Speaker 1: Calm Down with Aaron and Chrissa is a production of
Speaker 1: I Heart Radio. Hey Now hid d Big day for
Speaker 1: Aaron and I here on Calm Down Podcast. One of
Speaker 1: our favorite people Heather McMahon. She is everyone's best friend.
Speaker 1: This girl is hysterical. Guys love her. Girl's lover. She's
Speaker 1: all the things. I cannot wait to talk to her.
Speaker 1: If you don't know her, you have to follow her
Speaker 1: on Instagram. She's all the things. We just love her
Speaker 1: she is. She's the person. When I watched her Instagram,
Speaker 1: I can't you can't have the volume off because what
Speaker 1: she's saying is so hilarious and relatable and it's always
Speaker 1: what I'm sending you my girlfriend Megan, my girlfriend Jackie.
Speaker 1: I'll make Jarrett watch it. Jarrett now knows her because
Speaker 1: she's so funny. Her voice is so recognizable that um,
Speaker 1: he's always like, Oh, is that your girl? Is that
Speaker 1: your girl? And I actually reached out to her because
Speaker 1: she was having a rough go with a round of
Speaker 1: fertility that she was very open with and it didn't
Speaker 1: go well. She had to stop in the middle of it,
Speaker 1: and I was just like, listen, been there six times,
Speaker 1: got it, whatever you need and It's crazy because I
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, those are the things that people
Speaker 1: kind of bond over, and you know, I feel like
Speaker 1: she's my best friend, but she is. She's a time.
Speaker 1: We gotta go to Atlanta. I'm actually going to be
Speaker 1: in Atlanta for a Thursday night game this year. If
Speaker 1: you want to come, Okay, and I wanted to work
Speaker 1: on Thursday, I want to know you may, but um,
Speaker 1: I want to go like there two days early and
Speaker 1: go to her favorite restaurant, meet her husband, meet her mom,
Speaker 1: go golfing, all the things. Yeah, we will talk to
Speaker 1: her and just a little bit. As I mentioned, follow
Speaker 1: her on Instagram. It's at Heather K McMahon. Her Her
Speaker 1: description of herself just says at all comedian with a
Speaker 1: thick neck and thin ankles, doing the most. She's a time.
Speaker 1: So more with her in a little bit. But first, sister,
Speaker 1: how was your weekend? Our new sort of thing that
Speaker 1: we're introducing here on the podcast because we're making it
Speaker 1: up as we go. You're high and you're low. What
Speaker 1: do you got the high and the low? Um? I
Speaker 1: don't really know. It was a very chill weekend. My
Speaker 1: sister came over. We were laughing about the tattletale episode
Speaker 1: that we had, I did get it wrong. I would
Speaker 1: like to clarify it here on Calm Down podcast. I
Speaker 1: didn't tell my mom and dad about her smoking. She
Speaker 1: told my mom about it, and my mom's like, oh please,
Speaker 1: if that's the worst thing. And then what I did
Speaker 1: tell she did a keg stand in junior high and
Speaker 1: I ran out the door and told she was that
Speaker 1: was still a tattletale, just for a different thing. Okay,
Speaker 1: got it and later in life, Later in life. So yeah, no,
Speaker 1: very chill weekend. Hung out with some friends and we
Speaker 1: had a great time. Yeah. A lot of hockey going
Speaker 1: on in our house. The playoffs are happening. My husband
Speaker 1: used to play for the Edmonton Oilers, so he's very
Speaker 1: dialed in on that. I'm dialed in on the Tampa
Speaker 1: Bay Lightning series, which I'll go ahead and plug our
Speaker 1: I g I was losing my mind. I checked in
Speaker 1: on the Calm Down podcast. They were down during the game,
Speaker 1: so I was, you know, doing a I need to
Speaker 1: calm down, and Jared's like yelling at me because I
Speaker 1: live and die with every goal, every shot on goal,
Speaker 1: every save. Asco Leski, let's go. You heard me. So
Speaker 1: Jared's like, calm down, and I was like, you know what,
Speaker 1: you freaking calm down because you don't know what it's
Speaker 1: like to be a fan. You're out there playing. This
Speaker 1: is how fans act in the stand. I was a
Speaker 1: thousand times worse when you played. So anyways, he leaves
Speaker 1: the room, thank god, because I can't watch it with him.
Speaker 1: Then I go and I pour a tequila because I
Speaker 1: was like, you know what, I'm gonna be in a
Speaker 1: better mood. I'm gonna be looser, I'm gonna be calmer.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be great. I poured tequila. These guys scored
Speaker 1: four goals after I poured the tequila. It was like
Speaker 1: it was in the second quarter. It was amazing. Who
Speaker 1: needs a rally cap? You got a rallied night, you
Speaker 1: got Don Julio. So I get on the Calm Down podcast.
Speaker 1: I g I'm like praising Don Julio. I found my
Speaker 1: good luck charm. They lose, they lose by a goal.
Speaker 1: That's on them, though, do you squander a four goal lead?
Speaker 1: Like that's on you, right, I know. But anyways, amazing
Speaker 1: Saturday game. We've got a game in a few hours
Speaker 1: on this Monday got to close up this series. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm really invested, but I do. I been Saturday. I
Speaker 1: had to come down stairs and watch the game because
Speaker 1: I had to change it up. I couldn't watch up
Speaker 1: there were They lost, so we had to be down here.
Speaker 1: Me and how He Daddy was not invited. We had
Speaker 1: to be by ourselves. They pulled it out. How's your weekend?
Speaker 1: I know, I'm not into any playoff series right now,
Speaker 1: gonna be honest, like, can you chext me? The other
Speaker 1: night about Lebron's nonsense? And I was like, I'm not
Speaker 1: even watching this, Like I don't know why. I'm just
Speaker 1: not into normally. I don't know. I think because it's
Speaker 1: like I'm not gambling on anything, so I'm not as invested.
Speaker 1: I don't know, because I'm like saving my money right
Speaker 1: now or something. And I got it, got it? I
Speaker 1: U yeah, But you know, I don't know. Maybe you
Speaker 1: know the storylines, no shock to you. I do. I
Speaker 1: love all of that, so I I, yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: know why, so maybe I'll maybe I'll get behind it.
