaker 6>to cease and desist doing.

0:26:31.280 --> 0:26:33.280
<v Speaker 4>Okay, thank you, I'm gonna call you something get the air.

0:26:33.320 --> 0:26:36.720
<v Speaker 2>Okay, thank you, No, thank you so so. But that

0:26:36.840 --> 0:26:40.680
<v Speaker 2>being said, that's my look. I I watched the show.

0:26:40.720 --> 0:26:43.040
<v Speaker 1>So even when Tawanda and Trina we're talking about it

0:26:43.119 --> 0:26:47.240
<v Speaker 1>end they're seeing the first episode, they were very careful

0:26:47.280 --> 0:26:49.879
<v Speaker 1>with their words about what was going on, because the

0:26:50.119 --> 0:26:53.920
<v Speaker 1>the the what's allegedly going on is the fact that

0:26:54.200 --> 0:26:58.760
<v Speaker 1>it's allegedly the somebody that one of the sisters used

0:26:58.760 --> 0:27:01.600
<v Speaker 1>to be married to, right, And what they're saying is

0:27:02.240 --> 0:27:05.520
<v Speaker 1>that this person is not here to defend themselves. Now,

0:27:05.840 --> 0:27:09.040
<v Speaker 1>with that being said, their questioning whether or not Tamar's

0:27:09.040 --> 0:27:13.640
<v Speaker 1>intentions was to really help out her fellow niece or

0:27:13.680 --> 0:27:15.439
<v Speaker 1>did she do that to embarrass her family.

0:27:15.960 --> 0:27:16.760
<v Speaker 2>That's one of your thoughts.

0:27:16.800 --> 0:27:20.159
<v Speaker 1>Do you think Tamar had the best intentions in helping

0:27:20.160 --> 0:27:22.600
<v Speaker 1>out the niece with her story or do you think

0:27:22.720 --> 0:27:23.640
<v Speaker 1>that there.

0:27:23.640 --> 0:27:24.920
<v Speaker 2>Was malice intent?

0:27:25.800 --> 0:27:29.399
<v Speaker 3>Yes to both.

0:27:29.760 --> 0:27:36.920
<v Speaker 5>Okay, okay, okay, I do okay, because I do believe Listen,

0:27:36.960 --> 0:27:38.960
<v Speaker 5>you got to consider the history, You got to consider

0:27:39.000 --> 0:27:41.960
<v Speaker 5>the players involved. I do believe that there was a

0:27:42.000 --> 0:27:43.800
<v Speaker 5>part of Tamar that wanted to help her niece.

0:27:44.520 --> 0:27:45.880
<v Speaker 3>I do. I believe that.

0:27:46.119 --> 0:27:48.080
<v Speaker 5>I also believe there's a part of Tamar that knew

0:27:48.119 --> 0:27:51.200
<v Speaker 5>it was going to drive certain people in her family

0:27:51.920 --> 0:27:54.880
<v Speaker 5>up a wall if this story was brought back up.

0:27:55.280 --> 0:27:58.720
<v Speaker 5>And I think that because of certain existence, certain existing

0:27:58.760 --> 0:28:03.160
<v Speaker 5>issues that she was about say exist shoes, certain existing issues.

0:28:03.080 --> 0:28:07.880
<v Speaker 3>Like now, really, we didn't swap anyway.

0:28:08.800 --> 0:28:10.800
<v Speaker 5>I think that because of some things that were already

0:28:10.840 --> 0:28:13.280
<v Speaker 5>going on with her and her sisters, she wanted to

0:28:13.280 --> 0:28:16.600
<v Speaker 5>piss them off. You don't get on TV cussing your

0:28:16.640 --> 0:28:19.359
<v Speaker 5>sisters out the way that she was cussing them out

0:28:19.920 --> 0:28:22.280
<v Speaker 5>at that dinner scene in this episode and in the

0:28:22.359 --> 0:28:26.199
<v Speaker 5>last episode without there being some real deep shit in

0:28:26.240 --> 0:28:29.400
<v Speaker 5>the waters between you and your siblings. And so, yeah,

0:28:29.440 --> 0:28:31.920
<v Speaker 5>she wanted to help her niece. She also knew that

0:28:31.920 --> 0:28:36.120
<v Speaker 5>that was some really uncomfortable, painful information for certain people

0:28:36.160 --> 0:28:39.440
<v Speaker 5>in her family, and so I think she wanted to

0:28:39.440 --> 0:28:40.160
<v Speaker 5>piss them off.

0:28:40.440 --> 0:28:43.800
<v Speaker 3>Yes, like a.

0:28:43.840 --> 0:28:46.040
<v Speaker 4>Two for one, like, yeah, I am fighting for the

0:28:46.080 --> 0:28:49.480
<v Speaker 4>integrity and to protect I am being a protective aunt

0:28:49.720 --> 0:28:53.560
<v Speaker 4>her niece, right, yeah, Auntie. But also the secondary benefit

0:28:53.600 --> 0:28:56.160
<v Speaker 4>would be to piss these half off because I issue

0:28:56.200 --> 0:28:58.080
<v Speaker 4>with them. I could see that too, because I don't

0:28:58.120 --> 0:29:00.560
<v Speaker 4>think like you know, if listen and if I found

0:29:00.600 --> 0:29:04.400
<v Speaker 4>out one of my family members was you know, had

0:29:04.480 --> 0:29:07.400
<v Speaker 4>some somebody was touching her or what have you, allegedly

0:29:08.400 --> 0:29:11.680
<v Speaker 4>and everyone kept it from me, I'm I'm flipping tables too.

0:29:11.800 --> 0:29:14.200
<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna be mad too. So I think that's a

0:29:14.320 --> 0:29:18.600
<v Speaker 4>legitimate response to be upset. But then you also have

0:29:18.680 --> 0:29:20.680
<v Speaker 4>this other layer of if you guys are public figures

0:29:20.840 --> 0:29:23.000
<v Speaker 4>on television, you have a show, and what you choose,

0:29:23.120 --> 0:29:24.800
<v Speaker 4>how you choose, move forward. Okay, I'm gona put her

0:29:24.800 --> 0:29:26.720
<v Speaker 4>on a podcast. I'm exposed. I'm gonna blow the whole

0:29:26.720 --> 0:29:29.760
<v Speaker 4>family up and not care because I don't really rock

0:29:29.800 --> 0:29:31.239
<v Speaker 4>with them any one. I feel like they don't rock

0:29:31.280 --> 0:29:32.720
<v Speaker 4>with me. So yeah, I could see that too.

0:29:33.200 --> 0:29:33.880
<v Speaker 3>She said she.

0:29:33.840 --> 0:29:36.160
<v Speaker 5>Wanted to help her niece, and in the converse, she

0:29:36.360 --> 0:29:39.600
<v Speaker 5>Tamar made sure that she filmed the scene on the

0:29:39.640 --> 0:29:42.320
<v Speaker 5>show where she was sitting down at a restaurant with

0:29:42.360 --> 0:29:46.200
<v Speaker 5>her niece and stating on camera that she wanted to

0:29:46.240 --> 0:29:49.200
<v Speaker 5>help her niece and offer her some help and resources

0:29:49.200 --> 0:29:52.520
<v Speaker 5>that she Tamar I'm speaking of she herself had not

0:29:53.080 --> 0:29:56.280
<v Speaker 5>had available to her when she needed some help. Previously,

0:29:56.360 --> 0:29:59.840
<v Speaker 5>she's alluded to being in a similar position of some

0:30:00.080 --> 0:30:02.520
<v Speaker 5>sort in some way with her niece at some point

0:30:02.560 --> 0:30:05.280
<v Speaker 5>in her life, and so she definitely laid that out

0:30:05.320 --> 0:30:08.880
<v Speaker 5>on camera. But Tamar also is a television producer. She's

0:30:08.920 --> 0:30:12.040
<v Speaker 5>produced multiple reality shows for herself, and she's been a

0:30:12.040 --> 0:30:15.680
<v Speaker 5>producer on The Braxtons the entire time, So Tamar understood

0:30:15.720 --> 0:30:20.880
<v Speaker 5>the importance of that qualifying information being included in what

0:30:20.920 --> 0:30:23.560
<v Speaker 5>was available to be shown on air, right because I'm

0:30:23.560 --> 0:30:25.760
<v Speaker 5>not sure how much control they have over the edits,

0:30:25.800 --> 0:30:29.040
<v Speaker 5>but Tamar knew she had to film a scene saying, hey, niece,

0:30:29.520 --> 0:30:30.080
<v Speaker 5>I want.

0:30:29.920 --> 0:30:32.480
<v Speaker 3>To help you, and this is why we're doing this.

0:30:32.480 --> 0:30:33.719
<v Speaker 5>This is why I want to have you come on

0:30:33.760 --> 0:30:36.840
<v Speaker 5>my show, because then when her intention is questioned, she

0:30:36.960 --> 0:30:40.400
<v Speaker 5>has something to reference now saying no, look, I only

0:30:40.440 --> 0:30:41.400
<v Speaker 5>wanted to help her.

0:30:41.520 --> 0:30:43.240
<v Speaker 3>You can see I talked about it on the show.

0:30:43.720 --> 0:30:46.280
<v Speaker 5>But the behavior that we saw displayed in that dinner

0:30:46.360 --> 0:30:51.440
<v Speaker 5>scene contradicts that being her sole intention because she referenced

0:30:51.440 --> 0:30:55.800
<v Speaker 5>specific things that she took umbrage. No pun intended, because

0:30:55.840 --> 0:30:58.560
<v Speaker 5>you know they called Tajuana umba, but she took umbrage

0:30:58.600 --> 0:31:00.920
<v Speaker 5>with certain things you know what I'm mean saying with

0:31:00.960 --> 0:31:03.720
<v Speaker 5>her sisters, and it motivated the way she reacted and

0:31:03.760 --> 0:31:05.040
<v Speaker 5>responded to things.

0:31:05.240 --> 0:31:06.280
<v Speaker 3>A cease and desist.

0:31:06.960 --> 0:31:13.400
<v Speaker 5>Although although it is a defining, you know document, it's

0:31:13.480 --> 0:31:18.440
<v Speaker 5>just not a it happens, It's not something that's very serious. Okay,

0:31:18.480 --> 0:31:21.200
<v Speaker 5>it can be serious, but it also can be a

0:31:21.280 --> 0:31:23.400
<v Speaker 5>way to just tell a person you don't like what

0:31:23.400 --> 0:31:26.080
<v Speaker 5>they're doing or saying. And I feel like Tamar took

0:31:26.120 --> 0:31:29.560
<v Speaker 5>that seats and desist and the receipt of the of

0:31:29.600 --> 0:31:32.280
<v Speaker 5>that seat that cease and desist, right, she took that

0:31:32.440 --> 0:31:36.600
<v Speaker 5>moment and stretched it as far as she could. Y'all

0:31:36.640 --> 0:31:41.280
<v Speaker 5>trying to shut down my businesses. I'm a producer, I'm

0:31:41.320 --> 0:31:45.240
<v Speaker 5>a singer. This is how I make my money. No,

0:31:45.400 --> 0:31:49.480
<v Speaker 5>it's not Tamar's podcast that she has has changed names.

0:31:49.520 --> 0:31:52.240
<v Speaker 5>It's not people watch it, you know, And it's a

0:31:52.240 --> 0:31:55.200
<v Speaker 5>great conversation between her and some of her close friends.

0:31:55.600 --> 0:31:59.120
<v Speaker 5>But it's not something that is the sole source of

0:31:59.120 --> 0:32:02.040
<v Speaker 5>all her income. I would, I would, I would challenge

0:32:02.080 --> 0:32:04.240
<v Speaker 5>that as a fact. So I don't think they've got

0:32:04.280 --> 0:32:05.920
<v Speaker 5>to shut her businesses down.

0:32:06.240 --> 0:32:08.920
<v Speaker 2>So I thought, I think that was.

0:32:08.920 --> 0:32:11.320
<v Speaker 4>A bit over the top to say that, because Tamar

0:32:11.640 --> 0:32:15.480
<v Speaker 4>is a singer, a great singer, she has reality shows,

0:32:15.520 --> 0:32:18.360
<v Speaker 4>She's constantly booked and busy, So I don't think that

0:32:18.400 --> 0:32:20.880
<v Speaker 4>would shut her down, I think. But you know, Tamar,

0:32:20.960 --> 0:32:25.000
<v Speaker 4>to her credit for reality TV, is good at bringing

0:32:25.040 --> 0:32:27.680
<v Speaker 4>the drama, being dramatic, and I feel that I do

0:32:27.720 --> 0:32:29.760
<v Speaker 4>feel bad if this was very painful for the niece

0:32:29.760 --> 0:32:33.080
<v Speaker 4>in real life, and it kind of feels a little yucky,

0:32:33.520 --> 0:32:37.560
<v Speaker 4>like her situation kind of got exploited for, like get

0:32:37.600 --> 0:32:38.400
<v Speaker 4>back with each other.

