1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:02,520 Speaker 1: Hi, this is Jolan Victorium. 2 00:00:02,759 --> 00:00:05,560 Speaker 2: Thanks so much for listening to the podcast and thanks 3 00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 2: for supporting the ministry. We believe you're going to have 4 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:12,760 Speaker 2: an awesome twenty twenty four, healthy, productive, and favor filled. 5 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:16,239 Speaker 1: God bless you today and enjoy the message. God bless you. 6 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:19,360 Speaker 1: It's great to be with you today, and I hope 7 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:21,280 Speaker 1: you'll stay connected with us during the. 8 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 2: Week through our daily podcast, our YouTube channel, social media. 9 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 2: We'll keep you encouraged and inspired. I'd like to start 10 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 2: with something funny and I heard about this burglar that 11 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 2: broke into a house one night and just as he 12 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 2: was stealing the stereo, he heard a voice saying, Jesus 13 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:41,519 Speaker 2: is watching you. He froze in his tracks, shined his 14 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 2: flashlight in the corner and saw a parrot. 15 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 1: He said, did you say that to me? The parent 16 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 1: said yes, I'm just trying to warn you. The burglars 17 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:52,239 Speaker 1: had warned me. What are you talking about? Who are you? 18 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 2: The parent said, my name is Moses. The burglar laughed, 19 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 2: said what kind of crazy people would name a parrot Moses. 20 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 2: The parent said, the same kind of people that would 21 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:08,320 Speaker 2: name a one hundred and fifty pound Rockweler Jesus say 22 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 2: it like you mean it. This is my Bible. I 23 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 2: am what it says I am. I have what it 24 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:16,039 Speaker 2: says I have. I can do what it says I 25 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 2: can do. Today I will be taught the word of God. 26 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:23,960 Speaker 2: I'll boldly confess. My mind is alert, my heart is receptive. 27 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:28,039 Speaker 2: I will never be the same. In Jesus' name, God 28 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 2: bless you. I want to talk to you today about 29 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 2: how kind words work wonders. When you say something kind, 30 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 2: you give a compliment, you tell your spouse that you 31 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:42,040 Speaker 2: love them, you encourage your neighbor. 32 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 1: It can seem like a simple thing, no big deal, 33 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 1: But those words have incredible power. 34 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 2: Proverb sixteen says kind words are like honey, sweep to 35 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 2: the soul and healthy for the body. 36 00:01:56,920 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 1: You can make. 37 00:01:57,560 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 2: Someone healthier by speaking kinds. Just a simple compliment, you 38 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 2: look beautiful today, you did great on that presentation. That's 39 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:11,080 Speaker 2: not just being nice, You're nourishing their soul. When you 40 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:14,080 Speaker 2: tell your spouse, I love you, I'm blessed to have 41 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 2: you in my life. That's not only going to keep 42 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 2: your relationship stronger, but it's making the other person more secure, 43 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 2: more confident. It's nourishing them when you call the friend 44 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 2: that's down, say I'm thinking about you, I care about you. 45 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 1: You mean the world to me. 46 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 2: That's not just encouraging them, it's bringing healing to their body. 47 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 2: Don't miss opportunities to bring nourishment. The people around you 48 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:45,120 Speaker 2: need what you have. Your kind words can be what 49 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 2: pushes them into their destiny. 50 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: Your compliments, your encouragement. 51 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 2: That's making them healthier, stronger. That's how they're going to 52 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 2: become all they were created to be. Now, maybe you 53 00:02:57,160 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 2: weren't raised like this with people say a nice things, 54 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 2: telling your family you love them, giving compliments. You didn't 55 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 2: see that model growing up. You can be the one 56 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 2: to start it. Without your nourishment, it will make it 57 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 2: more difficult on your family, on your children. The reason 58 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:19,239 Speaker 2: some people aren't flourishing is no one is nourishing them. 59 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 2: They never hear any compliments, any encouragement. 60 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 1: But God created us to need each other. 61 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 2: You have something that will cause your spouse to blossom, 62 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 2: your children to bloom, your loved one to feel more secure. 63 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 2: It's not your money, it's not your hard work, not 64 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 2: your accomplishments. 65 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 1: It's your kind words. They need to hear. 66 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 2: How much you love them, how much you believe in them, 67 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 2: how great you think they are. Don't let a day 68 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 2: go by that you don't say something kind to. 69 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 1: The people God put in your life. It's not enough 70 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 1: to just think it. Your thoughts. Don't nourish anyone. A 71 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 1: blessing is not a blessing until it's spoken. 