1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: Calm Down with Aaron and Chrissa is a production of 2 00:00:02,960 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 1: I Heart Radio. Hey Now hid d Big day for 3 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:12,560 Speaker 1: Aaron and I here on Calm Down Podcast. One of 4 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 1: our favorite people Heather McMahon. She is everyone's best friend. 5 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:21,640 Speaker 1: This girl is hysterical. Guys love her. Girl's lover. She's 6 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:23,599 Speaker 1: all the things. I cannot wait to talk to her. 7 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:25,760 Speaker 1: If you don't know her, you have to follow her 8 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 1: on Instagram. She's all the things. We just love her 9 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 1: she is. She's the person. When I watched her Instagram, 10 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:34,479 Speaker 1: I can't you can't have the volume off because what 11 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 1: she's saying is so hilarious and relatable and it's always 12 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:40,960 Speaker 1: what I'm sending you my girlfriend Megan, my girlfriend Jackie. 13 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 1: I'll make Jarrett watch it. Jarrett now knows her because 14 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 1: she's so funny. Her voice is so recognizable that um, 15 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 1: he's always like, Oh, is that your girl? Is that 16 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:53,200 Speaker 1: your girl? And I actually reached out to her because 17 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 1: she was having a rough go with a round of 18 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 1: fertility that she was very open with and it didn't 19 00:00:58,160 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: go well. She had to stop in the middle of it, 20 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:02,320 Speaker 1: and I was just like, listen, been there six times, 21 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 1: got it, whatever you need and It's crazy because I 22 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 1: feel like, you know, those are the things that people 23 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 1: kind of bond over, and you know, I feel like 24 00:01:10,600 --> 00:01:13,040 Speaker 1: she's my best friend, but she is. She's a time. 25 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 1: We gotta go to Atlanta. I'm actually going to be 26 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: in Atlanta for a Thursday night game this year. If 27 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 1: you want to come, Okay, and I wanted to work 28 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:23,040 Speaker 1: on Thursday, I want to know you may, but um, 29 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:25,679 Speaker 1: I want to go like there two days early and 30 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 1: go to her favorite restaurant, meet her husband, meet her mom, 31 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 1: go golfing, all the things. Yeah, we will talk to 32 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 1: her and just a little bit. As I mentioned, follow 33 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:37,959 Speaker 1: her on Instagram. It's at Heather K McMahon. Her Her 34 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 1: description of herself just says at all comedian with a 35 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 1: thick neck and thin ankles, doing the most. She's a time. 36 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 1: So more with her in a little bit. But first, sister, 37 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 1: how was your weekend? Our new sort of thing that 38 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 1: we're introducing here on the podcast because we're making it 39 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 1: up as we go. You're high and you're low. What 40 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 1: do you got the high and the low? Um? I 41 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 1: don't really know. It was a very chill weekend. My 42 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 1: sister came over. We were laughing about the tattletale episode 43 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 1: that we had, I did get it wrong. I would 44 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 1: like to clarify it here on Calm Down podcast. I 45 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: didn't tell my mom and dad about her smoking. She 46 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 1: told my mom about it, and my mom's like, oh please, 47 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:15,079 Speaker 1: if that's the worst thing. And then what I did 48 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 1: tell she did a keg stand in junior high and 49 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 1: I ran out the door and told she was that 50 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 1: was still a tattletale, just for a different thing. Okay, 51 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 1: got it and later in life, Later in life. So yeah, no, 52 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 1: very chill weekend. Hung out with some friends and we 53 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:32,119 Speaker 1: had a great time. Yeah. A lot of hockey going 54 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 1: on in our house. The playoffs are happening. My husband 55 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: used to play for the Edmonton Oilers, so he's very 56 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 1: dialed in on that. I'm dialed in on the Tampa 57 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 1: Bay Lightning series, which I'll go ahead and plug our 58 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:46,080 Speaker 1: I g I was losing my mind. I checked in 59 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 1: on the Calm Down podcast. They were down during the game, 60 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 1: so I was, you know, doing a I need to 61 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 1: calm down, and Jared's like yelling at me because I 62 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 1: live and die with every goal, every shot on goal, 63 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 1: every save. Asco Leski, let's go. You heard me. So 64 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:00,079 Speaker 1: Jared's like, calm down, and I was like, you know what, 65 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:02,919 Speaker 1: you freaking calm down because you don't know what it's 66 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:05,240 Speaker 1: like to be a fan. You're out there playing. This 67 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 1: is how fans act in the stand. I was a 68 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:11,240 Speaker 1: thousand times worse when you played. So anyways, he leaves 69 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 1: the room, thank god, because I can't watch it with him. 70 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 1: Then I go and I pour a tequila because I 71 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: was like, you know what, I'm gonna be in a 72 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:20,800 Speaker 1: better mood. I'm gonna be looser, I'm gonna be calmer. 73 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:24,639 Speaker 1: It's gonna be great. I poured tequila. These guys scored 74 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:27,360 Speaker 1: four goals after I poured the tequila. It was like 75 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 1: it was in the second quarter. It was amazing. Who 76 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: needs a rally cap? You got a rallied night, you 77 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 1: got Don Julio. So I get on the Calm Down podcast. 