WEBVTT - Ep 236: Back to the Kinks

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, we're high. Before we start this week's episode, I

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<v Speaker 1>to miss out. Guess what decision we're about to make

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<v Speaker 1>Horrible decisions. Hey guys, welcome to yet another episode of

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<v Speaker 1>book Decisions. I'm your grand Mandy b a k A

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<v Speaker 1>full core bumps ak a debt bitch he k a

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<v Speaker 1>pitt say I'm all that? And uh you bend you

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<v Speaker 1>know nighty. It's wheezy. We are in the studio. Can't

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<v Speaker 1>believe we made it. We swam here Lafayette. Now Eddin

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<v Speaker 1>is the only one who swimming. You walked over that

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<v Speaker 1>very He just came from the Bronx you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought she was going to say the boat damn that

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<v Speaker 1>I meant to wow, way to get canceled. Um. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>your apartment got flooded like two in advance, so great

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<v Speaker 1>did they? Thank god they fixed the roof because that

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<v Speaker 1>ship would have came. Um. So my apartment got flooded

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<v Speaker 1>when I came back from l A with Nina, and

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<v Speaker 1>I had flown to l A, then flew to Orlando together,

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<v Speaker 1>then fucking flew to New York. Couldn't wait to get

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<v Speaker 1>in my bed after two weeks being gone to the

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<v Speaker 1>ceiling on the bed. And I actually didn't really get

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<v Speaker 1>too stressed out about it because I knew they were

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<v Speaker 1>going to fix it. Now. This morning we had a

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<v Speaker 1>flash flood, war Nings and the hurricane Ida. There's a

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<v Speaker 1>tornado and Jersey. The building called me a seven o'clock

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<v Speaker 1>to want to say, we just want to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>you're okay. I said, oh now, because you know I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be staying at the sixty hotel again on y'all dat Hell, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not okay, bitch, but to see you name fault

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<v Speaker 1>so fine. They really wanted to see how much more

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<v Speaker 1>they wrenna have to pay up because I sent that invoice. Bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>When I tell you, I put everything. I put, the food,

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<v Speaker 1>I put, the clothes I had to get because even

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<v Speaker 1>though I had closed my apartment, I didn't feel like

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<v Speaker 1>wearing them because of the smell. So I went and shop. Understandable,

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<v Speaker 1>suck it, don't give it a damn. I do hope, UM,

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<v Speaker 1>and I know you guys are hearing this a little late,

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<v Speaker 1>but I hope that everyone um across kind of the

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<v Speaker 1>whole East Coast. It literally hit from Louisiana. It affected um,

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<v Speaker 1>people in Philly up here in New York. So I

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<v Speaker 1>assumed the whole DMV also got hit a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>um Jersey. I really just hope everybody was safe. People died,

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<v Speaker 1>a two year old kid drowned, seventies six year old, like,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of there's a lot of people that

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<v Speaker 1>were left without electricity. UM, so really hopefully, now, um,

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<v Speaker 1>once you're listening to this, you're in a space where

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<v Speaker 1>it's a little better, because, yeah, that ship was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of crazy. Are we even are we even still here?

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<v Speaker 1>Because if not, fun party like this is why you'ld

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<v Speaker 1>ship and you know what it was made it even funnier.

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<v Speaker 1>Today is one of the most beautiful days. It's so

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<v Speaker 1>nice outside. You know, it's like nothing ever happened last

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<v Speaker 1>night before the story. So what happens after the storm?

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<v Speaker 1>A wonderful time, you know, bipurpleged after I felt so

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<v Speaker 1>guilty because I want to say it. Many and I

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<v Speaker 1>were looking at all the floods and ship this morning,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, damn. But when I looked outside,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, should we go to the pool? It's not

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<v Speaker 1>even like it's it's hot outside though, because it's in

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<v Speaker 1>the seventies, But it's beautiful, like there's a breeze, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not too hot. And that's the thing to this summer.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been getting hit with fucking like sweltering fucking weather

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<v Speaker 1>like ninety seven degrees or set. I don't even think

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<v Speaker 1>we've really been in the eighties. All some braining every weekend,

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<v Speaker 1>braining every fucking day like it's been a hot girls.

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<v Speaker 1>Some aware not here. So what's what do we call fall? Fall? Damn?

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<v Speaker 1>There like no nod conference season, coffin season, coffence coffin

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<v Speaker 1>like Halloween. No, it's coming season, I thought, she said,

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<v Speaker 1>coughing like October. Oh god no. Then I started coughing

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<v Speaker 1>like sickness. And see, this is why English is the

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<v Speaker 1>hardest language to learn, because it just all sounds the fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know how I know it's hard because Cardi

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<v Speaker 1>B said on wild Side something about these this holes

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<v Speaker 1>and Jocelyn be saying that too, like this bitches ain't

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<v Speaker 1>ship and I'm in Spanish? Is this and these one

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<v Speaker 1>word this these like the different pronunciations, the accent like these. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like you know, boy girl Okay, so then but

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<v Speaker 1>you just think getting in together. But either way, English

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<v Speaker 1>is hard as hell. No, English is pretty ridic. Season.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a whole schedule. I don't know if you knew

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<v Speaker 1>thisffing season schedule. So scouting takes place, took place last

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<v Speaker 1>month as of right now, guys, we are in drafting mode.

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<v Speaker 1>So between September one through thirt is drafting seasons. So

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<v Speaker 1>this is where you start to really get the hose

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<v Speaker 1>in line on where they are in your roster. Are

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<v Speaker 1>they gonna be starters, are they're gonna come off the bench? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>Then you have tryouts. This is where you just start

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<v Speaker 1>sucking everybody who you drafted, because this is where you

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<v Speaker 1>see whose dick is going to hold up to par

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<v Speaker 1>and at this point, just make sure you're disappointing. What no, No,

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<v Speaker 1>is that not right? Tryouts September. If I knew I

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<v Speaker 1>was supposed to be scouting last month, I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't, Well, you could catch up. Like drafting. There's

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<v Speaker 1>free agents now, people who scouted last month who don't

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<v Speaker 1>really want the people like you have some some free

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<v Speaker 1>agents out there, so you can start dropping. You have

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<v Speaker 1>plenty of time, so try out between October one one,

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<v Speaker 1>then you have preseason. This is where you start putting

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<v Speaker 1>them to work. How many are you supposed to have

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<v Speaker 1>by season preseason I would say at least at least two,

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<v Speaker 1>But this is where you start seeing which guys are

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<v Speaker 1>really putting an effort, which guys are getting you because

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<v Speaker 1>this is November one, So this is where you see

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<v Speaker 1>have they got you flowers yet? Have they taken you

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<v Speaker 1>on dates? Are they paying for everything? Because you ought

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<v Speaker 1>to get ready to make sure this nigga is about

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<v Speaker 1>to give you a gift on Christmas, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. So preseason is November one December one. This

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<v Speaker 1>is the longest part of coming season December one through January.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's because you really are in heavy If this

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<v Speaker 1>nigga is here for Christmas and New Year's okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>and three Kings Day? What the hell that? What are

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<v Speaker 1>three Kings Day? It's like kings, yeah, because we would

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<v Speaker 1>celebrate like the like the three Kings. No, it's the

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<v Speaker 1>can't bearing. Not all Latinos are in gang. But I

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<v Speaker 1>said Latin king. Latin Kings is a gang bearing with

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<v Speaker 1>gifts for Frankin says Murrain Golden Jesus, three kings damn,

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<v Speaker 1>So everybody get three niggas? No, I mean, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do. I can have three kings. You have three kings?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what to start marking? Hispanic? My mother, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought I was like the holiday hodays three Kings KINGO

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<v Speaker 1>is reins queen like Ray Romano. Yeah there go right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>did you have the blood? Say a ray of sunshine? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>Ray Lewis, but everyone loves Ray Ray j Sorry wow.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're right, then January sixteen through February is the

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<v Speaker 1>playoffs again. Hopefully you you have narrowed it down to

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<v Speaker 1>at least one man because the championship game takes place.

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<v Speaker 1>You guess it's on Valentine. I don't care about anything

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<v Speaker 1>but New Year's at this point. Over the last few years,

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<v Speaker 1>I've noticed Valentine's I don't even about because like I've

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<v Speaker 1>been single and Valentine's and I've had mad phone with

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<v Speaker 1>home girls. I've been on a tender day on Valentine's Day,

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<v Speaker 1>like and also this is gonna sound sucked up, like

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<v Speaker 1>when you got a good nigger, Like Valentine's Day is nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't eating good I'm getting good ship all the

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<v Speaker 1>time about you know what I'm saying, Like I get

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<v Speaker 1>good dick all the time. I get flowers. You don't cook,

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<v Speaker 1>but I get we go out, That's what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>Like when you getting I don't know, But specifically with

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<v Speaker 1>New Year's there is something. So when I was dating

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<v Speaker 1>Old Bay in two thousand nineteen, um I was into Loom.

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<v Speaker 1>He went to Amsterdam for New Year's and I remember

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<v Speaker 1>like I felt so alone and we both the whole

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<v Speaker 1>time we're like, yo, like we should have made our

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<v Speaker 1>plans together, Like this ship was fucking sad, Like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're at least couple that were like a home for

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<v Speaker 1>the night, even like it was just bad. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I maybe made out with that guy there, but still

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<v Speaker 1>I would have rather had been him. Okay, it was

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<v Speaker 1>sick nipple. Fuck. I don't know if anybody remembers. I

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<v Speaker 1>ran into him on the beach and remember that were

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<v Speaker 1>my home girls, just like this a little white man. Anyway, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>long story short. When we did Columbia, that was fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I felt like, okay, like you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>Like there's prostitution, there's drugs and alcohol and beach in bay.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think New Year's is really where you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>get somebody. And after that sucked them niggas Christmas. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you could be at the beginning of the dating stage

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<v Speaker 1>or you don't want to introduce them to people. Then

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<v Speaker 1>you can save on the gift. Like fuck that just

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<v Speaker 1>New Year's. By the time Valentine's they come not a

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<v Speaker 1>big deal because you got a Memorial Day weekend. You

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<v Speaker 1>gotta All Star weekend. You have a lot of whole opportunities,

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<v Speaker 1>and then Marches, spring Break, dip off, take a little trip,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll be fine. New Year's is the baby's don't hold you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's probably why I have been single on Valentine's Day

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<v Speaker 1>because it's definitely was. All Star weekend falls on Valentine's

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<v Speaker 1>Day weekend. Why did they do that because all the

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<v Speaker 1>niggas as holes anyway, Like they're not gonna be you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they're all stars, and they're gonna go and have an

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<v Speaker 1>all star motherfucking times do they bring their wives? I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>one did, but she left the last day. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>when I sleep right in nice ship. That ship. No,

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<v Speaker 1>but that was before I became you know, loyal and

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<v Speaker 1>and um it's interesting though, like this falls like my

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<v Speaker 1>birthday is coming up, so I'm like trying to make

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<v Speaker 1>plans for my birthday October eleven. So she's there, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, the best sign even were you

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<v Speaker 1>really don't know? No, I don't know. No, I'm a Libra.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh and so it's weird because now this would be

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<v Speaker 1>my second birthday. We're kind of celebrating together. So does

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<v Speaker 1>this group match technically? I'm I'm a virgo, you're a

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<v Speaker 1>Libra and your We should have an astrologists come back, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>because we had one coming to a bird shot, but

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<v Speaker 1>we should have them talking about like specific compatibility. And

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<v Speaker 1>I've been wanting to do a Horrible Decisions episode with

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<v Speaker 1>our teams. Damn it sucks because Vinnie was gone, but

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<v Speaker 1>like that would have been fun, like literally edding vannye

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<v Speaker 1>um a dave of what people talking about behind the

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<v Speaker 1>scenes stuff I was talking about. I think it would

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<v Speaker 1>be really fun David and Virgos. So you know, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>we could bring Benson in for a bit. That'd be fun, right, um,

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<v Speaker 1>oh birthday? Last year, you were in a hurricane last year,

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<v Speaker 1>I was in Mexico or a hurricane, and then we

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<v Speaker 1>had Our Lives show uh in Cancun, and and then

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<v Speaker 1>you go. And then I came back and was COVID positive.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn yeah. I literally was out for a month and

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<v Speaker 1>a half, which is also you don't remember when I

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<v Speaker 1>had to find the Mexican UH COVID test because they

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<v Speaker 1>were only giving COVID tests this time. Isn't the phases

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<v Speaker 1>of COVID funny? No? Actually, no, no, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's very funny. I'm talking about what is where your

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<v Speaker 1>head was? You were wiping down a box. First, then

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<v Speaker 1>you wanted a vaccine bad. Then it came out too

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<v Speaker 1>fast and you freaked out. Then you're in the part

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<v Speaker 1>where you can't find a shot. You're waiting in line

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<v Speaker 1>for fucking days. Now they're begging you to get the

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<v Speaker 1>shot you got a hundred dollars for shot. Now you

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<v Speaker 1>get shaped Bay. Then motherfucker's on me a hunt dollar yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll get an email. But they should have gave me

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<v Speaker 1>my hunted dollars right there. It's like more like you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta sign up in type ship they always want you

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<v Speaker 1>to do. They can't just hand me all. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it is weird. We we did go through a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of different phases for COVID. I mean there was also

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<v Speaker 1>like the toilet paper phase. There was the five G

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<v Speaker 1>Towers gave us COVID phase. Dog mind you, when I

0:12:51.000 --> 0:12:53.920
<v Speaker 1>was living in Mexico, that is, these are all the

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<v Speaker 1>people that are like crypto investors and like super hippie.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody even talking about five G Dog and the old

0:13:00.480 --> 0:13:05.480
<v Speaker 1>bases just's like, damn for real they gonc No. This

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<v Speaker 1>one whole got me. One time I was high as

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<v Speaker 1>fucked and all I remember is she was saying like literally,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, logistically, this couldn't be real. She was fucking

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<v Speaker 1>with me. I felt like I was on a game show.