Speaker 1: What game we got tonight? What game is this? For
Speaker 1: the Lightning games? There's a lot of hockey games, but
Speaker 1: it's different in my house because we have former you know, teammates,
Speaker 1: and why was better with other games. Jared's involved in
Speaker 1: the Oilers, you know, alumni organization. I live and breathe
Speaker 1: the lightning. So a lot of big games on tonight,
Speaker 1: but I don't know what's going on in basketball. I
Speaker 1: turned over the other yesterday to see the Knicks game
Speaker 1: because I kind of wanted to see the whole hoop
Speaker 1: about it. That's exciting, That is better when the Knicks
Speaker 1: are good. Yeah, um yeah, all right, I'm gonna get
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get back into it. By that, I mean
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get my wallet out and so I can
Speaker 1: be more invested. So you can't pay attention unless you're betting.
Speaker 1: What's the deal? I mean, is that a called an
Speaker 1: addiction or well, I don't know if my sponsors over there,
Speaker 1: I don't know. Um no, I don't know. I'm just
Speaker 1: I'm into it. But because you know why, I'm not
Speaker 1: talking about it daily, think about it like once. You know,
Speaker 1: we're not in on a show that talks about sports
Speaker 1: daily anymore. So I'm just sort of a little checked
Speaker 1: out of I throwing myself into a lot of house
Speaker 1: and home stuff, lately trying to get that company up
Speaker 1: and going. So anyways, but how is that going? By
Speaker 1: the way, good? I'm mom. You know, anybody that needs
Speaker 1: their home virtually signed, or if you're in the local
Speaker 1: area Los Angeles or New York and be happy to
Speaker 1: design your house. You know what's actually happening. Everyone's getting
Speaker 1: out of their house right now because of vaccinations, so
Speaker 1: they're not really interested in the pillows right now. But
Speaker 1: I understand happened. Flow, it is what it is. I
Speaker 1: saw this so and I was reading an article and
Speaker 1: I thought of you. How they were talking about how
Speaker 1: to make your bedroom cozier, how to And I'll say
Speaker 1: this about my girlfriend Chrissa. She can make your coffee
Speaker 1: table and it's maybe the same coffee table you've been
Speaker 1: looking at for a year, and you're like, all right,
Speaker 1: this isn't you know? You can make a coffee table
Speaker 1: look fabulous. You can make a console look fabulous. And
Speaker 1: I will say this article was talking about how everybody
Speaker 1: kind of just has been sitting there looking at the
Speaker 1: same crap in their house and they want to refresh
Speaker 1: or redo because now people can come over. So if
Speaker 1: you feel like you need to refresh, you need to redo.
Speaker 1: Look at my girls. She can do it virtually. You
Speaker 1: don't have to be here in l A. And I
Speaker 1: will tell you little things like you've taught me, like
Speaker 1: just changing out your bed sheets, like adding pillows, you know,
Speaker 1: changing out like different coffee table books and little knickknacks.
Speaker 1: That does go a long way. You think you're cute,
Speaker 1: you know, Jared, he walks around with the checklist and
Speaker 1: writes to figure things out. I love you, thank you, Yes,
Speaker 1: I am you know. And we'll talk to Heather about
Speaker 1: it in a little bit later on, because she's got
Speaker 1: a lot of different things going on and continually trying
Speaker 1: to reinvent yourself, you know, I mean all the success
Speaker 1: that you've had with where and yes sports pays our bills,
Speaker 1: but there's a lot of other things that we like
Speaker 1: to do. I mean, even the podcast, for you know, example,
Speaker 1: is something that is new for us, but something enjoyable
Speaker 1: in a new platform. She's got a wildly successful podcast. Um,
Speaker 1: we will talk to her about that and a whole
Speaker 1: lot more. What's something that you're excited to ask her about?
Speaker 1: I love She was talking about the other day of
Speaker 1: going back on the road again, and just like what
Speaker 1: that's like for a comedian. We know what it's like
Speaker 1: for as a sideline reporter or sports broadcast or what
Speaker 1: you know, the grind is like. But she talked about
Speaker 1: after shows, you know, there's nothing open except at Wendy's
Speaker 1: to have a chicken sand and I'm like, yeah, I
Speaker 1: get it, been there. You know, asked V to drive
Speaker 1: me to wine after a game. You know, hey, V,
Speaker 1: can we go to a dry through? I love the
Speaker 1: tell everybody who V is. We are fortunate to have
Speaker 1: V with us. He is Fox Sports Security. He looks
Speaker 1: after us, and he kind of knows where the bodies
Speaker 1: are buried with the both of us because you just
Speaker 1: start talking to him about everyday life. He walks that,
Speaker 1: you know, he walks us out on the field. He
Speaker 1: stands with us. Do you know that V's a huge
Speaker 1: Seahawks fan the Seahawks. That's how professionally is because he
Speaker 1: doesn't even bring that in saying but we'll sit there
Speaker 1: and we'll be like, oh, God, best story, so and
Speaker 1: I know we have to go. But when this year
Speaker 1: was really hard at halftime interviews because um, you know,
Speaker 1: I couldn't be down on the field, so the coaches
Speaker 1: were down and I was one row up. You can't
Speaker 1: hear crap, especially in Seattle. It's loud. Pete Carroll's very
Speaker 1: fast talker. You know he's not gonna scream. I'm trying
Speaker 1: to ask a question. I'm laying on the floor of
Speaker 1: where the front row is because he's down low in
Speaker 1: his like standing up high to try to talk to
Speaker 1: me and I can't. So I'm laying on the floor
Speaker 1: to get my of the stadium. You know, yes, you
Speaker 1: know who's laying with me. V V wants to hear
Speaker 1: for me. I'm like, I can't freaking here, and I
Speaker 1: need to know if Russell's okay, like he just hit
Speaker 1: his hand really hard or something like that, and what
Speaker 1: is this defense gonna do to get to Jared Goff
Speaker 1: and like things like that. And it's like V. I said, V,
Speaker 1: I can't hear, and he's like, so he lays down
Speaker 1: on the floor. Knock it split the V dot the
Speaker 1: I curl the C T O R Y. He is
Speaker 1: victory personified that the um you know who else is
Speaker 1: Heather McMahon and she's coming up next year and you're
Speaker 1: the queen of our I g account handles again for
Speaker 1: our listeners. And viewers at Calm Down podcast and tonight
Speaker 1: for the Lightning Game. I will not be giving a
Speaker 1: period by period recap because it's bad luck. Man. All right, well,
Speaker 1: Arry's superstitious. We'll talk to Heather McMahon coming up after
Speaker 1: the Just Come Down podcast. You very super just show
Speaker 1: Roden's on the wall. Well you know how this works
Speaker 1: because you're a pot expert, so we don't need any
Speaker 1: more precursory conversations. What up, girl, I'm gonna tell you
Speaker 1: this right now. I fell in love with you because
Speaker 1: Aaron and his friend Jen was like, I'm obsessed with Heather.