72 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 2: They need to hear it. I love you, I'm proud 73 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 2: of you. You're beautiful, You're going to do great things. 74 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 2: Make it a habit of speaking good at these days 75 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 2: it's more needed than ever. So many voices trying to 76 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:22,040 Speaker 2: push down people saying harsh things, being rude, demeaning. They 77 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 2: have no problem speaking their mind in a negative way. 78 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 2: We need to be just as bold and speak our 79 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:30,359 Speaker 2: mind in a positive way. 80 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:32,279 Speaker 1: God is counting on us. 81 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 2: To be healers, to be lifters, to be encouragers. Let's 82 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:40,359 Speaker 2: make it our business to nourish people's souls, to bring 83 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 2: healing and wholeness. 84 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:44,280 Speaker 1: I've told Victoria. 85 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 2: Thousands of times how beautiful she is. Now realize she 86 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:51,280 Speaker 2: already knows that she's beautiful. People have been telling her 87 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 2: that her whole life. Do you know what's funny? She's 88 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 2: never once said, Joel, stop telling me I'm beautiful. You 89 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 2: know why we like to hear good things over and 90 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 2: over because it's nourishing our soul. 91 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 1: It's keeping us strong and healthy. How's going up? 92 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:10,920 Speaker 2: I would hear my parents tell me how proud they 93 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:14,599 Speaker 2: were of me again and again every night before bed, Joel, 94 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:18,040 Speaker 2: we loved you and we're proud of you. Those words 95 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:23,159 Speaker 2: brought confidence, security because they believed in me. I believed 96 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 2: in myself. There are people in your life. When they 97 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 2: know you believe in them, they'll start believing in themselves 98 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 2: in a new way. They need your validation, your encouragement, 99 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:39,039 Speaker 2: your blessing. That's what will push them into their destiny. 100 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 2: This should start with your family. Don't take for granted 101 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:46,840 Speaker 2: the people that are closest to you. You may think, oh, 102 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 2: they're strong, they don't need my blessing. They know I'm 103 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 2: proud of them. They know they're beautiful. Know something happens 104 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:57,159 Speaker 2: when they hear you say it. Those kind words get 105 00:05:57,200 --> 00:06:02,039 Speaker 2: down into their spirit, bring a new level of compet talent, boldness. 106 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 2: When I worked in the television department here at Lakewood, 107 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 2: my father would bring guests by it during the week. 108 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 2: He would tell them, you have to meet my son 109 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 2: Joel he's so talented and so much better looking than 110 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 2: his brother Paul. He can produce. He can produce television 111 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:22,559 Speaker 2: like nobody else. He would brag on me so much. 112 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 2: I'd be embarrassed. But Daddy knew the power of kind words. 113 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 2: He didn't grow up with people encouraging him. He had 114 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:34,720 Speaker 2: loving parents, but they weren't vocal about their love. They 115 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:38,600 Speaker 2: expressed themselves when they saw something negative, something they were 116 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:42,160 Speaker 2: displeased with. And yes, we have to correct our children, 117 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:46,479 Speaker 2: but they shouldn't only hear what they're doing wrong. They 118 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 2: need to hear words of affirmation, how valuable they are, 119 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 2: how much you love them, talk to them about what 120 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 2: they're good at. All those times my father bragged on me, 121 00:06:57,360 --> 00:06:59,479 Speaker 2: I may have acted like I didn't like it. The 122 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 2: truth is I did like it. It made me believe 123 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 2: in myself in a greater way. You have to call 124 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 2: out the seeds of greatness in the people God put 125 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:13,240 Speaker 2: in your life. Most of the time, that greatness won't 126 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 2: come out on its own. 127 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 1: They have to hear it again and again. 128 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 2: My mother sent me a birthday card the other day 129 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 2: said Joel, I am so proud of you, and I 130 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 2: know Daddy would be so proud too. Eighty eight years 131 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 2: old and she's still speaking the blessing over her children. 132 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 1: No wonder, I've been able to go places I've never dreamed. 133 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 2: I didn't think this was in me, but people around 134 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 2: me kept calling it out, telling me what I could become. 135 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 2: Their kind words nourished my soul, made me more confident, 136 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 2: more secure, helped me to step. 137 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 1: Into my destiny. 138 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 2: I wouldn't be half of who I am today without Victoria. 