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Speaker 1: Broadcasting live from the Abraham Lincoln Radio Studio, the George

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Speaker 1: Washington Broadcast Center, Jack Armstrong, Joe, Catty.

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Speaker 2: Arm Strong and Getty and He Armstrong and Catty Strong. Hey,

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Speaker 2: we're arm Strong and Getty. We're featuring our podcast One

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Speaker 2: more Thing. Find it wherever you find all your podcasts.

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Speaker 3: I was fascinated by that python farm story the other day.

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Speaker 3: I actually dug into that, did a little reading, you know,

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Speaker 3: because pythons are big and giant and meaty and and

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Speaker 3: they're like super efficient with the way they turn calories

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Speaker 3: into muscle mass, and they taste like chicken.

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Speaker 4: I got a question about that, but when I get

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Speaker 4: to the cannibalisma, I'll I'll hit you with that.

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Speaker 3: All right, all right, fair enough. So after the show,

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Speaker 3: before we started recording this, Hanson replayed a clip of

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Speaker 3: me saying something rather dry about Jack, and Jack commented,

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Speaker 3: that's a very I'm just Diane thing to say. And

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Speaker 3: I was reminded of a longtime listener to the show

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Speaker 3: and hilarious tweeter I'm just Diane, and I went digging

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Speaker 3: into our twitter feed. She doesn't tweet as much as

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Speaker 3: she used to, I think, which is a shame for humanity.

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Speaker 4: But she's had grown up with a job now and

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Speaker 4: it's not easy. You should follow her, Katie, if you've

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Speaker 4: never checked out, I'm just Diane on I am on

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Speaker 4: her now. She is a listener we became aware of

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Speaker 4: a long time ago. And she's very funny.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah. Her pinned tweet is I'd rather go home

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Speaker 3: than go big, which I agree with. How perfect is that?

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Speaker 3: And then somebody tweeted the the Nancy Pelosi this is

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Speaker 3: not an attempt to ban TikTok, It's an attempt to

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Speaker 3: make TikTok better. Tic tac toe a winner, a winner.

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Speaker 3: Her comment has simply nailed it. Oh boy, man, I

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Speaker 3: love understatement. I don't know about the phone. I think

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Speaker 3: that's hilarious. Oh looking forward to the day my new

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Speaker 3: phone stops autocorrecting, vaping to raping. Oh boy.

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Speaker 4: Her best stuff is how much she hates her job

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Speaker 4: and her coworkers. But that's a different topic. So New

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Speaker 4: Scientists is a real science outfit, and they're trying to

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Speaker 4: take another look at cannibalism, and they mention these bones

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Speaker 4: that were found in a cave in southwest England which

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Speaker 4: beared all the marks of cannibalism. It was pretty clear

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Speaker 4: that cannibalism was going on their teeth, marks on the

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Speaker 4: bones and the way.

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Speaker 3: I won't get into details. It's pretty gross.

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Speaker 4: But and this was fourteen, seven hundred years ago that

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Speaker 4: they were practicing cannibalism there in England. To Protein's protein baby,

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Speaker 4: that's what I say today, they write in New Scientists. Today,

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Speaker 4: cannibalism is a taboo subject in many societies. We see

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Speaker 4: it as aberrant, as a clear in film such as

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Speaker 4: the Texas Chainsaw massacre. We associate it with zombies, psychopaths,

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Speaker 4: and serial killers like hannibal Lecter. Positive stories about cannibals

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Speaker 4: are few and far between.

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Speaker 3: I would agree with you there, I haven't heard one

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Speaker 4: Wait, what a child's book about cannibalism? Or Jimmy is

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Speaker 4: a good guy, liked to golf, he treated his family well,

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Speaker 4: and he was a cannibal.

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Speaker 3: He'll be missed.

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Speaker 4: But perhaps it's time for a rethink because despite our preconceptions,

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Speaker 4: evidence is accumulating that cannibalism was a common human behavior.

