WEBVTT - The One Where The Limo Breaks Down

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, George, La Cans with Rand we are back were

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<v Speaker 1>back at it.

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<v Speaker 2>We are back at it. Lots to talk about today.

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<v Speaker 2>Very exciting first time.

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<v Speaker 1>A little bit lighter than last week.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, for sure. No, last week was great and we

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<v Speaker 2>loved Nick Ritchie.

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<v Speaker 1>No, last week was epic.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to say something right now to everybody listening

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<v Speaker 2>podcast Tour, Podcast Tour, Podcast Tour, come on the train

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<v Speaker 2>and all of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think it's going to be this echoey.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I think that you're overthinking things. We're talking about

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<v Speaker 2>podcast or Okay, don't break up my thoughts.

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<v Speaker 1>As the podcast tour.

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<v Speaker 2>Austin, Houston, Dallas, Miami for Lauderdale with the clear Water,

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<v Speaker 2>Atlanta and New Orleans. Wherever we are, please come, please

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<v Speaker 2>come see give them. Lala with n I want to

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<v Speaker 2>tell everybody some exciting things. We haven't even announce this

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<v Speaker 2>to anybody, but we actually have a game that we're

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<v Speaker 2>playing on our podcast tour called the Dating Game, How

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<v Speaker 2>well do you know your mate? Now, there's going to

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<v Speaker 2>be two couples, a celebrity couple and an audience couple

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<v Speaker 2>that we pick out of the audience, and then they're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna they're gonna ask us questions about you and me,

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<v Speaker 2>and we have to see if we know each other

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<v Speaker 2>as well as we think we do to win a

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<v Speaker 2>prize correct, And we're going to ask them questions of

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<v Speaker 2>an audience. A couple that we don't know at all,

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to see if they know each other well

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<v Speaker 2>enough or they're full of shit and they can win

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<v Speaker 2>a prize. And then we want to let people know

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<v Speaker 2>that on a few of our dates are different cities,

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<v Speaker 2>we're gonna have different celebrity couples. The first couple we

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<v Speaker 2>do want to announce that's going to be in this

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<v Speaker 2>particular segment is our friend Hannah from The Bachelor.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, Hannah Godwin and her Man.

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<v Speaker 2>Hannah Godwin and her Man are going to be on

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<v Speaker 2>that segment at a bunch of cities, and every week

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<v Speaker 2>we're gonna announce more celebrity action pack games our tour.

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to make it clear before we go

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<v Speaker 2>in on our podcast. Hold on, I'm going to just

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<v Speaker 2>keep speaking. I swear all shut up because I can

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<v Speaker 2>see you want to just just kick my ass.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I tell you the number one thing, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>we have my assistant. That's right, I have an assistant.

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<v Speaker 1>Randall is on one hundred today. I have an assistant.

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<v Speaker 1>That is correct because Randall got sick of me hijacking

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<v Speaker 1>his assistant to do things for me. So we have Jessica.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, jess Jessica, Jessica's first time on the show. I

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<v Speaker 2>gotta say something that people don't know Jessica, but Jessica

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<v Speaker 2>could be one of the happiest assistants. Like Jessica is

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<v Speaker 2>the Disneyland of assistance.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, Like if you're going to know Randall calls her bubbles.

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<v Speaker 2>I say that she's got the bubbly, happiest personality. And

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<v Speaker 2>that is the biggest compliment because I have never seen

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<v Speaker 2>an assistant ever come around anybody I am.

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<v Speaker 1>That's because she works for me, not you, Laala.

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<v Speaker 2>With all due respect, you can go the other way

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<v Speaker 2>very quickly, but I just want.

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<v Speaker 1>That was actually one of my first interview questions for

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<v Speaker 1>her is do you know how to shake things off?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Your first interview question was if I knew what give

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<v Speaker 3>them Laala was, and I was like, yes, of.

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<v Speaker 2>Course she'd get a research issues.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>It's because I knew.

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<v Speaker 3>I did my research, but I knew what give them all?

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<v Speaker 3>I followed, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I can I just say one thing because because

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<v Speaker 2>we just skipped right over the podcast, just I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>that's where sorry, And I want to get back to

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<v Speaker 2>Jessica because I have questions for Jessica. I just want

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<v Speaker 2>to say something back to the tour. I want people.

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<v Speaker 1>To know, well, I was bringing it back to the tour.

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<v Speaker 2>I want people to know very importantly that we've been

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<v Speaker 2>putting the show formatt together.

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<v Speaker 1>I was I was saying I was going to weigh

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<v Speaker 1>in on the tour, rand and then you sidetracked me,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I was going to tell Jessica that number

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<v Speaker 1>the number one thing on people that were like, this

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<v Speaker 1>is what I may change about the podcast. Randall doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>let Lalla talk, So let me weigh in for a sec.

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<v Speaker 1>My most exciting thing that we're going to do on

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<v Speaker 1>the tour is I'm going to go and sit in

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<v Speaker 1>the audience and let whoever I'm sitting next to ask

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<v Speaker 1>me anything in the entire world.

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<v Speaker 2>On that segment called ask Laala Anything. Yes, I want

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<v Speaker 2>people to know anything anything, No one, I want people

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<v Speaker 2>to know something. That's what it's just trying to get

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<v Speaker 2>out a broad statement here. We've been working on the

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<v Speaker 2>format of the show. You and I and I've wanted

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<v Speaker 2>the show to be what you want it to be

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<v Speaker 2>because it's your fans. You know, I've got a point

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<v Speaker 2>one percent there, and I want people to know that

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<v Speaker 2>you and I have really made it what you want

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<v Speaker 2>it to be, which is a very interactive show with

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<v Speaker 2>the audience, even though we're putting on an entertaining, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>event for the night for everybody. We want people to

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<v Speaker 2>feel like we're in their living room, right And you

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<v Speaker 2>went out of your way to say to me as

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<v Speaker 2>we design all the different fun segments that you want

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<v Speaker 2>to be interactive throughout the entire night with the audience.

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<v Speaker 2>And I just want people to know that when you

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<v Speaker 2>come to the Give Them Laala with Rand tour, you're

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<v Speaker 2>going to spend a lot of time with Laala in

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<v Speaker 2>your face, in the audience, on your lap, talking shit,

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<v Speaker 2>making you do shots. It's going to be off the charts.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think that'll be a detour for people? They're like,

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<v Speaker 1>we like Lalla, but we don't know that we want

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<v Speaker 1>to interface that much. I think people will dig it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think people that are coming to see Laala want

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<v Speaker 2>to be up in Lalla's business. Okay, yeah, and I'm gonna,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna, I'm gonna let you go.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I don't want to hold anything back.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, Lala's less.

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<v Speaker 3>Than I love that, and I'm the most excited, I think,

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<v Speaker 3>for people to realize just how funny you are. You guys,

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<v Speaker 3>Lalla is one of the funniest people I know. And

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<v Speaker 3>that's for me saying that it's it's wild.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't think very many people are funny.

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<v Speaker 3>Just no, I do not think very I think Lala

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<v Speaker 3>comes in a number one, Randall comes in at number two,

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<v Speaker 3>and then, like other comedians.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on, hold on goes listen to that. Oh that's

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<v Speaker 2>Jessica kissing her boss's ask did everybody know that I did?

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<v Speaker 2>I did? I did?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel that way. I feel like there's been

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<v Speaker 1>so many times where I'm like, hey, have you seen

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<v Speaker 1>my Instagram page? Like it looks pretty good, and she's like, no, really,

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<v Speaker 1>you need to step your game up.

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<v Speaker 2>I think jess I think jess that was a big

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<v Speaker 2>kisss move. But there's nothing wrong with that because when

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<v Speaker 2>I was an assistant, when I was in a system,

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<v Speaker 2>I did that shit too, So it's no problem. But

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<v Speaker 2>I will say that Jessica.

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<v Speaker 1>Is I think I'm funny.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold On, first of all, I definitely think you're funny.

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<v Speaker 2>If I didn't think you were funny, I wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 2>been hanging out with you this long. You're pretty funny, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think people. I think Jessica's point is valid.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that people don't realize because you come across

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<v Speaker 2>so hard and so you know, tough, and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you're very in people's faces, and you have a very

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<v Speaker 2>smart tongue and all that. But I think that Jessica's right.

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<v Speaker 2>People don't see that other side of you, and I hope. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I know for sure, the way we're doing

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<v Speaker 2>this tour and all these fun segments and episodes and

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<v Speaker 2>different things we're doing, people are going to definitely see.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree with Jessica, they are going to see that

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<v Speaker 2>funny side of you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie. I really needed the boost of

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<v Speaker 1>like egoists today.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I woke up and I was like, my ego is

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<v Speaker 1>a little deflated. I don't know why I need someone

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<v Speaker 1>to repuff it up. So I appreciate you both.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the truth.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, I find Jessica every day and you just

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<v Speaker 2>wake up and you.

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<v Speaker 1>Just say you do you have multiple.

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<v Speaker 2>Sean Sean am I funny, oh top five in the office,

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<v Speaker 2>because there's only five of us here.

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<v Speaker 1>Sean doesn't even know his name half the time.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to say that Sean Stone, by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>which is very exciting, and go to his Instagram, very exciting.

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<v Speaker 2>My assistant Sean Stone made his debut on vander Rupp

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<v Speaker 2>Rules this season, so let's give Sean out of the

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<v Speaker 2>class Sean anyway. So I'm just the only reason I

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<v Speaker 2>want to start podcast before we get into the good

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<v Speaker 2>fun stuff, is that I do want people to our

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<v Speaker 2>tour that they don't realize how I don't think people

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<v Speaker 2>realize I didn't realize them. You committed to the tour,

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<v Speaker 2>how much work we've had to do, rehearsal and ideas

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<v Speaker 2>and segments, and just really really make it because you've

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<v Speaker 2>said to me, I'm not doing this tour unless it's

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<v Speaker 2>exactly what my fans you can really sore, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I also respect the fact that people are going to

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<v Speaker 1>like pay money to come and see something. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>like me just showing up. It's like you're not fucking Beyonce.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't just show up like you better bring something cool, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, But that's what I think. I want people to

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<v Speaker 2>know that you have been every night with me. You'll

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<v Speaker 2>give me notes and you'll give me the paper and

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<v Speaker 2>we'll go through the segments and you're like, it's not

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<v Speaker 2>funny or I don't think I think fans will be

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<v Speaker 2>bored with this. Let's throw it out and you keep

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<v Speaker 2>reinventing the show and we keep pushing because you're saying

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<v Speaker 2>to me, I'm not signing off on the night until

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<v Speaker 2>I feel that the fans can soak it up and

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<v Speaker 2>really get at something and have fun and laugh and

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<v Speaker 2>have a fun night and make it interactive. You're not

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<v Speaker 2>the way the show lineup is right now. People don't realize.

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<v Speaker 2>Fans don't realize when they come, if they buy a ticket,

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<v Speaker 2>you're in the audience, I would say twenty thirty minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I mean you're in there a lot. I

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<v Speaker 2>mean you really put yourself in there a lot. And

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to have over ten or twelve fans on

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<v Speaker 2>stage throughout the night, So this is really going to

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<v Speaker 2>be a really fun, interactive Let it go, Let it

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<v Speaker 2>go and just have a blast. So I'm excited. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>excited to see how it goes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm super excited too. So again, you guys, Randall

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<v Speaker 1>and I are going on tour. It is called Give

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<v Speaker 1>Them La La with Randall Live. It starts November thirtieth.

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<v Speaker 1>We start in Dallas, Texas, then we hit Austin, Houston,

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<v Speaker 1>then we head to New Orleans. That's going to be

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<v Speaker 1>so fun. All of these are going to be fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Then December fifth, we're in Fort Lauderdale, then Clearwater, then Orlando,

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<v Speaker 1>and then our last stop is Hot Lanta. I'm so excited.

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<v Speaker 2>And we've sold out a couple of the VIP me

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<v Speaker 2>and greets. I think they're opening up a few more spots.

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<v Speaker 1>They are because actually I didn't realize how like in

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<v Speaker 1>demand the VIPs would be. Those sold out.

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<v Speaker 2>So fast, yeah, where those were like.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we add some more.

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<v Speaker 2>And I also want people to know and part of

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<v Speaker 2>our show. And that's why it's so interactive. That's why

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<v Speaker 2>you went out of your way to make sure that

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<v Speaker 2>as we do the lineup, you said, you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>want it to be so interactive. I want people to

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<v Speaker 2>know even if you don't get a meet and great,

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<v Speaker 2>you will be meeting Laala. Whether you like it or not,

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<v Speaker 2>she will be in your face in that audience. So

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<v Speaker 2>we have a whole section called insta Selfie Time. So

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<v Speaker 2>that's where Lala is just going to bust through the

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<v Speaker 2>audience and selfie herself. So there you go.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all about selfie myself with them by yourself. Yeah right,

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<v Speaker 1>So if you want to come play with us again,

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<v Speaker 1>gets on Laala with Rand. All you have to do

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<v Speaker 1>is go to give them Live dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So big news in the vander Pump Rules world,

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<v Speaker 2>as you know, Jessica, Hold.