0:32:39.160 --> 0:32:42.160
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, to be fair, she introduced the inform we had

0:32:42.200 --> 0:32:47.480
<v Speaker 5>no idea about any of these alleged occurrences. Right her niece, Ashley,

0:32:47.960 --> 0:32:50.680
<v Speaker 5>who had been living in Spain I believe for the

0:32:50.760 --> 0:32:54.400
<v Speaker 5>past what teen years or something like that, she brought

0:32:54.480 --> 0:32:58.280
<v Speaker 5>the started making tick type videos speaking about her experience.

0:32:58.280 --> 0:32:59.920
<v Speaker 3>And that's what kind of set all this off.

0:33:00.520 --> 0:33:02.600
<v Speaker 5>As a person who's been viewing the brag since it

0:33:02.640 --> 0:33:05.719
<v Speaker 5>does feel like Tamar used it to her advantage, it

0:33:05.760 --> 0:33:07.840
<v Speaker 5>does it exploited it.

0:33:08.440 --> 0:33:12.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, yeah, I have a piggyback off of

0:33:12.600 --> 0:33:16.160
<v Speaker 1>what doesn't saying, just so you were aware. To Claudia,

0:33:16.240 --> 0:33:21.000
<v Speaker 1>the niece did the TikTok video saying that allegedly that

0:33:21.040 --> 0:33:24.680
<v Speaker 1>one of her aunts, her aunties cut her off after

0:33:24.840 --> 0:33:28.400
<v Speaker 1>the auntie's partner was inappropriate with her at the age

0:33:28.440 --> 0:33:33.560
<v Speaker 1>of sixteen, and that's when everybody started to throw names

0:33:33.600 --> 0:33:39.440
<v Speaker 1>out there without her name is Ashley, without actually even

0:33:39.480 --> 0:33:39.920
<v Speaker 1>saying the.

0:33:39.920 --> 0:33:42.240
<v Speaker 2>Name, and just to catch people on.

0:33:42.440 --> 0:33:45.800
<v Speaker 1>This is what Ashley did say on the TikTok. So Claudia,

0:33:45.840 --> 0:33:48.640
<v Speaker 1>I want you to know too. This is what she

0:33:48.760 --> 0:33:52.240
<v Speaker 1>said on TikTok before the season even started.

0:33:53.040 --> 0:33:54.400
<v Speaker 2>So I want to tell a story.

0:33:54.200 --> 0:33:56.360
<v Speaker 1>Today, and the story is about how one of my

0:33:56.400 --> 0:33:59.240
<v Speaker 1>aunts and my family do not talk to me because

0:33:59.320 --> 0:34:02.240
<v Speaker 1>they think that I, at the age of sixteen, did

0:34:02.320 --> 0:34:04.040
<v Speaker 1>something with a partner at the time.

0:34:04.840 --> 0:34:06.080
<v Speaker 2>And I believe.

0:34:06.360 --> 0:34:09.920
<v Speaker 1>Hold on a second, and I'm sorry, and I have

0:34:10.040 --> 0:34:12.880
<v Speaker 1>been a nervous wreck to talk about something like this

0:34:13.320 --> 0:34:16.040
<v Speaker 1>and to tell this story A because of my family.

0:34:16.239 --> 0:34:19.560
<v Speaker 1>B because I don't want to hurt people. It's not

0:34:19.760 --> 0:34:22.200
<v Speaker 1>to hurt people to tell my story. But at the

0:34:22.239 --> 0:34:24.400
<v Speaker 1>same time, I've been working through this so much in

0:34:24.480 --> 0:34:27.640
<v Speaker 1>therapy and this is something that goes way deep to

0:34:27.719 --> 0:34:31.200
<v Speaker 1>my core and in terms of worthiness and how I

0:34:31.239 --> 0:34:32.920
<v Speaker 1>feel about myself.

0:34:33.200 --> 0:34:34.040
<v Speaker 2>So she listen.

0:34:34.120 --> 0:34:37.520
<v Speaker 1>That's how she started to offer TikTok, and again she

0:34:37.640 --> 0:34:41.200
<v Speaker 1>started off by saying that one of her aunts.

0:34:41.120 --> 0:34:42.879
<v Speaker 2>Just doesn't talk to her because.

0:34:42.560 --> 0:34:46.520
<v Speaker 1>Of what you know allegedly occurred when she was sixteen

0:34:47.000 --> 0:34:49.239
<v Speaker 1>years of age.

0:34:49.000 --> 0:34:51.400
<v Speaker 4>And that happens in black families all the time, and

0:34:51.480 --> 0:34:54.960
<v Speaker 4>I'm sticking it. So I'm glad that someone put them up.

0:34:55.320 --> 0:34:58.600
<v Speaker 4>Put the behavior on blast because that is not cute

0:34:58.960 --> 0:35:01.560
<v Speaker 4>and I never are. Then Tamar's right, you know what

0:35:01.560 --> 0:35:04.160
<v Speaker 4>I mean as far as like looking out for the niece,

0:35:04.719 --> 0:35:07.879
<v Speaker 4>that was the soul intent was like, look, I really

0:35:07.920 --> 0:35:10.040
<v Speaker 4>care about this and I'm gonna elevate your voice. And

0:35:10.840 --> 0:35:14.560
<v Speaker 4>whoever said the cease and sist to Tamar about shutting

0:35:14.600 --> 0:35:16.200
<v Speaker 4>it down and not talk about it, I think they

0:35:16.200 --> 0:35:20.680
<v Speaker 4>were wrong. I think they were dead wrong. For I mean, yes,

0:35:20.760 --> 0:35:23.400
<v Speaker 4>the person is no longer with us allegedly right, but

0:35:23.600 --> 0:35:26.200
<v Speaker 4>like that she shouldn't be able to talk about it

0:35:26.360 --> 0:35:27.399
<v Speaker 4>because the person died.

0:35:27.520 --> 0:35:31.000
<v Speaker 5>I think the if not, I think it's funny that

0:35:31.160 --> 0:35:34.640
<v Speaker 5>when Tamar did voice her concerns with being issued.

0:35:34.360 --> 0:35:37.120
<v Speaker 3>To cease and desist, the cease and desist.

0:35:37.360 --> 0:35:40.040
<v Speaker 5>Now one time did she say, y'all stop me from

0:35:40.080 --> 0:35:41.000
<v Speaker 5>helping Ashley.

0:35:41.640 --> 0:35:44.200
<v Speaker 2>Y'all tell her story.

0:35:44.400 --> 0:35:48.520
<v Speaker 5>She kept saying, y'all shutting my business down. I'm a singer,

0:35:48.600 --> 0:35:51.880
<v Speaker 5>I'm a producer, I'm this. It was the focus was

0:35:51.960 --> 0:35:56.520
<v Speaker 5>only on helping Ashley her our view the viewers, we

0:35:56.560 --> 0:35:59.440
<v Speaker 5>only saw that being her focus and intention in the

0:35:59.440 --> 0:36:01.440
<v Speaker 5>scene when she said down at the restaurant with her

0:36:01.520 --> 0:36:04.600
<v Speaker 5>niece and when they began their discourse on stage at

0:36:04.600 --> 0:36:08.080
<v Speaker 5>Tamar's live podcast. Any other time she's spoken about the

0:36:08.120 --> 0:36:10.719
<v Speaker 5>cease and desist on the show, her focus has been

0:36:11.560 --> 0:36:15.879
<v Speaker 5>her being wronged by her sisters, as opposed to a

0:36:15.920 --> 0:36:20.000
<v Speaker 5>block being put in place between her and offering some

0:36:20.040 --> 0:36:21.840
<v Speaker 5>sort of help or assistance to her niece.

0:36:22.160 --> 0:36:24.440
<v Speaker 3>And I find that a bit telling. Personally.

0:36:25.000 --> 0:36:29.839
<v Speaker 5>I think that Tamar, when her personality is corralled appropriately

0:36:29.920 --> 0:36:33.799
<v Speaker 5>and housed appropriately, I think she is a She's a

0:36:33.920 --> 0:36:37.799
<v Speaker 5>dynamite television personality. I think she was incredible on the

0:36:37.880 --> 0:36:40.480
<v Speaker 5>real as a host, And I think that she is

0:36:40.520 --> 0:36:42.719
<v Speaker 5>one of the best singers really of our time. She

0:36:42.719 --> 0:36:49.280
<v Speaker 5>has an incredible a beautiful singing. Personalities are subjective. People

0:36:49.360 --> 0:36:51.879
<v Speaker 5>might like her, might not like her, but she's good

0:36:51.920 --> 0:36:54.560
<v Speaker 5>at those two things. What we've seen her not be

0:36:54.640 --> 0:36:58.640
<v Speaker 5>as successful as is being a friend, being a sister,

0:36:59.360 --> 0:37:04.399
<v Speaker 5>being lawyer, maintaining privacy when it comes to personal things

0:37:04.400 --> 0:37:07.680
<v Speaker 5>between her and someone else. She constantly runs to the

0:37:07.719 --> 0:37:11.000
<v Speaker 5>Internet whenever she has issues with anything or anyone, and

0:37:11.040 --> 0:37:15.560
<v Speaker 5>that makes resolution and resolved difficult because now you're inviting

0:37:15.640 --> 0:37:19.520
<v Speaker 5>in a myriad of opinions and other perspectives to something

0:37:19.560 --> 0:37:21.240
<v Speaker 5>that could have been handled between two people.

0:37:21.600 --> 0:37:22.680
<v Speaker 3>So I'm challenged.

0:37:22.880 --> 0:37:26.120
<v Speaker 5>Really, if I'm being honest, I've seen Tamar habitually cross

0:37:26.239 --> 0:37:30.279
<v Speaker 5>lines and boundaries of disrespect with her sisters over the years. Right,

0:37:31.000 --> 0:37:32.560
<v Speaker 5>we can go back to the scene when she went

0:37:32.600 --> 0:37:35.480
<v Speaker 5>around the table and pointed out something that was wrong

0:37:35.560 --> 0:37:39.120
<v Speaker 5>with everybody's husband at the table, personal things like them being,

0:37:39.640 --> 0:37:42.560
<v Speaker 5>you know, having infidelities or having not been able to

0:37:42.640 --> 0:37:43.280
<v Speaker 5>keep a job.

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<v Speaker 3>You know these are you, I know.

0:37:48.239 --> 0:37:49.279
<v Speaker 2>But listen, I'll say this.

0:37:49.600 --> 0:37:54.400
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I'm a fan of the show. Yeah, listen, I

0:37:54.440 --> 0:37:58.520
<v Speaker 1>will say this. At the time, as I was watching it,

0:37:58.680 --> 0:38:01.520
<v Speaker 1>I did laugh because I I didn't.

0:38:01.360 --> 0:38:03.760
<v Speaker 2>This is my opinion. I didn't take it as deep.

0:38:03.880 --> 0:38:07.920
<v Speaker 1>But I'm often on the receiving end and I'm feel Yes,

0:38:08.040 --> 0:38:10.560
<v Speaker 1>But the scene rain Drops is where she said, your

0:38:10.600 --> 0:38:12.680
<v Speaker 1>man's a cheetah.

0:38:12.160 --> 0:38:13.680
<v Speaker 2>Your man a computer with.

0:38:15.120 --> 0:38:17.640
<v Speaker 1>Because allegedly one of the husbands was like on the

0:38:17.680 --> 0:38:19.359
<v Speaker 1>internet talk to other women.

0:38:19.920 --> 0:38:21.879
<v Speaker 3>Now, I'm gonna tell you what I got a problem with.

0:38:22.040 --> 0:38:24.240
<v Speaker 5>Right, here's what I have a problem with, because Tamar

0:38:24.400 --> 0:38:28.520
<v Speaker 5>is not the only person at fault in this situation. Right,

0:38:29.400 --> 0:38:31.960
<v Speaker 5>The main conflict that we witness was between her and

0:38:32.000 --> 0:38:35.080
<v Speaker 5>her sister Twanda. Okay, and this is not something new.

0:38:35.520 --> 0:38:39.120
<v Speaker 5>This has been a recurring conflict or a recurrent theme

0:38:39.200 --> 0:38:47.960
<v Speaker 5>since the first our introduction to the Braxtons. Right, money, access, ego, pride,

0:38:48.000 --> 0:38:50.800
<v Speaker 5>all those things play a part in this conversation because,

0:38:50.840 --> 0:38:54.319
<v Speaker 5>as you see, when Tamar was lashing out or reacting

0:38:54.400 --> 0:38:57.360
<v Speaker 5>to being sent to seas and this is by somebody

0:38:57.400 --> 0:39:00.480
<v Speaker 5>connected to the sisters and their attorney or former attorney.

0:39:00.560 --> 0:39:03.919
<v Speaker 5>At one point, Tamar started talking about everything else. Y'all

0:39:03.920 --> 0:39:07.160
<v Speaker 5>are jealous of me. She started referencing her looks, She

0:39:07.239 --> 0:39:10.799
<v Speaker 5>started referencing monies that were giving in whether or not

0:39:10.840 --> 0:39:13.920
<v Speaker 5>they were a gift or alone, you know, and and

0:39:13.960 --> 0:39:17.680
<v Speaker 5>Tojuanda started going back and forth, and Tuanda took advantage

0:39:17.680 --> 0:39:20.440
<v Speaker 5>of the opportunity. It seemed to me as if Tuanda

0:39:20.480 --> 0:39:24.880
<v Speaker 5>had an intention of Okay, I'm about to expose you.