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<v Speaker 1>We're at this jungle party, and she was like no,

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<v Speaker 1>like everything around you. You know how your phone picks

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<v Speaker 1>up what you're saying and sendingly. You see advertisements for it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what's happening with the chip. It's tracking our brain

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<v Speaker 1>right mind you, I'm high, bitch, what you pushin? They

0:13:31.960 --> 0:13:34.280
<v Speaker 1>got that? You think that's out here because we ain't

0:13:34.280 --> 0:13:37.320
<v Speaker 1>even got sick. And she's like, it doesn't matter, it's satellite.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the bitch how to answer for everything? I still

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<v Speaker 1>follow her. Her name is Salam. Yeah, the bitch still

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<v Speaker 1>lives there and she works at a cafe called Kubrick

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<v Speaker 1>and it's in Centro in downtown Saloom. And you can

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<v Speaker 1>tell her I was talking ship to huh said let

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<v Speaker 1>her know. Oh, every time people go to them, I'd

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<v Speaker 1>be like, yo, go see the blind girl and tell

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<v Speaker 1>how to tell you about the satellite because the ship

0:14:00.320 --> 0:14:04.679
<v Speaker 1>is so fucking funny blond, which matterfitely why she has

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<v Speaker 1>this idea her dog kind of microchip? Does your cat

0:14:08.559 --> 0:14:11.679
<v Speaker 1>have a microchip? No? Oh, that's right. You brought it

0:14:11.720 --> 0:14:14.440
<v Speaker 1>from I got it from I got my mother can

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<v Speaker 1>dollars from a correct kid. And the only thing I

0:14:16.880 --> 0:14:18.439
<v Speaker 1>did was make sure his balls was cut so he

0:14:18.440 --> 0:14:20.880
<v Speaker 1>couldn't spray my house. Oh but I didn't get no

0:14:21.000 --> 0:14:23.400
<v Speaker 1>chipping him. And they don't go outside like, you put

0:14:23.440 --> 0:14:26.280
<v Speaker 1>a chip and a cat outside, Well, my cat don't

0:14:26.280 --> 0:14:28.280
<v Speaker 1>go outside. The guy told me when, like so she

0:14:28.360 --> 0:14:31.480
<v Speaker 1>already came with the chip and he was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like anybody that came in this dog, it's city pups,

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<v Speaker 1>like where I got her from. But the guy was like,

0:14:36.200 --> 0:14:38.520
<v Speaker 1>this is not like find my iPhone. Okay, if you

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<v Speaker 1>lose your dog, I can't just track her. He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>but if anything happens and they take her to a

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<v Speaker 1>shelter at the micro trip, will you know, they'll see

0:14:45.320 --> 0:14:48.440
<v Speaker 1>your info. So the girl was so into this satellite

0:14:48.480 --> 0:14:52.240
<v Speaker 1>thought she fucking took her dogs micro chip out because

0:14:52.240 --> 0:14:55.880
<v Speaker 1>they thought, all right, now she was fun. She was

0:14:57.400 --> 0:15:02.520
<v Speaker 1>and now she's a barista. So anyway, um um Vanellus,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, what you have you wanted to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>your Oh yeah no, I mean we talked a lot

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<v Speaker 1>about cuffing season. But I mean that's something new that

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<v Speaker 1>I just did for the first time. I went to

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<v Speaker 1>the zoo and it was so cute. I went to

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<v Speaker 1>the Central Park zoo. Um. I mean they only got

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<v Speaker 1>by five animals, so I was literally going up to

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<v Speaker 1>the like little cage areas and I was like, they

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't have gotten more because you literally got to catch

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<v Speaker 1>them at the right time because it's like the bear

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<v Speaker 1>was sleep. They had one bear, so but you couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>see a bear, okay. And then the seals they feed them.

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<v Speaker 1>They had like three seals. They had one red panda.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, the red red panda is really cute.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, like they didn't have a lot of the

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<v Speaker 1>black and white ones they got. They got them in

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<v Speaker 1>like the red panda. The red that's it. That's the

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<v Speaker 1>red panda. And it was so cute and it was

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<v Speaker 1>just running. I was like, oh, it looks like it's

0:15:53.200 --> 0:15:57.040
<v Speaker 1>running like body, Um, it looks like Nina. Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's but the zoo was super super cute. Um, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>know I'm from Orlando. So I was just like running

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<v Speaker 1>up to the seals, like how would it see? World

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<v Speaker 1>did they have? Like Oh, I want to get up close.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to take a picture of the seals. Do

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<v Speaker 1>look at the seal waves? Yeah, I was wondering about

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<v Speaker 1>There was no protest um. It was just really really cute.

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<v Speaker 1>I really enjoyed it. It was my uh first time

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<v Speaker 1>on a date to the zoo, so I really liked. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was super cute. Taking or anything any souvenir. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I take pictures with him. It's so funny when you're

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<v Speaker 1>like at a place like that in your city and

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<v Speaker 1>you'd be saying, She's like, no, we live here, we

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<v Speaker 1>don't need that work. Like almost nine years now, and

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even know how to get to the motherfucker's zoo.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew there was one, but I'm in the Bronx.

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<v Speaker 1>I've only been to the Bronx Zoo. I didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>know where the Central Park Essential parks. I went to

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<v Speaker 1>the Central Park Zoo and it was just really cute,

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<v Speaker 1>so I enjoyed myself. I think that this lad year

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<v Speaker 1>and a half has been very interesting because you've definitely

0:17:03.960 --> 0:17:06.720
<v Speaker 1>been put outside of yourself in terms of where you

0:17:06.800 --> 0:17:09.560
<v Speaker 1>can go on dates. And even right now in New York,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not getting inside nowhere without a vaccination card. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you date outside though, yeah, but I'm talking about

0:17:16.320 --> 0:17:20.000
<v Speaker 1>indoor things or things like that, you're fucked. And what

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<v Speaker 1>if you date an anti vaccor what if you date

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<v Speaker 1>someone who doesn't want to get the vaccine? Like now,

0:17:24.600 --> 0:17:27.359
<v Speaker 1>even where you guys have to compromise in terms of

0:17:27.480 --> 0:17:30.639
<v Speaker 1>dates is going to be interesting, especially when it gets cold. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>what if you meet Salam, because I'm will tell you Salam,

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<v Speaker 1>will tell you my body, my choice. If I can

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<v Speaker 1>have an abortion, I should have the right not to

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<v Speaker 1>get the vaccine because I know there's a micro chap. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>speaking of, that's what I actually wanted to bring up

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<v Speaker 1>today for our Vanilla ship. If you guys have been

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<v Speaker 1>following uh this show, Wheezy and I have both shared

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<v Speaker 1>our experiences with abortions. We've had people on who worked

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<v Speaker 1>at Planned Parenthood. Apparently too many abortion jokes. Um, a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of abortion jokes because I'm all here for the vacuum.

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<v Speaker 1>But what's crazy? He is Rovert looks like what what's

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<v Speaker 1>what looked like? What looked like the abortion vacuum? Can

0:18:08.800 --> 0:18:12.640
<v Speaker 1>we not google the abortion vacuum? Why not? Right here? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do it, Okay, I mean I think it looks

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<v Speaker 1>like a little tool. I don't think it really looked

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<v Speaker 1>like it's a syringe and it sucks the baby out.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like it's like a turkey base there. So it

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<v Speaker 1>just go right in there and a little dinnnual vacuum

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<v Speaker 1>aspiration bas it doesn't and even the way they put

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<v Speaker 1>it in, Yeah, because they definitely do the speculum to

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<v Speaker 1>open up your COUCHI can't make it. Yeah, yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to talk about this if you guys are

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<v Speaker 1>patrons we briefly talked about in Texas. When you look

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<v Speaker 1>at the picture, it do make me feel a little guilty.

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<v Speaker 1>Not Republican guilty, but damn, is it really guilty? Because

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<v Speaker 1>he when they when they showed fetus pictures, is the baby, don't?

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<v Speaker 1>It's not a cute. We'll see, we'll see this. This

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't look big enough for like a baby baby. So

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like this one makes me feel bad. No,

0:19:10.359 --> 0:19:11.960
<v Speaker 1>but look at this one. This one is probably the

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<v Speaker 1>one that used on me too, because mom was just

0:19:13.640 --> 0:19:15.960
<v Speaker 1>about this one, right, So they just pulled on me

0:19:16.119 --> 0:19:18.520
<v Speaker 1>like they had specific you know, because this ain't gonna

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<v Speaker 1>fit a baby. You can't suck a baby. The first

0:19:20.840 --> 0:19:23.640
<v Speaker 1>trimester one though. You're looking at now, Oh, there's there's

0:19:23.640 --> 0:19:27.959
<v Speaker 1>different side first trimester. What's there's a second trimester one too.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna google that. Okay, you don't pull that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, no, this one right here where you

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<v Speaker 1>see it in there and it looks like it's coming

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<v Speaker 1>out of too. That makes me feel a little bad.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you guys are listening to us and an audio,

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<v Speaker 1>definitely just go on your phone and google abortion vacuum aspiration.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we're looking at, and you can see the

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<v Speaker 1>pictures that we are viewing as well. But I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to get into this because while I brought it up

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<v Speaker 1>on our vanilla ship on our during our last town hall.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh, I'm sorry, I was actually just gussing the whistleblowers.

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<v Speaker 1>So as of right now, there are there's currently a

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<v Speaker 1>group in Texas that is paying people to whistle blow

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<v Speaker 1>and tell on people who either accompany you to an

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<v Speaker 1>abortion or telling you if you are getting an abortion.

0:20:15.280 --> 0:20:18.480
<v Speaker 1>And what's crazy is Texas now has a six week

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<v Speaker 1>abortion ban that takes it that takes effect after the

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<v Speaker 1>Supreme Court in action. So the Supreme Court did go

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<v Speaker 1>ahead and overrule ro versus Wade in this decision in Texas,

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<v Speaker 1>so it is now illegal for you to get an

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<v Speaker 1>abortion after six weeks. And what's crazy is they are

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<v Speaker 1>now finding people up to ten thousand dollars if you

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<v Speaker 1>So even if you're an uber driver and you take

0:20:41.720 --> 0:20:44.119
<v Speaker 1>someone on their way to get an abortion, you can

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<v Speaker 1>be told on and be fined ten thousand dollars for this,

0:20:46.320 --> 0:20:48.919
<v Speaker 1>which is crazy because now at this point, y'all are

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<v Speaker 1>motherfucking hurting or finding and punishing women for the choices

0:20:53.480 --> 0:20:56.560
<v Speaker 1>in their own body more than fucking rapists, more than

0:20:56.640 --> 0:20:59.480
<v Speaker 1>the people who administer fucking harm onto women. And I'm

0:20:59.520 --> 0:21:02.680
<v Speaker 1>sucking just gusted, And of course, because the Internet is

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<v Speaker 1>so amazing, I wanted to share this. UM abortion help

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<v Speaker 1>you can go to need abortion dot org, plan spills

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<v Speaker 1>dot org, or aid access dot org. Plan See pills

0:21:15.240 --> 0:21:18.520
<v Speaker 1>are actually abortion pills that can be mailed to you,

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<v Speaker 1>um since you in the mail, okay, now they needed

0:21:22.240 --> 0:21:25.120
<v Speaker 1>to have that at all time, no ship, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's really it's one of the things. So it's a

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<v Speaker 1>it's a safe at home abortion and plan see provides

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<v Speaker 1>up to date information on how people in the US

0:21:35.680 --> 0:21:39.000
<v Speaker 1>are accessing abortion pills online. So if you were in

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<v Speaker 1>um Texas and you fear for whatever reason, or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're in a situation where you want to have an abortion,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's multiple reasons, I mean, you want to go

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<v Speaker 1>back and forth as the different reasons as to why

0:21:51.680 --> 0:21:54.359
<v Speaker 1>women may want abortions. There's a lot of men listening

0:21:54.400 --> 0:21:56.600
<v Speaker 1>a lot of women listening, and if you are pro life,

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<v Speaker 1>we can literally go down back and forth like a

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<v Speaker 1>game and say all of the reasons as to why

0:22:03.480 --> 0:22:06.920
<v Speaker 1>so many arguments in the street. Bro oh God. When

0:22:06.960 --> 0:22:11.879
<v Speaker 1>I lived with Enoch, I remember I was driving my

0:22:12.000 --> 0:22:15.240
<v Speaker 1>car passing the Amway Arena. We lived in downtown Orlando

0:22:15.320 --> 0:22:18.399
<v Speaker 1>and there was a huge anti abortion rally downtown and

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<v Speaker 1>I called him and I said, have you seen this?

0:22:19.960 --> 0:22:22.040
<v Speaker 1>Can you see this from outside? He was like yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like, I don't want you to get in

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<v Speaker 1>trouble today because I wasn't in out of jail that

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<v Speaker 1>go upstairs. I said, I'm just gonna take the dog

0:22:27.520 --> 0:22:30.359
<v Speaker 1>on a walk. He's like, no, Gil, please don't go. No, no, bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>Ill went down there fucked them all up. First of all,

0:22:33.400 --> 0:22:37.359
<v Speaker 1>everybody with their foster care bullshit. Do you know the

0:22:37.440 --> 0:22:40.800
<v Speaker 1>amount of child abution, abuse and foster care, The amount

0:22:40.840 --> 0:22:43.160
<v Speaker 1>of children that end up in this system that don't

0:22:43.200 --> 0:22:48.560
<v Speaker 1>have access to one, a better education, healthcare, any of that. Ship.