139 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 2: She saw things in me that I couldn't see. Here's 140 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 2: the key she took time to tell me. She spoke 141 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 2: words of faith, words of victory, not once, but over 142 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 2: and over. Joel, you can do anything. You're amazing. You're 143 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 2: so talented. One time we bought this old house and 144 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 2: had it torn down. 145 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 1: We're going to build a new one. 146 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 2: I called the builder we had used a couple of 147 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:21,480 Speaker 2: years earlier. He built a house we really liked for us. 148 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 2: She said, why are you calling him? We don't need 149 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 2: a builder. You can build a house, said Victoria. I 150 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 2: am not a builder. I don't know how to build 151 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:30,240 Speaker 2: a house. 152 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 1: She said, sure you do. 153 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 2: You just watched him build our last house. You're as 154 00:08:34,679 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 2: smart as he is. You can build this house, I said, Victoria, 155 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 2: I had surgery on my knee. I watched the surgeon, 156 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 2: but I can't do surgery. 157 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:44,720 Speaker 1: She said, that's different. 158 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 2: She talked me into it. I built a house and 159 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 2: turned out pretty good. I forgot the plumbing, but other 160 00:08:50,040 --> 00:08:53,679 Speaker 2: than that it was great. Ten years before my father 161 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:55,760 Speaker 2: went to be with the Lord, we would sit on 162 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 2: the front row when Daddy was up there ministering on 163 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 2: Sunday nights. Victoria would lean over and say, Joel, one 164 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:03,880 Speaker 2: day you're going to pastor the church. 165 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:06,400 Speaker 1: I thought, I have her soul fulled. 166 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 2: I may be able to build a house, but I 167 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 2: cannot get up and speak in front of people. I 168 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 2: would tell her there's no way. She say, yes, I 169 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 2: can see it. I know you can do it. When 170 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 2: my father passed, one reason I believe I was able 171 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 2: to step up and pastor, even though I had never ministered, 172 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 2: is because I'd had heard Victoria tell me I could 173 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:30,439 Speaker 2: do it hundreds and hundreds of times. Those words nourish 174 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 2: my soul gave me confidence, brought talent out that I 175 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 2: didn't know I had. How much further will the people 176 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 2: that God put in your life go? If you will 177 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 2: speak kind words, if you will tell them what they 178 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 2: can become if you will call out their seeds of greatness. 179 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 2: Thinking about it doesn't do them any good. Speak it 180 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:53,319 Speaker 2: over them. 181 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: And here's the key. 182 00:09:54,679 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 2: Be generous with your compliments and be stingy with your complaints. 183 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:02,720 Speaker 2: We can all focus on things we don't like about someone, 184 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 2: how they don't measure up, how they should do better. 185 00:10:06,880 --> 00:10:09,560 Speaker 2: Don't spend more time telling people what you don't like 186 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:12,679 Speaker 2: what they can't do, than you do telling them what 187 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 2: you do like what they can do. You have the 188 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 2: power to push them into their destiny. Many times, you 189 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 2: can see things in people that they can't see in themselves. 190 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:27,920 Speaker 1: Your kind words can be the seed that causes them 191 00:10:27,920 --> 00:10:30,840 Speaker 1: to blossom. Because you spoke faith. 192 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:34,600 Speaker 2: You encourage, you lifted, they'll step into levels that they 193 00:10:34,640 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 2: couldn't get to on their own. 194 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 3: Now. 195 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 2: There may be people in your life now and you 196 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 2: kind of put out with why can't they be more disciplined? 197 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:44,080 Speaker 2: Why won't they go further? 198 00:10:45,040 --> 00:10:47,320 Speaker 1: Maybe all they need is some nourishment. 199 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:51,719 Speaker 2: Maybe your kind words, your encouragement is going to give 200 00:10:51,760 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 2: them the strength, the confidence, the faith to rise up 201 00:10:55,640 --> 00:10:59,320 Speaker 2: and blossom into who they were created to be. We 202 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:02,360 Speaker 2: have this small plant in a pot on our back porch, 203 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:04,560 Speaker 2: and we were out of town for a couple of 204 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:07,480 Speaker 2: weeks and didn't water it. When we came back, the 205 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:11,440 Speaker 2: plant was all wilted over leaves were brown, dried up, 206 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 2: looked like it was dead. I was about to take 207 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 2: it to the trash. Zoria said, no, Joe, it's not dead. 208 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:20,320 Speaker 2: Just put some water in it. I thought, man, she 209 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 2: has more faith than me, because there's nothing in this 210 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:27,000 Speaker 2: plant that looks alive. I watered it. The next morning 211 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:28,480 Speaker 2: the plant had stood up tall. 212 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:31,239 Speaker 1: I thought, this is a miracle, this is a resurrection. 