0:39:24.960 --> 0:39:26.960
<v Speaker 5>I want to change the way that people view you.

0:39:27.360 --> 0:39:30.560
<v Speaker 5>I want people to understand that you're a bad person

0:39:31.280 --> 0:39:34.520
<v Speaker 5>who would do things that people consider disgusting and representable

0:39:34.600 --> 0:39:36.960
<v Speaker 5>to their siblings. So I'm going to tell this secret,

0:39:37.160 --> 0:39:40.960
<v Speaker 5>no matter alleged secret, I should say about you allegedly

0:39:41.040 --> 0:39:43.759
<v Speaker 5>sleeping with someone that Tony who's had a relationship with

0:39:43.960 --> 0:39:46.120
<v Speaker 5>because I want people to look at you differently than

0:39:46.120 --> 0:39:46.480
<v Speaker 5>they do.

0:39:46.800 --> 0:39:50.759
<v Speaker 3>That's a deep down, you know, intention.

0:39:50.760 --> 0:39:53.319
<v Speaker 5>For someone to have, especially your sister when it comes

0:39:53.360 --> 0:39:56.120
<v Speaker 5>to a problem between the two of y'all, and Tuanda

0:39:56.200 --> 0:39:58.719
<v Speaker 5>continued to do in same things that I felt like cross.

0:39:58.520 --> 0:39:59.120
<v Speaker 3>The line too.

0:39:59.480 --> 0:40:02.080
<v Speaker 5>Towards the end end of the conflict, Towanda can be

0:40:02.120 --> 0:40:03.600
<v Speaker 5>seen on camera and shout.

0:40:03.400 --> 0:40:05.360
<v Speaker 3>Out to the editors for making sure it was included.

0:40:05.680 --> 0:40:08.399
<v Speaker 5>Towanda was saying, let's call the police and let's press

0:40:08.520 --> 0:40:11.759
<v Speaker 5>charges on her. Let's call the police and let's press

0:40:11.840 --> 0:40:14.320
<v Speaker 5>charges on her. She kept repeating that in that scene,

0:40:15.360 --> 0:40:18.880
<v Speaker 5>bringing up shit about kids, all of that was just

0:40:19.040 --> 0:40:22.000
<v Speaker 5>line that it was just lines being crossed that are

0:40:22.080 --> 0:40:25.640
<v Speaker 5>difficult to go back from. Shout out to Trina Braxton.

0:40:26.200 --> 0:40:31.000
<v Speaker 5>I think Trina Braxton regulated her emotions impeccably during that

0:40:31.120 --> 0:40:35.520
<v Speaker 5>whole confrontation. Trina was keeping her tone down. Trina was

0:40:35.520 --> 0:40:39.120
<v Speaker 5>trying to defuse things, to escalate things. Even when she

0:40:39.160 --> 0:40:42.720
<v Speaker 5>would respond to some of the wild shit Tamar was saying,

0:40:42.760 --> 0:40:44.600
<v Speaker 5>she would just be like, no, Tamar, I'm.

0:40:44.480 --> 0:40:47.600
<v Speaker 4>Not even when she got her hair pulled from the

0:40:47.680 --> 0:40:51.080
<v Speaker 4>back that would have set me off. True, she was

0:40:51.120 --> 0:40:54.400
<v Speaker 4>trying to She was trying her best to be the

0:40:54.440 --> 0:40:57.759
<v Speaker 4>peacemaker between She got villainized for it. And you know

0:40:57.920 --> 0:40:59.480
<v Speaker 4>the heat of the moment, you mad, you like you

0:40:59.560 --> 0:41:02.040
<v Speaker 4>touched me? Are you you separating us? Let me get

0:41:02.040 --> 0:41:04.719
<v Speaker 4>out of it. Know that was what Trina did, the right

0:41:04.760 --> 0:41:09.160
<v Speaker 4>thing and Tamar, that was such an ugly scene. It

0:41:09.280 --> 0:41:10.359
<v Speaker 4>was so ugly for them.

0:41:10.600 --> 0:41:12.880
<v Speaker 5>And we all have the moments, right, That's not that

0:41:12.920 --> 0:41:15.600
<v Speaker 5>they're not alone in that, Like we all have moments

0:41:15.640 --> 0:41:18.960
<v Speaker 5>that we're not proud of. Especially Kin't nobody piss me

0:41:19.040 --> 0:41:21.160
<v Speaker 5>off like my family. I'm just gonna be honest. I

0:41:21.160 --> 0:41:25.080
<v Speaker 5>don't give a fuck about my family. You know, Like

0:41:25.640 --> 0:41:29.279
<v Speaker 5>disagreements internally are triggering for me and so I get

0:41:29.320 --> 0:41:31.799
<v Speaker 5>it right. But I'm also not finna cut my brother

0:41:31.840 --> 0:41:34.080
<v Speaker 5>or sister out on TV like that. Just I don't

0:41:34.120 --> 0:41:36.560
<v Speaker 5>even have it if we have a disagreement. I was

0:41:36.640 --> 0:41:39.040
<v Speaker 5>just telling my friend earlier, me and my brother, that's

0:41:39.080 --> 0:41:41.160
<v Speaker 5>our love language. Fuck you, nigga, what the fuck you?

0:41:41.160 --> 0:41:43.239
<v Speaker 5>Guy's how we talked. Hello, what you do in your

0:41:43.320 --> 0:41:45.200
<v Speaker 5>ugly mother? But that's how we talk to each other.

0:41:45.520 --> 0:41:48.480
<v Speaker 5>But if we ever have a disagreement, we remove all

0:41:48.480 --> 0:41:50.359
<v Speaker 5>of that and we talk about what was going on.

0:41:50.480 --> 0:41:51.239
<v Speaker 3>You know what I'm saying.

0:41:51.239 --> 0:41:53.799
<v Speaker 5>I don't have it in my heart to hurt him

0:41:53.800 --> 0:41:57.040
<v Speaker 5>in that way or dip disrespectfully.

0:41:56.160 --> 0:41:57.680
<v Speaker 3>Insult him, you know what I'm saying.

0:41:57.960 --> 0:42:00.960
<v Speaker 5>So seeing Tamar and Tauana just go right there, it

0:42:01.080 --> 0:42:04.880
<v Speaker 5>indicates a lot of ship and a very very broken relationship.

0:42:05.400 --> 0:42:06.600
<v Speaker 3>They don't like each other.

0:42:07.000 --> 0:42:07.920
<v Speaker 2>I was just gonna say that.

0:42:08.680 --> 0:42:10.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna say I want to I want to peel

0:42:10.360 --> 0:42:13.960
<v Speaker 1>back to because you have siblings.

0:42:14.000 --> 0:42:16.520
<v Speaker 2>You have siblings. I have I have nine of them,

0:42:16.719 --> 0:42:18.120
<v Speaker 2>nine siblings.

0:42:18.080 --> 0:42:18.480
<v Speaker 6>And.

0:42:19.920 --> 0:42:22.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell you what I saw as somebody who

0:42:22.440 --> 0:42:24.719
<v Speaker 1>is the middle child of ten kids who all grew

0:42:24.800 --> 0:42:28.480
<v Speaker 1>up in the same house with the same parents all

0:42:28.520 --> 0:42:32.239
<v Speaker 1>our lives. I did see a couple of things. I

0:42:32.280 --> 0:42:35.720
<v Speaker 1>saw gas lighting and I'll get to that. I saw

0:42:35.920 --> 0:42:41.640
<v Speaker 1>passive aggressiveness, and I saw a deep need to expose

0:42:42.160 --> 0:42:45.880
<v Speaker 1>because I'm tired, that I'm fed up and I'm done

0:42:46.239 --> 0:42:48.600
<v Speaker 1>and I'm done and I and the world's about to

0:42:48.600 --> 0:42:50.919
<v Speaker 1>find out exactly who you are. So what I will

0:42:50.920 --> 0:42:53.640
<v Speaker 1>say is this, even when and I want to go

0:42:53.719 --> 0:42:57.879
<v Speaker 1>back a little bit to the moment about Ashley being

0:42:57.920 --> 0:43:01.600
<v Speaker 1>on the show and how Tam Martell Tony you told

0:43:01.760 --> 0:43:04.680
<v Speaker 1>me to get on the Braxis and Tony denied it,

0:43:05.320 --> 0:43:06.239
<v Speaker 1>and Tamar.

0:43:06.000 --> 0:43:08.920
<v Speaker 2>Said, I swear on my mom that.

0:43:09.000 --> 0:43:13.279
<v Speaker 1>You did it right, only for Tony then to go

0:43:13.320 --> 0:43:17.720
<v Speaker 1>with her confessionals to say, well, look, I did say

0:43:18.160 --> 0:43:20.880
<v Speaker 1>bring her on the show, but in this way, so

0:43:20.960 --> 0:43:24.919
<v Speaker 1>I do feel like this it goes to show you that, yes,

0:43:25.040 --> 0:43:29.279
<v Speaker 1>Tamar may be this big, bragadocious, loud person, right, and

0:43:29.360 --> 0:43:31.640
<v Speaker 1>Tamar is as flawed as all of us.

0:43:31.880 --> 0:43:34.080
<v Speaker 2>But I will say, in that moment.

0:43:34.760 --> 0:43:39.040
<v Speaker 1>I did feel like, well, if you're saying to her

0:43:39.200 --> 0:43:43.080
<v Speaker 1>in her face, you didn't do it, only to then

0:43:43.120 --> 0:43:46.560
<v Speaker 1>go on your confessionals saying well, I did do it.

0:43:46.560 --> 0:43:51.360
<v Speaker 7>It does sort of present this, this this notion that okay,

0:43:52.040 --> 0:43:54.880
<v Speaker 7>is Tamar being gas lily by her sisters, and and

0:43:55.120 --> 0:43:57.800
<v Speaker 7>and and one more thing does and Tom tap you in.

0:43:58.760 --> 0:44:02.319
<v Speaker 1>Because I have fiblings, and whoever has siblings more than

0:44:02.440 --> 0:44:06.759
<v Speaker 1>like a couple, y'all go, y'all, go, y'all, y'all, y'all go,

0:44:06.840 --> 0:44:08.520
<v Speaker 1>y'all gonna agree to this and you'll agree with this

0:44:08.560 --> 0:44:14.719
<v Speaker 1>suit does it? There were tons of side looks and whispers,

0:44:15.200 --> 0:44:19.359
<v Speaker 1>m h, that was happening. So even when Tamar brought

0:44:19.440 --> 0:44:22.239
<v Speaker 1>the accusation of the phone the phone bill of the

0:44:22.239 --> 0:44:24.280
<v Speaker 1>thumb bill, I told you about the phone bill, remember

0:44:24.320 --> 0:44:26.960
<v Speaker 1>the phone bill that Tawanza had my name, but d

0:44:27.960 --> 0:44:30.320
<v Speaker 1>and Tony said, you did say that that to Wanda

0:44:30.320 --> 0:44:32.759
<v Speaker 1>goes yeah, but something like is.

0:44:32.680 --> 0:44:33.800
<v Speaker 2>That illegal whatever?

0:44:33.880 --> 0:44:37.720
<v Speaker 1>With the words were something about what was that illegal

0:44:37.960 --> 0:44:43.320
<v Speaker 1>or something, and Tony whispers, it doesn't make it true.

0:44:43.800 --> 0:44:48.000
<v Speaker 1>It was sort of like, Okay, I'm really seeing I'm

0:44:48.040 --> 0:44:49.600
<v Speaker 1>really seeing moments of.

0:44:51.120 --> 0:44:52.720
<v Speaker 2>Things being gassed lited.

0:44:53.080 --> 0:44:55.719
<v Speaker 1>And again I'm not I'm not saying I'm on this

0:44:55.760 --> 0:44:57.280
<v Speaker 1>purchase side of not I'm watching the show.

0:44:57.800 --> 0:44:59.839
<v Speaker 2>But I will say for a woman.

0:44:59.800 --> 0:45:03.080
<v Speaker 1>Like Tamar, who does have a reputation that she said,

0:45:03.120 --> 0:45:05.520
<v Speaker 1>people just think she just goes off on the left.

0:45:05.520 --> 0:45:08.680
<v Speaker 2>For the reason, I will say that scene I did

0:45:08.719 --> 0:45:10.120
<v Speaker 2>see moms, so I'm like a.

0:45:12.680 --> 0:45:16.000
<v Speaker 1>To be gas letting your face by your sisters, and

0:45:16.040 --> 0:45:18.840
<v Speaker 1>then as a person at siblings who also does the

0:45:18.840 --> 0:45:22.959
<v Speaker 1>little look to my other sister like love, I did

0:45:23.040 --> 0:45:26.239
<v Speaker 1>see moments of like Okay, I can see where I'm sorry,

0:45:26.280 --> 0:45:30.279
<v Speaker 1>I can see why she feels this way in this moment.

