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Speaker 1: Call It what It Is with Jessica Capshaw and Camille

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Speaker 1: Luddington and iHeartRadio Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello Call It Crew, and welcome to another episode of

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Speaker 2: Call It Short and Sweet. Hello Jessica cap Shaw.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I love it. I really love saying short and sweet.

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Speaker 2: You know this one's extra sweet. I'm gonna be cheesy

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Speaker 2: right now. It's almost like birthday cake sweet. And why

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Speaker 2: would that? Why would that be?

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Speaker 3: Because maybe your leo sister just celebrate another another year

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Speaker 3: and entering a new year. It's sort of like New

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Speaker 3: Year's and your birthday all in one. Do you get

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Speaker 3: excited for your birthday? Or do you dread it?

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Speaker 2: Some people really dread it.

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Speaker 4: I've had a real relationship with my birthday. It's been

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Speaker 4: a journey, Kameela. It's been a journey that's had ups

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Speaker 4: and downs. Yes, you know, I well, top note love

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Speaker 4: my birthday and I love other people's birthdays.

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Speaker 3: I love birthdays. I love well.

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Speaker 4: I love celebrating and birthdays are a nice little you

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Speaker 4: know seguay too.

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Speaker 3: The celebration.

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Speaker 4: My memories are as a child were a little challenging

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Speaker 4: because I had an August birthday, which meant that everybody

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Speaker 4: was you know, you didn't have to get to have

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Speaker 4: birthdays in school be celebrated by everybody, or do like

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Speaker 4: the k like killow cupcakes or whatever that is.

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Speaker 3: So and I didn't have.

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Speaker 4: Usually August is a month that if you can't you're

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Speaker 4: lucky enough to be able to go travel, you're usually

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Speaker 4: traveling in August, which means you're not home for a

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Speaker 4: birthday party.

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Speaker 3: And so August was a little bit challenging in that way.

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Speaker 4: And then add to that, my parents were divorced, so

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Speaker 4: I would go back and forth, like the idea was

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Speaker 4: that I should go back and forth and a birthday party.

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Speaker 3: It was just hard. It was just hard. And then

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Speaker 3: I'm a little I'm not a little bit.

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Speaker 4: I'm a recovering people pleaser, and so I wanted everybody

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Speaker 4: else to be happy, and so then on my birthday,

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Speaker 4: I was thinking about how everyone else could be happy

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Speaker 4: on my birthday.

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Speaker 3: So birthdays were complicated.

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Speaker 4: Then in my adult life I got to shed that

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Speaker 4: whole thing and enter into the true celebration phase.

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Speaker 3: And then many of my friends would.

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Speaker 4: Tell you that it might have been a month long

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Speaker 4: experience my birthday.

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Speaker 5: Oh, I can see that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, August is Capshawn month. No I can see that.

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Speaker 1: And and by the way, I relate to the August

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Speaker 1: birthday dilemma because Lucas is born, was born two days

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Speaker 1: before you. Here's my little Leo, and I always wanted

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Speaker 1: I thought it was cool to have a summer birthday

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Speaker 1: because I am ten days before Christmas, right, so it's

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Speaker 1: like I'm full winter baby super close of course, was

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Speaker 1: I'm like those summer birthdays they can do swim parties

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Speaker 1: and everything. And then with Lucas, I'm realizing, like, oh crap,

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Speaker 1: everyone's away, no.

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Speaker 5: One's in school. It's hard to get kids together.

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Speaker 1: Even I'm experiencing that as the mama, so.

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Speaker 3: I get it.

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Speaker 1: I love a birthday though. I do love a birthday

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Speaker 1: because well this is a you know, not to get

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Speaker 1: like super deep, but my mom passed when she was

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Speaker 1: forty three, and so I think every birthday is a blessing,

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Speaker 1: which it is.

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Speaker 5: So I feel like, yes.

