1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 1: Previously on Weedian House. 2 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:08,400 Speaker 2: The vast majority of our precious human beings and precious 3 00:00:08,440 --> 00:00:13,039 Speaker 2: fellows citizens are there because they're dealing with the effects 4 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:18,240 Speaker 2: of a deeply unjust capitalist system that puts a priority 5 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:21,320 Speaker 2: on profit rather than satisfying human need. 6 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:23,800 Speaker 3: Do we have what it takes. 7 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 2: To acknowledge the rich humanity and creativity of each and 8 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 2: every one of us, including our precious on housed brothers 9 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 2: and sisters and sidects. 10 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 4: We need more services where people have options. You know, 11 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 4: you tell me, hey, I want you to get on 12 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:38,840 Speaker 4: your feet, but you have to go to this one 13 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:40,639 Speaker 4: program that's not helpful. 14 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 5: You know. 15 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 4: We need more therapeutic environments where you can say, what 16 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 4: do you need and let's work with you and create 17 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 4: something that's going to make you succeed. 18 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 1: Welcome back to Whedy and Howse. I'm your host, Theo Henderson. 19 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 1: This week we're going to talk about the increasing violence 20 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 1: done to the LGBTTIA community. We hope to add a 21 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:15,479 Speaker 1: new dimension to the community. Our guests have experienced houselessness 22 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 1: are currently experiencing insecure housing situations. Our guests offer a 23 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 1: unique insight into the difficulties of living in a volatile 24 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 1: environment as well as a hostile one. But first let 25 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:39,319 Speaker 1: us cover unhouse news first. Paul Carmarta, owner and manager 26 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 1: of Sunset Studios, is closing the studio due to the 27 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 1: unhoused community living nearby, citing Burglary arson and discomfort from 28 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 1: visiting artists. This is a developing story. Whedian House will 29 00:01:53,000 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: provide updates. Moving on to Chatsworth, California, Oberstein is council 30 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 1: Member John Lee's opponent for Council District twelve in the 31 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:09,920 Speaker 1: November election. She is promising the same solutions to houselessness 32 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 1: that every clueless politician offers. She believes council Member Lee 33 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: relies on forty one eighteen too much. Oberstein drops out 34 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:21,800 Speaker 1: the same tired popes with the unhoused, such as mental 35 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:27,800 Speaker 1: health subs and usage shelter and last housing, despite research 36 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 1: showing otherwise. In similar news, LA City Council members have 37 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:39,840 Speaker 1: kept a secret report on the failure of forty one eighteen. 38 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 1: I personally advocated against forty one eighteen, which is the 39 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:48,079 Speaker 1: new Jim Crow, which states that it's illegal for unhoused 40 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 1: people to sit, sleep, or lie anywhere from a postage side. 41 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:56,239 Speaker 1: Four years ago, forty one eighteen was voted in almost 42 00:02:56,360 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 1: unanimously by council members and signed into effect by former 43 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 1: Mayor Eric Garcetti. The report clearly state it does not 44 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,799 Speaker 1: house the in housed, nor stops the in house from 45 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 1: returning to the place that were swept from. In fact, 46 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 1: eighty one percent came back, ninety four percent of the 47 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:17,640 Speaker 1: in house one in housing, and eighteen percent were able 48 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 1: to get housed. Oberstein is more of the same. But 49 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:26,239 Speaker 1: I also wanted to reiterate how awful council Member John 50 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:28,639 Speaker 1: Lee has been to the young house community in the past. 51 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:30,959 Speaker 1: I'm going to read Eric clip we had on a 52 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 1: previous episode of weed in house, showing you just how 53 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 1: bad it gets people. 54 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 5: But we have drug addicts causas feeding their habits with 55 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 5: things like top forty seven, protecting that everyone knows. I 56 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 5: don't think I don't think I need to educate anyone 57 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 5: here on about forty seven. But you can steal how much 58 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 5: nine hundred and fifty dollars not for day for incidents 59 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 5: you're having you walking their school steal down amount and 60 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 5: is still consider pettites. 61 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:16,279 Speaker 1: And finally, we are reairing the list of with the 62 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 1: shelters available in the Los Angeles area through March thirty first. 63 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:24,920 Speaker 1: As usual, Weedian House cannot confirm what is available. This 64 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 1: is what is listed on loss's website at the time 65 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 1: end of recording. Next week we will do a deep 66 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 1: dive and to Loss's effectiveness or lack thereof forty four 67 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:44,679 Speaker 1: beds at Volunteers of America address forty five one hundred 68 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 1: and fifty sixtieth Street in West Lancaster, California. The population 69 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 1: they serve is co ED thirty five beds at Advancing 70 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 1: Communities Together. It is at thirty eight six hundred and 71 00:04:56,279 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 1: twenty six to ninth Street in East Palmdale, California. Only 72 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:04,279 Speaker 1: open from seven pm to seven am on weekdays and 73 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 1: twenty four hours on Saturday and Sunday. Population served co 74 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: ED fifty beds at home at last eighty seven sixty 75 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 1: eight South Broadway, Los Angeles. Population served women eleven beds 76 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:24,720 Speaker 1: at Assured Lifestyle Housing ninety five nineteen South Figaroa at 77 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 1: Los Angeles. Population served co ED nine beds at Assured 78 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 1: Lifestyle Housing seven hundred West Florence, Los Angeles. Population served 79 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:40,480 Speaker 1: co ed forty one beds at First Served seventeen eighteen 80 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 1: West Vernon Avenue, Los Angeles. Population served coed sixty beds 81 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 1: at Bryant Temple Community Development fifty five hundred South Hoover Street, 82 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 1: Los Angeles. Population served men, thirty two beds at Abundant 83 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:04,239 Speaker 1: Blessings eleven thirty three Southmore Avenue, Los Angeles. Population served men, 84 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 1: fifty five beds at New Reflections eighty three eleven Southwestern Avenue, 85 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 1: Los Angeles. Population served men, eleven beds at Whittier First 86 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 1: Day twelve four and twenty six Whittier Boulevard, Whittier, California. 87 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 1: Population served COIT and forty beds at First to serve 88 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 1: seven hundred and two West Anaheon Street. Long Beach, California 89 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:44,359 Speaker 1: population served COIT. And that's on House News. When we 90 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:46,839 Speaker 1: come back, we're going to speak with how self made 91 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 1: about his experience being on house and part of the 92 00:06:50,080 --> 00:07:03,279 Speaker 1: LGBTTIA community, talk about it. Two conversations with members of 93 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 1: the LGBQTIA community in Los Angeles. The three people I'm 94 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 1: speaking with today are all adults, but I wanted to 95 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:18,240 Speaker 1: make a note here there are thousands of young LGBQTIA 96 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 1: on house people living on the streets of LA As 97 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 1: I record this, it's hard to find current numbers. The 98 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:28,960 Speaker 1: last count made publicly available was around five thousand kids 99 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 1: in twenty twenty one, many of whom have become on 100 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 1: housed because they were turned out of their homes. We 101 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 1: would be remiss in not mentioning a recent tragedy involving 102 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 1: a sixteen year old non binary high school student who 103 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 1: was beaten to death at their high school, Owassa High 104 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 1: in Oklahoma. Next Benedict should still be alive, respected, loved, 105 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 1: and safe. Nexus death is the second violent killing of 106 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: a transgender or expansed a person in twenty twenty four. 107 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 1: This topic warrants further discussion, which is why Weed and 108 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 1: House wants to take this time to open the floor 109 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 1: to our three guests. First up, I'm speaking to my 110 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 1: friend How, self made and unhouse activist today in the studios. 111 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:22,800 Speaker 1: It's one of my personal friends and the guests that 112 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:26,600 Speaker 1: I've known since I started doing this podcast, and we're 113 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 1: going to talk a little bit about the successes, the challenges, 114 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: the rainbows, and sometimes the storms that is encountered with 115 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 1: the in house community. And it's particularly in the community 116 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 1: that How is a part of. So, without further ado, 117 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:43,320 Speaker 1: How take it away, tell us a little bit about yourself. 118 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 6: Let's see, I came to LA in twenty eighteen. September 119 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 6: of twenty eighteen, we my husband and I slept on 120 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 6: the beach for a couple of months and came inland 121 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:03,880 Speaker 6: to Hollywood between the middle of October and the first 122 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:07,960 Speaker 6: of November, because I remember being in some a park 123 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:14,320 Speaker 6: for Thanksgiving that year, and we moved inland to pitch 124 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 6: our tent because we found a tent row just south 125 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 6: of the LGBT Center, which is my epicenter for my 126 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:25,479 Speaker 6: health care. That's where I get all of my referrals 127 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 6: and prescription. 128 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 1: This is an inland empire or this Hollywood. 129 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:35,199 Speaker 6: Oh, this is in Hollywood, inland from the beach. When 130 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:38,559 Speaker 6: when we came to the LGBT Center from the beach 131 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 6: one day because I had an appointment, we found that 132 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 6: tent row right across from Somema Park and we got 133 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 6: absorbed into that community. Not long after that, I was 134 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 6: in March of next year when we moved into the 135 00:09:55,640 --> 00:10:00,040 Speaker 6: Schrader Shelter. We're there for nine months or so. 136 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 1: So what was your experiences like there at you know, 137 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: just trying to. 138 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 6: Highlight you know, rapid turnover ninety day rapid turnover for 139 00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:18,320 Speaker 6: case management. Nowhere near ninety day turnover for the clients, 140 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 6: which was promised. There's no such thing as safety. Meth 141 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:27,439 Speaker 6: smoke in the bunk areas was rampant. There was no enforcement. 