1
00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:12,360
Speaker 1: Hey, George, La Cans with Rand we are back were

2
00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:13,040
Speaker 1: back at it.

3
00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:15,560
Speaker 2: We are back at it. Lots to talk about today.

4
00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:17,000
Speaker 2: Very exciting first time.

5
00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:18,640
Speaker 1: A little bit lighter than last week.

6
00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:21,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure. No, last week was great and we

7
00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:22,240
Speaker 2: loved Nick Ritchie.

8
00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:23,840
Speaker 1: No, last week was epic.

9
00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:26,320
Speaker 2: I'm going to say something right now to everybody listening

10
00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:32,280
Speaker 2: podcast Tour, Podcast Tour, Podcast Tour, come on the train

11
00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:33,840
Speaker 2: and all of them.

12
00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:38,159
Speaker 1: Do you think it's going to be this echoey.

13
00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:39,760
Speaker 2: No, I think that you're overthinking things. We're talking about

14
00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:41,760
Speaker 2: podcast or Okay, don't break up my thoughts.

15
00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:44,479
Speaker 1: As the podcast tour.

16
00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:49,120
Speaker 2: Austin, Houston, Dallas, Miami for Lauderdale with the clear Water,

17
00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:53,120
Speaker 2: Atlanta and New Orleans. Wherever we are, please come, please

18
00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:57,760
Speaker 2: come see give them. Lala with n I want to

19
00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:00,760
Speaker 2: tell everybody some exciting things. We haven't even announce this

20
00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:05,360
Speaker 2: to anybody, but we actually have a game that we're

21
00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:09,759
Speaker 2: playing on our podcast tour called the Dating Game, How

22
00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:12,920
Speaker 2: well do you know your mate? Now, there's going to

23
00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:16,559
Speaker 2: be two couples, a celebrity couple and an audience couple

24
00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:18,160
Speaker 2: that we pick out of the audience, and then they're

25
00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:20,480
Speaker 2: gonna they're gonna ask us questions about you and me,

26
00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:21,880
Speaker 2: and we have to see if we know each other

27
00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:24,120
Speaker 2: as well as we think we do to win a

28
00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:26,960
Speaker 2: prize correct, And we're going to ask them questions of

29
00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:28,880
Speaker 2: an audience. A couple that we don't know at all,

30
00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:30,520
Speaker 2: we're going to see if they know each other well

31
00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:33,600
Speaker 2: enough or they're full of shit and they can win

32
00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:35,600
Speaker 2: a prize. And then we want to let people know

33
00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:39,120
Speaker 2: that on a few of our dates are different cities,

34
00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:42,480
Speaker 2: we're gonna have different celebrity couples. The first couple we

35
00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:44,360
Speaker 2: do want to announce that's going to be in this

36
00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:50,200
Speaker 2: particular segment is our friend Hannah from The Bachelor.

37
00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:52,320
Speaker 1: Yes, Hannah Godwin and her Man.

38
00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:55,840
Speaker 2: Hannah Godwin and her Man are going to be on

39
00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:58,520
Speaker 2: that segment at a bunch of cities, and every week

40
00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:03,120
Speaker 2: we're gonna announce more celebrity action pack games our tour.

41
00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:04,480
Speaker 2: I just want to make it clear before we go

42
00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:05,720
Speaker 2: in on our podcast. Hold on, I'm going to just

43
00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:07,360
Speaker 2: keep speaking. I swear all shut up because I can

44
00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:09,400
Speaker 2: see you want to just just kick my ass.

45
00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:11,359
Speaker 1: Can I tell you the number one thing, by the way,

46
00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:15,560
Speaker 1: we have my assistant. That's right, I have an assistant.

47
00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:19,760
Speaker 1: Randall is on one hundred today. I have an assistant.

48
00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:23,640
Speaker 1: That is correct because Randall got sick of me hijacking

49
00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:28,679
Speaker 1: his assistant to do things for me. So we have Jessica.

50
00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:34,560
Speaker 2: Hi, jess Jessica, Jessica's first time on the show. I

51
00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:37,680
Speaker 2: gotta say something that people don't know Jessica, but Jessica

52
00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:42,000
Speaker 2: could be one of the happiest assistants. Like Jessica is

53
00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:43,480
Speaker 2: the Disneyland of assistance.

54
00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:46,000
Speaker 1: Yes, Like if you're going to know Randall calls her bubbles.

55
00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:49,920
Speaker 2: I say that she's got the bubbly, happiest personality. And

56
00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:52,760
Speaker 2: that is the biggest compliment because I have never seen

57
00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:56,480
Speaker 2: an assistant ever come around anybody I am.

58
00:02:56,639 --> 00:03:00,360
Speaker 1: That's because she works for me, not you, Laala.

59
00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:03,400
Speaker 2: With all due respect, you can go the other way

60
00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:05,280
Speaker 2: very quickly, but I just want.

61
00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:07,720
Speaker 1: That was actually one of my first interview questions for

62
00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:09,440
Speaker 1: her is do you know how to shake things off?

63
00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:10,280
Speaker 2: Yes?

64
00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:15,079
Speaker 3: Your first interview question was if I knew what give

65
00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:17,320
Speaker 3: them Laala was, and I was like, yes, of.

66
00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:18,799
Speaker 2: Course she'd get a research issues.

67
00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:19,560
Speaker 3: No, it's not.

68
00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:20,360
Speaker 1: It's because I knew.

69
00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:23,880
Speaker 3: I did my research, but I knew what give them all?

70
00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:25,040
Speaker 3: I followed, you.

71
00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:27,680
Speaker 2: Can I can I just say one thing because because

72
00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:30,720
Speaker 2: we just skipped right over the podcast, just I mean,

73
00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:32,720
Speaker 2: that's where sorry, And I want to get back to

74
00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:35,440
Speaker 2: Jessica because I have questions for Jessica. I just want

75
00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:38,680
Speaker 2: to say something back to the tour. I want people.

76
00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:40,240
Speaker 1: To know, well, I was bringing it back to the tour.

77
00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:42,840
Speaker 2: I want people to know very importantly that we've been

78
00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:44,600
Speaker 2: putting the show formatt together.

79
00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:47,119
Speaker 1: I was I was saying I was going to weigh

80
00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:50,760
Speaker 1: in on the tour, rand and then you sidetracked me,

81
00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:52,840
Speaker 1: and then I was going to tell Jessica that number

82
00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:56,280
Speaker 1: the number one thing on people that were like, this

83
00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:59,120
Speaker 1: is what I may change about the podcast. Randall doesn't

84
00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:02,920
Speaker 1: let Lalla talk, So let me weigh in for a sec.

85
00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:06,839
Speaker 1: My most exciting thing that we're going to do on

86
00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:10,280
Speaker 1: the tour is I'm going to go and sit in

87
00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:14,280
Speaker 1: the audience and let whoever I'm sitting next to ask

88
00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:17,640
Speaker 1: me anything in the entire world.

89
00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:22,520
Speaker 2: On that segment called ask Laala Anything. Yes, I want

90
00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:24,880
Speaker 2: people to know anything anything, No one, I want people

91
00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:26,240
Speaker 2: to know something. That's what it's just trying to get

92
00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:29,120
Speaker 2: out a broad statement here. We've been working on the

93
00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:31,680
Speaker 2: format of the show. You and I and I've wanted

94
00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:33,320
Speaker 2: the show to be what you want it to be

95
00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:35,960
Speaker 2: because it's your fans. You know, I've got a point

96
00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:38,960
Speaker 2: one percent there, and I want people to know that

97
00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:41,920
Speaker 2: you and I have really made it what you want

98
00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:46,080
Speaker 2: it to be, which is a very interactive show with

99
00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:50,960
Speaker 2: the audience, even though we're putting on an entertaining, you know,

100
00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:54,200
Speaker 2: event for the night for everybody. We want people to

101
00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:56,680
Speaker 2: feel like we're in their living room, right And you

102
00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:58,560
Speaker 2: went out of your way to say to me as

103
00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:01,920
Speaker 2: we design all the different fun segments that you want

104
00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:04,160
Speaker 2: to be interactive throughout the entire night with the audience.

105
00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:06,000
Speaker 2: And I just want people to know that when you

106
00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:09,200
Speaker 2: come to the Give Them Laala with Rand tour, you're

107
00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:12,320
Speaker 2: going to spend a lot of time with Laala in

108
00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:16,040
Speaker 2: your face, in the audience, on your lap, talking shit,

109
00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:18,359
Speaker 2: making you do shots. It's going to be off the charts.

110
00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:20,200
Speaker 1: Do you think that'll be a detour for people? They're like,

111
00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:21,720
Speaker 1: we like Lalla, but we don't know that we want

112
00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:25,560
Speaker 1: to interface that much. I think people will dig it.

113
00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:28,640
Speaker 2: I think people that are coming to see Laala want

114
00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:31,599
Speaker 2: to be up in Lalla's business. Okay, yeah, and I'm gonna,

115
00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:32,719
Speaker 2: I'm gonna, I'm gonna let you go.

116
00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:35,240
Speaker 1: I feel like I don't want to hold anything back.

117
00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:37,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Lala's less.

118
00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:39,880
Speaker 3: Than I love that, and I'm the most excited, I think,

119
00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:44,520
Speaker 3: for people to realize just how funny you are. You guys,

120
00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:46,600
Speaker 3: Lalla is one of the funniest people I know. And

121
00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:51,000
Speaker 3: that's for me saying that it's it's wild.

122
00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:53,239
Speaker 1: So I don't think very many people are funny.

123
00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:56,320
Speaker 3: Just no, I do not think very I think Lala

124
00:05:56,520 --> 00:05:59,120
Speaker 3: comes in a number one, Randall comes in at number two,

125
00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:01,760
Speaker 3: and then, like other comedians.

126
00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:04,200
Speaker 2: Hold on, hold on goes listen to that. Oh that's

127
00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:07,600
Speaker 2: Jessica kissing her boss's ask did everybody know that I did?

128
00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:08,600
Speaker 2: I did? I did?

129
00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:11,440
Speaker 1: I don't feel that way. I feel like there's been

130
00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:13,719
Speaker 1: so many times where I'm like, hey, have you seen

131
00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:17,440
Speaker 1: my Instagram page? Like it looks pretty good, and she's like, no, really,

132
00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:18,640
Speaker 1: you need to step your game up.

133
00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:21,320
Speaker 2: I think jess I think jess that was a big

134
00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:23,160
Speaker 2: kisss move. But there's nothing wrong with that because when

135
00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:25,200
Speaker 2: I was an assistant, when I was in a system,

136
00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:26,839
Speaker 2: I did that shit too, So it's no problem. But

137
00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:28,479
Speaker 2: I will say that Jessica.

138
00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:29,360
Speaker 1: Is I think I'm funny.