213 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 2: Two days later the leaves had turned green. A couple 214 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 2: of weeks later there. 215 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:37,679 Speaker 1: Were beautiful flowers. 216 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:41,959 Speaker 2: The whole plant was blossoming, blooming, prettier than ever. 217 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 1: I thought it was dead. All it needed was some nourishment. 218 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 2: And the reason some people are wilted, not blossoming, not 219 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:56,080 Speaker 2: reaching their potential is their lacking nourishment. They need someone 220 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 2: to speak life into them. 221 00:11:58,360 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 1: You have what they need. 222 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:03,559 Speaker 2: If you'll encourage them, let them know that you believe 223 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 2: in them, call out their seeds of greatness. Just like 224 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 2: this plan, you'll see them come to life. Gifts will 225 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 2: come out that they didn't know they had. Their passion 226 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:14,120 Speaker 2: will come back. 227 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:16,079 Speaker 1: Before long, they'll. 228 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:20,560 Speaker 2: Be blossoming, blooming, stepping into new levels. It wasn't something 229 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:23,560 Speaker 2: they could do on their own. They needed what you had. 230 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:28,679 Speaker 2: Your kind words are nourishment to their soul. And this 231 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 2: is not something that's complicated, doesn't take a lot of time. 232 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:35,400 Speaker 2: In twenty seconds, you can give a compliment, you can 233 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:37,680 Speaker 2: send a text, I'm thinking about you. 234 00:12:38,080 --> 00:12:40,640 Speaker 1: I appreciate your friendship. You're really amazing. 235 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 2: You just nourish their soul. You just lighten their load, 236 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:46,079 Speaker 2: made their life. 237 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:49,680 Speaker 1: A little easier. You don't know what people are going through. 238 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:54,120 Speaker 2: They may smile on the outside everything seems fine, but 239 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 2: on the inside they're hurting. They're trying to keep it together. 240 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:01,840 Speaker 2: One thing I've learned is everyone is fighting a battle. 241 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:04,000 Speaker 2: Everyone is dealing with something. 242 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:05,160 Speaker 1: They may not. 243 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:08,520 Speaker 2: Show it, but there's a load they're carrying, their thoughts 244 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:11,640 Speaker 2: telling them how it's not gonna work out. They're concerned 245 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 2: about a child, worried about their health, struggling in their career. 246 00:13:16,840 --> 00:13:19,640 Speaker 2: If they were sick and we had the medicine, we 247 00:13:19,679 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 2: had the cure, none of us would withhold it. We'd 248 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 2: be quick to give it to them. We want to 249 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 2: see them get better. What I'm saying is, we have 250 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 2: some medicine. We have something that will not only nourish 251 00:13:31,280 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 2: their soul, soothe their emotions, calm their fears, but our 252 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 2: kind words. 253 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:38,280 Speaker 1: Bring healing to the body. 254 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:42,320 Speaker 2: When you tell someone it's gonna be okay, it's gonna 255 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 2: work out. 256 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 1: God has you in the palm of his hand. That 257 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:49,600 Speaker 1: just made them stronger. Their immune system will function. 258 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 2: Better, their cells will work more efficiently, their blood pressure 259 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 2: will improve, all because you took time to be a healer. 260 00:13:58,600 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 2: Proverb says, the word of encouragement works wonders. We often 261 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 2: pray for signs and wonders, and I believe in that, 262 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 2: But what if some of those wonders are in our 263 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:14,040 Speaker 2: kind words. What if the miracle was in something simple, 264 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:17,679 Speaker 2: telling someone that they're going to make it, telling your 265 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 2: spouse every day I love you, giving your coworker, your 266 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 2: friend a compliment, encouraging them. Don't discount the power of 267 00:14:26,360 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 2: a kind word. 268 00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 1: It can work. Wonders. 269 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:33,000 Speaker 2: My mother had polio as a child. One of her 270 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 2: legs is much smaller than the other. She's always walked 271 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:36,920 Speaker 2: with a limp. 272 00:14:37,560 --> 00:14:38,160 Speaker 1: Had used to. 273 00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:41,600 Speaker 2: Really bother her She was self conscious about it, thinking 274 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 2: people are looking at me, thinking what's wrong with you, 275 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:47,160 Speaker 2: and she'd try to cover up the small leg wearing 276 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 2: longer dresses. One day, a minister friend was speaking for. 277 00:14:51,680 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 1: Us at the old church. 278 00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 2: He and my father were walking together and my mother 279 00:14:56,240 --> 00:14:58,760 Speaker 2: was a few feet in front of them. He saw 280 00:14:58,800 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 2: my mother walking. He turned to my father and said, John, 281 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:06,760 Speaker 2: look at Dodie. She walks like a princess. My mother 282 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:10,680 Speaker 2: had never heard anything positive about how she walked, but 283 00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 2: when she heard that, it changed her whole perspective. She 284 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 2: stopped being embarrassed by it. She started walking with confidence, 285 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 2: knowing that she's made in the image of Almighty God. 286 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 1: That was over forty. 