WEBVTT - SUNDAY SAMPLER - The Nashville Podcast Network (3-3-24) 0:00:08.240 --> 0:00:10.840 What's up, guys. Hope you're having a good weekend. Sunday Sampler. 0:00:10.880 --> 0:00:12.560 Some highlights from some of the podcasts that you may 0:00:12.560 --> 0:00:15.080 have missed. The Bobby Cast, Four Things with Amy Brown, 0:00:15.160 --> 0:00:18.360 Sore Losers Movie, Mike's Movie podcast, Get Real with Caroline Hobby. 0:00:18.720 --> 0:00:21.240 On the Sore Losers lunchbox ran into a major celebrity 0:00:21.239 --> 0:00:23.480 in the world of sports, and then the guys played 0:00:23.520 --> 0:00:25.360 good dad or bad Dad. You can hear that coming 0:00:25.440 --> 0:00:27.640 up in a second. On Get Real with Caroline Hobby, 0:00:27.680 --> 0:00:30.280 she sat down with singer songwriter Sarah Beth Tate. Sarah 0:00:30.320 --> 0:00:32.320 Beth is awesome. She's also been on the road with 0:00:32.440 --> 0:00:35.160 Eddie and I. And in the Bobby Cast, Riley Green 0:00:35.280 --> 0:00:37.640 stopped by the house. It was the longest that Riley 0:00:37.640 --> 0:00:39.639 and I have ever hung out. We're forced to sit 0:00:39.640 --> 0:00:41.680 there for an hour, but it ended up being great. 0:00:42.080 --> 0:00:44.280 And the other time it's been very quickly doing shows together. 0:00:44.520 --> 0:00:46.480 But man, I like this, dude, I think you will too. 0:00:46.720 --> 0:00:49.080 So let's go first with the Bobby Cast. And if 0:00:49.080 --> 0:00:51.040 you like this, go listen to that episode because maybe 0:00:51.040 --> 0:00:53.360 you just missed it, or go subscribe to the Bobby Cast. 0:00:53.600 --> 0:00:55.480 Here you go. The Bobby cast with Riley Green. 0:00:55.920 --> 0:00:56.160 Help. 0:00:57.760 --> 0:01:00.320 Do you get any sort of flack for how old 0:01:00.320 --> 0:01:03.880 are you? Know, thirty five or six? Yeah, I got 0:01:03.880 --> 0:01:04.959 married a couple years ago, but I. 0:01:04.920 --> 0:01:07.319 Was thirty nine when I got married, and everybody back 0:01:07.360 --> 0:01:10.360 home was like, you're broken or gay because you're not married. 0:01:10.520 --> 0:01:12.840 Is everybody where I was from was you got married 0:01:12.840 --> 0:01:13.680 at nineteen twenty? 0:01:13.720 --> 0:01:14.319 I mean not you. 0:01:14.480 --> 0:01:17.119 Oh yeah, no, everybody my parents and yeah, they were 0:01:17.160 --> 0:01:22.360 convinced the thing that I was off, like intellectually or 0:01:22.400 --> 0:01:24.119 that I just they were like, it's okay if you're gay. 0:01:24.160 --> 0:01:25.680 I'm like, I'm like gay, and if I was, I 0:01:25.680 --> 0:01:26.280 would tell you. 0:01:27.040 --> 0:01:29.360 But I've been called a lot of things. But it's 0:01:29.400 --> 0:01:31.720 like I'm thirty nine and you're thirty five. 0:01:31.880 --> 0:01:35.959 Yeah, I think that now it's probably at least everybody 0:01:35.959 --> 0:01:39.360 that knows me personally has seen what my lifestyle is 0:01:39.480 --> 0:01:41.240 like in the sense of how much I'm gone. I mean, 0:01:41.240 --> 0:01:43.360 I don't have regular relationships with my friends. 0:01:43.400 --> 0:01:44.200 But what about it at home? 0:01:44.240 --> 0:01:47.360 Are they like Riley, well, you know, well you're not 0:01:47.360 --> 0:01:49.920 married because at home they don't see probably what your 0:01:49.960 --> 0:01:50.400 travel like. 0:01:50.520 --> 0:01:52.280 My mom didn't see my travel life was like yeah, 0:01:52.280 --> 0:01:55.480 my mom, My mom has my calendar. Oh yeah, she's. 0:01:55.760 --> 0:01:58.240 My mom has been really great about that. It's like 0:01:58.320 --> 0:02:00.480 maybe early on, I'm sure she had a little bit 0:02:00.520 --> 0:02:02.440 of that and was worried about me, you know, finding 0:02:02.480 --> 0:02:04.760 somebody whatever. But now I think she just knows that 0:02:05.920 --> 0:02:08.120 this is such a timely point in my career. I've 0:02:08.120 --> 0:02:10.400 obviously been very blessed and I have accomplished things I 0:02:10.440 --> 0:02:11.239 never thought I would. 