78 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 1: I g I'm like praising Don Julio. I found my 79 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 1: good luck charm. They lose, they lose by a goal. 80 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 1: That's on them, though, do you squander a four goal lead? 81 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: Like that's on you, right, I know. But anyways, amazing 82 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 1: Saturday game. We've got a game in a few hours 83 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 1: on this Monday got to close up this series. I mean, 84 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 1: I'm really invested, but I do. I been Saturday. I 85 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 1: had to come down stairs and watch the game because 86 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 1: I had to change it up. I couldn't watch up 87 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 1: there were They lost, so we had to be down here. 88 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: Me and how He Daddy was not invited. We had 89 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 1: to be by ourselves. They pulled it out. How's your weekend? 90 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 1: I know, I'm not into any playoff series right now, 91 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 1: gonna be honest, like, can you chext me? The other 92 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 1: night about Lebron's nonsense? And I was like, I'm not 93 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 1: even watching this, Like I don't know why. I'm just 94 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 1: not into normally. I don't know. I think because it's 95 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:28,480 Speaker 1: like I'm not gambling on anything, so I'm not as invested. 96 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 1: I don't know, because I'm like saving my money right 97 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 1: now or something. And I got it, got it? I 98 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:43,359 Speaker 1: U yeah, But you know, I don't know. Maybe you 99 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 1: know the storylines, no shock to you. I do. I 100 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 1: love all of that, so I I, yeah, I don't 101 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 1: know why, so maybe I'll maybe I'll get behind it. 102 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 1: What game we got tonight? What game is this? For 103 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:56,159 Speaker 1: the Lightning games? There's a lot of hockey games, but 104 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 1: it's different in my house because we have former you know, teammates, 105 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 1: and why was better with other games. Jared's involved in 106 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 1: the Oilers, you know, alumni organization. I live and breathe 107 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 1: the lightning. So a lot of big games on tonight, 108 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:11,320 Speaker 1: but I don't know what's going on in basketball. I 109 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:14,040 Speaker 1: turned over the other yesterday to see the Knicks game 110 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 1: because I kind of wanted to see the whole hoop 111 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:19,599 Speaker 1: about it. That's exciting, That is better when the Knicks 112 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 1: are good. Yeah, um yeah, all right, I'm gonna get 113 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get back into it. By that, I mean 114 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get my wallet out and so I can 115 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:30,160 Speaker 1: be more invested. So you can't pay attention unless you're betting. 116 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 1: What's the deal? I mean, is that a called an 117 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 1: addiction or well, I don't know if my sponsors over there, 118 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:36,919 Speaker 1: I don't know. Um no, I don't know. I'm just 119 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 1: I'm into it. But because you know why, I'm not 120 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 1: talking about it daily, think about it like once. You know, 121 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 1: we're not in on a show that talks about sports 122 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:47,159 Speaker 1: daily anymore. So I'm just sort of a little checked 123 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 1: out of I throwing myself into a lot of house 124 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 1: and home stuff, lately trying to get that company up 125 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 1: and going. So anyways, but how is that going? By 126 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 1: the way, good? I'm mom. You know, anybody that needs 127 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:01,480 Speaker 1: their home virtually signed, or if you're in the local 128 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 1: area Los Angeles or New York and be happy to 129 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 1: design your house. You know what's actually happening. Everyone's getting 130 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 1: out of their house right now because of vaccinations, so 131 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 1: they're not really interested in the pillows right now. But 132 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 1: I understand happened. Flow, it is what it is. I 133 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 1: saw this so and I was reading an article and 134 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 1: I thought of you. How they were talking about how 135 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 1: to make your bedroom cozier, how to And I'll say 136 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 1: this about my girlfriend Chrissa. She can make your coffee 137 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:27,600 Speaker 1: table and it's maybe the same coffee table you've been 138 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 1: looking at for a year, and you're like, all right, 139 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 1: this isn't you know? You can make a coffee table 140 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 1: look fabulous. You can make a console look fabulous. And 141 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:38,720 Speaker 1: I will say this article was talking about how everybody 142 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 1: kind of just has been sitting there looking at the 143 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 1: same crap in their house and they want to refresh 144 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 1: or redo because now people can come over. So if 145 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 1: you feel like you need to refresh, you need to redo. 146 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 1: Look at my girls. She can do it virtually. You 147 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: don't have to be here in l A. And I 148 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 1: will tell you little things like you've taught me, like 149 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:59,200 Speaker 1: just changing out your bed sheets, like adding pillows, you know, 150 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 1: changing out like different coffee table books and little knickknacks. 