287 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 2: Years ago, but she remembers it like it was yesterday. 288 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:32,160 Speaker 2: One compliment, one kind word, can have an impact for 289 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:35,720 Speaker 2: a lifetime. What if that minister would have just thought 290 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 2: about it, never said it, maybe my mother would still 291 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:43,600 Speaker 2: be bothered by it. But a word of encouragement works wonders. 292 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 2: Your kind words can break strongholds in people's mind. Your 293 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:53,920 Speaker 2: encouragement can set their dreams into motion. Don't withhold the healing. 294 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:58,080 Speaker 2: Like my plant that needed water, it couldn't water itself 295 00:15:58,520 --> 00:16:02,640 Speaker 2: I had to step in. Someone needs your water. God 296 00:16:02,760 --> 00:16:06,040 Speaker 2: is counting on us to bring the nourishment. You don't 297 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 2: know how a simple act of kindness can impact a person. 298 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:11,960 Speaker 1: Seems ordinary to us, but. 299 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 2: To that person it's something that will affect them. 300 00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 1: For the good for years to come. 301 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 2: When I first started ministering, I was so insecure. I 302 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 2: hadn't been trained to do this. I'm naturally more quiet 303 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 2: and reserved, and all these thoughts said to me, nobody's 304 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 2: going to listen to you, Joel, it's a big mistake. 305 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 2: You better change your mind and go back behind the scenes. 306 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:37,760 Speaker 2: I was fighting all these internal battles, trying to keep 307 00:16:37,800 --> 00:16:42,400 Speaker 2: moving forward, unsure of myself. One day, about two months in, 308 00:16:43,080 --> 00:16:45,800 Speaker 2: when I was at a critical point, I received a 309 00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:48,880 Speaker 2: letter in the mail from a very well known and 310 00:16:48,960 --> 00:16:53,520 Speaker 2: well respected minister and business leader. I'd never met him. 311 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:56,360 Speaker 2: I didn't know that he knew who I was. I 312 00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 2: started reading the letter so nervously, not knowing. 313 00:16:59,040 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 1: What to expect. 314 00:17:00,480 --> 00:17:03,360 Speaker 2: He said, Joel, want you to know I've been watching you, 315 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 2: and I. 316 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:05,840 Speaker 1: Can't tell you how great you're doing. 317 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:09,680 Speaker 2: Listed all these things I was doing right on and on, 318 00:17:09,920 --> 00:17:14,159 Speaker 2: so encouraging and so uplifting. When he sent that letter, 319 00:17:14,560 --> 00:17:17,200 Speaker 2: he had no idea what I was fighting. He had 320 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:19,920 Speaker 2: no way of knowing what kind of impact it would have. 321 00:17:20,640 --> 00:17:22,840 Speaker 2: But he took time to nourish my soul. 322 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:24,720 Speaker 1: He took time to let. 323 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:26,960 Speaker 2: Me know that he cared, that it was for me, 324 00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:30,160 Speaker 2: that he believed in me. That letter was a big 325 00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:33,399 Speaker 2: part of me moving forward and pushing through the doubt, 326 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:36,320 Speaker 2: through the naysayers, through my own negative thoughts. 327 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:42,000 Speaker 1: Proverbs says, when it's in your power, don't withhold the good. 328 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:45,520 Speaker 2: This has taught me to live my life as a healer, 329 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:49,399 Speaker 2: to be free with kind words, to lift people, to 330 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:52,360 Speaker 2: speak life to their dreams, to tell them what they 331 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:56,399 Speaker 2: can become. Several times a week when I'm at home, 332 00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:59,800 Speaker 2: instead of watching television, I'll get my cell phone out 333 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:03,440 Speaker 2: and think, who can I encourage tonight? Who can I bless? 334 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:06,399 Speaker 2: Who can I nourish like that men did for me? 335 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:10,160 Speaker 2: God will cause you to speak a word in due season. 336 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:15,359 Speaker 2: There are people all around us, work, the grocery store, 337 00:18:15,440 --> 00:18:17,879 Speaker 2: the mall, the gem They need nourishment. 338 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 1: Life has pushed them down. 339 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:23,480 Speaker 2: They're trying to decide, like I was, should I go back, 340 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:24,520 Speaker 2: give up. 341 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:25,200 Speaker 1: On this dream? 342 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:29,880 Speaker 2: This marriage this child, they're starting to wilt, to dry up. 343 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 1: The good news is you have the water. You have 344 00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:34,560 Speaker 1: the nourishment. 345 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:40,640 Speaker 2: Your kind words, your encouragement, your text, your compliment can 346 00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:42,920 Speaker 2: be what causes them to come back to life. 347 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:46,679 Speaker 1: Well, Joel, I need someone to nourish me. Man, I 348 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:49,879 Speaker 1: have all these challenges. I'm carrying a heavy load. The 349 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:54,119 Speaker 1: scripture says, your own soul is nourished when you're kind. 350 00:18:55,040 --> 00:18:58,359 Speaker 2: When you're kind to others, you're not only nourishing them, 351 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:01,640 Speaker 2: but you're being nourished. You're going to get stronger, you're 352 00:19:01,680 --> 00:19:04,160 Speaker 2: going to get healthy, You're going to have more favor. 