142 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 6: What enforcement was was confiscating anything they found. But you 143 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 6: know there were people selling and making pipes there on 144 00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 6: the property, so what were they going to do about it? 145 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:43,240 Speaker 1: You bring up some interesting points because this conversation about 146 00:10:43,280 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 1: substance usage has expanded earlier before we came on. We 147 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 1: were talking about twenty or thirty years ago, how what 148 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 1: was seen as the pariah was marijuana smoking. I remember 149 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 1: my grandfather getting upset with my uncle because he smoked 150 00:10:57,280 --> 00:11:01,079 Speaker 1: we I mean this was eight seventies, but smoking weed 151 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 1: in the house and he had like a he had 152 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 1: a conniption. You know, it was like, you know, it 153 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:09,680 Speaker 1: was like you thought he was Pablo Escobar and it 154 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 1: was just a joint. And the thing with it is 155 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 1: is that when we're dealing with people in broken spaces 156 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 1: or broken places, you know, it's not easy to get 157 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:23,680 Speaker 1: off of things, and it's not easy to maintain sobriety 158 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 1: without having the infrastructure. One of my major points of 159 00:11:27,640 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 1: contention is lumping and putting everyone in the same facility. 160 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 1: And it's just like we're going to surgery. I wouldn't 161 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:37,440 Speaker 1: have surgery for you know, my heart if I have 162 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:40,720 Speaker 1: something wrong with my liver. So don't put people in 163 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 1: places that you know are not compatible. Put them or 164 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:46,840 Speaker 1: create places so they can be able to get the help. 165 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 1: And we need to let the empathy to understand exactly. 166 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 6: I'm all for harm reduction, but when considering harm reduction 167 00:11:55,960 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 6: for one group, when does that become harmful to another group? 168 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 6: And where do you draw the lines and how do 169 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:05,959 Speaker 6: you enforce those lines once they've been drawn. 170 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 1: Could it be they are having the same kind of 171 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 1: quandaries that we had like twenty or thirty years ago 172 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:14,079 Speaker 1: with marijuana. 173 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 7: Oh. 174 00:12:14,679 --> 00:12:17,480 Speaker 6: Absolutely. The stigma doesn't change, It just moves its targets. 175 00:12:18,520 --> 00:12:24,400 Speaker 6: And I'm pro substance. Don't get me wrong. The state 176 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:31,360 Speaker 6: of the world today requires that some kind of numbing happen. 177 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 6: If you are okay in today's world, you got a problem. 178 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:39,600 Speaker 6: If you can't see the things going on in the 179 00:12:39,600 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 6: world and be sober and okay, got a problem. You're 180 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 6: not seeing the same world that I'm seeing. And that's 181 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:51,000 Speaker 6: a problem because I feel like I'm firmly rooted in reality. 182 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:55,679 Speaker 1: You know, on my show, one of the things that 183 00:12:55,760 --> 00:12:59,319 Speaker 1: I try to do is that because the un houses 184 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 1: for all of us that has different maladies and challenges 185 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 1: that we have, particularly like substance and mental health, and 186 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:08,760 Speaker 1: wanted to make sure that we had the understanding like, 187 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:12,840 Speaker 1: for example, when you are not at your best, or 188 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 1: you're ill, or you are doing behaviors that are like 189 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:19,280 Speaker 1: you're saying, maybe it will become triggering or harmful to 190 00:13:19,320 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 1: other people. People don't understand that you're not getting up 191 00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:26,679 Speaker 1: is thinking to do that. It's just a psychological or 192 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 1: medical issue. And because we don't, our society lacks empathy, 193 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:34,559 Speaker 1: or we don't create places because we're going to have 194 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 1: to because it's a higher number of people on substances 195 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:40,960 Speaker 1: that are housed than it is an out housed. The 196 00:13:41,040 --> 00:13:44,280 Speaker 1: only problem with this is unhoused people get vilified because 197 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:46,440 Speaker 1: we don't have a place to hide or have a 198 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 1: place with treatment, because any mistake we do is and 199 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 1: then you're stigmatized, and then you're justified by creating these 200 00:13:55,280 --> 00:13:59,200 Speaker 1: punitive laws in order for us to justify behavior that's 201 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 1: also run them up in the House community. But we 202 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:06,960 Speaker 1: don't have that same impetus, which incidentally can't remember the state. 203 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:09,679 Speaker 1: But there's a place that's trying to put in the 204 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 1: death penalty for people that sell fentanyl. 205 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 6: Didn't they try that once before or twice before the crack? 206 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:21,920 Speaker 6: And yes they're trying to do it. Yeah, now that 207 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 6: we've proven that punitive laws don't work, rehabilitation works. The 208 00:14:32,760 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 6: prison system. The jail system is not designed to help anyone. 209 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 6: It is design, at least in America, it is designed 210 00:14:39,880 --> 00:14:42,600 Speaker 6: to increase the rate of recidivism. Because I don't know 211 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 6: if anyone missed the memo, but slavery never ended in 212 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:47,160 Speaker 6: the United States. They changed the name to protect the guilty. 213 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 6: They call it prison. 214 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:48,040 Speaker 5: Now. 215 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:52,000 Speaker 1: I was going to say, how did you become on house? 216 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 6: How did I become in house? I became on House 217 00:14:54,840 --> 00:15:00,240 Speaker 6: due to my transgender status. I'm from Tennessee, and I 218 00:15:00,360 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 6: left Tennessee just before they got the wild hair up 219 00:15:04,120 --> 00:15:07,120 Speaker 6: their ass and started all the anti trans and queer 220 00:15:07,160 --> 00:15:11,240 Speaker 6: and drag bills that are going on there. It became 221 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 6: apparent that I had started my transition. I was growing 222 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 6: some facial hair, I shaved my head, I was starting 223 00:15:17,440 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 6: trying to start my name change process, and my landlord's 224 00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 6: made up some egregious things to get me kicked out. 225 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:30,840 Speaker 6: It was They filed it as a lease violation, so 226 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:34,600 Speaker 6: it was a civil case, not a criminal case. It 227 00:15:34,680 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 6: was basically a debt collection, so I was not afforded 228 00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 6: a lawyer. I could not fight it. I represented myself. 229 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:43,000 Speaker 6: I talked my way out of it without an eviction 230 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 6: on my record. But we packed up everything we own 231 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:49,120 Speaker 6: or everything we could bring with us, and packed up 232 00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:53,600 Speaker 6: Honda Civic and started out here. September third, twenty eighteen. 233 00:15:53,800 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 1: I'm going to ask a very stupid question, so bear 234 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:59,240 Speaker 1: with me. Why didn't your family come to your eight 235 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:00,320 Speaker 1: What happen? 236 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 3: Oh? 237 00:16:04,040 --> 00:16:09,720 Speaker 6: Being from the South, my people were very conservative religious people, 238 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:15,880 Speaker 6: and being queer and trands as I am was not 239 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 6: to their expectations of my lifestyle. And I came to 240 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 6: a point in my thirties where I was no longer 241 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:28,360 Speaker 6: living for anyone else's expectations. I'm not responsible for your 242 00:16:28,400 --> 00:16:33,040 Speaker 6: perceptions of me, and that's a problem. 243 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 1: So that's basically played a cross role into your life development. 244 00:16:38,480 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 1: I came, yeah, so what made you leave Tennessee to 245 00:16:41,480 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 1: come here? 246 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:47,680 Speaker 6: Three catastrophes in three months leading up to September, we 247 00:16:47,800 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 6: got the eviction notice. I broke my ankle and we 248 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 6: got scammed out of eight hundred dollars trying to find 249 00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 6: a new place. Oh wow, for me, that just became 250 00:16:59,840 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 6: a signal from the universe. 251 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 3: To get the got a dodge, and I did. 252 00:17:05,800 --> 00:17:10,720 Speaker 6: I remember we were realizing that homelessness was becoming a thing, 253 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:13,840 Speaker 6: and we were, you know, sorting through things to either 254 00:17:13,840 --> 00:17:16,919 Speaker 6: be sold or donated to take with us, and we 255 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:20,440 Speaker 6: hadn't quite settled on our destination yet. We had been 256 00:17:20,480 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 6: thinking about Colorado Springs because I knew some people not 257 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:29,439 Speaker 6: far from Colorado Springs. But then we realized that it 258 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:32,119 Speaker 6: was September and the base of the mountains is no 259 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:34,840 Speaker 6: where you want to be in the winter in a tent, 260 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:38,919 Speaker 6: especially with you know, my particular sets of disabilities. So 261 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:42,159 Speaker 6: I'm talking to a friend of mine who's in the 262 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:45,280 Speaker 6: living room with me in our apartment in Antioch, and 263 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:49,199 Speaker 6: Jay is in the back. I think he's cleaning the 264 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:51,920 Speaker 6: bathroom or going through bathroom stuff. I don't remember exactly 265 00:17:51,920 --> 00:17:54,280 Speaker 6: what he was doing, but I looked over at my 266 00:17:54,359 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 6: friend and kind of under my breath, I was like, 267 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:00,200 Speaker 6: maybe we should just go to a legal state, live 268 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 6: in the car. And here comes Jay. Here is a 269 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:06,280 Speaker 6: little pitter patter of feet down the hallway, and. 270 00:18:06,240 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 3: He goes, let's do it, Like okay. 271 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:11,719 Speaker 6: So I started doing some more research and with you know, 272 00:18:11,840 --> 00:18:16,760 Speaker 6: my need for health care and our love cannabis and 273 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:21,399 Speaker 6: the weather, so cal was the only logical choice. 274 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:23,840 Speaker 3: I felt like we could. 