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<v Speaker 1>Up, are we just going to jump right into vander

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<v Speaker 1>Rules world when you literally just had a movie come

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<v Speaker 1>out called Midnight in the Switchgrass. Don't know if anyone's

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<v Speaker 1>heard of it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what us great great, great night. You know what.

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<v Speaker 2>We had the premiere last week. It was really special.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I feel like, it's talking about me

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<v Speaker 2>is just odd because I talk so much and I

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<v Speaker 2>want your fans to hear you. But they like you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why it's called give them La La with Rand.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's just it's called that's bullshit. It's called give

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<v Speaker 2>them the La with Rand because.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just here No, that's what makes the name funny

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<v Speaker 1>because it's like give them laala with Randall, but really

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<v Speaker 1>it's like it's the two of us that a compliment. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so I'm telling you how it's said because it's

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be funny. But the podcast is about you

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<v Speaker 1>and me, babe.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So I did have a premiere. It was fantastic,

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<v Speaker 2>very proud. Everybody came out, and I will just say

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<v Speaker 2>it was a really neat experience because I've I've had

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of premieres in my career as a producer,

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<v Speaker 2>never one as a director. And the one thing I

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<v Speaker 2>take away from the premiere that will never happen again

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<v Speaker 2>is I will never sit in the movie theater of

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<v Speaker 2>a movie I direct. That was intense, depressing and overwhelming,

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<v Speaker 2>and only just because it's like I really put my

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<v Speaker 2>soul into that film, and as a director, that's what

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<v Speaker 2>you do much different than a producer. I'm not saying that.

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<v Speaker 1>You were actually really funny like at the premiere because

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<v Speaker 1>we're sitting there yea, and literally it would have been

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<v Speaker 1>like five minutes the film was five minutes in and

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<v Speaker 1>Randa was like, it's not very good. Do you think

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<v Speaker 1>it's good. It sucks right, it does it. I'm like it,

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<v Speaker 1>Like the credits are still popping about what the fuck

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<v Speaker 1>are you talking about? You know, it's right. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like very impressed with everyone's performances. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>that everyone committed to their character. Like Emil is obviously

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<v Speaker 1>insanely talented, Caitlin Carmichael was committed to her role. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>Lucas Hawes, you can't go wrong. Megan Fox, who you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she's just badass. I mean MGK brought his own grill

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<v Speaker 1>to like put in for him his character, like he

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<v Speaker 1>was in charge of like his hairdo, like he committed

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<v Speaker 1>to the role.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, everybody on the movie. Everybody in the movie is

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<v Speaker 2>an incredible actor. I'm very grateful as a first time director,

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<v Speaker 2>I had a great cast. I wouldn't trade it for

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<v Speaker 2>the world. I wouldn't change anything. And I'm just proud

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<v Speaker 2>of what everybody did on the film. And now I'm

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<v Speaker 2>editing my second movie I directed with Robert de Niro

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<v Speaker 2>and John Moultviitch and Jack Houston Fitzgerald, and I learned

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<v Speaker 2>a lot from the first one, and I'm even more

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<v Speaker 2>excited now to continue the journey. So thank you for

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<v Speaker 2>being there and thank you for supporting me.

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<v Speaker 1>We are very proud of you, baby, oh for real.

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<v Speaker 2>And by the way, we were number two on rent

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<v Speaker 2>all time rentals on iTunes and number two and all

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<v Speaker 2>time sales I mean not sales for iTunes this weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>So that is like for an independent, lower budgeted film,

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<v Speaker 2>that's a big deal to break in the top.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you allowed to tell us what the budget was

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<v Speaker 1>to make that film?

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<v Speaker 2>It was a low budget. He's a lower budget. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think the studio wants me to say.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly, but it's considered a low budget film.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And in the iTunes with iTunes, I mean you were

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<v Speaker 1>going up against real like studio films, a massive budget.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and we got numbers, were ranked right now as

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<v Speaker 2>we speak, number two, I think in three, and we're

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<v Speaker 2>up against movies that had thirty seven hundred screen wide releases.

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<v Speaker 1>So, like you want to know, what's also amazing is

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<v Speaker 1>that my movie also came about.

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<v Speaker 2>Your movie was in the top five out of Duck with.

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<v Speaker 1>Bruce Willis and Jamie King, And it was amazing because

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<v Speaker 1>Randall's movie we were like neck and neck and then

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<v Speaker 1>he like obviously passed be right.

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<v Speaker 2>But you guys were there and then we were behind you.

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<v Speaker 2>Then we passed. But I mean we were side by

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<v Speaker 2>side for like, you know, part of a part of

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<v Speaker 2>the day. And the great thing about that is the

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<v Speaker 2>director of that movie is my childhood best friend who

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<v Speaker 2>we started making videos together we were like twelve years old.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so Ra's best friend, Mike Burns, directed Out of Death.

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<v Speaker 1>It was his first film. Thank god I was working

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<v Speaker 1>with him because you know, and it was his first

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<v Speaker 1>but we know each other like that. And I won't

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<v Speaker 1>even lie. It was five months pregnant and I was

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<v Speaker 1>an emotional fucking diva.

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<v Speaker 2>Hormones.

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<v Speaker 1>The hormones were like massive, and normally like I show

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<v Speaker 1>up on set and they're like, roll in the mud,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, let's fucking do it. Put me in

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<v Speaker 1>the mud, like do whatever. Five months pregnant, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>fuck you, I'm not rolling in the mud. But then

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<v Speaker 1>I'd do it anyway. But of course I'm just like

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't control my emotions.

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<v Speaker 2>You would call me and you'd be like balling one second,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, upset, and I'm having.

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<v Speaker 1>The best day ever. And what's crazy is literally the

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<v Speaker 1>second we wrapped, I'm not even kidding you, Jess, Like

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<v Speaker 1>a week later, I got huge, like I can't believe,

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<v Speaker 1>like my stomach. You couldn't really tell I was pregnant.

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<v Speaker 1>And then the second we wrapped it was like, oh, hello,

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<v Speaker 1>Ocean is like deciding to like say, what's up. No,

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<v Speaker 1>you couldn't tell it all.

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<v Speaker 3>And I so wait, your directorial debut and your childhood

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<v Speaker 3>best friend it came out at the same time.

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<v Speaker 2>He has came out a week before him and Lawa's

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<v Speaker 2>movie came out a week before mine came out this weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>But they weren't in the top five at the time

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<v Speaker 2>that we started.

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<v Speaker 1>Both your directorial debuts.

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<v Speaker 2>That's so amazing the chances of that area. It's like insane.

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<v Speaker 2>It's pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 3>And I saw them both, and I obviously loved Midnight

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<v Speaker 3>in the Switchgrass.

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<v Speaker 1>And Out of Death.

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<v Speaker 3>I watched that yesterday with my boyfriend Kyle, and and

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<v Speaker 3>I was actually my mouth dropped open at Laala's acting.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm not kidding it was in and I know

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<v Speaker 3>I'm kissing her ass again, I guess hold on.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on, guys, wait one second, one second, so let

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<v Speaker 2>me hear of this. Hold on, did everybody hear that again?

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<v Speaker 3>No, it was amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>It was amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to say something. I just you just left

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<v Speaker 2>that moment for me to say, but I'm gonna say something,

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<v Speaker 2>and I really mean this, and you know I've said

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<v Speaker 2>it to you many times. People do not realize unless

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<v Speaker 2>they've seen Laala where she is a really really good

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<v Speaker 2>actor and people and if you watch her and access

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<v Speaker 2>Sally with metto Williams and al Pacino and U swean teel,

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<v Speaker 2>if you watch this movie and access Sally, she has

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<v Speaker 2>a scene opposite al Pacino. And I remember I was

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<v Speaker 2>in town that day because I was producing, I was visiting,

0:17:20.920 --> 0:17:23.679
<v Speaker 2>and she goes up against him and has this moment

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<v Speaker 2>with the judge where she like basically talks shit and

0:17:25.920 --> 0:17:28.239
<v Speaker 2>puts him in his place. And he turned to her

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<v Speaker 2>on the set and was like, you're a really good actor,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, oh shit, just and by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>we all watched the smallment because you don't know how

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<v Speaker 2>somebody when they go up against al Pacino, it's going

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<v Speaker 2>to be And she really is a very good actor.

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<v Speaker 2>And I can talk a lot of shit and have

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<v Speaker 2>fun with her, but as an actor, you're you're the

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<v Speaker 2>real deal. And I'm really excited to see what you

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<v Speaker 2>do in the future.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for saying that iss gone away. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what I feel great now.

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<v Speaker 2>We had to keep it light this week's podcast anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>So having said that, thank you. It was a great night.

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<v Speaker 2>It was very special and it was a big moment.

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<v Speaker 2>My mother was in town, Your mother was in town.

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<v Speaker 2>It was it was great and we had a great

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<v Speaker 2>night and celebrated. And that was right as everything was

0:18:13.520 --> 0:18:16.159
<v Speaker 2>shutting down kind of like, well, we were having a

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<v Speaker 2>mask up again here in Los Angeles. So I'm glad

0:18:18.680 --> 0:18:21.159
<v Speaker 2>we were able to pull that off. We're going to

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<v Speaker 2>take a break real quick and we come back. Hopefully

0:18:23.760 --> 0:18:26.359
<v Speaker 2>you'll spill some tea with us about Fanner pump rules.

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<v Speaker 1>We call it vander Talk.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's a segment on our tour.

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<v Speaker 1>We're back.

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<v Speaker 2>So I wanted to tell everybody that you right after

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<v Speaker 2>having Ocean, like you, I want to set the stage

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<v Speaker 2>for Lalla's life. Lala had been home pregnant right after

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<v Speaker 2>that movie, pregnant, waiting to have Ocean. You had Ocean,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you were like nestled up.

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<v Speaker 1>The Randall and I conceived Ocean during him directing midnight

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<v Speaker 1>in the switchgrass.

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<v Speaker 2>That is correct in Puerto Rico. In Puerto Rico, so

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<v Speaker 2>so everything was great. Lala was chilling. She was just

0:19:10.480 --> 0:19:13.800
<v Speaker 2>you know, nesting, getting ready to have her baby, and

0:19:13.920 --> 0:19:16.439
<v Speaker 2>you know, Vander Pumperoles hadn't been picked up yet to

0:19:16.480 --> 0:19:18.800
<v Speaker 2>come back, and she was like living her best life.

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<v Speaker 2>And then she has the baby. Same like within weeks

0:19:23.040 --> 0:19:25.840
<v Speaker 2>before having the baby, they said, by the way, Laala,

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<v Speaker 2>you're coming back in vander Pumperles and you're coming back

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<v Speaker 2>like literally four weeks.

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<v Speaker 3>No.

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<v Speaker 1>It was crazy how that happened because I had like

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<v Speaker 1>had a year off. Basically, we decide to have a baby,

0:19:37.520 --> 0:19:40.240
<v Speaker 1>and then all of a sudden, like I get all

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<v Speaker 1>these phone calls and it's like the show's been picked up,

0:19:42.720 --> 0:19:45.080
<v Speaker 1>we need to pick up cameras next week. I was like,

0:19:45.240 --> 0:19:47.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm having Ocean next week. They were like, we got

0:19:47.960 --> 0:19:50.560
<v Speaker 1>to catch you before you give birth, so it makes sense,

0:19:50.640 --> 0:19:52.199
<v Speaker 1>got to see you with the belly. Then I get

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<v Speaker 1>another phone call it's like, by the way, we are

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<v Speaker 1>the book is coming out. Oh, by the way, we're

0:19:58.880 --> 0:20:02.320
<v Speaker 1>relaunching give them Law Beauty. Also the baby line. Also

0:20:02.359 --> 0:20:04.280
<v Speaker 1>we're doing skin And I literally was like.

0:20:04.720 --> 0:20:06.200
<v Speaker 2>Melt down, What the fuck?

0:20:06.600 --> 0:20:08.879
<v Speaker 1>I haven't had to be a person in over a year,

0:20:09.240 --> 0:20:10.359
<v Speaker 1>and especially.