Speaker 1: This was years ago. She was on your tip from
Speaker 1: the jump. Then it's a good one to be on.
Speaker 1: By the way. At the Bruno Mars concert at the
Speaker 1: Super Bowl in Atlanta, she forget Bruno Mars, forget Cardi
Speaker 1: b This bitch b lines to you. She starts knocking
Speaker 1: people down, she gives you the biggest hug, and she's
Speaker 1: like obsessing. I was like, She's like, it's Heather. And
Speaker 1: then the love affair really began. And then Aaron fell
Speaker 1: in love with you, and here we are, we're all
Speaker 1: just in love. Well, I love you. Can I tell
Speaker 1: you something. I don't know if I'm allowed to say
Speaker 1: this out whatever. I was just gonna say, you can
Speaker 1: ddit this out. Later at the Bruno Mars concert, I
Speaker 1: didn't know I had never done mushrooms before. I didn't
Speaker 1: know that I had micro doosed mushrooms as somebody gave
Speaker 1: me a little piece of chocolate, but I didn't know
Speaker 1: that's what it was. I was like, oh, sweet treat.
Speaker 1: And so halfway through that concert, they end up putting
Speaker 1: me on the jumbo tron for the whole concert because
Speaker 1: I was having such at the time that the guy
Speaker 1: who was running the cameras was like, this chick is
Speaker 1: losing her mind, and like this is the funniest thing ever.
Speaker 1: So then they're just blasting me on mushrooms, unbeknownst to me,
Speaker 1: all over the big screen. So that's how your friend
Speaker 1: found me. Quick question about that and I'm asking for
Speaker 1: a friend. Did you laugh so hard you piede your pants?
Speaker 1: I'm asking for a friend. I have never had such
Speaker 1: an emotional, hysterical journey. It was the greatest night of
Speaker 1: my life. And I didn't realize that three days later
Speaker 1: that that's what I was on. I just thought I
Speaker 1: had like a couple of white wines. I was feeling loose.
Speaker 1: It was great. Oh my god. So Heather, we have
Speaker 1: so much to talk about and we don't have that
Speaker 1: much time with you because you are such a busy lady.
Speaker 1: Good Grief, lots of things. We got a whole TV
Speaker 1: show about your life, start from the beginning. Yeah. So
Speaker 1: I mean, listen, you know, I'm in that production deal.
Speaker 1: So you never know what's up and what's down with
Speaker 1: these things. Hollywood, It'll get you. Yeah. So we're just
Speaker 1: turning her script and we're waiting to get the green
Speaker 1: light for the show. And the show is called Good Grief,
Speaker 1: and it's a comedy based on my life. My dad
Speaker 1: passed away from cancer about six years ago, and I
Speaker 1: picked up my life and moved home and I literally
Speaker 1: moved in with my mom, and it was just like,
Speaker 1: that's really when my comedy career took off. I was
Speaker 1: living in l A, you know, going through the motions
Speaker 1: and what I thought I needed to do for my career.
Speaker 1: And it wasn't until I moved back to the South
Speaker 1: and I had a new perspective and like kind of
Speaker 1: the new lease on life. I was like, all right,
Speaker 1: I'm in a really shitty situation. I got to make
Speaker 1: the best of it. And then that's kind of when
Speaker 1: my career took off. So this show is based on
Speaker 1: like that time when I moved home after my dad passed,
Speaker 1: And is that what you keep teasing on? Absolutely not
Speaker 1: like is that what you keep teasing on your podcast? Okay,
Speaker 1: Because I was saying to Christi, she keeps saying, well,
Speaker 1: I'm you know, I'm bev been grinding here. I got
Speaker 1: something going on. I'm like, is that what you're doing?
Speaker 1: Or you got something else happening here? Well, no, listen,
Speaker 1: I've got I feel like very spread thin in the
Speaker 1: sense that I feel like when you're in entertainment you
Speaker 1: have to have sixteen different irons in the fire. You
Speaker 1: get it, Yeah, you get it. Yeah, Like if you
Speaker 1: don't have a podcast, you know how to do TikTok dances. Um,
Speaker 1: you know, I've got a whole stand up tour. I
Speaker 1: gotta finish. Like It's it's kind of crazy, the amount
Speaker 1: of things. It's not just like, hey, you're an actor
Speaker 1: and you're on a TV show anymore. Hey you're a commentator,
Speaker 1: you're doing sports, Like you have to have sixteen different
Speaker 1: things going on at once or you're not doing enough.
Speaker 1: So I'm exhausted, but I'm blessed, so I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: I'm not going to complain at all. Hashtag blessed throw
Speaker 1: that in there. You mentioned going back home, so for
Speaker 1: the for people that don't know you, which is only
Speaker 1: a handful of people, sort of walk us back. And
Speaker 1: you mentioned being in l A. Did you have aspirations
Speaker 1: of being an actress? I mean, like where did where
Speaker 1: did that career start to present day? Um sort of
Speaker 1: broad strokes for you. Well, I moved to New York
Speaker 1: right after college. I've got in a theater arts degree
Speaker 1: in Mississippi, and I was like, okay, this is it.
Speaker 1: Like I knew I wanted to do like SNL or
Speaker 1: sketch comedy. And then I got more in the stand up.
Speaker 1: And then from New York, I mean to l A.
Speaker 1: And I was like, this is exactly where I need
Speaker 1: to be. And then I kind of had this oh
Speaker 1: ship aha life moment happened. My dad died very quickly
Speaker 1: of cancer, and so I just kind of picked up
Speaker 1: my life, moved back to Atlanta. I thought it was
Speaker 1: just gonna be like a two week thing. A month thing.