275 00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:29,280 Speaker 6: Survive a winter outside being as wet and not as 276 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:33,880 Speaker 6: cold versus Tennessee or anywhere in the Southeast winters that 277 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 6: get both cold and wet. 278 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:40,680 Speaker 1: Wow. And we're interesting to note that many people pass 279 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:44,479 Speaker 1: away from hypothermia here than other places. But because of that, 280 00:18:44,520 --> 00:18:48,080 Speaker 1: because like you know, the warbid climbs and therein lies 281 00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:50,880 Speaker 1: a different issue. What was it like your first night 282 00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 1: being on house out here? 283 00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 6: The first night being in house, we stayed in the 284 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:57,399 Speaker 6: car and we were on Santa Monica Beach. We were 285 00:18:57,440 --> 00:19:02,320 Speaker 6: not far from Satamnica be Okay. I think we parked 286 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:07,040 Speaker 6: on Rose or Cherry Street. And then we pitched the 287 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 6: tent up next to a building where we saw other 288 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:11,040 Speaker 6: people pitching their tents. 289 00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:12,159 Speaker 3: It was weird. 290 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:14,960 Speaker 6: I'm not gonna lie. I did not feel safe. I 291 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:17,880 Speaker 6: didn't sleep a whole lot that night and then come 292 00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:21,040 Speaker 6: to find out we were sleeping on the beach at 293 00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:23,600 Speaker 6: the time. A serial killer was active killing people under 294 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:25,919 Speaker 6: Santa Monica peer and under Venice. 295 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 1: Pier, killing the house. 296 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:31,040 Speaker 6: Let's yes, yes, killing on house people sleeping under the piers. 297 00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:34,480 Speaker 6: And if it weren't for Kelly A and she's moved 298 00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:37,080 Speaker 6: back to Tennessee now, but she gave us a place 299 00:19:37,119 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 6: to sleep on her living room couch for about a 300 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:44,600 Speaker 6: week because she didn't want us live in on the 301 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:47,159 Speaker 6: beach when there was an active serial killer of on 302 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:47,800 Speaker 6: house people. 303 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:50,560 Speaker 1: Oh wow, So these are the stepbacks I had the 304 00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:53,840 Speaker 1: question about the setbacks and challenges of this act. Definitely 305 00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:58,040 Speaker 1: answers that question. Yes, so I remember, just to give 306 00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:02,240 Speaker 1: full disclosure, I remember, or like over three years ago now, 307 00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:06,200 Speaker 1: I had started a podcast called Weedy and House and 308 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:09,360 Speaker 1: I had been first. I started out small, started out 309 00:20:09,359 --> 00:20:12,480 Speaker 1: with my story and people that was living near me 310 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:15,480 Speaker 1: that was unhoused as well and getting their stories, and 311 00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:18,840 Speaker 1: then I took it to another place like Echo Park 312 00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:23,040 Speaker 1: and other locations to start to get other unhoused people. 313 00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:26,720 Speaker 1: Because initially the original idea when I started it was 314 00:20:26,840 --> 00:20:30,720 Speaker 1: people were trying to only have me do unhoused in 315 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:33,920 Speaker 1: skid Row. And I had lived as an unhouse person 316 00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:37,240 Speaker 1: all over and I knew that skid Row is always 317 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 1: heavily concentrated but also heavily focused on and a lot 318 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:45,199 Speaker 1: of other communities get shafted or don't get these the 319 00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:47,719 Speaker 1: same kind of respective love. So I said, well, if 320 00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:50,199 Speaker 1: I want to make this more applicable for everyone, I 321 00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:52,639 Speaker 1: have to expand it to other places, because they have 322 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:55,800 Speaker 1: different challenges than skid Row, you know, in which they 323 00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:58,160 Speaker 1: do you know and you have to understand. And there's 324 00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:02,040 Speaker 1: different policy sees that's going on in different treatments and 325 00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:06,600 Speaker 1: different realities. That's conversely very different than being on housed 326 00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:10,280 Speaker 1: in skid Row. So that's where I think we either 327 00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:12,720 Speaker 1: met there or we either met at Echo Park, because 328 00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:14,960 Speaker 1: I remember you were doing some activism as at that 329 00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:15,520 Speaker 1: time too. 330 00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:22,360 Speaker 6: My first interview was at Sunset and Cherokee when we 331 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:26,320 Speaker 6: had just gotten kicked out of the Schrader shelter for 332 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:28,560 Speaker 6: defending ourselves against a security guard. 333 00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:32,240 Speaker 1: Oh, I didn't hear this full story on that what happened. 334 00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:37,520 Speaker 6: So I spoke about meth being smoked in the bunk areas. 335 00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:40,080 Speaker 6: I don't judge anybody for their matthews. I just don't 336 00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 6: want to be exposed to it. That's not my lane. 337 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:44,639 Speaker 6: I don't like it, but it's not my business. If 338 00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:46,680 Speaker 6: that's what you choose to do, I just don't want 339 00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:49,840 Speaker 6: to be around it. So we had set up our 340 00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:53,959 Speaker 6: tent outside the shelter and we'd break it down every 341 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,199 Speaker 6: day and take it back inside. Somebody came out of 342 00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:59,240 Speaker 6: the shelter screaming at the top of their lungs, and 343 00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:03,480 Speaker 6: we hollered back, and then the security guard came down 344 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 6: off of his post, off of the shelter's property to 345 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:12,000 Speaker 6: attack us. When we defended, they called the cops on 346 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 6: us and had us kicked out. 347 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,600 Speaker 1: That power dynamic that goes on in these shelters, in 348 00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:20,359 Speaker 1: these hotels, it's not nearly talked about enough, but you 349 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:24,280 Speaker 1: know it should be, because these power dynamics make a 350 00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:27,520 Speaker 1: person that's an in vulnerable position even more vulnerable, and 351 00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:30,439 Speaker 1: much more in a place where they are going to 352 00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:34,520 Speaker 1: be impacted by, you know, whimsical decisions or cruel decisions. 353 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:39,200 Speaker 6: I had a former security guard at that shelter. I 354 00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:43,840 Speaker 6: ran into them years later, and they no longer worked 355 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:47,879 Speaker 6: for the security company. But They told me that during 356 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:51,240 Speaker 6: their security team meetings at the beginning and end of 357 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:55,880 Speaker 6: every shift, that they were told to antagonize the clients 358 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:58,600 Speaker 6: as much as possible, that they wanted as much turnover 359 00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:00,480 Speaker 6: as they could possible to get. 360 00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:02,680 Speaker 1: Why am I not surprised? 361 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:03,680 Speaker 5: Right? 362 00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 1: How did you navigate out of being out on house? 363 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:08,480 Speaker 1: What was the things that happened? 364 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:10,119 Speaker 3: You were a big part of that. 365 00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:13,199 Speaker 6: THEO You got me in touch with a lot of 366 00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:19,199 Speaker 6: different Newspeople journalists. There were articles written about me. I 367 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:23,160 Speaker 6: did interviews not just with you, but with Kate Cagele 368 00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 6: and Sam Lutzker and several other knock dot la journalists. 369 00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:32,440 Speaker 6: I also wrote a couple of articles myself for knock 370 00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:37,439 Speaker 6: dot La. I was eloquent, credible, disabled and educated. I 371 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:40,360 Speaker 6: got in front of every camera I wrote the articles. 372 00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:42,600 Speaker 6: I got in front of every microphone that would listen. 373 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:48,000 Speaker 6: It looked real bad. This is a media town. I 374 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:52,280 Speaker 6: learned very quickly that there's no such thing as bad press. 375 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:54,919 Speaker 6: That bad press for them was good press for me. 376 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:59,080 Speaker 6: And as soon as I started spilling the tea, things 377 00:23:59,119 --> 00:23:59,960 Speaker 6: started rolling. 378 00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:03,640 Speaker 1: That was that's why then we in the house. I'm 379 00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:06,280 Speaker 1: very proud to hear that it was an agent of 380 00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:09,119 Speaker 1: change or agent of positive movement, because that's what I 381 00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:11,440 Speaker 1: want to do for more on house community to get 382 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:14,479 Speaker 1: their stories out. Because I was having a conversation a 383 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:18,560 Speaker 1: while ago about the differences in how mainstream media covers 384 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:21,200 Speaker 1: the stories and then how we did in house covers 385 00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:24,840 Speaker 1: because sometimes the lens is they only touch on the 386 00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:27,359 Speaker 1: surface or the shallow parts because they trying to make 387 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:31,560 Speaker 1: it palatable for house people to either care, whereas we 388 00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:34,679 Speaker 1: take it more of a deeper dive. And then we also, 389 00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:36,960 Speaker 1: which I've been really trying to do now, is do 390 00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 1: more follow up to make sure that the story doesn't 391 00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:42,720 Speaker 1: get lost into the next Taylor Swift concert or you 392 00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:44,040 Speaker 1: know those kind of things. 393 00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:46,679 Speaker 6: That unhoused lodge matters. 394 00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:52,200 Speaker 1: But it's unfortunately, you know, we have you know, it's 395 00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:55,080 Speaker 1: ingrained in us because we believe our media are forth 396 00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:57,480 Speaker 1: for state is going to tell us the truths or 397 00:24:57,680 --> 00:25:02,639 Speaker 1: it's going or it's the paragon on journalistic integrity. But 398 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:05,040 Speaker 1: we've found as being on House and Spent, well, I've 399 00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:08,320 Speaker 1: been our revenue being a black man, But on House 400 00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:11,399 Speaker 1: and Black I knew that there is a lot of 401 00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:14,800 Speaker 1: key issues, a lot of key stories that are being omitted, 402 00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 1: and I'm so glad to see the mainstream media get 403 00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 1: a fire on the ass and start to do do 404 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:22,840 Speaker 1: their job and reporting the whole story for it. And 405 00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:26,639 Speaker 1: it worked hopefully well for you too. I do remember, 406 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:28,919 Speaker 1: I know if you may not remember that, I do remember. 407 00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:30,639 Speaker 1: There was a wedding marriage. 408 00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:33,359 Speaker 6: Yes, yes, so Jay and I got married while we 409 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:35,520 Speaker 6: lived outside April the twentieth. 