139
00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:32,799
Speaker 2: Hold On, first of all, I definitely think you're funny.

140
00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:35,320
Speaker 2: If I didn't think you were funny, I wouldn't have

141
00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:37,800
Speaker 2: been hanging out with you this long. You're pretty funny, Okay,

142
00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:40,240
Speaker 2: I don't think people. I think Jessica's point is valid.

143
00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:42,600
Speaker 2: I think that people don't realize because you come across

144
00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:45,680
Speaker 2: so hard and so you know, tough, and you know,

145
00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:49,040
Speaker 2: you're very in people's faces, and you have a very

146
00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:52,400
Speaker 2: smart tongue and all that. But I think that Jessica's right.

147
00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:55,000
Speaker 2: People don't see that other side of you, and I hope. Well,

148
00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:57,039
Speaker 2: I mean, I know for sure, the way we're doing

149
00:06:57,040 --> 00:06:59,680
Speaker 2: this tour and all these fun segments and episodes and

150
00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:01,719
Speaker 2: different things we're doing, people are going to definitely see.

151
00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:04,000
Speaker 2: I agree with Jessica, they are going to see that

152
00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:04,719
Speaker 2: funny side of you.

153
00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:07,440
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I really needed the boost of

154
00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:09,159
Speaker 1: like egoists today.

155
00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:10,280
Speaker 4: I don't know.

156
00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:11,800
Speaker 1: I woke up and I was like, my ego is

157
00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:15,080
Speaker 1: a little deflated. I don't know why I need someone

158
00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:18,440
Speaker 1: to repuff it up. So I appreciate you both.

159
00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:20,200
Speaker 3: It's the truth.

160
00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:22,800
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I find Jessica every day and you just

161
00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:23,520
Speaker 2: wake up and you.

162
00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:27,240
Speaker 1: Just say you do you have multiple.

163
00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:35,280
Speaker 2: Sean Sean am I funny, oh top five in the office,

164
00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:36,640
Speaker 2: because there's only five of us here.

165
00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:39,640
Speaker 1: Sean doesn't even know his name half the time.

166
00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:42,440
Speaker 2: I want to say that Sean Stone, by the way,

167
00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:44,720
Speaker 2: which is very exciting, and go to his Instagram, very exciting.

168
00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:49,160
Speaker 2: My assistant Sean Stone made his debut on vander Rupp

169
00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:51,520
Speaker 2: Rules this season, so let's give Sean out of the

170
00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:56,560
Speaker 2: class Sean anyway. So I'm just the only reason I

171
00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:58,440
Speaker 2: want to start podcast before we get into the good

172
00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:00,240
Speaker 2: fun stuff, is that I do want people to our

173
00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:03,440
Speaker 2: tour that they don't realize how I don't think people

174
00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:05,760
Speaker 2: realize I didn't realize them. You committed to the tour,

175
00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:10,360
Speaker 2: how much work we've had to do, rehearsal and ideas

176
00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:13,120
Speaker 2: and segments, and just really really make it because you've

177
00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:16,240
Speaker 2: said to me, I'm not doing this tour unless it's

178
00:08:16,240 --> 00:08:20,360
Speaker 2: exactly what my fans you can really sore, right.

179
00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:22,360
Speaker 1: I also respect the fact that people are going to

180
00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:25,680
Speaker 1: like pay money to come and see something. So it's

181
00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:30,120
Speaker 1: like me just showing up. It's like you're not fucking Beyonce.

182
00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:34,640
Speaker 1: You can't just show up like you better bring something cool, right.

183
00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:37,040
Speaker 2: Right, But that's what I think. I want people to

184
00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:40,840
Speaker 2: know that you have been every night with me. You'll

185
00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:42,680
Speaker 2: give me notes and you'll give me the paper and

186
00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:44,600
Speaker 2: we'll go through the segments and you're like, it's not

187
00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:46,559
Speaker 2: funny or I don't think I think fans will be

188
00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:48,560
Speaker 2: bored with this. Let's throw it out and you keep

189
00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:52,280
Speaker 2: reinventing the show and we keep pushing because you're saying

190
00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:56,400
Speaker 2: to me, I'm not signing off on the night until

191
00:08:56,440 --> 00:08:59,400
Speaker 2: I feel that the fans can soak it up and

192
00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:01,760
Speaker 2: really get at something and have fun and laugh and

193
00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:04,440
Speaker 2: have a fun night and make it interactive. You're not

194
00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:07,040
Speaker 2: the way the show lineup is right now. People don't realize.

195
00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:09,040
Speaker 2: Fans don't realize when they come, if they buy a ticket,

196
00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:13,640
Speaker 2: you're in the audience, I would say twenty thirty minutes.

197
00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:15,439
Speaker 2: I mean, I mean you're in there a lot. I

198
00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:17,280
Speaker 2: mean you really put yourself in there a lot. And

199
00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:19,680
Speaker 2: we're going to have over ten or twelve fans on

200
00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:22,320
Speaker 2: stage throughout the night, So this is really going to

201
00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:26,920
Speaker 2: be a really fun, interactive Let it go, Let it

202
00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:29,240
Speaker 2: go and just have a blast. So I'm excited. I'm

203
00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:30,280
Speaker 2: excited to see how it goes.

204
00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:34,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm super excited too. So again, you guys, Randall

205
00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:37,240
Speaker 1: and I are going on tour. It is called Give

206
00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:41,120
Speaker 1: Them La La with Randall Live. It starts November thirtieth.

207
00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:44,960
Speaker 1: We start in Dallas, Texas, then we hit Austin, Houston,

208
00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:47,160
Speaker 1: then we head to New Orleans. That's going to be

209
00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:49,640
Speaker 1: so fun. All of these are going to be fun.

210
00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:54,079
Speaker 1: Then December fifth, we're in Fort Lauderdale, then Clearwater, then Orlando,

211
00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:58,840
Speaker 1: and then our last stop is Hot Lanta. I'm so excited.

212
00:09:58,920 --> 00:10:01,400
Speaker 2: And we've sold out a couple of the VIP me

213
00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:03,680
Speaker 2: and greets. I think they're opening up a few more spots.

214
00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:06,320
Speaker 1: They are because actually I didn't realize how like in

215
00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:08,959
Speaker 1: demand the VIPs would be. Those sold out.

216
00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:10,600
Speaker 2: So fast, yeah, where those were like.

217
00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:12,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, we add some more.

218
00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:14,880
Speaker 2: And I also want people to know and part of

219
00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:16,679
Speaker 2: our show. And that's why it's so interactive. That's why

220
00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:17,960
Speaker 2: you went out of your way to make sure that

221
00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:19,840
Speaker 2: as we do the lineup, you said, you know, I

222
00:10:19,840 --> 00:10:21,240
Speaker 2: want it to be so interactive. I want people to

223
00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:22,680
Speaker 2: know even if you don't get a meet and great,

224
00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:25,440
Speaker 2: you will be meeting Laala. Whether you like it or not,

225
00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:27,160
Speaker 2: she will be in your face in that audience. So

226
00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:32,760
Speaker 2: we have a whole section called insta Selfie Time. So

227
00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:34,319
Speaker 2: that's where Lala is just going to bust through the

228
00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:36,040
Speaker 2: audience and selfie herself. So there you go.

229
00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:43,720
Speaker 1: It's all about selfie myself with them by yourself. Yeah right,

230
00:10:43,960 --> 00:10:46,440
Speaker 1: So if you want to come play with us again,

231
00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:49,440
Speaker 1: gets on Laala with Rand. All you have to do

232
00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:52,720
Speaker 1: is go to give them Live dot com.

233
00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:55,920
Speaker 2: All right, So big news in the vander Pump Rules world,

234
00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:58,400
Speaker 2: as you know, Jessica, Hold.

235
00:10:58,280 --> 00:10:59,920
Speaker 1: Up, are we just going to jump right into vander

236
00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:03,920
Speaker 1: Rules world when you literally just had a movie come

237
00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:06,800
Speaker 1: out called Midnight in the Switchgrass. Don't know if anyone's

238
00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:07,240
Speaker 1: heard of it.

239
00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:11,120
Speaker 2: That's what us great great, great night. You know what.

240
00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:13,880
Speaker 2: We had the premiere last week. It was really special.

241
00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:15,800
Speaker 2: You know what I feel like, it's talking about me

242
00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:17,960
Speaker 2: is just odd because I talk so much and I

243
00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:20,920
Speaker 2: want your fans to hear you. But they like you.

244
00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:23,360
Speaker 1: That's why it's called give them La La with Rand.

245
00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:25,760
Speaker 2: And that's just it's called that's bullshit. It's called give

246
00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:27,800
Speaker 2: them the La with Rand because.

247
00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:31,080
Speaker 1: I'm just here No, that's what makes the name funny

248
00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:34,720
Speaker 1: because it's like give them laala with Randall, but really

249
00:11:34,760 --> 00:11:37,200
Speaker 1: it's like it's the two of us that a compliment. No,

250
00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:39,280
Speaker 1: it's so I'm telling you how it's said because it's

251
00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:41,800
Speaker 1: supposed to be funny. But the podcast is about you

252
00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:42,559
Speaker 1: and me, babe.

253
00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:46,120
Speaker 2: Okay, So I did have a premiere. It was fantastic,

254
00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:49,959
Speaker 2: very proud. Everybody came out, and I will just say

255
00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:52,000
Speaker 2: it was a really neat experience because I've I've had

256
00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:54,640
Speaker 2: a lot of premieres in my career as a producer,

257
00:11:54,840 --> 00:11:57,840
Speaker 2: never one as a director. And the one thing I

258
00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:00,319
Speaker 2: take away from the premiere that will never happen again

259
00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:02,760
Speaker 2: is I will never sit in the movie theater of

260
00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:07,200
Speaker 2: a movie I direct. That was intense, depressing and overwhelming,

261
00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:10,360
Speaker 2: and only just because it's like I really put my

262
00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:12,960
Speaker 2: soul into that film, and as a director, that's what

263
00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:15,360
Speaker 2: you do much different than a producer. I'm not saying that.

264
00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:18,400
Speaker 1: You were actually really funny like at the premiere because

265
00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:22,240
Speaker 1: we're sitting there yea, and literally it would have been

266
00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:24,720
Speaker 1: like five minutes the film was five minutes in and

267
00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:26,959
Speaker 1: Randa was like, it's not very good. Do you think

268
00:12:26,960 --> 00:12:29,800
Speaker 1: it's good. It sucks right, it does it. I'm like it,

269
00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:33,160
Speaker 1: Like the credits are still popping about what the fuck

270
00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:36,800
Speaker 1: are you talking about? You know, it's right. And I

271
00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:40,520
Speaker 1: was like very impressed with everyone's performances. And I think

272
00:12:40,559 --> 00:12:45,040
Speaker 1: that everyone committed to their character. Like Emil is obviously

273
00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:50,800
Speaker 1: insanely talented, Caitlin Carmichael was committed to her role. I mean,

274
00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:55,200
Speaker 1: Lucas Hawes, you can't go wrong. Megan Fox, who you know,

275
00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:58,800
Speaker 1: she's just badass. I mean MGK brought his own grill

276
00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:00,920
Speaker 1: to like put in for him his character, like he

277
00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:03,119
Speaker 1: was in charge of like his hairdo, like he committed

278
00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:03,640
Speaker 1: to the role.