Speaker 1: You know, I come in like a hero, helped my
Speaker 1: mom pick up the pieces, helped my sister and I
Speaker 1: figure out what our new life looks like without our dad.
Speaker 1: And then I was here and I stayed, and it
Speaker 1: was really wild how my career shifted once I think
Speaker 1: I had gone through something I don't want to say, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it was traumatic, but I had just a totally different
Speaker 1: new perspective and it made my comedy so much more
Speaker 1: rich because I I was speaking from such from just
Speaker 1: a different um, a different level, I don't know. And
Speaker 1: then and then I think it made me more relatable
Speaker 1: and people were like, oh, okay, she's speaking from her
Speaker 1: real truth instead of putting on all these characters all
Speaker 1: the time. And so now, I mean, I still dabble
Speaker 1: and do characters, and I loved to put on a
Speaker 1: wig and a Fannie pack and have some fun. But
Speaker 1: really my sense of like comedy is just my style
Speaker 1: of comedy storytelling and like, you know, sharing my own
Speaker 1: human experience. I can relate to that, and I like
Speaker 1: it is. You know, I think I'm hilarious, but you're
Speaker 1: so right, people can relate to you. I get stocked publicly.
Speaker 1: I go through this massive trial. I get cervical cancer.
Speaker 1: And then women are like, we like her, She's not
Speaker 1: just a hoe on the sidelines. Now we like her.
Speaker 1: Now she's cool to be. You like me, you really
Speaker 1: like me. But we know the grind you know of
Speaker 1: being a sideline reporter. We know the grinds of being
Speaker 1: in small towns or big towns, living out of a suitcase,
Speaker 1: being at hotels. I loved on your podcast this week.
Speaker 1: You talked about your tour and like you eat like ship,
Speaker 1: you get cheese boards, and then what's open at midnight?
Speaker 1: A freaking Wendy's went by the way, those chicken sandwiches
Speaker 1: I would house. It's not a problem. And that's the
Speaker 1: same for us, Like we get done with the game.
Speaker 1: We've jacked ourselves up on coffee all day, and I'm
Speaker 1: housing three red wines and a burger. But just talk
Speaker 1: about the grind of being a comedian so we can
Speaker 1: relate to it, you know, because we're not in that world.
Speaker 1: We're in sport. Well, listen, if you're doing like a
Speaker 1: local show, you know you're in a dingy bar or
Speaker 1: like a basement Imbov club. I mean I came up
Speaker 1: in like the upright citizens Brigade World where we would
Speaker 1: literally do shows underneath the grocery store in this like
Speaker 1: dingy little club in New York. And then being on
Speaker 1: the road. I mean, listen, I love it as much
Speaker 1: as I love doing TV and film and all that.
Speaker 1: You can never take away that high, that rush you
Speaker 1: get from a live audience. But I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: I thought my first big tour was going to be
Speaker 1: like staying at the Ritz. We were staying at like
Speaker 1: a romantic end by the airport because we had to
Speaker 1: catch it. You know, when you don't get out stage
Speaker 1: so one am the night before. I mean, it is
Speaker 1: not glamorous. It is a hustle. It is a grind.
Speaker 1: You're just you sweat for two weeks on the road.
Speaker 1: You're like, I don't know why I'm wet, but I'm
Speaker 1: just wet. That was me bit of alcohol because I'm
Speaker 1: drinking every day. Hair dryer connected to the wall in
Speaker 1: the bathroom, you know, that's when it's go. That thing's
Speaker 1: overheating because you can only use it for thirty seconds
Speaker 1: and that thing always fucking breaks and then you got
Speaker 1: to call down. You're never getting that thing within two
Speaker 1: hours and forget it. Got to change rooms. Yeah, when
Speaker 1: did you you know you mentioned obviously the the I'm
Speaker 1: very sorry of course, of the passing of your father
Speaker 1: and how quick that happened and changing sort of your
Speaker 1: perspective on everything. Did it kind of make you go
Speaker 1: fuck it? Like you really giving yourself the license to say, like,
Speaker 1: I don't care if I make fun of myself or
Speaker 1: this or that anymore, because the loss of someone so
Speaker 1: significant in your life puts it all into perspective. Oh absolutely,
Speaker 1: I didn't give a ship and so kind of now
Speaker 1: and listen, my comedy hasn't changed and still who I am.
Speaker 1: I'm always very self deprecating, like I always make fun
Speaker 1: of myself first. But it was interesting. I kind of
Speaker 1: went through the grieving process publicly and but it was
Speaker 1: fartic for me, like I would share an Instagram stories
Speaker 1: and make videos and talk about it through characters, and
Speaker 1: it just became such a relatable thing where I was like, Oh,
Speaker 1: when you're going through grief, you really feel like you're
Speaker 1: the only one who's experiencing it. And then once you
Speaker 1: go through and you're like, oh, there's so many other
Speaker 1: people who have experiences. There's so many other folks who
Speaker 1: are breathing different things. And I especially think over the
Speaker 1: last year, like all the ship we've been through, um
Speaker 1: that everybody's kind of now had this collective like oh
Speaker 1: ship moment, and it's just kind of I don't know.
Speaker 1: It just pushes me to live in a joyful lane.
Speaker 1: Like my my sense of comedy is just I like
Speaker 1: to be joyful and I like to giggle. And life's
Speaker 1: too short. You gotta enjoy every day and not take
Speaker 1: yourself too seriously, like yes, fuck it, I don't care.
Speaker 1: You know, if you don't like me, then then keep
Speaker 1: moving because I gotta do what I gotta do and
Speaker 1: bring myself joy. Where is Jeff Daniels is the real question?
Speaker 1: Where so that dreambok For those of your who are
Speaker 1: listening and you don't know, my husband's name is Jeff Daniels,
Speaker 1: But not the Jeff Daniels for the movie Dumb and
Speaker 1: Dumber or um the news He's not the famous actor
Speaker 1: and Aaron's ex boyfriend. You know, Heather that the opening
Speaker 1: scene in Newsroom, Jeff Daniels comes back from vacation with
Speaker 1: this horror in the Bahamas. Now, of course, she's never
Speaker 1: actually dated Jeff Daniels, but Barren Sorkin writes in her
Speaker 1: as the girl that he's dating in the show. How
Speaker 1: funny is that, Jeff Daniels. Look, it's all coming together.