353 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 2: Isaiah said, say to the righteous, all will be well 354 00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:12,440 Speaker 2: with you. It didn't say go pray for the righteous, 355 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 2: although that's good, go tell the righteous how to get 356 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 2: out of their problems. 357 00:19:17,119 --> 00:19:20,280 Speaker 1: It simply says, say to the righteous. 358 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:22,800 Speaker 2: It's going to work out. Everything's going to be okay. 359 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:26,439 Speaker 2: Just a word of encouragement. Just let them know that 360 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:29,919 Speaker 2: you care. Just remind them that God's still on the throne. 361 00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:33,440 Speaker 2: You don't have to have all the answers. I used 362 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 2: to be intimidated because sometimes the situation was so complicated, 363 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:41,480 Speaker 2: different people involved. There's been lost. I'm not sure what 364 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:45,000 Speaker 2: to tell them. I've learned I don't have to solve 365 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:48,639 Speaker 2: the problem. That's God's job. My part is to just 366 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:53,360 Speaker 2: nourish their soul. Just let them know I care about you, I'm. 367 00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 1: Standing with you. You're going to make it. 368 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 2: Those kind words are what put people back on their feet. 369 00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:03,320 Speaker 2: Years ago, a minister friend of mine went to a 370 00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:07,119 Speaker 2: tough time. He was accused of doing things that weren't true. 371 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:09,959 Speaker 2: People blew them out of proportion and made it a 372 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:13,520 Speaker 2: really big deal, and his ministry and reputation went. 373 00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 1: Down to nothing. 374 00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:17,040 Speaker 2: He's a good man, he just made the mistakes, got 375 00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:17,919 Speaker 2: a little off course. 376 00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 1: It's easy to be judgmental. He knew better. 377 00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 2: It's his own fault. He's getting what he deserves. But 378 00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:28,040 Speaker 2: a true friend doesn't run away. When people are in trouble. 379 00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:31,760 Speaker 1: You run to them. You pour oil on their wounds, 380 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 1: You help them to get better. 381 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:37,359 Speaker 2: Have enough people pushing them down Their own thoughts are 382 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:38,920 Speaker 2: making them feel badly enough? 383 00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:42,200 Speaker 1: Why don't you be a healer? Why don't you use 384 00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:43,960 Speaker 1: your words to nourish their soul. 385 00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:48,159 Speaker 2: You can help love them back into wholeness. The mercy 386 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:51,000 Speaker 2: we show others is the mercy. God's going to show us. 387 00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:54,280 Speaker 2: I don't want to be a condemner, a fault finder. 388 00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:56,639 Speaker 1: I told you so. I'm going to live my life 389 00:20:56,680 --> 00:20:57,400 Speaker 1: as a healer. 390 00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:01,920 Speaker 2: The scripture says the enemy is the accuser of the brethren. 391 00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:07,760 Speaker 2: Anytime you're tempted to be harsh, judgmental, condemning, recognize you're 392 00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:11,280 Speaker 2: on the wrong side. I hadn't spoken to this friend 393 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:14,080 Speaker 2: in several months since all the news hit, and it's 394 00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:16,600 Speaker 2: like the whole world had turned against him. And I 395 00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:19,919 Speaker 2: called him on his cell phone. He answered in the weakest, 396 00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 2: most faint voice. 397 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:22,560 Speaker 1: You could imagine. 398 00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:26,680 Speaker 2: I could barely hear him say hello. He's a very outgoing, 399 00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:30,160 Speaker 2: dynamic person. I told him how much I loved him, 400 00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:32,800 Speaker 2: how this is not the end, and how God knows 401 00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 2: how to restore. 402 00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:37,159 Speaker 1: The line went silent. Could tell he was weepy. 403 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:40,720 Speaker 2: He said, Joel, I don't have any fight left in me. 404 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:43,840 Speaker 2: I said, that's okay, We're going to fight for you. 405 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:46,800 Speaker 2: I didn't have the solution. I didn't know how it 406 00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:48,639 Speaker 2: was going to work out, but I let him know 407 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:51,159 Speaker 2: that God still had a purpose for him, that he 408 00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:53,760 Speaker 2: was not finished, and that we're going to keep praying 409 00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:54,520 Speaker 2: for him. 410 00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:56,480 Speaker 1: It was a five minute phone call. 411 00:21:57,080 --> 00:21:59,640 Speaker 2: I couldn't tell it made any difference, but at least 412 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:02,479 Speaker 2: he knew that that we care. Two months later, he 413 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:05,000 Speaker 2: called me in told how he had already made up 414 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:07,399 Speaker 2: his mind to get out of the ministry. He's going 415 00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:10,880 Speaker 2: to formally resign and go do something else. But he said, Joel, 416 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 2: when I heard your voice that day, something came alive 417 00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:16,919 Speaker 2: on the inside. I kept hearing what you told me 418 00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 2: that God still has a purpose for me. He quit 419 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:23,560 Speaker 2: dwelling on his failures. He quit listening to the accusing voices. 