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Speaker 1: book Decisions. I'm your grand Mandy b a k A

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Speaker 1: know nighty. It's wheezy. We are in the studio. Can't

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Speaker 1: believe we made it. We swam here Lafayette. Now Eddin

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Speaker 1: I meant to wow, way to get canceled. Um. Also,

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Speaker 1: When I tell you, I put everything. I put, the food,

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Speaker 1: really don't know? No, I don't know. No, I'm a Libra.

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Speaker 1: has been in and out of foster care, but I've

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00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:59,639
Speaker 1: never heard this amazing fucking tale ever for somebody, even

424
00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:02,720
Speaker 1: with a dog, dude, there's there always some fucking pain

425
00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:04,720
Speaker 1: and strife with that ship. I also want to add

426
00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 1: that there are so many medical ailments UM, one in

427
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:12,960
Speaker 1: which being um damn, and I just had it on

428
00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 1: my goddamn head. Um, when you epilepsy. So, when you

429
00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:20,000
Speaker 1: are epileptic, which is where you just get random seizures

430
00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:23,040
Speaker 1: depending on the medication you were on, UM, it actually

431
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:26,200
Speaker 1: can have effect on either the baby while you're pregnant,

432
00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:29,680
Speaker 1: or you are a high risk pregnancy, which means you

433
00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:32,520
Speaker 1: can actually die in giving birth. And I have a

434
00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:36,959
Speaker 1: family member who's epileptic, and the conversation like literally they

435
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 1: pretty much told her not to get attached to the

436
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:43,000
Speaker 1: baby until seventeen weeks to be sure that it was

437
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:45,440
Speaker 1: even forming correctly in her because of the medication that

438
00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:48,840
Speaker 1: she was on. So and also the idea that you

439
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:51,280
Speaker 1: could literally have a seizure while giving birth, you can

440
00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:54,000
Speaker 1: die giving birth of your epileptic I was also just

441
00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:56,480
Speaker 1: reading all of these abortion stories. If you're on Twitter,

442
00:23:56,880 --> 00:24:00,200
Speaker 1: I dive into all of the Twitter threads, and so

443
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 1: many women were sharing the fact that they had been raped.

444
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:05,159
Speaker 1: UM and and the cause of trauma that they had

445
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:07,800
Speaker 1: and again trigger warning. But there are women. I mean, ship,

446
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:10,199
Speaker 1: I was pregnant at sixteen. Do you think I'd probably

447
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:13,399
Speaker 1: motherfucking be here today in this space and accomplish what

448
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,440
Speaker 1: I've done? Maybe? Maybe? So A lot of women do

449
00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 1: accomplish things with with children. But I had my abortion

450
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:20,760
Speaker 1: at sixteen years old. I was going into the eleventh grade,

451
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:24,240
Speaker 1: and I don't I can't honestly say where the funk

452
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 1: I would be right now if if I would have,

453
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 1: you know, decided to keep the baby. And so this

454
00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:33,720
Speaker 1: is unfortunate, especially because again, if you guys were on

455
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:38,480
Speaker 1: our town hall, um, there's actually medical studies showing that

456
00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:43,240
Speaker 1: you're not actually nine months pregnant, you actually ten months pregnant. Um.

457
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:45,280
Speaker 1: There's a certain amount of weeks in which that you're

458
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 1: really pregnant. So a lot of times when you go

459
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:50,960
Speaker 1: into your pregnancy, they don't even really know the exact day,

460
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 1: and a lot of times they add two weeks. Anyways,

461
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:56,000
Speaker 1: Like and I told this on Patreon. They told me

462
00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:57,720
Speaker 1: I was six weeks and I was like, no, bitch,

463
00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:00,879
Speaker 1: um four weeks. It was fourth July. I know when

464
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:03,199
Speaker 1: the nigga did it, and I knew exactly and they

465
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 1: just kept trying to tell me I was six weeks pregnant.

466
00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 1: So it's really interesting that this is now uh banning

467
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,159
Speaker 1: a law at six weeks for for you to be

468
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,639
Speaker 1: you know why there is that padding for the two weeks. Um,

469
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:19,880
Speaker 1: let me look it up. It's very interesting. Yes, two padding.

470
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:24,280
Speaker 1: Does it really benefit anybody outside of like maybe getting

471
00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:26,439
Speaker 1: that person excited for the fact. Well, that's the thing too.

472
00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:29,320
Speaker 1: I know that they a lot of hospitals also just

473
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:31,560
Speaker 1: like to induce. They like to put your pregnancy on

474
00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:34,960
Speaker 1: a schedule, so they will let you know when you're

475
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 1: when your due date is because a lot of times

476
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:38,679
Speaker 1: they have to schedule that ship they have to make

477
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 1: sure a doctor is going to be available. Like a

478
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:45,119
Speaker 1: lot of that actually has its people get like pregnant

479
00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 1: for more than nine months to write for saying no,

480
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. So it says that they are

481
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 1: there are about forty weeks in a full term pregnancy.

482
00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:55,920
Speaker 1: If you assume that a month is exactly four weeks long,

483
00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 1: that makes ten months of pregnancy. The problem with this

484
00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 1: calculation that is assumes that each month last twenty eight days.

485
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 1: We know that only fucking February, so you actually have

486
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 1: months with thirty and thirty one. They're adding it on

487
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 1: the bathroom. Yes in reality, but when you're going in there,

488
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 1: they say six yes because of the different Yeah, exactly,

489
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 1: So that's actually what it is. Uh So that's that's why.

490
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:24,440
Speaker 1: So this is just hurtful. Again. We've been advocates here

491
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:28,679
Speaker 1: on not only sexual liberation um, but being pro choice

492
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 1: and the idea that they're really kind like, this is

493
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 1: a Supreme Court ruling in Texas, and it's scary because

494
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:38,480
Speaker 1: that means that a lot of other states, specifically red states,

495
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:40,760
Speaker 1: can fall in line with this, and it's it's kind

496
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:44,720
Speaker 1: of unfortunate they shut it down today, I believe, right, No,

497
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 1: I don't not that I saw the last Google search

498
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 1: I did from ABC ten. Apparently the update is that

499
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:56,919
Speaker 1: the Supreme Court voted five to four to deny an emergency. Yeah,

500
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:02,600
Speaker 1: but this but still Texas has been going crazy, so

501
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 1: the Texas abortion man, but the Supreme Court is a

502
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 1: different thing. And they just found out two hours ago

503
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:15,639
Speaker 1: Supreme Court refuses abortion. So they're keeping it. Oh I thought, No,

504
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 1: the Supreme Court went against Roll versus Way and refuse it.

505
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:25,640
Speaker 1: They'reying abortion. They're they're denying refusing this law, so they're

506
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 1: gonna allow Texas to move forward. Dud is it? Jesus freaks?

507
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 1: I don't understand it and buy that. I mean disrespect

508
00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:38,320
Speaker 1: for one. I produced a Bible podcast. Everyone knows I

509
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:41,400
Speaker 1: love Brihanda, and I think that's the most religious person

510
00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 1: in my life. But God, I don't even hear her

511
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:47,480
Speaker 1: talk about this fucking bullshit. It's ridiculous to me because

512
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 1: it's this weird moral high ground, you know what I

513
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:54,320
Speaker 1: mean that people suddenly take when it comes to abortions,

514
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:58,360
Speaker 1: especially man, which cracks me up the most abortion religion.

515
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:01,639
Speaker 1: And that's why they say ship, I'm getting a ship, taddy.

516
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 1: You know what I'm thinking. Y'all already know how like

517
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:07,000
Speaker 1: religion because you know the one thing they're really not

518
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 1: gonna talk about how nobody in the Bible was white,

519
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 1: but we're gonna keep keep on going. What did that

520
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:16,440
Speaker 1: wasn't even really white in real life? Um, but let's

521
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 1: get into our hord dirve our hord der uh. This

522
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,919
Speaker 1: week is a tip that I found, and it's actually

523
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 1: one that I've been recently doing, and I find it

524
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:28,639
Speaker 1: to be really exciting, UM. But it's actually and this

525
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:30,439
Speaker 1: is for those of you who have a partner. It's

526
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 1: a way, UM to not only get them to open

527
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,120
Speaker 1: up to you, but for you to feel more comfortable

528
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,440
Speaker 1: with talking to your partner. So this hord derve this

529
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 1: week is to brainstorm a list of fantasies. As I

530
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 1: was even going through the homemaale, there's so many people

531
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 1: that write in homemaal and they're like, but I already

532
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 1: know my my partner's not gonna be down for it,

533
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 1: or I already know how my partner's gonna respond, or

534
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 1: I already know my partners x y Z. And brainstorming

535
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 1: a list of fantasies will ironically not only open communication

536
00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 1: with you and your partner, but it will get you

537
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:02,920
Speaker 1: to really think outside the box and really see how

538
00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 1: far your partner's mind goes. So it says, create a

539
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 1: bucket list of no stress exciting ideas to try together.