Speaker 1: I did not know this. Also, how did you feel
Speaker 1: about that? I didn't know about it until people. You know,
Speaker 1: I've never gonna be honest, didn't really watch the newsroom
Speaker 1: at all. And then people started like talking about, you know,
Speaker 1: my name being used, and I was like, okay, first
Speaker 1: of all, could I make an appearance? Of all, could
Speaker 1: I get paid? Would be great? And then third of all,
Speaker 1: g m A allowed me to work, you know, the
Speaker 1: red carpet for the Oscars, and I actually met him
Speaker 1: and I was like dying. I was like, hey, I'm
Speaker 1: Aaron Andrews. Could I possibly be in season two? What
Speaker 1: are we doing here? Obviously that went over really well
Speaker 1: because I didn't get paid or be in it. But
Speaker 1: you know, so the only Daniels you're saying absolutely not.
Speaker 1: The only JAF Daniels I'm sleeping with is my Italian salient,
Speaker 1: And um, yeah, I mean he's upstairs reading a golf magazine.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, he's obsessed. He's like semi
Speaker 1: retired right now, which means he's just trying to He
Speaker 1: plays golf seven days a week. I don't know what
Speaker 1: he does for work. He could be in the mafia.
Speaker 1: I don't know, um, but I asked him the other day.
Speaker 1: I was like, for you practicing for the Senior Tour
Speaker 1: because I don't I don't know what's going on. Jeff, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you need to get a job. So I'm just enjoying
Speaker 1: himself and laying golf all the time. I love it.
Speaker 1: You guys have a great relationship. It's just one of
Speaker 1: the many things people love about you is that you
Speaker 1: share everything. When did when did this? I mean, by
Speaker 1: the way, you know, we're not going to let you
Speaker 1: get through this without mentioning the Jay law siding in
Speaker 1: the background. Casual Jennifer Lawrence, She's just sitting on the couch.
Speaker 1: What's training here? Okay? This is the wild thing. You
Speaker 1: forget that, like you know, you have a podcast, and
Speaker 1: you forget that, like people actually tune into this stuff,
Speaker 1: or like I forget that people actually follow me on
Speaker 1: like social media. So I didn't evenil one day and
Speaker 1: it's just say from Jennifer Lawrence, She's like, Hey, huge fan,
Speaker 1: love the podcast, would love the chest shut. I thought
Speaker 1: it was like Jennifer refreshes refreshing. Yeah, well, I thought
Speaker 1: it was somebody from accounting. I had no idea. I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, somebody. I I just figured like I
Speaker 1: owed someone money. I did not think twice about it.
Speaker 1: And then she's like call me, So I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: I'll call Jennifer Lawrence an accounting like what what's this
Speaker 1: bill I owe? And then literally it was just her
Speaker 1: and she's like, hey, I think your hysterical. You've got
Speaker 1: me through quarantine and this last year and we just
Speaker 1: became like best friends and she's a dolt. She's so
Speaker 1: so great. Oh my god, it seems like everything. So
Speaker 1: I worked the entertainment show Extra and there were some
Speaker 1: real assholes. Let's just you know, we won't name Jennifer
Speaker 1: Lopez right now, but let's get it quiet, let's get um.
Speaker 1: But Jennifer Lawrence I was always like, loved interviewing her
Speaker 1: because she is just what you said, like would be
Speaker 1: that person that sends the email like, hey love you,
Speaker 1: let's be friends. I wanted to be friends with her,
Speaker 1: but she by proxy, I feel like we're all in
Speaker 1: this together. But yeah, she's amazing. From afar so great.
Speaker 1: And I gotta say, heard some slid in my d
Speaker 1: MS a while ago and I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: no I did. I freaked out. And then I just
Speaker 1: adore you because you've been like sending you the kindest
Speaker 1: messages through fertility and all this ship I've been going through.
Speaker 1: And it's just interesting though, because this is how you
Speaker 1: meet people now in the modern day. It's not weird Moore.
Speaker 1: Just to get an email from somebody's like, yo, watch yourself,
Speaker 1: think you're great, let's be friends. I love it. I
Speaker 1: just think it's very late. That's how I slept with
Speaker 1: some people. Heather. You know, you just gotta you gotta
Speaker 1: do it. You know, I was a single gal out
Speaker 1: there in the streets. I said, you take this to
Speaker 1: the d m s and you know what, that blue
Speaker 1: check goes far because they're not responding with that check.
Speaker 1: So you get a verification in here, you know which.
Speaker 1: By the way, Heather, somebody, we've all had our fair
Speaker 1: share of meth needles amongst us three and I you know,
Speaker 1: big hug to you, and we've all I've done this
Speaker 1: and are doing this. Yeah you started today again. Well,
Speaker 1: here's the here's the irony of all this. I was
Speaker 1: trying to freeze my eggs because I'm, you know, thirty
Speaker 1: four in my career. Things you're happening, I was like,
Speaker 1: I gotta like have options, and then I got to
Speaker 1: do started to freeze the eggs, and they were like,
Speaker 1: your body is not responding to this. So it was
Speaker 1: a real mind funk to be like, wait a minute,
Speaker 1: hold up. I thought it was being proactive and then
Speaker 1: it's not working. So therefore I had no idea fertility
Speaker 1: was an issue, and now I'm going to second round
Speaker 1: and if not, then I think I'm just gonna you know,
Speaker 1: we'll see. But you know, nobody tells you there's no
Speaker 1: manuale when you get to college, like, hey, you should
Speaker 1: learn about fertility. I really think there should be some
Speaker 1: sort of course, like a core curriculum class in school
Speaker 1: where you gotta learn your freshman year, this is how
Speaker 1: your ovaries worked, you know, like this is this is
Speaker 1: what no one tells you until it's too late. M M.
Speaker 1: I know, I went. I went. I mean this one
Speaker 1: told me. She she encouraged me to go and then
Speaker 1: ended up going to the same place and helped me
Speaker 1: through all of it. I mean that's leaning on your
Speaker 1: girlfriends for supporting that, and I end up only getting
Speaker 1: six eggs. I don't even know if they're viable or whatever.