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Speaker 4: Our ancestors have been eating each other for a million

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Speaker 4: years or more.

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Speaker 3: In fact, so was torture for years. In the years

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Speaker 3: for centuries. But that doesn't mean we should reconsider it.

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Speaker 3: What a bizarre story this is.

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Speaker 4: In fact, it seems that down the ages, around a

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Speaker 4: fifth of societies have practiced cannibalism. While some of these people,

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Speaker 4: while some of this people eating, may have been simply survive.

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Speaker 4: In many cases, the reasons look more complex. In places

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Speaker 4: like this cave in southern England, for example, consuming bodies

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Speaker 4: of the dead seems to have been part of a

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Speaker 4: funerary ritual, something they did when people died. Far from

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Speaker 4: a monstrous affront to nature, cannibalism may have been a

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Speaker 4: way of showing respect and love for the dead, say archaeologist.

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Speaker 3: No, uh yeah, no, no.

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Speaker 5: Whoever wrote this needs to be investigated. He's like trying

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Speaker 5: to sell this.

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Speaker 3: I don't like it right.

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Speaker 4: He's trying to soften a revelation that may occur someday

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Speaker 3: Exactly exactly, he's trying to set the table cannibalism. We

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Speaker 3: need to reconsider it.

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Speaker 5: I just watched a horrible horror movie about cannibalism where

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Speaker 5: these guys invite a bunch of people over to their

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Speaker 5: but they don't know it.

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Speaker 4: Will Jim ever watch episodes of Hannibal, the prequel to

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Speaker 4: Silence of the Lambs. Yes, Oh, my god, when he

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Speaker 4: his suit, with his fine wine and his beautiful home

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Speaker 4: and starts slicing off pieces of weather that he cooked up.

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Speaker 3: God, that was gross. Dinner table events.

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Speaker 4: Do you think because like you, you're so You're talking

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Speaker 4: the other day about the snakes and how that might

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Speaker 4: become a meat of the future, And I said, you

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Speaker 4: because the idea of eating a snake disgusts me.

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Speaker 3: There's something about eating a reptile that I find. And

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Speaker 3: I've had snake, I've had alligator, there are multiple I've

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Speaker 3: had it, but I don't want to it's gross. Alligator

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Speaker 3: was great. It's just fried me to say, that's all right,

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Speaker 3: But could could you eat human? No? No, that's repugnant, repulsive? Why,

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Speaker 3: I don't know. It's an instinctive horror, I think now,

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Speaker 3: the concept of it being a funerary ritual. Does anybody

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Speaker 3: have anything else they'd like to say about Jim? Okay, well,

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Speaker 3: then we're passing out knives and forks. If we could

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Speaker 3: all make our way to the cast.

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Speaker 4: Get. Yeah, I got more than to say about Jimmy

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Speaker 4: looks delicious.

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Speaker 3: Now that's some marbling. I mean, I know, I.

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Speaker 4: Know he didn't exercise much, but that is some delicious

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Speaker 5: He's creating a nice rub for it.

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Speaker 3: Side sick. If you heard me, I think, did I

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Speaker 3: tell this on the air? I can't remember my favorite

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Speaker 3: joke now, which also takes place at a funeral. If

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Speaker 3: you've heard this before, forgive me, but it's short. Uh.

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Speaker 3: It's a funeral and uh, and people are talking about

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Speaker 3: the dearly departed, and the widow stands up and says,

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Speaker 3: is there anybody else who'd like to say a word?

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Speaker 3: The guy stands up, He said I would, and he

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Speaker 3: says plethora, and he sits down, and the widow says,

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Speaker 3: thank you, jim That means a lot to me. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 3: that is a good one.

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Speaker 5: Actually, you've told that before, and I wrote it down

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Speaker 5: to tell it to somebody else, and then I never did,

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Speaker 5: so thank you for reminding me.

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Speaker 3: I pass it on again. Yes, the beauty of that

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Speaker 3: he just says one worker. Yeah, there's a twist and

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Speaker 3: good twist. That's funny. So back to cannibalism.