151 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:04,839 Speaker 1: That does go a long way. You think you're cute, 152 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:06,960 Speaker 1: you know, Jared, he walks around with the checklist and 153 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 1: writes to figure things out. I love you, thank you, Yes, 154 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 1: I am you know. And we'll talk to Heather about 155 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 1: it in a little bit later on, because she's got 156 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 1: a lot of different things going on and continually trying 157 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 1: to reinvent yourself, you know, I mean all the success 158 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 1: that you've had with where and yes sports pays our bills, 159 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:23,320 Speaker 1: but there's a lot of other things that we like 160 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 1: to do. I mean, even the podcast, for you know, example, 161 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 1: is something that is new for us, but something enjoyable 162 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 1: in a new platform. She's got a wildly successful podcast. Um, 163 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 1: we will talk to her about that and a whole 164 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 1: lot more. What's something that you're excited to ask her about? 165 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:38,720 Speaker 1: I love She was talking about the other day of 166 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 1: going back on the road again, and just like what 167 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 1: that's like for a comedian. We know what it's like 168 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 1: for as a sideline reporter or sports broadcast or what 169 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 1: you know, the grind is like. But she talked about 170 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 1: after shows, you know, there's nothing open except at Wendy's 171 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 1: to have a chicken sand and I'm like, yeah, I 172 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 1: get it, been there. You know, asked V to drive 173 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 1: me to wine after a game. You know, hey, V, 174 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 1: can we go to a dry through? I love the 175 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 1: tell everybody who V is. We are fortunate to have 176 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 1: V with us. He is Fox Sports Security. He looks 177 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 1: after us, and he kind of knows where the bodies 178 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 1: are buried with the both of us because you just 179 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 1: start talking to him about everyday life. He walks that, 180 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 1: you know, he walks us out on the field. He 181 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 1: stands with us. Do you know that V's a huge 182 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 1: Seahawks fan the Seahawks. That's how professionally is because he 183 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 1: doesn't even bring that in saying but we'll sit there 184 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 1: and we'll be like, oh, God, best story, so and 185 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:35,080 Speaker 1: I know we have to go. But when this year 186 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:38,560 Speaker 1: was really hard at halftime interviews because um, you know, 187 00:08:38,679 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 1: I couldn't be down on the field, so the coaches 188 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:43,680 Speaker 1: were down and I was one row up. You can't 189 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:48,480 Speaker 1: hear crap, especially in Seattle. It's loud. Pete Carroll's very 190 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:51,760 Speaker 1: fast talker. You know he's not gonna scream. I'm trying 191 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 1: to ask a question. I'm laying on the floor of 192 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 1: where the front row is because he's down low in 193 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 1: his like standing up high to try to talk to 194 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 1: me and I can't. So I'm laying on the floor 195 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 1: to get my of the stadium. You know, yes, you 196 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 1: know who's laying with me. V V wants to hear 197 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 1: for me. I'm like, I can't freaking here, and I 198 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 1: need to know if Russell's okay, like he just hit 199 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 1: his hand really hard or something like that, and what 200 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 1: is this defense gonna do to get to Jared Goff 201 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 1: and like things like that. And it's like V. I said, V, 202 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 1: I can't hear, and he's like, so he lays down 203 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:28,520 Speaker 1: on the floor. Knock it split the V dot the 204 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:30,560 Speaker 1: I curl the C T O R Y. He is 205 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:34,199 Speaker 1: victory personified that the um you know who else is 206 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 1: Heather McMahon and she's coming up next year and you're 207 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 1: the queen of our I g account handles again for 208 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 1: our listeners. And viewers at Calm Down podcast and tonight 209 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:46,520 Speaker 1: for the Lightning Game. I will not be giving a 210 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 1: period by period recap because it's bad luck. Man. All right, well, 211 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 1: Arry's superstitious. We'll talk to Heather McMahon coming up after 212 00:09:56,080 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 1: the Just Come Down podcast. You very super just show 213 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:11,800 Speaker 1: Roden's on the wall. Well you know how this works 214 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:14,320 Speaker 1: because you're a pot expert, so we don't need any 215 00:10:14,360 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 1: more precursory conversations. What up, girl, I'm gonna tell you 216 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 1: this right now. I fell in love with you because 217 00:10:20,280 --> 00:10:22,840 Speaker 1: Aaron and his friend Jen was like, I'm obsessed with Heather. 