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Speaker 1: I made it, which is a little white crazy, and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, yeah, I made it to this one, okay,

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Speaker 1: And I just love them.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well I think that, you know, then there's that

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Speaker 4: phase was just about also getting everybody there's a great

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Speaker 4: time in your life. I don't know what age is at,

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Speaker 4: but like there's a sweet spot where a party is

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Speaker 4: just you invite everyone you know and you kind of

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Speaker 4: don't care, like if they know each other, if they

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Speaker 4: get along, and you're still going to parties like you

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Speaker 4: could meet someone new or whatever.

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Speaker 3: And then once and it was those were some good days.

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Speaker 3: Those those were some really good parties, were really good parties.

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Speaker 3: Then I feel like.

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Speaker 4: We went into then all of a sudden, you have kids,

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Speaker 4: and then your their birthdays are way more important than

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Speaker 4: your birthdays, and you're kind of set in your your friends.

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Speaker 4: And I have always been really lucky to have friends

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Speaker 4: then so then I went back to my my younger

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Speaker 4: with people that I loved. But my people around me

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Speaker 4: felt a lot of pressure, which I've I've repaired. But

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Speaker 4: I had two very important people to meet last year

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Speaker 4: basically tell me that they hate that they felt a lot.

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Speaker 3: They hate my birthday.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, they felt a lot of pressure to do something.

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Speaker 1: They're like I wish we could just skip over that day.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because I was sort.

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Speaker 4: Of They were asking me what I wanted to do,

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Speaker 4: and I was being very kind of like, well, you

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Speaker 4: know what, maybe we'll go to lunch, maybe we got

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Speaker 3: And they were like, who are you like you? And

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Speaker 3: it is true. One of them reminded me that I.

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Speaker 4: Actually used to see doubt basically like a registry of

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Speaker 4: gifts that I was interested in receiving.

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Speaker 1: No, you had a birthday registry.

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Speaker 5: This is amazing.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, please hit us in the comments if

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Speaker 1: you send people a birthday list. This is the first

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Speaker 1: I'm hearing of this, and this is actually my favorite

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Speaker 4: I swear, I know, and she when she said it,

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Speaker 4: I was horrified that I went through a small period

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Speaker 4: of denial and then it rung. It rang a bell,

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Speaker 4: So I listen, accountability is everything.

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Speaker 3: I copped to it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: My husband said that he also felt similar pressure.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's my favorite thing that you've ever

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Speaker 1: told me.

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Speaker 5: That's my favorite story.

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Speaker 3: Because it's so insane.

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Speaker 1: Wait for December. Wait for the list I'm going to

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Speaker 1: send you in December. It's like, Hi, it's that time

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Speaker 1: of year. You've all been looking forward to.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, exactly. By the way, do you know that

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Speaker 3: August is the most popular month for birthday.

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Speaker 1: That's interesting because when is everyone banging.

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Speaker 3: Doing it and they're doing it in February.

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Speaker 4: It's the dead of winter, and they're like, hey, you

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Speaker 4: look good, let's do.

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Speaker 1: This Valentine's Day. They're feeling the Valentine's Day pressure they've gotten,

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Speaker 1: like the shy coupons. It's like, here, give me a massage,

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Speaker 1: and it's led to a child.

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Speaker 3: They're like, shit, yeah, yep, oh, February sex.

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Speaker 4: February sex leads to all these August babies.

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Speaker 5: That makes sense. I get that. I give a little

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Speaker 5: February sex.

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Speaker 1: I learned that there was something called the birthday blues.

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Speaker 1: I did not know this existed. So that pressure that

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Speaker 1: you're talking about to host the party and do all

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Speaker 1: the things is part of this birthday depression where people

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Speaker 1: are like feeling all of that feeling also that they're

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Speaker 1: getting older, all those things.

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Speaker 4: Yep.

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Speaker 5: I don't think I've had.

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Speaker 3: That birthday depression.