420 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:27,000 Speaker 2: God is passion back today. He's back in the ministry, 421 00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:31,480 Speaker 2: stronger than ever, making a greater difference than before. On 422 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:34,720 Speaker 2: your journey in life, you're going to meet people like this, 423 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:38,119 Speaker 2: people that are wilted. Life has thrown them a curve. 424 00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:42,440 Speaker 2: They feel overwhelmed. People are judging them. God put them 425 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:43,000 Speaker 2: in your. 426 00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:45,120 Speaker 1: Path so you can nourish them. 427 00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:48,760 Speaker 2: Your kind words can put them back on their feet. 428 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:52,480 Speaker 1: They don't need more judgment. They need a healer. They 429 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:54,880 Speaker 1: need someone that will pour oil on the wounds. 430 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 2: There are a lot of tears in our world today, 431 00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:02,359 Speaker 2: lot of heartache of when we get to heaven, the 432 00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:05,600 Speaker 2: scripture talks about how God will wipe away the tears. 433 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:08,439 Speaker 2: There will be no more tears, no more loss, no 434 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:12,159 Speaker 2: more pain. But while we're here on earth, God is 435 00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 2: counting on us to wipe away the tears, to lift 436 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:19,720 Speaker 2: the fallen, to nourish the wilton, to encourage those that 437 00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:23,280 Speaker 2: are down. You can breathe life back into their spirits. 438 00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 2: Your kind words can set their dreams into motion. Your 439 00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 2: encouragement can be what causes them to step. 440 00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:34,359 Speaker 1: Into their purpose. Read about a five year old little 441 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 1: boy named Michael. 442 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:38,680 Speaker 2: His mother had just found out that she was pregnant 443 00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:41,159 Speaker 2: with the little girl, and he was so excited he 444 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 2: couldn't wait to see his little sister. All through the day, 445 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:47,919 Speaker 2: Michael would come over to his mother's tummy and sing 446 00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:52,400 Speaker 2: to his baby's sister, you are my sunshine, my only sunshine. 447 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:56,000 Speaker 2: Week after week, month after month, hundreds of times he 448 00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:56,719 Speaker 2: kept singing. 449 00:23:57,440 --> 00:23:58,880 Speaker 1: The mother finally went into. 450 00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:02,639 Speaker 2: Labor and there were complications with the delivery. She had 451 00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:05,440 Speaker 2: to be rushed to the operating room for an emergency 452 00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:11,080 Speaker 2: sea section. Unfortunately, the baby didn't fare well. She was alive, 453 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:15,080 Speaker 2: but doctors told the parents there was very little chance. 454 00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:15,680 Speaker 1: She would survive. 455 00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:19,760 Speaker 2: The baby was taken to the neonatal intensive care unit. 456 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:23,280 Speaker 2: All the while Michael kept asking, when can I see 457 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:27,439 Speaker 2: my baby sister. Several days went by, word came that 458 00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:29,920 Speaker 2: the baby would probably not make it through the night. 459 00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 2: The mother knew if Michael didn't see his sister right away. 460 00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:35,280 Speaker 1: He may not ever see her alive. 461 00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:39,760 Speaker 2: When the head nurse wasn't watching, she snuck Michael into 462 00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:43,440 Speaker 2: intensive care. He was taken aback by all the tubes 463 00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:46,879 Speaker 2: and monitors on his little sister. About that time, the 464 00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:49,040 Speaker 2: nurse saw Michael told the mother. 465 00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:51,159 Speaker 1: That he had to leave right now. 466 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:55,440 Speaker 2: Without his mother saying a word, Michael started singing, you. 467 00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:59,600 Speaker 1: Are my sunshine, my only sunshine. You make me happy. 468 00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:03,600 Speaker 2: When y eyes for gray, the nurse noticed the baby's 469 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 2: rapid breathing began to slow down to normal. She looked 470 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:10,919 Speaker 2: at little Michael and said keep seeing. As he stood 471 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:13,720 Speaker 2: there and sane for a few minutes, the nurse watched 472 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:17,359 Speaker 2: in amazement as the baby's heart rate became normal. The 473 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:20,320 Speaker 2: blue color began to go away. Instead of being shaky 474 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:23,680 Speaker 2: and jitterly, there was a calmness over the baby. It 475 00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:26,280 Speaker 2: was like those words from a five year old boy 476 00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:32,639 Speaker 2: were releasing healing and wholeness into his baby's sisters. Against 477 00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:36,400 Speaker 2: all odds, the baby got better today. She's perfectly healthy 478 00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:41,720 Speaker 2: and home. Kind words work wonders. Are you using your 479 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:45,000 Speaker 2: healing powers? Are you nourishing anyone's souls? 480 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:46,119 Speaker 1: Don't let the. 481 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:50,919 Speaker 2: Day go by without encouraging someone, giving a compliment, telling 482 00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:54,199 Speaker 2: your family that you love them. Developed the habit of 483 00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:59,199 Speaker 2: speaking kind words. The scripture says, encourage one another daily. 