0:02:11.240 --> 0:02:13.320 But there's also a lot of opportunity that comes with that. 0:02:14.040 --> 0:02:15.600 And I just kind of had in my head when 0:02:15.600 --> 0:02:17.840 I was going to sign a record deal to just 0:02:17.880 --> 0:02:20.320 put my nose down and grind it out and do 0:02:20.360 --> 0:02:22.959 everything they asked me to do anything I could for 0:02:23.240 --> 0:02:25.720 a couple of years, which that's stretched into five now. 0:02:26.240 --> 0:02:29.079 But uh, I think they get that, and I don't 0:02:29.080 --> 0:02:31.799 see a lot of pressure. I think that my lifestyle 0:02:31.880 --> 0:02:33.320 is going to have to change where I go from 0:02:33.360 --> 0:02:35.639 playing you know, one hundred and twenty shows a year 0:02:35.680 --> 0:02:36.520 to sixty. 0:02:36.600 --> 0:02:39.720 But what's going to make that happen? Though? Oh, like, 0:02:39.919 --> 0:02:40.760 what's what's a fact? 0:02:40.880 --> 0:02:43.200 That's a great question, because I because it's you know, 0:02:43.280 --> 0:02:44.760 as you well know, it's up to me. 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:45.119 Yep. 0:02:45.160 --> 0:02:49.800 I mean I could turn down anything I want to, Uh, 0:02:50.160 --> 0:02:53.720 I don't know. I hope it's just something clicks and 0:02:54.120 --> 0:02:56.359 we get to a place where I can say, this 0:02:56.400 --> 0:02:58.120 is the budget for the year, this is how many 0:02:58.160 --> 0:02:59.920 shows we can go do it. I'm happy with making 0:03:00.120 --> 0:03:01.799 this much and this is the career I'm going to 0:03:01.840 --> 0:03:05.560 have from this. And maybe that's from you know, a 0:03:05.600 --> 0:03:08.639 lot of opportunities not being available that are right now. 0:03:08.840 --> 0:03:12.120 I don't know. It's a probably one of the more 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:14.800 scary things about it is knowing that with this type 0:03:14.800 --> 0:03:17.640 of travel schedule and lifestyle, I don't really have much 0:03:17.720 --> 0:03:20.519 chance of beating somebody, and how much things are gonna 0:03:20.520 --> 0:03:22.200 have to slow down for me to get to that place. 0:03:22.320 --> 0:03:22.520 You know. 0:03:22.600 --> 0:03:25.080 It's also a momentum based industry very much. 0:03:25.160 --> 0:03:27.480 It's such a battle to stay relevant right probably now 0:03:27.520 --> 0:03:30.200 more than ever because of all the avenues of new 0:03:30.280 --> 0:03:33.200 music and a new artist discovery or whatever that is. 0:03:33.360 --> 0:03:35.840 So it feels like if you let up by letting 0:03:35.920 --> 0:03:38.320 something else in, regardless of what it is, if it's 0:03:38.360 --> 0:03:40.280 you want to go away for three months to hunt, 0:03:40.480 --> 0:03:42.520 or if you want to have a serious relationship, like 0:03:42.560 --> 0:03:44.040 you're like, well, if I have dedicated this is the 0:03:44.040 --> 0:03:45.880 struggle that I went through. If I dedicate my time 0:03:45.880 --> 0:03:48.000 to this, then this is going to suffer. And so 0:03:48.200 --> 0:03:51.840 I was never going to get married. Just I was 0:03:51.880 --> 0:03:53.200 just like, you know what, I'm never gonna have time 0:03:53.240 --> 0:03:55.880 for it because I also I feel like I am 0:03:56.000 --> 0:03:58.480 I have a huge imposter syndrome, and like, if I 0:03:58.520 --> 0:04:00.520 don't keep going, I'm never going to get back to 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:02.560 this level. And then I met my wife and it 0:04:02.640 --> 0:04:04.520 was like she kind of bost me out of it, 0:04:04.560 --> 0:04:06.320 and for the first time ever, I let her because 0:04:06.320 --> 0:04:10.440 I was happy that I met a person that as 0:04:10.480 --> 0:04:13.160 much as I was annoyed by it, I was more 0:04:13.200 --> 0:04:16.720 annoyed by the fact that maybe she wouldn't be there. 