0:45:30.440 --> 0:45:31.120
<v Speaker 3>I could too.

0:45:31.800 --> 0:45:34.600
<v Speaker 5>I agree with you because I definitely recognize moments. Like

0:45:34.640 --> 0:45:38.480
<v Speaker 5>I told you, Tamar is not alone in what made

0:45:38.480 --> 0:45:40.960
<v Speaker 5>this dinner go left right, or what makes their dinners

0:45:40.960 --> 0:45:43.920
<v Speaker 5>typically go left. There were other people who are involved.

0:45:44.360 --> 0:45:46.759
<v Speaker 5>Trina was making faces and shit, you know what I'm saying.

0:45:46.800 --> 0:45:49.759
<v Speaker 5>Even though she did regulate her emotions well when it

0:45:49.800 --> 0:45:53.440
<v Speaker 5>was time for her to actually communicate, her nonverbal communication

0:45:53.719 --> 0:45:54.640
<v Speaker 5>was something different.

0:45:54.719 --> 0:45:59.600
<v Speaker 3>Right. Twanda appears to.

0:45:59.600 --> 0:46:04.080
<v Speaker 5>Have a a mean, nasty edge to her spirit when

0:46:04.080 --> 0:46:05.760
<v Speaker 5>she is in conflict with Tamar.

0:46:06.360 --> 0:46:08.040
<v Speaker 3>I don't know where that comes from. I don't know

0:46:08.080 --> 0:46:09.120
<v Speaker 3>what that reflects, but.

0:46:09.120 --> 0:46:14.279
<v Speaker 5>She appears to have a goal of shifting the perspective

0:46:14.760 --> 0:46:18.160
<v Speaker 5>of whoever is watching or listening when it comes to Tamar.

0:46:18.360 --> 0:46:22.440
<v Speaker 5>It seems like Towanda does not like how Tamar is

0:46:22.520 --> 0:46:26.759
<v Speaker 5>well received by some people. In spite of her behaviors

0:46:26.760 --> 0:46:29.520
<v Speaker 5>that can be deemed or radic, can be deemed problematic,

0:46:29.600 --> 0:46:32.000
<v Speaker 5>can be deemed childish, can be deemed whatever you want

0:46:32.000 --> 0:46:34.359
<v Speaker 5>to deem them, she still gets a lot of love,

0:46:35.040 --> 0:46:37.719
<v Speaker 5>you know what I'm saying. And I think that Towanda

0:46:37.840 --> 0:46:41.680
<v Speaker 5>resents that because Twuanda feels like she has real issues

0:46:41.719 --> 0:46:44.120
<v Speaker 5>to be upset with Tamar about and she feels like

0:46:44.160 --> 0:46:47.080
<v Speaker 5>her sisters have real issues to be upset with Tamar about.

0:46:47.080 --> 0:46:49.480
<v Speaker 5>And I don't think she feels like Tamar deserves some

0:46:49.520 --> 0:46:53.359
<v Speaker 5>of the success that Tamar has rightfully earned on her

0:46:53.400 --> 0:46:56.560
<v Speaker 5>own of her own merit, right, I think to it

0:46:56.600 --> 0:46:59.080
<v Speaker 5>appears as if Tuana resents that a little bit, and

0:46:59.120 --> 0:47:01.680
<v Speaker 5>so she tries to hut down the middle when she's

0:47:01.760 --> 0:47:02.760
<v Speaker 5>arguing with Tamar.

0:47:03.120 --> 0:47:05.640
<v Speaker 3>Why else would you bring up something like that.

0:47:06.480 --> 0:47:08.680
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Tamar brought up that down payment, But that's the

0:47:08.719 --> 0:47:10.640
<v Speaker 5>kind of shit you do when you help each other out,

0:47:10.880 --> 0:47:13.799
<v Speaker 5>when your siblings and shit, you know, But even that

0:47:13.920 --> 0:47:16.080
<v Speaker 5>being brought up, it just it's just on.

0:47:16.360 --> 0:47:16.560
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:47:16.560 --> 0:47:18.560
<v Speaker 2>I don't like it. Yeah, and I want to hear

0:47:18.600 --> 0:47:19.040
<v Speaker 2>from you too.

0:47:19.320 --> 0:47:22.359
<v Speaker 1>I'll say this, as a person has siblings, I think

0:47:22.400 --> 0:47:24.880
<v Speaker 1>they all cross the line with exposing what they do

0:47:24.960 --> 0:47:25.479
<v Speaker 1>for each other.

0:47:26.239 --> 0:47:27.000
<v Speaker 2>I don't like that.

0:47:27.960 --> 0:47:30.640
<v Speaker 1>That's why I do feel like in that moment, the

0:47:30.680 --> 0:47:33.759
<v Speaker 1>gloves were off, and it was the first time that

0:47:33.880 --> 0:47:39.479
<v Speaker 1>I saw the living legend Tony B. Braxtaid gloves being

0:47:39.520 --> 0:47:42.719
<v Speaker 1>off too. Because as the older sister, she always had

0:47:42.800 --> 0:47:47.239
<v Speaker 1>this way, either I'm going to keep things here or

0:47:47.239 --> 0:47:50.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to remove myself from the situation. I was

0:47:50.680 --> 0:47:54.799
<v Speaker 1>surprised to see even her have her gloves off. And

0:47:54.840 --> 0:48:00.760
<v Speaker 1>the thing with Trina, who definitely wasn't vocal. I will say,

0:48:01.640 --> 0:48:05.480
<v Speaker 1>even when Trina said to Tony, you're you're a superstar,

0:48:06.400 --> 0:48:13.720
<v Speaker 1>I'll say this, I didn't like that in that moment

0:48:14.400 --> 0:48:21.440
<v Speaker 1>because you're sort of exactly, you're sort of categorizing that

0:48:21.600 --> 0:48:24.200
<v Speaker 1>one sister has more to lose in the other, and

0:48:24.360 --> 0:48:26.920
<v Speaker 1>as a viewer, all you guys have the same thing

0:48:26.960 --> 0:48:27.319
<v Speaker 1>to lose.

0:48:27.440 --> 0:48:29.799
<v Speaker 2>Yes, Tony Braxett is the iconic.

0:48:29.480 --> 0:48:34.440
<v Speaker 1>Grammy Award winning living legend, right, but in this moment,

0:48:34.560 --> 0:48:35.320
<v Speaker 1>that's your sister.

0:48:35.800 --> 0:48:37.439
<v Speaker 3>There you go. Thank you.

0:48:38.920 --> 0:48:41.279
<v Speaker 1>Does not matter in this moment when I get to

0:48:41.480 --> 0:48:44.840
<v Speaker 1>argument with my with my siblings, none of those mothers,

0:48:45.920 --> 0:48:49.560
<v Speaker 1>none of them saying that's the king of reality TV

0:48:50.040 --> 0:48:51.799
<v Speaker 1>like you got they might.

0:48:52.280 --> 0:49:01.560
<v Speaker 4>Okay, yeah, that was again more evidence of long standing

0:49:01.719 --> 0:49:04.360
<v Speaker 4>beef for many, many years. It was clearly a dig

0:49:04.480 --> 0:49:09.200
<v Speaker 4>like the sister is saying, she's saying you're a superstar

0:49:11.760 --> 0:49:14.600
<v Speaker 4>and looking at Tamar, you're a superstar. This is above you.

0:49:15.560 --> 0:49:19.279
<v Speaker 4>They've had lots of arguments in the past, and you know,

0:49:19.440 --> 0:49:21.600
<v Speaker 4>I do think that Tamor probably feels a way that

0:49:21.680 --> 0:49:24.840
<v Speaker 4>sometimes Tony Braxton does get that label. And as talented

0:49:24.840 --> 0:49:27.320
<v Speaker 4>as Tamar is, which she is, really, I think a

0:49:27.320 --> 0:49:30.840
<v Speaker 4>lot of Tamar's issues is sometimes I do think she's

0:49:30.920 --> 0:49:34.040
<v Speaker 4>correct in her stances. It's probably the delivery and that

0:49:34.120 --> 0:49:35.919
<v Speaker 4>rubs their sisters the wrong way, so they get into

0:49:35.960 --> 0:49:39.000
<v Speaker 4>it like it's delivery is like half the battle and tone,

0:49:39.239 --> 0:49:41.719
<v Speaker 4>so even when you're right, it's it's like easy to

0:49:41.760 --> 0:49:44.000
<v Speaker 4>demonize someone right and be like, look at her, she's

0:49:44.040 --> 0:49:46.240
<v Speaker 4>acting up. She acted here she go acting ghetto again,

0:49:46.560 --> 0:49:49.760
<v Speaker 4>not acting like a superstar. When your delivery is on ten,

0:49:50.560 --> 0:49:52.520
<v Speaker 4>no one really can hear you. They hear you yelling,

0:49:52.640 --> 0:49:56.759
<v Speaker 4>they hear you screaming, they hear your your your seem aggressive, right,

0:49:56.800 --> 0:49:59.520
<v Speaker 4>they're not really hearing. Well, maybe she was gaessled a

0:49:59.560 --> 0:50:01.400
<v Speaker 4>little bit. Maybe she does have a point. And then

0:50:01.440 --> 0:50:04.160
<v Speaker 4>no one wants to feel sympathy for you because of

0:50:04.200 --> 0:50:07.000
<v Speaker 4>your tone. So that's what like, so and the sisters

0:50:07.040 --> 0:50:11.200
<v Speaker 4>know that, right, So you keep yourself tone, your tone

0:50:11.400 --> 0:50:13.880
<v Speaker 4>calm and cool and let your sister crash out. She

0:50:14.000 --> 0:50:16.239
<v Speaker 4>instantly the audience will be like, oh, here's she go

0:50:16.360 --> 0:50:20.760
<v Speaker 4>again doing what she do. But it's obvious many many,

0:50:20.800 --> 0:50:26.280
<v Speaker 4>many many many years of resentment, hurt, pain over whatever issues, jealousy,

0:50:27.120 --> 0:50:29.760
<v Speaker 4>And I don't think it's all only directed at Tamar.

0:50:29.880 --> 0:50:32.080
<v Speaker 4>I think that there's a lot of two way jealousy

0:50:32.120 --> 0:50:34.520
<v Speaker 4>in that family. And it's not for the things. It's

0:50:34.560 --> 0:50:36.200
<v Speaker 4>not just like, oh well you made it. I didn't

0:50:36.200 --> 0:50:39.200
<v Speaker 4>make it as big. There's just you know, people throwing

0:50:39.239 --> 0:50:40.840
<v Speaker 4>shit in each other's faces. As we saw in the

0:50:40.960 --> 0:50:43.040
<v Speaker 4>argument that wasn't cool at all.

0:50:43.600 --> 0:50:44.520
<v Speaker 2>Don't do it for me.

0:50:44.560 --> 0:50:46.200
<v Speaker 4>If you're gonna throw it on my face later, do

0:50:46.280 --> 0:50:48.839
<v Speaker 4>not do that. And I just think that they were

0:50:48.880 --> 0:50:50.359
<v Speaker 4>both there was a lot of there was a lot

0:50:50.480 --> 0:50:53.080
<v Speaker 4>enough blame to go around to the whole family with

0:50:53.160 --> 0:51:00.000
<v Speaker 4>that scene. But it was ugly and it's been ugly though. Yeah,

0:51:00.200 --> 0:51:01.799
<v Speaker 4>it's been a This is not new.

0:51:02.440 --> 0:51:04.200
<v Speaker 2>And they don't like each other.

0:51:04.239 --> 0:51:05.799
<v Speaker 4>Listen, they don't like They love each other, but they

0:51:05.800 --> 0:51:06.480
<v Speaker 4>don't like each other.

0:51:09.520 --> 0:51:10.120
<v Speaker 2>And that's real.

0:51:10.239 --> 0:51:12.200
<v Speaker 1>You could love somebody, but I like them, and I

0:51:12.320 --> 0:51:16.840
<v Speaker 1>think Dustin clocked it. Tony Braxon went on record saying

0:51:17.480 --> 0:51:20.760
<v Speaker 1>if they weren't my sisters, I would not be friends

0:51:20.840 --> 0:51:23.439
<v Speaker 1>with them. She said it, she said out her own mouth.

0:51:23.719 --> 0:51:30.520
<v Speaker 1>Tony Braxon also said that when when they when they started,

0:51:30.560 --> 0:51:34.080
<v Speaker 1>because because miss Evelyn Braxton raised her girls to be

0:51:34.080 --> 0:51:37.799
<v Speaker 1>a girl group and and to be you know that

0:51:37.920 --> 0:51:42.040
<v Speaker 1>as the career choice. When La Reed saw the group orformed,

0:51:42.200 --> 0:51:45.719
<v Speaker 1>he single handly said, I only want Tony braxaid, and

0:51:45.880 --> 0:51:48.839
<v Speaker 1>Tony Braxton said this out of her own mouth that

0:51:49.239 --> 0:51:52.319
<v Speaker 1>no matter what she accomplished as a solo act, her

0:51:52.360 --> 0:51:54.800
<v Speaker 1>mother will always say, that's baby, that's fine.