279
00:13:03,920 --> 00:13:07,680
Speaker 2: Listen, everybody on the movie. Everybody in the movie is

280
00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:11,960
Speaker 2: an incredible actor. I'm very grateful as a first time director,

281
00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:14,199
Speaker 2: I had a great cast. I wouldn't trade it for

282
00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:17,080
Speaker 2: the world. I wouldn't change anything. And I'm just proud

283
00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:20,120
Speaker 2: of what everybody did on the film. And now I'm

284
00:13:20,280 --> 00:13:23,840
Speaker 2: editing my second movie I directed with Robert de Niro

285
00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:28,080
Speaker 2: and John Moultviitch and Jack Houston Fitzgerald, and I learned

286
00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:30,560
Speaker 2: a lot from the first one, and I'm even more

287
00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:33,840
Speaker 2: excited now to continue the journey. So thank you for

288
00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:35,560
Speaker 2: being there and thank you for supporting me.

289
00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:37,959
Speaker 1: We are very proud of you, baby, oh for real.

290
00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:40,839
Speaker 2: And by the way, we were number two on rent

291
00:13:40,840 --> 00:13:44,240
Speaker 2: all time rentals on iTunes and number two and all

292
00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:47,720
Speaker 2: time sales I mean not sales for iTunes this weekend.

293
00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:51,199
Speaker 2: So that is like for an independent, lower budgeted film,

294
00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:52,920
Speaker 2: that's a big deal to break in the top.

295
00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:54,520
Speaker 1: Are you allowed to tell us what the budget was

296
00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:55,480
Speaker 1: to make that film?

297
00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:58,040
Speaker 2: It was a low budget. He's a lower budget. I

298
00:13:58,080 --> 00:13:59,480
Speaker 2: don't think the studio wants me to say.

299
00:13:59,320 --> 00:14:01,480
Speaker 1: Exactly, but it's considered a low budget film.

300
00:14:01,640 --> 00:14:01,880
Speaker 2: Yeah.

301
00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:05,000
Speaker 1: And in the iTunes with iTunes, I mean you were

302
00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:08,600
Speaker 1: going up against real like studio films, a massive budget.

303
00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:10,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, and we got numbers, were ranked right now as

304
00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:13,400
Speaker 2: we speak, number two, I think in three, and we're

305
00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:17,360
Speaker 2: up against movies that had thirty seven hundred screen wide releases.

306
00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:20,000
Speaker 1: So, like you want to know, what's also amazing is

307
00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:22,480
Speaker 1: that my movie also came about.

308
00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:26,520
Speaker 2: Your movie was in the top five out of Duck with.

309
00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:29,800
Speaker 1: Bruce Willis and Jamie King, And it was amazing because

310
00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:33,200
Speaker 1: Randall's movie we were like neck and neck and then

311
00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:35,640
Speaker 1: he like obviously passed be right.

312
00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:37,280
Speaker 2: But you guys were there and then we were behind you.

313
00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:39,040
Speaker 2: Then we passed. But I mean we were side by

314
00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:41,280
Speaker 2: side for like, you know, part of a part of

315
00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:43,200
Speaker 2: the day. And the great thing about that is the

316
00:14:43,240 --> 00:14:47,160
Speaker 2: director of that movie is my childhood best friend who

317
00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:51,600
Speaker 2: we started making videos together we were like twelve years old.

318
00:14:52,280 --> 00:14:56,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, so Ra's best friend, Mike Burns, directed Out of Death.

319
00:14:56,800 --> 00:15:00,080
Speaker 1: It was his first film. Thank god I was working

320
00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:02,160
Speaker 1: with him because you know, and it was his first

321
00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:04,040
Speaker 1: but we know each other like that. And I won't

322
00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:06,040
Speaker 1: even lie. It was five months pregnant and I was

323
00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:09,760
Speaker 1: an emotional fucking diva.

324
00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:10,520
Speaker 2: Hormones.

325
00:15:11,120 --> 00:15:15,080
Speaker 1: The hormones were like massive, and normally like I show

326
00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:17,240
Speaker 1: up on set and they're like, roll in the mud,

327
00:15:17,240 --> 00:15:19,880
Speaker 1: and I'm like, let's fucking do it. Put me in

328
00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:22,480
Speaker 1: the mud, like do whatever. Five months pregnant, I was like,

329
00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:25,040
Speaker 1: fuck you, I'm not rolling in the mud. But then

330
00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:27,000
Speaker 1: I'd do it anyway. But of course I'm just like

331
00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:28,640
Speaker 1: I couldn't control my emotions.

332
00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:31,800
Speaker 2: You would call me and you'd be like balling one second,

333
00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:34,239
Speaker 2: you know, upset, and I'm having.

334
00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:37,520
Speaker 1: The best day ever. And what's crazy is literally the

335
00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:40,960
Speaker 1: second we wrapped, I'm not even kidding you, Jess, Like

336
00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:44,160
Speaker 1: a week later, I got huge, like I can't believe,

337
00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:46,760
Speaker 1: like my stomach. You couldn't really tell I was pregnant.

338
00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:49,080
Speaker 1: And then the second we wrapped it was like, oh, hello,

339
00:15:49,280 --> 00:15:52,440
Speaker 1: Ocean is like deciding to like say, what's up. No,

340
00:15:52,520 --> 00:15:53,440
Speaker 1: you couldn't tell it all.

341
00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:58,400
Speaker 3: And I so wait, your directorial debut and your childhood

342
00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:00,640
Speaker 3: best friend it came out at the same time.

343
00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:02,400
Speaker 2: He has came out a week before him and Lawa's

344
00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:04,800
Speaker 2: movie came out a week before mine came out this weekend.

345
00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:07,200
Speaker 2: But they weren't in the top five at the time

346
00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:07,920
Speaker 2: that we started.

347
00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:09,680
Speaker 1: Both your directorial debuts.

348
00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:13,840
Speaker 2: That's so amazing the chances of that area. It's like insane.

349
00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:14,600
Speaker 2: It's pretty cool.

350
00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:16,880
Speaker 3: And I saw them both, and I obviously loved Midnight

351
00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:18,400
Speaker 3: in the Switchgrass.

352
00:16:17,720 --> 00:16:18,840
Speaker 1: And Out of Death.

353
00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:27,280
Speaker 3: I watched that yesterday with my boyfriend Kyle, and and

354
00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:33,520
Speaker 3: I was actually my mouth dropped open at Laala's acting.

355
00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:36,920
Speaker 3: And I'm not kidding it was in and I know

356
00:16:37,040 --> 00:16:39,960
Speaker 3: I'm kissing her ass again, I guess hold on.

357
00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:42,200
Speaker 2: Hold on, guys, wait one second, one second, so let

358
00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:46,360
Speaker 2: me hear of this. Hold on, did everybody hear that again?

359
00:16:46,640 --> 00:16:48,040
Speaker 3: No, it was amazing.

360
00:16:48,280 --> 00:16:49,000
Speaker 1: It was amazing.

361
00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:51,760
Speaker 2: I'm going to say something. I just you just left

362
00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:54,120
Speaker 2: that moment for me to say, but I'm gonna say something,

363
00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:55,880
Speaker 2: and I really mean this, and you know I've said

364
00:16:55,880 --> 00:16:59,320
Speaker 2: it to you many times. People do not realize unless

365
00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:01,600
Speaker 2: they've seen Laala where she is a really really good

366
00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:05,960
Speaker 2: actor and people and if you watch her and access

367
00:17:06,000 --> 00:17:11,480
Speaker 2: Sally with metto Williams and al Pacino and U swean teel,

368
00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:14,360
Speaker 2: if you watch this movie and access Sally, she has

369
00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:17,840
Speaker 2: a scene opposite al Pacino. And I remember I was

370
00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:20,280
Speaker 2: in town that day because I was producing, I was visiting,

371
00:17:20,920 --> 00:17:23,679
Speaker 2: and she goes up against him and has this moment

372
00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:25,879
Speaker 2: with the judge where she like basically talks shit and

373
00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:28,239
Speaker 2: puts him in his place. And he turned to her

374
00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:31,040
Speaker 2: on the set and was like, you're a really good actor,

375
00:17:31,119 --> 00:17:34,960
Speaker 2: and I was like, oh shit, just and by the way,

376
00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:36,639
Speaker 2: we all watched the smallment because you don't know how

377
00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:38,280
Speaker 2: somebody when they go up against al Pacino, it's going

378
00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:40,760
Speaker 2: to be And she really is a very good actor.

379
00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:42,439
Speaker 2: And I can talk a lot of shit and have

380
00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:44,399
Speaker 2: fun with her, but as an actor, you're you're the

381
00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:46,199
Speaker 2: real deal. And I'm really excited to see what you

382
00:17:46,200 --> 00:17:46,800
Speaker 2: do in the future.

383
00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:52,600
Speaker 1: Thank you for saying that iss gone away. I don't

384
00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:54,760
Speaker 1: know what I feel great now.

385
00:17:57,359 --> 00:18:00,760
Speaker 2: We had to keep it light this week's podcast anyway.

386
00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:03,680
Speaker 2: So having said that, thank you. It was a great night.

387
00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:05,760
Speaker 2: It was very special and it was a big moment.

388
00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:08,160
Speaker 2: My mother was in town, Your mother was in town.

389
00:18:08,280 --> 00:18:10,000
Speaker 2: It was it was great and we had a great

390
00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:13,480
Speaker 2: night and celebrated. And that was right as everything was

391
00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:16,159
Speaker 2: shutting down kind of like, well, we were having a

392
00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:18,680
Speaker 2: mask up again here in Los Angeles. So I'm glad

393
00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:21,159
Speaker 2: we were able to pull that off. We're going to

394
00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:23,760
Speaker 2: take a break real quick and we come back. Hopefully

395
00:18:23,760 --> 00:18:26,359
Speaker 2: you'll spill some tea with us about Fanner pump rules.

396
00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:28,000
Speaker 1: We call it vander Talk.

397
00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:30,440
Speaker 2: And that's a segment on our tour.

398
00:18:36,280 --> 00:18:37,439
Speaker 1: We're back.