0:04:17.240 --> 0:04:19.960 And it was the only time and I dated. But 0:04:20.040 --> 0:04:22.520 I mean it was you know, I had my move 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:26.240 to Nashville. Holy crap, I never got girls, and I 0:04:26.240 --> 0:04:28.000 got all the girls at once that it was so 0:04:28.040 --> 0:04:30.520 it was wild, and then it was this is weird. 0:04:30.920 --> 0:04:32.080 And then I was like, I'm never getting married. 0:04:32.120 --> 0:04:32.479 Who cares? 0:04:32.520 --> 0:04:35.560 And then I met my wife and I was like, man, 0:04:35.600 --> 0:04:37.159 I really don't want to slow down. But worse than that, 0:04:37.200 --> 0:04:41.640 I don't want to like lose her. That's whomever I 0:04:41.640 --> 0:04:43.720 don't even know, you're You're you never married, right, never 0:04:43.760 --> 0:04:46.280 married anything. That's what we because you're not going to 0:04:46.320 --> 0:04:48.119 ever go. I only want to make this much money 0:04:48.120 --> 0:04:48.479 this year. 0:04:49.200 --> 0:04:52.640 Yeah, I just uh, you know, it's a really funny 0:04:52.640 --> 0:04:54.560 thing to say, probably to my buddies back home from 0:04:54.600 --> 0:04:56.400 now side looking in, because they're like, oh, man, rather 0:04:56.480 --> 0:04:58.000 meets but where do you really meet a girl at? 0:04:58.040 --> 0:04:59.040 You know what I mean? Where do you get to 0:04:59.120 --> 0:05:01.039 invest time in a human exactly? 0:05:01.120 --> 0:05:01.839 Yeah? Yeah. 0:05:01.920 --> 0:05:05.960 And and you know social media is probably whereas some 0:05:05.960 --> 0:05:08.200 people would use that to meet people, it's the opposite 0:05:08.200 --> 0:05:10.640 for me because how do you really use that, you know, 0:05:10.680 --> 0:05:13.000 with what I do for a living. 0:05:13.040 --> 0:05:16.240 So it's it's an interesting thing. Like I said, I've uh, 0:05:16.440 --> 0:05:16.840 I mean I. 0:05:16.839 --> 0:05:18.440 Used it, but it wasn't for good Yeah, Like I 0:05:18.520 --> 0:05:19.120 used it, but it. 0:05:19.040 --> 0:05:21.640 Wasn't for meeting somebody to marry, right, It wasn't like 0:05:21.760 --> 0:05:24.880 long term investing. The girls I've met on Instagram probably 0:05:24.880 --> 0:05:28.279 watched wrestling, and mom probably let them watch wrestling, so 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:30.279 it would never work, or they were wrestlers. 0:05:30.880 --> 0:05:31.760 Uh. 0:05:31.920 --> 0:05:34.720 But no, I've I've had a couple of years where 0:05:34.760 --> 0:05:37.640 we've said, man, let's take off November and and and 0:05:37.760 --> 0:05:39.800 let me you know, go hunt just kind of disconnect 0:05:39.839 --> 0:05:41.960 and write whatever, and we've never taken one off, so 0:05:42.480 --> 0:05:45.400 it'll it'll it'll be that. I think that I've I've 0:05:45.440 --> 0:05:48.080 guaranteed myself a career that's more than I've ever thought 0:05:48.120 --> 0:05:48.640 I would have. 0:05:49.920 --> 0:05:50.480 Uh. 0:05:50.880 --> 0:05:53.960 But at the same time, there's just so much opportunity, 0:05:54.000 --> 0:05:55.839 and I think the only thing that makes me nervous 0:05:55.839 --> 0:06:00.360 about my career is not making the absolute most of it, 0:06:00.480 --> 0:06:02.560 you know, not getting every opportunity that I can. 0:06:02.880 --> 0:06:05.279 But you're never gonna get every