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<v Speaker 1>The mistreatment in foster care is wild. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if anyone is willing to talk about their experience who

0:22:54.280 --> 0:22:56.080
<v Speaker 1>has been in and out of foster care, but I've

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<v Speaker 1>never heard this amazing fucking tale ever for somebody, even

0:22:59.680 --> 0:23:02.720
<v Speaker 1>with a dog, dude, there's there always some fucking pain

0:23:02.800 --> 0:23:04.720
<v Speaker 1>and strife with that ship. I also want to add

0:23:05.000 --> 0:23:09.280
<v Speaker 1>that there are so many medical ailments UM, one in

0:23:09.320 --> 0:23:12.960
<v Speaker 1>which being um damn, and I just had it on

0:23:13.040 --> 0:23:16.840
<v Speaker 1>my goddamn head. Um, when you epilepsy. So, when you

0:23:16.920 --> 0:23:20.000
<v Speaker 1>are epileptic, which is where you just get random seizures

0:23:20.200 --> 0:23:23.040
<v Speaker 1>depending on the medication you were on, UM, it actually

0:23:23.080 --> 0:23:26.200
<v Speaker 1>can have effect on either the baby while you're pregnant,

0:23:26.680 --> 0:23:29.680
<v Speaker 1>or you are a high risk pregnancy, which means you

0:23:29.800 --> 0:23:32.520
<v Speaker 1>can actually die in giving birth. And I have a

0:23:32.560 --> 0:23:36.959
<v Speaker 1>family member who's epileptic, and the conversation like literally they

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much told her not to get attached to the

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<v Speaker 1>baby until seventeen weeks to be sure that it was

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<v Speaker 1>even forming correctly in her because of the medication that

0:23:45.520 --> 0:23:48.840
<v Speaker 1>she was on. So and also the idea that you

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<v Speaker 1>could literally have a seizure while giving birth, you can

0:23:51.359 --> 0:23:54.000
<v Speaker 1>die giving birth of your epileptic I was also just

0:23:54.160 --> 0:23:56.480
<v Speaker 1>reading all of these abortion stories. If you're on Twitter,

0:23:56.880 --> 0:24:00.200
<v Speaker 1>I dive into all of the Twitter threads, and so

0:24:00.280 --> 0:24:02.760
<v Speaker 1>many women were sharing the fact that they had been raped.

0:24:03.240 --> 0:24:05.159
<v Speaker 1>UM and and the cause of trauma that they had

0:24:05.200 --> 0:24:07.800
<v Speaker 1>and again trigger warning. But there are women. I mean, ship,

0:24:07.880 --> 0:24:10.199
<v Speaker 1>I was pregnant at sixteen. Do you think I'd probably

0:24:10.240 --> 0:24:13.399
<v Speaker 1>motherfucking be here today in this space and accomplish what

0:24:13.440 --> 0:24:15.440
<v Speaker 1>I've done? Maybe? Maybe? So A lot of women do

0:24:15.480 --> 0:24:18.080
<v Speaker 1>accomplish things with with children. But I had my abortion

0:24:18.119 --> 0:24:20.760
<v Speaker 1>at sixteen years old. I was going into the eleventh grade,

0:24:21.119 --> 0:24:24.240
<v Speaker 1>and I don't I can't honestly say where the funk

0:24:24.280 --> 0:24:26.960
<v Speaker 1>I would be right now if if I would have,

0:24:28.000 --> 0:24:30.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, decided to keep the baby. And so this

0:24:30.640 --> 0:24:33.720
<v Speaker 1>is unfortunate, especially because again, if you guys were on

0:24:33.880 --> 0:24:38.480
<v Speaker 1>our town hall, um, there's actually medical studies showing that

0:24:38.880 --> 0:24:43.240
<v Speaker 1>you're not actually nine months pregnant, you actually ten months pregnant. Um.

0:24:43.280 --> 0:24:45.280
<v Speaker 1>There's a certain amount of weeks in which that you're

0:24:45.320 --> 0:24:47.320
<v Speaker 1>really pregnant. So a lot of times when you go

0:24:47.960 --> 0:24:50.960
<v Speaker 1>into your pregnancy, they don't even really know the exact day,

0:24:50.960 --> 0:24:52.840
<v Speaker 1>and a lot of times they add two weeks. Anyways,

0:24:53.160 --> 0:24:56.000
<v Speaker 1>Like and I told this on Patreon. They told me

0:24:56.080 --> 0:24:57.720
<v Speaker 1>I was six weeks and I was like, no, bitch,

0:24:58.720 --> 0:25:00.879
<v Speaker 1>um four weeks. It was fourth July. I know when

0:25:00.920 --> 0:25:03.199
<v Speaker 1>the nigga did it, and I knew exactly and they

0:25:03.359 --> 0:25:05.240
<v Speaker 1>just kept trying to tell me I was six weeks pregnant.

0:25:05.600 --> 0:25:09.480
<v Speaker 1>So it's really interesting that this is now uh banning

0:25:09.520 --> 0:25:12.159
<v Speaker 1>a law at six weeks for for you to be

0:25:12.680 --> 0:25:15.639
<v Speaker 1>you know why there is that padding for the two weeks. Um,

0:25:15.800 --> 0:25:19.880
<v Speaker 1>let me look it up. It's very interesting. Yes, two padding.

0:25:20.520 --> 0:25:24.280
<v Speaker 1>Does it really benefit anybody outside of like maybe getting

0:25:24.320 --> 0:25:26.439
<v Speaker 1>that person excited for the fact. Well, that's the thing too.

0:25:26.520 --> 0:25:29.320
<v Speaker 1>I know that they a lot of hospitals also just

0:25:29.440 --> 0:25:31.560
<v Speaker 1>like to induce. They like to put your pregnancy on

0:25:31.640 --> 0:25:34.960
<v Speaker 1>a schedule, so they will let you know when you're

0:25:35.400 --> 0:25:37.320
<v Speaker 1>when your due date is because a lot of times

0:25:37.320 --> 0:25:38.679
<v Speaker 1>they have to schedule that ship they have to make

0:25:38.680 --> 0:25:40.840
<v Speaker 1>sure a doctor is going to be available. Like a

0:25:40.920 --> 0:25:45.119
<v Speaker 1>lot of that actually has its people get like pregnant

0:25:45.119 --> 0:25:48.000
<v Speaker 1>for more than nine months to write for saying no,

0:25:48.080 --> 0:25:49.760
<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm saying. So it says that they are

0:25:50.000 --> 0:25:52.800
<v Speaker 1>there are about forty weeks in a full term pregnancy.

0:25:53.080 --> 0:25:55.920
<v Speaker 1>If you assume that a month is exactly four weeks long,

0:25:56.240 --> 0:25:58.560
<v Speaker 1>that makes ten months of pregnancy. The problem with this

0:25:58.680 --> 0:26:02.240
<v Speaker 1>calculation that is assumes that each month last twenty eight days.

0:26:02.560 --> 0:26:06.080
<v Speaker 1>We know that only fucking February, so you actually have

0:26:06.200 --> 0:26:08.080
<v Speaker 1>months with thirty and thirty one. They're adding it on

0:26:08.160 --> 0:26:11.760
<v Speaker 1>the bathroom. Yes in reality, but when you're going in there,

0:26:11.800 --> 0:26:15.080
<v Speaker 1>they say six yes because of the different Yeah, exactly,

0:26:15.680 --> 0:26:20.280
<v Speaker 1>So that's actually what it is. Uh So that's that's why.

0:26:20.880 --> 0:26:24.440
<v Speaker 1>So this is just hurtful. Again. We've been advocates here

0:26:24.880 --> 0:26:28.679
<v Speaker 1>on not only sexual liberation um, but being pro choice

0:26:29.119 --> 0:26:33.320
<v Speaker 1>and the idea that they're really kind like, this is

0:26:33.359 --> 0:26:35.800
<v Speaker 1>a Supreme Court ruling in Texas, and it's scary because

0:26:35.880 --> 0:26:38.480
<v Speaker 1>that means that a lot of other states, specifically red states,

0:26:38.480 --> 0:26:40.760
<v Speaker 1>can fall in line with this, and it's it's kind

0:26:40.760 --> 0:26:44.720
<v Speaker 1>of unfortunate they shut it down today, I believe, right, No,

0:26:45.040 --> 0:26:47.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't not that I saw the last Google search

0:26:47.920 --> 0:26:51.720
<v Speaker 1>I did from ABC ten. Apparently the update is that

0:26:51.800 --> 0:26:56.919
<v Speaker 1>the Supreme Court voted five to four to deny an emergency. Yeah,

0:26:59.119 --> 0:27:02.600
<v Speaker 1>but this but still Texas has been going crazy, so

0:27:02.840 --> 0:27:06.040
<v Speaker 1>the Texas abortion man, but the Supreme Court is a

0:27:06.160 --> 0:27:10.280
<v Speaker 1>different thing. And they just found out two hours ago

0:27:10.359 --> 0:27:15.639
<v Speaker 1>Supreme Court refuses abortion. So they're keeping it. Oh I thought, No,

0:27:16.000 --> 0:27:19.080
<v Speaker 1>the Supreme Court went against Roll versus Way and refuse it.

0:27:20.359 --> 0:27:25.640
<v Speaker 1>They'reying abortion. They're they're denying refusing this law, so they're

0:27:25.640 --> 0:27:29.760
<v Speaker 1>gonna allow Texas to move forward. Dud is it? Jesus freaks?

0:27:29.800 --> 0:27:33.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't understand it and buy that. I mean disrespect

0:27:35.359 --> 0:27:38.320
<v Speaker 1>for one. I produced a Bible podcast. Everyone knows I

0:27:39.280 --> 0:27:41.400
<v Speaker 1>love Brihanda, and I think that's the most religious person

0:27:41.440 --> 0:27:43.840
<v Speaker 1>in my life. But God, I don't even hear her

0:27:43.880 --> 0:27:47.480
<v Speaker 1>talk about this fucking bullshit. It's ridiculous to me because

0:27:47.520 --> 0:27:50.840
<v Speaker 1>it's this weird moral high ground, you know what I

0:27:50.920 --> 0:27:54.320
<v Speaker 1>mean that people suddenly take when it comes to abortions,

0:27:54.720 --> 0:27:58.360
<v Speaker 1>especially man, which cracks me up the most abortion religion.

0:27:58.400 --> 0:28:01.639
<v Speaker 1>And that's why they say ship, I'm getting a ship, taddy.

0:28:02.000 --> 0:28:05.280
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm thinking. Y'all already know how like

0:28:05.400 --> 0:28:07.000
<v Speaker 1>religion because you know the one thing they're really not

0:28:07.080 --> 0:28:09.480
<v Speaker 1>gonna talk about how nobody in the Bible was white,

0:28:09.600 --> 0:28:13.760
<v Speaker 1>but we're gonna keep keep on going. What did that

0:28:13.880 --> 0:28:16.440
<v Speaker 1>wasn't even really white in real life? Um, but let's

0:28:16.480 --> 0:28:19.840
<v Speaker 1>get into our hord dirve our hord der uh. This

0:28:20.000 --> 0:28:22.919
<v Speaker 1>week is a tip that I found, and it's actually

0:28:23.000 --> 0:28:25.560
<v Speaker 1>one that I've been recently doing, and I find it

0:28:25.640 --> 0:28:28.639
<v Speaker 1>to be really exciting, UM. But it's actually and this

0:28:28.760 --> 0:28:30.439
<v Speaker 1>is for those of you who have a partner. It's

0:28:30.480 --> 0:28:33.320
<v Speaker 1>a way, UM to not only get them to open

0:28:33.440 --> 0:28:35.120
<v Speaker 1>up to you, but for you to feel more comfortable

0:28:35.160 --> 0:28:37.440
<v Speaker 1>with talking to your partner. So this hord derve this

0:28:37.520 --> 0:28:41.040
<v Speaker 1>week is to brainstorm a list of fantasies. As I

0:28:41.160 --> 0:28:43.880
<v Speaker 1>was even going through the homemaale, there's so many people

0:28:44.000 --> 0:28:46.880
<v Speaker 1>that write in homemaal and they're like, but I already

0:28:46.880 --> 0:28:48.680
<v Speaker 1>know my my partner's not gonna be down for it,

0:28:49.040 --> 0:28:51.360
<v Speaker 1>or I already know how my partner's gonna respond, or

0:28:51.400 --> 0:28:54.680
<v Speaker 1>I already know my partners x y Z. And brainstorming

0:28:54.680 --> 0:28:57.760
<v Speaker 1>a list of fantasies will ironically not only open communication

0:28:57.840 --> 0:28:59.400
<v Speaker 1>with you and your partner, but it will get you

0:28:59.520 --> 0:29:02.920
<v Speaker 1>to really think outside the box and really see how

0:29:03.280 --> 0:29:06.440
<v Speaker 1>far your partner's mind goes. So it says, create a

0:29:06.520 --> 0:29:10.320
<v Speaker 1>bucket list of no stress exciting ideas to try together.

0:29:10.840 --> 0:29:13.120
<v Speaker 1>If you come up with something that both parties aren't into,

0:29:13.480 --> 0:29:15.680
<v Speaker 1>put it on a maybe list and revisit it later.

0:29:16.360 --> 0:29:19.320
<v Speaker 1>Not only is making a list together fun, simply talking

0:29:19.360 --> 0:29:22.800
<v Speaker 1>about desires can keep things hot. Communication allows you to

0:29:22.840 --> 0:29:25.800
<v Speaker 1>fantasize consensually so that you can focus on pleasure in

0:29:25.840 --> 0:29:31.040
<v Speaker 1>the bedroom with no hesitation. I kind of think recently, um,

0:29:31.920 --> 0:29:33.240
<v Speaker 1>I feel like old bing and I have done so

0:29:33.360 --> 0:29:37.440
<v Speaker 1>much so it's like pegging it out and we fucking

0:29:37.560 --> 0:29:41.880
<v Speaker 1>did everything else. But um, you know, with the new

0:29:41.920 --> 0:29:46.960
<v Speaker 1>person I'm sleeping with, I recently discussed who the semi

0:29:47.040 --> 0:29:52.000
<v Speaker 1>conservative um, which I maybe enjoy because I'm not, you

0:29:52.040 --> 0:29:53.560
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. I think sometimes that can be

0:29:53.600 --> 0:29:55.400
<v Speaker 1>fun when you're with someone who's the total opposite of you.