0:51:54.960 --> 0:51:58.480
<v Speaker 2>Don't think it about your sisters. Don't think about your sisters.

0:51:59.040 --> 0:52:01.279
<v Speaker 3>Pressure yes, yes, And.

0:52:01.280 --> 0:52:05.400
<v Speaker 1>Tony has said that she felt that she couldn't never

0:52:05.640 --> 0:52:09.799
<v Speaker 1>enjoy her success because she was she was she was

0:52:09.840 --> 0:52:13.360
<v Speaker 1>made to always feel like, your sisters don't have it either.

0:52:13.760 --> 0:52:17.279
<v Speaker 1>So even when Tracy makes you rest in peace, did

0:52:17.360 --> 0:52:22.080
<v Speaker 1>say when Tony became solo and Tony wanted Tony worked

0:52:22.120 --> 0:52:24.960
<v Speaker 1>with the other sisters, the four of them to be

0:52:25.000 --> 0:52:27.359
<v Speaker 1>in a girl group. When they signed the record deal

0:52:27.440 --> 0:52:30.399
<v Speaker 1>is when Tracy got pregnant. And then Tracy has said

0:52:30.440 --> 0:52:32.839
<v Speaker 1>this out of her own mouth that she pretty much

0:52:32.880 --> 0:52:34.520
<v Speaker 1>was kicked out of the group because she was pregnant.

0:52:35.040 --> 0:52:38.120
<v Speaker 1>And if you watch, not watch, if you go back

0:52:38.160 --> 0:52:41.320
<v Speaker 1>to the records the Bractons as the group was three people,

0:52:41.880 --> 0:52:44.560
<v Speaker 1>so there's a lot of history there.

0:52:45.080 --> 0:52:47.040
<v Speaker 2>And I think when it came to.

0:52:48.480 --> 0:52:52.600
<v Speaker 1>What the conversations are about, jealousy, you're a superstar, all

0:52:52.640 --> 0:52:58.440
<v Speaker 1>of that, I think, Unfortunately, I'm gonna say this, I

0:52:58.520 --> 0:53:03.960
<v Speaker 1>think the moment Tony Braxton made it as a solo superstar,

0:53:04.880 --> 0:53:09.239
<v Speaker 1>I do believe the relationship between the sisters as a

0:53:09.400 --> 0:53:11.000
<v Speaker 1>unit was forever changed.

0:53:11.120 --> 0:53:11.560
<v Speaker 2>For sure.

0:53:11.960 --> 0:53:14.920
<v Speaker 4>Think about if you were sorry, doesn't think about how

0:53:14.960 --> 0:53:17.360
<v Speaker 4>the Jackson five were like they were a group and

0:53:17.400 --> 0:53:19.480
<v Speaker 4>they were they went through brutal training to get to

0:53:19.480 --> 0:53:21.800
<v Speaker 4>where they had to get and and the rehearsals on it,

0:53:21.920 --> 0:53:24.080
<v Speaker 4>and then Michael is the chosen one because he stood

0:53:24.080 --> 0:53:30.080
<v Speaker 4>out like that, How the kindest, most faith having person

0:53:30.239 --> 0:53:32.640
<v Speaker 4>is still going to feel a way that it's human

0:53:32.760 --> 0:53:35.000
<v Speaker 4>nature to feel a way it's called and then and

0:53:35.000 --> 0:53:38.160
<v Speaker 4>then Tony is gonna have that survivor's remorse, like I'm

0:53:38.200 --> 0:53:40.160
<v Speaker 4>the one that made it. There's a lot of guilt

0:53:40.200 --> 0:53:42.800
<v Speaker 4>that goes along with that. And can you can be

0:53:42.840 --> 0:53:45.520
<v Speaker 4>happy for your sister but also be low Ki hated

0:53:45.520 --> 0:53:48.160
<v Speaker 4>and li jells at the same time. And you can't

0:53:48.200 --> 0:53:50.240
<v Speaker 4>say it right because you're supposed to. It's a complex

0:53:50.360 --> 0:53:52.319
<v Speaker 4>place to be. It's a complex thing.

0:53:52.360 --> 0:53:55.360
<v Speaker 3>A line. No, Claudia, I don't like that, friend. I

0:53:55.360 --> 0:53:55.759
<v Speaker 3>don't know.

0:53:55.920 --> 0:54:00.560
<v Speaker 5>I feel like, yeah, it's real, but I don't know.

0:54:01.200 --> 0:54:03.200
<v Speaker 5>Just speaking for myself, you know what I'm saying. It's

0:54:03.200 --> 0:54:07.560
<v Speaker 5>not being wrong or right or whatever, but like, yeah, yeah,

0:54:07.920 --> 0:54:08.640
<v Speaker 5>I don't.

0:54:08.600 --> 0:54:10.120
<v Speaker 3>Think there's any place for like.

0:54:12.840 --> 0:54:17.239
<v Speaker 5>Jealousy and ego and pride and shit like that when

0:54:17.640 --> 0:54:20.799
<v Speaker 5>in a close relationship. For like, I don't want to

0:54:21.280 --> 0:54:25.160
<v Speaker 5>if some good heavens for you, I'm not gonna think, damn,

0:54:25.320 --> 0:54:27.120
<v Speaker 5>you know what I'm saying. That should be me too.

0:54:27.280 --> 0:54:28.640
<v Speaker 5>You know what I'm saying, I'd be like, damn, that's

0:54:28.680 --> 0:54:31.600
<v Speaker 5>dope for Claudia, I'm happy for you. So I can't

0:54:31.760 --> 0:54:35.840
<v Speaker 5>imagine if my brother and I, yeah, go ahead.

0:54:36.480 --> 0:54:38.640
<v Speaker 1>I think I think we have to go with the

0:54:38.680 --> 0:54:43.400
<v Speaker 1>fact that once again they were brought up.

0:54:43.680 --> 0:54:48.800
<v Speaker 2>As sisters to be a group, right, so.

0:54:49.000 --> 0:54:52.360
<v Speaker 1>It was always the five of us are going to

0:54:52.520 --> 0:54:53.640
<v Speaker 1>make it as a group.

0:54:54.239 --> 0:54:57.120
<v Speaker 2>Now, I don't I know your spirit, and I'm not

0:54:57.160 --> 0:54:59.200
<v Speaker 2>saying you I know what you're saying.

0:54:59.520 --> 0:55:06.200
<v Speaker 1>But if Claudia and Dustin were like Ashburn and Simpson,

0:55:07.040 --> 0:55:10.879
<v Speaker 1>and or whatever, right the dynamic duo Sonny there right,

0:55:11.560 --> 0:55:12.560
<v Speaker 1>Donnie Marie.

0:55:12.280 --> 0:55:21.480
<v Speaker 2>Osman, I'm so old. I go ahead, clock, thank you,

0:55:21.560 --> 0:55:25.719
<v Speaker 2>Saltlake City, shout out, thank you. Okay. Anyway, when.

0:55:27.000 --> 0:55:29.440
<v Speaker 1>If you and Claudia were brought up since over five

0:55:29.520 --> 0:55:34.520
<v Speaker 1>years old to make it and then at twenty Claudia

0:55:35.440 --> 0:55:40.640
<v Speaker 1>has been hand selected to be ushered into the stratosphere

0:55:41.080 --> 0:55:43.759
<v Speaker 1>and you're left behind, there could.

0:55:43.520 --> 0:55:44.400
<v Speaker 2>Be some resentment.

0:55:44.520 --> 0:55:47.000
<v Speaker 1>And one example I will give and I'm only saying

0:55:47.040 --> 0:55:50.040
<v Speaker 1>this because they talked about it. Kelly Rowland did a

0:55:50.040 --> 0:55:53.520
<v Speaker 1>song called Dirty Laundry and she and she talked about

0:55:53.600 --> 0:55:57.799
<v Speaker 1>the fact that when Beyonce became the solo superstar. She

0:55:58.040 --> 0:56:01.080
<v Speaker 1>said in the song okay God, we forgot to be

0:56:01.160 --> 0:56:04.799
<v Speaker 1>like she it's her song. She said how it was

0:56:04.840 --> 0:56:09.920
<v Speaker 1>difficult for her to see her sister on stage killing

0:56:09.960 --> 0:56:12.839
<v Speaker 1>it because she was like, what about me? Like, what

0:56:12.880 --> 0:56:15.120
<v Speaker 1>do I do now that my sister has made it

0:56:15.320 --> 0:56:17.440
<v Speaker 1>since we were seven eight years old? And then in

0:56:17.520 --> 0:56:19.600
<v Speaker 1>my twenties and my girl is the number one pop

0:56:19.600 --> 0:56:22.239
<v Speaker 1>star and I'm figuring my shit out, So I like.

0:56:22.200 --> 0:56:24.520
<v Speaker 4>Be happy and sad at the same time. And it's

0:56:24.520 --> 0:56:29.120
<v Speaker 4>like you like hating on them, But it's I think

0:56:29.160 --> 0:56:32.359
<v Speaker 4>it's human nature to feel that, like, well, what about me?

0:56:32.440 --> 0:56:34.840
<v Speaker 4>As much as you try to quiet that voice, the

0:56:34.960 --> 0:56:37.480
<v Speaker 4>what about me thing is is real, you know what

0:56:37.480 --> 0:56:40.319
<v Speaker 4>I mean? Like we plan on doing something together and

0:56:40.560 --> 0:56:45.640
<v Speaker 4>one gets plucked and elevated behind beyond their wildest dreams,

0:56:45.760 --> 0:56:48.360
<v Speaker 4>and you're sitting there like, I'm supposed to be happy

0:56:48.360 --> 0:56:51.279
<v Speaker 4>because that's my blood. But fuck, why not me too?

0:56:51.680 --> 0:56:53.279
<v Speaker 4>Why could it be two of us? Or why could

0:56:53.280 --> 0:56:53.960
<v Speaker 4>it be three of us?

0:56:54.080 --> 0:56:56.080
<v Speaker 2>You know? So I get that. That's why I said.

0:56:56.239 --> 0:56:59.759
<v Speaker 1>That's why I said every I believe, and this is

0:56:59.800 --> 0:57:05.480
<v Speaker 1>me having nine siblings, I believe their relationship as sisters

0:57:05.640 --> 0:57:10.880
<v Speaker 1>change the moment La re selected Tony because he removed

0:57:10.960 --> 0:57:14.880
<v Speaker 1>her from the foundation that was set by their mother.

0:57:15.719 --> 0:57:19.760
<v Speaker 1>And that's why their mother again, guy Tony Braxon said it.

0:57:19.800 --> 0:57:23.080
<v Speaker 1>That's why the mother always said, yes, baby, congratulations like

0:57:23.120 --> 0:57:25.400
<v Speaker 1>your grammy and all this stuff, but don't you forget

0:57:25.400 --> 0:57:29.280
<v Speaker 1>about your sisters. And and that's why I think when

0:57:29.360 --> 0:57:34.240
<v Speaker 1>the Braxtons came along that Tamar Braxton and her ex

0:57:34.320 --> 0:57:37.760
<v Speaker 1>husband Vincent Herbert paid for the pilot And just so

0:57:37.880 --> 0:57:42.400
<v Speaker 1>y'all know, the pilot was at Bravo first, and Bravo.

0:57:42.360 --> 0:57:45.880
<v Speaker 2>Did not greenlight it, but we TV did. That's why

0:57:46.160 --> 0:57:47.760
<v Speaker 2>it did appear.

0:57:47.760 --> 0:57:51.520
<v Speaker 1>That, you know, it was like their second win, right,

0:57:51.600 --> 0:57:53.880
<v Speaker 1>like this could be something that we all could do

0:57:53.920 --> 0:57:57.160
<v Speaker 1>as a unit. But once again, I think that foundation

0:57:57.320 --> 0:57:59.960
<v Speaker 1>was never healed, which is why tv jas couldn't even

0:58:00.080 --> 0:58:00.280
<v Speaker 1>do it.

0:58:00.520 --> 0:58:03.440
<v Speaker 4>But think about the sisters. Okay, they had to go

0:58:03.520 --> 0:58:06.160
<v Speaker 4>through it more than once. Okay, and a second on

0:58:06.160 --> 0:58:10.560
<v Speaker 4>a lower scale. Right, first they were together as five

0:58:10.720 --> 0:58:13.320
<v Speaker 4>and then Tony Braxton's out of here blows up and

0:58:13.320 --> 0:58:16.120
<v Speaker 4>everybody's like, wait, what what about us? And then after

0:58:16.360 --> 0:58:20.280
<v Speaker 4>years later, then Tamar breaks out as a soul star,

0:58:20.600 --> 0:58:23.160
<v Speaker 4>another chance for the other sisters to be like what

0:58:23.280 --> 0:58:25.160
<v Speaker 4>about us? Again, So they had to go through it

0:58:25.240 --> 0:58:28.400
<v Speaker 4>kind of twice. And then then I mean, Tony Braxon

0:58:28.520 --> 0:58:31.240
<v Speaker 4>is like she's out of here, and Tamar Braxon is

0:58:31.320 --> 0:58:34.640
<v Speaker 4>very successful too. So imagine what the other sisters gotta feel.