opportunity can You're never 0:06:05.320 --> 0:06:07.880 gonna be able to get to every opportunity I had to. 0:06:08.040 --> 0:06:09.440 I don't know if you if you go to therapy 0:06:09.440 --> 0:06:11.880 at all, but god dango, this was I. 0:06:11.839 --> 0:06:15.719 Know it's probably what this is therapy because I go 0:06:15.760 --> 0:06:18.200 to like have we go to a couple's counselor and 0:06:18.240 --> 0:06:20.160 I go to my own and he was like, because 0:06:20.160 --> 0:06:22.599 I would say that, and I'm a little older than you, 0:06:22.760 --> 0:06:25.240 so I would be like, if I don't take advantage 0:06:25.240 --> 0:06:27.120 of everything, and he's like, you'll. 0:06:26.960 --> 0:06:29.240 Never be able to take advantage of everything. It doesn't matter. 0:06:29.320 --> 0:06:31.200 You're you're running on a hamster wheel that you can 0:06:31.240 --> 0:06:33.000 never get to go fast enough to actually matter. 0:06:33.520 --> 0:06:35.480 Yeah, I think that it's a little bit of an 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:39.800 overthinking type thing. I will say, I'm mindful that there's 0:06:39.839 --> 0:06:42.520 nothing that I feel like I'm gonna miss if that 0:06:42.560 --> 0:06:46.560 makes sense, Like if my career panned out right now 0:06:46.600 --> 0:06:47.960 and it is what it is, I can go play 0:06:48.000 --> 0:06:50.240 shows for the next fifteen years. I would still be 0:06:50.760 --> 0:06:52.840 very excited about that. So it's not like I'm gonna 0:06:52.880 --> 0:06:55.320 be leaving something on the table. I just know there's 0:06:55.400 --> 0:06:58.000 opportunity right now. And it's almost like, I'm sure you 0:06:58.000 --> 0:07:00.400 were the same way. When I'm sitting around, I'm thinking, man, 0:07:00.400 --> 0:07:04.400 what could I be doing nothing? That's pretty tough to 0:07:04.440 --> 0:07:06.719 explain to a girl. Let's say you've gone on a 0:07:06.720 --> 0:07:09.159 couple of days with and she wants to know why 0:07:09.400 --> 0:07:10.960 you have a day off and you want to go 0:07:11.320 --> 0:07:13.400 right or you want to go do this or that, 0:07:13.520 --> 0:07:15.160 you know, And for me it was hunting. That was 0:07:15.160 --> 0:07:17.240 a really hard thing to explain, Like why would you 0:07:17.240 --> 0:07:19.080 want to go sit in the woods by yourself after 0:07:19.200 --> 0:07:21.880 being on the road for eighty days this year and 0:07:22.880 --> 0:07:24.120 I haven't found the answer to that? 0:07:29.640 --> 0:07:36.000 Be kind, good, kind. 0:07:37.920 --> 0:07:43.000 Cast up man, little food for your So life ain't 0:07:43.080 --> 0:07:47.160 Oh it's pretty bad, Hey, it's pretty beautiful man life 0:07:47.200 --> 0:07:53.200 a little more exciting because said he can't cut your 0:07:53.360 --> 0:07:56.920 kicking up with Full Thing with Amy Brown. 0:07:57.400 --> 0:07:59.960 Hey, it's Amy Brown from four Things with Amy Brown, 0:08:00.240 --> 0:08:03.240 and here's what we talked about this week on my podcast. 0:08:04.680 --> 0:08:06.960 The first thing that we're going to do here is 0:08:07.520 --> 0:08:10.160 messing up at work and like how to not let 0:08:10.200 --> 0:08:14.200 it completely get you down. Because I just messed up 0:08:14.200 --> 0:08:16.600 big time on the podcast. I thought it was just 0:08:16.600 --> 0:08:19.280 going to be between me and Morgan Massingale, who was 0:08:19.320 --> 0:08:21.360 my guest, and it was actually for the fifth Thing 0:08:21.400 --> 0:08:23.800 earlier this week. She ended up not being my guest. 