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Speaker 4: I'm guessing that we're designed to be disgusted by it

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Speaker 4: only because most of human history people have been starving.

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Speaker 4: And if you weren't disgusted by it, I mean, if

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Speaker 4: you if you thought of eating another human the same

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Speaker 4: way you thought of eating a cow, we would have.

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Speaker 3: All eaten each other.

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Speaker 4: I mean, just the strongest would have survived and eaten

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and we're just like an epidemiological reason why it's

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Speaker 3: a bad idea because obviously humans can catch human diseases,

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Speaker 4: I suppose that's possible, but you know, we've mostly been

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Speaker 4: starving throughout history. If you weren't disgusted by it, and like,

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Speaker 4: the only the only way you could possibly do it

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Speaker 4: is if you're you know, the Donner Party, and you're

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I hates Jim. We all hate Jim. Let's eat him.

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Speaker 3: I tell you what though, It's it's all about the

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Speaker 3: method of preparation, because like, I'm not going to have

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Speaker 3: human sushi or anything like that. That's too much. I'm

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Speaker 3: a medium rare guy, but I'm going well done on Jim. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and I'm like, maybe he smoked all day, like a

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Speaker 3: long maybe jerky even I want it really click. Could

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Speaker 3: it be like a company.

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Speaker 5: Could it be like a sandwich or maybe like a

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Speaker 4: So it's not just that, yeah, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: I don't want it like tender and falling off the femur.

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Speaker 4: I just say, oh, like a turkey leg you know,

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Speaker 4: you see it the.

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Speaker 3: Fair, small portions because I'm diabetic. That's right, You're at

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Speaker 3: the fair and you're eating a human legs. Got that

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Speaker 3: foot still see that's disgusting. That's my point.

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Speaker 4: So we'll see if this catches on and if New

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Speaker 4: Scientific is successful in their effort to I don't know,

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Speaker 4: mainstream cannibalism.

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Speaker 5: I guess you know what the world we're in right now,

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Speaker 5: it wouldn't shock me, right.

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Speaker 4: I've been familiar with next door for a long time,

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Speaker 3: Good God? Is that a smorgus board of unimportant?

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Speaker 2: It is?

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Speaker 3: Question? It is the forum of first world problems?

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Speaker 4: What it is? It's it's a combination of of like

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Speaker 3: Is that your best place to try to figure out

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Speaker 7: why everybody's fishing in this pond. I could see asking

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Speaker 4: belonged to That was one this morning.

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Speaker 5: Oh boy, I saw one the other day that somebody

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Speaker 3: Whose kid is this? Right? Right?

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Speaker 4: Lots of those, lots of did anybody just hear that

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Speaker 4: Find a medical professional or or web md or something

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Speaker 5: him at that point. That's how these horror movies go.

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00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:04,080
Speaker 5: She's putting up posters. Yes, exactly.

439
00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:08,160
Speaker 4: I've only become aware recently, and for reasons I won't

440
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:11,320
Speaker 4: get into about how all you need is somebody. If

441
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 4: you have somebody's phone number, for instance, you can find

442
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 4: out everything and it costs you like a buck online,

443
00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:21,560
Speaker 4: and you got every place they've ever lived, every phone

444
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:26,960
Speaker 4: they've ever had, all their friends, family members. Yeah, it's

445
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:30,399
Speaker 4: it's horrifying. I mean, it's less worrisome as a dude,

446
00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:35,080
Speaker 4: but man, if I'm a young woman knowing that any

447
00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:38,359
Speaker 4: guy who gets a hold of my phone number at

448
00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:42,240
Speaker 4: all now knows where I live and where my friends live,

449
00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:46,320
Speaker 4: and where I work and and everything. It's just yeah,

450
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:49,680
Speaker 4: it's just different world for that sort of thing. Of course,

451
00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:52,600
Speaker 4: on the other hand, buddy of mine pointing this out

452
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:54,800
Speaker 4: to me their date, And remember when we were younger,

453
00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:56,639
Speaker 4: all of our names were in the phone book with

454
00:23:56,680 --> 00:24:00,280
Speaker 4: our address, all of us, all of us. You knew

455
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,680
Speaker 4: somebody's name, you could look up their address. And it's

456
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 4: not like everybody got abducted every day, right, everybody's name

457
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 4: was in the phone book with their address.