410 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:37,200 Speaker 3: We tried the first time April the. 411 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:40,800 Speaker 6: Twentieth of twenty nineteen. Our efficient did not mail in 412 00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:44,360 Speaker 6: our wedding our marriage license in time, so it did 413 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:47,760 Speaker 6: not go through. We ended up making it official on 414 00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 6: April the twentieth, twenty twenty one, two years later, which 415 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:56,080 Speaker 6: was also featured on Weed The Unhoused. Yes, he provided 416 00:25:56,080 --> 00:26:05,520 Speaker 6: all the videography and images were provided by Jeremy Littenfield. 417 00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:10,560 Speaker 6: I think so, I'm probably murdering his last night, Okay, 418 00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:15,159 Speaker 6: but yes, lots of the activist community and we the 419 00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:18,679 Speaker 6: unhoused community, came together and threw us a nice wedding 420 00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 6: and reception in I forget which park it was in, 421 00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:23,440 Speaker 6: but it was a beautiful park. 422 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:26,840 Speaker 1: That's great. Like I said, you know, there's like there's 423 00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:30,280 Speaker 1: a whole economy of being on house, we'd always are 424 00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:34,080 Speaker 1: not grim and looking, you know, looking very unhappy, which 425 00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:37,000 Speaker 1: it's a hard circumstance, but we tried to find joy 426 00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:39,920 Speaker 1: in all of the elements of living, which like house 427 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,160 Speaker 1: people do too, which but I also wanted to point 428 00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:44,400 Speaker 1: that out that there was some positive things going on. 429 00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:47,800 Speaker 1: You were able to get your situation in a more 430 00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:50,800 Speaker 1: of a stable environment and then have the level of 431 00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:54,480 Speaker 1: your life with you, yes, and take it from those 432 00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:58,879 Speaker 1: extraordinary heights. And I wanted to ask just to make 433 00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:00,439 Speaker 1: sure what's next for you? 434 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,440 Speaker 6: What's next? Jay and I are in the process of 435 00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:08,080 Speaker 6: storyboarding and starting to create content for our own podcasts 436 00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:13,000 Speaker 6: that we want to start, and Jay is also writing 437 00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:17,760 Speaker 6: some music. I'm trying to write a couple of books. 438 00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:21,800 Speaker 6: I'm painting. I'm painting again, which is awesome. I haven't 439 00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:24,480 Speaker 6: been painting in a while. My life is kind of 440 00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:27,680 Speaker 6: boring theo I'm disabled. I don't, you know, I don't 441 00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:29,760 Speaker 6: really go out a whole lot, or at least I 442 00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:32,640 Speaker 6: hadn't until I gotten my new chair. I had been 443 00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:34,960 Speaker 6: getting out quite a bit, and then my chair started 444 00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:36,800 Speaker 6: to fall apart and I had to start staying home more. 445 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:40,720 Speaker 6: And I got my new chair on Valentine's Day, so 446 00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:43,320 Speaker 6: I'm back in the mix. I don't have to worry 447 00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:47,960 Speaker 6: about my battery charge anymore. I'm good, I can go. 448 00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:51,119 Speaker 1: Oh, that's awesome. Well, I guess as one of the 449 00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:54,200 Speaker 1: benefits of you know, having upgraded you know wheelcha, I 450 00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:56,159 Speaker 1: can tell is thatch more sleeker than the other one? 451 00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:57,440 Speaker 1: That one was a little more cumbersome. 452 00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:01,040 Speaker 6: Yes, well, this one is a little wider, so I'm 453 00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:05,200 Speaker 6: having to get used to that, but it is more comfortable. 454 00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:09,640 Speaker 6: Also having to relearn my muscle memory because my control 455 00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:11,800 Speaker 6: arm is on the left instead of the right this time, 456 00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:14,600 Speaker 6: but I wanted it that way because it's easier to 457 00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:17,480 Speaker 6: open doors with my dominant hand and drive with my 458 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:21,600 Speaker 6: non dominant hand. Getting doors open with my control arm 459 00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:24,720 Speaker 6: on the right hand side was difficult, to say the least. 460 00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:30,040 Speaker 6: I don't know why automatic doors are not the standard everywhere. 461 00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:35,639 Speaker 6: I just wish people would understand that accessibility for people 462 00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:39,560 Speaker 6: like me, if it were included everywhere, would grant access 463 00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:44,400 Speaker 6: to everyone. It's not just a benefit for me. It 464 00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:46,480 Speaker 6: makes things better for everyone. 465 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,320 Speaker 1: Which pitfall is that you find that's going on with 466 00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 1: making it accessible. 467 00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:56,120 Speaker 6: On my way here today, coming down from Hollywood Boulevard. 468 00:28:56,760 --> 00:29:02,560 Speaker 6: There is no accessible sidewalk I noticed. To get here today, 469 00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:05,080 Speaker 6: I could not find an accessible way to get up 470 00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:06,560 Speaker 6: to the sidewalk. I had to go out in the 471 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:08,840 Speaker 6: middle of the street to get up to the parking 472 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:10,640 Speaker 6: lot to get up to the ramp door, and then 473 00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:12,240 Speaker 6: when I got to the ramp door, the ramp door 474 00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:17,400 Speaker 6: was closed and locked. Accessibility is an afterthought in not 475 00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:19,680 Speaker 6: just in this city, but in general. 476 00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:24,360 Speaker 1: I saw recently too, there was a disabled woman that 477 00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:27,160 Speaker 1: made it a statement. I guess when she says, like, 478 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:34,200 Speaker 1: there's a parking lot and someone parks close to where 479 00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:37,280 Speaker 1: they are and they can't get she can't get out. 480 00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:39,480 Speaker 1: It's like you had to spend like two or three 481 00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:41,640 Speaker 1: hours waiting for the person to come back to drive 482 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:43,640 Speaker 1: away because you can't get a wheelchair. 483 00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:50,280 Speaker 6: If someone parks even just an inch into the space 484 00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:56,000 Speaker 6: beside an accessible space, you are preventing someone from getting 485 00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:59,560 Speaker 6: their ramp out or getting their chair in and out 486 00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:05,200 Speaker 6: of their vehare and that it makes me feel every 487 00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:08,240 Speaker 6: time I see it. I want to leave passive aggressive notes, 488 00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:12,280 Speaker 6: but like most of the time, I don't have time 489 00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:12,560 Speaker 6: for that. 490 00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:15,920 Speaker 1: I understand that's a very good point too. I didn't 491 00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:18,520 Speaker 1: think that's one of the difficulties where people that are 492 00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:22,720 Speaker 1: have the accessibility, I don't realize that not everyone has 493 00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:25,480 Speaker 1: and you have to be aware of that or even 494 00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:29,600 Speaker 1: tune into that. Because I am disabled as well, and 495 00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:32,760 Speaker 1: I sometimes when it like it's very cold and things 496 00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:35,320 Speaker 1: like that, my authorities accept. But one of the things 497 00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:37,200 Speaker 1: that I do notice is like where I need to 498 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,479 Speaker 1: be able to sit. For example, I was in an 499 00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:41,440 Speaker 1: event and I want to name the event, but the 500 00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:45,480 Speaker 1: event was it was so crammed that there was really 501 00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:47,640 Speaker 1: no place for me to sit and it was so 502 00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:50,440 Speaker 1: uncomfortable because I couldn't really sit because everyone was on 503 00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:53,240 Speaker 1: the ground. And I said, and so I'm like, well, 504 00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:55,200 Speaker 1: you know, and I thought to myself, the next event 505 00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:58,480 Speaker 1: I'm going to we ever do we won't be doing 506 00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:00,960 Speaker 1: that because we have to understand not every money is 507 00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,600 Speaker 1: able to just PLoP in or just want to be 508 00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:06,640 Speaker 1: crammed in like that, because there's a lot of other 509 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:07,760 Speaker 1: issues going on there. 510 00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:09,960 Speaker 6: So that's something else that a lot of people are 511 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:13,280 Speaker 6: not aware of that I wish they would be. You're 512 00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:20,000 Speaker 6: able bodied and sound minded status, it's temporary for everyone. 513 00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:23,400 Speaker 6: Is it not the goal to live long? Enough to 514 00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:24,959 Speaker 6: get out of braid and feeble bodied. 515 00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:30,200 Speaker 1: They're true. Well, How, You've definitely given us a lot 516 00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:33,120 Speaker 1: to talk about. And is there anything that I've forgotten 517 00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:34,320 Speaker 1: to mention or want to bring up. 518 00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:38,800 Speaker 6: No, I think we've covered just about everything, and you 519 00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:40,480 Speaker 6: know I'm always down to come back. 520 00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:41,680 Speaker 3: I love talking with you. 521 00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:45,719 Speaker 6: I think you're doing good work here and I'm always 522 00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:47,200 Speaker 6: down to contribute any way. 523 00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:48,240 Speaker 3: I possibly can't. 524 00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:50,959 Speaker 1: The same here, So I said, you know, you've been 525 00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:53,040 Speaker 1: an integral part of Weed in House when I started, 526 00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:55,280 Speaker 1: and I always wanted to always follow up and check 527 00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:58,520 Speaker 1: out how things are going. I'm in the process of 528 00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:01,240 Speaker 1: doing some other exciting things and hopefully you will be 529 00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:04,080 Speaker 1: part of that too as well. And like I said, 530 00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:12,320 Speaker 1: thank you again, how for coming in. Thanks so much 531 00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:15,320 Speaker 1: to HOW. When we come back, we'll be talking to 532 00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:24,640 Speaker 1: Leslie and d Welcome back to Weedy and How. I'm 533 00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:29,200 Speaker 1: your host, Theo Henderson. Our next conversation is with Unhoused 534 00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:30,960 Speaker 1: Plans activists Leslie. 535 00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:39,239 Speaker 3: And d Hi. My name is de my friend uns 536 00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:39,680 Speaker 3: are Shive. 