0:08:23.840 --> 0:08:26.760 If you listened to that, you didn't hear her because well, 0:08:26.760 --> 0:08:28.800 we recorded it in Bobby's office, which is where we 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:31.240 are right now, and she shared a lot about her 0:08:31.320 --> 0:08:35.360 dating life. Well, I did not have her microphone up 0:08:35.960 --> 0:08:38.720 and so the audio is just me, so that's not 0:08:38.720 --> 0:08:42.480 gonna work. So I thought, well, this is just between 0:08:42.520 --> 0:08:46.680 me and Houston, my producer, and Morgan. I informed her 0:08:46.760 --> 0:08:48.240 and she was like, oh good, because I feel like 0:08:48.280 --> 0:08:51.000 I overshared, so maybe this is a good thing. So 0:08:51.720 --> 0:08:55.000 Lunchbox found out about it, and then he brought it 0:08:55.120 --> 0:08:59.199 to the Bobby Bone Show yesterday. As a bonehead story 0:08:59.200 --> 0:09:03.200 of the day, and I thought, okay, well now everybody 0:09:03.240 --> 0:09:06.640 knows and I feel as though I am a professional 0:09:06.679 --> 0:09:09.319 in this field. I've been a radio for almost eighteen years. 0:09:09.320 --> 0:09:11.480 I should know what I'm doing. I should check levels 0:09:11.480 --> 0:09:14.760 and volumes, and sometimes you make a rookie mistake. But 0:09:14.920 --> 0:09:17.600 then when they brought up the bonehead story of the 0:09:17.679 --> 0:09:19.959 day and that I was a bonehead for doing that, 0:09:20.480 --> 0:09:23.000 they brought up a couple of other times where I 0:09:23.040 --> 0:09:24.400 have messed up on the podcast. 0:09:24.920 --> 0:09:27.079 I'll say, even the best of the best make mistakes. 0:09:27.559 --> 0:09:29.440 Well, so I would love for you to share a time. 0:09:29.520 --> 0:09:31.840 Maybe you've messed up at work, and then if anybody 0:09:31.920 --> 0:09:34.520 else has messed up at work, I'm going to go 0:09:34.600 --> 0:09:38.360 through a guide to help you move forward after your 0:09:38.400 --> 0:09:40.280 mess up. And maybe you don't mess up at work. 0:09:40.280 --> 0:09:43.760 Maybe you've messed up in a friendship or a relationship 0:09:44.080 --> 0:09:46.880 or something else. But it's looping in your head like 0:09:46.920 --> 0:09:49.199 you're a failure. What's wrong with you? You're an idiot. You're 0:09:49.200 --> 0:09:52.160 so stupid, that's my narrative. Yeah, how do you even 0:09:52.200 --> 0:09:54.719 have this job? So do you have any mess ups 0:09:54.720 --> 0:09:55.959 at work? Are you perfect? 0:09:56.240 --> 0:09:56.320 No? 0:09:56.440 --> 0:09:58.880 I mean I feel like, I mess up every day, 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:02.200 and for me, the thing that has always helped and 0:10:02.240 --> 0:10:05.280 I'm like, as I get a little more wise each 0:10:05.400 --> 0:10:08.680 year that passes is like identifying it and just owning 0:10:08.720 --> 0:10:11.040 it really early, because if I let it fester, then 0:10:11.080 --> 0:10:12.640 I go down that rabbit hole that you were just 0:10:12.679 --> 0:10:15.760 talking about. But I would say my typical mess up 0:10:15.800 --> 0:10:19.360 where I'm catching myself is I say what I'm thinking 0:10:19.400 --> 0:10:23.600 out a little too abruptly, well just matter of fact, 0:10:23.920 --> 0:10:25.920 when I'm like, I need to like filter that a 0:10:25.920 --> 0:10:28.640 little bit in the trust circle because they might receive 0:10:28.720 --> 0:10:33.720 that is criticism when I'm trying to, you know, get feedback. Yeah, 0:10:33.800 --> 0:10:36.439 you bet so. I mean that's a consistent like, oh crap, 0:10:36.480 --> 0:10:37.200 I messed up. 0:10:37.080 --> 0:10:37.600 In my head. 0:10:37.960 --> 0:10:40.360 This is how you move on after you've messed up 0:10:40.360 --> 0:10:42.560 at work or maybe just messed up in general. I 0:10:42.600 --> 0:10:45.840 feel like this could even apply to parents. Sometimes we 0:10:45.960 --> 0:10:49.040 mess up and you may be reacting away with your 0:10:49.080 --> 0:10:51.360 kids you didn't want to or you're not proud of, 0:10:51.640 --> 0:10:54.360 and so this could I think apply to that as well. 0:10:54.880 --> 0:10:58.200 Step one, allow yourself to feel awful about it, but 0:10:58.240 --> 0:11:01.080 not for too long. Don't just stuff it down. 0:11:01.200 --> 0:11:03.640 Be like, okay, I can feel bad about this and 0:11:03.760 --> 0:11:06.720 the volume down on the podcast microphone. 