458
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:12,360
Speaker 3: Did the unlisted thing come later? Is that no unlisted existed?

459
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:14,480
Speaker 3: But I never knew a girl that was unlisted. Every

460
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:18,240
Speaker 3: girl was dat she was writing the phone book. Okay, yeah,

461
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:22,479
Speaker 3: real rarity. Getting back to the whole meeting mom book

462
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:27,640
Speaker 3: class book club happened to randomly mention I was single

463
00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:33,720
Speaker 3: and subterfuge. That just that that is a willingness to

464
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 3: be sneaky and duplicitous. That isn't her first rodeo, you

465
00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:39,800
Speaker 3: know what I mean?

466
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Speaker 4: Yes, yes, I think we're a little bit into the

467
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:49,440
Speaker 4: the modern attitude where everybody's so paranoid of what would

468
00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:51,119
Speaker 4: you rather run into a bear or a man in

469
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 4: the woods for a woman? I mean, just you saying,

470
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,160
Speaker 4: was that before unlisted was available? Like you wouldn't want

471
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,720
Speaker 4: your name listed in the phone Everybody had their address

472
00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:00,399
Speaker 4: the name in the phone book, and every body was

473
00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:03,160
Speaker 4: fine with it, and everybody wasn't paranoid thinking, oh my god,

474
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:06,199
Speaker 4: that's dangerous a guy could look up my address. It

475
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:10,040
Speaker 4: worked out. I mean, so is culture that much worse?

476
00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:12,840
Speaker 4: Are we just way more paranoid than we? Well?

477
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 3: I would point out that if I had the hots

478
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:21,159
Speaker 3: for Jenny Smith, or even unless her name was true,

479
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:24,919
Speaker 3: her last name was truly rare and distinctive, there'd be

480
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 3: eleven of them in the phone book. I couldn't tell

481
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Speaker 3: which one.

482
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Speaker 4: That wasn't my experience at all, because I lived in

483
00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 4: small towns. Everybody everybody's name. There was only one Jenny

484
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 4: Smith in every town. Everybody's address was right there. And

485
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 4: I don't remember anybody abusing it, or anybody even talking

486
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 4: about it being abused.

487
00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 3: No, nope.

488
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:46,800
Speaker 4: So what changed our parent the reality of stalkers or

489
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:49,680
Speaker 4: our paranoia.

490
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,679
Speaker 3: Both? I don't know. People aren't brave anymore.

491
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:56,360
Speaker 4: They don't want to just go and ask something, ask

492
00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:58,120
Speaker 4: someone out right in person, you know, just hey, would

493
00:25:58,119 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 4: you like to go out?

494
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:01,360
Speaker 3: Would you like to get some coffee? That's like skills

495
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 3: take developing, though, and we're not letting our kids develop

496
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:09,320
Speaker 3: those social skills. I had chatted up so many girls

497
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:13,960
Speaker 3: by the time I started college. Just the idea of

498
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 3: oh my god, I can't I can't say hello to orright.

499
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 3: It was just foreign to me. It was not like

500
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:21,400
Speaker 3: I have some sort of bold master gamesman or anything.

501
00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 3: It was just so familiar to me. You know, hey,

502
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:28,639
Speaker 3: how you doing well? Please? Phones and internet have completely

503
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 3: smashed that skill. I think, you know, this is a

504
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:36,119
Speaker 3: weird grab, but it popped in my head for some reason.