537 00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:42,320 Speaker 8: I'll be talking on this podcast about my partner and 538 00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:45,880 Speaker 8: I story regarding our experiences on Nile's individuals, as well 539 00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:49,120 Speaker 8: as our experience with our negative experiences with some of 540 00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:51,640 Speaker 8: the airbnb industry as well as Motel's. 541 00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:54,560 Speaker 3: Other than that, Leslie, do you want to take it away? 542 00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:59,680 Speaker 7: Yeah, Leslie. Here, I'm also with my partner as well 543 00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:03,920 Speaker 7: as well the kind hosts of the show. I also 544 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:06,280 Speaker 7: will be talking about the trials and tribulations of being 545 00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:09,960 Speaker 7: on house as well as especially the plight that happens 546 00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,800 Speaker 7: to befall a lot of the trends in Queer community 547 00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:17,320 Speaker 7: and then that happens to have numerous disadvantages and is 548 00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:25,280 Speaker 7: frequently really just inaccessible in terms of resources out there. 549 00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:29,640 Speaker 7: Many folks out there just do not understand the amount 550 00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:34,000 Speaker 7: of problems that many many in our community happened to have, 551 00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:39,920 Speaker 7: and how rampant issues of being unhoused as well as 552 00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:45,040 Speaker 7: just the really really bad situation that happens out there 553 00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:47,239 Speaker 7: in just the streets as is. 554 00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:50,040 Speaker 1: A few years ago, I was stabbed and I had 555 00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:54,120 Speaker 1: to take have convalescing care. And the reason I'm prefacing 556 00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:56,720 Speaker 1: the story because I want to point out where I 557 00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:59,240 Speaker 1: was convalescing at. It was that one of the self 558 00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:03,440 Speaker 1: Asian Army type of shelters. Now, in this particular instance, 559 00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:07,120 Speaker 1: it was extremely rainy, it was a cold, rainy day 560 00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:11,160 Speaker 1: and there was an unhoused trans woman that was trying 561 00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:15,640 Speaker 1: to get entry into the Salvation Army shelter and they 562 00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:18,759 Speaker 1: gave her, I'm going to go on the limits to 563 00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:21,680 Speaker 1: her a very hard time. They didn't admit her. That 564 00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:25,200 Speaker 1: was one of the most vivid incidents that really one 565 00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:27,839 Speaker 1: angered me because everyone needs you. I don't give them. 566 00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 1: What part of humanity do you you align yourself with 567 00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:35,040 Speaker 1: the humanity of us? As understanding, it was a cold night, 568 00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:38,680 Speaker 1: it was rainy, she had no place to go, and 569 00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:42,160 Speaker 1: she was trying to get into guess what, a shelter 570 00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:45,320 Speaker 1: in order for there to be saved, and they turned 571 00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:49,160 Speaker 1: her away because Salvation already has that religious homophobic and 572 00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:53,920 Speaker 1: transphobia phobia, and it trickles down into the staff security 573 00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:57,000 Speaker 1: and no one to really push back for them to 574 00:34:57,120 --> 00:35:01,640 Speaker 1: do better. And that really carried over with understanding that 575 00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:04,800 Speaker 1: you know, we all are maybe in the same ocean, 576 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:06,480 Speaker 1: but some of us are not in the boat, or 577 00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:08,880 Speaker 1: some of us are being thrown off the boat or 578 00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:11,080 Speaker 1: not even getting entry into the boat in order to 579 00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:15,040 Speaker 1: find refuge. So with that I will lead into the 580 00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:19,839 Speaker 1: conversation with as trans community members, what is the most 581 00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:23,160 Speaker 1: difficult thing that you find that our society should understand. 582 00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:26,160 Speaker 8: Oh wow, that's a good question. There's a lot be 583 00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:29,719 Speaker 8: it with the shelters. Salvation Army is absolutely no, is 584 00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:31,759 Speaker 8: not the only one doing this type of stuff. It's 585 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:34,640 Speaker 8: even a lot of the non religious shelters. The religious 586 00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:37,160 Speaker 8: ones are definitely the worst ones. Like this trans woman 587 00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:40,080 Speaker 8: you're talking about with the Salvation Army is not the 588 00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:43,640 Speaker 8: exception us as trans people ourselves have even gone to 589 00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:47,439 Speaker 8: non religious shelters and face the same experience. But where 590 00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:50,000 Speaker 8: we're from back home, there's what is it called the 591 00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:52,880 Speaker 8: one in Lancing, the shelter that we tried to go 592 00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:56,560 Speaker 8: Holy Cross, Holy Cross, same thing, same thing. Like you 593 00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:59,120 Speaker 8: go in there, a lot of them will pretend to 594 00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:01,680 Speaker 8: be accepting and say they're trans friendly, but you'll go 595 00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 8: in there, you'll face numerous microaggressions even hell, even macroaggressions, 596 00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:07,560 Speaker 8: and they'll they'll just put you on a waiting list 597 00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:09,840 Speaker 8: until the end of time. They'll put you down the 598 00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:13,839 Speaker 8: priority list. Even at secular shelters, you'll face that same thing. 599 00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:16,120 Speaker 8: And it's it's a disgrace, is what it really is. 600 00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:20,400 Speaker 8: And it's hard enough being unhoused as anybody in this country, 601 00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:24,000 Speaker 8: but especially as a minority, be it bipop, trans, anything 602 00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:28,240 Speaker 8: like that. And yeah, no, if we're talking about shelters, 603 00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:30,560 Speaker 8: it's a nightmare out there, like all over the country, 604 00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:32,440 Speaker 8: and it needs to be talked about an address. 605 00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:33,480 Speaker 3: I would definitely say that. 606 00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:39,240 Speaker 7: Yeah, So speaking on that exact issue about Holy Cross, 607 00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:42,879 Speaker 7: we originally from Michigan and we came out here because 608 00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:45,719 Speaker 7: we had no other options, like I mean, otherwise would 609 00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:47,319 Speaker 7: be freezing out in the snow in a tent, trying 610 00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:50,719 Speaker 7: to get by with an alcohol eater and some propane heater. 611 00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:55,160 Speaker 7: And there's numerous issues of that one, especially speaking from 612 00:36:55,440 --> 00:37:00,320 Speaker 7: experience organizing. When it comes to Lansing, where we actually 613 00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:04,840 Speaker 7: came from and Lancing, there is the shelter holy Cross, 614 00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:09,560 Speaker 7: which already itself does not have the capacity to handle 615 00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:14,120 Speaker 7: the issues. Gentrification no matter where it is is rampant. 616 00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:18,320 Speaker 7: It's is such a crisis. There is no ectable housing 617 00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:22,719 Speaker 7: for POC queer folks, especially a trans community. When it 618 00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:25,560 Speaker 7: comes to holy Cross, the shoot, we're talking about a 619 00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:29,239 Speaker 7: few dozen beds and we're talking about hundreds that led 620 00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:34,520 Speaker 7: to encampments bewew thousands being set up, and then there's 621 00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:37,200 Speaker 7: cities like Grand Rapids where. 622 00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:40,279 Speaker 1: Finished my undergraduate and Grand Rapids, so I know you 623 00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:42,200 Speaker 1: get Christian Reform. 624 00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:53,200 Speaker 7: Fast country for sure. No even there, we have Guiding 625 00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:58,640 Speaker 7: Light and that program happens to be a very work exchange, 626 00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:01,919 Speaker 7: also religious based, where you have to work and then 627 00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:04,360 Speaker 7: all of your proceeds happen to go right back in 628 00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:08,480 Speaker 7: the program. Go to Detroit. You have Detroit Rescue Mission 629 00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:14,040 Speaker 7: and that's let's be honest, it's a joke because the 630 00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:19,200 Speaker 7: money isn't there. The city does not pour funds into it, 631 00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:22,239 Speaker 7: the nonprofits in the area do not pour funds into it. 632 00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:27,080 Speaker 7: And the housing crisis is astronomical, with one out of 633 00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:31,200 Speaker 7: four houses being condemned. And just fall on far you 634 00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:35,160 Speaker 7: got a complete it's it's it's it's fucked up. 635 00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:37,600 Speaker 1: Allow me to ask. I don't want to say it's 636 00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:41,120 Speaker 1: an ignorant question, but a common question when I was 637 00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:43,960 Speaker 1: on house and then people ask me this question, but 638 00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:46,120 Speaker 1: where are your parents? Where are your family? You know 639 00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:49,000 Speaker 1: that kind of thing, that question because you know, magically, 640 00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:51,120 Speaker 1: I just love to be out here in the elements. 641 00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:54,439 Speaker 1: But there's always complexities, so can I asks. 642 00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:57,920 Speaker 8: Yeah, as for family, I have two sides of the family. 643 00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:00,319 Speaker 8: One is my father's side, and as a trans person, 644 00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:02,560 Speaker 8: like I feel like I don't really need to say 645 00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:05,719 Speaker 8: anything else about that they're not in the picture. My 646 00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:08,080 Speaker 8: mother's side is more tricky when it comes to them, 647 00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:10,719 Speaker 8: they either don't have the financial resources to really help 648 00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:13,520 Speaker 8: or I'm just gonna be honest, like I like part 649 00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:15,640 Speaker 8: of them, like don't really approve of my relationship with 650 00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:17,719 Speaker 8: my partner, and I've come forward and say like, hey, look, 651 00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:20,160 Speaker 8: I love this person and I'm going to choose to 652 00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:22,359 Speaker 8: live my life the way I want to live it. 653 00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:25,360 Speaker 8: And when it comes to my father's side of the 654 00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:28,880 Speaker 8: family is conservative and that's easy, you just cut contact. 655 00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:31,799 Speaker 8: But the other one, like with the some of the 656 00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:34,439 Speaker 8: neoliberal types, it can be harder because it's like more 657 00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:37,839 Speaker 8: microaggression YE toward and it's hard to really tell if 658 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,279 Speaker 8: it's from disapproval or if it's just from not having 659 00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:43,400 Speaker 8: the financial resources to really help. Some of them have 660 00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:45,439 Speaker 8: been great, like some of them have helped any way 661 00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:48,080 Speaker 8: they can, but has has not been substantial enough to 662 00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:49,760 Speaker 8: get us on our feet, and that's not their fault. 663 00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:52,320 Speaker 8: But when it comes to the other side of the family, 664 00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:55,160 Speaker 8: you know, there's just not the support really there to 665 00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:56,520 Speaker 8: get me on my feet. 666 00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:57,640 Speaker 1: Very well, Leslie. 