0:11:06.800 --> 0:11:09.680 Again, that's not a big deal, is it. 0:11:10.120 --> 0:11:13.360 However, I respect people's time, and Morgan sat here for 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:15.840 thirty minutes and took time out of her day to 0:11:15.920 --> 0:11:18.199 do that, and so then I felt bad for her 0:11:18.240 --> 0:11:21.679 wasting her time. But then when all of your coworkers, 0:11:21.720 --> 0:11:24.640 who all have their own podcasts, and clearly they checked 0:11:24.679 --> 0:11:27.280 to see of the volumes up, just another little like 0:11:27.400 --> 0:11:29.240 it kind of like whack the mole. Like sometimes you 0:11:29.320 --> 0:11:31.400 get up and then it's like you're not feeling that 0:11:31.400 --> 0:11:33.960 great about yourself anyway, and then boom, you get whacked down. 0:11:34.000 --> 0:11:36.640 You're like, because sometimes I wonder why am I here? 0:11:36.840 --> 0:11:40.360 What am I even doing? And then that sort of solidifies, like, well, 0:11:40.400 --> 0:11:41.920 just whack me down and be like I knew I 0:11:41.960 --> 0:11:44.719 wasn't supposed to be here. But that's not always the 0:11:44.800 --> 0:11:46.040 narrative in my mind. 0:11:45.800 --> 0:11:48.440 But sometimes it can be sharing with. 0:11:48.360 --> 0:11:50.000 You that I have those thoughts. 0:11:50.280 --> 0:11:53.480 Step two, keep things in perspective, which I feel like, 0:11:53.640 --> 0:11:55.720 that's what I just did a little bit, so you 0:11:55.760 --> 0:11:59.760 can walk through that for yourself. Step three, confront your 0:11:59.760 --> 0:12:04.040 war first case scenario and then let it go. Why 0:12:04.040 --> 0:12:05.480 are you giving big eyes to Patrick. 0:12:05.800 --> 0:12:09.640 So we had some conversation yesterday when we were flying 0:12:09.679 --> 0:12:14.240 over that leadership in our company. Sometimes it's my job 0:12:14.320 --> 0:12:17.199 specifically to anticipate kind of the worst and maybe think 0:12:17.200 --> 0:12:19.360 about more of the negative, like what could go wrong 0:12:19.840 --> 0:12:22.320 just in case something doesn't work out. We have kind 0:12:22.360 --> 0:12:25.520 of a quick plan of action, but sometimes in our 0:12:25.559 --> 0:12:28.679 conversation it can come across like I'm pretty negative. And 0:12:28.720 --> 0:12:31.400 so we were just talking through that this morning. I said, Hey, 0:12:31.840 --> 0:12:33.719 we talked about it, planning through it. I'm going to 0:12:33.760 --> 0:12:35.440 put that back on the shelf and now we're just 0:12:35.480 --> 0:12:37.880 going to focus on the good and the positive. But 0:12:38.240 --> 0:12:40.560 I mean, that's something we've talked about a lot, because 0:12:40.600 --> 0:12:43.520 sometimes you know, as the leaders, you have to anticipate 0:12:43.559 --> 0:12:44.520 what could go wrong. 