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<v Speaker 2>Coming out of the pandemic, people you know, obviously got

0:20:12.400 --> 0:20:15.840
<v Speaker 2>used to having to be inside and life slow down

0:20:15.880 --> 0:20:17.679
<v Speaker 2>and be in the moment. And I just want to say, like,

0:20:17.720 --> 0:20:21.199
<v Speaker 2>what for me was crazy? For you? You know, your

0:20:21.280 --> 0:20:24.440
<v Speaker 2>first time mother and you had to figure it out

0:20:24.480 --> 0:20:27.719
<v Speaker 2>not only raising your child but balancing work, which you

0:20:27.840 --> 0:20:31.160
<v Speaker 2>struggle with a lot. You got very upset many times emotionally,

0:20:31.200 --> 0:20:33.720
<v Speaker 2>you know, which I understood, because you would have to

0:20:33.800 --> 0:20:36.600
<v Speaker 2>leave ocean for four hours film come you know, in

0:20:36.640 --> 0:20:38.800
<v Speaker 2>the ocean would be off to the side, and you

0:20:39.320 --> 0:20:40.840
<v Speaker 2>always wanted to be at home with her, and so

0:20:41.440 --> 0:20:43.639
<v Speaker 2>that that was three four you know, long time of

0:20:43.640 --> 0:20:47.520
<v Speaker 2>filming whatever, for four months of filming. Now that it's finished,

0:20:48.200 --> 0:20:51.720
<v Speaker 2>now that she's four months, four and a half months, whatever.

0:20:53.080 --> 0:20:55.400
<v Speaker 2>Now that it's over, the season's over, and you've had

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<v Speaker 2>a week or two to kind of reflect, I'm curious

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<v Speaker 2>to know, like, how do you feel about this season?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, obviously they're not going to let you say

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<v Speaker 2>anything in detail, but how do you, like, did you

0:21:06.400 --> 0:21:09.960
<v Speaker 2>feel it was different the same, especially having two years

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<v Speaker 2>off with the pandemic. Just how was it to go

0:21:12.560 --> 0:21:14.560
<v Speaker 2>back to work and what and what was different or

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<v Speaker 2>what was new and exciting or not.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, obviously the hardest part was to go back

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<v Speaker 1>without a lot of my friends.

0:21:23.200 --> 0:21:23.399
<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that was the most intense part. And from that

0:21:28.600 --> 0:21:31.320
<v Speaker 1>standpoint of like, my friends won't be there anymore, then

0:21:31.359 --> 0:21:34.920
<v Speaker 1>there was the other viewpoint of like, when we're filming

0:21:34.960 --> 0:21:37.480
<v Speaker 1>this show, like what is it going to look like?

0:21:37.720 --> 0:21:41.000
<v Speaker 2>And and you had to you have Ocean with you.

0:21:41.080 --> 0:21:43.240
<v Speaker 2>I mean, you're breastfeeding all day.

0:21:43.640 --> 0:21:47.640
<v Speaker 1>So that was hard for me. Randon. Here's why most

0:21:47.720 --> 0:21:51.000
<v Speaker 1>people so in the state of California, whether you're filming

0:21:51.000 --> 0:21:54.720
<v Speaker 1>a reality TV show, a movie, or a sitcom, whatever

0:21:54.760 --> 0:21:59.800
<v Speaker 1>it may be, all of the laws still come into play.

0:22:00.240 --> 0:22:03.320
<v Speaker 1>So even though we're filming a reality show and Ocean

0:22:03.400 --> 0:22:06.080
<v Speaker 1>is my real life baby, she can only be on

0:22:06.160 --> 0:22:08.840
<v Speaker 1>camera for twenty minutes and there has to be a

0:22:08.880 --> 0:22:13.480
<v Speaker 1>teacher and a nurse on quote unquote set, meaning at

0:22:13.520 --> 0:22:14.840
<v Speaker 1>my home or wherever I go.

0:22:15.000 --> 0:22:16.520
<v Speaker 2>Child like a child safe.

0:22:16.359 --> 0:22:19.439
<v Speaker 1>Correct, Like they treat them like their actors, just you know,

0:22:19.840 --> 0:22:23.639
<v Speaker 1>and I believe that's only in California. So you know,

0:22:23.760 --> 0:22:26.680
<v Speaker 1>I have to go and film and you know, make

0:22:26.720 --> 0:22:30.440
<v Speaker 1>this show with my cast members and my friends. And

0:22:31.320 --> 0:22:34.159
<v Speaker 1>if they don't have a teacher on set or a nurse,

0:22:34.560 --> 0:22:37.439
<v Speaker 1>Ocean can't come with me. So leaving her behind so

0:22:37.600 --> 0:22:41.400
<v Speaker 1>much was brutal. It was heart wrenching, and like there

0:22:41.400 --> 0:22:43.360
<v Speaker 1>were many days where I'd come home and I would

0:22:43.440 --> 0:22:45.960
<v Speaker 1>feel like, I'll be honest, I felt like a really

0:22:45.960 --> 0:22:49.320
<v Speaker 1>shitty mom. I'd be like, what am I doing? Like

0:22:49.600 --> 0:22:51.480
<v Speaker 1>I need to be with my baby all the time,

0:22:51.520 --> 0:22:54.400
<v Speaker 1>and even though she may not remember, like, I'm going

0:22:54.440 --> 0:22:56.879
<v Speaker 1>to remember, right, And I was worried that I would

0:22:56.880 --> 0:23:00.439
<v Speaker 1>miss out on all of these firsts. And luckily, the

0:23:00.480 --> 0:23:06.520
<v Speaker 1>other day she rolled for the first time, and I

0:23:06.600 --> 0:23:09.240
<v Speaker 1>was talking to the person her name's Liz, who watches

0:23:09.280 --> 0:23:11.679
<v Speaker 1>Oh when I have to go and work, and she

0:23:11.800 --> 0:23:13.919
<v Speaker 1>was like, she rolled. I've been working with her on that,

0:23:14.720 --> 0:23:16.840
<v Speaker 1>but she never did it. And I was like, oh,

0:23:17.160 --> 0:23:19.240
<v Speaker 1>Ocean listened to me when I told her, like, don't

0:23:19.240 --> 0:23:23.320
<v Speaker 1>do anything while I'm gone, Please do it all just

0:23:23.400 --> 0:23:26.600
<v Speaker 1>for me. But that was like the hardest part is

0:23:26.720 --> 0:23:29.080
<v Speaker 1>leaving her behind. But I'm praying to God that when

0:23:29.080 --> 0:23:31.160
<v Speaker 1>she gets older, she'll she'll look at me and think

0:23:31.240 --> 0:23:34.560
<v Speaker 1>like my mom went out and worked and she like

0:23:34.800 --> 0:23:37.840
<v Speaker 1>busted her ass, and hopefully I give your a work ethic.

0:23:38.040 --> 0:23:39.480
<v Speaker 2>I always say that to you. I mean, because you

0:23:39.520 --> 0:23:42.240
<v Speaker 2>have tears Jannes now, and you had many days, you know,

0:23:42.280 --> 0:23:44.800
<v Speaker 2>when we were you know, when you would go away

0:23:44.840 --> 0:23:47.560
<v Speaker 2>for two or three hours to film or whatever, you know,

0:23:47.560 --> 0:23:49.879
<v Speaker 2>wherever amount of time. You were lucky you had the

0:23:49.880 --> 0:23:52.160
<v Speaker 2>baby with you, she had her with you or within

0:23:52.240 --> 0:23:54.560
<v Speaker 2>feet of you for most of it. Yes, but I

0:23:54.600 --> 0:23:56.720
<v Speaker 2>know there were days that you were really stressed or

0:23:56.760 --> 0:23:59.399
<v Speaker 2>just couldn't it just the environment didn't provide. But I

0:23:59.440 --> 0:24:02.320
<v Speaker 2>will say, and I feel, at least my opinion is

0:24:02.359 --> 0:24:05.240
<v Speaker 2>that she will look back and she'll get to see

0:24:05.400 --> 0:24:09.560
<v Speaker 2>her mom as an independent woman who's making a living

0:24:10.080 --> 0:24:12.200
<v Speaker 2>and a career woman, you know, And I think that

0:24:12.200 --> 0:24:15.119
<v Speaker 2>that's something as a role model for our daughter. So

0:24:15.160 --> 0:24:18.560
<v Speaker 2>I think that it was hard for you and clearly

0:24:18.680 --> 0:24:21.480
<v Speaker 2>hard for anybody, any mother. But at the same time,

0:24:21.560 --> 0:24:24.680
<v Speaker 2>I think that you know, it's not like you. You know,

0:24:24.960 --> 0:24:27.120
<v Speaker 2>there are there are women that have to go off

0:24:27.160 --> 0:24:29.000
<v Speaker 2>to war, and there are women that have to go

0:24:29.440 --> 0:24:31.720
<v Speaker 2>off to jobs for three months at a time, right

0:24:31.800 --> 0:24:33.560
<v Speaker 2>you know where they you know. So I'm saying, like

0:24:33.680 --> 0:24:36.000
<v Speaker 2>I think you're it was hard for you, and it

0:24:36.040 --> 0:24:38.919
<v Speaker 2>makes sense. But I also think you're going to be

0:24:38.960 --> 0:24:40.800
<v Speaker 2>grateful that she's going to grow up and look at

0:24:40.800 --> 0:24:42.959
<v Speaker 2>her mom and be like, my mom's a badass and

0:24:43.480 --> 0:24:46.720
<v Speaker 2>is a career woman and makes a really good living

0:24:46.840 --> 0:24:49.679
<v Speaker 2>working her ass off, and I think that's a role model,

0:24:49.800 --> 0:24:51.720
<v Speaker 2>you know, thing that she's going to look up to.

0:24:51.880 --> 0:24:55.040
<v Speaker 1>I just have a different outlook on mothers who are

0:24:55.040 --> 0:24:57.720
<v Speaker 1>like doing the damn thing, whether you like, are a

0:24:57.720 --> 0:25:00.159
<v Speaker 1>stay at home mom, no matter what it is, is

0:25:00.200 --> 0:25:03.440
<v Speaker 1>that you're out doing Like I look at moms very

0:25:03.480 --> 0:25:05.639
<v Speaker 1>differently now because I am one, and I know that

0:25:05.720 --> 0:25:08.639
<v Speaker 1>it's a struggle and mom shaming is real, and people

0:25:08.760 --> 0:25:11.720
<v Speaker 1>like to like say what like they like to have

0:25:11.800 --> 0:25:14.480
<v Speaker 1>the narrative. It's like, oh, you're going out and doing this,

0:25:14.640 --> 0:25:17.880
<v Speaker 1>you must not care, or oh you're a stay at

0:25:17.880 --> 0:25:20.920
<v Speaker 1>home mom. Your child's you know, there are those women

0:25:20.960 --> 0:25:23.200
<v Speaker 1>out here who just fucking sling judgments.

0:25:23.560 --> 0:25:25.000
<v Speaker 2>I agree, but you know what, at the end of

0:25:25.040 --> 0:25:31.520
<v Speaker 2>the day, like you're building a really really healthy nest egg.

0:25:32.240 --> 0:25:35.320
<v Speaker 2>And you know, the thing that people don't realize with

0:25:35.440 --> 0:25:37.840
<v Speaker 2>you is that, yes, I pay all the.

0:25:37.800 --> 0:25:42.400
<v Speaker 1>Bills, but if he didn't, I know they would still

0:25:42.440 --> 0:25:43.280
<v Speaker 1>get paid by me.

0:25:44.200 --> 0:25:46.760
<v Speaker 2>No, but I no, but it's not even that I'm joking.

0:25:46.800 --> 0:25:50.159
<v Speaker 2>But what I'm saying is like, you know, people don't realize,

0:25:50.160 --> 0:25:53.639
<v Speaker 2>like when you want a new crib, like you don't

0:25:53.760 --> 0:25:55.760
<v Speaker 2>call me on I've never I've never got a phone

0:25:55.800 --> 0:25:57.920
<v Speaker 2>call where you go, hey, I want a new crib bran,

0:25:58.040 --> 0:25:59.240
<v Speaker 2>you just order this shit.

0:25:59.400 --> 0:26:02.960
<v Speaker 1>You know You's so funny, realize people don't realize. And

0:26:03.240 --> 0:26:06.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't know any couple that like moves in and

0:26:06.040 --> 0:26:10.840
<v Speaker 1>like they have a husband or I don't personally know where.

0:26:10.960 --> 0:26:13.600
<v Speaker 1>I feel like people are like, oh, well rand pays

0:26:13.640 --> 0:26:15.639
<v Speaker 1>for everything. It's like, yeah, he provides us with the

0:26:15.720 --> 0:26:18.040
<v Speaker 1>home and like he put pays the light bill or

0:26:18.080 --> 0:26:20.719
<v Speaker 1>you know this that and the other cars, all the cars.