540
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:13,120
Speaker 1: If you come up with something that both parties aren't into,

541
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:15,680
Speaker 1: put it on a maybe list and revisit it later.

542
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 1: Not only is making a list together fun, simply talking

543
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 1: about desires can keep things hot. Communication allows you to

544
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 1: fantasize consensually so that you can focus on pleasure in

545
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 1: the bedroom with no hesitation. I kind of think recently, um,

546
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 1: I feel like old bing and I have done so

547
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:37,440
Speaker 1: much so it's like pegging it out and we fucking

548
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 1: did everything else. But um, you know, with the new

549
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 1: person I'm sleeping with, I recently discussed who the semi

550
00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 1: conservative um, which I maybe enjoy because I'm not, you

551
00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 1: know what I mean. I think sometimes that can be

552
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 1: fun when you're with someone who's the total opposite of you.

553
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 1: And had a phone call with a friend of mine

554
00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 1: on FaceTime and he called me while I was in

555
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 1: a club or something, and I don't know what it

556
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 1: was about this particular girl, but he like enjoyed her

557
00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 1: flirting with me, and I was watching it slowly happened,

558
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And then the next thing,

559
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 1: I'm on a flight back to New York, literally getting

560
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 1: on the plane and he's like get off, yo. Like

561
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,680
Speaker 1: he's like I can't stop thinking about you and fucking

562
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 1: you with her or like sucking anybody's like that, just

563
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 1: like drove me insane. Dog. We're like taking off, I'm

564
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:37,600
Speaker 1: taxing and we're like sexting like crazy, and literally our

565
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:41,120
Speaker 1: entire conversation since then, Like when we're sex thing, we're

566
00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:43,880
Speaker 1: deep in it. It's like all about how it would happen.

567
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 1: And just like it sounds silly as somebody that was

568
00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 1: in a throuble and that's had mad threesomes, but it

569
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:54,720
Speaker 1: is really exciting to experience something new with someone new.

570
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 1: For example, it's not new to me, but it's new

571
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 1: to you. So I'm enjoying it. And I think that

572
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 1: a lot of people sometimes may put somebody down that

573
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:06,480
Speaker 1: hasn't done something, or even he maybe didn't want to

574
00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:08,400
Speaker 1: get excited with me about talking about threesom because he

575
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:10,600
Speaker 1: knows I've been on my ship, you know what I mean,

576
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 1: Like he knows weezy, he knows what I've done, He's

577
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:16,120
Speaker 1: heard the stories. So I was even a little bit

578
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 1: surprised that he was cool with like kind of just

579
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 1: mentioning little things, because I think most times we're very

580
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:25,600
Speaker 1: into trying to impress that partner by showing them how

581
00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 1: much we've done, because we don't want them to feel

582
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 1: like we're not experienced. You know, like if you meet

583
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 1: somebody in the future and they know how many times

584
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 1: you've been to sex club, they're done things the first

585
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 1: thing they may say is like, oh, yeah, I've heard

586
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 1: of it, or they'll want to tell you what they know.

587
00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 1: That's just a natural thing, so you don't feel like

588
00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 1: someone who's completely out of the loop. But it has

589
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 1: been super fun and I think it's great that he's

590
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 1: kind of let me lead or walk him through it.

591
00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:52,240
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's going to happen, but he's fine,

592
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:56,400
Speaker 1: so probably if you're vanilla and you're dating someone, I

593
00:31:56,560 --> 00:32:01,280
Speaker 1: think a nice way to easier way into the fantasies

594
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 1: if you don't, you know, if you're not fully comfortable

595
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 1: going there just yet, is talking about things that you've

596
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 1: never done and then starting doing first with them that

597
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 1: aren't in the bedroom. So, say your partner has never

598
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 1: been to a sipping paint, Say I want to experience

599
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 1: that with you first, so you can. You can even

600
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:22,880
Speaker 1: start by talking about things you've never done. I've never

601
00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:26,479
Speaker 1: been to the Empire State Building. Let's be tourists one

602
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:28,840
Speaker 1: day and just go. So I think building things to

603
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:32,000
Speaker 1: do as a first outside the bedroom, I think would

604
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 1: be a fun thing to do before starting digging into

605
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 1: your kinky sexual fantasies and right like creating first with

606
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,720
Speaker 1: a partner, regardless whether it's in the bedroom or not,

607
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:45,840
Speaker 1: literally creates like this special bond with that parton and

608
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:48,959
Speaker 1: you have to let go of because some women will

609
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:50,760
Speaker 1: say things like, well, who did you do this way before?

610
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 1: Do you get that I've heard men do that to me,

611
00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:59,360
Speaker 1: women have done that. It ruins it. It ruins it

612
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:01,800
Speaker 1: from me personally. Not I'm not thinking about that person

613
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:04,320
Speaker 1: at all. I'm curious, like, at what point can you

614
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 1: actually tell, Let's say, for me, how if I were

615
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 1: to have a partner, when would I be able to

616
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 1: kind of easing the idea of fantasy I have honestly, Literally,

617
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:17,040
Speaker 1: it could be the second time y'all had sex, it

618
00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 1: could be two years later. I think that that's something

619
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:24,080
Speaker 1: where and the way that I've been doing it is

620
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 1: just laying in the bed. I have these galaxy lights now,

621
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:30,160
Speaker 1: so depending if I'm on shrooms or not, we really

622
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 1: be in the galaxy. Um, I really don't know who

623
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 1: I am anymore. I literally just be doing the chocolate

624
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 1: shrooms my homegirls brought up from l A. Now. Yeah,

625
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 1: but these galaxy lights, when you do it, you literally

626
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 1: just lay there and we'll look at the ceiling and

627
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:45,400
Speaker 1: it's kind of like we're outside looking at the stars,

628
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 1: and I think that's one of the this is literally

629
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 1: what I have in my room, and so literally just

630
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 1: looking up at the ceiling and looking at the galaxy lights,

631
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:56,560
Speaker 1: you could literally just start brainstorming there. You're you're not

632
00:33:56,640 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 1: applying pressure. It's a good conversation and you're not in

633
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 1: the act of sex. You're just laying there talking. So

634
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:06,480
Speaker 1: to me, that's something to where you know, and you

635
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:09,080
Speaker 1: could you can gauge it. You can take me with everybody,

636
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:13,920
Speaker 1: like I remember with scissors um and no shade to her,

637
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 1: but she is very shy as nasty as she can be.

638
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 1: I felt like she was so shy in person, right,

639
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:25,320
Speaker 1: and she's like, I don't know, but in texting and

640
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 1: ship it was easier to get it out of her,

641
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 1: and some people it's a little more premeditated, so you

642
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:32,279
Speaker 1: can think about your answers. So it could help. The

643
00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 1: only thing with texting that like drives me insane is

644
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 1: I gotta wait for your response. Ye could just imagine

645
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:41,799
Speaker 1: we tell something. If you say something crazy, you can

646
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 1: just put an L in and then don't you word.

647
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, That's what I'm saying. No,

648
00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 1: you could just do it L O L to kind

649
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 1: of test the water to see what their motherfucker response

650
00:34:54,120 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 1: might be. I don't know. I did also want to

651
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:04,040
Speaker 1: leave this into our horrible decision this week again, if

652
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:06,719
Speaker 1: you guys are new listeners and haven't been able to

653
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:08,880
Speaker 1: go all the way back. We used to do a

654
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 1: Kink of the Week segment um and we like to

655
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 1: talk about different kinks here and I found this article

656
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:20,360
Speaker 1: on desert dot co dot za. I assume is that

657
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:24,319
Speaker 1: what New Zealand or so if it's that means it's

658
00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 1: in another country, right, Okay, so this is from a

659
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:34,240
Speaker 1: Dutch website, but they went into eight unusual sexual kinks

660
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 1: that are fun to try together. So if you're talking

661
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 1: about again your fantasies, here's eight kinks that maybe you

662
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:43,719
Speaker 1: and your partner can try together. We let me know

663
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 1: if you've done them before, or let me know if

664
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:48,799
Speaker 1: you think this might be something that you would try.