0:29:56.360 --> 0:29:59.880
<v Speaker 1>And had a phone call with a friend of mine

0:30:00.560 --> 0:30:04.120
<v Speaker 1>on FaceTime and he called me while I was in

0:30:04.160 --> 0:30:05.920
<v Speaker 1>a club or something, and I don't know what it

0:30:06.080 --> 0:30:10.280
<v Speaker 1>was about this particular girl, but he like enjoyed her

0:30:10.320 --> 0:30:13.200
<v Speaker 1>flirting with me, and I was watching it slowly happened,

0:30:13.480 --> 0:30:15.600
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. And then the next thing,

0:30:17.040 --> 0:30:22.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm on a flight back to New York, literally getting

0:30:22.320 --> 0:30:24.440
<v Speaker 1>on the plane and he's like get off, yo. Like

0:30:25.000 --> 0:30:27.680
<v Speaker 1>he's like I can't stop thinking about you and fucking

0:30:27.760 --> 0:30:30.440
<v Speaker 1>you with her or like sucking anybody's like that, just

0:30:30.600 --> 0:30:33.080
<v Speaker 1>like drove me insane. Dog. We're like taking off, I'm

0:30:33.120 --> 0:30:37.600
<v Speaker 1>taxing and we're like sexting like crazy, and literally our

0:30:37.800 --> 0:30:41.120
<v Speaker 1>entire conversation since then, Like when we're sex thing, we're

0:30:41.200 --> 0:30:43.880
<v Speaker 1>deep in it. It's like all about how it would happen.

0:30:44.240 --> 0:30:47.640
<v Speaker 1>And just like it sounds silly as somebody that was

0:30:47.680 --> 0:30:50.000
<v Speaker 1>in a throuble and that's had mad threesomes, but it

0:30:50.200 --> 0:30:54.720
<v Speaker 1>is really exciting to experience something new with someone new.

0:30:55.720 --> 0:30:59.040
<v Speaker 1>For example, it's not new to me, but it's new

0:30:59.120 --> 0:31:00.920
<v Speaker 1>to you. So I'm enjoying it. And I think that

0:31:01.000 --> 0:31:03.640
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people sometimes may put somebody down that

0:31:03.760 --> 0:31:06.480
<v Speaker 1>hasn't done something, or even he maybe didn't want to

0:31:06.520 --> 0:31:08.400
<v Speaker 1>get excited with me about talking about threesom because he

0:31:08.440 --> 0:31:10.600
<v Speaker 1>knows I've been on my ship, you know what I mean,

0:31:10.720 --> 0:31:12.920
<v Speaker 1>Like he knows weezy, he knows what I've done, He's

0:31:12.920 --> 0:31:16.120
<v Speaker 1>heard the stories. So I was even a little bit

0:31:16.200 --> 0:31:18.400
<v Speaker 1>surprised that he was cool with like kind of just

0:31:18.560 --> 0:31:22.000
<v Speaker 1>mentioning little things, because I think most times we're very

0:31:22.160 --> 0:31:25.600
<v Speaker 1>into trying to impress that partner by showing them how

0:31:25.720 --> 0:31:28.040
<v Speaker 1>much we've done, because we don't want them to feel

0:31:28.120 --> 0:31:32.680
<v Speaker 1>like we're not experienced. You know, like if you meet

0:31:32.800 --> 0:31:34.880
<v Speaker 1>somebody in the future and they know how many times

0:31:34.880 --> 0:31:36.680
<v Speaker 1>you've been to sex club, they're done things the first

0:31:36.720 --> 0:31:38.320
<v Speaker 1>thing they may say is like, oh, yeah, I've heard

0:31:38.360 --> 0:31:40.040
<v Speaker 1>of it, or they'll want to tell you what they know.

0:31:40.320 --> 0:31:42.480
<v Speaker 1>That's just a natural thing, so you don't feel like

0:31:42.520 --> 0:31:44.680
<v Speaker 1>someone who's completely out of the loop. But it has

0:31:44.720 --> 0:31:46.360
<v Speaker 1>been super fun and I think it's great that he's

0:31:46.400 --> 0:31:48.840
<v Speaker 1>kind of let me lead or walk him through it.

0:31:48.960 --> 0:31:52.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it's going to happen, but he's fine,

0:31:52.320 --> 0:31:56.400
<v Speaker 1>so probably if you're vanilla and you're dating someone, I

0:31:56.560 --> 0:32:01.280
<v Speaker 1>think a nice way to easier way into the fantasies

0:32:01.440 --> 0:32:03.400
<v Speaker 1>if you don't, you know, if you're not fully comfortable

0:32:03.440 --> 0:32:06.640
<v Speaker 1>going there just yet, is talking about things that you've

0:32:06.680 --> 0:32:10.160
<v Speaker 1>never done and then starting doing first with them that

0:32:10.280 --> 0:32:13.320
<v Speaker 1>aren't in the bedroom. So, say your partner has never

0:32:13.440 --> 0:32:17.080
<v Speaker 1>been to a sipping paint, Say I want to experience

0:32:17.120 --> 0:32:19.960
<v Speaker 1>that with you first, so you can. You can even

0:32:20.040 --> 0:32:22.880
<v Speaker 1>start by talking about things you've never done. I've never

0:32:22.960 --> 0:32:26.479
<v Speaker 1>been to the Empire State Building. Let's be tourists one

0:32:26.520 --> 0:32:28.840
<v Speaker 1>day and just go. So I think building things to

0:32:28.960 --> 0:32:32.000
<v Speaker 1>do as a first outside the bedroom, I think would

0:32:32.000 --> 0:32:35.200
<v Speaker 1>be a fun thing to do before starting digging into

0:32:35.480 --> 0:32:39.920
<v Speaker 1>your kinky sexual fantasies and right like creating first with

0:32:40.000 --> 0:32:42.720
<v Speaker 1>a partner, regardless whether it's in the bedroom or not,

0:32:43.440 --> 0:32:45.840
<v Speaker 1>literally creates like this special bond with that parton and

0:32:45.880 --> 0:32:48.959
<v Speaker 1>you have to let go of because some women will

0:32:48.960 --> 0:32:50.760
<v Speaker 1>say things like, well, who did you do this way before?

0:32:52.640 --> 0:32:56.000
<v Speaker 1>Do you get that I've heard men do that to me,

0:32:56.120 --> 0:32:59.360
<v Speaker 1>women have done that. It ruins it. It ruins it

0:32:59.400 --> 0:33:01.800
<v Speaker 1>from me personally. Not I'm not thinking about that person

0:33:01.840 --> 0:33:04.320
<v Speaker 1>at all. I'm curious, like, at what point can you

0:33:04.400 --> 0:33:07.200
<v Speaker 1>actually tell, Let's say, for me, how if I were

0:33:07.240 --> 0:33:09.560
<v Speaker 1>to have a partner, when would I be able to

0:33:09.840 --> 0:33:14.360
<v Speaker 1>kind of easing the idea of fantasy I have honestly, Literally,

0:33:14.440 --> 0:33:17.040
<v Speaker 1>it could be the second time y'all had sex, it

0:33:17.080 --> 0:33:19.600
<v Speaker 1>could be two years later. I think that that's something

0:33:20.240 --> 0:33:24.080
<v Speaker 1>where and the way that I've been doing it is

0:33:24.480 --> 0:33:27.680
<v Speaker 1>just laying in the bed. I have these galaxy lights now,

0:33:27.880 --> 0:33:30.160
<v Speaker 1>so depending if I'm on shrooms or not, we really

0:33:30.200 --> 0:33:32.560
<v Speaker 1>be in the galaxy. Um, I really don't know who

0:33:32.600 --> 0:33:35.120
<v Speaker 1>I am anymore. I literally just be doing the chocolate

0:33:35.160 --> 0:33:38.880
<v Speaker 1>shrooms my homegirls brought up from l A. Now. Yeah,

0:33:38.960 --> 0:33:41.160
<v Speaker 1>but these galaxy lights, when you do it, you literally

0:33:41.240 --> 0:33:43.160
<v Speaker 1>just lay there and we'll look at the ceiling and

0:33:43.280 --> 0:33:45.400
<v Speaker 1>it's kind of like we're outside looking at the stars,

0:33:45.480 --> 0:33:47.760
<v Speaker 1>and I think that's one of the this is literally

0:33:47.800 --> 0:33:50.600
<v Speaker 1>what I have in my room, and so literally just

0:33:50.760 --> 0:33:53.400
<v Speaker 1>looking up at the ceiling and looking at the galaxy lights,

0:33:53.800 --> 0:33:56.560
<v Speaker 1>you could literally just start brainstorming there. You're you're not

0:33:56.640 --> 0:34:01.400
<v Speaker 1>applying pressure. It's a good conversation and you're not in

0:34:01.480 --> 0:34:04.000
<v Speaker 1>the act of sex. You're just laying there talking. So

0:34:04.200 --> 0:34:06.480
<v Speaker 1>to me, that's something to where you know, and you

0:34:06.560 --> 0:34:09.080
<v Speaker 1>could you can gauge it. You can take me with everybody,

0:34:09.280 --> 0:34:13.920
<v Speaker 1>like I remember with scissors um and no shade to her,

0:34:14.040 --> 0:34:16.560
<v Speaker 1>but she is very shy as nasty as she can be.

0:34:17.080 --> 0:34:21.080
<v Speaker 1>I felt like she was so shy in person, right,

0:34:21.200 --> 0:34:25.320
<v Speaker 1>and she's like, I don't know, but in texting and

0:34:25.400 --> 0:34:27.640
<v Speaker 1>ship it was easier to get it out of her,

0:34:27.680 --> 0:34:30.200
<v Speaker 1>and some people it's a little more premeditated, so you

0:34:30.280 --> 0:34:32.279
<v Speaker 1>can think about your answers. So it could help. The

0:34:32.360 --> 0:34:34.440
<v Speaker 1>only thing with texting that like drives me insane is

0:34:35.080 --> 0:34:38.520
<v Speaker 1>I gotta wait for your response. Ye could just imagine

0:34:38.520 --> 0:34:41.799
<v Speaker 1>we tell something. If you say something crazy, you can

0:34:41.840 --> 0:34:47.160
<v Speaker 1>just put an L in and then don't you word.

0:34:47.280 --> 0:34:48.520
<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean, That's what I'm saying. No,

0:34:48.640 --> 0:34:50.960
<v Speaker 1>you could just do it L O L to kind

0:34:51.000 --> 0:34:54.000
<v Speaker 1>of test the water to see what their motherfucker response

0:34:54.120 --> 0:35:00.520
<v Speaker 1>might be. I don't know. I did also want to

0:35:00.920 --> 0:35:04.040
<v Speaker 1>leave this into our horrible decision this week again, if

0:35:04.080 --> 0:35:06.719
<v Speaker 1>you guys are new listeners and haven't been able to

0:35:06.800 --> 0:35:08.880
<v Speaker 1>go all the way back. We used to do a

0:35:09.000 --> 0:35:12.160
<v Speaker 1>Kink of the Week segment um and we like to

0:35:12.239 --> 0:35:16.040
<v Speaker 1>talk about different kinks here and I found this article

0:35:16.800 --> 0:35:20.360
<v Speaker 1>on desert dot co dot za. I assume is that

0:35:20.520 --> 0:35:24.319
<v Speaker 1>what New Zealand or so if it's that means it's

0:35:24.320 --> 0:35:30.160
<v Speaker 1>in another country, right, Okay, so this is from a

0:35:30.280 --> 0:35:34.240
<v Speaker 1>Dutch website, but they went into eight unusual sexual kinks

0:35:34.480 --> 0:35:37.680
<v Speaker 1>that are fun to try together. So if you're talking

0:35:37.719 --> 0:35:41.520
<v Speaker 1>about again your fantasies, here's eight kinks that maybe you

0:35:41.600 --> 0:35:43.719
<v Speaker 1>and your partner can try together. We let me know

0:35:43.840 --> 0:35:46.000
<v Speaker 1>if you've done them before, or let me know if

0:35:46.040 --> 0:35:48.799
<v Speaker 1>you think this might be something that you would try.

0:35:48.840 --> 0:35:51.920
<v Speaker 1>If you're vanilla long term, short term, let me know

0:35:52.120 --> 0:35:56.520
<v Speaker 1>when you should introduce this. This first one is called

0:35:56.640 --> 0:36:00.959
<v Speaker 1>splashing or wham do you know with splashing or whim

0:36:01.160 --> 0:36:04.560
<v Speaker 1>is food? Close? Yeah? I guess it involves it a

0:36:04.600 --> 0:36:09.080
<v Speaker 1>little bit food splashing wham actually means wet and messy,

0:36:09.760 --> 0:36:12.040
<v Speaker 1>so these sexual kinks are known as wet and messy

0:36:12.080 --> 0:36:15.879
<v Speaker 1>fetishes because they involved often food and things generally get

0:36:15.960 --> 0:36:19.480
<v Speaker 1>extremely messy during the apt People like to cover themselves

0:36:19.520 --> 0:36:22.080
<v Speaker 1>and food, eat food off of each other, and even

0:36:22.200 --> 0:36:25.000
<v Speaker 1>own special tanks that they can do this in. A

0:36:25.080 --> 0:36:28.680
<v Speaker 1>Surprisingly large amount of people are into splashing thanks to

0:36:28.719 --> 0:36:35.040
<v Speaker 1>the high rates of subtle files. Splashing is one. Food

0:36:35.120 --> 0:36:37.439
<v Speaker 1>has always been a cential thing, and people that find

0:36:37.600 --> 0:36:40.040
<v Speaker 1>food sexy like to involve it more in their sexual place.

0:36:40.360 --> 0:36:42.200
<v Speaker 1>You don't have to be extreme about it, but dabbling

0:36:42.320 --> 0:36:45.200
<v Speaker 1>might teach you something, um and then they give examples,

0:36:45.320 --> 0:36:47.799
<v Speaker 1>so something like edible body paint is a nice entry

0:36:47.880 --> 0:36:52.120
<v Speaker 1>level step. Whipped cream bikinis um is also very popular

0:36:52.400 --> 0:36:55.879
<v Speaker 1>and investigating sexual kinks a little bit more with dessert spreads. Um.