0:26:20.920 --> 0:26:23.399
<v Speaker 1>But let's just say I told someone like we split

0:26:23.440 --> 0:26:26.320
<v Speaker 1>all of that, they'd be like, why doesn't randall take

0:26:26.320 --> 0:26:29.959
<v Speaker 1>care of that? I don't understand. Yeah, I don't get it.

0:26:30.040 --> 0:26:32.600
<v Speaker 1>Like there's there's it's it's a lose lose.

0:26:32.440 --> 0:26:34.880
<v Speaker 2>Right, you can't win, no matter why. But no, but here,

0:26:34.920 --> 0:26:39.080
<v Speaker 2>but here's what I say. Of course I provide, you know.

0:26:39.160 --> 0:26:41.040
<v Speaker 2>I mean that's I feel like it's I'm in a

0:26:41.080 --> 0:26:43.560
<v Speaker 2>position and I and I and I provide for a family.

0:26:43.600 --> 0:26:47.280
<v Speaker 2>But like, for instance, if you go, people don't realize

0:26:47.359 --> 0:26:49.639
<v Speaker 2>if you want a purse, and a purse is a

0:26:49.720 --> 0:26:53.440
<v Speaker 2>luxury add on item, right, it's it's something that you

0:26:53.440 --> 0:26:55.480
<v Speaker 2>you just order it. Like you don't call me ever,

0:26:55.600 --> 0:26:57.920
<v Speaker 2>you don't say, Ran, I really want to purse over

0:26:58.000 --> 0:27:00.280
<v Speaker 2>at this story. You just order stuff, you mean. And

0:27:00.280 --> 0:27:03.000
<v Speaker 2>by the way, with the baby, I see boxes and

0:27:03.040 --> 0:27:06.439
<v Speaker 2>boxes coming every week of clothes for our child. And

0:27:06.480 --> 0:27:07.240
<v Speaker 2>I tried the other.

0:27:07.160 --> 0:27:09.280
<v Speaker 1>Day, we get the clothes, let's talk about the diapers.

0:27:09.359 --> 0:27:13.240
<v Speaker 1>Now that's the real thing. I'm like another.

0:27:13.040 --> 0:27:17.080
<v Speaker 2>Box but here, But here's here's the funny thing. We

0:27:17.080 --> 0:27:19.320
<v Speaker 2>were at the store the other day in the mall

0:27:19.480 --> 0:27:20.760
<v Speaker 2>and I was trying to I said, I want to

0:27:20.760 --> 0:27:24.200
<v Speaker 2>buy Ocean some new clothes, and you're like, Ran, we

0:27:24.320 --> 0:27:26.280
<v Speaker 2>have more than enough clothes than we're ever going to

0:27:26.440 --> 0:27:28.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, who bought the clothes? She's like I did,

0:27:29.119 --> 0:27:31.520
<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, see, So there are tons of things

0:27:31.520 --> 0:27:34.080
<v Speaker 2>that people don't realize, Like Lolly, when you want to

0:27:34.080 --> 0:27:35.639
<v Speaker 2>buy something, you just buy you don't you know it,

0:27:35.640 --> 0:27:37.719
<v Speaker 2>that's not even a thing, and you pay for it

0:27:37.760 --> 0:27:39.399
<v Speaker 2>and it's from the money that you make. So I

0:27:39.480 --> 0:27:41.600
<v Speaker 2>just I want to always take my hat off because

0:27:41.640 --> 0:27:44.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't think people do that enough for you, because

0:27:45.320 --> 0:27:48.560
<v Speaker 2>you know, it's like, yeah, I do what I do,

0:27:48.680 --> 0:27:52.720
<v Speaker 2>but at the same time, you make a very successful

0:27:52.760 --> 0:27:54.720
<v Speaker 2>living and you contribute a lot.

0:27:55.040 --> 0:27:57.280
<v Speaker 1>I kind of shot myself in the foot when we

0:27:57.320 --> 0:28:00.720
<v Speaker 1>first met because I was like, yeah, TJ's re pg it,

0:28:00.880 --> 0:28:02.640
<v Speaker 1>you know, like it was like, I just I did

0:28:02.680 --> 0:28:04.720
<v Speaker 1>all of these things because people were calling me that.

0:28:04.960 --> 0:28:06.320
<v Speaker 1>So I was like, well, I'm just going to feed

0:28:06.359 --> 0:28:09.760
<v Speaker 1>into this shit, so that I kind of made it

0:28:10.080 --> 0:28:12.679
<v Speaker 1>very easy. But now people and I don't want to

0:28:12.720 --> 0:28:15.719
<v Speaker 1>discredit to people because I think more people than not

0:28:16.080 --> 0:28:18.440
<v Speaker 1>sit here and definitely show me a lot of love

0:28:18.480 --> 0:28:21.359
<v Speaker 1>and respect. But for those who don't, it's just like

0:28:21.400 --> 0:28:23.840
<v Speaker 1>it's much easier to be like, oh, Laila has all

0:28:23.840 --> 0:28:26.880
<v Speaker 1>this because she's a gold digger, rather than like, oh,

0:28:26.880 --> 0:28:29.040
<v Speaker 1>the bitch worked hard. You know, it's much easier to

0:28:29.480 --> 0:28:31.240
<v Speaker 1>It makes you feel better when you're like, she has

0:28:31.280 --> 0:28:33.280
<v Speaker 1>that because someone else gave it to it, right.

0:28:33.280 --> 0:28:35.560
<v Speaker 2>But what I think people don't realize is you make

0:28:35.560 --> 0:28:38.040
<v Speaker 2>a very good living. I work very hard too, and

0:28:38.120 --> 0:28:41.080
<v Speaker 2>at the end of the day, you know, I think

0:28:41.120 --> 0:28:43.600
<v Speaker 2>people don't sometimes just don't want to give you the credit.

0:28:43.640 --> 0:28:45.680
<v Speaker 2>And the thing is, you work from the morning from

0:28:45.680 --> 0:28:47.000
<v Speaker 2>the minute you wake up in the morning to the

0:28:47.040 --> 0:28:48.520
<v Speaker 2>minute you go to sleep. You're always on the phone.

0:28:48.520 --> 0:28:51.640
<v Speaker 2>You're always you know, promoting and doing your different stuff

0:28:51.680 --> 0:28:54.640
<v Speaker 2>and building new brands and and and you could have

0:28:54.800 --> 0:28:56.360
<v Speaker 2>you could go the other way. You could have just

0:28:56.480 --> 0:28:58.120
<v Speaker 2>you know, sat down and been like, you know what,

0:28:58.880 --> 0:29:01.000
<v Speaker 2>I take my hat off, but I'm done. I'm going

0:29:01.080 --> 0:29:01.880
<v Speaker 2>to sit and be a mom.

0:29:02.120 --> 0:29:05.040
<v Speaker 1>Well, that pandemic really made me think, do I want

0:29:05.080 --> 0:29:09.400
<v Speaker 1>to keep truying to make sure happen becaues this cushy lifestyle.

0:29:10.400 --> 0:29:12.760
<v Speaker 1>I kind of like it, But I think I knew

0:29:12.760 --> 0:29:13.760
<v Speaker 1>because it wasn't forever.

0:29:14.200 --> 0:29:16.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, you were you were really I think

0:29:16.080 --> 0:29:17.959
<v Speaker 2>you would have been okay for another few months at

0:29:17.960 --> 0:29:18.320
<v Speaker 2>the house.

0:29:19.120 --> 0:29:22.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm okay, okay, I won't even lie. Like I loved

0:29:23.000 --> 0:29:27.280
<v Speaker 1>going to Your Help Me movie premiere, the movie premiere,

0:29:27.360 --> 0:29:29.560
<v Speaker 1>Thank You. I loved going to it, But when I

0:29:29.600 --> 0:29:32.800
<v Speaker 1>got home, I was like, you know, I actually thoroughly

0:29:32.880 --> 0:29:35.200
<v Speaker 1>enjoy not doing anything. You know, there are times where

0:29:35.200 --> 0:29:36.560
<v Speaker 1>I'll sit there and be like, you need to go

0:29:36.680 --> 0:29:39.800
<v Speaker 1>out and like experience things, and then I go out

0:29:39.840 --> 0:29:42.520
<v Speaker 1>and experience things, and I'm like, I'd rather experience the

0:29:42.520 --> 0:29:46.000
<v Speaker 1>inside of my eyelids, to be honest, you know, yeah,

0:29:46.040 --> 0:29:47.080
<v Speaker 1>I think sounds fun.

0:29:47.400 --> 0:29:50.600
<v Speaker 2>I think that's I think you know, you're a homebody

0:29:50.640 --> 0:29:52.160
<v Speaker 2>and there's nothing wrong with that. I think that you

0:29:52.360 --> 0:29:56.720
<v Speaker 2>enjoy being at home relaxing watching TV. But you know,

0:29:56.960 --> 0:29:58.479
<v Speaker 2>but the other thing that people don't realize is when

0:29:58.520 --> 0:30:01.240
<v Speaker 2>you're somebody like you who always has to go and

0:30:01.400 --> 0:30:04.600
<v Speaker 2>make appearances and do things and go to events and

0:30:04.640 --> 0:30:06.920
<v Speaker 2>always kind of be around people a lot, then I

0:30:06.960 --> 0:30:08.720
<v Speaker 2>think you go the other way, you know. So it's

0:30:08.720 --> 0:30:10.760
<v Speaker 2>like you'll do the things you do because you love

0:30:10.840 --> 0:30:13.560
<v Speaker 2>being around your fans or being an events that you

0:30:13.760 --> 0:30:16.479
<v Speaker 2>that you're promoting your businesses and stuff. You enjoy that.

0:30:16.720 --> 0:30:18.160
<v Speaker 2>But I think then you get a little burnt out

0:30:18.200 --> 0:30:20.120
<v Speaker 2>where you need to like retreat and have quiet.

0:30:20.440 --> 0:30:23.760
<v Speaker 1>Right, So back back to my most favorite part of

0:30:23.800 --> 0:30:29.800
<v Speaker 1>filming this season honestly everything, Like, oh really, yeah, I

0:30:29.880 --> 0:30:32.880
<v Speaker 1>was digging it all. I think I had a new

0:30:32.920 --> 0:30:36.640
<v Speaker 1>respect for the show, right because we went through so much, yes,

0:30:36.960 --> 0:30:37.640
<v Speaker 1>and so.

0:30:37.680 --> 0:30:41.840
<v Speaker 2>You had appreciation much more than you ever because you know,

0:30:41.880 --> 0:30:43.120
<v Speaker 2>for two years you guys.

0:30:42.880 --> 0:30:44.880
<v Speaker 1>Were all When I got the phone call that it

0:30:44.920 --> 0:30:48.080
<v Speaker 1>was like, we've been picked up and we're starting on

0:30:48.200 --> 0:30:53.360
<v Speaker 1>May fourth. I was like, I feel so blessed right now.

0:30:53.840 --> 0:30:56.640
<v Speaker 1>I feel so lucky, Like how did this happen?

0:30:56.920 --> 0:30:59.360
<v Speaker 2>And you guys are in season nine week People don't realize,

0:30:59.400 --> 0:31:01.720
<v Speaker 2>Like I always tell people, I'm like, to have nine

0:31:01.800 --> 0:31:04.840
<v Speaker 2>seasons of reality show is unheard of. It's it's really

0:31:04.920 --> 0:31:09.360
<v Speaker 2>means that your group of friends, the vander Pump Rules group,

0:31:09.680 --> 0:31:11.719
<v Speaker 2>that you guys are really special in the sense that

0:31:11.840 --> 0:31:15.920
<v Speaker 2>like people are really entertained by you guys, and you guys,

0:31:16.120 --> 0:31:17.760
<v Speaker 2>you know, have a lot of fun together. And I

0:31:17.800 --> 0:31:21.200
<v Speaker 2>don't think people realize, at least from now. I've been

0:31:21.240 --> 0:31:23.840
<v Speaker 2>on the front lines a little bit more. Obviously this

0:31:23.960 --> 0:31:26.840
<v Speaker 2>season I filmed probably more than.

0:31:27.400 --> 0:31:30.400
<v Speaker 1>It's funny because Randall says that when he is filming

0:31:30.520 --> 0:31:34.240
<v Speaker 1>with us, he'll forget and look around at everything that's

0:31:34.240 --> 0:31:37.000
<v Speaker 1>happening and he's like, holy shit, I forgot. I felt

0:31:37.000 --> 0:31:39.120
<v Speaker 1>like I was watching the show because the.