218 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 1: This was years ago. She was on your tip from 219 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 1: the jump. Then it's a good one to be on. 220 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:32,800 Speaker 1: By the way. At the Bruno Mars concert at the 221 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:37,440 Speaker 1: Super Bowl in Atlanta, she forget Bruno Mars, forget Cardi 222 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 1: b This bitch b lines to you. She starts knocking 223 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:43,240 Speaker 1: people down, she gives you the biggest hug, and she's 224 00:10:43,280 --> 00:10:46,320 Speaker 1: like obsessing. I was like, She's like, it's Heather. And 225 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:48,719 Speaker 1: then the love affair really began. And then Aaron fell 226 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:50,720 Speaker 1: in love with you, and here we are, we're all 227 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 1: just in love. Well, I love you. Can I tell 228 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 1: you something. I don't know if I'm allowed to say 229 00:10:55,160 --> 00:10:57,079 Speaker 1: this out whatever. I was just gonna say, you can 230 00:10:57,160 --> 00:11:00,040 Speaker 1: ddit this out. Later at the Bruno Mars concert, I 231 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:02,760 Speaker 1: didn't know I had never done mushrooms before. I didn't 232 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 1: know that I had micro doosed mushrooms as somebody gave 233 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 1: me a little piece of chocolate, but I didn't know 234 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:10,640 Speaker 1: that's what it was. I was like, oh, sweet treat. 235 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 1: And so halfway through that concert, they end up putting 236 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 1: me on the jumbo tron for the whole concert because 237 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:19,440 Speaker 1: I was having such at the time that the guy 238 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 1: who was running the cameras was like, this chick is 239 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:24,360 Speaker 1: losing her mind, and like this is the funniest thing ever. 240 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 1: So then they're just blasting me on mushrooms, unbeknownst to me, 241 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:30,839 Speaker 1: all over the big screen. So that's how your friend 242 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 1: found me. Quick question about that and I'm asking for 243 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:37,319 Speaker 1: a friend. Did you laugh so hard you piede your pants? 244 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:40,319 Speaker 1: I'm asking for a friend. I have never had such 245 00:11:40,320 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 1: an emotional, hysterical journey. It was the greatest night of 246 00:11:44,520 --> 00:11:46,840 Speaker 1: my life. And I didn't realize that three days later 247 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:48,640 Speaker 1: that that's what I was on. I just thought I 248 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:50,839 Speaker 1: had like a couple of white wines. I was feeling loose. 249 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:53,080 Speaker 1: It was great. Oh my god. So Heather, we have 250 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 1: so much to talk about and we don't have that 251 00:11:54,600 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 1: much time with you because you are such a busy lady. 252 00:11:56,960 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 1: Good Grief, lots of things. We got a whole TV 253 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:03,559 Speaker 1: show about your life, start from the beginning. Yeah. So 254 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 1: I mean, listen, you know, I'm in that production deal. 255 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 1: So you never know what's up and what's down with 256 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 1: these things. Hollywood, It'll get you. Yeah. So we're just 257 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: turning her script and we're waiting to get the green 258 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 1: light for the show. And the show is called Good Grief, 259 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:20,080 Speaker 1: and it's a comedy based on my life. My dad 260 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 1: passed away from cancer about six years ago, and I 261 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:25,200 Speaker 1: picked up my life and moved home and I literally 262 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:27,000 Speaker 1: moved in with my mom, and it was just like, 263 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:29,280 Speaker 1: that's really when my comedy career took off. I was 264 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:31,960 Speaker 1: living in l A, you know, going through the motions 265 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 1: and what I thought I needed to do for my career. 266 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:36,439 Speaker 1: And it wasn't until I moved back to the South 267 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 1: and I had a new perspective and like kind of 268 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:40,959 Speaker 1: the new lease on life. I was like, all right, 269 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 1: I'm in a really shitty situation. I got to make 270 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:44,719 Speaker 1: the best of it. And then that's kind of when 271 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:46,720 Speaker 1: my career took off. So this show is based on 272 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 1: like that time when I moved home after my dad passed, 273 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:52,839 Speaker 1: And is that what you keep teasing on? Absolutely not 274 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:55,600 Speaker 1: like is that what you keep teasing on your podcast? Okay, 275 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:58,040 Speaker 1: Because I was saying to Christi, she keeps saying, well, 276 00:12:58,080 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 1: I'm you know, I'm bev been grinding here. I got 277 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 1: something going on. I'm like, is that what you're doing? 278 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:04,560 Speaker 1: Or you got something else happening here? Well, no, listen, 279 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:07,360 Speaker 1: I've got I feel like very spread thin in the 280 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:10,000 Speaker 1: sense that I feel like when you're in entertainment you 281 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 1: have to have sixteen different irons in the fire. You 282 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 1: get it, Yeah, you get it. Yeah, Like if you 283 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:19,280 Speaker 1: don't have a podcast, you know how to do TikTok dances. Um, 284 00:13:19,679 --> 00:13:21,640 Speaker 1: you know, I've got a whole stand up tour. I 285 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 1: gotta finish. Like It's it's kind of crazy, the amount 286 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 1: of things. It's not just like, hey, you're an actor 287 00:13:27,080 --> 00:13:29,679 Speaker 1: and you're on a TV show anymore. Hey you're a commentator, 288 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:33,000 Speaker 1: you're doing sports, Like you have to have sixteen different 289 00:13:33,040 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 1: things going on at once or you're not doing enough. 