665
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 1: If you're vanilla long term, short term, let me know

666
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 1: when you should introduce this. This first one is called

667
00:35:56,640 --> 00:36:00,959
Speaker 1: splashing or wham do you know with splashing or whim

668
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 1: is food? Close? Yeah? I guess it involves it a

669
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 1: little bit food splashing wham actually means wet and messy,

670
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:12,040
Speaker 1: so these sexual kinks are known as wet and messy

671
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:15,879
Speaker 1: fetishes because they involved often food and things generally get

672
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:19,480
Speaker 1: extremely messy during the apt People like to cover themselves

673
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 1: and food, eat food off of each other, and even

674
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:25,000
Speaker 1: own special tanks that they can do this in. A

675
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:28,680
Speaker 1: Surprisingly large amount of people are into splashing thanks to

676
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 1: the high rates of subtle files. Splashing is one. Food

677
00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:37,439
Speaker 1: has always been a cential thing, and people that find

678
00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 1: food sexy like to involve it more in their sexual place.

679
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 1: You don't have to be extreme about it, but dabbling

680
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 1: might teach you something, um and then they give examples,

681
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,799
Speaker 1: so something like edible body paint is a nice entry

682
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:52,120
Speaker 1: level step. Whipped cream bikinis um is also very popular

683
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:55,879
Speaker 1: and investigating sexual kinks a little bit more with dessert spreads. Um.

684
00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 1: This doesn't have to do with food. But what in

685
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:02,840
Speaker 1: messy to he reminds me of, uh, something that I

686
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:06,440
Speaker 1: like is literally I say, make a mess on me,

687
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:10,800
Speaker 1: and I just like him to literally just nut on me. Like,

688
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:14,120
Speaker 1: so shoot has come, whether it lands on my face,

689
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:16,719
Speaker 1: on my tips, on my stomach, and then we go

690
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 1: back into the next round. So now it's messy because

691
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:20,400
Speaker 1: the nut is on him, it's on my shoes. We

692
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:23,560
Speaker 1: assuming that not everybody can get it up next like

693
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:26,920
Speaker 1: I mean right after it just late on it. I

694
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 1: would say a good way to do like with the nut,

695
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 1: if the nut is all over her body, you can

696
00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:35,399
Speaker 1: make it wet and messy by just lying on top

697
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:36,759
Speaker 1: of her and then it's kind of like oh yeah,

698
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:38,360
Speaker 1: and then is sicky. So then you shot were together,

699
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:40,360
Speaker 1: but in the act wet and messy. I think a

700
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:45,440
Speaker 1: good way to do that is so um, recently, like

701
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:47,360
Speaker 1: I was super high. When I'm really high and I

702
00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 1: sucked dick, I can't like my mouth is dry, right,

703
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 1: so um, I have water and I'll just put in

704
00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:57,319
Speaker 1: my mouth, switch it around, switch it around, and then

705
00:37:57,600 --> 00:37:59,439
Speaker 1: it just makes my mouth wetter and the dick wetter.

706
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:01,399
Speaker 1: But I was like, what if it was a lot.

707
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:04,759
Speaker 1: So sometimes I'll fill my mouth with the water and

708
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 1: then like then it's just getting like speedy and messy

709
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:09,839
Speaker 1: and wet and wetter, and it's really fun like ship

710
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:12,920
Speaker 1: like that. I think another thing especially funny I I

711
00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:16,680
Speaker 1: do that well when we between rounds, will like be

712
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:19,319
Speaker 1: thirsty of course because we just worked out and he'll

713
00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:21,520
Speaker 1: put it in his mouth and instead of giving me

714
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 1: the water bottle, he'll feed me the water from his mouth,

715
00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 1: so filthy, and that is that bird feeding something like that.

716
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 1: I love it. By then it's room temperature, clearly. But

717
00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 1: what I'm just saying, it ain't that cold by the

718
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:40,919
Speaker 1: time and go from his pass it on. No, he'll

719
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:42,439
Speaker 1: just drink a little bit of it and then whatever

720
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:46,880
Speaker 1: left dumping in my mouth because we just been sucking

721
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:49,280
Speaker 1: and he's a he's a human being. Our body temperature

722
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:53,560
Speaker 1: like wait, like nineties something ninety seven point one. One

723
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:56,880
Speaker 1: bitch been having to get her temperature taking. Clearly, you

724
00:38:57,040 --> 00:39:01,359
Speaker 1: just we are hot. We're hot, bitches. Um, But did

725
00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 1: you have anything else to add to that? Maybe for

726
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 1: someone who's been a little um, I would say with

727
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:08,719
Speaker 1: um with like yeah, with anyone who's you know, having

728
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 1: sex with someone with a penis um for women or

729
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 1: like lesbian fantasies too, Like I think the messiest thing

730
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 1: that I really was able to do, Like I like

731
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 1: pussy all over me. So like if someone's, uh, if

732
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:24,279
Speaker 1: you're eating someone out and you're laying down right and

733
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:26,440
Speaker 1: they're like writing your face like they can drag it

734
00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:28,759
Speaker 1: and leave a little snail trail like. That's one too,

735
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:31,240
Speaker 1: and it is you can do that on anybody. Yea

736
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:33,959
Speaker 1: ever food. I just learned what a cedophile. She sucked.

737
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:38,759
Speaker 1: She sucked the cucumber. Oh I huh, I didn't think

738
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 1: about well, I guess the cucumber. I think about that.

739
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:45,239
Speaker 1: You know, I had to hold it. It didn't walk over,

740
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:48,920
Speaker 1: did you do it? Sucked you? I fucked myself with

741
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:53,640
Speaker 1: a cucumber. Okay, technically alright, alright, that cedophile. A cedophile

742
00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:55,560
Speaker 1: as a person who likes to fuck foods and find

743
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:58,520
Speaker 1: oh well, no, find food arousing. Never mind. So that's

744
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:01,319
Speaker 1: that's what a cedophile is. It's not as bad as uh,

745
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:03,840
Speaker 1: what was it the Russian guy that is attracted to

746
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 1: the astronaut. The next one is basic, so I'm not

747
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 1: going to spend too much time on it. It is

748
00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 1: catap trontophilia, which is actually I killed it right. I mean,

749
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:17,000
Speaker 1: I was looking at this article for a minute. So

750
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:20,239
Speaker 1: that's actually just the idea of having sex with your

751
00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:22,360
Speaker 1: significant other in front of a mirror. I feel like

752
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:24,800
Speaker 1: we just talked about that with good Yeah. That one is.

753
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:29,800
Speaker 1: That one is pretty interesting. The other one is pygophilia.

754
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 1: One of the most sexualized areas of the human body

755
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 1: is the rear end or buttocks. We also talked about

756
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:40,840
Speaker 1: that um in in depth with Vinny, but a pygophiliac

757
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:43,800
Speaker 1: is someone who is aroused by seeing and touching a

758
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:49,440
Speaker 1: person's deriet um. These sexual kinks are especially prevalent in men,

759
00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:53,400
Speaker 1: with women's behind being the main attraction. Now, y'all, motherfucking

760
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:58,480
Speaker 1: pain the stallion. I love massaging a butt women. Men,

761
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:00,640
Speaker 1: It don't matter if I'm sucking you. Nine times out

762
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:02,560
Speaker 1: of ten, I'm gonna say you want a massage, and

763
00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 1: it's just so that I can massage your ass. I

764
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:07,960
Speaker 1: love spreading an ass cheek apart. I think I just

765
00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 1: love that I genuinely can get off from just this.

766
00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 1: I love it. Um. When I was sucking collect, she

767
00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 1: had this dumb and she would go over there just

768
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 1: to get spankings, and he remained fully dressed. And then

769
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 1: when her and I had our threesome, um with what

770
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 1: did I call him? He was just like a really rich,

771
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:29,440
Speaker 1: hot white guy in the West village. But anyway, um oh,

772
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:32,360
Speaker 1: when we would go over there, he would do a

773
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:36,439
Speaker 1: lot of that, like spanking, slapping, like super domb shit.

774
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:40,600
Speaker 1: He had like toys like contraptions, And that was the

775
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:42,759
Speaker 1: first time where I was like, oh, like, you really

776
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:46,360
Speaker 1: need nothing else, Like it's just something about It's almost

777
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:48,279
Speaker 1: because some of them know that you want to get

778
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:52,200
Speaker 1: fucked real bad because you're so horny, and they won't

779
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:53,799
Speaker 1: give it to you. Like it's almost like they get

780
00:41:53,840 --> 00:41:56,759
Speaker 1: off on withholding it. I love slapping ass massage and

781
00:41:56,840 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 1: ass sticking, ass licking ass all everything to do as like,

782
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:04,839
Speaker 1: I just really and define a man with a nice ass.