0:31:39.120 --> 0:31:42.240
<v Speaker 2>Ship that goes on, I'm like, I'm not used to

0:31:42.280 --> 0:31:44.120
<v Speaker 2>any of this, and I'm sitting there and I sometimes

0:31:44.160 --> 0:31:46.800
<v Speaker 2>just check out and I'm like watching all the shit.

0:31:46.680 --> 0:31:49.920
<v Speaker 1>Happen like crazy that people think it's not real. And

0:31:50.640 --> 0:31:53.520
<v Speaker 1>that's the thing is it is really real. It's just

0:31:53.640 --> 0:31:57.000
<v Speaker 1>we're that fucked up and resilient, you know.

0:31:57.240 --> 0:31:57.440
<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

0:31:57.600 --> 0:31:59.160
<v Speaker 3>No from an outsider looking in.

0:32:00.200 --> 0:32:02.560
<v Speaker 2>On the show too, Jessica Jessica's on the show.

0:32:02.280 --> 0:32:05.840
<v Speaker 3>Even just being in the presence, I would forget the

0:32:05.880 --> 0:32:09.320
<v Speaker 3>cameras were there, just because it was like, it's truly

0:32:09.480 --> 0:32:12.000
<v Speaker 3>just you guys are living life, and the cameras kind

0:32:12.000 --> 0:32:14.800
<v Speaker 3>of pop in and you're just doing your thing. And

0:32:14.840 --> 0:32:17.080
<v Speaker 3>that's how I was shocked. I'm like, oh no, this

0:32:17.240 --> 0:32:19.840
<v Speaker 3>is like, there's not a scripted bone in this.

0:32:19.880 --> 0:32:22.440
<v Speaker 2>And no, no, it's And that's the one thing that

0:32:22.480 --> 0:32:24.720
<v Speaker 2>took me, I think, because this is my second time

0:32:25.600 --> 0:32:29.560
<v Speaker 2>appearing and it's hard for me to say that, but

0:32:28.200 --> 0:32:31.120
<v Speaker 2>but but but I do get caught up the same

0:32:31.160 --> 0:32:33.000
<v Speaker 2>way you do, because it's like when you're not used

0:32:33.000 --> 0:32:35.880
<v Speaker 2>to it, like they're in it. They're in it, they're

0:32:35.920 --> 0:32:38.560
<v Speaker 2>all in in the moments, it's just their regular life.

0:32:38.720 --> 0:32:40.680
<v Speaker 2>But you know, you're sitting there and sometimes you're you know,

0:32:40.680 --> 0:32:42.760
<v Speaker 2>you're in it, but then sometimes you're just sitting there

0:32:42.800 --> 0:32:45.200
<v Speaker 2>watching what's going on, and you're like, oh my god,

0:32:45.240 --> 0:32:48.320
<v Speaker 2>like they're really this is their real life, like there

0:32:48.400 --> 0:32:53.880
<v Speaker 2>is no bullshit, and I'm excited because it's it's it's

0:32:53.920 --> 0:32:56.120
<v Speaker 2>a really unique group of people and I think you

0:32:56.160 --> 0:32:59.000
<v Speaker 2>guys are very blessed to you know, be able to

0:32:59.000 --> 0:33:02.200
<v Speaker 2>do what you do for for nine years. And I'm excited.

0:33:02.240 --> 0:33:03.920
<v Speaker 2>So on that note, I think we need to quick

0:33:03.920 --> 0:33:04.880
<v Speaker 2>break and come right back.

0:33:10.080 --> 0:33:17.680
<v Speaker 1>That was a quick break. We're back, We're back. So

0:33:18.080 --> 0:33:20.920
<v Speaker 1>Randall and I thought it would be fun for this

0:33:21.480 --> 0:33:25.920
<v Speaker 1>last segment of this episode to have it like a

0:33:25.960 --> 0:33:29.840
<v Speaker 1>little bit of a storytell. Randall and I were driving

0:33:29.920 --> 0:33:33.880
<v Speaker 1>yesterday with his two kids, Lendon and Riley, and our

0:33:33.920 --> 0:33:36.960
<v Speaker 1>baby together Ocean, and we just like started on this

0:33:37.000 --> 0:33:39.400
<v Speaker 1>like tangent of like all of these things that have

0:33:39.480 --> 0:33:42.080
<v Speaker 1>happened in our lives that are like just stories where

0:33:42.080 --> 0:33:44.880
<v Speaker 1>it's like like, oh yeah, that's like kind of a

0:33:44.880 --> 0:33:48.680
<v Speaker 1>big deal, no wonder, you're so fucked up, So.

0:33:49.000 --> 0:33:50.680
<v Speaker 2>Well, let me tell you a story, because you told

0:33:50.720 --> 0:33:53.600
<v Speaker 2>your story yesterday like it was nothing, and I was

0:33:53.720 --> 0:33:57.160
<v Speaker 2>jaw dropped, jaw dropped, and Lala does not jow Let

0:33:57.160 --> 0:33:59.320
<v Speaker 2>me just set the record for people that are fans

0:33:59.360 --> 0:34:05.160
<v Speaker 2>of Lawn, I nothing shocks me anymore because she's taken

0:34:05.200 --> 0:34:07.680
<v Speaker 2>all the shock wave out of my body, like it

0:34:07.800 --> 0:34:12.239
<v Speaker 2>took about five years. And now whatever Lala says, I

0:34:12.320 --> 0:34:14.040
<v Speaker 2>don't get that. I'm gonna let Lata tell this story

0:34:14.040 --> 0:34:16.480
<v Speaker 2>because I won't tell it as good. But Lala told

0:34:16.520 --> 0:34:18.800
<v Speaker 2>me a story Gary, yes, straight, like it was nothing

0:34:18.840 --> 0:34:20.520
<v Speaker 2>like we were just when I was a kid. I

0:34:20.560 --> 0:34:22.560
<v Speaker 2>went for ice cream and this happened, and she just

0:34:22.640 --> 0:34:26.120
<v Speaker 2>told it so nonchalant, and I had to almost pull

0:34:26.200 --> 0:34:29.879
<v Speaker 2>the car over. I was in shock. And she's like,

0:34:30.040 --> 0:34:31.960
<v Speaker 2>I guess it is kind of crazy, this story. So

0:34:31.960 --> 0:34:34.279
<v Speaker 2>why don't you just share with your fans the non

0:34:34.400 --> 0:34:35.560
<v Speaker 2>chalot story you tell me?

0:34:35.760 --> 0:34:38.560
<v Speaker 1>I wait to hear this, okay, and my son's gonna

0:34:38.640 --> 0:34:40.400
<v Speaker 1>kill me, Shena kill me.

0:34:40.520 --> 0:34:41.040
<v Speaker 2>Oh yes.

0:34:41.440 --> 0:34:45.040
<v Speaker 1>So the thing about Lisa that's my mom is she's

0:34:45.080 --> 0:34:49.120
<v Speaker 1>fucking fabulous, all right. She's little clueless, little clueless, but

0:34:49.160 --> 0:34:54.480
<v Speaker 1>that's okay. So now that I have a baby, like

0:34:54.640 --> 0:34:57.359
<v Speaker 1>everything triggers me. I'm like, if that, if I do that,

0:34:57.360 --> 0:34:58.799
<v Speaker 1>that could happen to her, that could happen to her,

0:34:58.840 --> 0:35:02.399
<v Speaker 1>And the chances of those things happening very very low,

0:35:02.719 --> 0:35:07.680
<v Speaker 1>but they could happen, so I'm telling Randall, Easton must

0:35:07.719 --> 0:35:10.160
<v Speaker 1>have been I think he was like eleven, maybe twelve.

0:35:10.320 --> 0:35:14.120
<v Speaker 1>He was young, okay, young kid. And we were going

0:35:14.160 --> 0:35:18.439
<v Speaker 1>to a family dinner downtown Salt Lake, and we play

0:35:18.719 --> 0:35:23.319
<v Speaker 1>at a restaurant, yes, PF Changs, PF Changs. And the

0:35:23.360 --> 0:35:27.640
<v Speaker 1>thing about PF Chang's is the valet has to drive

0:35:28.400 --> 0:35:33.880
<v Speaker 1>like a few blocks to a tower to park the car. Right, okay,

0:35:34.080 --> 0:35:38.840
<v Speaker 1>so my mom's driving. We all get out. Lisa deals

0:35:38.840 --> 0:35:42.200
<v Speaker 1>with the valet. We're inside, we're seated. Whatever she walks in,

0:35:42.320 --> 0:35:42.759
<v Speaker 1>hold on, but.

0:35:42.840 --> 0:35:44.480
<v Speaker 2>Just take it by a scent. So you told up

0:35:44.480 --> 0:35:46.320
<v Speaker 2>the valet, Yeah, to get out of the family.

0:35:46.800 --> 0:35:49.040
<v Speaker 1>The family, the whole family, and you get out.

0:35:48.920 --> 0:35:50.719
<v Speaker 2>Of the car and all of you walk out the car

0:35:50.920 --> 0:35:52.640
<v Speaker 2>to the restaurant, get into the restaurant.

0:35:52.960 --> 0:35:56.000
<v Speaker 1>Deals with valet, comes into the restaurants, into the restaurant

0:35:56.440 --> 0:35:57.760
<v Speaker 1>and she like, sis.

0:35:57.440 --> 0:35:59.040
<v Speaker 2>Down, are you seated? Are you at the top?

0:35:59.040 --> 0:36:03.600
<v Speaker 1>I seated, honey, We got appetizers, drink and she sits

0:36:03.640 --> 0:36:06.640
<v Speaker 1>down to partake in the yumminess and then decides to

0:36:06.680 --> 0:36:12.280
<v Speaker 1>go where's Easton? We were like, well, Easton was asleep

0:36:12.280 --> 0:36:13.760
<v Speaker 1>in the back of the car with you.

0:36:13.760 --> 0:36:16.040
<v Speaker 2>I want you to take a moment, everybody who's listening

0:36:16.080 --> 0:36:18.759
<v Speaker 2>to this and hear what is being said. You're there

0:36:18.840 --> 0:36:20.960
<v Speaker 2>in the restaurant. They've walked from the valet. They are

0:36:21.200 --> 0:36:25.640
<v Speaker 2>order appetizers and have cocktails, and they are missing a child.

0:36:26.360 --> 0:36:32.640
<v Speaker 1>My mother fucking valeted the car.

0:36:33.200 --> 0:36:36.359
<v Speaker 2>She vallets your brother with Easton in.

0:36:36.360 --> 0:36:42.840
<v Speaker 1>The very bad seat, dead asleep. Okay, he's parked like probably.

0:36:42.400 --> 0:36:47.880
<v Speaker 4>A mile or two away, you know, if you break

0:36:47.920 --> 0:36:52.800
<v Speaker 4>down the valet tower and stretch it a few miles away.

0:36:53.040 --> 0:36:57.759
<v Speaker 1>Okay. She runs out and she's like, I valeied my

0:36:57.880 --> 0:37:03.480
<v Speaker 1>kid brother, right, So they put her in the back

0:37:03.480 --> 0:37:06.120
<v Speaker 1>of a car. They drive her up to the fucking

0:37:06.200 --> 0:37:13.160
<v Speaker 1>Valley Towner. There's Easton, dead asleep, still in the parking tower,

0:37:13.440 --> 0:37:14.560
<v Speaker 1>in the fucking car.

0:37:14.840 --> 0:37:19.240
<v Speaker 2>Oh honestly, I was dying yesterday. I could not believe

0:37:19.239 --> 0:37:22.080
<v Speaker 2>this is a real story. And Lala told it like

0:37:22.160 --> 0:37:23.239
<v Speaker 2>it was just well.

0:37:23.280 --> 0:37:25.640
<v Speaker 1>I figure eleven or twelve kids nowadays are like at

0:37:25.640 --> 0:37:28.360
<v Speaker 1>the mall Torking at that age, right.

0:37:28.400 --> 0:37:31.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, listen, I can't comment.

0:37:31.840 --> 0:37:33.920
<v Speaker 1>Back then, though, eleven or twelve was like young, like

0:37:33.960 --> 0:37:37.480
<v Speaker 1>we were skipping to school, still didn't have a cell phone,

0:37:37.920 --> 0:37:41.239
<v Speaker 1>like riding bikes. I love your mom so much.

0:37:41.280 --> 0:37:43.239
<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, she's so hilarious.

0:37:43.360 --> 0:37:47.440
<v Speaker 1>She's like I had her. She's like she's the best

0:37:47.480 --> 0:37:49.920
<v Speaker 1>mom in the world, Like she's my best friend in Easton's.