0:58:34.720 --> 0:58:37.600
<v Speaker 4>You cannot tell me, like that's that's gotta be tough

0:58:37.840 --> 0:58:38.240
<v Speaker 4>for them.

0:58:38.680 --> 0:58:42.640
<v Speaker 3>I don't. I just I completely understand the point you making.

0:58:42.640 --> 0:58:44.080
<v Speaker 5>First of all, let me say that because I'm not

0:58:44.160 --> 0:58:46.640
<v Speaker 5>challenging with either one of y'all are saying the way

0:58:46.680 --> 0:58:50.040
<v Speaker 5>I look at things, I just would feel like, Okay,

0:58:50.200 --> 0:58:53.760
<v Speaker 5>if my sister is this superstar wins the best Grammy

0:58:53.800 --> 0:58:56.160
<v Speaker 5>you can win, right, best new artists, once in a

0:58:56.160 --> 0:58:57.400
<v Speaker 5>lifetime chance to win.

0:58:57.800 --> 0:58:58.520
<v Speaker 3>She won it.

0:58:58.880 --> 0:59:03.280
<v Speaker 5>She's loved by mainstream audiences all over the world. Right,

0:59:04.120 --> 0:59:06.520
<v Speaker 5>if I'm talented and me and my sister have a

0:59:06.520 --> 0:59:10.440
<v Speaker 5>good relationship, that's opportunity for me to have access to

0:59:10.520 --> 0:59:14.240
<v Speaker 5>resources to have my talents be seen by others and

0:59:14.320 --> 0:59:18.680
<v Speaker 5>have an opportunity. Right, you pick up that basketball of

0:59:18.720 --> 0:59:22.000
<v Speaker 5>opportunity and you dribble it. You work on your craft,

0:59:22.400 --> 0:59:25.560
<v Speaker 5>and you maintain good relationships, and you showcase your art.

0:59:26.040 --> 0:59:28.480
<v Speaker 5>The second time that the family got the spotlight put

0:59:28.520 --> 0:59:32.240
<v Speaker 5>on them as a collective with this television show, to me,

0:59:32.560 --> 0:59:36.000
<v Speaker 5>that's opportunity too for you to showcase your talents, do

0:59:36.080 --> 0:59:39.120
<v Speaker 5>your thing, get opportunities, be good at what you say

0:59:39.160 --> 0:59:43.000
<v Speaker 5>you're good at. If Tamar rockets to superstardom like she

0:59:43.120 --> 0:59:46.320
<v Speaker 5>did when the show came out, that's more attention on

0:59:46.320 --> 0:59:49.600
<v Speaker 5>the show, more attention on y'all. That's good for all

0:59:49.640 --> 0:59:52.600
<v Speaker 5>of you. It's great for Tamar, but it's also good

0:59:52.600 --> 0:59:54.960
<v Speaker 5>for you. And if they were looking at that as

0:59:54.960 --> 0:59:58.400
<v Speaker 5>a second opportunity of being overlooked. I think the problem

0:59:58.440 --> 1:00:00.720
<v Speaker 5>the call is what they be saying, car's coming from

1:00:00.760 --> 1:00:04.440
<v Speaker 5>inside the house, because you had really three but two

1:00:04.480 --> 1:00:06.960
<v Speaker 5>shots to like do your thing.

1:00:07.040 --> 1:00:08.960
<v Speaker 3>You had two windows of two.

1:00:08.920 --> 1:00:12.560
<v Speaker 5>Huge windows of opportunity, you know what I'm saying. So

1:00:13.360 --> 1:00:16.200
<v Speaker 5>you look at it overlooked as overlooked. I get it

1:00:16.240 --> 1:00:17.120
<v Speaker 5>though your.

1:00:17.080 --> 1:00:21.560
<v Speaker 4>Mature, developed, highly intelligent, emostly intelligent person. Look how many

1:00:21.640 --> 1:00:26.400
<v Speaker 4>other shows, yeah, dot dot dot it just when one

1:00:26.440 --> 1:00:29.240
<v Speaker 4>gets the light on them, it makes people get jealous,

1:00:29.280 --> 1:00:32.360
<v Speaker 4>They get angry. What about me? Why this bitch? Why her?

1:00:32.440 --> 1:00:34.320
<v Speaker 4>Why not me? I can sing as good as her.

1:00:34.520 --> 1:00:36.840
<v Speaker 4>She only got that because this or some guy likes her.

1:00:36.960 --> 1:00:39.680
<v Speaker 4>Whatever the room, whatever the spin is, someone's gonna put

1:00:39.840 --> 1:00:42.400
<v Speaker 4>you know. And a lot of times people say they'd

1:00:42.400 --> 1:00:43.960
<v Speaker 4>be happy for you when you make it, But when

1:00:44.000 --> 1:00:47.440
<v Speaker 4>it really happens, will they really feel that way? And

1:00:47.720 --> 1:00:49.760
<v Speaker 4>are you being an asshole when you do make it?

1:00:49.920 --> 1:00:51.840
<v Speaker 4>Are you flaunting shit? Are you throwing it in your

1:00:51.920 --> 1:00:54.560
<v Speaker 4>sister's faces? We saw some ugly shit in that scene.

1:00:54.720 --> 1:00:57.920
<v Speaker 4>We saw some scene, and then you know there's got

1:00:57.920 --> 1:00:59.800
<v Speaker 4>to be more too that. That's what we're seeing on camera,

1:01:00.160 --> 1:01:03.200
<v Speaker 4>So what is happening not on camera? Bit you wish

1:01:03.200 --> 1:01:04.880
<v Speaker 4>you could be me. That's why I got an ideal

1:01:04.920 --> 1:01:07.200
<v Speaker 4>and you did not. Who knows what the conversations are.

1:01:07.400 --> 1:01:09.800
<v Speaker 4>You know who knows. But at the end of the day,

1:01:09.800 --> 1:01:12.000
<v Speaker 4>I think one thing we can all agree on. They

1:01:12.000 --> 1:01:12.840
<v Speaker 4>don't like each other.

1:01:13.280 --> 1:01:17.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you know what's funny, so listen. What what's

1:01:17.960 --> 1:01:22.960
<v Speaker 1>so interesting is obviously Tamar and Tony are still talking.

1:01:23.000 --> 1:01:28.760
<v Speaker 1>Because Tamar went to the Verses last Saturday and was

1:01:28.800 --> 1:01:34.120
<v Speaker 1>with Birdman supporting him. They FaceTime Tony Braxton. Tony looked amazing.

1:01:34.320 --> 1:01:35.800
<v Speaker 1>Tony Braxton is such a diva and a legend.

1:01:35.840 --> 1:01:36.240
<v Speaker 2>I love her.

1:01:36.520 --> 1:01:40.800
<v Speaker 4>The glass funglasses on in the house looking like.

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<v Speaker 2>A bow cover. You can't take that away from that.

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<v Speaker 2>Gorgeous you know what I'm saying. I mean, living legend.

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<v Speaker 2>So the thing about siblings is this, you do get

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<v Speaker 2>you you do find.

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<v Speaker 1>A way to get over it. My hope for the

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<v Speaker 1>girls is this. I do hope that they find their

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<v Speaker 1>way back because I do think that the stuff that

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<v Speaker 1>was exposed we didn't need to know. But I also

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<v Speaker 1>I also know that when you're back up against the wall,

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<v Speaker 1>like doesn't said.

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<v Speaker 2>No one hurts no one. No one hurts you more

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<v Speaker 2>than your family.

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<v Speaker 1>And you sometimes will say shit to get under someone's skin.

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<v Speaker 2>I've done it to my siblings.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not examt I'm not exampt from saying the most

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<v Speaker 1>egregious things to a sibling who were arguing, and they

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<v Speaker 1>said it to me. But we found our way to

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<v Speaker 1>come back. And what's what's I'll tell you this. What's

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<v Speaker 1>sad is the purpose of this reboot was to honor Tracy,

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<v Speaker 1>and I feel sad that that's not the focus.

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<v Speaker 3>I never believed that. Personally.

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<v Speaker 5>I appreciated the sentiment being shared, but I never thought,

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<v Speaker 5>for woman that they all sit down. They can't all

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<v Speaker 5>sit down and talk right, they can't get along. So

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<v Speaker 5>I never thought for one second they said that it

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<v Speaker 5>was like we're gonna our sister by doing this show again. Yeah, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 5>y'all want to work.

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<v Speaker 4>I think honestly, I hate to give up on things,

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<v Speaker 4>but it kind of seems like at this at this age,

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of stuff's baked in, like we can say there,

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<v Speaker 4>I kind of it's a done deal.

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<v Speaker 3>Feeling I'm healing journey.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, they don't, it is. I think at this point,

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<v Speaker 4>it is what it is, and that's what it is,

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<v Speaker 4>and that's it. Like, I don't think there's any hope,

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<v Speaker 4>Like and I think the best they can do is

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<v Speaker 4>maybe see the show and be like, damn, I don't

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<v Speaker 4>like how that looks play nice for the show, so

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<v Speaker 4>we could like, let's get back. It's like Housewives or Atlanta.

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<v Speaker 4>Like it started off like so lighthearted and fun and

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<v Speaker 4>like fungade. Then it got dark and negative and fighting

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<v Speaker 4>and all that. Like the what made people love these

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<v Speaker 4>shows is the ability for it to be funny and

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<v Speaker 4>shading and then and then revisit and hang out again

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<v Speaker 4>after it was and I was, it did get me

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<v Speaker 4>a little hope to see Tony and and Tamar on

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<v Speaker 4>that zoom. I mean I left face time with Berman

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<v Speaker 4>and hopefully that they can all get like that because

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<v Speaker 4>they both they all have a lot of personal they're

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<v Speaker 4>all pretty funny, like sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they're all challenge and they're the closest Tony and

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<v Speaker 1>Tamar of the of the sisters are the closest and

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<v Speaker 1>the closest on the other.

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<v Speaker 2>Side is Towanda and Trina. You know, so it is

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<v Speaker 2>for like this split group.

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<v Speaker 4>But.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, yes, Trina.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, damn, I don't think Tijuana is evil, though I

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<v Speaker 4>do think that I do think she's frustrated. I think

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<v Speaker 4>she's frustrated for many, many years. I think they all are.

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<v Speaker 4>Like and it's kind of like the thing of what

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<v Speaker 4>came first. The chicken of the egg like pointed, well,

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<v Speaker 4>you did this to me first, and then I responded

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<v Speaker 4>like this, and I'm sure to Wanta could be like,

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<v Speaker 4>well you did did me like this, and that's why

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<v Speaker 4>I said this about you, Like it's who knows where

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<v Speaker 4>it really started. I think so many things have happened

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<v Speaker 4>where they both can advocates of who started it, but

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<v Speaker 4>it's very clear that you know, both sides have been

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<v Speaker 4>very Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't like I don't like the mental illness comments.

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<v Speaker 1>I just that was that that was the one where

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<v Speaker 1>I was sort of like, this is listen, no shade,

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<v Speaker 1>because I got siblings sometimes you know, give you.

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<v Speaker 2>Buck a siblings. It's what it is that I'll just

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<v Speaker 2>be real.

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<v Speaker 1>That bothered me as much as the mental illness conversations did,

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<v Speaker 1>because I just felt like that was just something that

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think should be included in any argument, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, Like the notion of that.

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<v Speaker 2>Whether or not it was Tiwanda's.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, point of saying your sick in terms of

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<v Speaker 1>making light of that, she has to say whether or

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<v Speaker 1>not she meant it that way.

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<v Speaker 3>But I just thought, like it didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I just felt like all things.

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<v Speaker 1>I just didn't I didn't like that because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Tamar has been open about dealing with men on this

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<v Speaker 1>and and all those things, and I just think those

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<v Speaker 1>type of conversations it wasn't a place for it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I also think this.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Claudia is right in the sense of these

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<v Speaker 1>women some are over fifty.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Tamar.

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<v Speaker 5>Forty eight at the time of film. And remember when

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<v Speaker 5>she when she showed her body off Tatrina and the

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<v Speaker 5>heat of the argument and was like, you're jealous, bitch,

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<v Speaker 5>I would be too forty eight. She tapped her butt cheeks.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you remember that part? I remember that part? Did

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<v Speaker 5>you see that part?

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for the color of the descripture? Yes, I'll do.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what sort of like, thanks God.

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<v Speaker 3>She was doing all that shit. Jealous bitches. Forty eight bitch,

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<v Speaker 3>that's what she was doing.

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<v Speaker 4>That's crazy talking here, y'all. That's that's a crazy fight.

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<v Speaker 6>To have.