0:12:44.720 --> 0:12:46.920 Well, I'm glad you bring that up, because that's actually 0:12:46.920 --> 0:12:50.280 Step four, create a game plan for next time. And 0:12:50.360 --> 0:12:52.600 my game plan this time was before we sat down 0:12:52.880 --> 0:12:54.680 to record, I went and got my headphones so I 0:12:54.679 --> 0:12:57.440 can make sure we are all good to go. And 0:12:57.679 --> 0:13:00.319 sounds like that's what y'all do at your company. Step 0:13:00.320 --> 0:13:03.240 five apologize if you need to, but don't overdo it. 0:13:03.760 --> 0:13:07.080 I apologize to Morgan. Okay, we're step six, take better 0:13:07.120 --> 0:13:10.240 care of yourself. And I was reading more in the 0:13:10.360 --> 0:13:12.560 article about this, and it was like, if you're taking 0:13:12.559 --> 0:13:14.199 care of yourself, you can be on your A game. 0:13:14.520 --> 0:13:17.320 We should be treating ourselves like professional athletes, like worrying 0:13:17.320 --> 0:13:21.560 about our sleep, our work, our fuel, how we're training, 0:13:22.120 --> 0:13:25.160 all the things. And then you notice more clarity and 0:13:25.240 --> 0:13:28.920 fewer errors in your life if you are training like 0:13:28.960 --> 0:13:31.040 an athlete, which does make me think of how Bobby 0:13:31.120 --> 0:13:34.199 always says he's always training like stay ready, never got 0:13:34.200 --> 0:13:34.720 to get ready. 0:13:34.920 --> 0:13:36.199 You got to have a little pain to have a 0:13:36.200 --> 0:13:38.560 little gain, And I think there's truth in that and 0:13:38.720 --> 0:13:41.120 to what you're saying, I mean, to better yourself. Sometimes 0:13:41.160 --> 0:13:44.040 you got to go through hard things. But in coming 0:13:44.080 --> 0:13:47.079 out of that, you got to identify because I realize 0:13:47.800 --> 0:13:51.200 not taking care of myself doesn't allow me to show 0:13:51.280 --> 0:13:53.440 up for the people that rely on me, because I 0:13:53.480 --> 0:13:55.720 was just going to a point of exhaustion thinking like 0:13:55.760 --> 0:13:57.680 I got to do what I need to do to 0:13:57.840 --> 0:14:00.880 serve everyone and make sure sure and I'll say that 0:14:01.040 --> 0:14:03.920 like self righteously, but you know the people that rely 0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:05.760 on me that I do what I need to to 0:14:05.800 --> 0:14:07.560 make sure they have what they need and that we're 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:11.120 having success. But man, it whit me last year. So 0:14:11.400 --> 0:14:12.680 I'm learning, Yeah. 0:14:12.559 --> 0:14:14.480 And I have to learn how to make sure I've 0:14:14.520 --> 0:14:18.440 got content for my listeners. They're showing up, I, you know, 0:14:18.800 --> 0:14:22.320 serving them in a way with something which I still learned. 0:14:22.560 --> 0:14:24.920 Later in the afternoon, I had no episode and I 0:14:25.000 --> 0:14:27.640 went upstairs when I was at home and I recorded something. 0:14:27.880 --> 0:14:31.000 So something went up and it just wasn't what I 0:14:31.040 --> 0:14:34.200 had spent time with Morgan on and so I still 0:14:34.440 --> 0:14:36.200 felt that it was important. But had I been on 0:14:36.280 --> 0:14:39.560 my A game, who knows, maybe I wouldn't have messed 0:14:39.640 --> 0:14:40.280 up with Morgan. 0:14:40.400 --> 0:14:41.320 Yeah, there you go. 0:14:41.400 --> 0:14:43.120 If you've messed up in any way. 0:14:42.960 --> 0:14:47.080 Shape or form, there's your guide to get over it quickly. 0:14:47.440 --> 0:14:50.200 Oh I didn't go back to did I s? Step 0:14:50.240 --> 0:14:52.960 earn back your trust through your actions, not just your words. Boom, No, 0:14:53.080 --> 0:14:55.800 that's step seven. We'll wrap with that one. And I 0:14:55.800 --> 0:14:58.600 feel like I'm already earning back trust. I came in 0:14:58.880 --> 0:15:01.920 with my actions, put my headphones in, check the volume, 0:15:02.280 --> 0:15:04.080 and here we are crushing it. 0:15:16.440 --> 0:15:22.040 Let's do it live. Oh the two So loser? 0:15:24.200 --> 0:15:24.600 What up? 0:15:24.600 --> 0:15:25.080 Everybody? 0:15:25.080 --> 0:15:27.360 I am lunchbox. I know the most about sports so 0:15:27.360 --> 0:15:30.920 I'll give you the sports facts, my sports opinions, because 0:15:30.960 --> 0:15:33.320 I'm pretty much a sports genius. 