0:37:49.960 --> 0:37:54.440
<v Speaker 1>But these stories, I'm like, this is questionable. I don't

0:37:54.480 --> 0:37:58.680
<v Speaker 1>know about the question. She also and she actually got

0:37:58.760 --> 0:38:01.719
<v Speaker 1>d MS when I posted this on Tupac's birthday. So

0:38:01.760 --> 0:38:04.640
<v Speaker 1>to the Tupac CD was the first CD that my

0:38:04.680 --> 0:38:06.960
<v Speaker 1>mom ever bought for me because I wanted it. It's

0:38:06.960 --> 0:38:09.319
<v Speaker 1>said explicit content on there. I don't think she knew

0:38:09.320 --> 0:38:14.200
<v Speaker 1>what that meant, or she just didn't. I worked on

0:38:14.280 --> 0:38:16.239
<v Speaker 1>a road trip and we stop at McDonald's and I

0:38:16.239 --> 0:38:18.720
<v Speaker 1>had been listening to this Tupac CD and my Blue

0:38:18.760 --> 0:38:21.520
<v Speaker 1>Walkman the entire way and I'm We're in the line

0:38:21.560 --> 0:38:22.879
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like looking at my mom. Keep in mind,

0:38:22.920 --> 0:38:27.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm like seven, okay, okay, Yeah. I say to her,

0:38:28.680 --> 0:38:32.200
<v Speaker 1>the CD you bought me says a lot of bad words,

0:38:33.040 --> 0:38:34.839
<v Speaker 1>and I just remember her looking down and being like,

0:38:35.120 --> 0:38:37.200
<v Speaker 1>just ignore the bad words. What do you want to eat?

0:38:38.480 --> 0:38:40.000
<v Speaker 1>I was like, there's kind of a lot of them

0:38:40.000 --> 0:38:41.160
<v Speaker 1>that's gonna be hard to ignore.

0:38:42.640 --> 0:38:46.239
<v Speaker 3>I love her, though, that's she's she's an icon.

0:38:46.520 --> 0:38:49.840
<v Speaker 1>She has an icon. That's she got all these dms

0:38:49.880 --> 0:38:52.160
<v Speaker 1>that were like, you're such a shitty mom, and she

0:38:52.160 --> 0:38:54.200
<v Speaker 1>she calls me, She's like, all these people are talking

0:38:54.200 --> 0:38:55.879
<v Speaker 1>to me that I'm a bad mom. I wonder why.

0:38:55.880 --> 0:39:00.520
<v Speaker 1>I was like, it has to do post I did, Lisa.

0:39:00.640 --> 0:39:02.640
<v Speaker 2>I just want everydy to know. She's like, she is

0:39:02.680 --> 0:39:05.320
<v Speaker 2>your best friend and she's Randall.

0:39:05.440 --> 0:39:06.719
<v Speaker 1>Is that necessary a.

0:39:06.719 --> 0:39:12.200
<v Speaker 2>Pop I'm meaning a popsicleon so hold up? Okay, So

0:39:13.640 --> 0:39:16.279
<v Speaker 2>your mom is amazing, she's a great mother. She's with

0:39:16.360 --> 0:39:20.080
<v Speaker 2>you all the time. I don't know if she's gonna

0:39:20.120 --> 0:39:22.840
<v Speaker 2>think this was the best story to tell, but I

0:39:22.920 --> 0:39:23.560
<v Speaker 2>know what's great.

0:39:23.680 --> 0:39:28.799
<v Speaker 1>It's I tell you what's great. Though my mom has

0:39:28.840 --> 0:39:31.680
<v Speaker 1>not read my book, doesn't listen to my podcast, and

0:39:31.719 --> 0:39:33.959
<v Speaker 1>has never seen an episode of Vanner Pumper Roles. Still,

0:39:33.960 --> 0:39:36.400
<v Speaker 1>to this day, do you remember the last movie I

0:39:36.440 --> 0:39:40.719
<v Speaker 1>did Randall with you and Jesse Metcalf? The other day,

0:39:40.719 --> 0:39:42.840
<v Speaker 1>she's in town, right and I'm talking about it, and

0:39:42.880 --> 0:39:44.880
<v Speaker 1>she goes, oh, I still need to watch that. Like

0:39:45.480 --> 0:39:49.439
<v Speaker 1>I filmed that a year ago, maybe more like two

0:39:49.520 --> 0:39:51.719
<v Speaker 1>years ago. You still haven't seen it? What are you

0:39:51.760 --> 0:39:54.319
<v Speaker 1>talking about I had like three come outside of that.

0:39:54.600 --> 0:39:57.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm definitely telling your mother you told this story because

0:39:57.600 --> 0:39:58.239
<v Speaker 2>it's just good.

0:39:58.320 --> 0:39:59.160
<v Speaker 3>She's incredible.

0:39:59.320 --> 0:40:02.319
<v Speaker 2>She didn't, you know. Yesterday was a really fun day

0:40:02.360 --> 0:40:08.000
<v Speaker 2>because my oldest child, yes, all of a sudden, woke

0:40:08.120 --> 0:40:10.040
<v Speaker 2>up and told me she's like a surfer and I

0:40:10.080 --> 0:40:13.279
<v Speaker 2>was like, please London, Like what do you mean? And

0:40:13.280 --> 0:40:16.920
<v Speaker 2>then she shows me videos of her like shredding waves

0:40:16.960 --> 0:40:19.320
<v Speaker 2>and I was like, this is not real, like because

0:40:19.680 --> 0:40:21.600
<v Speaker 2>my seven year old is like more the active and

0:40:21.680 --> 0:40:24.000
<v Speaker 2>my eleven year old's more of the artist singer, you know,

0:40:24.960 --> 0:40:26.920
<v Speaker 2>you know actor. They're just very you know, very different

0:40:26.960 --> 0:40:30.480
<v Speaker 2>kids but similar. So anyway, I say to Laa, I'm

0:40:30.680 --> 0:40:32.839
<v Speaker 2>hire the surf coach. I'm going to take her out

0:40:32.920 --> 0:40:34.799
<v Speaker 2>to the to the beach and I want to check

0:40:34.800 --> 0:40:36.640
<v Speaker 2>this out. And I was like, let's go. We're making

0:40:36.640 --> 0:40:38.839
<v Speaker 2>a whole group effort, We're going out there. So we

0:40:38.960 --> 0:40:41.239
<v Speaker 2>drive like an hour. It's a it's a trek to

0:40:41.320 --> 0:40:43.759
<v Speaker 2>this speech where it's like beginning a sort of surf spot,

0:40:44.000 --> 0:40:46.400
<v Speaker 2>and then my eleven year old turns to me when

0:40:46.440 --> 0:40:47.920
<v Speaker 2>we get to the beach and she's like, Dad, you're

0:40:47.920 --> 0:40:49.359
<v Speaker 2>gonna go with me? And I was like, yo, yeah, yeah,

0:40:49.719 --> 0:40:53.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm fifty. You look hot, Okay, but I'm fifty and fifty.

0:40:54.320 --> 0:40:56.360
<v Speaker 2>I mean, but I float more than I surf. You

0:40:56.360 --> 0:41:01.520
<v Speaker 2>know what I'm saying. I like, these dudes out there

0:41:01.520 --> 0:41:04.440
<v Speaker 2>are shredded. Okay. I'm like, I'm the booie. You know

0:41:04.480 --> 0:41:06.440
<v Speaker 2>what I'm saying, Like, like, you come over to me.

0:41:06.480 --> 0:41:10.520
<v Speaker 2>If you're drowned, you gotta look hool in front of

0:41:10.520 --> 0:41:13.080
<v Speaker 2>your kids. So of course I'm an She knows I

0:41:13.080 --> 0:41:14.880
<v Speaker 2>can water skin. I'm big in the water stuff and

0:41:15.000 --> 0:41:18.680
<v Speaker 2>behind boats. But surfing means you have to propel yourself

0:41:18.800 --> 0:41:20.719
<v Speaker 2>up on a board, being I have to break my

0:41:20.800 --> 0:41:24.880
<v Speaker 2>weight above the water. Very not easy. So I'm not

0:41:24.920 --> 0:41:26.680
<v Speaker 2>happy about any of this. But of course I look

0:41:26.719 --> 0:41:28.520
<v Speaker 2>at her. And by the way, I'm grow up Florida,

0:41:28.520 --> 0:41:30.960
<v Speaker 2>where the water is eighty three degrees. Here it's like

0:41:31.160 --> 0:41:36.480
<v Speaker 2>sixty yeah cold, yeah, Pacific Ocean sharks. I'm just especially

0:41:36.560 --> 0:41:42.160
<v Speaker 2>Booye's it's like a lot of meats, you know, all right,

0:41:42.200 --> 0:41:45.120
<v Speaker 2>I got the point off. So you're out there, and

0:41:45.280 --> 0:41:46.920
<v Speaker 2>le I was like, yeah, go get him, and so

0:41:47.000 --> 0:41:48.640
<v Speaker 2>I put the wet suit on and the guy gives

0:41:48.680 --> 0:41:52.000
<v Speaker 2>us a little class on the board, and you know,

0:41:52.160 --> 0:41:54.120
<v Speaker 2>he's like you and my favorite part is like you're

0:41:54.160 --> 0:41:55.960
<v Speaker 2>laying on the board on the sand, and he goes

0:41:55.960 --> 0:41:57.480
<v Speaker 2>and then I'm going to count the three. You're just

0:41:57.480 --> 0:42:00.000
<v Speaker 2>gonna pop up. So I would like a guy that pops.

0:42:00.719 --> 0:42:03.000
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I can roll up like a roll up,

0:42:03.040 --> 0:42:05.040
<v Speaker 2>but I'm gonna pop up. What the fuck are you

0:42:05.120 --> 0:42:07.920
<v Speaker 2>talking about? I can barely get out of bed pop up,

0:42:08.480 --> 0:42:11.440
<v Speaker 2>so anyway, So yeah, he tells me, don't worry you.

0:42:11.520 --> 0:42:14.240
<v Speaker 2>He get on your knees first and then rise. I'm like, okay,

0:42:14.239 --> 0:42:17.440
<v Speaker 2>that sounds more of my speed. So we get our boards.

0:42:17.640 --> 0:42:20.479
<v Speaker 2>They're like ten feet tall, like these long parts. Okay,

0:42:20.719 --> 0:42:23.040
<v Speaker 2>my arm's already hurting carrying the ship from the sand

0:42:23.080 --> 0:42:26.120
<v Speaker 2>to the ocean, I'm already pissed. And Lala is over

0:42:26.120 --> 0:42:29.319
<v Speaker 2>there having a beach day and frigging. Riley's like Edges,

0:42:29.360 --> 0:42:31.200
<v Speaker 2>living her best life and whatever. So we get out

0:42:31.239 --> 0:42:35.200
<v Speaker 2>to the water and I'm just there to support, you know, London.

0:42:35.239 --> 0:42:37.880
<v Speaker 2>And we get out there and the first wave London gets,

0:42:37.920 --> 0:42:39.920
<v Speaker 2>she pops up and she serfs it all the way

0:42:39.960 --> 0:42:41.480
<v Speaker 2>to the beach. I'm like, oh my god, that was

0:42:41.520 --> 0:42:43.560
<v Speaker 2>so cool. And then she serves like six or seven

0:42:43.600 --> 0:42:45.640
<v Speaker 2>after that, and I think that I'm ever gonna I'm

0:42:45.680 --> 0:42:50.080
<v Speaker 2>just laying on the board like sun tanning. And then

0:42:50.200 --> 0:42:52.640
<v Speaker 2>you know, and then you know, good looking you know,

0:42:52.760 --> 0:42:55.840
<v Speaker 2>young kid whatever his name was, good looking young kids like,

0:42:55.840 --> 0:42:59.279
<v Speaker 2>all right, you're time turning pops you know whatever he pops,

0:42:59.280 --> 0:43:02.480
<v Speaker 2>But that's what he meant. He's like, he's like, all right, boy,

0:43:02.719 --> 0:43:05.200
<v Speaker 2>let's get up on the board. So I was like,

0:43:05.280 --> 0:43:08.600
<v Speaker 2>all right, Booey's turn. And I'm pissed because now I like,

0:43:08.680 --> 0:43:10.920
<v Speaker 2>my kid knows I can water ski like a rockstigger.