505
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:38,280
Speaker 3: I can't remember why. The other day I was thinking

506
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 3: about the old like the first Bob Seger song with

507
00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:45,679
Speaker 3: the what was the name of his band, Bob Seger

508
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:49,720
Speaker 3: and the silver bulibin. No, No, that was before he

509
00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:52,480
Speaker 3: was a solo artist, when he was a Detroit rocker,

510
00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:57,240
Speaker 3: but rambling gambling man. The line is ain't good looking,

511
00:26:57,400 --> 00:26:59,560
Speaker 3: but you know, I ain't shy, ain't afraid to look

512
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 3: a girl in the eye.

513
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 4: And A.

514
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Speaker 3: I've always kind of liked that line because he was

515
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 3: a regular guy. But b we've got a couple of

516
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:14,679
Speaker 3: generations who are terrified to look a girl in the

517
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,639
Speaker 3: eye and say, hey, how you doing so that gets right.

518
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:22,119
Speaker 4: You think if she she found him alluring enough to

519
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 4: go through all that work, she should have made her move,

520
00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 4: right then.

521
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:29,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's equipped with the tools to do that. Of course,

522
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:33,239
Speaker 3: if you're an all attractive young woman, all you have

523
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 3: to say is so I see you like cereal. That's

524
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 3: good enough. Ice Brenker right there, exactly.

525
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:44,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, I just I have a real issue with her

526
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:46,879
Speaker 5: going on a date with him after having done all

527
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 5: of this and acting like it didn't go down like that.

528
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:51,679
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, well yeah, like, oh.

529
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 5: We just so happened to meet I met your mom

530
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 5: at book club, like the whole the start of whatever

531
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 5: relationship this might be is going to be bs anyway.

532
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a decent point there. You can't start with

533
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:04,439
Speaker 4: a lie and then go from there. Yeah, yeah, this

534
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 4: ends with a dead cat, trust me.

535
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:06,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, if you.

536
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 4: If you uh yeah, if you're out with somebody and

537
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:12,879
Speaker 4: everything like that, And then she mentions, yeah, I was

538
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 4: talking to your mom.

539
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,359
Speaker 3: Wait a second, and you know my mom? Why do

540
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:17,840
Speaker 3: you know my mom? This is weird.

541
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:19,880
Speaker 5: Okay, well let me tell you how this went down.

542
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 5: So I saw your credit card at the store.

543
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:26,440
Speaker 3: I enjoy the book club that your mom is in.

544
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 3: You're twenty three year old woman. You're in a book

545
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 3: club with a bunch of sixty four year olds. Why

546
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:34,320
Speaker 3: I like to read.

547
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:37,120
Speaker 4: Pretending you want to read the Bridges of Madison County

548
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 4: so you can get to meet this old woman.

549
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 3: That is going too far.

550
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:48,640
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551
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552
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553
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Speaker 4: My son, who's fourteen and graduating from eighth grade this

554
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 4: week graduating, So he actually asked, why do they have

555
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 4: eighth grade graduation? Well, I don't know the real answer,

556
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 4: but where I grew up, I thought it was because

557
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:25,200
Speaker 4: a lot of people stopped going to school at eighth grade.

558
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 4: There was a good chunk of the class that were

559
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 4: a particular religion, the Mennonites. They stopped at eighth grade.

560
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:34,200
Speaker 4: So I thought that's why we had eighth grade graduation

561
00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 4: because they were done. But then found out they have

562
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 4: eighth grade graduations other places, So why does eighth grade

563
00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 4: graduation exist?

564
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 6: You know?

565
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 3: I actually heard a really interesting argument about this once,

566
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 3: where the one point of view was, hey, they've finished

567
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 3: a level of school. Let's say let's show them, hey,

568
00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 3: education is important, we're proud of you a good job.

569
00:29:57,120 --> 00:30:01,080
Speaker 3: Let's reinforce wanting to stay in school and pass everything,

570
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 3: which I think is a perfectly reasonable point of view.

571
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 3: The opposition was a woman who was saying, they haven't

572
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 3: accomplished anything. They're getting the very basics of education. They're kids,

573
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 3: They've got several more years of mandatory schooling. They haven't

574
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:18,080
Speaker 3: accomplished anything, They've barely gotten started. Quit with the ceremonies.