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Speaker 1: No, I have it either, Well, clearly not. You're sending

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Speaker 1: out you're you're sending out lists. Clearly not, you're like,

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Speaker 1: this is my month whatever, what's the opposite of birthday decision?

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Speaker 4: Just to go back to that for a second, what

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Speaker 4: I thought I was being helpful. Just so we're clear, Okay,

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Speaker 4: my intention was to be of service.

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Speaker 1: Oh this is can I ask like what price they get?

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Speaker 1: Was anything like Cardier has a snoop?

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Speaker 3: Have you met me? You would know if you know

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Speaker 3: me that I would have represented.

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Speaker 4: All the price plays. It's an equal opportunity of registering.

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Speaker 4: I'm saying you have to buy me something super expensive.

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Speaker 4: I'm just saying it's on the list. You might want

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Speaker 4: to buy me something i'd like as Okay. Well, in fairness,

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Speaker 4: I will say part of this came from I really

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Speaker 4: enjoy sending you know this. I enjoy sending people flowers.

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Speaker 4: I love buying people gifts. But if I'm going to

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Speaker 4: be beautiful flowers or something like like sweet treats, I

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Speaker 4: that they were looking forward to, that they had thought about.

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Speaker 4: I also really love gifting experiences like let's go on

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Speaker 4: an adventure, but it's all on me, right, And I

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Speaker 4: think that you can do that at every price point,

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Speaker 4: and I think that it also just shows like thought

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Speaker 4: and knowing of someone.

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Speaker 3: So you know, again, my registry was just a cheat sheet.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm just thinking, it's like you're treating your friends

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Speaker 1: like Sanna. It's like you're like writing a letter every year, like, dear.

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Speaker 5: Friends, this is what I'd like for my birthday.

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Speaker 1: Because I don't know if they need I don't know

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Speaker 1: if they need a cheat sheet or needed one anyway.

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Speaker 4: Oh, like you've never heard You've never heard anyone say

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Speaker 4: what do you want for your birthday?

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Speaker 1: I've heard someone ask me that. Yeah, I have volunteered

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Speaker 1: a power point presentation.

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Speaker 3: I happened. Either why why wouldn't Why wouldn't you if

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Speaker 3: they ask you, why would have you ever said what

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Speaker 3: you want? Or of course, how do you know what

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Speaker 5: To Matt, I'll be like, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: To be honest, I'm like, I might displind me something

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Speaker 1: da da da, but not to my friends. I'm not

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Speaker 1: like I would never I don't know if I would

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Speaker 1: tell them what I really wanted.

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Speaker 3: Well, I would like to know why.

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Speaker 1: I'll think about it. It's a good question. Why wouldn't

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Speaker 1: I tell them, yeah, have you ever had okay, have

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Speaker 1: you ever had an ex forget about your birthday?

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Speaker 4: Do you want to get real? I can't tell you

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Speaker 4: how many times my father has forgotten my birthday.

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Speaker 1: My dad also he'll often like December sixteenth, the day

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Speaker 1: i'fter be like, darling, what are you doing today? I'm like, yesterday,

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Speaker 1: I know it was good yesterday, Okay.

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Speaker 3: But I think this speaks to the way that we've

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Speaker 3: mature with our birthdays.

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Speaker 4: Is that I cared so much when I was younger,

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Speaker 4: and then I cared so much, you know, when I

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Speaker 4: could go and party and do it up. And now

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Speaker 4: I care like enough, but if people call me or

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Speaker 4: don't call me, I'm totally fine. Whereas I used to

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Speaker 4: say that like a big deal if someone calls me,

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Speaker 4: but I but I did care, And now I can

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Speaker 4: really genuinely say.

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Speaker 3: I'm like whatever, Like oh my, oh my. How many

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Speaker 3: times do I not even know what day of the

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Speaker 3: week it is? Well, I know, remember on the mud.