0:43:10.960 --> 0:43:12.600
<v Speaker 2>That did it. It's not a kid, but like, you

0:43:12.640 --> 0:43:14.879
<v Speaker 2>want to look cool in front of your kid. So

0:43:14.960 --> 0:43:16.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm just like, this is not where I want to

0:43:16.840 --> 0:43:18.920
<v Speaker 2>be right now in this moment. So so I'm laying

0:43:18.920 --> 0:43:20.600
<v Speaker 2>on the board. He's like, don't worry. I'm going to

0:43:20.680 --> 0:43:22.239
<v Speaker 2>push you into the wave. I'm going to push you

0:43:22.320 --> 0:43:24.239
<v Speaker 2>right into the wave. And I was like, great, and

0:43:24.280 --> 0:43:26.680
<v Speaker 2>I see this wave coming and it looks big. It's

0:43:26.719 --> 0:43:29.239
<v Speaker 2>way bigger than what I anticipated. I actually told him,

0:43:29.239 --> 0:43:30.759
<v Speaker 2>can you give me a little baby wave? And that

0:43:30.960 --> 0:43:33.120
<v Speaker 2>is a good one for you, meaning I needed the

0:43:33.160 --> 0:43:36.359
<v Speaker 2>bigger wave because of my weight. That's right, meant to say.

0:43:36.400 --> 0:43:37.759
<v Speaker 2>He didn't want to say it to me. And I

0:43:38.000 --> 0:43:39.520
<v Speaker 2>looked at him and I could tell in his eyes

0:43:39.640 --> 0:43:43.799
<v Speaker 2>like he was like, he's like, he's like, he's like,

0:43:43.800 --> 0:43:46.080
<v Speaker 2>you're a little bigger. You can't get the little baby

0:43:46.080 --> 0:43:50.200
<v Speaker 2>wave because you're not go A wave comes and believe

0:43:50.239 --> 0:43:52.440
<v Speaker 2>it or not, I got up on my knees and

0:43:52.480 --> 0:43:57.120
<v Speaker 2>I was shredding on my knees. Now, the people that

0:43:57.200 --> 0:44:00.640
<v Speaker 2>get up on surfboards in this area, they were getting

0:44:00.719 --> 0:44:03.760
<v Speaker 2>up the minute the wave came. I took a little longer.

0:44:03.920 --> 0:44:05.719
<v Speaker 2>Mine was. I was like in a meeting on my

0:44:05.800 --> 0:44:09.080
<v Speaker 2>knees for a few minutes that but but then I

0:44:09.160 --> 0:44:12.600
<v Speaker 2>took the gamble and I stood up and Lala, how

0:44:12.600 --> 0:44:15.360
<v Speaker 2>did I look? I caught waves yesterday?

0:44:15.680 --> 0:44:16.359
<v Speaker 1>I missed it?

0:44:16.760 --> 0:44:20.240
<v Speaker 2>What I missed? All of them? You lie?

0:44:20.400 --> 0:44:22.680
<v Speaker 3>You lie? When he asked, he said, you looked amazing.

0:44:23.120 --> 0:44:23.719
<v Speaker 1>Oh, we do.

0:44:24.320 --> 0:44:26.600
<v Speaker 2>And by the way, did you see me catch the waves?

0:44:27.320 --> 0:44:29.160
<v Speaker 2>I did? Were you impressed?

0:44:29.239 --> 0:44:30.160
<v Speaker 1>You looked amazing.

0:44:30.680 --> 0:44:33.320
<v Speaker 2>I'm just going to say something. This is the moral

0:44:33.360 --> 0:44:37.000
<v Speaker 2>of the story. I'm fifty years old, I am definitely

0:44:37.040 --> 0:44:41.359
<v Speaker 2>not a surf body by any means. But you know what,

0:44:41.400 --> 0:44:43.880
<v Speaker 2>you're never told to start. And I had the best

0:44:43.920 --> 0:44:45.680
<v Speaker 2>time yesterday. I swear, I swear to you.

0:44:45.680 --> 0:44:47.040
<v Speaker 1>I had the Saturday. It was awesome.

0:44:47.440 --> 0:44:49.440
<v Speaker 2>But I had the best time because I was in

0:44:49.480 --> 0:44:52.400
<v Speaker 2>the water with my kids doing an activity that I

0:44:52.400 --> 0:44:53.080
<v Speaker 2>thought I would never do.

0:44:53.239 --> 0:44:57.040
<v Speaker 1>I was not texting or facetiming their friends. Usually Randall

0:44:57.040 --> 0:44:59.000
<v Speaker 1>sits in the room while they text in FaceTime.

0:45:00.280 --> 0:45:02.520
<v Speaker 2>And the thing is, I was so impressed that I

0:45:02.640 --> 0:45:04.359
<v Speaker 2>that I pushed myself to do something that I never

0:45:04.400 --> 0:45:04.920
<v Speaker 2>thought I could do.

0:45:05.040 --> 0:45:07.080
<v Speaker 1>I was impressed by all of you yesterday, by the way.

0:45:07.120 --> 0:45:08.800
<v Speaker 2>And here's the best part of it all the highlight,

0:45:08.840 --> 0:45:12.680
<v Speaker 2>the icing on the cake. Riley, who never wanted to

0:45:12.719 --> 0:45:15.920
<v Speaker 2>serve zero interest zero, said, Dad, can I put my

0:45:15.960 --> 0:45:18.080
<v Speaker 2>wetsuit on and come out with you? I put her

0:45:18.120 --> 0:45:21.560
<v Speaker 2>on the board, We got her out. I surfed with

0:45:21.600 --> 0:45:23.759
<v Speaker 2>her on the same board. I popped up. Yeah, it

0:45:23.800 --> 0:45:26.040
<v Speaker 2>was really cute, and we surfed together. And now she

0:45:26.080 --> 0:45:28.440
<v Speaker 2>loves it. And now she loves it. They both love it.

0:45:28.480 --> 0:45:30.319
<v Speaker 2>So we're gonna go do it for like a week now,

0:45:30.360 --> 0:45:34.000
<v Speaker 2>Like they're like really into it, and I'm gonna try something.

0:45:33.719 --> 0:45:37.760
<v Speaker 1>That the parents these days have to do, like not surfing,

0:45:37.920 --> 0:45:41.960
<v Speaker 1>but just a camp because there's so much technology that

0:45:42.040 --> 0:45:47.400
<v Speaker 1>it's almost annoying. It's like, why do these children have

0:45:47.480 --> 0:45:51.359
<v Speaker 1>cell phones? Why does this seven year old know how

0:45:51.400 --> 0:45:54.520
<v Speaker 1>to zoom better than I do? Well because of the pandemic,

0:45:55.040 --> 0:45:56.880
<v Speaker 1>never mind, they should know how to zoom better than

0:45:56.880 --> 0:45:59.600
<v Speaker 1>I do. But I love that you guys did that

0:45:59.680 --> 0:46:02.040
<v Speaker 1>yesterday and now London wants to do surf camp every year.

0:46:02.160 --> 0:46:04.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. And by the way, and my kids, that's that's

0:46:04.040 --> 0:46:06.360
<v Speaker 2>a big thing about if you have kids. You know,

0:46:06.400 --> 0:46:08.080
<v Speaker 2>I went to Sleep with Camp my whole life as

0:46:08.080 --> 0:46:10.439
<v Speaker 2>a child. I loved it. And I and my kids

0:46:10.480 --> 0:46:12.640
<v Speaker 2>go to the same one that I went to, Camp Highlander.

0:46:12.960 --> 0:46:15.000
<v Speaker 2>Then they just came back from a month and they

0:46:15.040 --> 0:46:16.600
<v Speaker 2>both were in tears when I picked them up and

0:46:16.680 --> 0:46:20.000
<v Speaker 2>want to stay another two weeks. So camp is, in

0:46:20.040 --> 0:46:22.480
<v Speaker 2>my opinion, a magical thing, and it allows kids to

0:46:22.600 --> 0:46:25.400
<v Speaker 2>really just be kids with other kids, and it's just

0:46:25.480 --> 0:46:27.360
<v Speaker 2>really cool and you take all the electronics out of

0:46:27.400 --> 0:46:31.320
<v Speaker 2>it and just being you know, creative and active and yeah.

0:46:31.360 --> 0:46:34.040
<v Speaker 2>So you know, especially in Los Angeles where you know

0:46:34.719 --> 0:46:35.680
<v Speaker 2>it's just a you know.

0:46:35.840 --> 0:46:37.520
<v Speaker 1>It's a different it is a different.

0:46:37.239 --> 0:46:39.640
<v Speaker 2>Different thing, and I think you know. I love that

0:46:39.680 --> 0:46:41.560
<v Speaker 2>they go to the Blue Ridge Mountains in North Carolina,

0:46:42.000 --> 0:46:44.480
<v Speaker 2>just like I did, same camp, and they they love

0:46:44.520 --> 0:46:46.799
<v Speaker 2>it and I loved it. And even when I go there,

0:46:46.840 --> 0:46:49.319
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, can I teach an activity here? Can I say?

0:46:49.360 --> 0:46:50.200
<v Speaker 2>Can I have a job.

0:46:51.920 --> 0:46:54.760
<v Speaker 1>So much that during the pandemic he rented the camp

0:46:54.840 --> 0:46:57.400
<v Speaker 1>out for just our family and made us do activities,

0:46:57.640 --> 0:47:01.720
<v Speaker 1>which was amazing. I loved it. I loved it so much,

0:47:02.880 --> 0:47:05.839
<v Speaker 1>mostly because that's where I found out that I was

0:47:05.840 --> 0:47:10.080
<v Speaker 1>pregnant with Oh I know, I know, and that and

0:47:10.120 --> 0:47:11.440
<v Speaker 1>then Ocean.

0:47:11.440 --> 0:47:12.560
<v Speaker 2>One day when she's old.

0:47:12.440 --> 0:47:14.680
<v Speaker 1>Enough, we're not talking about it. I can't even go there.

0:47:15.239 --> 0:47:16.920
<v Speaker 2>By the way, the last time, I'm going to finish

0:47:17.160 --> 0:47:19.440
<v Speaker 2>that I love about law that people don't realize how

0:47:19.560 --> 0:47:22.000
<v Speaker 2>and love, you know. I mean, every mother I have

0:47:22.040 --> 0:47:23.759
<v Speaker 2>to assume is in love with their child, So I

0:47:23.800 --> 0:47:26.160
<v Speaker 2>give all mothers that. But Lala is so in love

0:47:26.160 --> 0:47:29.759
<v Speaker 2>with Ocean every second, every minute of the day that

0:47:29.880 --> 0:47:33.919
<v Speaker 2>if you mention anything about the future, anything, no, it's

0:47:33.920 --> 0:47:37.640
<v Speaker 2>a full either full meltdown in tears, or you get

0:47:37.680 --> 0:47:39.680
<v Speaker 2>shut down, like I just get shut down. Just now

0:47:40.160 --> 0:47:43.000
<v Speaker 2>we're allowed to talk about what she's doing right now.

0:47:43.320 --> 0:47:44.480
<v Speaker 2>Which is rolling over on her.

0:47:45.719 --> 0:47:47.520
<v Speaker 1>I can't even talk about it's already over. I can't

0:47:47.520 --> 0:47:50.680
<v Speaker 1>even deal. But I think, and I don't know if

0:47:50.680 --> 0:47:53.560
<v Speaker 1>anybody else had this, if they ever lost a parent,

0:47:53.640 --> 0:47:56.600
<v Speaker 1>But when I lost my dad, I realized, oh my god,

0:47:56.719 --> 0:47:59.799
<v Speaker 1>there was this one moment back in the day that

0:48:00.320 --> 0:48:03.160
<v Speaker 1>we were Rand got us a limo and it was me,

0:48:03.600 --> 0:48:06.239
<v Speaker 1>my mom, Easton, and my dad and we're driving up

0:48:06.280 --> 0:48:08.960
<v Speaker 1>to Park City and who even gets a limo anymore?

0:48:09.040 --> 0:48:09.160
<v Speaker 2>Right?

0:48:09.400 --> 0:48:13.640
<v Speaker 1>The things literally starts steaming. We're broken down on the

0:48:13.680 --> 0:48:16.000
<v Speaker 1>side of the road and me, I'm very high strung,

0:48:16.120 --> 0:48:18.800
<v Speaker 1>so when things don't when the wind blows in the

0:48:18.840 --> 0:48:21.280
<v Speaker 1>wrong direction, I'm thrown off by it. And it takes

0:48:21.280 --> 0:48:25.120
<v Speaker 1>me a while to try and process it. In this moment,

0:48:25.239 --> 0:48:27.520
<v Speaker 1>it was so weird because I looked at like my

0:48:27.719 --> 0:48:29.760
<v Speaker 1>dad and my mom and I was like, this moment

0:48:29.800 --> 0:48:32.200
<v Speaker 1>is never going to come back. You need to remember it.