290 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:39,640 Speaker 1: So I'm exhausted, but I'm blessed, so I'm not gonna 291 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 1: I'm not going to complain at all. Hashtag blessed throw 292 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 1: that in there. You mentioned going back home, so for 293 00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:47,760 Speaker 1: the for people that don't know you, which is only 294 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:50,040 Speaker 1: a handful of people, sort of walk us back. And 295 00:13:50,080 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 1: you mentioned being in l A. Did you have aspirations 296 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 1: of being an actress? I mean, like where did where 297 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 1: did that career start to present day? Um sort of 298 00:13:57,920 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 1: broad strokes for you. Well, I moved to New York 299 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:03,480 Speaker 1: right after college. I've got in a theater arts degree 300 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 1: in Mississippi, and I was like, okay, this is it. 301 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:08,720 Speaker 1: Like I knew I wanted to do like SNL or 302 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:11,280 Speaker 1: sketch comedy. And then I got more in the stand up. 303 00:14:11,280 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 1: And then from New York, I mean to l A. 304 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:15,719 Speaker 1: And I was like, this is exactly where I need 305 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 1: to be. And then I kind of had this oh 306 00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:21,040 Speaker 1: ship aha life moment happened. My dad died very quickly 307 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 1: of cancer, and so I just kind of picked up 308 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 1: my life, moved back to Atlanta. I thought it was 309 00:14:25,280 --> 00:14:27,920 Speaker 1: just gonna be like a two week thing. A month thing. 310 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 1: You know, I come in like a hero, helped my 311 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:32,320 Speaker 1: mom pick up the pieces, helped my sister and I 312 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 1: figure out what our new life looks like without our dad. 313 00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:37,920 Speaker 1: And then I was here and I stayed, and it 314 00:14:38,000 --> 00:14:42,120 Speaker 1: was really wild how my career shifted once I think 315 00:14:42,560 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 1: I had gone through something I don't want to say, like, yeah, 316 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:47,560 Speaker 1: it was traumatic, but I had just a totally different 317 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 1: new perspective and it made my comedy so much more 318 00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:53,480 Speaker 1: rich because I I was speaking from such from just 319 00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 1: a different um, a different level, I don't know. And 320 00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:58,720 Speaker 1: then and then I think it made me more relatable 321 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:01,120 Speaker 1: and people were like, oh, okay, she's speaking from her 322 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:03,360 Speaker 1: real truth instead of putting on all these characters all 323 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:05,920 Speaker 1: the time. And so now, I mean, I still dabble 324 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 1: and do characters, and I loved to put on a 325 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:09,680 Speaker 1: wig and a Fannie pack and have some fun. But 326 00:15:09,760 --> 00:15:12,800 Speaker 1: really my sense of like comedy is just my style 327 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 1: of comedy storytelling and like, you know, sharing my own 328 00:15:15,400 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 1: human experience. I can relate to that, and I like 329 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 1: it is. You know, I think I'm hilarious, but you're 330 00:15:21,120 --> 00:15:24,560 Speaker 1: so right, people can relate to you. I get stocked publicly. 331 00:15:24,680 --> 00:15:27,120 Speaker 1: I go through this massive trial. I get cervical cancer. 332 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 1: And then women are like, we like her, She's not 333 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:32,120 Speaker 1: just a hoe on the sidelines. Now we like her. 334 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 1: Now she's cool to be. You like me, you really 335 00:15:38,280 --> 00:15:41,240 Speaker 1: like me. But we know the grind you know of 336 00:15:41,280 --> 00:15:43,760 Speaker 1: being a sideline reporter. We know the grinds of being 337 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 1: in small towns or big towns, living out of a suitcase, 338 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:49,120 Speaker 1: being at hotels. I loved on your podcast this week. 339 00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:52,120 Speaker 1: You talked about your tour and like you eat like ship, 340 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 1: you get cheese boards, and then what's open at midnight? 341 00:15:55,080 --> 00:15:58,240 Speaker 1: A freaking Wendy's went by the way, those chicken sandwiches 342 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:00,600 Speaker 1: I would house. It's not a problem. And that's the 343 00:16:00,640 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 1: same for us, Like we get done with the game. 344 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:05,440 Speaker 1: We've jacked ourselves up on coffee all day, and I'm 345 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 1: housing three red wines and a burger. But just talk 346 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:11,200 Speaker 1: about the grind of being a comedian so we can 347 00:16:11,240 --> 00:16:13,600 Speaker 1: relate to it, you know, because we're not in that world. 348 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 1: We're in sport. Well, listen, if you're doing like a 349 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 1: local show, you know you're in a dingy bar or 350 00:16:18,640 --> 00:16:21,480 Speaker 1: like a basement Imbov club. I mean I came up 351 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 1: in like the upright citizens Brigade World where we would 352 00:16:24,320 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 1: literally do shows underneath the grocery store in this like 353 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 1: dingy little club in New York. And then being on 354 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 1: the road. I mean, listen, I love it as much 355 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:34,320 Speaker 1: as I love doing TV and film and all that. 356 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 1: You can never take away that high, that rush you 357 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 1: get from a live audience. But I mean, you know, 358 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:41,720 Speaker 1: I thought my first big tour was going to be 359 00:16:41,760 --> 00:16:43,840 Speaker 1: like staying at the Ritz. We were staying at like 360 00:16:43,880 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 1: a romantic end by the airport because we had to 361 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:48,960 Speaker 1: catch it. You know, when you don't get out stage 362 00:16:48,960 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 1: so one am the night before. I mean, it is 363 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:53,080 Speaker 1: not glamorous. It is a hustle. It is a grind. 