667 00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:00,560 Speaker 7: Honestly, how I got into a relationship trip with this 668 00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:03,040 Speaker 7: one was it happened to be during the pandemic. 669 00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:05,759 Speaker 3: I remember that. 670 00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:10,439 Speaker 7: We were good friends and kind of a relationship going, 671 00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:15,200 Speaker 7: but we were never involved, especially because of all the 672 00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:20,719 Speaker 7: duress that well just society places upon us. We ended 673 00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:26,320 Speaker 7: up as a result, getting into fine enough the George 674 00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:29,799 Speaker 7: Floyda Uprising. This is where we met, and both of 675 00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:35,400 Speaker 7: us were also in an extreme housing crisis during the pandemic. 676 00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:39,319 Speaker 7: No less, as a result, I ended up trying to 677 00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:43,120 Speaker 7: reach out to this one. We went out together and 678 00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:48,520 Speaker 7: got involved and started we're finding ourselves and finding community. 679 00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:52,440 Speaker 7: My family, they did not approve that. They did not 680 00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:56,920 Speaker 7: approve of that whatsoever. And that's a real story for 681 00:40:57,160 --> 00:41:02,480 Speaker 7: many weather politically involved, door just trying to find themselves 682 00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:07,440 Speaker 7: or transitioning. One of the most terrifying and sad prospects 683 00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:10,560 Speaker 7: I've ever seen when it comes to trans meetings happens 684 00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:16,320 Speaker 7: to be that anyone comes in regardless of their expression, 685 00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:21,200 Speaker 7: whether they're transitioning from you know, female the male or 686 00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:23,760 Speaker 7: male to female where they're non binary, their gender fluid, 687 00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:26,560 Speaker 7: or their genderqueer. It does no matter anywhere in the umbrella, 688 00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:28,799 Speaker 7: and it's going to apply to us, to square folk 689 00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:33,440 Speaker 7: as well. Big issue in the first question always asked 690 00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:36,839 Speaker 7: by the entire group as well as the coordinators, is 691 00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:40,800 Speaker 7: I'm glad that you're coming out. Do you have somewhere 692 00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:46,000 Speaker 7: to go? And then my case, I I was thrown out, 693 00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:48,200 Speaker 7: and I'm like, only thanks to this one, did I 694 00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:49,040 Speaker 7: have somewhere to go? 695 00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:51,719 Speaker 8: I was happy to do it because we're we're all 696 00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:55,040 Speaker 8: in this together, and I love you so sorry, I'm 697 00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:58,280 Speaker 8: getting choked up here and yeah. 698 00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:01,440 Speaker 1: That and it's distressed and I do know that the 699 00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:04,520 Speaker 1: untold stories of the harm that that's gone on, it's 700 00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:07,719 Speaker 1: you know, I've only did a piece of it watching it, 701 00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,160 Speaker 1: and it was really distressing to me. I could just 702 00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:15,480 Speaker 1: only imagine the horror having to go through that, and personally, well, 703 00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:18,080 Speaker 1: let's get to a little bit more happier kind of thing. 704 00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:23,720 Speaker 1: So what have you? You know, breaking down too much, 705 00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:27,719 Speaker 1: But I wanted to talk about as the experience, what 706 00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:30,480 Speaker 1: made you come to California? What propelled you guys to 707 00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:30,919 Speaker 1: come here? 708 00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:33,879 Speaker 8: Well, what made us come to California is we have 709 00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:37,520 Speaker 8: a wonderful support network through our comrade that put a 710 00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:40,000 Speaker 8: word on us to even be on this show, and 711 00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:45,239 Speaker 8: he has been absolutely fantastic. It's kind of like a 712 00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:49,000 Speaker 8: fold of just queer folks that just we stick together, 713 00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:52,280 Speaker 8: we do actions, and we all have each other's backs. 714 00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:56,480 Speaker 8: It's about queer community and self determination and are just 715 00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:59,120 Speaker 8: mutual aid, like true mutual aid. 716 00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:01,440 Speaker 3: And was really really eye. 717 00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:05,040 Speaker 8: Opening to see true mutual aid because some of the 718 00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:06,719 Speaker 8: groups that we have been involved with in the past, 719 00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:08,400 Speaker 8: they'll claim to be a mutual aid, but there'll be 720 00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:12,000 Speaker 8: an expectation there. In this case, great folks, they they 721 00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:14,279 Speaker 8: took us out here, they took us under their wing, 722 00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:18,000 Speaker 8: and I'm just gonna be honest, like save their lives. 723 00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:20,960 Speaker 8: Like if it weren't for them, like our and our comrades, 724 00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:23,160 Speaker 8: like we would not be in a good spot. And 725 00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:27,080 Speaker 8: here we are in sunny Hollywood, California, like being able 726 00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:29,400 Speaker 8: to tell our stories on this podcast. So I just 727 00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:31,480 Speaker 8: wanted to give like a big shout out to those folks. 728 00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:34,879 Speaker 1: Perfect what's the group? What's the name of the group? 729 00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:36,719 Speaker 3: I don't really think we go by any name. We 730 00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:39,200 Speaker 3: just wear the just pink rags. 731 00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:40,319 Speaker 1: Yet, Okay, we. 732 00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:45,200 Speaker 7: Believe in the decentralized, autonomous kind of model based on 733 00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:49,160 Speaker 7: various principles of queer liberation. Right now we are in 734 00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:54,160 Speaker 7: I would say this olver lining to the horrors that 735 00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:58,840 Speaker 7: are occurring in many states with us being you know, 736 00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:02,240 Speaker 7: I'm not gonna and dance around the issue. It's apocrim 737 00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:07,440 Speaker 7: it's genocide. And housing and economic injustice is a form, 738 00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:12,319 Speaker 7: especially perpetrated and not all the unhoused community, but especially 739 00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:15,919 Speaker 7: those of color, and those are trands. And if you're 740 00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:20,160 Speaker 7: trans enough of color, I'm so sorry because of the 741 00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:22,880 Speaker 7: shit that happens. 742 00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:23,759 Speaker 3: Especially immigrants. 743 00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:27,120 Speaker 1: Well and particularly this is sailing it to the point too. 744 00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:30,120 Speaker 1: As you probably heard, the Supreme Court is now listening 745 00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:32,960 Speaker 1: in on how to treat unhoused people and that's going 746 00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:36,040 Speaker 1: to be applicable to every facet of houselessness. As you 747 00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:39,520 Speaker 1: can understand, the nimbies are waiting with baited breadth, you know, 748 00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:42,239 Speaker 1: you know, the law enforcement everyone's trying to find that 749 00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:45,759 Speaker 1: way to have that final solution. And their solutions are 750 00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:49,480 Speaker 1: always guided by a carcorough or carrot stick approach kind 751 00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:52,200 Speaker 1: of thing. So we know where there are aren't it. 752 00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:55,560 Speaker 1: But the Supreme Court justices, we wanted to know where 753 00:44:55,600 --> 00:44:58,239 Speaker 1: do they stand because some of them are Republican and 754 00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:02,239 Speaker 1: they have that relief system that maybe they do, who knows, 755 00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:06,359 Speaker 1: because they can surprise me, and you know, believing that 756 00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:10,000 Speaker 1: houselessness is a personal choice and you know, in which 757 00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:11,880 Speaker 1: I used to hear if all you have to do 758 00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:14,360 Speaker 1: is pick yourself up off your footstraps and all of 759 00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:19,200 Speaker 1: these nonsensical things, and it gets frustrating sometimes. I think 760 00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:22,040 Speaker 1: it's much more difficult to talk to people that have 761 00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:25,279 Speaker 1: experienced it for a brief period but don't understand the 762 00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:28,480 Speaker 1: nuances or to back your story and believe because they 763 00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:30,040 Speaker 1: did it that you should be able to do it 764 00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:33,440 Speaker 1: magically as well. Conversely with the Nimbi Nimbi Union like well, 765 00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:35,480 Speaker 1: because they don't want to know, They just basically are 766 00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:39,160 Speaker 1: comfortable with, you know, blaming you. And that's easy. They 767 00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:42,239 Speaker 1: don't have to encapsulate or even you know, calculate any 768 00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:44,600 Speaker 1: kind of compassion. They don't care. You know, they'll use 769 00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:48,520 Speaker 1: their religion, they'll use whatever personal things, or use stereotypes, 770 00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:50,920 Speaker 1: whatever it is to get them to going and feeling 771 00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:55,160 Speaker 1: that they are justified and dehumanizing you. So further on, 772 00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:57,880 Speaker 1: I wanted to as we talk about dealing with this, 773 00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:01,520 Speaker 1: you guys were activist as well, because I understand my 774 00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:04,120 Speaker 1: mutual friend mentioned a little bit about that. Can you 775 00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:05,400 Speaker 1: talk a little bit about that please. 776 00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:08,759 Speaker 8: I'm not really sure about like how much I can 777 00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:11,759 Speaker 8: say over the air, but we were very involved with 778 00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:15,719 Speaker 8: a lot of direct action and mutual aid. We had 779 00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:18,720 Speaker 8: put just as much into mutual aid for the unhoused 780 00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:21,800 Speaker 8: in many a city now for the sake of operational security. 781 00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:24,439 Speaker 8: I don't want to name which cities, but we had 782 00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:28,720 Speaker 8: our own collectives set up back stateside in Michigan. And 783 00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:31,680 Speaker 8: what we did is basically when we were unhoused ourselves 784 00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:34,160 Speaker 8: is we had our little van and it was it 785 00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:36,000 Speaker 8: was just a beat her up, beat me up van. 786 00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:38,320 Speaker 8: Just had to start the dang thing with a butter knife, 787 00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:41,200 Speaker 8: and we gathered up as many supplies as we could, 788 00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:44,000 Speaker 8: and we would use a model of we were like 789 00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:47,520 Speaker 8: a mobile distro, and we would drive down to encampments 790 00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:50,760 Speaker 8: and we'd pass out food, we'd pass out supplies, narcan, 791 00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:53,719 Speaker 8: just about anything we could get our hands on to 792 00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:56,520 Speaker 8: help the community. And I think that there needs to 793 00:46:56,600 --> 00:46:58,719 Speaker 8: be more of that, and I see that within our 794 00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:01,560 Speaker 8: queer folk, and just as we the in house is 795 00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:03,440 Speaker 8: the name of the podcast, we would go down and 796 00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,560 Speaker 8: help the people at the encampments. That's what I like 797 00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:08,080 Speaker 8: to see with our queer community folks here is it's 798 00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:09,200 Speaker 8: very much the same approach. 