399
00:18:38,440 --> 00:18:43,960
Speaker 2: So I wanted to tell everybody that you right after

400
00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:47,360
Speaker 2: having Ocean, like you, I want to set the stage

401
00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:52,040
Speaker 2: for Lalla's life. Lala had been home pregnant right after

402
00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:54,840
Speaker 2: that movie, pregnant, waiting to have Ocean. You had Ocean,

403
00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:57,640
Speaker 2: and then you were like nestled up.

404
00:18:57,600 --> 00:19:02,159
Speaker 1: The Randall and I conceived Ocean during him directing midnight

405
00:19:02,200 --> 00:19:03,120
Speaker 1: in the switchgrass.

406
00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:07,600
Speaker 2: That is correct in Puerto Rico. In Puerto Rico, so

407
00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:10,320
Speaker 2: so everything was great. Lala was chilling. She was just

408
00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:13,800
Speaker 2: you know, nesting, getting ready to have her baby, and

409
00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:16,439
Speaker 2: you know, Vander Pumperoles hadn't been picked up yet to

410
00:19:16,480 --> 00:19:18,800
Speaker 2: come back, and she was like living her best life.

411
00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:22,679
Speaker 2: And then she has the baby. Same like within weeks

412
00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:25,840
Speaker 2: before having the baby, they said, by the way, Laala,

413
00:19:25,920 --> 00:19:27,880
Speaker 2: you're coming back in vander Pumperles and you're coming back

414
00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:29,200
Speaker 2: like literally four weeks.

415
00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:29,399
Speaker 3: No.

416
00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:32,080
Speaker 1: It was crazy how that happened because I had like

417
00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:37,000
Speaker 1: had a year off. Basically, we decide to have a baby,

418
00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:40,240
Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, like I get all

419
00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:42,640
Speaker 1: these phone calls and it's like the show's been picked up,

420
00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:45,080
Speaker 1: we need to pick up cameras next week. I was like,

421
00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:47,960
Speaker 1: I'm having Ocean next week. They were like, we got

422
00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:50,560
Speaker 1: to catch you before you give birth, so it makes sense,

423
00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:52,199
Speaker 1: got to see you with the belly. Then I get

424
00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:55,280
Speaker 1: another phone call it's like, by the way, we are

425
00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:58,840
Speaker 1: the book is coming out. Oh, by the way, we're

426
00:19:58,880 --> 00:20:02,320
Speaker 1: relaunching give them Law Beauty. Also the baby line. Also

427
00:20:02,359 --> 00:20:04,280
Speaker 1: we're doing skin And I literally was like.

428
00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:06,200
Speaker 2: Melt down, What the fuck?

429
00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:08,879
Speaker 1: I haven't had to be a person in over a year,

430
00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:10,359
Speaker 1: and especially.

431
00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:12,320
Speaker 2: Coming out of the pandemic, people you know, obviously got

432
00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:15,840
Speaker 2: used to having to be inside and life slow down

433
00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:17,679
Speaker 2: and be in the moment. And I just want to say, like,

434
00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:21,199
Speaker 2: what for me was crazy? For you? You know, your

435
00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:24,440
Speaker 2: first time mother and you had to figure it out

436
00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:27,719
Speaker 2: not only raising your child but balancing work, which you

437
00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:31,160
Speaker 2: struggle with a lot. You got very upset many times emotionally,

438
00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:33,720
Speaker 2: you know, which I understood, because you would have to

439
00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:36,600
Speaker 2: leave ocean for four hours film come you know, in

440
00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:38,800
Speaker 2: the ocean would be off to the side, and you

441
00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:40,840
Speaker 2: always wanted to be at home with her, and so

442
00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:43,639
Speaker 2: that that was three four you know, long time of

443
00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:47,520
Speaker 2: filming whatever, for four months of filming. Now that it's finished,

444
00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:51,720
Speaker 2: now that she's four months, four and a half months, whatever.

445
00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:55,400
Speaker 2: Now that it's over, the season's over, and you've had

446
00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:58,960
Speaker 2: a week or two to kind of reflect, I'm curious

447
00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:01,560
Speaker 2: to know, like, how do you feel about this season?

448
00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:03,840
Speaker 2: You know, obviously they're not going to let you say

449
00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:06,280
Speaker 2: anything in detail, but how do you, like, did you

450
00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:09,960
Speaker 2: feel it was different the same, especially having two years

451
00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:12,520
Speaker 2: off with the pandemic. Just how was it to go

452
00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:14,560
Speaker 2: back to work and what and what was different or

453
00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:16,840
Speaker 2: what was new and exciting or not.

454
00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:20,359
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously the hardest part was to go back

455
00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:22,480
Speaker 1: without a lot of my friends.

456
00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:23,399
Speaker 2: You know.

457
00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:28,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was the most intense part. And from that

458
00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:31,320
Speaker 1: standpoint of like, my friends won't be there anymore, then

459
00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:34,920
Speaker 1: there was the other viewpoint of like, when we're filming

460
00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,480
Speaker 1: this show, like what is it going to look like?

461
00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:41,000
Speaker 2: And and you had to you have Ocean with you.

462
00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:43,240
Speaker 2: I mean, you're breastfeeding all day.

463
00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:47,640
Speaker 1: So that was hard for me. Randon. Here's why most

464
00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:51,000
Speaker 1: people so in the state of California, whether you're filming

465
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:54,720
Speaker 1: a reality TV show, a movie, or a sitcom, whatever

466
00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:59,800
Speaker 1: it may be, all of the laws still come into play.

467
00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:03,320
Speaker 1: So even though we're filming a reality show and Ocean

468
00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:06,080
Speaker 1: is my real life baby, she can only be on

469
00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:08,840
Speaker 1: camera for twenty minutes and there has to be a

470
00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:13,480
Speaker 1: teacher and a nurse on quote unquote set, meaning at

471
00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:14,840
Speaker 1: my home or wherever I go.

472
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:16,520
Speaker 2: Child like a child safe.

473
00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:19,439
Speaker 1: Correct, Like they treat them like their actors, just you know,

474
00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:23,639
Speaker 1: and I believe that's only in California. So you know,

475
00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:26,680
Speaker 1: I have to go and film and you know, make

476
00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:30,440
Speaker 1: this show with my cast members and my friends. And

477
00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:34,159
Speaker 1: if they don't have a teacher on set or a nurse,

478
00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:37,439
Speaker 1: Ocean can't come with me. So leaving her behind so

479
00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:41,400
Speaker 1: much was brutal. It was heart wrenching, and like there

480
00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:43,360
Speaker 1: were many days where I'd come home and I would

481
00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:45,960
Speaker 1: feel like, I'll be honest, I felt like a really

482
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:49,320
Speaker 1: shitty mom. I'd be like, what am I doing? Like

483
00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:51,480
Speaker 1: I need to be with my baby all the time,

484
00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:54,400
Speaker 1: and even though she may not remember, like, I'm going

485
00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:56,879
Speaker 1: to remember, right, And I was worried that I would

486
00:22:56,880 --> 00:23:00,439
Speaker 1: miss out on all of these firsts. And luckily, the

487
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:06,520
Speaker 1: other day she rolled for the first time, and I

488
00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:09,240
Speaker 1: was talking to the person her name's Liz, who watches

489
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:11,679
Speaker 1: Oh when I have to go and work, and she

490
00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:13,919
Speaker 1: was like, she rolled. I've been working with her on that,

491
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 1: but she never did it. And I was like, oh,

492
00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:19,240
Speaker 1: Ocean listened to me when I told her, like, don't

493
00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:23,320
Speaker 1: do anything while I'm gone, Please do it all just

494
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:26,600
Speaker 1: for me. But that was like the hardest part is

495
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:29,080
Speaker 1: leaving her behind. But I'm praying to God that when

496
00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:31,160
Speaker 1: she gets older, she'll she'll look at me and think

497
00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:34,560
Speaker 1: like my mom went out and worked and she like

498
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 1: busted her ass, and hopefully I give your a work ethic.

499
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:39,480
Speaker 2: I always say that to you. I mean, because you

500
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:42,240
Speaker 2: have tears Jannes now, and you had many days, you know,

501
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:44,800
Speaker 2: when we were you know, when you would go away

502
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:47,560
Speaker 2: for two or three hours to film or whatever, you know,

503
00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:49,879
Speaker 2: wherever amount of time. You were lucky you had the

504
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:52,160
Speaker 2: baby with you, she had her with you or within

505
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,560
Speaker 2: feet of you for most of it. Yes, but I

506
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:56,720
Speaker 2: know there were days that you were really stressed or

507
00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:59,399
Speaker 2: just couldn't it just the environment didn't provide. But I

508
00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 2: will say, and I feel, at least my opinion is

509
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 2: that she will look back and she'll get to see

510
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 2: her mom as an independent woman who's making a living

511
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 2: and a career woman, you know, And I think that

512
00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:15,119
Speaker 2: that's something as a role model for our daughter. So

513
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 2: I think that it was hard for you and clearly

514
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 2: hard for anybody, any mother. But at the same time,

515
00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:24,680
Speaker 2: I think that you know, it's not like you. You know,

516
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:27,120
Speaker 2: there are there are women that have to go off

517
00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 2: to war, and there are women that have to go

518
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:31,720
Speaker 2: off to jobs for three months at a time, right

519
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 2: you know where they you know. So I'm saying, like

520
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 2: I think you're it was hard for you, and it

521
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:38,919
Speaker 2: makes sense. But I also think you're going to be

522
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:40,800
Speaker 2: grateful that she's going to grow up and look at

523
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:42,959
Speaker 2: her mom and be like, my mom's a badass and

524
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:46,720
Speaker 2: is a career woman and makes a really good living

525
00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:49,679
Speaker 2: working her ass off, and I think that's a role model,

526
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:51,720
Speaker 2: you know, thing that she's going to look up to.

527
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 1: I just have a different outlook on mothers who are

528
00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:57,720
Speaker 1: like doing the damn thing, whether you like, are a

529
00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:00,159
Speaker 1: stay at home mom, no matter what it is, is

530
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:03,440
Speaker 1: that you're out doing Like I look at moms very

531
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:05,639
Speaker 1: differently now because I am one, and I know that

532
00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:08,639
Speaker 1: it's a struggle and mom shaming is real, and people

533
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,720
Speaker 1: like to like say what like they like to have

534
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:14,480
Speaker 1: the narrative. It's like, oh, you're going out and doing this,

535
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,880
Speaker 1: you must not care, or oh you're a stay at

536
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,920
Speaker 1: home mom. Your child's you know, there are those women

537
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:23,200
Speaker 1: out here who just fucking sling judgments.

538
00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:25,000
Speaker 2: I agree, but you know what, at the end of

539
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:31,520
Speaker 2: the day, like you're building a really really healthy nest egg.