364 00:16:53,440 --> 00:16:55,760 Speaker 1: You're just you sweat for two weeks on the road. 365 00:16:55,800 --> 00:16:57,400 Speaker 1: You're like, I don't know why I'm wet, but I'm 366 00:16:57,440 --> 00:17:00,400 Speaker 1: just wet. That was me bit of alcohol because I'm 367 00:17:00,480 --> 00:17:04,000 Speaker 1: drinking every day. Hair dryer connected to the wall in 368 00:17:04,080 --> 00:17:06,360 Speaker 1: the bathroom, you know, that's when it's go. That thing's 369 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:09,240 Speaker 1: overheating because you can only use it for thirty seconds 370 00:17:09,280 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 1: and that thing always fucking breaks and then you got 371 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:13,000 Speaker 1: to call down. You're never getting that thing within two 372 00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:17,240 Speaker 1: hours and forget it. Got to change rooms. Yeah, when 373 00:17:17,240 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 1: did you you know you mentioned obviously the the I'm 374 00:17:21,280 --> 00:17:23,520 Speaker 1: very sorry of course, of the passing of your father 375 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:27,120 Speaker 1: and how quick that happened and changing sort of your 376 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:29,760 Speaker 1: perspective on everything. Did it kind of make you go 377 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:34,760 Speaker 1: fuck it? Like you really giving yourself the license to say, like, 378 00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:37,719 Speaker 1: I don't care if I make fun of myself or 379 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:40,040 Speaker 1: this or that anymore, because the loss of someone so 380 00:17:40,080 --> 00:17:43,720 Speaker 1: significant in your life puts it all into perspective. Oh absolutely, 381 00:17:43,760 --> 00:17:45,840 Speaker 1: I didn't give a ship and so kind of now 382 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 1: and listen, my comedy hasn't changed and still who I am. 383 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:52,119 Speaker 1: I'm always very self deprecating, like I always make fun 384 00:17:52,160 --> 00:17:54,479 Speaker 1: of myself first. But it was interesting. I kind of 385 00:17:54,920 --> 00:17:58,399 Speaker 1: went through the grieving process publicly and but it was 386 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:00,920 Speaker 1: fartic for me, like I would share an Instagram stories 387 00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:04,000 Speaker 1: and make videos and talk about it through characters, and 388 00:18:04,119 --> 00:18:06,639 Speaker 1: it just became such a relatable thing where I was like, Oh, 389 00:18:06,760 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 1: when you're going through grief, you really feel like you're 390 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:11,119 Speaker 1: the only one who's experiencing it. And then once you 391 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:12,920 Speaker 1: go through and you're like, oh, there's so many other 392 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:15,439 Speaker 1: people who have experiences. There's so many other folks who 393 00:18:15,440 --> 00:18:17,960 Speaker 1: are breathing different things. And I especially think over the 394 00:18:18,040 --> 00:18:21,520 Speaker 1: last year, like all the ship we've been through, um 395 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 1: that everybody's kind of now had this collective like oh 396 00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 1: ship moment, and it's just kind of I don't know. 397 00:18:27,560 --> 00:18:29,520 Speaker 1: It just pushes me to live in a joyful lane. 398 00:18:29,640 --> 00:18:32,600 Speaker 1: Like my my sense of comedy is just I like 399 00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:34,600 Speaker 1: to be joyful and I like to giggle. And life's 400 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:37,840 Speaker 1: too short. You gotta enjoy every day and not take 401 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:40,600 Speaker 1: yourself too seriously, like yes, fuck it, I don't care. 402 00:18:40,720 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 1: You know, if you don't like me, then then keep 403 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 1: moving because I gotta do what I gotta do and 404 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 1: bring myself joy. Where is Jeff Daniels is the real question? 405 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:53,640 Speaker 1: Where so that dreambok For those of your who are 406 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:55,800 Speaker 1: listening and you don't know, my husband's name is Jeff Daniels, 407 00:18:55,880 --> 00:18:57,800 Speaker 1: But not the Jeff Daniels for the movie Dumb and 408 00:18:57,880 --> 00:19:01,320 Speaker 1: Dumber or um the news He's not the famous actor 409 00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:05,640 Speaker 1: and Aaron's ex boyfriend. You know, Heather that the opening 410 00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:09,920 Speaker 1: scene in Newsroom, Jeff Daniels comes back from vacation with 411 00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:13,200 Speaker 1: this horror in the Bahamas. Now, of course, she's never 412 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:16,600 Speaker 1: actually dated Jeff Daniels, but Barren Sorkin writes in her 413 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:19,720 Speaker 1: as the girl that he's dating in the show. How 414 00:19:19,720 --> 00:19:22,159 Speaker 1: funny is that, Jeff Daniels. Look, it's all coming together. 415 00:19:22,480 --> 00:19:25,320 Speaker 1: I did not know this. Also, how did you feel 416 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:29,280 Speaker 1: about that? I didn't know about it until people. You know, 417 00:19:29,440 --> 00:19:31,960 Speaker 1: I've never gonna be honest, didn't really watch the newsroom 418 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:34,280 Speaker 1: at all. And then people started like talking about, you know, 419 00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:36,480 Speaker 1: my name being used, and I was like, okay, first 420 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:39,120 Speaker 1: of all, could I make an appearance? Of all, could 421 00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 1: I get paid? Would be great? And then third of all, 422 00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 1: g m A allowed me to work, you know, the 423 00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:47,840 Speaker 1: red carpet for the Oscars, and I actually met him 424 00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:49,880 Speaker 1: and I was like dying. I was like, hey, I'm 425 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:53,520 Speaker 1: Aaron Andrews. Could I possibly be in season two? What 426 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:56,560 Speaker 1: are we doing here? Obviously that went over really well 427 00:19:56,600 --> 00:19:58,480 Speaker 1: because I didn't get paid or be in it. But 428 00:19:58,520 --> 00:20:02,240 Speaker 1: you know, so the only Daniels you're saying absolutely not. 429 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:06,440 Speaker 1: The only JAF Daniels I'm sleeping with is my Italian salient, 430 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:10,480 Speaker 1: And um, yeah, I mean he's upstairs reading a golf magazine. 431 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:13,719 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, he's obsessed. He's like semi 432 00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:17,359 Speaker 1: retired right now, which means he's just trying to He 433 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:19,240 Speaker 1: plays golf seven days a week. I don't know what 434 00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 1: he does for work. He could be in the mafia. 435 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:24,000 Speaker 1: I don't know, um, but I asked him the other day. 436 00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:26,200 Speaker 1: I was like, for you practicing for the Senior Tour 437 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:30,040 Speaker 1: because I don't I don't know what's going on. Jeff, Yeah, 438 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 1: you need to get a job. So I'm just enjoying 439 00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:35,040 Speaker 1: himself and laying golf all the time. I love it. 440 00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:37,639 Speaker 1: You guys have a great relationship. It's just one of 441 00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:39,919 Speaker 1: the many things people love about you is that you 442 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 1: share everything. When did when did this? I mean, by 443 00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 1: the way, you know, we're not going to let you 444 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:47,040 Speaker 1: get through this without mentioning the Jay law siding in 445 00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:51,320 Speaker 1: the background. Casual Jennifer Lawrence, She's just sitting on the couch. 