799 00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:11,280 Speaker 3: It's it's not top down structure. 800 00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:15,400 Speaker 8: It's helping hands across the board and when the systems 801 00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:18,200 Speaker 8: in place fail to serve us. And that's very much 802 00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:20,279 Speaker 8: what I see here with our queer folks. Is just 803 00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:22,120 Speaker 8: like the in house helping the in housed. It's queer 804 00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:25,480 Speaker 8: folks that are all from some type of background that 805 00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:30,560 Speaker 8: is oppressive, is extremely oppressive. Like, we all help each 806 00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:33,600 Speaker 8: other and that's what I love to see. So when 807 00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:36,160 Speaker 8: it comes to mutual aid, we do that type of 808 00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:39,400 Speaker 8: stuff direct action. That's the spicier stuff. I don't want 809 00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:41,480 Speaker 8: to say on the air, but we we have an 810 00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:43,680 Speaker 8: extensive resume. I guess you could say. We've been all 811 00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:47,799 Speaker 8: around the country. We've been over in Minnesota, We've been 812 00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:51,240 Speaker 8: all over the place. So lots of lots of stuff, 813 00:47:51,400 --> 00:47:53,320 Speaker 8: lots of stuff. That's all I can really say. Would 814 00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:55,120 Speaker 8: you like to add in, yes, Yeah. 815 00:47:55,320 --> 00:48:01,439 Speaker 7: We first got involved with especially various centralized asymmetrical Black 816 00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:06,560 Speaker 7: Lives Matter based groups based on concepts of anti capitalism 817 00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:13,680 Speaker 7: and intersexual liberation, trying to uplift especially black voices in 818 00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:18,080 Speaker 7: the wake of George Floyd and Brionna Taylor and many 819 00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:24,520 Speaker 7: other issues happened. I mean, police brutality was like our 820 00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:29,600 Speaker 7: main focus, as was abolition. Originally there was a group 821 00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:32,160 Speaker 7: of Grand Ramperts called Justice for Black Lives. That was 822 00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:34,839 Speaker 7: our big group that we started with. Then we ended 823 00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:37,000 Speaker 7: up drifting order Lancing. We were part of a group 824 00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:41,000 Speaker 7: of rise up Lancing that's no longer really in existence, 825 00:48:42,840 --> 00:48:46,120 Speaker 7: and we ended up helping both Palestinians as was anti 826 00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:48,920 Speaker 7: fascists in those areas. In Detroit, we ended up working 827 00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:53,319 Speaker 7: with the Troal Breeds, amazing group. We then end up 828 00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:59,279 Speaker 7: going to even counter protest various like reactionary elements that 829 00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:05,200 Speaker 7: even Bowiatami in Chicago. We've also may may or may 830 00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:08,439 Speaker 7: not have been yes able to talk to a few 831 00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:12,640 Speaker 7: people in Minnesota, maybe a Minneapolis. 832 00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:13,279 Speaker 3: Or maybe so, maybe not. 833 00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:18,640 Speaker 7: So we've been all over the place when it comes 834 00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:20,840 Speaker 7: to it, and we try to help every single group 835 00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:24,560 Speaker 7: because if we don't all rise together, much like ann 836 00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:28,040 Speaker 7: Nius community, if we don't all come together, if we 837 00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:31,440 Speaker 7: don't as oppressed peoples under the same system with the 838 00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:36,279 Speaker 7: common enemy. We are doomed, but together it's it's I'm 839 00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:39,360 Speaker 7: going to take a quote from the IWW, which is, 840 00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:42,600 Speaker 7: you know, one big union. So I have loved to 841 00:49:42,680 --> 00:49:46,919 Speaker 7: see more homeless unions here and I'm just starting to hear. 842 00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:49,480 Speaker 3: I've heard some good things, starting to hear. 843 00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:52,760 Speaker 1: We're finding our way. I think, like many other places, 844 00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:56,120 Speaker 1: they are slowly understanding that no one's coming to help them. 845 00:49:56,560 --> 00:50:01,560 Speaker 1: And because they're the atopathy that's so virulent in our 846 00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:05,719 Speaker 1: society about you know, especially houselessness and the walks of 847 00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:09,080 Speaker 1: life that we are encapsulate that we have to look 848 00:50:09,080 --> 00:50:11,240 Speaker 1: after our own and we have to find our own networks, 849 00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:14,759 Speaker 1: because without that happening there, we're going to end up 850 00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:17,280 Speaker 1: in some dire straits. We're going to take a break 851 00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:28,160 Speaker 1: and we will be right back. We're back turning a 852 00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:30,839 Speaker 1: little further into more into now. We have talked about 853 00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:33,920 Speaker 1: mutual aid, We talked about a little bit how you 854 00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:37,759 Speaker 1: guys got out here, Where do you guys see yourselves 855 00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:41,320 Speaker 1: in the movement now to how what do you guys 856 00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:44,440 Speaker 1: plan on doing when you get here? Now you're here now, so. 857 00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:46,600 Speaker 8: Well again, I guess I could say the future is 858 00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:49,840 Speaker 8: really uncertain. Definitely, I'm going to stick to my guns 859 00:50:49,840 --> 00:50:53,319 Speaker 8: with everything that we've been doing. Time will tell. I 860 00:50:53,320 --> 00:50:55,359 Speaker 8: guess we could say we're going to stick around our 861 00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:56,080 Speaker 8: group for one. 862 00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:56,799 Speaker 3: For two. 863 00:50:56,880 --> 00:50:59,960 Speaker 8: I really came out here for just getting getting back 864 00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:01,960 Speaker 8: of my feet and figuring out what I want in 865 00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:06,760 Speaker 8: my life. And then once that's done, I'll evaluate my principles. 866 00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:09,360 Speaker 8: And I know what my principles are, and so do you, 867 00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:10,880 Speaker 8: and I guess just stick to it. 868 00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:13,439 Speaker 3: I can't really say I'd love to do more mutual aid. 869 00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:16,560 Speaker 8: I'd love to give back to the massive, massive amounts 870 00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:18,840 Speaker 8: that have been given to us and give just just 871 00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:22,600 Speaker 8: help other queer folks. I guess because we've had we've 872 00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:25,480 Speaker 8: been helped. Once we get on our feet, we want 873 00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:28,320 Speaker 8: to bring other marginalized queer folks out here too, because, 874 00:51:28,360 --> 00:51:30,920 Speaker 8: like you said, Leslie, like there's a massive program of 875 00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:34,560 Speaker 8: queer folks coming out and needing to flee their state, 876 00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:38,279 Speaker 8: be it Michigan, be it in Alabama, Indiana, like all 877 00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:41,360 Speaker 8: these regressive states, there's going to be people in need, 878 00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:44,640 Speaker 8: and the more of us get out here, the more 879 00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:47,680 Speaker 8: we can help people in those states get out here. 880 00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:51,560 Speaker 8: Basically almost like a trans railroad, if you will, And 881 00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:54,400 Speaker 8: that's that's definitely something that you and I they have 882 00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:56,160 Speaker 8: like look and look forward to doing. I guess you 883 00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:59,399 Speaker 8: could say with what our priorities are that I guess 884 00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:01,239 Speaker 8: that could be one of them for sure, that's one 885 00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:01,680 Speaker 8: of them. 886 00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:06,080 Speaker 7: Hit the nail on the head with rear Road. So 887 00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:09,319 Speaker 7: our comrade is the ones who have actually recommended we 888 00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:12,640 Speaker 7: come on here and talk about our story. You could 889 00:52:12,719 --> 00:52:17,160 Speaker 7: say that there's there's been some individuals have been the 890 00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:21,399 Speaker 7: uh test and starter case, a beta testing, if you will, 891 00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:25,320 Speaker 7: for establishing this transfer road and our networks and everything. 892 00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:28,919 Speaker 7: There happens to be so many, so many, so many 893 00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:32,120 Speaker 7: folks coming out here and they come over to trans 894 00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:34,680 Speaker 7: Wellness Center and they get like their basic health care, 895 00:52:34,719 --> 00:52:37,160 Speaker 7: and they get basic food, and they get some hygiene products. 896 00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:41,839 Speaker 7: By the end of the day they are told to pretty. 897 00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:42,480 Speaker 1: Much go to a shelter. 898 00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:45,839 Speaker 7: And the only real shelter that they are offering at 899 00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:49,040 Speaker 7: the transfer in Koreatown or the Lubt Center is offering 900 00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:51,239 Speaker 7: creatown is you can take a car and you can 901 00:52:51,280 --> 00:52:53,840 Speaker 7: buy in a parking lot that's surrounded by private security, 902 00:52:53,840 --> 00:52:56,000 Speaker 7: and your fenced in doesn't really And they say it's 903 00:52:56,160 --> 00:52:59,520 Speaker 7: you know, for your safety. I'm gonna I'm gonna say, 904 00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:02,600 Speaker 7: after passing Bioles places, I don't really. 905 00:53:02,360 --> 00:53:04,959 Speaker 3: Think I feel that way. 906 00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:09,240 Speaker 7: Yeah, So right now, what we're doing is making sure 907 00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:12,360 Speaker 7: that we can put into the collective and we're making 908 00:53:12,400 --> 00:53:15,279 Speaker 7: sure that we're gonna be working for a long time 909 00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:18,919 Speaker 7: getting established and making sure we're going to be able 910 00:53:18,920 --> 00:53:22,520 Speaker 7: to build collectives and communes and cooperatives and safe places. 911 00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:25,719 Speaker 7: Unlike the city and the nonprofit indust for a complex, 912 00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:27,200 Speaker 7: it's not unable to do. 913 00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:29,840 Speaker 1: I was going to ask you, you know there is 914 00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:34,200 Speaker 1: a LGBT community here. Have you checked into that? What 915 00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:37,800 Speaker 1: what is your honest opinions about that group? Are they 916 00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:42,600 Speaker 1: helping or Like the Pride Center, there is the LGBQT 917 00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:43,120 Speaker 1: there too. 918 00:53:43,400 --> 00:53:46,360 Speaker 8: Have you guys dealt with that one personally? But my 919 00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:48,880 Speaker 8: opinion is I very much second her opinion. But like 920 00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:53,240 Speaker 8: they still deserve credit where credit is due. Like everybody's 921 00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:55,080 Speaker 8: got to needs a place to go and get their 922 00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:58,719 Speaker 8: medical care established or get their hormones, but there needs 923 00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:01,440 Speaker 8: to be that community on top of just the basics 924 00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:05,120 Speaker 8: that are provided well, Like I firstally went down to 925 00:54:05,120 --> 00:54:07,240 Speaker 8: the trans Center and they'll help me with my hormones 926 00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:09,759 Speaker 8: and help me with medical treatment. But yeah, if there, 927 00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:11,719 Speaker 8: if the trans Center was all I was relying on, 928 00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:13,759 Speaker 8: like they wouldn't be able to get me housing, they 929 00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:16,200 Speaker 8: wouldn't be able to get me up on my feet. 930 00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:20,240 Speaker 8: It's just the basic trinket things which are still absolutely needed. 