783
00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:06,840
Speaker 1: Oh give it to me. I think that's also. I

784
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: like women with really nice asses too, especially when they

785
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:12,280
Speaker 1: have a little cuff booties. I love a little cuff

786
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:21,120
Speaker 1: on a booty. Oh my god, I love god, I do.

787
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:23,839
Speaker 1: I love a little cuff on a booty. Bit all right.

788
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 1: The next one is an auditory fetish. Perhaps the most

789
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:31,959
Speaker 1: popular auditory fetish includes the use of swear words. During

790
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:36,040
Speaker 1: second This is real vanilla. People that enjoy talking dirty

791
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 1: in the bedroom may actually find specific words very erotic.

792
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 1: Wait did they list them out? They did not, So

793
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:43,719
Speaker 1: I want us to know if you would. But if

794
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 1: you find yourself horror bitch, fuck me, pussy, uh, let

795
00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:56,759
Speaker 1: me harder, faster, deeper, come just like naming stuff, make

796
00:42:56,840 --> 00:43:02,319
Speaker 1: a mess? Nut, Give me that nut? Bro stopping here

797
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:05,239
Speaker 1: talking about this, y'all gotta say nut. Come on, bro,

798
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:08,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna start laughing if someone told me, Oh my god,

799
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:14,440
Speaker 1: that's so sexy. Oh don't turn me on? Yes, not

800
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 1: on me? Baby? What you not laugh too? Nutting is good,

801
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:30,720
Speaker 1: like I like Pete, I drink old milk a nut. Listen,

802
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:34,560
Speaker 1: give me that nut? Baby? Oh wait, can I just ask?

803
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:37,919
Speaker 1: Did your man tell you he's about to nuts? He's

804
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 1: a he's a little bit more silent. I have to

805
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:43,600
Speaker 1: like really ask him to like, like, as I know

806
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:45,800
Speaker 1: he's about to come, i'd be like he moaned. I

807
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:47,440
Speaker 1: love when you moan. I just be telling him like

808
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:49,560
Speaker 1: I want to hear you. Can I hear you with

809
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:52,200
Speaker 1: like I want to hear you? He doesn't quiet? Word?

810
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:56,400
Speaker 1: Does he say about a bust? I think it's bused

811
00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:01,799
Speaker 1: my but see but see now it's different because now

812
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:04,920
Speaker 1: instead of like really asking for the nut, all asked

813
00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:08,359
Speaker 1: to make a mess on me. That's that's my instructions

814
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 1: on where I want him to come. So that's I

815
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:14,239
Speaker 1: think I say, like I'll use the word cover like

816
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 1: probably like I'll be like to make a mess. Yeah,

817
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 1: make the mess. I'm ready to go, but I'm sorry. Okay,

818
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:27,440
Speaker 1: next one, Uh, we have three more trichophilia. If you

819
00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:30,919
Speaker 1: are a trichophiliac, then you love human hair. The way

820
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:34,480
Speaker 1: it smells, feels, everything about hair gets you going. And

821
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:36,359
Speaker 1: there might be a very good reason for this from

822
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:40,799
Speaker 1: science all right now, Human pheromones, the chemical arousal simulates

823
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 1: simulators that people produce in their skin, are especially prominent

824
00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:48,440
Speaker 1: in the head area. So if you love your significant

825
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:51,440
Speaker 1: other's hair, you might want to try including it more

826
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:54,320
Speaker 1: overtly in for play. Now, clearly, I would say this

827
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:57,920
Speaker 1: is more of a white person ship because technically, when

828
00:44:57,960 --> 00:45:00,919
Speaker 1: I get my lace wigs or I my hair really done,

829
00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:04,839
Speaker 1: it's literally like I don't touch thing, um, even when

830
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:07,480
Speaker 1: my hair is out like my natural hair. I'm not

831
00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 1: really into the touching of my hair, touching hair. I thought,

832
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 1: I said nut in hair. Just love my fucking hair.

833
00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:18,560
Speaker 1: Wet hair can be very Do you like a scalp massage?

834
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:20,640
Speaker 1: I love all of that. I'm obsessed with that. So

835
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:23,759
Speaker 1: maybe you're I love a scalp massage so much. This

836
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 1: sounds ridiculous, but so I probably give maybe a few

837
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:30,440
Speaker 1: days between braiding. I will go get a massage just

838
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:32,439
Speaker 1: so I can have a scalt massage with my brains

839
00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 1: out of my head. Well, I mean braids be hurting

840
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:38,120
Speaker 1: the scalp like but no, and then even with my

841
00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:39,920
Speaker 1: braids because I mean, I get not lest so it

842
00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 1: doesn't hurt anymore. But um oh, I love you. I

843
00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 1: love you old Bayles rubber years. I'd be like getting

844
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:48,880
Speaker 1: my hair like I don't give a fuck, and I

845
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:52,759
Speaker 1: tell all my nigges, all my hose to just when

846
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 1: I'm saying this, I don't mean currently, I mean like

847
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:56,320
Speaker 1: over the years, not one person in my life doesn't

848
00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:57,920
Speaker 1: know that I need that to sleep. I think a

849
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:00,280
Speaker 1: scalt massage is how I usually initiate in the It's

850
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 1: weird now that's how you initiate in the bedroom. See,

851
00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 1: I mean, don't they here to stop talking? Like there's

852
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:10,239
Speaker 1: literally now I mean, and I'm bollheaded now, so I'll

853
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 1: just be like, can you not touch my hair? Already

854
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:14,520
Speaker 1: gotta laid down with a due rag, so like when

855
00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:16,279
Speaker 1: they like, when you want to play in my hair,

856
00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:19,400
Speaker 1: it like literally it sticks up, it frizzes. And now

857
00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:21,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, now I gotta go grab my Nirobi and

858
00:46:21,920 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 1: my dude Rag, and now I gotta lay my ship.

859
00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 1: There's a way to do it. Still, you can still

860
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:28,560
Speaker 1: do kind of paths. Yeah, Like I know I'm half white,

861
00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:30,080
Speaker 1: but my ship does not be laying. I'd be having

862
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:32,000
Speaker 1: to lay my ship down, and it just annoys me

863
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:36,319
Speaker 1: because no, don't mess it up, especially in between washes ship.

864
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:43,359
Speaker 1: The next one, y'all is come on, come on, I'm

865
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:45,200
Speaker 1: trying to I feel like the k is silent like

866
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 1: Nick's so niz Malagnia. Yeah, I think Malag so Nick

867
00:46:52,080 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 1: niz Malagnia. It's actually the tickling fetish. I will what

868
00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:05,560
Speaker 1: you would you far from being tickled? I mean because

869
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:07,759
Speaker 1: I just like it gets so anxious and I sn't know.

870
00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:10,800
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you. If you motherfucking tickle me,

871
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:14,280
Speaker 1: I'm punching the dog ship out. You like it hurts.

872
00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 1: Tickling hurts because and I'm like claustrophobic. So then I

873
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:20,759
Speaker 1: feel like I have prowesses like hen't move, So I'll

874
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 1: just be like, but then I just go to fight.

875
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:26,160
Speaker 1: I just gotta fight a mother fuck. Don't motherfucker tickled me.

876
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 1: But if you like tickling. This is the thing. We

877
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:33,520
Speaker 1: never had Tickled on Patreon, but you need to watch

878
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:36,200
Speaker 1: that movie made. It was literally don't know. Tickling is

879
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:38,000
Speaker 1: probably one of the no no no about how they

880
00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 1: like not use these young boys. What I mean he

881
00:47:40,040 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 1: would basically like if anyone and I know he talked

882
00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:43,920
Speaker 1: about this a few months ago, he's supposed to do

883
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 1: a patreons in him on it, but we didn't. But

884
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:49,440
Speaker 1: this fucking ship was so crazy. Tickled is a like

885
00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:52,440
Speaker 1: it's like a Sundance type film of this guy who

886
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:54,520
Speaker 1: was like hiring guys on Craigslist for a hundred dollars

887
00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:56,759
Speaker 1: to get tickled on camera. He would like use it

888
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:59,320
Speaker 1: to weaponize them when they were like at work, like

889
00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:01,879
Speaker 1: older later in life, like Ayo, it's crazy, but wow,

890
00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:03,560
Speaker 1: that's kind of sucked up. Oh man, it's a really

891
00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 1: good doctor. But the tickling community is the whole thing.