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Speaker 1: Like the only time I don't know, but the only

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Speaker 1: time I do care about this that I sit waiting

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Speaker 1: and I don't know why I do this, but I

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Speaker 1: know that they do it too. Is with my siblings,

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Speaker 1: it's almost like it's weird because I'm almost kind of

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Speaker 1: excited if they forget, like I have something on them,

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Speaker 5: Like, ooh, you forgot those weird I don't know why to.

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Speaker 4: Call them out, but that taps into something, which is

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Speaker 1: Yes, but I feel it less with friends, because I

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And I try, and you want to have a

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Speaker 4: I don't know. You know what really turned me was

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Speaker 1: About like, no, that's an Actually, that's about an app.

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Speaker 3: That's about a Google.

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Speaker 1: Alert, and that's my alert.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a reminder. And where do I get me

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Speaker 4: I got my people. I get a little like for like,

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Speaker 1: I do see these social media posts right that are

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Speaker 1: in memoriam situation. There's you know, there's like a montage

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Speaker 1: the social media posts about birthdays, they're not my jam.

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Speaker 1: I don't ever post really about birthdays on social media

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Speaker 5: Unimportant to me.

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Speaker 3: This is a Pandora's box for me.

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Speaker 5: Uh oh, here we go.

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Speaker 3: Subtle in boys and girls, subtle in everyone get ready

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Speaker 4: I clearly the very small part of me that still

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Speaker 4: Little uh little hurt, little annoyed, little irritated, really just hurt.

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Speaker 4: It's not annoyed or I can get hurt if people

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Speaker 4: don't post something on my birthday that normally do for

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Speaker 3: So I have a we all have them, We have.

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Speaker 1: The fame birthday history of posting that's their jam, and

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Speaker 5: You're like, what the fuck?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, even though I don't care and I'm not someone

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Speaker 4: who's like, oh my gosh, please make sure like I

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Speaker 4: don't have that with my friends. I'm not like, oh

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Speaker 4: my gosh, here's the you know, yeah, the college I've

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Speaker 4: at all. And I don't post for people's birthday. So

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Speaker 4: I've identified myself as a non poster of birthday situations.

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Speaker 5: I'm a non poster too.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and so far, no one said that they're hurt

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Speaker 4: by that. And if anyone ever came to me and

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Speaker 4: was like, I would love free to post on my birthday,

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Speaker 4: I would happily do so.

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Speaker 5: That'd be so embarrassing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know it is.

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Speaker 1: That would be the most like tragic thing. Hey, so

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Speaker 1: my birthday is coming up and I've been thinking about

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Speaker 1: all the list of things I want, but number one

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Speaker 1: on it is I need some sort of montage on

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Speaker 5: Can you fucking that's.

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Speaker 3: No one to listen?

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Speaker 5: Then I will back.

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Speaker 3: The second thing will be my redistry to that.

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Speaker 5: I would I would get that text.

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Speaker 1: I would no matter where I was, fall on the floor,

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Speaker 1: I would throw my phone.

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Speaker 5: I wouldn't even know what to do with a text

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Speaker 3: And I mean I can't. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 4: Well I didn't say I have people like that in

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Speaker 6: Do you think wait, hang on, do you think people

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Speaker 6: are requesting are they able to do the montage?

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Speaker 3: No? This is really tickling you.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god. I hate the montages.

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Speaker 4: Because I know you, so I think this is tickling

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Speaker 4: you because it's just not that important.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. No, because the level of cringe is so high.

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Speaker 1: It's a cringe level twelve.

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Speaker 7: But I know because nine times out of ten, the

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Speaker 3: Think that that. I think what you would do with

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Speaker 4: I think if that person came to you and said

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Speaker 4: think that you would absolutely do it.

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Speaker 3: And then I think you'd probably never speak.

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Speaker 5: To them again.

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Speaker 1: You know what? I put together the most spectacular posts

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Speaker 1: that eat like a twenty minute reel, just never ending.

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Speaker 5: The one you did for my birthday this year, exactly

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Speaker 5: like that one that you requested.