0:48:32.640 --> 0:48:35.560
<v Speaker 1>And it was literally, I think maybe a year or

0:48:35.600 --> 0:48:37.840
<v Speaker 1>two later that we lost my dad, and I still

0:48:37.880 --> 0:48:40.720
<v Speaker 1>look back and think, I'm so glad that in that moment,

0:48:40.760 --> 0:48:44.040
<v Speaker 1>I was like, cherish this, Yes, it's never going to

0:48:44.080 --> 0:48:48.480
<v Speaker 1>come back. And I still think back on that and go,

0:48:48.560 --> 0:48:52.160
<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, like you actively told yourself, and I

0:48:52.200 --> 0:48:57.280
<v Speaker 1>remember that so vividly. Yes, So now since my dad's

0:48:57.280 --> 0:48:59.640
<v Speaker 1>passed away, and once that happened, I get very funny

0:48:59.640 --> 0:49:03.360
<v Speaker 1>with time. I'm little tiny things like ocean grabbing my finger.

0:49:03.440 --> 0:49:06.800
<v Speaker 2>It's like when when will her hands where she's grabbing

0:49:06.800 --> 0:49:07.640
<v Speaker 2>her hand and not your.

0:49:07.560 --> 0:49:09.839
<v Speaker 1>Finger, right, Like I look at pictures of her when

0:49:09.840 --> 0:49:13.400
<v Speaker 1>she was teeny tiny, like her her head in the

0:49:13.440 --> 0:49:16.640
<v Speaker 1>palm of my hand, and now she's like a baby.

0:49:17.080 --> 0:49:20.000
<v Speaker 1>So I'm very triggered when I think of things like that.

0:49:20.000 --> 0:49:21.879
<v Speaker 2>That makes sense. But that makes sense because you had

0:49:22.040 --> 0:49:25.719
<v Speaker 2>obviously traumatic loss at a very young age, right, and

0:49:25.800 --> 0:49:29.600
<v Speaker 2>it's not normal for you know, children to lose their parent.

0:49:29.640 --> 0:49:30.879
<v Speaker 1>At twenty seven.

0:49:30.960 --> 0:49:35.120
<v Speaker 2>Is that that's you know, unfathomable, And so that makes sense.

0:49:35.480 --> 0:49:38.600
<v Speaker 2>I guess you know now I understand more like that

0:49:38.760 --> 0:49:41.640
<v Speaker 2>you're holding on to brushious throes because you realize more

0:49:41.680 --> 0:49:43.279
<v Speaker 2>than most people that you know they can go.

0:49:43.440 --> 0:49:44.480
<v Speaker 1>It's not coming back right.

0:49:44.640 --> 0:49:46.560
<v Speaker 2>Right, You can't get you, so you want to take

0:49:46.600 --> 0:49:49.120
<v Speaker 2>it off. And I will say, you were reading from

0:49:49.200 --> 0:49:52.400
<v Speaker 2>your journal to me last night and you had something

0:49:52.400 --> 0:49:55.840
<v Speaker 2>that I was like, oh my god, really, time is moving,

0:49:56.040 --> 0:49:59.200
<v Speaker 2>even though it feels slow some days, Right, it's it's

0:49:59.239 --> 0:50:01.440
<v Speaker 2>moving so fat and you can't stop it. Well, it

0:50:01.920 --> 0:50:02.600
<v Speaker 2>never stopped me.

0:50:02.719 --> 0:50:05.120
<v Speaker 1>I started a journal for Ocean when I was twenty

0:50:05.160 --> 0:50:08.799
<v Speaker 1>eight weeks pregnant, and I looked back onto that time

0:50:08.840 --> 0:50:11.760
<v Speaker 1>and Randall had told me, because I was very hormonially depressing,

0:50:11.760 --> 0:50:13.759
<v Speaker 1>he said, you should start journaling for Ocean so that

0:50:13.800 --> 0:50:15.600
<v Speaker 1>one day she can read back and know what you

0:50:15.680 --> 0:50:19.160
<v Speaker 1>were doing when you were pregnant with her. I'm like, here,

0:50:19.200 --> 0:50:21.560
<v Speaker 1>I am at this journal entry and she's born a

0:50:21.600 --> 0:50:24.600
<v Speaker 1>half months, and I feel like I just wrote this

0:50:24.840 --> 0:50:28.000
<v Speaker 1>at twenty eight weeks talking about like what I did

0:50:28.040 --> 0:50:30.600
<v Speaker 1>that day. We were still right in the pandemic. We

0:50:30.640 --> 0:50:33.319
<v Speaker 1>couldn't go to restaurants. I'm like, that feels like years ago,

0:50:33.920 --> 0:50:37.320
<v Speaker 1>and this was yes Oh my god, it was yesterday,

0:50:37.360 --> 0:50:38.240
<v Speaker 1>and it's gone.

0:50:38.480 --> 0:50:39.880
<v Speaker 2>I mean we could, I mean there was nowhere to

0:50:39.920 --> 0:50:42.280
<v Speaker 2>go in California, where it's like a lot of places

0:50:42.320 --> 0:50:44.600
<v Speaker 2>open up. As you know, Florida and Texas and Georgia

0:50:44.600 --> 0:50:46.960
<v Speaker 2>a lot of places opened up. California was the last,

0:50:47.000 --> 0:50:50.240
<v Speaker 2>so like we really were on lockdown. So it feels

0:50:50.239 --> 0:50:52.400
<v Speaker 2>like a long time ago, but it was yesterday and

0:50:52.440 --> 0:50:53.640
<v Speaker 2>it was just minutes ago.

0:50:53.840 --> 0:50:56.960
<v Speaker 1>Are you thankful for that time though? Like you got.

0:50:57.080 --> 0:51:00.360
<v Speaker 3>Because you you had Ocean and then I mean you

0:51:00.400 --> 0:51:02.640
<v Speaker 3>couldn't really stop.

0:51:02.600 --> 0:51:03.759
<v Speaker 2>Do any well.

0:51:04.400 --> 0:51:05.960
<v Speaker 1>How short after you had Ocean?

0:51:06.120 --> 0:51:07.920
<v Speaker 3>Was it when vander pumper wle started? Because didn't you

0:51:07.960 --> 0:51:10.480
<v Speaker 3>get some extended time to just like be with your baby?

0:51:10.719 --> 0:51:15.239
<v Speaker 1>And No, I got two months. I was really no.

0:51:15.400 --> 0:51:20.400
<v Speaker 1>I was very lucky and fortunately got a real champion

0:51:20.800 --> 0:51:24.760
<v Speaker 1>weeks two weeks, Oh wow. And she Anda's baby couldn't

0:51:24.800 --> 0:51:28.840
<v Speaker 1>film because you have to be I think six weeks

0:51:29.000 --> 0:51:32.120
<v Speaker 1>or fifteen days. You have to be fifteen days. So

0:51:32.160 --> 0:51:34.279
<v Speaker 1>she wasn't Her baby wasn't even two weeks old when

0:51:34.280 --> 0:51:35.200
<v Speaker 1>we went back to filming.

0:51:35.360 --> 0:51:35.920
<v Speaker 3>Oh wow.

0:51:36.280 --> 0:51:39.600
<v Speaker 1>So she is a real champer here. Her baby fed

0:51:39.640 --> 0:51:43.680
<v Speaker 1>after she hit the fifteen day. But I mean, I

0:51:43.719 --> 0:51:46.160
<v Speaker 1>can't even imagine. At least I got two months to

0:51:46.360 --> 0:51:49.359
<v Speaker 1>like literally do nothing but stare at Ocean. Yeah.

0:51:49.760 --> 0:51:52.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Well, I think it's been a fun episode, and

0:51:52.600 --> 0:51:53.840
<v Speaker 2>we've introduced Jessica.

0:51:54.120 --> 0:51:56.600
<v Speaker 3>It's nice to meet you guys.

0:51:57.040 --> 0:51:59.719
<v Speaker 1>Can I tell you something, Jessica is the best thing

0:51:59.760 --> 0:52:02.000
<v Speaker 1>that's happened to me since Randal and Ocean.

0:52:02.200 --> 0:52:02.880
<v Speaker 3>Oh my god.

0:52:03.480 --> 0:52:04.919
<v Speaker 1>Wow yeah for real?

0:52:05.200 --> 0:52:06.480
<v Speaker 2>Wow wow?

0:52:06.800 --> 0:52:08.160
<v Speaker 1>Like what even is an email?

0:52:08.280 --> 0:52:08.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't know?

0:52:08.760 --> 0:52:11.840
<v Speaker 1>Jessica checks them? Now, what even is a calendar? I

0:52:11.880 --> 0:52:14.600
<v Speaker 1>don't know. Jessica deals with it. It's awesome.

0:52:15.760 --> 0:52:17.279
<v Speaker 5>Before we go off the air, can you just tell

0:52:17.320 --> 0:52:21.439
<v Speaker 5>people when I suggested an assistant very kindly, even after

0:52:21.520 --> 0:52:24.400
<v Speaker 5>we had hired Jessica, before she had started, how you

0:52:24.440 --> 0:52:27.760
<v Speaker 5>wanted to let go of Jessicas.

0:52:26.840 --> 0:52:29.440
<v Speaker 1>Nothing to do with No, No, No. My biggest thing

0:52:29.560 --> 0:52:32.960
<v Speaker 1>was like, is she going to be bored working for me? Like?

0:52:33.080 --> 0:52:35.840
<v Speaker 1>Do I have enough going on for me to have

0:52:35.880 --> 0:52:39.120
<v Speaker 1>an assistant? I literally was going to text you before

0:52:39.160 --> 0:52:39.640
<v Speaker 1>you started.

0:52:40.440 --> 0:52:42.960
<v Speaker 2>I know she was going to say, but I saved you, Jessica,

0:52:43.120 --> 0:52:44.000
<v Speaker 2>So let me tell you something.

0:52:44.280 --> 0:52:45.920
<v Speaker 1>Well, you saved me. It had nothing to do with you.

0:52:46.000 --> 0:52:48.520
<v Speaker 2>No, but it's a great story because I said to

0:52:48.600 --> 0:52:51.200
<v Speaker 2>Lala that night, I said, Lala sent me. You've called

0:52:51.200 --> 0:52:53.840
<v Speaker 2>me now four times. I am telling you that you

0:52:53.880 --> 0:52:56.520
<v Speaker 2>don't have a choice. You are too busy. Jessica will

0:52:56.560 --> 0:52:58.839
<v Speaker 2>show up tomorrow morning. You'll spend two weeks with her.

0:52:59.160 --> 0:53:02.000
<v Speaker 2>If you don't feel you have a reason for an assistant,

0:53:02.280 --> 0:53:04.600
<v Speaker 2>then at that point you can part ways. Yeah, but

0:53:04.640 --> 0:53:08.000
<v Speaker 2>I am telling you that you need this, And after

0:53:08.160 --> 0:53:10.879
<v Speaker 2>two days she called me and goes, I am never

0:53:10.960 --> 0:53:15.799
<v Speaker 2>getting rid of this. But she no, she didn't know

0:53:16.280 --> 0:53:18.960
<v Speaker 2>had an assistant, and she was so overwhelmed at that

0:53:19.040 --> 0:53:21.600
<v Speaker 2>point in her life she didn't know anything different. Now

0:53:21.760 --> 0:53:25.160
<v Speaker 2>her life feels she feels so like organized and happy

0:53:25.280 --> 0:53:26.160
<v Speaker 2>and calm.

0:53:26.760 --> 0:53:26.920
<v Speaker 5>Good.

0:53:27.120 --> 0:53:29.680
<v Speaker 3>Well, I was shocked after the first two days. I

0:53:29.719 --> 0:53:32.920
<v Speaker 3>think it was. I was like, how how have you

0:53:33.000 --> 0:53:35.600
<v Speaker 3>been doing this by yourself? Because me, I was working

0:53:36.000 --> 0:53:39.840
<v Speaker 3>morning till evening emails and communicating. I was like, where

0:53:39.960 --> 0:53:40.479
<v Speaker 3>was your help?

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<v Speaker 2>I was shocked that you went as long as you did.

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<v Speaker 1>It really is yeah, I know, And now Jessica's swooped

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<v Speaker 1>in and saved my entire life.

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<v Speaker 2>Real Jessica. Jessica and Anna, our other assistant, are both

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<v Speaker 2>coming to Bravo Kan in October, their first Bravo con

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<v Speaker 2>or second, because there's only been two.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you, if you're looking to hire an assistant,

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<v Speaker 1>having a female is the only way to go. No

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<v Speaker 1>a fund, Sean, but for real to get this, get

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<v Speaker 1>that shit done. On that note, on the female empowerment note,

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<v Speaker 1>last reminder, We're going on tour. Get your tickets at

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<v Speaker 1>give Them Live dot com. Thank you so much for

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<v Speaker 1>listening to another episode To Give Them La La with Randall,

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<v Speaker 1>and we will talk to you next week.