575
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 3: Too many ceremonies. I lean more towards that point of view.

576
00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 3: But anything that would less than the number of ceremonies

577
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 3: I have to go to, I'm in favor of.

578
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 5: Yes, my mom has a picture of my Is it

579
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:34,360
Speaker 5: my kindergarten graduation or my preschool graduation? I don't remember it.

580
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 5: I'm wearing a robe. I know she had to buy

581
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 5: a robe. Yeah, I wear a little green graduation cap

582
00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 5: and robe. And they took pictures that she obviously paid

583
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 5: for because we have it.

584
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 3: So I'm thinking you've got money sucked out of that.

585
00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 3: Oh yeah we did.

586
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:49,560
Speaker 4: We had to do kindergarten graduation and there was like

587
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 4: a certificate and stuff. But I don't think there was

588
00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:52,960
Speaker 4: no robe involved, but.

589
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 3: You know, I hate to blame the gals for this,

590
00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 3: but it reminds me of little seven year old kids

591
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 3: in full uniform playing Little League, and they have opening

592
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:07,400
Speaker 3: ceremonies and closing ceremonies every season, and the parade of

593
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 3: the teams and lots of pictures and the rest of it.

594
00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:13,120
Speaker 3: Back in the day, you just went and played ball.

595
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 3: There's no opening ceremony. What the hell do you have

596
00:31:15,520 --> 00:31:18,240
Speaker 3: an opening ceremony. First game of the year is on Saturday,

597
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 3: Go play it. That was the opening ceremony play ball.

598
00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 4: So my eighth grader has the graduation is actually on Thursday,

599
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 4: and you're supposed to wear a tie. So we have

600
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 4: to go out and get a tie at some point

601
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 4: this week. He's gonna wear my shirt and my pants

602
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 4: because we're the same size. Oh, and it's gonna be hot.

603
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 8: Uh.

604
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:37,880
Speaker 4: He can't wear my shoes because he has bigger feet

605
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 4: than me. But so I have to get him some

606
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 4: dress shoes and a tie. And it is gonna be hot.

607
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 4: But the night before there's a big dance, the very

608
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 4: first dance of his life. Oh boy, And he said

609
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 4: the other day, I sure hope there's chairs because I

610
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 4: plan to sit.

611
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Speaker 5: It's so funny the difference between guys and gals with

612
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 5: this one, Like I was so excited and he wants

613
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:03,480
Speaker 5: to share to sit.

614
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, I know, I know that that's true. I'm

615
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 4: sure the girls are very, very excited. I was gonna

616
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:11,520
Speaker 4: talk I haven't talked to him about that. I hint

617
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:14,400
Speaker 4: it a I was gonna talk to him specifically about

618
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:17,720
Speaker 4: and I haven't completely crafted it into my head yet,

619
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Speaker 4: and it probably won't do any good anyway, because it's

620
00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 4: different when you're fourteen than when you're older. And looking

621
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 4: back on being fourteen, but man, oh man, oh man,

622
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 4: there's so many things that I chickened out of or

623
00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 4: kind of wish I had done or whatever. You only

624
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 4: live once. You only freaking live once. That girl over there,

625
00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 4: you kind of like, go ask her to dance? Good God,

626
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 4: I gotta figure out how I want to present it.

627
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:47,200
Speaker 4: Not like that, but I mean, looking at talking to

628
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 4: my eighth grade me, I mean, just life is short.

629
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:55,520
Speaker 3: One go round. Yeah, here's here's what you gotta do.

630
00:32:55,560 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 3: Maybe I'll offer this service. I'll come over with half

631
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:06,120
Speaker 3: a dozen middle school young ladies. Have your boy ask

632
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 3: each one of them to dance. Each one of them

633
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:12,080
Speaker 3: will say thanks, but no, I'm not interested. And by

634
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 3: the end of maybe we'll even do two rounds. By

635
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:17,040
Speaker 3: the end of it, that kid'll be like, that's fine whatever.