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Speaker 6: Okay, when I called you.

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Speaker 3: That night and I said, I you talked to you

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Speaker 3: about something really.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, when you took me through exactly what you wanted,

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Speaker 1: posted and sent me the pics.

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Speaker 3: Okay, By the way, I want to hear from our group.

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Speaker 3: I want to hear from our crew who.

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Speaker 4: Feels like a birthday gift for registry is a good idea.

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Speaker 4: I'm okay with it not being a good idea. No

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Speaker 4: one needs to make me happy. I'm just curious if

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Speaker 1: I'm Yeah, no, trust me, we'll find out. This little

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Speaker 1: this little pole cracked me up. Okay, more people like

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Speaker 1: than dislike singing Happy Birthday to someone.

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Speaker 5: But thirties, I can't understand you.

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Speaker 6: I'm with thirty six say they feel neutral about it.

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Speaker 3: I don't even understand anything you just said.

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Speaker 6: Thirty There is six percent of people polled feeling neutral

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Speaker 6: about singing Happy.

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Speaker 3: Birth I think I feel neutral about it.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 6: I'm just laughing that, like you checked the neutral box,

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Speaker 6: like you're.

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Speaker 5: Slightly dead inside.

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Speaker 3: No, it's just such a formality.

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Speaker 4: And every time I send someone a video on their

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Speaker 4: birthday and I start singing the song, I'm I'm disappointed

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Speaker 4: I made that choice, and then I gotta finish it.

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Speaker 3: You can't like do what I like, And I have

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Speaker 3: occasionally been like, happy birthday to you.

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Speaker 5: So it's your birthday.

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Speaker 1: You wait, you always finish the song usually when I

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Speaker 1: start it. Really, I don't think people need that.

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Speaker 3: It's not an easy song to sing, by the way,

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: If people need that in their inbox. Not the fool shebang,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 5: Parents.

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Speaker 1: Seventy percent of parents prefer outdoor birthday parties for their kids.

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Speaker 3: The average duration of a child's birthday party is two

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Speaker 3: to three hours, and about forty five percent of parents

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Speaker 3: hire a professional event planner for their child's birth I

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Speaker 3: don't know who those people are.

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Speaker 1: I don't I have not met those again, I've done it.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying.

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Speaker 4: That that looks in the ary mirror like not the

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Speaker 4: right choice.

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Speaker 5: Listen.

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Speaker 1: I understand it for maybe like a sweet sixteen, like

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Speaker 1: you're doing a blowout, but if your kids, sends are

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Speaker 1: like a knur or something like yeah, or like you know, yeah, Okay.

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Speaker 1: So when you're actually celebrating your birthday and you're sitting

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Speaker 1: there at the lunch or the dinner, there's always the

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Speaker 1: inevitable moment where someone in your party has either brought

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Speaker 1: we've got a birthday, Yeah, and you have to pretend

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And then when they come out with the cake and

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Speaker 4: everybody's staring at you and singing happy birthday, How does

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Speaker 4: that feel for you inside?

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Speaker 1: Kamila, Well, I used to dread that moment because I

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Speaker 1: felt so awkward, and now I just mentally check out.

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Speaker 5: A little bit and I smiled inside.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm dead as I'm smiling, and then I and

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Speaker 1: then I, you know, it takes a little bit too long,

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Speaker 1: and then I blow out the candles and insult.

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Speaker 5: But it feels awkward always for you.

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Speaker 1: Have you why do I feel like you kind of

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Speaker 1: there was a stage in your life where you were like,

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Speaker 1: where the fuck is that dessert?

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Speaker 5: You're like, did they can tell them or not?

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Speaker 1: And you like go up and you're like, just so

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Speaker 1: you know it's my birthday, just in case they didn't.

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Speaker 5: I think that me.

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Speaker 4: Revealing that I had a birthday registry list has made

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Speaker 5: It is I see the truth.