446 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:55,600 Speaker 1: What's training here? Okay? This is the wild thing. You 447 00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:57,480 Speaker 1: forget that, like you know, you have a podcast, and 448 00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:59,679 Speaker 1: you forget that, like people actually tune into this stuff, 449 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:02,000 Speaker 1: or like I forget that people actually follow me on 450 00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:04,760 Speaker 1: like social media. So I didn't evenil one day and 451 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:07,360 Speaker 1: it's just say from Jennifer Lawrence, She's like, Hey, huge fan, 452 00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:10,680 Speaker 1: love the podcast, would love the chest shut. I thought 453 00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:14,240 Speaker 1: it was like Jennifer refreshes refreshing. Yeah, well, I thought 454 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:16,760 Speaker 1: it was somebody from accounting. I had no idea. I 455 00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:19,359 Speaker 1: was like, oh, somebody. I I just figured like I 456 00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:21,920 Speaker 1: owed someone money. I did not think twice about it. 457 00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:24,200 Speaker 1: And then she's like call me, So I'm like, okay, 458 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:27,040 Speaker 1: I'll call Jennifer Lawrence an accounting like what what's this 459 00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:29,520 Speaker 1: bill I owe? And then literally it was just her 460 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,680 Speaker 1: and she's like, hey, I think your hysterical. You've got 461 00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:34,399 Speaker 1: me through quarantine and this last year and we just 462 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:36,680 Speaker 1: became like best friends and she's a dolt. She's so 463 00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:40,679 Speaker 1: so great. Oh my god, it seems like everything. So 464 00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:42,679 Speaker 1: I worked the entertainment show Extra and there were some 465 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:45,880 Speaker 1: real assholes. Let's just you know, we won't name Jennifer 466 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:53,879 Speaker 1: Lopez right now, but let's get it quiet, let's get um. 467 00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:57,720 Speaker 1: But Jennifer Lawrence I was always like, loved interviewing her 468 00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:00,439 Speaker 1: because she is just what you said, like would be 469 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:02,719 Speaker 1: that person that sends the email like, hey love you, 470 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:04,960 Speaker 1: let's be friends. I wanted to be friends with her, 471 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 1: but she by proxy, I feel like we're all in 472 00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:10,880 Speaker 1: this together. But yeah, she's amazing. From afar so great. 473 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:12,760 Speaker 1: And I gotta say, heard some slid in my d 474 00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,159 Speaker 1: MS a while ago and I was like, oh my god, 475 00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:18,879 Speaker 1: no I did. I freaked out. And then I just 476 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:20,879 Speaker 1: adore you because you've been like sending you the kindest 477 00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:23,920 Speaker 1: messages through fertility and all this ship I've been going through. 478 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:27,320 Speaker 1: And it's just interesting though, because this is how you 479 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:29,840 Speaker 1: meet people now in the modern day. It's not weird Moore. 480 00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:32,159 Speaker 1: Just to get an email from somebody's like, yo, watch yourself, 481 00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 1: think you're great, let's be friends. I love it. I 482 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:35,840 Speaker 1: just think it's very late. That's how I slept with 483 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:38,480 Speaker 1: some people. Heather. You know, you just gotta you gotta 484 00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:41,080 Speaker 1: do it. You know, I was a single gal out 485 00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:42,720 Speaker 1: there in the streets. I said, you take this to 486 00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:44,840 Speaker 1: the d m s and you know what, that blue 487 00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:47,960 Speaker 1: check goes far because they're not responding with that check. 488 00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:51,160 Speaker 1: So you get a verification in here, you know which. 489 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:53,960 Speaker 1: By the way, Heather, somebody, we've all had our fair 490 00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:57,919 Speaker 1: share of meth needles amongst us three and I you know, 491 00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 1: big hug to you, and we've all I've done this 492 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:04,040 Speaker 1: and are doing this. Yeah you started today again. Well, 493 00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:06,520 Speaker 1: here's the here's the irony of all this. I was 494 00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:09,040 Speaker 1: trying to freeze my eggs because I'm, you know, thirty 495 00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:11,040 Speaker 1: four in my career. Things you're happening, I was like, 496 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:13,720 Speaker 1: I gotta like have options, and then I got to 497 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:15,680 Speaker 1: do started to freeze the eggs, and they were like, 498 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:17,960 Speaker 1: your body is not responding to this. So it was 499 00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 1: a real mind funk to be like, wait a minute, 500 00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:22,840 Speaker 1: hold up. I thought it was being proactive and then 501 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,920 Speaker 1: it's not working. So therefore I had no idea fertility 502 00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:29,320 Speaker 1: was an issue, and now I'm going to second round 503 00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 1: and if not, then I think I'm just gonna you know, 504 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:34,919 Speaker 1: we'll see. But you know, nobody tells you there's no 505 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:37,439 Speaker 1: manuale when you get to college, like, hey, you should 506 00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:40,680 Speaker 1: learn about fertility. I really think there should be some 507 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:44,280 Speaker 1: sort of course, like a core curriculum class in school 508 00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:46,679 Speaker 1: where you gotta learn your freshman year, this is how 509 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:49,679 Speaker 1: your ovaries worked, you know, like this is this is 510 00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:53,960 Speaker 1: what no one tells you until it's too late. M M. 511 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:56,680 Speaker 1: I know, I went. I went. I mean this one 512 00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:58,880 Speaker 1: told me. She she encouraged me to go and then 513 00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:00,800 Speaker 1: ended up going to the same place and helped me 514 00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:02,879 Speaker 1: through all of it. I mean that's leaning on your 515 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:05,760 Speaker 1: girlfriends for supporting that, and I end up only getting 516 00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:08,040 Speaker 1: six eggs. I don't even know if they're viable or whatever. 