Speaker 1: So it's like, you know, I thought that i'd have
Speaker 1: a lot more. Anyways, we don't. You know, we never know.
Speaker 1: But it's good that you can lean on each other
Speaker 1: and support each other. Six times over here, I freaking
Speaker 1: had six times. Look, it is a time, but I
Speaker 1: mean there is some real and I'll tell you I
Speaker 1: when I started, you got me through quarantine too. I
Speaker 1: know I'm not j Lon and I get it, but
Speaker 1: there are times that I am laughing my ass off
Speaker 1: and I'm watching you on i G and my husband's like, God,
Speaker 1: she's hilarious, and like I was playing your IVF stories
Speaker 1: for him because I'm dying to know how Jeff was you.
Speaker 1: I remember you talked about one of your girlfriends came
Speaker 1: over and you mixed she had They're mixed it for
Speaker 1: you whatever. I mean, I've actually been wasted because we
Speaker 1: were celebrating that we had just gotten one of the
Speaker 1: embryos that we had worked so hard for. So we
Speaker 1: got hammered in our house and then my girlfriend called
Speaker 1: me and said, can you come do this, and I'm
Speaker 1: like looking at the pist, like, oh shit, do I
Speaker 1: have this right? What how is Jeff when you're injecting?
Speaker 1: What is he like? Because mind's watching Seinfeld laughing, not
Speaker 1: helping me. Yeah, Jeff isn't either, and his his thing
Speaker 1: is that he is a fear of needles because he
Speaker 1: has baby veins that he always special treatment when he
Speaker 1: gives blood. Listen, I'm telling you I've learned so much
Speaker 1: ages about how the female body works. But I'm like,
Speaker 1: we can do anything. I mean, listen, he's a support,
Speaker 1: but he's not gonna inject me, and honestly, I wouldn't
Speaker 1: want him to. I'm like, no, you've got he He
Speaker 1: has like flicked fingers and he's always kind of like jumpy.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't need you to be injecting, no,
Speaker 1: m but don't. But have an open mind this time around,
Speaker 1: because listen, this whole thing that I found out is
Speaker 1: it's a freaking science project. Your first time, it's like,
Speaker 1: unless we're cute and we're twenties six and we have
Speaker 1: seventeen million eggs to freeze, I'm adorable. I obviously didn't
Speaker 1: get that the second time around. They're like playing with
Speaker 1: the potions. Right, It's like Harry Potter, they're playing with
Speaker 1: the mixtures. Then you're putting it in and then that
Speaker 1: may not work. I mean, like I said, I did
Speaker 1: it six times. What a treat. I I got in
Speaker 1: the worst fight with my husband about peanut butter in
Speaker 1: a smoothie. Like we broke up as I was hormonal.
Speaker 1: I mean, I know you've been talking about how hormonal
Speaker 1: you are, but it's fine. You're so normal, Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: I needed to hear that you are. You are exactly.
Speaker 1: You're not alone on that. And speaking of marriage, as
Speaker 1: though Heather you were going to have a big wedding
Speaker 1: in Italy, you're still gonna have one, right, I can
Speaker 1: have a big yeah. But yeah, you guys ended up
Speaker 1: getting married to I got married during quarantine. I also
Speaker 1: met my husband like five minutes before I got married,
Speaker 1: because I was like, look, someone's into me, so let's
Speaker 1: just let's lock it up before he before he changes
Speaker 1: his mind. I mean five So I rushed my situation.
Speaker 1: But you guys got married in quarantine, but still are
Speaker 1: going to have the big wedding. Yeah, I mean I
Speaker 1: I specifically chose to have a wedding in Italy so
Speaker 1: that I could cut the fat and I wouldn't have
Speaker 1: like six hundred stories sisters show up from the University
Speaker 1: of Missiffic. But then, um, now we had to rush
Speaker 1: and go to the courthouse by the end of the
Speaker 1: year because they're Everything that we've had to do has
Speaker 1: been so non glamorous. Our accountant was like, hey, you'll
Speaker 1: save a lot of money if you file jointly. So
Speaker 1: it was like December one and we were like rushing
Speaker 1: to the courthouse to save a couple of dollars um.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean listen, at this point, we pushed
Speaker 1: it off another year. I'm like, do I want to have
Speaker 1: have the party? Yes? Well I were why did this point?
Speaker 1: Probably not, you know, but I'm always an animal break
Speaker 1: gal anyways, So but I'm hoping to have that party
Speaker 1: one day. Yeah, I love it, as as noticed to
Speaker 1: the Oh sorry, you go ahead. No, I was just
Speaker 1: gonna say, what's your favorite I was thinking about this
Speaker 1: last night because we were talking about Italy and how
Speaker 1: we can't wait to go back favorite dish in Italy,
Speaker 1: favorite just restaurant? What do you got for me? Because
Speaker 1: I don't know where you like to go in Italy.
Speaker 1: I go everywhere, but I am okay, my heart isn't Tuscany,
Speaker 1: I said, I haven't been there yet. Girl, Well we've
Speaker 1: just set a Malfi coast love Amalfi. It's yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: very very ririch. Um. I love Tuscany though, because I
Speaker 1: love just like you can get into these tiny little
Speaker 1: town here's one of my favorite restaurants. I don't even
Speaker 1: know the name of it. That. It's this tinytown name
Speaker 1: called monthro Gione, and you just go in and you
Speaker 1: just order whatever they're cooking and they just make it.
Speaker 1: It's not one specific dish, it's just It's also that
Speaker 1: you can drink like three bubbles of wine at lunch
Speaker 1: and it's never frowned upon. You know, is there ever
Speaker 1: an early time? I mean I may or may not
Speaker 1: have already opened up a Corona light that's sitting over there.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean it's a Monday. We're here,
Speaker 1: you're right, right, I mean? Why not? Um? You know
Speaker 1: your podcast you mentioned to Jay law sending you the
Speaker 1: email because she loved it. She's not alone. Um, why
Speaker 1: did you want to start a podcast? And what has been?
Speaker 1: As you know, we're newbies in the space. What would
Speaker 1: be a piece of advice that you could give us
Speaker 1: the pros and the best advice that you got and
Speaker 1: the one thing we shouldn't do. Great question. Well, you know,
Speaker 1: it's interesting doing comedy. I think that the podcast is
Speaker 1: just another extension of like stand up and it's interesting.