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<v Speaker 2>That casting up.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know if I'd have been customed to wind

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<v Speaker 5>out because she could have, you know, say, all you

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<v Speaker 5>see is that purple, not.

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<v Speaker 2>The purple, Not the purple. But what I will say

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<v Speaker 2>I do give with Claudia.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, Look, they're close to fifty over fifty, I

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<v Speaker 1>think at this point, and it's sad to say, but

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<v Speaker 1>I've had lived experience too, like you two did. I

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<v Speaker 1>just think at some point you get to pick and

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<v Speaker 1>choose who you want to be part of your own family.

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<v Speaker 3>Can we give notes?

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<v Speaker 5>Because while when you had had technical difficulties, at the

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<v Speaker 5>top of the show, Claudia and I were talking a

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<v Speaker 5>little bit more about the Braxtons in general, and I

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<v Speaker 5>wanted to share this with you too before we get

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<v Speaker 5>out of here.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm tired of the formula. The formula needs to change

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<v Speaker 3>when it comes to the Braxtons. Right.

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<v Speaker 5>These are people of a certain age, right, people with children,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, grandchildren. It doesn't treat to have grandchildren anyway. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I think when Trina sons may or may not be

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<v Speaker 5>married or have a child, I don't know, but there

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<v Speaker 5>are at a certain station in life.

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<v Speaker 3>All we really have been getting from the.

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<v Speaker 5>Braxtons is either the sisters arguing going for blood against

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<v Speaker 5>each other, or else they're together and they're acting silly

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<v Speaker 5>and singing when they talk.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 5>Twanda did it in this episode when she was on

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<v Speaker 5>the phone at the dress fitting for her Ladies of Honor,

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<v Speaker 5>which do what you want to do, but it's just

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<v Speaker 5>confusing when everything's different right, like nothing is just what

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<v Speaker 5>it is? Everything, Well, no, we're gonna call him this

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<v Speaker 5>when we're gonna wear this. We now we're gonna do it.

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<v Speaker 5>Everything is off and they Daddy should have took his

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<v Speaker 5>head off before he walked down the aisle too. But anyway,

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<v Speaker 5>we see Tuanda at the dress shop trying and stuff on, right,

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<v Speaker 5>and when she's talking to Tony on the phone, that's

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<v Speaker 5>how you know somebody is like not really present when

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<v Speaker 5>they talk to She was going yet we at the

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<v Speaker 5>bridal show getting ready for the bridgeting shower. Tone said, Hi,

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<v Speaker 5>everything is singing, nothing is really real. She don't be

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<v Speaker 5>doing that ship When she talked to Trina, her and

1:09:07.479 --> 1:09:09.880
<v Speaker 5>Trina just be kicking it talking. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 5>That represents am I off here? Or does that and

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<v Speaker 5>not represent a connection.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what I'm saying, don't talk to that much. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>we need to stop.

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<v Speaker 5>If they not arguing with each other, they singing songs

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<v Speaker 5>and making us they being silly and childish in a

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<v Speaker 5>way they used to be charming when the show first started.

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<v Speaker 5>That's what we love the most about seeing them be

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<v Speaker 5>together and make up those songs, like you said, which

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<v Speaker 5>we all love and still remember.

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<v Speaker 3>We love seeing that.

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<v Speaker 5>But now ten ten years later, the fighting or either

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<v Speaker 5>acting childlike is really getting played out when there's a

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<v Speaker 5>whole bunch of story in between all of that.

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<v Speaker 3>Carlos, you're a producer.

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<v Speaker 5>You see all this story that these sisters have that

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<v Speaker 5>is not the cut whatsoever.

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<v Speaker 3>We gotta change up the formula because the rest of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's listen, Obviously I agree with that. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to see them have fun as seeing and and.

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<v Speaker 2>Create a new formula.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you're seeing some of that with the Kardashians

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<v Speaker 1>and their new season. Whether people like it or not,

1:10:15.880 --> 1:10:18.960
<v Speaker 1>is it's different than keeping up. But to Dus's point,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a new formula involved in that one. So on

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<v Speaker 1>one hand, it's like, yes, you follow the reality. The

1:10:26.560 --> 1:10:29.599
<v Speaker 1>reality is this happened but I think to Dust's point,

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<v Speaker 1>on the other hand, you saw them trying the elements

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<v Speaker 1>of like the BTS, the producers being involved, so you're

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<v Speaker 1>seeing something different than bracket family values.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think tonally, yes, some things have to change.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree with you, Dustin.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes. And it's not just them, it's the black It's

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<v Speaker 4>a genre. Every show is, Oh, such and such, Red

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<v Speaker 4>herd down cussed her around and she went on and

1:11:02.040 --> 1:11:05.599
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, black folks, we are more than just fighting. Yes,

1:11:05.600 --> 1:11:08.800
<v Speaker 4>we are passionate people. Yes we get emotional. Yes, we

1:11:08.840 --> 1:11:10.479
<v Speaker 4>go from zero to four hundred, and you know, we

1:11:10.880 --> 1:11:12.680
<v Speaker 4>put a little stank on everything. That's why we're the

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<v Speaker 4>best people to watch on shows like Families few so emotional.

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<v Speaker 4>But god damn it is that all we are is fighting,

1:11:19.640 --> 1:11:24.120
<v Speaker 4>catching someone cheating, cussing someone out, embarrassing someone on camera,

1:11:24.479 --> 1:11:27.360
<v Speaker 4>and like reading someone down. Like every single show is

1:11:27.360 --> 1:11:32.040
<v Speaker 4>that nowadays. Every show is that. It's so like switch

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<v Speaker 4>switch the name of the show, Like just insert the

1:11:35.680 --> 1:11:39.479
<v Speaker 4>same storyline different different cast members, and it's dead. And

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<v Speaker 4>that's why people are not as excited about any hardly

1:11:42.400 --> 1:11:44.519
<v Speaker 4>enemy shows anymore, because we gotta get back to it's

1:11:44.520 --> 1:11:47.479
<v Speaker 4>funny That's why with your show with Bells Carlos, it's

1:11:47.560 --> 1:11:49.600
<v Speaker 4>nice that we still have we have some drama, but

1:11:49.720 --> 1:11:53.479
<v Speaker 4>there is still some opportunity for humor. That's what we're missing.

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<v Speaker 4>Like if I want to see fighting all day, I

1:11:55.439 --> 1:11:58.280
<v Speaker 4>can throw on CNN. I can throw on the news.

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<v Speaker 4>And we want to escape from that. Like all we

1:12:00.200 --> 1:12:03.839
<v Speaker 4>see is bickering, bickering, bickering, bickering with everything, and it's like, damn,

1:12:04.520 --> 1:12:07.439
<v Speaker 4>Like it's cool, there's a balance, Okay, fight, but then

1:12:07.520 --> 1:12:09.920
<v Speaker 4>y'all went to a strip club and y'all laughed your asses.

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<v Speaker 3>Off, exactly enjoyed it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but when.

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<v Speaker 4>It's only it's the scales. The scales are just so unbalanced,

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<v Speaker 4>and that's all we get. And that's why I don't

1:12:19.400 --> 1:12:22.040
<v Speaker 4>really like Honestly, that's the main reason why I'm so

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<v Speaker 4>late on a lot of reality shows because I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>I just assume they're all I doing is arguing, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what I mean. So I'm seeing that not all.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not ten.

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<v Speaker 5>Y'all, and I love it. No secret, y'all know. I

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<v Speaker 5>watch all the fighting shit. I love zoos so watching

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<v Speaker 5>now that's TV. I watch all that ship but let

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<v Speaker 5>it be that called the show the Braxton ass beating

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<v Speaker 5>and put it on zeus. You know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 5>And let's let let's make it that if that's what

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<v Speaker 5>we're gonna watch otherwise, values right, and y'all rooted in

1:12:51.680 --> 1:12:53.720
<v Speaker 5>the church. One minute, y'all want to be rooted in

1:12:53.760 --> 1:12:56.000
<v Speaker 5>the church, and everything is about the Lord and gospeling

1:12:56.000 --> 1:12:58.960
<v Speaker 5>our upbringing. But Tay Mason versus where their tongue stuck

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<v Speaker 5>out bobbing to the same music I'm singing every word

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<v Speaker 5>to in my worldly home. So you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't balance the balance here in this alignment.

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<v Speaker 3>Be who you are. We love the Braxton's.

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<v Speaker 5>As much as Tamar has done things that have been

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<v Speaker 5>difficult to enjoy, I still love Tamar Braxton's talent, right.

1:13:18.479 --> 1:13:21.280
<v Speaker 5>I think she's an incredible singer. I think she's a

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<v Speaker 5>brilliant television personality. I think Trina Braxton is hilarious. I

1:13:26.400 --> 1:13:31.080
<v Speaker 5>think Tawanda Braxton is interesting. I think Tony Braxton is iconic.

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<v Speaker 5>I want to watch the show. I want to see

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<v Speaker 5>them and see what's going on in their lives beyond

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<v Speaker 5>what we know about them. You know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't want to see them clawing blood out of

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<v Speaker 5>each other's necks as sisters.

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<v Speaker 3>I just don't want to see that.

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<v Speaker 5>So but shout out to them, Like I said, I

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<v Speaker 5>want to show to continue. May they have multiple seasons.

1:13:51.080 --> 1:13:54.240
<v Speaker 5>May it continue, and hopefully we end up seeing them

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<v Speaker 5>find some sort of peace and some sort of bridge

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<v Speaker 5>of harmony and togetherness as sisters, because they are. While

1:14:01.439 --> 1:14:03.639
<v Speaker 5>they're cussing each other out. Some of that pain might

1:14:03.680 --> 1:14:09.360
<v Speaker 5>be from grief. I'd imagine that they lost their niece,

1:14:09.880 --> 1:14:12.240
<v Speaker 5>the actually their niece, actually her sister is the one

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<v Speaker 5>who passed away, Tracy passed away. They experienced a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of loss, so some of that acting out that we

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<v Speaker 5>see is more than likely rooted in that. My wish

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<v Speaker 5>is for them to find healing and get along and

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<v Speaker 5>keep singing.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what I'm saying. That's what I hope for them.

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<v Speaker 5>That's why we so fucking frustrated when we've seen Tamar

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<v Speaker 5>turner on and show her ass cheeks to Trina talking

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<v Speaker 5>about forty eight bitch hitting her. But we didn't want

1:14:37.520 --> 1:14:39.920
<v Speaker 5>to see her them speaking to each other like that.

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<v Speaker 3>We want to see them figuring it out.

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<v Speaker 4>Damn out. I was just about to stand up and

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<v Speaker 4>show my fifty two year old Now.

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<v Speaker 3>You gotta call me your nigga, a motherfuck nigga.

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<v Speaker 2>Look at.

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<v Speaker 4>You should have chicks like this. J I didn't. Yes

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<v Speaker 4>you did?

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<v Speaker 2>You put my head? Get along?

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<v Speaker 4>We want you to get along. The fans actually, at

1:15:33.880 --> 1:15:36.680
<v Speaker 4>this point getting along would be breaking news. And we

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<v Speaker 4>would love to run with that. We would love to

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<v Speaker 4>run with that.

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<v Speaker 1>And and and I'll say this just because they had

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<v Speaker 1>this moment of you know, verbal dispute or whatever, and

1:15:50.800 --> 1:15:54.200
<v Speaker 1>and Tamar pulling and kicking. At the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 1>we saw Kim and Courtney slap the ship on each other.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but please you already know night.

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<v Speaker 1>So like so for the audience, like, calm down, That's

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<v Speaker 1>what I said.

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<v Speaker 2>I was less about a siblings fight two years ago.

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<v Speaker 4>Half of Kim's face was on the wall, the makeup

1:16:19.479 --> 1:16:20.040
<v Speaker 4>was on the wall.

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<v Speaker 5>We ain't unfairly holding him to a standard as anyone else.

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<v Speaker 5>They're not representing black people. It's not that type of conversation.

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<v Speaker 5>I person. I speak for myself. I'm pretty sure I

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<v Speaker 5>could speak for y'all too. I don't really funk about

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<v Speaker 5>none of that. We're just talking about the Braxtons.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what I'm saying. Yes, we're not We're not.

1:16:40.200 --> 1:16:43.280
<v Speaker 5>We're not punishing them for you know, Vince represented. No,

1:16:43.960 --> 1:16:48.759
<v Speaker 5>this ain't that everybody. Everybody, everybody, All that stuff happens.

1:16:48.760 --> 1:16:50.280
<v Speaker 5>We just talking about what we saw.

1:16:50.640 --> 1:16:53.000
<v Speaker 4>I never I have a half sister, but I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>know it was like when I was older. So I

1:16:54.920 --> 1:16:56.760
<v Speaker 4>never have like any fights like me and my brother

1:16:56.840 --> 1:16:59.639
<v Speaker 4>when we were little, but not really like I don't

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<v Speaker 4>know that life. I really don't. Even with my friends.