892
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:08,880
Speaker 1: There's a guy I went on a date with and

893
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:11,200
Speaker 1: I remember like he was already turning me off and

894
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 1: like he thought he was saying something funny to me

895
00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 1: when he dropped me off and like tried to tickle me,

896
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:18,840
Speaker 1: and I literally almost punched. Yeah, don't don't tickle me

897
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:22,440
Speaker 1: or something like just don't put your hands on me, please.

898
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 1: I don't like tickling, like even when I get massages,

899
00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:27,960
Speaker 1: like or when the bitches is doing my feet at

900
00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:29,759
Speaker 1: the salon. I was like, all right, I need you

901
00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:31,320
Speaker 1: to be a little rougher down there because the tickle

902
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:33,479
Speaker 1: and now you're about to mess up my jem. Certain

903
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:38,560
Speaker 1: anxiety comes upon me like I'm not but don't because

904
00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:40,759
Speaker 1: I'll be lying. Now I'd be like, hell no, my

905
00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:43,080
Speaker 1: motherfucking g you can't tickle me. And then they go

906
00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:49,200
Speaker 1: to tickle and the like I'll be drooling like I

907
00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 1: hate that feeling. I hate like it's not fun. No,

908
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:54,920
Speaker 1: it's not fun for me. It's not fun. Don't tickle me.

909
00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:57,360
Speaker 1: And I just went too hard with that. Now you

910
00:48:57,400 --> 00:49:00,719
Speaker 1: know my arm is like arm hurt? Right? The uh

911
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 1: last two mask fetish Now I actually spoke about this now.

912
00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:07,360
Speaker 1: Wearing a mask is of course a part of b

913
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:10,520
Speaker 1: D s M and playing with your sensory um. This

914
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:14,200
Speaker 1: was actually masks ain't for me. Uh. The one time

915
00:49:14,200 --> 00:49:16,600
Speaker 1: I did agree to be blindfolded, the nigga sells me

916
00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 1: uh and removed his condoms. He sells so literally when

917
00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:25,799
Speaker 1: we were done, like when he came. He literally went

918
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:27,799
Speaker 1: to take off my mask. But before he took off

919
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 1: my mask, he said, don't be mad at me. And

920
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:32,200
Speaker 1: I was like, what what do you mean? And he's like,

921
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 1: it felt so good, and he let me know that

922
00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:36,840
Speaker 1: he took off the condom while I was wearing a blindfold,

923
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:41,080
Speaker 1: and so from there I will never probably wear blind blindfold. However,

924
00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:44,040
Speaker 1: if you are with a partner who you do trust,

925
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:47,400
Speaker 1: couples that enjoy mask fetishes tend to do it because

926
00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:50,799
Speaker 1: they liked the idea of anonymous sex. These individuals may

927
00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 1: have a range of sexual kinks that spanned from swinging

928
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:56,000
Speaker 1: to swapping. But you could try out a mask fetish

929
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:58,880
Speaker 1: and explore the realm of the anonymous in a perfectly

930
00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:03,239
Speaker 1: monogamous environment with your significant other Covida nineteen. Individuals that

931
00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 1: have a thing for masks are also usually into bondage

932
00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:08,759
Speaker 1: and b d S M play. So again, if you

933
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:13,279
Speaker 1: see that your partner is actually into using masks, uh,

934
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:16,920
Speaker 1: this could be a gateway into other things such as

935
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:21,160
Speaker 1: maybe a ball gag such as restraints, UM and other

936
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:23,760
Speaker 1: things that we can that can be used in the bedroom.

937
00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:27,040
Speaker 1: The last one, guys, and here we go. B D

938
00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:30,200
Speaker 1: S M suspension. Now this one I don't think can

939
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:34,279
Speaker 1: be at all for um a beginner, because you have

940
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:36,960
Speaker 1: to it's either gonna really cost you a lot, or

941
00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:38,759
Speaker 1: you may have to actually go to a dungeon, which

942
00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:41,239
Speaker 1: is where I experienced this for the first time. But

943
00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:46,000
Speaker 1: b D s M suspension sexual kinks UM. The submissive

944
00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 1: in the dynamic is suspended somehow, so either over the bed,

945
00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:52,680
Speaker 1: hung from a piece of furniture or a doorway. I

946
00:50:52,880 --> 00:50:55,160
Speaker 1: was hung from the ceiling in a dungeon and it

947
00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:59,760
Speaker 1: was really interesting. UM. I did this actually in Orlando

948
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:05,920
Speaker 1: at UM Secrets. So as Secrets, there's a dungeon. Girl, Yes,

949
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:08,640
Speaker 1: it's a swingers resort in Orlando. It's really kissing Me.

950
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 1: But oh yeah, I went there. Really Orlando, it's culosed

951
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:16,400
Speaker 1: to it's kiss se Me is the city that they

952
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:18,279
Speaker 1: made for Disney. But I went to Secrets with my

953
00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:22,799
Speaker 1: home girls, and um, they had a dungeon in there.

954
00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 1: And in this dungeon everyone had to remove their shoes um.

955
00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:29,120
Speaker 1: But it was really really dope, like why are the

956
00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:34,440
Speaker 1: floors padded? Um, just because you had to take your

957
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:37,000
Speaker 1: shoes off and so you put them in the locker

958
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:40,719
Speaker 1: and there was the guy that suspended me was called Scarecrow,

959
00:51:40,840 --> 00:51:43,960
Speaker 1: I believe um, and he was super into bonding, so

960
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:48,439
Speaker 1: he actually suspended me. He put me into bondage, yes,

961
00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:51,480
Speaker 1: but literally had me up in the air and twirling

962
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:55,799
Speaker 1: and it was like the stretch that I got. Um.

963
00:51:56,880 --> 00:51:59,840
Speaker 1: And also I also did it uh and had a

964
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:02,759
Speaker 1: couple come around and the woman flogged me and the

965
00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:05,719
Speaker 1: guy did electrocuting to me like it was intense. It

966
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:07,200
Speaker 1: was in a dungeon and I was like, do it

967
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:10,600
Speaker 1: to me. Give it to Orlando, bitch. I'm not gonna lie.

968
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:13,040
Speaker 1: If anyone has been to Secrets or if you're in

969
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:14,800
Speaker 1: Orlando and like, oh my god, where do I go

970
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:17,840
Speaker 1: to for a sex club? It was really white, um,

971
00:52:17,920 --> 00:52:20,200
Speaker 1: but apparently they have black knights. But we went. It's

972
00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:22,759
Speaker 1: like it's like a timeshare so you can actually run

973
00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:25,440
Speaker 1: around here and talked about the woods or something. In

974
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:27,840
Speaker 1: Orlando there was a sex club and I saw a

975
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:29,400
Speaker 1: lot of ship going on in there. I mean we

976
00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 1: we actually, I know we're probably too late for it,

977
00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:35,320
Speaker 1: but we do need a sex club episode to like

978
00:52:35,880 --> 00:52:39,520
Speaker 1: of different cities and sex parties. So if you guys

979
00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 1: have one, we we we know the couple um, like

980
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:46,799
Speaker 1: the major city. Her name was athen that they came

981
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:49,279
Speaker 1: up with us on the Houston stage. So we know

982
00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:51,840
Speaker 1: a Houston swingers group. We know a ton here in

983
00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:54,000
Speaker 1: New York. Um, you know what, let's do that if

984
00:52:54,080 --> 00:52:57,240
Speaker 1: you are the owner or a promoter of a sex

985
00:52:57,320 --> 00:52:59,840
Speaker 1: club party. Also, because each one I've gone through now

986
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:04,240
Speaker 1: so different, I would love to see how it differs across.

987
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:06,319
Speaker 1: We should try to make the best list that we can.

988
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:08,359
Speaker 1: I would love to do that for you, guys, because

989
00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 1: a lot of y'all literally will be in fucking Tennessee

990
00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:13,920
Speaker 1: and be like, hey, do you know the sex club here?

991
00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:17,080
Speaker 1: So tired of this? I just try to say that,

992
00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:20,360
Speaker 1: do not write me. I cannot tell you how annoying

993
00:53:20,400 --> 00:53:23,680
Speaker 1: it is. Please, like seriously, And I rarely ask people

994
00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:27,320
Speaker 1: not to, but this is dumb. People will write me

995
00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:29,279
Speaker 1: and say, hey, weezy, I want to have a threesome tonight.