0:36:56.360 --> 0:36:59.120
<v Speaker 1>This doesn't have to do with food. But what in

0:36:59.280 --> 0:37:02.840
<v Speaker 1>messy to he reminds me of, uh, something that I

0:37:03.000 --> 0:37:06.440
<v Speaker 1>like is literally I say, make a mess on me,

0:37:06.840 --> 0:37:10.800
<v Speaker 1>and I just like him to literally just nut on me. Like,

0:37:10.960 --> 0:37:14.120
<v Speaker 1>so shoot has come, whether it lands on my face,

0:37:14.440 --> 0:37:16.719
<v Speaker 1>on my tips, on my stomach, and then we go

0:37:16.840 --> 0:37:19.120
<v Speaker 1>back into the next round. So now it's messy because

0:37:19.120 --> 0:37:20.400
<v Speaker 1>the nut is on him, it's on my shoes. We

0:37:20.520 --> 0:37:23.560
<v Speaker 1>assuming that not everybody can get it up next like

0:37:24.160 --> 0:37:26.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean right after it just late on it. I

0:37:26.920 --> 0:37:30.160
<v Speaker 1>would say a good way to do like with the nut,

0:37:30.960 --> 0:37:33.160
<v Speaker 1>if the nut is all over her body, you can

0:37:33.239 --> 0:37:35.399
<v Speaker 1>make it wet and messy by just lying on top

0:37:35.440 --> 0:37:36.759
<v Speaker 1>of her and then it's kind of like oh yeah,

0:37:36.760 --> 0:37:38.360
<v Speaker 1>and then is sicky. So then you shot were together,

0:37:38.440 --> 0:37:40.360
<v Speaker 1>but in the act wet and messy. I think a

0:37:40.440 --> 0:37:45.440
<v Speaker 1>good way to do that is so um, recently, like

0:37:45.560 --> 0:37:47.360
<v Speaker 1>I was super high. When I'm really high and I

0:37:47.400 --> 0:37:51.160
<v Speaker 1>sucked dick, I can't like my mouth is dry, right,

0:37:51.680 --> 0:37:54.640
<v Speaker 1>so um, I have water and I'll just put in

0:37:54.719 --> 0:37:57.319
<v Speaker 1>my mouth, switch it around, switch it around, and then

0:37:57.600 --> 0:37:59.439
<v Speaker 1>it just makes my mouth wetter and the dick wetter.

0:37:59.719 --> 0:38:01.399
<v Speaker 1>But I was like, what if it was a lot.

0:38:02.120 --> 0:38:04.759
<v Speaker 1>So sometimes I'll fill my mouth with the water and

0:38:04.840 --> 0:38:07.520
<v Speaker 1>then like then it's just getting like speedy and messy

0:38:07.600 --> 0:38:09.839
<v Speaker 1>and wet and wetter, and it's really fun like ship

0:38:10.000 --> 0:38:12.920
<v Speaker 1>like that. I think another thing especially funny I I

0:38:13.080 --> 0:38:16.680
<v Speaker 1>do that well when we between rounds, will like be

0:38:16.800 --> 0:38:19.319
<v Speaker 1>thirsty of course because we just worked out and he'll

0:38:19.320 --> 0:38:21.520
<v Speaker 1>put it in his mouth and instead of giving me

0:38:21.560 --> 0:38:23.600
<v Speaker 1>the water bottle, he'll feed me the water from his mouth,

0:38:26.680 --> 0:38:31.200
<v Speaker 1>so filthy, and that is that bird feeding something like that.

0:38:32.120 --> 0:38:35.000
<v Speaker 1>I love it. By then it's room temperature, clearly. But

0:38:35.880 --> 0:38:37.600
<v Speaker 1>what I'm just saying, it ain't that cold by the

0:38:37.640 --> 0:38:40.919
<v Speaker 1>time and go from his pass it on. No, he'll

0:38:40.960 --> 0:38:42.439
<v Speaker 1>just drink a little bit of it and then whatever

0:38:42.600 --> 0:38:46.880
<v Speaker 1>left dumping in my mouth because we just been sucking

0:38:46.960 --> 0:38:49.280
<v Speaker 1>and he's a he's a human being. Our body temperature

0:38:49.360 --> 0:38:53.560
<v Speaker 1>like wait, like nineties something ninety seven point one. One

0:38:54.280 --> 0:38:56.880
<v Speaker 1>bitch been having to get her temperature taking. Clearly, you

0:38:57.040 --> 0:39:01.359
<v Speaker 1>just we are hot. We're hot, bitches. Um, But did

0:39:01.400 --> 0:39:02.960
<v Speaker 1>you have anything else to add to that? Maybe for

0:39:03.120 --> 0:39:04.960
<v Speaker 1>someone who's been a little um, I would say with

0:39:05.320 --> 0:39:08.719
<v Speaker 1>um with like yeah, with anyone who's you know, having

0:39:08.719 --> 0:39:11.520
<v Speaker 1>sex with someone with a penis um for women or

0:39:11.560 --> 0:39:15.160
<v Speaker 1>like lesbian fantasies too, Like I think the messiest thing

0:39:15.320 --> 0:39:18.480
<v Speaker 1>that I really was able to do, Like I like

0:39:18.800 --> 0:39:22.040
<v Speaker 1>pussy all over me. So like if someone's, uh, if

0:39:22.040 --> 0:39:24.279
<v Speaker 1>you're eating someone out and you're laying down right and

0:39:24.360 --> 0:39:26.440
<v Speaker 1>they're like writing your face like they can drag it

0:39:26.719 --> 0:39:28.759
<v Speaker 1>and leave a little snail trail like. That's one too,

0:39:29.280 --> 0:39:31.240
<v Speaker 1>and it is you can do that on anybody. Yea

0:39:31.320 --> 0:39:33.959
<v Speaker 1>ever food. I just learned what a cedophile. She sucked.

0:39:34.000 --> 0:39:38.759
<v Speaker 1>She sucked the cucumber. Oh I huh, I didn't think

0:39:38.800 --> 0:39:41.000
<v Speaker 1>about well, I guess the cucumber. I think about that.

0:39:42.800 --> 0:39:45.239
<v Speaker 1>You know, I had to hold it. It didn't walk over,

0:39:46.160 --> 0:39:48.920
<v Speaker 1>did you do it? Sucked you? I fucked myself with

0:39:49.000 --> 0:39:53.640
<v Speaker 1>a cucumber. Okay, technically alright, alright, that cedophile. A cedophile

0:39:53.680 --> 0:39:55.560
<v Speaker 1>as a person who likes to fuck foods and find

0:39:55.600 --> 0:39:58.520
<v Speaker 1>oh well, no, find food arousing. Never mind. So that's

0:39:58.600 --> 0:40:01.319
<v Speaker 1>that's what a cedophile is. It's not as bad as uh,

0:40:01.800 --> 0:40:03.840
<v Speaker 1>what was it the Russian guy that is attracted to

0:40:03.880 --> 0:40:07.640
<v Speaker 1>the astronaut. The next one is basic, so I'm not

0:40:07.680 --> 0:40:09.560
<v Speaker 1>going to spend too much time on it. It is

0:40:09.800 --> 0:40:14.520
<v Speaker 1>catap trontophilia, which is actually I killed it right. I mean,

0:40:14.680 --> 0:40:17.000
<v Speaker 1>I was looking at this article for a minute. So

0:40:17.200 --> 0:40:20.239
<v Speaker 1>that's actually just the idea of having sex with your

0:40:20.280 --> 0:40:22.360
<v Speaker 1>significant other in front of a mirror. I feel like

0:40:22.400 --> 0:40:24.800
<v Speaker 1>we just talked about that with good Yeah. That one is.

0:40:24.880 --> 0:40:29.800
<v Speaker 1>That one is pretty interesting. The other one is pygophilia.

0:40:30.960 --> 0:40:33.600
<v Speaker 1>One of the most sexualized areas of the human body

0:40:33.800 --> 0:40:36.560
<v Speaker 1>is the rear end or buttocks. We also talked about

0:40:36.640 --> 0:40:40.840
<v Speaker 1>that um in in depth with Vinny, but a pygophiliac

0:40:41.040 --> 0:40:43.800
<v Speaker 1>is someone who is aroused by seeing and touching a

0:40:43.920 --> 0:40:49.440
<v Speaker 1>person's deriet um. These sexual kinks are especially prevalent in men,

0:40:49.760 --> 0:40:53.400
<v Speaker 1>with women's behind being the main attraction. Now, y'all, motherfucking

0:40:53.440 --> 0:40:58.480
<v Speaker 1>pain the stallion. I love massaging a butt women. Men,

0:40:58.680 --> 0:41:00.640
<v Speaker 1>It don't matter if I'm sucking you. Nine times out

0:41:00.680 --> 0:41:02.560
<v Speaker 1>of ten, I'm gonna say you want a massage, and

0:41:02.640 --> 0:41:04.520
<v Speaker 1>it's just so that I can massage your ass. I

0:41:04.640 --> 0:41:07.960
<v Speaker 1>love spreading an ass cheek apart. I think I just

0:41:08.160 --> 0:41:11.000
<v Speaker 1>love that I genuinely can get off from just this.

0:41:11.360 --> 0:41:14.200
<v Speaker 1>I love it. Um. When I was sucking collect, she

0:41:14.320 --> 0:41:16.600
<v Speaker 1>had this dumb and she would go over there just

0:41:16.680 --> 0:41:18.640
<v Speaker 1>to get spankings, and he remained fully dressed. And then

0:41:18.640 --> 0:41:22.640
<v Speaker 1>when her and I had our threesome, um with what

0:41:22.719 --> 0:41:25.640
<v Speaker 1>did I call him? He was just like a really rich,

0:41:25.719 --> 0:41:29.440
<v Speaker 1>hot white guy in the West village. But anyway, um oh,

0:41:30.040 --> 0:41:32.360
<v Speaker 1>when we would go over there, he would do a

0:41:32.600 --> 0:41:36.439
<v Speaker 1>lot of that, like spanking, slapping, like super domb shit.

0:41:36.640 --> 0:41:40.600
<v Speaker 1>He had like toys like contraptions, And that was the

0:41:40.680 --> 0:41:42.759
<v Speaker 1>first time where I was like, oh, like, you really

0:41:42.800 --> 0:41:46.360
<v Speaker 1>need nothing else, Like it's just something about It's almost

0:41:46.360 --> 0:41:48.279
<v Speaker 1>because some of them know that you want to get

0:41:48.360 --> 0:41:52.200
<v Speaker 1>fucked real bad because you're so horny, and they won't

0:41:52.200 --> 0:41:53.799
<v Speaker 1>give it to you. Like it's almost like they get

0:41:53.840 --> 0:41:56.759
<v Speaker 1>off on withholding it. I love slapping ass massage and

0:41:56.840 --> 0:42:01.640
<v Speaker 1>ass sticking, ass licking ass all everything to do as like,

0:42:01.960 --> 0:42:04.839
<v Speaker 1>I just really and define a man with a nice ass.

0:42:05.040 --> 0:42:06.840
<v Speaker 1>Oh give it to me. I think that's also. I

0:42:06.960 --> 0:42:09.560
<v Speaker 1>like women with really nice asses too, especially when they

0:42:09.600 --> 0:42:12.280
<v Speaker 1>have a little cuff booties. I love a little cuff

0:42:12.400 --> 0:42:21.120
<v Speaker 1>on a booty. Oh my god, I love god, I do.

0:42:21.360 --> 0:42:23.839
<v Speaker 1>I love a little cuff on a booty. Bit all right.

0:42:23.920 --> 0:42:27.680
<v Speaker 1>The next one is an auditory fetish. Perhaps the most

0:42:27.760 --> 0:42:31.959
<v Speaker 1>popular auditory fetish includes the use of swear words. During

0:42:32.000 --> 0:42:36.040
<v Speaker 1>second This is real vanilla. People that enjoy talking dirty

0:42:36.080 --> 0:42:39.600
<v Speaker 1>in the bedroom may actually find specific words very erotic.

0:42:40.040 --> 0:42:42.200
<v Speaker 1>Wait did they list them out? They did not, So

0:42:42.320 --> 0:42:43.719
<v Speaker 1>I want us to know if you would. But if

0:42:43.760 --> 0:42:50.600
<v Speaker 1>you find yourself horror bitch, fuck me, pussy, uh, let

0:42:50.640 --> 0:42:56.759
<v Speaker 1>me harder, faster, deeper, come just like naming stuff, make

0:42:56.840 --> 0:43:02.319
<v Speaker 1>a mess? Nut, Give me that nut? Bro stopping here

0:43:02.360 --> 0:43:05.239
<v Speaker 1>talking about this, y'all gotta say nut. Come on, bro,

0:43:05.320 --> 0:43:08.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna start laughing if someone told me, Oh my god,

0:43:08.600 --> 0:43:14.440
<v Speaker 1>that's so sexy. Oh don't turn me on? Yes, not

0:43:14.640 --> 0:43:22.000
<v Speaker 1>on me? Baby? What you not laugh too? Nutting is good,

0:43:22.120 --> 0:43:30.720
<v Speaker 1>like I like Pete, I drink old milk a nut. Listen,

0:43:31.440 --> 0:43:34.560
<v Speaker 1>give me that nut? Baby? Oh wait, can I just ask?

0:43:34.719 --> 0:43:37.919
<v Speaker 1>Did your man tell you he's about to nuts? He's

0:43:37.920 --> 0:43:39.719
<v Speaker 1>a he's a little bit more silent. I have to

0:43:39.840 --> 0:43:43.600
<v Speaker 1>like really ask him to like, like, as I know

0:43:43.680 --> 0:43:45.800
<v Speaker 1>he's about to come, i'd be like he moaned. I

0:43:45.840 --> 0:43:47.440
<v Speaker 1>love when you moan. I just be telling him like

0:43:48.160 --> 0:43:49.560
<v Speaker 1>I want to hear you. Can I hear you with

0:43:49.760 --> 0:43:52.200
<v Speaker 1>like I want to hear you? He doesn't quiet? Word?