540
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:35,320
Speaker 2: And you know, the thing that people don't realize with

541
00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:37,840
Speaker 2: you is that, yes, I pay all the.

542
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:42,400
Speaker 1: Bills, but if he didn't, I know they would still

543
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 1: get paid by me.

544
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 2: No, but I no, but it's not even that I'm joking.

545
00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:50,159
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is like, you know, people don't realize,

546
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:53,639
Speaker 2: like when you want a new crib, like you don't

547
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:55,760
Speaker 2: call me on I've never I've never got a phone

548
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:57,920
Speaker 2: call where you go, hey, I want a new crib bran,

549
00:25:58,040 --> 00:25:59,240
Speaker 2: you just order this shit.

550
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 1: You know You's so funny, realize people don't realize. And

551
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 1: I don't know any couple that like moves in and

552
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:10,840
Speaker 1: like they have a husband or I don't personally know where.

553
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,600
Speaker 1: I feel like people are like, oh, well rand pays

554
00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:15,639
Speaker 1: for everything. It's like, yeah, he provides us with the

555
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 1: home and like he put pays the light bill or

556
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:20,719
Speaker 1: you know this that and the other cars, all the cars.

557
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:23,399
Speaker 1: But let's just say I told someone like we split

558
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 1: all of that, they'd be like, why doesn't randall take

559
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:29,959
Speaker 1: care of that? I don't understand. Yeah, I don't get it.

560
00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 1: Like there's there's it's it's a lose lose.

561
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:34,880
Speaker 2: Right, you can't win, no matter why. But no, but here,

562
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:39,080
Speaker 2: but here's what I say. Of course I provide, you know.

563
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 2: I mean that's I feel like it's I'm in a

564
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:43,560
Speaker 2: position and I and I and I provide for a family.

565
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 2: But like, for instance, if you go, people don't realize

566
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 2: if you want a purse, and a purse is a

567
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 2: luxury add on item, right, it's it's something that you

568
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:55,480
Speaker 2: you just order it. Like you don't call me ever,

569
00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:57,920
Speaker 2: you don't say, Ran, I really want to purse over

570
00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:00,280
Speaker 2: at this story. You just order stuff, you mean. And

571
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:03,000
Speaker 2: by the way, with the baby, I see boxes and

572
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:06,439
Speaker 2: boxes coming every week of clothes for our child. And

573
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 2: I tried the other.

574
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,280
Speaker 1: Day, we get the clothes, let's talk about the diapers.

575
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 1: Now that's the real thing. I'm like another.

576
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 2: Box but here, But here's here's the funny thing. We

577
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 2: were at the store the other day in the mall

578
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 2: and I was trying to I said, I want to

579
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:24,200
Speaker 2: buy Ocean some new clothes, and you're like, Ran, we

580
00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 2: have more than enough clothes than we're ever going to

581
00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:28,880
Speaker 2: I'm like, who bought the clothes? She's like I did,

582
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 2: and I'm like, see, So there are tons of things

583
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 2: that people don't realize, Like Lolly, when you want to

584
00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:35,639
Speaker 2: buy something, you just buy you don't you know it,

585
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:37,719
Speaker 2: that's not even a thing, and you pay for it

586
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:39,399
Speaker 2: and it's from the money that you make. So I

587
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 2: just I want to always take my hat off because

588
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 2: I don't think people do that enough for you, because

589
00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 2: you know, it's like, yeah, I do what I do,

590
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:52,720
Speaker 2: but at the same time, you make a very successful

591
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:54,720
Speaker 2: living and you contribute a lot.

592
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 1: I kind of shot myself in the foot when we

593
00:27:57,320 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 1: first met because I was like, yeah, TJ's re pg it,

594
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:02,640
Speaker 1: you know, like it was like, I just I did

595
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:04,720
Speaker 1: all of these things because people were calling me that.

596
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 1: So I was like, well, I'm just going to feed

597
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 1: into this shit, so that I kind of made it

598
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:12,679
Speaker 1: very easy. But now people and I don't want to

599
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:15,719
Speaker 1: discredit to people because I think more people than not

600
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:18,440
Speaker 1: sit here and definitely show me a lot of love

601
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:21,359
Speaker 1: and respect. But for those who don't, it's just like

602
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 1: it's much easier to be like, oh, Laila has all

603
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:26,880
Speaker 1: this because she's a gold digger, rather than like, oh,

604
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 1: the bitch worked hard. You know, it's much easier to

605
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:31,240
Speaker 1: It makes you feel better when you're like, she has

606
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 1: that because someone else gave it to it, right.

607
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 2: But what I think people don't realize is you make

608
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 2: a very good living. I work very hard too, and

609
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 2: at the end of the day, you know, I think

610
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 2: people don't sometimes just don't want to give you the credit.

611
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 2: And the thing is, you work from the morning from

612
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 2: the minute you wake up in the morning to the

613
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:48,520
Speaker 2: minute you go to sleep. You're always on the phone.

614
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 2: You're always you know, promoting and doing your different stuff

615
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 2: and building new brands and and and you could have

616
00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 2: you could go the other way. You could have just

617
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:58,120
Speaker 2: you know, sat down and been like, you know what,

618
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 2: I take my hat off, but I'm done. I'm going

619
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 2: to sit and be a mom.

620
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 1: Well, that pandemic really made me think, do I want

621
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 1: to keep truying to make sure happen becaues this cushy lifestyle.

622
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 1: I kind of like it, But I think I knew

623
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:13,760
Speaker 1: because it wasn't forever.

624
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, you were you were really I think

625
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:17,959
Speaker 2: you would have been okay for another few months at

626
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 2: the house.

627
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 1: I'm okay, okay, I won't even lie. Like I loved

628
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 1: going to Your Help Me movie premiere, the movie premiere,

629
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 1: Thank You. I loved going to it, But when I

630
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:32,800
Speaker 1: got home, I was like, you know, I actually thoroughly

631
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 1: enjoy not doing anything. You know, there are times where

632
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 1: I'll sit there and be like, you need to go

633
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 1: out and like experience things, and then I go out

634
00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 1: and experience things, and I'm like, I'd rather experience the

635
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 1: inside of my eyelids, to be honest, you know, yeah,

636
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 1: I think sounds fun.

637
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 2: I think that's I think you know, you're a homebody

638
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:52,160
Speaker 2: and there's nothing wrong with that. I think that you

639
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 2: enjoy being at home relaxing watching TV. But you know,

640
00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:58,479
Speaker 2: but the other thing that people don't realize is when

641
00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:01,240
Speaker 2: you're somebody like you who always has to go and

642
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:04,600
Speaker 2: make appearances and do things and go to events and

643
00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 2: always kind of be around people a lot, then I

644
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 2: think you go the other way, you know. So it's

645
00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:10,760
Speaker 2: like you'll do the things you do because you love

646
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 2: being around your fans or being an events that you

647
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:16,479
Speaker 2: that you're promoting your businesses and stuff. You enjoy that.

648
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:18,160
Speaker 2: But I think then you get a little burnt out

649
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 2: where you need to like retreat and have quiet.

650
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 1: Right, So back back to my most favorite part of

651
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 1: filming this season honestly everything, Like, oh really, yeah, I

652
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:32,880
Speaker 1: was digging it all. I think I had a new

653
00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 1: respect for the show, right because we went through so much, yes,

654
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:37,640
Speaker 1: and so.

655
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 2: You had appreciation much more than you ever because you know,

656
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 2: for two years you guys.

657
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 1: Were all When I got the phone call that it

658
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 1: was like, we've been picked up and we're starting on

659
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:53,360
Speaker 1: May fourth. I was like, I feel so blessed right now.

660
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 1: I feel so lucky, Like how did this happen?

661
00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 2: And you guys are in season nine week People don't realize,

662
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:01,720
Speaker 2: Like I always tell people, I'm like, to have nine

663
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 2: seasons of reality show is unheard of. It's it's really

664
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 2: means that your group of friends, the vander Pump Rules group,

665
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:11,719
Speaker 2: that you guys are really special in the sense that

666
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:15,920
Speaker 2: like people are really entertained by you guys, and you guys,

667
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 2: you know, have a lot of fun together. And I

668
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 2: don't think people realize, at least from now. I've been

669
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 2: on the front lines a little bit more. Obviously this

670
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 2: season I filmed probably more than.

671
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 1: It's funny because Randall says that when he is filming

672
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:34,240
Speaker 1: with us, he'll forget and look around at everything that's

673
00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 1: happening and he's like, holy shit, I forgot. I felt

674
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,120
Speaker 1: like I was watching the show because the.

675
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 2: Ship that goes on, I'm like, I'm not used to

676
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:44,120
Speaker 2: any of this, and I'm sitting there and I sometimes

677
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 2: just check out and I'm like watching all the shit.

678
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 1: Happen like crazy that people think it's not real. And

679
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:53,520
Speaker 1: that's the thing is it is really real. It's just

680
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 1: we're that fucked up and resilient, you know.

681
00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 5: Yeah.

682
00:31:57,600 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 3: No from an outsider looking in.

683
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 2: On the show too, Jessica Jessica's on the show.

684
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 3: Even just being in the presence, I would forget the

685
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 3: cameras were there, just because it was like, it's truly

686
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:12,000
Speaker 3: just you guys are living life, and the cameras kind

687
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 3: of pop in and you're just doing your thing. And

688
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 3: that's how I was shocked. I'm like, oh no, this

689
00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 3: is like, there's not a scripted bone in this.

690
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:22,440
Speaker 2: And no, no, it's And that's the one thing that

691
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 2: took me, I think, because this is my second time

692
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 2: appearing and it's hard for me to say that, but

693
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 2: but but but I do get caught up the same

694
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 2: way you do, because it's like when you're not used

695
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 2: to it, like they're in it. They're in it, they're

696
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 2: all in in the moments, it's just their regular life.

697
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 2: But you know, you're sitting there and sometimes you're you know,

698
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 2: you're in it, but then sometimes you're just sitting there

699
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 2: watching what's going on, and you're like, oh my god,

700
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:48,320
Speaker 2: like they're really this is their real life, like there

701
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 2: is no bullshit, and I'm excited because it's it's it's

702
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:56,120
Speaker 2: a really unique group of people and I think you

703
00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 2: guys are very blessed to you know, be able to

704
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 2: do what you do for for nine years. And I'm excited.

705
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:03,920
Speaker 2: So on that note, I think we need to quick

706
00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 2: break and come right back.