996
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:33,120
Speaker 1: Do you know anybody there's red for that? Just saying,

997
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:35,440
Speaker 1: what the fun do you think I'm gonna do? You

998
00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:38,200
Speaker 1: think I'm about to look through my ship and pass

999
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:41,759
Speaker 1: off one of yours? Maybe sharing is carry No, I'm not.

1000
00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:43,120
Speaker 1: If I was going to do that, it would be

1001
00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:44,319
Speaker 1: with someone. I know you think I'm gonna send them

1002
00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:45,719
Speaker 1: to some random bitch on the internet. With all the

1003
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 1: human trafficking and all the sex trafficking and all this

1004
00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:51,320
Speaker 1: fucking bullshit, let's be real, men that hit you and

1005
00:53:51,360 --> 00:53:54,080
Speaker 1: ask you women it could be a fake page. No,

1006
00:53:54,239 --> 00:53:56,840
Speaker 1: but women have been doing it and I'm sorry. Like no,

1007
00:53:57,640 --> 00:53:59,560
Speaker 1: I told you, I'll just suck your friends can do

1008
00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:03,359
Speaker 1: that running like stop, just suck your home girl. Dude.

1009
00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:05,440
Speaker 1: I had a couple write me. Wait, I gotta read

1010
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:07,320
Speaker 1: you this. This is so funny. That's probably one of

1011
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:09,920
Speaker 1: these saf first ways. And I'm not gonna lie. It

1012
00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:14,800
Speaker 1: was a respectful like DM, but it was funny. M

1013
00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:20,480
Speaker 1: here we go. Good morning. Actually, Wifey and I are

1014
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:22,960
Speaker 1: huge fans of the show. Hopefully we can bump in

1015
00:54:23,080 --> 00:54:24,920
Speaker 1: you into you in the city and take you home

1016
00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:28,440
Speaker 1: with us. Enjoy your day. Oh ship. Okay, never mind

1017
00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:33,920
Speaker 1: not the home mail. They made it. Nice couple. Um,

1018
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:36,960
Speaker 1: I can't really see the picture. They both have masks

1019
00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:39,799
Speaker 1: on in the picture, but okay, they're black. That's very

1020
00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:42,800
Speaker 1: sweet of you. Although there is no question. We do

1021
00:54:42,920 --> 00:54:44,640
Speaker 1: have a thank you message from someone that came in

1022
00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:47,920
Speaker 1: and it says, this is just an email to say

1023
00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:49,800
Speaker 1: thank you. I'm in a group chat with six girlfriends

1024
00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 1: from college and of course discussed different topics, and it

1025
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:55,200
Speaker 1: always makes me realize how closed minded and hypocritical these

1026
00:54:55,239 --> 00:54:57,719
Speaker 1: homes are and how the rest of the world can be.

1027
00:54:58,080 --> 00:54:59,960
Speaker 1: I've always been open minded and accepting, but I'd be

1028
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:01,480
Speaker 1: lying if I said your show didn't take it to

1029
00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:03,560
Speaker 1: a different level. I've been dealing with the guy for

1030
00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:06,640
Speaker 1: the last six months who had previously tested the waters

1031
00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:09,759
Speaker 1: with a man and just so happened to ask in conversation.

1032
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:11,880
Speaker 1: I just so happened to ask him, and he was honest,

1033
00:55:11,920 --> 00:55:16,240
Speaker 1: truthfully speaking. Pre horrible decisions me would have probably stopped

1034
00:55:16,239 --> 00:55:18,000
Speaker 1: talking to him, even though I really like him on

1035
00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:20,239
Speaker 1: some nothing against him in his sexuality, but he can't

1036
00:55:20,239 --> 00:55:23,279
Speaker 1: be my nigked every time. But post w D ME

1037
00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:26,240
Speaker 1: and all two hundred and thirty three episodes just feels

1038
00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:28,440
Speaker 1: like why he tried it and he didn't like it,

1039
00:55:28,560 --> 00:55:30,839
Speaker 1: That doesn't mean he's gay. It probably makes it even

1040
00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:32,799
Speaker 1: more secure in his sexuality because he knows for sure

1041
00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:36,320
Speaker 1: it's not him anyway. This man is amazing, treats me

1042
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:38,839
Speaker 1: better than anyone I've ever dated, and better than them

1043
00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:41,640
Speaker 1: group chat bitches have ever been treated and it's just

1044
00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:43,239
Speaker 1: crazy to think I could have missed out on this

1045
00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:45,640
Speaker 1: amazing nous for something like that. So thank you for

1046
00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:48,000
Speaker 1: having on the guests that you've had and the conversations

1047
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:49,600
Speaker 1: you've had around this and more. I love you and

1048
00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:51,120
Speaker 1: I can't wait for the live show to get that

1049
00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:53,640
Speaker 1: pop in. Thanks for being my real friends, because plucked

1050
00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:56,600
Speaker 1: them homes never stopped signed a happy home. I really,

1051
00:55:56,680 --> 00:56:01,120
Speaker 1: I really will sink in a response to that, UM,

1052
00:56:02,480 --> 00:56:04,800
Speaker 1: I think that, I believe it or not, your friends

1053
00:56:04,840 --> 00:56:07,680
Speaker 1: will keep you from finding happiness. I think your friends

1054
00:56:08,160 --> 00:56:11,920
Speaker 1: are a lot of the most judgmental um and honestly

1055
00:56:12,000 --> 00:56:14,279
Speaker 1: a lot of them are envious if you find someone

1056
00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:17,920
Speaker 1: that treats treats you better than maybe how they've been treated. UM.

1057
00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:20,800
Speaker 1: I do also think that do you think you've experienced

1058
00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:26,840
Speaker 1: that um from from friends? I've definitely seen it on

1059
00:56:26,920 --> 00:56:30,840
Speaker 1: the outside looking in like like friends just you know,

1060
00:56:31,320 --> 00:56:32,960
Speaker 1: and I don't want to get to particularly because I

1061
00:56:33,000 --> 00:56:35,120
Speaker 1: know they listened to this show. But I introduced my

1062
00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:38,080
Speaker 1: homegirl to a guy who's treating her really really, really

1063
00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:42,040
Speaker 1: really well, and the friends that surround her were pretty

1064
00:56:42,120 --> 00:56:45,200
Speaker 1: much actually admitted to being jealous because they said, damn,

1065
00:56:45,520 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 1: no one's ever done that for me, or they've tried

1066
00:56:48,640 --> 00:56:50,000
Speaker 1: to like kind of they don't even want to be

1067
00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 1: around him because they're like, well, why can't I find

1068
00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:56,560
Speaker 1: a guy like this? Um girl? This has been an

1069
00:56:56,719 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 1: actual thing that has happened to me, my home girl.

1070
00:56:58,719 --> 00:57:00,040
Speaker 1: I've talked about it, and I was they say in

1071
00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:02,440
Speaker 1: it like like those are girls you probably shouldn't be

1072
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:03,920
Speaker 1: around because they probably don't want the best for you.

1073
00:57:04,080 --> 00:57:07,080
Speaker 1: But is it like because there's a and I really

1074
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:11,520
Speaker 1: believe this like an innocent type of jealousy for innocent

1075
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 1: jealous I do. For example, if you told me that

1076
00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:17,080
Speaker 1: this weekend you went to the beach and an amazing trip,

1077
00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 1: I'll be like, damn, bitch, for real, I was stuck

1078
00:57:19,560 --> 00:57:22,040
Speaker 1: at home. That's a I don't want you to have

1079
00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:25,400
Speaker 1: a bad time like that's a oh my god whatever.

1080
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:27,960
Speaker 1: Or for example, if you said, girl, I got this

1081
00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:29,200
Speaker 1: week and I'd be like, bitch, I don't even get

1082
00:57:29,240 --> 00:57:32,720
Speaker 1: no day. That's like a okay, that's what I'm saying

1083
00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:34,520
Speaker 1: when their home real said damn, I don't have anybody

1084
00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:38,240
Speaker 1: like that? Is it like I don't know. I talked

1085
00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:42,720
Speaker 1: like that sometimes and I don't mean it um with harm, right,

1086
00:57:43,000 --> 00:57:44,840
Speaker 1: I haven't been having sex, you having second like damn,

1087
00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:46,640
Speaker 1: you got to join yourself. But I wish I was

1088
00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:48,720
Speaker 1: there too, kind of a thing, yeah, like maybe like

1089
00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:51,200
Speaker 1: if you like I can't think of I just said,

1090
00:57:51,240 --> 00:57:53,400
Speaker 1: like what if or you to give me anxiety but

1091
00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:56,280
Speaker 1: a zoo day or going to the beach with your man,

1092
00:57:56,400 --> 00:57:57,920
Speaker 1: like oh I haven't had that time. That would be

1093
00:57:57,960 --> 00:58:00,160
Speaker 1: so nice. I wish I could. But I would say, um,

1094
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:03,040
Speaker 1: say you are your home girl, like and this has

1095
00:58:03,080 --> 00:58:05,479
Speaker 1: happened to me. Then I was the hole ass friend.