0:43:52.280 --> 0:43:56.400
<v Speaker 1>Does he say about a bust? I think it's bused

0:43:58.200 --> 0:44:01.799
<v Speaker 1>my but see but see now it's different because now

0:44:01.960 --> 0:44:04.920
<v Speaker 1>instead of like really asking for the nut, all asked

0:44:05.080 --> 0:44:08.359
<v Speaker 1>to make a mess on me. That's that's my instructions

0:44:08.440 --> 0:44:12.120
<v Speaker 1>on where I want him to come. So that's I

0:44:12.160 --> 0:44:14.239
<v Speaker 1>think I say, like I'll use the word cover like

0:44:14.680 --> 0:44:17.560
<v Speaker 1>probably like I'll be like to make a mess. Yeah,

0:44:18.719 --> 0:44:23.040
<v Speaker 1>make the mess. I'm ready to go, but I'm sorry. Okay,

0:44:23.120 --> 0:44:27.440
<v Speaker 1>next one, Uh, we have three more trichophilia. If you

0:44:27.480 --> 0:44:30.919
<v Speaker 1>are a trichophiliac, then you love human hair. The way

0:44:30.960 --> 0:44:34.480
<v Speaker 1>it smells, feels, everything about hair gets you going. And

0:44:34.560 --> 0:44:36.359
<v Speaker 1>there might be a very good reason for this from

0:44:36.480 --> 0:44:40.799
<v Speaker 1>science all right now, Human pheromones, the chemical arousal simulates

0:44:41.560 --> 0:44:45.640
<v Speaker 1>simulators that people produce in their skin, are especially prominent

0:44:45.719 --> 0:44:48.440
<v Speaker 1>in the head area. So if you love your significant

0:44:48.480 --> 0:44:51.440
<v Speaker 1>other's hair, you might want to try including it more

0:44:51.480 --> 0:44:54.320
<v Speaker 1>overtly in for play. Now, clearly, I would say this

0:44:54.400 --> 0:44:57.920
<v Speaker 1>is more of a white person ship because technically, when

0:44:57.960 --> 0:45:00.919
<v Speaker 1>I get my lace wigs or I my hair really done,

0:45:01.200 --> 0:45:04.839
<v Speaker 1>it's literally like I don't touch thing, um, even when

0:45:05.080 --> 0:45:07.480
<v Speaker 1>my hair is out like my natural hair. I'm not

0:45:07.719 --> 0:45:11.000
<v Speaker 1>really into the touching of my hair, touching hair. I thought,

0:45:11.000 --> 0:45:14.480
<v Speaker 1>I said nut in hair. Just love my fucking hair.

0:45:14.800 --> 0:45:18.560
<v Speaker 1>Wet hair can be very Do you like a scalp massage?

0:45:18.760 --> 0:45:20.640
<v Speaker 1>I love all of that. I'm obsessed with that. So

0:45:20.719 --> 0:45:23.759
<v Speaker 1>maybe you're I love a scalp massage so much. This

0:45:23.880 --> 0:45:27.000
<v Speaker 1>sounds ridiculous, but so I probably give maybe a few

0:45:27.120 --> 0:45:30.440
<v Speaker 1>days between braiding. I will go get a massage just

0:45:30.560 --> 0:45:32.439
<v Speaker 1>so I can have a scalt massage with my brains

0:45:32.480 --> 0:45:34.120
<v Speaker 1>out of my head. Well, I mean braids be hurting

0:45:34.640 --> 0:45:38.120
<v Speaker 1>the scalp like but no, and then even with my

0:45:38.200 --> 0:45:39.920
<v Speaker 1>braids because I mean, I get not lest so it

0:45:39.960 --> 0:45:43.120
<v Speaker 1>doesn't hurt anymore. But um oh, I love you. I

0:45:43.360 --> 0:45:45.560
<v Speaker 1>love you old Bayles rubber years. I'd be like getting

0:45:45.560 --> 0:45:48.880
<v Speaker 1>my hair like I don't give a fuck, and I

0:45:49.080 --> 0:45:52.759
<v Speaker 1>tell all my nigges, all my hose to just when

0:45:52.800 --> 0:45:54.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying this, I don't mean currently, I mean like

0:45:54.200 --> 0:45:56.320
<v Speaker 1>over the years, not one person in my life doesn't

0:45:56.320 --> 0:45:57.920
<v Speaker 1>know that I need that to sleep. I think a

0:45:58.000 --> 0:46:00.280
<v Speaker 1>scalt massage is how I usually initiate in the It's

0:46:00.280 --> 0:46:02.239
<v Speaker 1>weird now that's how you initiate in the bedroom. See,

0:46:02.680 --> 0:46:06.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean, don't they here to stop talking? Like there's

0:46:06.840 --> 0:46:10.239
<v Speaker 1>literally now I mean, and I'm bollheaded now, so I'll

0:46:10.280 --> 0:46:12.600
<v Speaker 1>just be like, can you not touch my hair? Already

0:46:12.600 --> 0:46:14.520
<v Speaker 1>gotta laid down with a due rag, so like when

0:46:14.600 --> 0:46:16.279
<v Speaker 1>they like, when you want to play in my hair,

0:46:16.440 --> 0:46:19.400
<v Speaker 1>it like literally it sticks up, it frizzes. And now

0:46:19.440 --> 0:46:21.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, now I gotta go grab my Nirobi and

0:46:21.920 --> 0:46:25.160
<v Speaker 1>my dude Rag, and now I gotta lay my ship.

0:46:25.200 --> 0:46:26.600
<v Speaker 1>There's a way to do it. Still, you can still

0:46:26.680 --> 0:46:28.560
<v Speaker 1>do kind of paths. Yeah, Like I know I'm half white,

0:46:28.600 --> 0:46:30.080
<v Speaker 1>but my ship does not be laying. I'd be having

0:46:30.120 --> 0:46:32.000
<v Speaker 1>to lay my ship down, and it just annoys me

0:46:32.080 --> 0:46:36.319
<v Speaker 1>because no, don't mess it up, especially in between washes ship.

0:46:37.080 --> 0:46:43.359
<v Speaker 1>The next one, y'all is come on, come on, I'm

0:46:43.400 --> 0:46:45.200
<v Speaker 1>trying to I feel like the k is silent like

0:46:45.360 --> 0:46:51.759
<v Speaker 1>Nick's so niz Malagnia. Yeah, I think Malag so Nick

0:46:52.080 --> 0:47:01.080
<v Speaker 1>niz Malagnia. It's actually the tickling fetish. I will what

0:47:01.320 --> 0:47:05.560
<v Speaker 1>you would you far from being tickled? I mean because

0:47:05.600 --> 0:47:07.759
<v Speaker 1>I just like it gets so anxious and I sn't know.

0:47:07.960 --> 0:47:10.800
<v Speaker 1>I ain't gonna hold you. If you motherfucking tickle me,

0:47:10.920 --> 0:47:14.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm punching the dog ship out. You like it hurts.

0:47:14.560 --> 0:47:18.600
<v Speaker 1>Tickling hurts because and I'm like claustrophobic. So then I

0:47:18.680 --> 0:47:20.759
<v Speaker 1>feel like I have prowesses like hen't move, So I'll

0:47:20.800 --> 0:47:23.640
<v Speaker 1>just be like, but then I just go to fight.

0:47:23.760 --> 0:47:26.160
<v Speaker 1>I just gotta fight a mother fuck. Don't motherfucker tickled me.

0:47:26.360 --> 0:47:31.000
<v Speaker 1>But if you like tickling. This is the thing. We

0:47:31.120 --> 0:47:33.520
<v Speaker 1>never had Tickled on Patreon, but you need to watch

0:47:33.600 --> 0:47:36.200
<v Speaker 1>that movie made. It was literally don't know. Tickling is

0:47:36.239 --> 0:47:38.000
<v Speaker 1>probably one of the no no no about how they

0:47:38.080 --> 0:47:40.000
<v Speaker 1>like not use these young boys. What I mean he

0:47:40.040 --> 0:47:42.520
<v Speaker 1>would basically like if anyone and I know he talked

0:47:42.520 --> 0:47:43.920
<v Speaker 1>about this a few months ago, he's supposed to do

0:47:43.960 --> 0:47:45.640
<v Speaker 1>a patreons in him on it, but we didn't. But

0:47:45.800 --> 0:47:49.440
<v Speaker 1>this fucking ship was so crazy. Tickled is a like

0:47:49.920 --> 0:47:52.440
<v Speaker 1>it's like a Sundance type film of this guy who

0:47:52.560 --> 0:47:54.520
<v Speaker 1>was like hiring guys on Craigslist for a hundred dollars

0:47:54.520 --> 0:47:56.759
<v Speaker 1>to get tickled on camera. He would like use it

0:47:56.800 --> 0:47:59.320
<v Speaker 1>to weaponize them when they were like at work, like

0:47:59.440 --> 0:48:01.879
<v Speaker 1>older later in life, like Ayo, it's crazy, but wow,

0:48:01.960 --> 0:48:03.560
<v Speaker 1>that's kind of sucked up. Oh man, it's a really

0:48:03.600 --> 0:48:06.160
<v Speaker 1>good doctor. But the tickling community is the whole thing.

0:48:06.400 --> 0:48:08.880
<v Speaker 1>There's a guy I went on a date with and

0:48:08.880 --> 0:48:11.200
<v Speaker 1>I remember like he was already turning me off and

0:48:11.320 --> 0:48:12.960
<v Speaker 1>like he thought he was saying something funny to me

0:48:13.000 --> 0:48:15.080
<v Speaker 1>when he dropped me off and like tried to tickle me,

0:48:15.200 --> 0:48:18.840
<v Speaker 1>and I literally almost punched. Yeah, don't don't tickle me

0:48:18.960 --> 0:48:22.440
<v Speaker 1>or something like just don't put your hands on me, please.

0:48:22.680 --> 0:48:25.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't like tickling, like even when I get massages,

0:48:25.560 --> 0:48:27.960
<v Speaker 1>like or when the bitches is doing my feet at

0:48:28.000 --> 0:48:29.759
<v Speaker 1>the salon. I was like, all right, I need you

0:48:29.760 --> 0:48:31.320
<v Speaker 1>to be a little rougher down there because the tickle

0:48:31.560 --> 0:48:33.479
<v Speaker 1>and now you're about to mess up my jem. Certain

0:48:33.520 --> 0:48:38.560
<v Speaker 1>anxiety comes upon me like I'm not but don't because

0:48:39.000 --> 0:48:40.759
<v Speaker 1>I'll be lying. Now I'd be like, hell no, my

0:48:40.840 --> 0:48:43.080
<v Speaker 1>motherfucking g you can't tickle me. And then they go

0:48:43.160 --> 0:48:49.200
<v Speaker 1>to tickle and the like I'll be drooling like I

0:48:49.360 --> 0:48:52.560
<v Speaker 1>hate that feeling. I hate like it's not fun. No,

0:48:52.680 --> 0:48:54.920
<v Speaker 1>it's not fun for me. It's not fun. Don't tickle me.

0:48:55.280 --> 0:48:57.360
<v Speaker 1>And I just went too hard with that. Now you

0:48:57.400 --> 0:49:00.719
<v Speaker 1>know my arm is like arm hurt? Right? The uh

0:49:01.000 --> 0:49:05.640
<v Speaker 1>last two mask fetish Now I actually spoke about this now.

0:49:05.760 --> 0:49:07.360
<v Speaker 1>Wearing a mask is of course a part of b

0:49:07.480 --> 0:49:10.520
<v Speaker 1>D s M and playing with your sensory um. This

0:49:10.840 --> 0:49:14.200
<v Speaker 1>was actually masks ain't for me. Uh. The one time

0:49:14.200 --> 0:49:16.600
<v Speaker 1>I did agree to be blindfolded, the nigga sells me

0:49:17.000 --> 0:49:22.560
<v Speaker 1>uh and removed his condoms. He sells so literally when

0:49:22.680 --> 0:49:25.799
<v Speaker 1>we were done, like when he came. He literally went

0:49:25.880 --> 0:49:27.799
<v Speaker 1>to take off my mask. But before he took off

0:49:27.880 --> 0:49:30.000
<v Speaker 1>my mask, he said, don't be mad at me. And

0:49:30.040 --> 0:49:32.200
<v Speaker 1>I was like, what what do you mean? And he's like,

0:49:32.320 --> 0:49:34.200
<v Speaker 1>it felt so good, and he let me know that

0:49:34.360 --> 0:49:36.840
<v Speaker 1>he took off the condom while I was wearing a blindfold,

0:49:36.960 --> 0:49:41.080
<v Speaker 1>and so from there I will never probably wear blind blindfold. However,

0:49:41.520 --> 0:49:44.040
<v Speaker 1>if you are with a partner who you do trust,

0:49:44.360 --> 0:49:47.400
<v Speaker 1>couples that enjoy mask fetishes tend to do it because

0:49:47.400 --> 0:49:50.799
<v Speaker 1>they liked the idea of anonymous sex. These individuals may

0:49:50.840 --> 0:49:53.120
<v Speaker 1>have a range of sexual kinks that spanned from swinging

0:49:53.160 --> 0:49:56.000
<v Speaker 1>to swapping. But you could try out a mask fetish

0:49:56.040 --> 0:49:58.880
<v Speaker 1>and explore the realm of the anonymous in a perfectly

0:49:58.960 --> 0:50:03.239
<v Speaker 1>monogamous environment with your significant other Covida nineteen. Individuals that

0:50:03.360 --> 0:50:06.600
<v Speaker 1>have a thing for masks are also usually into bondage

0:50:06.640 --> 0:50:08.759
<v Speaker 1>and b d S M play. So again, if you

0:50:08.840 --> 0:50:13.279
<v Speaker 1>see that your partner is actually into using masks, uh,

0:50:13.400 --> 0:50:16.920
<v Speaker 1>this could be a gateway into other things such as

0:50:17.000 --> 0:50:21.160
<v Speaker 1>maybe a ball gag such as restraints, UM and other

0:50:21.239 --> 0:50:23.760
<v Speaker 1>things that we can that can be used in the bedroom.