707
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:17,680
Speaker 1: That was a quick break. We're back, We're back. So

708
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 1: Randall and I thought it would be fun for this

709
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 1: last segment of this episode to have it like a

710
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:29,840
Speaker 1: little bit of a storytell. Randall and I were driving

711
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:33,880
Speaker 1: yesterday with his two kids, Lendon and Riley, and our

712
00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:36,960
Speaker 1: baby together Ocean, and we just like started on this

713
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:39,400
Speaker 1: like tangent of like all of these things that have

714
00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 1: happened in our lives that are like just stories where

715
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 1: it's like like, oh yeah, that's like kind of a

716
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 1: big deal, no wonder, you're so fucked up, So.

717
00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 2: Well, let me tell you a story, because you told

718
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:53,600
Speaker 2: your story yesterday like it was nothing, and I was

719
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:57,160
Speaker 2: jaw dropped, jaw dropped, and Lala does not jow Let

720
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 2: me just set the record for people that are fans

721
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 2: of Lawn, I nothing shocks me anymore because she's taken

722
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 2: all the shock wave out of my body, like it

723
00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 2: took about five years. And now whatever Lala says, I

724
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 2: don't get that. I'm gonna let Lata tell this story

725
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 2: because I won't tell it as good. But Lala told

726
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:18,800
Speaker 2: me a story Gary, yes, straight, like it was nothing

727
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:20,520
Speaker 2: like we were just when I was a kid. I

728
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:22,560
Speaker 2: went for ice cream and this happened, and she just

729
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:26,120
Speaker 2: told it so nonchalant, and I had to almost pull

730
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:29,879
Speaker 2: the car over. I was in shock. And she's like,

731
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 2: I guess it is kind of crazy, this story. So

732
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 2: why don't you just share with your fans the non

733
00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:35,560
Speaker 2: chalot story you tell me?

734
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:38,560
Speaker 1: I wait to hear this, okay, and my son's gonna

735
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:40,400
Speaker 1: kill me, Shena kill me.

736
00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 2: Oh yes.

737
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:45,040
Speaker 1: So the thing about Lisa that's my mom is she's

738
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 1: fucking fabulous, all right. She's little clueless, little clueless, but

739
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:54,480
Speaker 1: that's okay. So now that I have a baby, like

740
00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:57,359
Speaker 1: everything triggers me. I'm like, if that, if I do that,

741
00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:58,799
Speaker 1: that could happen to her, that could happen to her,

742
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:02,399
Speaker 1: And the chances of those things happening very very low,

743
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 1: but they could happen, so I'm telling Randall, Easton must

744
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 1: have been I think he was like eleven, maybe twelve.

745
00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 1: He was young, okay, young kid. And we were going

746
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:18,439
Speaker 1: to a family dinner downtown Salt Lake, and we play

747
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:23,319
Speaker 1: at a restaurant, yes, PF Changs, PF Changs. And the

748
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 1: thing about PF Chang's is the valet has to drive

749
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:33,880
Speaker 1: like a few blocks to a tower to park the car. Right, okay,

750
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:38,840
Speaker 1: so my mom's driving. We all get out. Lisa deals

751
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 1: with the valet. We're inside, we're seated. Whatever she walks in,

752
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:42,759
Speaker 1: hold on, but.

753
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 2: Just take it by a scent. So you told up

754
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:46,320
Speaker 2: the valet, Yeah, to get out of the family.

755
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:49,040
Speaker 1: The family, the whole family, and you get out.

756
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:50,719
Speaker 2: Of the car and all of you walk out the car

757
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:52,640
Speaker 2: to the restaurant, get into the restaurant.

758
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 1: Deals with valet, comes into the restaurants, into the restaurant

759
00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:57,760
Speaker 1: and she like, sis.

760
00:35:57,440 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 2: Down, are you seated? Are you at the top?

761
00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 1: I seated, honey, We got appetizers, drink and she sits

762
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 1: down to partake in the yumminess and then decides to

763
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:12,280
Speaker 1: go where's Easton? We were like, well, Easton was asleep

764
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:13,760
Speaker 1: in the back of the car with you.

765
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 2: I want you to take a moment, everybody who's listening

766
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,759
Speaker 2: to this and hear what is being said. You're there

767
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 2: in the restaurant. They've walked from the valet. They are

768
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:25,640
Speaker 2: order appetizers and have cocktails, and they are missing a child.

769
00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:32,640
Speaker 1: My mother fucking valeted the car.

770
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:36,359
Speaker 2: She vallets your brother with Easton in.

771
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:42,840
Speaker 1: The very bad seat, dead asleep. Okay, he's parked like probably.

772
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:47,880
Speaker 4: A mile or two away, you know, if you break

773
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:52,800
Speaker 4: down the valet tower and stretch it a few miles away.

774
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 1: Okay. She runs out and she's like, I valeied my

775
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:03,480
Speaker 1: kid brother, right, So they put her in the back

776
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 1: of a car. They drive her up to the fucking

777
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 1: Valley Towner. There's Easton, dead asleep, still in the parking tower,

778
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 1: in the fucking car.

779
00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:19,240
Speaker 2: Oh honestly, I was dying yesterday. I could not believe

780
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 2: this is a real story. And Lala told it like

781
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 2: it was just well.

782
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 1: I figure eleven or twelve kids nowadays are like at

783
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:28,360
Speaker 1: the mall Torking at that age, right.

784
00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, listen, I can't comment.

785
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 1: Back then, though, eleven or twelve was like young, like

786
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 1: we were skipping to school, still didn't have a cell phone,

787
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:41,239
Speaker 1: like riding bikes. I love your mom so much.

788
00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:43,239
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, she's so hilarious.

789
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:47,440
Speaker 1: She's like I had her. She's like she's the best

790
00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:49,920
Speaker 1: mom in the world, Like she's my best friend in Easton's.

791
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:54,440
Speaker 1: But these stories, I'm like, this is questionable. I don't

792
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 1: know about the question. She also and she actually got

793
00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 1: d MS when I posted this on Tupac's birthday. So

794
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 1: to the Tupac CD was the first CD that my

795
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 1: mom ever bought for me because I wanted it. It's

796
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,319
Speaker 1: said explicit content on there. I don't think she knew

797
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 1: what that meant, or she just didn't. I worked on

798
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:16,239
Speaker 1: a road trip and we stop at McDonald's and I

799
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:18,720
Speaker 1: had been listening to this Tupac CD and my Blue

800
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:21,520
Speaker 1: Walkman the entire way and I'm We're in the line

801
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:22,879
Speaker 1: and I'm like looking at my mom. Keep in mind,

802
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 1: I'm like seven, okay, okay, Yeah. I say to her,

803
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:32,200
Speaker 1: the CD you bought me says a lot of bad words,

804
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:34,839
Speaker 1: and I just remember her looking down and being like,

805
00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 1: just ignore the bad words. What do you want to eat?

806
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 1: I was like, there's kind of a lot of them

807
00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 1: that's gonna be hard to ignore.

808
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:46,239
Speaker 3: I love her, though, that's she's she's an icon.

809
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:49,840
Speaker 1: She has an icon. That's she got all these dms

810
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:52,160
Speaker 1: that were like, you're such a shitty mom, and she

811
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 1: she calls me, She's like, all these people are talking

812
00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:55,879
Speaker 1: to me that I'm a bad mom. I wonder why.

813
00:38:55,880 --> 00:39:00,520
Speaker 1: I was like, it has to do post I did, Lisa.

814
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 2: I just want everydy to know. She's like, she is

815
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:05,320
Speaker 2: your best friend and she's Randall.

816
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 1: Is that necessary a.

817
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:12,200
Speaker 2: Pop I'm meaning a popsicleon so hold up? Okay, So

818
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:16,279
Speaker 2: your mom is amazing, she's a great mother. She's with

819
00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 2: you all the time. I don't know if she's gonna

820
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:22,840
Speaker 2: think this was the best story to tell, but I

821
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:23,560
Speaker 2: know what's great.

822
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:28,799
Speaker 1: It's I tell you what's great. Though my mom has

823
00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 1: not read my book, doesn't listen to my podcast, and

824
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:33,959
Speaker 1: has never seen an episode of Vanner Pumper Roles. Still,

825
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:36,400
Speaker 1: to this day, do you remember the last movie I

826
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:40,719
Speaker 1: did Randall with you and Jesse Metcalf? The other day,

827
00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:42,840
Speaker 1: she's in town, right and I'm talking about it, and

828
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 1: she goes, oh, I still need to watch that. Like

829
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:49,439
Speaker 1: I filmed that a year ago, maybe more like two

830
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 1: years ago. You still haven't seen it? What are you

831
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:54,319
Speaker 1: talking about I had like three come outside of that.

832
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 2: I'm definitely telling your mother you told this story because

833
00:39:57,600 --> 00:39:58,239
Speaker 2: it's just good.

834
00:39:58,320 --> 00:39:59,160
Speaker 3: She's incredible.

835
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:02,319
Speaker 2: She didn't, you know. Yesterday was a really fun day

836
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 2: because my oldest child, yes, all of a sudden, woke

837
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:10,040
Speaker 2: up and told me she's like a surfer and I

838
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:13,279
Speaker 2: was like, please London, Like what do you mean? And

839
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:16,920
Speaker 2: then she shows me videos of her like shredding waves

840
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:19,320
Speaker 2: and I was like, this is not real, like because

841
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:21,600
Speaker 2: my seven year old is like more the active and

842
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 2: my eleven year old's more of the artist singer, you know,

843
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 2: you know actor. They're just very you know, very different

844
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:30,480
Speaker 2: kids but similar. So anyway, I say to Laa, I'm

845
00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:32,839
Speaker 2: hire the surf coach. I'm going to take her out

846
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:34,799
Speaker 2: to the to the beach and I want to check

847
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 2: this out. And I was like, let's go. We're making

848
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:38,839
Speaker 2: a whole group effort, We're going out there. So we

849
00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 2: drive like an hour. It's a it's a trek to

850
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 2: this speech where it's like beginning a sort of surf spot,

851
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:46,400
Speaker 2: and then my eleven year old turns to me when

852
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:47,920
Speaker 2: we get to the beach and she's like, Dad, you're

853
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:49,359
Speaker 2: gonna go with me? And I was like, yo, yeah, yeah,

854
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 2: I'm fifty. You look hot, Okay, but I'm fifty and fifty.

855
00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:56,360
Speaker 2: I mean, but I float more than I surf. You

856
00:40:56,360 --> 00:41:01,520
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. I like, these dudes out there

857
00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:04,440
Speaker 2: are shredded. Okay. I'm like, I'm the booie. You know

858
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:06,440
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Like, like, you come over to me.