636
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 4: Oh, they just get used to get it, used to

637
00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:22,160
Speaker 4: be rejected a couple of times at all.

638
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 3: Or they might be completely demoralized. But uh no, maybe

639
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 3: you have that thirteenth one say yeah, I'd love to.

640
00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 3: Did you ask somebody to dance, Michael, Yeah, I think

641
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:33,200
Speaker 3: I did. I usually got rejected, so it's okay.

642
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 4: I didn't ask anybody to dance. Somebody asked me to

643
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:38,560
Speaker 4: dance for the last slow dance of the night. And

644
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Speaker 4: I've never been more nervous in my life. I can

645
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 4: I still feel the sweat running down my armpits as

646
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 4: we were slow dancing. I was so nervous and scared.

647
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 3: But why wouldn't you?

648
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 4: I mean, and I kind of wanted to dance, but

649
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,440
Speaker 4: I was scared at one of being rejected and two

650
00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:55,600
Speaker 4: of dancing in front of other people. It's just God,

651
00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 4: when you get older, it just seems like, why would

652
00:33:57,600 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 4: you freaking care? But that's just the perspect of age.

653
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 4: You can't you know, you can't inject that into someone.

654
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:06,320
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, and dances are so small in our lives now,

655
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Speaker 5: it's such a big thing to them, right.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, of course it is.

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Speaker 4: And I'm you know, so on one hand, I don't

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Speaker 4: know about his friends, but it's probably true for his

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Speaker 4: friends too.

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Speaker 3: On one hand, I hope they have chairs there. I

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Speaker 3: might bring my own camping chair just so I make

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Speaker 3: sure it posessed it. But he has. Uh.

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Speaker 4: We got a haircut two weeks ago and he wasn't

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Speaker 4: quite happy with that, so we went and got another haircut,

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Speaker 4: and uh, you know, he's been picking out his clothes.

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Speaker 4: So I mean, you wouldn't get two haircuts and pick

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Speaker 4: out your clothes and all this sort of stuff if

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Speaker 4: you didn't care at all. So you care, but you

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Speaker 4: just don't want to look like you care, because I'm

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Speaker 4: sure none of your friends are looking like they care.

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Speaker 4: As the boys again, as the girls you get you

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Speaker 4: can be as thrilled as you want to be.

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Speaker 3: Lots of exclamation points.

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Speaker 5: Of your.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I played the records at the dances I did

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Speaker 3: do in middle school. I volunteered for that. I think

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Speaker 3: it's one of the reasons I became a musician. If

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Speaker 3: I'm playing, you can't ask me to dance.

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Speaker 4: I'm busy all the high school and says I was

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Speaker 4: the DJ, which kind of got me out of it.

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Speaker 4: I got to be there, but I had a job. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: but uh yeah, so I don't know. I'm gonna try

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Speaker 4: to craft some sort of go for it type speech.

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Speaker 4: See how it lands. I can just think of several

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Speaker 4: examples of like, why why didn't you? Why didn't you

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Speaker 4: do this? Why didn't you do that? There's no downside.

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Speaker 4: The worst case scenario is nothing. The well, actually a

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Speaker 4: worst case scenario is not doing anything and then wishing

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Speaker 4: the rest of your life.

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Speaker 3: You would have tried. So yeah, her hair.

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Speaker 4: So that said, he bought a fake rolex off of Amazon.

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Speaker 4: He totally cares. He totally cares. He doesn't cool to

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Speaker 4: not care, but yeah, he cares. He bought this fake rolex.

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Speaker 4: It's forty dollars and it's so shockingly great. I mean

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Speaker 4: it's really really good. It's like really heavy and nice

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Speaker 4: and yeah, very cool.

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Speaker 3: I think you may be admitting to a federal offense

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Speaker 3: harboring a known importer of rep bove the counterfeit Goods

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Speaker 3: got it off Amazon.

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