0:50:24.640 --> 0:50:27.040
<v Speaker 1>The last one, guys, and here we go. B D

0:50:27.320 --> 0:50:30.200
<v Speaker 1>S M suspension. Now this one I don't think can

0:50:30.239 --> 0:50:34.279
<v Speaker 1>be at all for um a beginner, because you have

0:50:34.400 --> 0:50:36.960
<v Speaker 1>to it's either gonna really cost you a lot, or

0:50:37.040 --> 0:50:38.759
<v Speaker 1>you may have to actually go to a dungeon, which

0:50:38.840 --> 0:50:41.239
<v Speaker 1>is where I experienced this for the first time. But

0:50:41.480 --> 0:50:46.000
<v Speaker 1>b D s M suspension sexual kinks UM. The submissive

0:50:46.120 --> 0:50:49.560
<v Speaker 1>in the dynamic is suspended somehow, so either over the bed,

0:50:50.120 --> 0:50:52.680
<v Speaker 1>hung from a piece of furniture or a doorway. I

0:50:52.880 --> 0:50:55.160
<v Speaker 1>was hung from the ceiling in a dungeon and it

0:50:55.280 --> 0:50:59.760
<v Speaker 1>was really interesting. UM. I did this actually in Orlando

0:51:00.280 --> 0:51:05.920
<v Speaker 1>at UM Secrets. So as Secrets, there's a dungeon. Girl, Yes,

0:51:06.040 --> 0:51:08.640
<v Speaker 1>it's a swingers resort in Orlando. It's really kissing Me.

0:51:09.200 --> 0:51:14.120
<v Speaker 1>But oh yeah, I went there. Really Orlando, it's culosed

0:51:14.160 --> 0:51:16.400
<v Speaker 1>to it's kiss se Me is the city that they

0:51:16.480 --> 0:51:18.279
<v Speaker 1>made for Disney. But I went to Secrets with my

0:51:18.440 --> 0:51:22.799
<v Speaker 1>home girls, and um, they had a dungeon in there.

0:51:22.880 --> 0:51:25.600
<v Speaker 1>And in this dungeon everyone had to remove their shoes um.

0:51:26.120 --> 0:51:29.120
<v Speaker 1>But it was really really dope, like why are the

0:51:29.480 --> 0:51:34.440
<v Speaker 1>floors padded? Um, just because you had to take your

0:51:34.480 --> 0:51:37.000
<v Speaker 1>shoes off and so you put them in the locker

0:51:37.480 --> 0:51:40.719
<v Speaker 1>and there was the guy that suspended me was called Scarecrow,

0:51:40.840 --> 0:51:43.960
<v Speaker 1>I believe um, and he was super into bonding, so

0:51:44.040 --> 0:51:48.439
<v Speaker 1>he actually suspended me. He put me into bondage, yes,

0:51:48.680 --> 0:51:51.480
<v Speaker 1>but literally had me up in the air and twirling

0:51:51.920 --> 0:51:55.799
<v Speaker 1>and it was like the stretch that I got. Um.

0:51:56.880 --> 0:51:59.840
<v Speaker 1>And also I also did it uh and had a

0:52:00.040 --> 0:52:02.759
<v Speaker 1>couple come around and the woman flogged me and the

0:52:02.800 --> 0:52:05.719
<v Speaker 1>guy did electrocuting to me like it was intense. It

0:52:05.840 --> 0:52:07.200
<v Speaker 1>was in a dungeon and I was like, do it

0:52:07.320 --> 0:52:10.600
<v Speaker 1>to me. Give it to Orlando, bitch. I'm not gonna lie.

0:52:11.040 --> 0:52:13.040
<v Speaker 1>If anyone has been to Secrets or if you're in

0:52:13.200 --> 0:52:14.800
<v Speaker 1>Orlando and like, oh my god, where do I go

0:52:15.040 --> 0:52:17.840
<v Speaker 1>to for a sex club? It was really white, um,

0:52:17.920 --> 0:52:20.200
<v Speaker 1>but apparently they have black knights. But we went. It's

0:52:20.239 --> 0:52:22.759
<v Speaker 1>like it's like a timeshare so you can actually run

0:52:22.800 --> 0:52:25.440
<v Speaker 1>around here and talked about the woods or something. In

0:52:25.560 --> 0:52:27.840
<v Speaker 1>Orlando there was a sex club and I saw a

0:52:27.880 --> 0:52:29.400
<v Speaker 1>lot of ship going on in there. I mean we

0:52:29.560 --> 0:52:32.640
<v Speaker 1>we actually, I know we're probably too late for it,

0:52:32.840 --> 0:52:35.320
<v Speaker 1>but we do need a sex club episode to like

0:52:35.880 --> 0:52:39.520
<v Speaker 1>of different cities and sex parties. So if you guys

0:52:39.600 --> 0:52:43.600
<v Speaker 1>have one, we we we know the couple um, like

0:52:43.719 --> 0:52:46.799
<v Speaker 1>the major city. Her name was athen that they came

0:52:46.880 --> 0:52:49.279
<v Speaker 1>up with us on the Houston stage. So we know

0:52:49.360 --> 0:52:51.840
<v Speaker 1>a Houston swingers group. We know a ton here in

0:52:51.920 --> 0:52:54.000
<v Speaker 1>New York. Um, you know what, let's do that if

0:52:54.080 --> 0:52:57.240
<v Speaker 1>you are the owner or a promoter of a sex

0:52:57.320 --> 0:52:59.840
<v Speaker 1>club party. Also, because each one I've gone through now

0:53:00.080 --> 0:53:04.240
<v Speaker 1>so different, I would love to see how it differs across.

0:53:04.400 --> 0:53:06.319
<v Speaker 1>We should try to make the best list that we can.

0:53:06.719 --> 0:53:08.359
<v Speaker 1>I would love to do that for you, guys, because

0:53:08.360 --> 0:53:11.719
<v Speaker 1>a lot of y'all literally will be in fucking Tennessee

0:53:11.800 --> 0:53:13.920
<v Speaker 1>and be like, hey, do you know the sex club here?

0:53:14.560 --> 0:53:17.080
<v Speaker 1>So tired of this? I just try to say that,

0:53:18.120 --> 0:53:20.360
<v Speaker 1>do not write me. I cannot tell you how annoying

0:53:20.400 --> 0:53:23.680
<v Speaker 1>it is. Please, like seriously, And I rarely ask people

0:53:23.760 --> 0:53:27.320
<v Speaker 1>not to, but this is dumb. People will write me

0:53:27.360 --> 0:53:29.279
<v Speaker 1>and say, hey, weezy, I want to have a threesome tonight.

0:53:29.320 --> 0:53:33.120
<v Speaker 1>Do you know anybody there's red for that? Just saying,

0:53:33.200 --> 0:53:35.440
<v Speaker 1>what the fun do you think I'm gonna do? You

0:53:35.560 --> 0:53:38.200
<v Speaker 1>think I'm about to look through my ship and pass

0:53:38.239 --> 0:53:41.759
<v Speaker 1>off one of yours? Maybe sharing is carry No, I'm not.

0:53:42.080 --> 0:53:43.120
<v Speaker 1>If I was going to do that, it would be

0:53:43.160 --> 0:53:44.319
<v Speaker 1>with someone. I know you think I'm gonna send them

0:53:44.320 --> 0:53:45.719
<v Speaker 1>to some random bitch on the internet. With all the

0:53:45.800 --> 0:53:48.600
<v Speaker 1>human trafficking and all the sex trafficking and all this

0:53:48.719 --> 0:53:51.320
<v Speaker 1>fucking bullshit, let's be real, men that hit you and

0:53:51.360 --> 0:53:54.080
<v Speaker 1>ask you women it could be a fake page. No,

0:53:54.239 --> 0:53:56.840
<v Speaker 1>but women have been doing it and I'm sorry. Like no,

0:53:57.640 --> 0:53:59.560
<v Speaker 1>I told you, I'll just suck your friends can do

0:53:59.719 --> 0:54:03.359
<v Speaker 1>that running like stop, just suck your home girl. Dude.

0:54:03.360 --> 0:54:05.440
<v Speaker 1>I had a couple write me. Wait, I gotta read

0:54:05.480 --> 0:54:07.320
<v Speaker 1>you this. This is so funny. That's probably one of

0:54:07.320 --> 0:54:09.920
<v Speaker 1>these saf first ways. And I'm not gonna lie. It

0:54:10.080 --> 0:54:14.800
<v Speaker 1>was a respectful like DM, but it was funny. M

0:54:15.560 --> 0:54:20.480
<v Speaker 1>here we go. Good morning. Actually, Wifey and I are

0:54:20.600 --> 0:54:22.960
<v Speaker 1>huge fans of the show. Hopefully we can bump in

0:54:23.080 --> 0:54:24.920
<v Speaker 1>you into you in the city and take you home

0:54:25.000 --> 0:54:28.440
<v Speaker 1>with us. Enjoy your day. Oh ship. Okay, never mind

0:54:28.520 --> 0:54:33.920
<v Speaker 1>not the home mail. They made it. Nice couple. Um,

0:54:35.040 --> 0:54:36.960
<v Speaker 1>I can't really see the picture. They both have masks

0:54:37.000 --> 0:54:39.799
<v Speaker 1>on in the picture, but okay, they're black. That's very

0:54:39.840 --> 0:54:42.800
<v Speaker 1>sweet of you. Although there is no question. We do

0:54:42.920 --> 0:54:44.640
<v Speaker 1>have a thank you message from someone that came in

0:54:45.280 --> 0:54:47.920
<v Speaker 1>and it says, this is just an email to say

0:54:47.960 --> 0:54:49.800
<v Speaker 1>thank you. I'm in a group chat with six girlfriends

0:54:49.800 --> 0:54:52.000
<v Speaker 1>from college and of course discussed different topics, and it

0:54:52.040 --> 0:54:55.200
<v Speaker 1>always makes me realize how closed minded and hypocritical these

0:54:55.239 --> 0:54:57.719
<v Speaker 1>homes are and how the rest of the world can be.

0:54:58.080 --> 0:54:59.960
<v Speaker 1>I've always been open minded and accepting, but I'd be

0:55:00.080 --> 0:55:01.480
<v Speaker 1>lying if I said your show didn't take it to

0:55:01.520 --> 0:55:03.560
<v Speaker 1>a different level. I've been dealing with the guy for

0:55:03.640 --> 0:55:06.640
<v Speaker 1>the last six months who had previously tested the waters

0:55:06.680 --> 0:55:09.759
<v Speaker 1>with a man and just so happened to ask in conversation.

0:55:10.080 --> 0:55:11.880
<v Speaker 1>I just so happened to ask him, and he was honest,

0:55:11.920 --> 0:55:16.240
<v Speaker 1>truthfully speaking. Pre horrible decisions me would have probably stopped

0:55:16.239 --> 0:55:18.000
<v Speaker 1>talking to him, even though I really like him on

0:55:18.120 --> 0:55:20.239
<v Speaker 1>some nothing against him in his sexuality, but he can't

0:55:20.239 --> 0:55:23.279
<v Speaker 1>be my nigked every time. But post w D ME

0:55:23.719 --> 0:55:26.240
<v Speaker 1>and all two hundred and thirty three episodes just feels

0:55:26.320 --> 0:55:28.440
<v Speaker 1>like why he tried it and he didn't like it,

0:55:28.560 --> 0:55:30.839
<v Speaker 1>That doesn't mean he's gay. It probably makes it even

0:55:30.880 --> 0:55:32.799
<v Speaker 1>more secure in his sexuality because he knows for sure

0:55:32.800 --> 0:55:36.320
<v Speaker 1>it's not him anyway. This man is amazing, treats me

0:55:36.400 --> 0:55:38.839
<v Speaker 1>better than anyone I've ever dated, and better than them

0:55:38.920 --> 0:55:41.640
<v Speaker 1>group chat bitches have ever been treated and it's just

0:55:41.719 --> 0:55:43.239
<v Speaker 1>crazy to think I could have missed out on this

0:55:43.320 --> 0:55:45.640
<v Speaker 1>amazing nous for something like that. So thank you for

0:55:45.719 --> 0:55:48.000
<v Speaker 1>having on the guests that you've had and the conversations

0:55:48.000 --> 0:55:49.600
<v Speaker 1>you've had around this and more. I love you and

0:55:49.640 --> 0:55:51.120
<v Speaker 1>I can't wait for the live show to get that

0:55:51.320 --> 0:55:53.640
<v Speaker 1>pop in. Thanks for being my real friends, because plucked

0:55:53.680 --> 0:55:56.600
<v Speaker 1>them homes never stopped signed a happy home. I really,

0:55:56.680 --> 0:56:01.120
<v Speaker 1>I really will sink in a response to that, UM,

0:56:02.480 --> 0:56:04.800
<v Speaker 1>I think that, I believe it or not, your friends

0:56:04.840 --> 0:56:07.680
<v Speaker 1>will keep you from finding happiness. I think your friends

0:56:08.160 --> 0:56:11.920
<v Speaker 1>are a lot of the most judgmental um and honestly

0:56:12.000 --> 0:56:14.279
<v Speaker 1>a lot of them are envious if you find someone

0:56:14.360 --> 0:56:17.920
<v Speaker 1>that treats treats you better than maybe how they've been treated. UM.

0:56:18.320 --> 0:56:20.800
<v Speaker 1>I do also think that do you think you've experienced

0:56:20.840 --> 0:56:26.840
<v Speaker 1>that um from from friends? I've definitely seen it on

0:56:26.920 --> 0:56:30.840
<v Speaker 1>the outside looking in like like friends just you know,

0:56:31.320 --> 0:56:32.960
<v Speaker 1>and I don't want to get to particularly because I

0:56:33.000 --> 0:56:35.120
<v Speaker 1>know they listened to this show. But I introduced my

0:56:35.200 --> 0:56:38.080
<v Speaker 1>homegirl to a guy who's treating her really really, really

0:56:38.160 --> 0:56:42.040
<v Speaker 1>really well, and the friends that surround her were pretty

0:56:42.120 --> 0:56:45.200
<v Speaker 1>much actually admitted to being jealous because they said, damn,

0:56:45.520 --> 0:56:48.560
<v Speaker 1>no one's ever done that for me, or they've tried

0:56:48.640 --> 0:56:50.000
<v Speaker 1>to like kind of they don't even want to be

0:56:50.080 --> 0:56:52.480
<v Speaker 1>around him because they're like, well, why can't I find

0:56:52.520 --> 0:56:56.560
<v Speaker 1>a guy like this? Um girl? This has been an

0:56:56.719 --> 0:56:58.680
<v Speaker 1>actual thing that has happened to me, my home girl.