859
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:10,520
Speaker 2: If you're drowned, you gotta look hool in front of

860
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 2: your kids. So of course I'm an She knows I

861
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:14,880
Speaker 2: can water skin. I'm big in the water stuff and

862
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 2: behind boats. But surfing means you have to propel yourself

863
00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:20,719
Speaker 2: up on a board, being I have to break my

864
00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:24,880
Speaker 2: weight above the water. Very not easy. So I'm not

865
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:26,680
Speaker 2: happy about any of this. But of course I look

866
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 2: at her. And by the way, I'm grow up Florida,

867
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 2: where the water is eighty three degrees. Here it's like

868
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 2: sixty yeah cold, yeah, Pacific Ocean sharks. I'm just especially

869
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 2: Booye's it's like a lot of meats, you know, all right,

870
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 2: I got the point off. So you're out there, and

871
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:46,920
Speaker 2: le I was like, yeah, go get him, and so

872
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:48,640
Speaker 2: I put the wet suit on and the guy gives

873
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 2: us a little class on the board, and you know,

874
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:54,120
Speaker 2: he's like you and my favorite part is like you're

875
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:55,960
Speaker 2: laying on the board on the sand, and he goes

876
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:57,480
Speaker 2: and then I'm going to count the three. You're just

877
00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:00,000
Speaker 2: gonna pop up. So I would like a guy that pops.

878
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:03,000
Speaker 2: I mean, I can roll up like a roll up,

879
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:05,040
Speaker 2: but I'm gonna pop up. What the fuck are you

880
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:07,920
Speaker 2: talking about? I can barely get out of bed pop up,

881
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:11,440
Speaker 2: so anyway, So yeah, he tells me, don't worry you.

882
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:14,240
Speaker 2: He get on your knees first and then rise. I'm like, okay,

883
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:17,440
Speaker 2: that sounds more of my speed. So we get our boards.

884
00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:20,479
Speaker 2: They're like ten feet tall, like these long parts. Okay,

885
00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 2: my arm's already hurting carrying the ship from the sand

886
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:26,120
Speaker 2: to the ocean, I'm already pissed. And Lala is over

887
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:29,319
Speaker 2: there having a beach day and frigging. Riley's like Edges,

888
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 2: living her best life and whatever. So we get out

889
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 2: to the water and I'm just there to support, you know, London.

890
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:37,880
Speaker 2: And we get out there and the first wave London gets,

891
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:39,920
Speaker 2: she pops up and she serfs it all the way

892
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 2: to the beach. I'm like, oh my god, that was

893
00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:43,560
Speaker 2: so cool. And then she serves like six or seven

894
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:45,640
Speaker 2: after that, and I think that I'm ever gonna I'm

895
00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 2: just laying on the board like sun tanning. And then

896
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 2: you know, and then you know, good looking you know,

897
00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:55,840
Speaker 2: young kid whatever his name was, good looking young kids like,

898
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:59,279
Speaker 2: all right, you're time turning pops you know whatever he pops,

899
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,480
Speaker 2: But that's what he meant. He's like, he's like, all right, boy,

900
00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 2: let's get up on the board. So I was like,

901
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:08,600
Speaker 2: all right, Booey's turn. And I'm pissed because now I like,

902
00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:10,920
Speaker 2: my kid knows I can water ski like a rockstigger.

903
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:12,600
Speaker 2: That did it. It's not a kid, but like, you

904
00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:14,879
Speaker 2: want to look cool in front of your kid. So

905
00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:16,840
Speaker 2: I'm just like, this is not where I want to

906
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:18,920
Speaker 2: be right now in this moment. So so I'm laying

907
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 2: on the board. He's like, don't worry. I'm going to

908
00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:22,239
Speaker 2: push you into the wave. I'm going to push you

909
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:24,239
Speaker 2: right into the wave. And I was like, great, and

910
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 2: I see this wave coming and it looks big. It's

911
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:29,239
Speaker 2: way bigger than what I anticipated. I actually told him,

912
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:30,759
Speaker 2: can you give me a little baby wave? And that

913
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:33,120
Speaker 2: is a good one for you, meaning I needed the

914
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:36,359
Speaker 2: bigger wave because of my weight. That's right, meant to say.

915
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 2: He didn't want to say it to me. And I

916
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 2: looked at him and I could tell in his eyes

917
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:43,799
Speaker 2: like he was like, he's like, he's like, he's like,

918
00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 2: you're a little bigger. You can't get the little baby

919
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:50,200
Speaker 2: wave because you're not go A wave comes and believe

920
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 2: it or not, I got up on my knees and

921
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:57,120
Speaker 2: I was shredding on my knees. Now, the people that

922
00:43:57,200 --> 00:44:00,640
Speaker 2: get up on surfboards in this area, they were getting

923
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:03,760
Speaker 2: up the minute the wave came. I took a little longer.

924
00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:05,719
Speaker 2: Mine was. I was like in a meeting on my

925
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 2: knees for a few minutes that but but then I

926
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:12,600
Speaker 2: took the gamble and I stood up and Lala, how

927
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:15,360
Speaker 2: did I look? I caught waves yesterday?

928
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:16,359
Speaker 1: I missed it?

929
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:20,240
Speaker 2: What I missed? All of them? You lie?

930
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 3: You lie? When he asked, he said, you looked amazing.

931
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:23,719
Speaker 1: Oh, we do.

932
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:26,600
Speaker 2: And by the way, did you see me catch the waves?

933
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:29,160
Speaker 2: I did? Were you impressed?

934
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 1: You looked amazing.

935
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:33,320
Speaker 2: I'm just going to say something. This is the moral

936
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 2: of the story. I'm fifty years old, I am definitely

937
00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:41,359
Speaker 2: not a surf body by any means. But you know what,

938
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:43,880
Speaker 2: you're never told to start. And I had the best

939
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:45,680
Speaker 2: time yesterday. I swear, I swear to you.

940
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 1: I had the Saturday. It was awesome.

941
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:49,440
Speaker 2: But I had the best time because I was in

942
00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:52,400
Speaker 2: the water with my kids doing an activity that I

943
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:53,080
Speaker 2: thought I would never do.

944
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 1: I was not texting or facetiming their friends. Usually Randall

945
00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:59,000
Speaker 1: sits in the room while they text in FaceTime.

946
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 2: And the thing is, I was so impressed that I

947
00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:04,359
Speaker 2: that I pushed myself to do something that I never

948
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:04,920
Speaker 2: thought I could do.

949
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 1: I was impressed by all of you yesterday, by the way.

950
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:08,800
Speaker 2: And here's the best part of it all the highlight,

951
00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:12,680
Speaker 2: the icing on the cake. Riley, who never wanted to

952
00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:15,920
Speaker 2: serve zero interest zero, said, Dad, can I put my

953
00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 2: wetsuit on and come out with you? I put her

954
00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:21,560
Speaker 2: on the board, We got her out. I surfed with

955
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:23,759
Speaker 2: her on the same board. I popped up. Yeah, it

956
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 2: was really cute, and we surfed together. And now she

957
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:28,440
Speaker 2: loves it. And now she loves it. They both love it.

958
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:30,319
Speaker 2: So we're gonna go do it for like a week now,

959
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 2: Like they're like really into it, and I'm gonna try something.

960
00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:37,760
Speaker 1: That the parents these days have to do, like not surfing,

961
00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:41,960
Speaker 1: but just a camp because there's so much technology that

962
00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:47,400
Speaker 1: it's almost annoying. It's like, why do these children have

963
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:51,359
Speaker 1: cell phones? Why does this seven year old know how

964
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:54,520
Speaker 1: to zoom better than I do? Well because of the pandemic,

965
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:56,880
Speaker 1: never mind, they should know how to zoom better than

966
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 1: I do. But I love that you guys did that

967
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:02,040
Speaker 1: yesterday and now London wants to do surf camp every year.

968
00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:04,040
Speaker 2: Yeah. And by the way, and my kids, that's that's

969
00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:06,360
Speaker 2: a big thing about if you have kids. You know,

970
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:08,080
Speaker 2: I went to Sleep with Camp my whole life as

971
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:10,439
Speaker 2: a child. I loved it. And I and my kids

972
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 2: go to the same one that I went to, Camp Highlander.

973
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 2: Then they just came back from a month and they

974
00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 2: both were in tears when I picked them up and

975
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:20,000
Speaker 2: want to stay another two weeks. So camp is, in

976
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:22,480
Speaker 2: my opinion, a magical thing, and it allows kids to

977
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:25,400
Speaker 2: really just be kids with other kids, and it's just

978
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:27,360
Speaker 2: really cool and you take all the electronics out of

979
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:31,320
Speaker 2: it and just being you know, creative and active and yeah.

980
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 2: So you know, especially in Los Angeles where you know

981
00:46:34,719 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 2: it's just a you know.

982
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 1: It's a different it is a different.

983
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 2: Different thing, and I think you know. I love that

984
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 2: they go to the Blue Ridge Mountains in North Carolina,

985
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 2: just like I did, same camp, and they they love

986
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:46,799
Speaker 2: it and I loved it. And even when I go there,

987
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:49,319
Speaker 2: I'm like, can I teach an activity here? Can I say?

988
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:50,200
Speaker 2: Can I have a job.

989
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:54,760
Speaker 1: So much that during the pandemic he rented the camp

990
00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 1: out for just our family and made us do activities,

991
00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:01,720
Speaker 1: which was amazing. I loved it. I loved it so much,

992
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:05,839
Speaker 1: mostly because that's where I found out that I was

993
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 1: pregnant with Oh I know, I know, and that and

994
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 1: then Ocean.

995
00:47:11,440 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 2: One day when she's old.

996
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 1: Enough, we're not talking about it. I can't even go there.

997
00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 2: By the way, the last time, I'm going to finish

998
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 2: that I love about law that people don't realize how

999
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:22,000
Speaker 2: and love, you know. I mean, every mother I have

1000
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:23,759
Speaker 2: to assume is in love with their child, So I

1001
00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:26,160
Speaker 2: give all mothers that. But Lala is so in love

1002
00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:29,759
Speaker 2: with Ocean every second, every minute of the day that

1003
00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:33,919
Speaker 2: if you mention anything about the future, anything, no, it's

1004
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 2: a full either full meltdown in tears, or you get

1005
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:39,680
Speaker 2: shut down, like I just get shut down. Just now

1006
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 2: we're allowed to talk about what she's doing right now.

1007
00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:44,480
Speaker 2: Which is rolling over on her.

1008
00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:47,520
Speaker 1: I can't even talk about it's already over. I can't

1009
00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 1: even deal. But I think, and I don't know if

1010
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:53,560
Speaker 1: anybody else had this, if they ever lost a parent,

1011
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 1: But when I lost my dad, I realized, oh my god,

1012
00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:59,799
Speaker 1: there was this one moment back in the day that

1013
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:03,160
Speaker 1: we were Rand got us a limo and it was me,

1014
00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:06,239
Speaker 1: my mom, Easton, and my dad and we're driving up

1015
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:08,960
Speaker 1: to Park City and who even gets a limo anymore?

1016
00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:09,160
Speaker 2: Right?