Speaker 1: I got so um bogged down and trying to have
Speaker 1: like these perfect guests and these big names, and I
Speaker 1: felt like, oh, I've got to have people, and I've
Speaker 1: gotta have somebody else carry it. But then it's like
Speaker 1: I was carrying my own ship. So nowadays I just teased.
Speaker 1: For the last like four weeks on my podcast, I've
Speaker 1: been like we had a huge exciting guest coming in
Speaker 1: that I've had no one on It's just me, and
Speaker 1: those end up being like the episodes that uh like
Speaker 1: people enjoy the most, where it's just me jogging to
Speaker 1: a wall for an hour and a half. You know.
Speaker 1: But I think it's just don't put the pressure on
Speaker 1: yourself to try and make it perfect. It's just whatever
Speaker 1: you're feeling in that moment is what you got to
Speaker 1: roll with, you know. I just I think we all
Speaker 1: try to make everything so perfect and and tie up
Speaker 1: with a button and a bow. But like, screw it,
Speaker 1: just say you're freaking feeling you know. I gotta tell you.
Speaker 1: My girlfriend she texted me, whatever day it was the
Speaker 1: day after your last one came out, and you were
Speaker 1: talking about being out and we are back and the
Speaker 1: Neo song being on and you were, you know, getting
Speaker 1: after it, and she just texted me and she goes, you, guys,
Speaker 1: this podcast, I like feel it in my soul. Well,
Speaker 1: cut to Saturday. We were feeling a lot of things
Speaker 1: in our soul. We were all together and um, we
Speaker 1: were just having a time. And as I kept saying,
Speaker 1: we were passing the remote around of who wanted to
Speaker 1: play what music. Wise, someone put on like a prayer.
Speaker 1: I started re enacting the video. I was screaming, give
Speaker 1: me a PEPSI. A lot of my friends are in
Speaker 1: their early thirties, so they didn't get it. Um, but
Speaker 1: I was like, give me a PEPSI. My girlfriend who
Speaker 1: had texted me about you, I was like, her name
Speaker 1: is Heather as Well. I'm like, hey, this is like
Speaker 1: the podcast, and she's like, I feel it in my soul.
Speaker 1: Like it was just we were dropping down, you know,
Speaker 1: like like you and the hair was getting wrapped around
Speaker 1: like it was a time I missed. I'm not even
Speaker 1: a nightclub girl, but I missed being in like a
Speaker 1: tight bandage dress from like BB What was it? What
Speaker 1: was that? That one we could never afford so we
Speaker 1: could never knocked off? Yeah, we couldn't be knock off. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I thought it was bab and then somebody said it
Speaker 1: was baby, And I'm like, if I stands you close
Speaker 1: to a fire or a loose cigarette in this dress,
Speaker 1: like the whole place is going to burn down. And
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about my extensions, but the dress. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the dress, I mean those I just I went on
Speaker 1: this girls trip with some of my girlfriends and we
Speaker 1: were just like in a beach far and they're blasting
Speaker 1: like pitfull, which is like my favorite artist, and I
Speaker 1: just felt so alive. I had a cold drink in
Speaker 1: my ind and I just hyped. The hair was matted
Speaker 1: to the back of my neck. I was so sweaty
Speaker 1: from dancing, and I was like, I feel slutty and
Speaker 1: I feel fabulous right Well, when Mr worldwidees on, nothing
Speaker 1: can go wrong, but it is, can you? I can't.
Speaker 1: I mean, there's already a little bit of chaos in
Speaker 1: the streets because everyone just like, Okay, this summer is
Speaker 1: gonna a lot of people are getting STDs pregnant. Things
Speaker 1: are happening over here because while on I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: not even mad at it, we don't even know how
Speaker 1: to control ourselves. And that's the thing. Like when things
Speaker 1: started to kind of open up, but I was just
Speaker 1: going back out for work meetings and working again, I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: I like social butterfly, and I don't know how to
Speaker 1: like have a pool call Brsachia with somebody. I didn't
Speaker 1: even know like what to do with my body, Like
Speaker 1: my body language has been weird. So then when I
Speaker 1: really got to like let my hair down, I was like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna be clubbing this summer. I don't know why,
Speaker 1: but just gonna find me in a dirty nightlill probably
Speaker 1: by myself, not even when, not even with my girlfriends.
Speaker 1: Just I'm gonna go out for a solo drip. I
Speaker 1: died when you were on your I G and you
Speaker 1: had just you I think you were visiting New York
Speaker 1: and you were like you had a cab salve in
Speaker 1: your hand and you were like, this is just how
Speaker 1: I feel. You ordered a goddamn a rugula pizza or something.
Speaker 1: I was like dying because I get it. Yeah, like
Speaker 1: we just want to be back to that, back to it.
Speaker 1: How is Atlanta these days? It's hot, It's hot. It's great.
Speaker 1: I mean, I never It's so funny. Every time I
Speaker 1: leave Atlanta, it pulls me back, you know, I like
Speaker 1: left to go do the thing, and then it just
Speaker 1: drags me back. And so we were living in New
Speaker 1: York during the pandemic and came down here to keep
Speaker 1: an eye on my mom. And my husband looked at me,
Speaker 1: and he's a born and raised New Yorker and he
Speaker 1: was the one who was like, you want to get
Speaker 1: out of New York. I was like, you said it.
Speaker 1: I didn't. But if you're the New Yorker and you
Speaker 1: want about I'm reading about Yeah, it's great. I mean
Speaker 1: I love being here. I love being back in the South.
Speaker 1: So we're having to go down. How's your mom? We
Speaker 1: love your mom? I mean, who doesn't what I hoped?
Speaker 1: She just tells it like it is. Yes, an looks great,
Speaker 1: Yes she does. Listen. Okay, since y'all are in like
Speaker 1: you know the world and I know I know, especially Aaron,
Speaker 1: who knows um big like football owners. My mom My
Speaker 1: mom is looking for like uhst Arthur Blank Arthur. Well
Speaker 1: he's got a girl. Well, yes, they all do until
Speaker 1: you know, gay meet your mom. Yeah, that's a good idea.