484 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,040 Speaker 2: This is not a one time thing and you're done. 485 00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:05,199 Speaker 2: This should be a lifestyle. Be on the lookout. Who 486 00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:07,960 Speaker 2: can I encourage today? Who can I text? Who can 487 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:11,040 Speaker 2: I call? There are people God has put in your 488 00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:15,360 Speaker 2: path that need your nourishment. Remember, when you're kind to others, 489 00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:18,960 Speaker 2: your own soul is nourished. If you'll do this, I 490 00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:22,399 Speaker 2: believe and declare, as you help them, you're going to 491 00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:23,199 Speaker 2: rise higher. 492 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:24,679 Speaker 1: New doors are going. 493 00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:29,280 Speaker 2: To open, healing will come, favor, breakthroughs, the fullness of 494 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:33,040 Speaker 2: your destiny in Jesus' name, And if you receive it, 495 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:36,840 Speaker 2: can you say amen? I'd like to give you an 496 00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:39,879 Speaker 2: opportunity to make Jesus the lord of your life. 497 00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:41,080 Speaker 1: Would you pray with me? 498 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:47,480 Speaker 2: Just say Lord Jesus, I repent of my sins come 499 00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:48,280 Speaker 2: into my heart. 500 00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:51,400 Speaker 1: I make you my Lord and Savior. 501 00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:55,200 Speaker 2: If you prayed that simple prayer, we believe you got 502 00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:58,000 Speaker 2: born again. We'd love to send you some free information 503 00:26:58,119 --> 00:26:59,280 Speaker 2: on your new walk with the Lord. 504 00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:01,800 Speaker 1: Just text number or go to the website. 505 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:04,960 Speaker 2: I hope you'll get into a good Bible based church 506 00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,080 Speaker 2: and keep God first place. 507 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:12,840 Speaker 4: Sometimes the circumstances of life can be overwhelmingly negative. What 508 00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,720 Speaker 4: should we do when we experience these kinds of negative 509 00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:17,040 Speaker 4: reports and realities. 510 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:22,240 Speaker 2: Our life is like a container. It can only hold 511 00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:26,520 Speaker 2: so much. When we allow negative things in, like worry, guilt, 512 00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:30,240 Speaker 2: and unforgiveness. That's taking up space for the good things 513 00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:32,919 Speaker 2: that belong to you. That's why I wrote my book, 514 00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:35,440 Speaker 2: Empty Out the Negative. I'll show you how to get 515 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:38,600 Speaker 2: rid of what's limiting you so you can live a victorious, 516 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:39,840 Speaker 2: fulfilled life. 517 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:43,080 Speaker 5: When you make room for joy, peace and faith, God 518 00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:44,880 Speaker 5: will feel you afresh and anews. 519 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:47,200 Speaker 4: As our way of saying thank you for your gift 520 00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 4: of any amount to the ministry this month, Joel and 521 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:53,639 Speaker 4: Victoria would like to send you this powerful book, Empty 522 00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:57,919 Speaker 4: out the Negative, empty out fear, and replace it with faith. 523 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:05,480 Speaker 3: My doctor, he said, I went in there and there 524 00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:07,040 Speaker 3: is no cancer in your body. 525 00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:11,920 Speaker 4: Empty out a hurt filled childhood and replace it with confidence. 526 00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:16,400 Speaker 5: So I took what Joel said, and I physically replace 527 00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:19,520 Speaker 5: them with I am strong, I am worthy. 528 00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,560 Speaker 1: I started saying those over and over and over. 529 00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:27,600 Speaker 4: Empty out broken relationships and find renewed love in. 530 00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:30,040 Speaker 3: A world that's just so full of so much noise 531 00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:33,000 Speaker 3: and negativity and hatred. And just to come and have 532 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:36,399 Speaker 3: so much encouragement filled into you. You know, it's something 533 00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:38,040 Speaker 3: I've never had in my whole life. 534 00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:40,680 Speaker 1: Are you holding onto things that are weighing you down? 535 00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:43,080 Speaker 2: It's time to empty that out so you can live 536 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:45,200 Speaker 2: a positive, faith filled line. 537 00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,000 Speaker 5: Joel and I pray for you every day. We're believing 538 00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:51,320 Speaker 5: for God's very best for you and your family. You 539 00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:55,400 Speaker 5: know we appreciate your prayers and your support. Your generosity 540 00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:57,200 Speaker 5: is impacting so many lives. 541 00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:01,800 Speaker 2: Remember you can watch the services online Sunday morning, download 542 00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 2: our daily podcast, listen on Sirius XAM watch the new 543 00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:09,920 Speaker 2: Joelostin Network streaming on television. But until we see you 544 00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,400 Speaker 2: next week, may the Lord bless you and keep you. 545 00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:15,560 Speaker 4: Be sure to request your copy of Empty Out the 546 00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:19,760 Speaker 4: Negative today. Visit Joelostin dot com or call eight eight 547 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:21,160 Speaker 4: eight five six seven. 548 00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:21,680 Speaker 1: Joel