1017
00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:13,640
Speaker 1: The things literally starts steaming. We're broken down on the

1018
00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 1: side of the road and me, I'm very high strung,

1019
00:48:16,120 --> 00:48:18,800
Speaker 1: so when things don't when the wind blows in the

1020
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:21,280
Speaker 1: wrong direction, I'm thrown off by it. And it takes

1021
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 1: me a while to try and process it. In this moment,

1022
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:27,520
Speaker 1: it was so weird because I looked at like my

1023
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:29,760
Speaker 1: dad and my mom and I was like, this moment

1024
00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:32,200
Speaker 1: is never going to come back. You need to remember it.

1025
00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 1: And it was literally, I think maybe a year or

1026
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:37,840
Speaker 1: two later that we lost my dad, and I still

1027
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:40,720
Speaker 1: look back and think, I'm so glad that in that moment,

1028
00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 1: I was like, cherish this, Yes, it's never going to

1029
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:48,480
Speaker 1: come back. And I still think back on that and go,

1030
00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:52,160
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, like you actively told yourself, and I

1031
00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:57,280
Speaker 1: remember that so vividly. Yes, So now since my dad's

1032
00:48:57,280 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 1: passed away, and once that happened, I get very funny

1033
00:48:59,640 --> 00:49:03,360
Speaker 1: with time. I'm little tiny things like ocean grabbing my finger.

1034
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:06,800
Speaker 2: It's like when when will her hands where she's grabbing

1035
00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:07,640
Speaker 2: her hand and not your.

1036
00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:09,839
Speaker 1: Finger, right, Like I look at pictures of her when

1037
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:13,400
Speaker 1: she was teeny tiny, like her her head in the

1038
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 1: palm of my hand, and now she's like a baby.

1039
00:49:17,080 --> 00:49:20,000
Speaker 1: So I'm very triggered when I think of things like that.

1040
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:21,879
Speaker 2: That makes sense. But that makes sense because you had

1041
00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:25,719
Speaker 2: obviously traumatic loss at a very young age, right, and

1042
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:29,600
Speaker 2: it's not normal for you know, children to lose their parent.

1043
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:30,879
Speaker 1: At twenty seven.

1044
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:35,120
Speaker 2: Is that that's you know, unfathomable, And so that makes sense.

1045
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 2: I guess you know now I understand more like that

1046
00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 2: you're holding on to brushious throes because you realize more

1047
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:43,279
Speaker 2: than most people that you know they can go.

1048
00:49:43,440 --> 00:49:44,480
Speaker 1: It's not coming back right.

1049
00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 2: Right, You can't get you, so you want to take

1050
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 2: it off. And I will say, you were reading from

1051
00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:52,400
Speaker 2: your journal to me last night and you had something

1052
00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:55,840
Speaker 2: that I was like, oh my god, really, time is moving,

1053
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:59,200
Speaker 2: even though it feels slow some days, Right, it's it's

1054
00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:01,440
Speaker 2: moving so fat and you can't stop it. Well, it

1055
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:02,600
Speaker 2: never stopped me.

1056
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:05,120
Speaker 1: I started a journal for Ocean when I was twenty

1057
00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:08,799
Speaker 1: eight weeks pregnant, and I looked back onto that time

1058
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:11,760
Speaker 1: and Randall had told me, because I was very hormonially depressing,

1059
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:13,759
Speaker 1: he said, you should start journaling for Ocean so that

1060
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 1: one day she can read back and know what you

1061
00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:19,160
Speaker 1: were doing when you were pregnant with her. I'm like, here,

1062
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:21,560
Speaker 1: I am at this journal entry and she's born a

1063
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:24,600
Speaker 1: half months, and I feel like I just wrote this

1064
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 1: at twenty eight weeks talking about like what I did

1065
00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:30,600
Speaker 1: that day. We were still right in the pandemic. We

1066
00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:33,319
Speaker 1: couldn't go to restaurants. I'm like, that feels like years ago,

1067
00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:37,320
Speaker 1: and this was yes Oh my god, it was yesterday,

1068
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:38,240
Speaker 1: and it's gone.

1069
00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:39,880
Speaker 2: I mean we could, I mean there was nowhere to

1070
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:42,280
Speaker 2: go in California, where it's like a lot of places

1071
00:50:42,320 --> 00:50:44,600
Speaker 2: open up. As you know, Florida and Texas and Georgia

1072
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:46,960
Speaker 2: a lot of places opened up. California was the last,

1073
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:50,240
Speaker 2: so like we really were on lockdown. So it feels

1074
00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:52,400
Speaker 2: like a long time ago, but it was yesterday and

1075
00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:53,640
Speaker 2: it was just minutes ago.

1076
00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:56,960
Speaker 1: Are you thankful for that time though? Like you got.

1077
00:50:57,080 --> 00:51:00,360
Speaker 3: Because you you had Ocean and then I mean you

1078
00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:02,640
Speaker 3: couldn't really stop.

1079
00:51:02,600 --> 00:51:03,759
Speaker 2: Do any well.

1080
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:05,960
Speaker 1: How short after you had Ocean?

1081
00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:07,920
Speaker 3: Was it when vander pumper wle started? Because didn't you

1082
00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 3: get some extended time to just like be with your baby?

1083
00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:15,239
Speaker 1: And No, I got two months. I was really no.

1084
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:20,400
Speaker 1: I was very lucky and fortunately got a real champion

1085
00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:24,760
Speaker 1: weeks two weeks, Oh wow. And she Anda's baby couldn't

1086
00:51:24,800 --> 00:51:28,840
Speaker 1: film because you have to be I think six weeks

1087
00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 1: or fifteen days. You have to be fifteen days. So

1088
00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:34,279
Speaker 1: she wasn't Her baby wasn't even two weeks old when

1089
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:35,200
Speaker 1: we went back to filming.

1090
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:35,920
Speaker 3: Oh wow.

1091
00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 1: So she is a real champer here. Her baby fed

1092
00:51:39,640 --> 00:51:43,680
Speaker 1: after she hit the fifteen day. But I mean, I

1093
00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 1: can't even imagine. At least I got two months to

1094
00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:49,359
Speaker 1: like literally do nothing but stare at Ocean. Yeah.

1095
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:52,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, I think it's been a fun episode, and

1096
00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:53,840
Speaker 2: we've introduced Jessica.

1097
00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:56,600
Speaker 3: It's nice to meet you guys.

1098
00:51:57,040 --> 00:51:59,719
Speaker 1: Can I tell you something, Jessica is the best thing

1099
00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 1: that's happened to me since Randal and Ocean.

1100
00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:02,880
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

1101
00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:04,919
Speaker 1: Wow yeah for real?

1102
00:52:05,200 --> 00:52:06,480
Speaker 2: Wow wow?

1103
00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:08,160
Speaker 1: Like what even is an email?

1104
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:08,640
Speaker 2: I don't know?

1105
00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:11,840
Speaker 1: Jessica checks them? Now, what even is a calendar? I

1106
00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:14,600
Speaker 1: don't know. Jessica deals with it. It's awesome.

1107
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:17,279
Speaker 5: Before we go off the air, can you just tell

1108
00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:21,439
Speaker 5: people when I suggested an assistant very kindly, even after

1109
00:52:21,520 --> 00:52:24,400
Speaker 5: we had hired Jessica, before she had started, how you

1110
00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:27,760
Speaker 5: wanted to let go of Jessicas.

1111
00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:29,440
Speaker 1: Nothing to do with No, No, No. My biggest thing

1112
00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:32,960
Speaker 1: was like, is she going to be bored working for me? Like?

1113
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:35,840
Speaker 1: Do I have enough going on for me to have

1114
00:52:35,880 --> 00:52:39,120
Speaker 1: an assistant? I literally was going to text you before

1115
00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:39,640
Speaker 1: you started.

1116
00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:42,960
Speaker 2: I know she was going to say, but I saved you, Jessica,

1117
00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:44,000
Speaker 2: So let me tell you something.

1118
00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:45,920
Speaker 1: Well, you saved me. It had nothing to do with you.

1119
00:52:46,000 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 2: No, but it's a great story because I said to

1120
00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:51,200
Speaker 2: Lala that night, I said, Lala sent me. You've called

1121
00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:53,840
Speaker 2: me now four times. I am telling you that you

1122
00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:56,520
Speaker 2: don't have a choice. You are too busy. Jessica will

1123
00:52:56,560 --> 00:52:58,839
Speaker 2: show up tomorrow morning. You'll spend two weeks with her.

1124
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 2: If you don't feel you have a reason for an assistant,

1125
00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:04,600
Speaker 2: then at that point you can part ways. Yeah, but

1126
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 2: I am telling you that you need this, And after

1127
00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:10,879
Speaker 2: two days she called me and goes, I am never

1128
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:15,799
Speaker 2: getting rid of this. But she no, she didn't know

1129
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:18,960
Speaker 2: had an assistant, and she was so overwhelmed at that

1130
00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:21,600
Speaker 2: point in her life she didn't know anything different. Now

1131
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 2: her life feels she feels so like organized and happy

1132
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:26,160
Speaker 2: and calm.

1133
00:53:26,760 --> 00:53:26,920
Speaker 5: Good.

1134
00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:29,680
Speaker 3: Well, I was shocked after the first two days. I

1135
00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:32,920
Speaker 3: think it was. I was like, how how have you

1136
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:35,600
Speaker 3: been doing this by yourself? Because me, I was working

1137
00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:39,840
Speaker 3: morning till evening emails and communicating. I was like, where

1138
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:40,479
Speaker 3: was your help?

1139
00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:43,719
Speaker 2: I was shocked that you went as long as you did.

1140
00:53:43,800 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 1: It really is yeah, I know, And now Jessica's swooped

1141
00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:47,640
Speaker 1: in and saved my entire life.

1142
00:53:48,280 --> 00:53:53,960
Speaker 2: Real Jessica. Jessica and Anna, our other assistant, are both

1143
00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:59,279
Speaker 2: coming to Bravo Kan in October, their first Bravo con

1144
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:00,879
Speaker 2: or second, because there's only been two.

1145
00:54:01,440 --> 00:54:04,360
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, if you're looking to hire an assistant,

1146
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:06,480
Speaker 1: having a female is the only way to go. No

1147
00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:08,759
Speaker 1: a fund, Sean, but for real to get this, get

1148
00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:15,080
Speaker 1: that shit done. On that note, on the female empowerment note,

1149
00:54:15,719 --> 00:54:18,640
Speaker 1: last reminder, We're going on tour. Get your tickets at

1150
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:21,680
Speaker 1: give Them Live dot com. Thank you so much for

1151
00:54:21,800 --> 00:54:24,600
Speaker 1: listening to another episode To Give Them La La with Randall,

1152
00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:26,960
Speaker 1: and we will talk to you next week.