Speaker 1: That is great for me, hot on the trail. For
Speaker 1: your mom, that'd be perfect. And my mom who always
Speaker 1: say she's like, I didn't understand why these girls go
Speaker 1: for the play It go for the guy who owns
Speaker 1: the team. And I'm like, yeah, yeah, man, who's signing
Speaker 1: those checks? Mom? That's right, I love it. We gotta
Speaker 1: find well. I mean, your rolodex is way more extensive
Speaker 1: than ours. I feel like you could connect some dots,
Speaker 1: but mine. Yeah no, I know, I know, like yeah,
Speaker 1: I know Oscar winners, but they don't they have any
Speaker 1: connections to you know. I need a sports owner. I
Speaker 1: need some guy. By the way, Oscar winners are football rich.
Speaker 1: You know, there's a different different rich. Hey can I
Speaker 1: because I lived in Atlanta for a while, I still
Speaker 1: have a four or four number. I may give it
Speaker 1: to you just because I want you to have it.
Speaker 1: Um oh I well, um, but you always talk about
Speaker 1: the Henhouse and I want to go there so bad.
Speaker 1: It's the Henhouse right which called hen Mother cook House
Speaker 1: and it's sorry hen Mother. Yeah, hen Mother Cookous. It's amazing.
Speaker 1: But if you didn't ever go to the Flying Biscuit,
Speaker 1: because I would go there every second day. I loved
Speaker 1: the Flying Biscuit. Let's love the Flying Biscuit. But once
Speaker 1: you have hand Mother Cookous, it'll change your life. And
Speaker 1: I found Chefs Rayah. I literally was like bitching on
Speaker 1: um Instagram one day. I was like, where is your
Speaker 1: like and I'm gonna move back. Where do I get
Speaker 1: great breakfast? And she messaged me She's like, girl on
Speaker 1: down the street from your house. So it is in
Speaker 1: the birds, but it's incredible, and I think Atlanta is
Speaker 1: one of these cool cities where I think it is
Speaker 1: the best of everything we have incoment restaurants scene. We've
Speaker 1: got Southern hospitality, we've got great shopping, we have great nightlife.
Speaker 1: Like you know, if we're not in the pandemic, we're thriving.
Speaker 1: So the city is coming back and I'm so excited
Speaker 1: to be back. It's awesome. I love it. Heather, You're
Speaker 1: very busy, but um quickly. Of course you've got the podcast.
Speaker 1: Absolutely not, You've got good grief. You've got Love Hard
Speaker 1: a new Netflix movie? What can you tell us about that? Um,
Speaker 1: it's hysterical, it's coming out this Christmas. Put Netflix on
Speaker 1: my vision board and they hired me, so it works. Um,
Speaker 1: you have to do what I'm gonna do. Yeah, time
Speaker 1: you do a vision board, because I've never done one,
Speaker 1: and I feel like I should. No, listen, it's so cheesy.
Speaker 1: I did it one time. I was very like stoned
Speaker 1: on New Year's Day, hungover, and I was like, I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna do it because I like arts and crafts.
Speaker 1: And then two years later everything came true and it
Speaker 1: really freaked me out. So now I do it and
Speaker 1: it's wild. I just think Aaron was doing it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: do it? What do you do with it? Do you
Speaker 1: look at it every day? Do you say a prayer?
Speaker 1: What do you do? Um? I kind of you know what.
Speaker 1: I keep it in my office like I have it
Speaker 1: like right over my desk, and I just kind of
Speaker 1: look at it. And then as things come to fruition,
Speaker 1: I feel like it's just constantly keeping what you want
Speaker 1: to do in your goals, like in your forefront of
Speaker 1: your subconscious you know what I mean? I love Okay,
Speaker 1: I've gone about too, and I used to think it
Speaker 1: was cheesy and I was like, are we doing this?
Speaker 1: Are we cutting out the magazine? Do we even have
Speaker 1: magazines to cut out what's going on here? But I'm
Speaker 1: gonna do it because if you look, I'm gonna follow
Speaker 1: in your footsteps, sister, because it's true. It's wild how
Speaker 1: much how many things I've been able to, like check
Speaker 1: off the vision board. I'm like, guys, I did this
Speaker 1: kind of ironically and it's insane. So yeah, don we
Speaker 1: can have a Vision Moore party. We'll take mushrooms and
Speaker 1: door to crack. That sounds like, say for me, Heather,
Speaker 1: you're busy, We appreciate your time, thanks for having me.
Speaker 1: We need to calm down a word, yep, before we
Speaker 1: let you go. Who needs to calm down? I'll tell you,
Speaker 1: And I'm calling one out on the women out there
Speaker 1: with ladies did a calm down when they say just
Speaker 1: have a baby? You know what I mean? Why aren't
Speaker 1: you just having the baby? You don't know what I'm
Speaker 1: going through. You don't know whether I'm dealing with fertility.
Speaker 1: You don't know whether it's not the right timing. These
Speaker 1: women who come up to you and you're like, why
Speaker 1: aren't you Why aren't you pregnant? Why don't you have
Speaker 1: a baby? Want your mom? You have no idea? Home?
Speaker 1: The funk down. Let's deal with your ovaries and I'll
Speaker 1: deal with mine. In the meantime, we can support one another.
Speaker 1: But I'm not dealing with you asked me why I'm
Speaker 1: not pregnant yet? Okay, thank you? Check. Please we hear you, Heather,
Speaker 1: We are we are you on all of that, the
Speaker 1: community that is Instagram that brings people together and podcasts.
Speaker 1: You know, it all works out. So thank you so
Speaker 1: much for your time, thank you for having me, and
Speaker 1: we'll continue to support all of your endeavors. It's awesome
Speaker 1: to see you succeed the way you are give amazing.
Speaker 1: Oh I will yeah, Well, y'all are amazing. Uh Aaron's
Speaker 1: mere number. Well you know we'll do our vision boards.
Speaker 1: I got you, We'll do our boards. Um you. Her
Speaker 1: bio says she's the best friend everybody wants. I tell
Speaker 1: everyone Charity is. So there you go. You know what
Speaker 1: I mean? There? You got him. I'll see it at him. Mother.
Speaker 1: We'll get we'll get some drinks and do some mushrooms
Speaker 1: and ex vision boards. Oh my gosh, I love you.
Speaker 1: Bie had a thank you, thank you, thank you. Calm
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