0:15:33.800 --> 0:15:35.720 What up, y'all at his scison. I'm from the North. 0:15:35.760 --> 0:15:37.600 I'm in Alpha Male. I live on the West side 0:15:37.640 --> 0:15:40.600 of Nashville with Baser, my wife. We do have a 0:15:40.600 --> 0:15:43.720 white picket fence at the apartment complex. Soon I'm gonna 0:15:43.720 --> 0:15:46.480 have two point five kids, and yes, sadly, I will 0:15:46.480 --> 0:15:48.960 die of a heart attack when I'm seventy two years old. 0:15:49.680 --> 0:15:54.400 Here's a clip from the last podcast. We're gonna play 0:15:54.400 --> 0:15:54.720 a game. 0:15:55.200 --> 0:15:58.720 It's called Good Dad or Bad Dad? 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:00.440 About me? 0:16:00.560 --> 0:16:02.120 I left my kids in a hot car. 0:16:02.760 --> 0:16:06.680 No, it's not about me. It's about a teacher hooking 0:16:06.760 --> 0:16:10.840 up with a student. Okay, she got arrested for hooking 0:16:10.920 --> 0:16:14.000 up with a high school student. She's a high school teacher, right. 0:16:15.240 --> 0:16:19.640 The only problem is the dad of the student got 0:16:19.720 --> 0:16:23.800 arrested also because he knew about the relationship. Wow, So 0:16:23.840 --> 0:16:26.320 she came over to the house and was like, I 0:16:26.400 --> 0:16:27.560 want to bang your son. 0:16:27.720 --> 0:16:28.520 Where are you gonna tell me? 0:16:28.600 --> 0:16:32.320 This was Crime Podcast of the top one hundred podcasts 0:16:32.360 --> 0:16:34.520 right now in the country, the biggest handle, the biggest 0:16:34.520 --> 0:16:36.160 market share is crime Podcast. 0:16:36.560 --> 0:16:37.080 Over to you. 0:16:38.160 --> 0:16:42.520 So my question is is that a good dad or 0:16:42.600 --> 0:16:43.360 a bad dad? 0:16:44.280 --> 0:16:47.840 Well, originally he knew about it, didn't disclose what he knew, 0:16:49.840 --> 0:16:53.880 then was found out and caught by an unbelievable investigation. 0:16:54.000 --> 0:16:56.640 A Missouri teacher accused us sexually hooking up with a 0:16:56.720 --> 0:16:59.720 teen and the father knew. 0:17:00.040 --> 0:17:00.640 So here's the thing. 0:17:00.720 --> 0:17:02.840 Back in the day, you couldn't tell these timelines. But 0:17:02.920 --> 0:17:05.240 now with text messages, you're able to find when the 0:17:05.320 --> 0:17:07.359 dad found out. Back in the day, you could have said, oh, 0:17:07.400 --> 0:17:09.480 the dad just found out after the fact. Now you 0:17:09.600 --> 0:17:11.639 know the dad knew about it for months, and so 0:17:11.720 --> 0:17:15.439 then he gets in trouble too. Because of Apple, text messages, 0:17:15.720 --> 0:17:18.960 the ring camera on your doors, crimes are able to 0:17:19.000 --> 0:17:20.879 go a more in depth than they've ever been able to. 0:17:21.600 --> 0:17:25.280 Yeah, the reason they got busted is because the sixteen 0:17:25.359 --> 0:17:27.560 year old had scratches on his back from one of 0:17:27.560 --> 0:17:31.840 their sexual encounters, and he showed a picture of his 0:17:31.920 --> 0:17:34.679 scratches to one of his friends, said check out what 0:17:34.720 --> 0:17:37.320 she did to me why we were hooking. 0:17:37.160 --> 0:17:45.560 Up, And the friend told authorities. Yes, damn that friend man, 0:17:45.600 --> 0:17:47.000 first of all, not a friend anymore. 0:17:47.680 --> 0:17:50.480 That's going to end their friendship. They're now foes. 0:17:51.600 --> 0:17:51.879 Yeah. 0:17:51.920 --> 0:17:54.680 A second witness told investigator that the student's father had 0:17:54.680 --> 0:17:57.080 been told by both the teacher and the team about 0:17:57.080 --> 0:18:00.239 the relationship, and the witness claim to authority is that 0:18:00.280 --> 0:18:04.520