0:56:58.719 --> 0:57:00.040
<v Speaker 1>I've talked about it, and I was they say in

0:57:00.120 --> 0:57:02.440
<v Speaker 1>it like like those are girls you probably shouldn't be

0:57:02.480 --> 0:57:03.920
<v Speaker 1>around because they probably don't want the best for you.

0:57:04.080 --> 0:57:07.080
<v Speaker 1>But is it like because there's a and I really

0:57:07.160 --> 0:57:11.520
<v Speaker 1>believe this like an innocent type of jealousy for innocent

0:57:11.600 --> 0:57:14.080
<v Speaker 1>jealous I do. For example, if you told me that

0:57:14.200 --> 0:57:17.080
<v Speaker 1>this weekend you went to the beach and an amazing trip,

0:57:17.080 --> 0:57:19.560
<v Speaker 1>I'll be like, damn, bitch, for real, I was stuck

0:57:19.560 --> 0:57:22.040
<v Speaker 1>at home. That's a I don't want you to have

0:57:22.080 --> 0:57:25.400
<v Speaker 1>a bad time like that's a oh my god whatever.

0:57:26.080 --> 0:57:27.960
<v Speaker 1>Or for example, if you said, girl, I got this

0:57:27.960 --> 0:57:29.200
<v Speaker 1>week and I'd be like, bitch, I don't even get

0:57:29.240 --> 0:57:32.720
<v Speaker 1>no day. That's like a okay, that's what I'm saying

0:57:32.720 --> 0:57:34.520
<v Speaker 1>when their home real said damn, I don't have anybody

0:57:34.560 --> 0:57:38.240
<v Speaker 1>like that? Is it like I don't know. I talked

0:57:38.280 --> 0:57:42.720
<v Speaker 1>like that sometimes and I don't mean it um with harm, right,

0:57:43.000 --> 0:57:44.840
<v Speaker 1>I haven't been having sex, you having second like damn,

0:57:44.840 --> 0:57:46.640
<v Speaker 1>you got to join yourself. But I wish I was

0:57:46.720 --> 0:57:48.720
<v Speaker 1>there too, kind of a thing, yeah, like maybe like

0:57:48.840 --> 0:57:51.200
<v Speaker 1>if you like I can't think of I just said,

0:57:51.240 --> 0:57:53.400
<v Speaker 1>like what if or you to give me anxiety but

0:57:54.120 --> 0:57:56.280
<v Speaker 1>a zoo day or going to the beach with your man,

0:57:56.400 --> 0:57:57.920
<v Speaker 1>like oh I haven't had that time. That would be

0:57:57.960 --> 0:58:00.160
<v Speaker 1>so nice. I wish I could. But I would say, um,

0:58:00.440 --> 0:58:03.040
<v Speaker 1>say you are your home girl, like and this has

0:58:03.080 --> 0:58:05.479
<v Speaker 1>happened to me. Then I was the hole ass friend.

0:58:05.960 --> 0:58:07.840
<v Speaker 1>I know a lot of my friends missed me being

0:58:07.960 --> 0:58:10.800
<v Speaker 1>single and being the hole ass friend for the trips,

0:58:11.040 --> 0:58:13.120
<v Speaker 1>for the hangouts, for the free dinners, for the clubs,

0:58:13.440 --> 0:58:16.280
<v Speaker 1>and now I'm the bitch in love. And so I

0:58:16.400 --> 0:58:18.040
<v Speaker 1>do know that I do have a lot of friends

0:58:18.120 --> 0:58:22.600
<v Speaker 1>that probably liked the version of myself single more so

0:58:22.920 --> 0:58:26.440
<v Speaker 1>than me with my partner. Because now literally anytime I

0:58:26.520 --> 0:58:30.000
<v Speaker 1>go out, Unfortunately, luckily everyone that has met my nigga

0:58:30.080 --> 0:58:33.560
<v Speaker 1>likes him. He gets invited everywhere. So I am one

0:58:33.600 --> 0:58:36.200
<v Speaker 1>of those where even if I'm just out having dinner

0:58:36.400 --> 0:58:38.680
<v Speaker 1>or lunch with a friend or my friend invites me

0:58:38.720 --> 0:58:40.640
<v Speaker 1>to a party, I'll let him know, and if he

0:58:40.680 --> 0:58:43.120
<v Speaker 1>pops up, everyone's okay with it. But I invite him

0:58:43.200 --> 0:58:48.800
<v Speaker 1>to everything, and whether that's a thing or not. Like

0:58:48.920 --> 0:58:51.400
<v Speaker 1>with my friends here, I know that now my friends

0:58:51.880 --> 0:58:54.200
<v Speaker 1>traveling don't really like it because they're like, no, bitch,

0:58:54.400 --> 0:58:56.720
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna travel just us. Don't invite him, don't bring him.

0:58:57.040 --> 0:58:58.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't think that's more about your man than it

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<v Speaker 1>is about I want to be my friend. You know,

0:59:01.560 --> 0:59:04.520
<v Speaker 1>Vinny gets like that with me, right, like he loves obe,

0:59:05.280 --> 0:59:07.400
<v Speaker 1>but like he wants to be with me. He came

0:59:07.440 --> 0:59:09.000
<v Speaker 1>here to see me. He's like, no, I don't. I

0:59:09.040 --> 0:59:10.240
<v Speaker 1>don't care if that need is paying for you didn't

0:59:10.240 --> 0:59:12.720
<v Speaker 1>want to be with you, bitch like him, it's just

0:59:12.800 --> 0:59:15.520
<v Speaker 1>like you want your friend. So I think that could

0:59:15.520 --> 0:59:17.840
<v Speaker 1>be two things to do with it, right, Because if

0:59:17.880 --> 0:59:19.520
<v Speaker 1>you want to connect in your partner away where he

0:59:19.560 --> 0:59:21.400
<v Speaker 1>wants you need him to be in social settings with you,

0:59:21.480 --> 0:59:24.400
<v Speaker 1>and you don't really need girl time because you want

0:59:24.440 --> 0:59:26.640
<v Speaker 1>to spend it with him, then fine. But that's a

0:59:26.720 --> 0:59:30.640
<v Speaker 1>fine line because a lot of women neglect their friends

0:59:30.680 --> 0:59:33.760
<v Speaker 1>and relationships. And I don't mean by phone calls. I

0:59:33.800 --> 0:59:35.360
<v Speaker 1>know you keep up with your friends and you know

0:59:35.480 --> 0:59:38.080
<v Speaker 1>you visit them. But let's just say in the city,

0:59:38.200 --> 0:59:41.920
<v Speaker 1>like if your friend really needs a girl's night, you

0:59:42.040 --> 0:59:44.120
<v Speaker 1>gotta know when your friend needs a girl like, like,

0:59:44.240 --> 0:59:47.200
<v Speaker 1>I've had a few home girls tell me like, no bitch,

0:59:47.680 --> 0:59:51.720
<v Speaker 1>because everybody knows that one year where me, Oh, it

0:59:51.800 --> 0:59:54.320
<v Speaker 1>was sucking everybody out of last lap girl. If I'm

0:59:54.360 --> 0:59:56.400
<v Speaker 1>out with my friends, like it's like three o'clock and

0:59:56.480 --> 0:59:59.000
<v Speaker 1>be like, okay, are you coming, They're like, girl, why

0:59:59.320 --> 1:00:02.080
<v Speaker 1>because it's a different vibe for them. Even if you're

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<v Speaker 1>not talking to niggas. Now, they can't really talk to niggas.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody's coming up to y'all, like, oh, they could definitely

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<v Speaker 1>talk to niggas. How is that? How is that? If

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<v Speaker 1>I'm third wheeling, it's a different thing when you want

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<v Speaker 1>like a wing woman type of situation, even if you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, like, it's kind of like that

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<v Speaker 1>or ship. Even me at Alexander argument because he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand what's the big deal or if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody, you know why I can't. I'm like, now

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to dinner together. And I also think the

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<v Speaker 1>other issue with this too is what I didn't understand this.

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like I had so much fun with my man.

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<v Speaker 1>I want everybody to meet him. That's that's me now.

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<v Speaker 1>Like even Dustin, he tell me, and Dustin hang out,

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<v Speaker 1>He'll be like, we'll go ahead and invite you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, I don't know. I mean yes and no.

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<v Speaker 1>If your friends made it clearly want time with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Understand that. I understand that. But also for them, six

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<v Speaker 1>holes in your check, uh, and enjoy your man. Join

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<v Speaker 1>Like there's like traveling threesomes. Like there's girls that have

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<v Speaker 1>linked up and they just suck all their niggas together.

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<v Speaker 1>Like there's such like minded people that like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's just because she's behind me, that's all. No bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>We are leaving you, guys with a five minute bonus

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<v Speaker 1>yet another episode of Horrid Blaye the cisions paid. Instead

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<v Speaker 1>of that, what they did have was the fucking tube

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<v Speaker 1>socks and slides, and we know that's the southern thing.

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<v Speaker 1>So they were walking around with tube socks, slides and

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<v Speaker 1>towels because of course they need the towels around their

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<v Speaker 1>ways if they were naked. They did have a full buffet,

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<v Speaker 1>which I will say it was amazing at midnight. At

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<v Speaker 1>midnight they switched to breakfast, and I will say one

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<v Speaker 1>of the other things is we didn't show up till

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<v Speaker 1>about one not know. The video was great. They had grits, cheese,

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<v Speaker 1>biscuits like everything. But what's also crazy. I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to eat cheese in a sex. I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 1>It was good. It was good. So what happened in

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<v Speaker 1>what we noticed is we went during the swap off,

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<v Speaker 1>and what I mean by that is as we were

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<v Speaker 1>coming up, it was nothing but a line of black

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<v Speaker 1>folks and all the whites were coming out, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was sat, y'all know Zachary who's been on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>I mentioned he was at a sex club, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I just found him to be very good looking.

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<v Speaker 1>And when we go to nff W, that's the only

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<v Speaker 1>sex club I've gone to with so like with more

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<v Speaker 1>white people than black, but they're good looking people. Bitch

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<v Speaker 1>the white people in Atlanta, I felt like they all

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<v Speaker 1>had Confederate flags and shotguns in their cars. They were like,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna get us some BBC and we're gonna take

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<v Speaker 1>that down. Bro. It was I was like I was

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<v Speaker 1>talking to my homegirl and I was like, these are

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<v Speaker 1>these white people scare me? Like I'm scared um. Outside

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<v Speaker 1>of that, again, shout out to Chelsea. We talked about

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<v Speaker 1>sex club music. The DJ was awful, so he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>set any sort of type of mood. It was like

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<v Speaker 1>it made you want to twork, so like literally you

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<v Speaker 1>see one person's sucking dick and the next couple is

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<v Speaker 1>working like it was just like it was club music.

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<v Speaker 1>So I didn't like that money maker. Yeah, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>like that. Um. And then my first experience ever. Now, ladies,

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<v Speaker 1>if you haven't yet going over to listen to my

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<v Speaker 1>other podcastperiences. But one of the rooms I walked in

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<v Speaker 1>smelled like no, not not dick chiese, it smells it

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<v Speaker 1>was a woman, for sure, it was a woman. And

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<v Speaker 1>me and my homegirl walked in and I had to

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<v Speaker 1>walk immediately out, and I was mil and taste. This

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<v Speaker 1>is the first time at a sex club that I

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<v Speaker 1>think I've come across someone with that hygiene that stunk

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<v Speaker 1>up a whole room. And I was like, oh wow, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta leave this room. So and then what's crazy

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<v Speaker 1>is I did end up meeting a couple girl with

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<v Speaker 1>thirty minutes to spare we were there that we were

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<v Speaker 1>there until it closed. Uh, I really liked the guy. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>you stayed all night at a club, that's because I

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<v Speaker 1>was there for reasons. Well, only one of the rooms

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<v Speaker 1>felt like baby. I was there for research purposes. This

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<v Speaker 1>was also the largest sex club I had ever been

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<v Speaker 1>to in my life. So it was two floors. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't two floors at all. But when you walk in. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a bar, then the buffet, a whole sitting area,

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<v Speaker 1>then a whole dance floor. Describe the club that we

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<v Speaker 1>may win to for the size Marquis, No, it was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was big, bro. I ain't gonna hold you. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know how to explain it, even to Ah,

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<v Speaker 1>even to a to a restaurant. No, because it's not

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<v Speaker 1>upstairs downstairs long. It's just long. And there's so many rooms.

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<v Speaker 1>Mind you. They had eight, at least eight private rooms,

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<v Speaker 1>and within the private rooms were mirrored. Uh, like you

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<v Speaker 1>could see tom, but you can also see your self

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<v Speaker 1>type of thing. It was two. Tell what it was

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<v Speaker 1>you had sex with the couple? No, I didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>sex with the couple. I ended up meeting the couple

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<v Speaker 1>at the bar, and then we ended up going into

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<v Speaker 1>the playroom. By this time again, it was maybe three thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>They had already done last call at the bar, so

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<v Speaker 1>we went into the room. I wanted like the girl

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<v Speaker 1>was really pretty, but you could tell she was also

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<v Speaker 1>a dom like she was super in charge. So girl,

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<v Speaker 1>as we're walking, I heard the whole story. So she

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<v Speaker 1>was forty, he was twenty seven. She also let me

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<v Speaker 1>know that she had seven children. Okay, yes, So we

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<v Speaker 1>sit down in the fun area, like the main room

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<v Speaker 1>where people have sex, and we like the fucking and

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<v Speaker 1>the non fucking section the fucking area. So we we

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<v Speaker 1>laid down and we started making out, and we started

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<v Speaker 1>three way making out and she was really pretty. And

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<v Speaker 1>then we stopped and she looked at me and she

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<v Speaker 1>was like, do you work here? And I was like

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<v Speaker 1>what She was like, are you? Are you? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>being paid to talk to us? Like is this? I

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<v Speaker 1>guess she has gone to parties like this, which we've

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<v Speaker 1>talked about. They hire girls to make it look good.

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<v Speaker 1>So literally, in between guessing, she stopped and asked me

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<v Speaker 1>if I was a worker, and I was like, girl, no,

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<v Speaker 1>this is my lifestyle, bitch, I does this, Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>very much. I just don't live here, and I'm here

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<v Speaker 1>just experience it.