931 00:54:21,000 --> 00:54:24,719 Speaker 8: But the thing is, yeah, we need better resources and 932 00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:27,840 Speaker 8: better funding and better checks and balances with some of 933 00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:32,680 Speaker 8: those nonprofits to ensure that they help the community like appropriately. 934 00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:36,399 Speaker 7: I guarantee right now, if we decided to walk over 935 00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:40,680 Speaker 7: that center, I only was one straight down from the studio. 936 00:54:42,239 --> 00:54:46,120 Speaker 7: I have went into even the Hollywood one. And when 937 00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:48,720 Speaker 7: I went in there looking for resources, I was told 938 00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:52,200 Speaker 7: why are you here? Like you have no reason to 939 00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:54,920 Speaker 7: be here? You just said an appointment. And then I 940 00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:58,480 Speaker 7: was like asking and begging, like can I get some 941 00:54:58,560 --> 00:55:02,439 Speaker 7: housing resources the time, we didn't know we were going 942 00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:05,920 Speaker 7: to be we don't know for go or ahead of 943 00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:09,799 Speaker 7: that night, and I was begging and saying like is 944 00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:13,000 Speaker 7: there someone I can talk to? And I was more 945 00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:17,120 Speaker 7: or less escorted off by a private security member, which 946 00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:22,200 Speaker 7: is a huge issue here. I've noticed, even if they're 947 00:55:22,480 --> 00:55:27,280 Speaker 7: allegedly a queer organization, they do not care about those 948 00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:29,000 Speaker 7: most excluded. 949 00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:31,359 Speaker 1: Are the unused LGBTT up here. 950 00:55:31,360 --> 00:55:32,879 Speaker 3: Are you talking about the LGBTQ Center. 951 00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:34,759 Speaker 8: Are you talking about the trans Center on top of 952 00:55:34,800 --> 00:55:37,600 Speaker 8: the lgbt Okay, yeah, no, with the LGBTQ Center, you're 953 00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:39,839 Speaker 8: absolutely correct. I was specifically talking about the trans Center, 954 00:55:39,920 --> 00:55:40,680 Speaker 8: just to make that clear. 955 00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:44,040 Speaker 7: Okay, So you see, the trans Center is merely an 956 00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:48,080 Speaker 7: extension of the LGBT Pride Center, which is an impressive network. 957 00:55:48,120 --> 00:55:51,280 Speaker 7: It has eight hundred employees and you can't access multiple 958 00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:54,680 Speaker 7: resources through them. But if you are ever in a bench, 959 00:55:54,800 --> 00:55:57,960 Speaker 7: you can't go in there. They won't help you. They 960 00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:02,719 Speaker 7: are just as much guilty, not maybe out of like 961 00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:08,040 Speaker 7: a religious like ignorance, but because they don't dedicate those resources. 962 00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:10,759 Speaker 7: They are far more interesting keeping their organization to flow, 963 00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:17,200 Speaker 7: interviewing various us I mean lobbing, and that's important. I 964 00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:19,759 Speaker 7: like to make sure that there are legal protections of 965 00:56:19,880 --> 00:56:25,240 Speaker 7: the groups like that are really helpful. But the bottom 966 00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:29,200 Speaker 7: line is in a state like California, they are areas. 967 00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:35,080 Speaker 7: There needs to be more for solving immediate crisis media issues. 968 00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:38,719 Speaker 7: If these organizations care so much about us, and they 969 00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:41,719 Speaker 7: care so much about so many people going through this 970 00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:46,520 Speaker 7: exact sort of pain. I can't guarantee hundreds. You walk 971 00:56:46,560 --> 00:56:49,160 Speaker 7: in then Anya's Pride Centers, you'll see the exact same story. 972 00:56:49,200 --> 00:56:51,800 Speaker 7: You'll see the exact same like folks out there begging 973 00:56:51,880 --> 00:56:55,280 Speaker 7: almost like breaking down, crying or sitting outside the center, 974 00:56:55,400 --> 00:56:59,279 Speaker 7: unsure what their next move is, and none of them 975 00:56:59,320 --> 00:57:03,560 Speaker 7: are getting that. Oh, it's just not there. At most 976 00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:06,920 Speaker 7: it's a band aid. It's a band aid solution, and 977 00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:09,640 Speaker 7: they can keep you alive. And that's good, just like 978 00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:14,280 Speaker 7: harm reduction or any of these other services, Like they're great, 979 00:57:14,920 --> 00:57:17,440 Speaker 7: but there needs to be so much more, especially when 980 00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:21,280 Speaker 7: there are empty homes where there's rampant Airbnbs oh yeah, 981 00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:24,960 Speaker 7: or there's so many rentals they are horribly overpriced. There 982 00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:30,040 Speaker 7: are tents everywhere, there are so many folks wandering the 983 00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:33,920 Speaker 7: streets have nowhere to go. And these exact same private 984 00:57:33,960 --> 00:57:37,520 Speaker 7: security that happen to escort you off a corporate property 985 00:57:38,080 --> 00:57:42,520 Speaker 7: are literally at the same goddamn queer spaces, at the 986 00:57:42,560 --> 00:57:46,560 Speaker 7: same trans spaces. They'll ask you why are there, They 987 00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:51,320 Speaker 7: don't care about you. These exact same structures that happen 988 00:57:51,400 --> 00:57:54,880 Speaker 7: to exist will end up killing you just as much, 989 00:57:55,240 --> 00:57:58,160 Speaker 7: even if there's through neglects there happen to be a 990 00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:01,720 Speaker 7: chrysto fascist running around talking about how they want to 991 00:58:01,760 --> 00:58:06,360 Speaker 7: go you. I think, honestly, there is just as much, 992 00:58:06,560 --> 00:58:09,720 Speaker 7: just as much guilt on these exact same systems that 993 00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:12,560 Speaker 7: they're supposed to be here for us, because it's neglect, 994 00:58:12,800 --> 00:58:18,400 Speaker 7: it's abuse and neglect. They're intrinsically connected. And I guess 995 00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:20,400 Speaker 7: that's all I gotta say about that. Kind of went 996 00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:22,360 Speaker 7: a little bit of tangent there. My apologies. 997 00:58:22,560 --> 00:58:24,640 Speaker 8: Oh no, it's we're here to have our voices heard, 998 00:58:24,640 --> 00:58:27,400 Speaker 8: and I think that I couldn't have said it better myself. 999 00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:32,160 Speaker 1: And you guys wanted to talk a little bit about airbnbs, 1000 00:58:33,560 --> 00:58:35,000 Speaker 1: so let's let's hear it. 1001 00:58:35,200 --> 00:58:38,040 Speaker 8: Okay, So first off, with the airbnb industry, it is 1002 00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:42,480 Speaker 8: a awful rotten industry, I would say up there in 1003 00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:45,600 Speaker 8: terms of like the worst type of landlords, because what 1004 00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:48,440 Speaker 8: you see with airbnbs is you see if you just 1005 00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:50,400 Speaker 8: drive through a neighborhood and you're not native to their 1006 00:58:50,560 --> 00:58:52,640 Speaker 8: Like you go through an area with a bunch of 1007 00:58:52,720 --> 00:58:55,840 Speaker 8: hotels or apartments, you see apartments and hotels. If you 1008 00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:58,080 Speaker 8: drive through a neighborhood with a bunch of airbnbs. You're 1009 00:58:58,080 --> 00:58:58,520 Speaker 8: not from there. 1010 00:58:58,560 --> 00:58:59,520 Speaker 3: You just see houses. 1011 00:58:59,560 --> 00:59:02,720 Speaker 8: You don't see that these airbnbs are buying up people 1012 00:59:02,760 --> 00:59:06,200 Speaker 8: that have for closed their homes and renting them out 1013 00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:10,080 Speaker 8: to people like that are under distress. And it's just 1014 00:59:10,120 --> 00:59:13,040 Speaker 8: an awful business. And there are several types of these airbenbes. 1015 00:59:13,080 --> 00:59:16,480 Speaker 8: There's ones that appeal to tourists, that will gentrify up 1016 00:59:16,600 --> 00:59:20,280 Speaker 8: entire neighborhoods, drive up the property value. Then you have 1017 00:59:20,360 --> 00:59:23,120 Speaker 8: ones that blatantly are just taking advantage of people that 1018 00:59:23,200 --> 00:59:26,680 Speaker 8: are in poor situations, that are basically just motel scumlords. 1019 00:59:26,720 --> 00:59:29,320 Speaker 8: But like with a house, then you have some of 1020 00:59:29,320 --> 00:59:32,720 Speaker 8: the worst kinds, which is her and I have faced 1021 00:59:32,960 --> 00:59:34,960 Speaker 8: this worst kind And there are these types that like 1022 00:59:35,040 --> 00:59:39,640 Speaker 8: almost like to facade as helping or facade almost as 1023 00:59:39,680 --> 00:59:42,520 Speaker 8: a shelter or communal living, but they're not. They are 1024 00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:46,400 Speaker 8: very much still an airbnbe. And in Lansing we had 1025 00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:48,840 Speaker 8: to deal with one of these places by I'm just 1026 00:59:48,840 --> 00:59:51,400 Speaker 8: going to call it by its name, Emoja House. And 1027 00:59:51,960 --> 00:59:54,760 Speaker 8: what they did is they for tax purposes. They started 1028 00:59:54,800 --> 00:59:56,680 Speaker 8: off almost as a collective and then switched to a 1029 00:59:56,680 --> 01:00:00,000 Speaker 8: for profit model to very much take advantage of marginalize 1030 01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:03,880 Speaker 8: people and drive up the cost of rent. And sorry, 1031 01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:05,320 Speaker 8: this one's the one line kind of get heated on. 1032 01:00:06,080 --> 01:00:09,960 Speaker 8: And it's terrible because they took advantage of us. They 1033 01:00:10,640 --> 01:00:13,560 Speaker 8: kicked both of us out when we had already had 1034 01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:16,560 Speaker 8: our rent paid. They've screwed us over, They've screwed a 1035 01:00:16,560 --> 01:00:19,360 Speaker 8: good friend of mine and several others out. And the 1036 01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:21,680 Speaker 8: worst part is that they were like kind of embedded 1037 01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:24,120 Speaker 8: in the local activists. I guess you could say a 1038 01:00:24,120 --> 01:00:27,920 Speaker 8: scene and we're frankly just kind of bribing people to 1039 01:00:29,200 --> 01:00:32,000 Speaker 8: keep silent about it. And when they saw us as 1040 01:00:32,080 --> 01:00:35,320 Speaker 8: people that might say something about it, they went around 1041 01:00:35,360 --> 01:00:37,800 Speaker 8: town and said that we were addicts, even though we 1042 01:00:37,840 --> 01:00:40,200 Speaker 8: are in recovery admittedly, but at the time we were 1043 01:00:40,240 --> 01:00:44,520 Speaker 8: completely sober, and it kind of perpetuated that cycle of stigma, 1044 01:00:45,120 --> 01:00:47,400 Speaker 8: and because of that, it was harder for us to 1045 01:00:47,400 --> 01:00:51,040 Speaker 8: get cleaned, so we relapsed, and it let us down 1046 01:00:51,120 --> 01:00:54,240 Speaker 8: a cycle of constantly being on housing when. 1047 01:00:54,120 --> 01:00:56,040 Speaker 3: We had just gotten on our feet. So I just 1048 01:00:56,080 --> 01:00:57,640 Speaker 3: wanted to make that part of our story known. 1049 01:00:57,840 --> 01:01:00,680 Speaker 1: Yes, hey, thank you guys for this conversation. I want 1050 01:01:00,720 --> 01:01:03,240 Speaker 1: to ask you, is there anything that I've missed that 1051 01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:04,480 Speaker 1: you guys want to talk about. 1052 01:01:05,040 --> 01:01:09,240 Speaker 8: Not necessarily, there is our experience at Orange, which let 1053 01:01:09,320 --> 01:01:12,080 Speaker 8: us here. We were just staying at an airbnb over 1054 01:01:12,160 --> 01:01:16,240 Speaker 8: on Orange Drive by sunset, and ironically, like that's the 1055 01:01:16,280 --> 01:01:19,320 Speaker 8: reason why we're on this podcast, because our friend stuck 1056 01:01:19,560 --> 01:01:21,439 Speaker 8: his neck out for us to have us on the show, 1057 01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:25,080 Speaker 8: And ironically we've brushed on just about every airbnb experience 1058 01:01:25,120 --> 01:01:27,280 Speaker 8: aside from that one, because the point of the issue 1059 01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:30,320 Speaker 8: is the microaggressions that got us thrown out of there, 1060 01:01:30,600 --> 01:01:32,920 Speaker 8: and the crap we dealt with there is actually on 1061 01:01:32,960 --> 01:01:36,440 Speaker 8: the smaller end of the stuff, like that's relatively minor 1062 01:01:36,600 --> 01:01:40,720 Speaker 8: compared and that I think that's really shameful and that 1063 01:01:40,760 --> 01:01:43,280 Speaker 8: should be a major issue. And the point I'm making 1064 01:01:43,280 --> 01:01:46,320 Speaker 8: here is we've been through so much awful shit before 1065 01:01:46,840 --> 01:01:49,080 Speaker 8: even like dealing with that, that it almost like makes 1066 01:01:49,160 --> 01:01:51,080 Speaker 8: us go, oh, what happened at Orange. 1067 01:01:50,880 --> 01:01:54,800 Speaker 3: Is just it's just a Tuesday, but it's not. And 1068 01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:57,360 Speaker 3: thanks for having us on the show. 1069 01:01:57,680 --> 01:02:03,200 Speaker 1: Thank you guys, thank you, thank you for these ripping 1070 01:02:03,240 --> 01:02:06,720 Speaker 1: and compelling stories from our guest today, and thank you 1071 01:02:06,840 --> 01:02:10,200 Speaker 1: again to our listeners. 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