1096
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:07,840
Speaker 1: I know a lot of my friends missed me being

1097
00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:10,800
Speaker 1: single and being the hole ass friend for the trips,

1098
00:58:11,040 --> 00:58:13,120
Speaker 1: for the hangouts, for the free dinners, for the clubs,

1099
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:16,280
Speaker 1: and now I'm the bitch in love. And so I

1100
00:58:16,400 --> 00:58:18,040
Speaker 1: do know that I do have a lot of friends

1101
00:58:18,120 --> 00:58:22,600
Speaker 1: that probably liked the version of myself single more so

1102
00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:26,440
Speaker 1: than me with my partner. Because now literally anytime I

1103
00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:30,000
Speaker 1: go out, Unfortunately, luckily everyone that has met my nigga

1104
00:58:30,080 --> 00:58:33,560
Speaker 1: likes him. He gets invited everywhere. So I am one

1105
00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:36,200
Speaker 1: of those where even if I'm just out having dinner

1106
00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:38,680
Speaker 1: or lunch with a friend or my friend invites me

1107
00:58:38,720 --> 00:58:40,640
Speaker 1: to a party, I'll let him know, and if he

1108
00:58:40,680 --> 00:58:43,120
Speaker 1: pops up, everyone's okay with it. But I invite him

1109
00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:48,800
Speaker 1: to everything, and whether that's a thing or not. Like

1110
00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:51,400
Speaker 1: with my friends here, I know that now my friends

1111
00:58:51,880 --> 00:58:54,200
Speaker 1: traveling don't really like it because they're like, no, bitch,

1112
00:58:54,400 --> 00:58:56,720
Speaker 1: we're gonna travel just us. Don't invite him, don't bring him.

1113
00:58:57,040 --> 00:58:58,840
Speaker 1: I don't think that's more about your man than it

1114
00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:01,400
Speaker 1: is about I want to be my friend. You know,

1115
00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:04,520
Speaker 1: Vinny gets like that with me, right, like he loves obe,

1116
00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:07,400
Speaker 1: but like he wants to be with me. He came

1117
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:09,000
Speaker 1: here to see me. He's like, no, I don't. I

1118
00:59:09,040 --> 00:59:10,240
Speaker 1: don't care if that need is paying for you didn't

1119
00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:12,720
Speaker 1: want to be with you, bitch like him, it's just

1120
00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:15,520
Speaker 1: like you want your friend. So I think that could

1121
00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:17,840
Speaker 1: be two things to do with it, right, Because if

1122
00:59:17,880 --> 00:59:19,520
Speaker 1: you want to connect in your partner away where he

1123
00:59:19,560 --> 00:59:21,400
Speaker 1: wants you need him to be in social settings with you,

1124
00:59:21,480 --> 00:59:24,400
Speaker 1: and you don't really need girl time because you want

1125
00:59:24,440 --> 00:59:26,640
Speaker 1: to spend it with him, then fine. But that's a

1126
00:59:26,720 --> 00:59:30,640
Speaker 1: fine line because a lot of women neglect their friends

1127
00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:33,760
Speaker 1: and relationships. And I don't mean by phone calls. I

1128
00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:35,360
Speaker 1: know you keep up with your friends and you know

1129
00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:38,080
Speaker 1: you visit them. But let's just say in the city,

1130
00:59:38,200 --> 00:59:41,920
Speaker 1: like if your friend really needs a girl's night, you

1131
00:59:42,040 --> 00:59:44,120
Speaker 1: gotta know when your friend needs a girl like, like,

1132
00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:47,200
Speaker 1: I've had a few home girls tell me like, no bitch,

1133
00:59:47,680 --> 00:59:51,720
Speaker 1: because everybody knows that one year where me, Oh, it

1134
00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:54,320
Speaker 1: was sucking everybody out of last lap girl. If I'm

1135
00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:56,400
Speaker 1: out with my friends, like it's like three o'clock and

1136
00:59:56,480 --> 00:59:59,000
Speaker 1: be like, okay, are you coming, They're like, girl, why

1137
00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:02,080
Speaker 1: because it's a different vibe for them. Even if you're

1138
01:00:02,120 --> 01:00:04,320
Speaker 1: not talking to niggas. Now, they can't really talk to niggas.

1139
01:00:04,440 --> 01:00:06,320
Speaker 1: Nobody's coming up to y'all, like, oh, they could definitely

1140
01:00:06,320 --> 01:00:09,800
Speaker 1: talk to niggas. How is that? How is that? If

1141
01:00:09,840 --> 01:00:13,000
Speaker 1: I'm third wheeling, it's a different thing when you want

1142
01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:15,160
Speaker 1: like a wing woman type of situation, even if you

1143
01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:16,680
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, like, it's kind of like that

1144
01:00:16,960 --> 01:00:19,880
Speaker 1: or ship. Even me at Alexander argument because he was like,

1145
01:00:20,200 --> 01:00:22,080
Speaker 1: I don't understand what's the big deal or if I'm

1146
01:00:22,120 --> 01:00:23,920
Speaker 1: with somebody, you know why I can't. I'm like, now

1147
01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:27,760
Speaker 1: we're going to dinner together. And I also think the

1148
01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:30,960
Speaker 1: other issue with this too is what I didn't understand this.

1149
01:00:31,160 --> 01:00:33,560
Speaker 1: I felt like I had so much fun with my man.

1150
01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:35,880
Speaker 1: I want everybody to meet him. That's that's me now.

1151
01:00:36,280 --> 01:00:38,680
Speaker 1: Like even Dustin, he tell me, and Dustin hang out,

1152
01:00:38,920 --> 01:00:42,959
Speaker 1: He'll be like, we'll go ahead and invite you know, yeah,

1153
01:00:43,280 --> 01:00:47,280
Speaker 1: like you know, I don't know. I mean yes and no.

1154
01:00:47,440 --> 01:00:49,160
Speaker 1: If your friends made it clearly want time with you.

1155
01:00:50,240 --> 01:00:53,080
Speaker 1: Understand that. I understand that. But also for them, six

1156
01:00:53,160 --> 01:00:56,480
Speaker 1: holes in your check, uh, and enjoy your man. Join

1157
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Speaker 1: our discord by the way, um on our fifteen dollar

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1159
01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:06,480
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1160
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Speaker 1: our discord app and we have a lot of girls actually,

1162
01:01:14,320 --> 01:01:17,080
Speaker 1: and I'm hoping they share the story. I didn't try

1163
01:01:17,120 --> 01:01:20,360
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1164
01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:23,080
Speaker 1: Like there's like traveling threesomes. Like there's girls that have

1165
01:01:23,160 --> 01:01:25,560
Speaker 1: linked up and they just suck all their niggas together.

1166
01:01:25,960 --> 01:01:29,240
Speaker 1: Like there's such like minded people that like, I don't know,

1167
01:01:29,800 --> 01:01:31,520
Speaker 1: I need to get on there. If I meant motherfucker it,

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Speaker 1: for I know some people said Mandy had a mullet,

1181
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Speaker 1: but it's just because she's behind me, that's all. No bitch,

1182
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Speaker 1: I'm in front. No bit you behind you, behind you,

1183
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1184
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Speaker 1: We are leaving you, guys with a five minute bonus

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Speaker 1: clip from a bonus episode. And guys, this has been

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Speaker 1: yet another episode of Horrid Blaye the cisions paid. Instead

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Speaker 1: of that, what they did have was the fucking tube

1198
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Speaker 1: socks and slides, and we know that's the southern thing.

1199
01:03:21,000 --> 01:03:24,240
Speaker 1: So they were walking around with tube socks, slides and

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01:03:24,400 --> 01:03:26,520
Speaker 1: towels because of course they need the towels around their

1201
01:03:26,520 --> 01:03:28,920
Speaker 1: ways if they were naked. They did have a full buffet,

1202
01:03:29,160 --> 01:03:32,680
Speaker 1: which I will say it was amazing at midnight. At

1203
01:03:32,760 --> 01:03:35,600
Speaker 1: midnight they switched to breakfast, and I will say one

1204
01:03:35,600 --> 01:03:37,520
Speaker 1: of the other things is we didn't show up till

1205
01:03:37,560 --> 01:03:42,880
Speaker 1: about one not know. The video was great. They had grits, cheese,

1206
01:03:43,040 --> 01:03:46,120
Speaker 1: biscuits like everything. But what's also crazy. I don't want

1207
01:03:46,120 --> 01:03:49,720
Speaker 1: to eat cheese in a sex. I'm not gonna lie.