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<v Speaker 4>I rarely have fights with arguments with my friends, like

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<v Speaker 4>when I lose big deal from me, like I be

1:17:07.640 --> 1:17:09.720
<v Speaker 4>going through it because I'm like, how did I lose

1:17:09.720 --> 1:17:11.800
<v Speaker 4>a friend deal?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm the youngest, like my siblings ain't never made me

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<v Speaker 5>feel like no, that little boys ship.

1:17:18.280 --> 1:17:22.320
<v Speaker 3>Or what we always been down. Friends always been like a.

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<v Speaker 2>Very support them. Yeah I met the one that came

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<v Speaker 2>to Atlanta.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah my sister, Yeah, my older sister. Yeah, she's the

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<v Speaker 5>oldest and I'm the youngest. So you've seen You've seen

1:17:33.320 --> 1:17:36.320
<v Speaker 5>it for yourself. You know what it is, you know,

1:17:37.360 --> 1:17:40.320
<v Speaker 5>so I don't. My experience might be a little bit.

1:17:40.360 --> 1:17:42.040
<v Speaker 5>That don't mean we don't get on each other's nerves

1:17:42.040 --> 1:17:44.960
<v Speaker 5>and have disagreements and challenges in our relationship. Of course

1:17:45.000 --> 1:17:48.800
<v Speaker 5>you do. But I'll be damn, it ain't nothing I

1:17:48.800 --> 1:17:50.720
<v Speaker 5>can say. It ain't ain't nothing nobody could do to

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<v Speaker 5>make me turn on my brother and my sister.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think the lot I know, we gotta go.

1:17:54.840 --> 1:17:57.600
<v Speaker 4>But a lot of like I say about relationships on

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<v Speaker 4>reality shows, a lot of this is just as later

1:18:00.200 --> 1:18:02.840
<v Speaker 4>because they're on television and they're doing it in front

1:18:02.880 --> 1:18:05.600
<v Speaker 4>of people like I don't. I think it's it's a

1:18:05.680 --> 1:18:08.840
<v Speaker 4>thing of I can't get read down, okay, and then

1:18:08.840 --> 1:18:11.000
<v Speaker 4>the comments, oh you're gonna let your sister talk to

1:18:11.000 --> 1:18:14.880
<v Speaker 4>you like that? I think things get escalated and extra

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<v Speaker 4>batteries get put on backs because of the TV show.

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<v Speaker 4>I Best you was not ugly before they got on TV.

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<v Speaker 4>It's probably ugly, but this level is.

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<v Speaker 5>Just that's why you got to be all right up

1:18:23.600 --> 1:18:25.559
<v Speaker 5>here with it, you know what I'm saying to where

1:18:25.600 --> 1:18:29.160
<v Speaker 5>you're not motivated by I think Tamar and Tuanda, based

1:18:29.200 --> 1:18:31.320
<v Speaker 5>on what I seen what I saw on the show,

1:18:31.360 --> 1:18:33.880
<v Speaker 5>they appeared to be motivated by a desire to win

1:18:33.960 --> 1:18:36.920
<v Speaker 5>the argument and shame the other one, And that's ego

1:18:37.040 --> 1:18:39.880
<v Speaker 5>and pride, you know what I'm saying, and history as well,

1:18:39.920 --> 1:18:41.719
<v Speaker 5>if that's rooted and ego and pride.

1:18:42.360 --> 1:18:44.400
<v Speaker 3>You can't be in a headspace. You gotta be.

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<v Speaker 5>Present and remember who you're talking to, Remember what the

1:18:47.400 --> 1:18:50.479
<v Speaker 5>relation it ship is, remember how much you value it,

1:18:50.840 --> 1:18:53.360
<v Speaker 5>and that will impact the way that you communicate with

1:18:53.439 --> 1:18:56.120
<v Speaker 5>a person. Of course, you're human and you have emotions,

1:18:56.160 --> 1:18:58.800
<v Speaker 5>you have feelings and thoughts and shit, but you need

1:18:58.840 --> 1:19:02.720
<v Speaker 5>to be able to take another step in thought and

1:19:02.800 --> 1:19:06.439
<v Speaker 5>consider the person, consider the relationship, consider what needs to

1:19:06.479 --> 1:19:10.000
<v Speaker 5>take place for things to be good as opposed to

1:19:10.080 --> 1:19:14.120
<v Speaker 5>for you to avenge something, and then you can make progress.

1:19:14.200 --> 1:19:16.559
<v Speaker 5>And I think that we just didn't see that in

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<v Speaker 5>these four episodes from The Sisters. We saw no bitch,

1:19:20.120 --> 1:19:21.720
<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna get you. You know what I'm saying. That

1:19:21.880 --> 1:19:22.639
<v Speaker 5>that's what we saw.

1:19:22.800 --> 1:19:24.880
<v Speaker 4>I know, Mama Evla must be so stressed out, like

1:19:24.960 --> 1:19:27.160
<v Speaker 4>seeing her daughters fighting like it's probably like.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, especially when she was going through the heart issues

1:19:31.560 --> 1:19:34.599
<v Speaker 1>this m oh no, those those are her those are

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<v Speaker 1>her baby, those are her girls.

1:19:36.800 --> 1:19:38.320
<v Speaker 2>And that's why I look.

1:19:38.400 --> 1:19:42.240
<v Speaker 1>I will say this, Sometimes you have to see yourself

1:19:42.240 --> 1:19:43.760
<v Speaker 1>on television and be like.

1:19:45.640 --> 1:19:46.040
<v Speaker 2>Got it?

1:19:46.160 --> 1:19:46.400
<v Speaker 3>You know.

1:19:46.560 --> 1:19:49.559
<v Speaker 1>Like, so my hope is that the sisters wire all

1:19:49.640 --> 1:19:56.280
<v Speaker 1>able to look at this and hopefully move on from

1:19:56.320 --> 1:19:59.960
<v Speaker 1>it and see the errors of some of the way.

1:20:00.640 --> 1:20:04.120
<v Speaker 1>But look, we have I think six more episodes to

1:20:04.160 --> 1:20:08.320
<v Speaker 1>go to this season. The only thing we know is,

1:20:08.360 --> 1:20:10.960
<v Speaker 1>as of today, the only thing we know is Tamar

1:20:11.120 --> 1:20:12.960
<v Speaker 1>and Tony are speaking to each other.

1:20:14.520 --> 1:20:16.439
<v Speaker 2>We have to watch and see what happens.

1:20:16.479 --> 1:20:21.280
<v Speaker 1>But in next week's episode, it does appear that Tamar

1:20:21.479 --> 1:20:24.040
<v Speaker 1>is not at tomorrow's wedding.

1:20:24.240 --> 1:20:27.240
<v Speaker 4>So oh, should I spill the beans on that? Didn't I?

1:20:28.200 --> 1:20:30.519
<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,

1:20:31.280 --> 1:20:33.040
<v Speaker 1>that's that's already been.

1:20:34.640 --> 1:20:35.639
<v Speaker 2>Teased for the show.

1:20:36.040 --> 1:20:38.400
<v Speaker 4>Honestly, when I was there, I was thinking, n like

1:20:38.520 --> 1:20:40.640
<v Speaker 4>maybe because they were filming while we were there, right

1:20:41.000 --> 1:20:45.960
<v Speaker 4>my releases put our phones away. Part of me was like, no, man, like,

1:20:46.000 --> 1:20:49.400
<v Speaker 4>at the last minute, she's gonna walk through and it's

1:20:49.439 --> 1:20:51.080
<v Speaker 4>gonna be like a big you know what I mean.

1:20:51.120 --> 1:20:53.120
<v Speaker 4>I thought that I was actually kind of hoping for

1:20:53.160 --> 1:20:57.040
<v Speaker 4>that for them. Yeah, yeah, because like it felt a

1:20:57.080 --> 1:20:59.200
<v Speaker 4>little like, damn, how am I here and she's not?

1:20:59.360 --> 1:21:01.599
<v Speaker 4>You know, I felt kind of yeah.

1:21:01.800 --> 1:21:05.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, So no, Look, my thoughts and prayers are

1:21:05.240 --> 1:21:10.120
<v Speaker 1>with the entire Brason family. And look, my advice is

1:21:10.479 --> 1:21:14.439
<v Speaker 1>this too shall pass and and just really try to

1:21:15.240 --> 1:21:19.720
<v Speaker 1>I'll say, I'll end by saying this for me, I

1:21:19.760 --> 1:21:22.480
<v Speaker 1>think at the end of the day, there's a respectful

1:21:22.800 --> 1:21:27.599
<v Speaker 1>relationship to have. I think, based on people being fifty plus,

1:21:28.120 --> 1:21:31.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm not here to ever advocate that you must be

1:21:31.960 --> 1:21:34.280
<v Speaker 1>best friends with your sibling at this point. I think,

1:21:34.479 --> 1:21:38.040
<v Speaker 1>I think, I think if that's not what's happening right now,

1:21:38.080 --> 1:21:40.240
<v Speaker 1>it's okay to say I love.

1:21:40.080 --> 1:21:42.000
<v Speaker 2>Her, but I can love from a distance.

1:21:42.120 --> 1:21:45.599
<v Speaker 3>I'm cool with that me too. I'm actually fine with that.

1:21:45.880 --> 1:21:48.360
<v Speaker 5>I would prefer that because if you're harboring some resentment

1:21:48.479 --> 1:21:50.799
<v Speaker 5>and shit, I don't want you pretending to get along

1:21:50.840 --> 1:21:52.880
<v Speaker 5>with me and being around me. I'd rather you be

1:21:52.960 --> 1:21:54.519
<v Speaker 5>upfront like ya, I don't fuck with you. I'm not

1:21:54.600 --> 1:21:56.760
<v Speaker 5>going to hay seven, I don't fuck with you. I'm

1:21:56.800 --> 1:21:58.519
<v Speaker 5>not going to so get from around me.

1:21:58.560 --> 1:22:01.160
<v Speaker 3>I'd rather you do that. So I agree, y'all.

1:22:01.439 --> 1:22:03.280
<v Speaker 4>I don't think you should have to force something because

1:22:03.280 --> 1:22:04.360
<v Speaker 4>of your family.

1:22:04.000 --> 1:22:07.080
<v Speaker 3>Like I either. I don't believe in that you stress me.

1:22:07.080 --> 1:22:10.280
<v Speaker 4>Out, you my cousin, my aunt, my mother, or my brother. Sorry,

1:22:10.960 --> 1:22:12.040
<v Speaker 4>I'm not living, which.

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<v Speaker 5>Is why you appreciate the ones that do you right

1:22:14.560 --> 1:22:17.400
<v Speaker 5>even more, and you take advantage of opportunities to show

1:22:17.479 --> 1:22:20.559
<v Speaker 5>love to your friends and family who when things are good.

1:22:20.720 --> 1:22:21.760
<v Speaker 3>You should make note of that.

1:22:22.160 --> 1:22:24.000
<v Speaker 5>You shouldn't always tell a person how you feel about

1:22:24.000 --> 1:22:26.679
<v Speaker 5>them because y'all are in conflict and it's negative. Tell

1:22:26.720 --> 1:22:28.439
<v Speaker 5>people how much you love them, tell them how much

1:22:28.439 --> 1:22:31.000
<v Speaker 5>you appreciate the role that they play in your life.

1:22:31.200 --> 1:22:33.479
<v Speaker 5>When it comes to your friends and family, that's important

1:22:33.479 --> 1:22:35.680
<v Speaker 5>to me. I feel like my friends and family that

1:22:35.760 --> 1:22:37.800
<v Speaker 5>I love and fuck with like that are supposed to

1:22:37.880 --> 1:22:41.519
<v Speaker 5>know it because it affirms the relationship and makes people

1:22:41.600 --> 1:22:44.439
<v Speaker 5>feel safe when it's honest. You know, when somebody's blowing

1:22:44.479 --> 1:22:47.000
<v Speaker 5>smoke up your ass, but big your friends up, big

1:22:47.040 --> 1:22:50.400
<v Speaker 5>your family up. You know what I'm saying, And just

1:22:50.840 --> 1:22:53.280
<v Speaker 5>make sure that that heartbeat is there and those relationships

1:22:53.320 --> 1:22:56.560
<v Speaker 5>because as you can see, the absence of it looks crazy.

1:22:56.920 --> 1:22:58.479
<v Speaker 3>So agreed.

1:22:58.920 --> 1:22:59.320
<v Speaker 2>All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh listen, I love you too, as if we were

1:23:02.400 --> 1:23:04.720
<v Speaker 1>all from the same well, so.

1:23:04.760 --> 1:23:06.320
<v Speaker 2>Know that.

1:23:08.040 --> 1:23:08.760
<v Speaker 3>You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Two areas and a libra baby, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Ray drops. We will see y'all on Monday. Have a

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<v Speaker 2>great weekend and happy Halloween. And don't forget daylight saving

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<v Speaker 2>times on Sunday.

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<v Speaker 4>That's right, Happy Halloween, y'all. See you Monday.

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<v Speaker 2>I Love y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Reality with the King is executive produced by me Carlos King,

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