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Speaker 1: Miley Cyrus flowers. So it's Tuesday. I just pointed out

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Speaker 1: because it is like the day that I find that

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Speaker 1: sometimes we need more motivation to break through. But I

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Speaker 1: think so far we were breaking through it. We're doing

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Speaker 1: all right. Uh. Also, the first Apple computer, the Apple One,

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Speaker 1: was released forty seven years ago today, back in nineteen

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Speaker 1: seventy six. That's crazy. Angels playing home against Washington, Dodgers

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Speaker 1: in San Francisco, Ducks home against Vancouver. You know, we

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Speaker 1: just had a second date update last hour. Reminded me

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Speaker 1: that we still have a very active dating crew here

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Speaker 1: on the show's present in the back room. I mean, Tanya,

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Speaker 1: you're involved involved, Like what does that mean? Yeah? What

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Speaker 1: is involved? My parents used to say that are you involved?

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Speaker 1: Like what dating? I'm involved in the four eights club. Uh,

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Speaker 1: you're dating, but you're not dating. I don't in a relationship. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't even can say a relationship. You're not dating.

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Speaker 1: You're not in a relationship. You're like with the one.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, here have you found the one? So

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Speaker 1: I'm bringing all this up because we do it. Marianna,

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Speaker 1: who's having heard dating trials and tribulations can be compelling,

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Speaker 1: and we are here to use our wisdom to guide. Uh.

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Speaker 1: Well let's get to it. So, Marianna, great first date,

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Speaker 1: same guy, right, same guy, Yes, Palm Springs guy, guy

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Speaker 1: that you've known but not like this, but now like this. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Palm Springs guy doesn't have a like a ring to

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Speaker 1: it for me. Can we give him a nickname? Well,

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Speaker 1: maybe we shouldn't even give him a nickname anymore because

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Speaker 1: he's not going to be in a picture. Oh no,

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Speaker 1: something's gone wrong. Well what happened, Marianna? So this um,

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Speaker 1: this past weekend, Um, he kind of didn't talk to

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Speaker 1: me that much and then he randomly reached out and

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Speaker 1: he was like, Hey, there's just been a lot going

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Speaker 1: on in my head. And then he texted me, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I already knew something was up, and he was like,

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Speaker 1: I want to be honest and straight up with you.

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Speaker 1: I really like this. I really like you, and I

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Speaker 1: enjoy the way that we get along. Um. I don't

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Speaker 1: know where this is going to lead us, but it's

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Speaker 1: unfair for you if I continue while I'm still stuck

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Speaker 1: on my egg. Okay, first of all, that's a lot

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Speaker 1: of like take more charge and responsibility. That's like pushing

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Speaker 1: I don't want I don't know the guy, but I'm

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Speaker 1: just saying, like, first of all, I cringe with all

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Speaker 1: the words I cringe, and I cringe at the beginning

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Speaker 1: of it because I know it's going to this place, like,

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Speaker 1: but I also feel like that's something I would say if,

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Speaker 1: like I didn't want to take any blame. I don't

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Speaker 1: know you know what I mean. Why did I reach

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Speaker 1: out to you when he reach out to you? Yes,

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Speaker 1: he reached out to me, and he's the one that

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Speaker 1: planned out all these dates and like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I see the text on your phone. It is a

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Speaker 1: long long Yeah. Yeah, He's like, I don't want to

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Speaker 1: end things on bad terms with you because we have

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Speaker 1: a great friendship. I'm like, too late, But then again,

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Speaker 1: I can't be too mad because he didn't ghost me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's the thing, Like at least he didn't ghost you,

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Speaker 1: and then you weren't thinking, like what happened to the

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Speaker 1: life we're living in these days? So Okay, he breaks

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Speaker 1: up with this his ex, and then he thinks he

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Speaker 1: wants to start dating and he reaches out to Mariana,

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Speaker 1: and then he goes on maybe without with you, maybe

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Speaker 1: without the other women who knows, and then he decides

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Speaker 1: he wants to go back to his ex or he

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Speaker 1: can't get it past it. Maybe I do understand what

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Speaker 1: he's saying. I may well hold on for a second.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know the guy. But first something, Oh

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Speaker 1: he's saying all this stuff, because that's a very nice

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Speaker 1: way of basically saying I'm out. Yeah, But then again

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Speaker 1: it could be accurate. Like I've been in situations where

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Speaker 1: I thought I'm ready to go date and then I

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Speaker 1: still couldn't get that person out of my head and

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Speaker 1: I felt bad about it, and so I could have

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Speaker 1: written some of those words. Now that's a long text.

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Speaker 1: You would you do in those situations? Ryan, I said

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Speaker 1: some of those things? Or did you ghost? No? I

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Speaker 1: didn't any ghost. I'm not like a ghoster. No I

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Speaker 1: think No, I overtexte, I over text. Yeah, with a

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Speaker 1: lot of type of But back to Marianna, are you

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Speaker 1: are you bummed? Well, you're miss led. At first I

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Speaker 1: was bummed, and I was I felt like a little mislet,

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Speaker 1: you know, because I was like, WHOA, why would he

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Speaker 1: reach out to me and do try to do the most,

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Speaker 1: Like he would send me music every single day because

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Speaker 1: he knows how much I love saw music and it's

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Speaker 1: just like litttle things like that, or like, why would

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Speaker 1: you do all of that if you knew you kind

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Speaker 1: of were like still stuck on your X, you know,

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Speaker 1: because I think maybe he thought he wasn't or was

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Speaker 1: trying to are you was trying to get past it,

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Speaker 1: because a lot of doing that is like taking your

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Speaker 1: focus off of the ax. I could see that too,

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Speaker 1: to his point, like did you try and folk gus

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Speaker 1: on those exciting little things to not think about something else?

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Speaker 1: But if you keep getting back, like dragged into it,

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Speaker 1: it's not good for anybody. So I don't I don't

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Speaker 1: hate the whole thing. Yeah, I know, I'm starting to,

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Speaker 1: yeah the good in this whole situation. Yeah, obviously at

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Speaker 1: first I was very bubbed down, but now I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 1: but then you play it cool, like, no, I get it.

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Speaker 1: I just thumbs up the text. Well, well I just

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Speaker 1: liked it, right, right? Right? Oh so that's all you did.

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Speaker 1: You haven't responded, You just liked itted. That would be

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Speaker 1: It's perfect. No, that's actually pretty cool. I'm like, am

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Speaker 1: I supposed to do? You know? Like, oh, well, you

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Speaker 1: know what, it's okay, like right, okay, no, yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: actually that's pretty bad. Wow, that good bad. I'm actually impressed.

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Speaker 1: That's like I like it. Yeah now, I mean here

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Speaker 1: we're talking about it. But well now yeah, now the

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Speaker 1: whole world though everybody knows no, no, no, but I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna like this conversation. Um and well yeah right, it's okay,

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Speaker 1: it's fine. What do you do? We get back up

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Speaker 1: and we you know, right again, Popham is Now, I

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Speaker 1: don't know if I'm like, now I'm gonna be shyer

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Speaker 1: about getting into something for you. Yeah. I mean remember

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Speaker 1: we said we were scared when he was doing all

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Speaker 1: of this, and we're like, I'm scared, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: let's go for it, and I said, hold your horses, true,

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Speaker 1: who was right? Who was right? Coming back in one minute?

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Speaker 1: You know what, Drake tickets will solve anything. You take

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Speaker 1: some of these for yourself and bring a friend or

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Speaker 1: be called on one of two. Drake tickets are coming

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Speaker 1: up next