1208
01:03:49,840 --> 01:03:52,480
Speaker 1: It was good. It was good. So what happened in

1209
01:03:52,520 --> 01:03:55,880
Speaker 1: what we noticed is we went during the swap off,

1210
01:03:56,320 --> 01:03:59,400
Speaker 1: and what I mean by that is as we were

1211
01:03:59,480 --> 01:04:01,959
Speaker 1: coming up, it was nothing but a line of black

1212
01:04:02,040 --> 01:04:05,080
Speaker 1: folks and all the whites were coming out, and I

1213
01:04:05,280 --> 01:04:08,919
Speaker 1: was sat, y'all know Zachary who's been on the show.

1214
01:04:09,000 --> 01:04:10,840
Speaker 1: I mentioned he was at a sex club, and I

1215
01:04:10,920 --> 01:04:13,720
Speaker 1: was like, I just found him to be very good looking.

1216
01:04:13,800 --> 01:04:15,920
Speaker 1: And when we go to nff W, that's the only

1217
01:04:15,960 --> 01:04:18,120
Speaker 1: sex club I've gone to with so like with more

1218
01:04:18,160 --> 01:04:22,240
Speaker 1: white people than black, but they're good looking people. Bitch

1219
01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:27,040
Speaker 1: the white people in Atlanta, I felt like they all

1220
01:04:27,160 --> 01:04:30,320
Speaker 1: had Confederate flags and shotguns in their cars. They were like,

1221
01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:32,600
Speaker 1: we're gonna get us some BBC and we're gonna take

1222
01:04:32,680 --> 01:04:36,680
Speaker 1: that down. Bro. It was I was like I was

1223
01:04:36,840 --> 01:04:39,240
Speaker 1: talking to my homegirl and I was like, these are

1224
01:04:39,360 --> 01:04:44,520
Speaker 1: these white people scare me? Like I'm scared um. Outside

1225
01:04:44,560 --> 01:04:48,439
Speaker 1: of that, again, shout out to Chelsea. We talked about

1226
01:04:48,480 --> 01:04:52,320
Speaker 1: sex club music. The DJ was awful, so he didn't

1227
01:04:52,360 --> 01:04:56,080
Speaker 1: set any sort of type of mood. It was like

1228
01:04:56,480 --> 01:04:58,880
Speaker 1: it made you want to twork, so like literally you

1229
01:04:59,040 --> 01:05:02,000
Speaker 1: see one person's sucking dick and the next couple is

1230
01:05:02,080 --> 01:05:04,880
Speaker 1: working like it was just like it was club music.

1231
01:05:05,480 --> 01:05:10,200
Speaker 1: So I didn't like that money maker. Yeah, I didn't

1232
01:05:10,240 --> 01:05:15,400
Speaker 1: like that. Um. And then my first experience ever. Now, ladies,

1233
01:05:15,600 --> 01:05:17,640
Speaker 1: if you haven't yet going over to listen to my

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01:05:17,720 --> 01:05:20,800
Speaker 1: other podcastperiences. But one of the rooms I walked in

1235
01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:27,560
Speaker 1: smelled like no, not not dick chiese, it smells it

1236
01:05:27,640 --> 01:05:30,520
Speaker 1: was a woman, for sure, it was a woman. And

1237
01:05:30,680 --> 01:05:33,360
Speaker 1: me and my homegirl walked in and I had to

1238
01:05:33,480 --> 01:05:37,400
Speaker 1: walk immediately out, and I was mil and taste. This

1239
01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:40,560
Speaker 1: is the first time at a sex club that I

1240
01:05:40,640 --> 01:05:44,400
Speaker 1: think I've come across someone with that hygiene that stunk

1241
01:05:44,520 --> 01:05:47,960
Speaker 1: up a whole room. And I was like, oh wow, okay,

1242
01:05:48,760 --> 01:05:52,680
Speaker 1: I gotta leave this room. So and then what's crazy

1243
01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:55,200
Speaker 1: is I did end up meeting a couple girl with

1244
01:05:55,440 --> 01:05:57,800
Speaker 1: thirty minutes to spare we were there that we were

1245
01:05:57,880 --> 01:06:02,000
Speaker 1: there until it closed. Uh, I really liked the guy. Actually,

1246
01:06:02,520 --> 01:06:05,960
Speaker 1: you stayed all night at a club, that's because I

1247
01:06:06,160 --> 01:06:08,200
Speaker 1: was there for reasons. Well, only one of the rooms

1248
01:06:08,280 --> 01:06:10,600
Speaker 1: felt like baby. I was there for research purposes. This

1249
01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:13,400
Speaker 1: was also the largest sex club I had ever been

1250
01:06:13,440 --> 01:06:16,000
Speaker 1: to in my life. So it was two floors. No,

1251
01:06:16,120 --> 01:06:19,000
Speaker 1: it wasn't two floors at all. But when you walk in. Uh,

1252
01:06:19,120 --> 01:06:21,840
Speaker 1: there's a bar, then the buffet, a whole sitting area,

1253
01:06:21,880 --> 01:06:23,880
Speaker 1: then a whole dance floor. Describe the club that we

1254
01:06:23,960 --> 01:06:29,400
Speaker 1: may win to for the size Marquis, No, it was.

1255
01:06:31,560 --> 01:06:33,920
Speaker 1: It was big, bro. I ain't gonna hold you. And

1256
01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:37,000
Speaker 1: I don't even know how to explain it, even to Ah,

1257
01:06:37,720 --> 01:06:42,440
Speaker 1: even to a to a restaurant. No, because it's not

1258
01:06:42,600 --> 01:06:47,280
Speaker 1: upstairs downstairs long. It's just long. And there's so many rooms.

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Speaker 1: Mind you. They had eight, at least eight private rooms,

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01:06:51,320 --> 01:06:55,040
Speaker 1: and within the private rooms were mirrored. Uh, like you

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01:06:55,120 --> 01:06:57,360
Speaker 1: could see tom, but you can also see your self

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01:06:57,440 --> 01:07:03,640
Speaker 1: type of thing. It was two. Tell what it was

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01:07:03,840 --> 01:07:06,160
Speaker 1: you had sex with the couple? No, I didn't have

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01:07:06,280 --> 01:07:08,760
Speaker 1: sex with the couple. I ended up meeting the couple

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Speaker 1: at the bar, and then we ended up going into

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Speaker 1: the playroom. By this time again, it was maybe three thirty.

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Speaker 1: They had already done last call at the bar, so

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Speaker 1: we went into the room. I wanted like the girl

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01:07:21,200 --> 01:07:23,160
Speaker 1: was really pretty, but you could tell she was also

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01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:26,280
Speaker 1: a dom like she was super in charge. So girl,

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01:07:26,360 --> 01:07:28,960
Speaker 1: as we're walking, I heard the whole story. So she

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01:07:29,120 --> 01:07:32,800
Speaker 1: was forty, he was twenty seven. She also let me

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Speaker 1: know that she had seven children. Okay, yes, So we

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Speaker 1: sit down in the fun area, like the main room

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Speaker 1: where people have sex, and we like the fucking and

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Speaker 1: the non fucking section the fucking area. So we we

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01:07:49,480 --> 01:07:51,560
Speaker 1: laid down and we started making out, and we started

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01:07:51,600 --> 01:07:53,920
Speaker 1: three way making out and she was really pretty. And

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Speaker 1: then we stopped and she looked at me and she

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01:07:56,240 --> 01:07:58,960
Speaker 1: was like, do you work here? And I was like

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Speaker 1: what She was like, are you? Are you? Are you

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Speaker 1: being paid to talk to us? Like is this? I

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01:08:04,920 --> 01:08:07,400
Speaker 1: guess she has gone to parties like this, which we've

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Speaker 1: talked about. They hire girls to make it look good.

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Speaker 1: So literally, in between guessing, she stopped and asked me

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Speaker 1: if I was a worker, and I was like, girl, no,

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Speaker 1: this is my lifestyle, bitch, I does this, Thank you

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Speaker 1: very much. I just don't live here, and I'm here

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Speaker 1: just experience it.