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Speaker 4: And I just think that that was just one piece

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Speaker 4: of MEA Kamela we don't need to, you know, stretch

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Speaker 4: it out to every other part.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm throwing the question back at you. How do

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Speaker 1: you feel you bloody love it?

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Speaker 3: No, here's what I here's what I.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I can't believe I'm revealing how Leo

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Speaker 4: I am right now.

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Speaker 3: So it's amazing Leo is.

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Speaker 4: I don't like the singing. I do find that awkward.

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Speaker 4: It's fine, but it's like a necessary situation. So I

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Speaker 4: don't like not like it. I just I think everybody

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Speaker 4: finds it a awkward. Here's what I love, like live

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Speaker 4: for like maybe wait every single year or so that

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Speaker 5: Okay, I'm bracing myself. I'm thinking about it.

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Speaker 3: How I can say it.

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Speaker 1: Just remember I'm a Leoh okay, just rip off the

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Speaker 1: band aid for all of us.

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Speaker 3: It is look at me with kindness.

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Speaker 4: Sure, I really really really like when people go around

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Speaker 4: the table.

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Speaker 5: No and toast me.

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Speaker 3: I love it.

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Speaker 5: Hang on hmm, okay, just saying to take a long moment.

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Speaker 1: I need to clarify what this is. Is this go around?

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Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever had anyone go around the

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Speaker 1: table and toast me. I'm assuming this isn't like cheers, cheers,

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Speaker 1: cheers Like this is people going around this table and saying,

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Speaker 1: you know what, let's all just say one really just

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Speaker 1: something we really.

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Speaker 3: Love about Jessica Amy.

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Speaker 5: You start, is that what you're talking about?

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Speaker 4: I mean, not in that voice, but yeah, oh my,

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Speaker 4: I clearly need to invite you to win my birthday

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Speaker 4: celebrations and conversation to have so that you could be prepared.

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Speaker 5: I will not be going one.

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Speaker 4: Of my love languages. Actually, I would say my love

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Speaker 4: language is words of affirmation. Camilla Laudington, how do you not?

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Speaker 3: I don't even know who you.

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Speaker 4: Are right now? This birthday thing might have split us.

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Speaker 5: It might.

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Speaker 1: It might because the sage and me is like, would

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Speaker 1: be thinking, can we can wrap this birthday up?

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Speaker 5: I like, yeah, yeah. When it gets to me, I'm like, yea, yeah,

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Speaker 5: it's great, move it along, great.

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Speaker 3: Well you know what, maybe maybe okay, fine, well maybe.

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Speaker 1: At midnight this is over, so got it going?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 4: Well, I'm giving my tuchial birthday and you're we're gonna

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Speaker 4: be together for one of my birthdays, and I'm going

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Speaker 4: to reveal to you how very special it can be.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm gonna live stream it.

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna live stream so everyone can have everybody take part.

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Speaker 1: Wow, I'm seeing.

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Speaker 5: You in a different light today. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's okay.

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Speaker 1: Happy birthday to you, Jessica Capshaw, and if anyone in

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Speaker 1: the comments would like to give her some affirmations, she

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Speaker 1: will be reading them.

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Speaker 3: Happy birthday to all of us Leo's around the world.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I do love a Leo. I love Leo's.

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Speaker 3: Well, then you have to love all of us, and

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Speaker 3: this is what comes with us.

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Speaker 1: I do love all I love it. I love it,

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Speaker 1: I love every part of it. It tickles me so much.

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Speaker 4: All right, Well, this is another episode of Short and Sweet, although.

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Speaker 3: This one might have not been so sweet. I don't know, Ashley.

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Speaker 5: I think it was sickly sweet, sickly sweet.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. Someone might have been a little sour.

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Speaker 5: My god, this is my favorite one. This is a sour.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry you guys had to listen to this today.

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Speaker 3: We'll make it up to you later.

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Speaker 5: We will make it up to you later, signing off

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Speaker 5: Short and Sweet, Pet and the Pet