517 00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:10,600 Speaker 1: So it's like, you know, I thought that i'd have 518 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:12,680 Speaker 1: a lot more. Anyways, we don't. You know, we never know. 519 00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:14,400 Speaker 1: But it's good that you can lean on each other 520 00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:17,600 Speaker 1: and support each other. Six times over here, I freaking 521 00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:20,320 Speaker 1: had six times. Look, it is a time, but I 522 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:22,600 Speaker 1: mean there is some real and I'll tell you I 523 00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:25,480 Speaker 1: when I started, you got me through quarantine too. I 524 00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 1: know I'm not j Lon and I get it, but 525 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:30,240 Speaker 1: there are times that I am laughing my ass off 526 00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:33,080 Speaker 1: and I'm watching you on i G and my husband's like, God, 527 00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:37,480 Speaker 1: she's hilarious, and like I was playing your IVF stories 528 00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:40,080 Speaker 1: for him because I'm dying to know how Jeff was you. 529 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:42,120 Speaker 1: I remember you talked about one of your girlfriends came 530 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,439 Speaker 1: over and you mixed she had They're mixed it for 531 00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:47,840 Speaker 1: you whatever. I mean, I've actually been wasted because we 532 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 1: were celebrating that we had just gotten one of the 533 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:52,679 Speaker 1: embryos that we had worked so hard for. So we 534 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:55,400 Speaker 1: got hammered in our house and then my girlfriend called 535 00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:56,960 Speaker 1: me and said, can you come do this, and I'm 536 00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:59,560 Speaker 1: like looking at the pist, like, oh shit, do I 537 00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:03,080 Speaker 1: have this right? What how is Jeff when you're injecting? 538 00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:06,159 Speaker 1: What is he like? Because mind's watching Seinfeld laughing, not 539 00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:09,560 Speaker 1: helping me. Yeah, Jeff isn't either, and his his thing 540 00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:11,600 Speaker 1: is that he is a fear of needles because he 541 00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 1: has baby veins that he always special treatment when he 542 00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:20,080 Speaker 1: gives blood. Listen, I'm telling you I've learned so much 543 00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:22,159 Speaker 1: ages about how the female body works. But I'm like, 544 00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:25,520 Speaker 1: we can do anything. I mean, listen, he's a support, 545 00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:27,679 Speaker 1: but he's not gonna inject me, and honestly, I wouldn't 546 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 1: want him to. I'm like, no, you've got he He 547 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 1: has like flicked fingers and he's always kind of like jumpy. 548 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:35,520 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't need you to be injecting, no, 549 00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 1: m but don't. But have an open mind this time around, 550 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:41,800 Speaker 1: because listen, this whole thing that I found out is 551 00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:45,679 Speaker 1: it's a freaking science project. Your first time, it's like, 552 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:47,959 Speaker 1: unless we're cute and we're twenties six and we have 553 00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:52,000 Speaker 1: seventeen million eggs to freeze, I'm adorable. I obviously didn't 554 00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:54,320 Speaker 1: get that the second time around. They're like playing with 555 00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:57,359 Speaker 1: the potions. Right, It's like Harry Potter, they're playing with 556 00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,520 Speaker 1: the mixtures. Then you're putting it in and then that 557 00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:01,560 Speaker 1: may not work. I mean, like I said, I did 558 00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:05,040 Speaker 1: it six times. What a treat. I I got in 559 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,359 Speaker 1: the worst fight with my husband about peanut butter in 560 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:10,359 Speaker 1: a smoothie. Like we broke up as I was hormonal. 561 00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:12,520 Speaker 1: I mean, I know you've been talking about how hormonal 562 00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:16,520 Speaker 1: you are, but it's fine. You're so normal, Okay, Okay, 563 00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:19,320 Speaker 1: I needed to hear that you are. You are exactly. 564 00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:22,239 Speaker 1: You're not alone on that. And speaking of marriage, as 565 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:24,520 Speaker 1: though Heather you were going to have a big wedding 566 00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:27,240 Speaker 1: in Italy, you're still gonna have one, right, I can 567 00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,679 Speaker 1: have a big yeah. But yeah, you guys ended up 568 00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 1: getting married to I got married during quarantine. I also 569 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:33,160 Speaker 1: met my husband like five minutes before I got married, 570 00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:34,920 Speaker 1: because I was like, look, someone's into me, so let's 571 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:38,399 Speaker 1: just let's lock it up before he before he changes 572 00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:42,320 Speaker 1: his mind. I mean five So I rushed my situation. 573 00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:44,040 Speaker 1: But you guys got married in quarantine, but still are 574 00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:47,120 Speaker 1: going to have the big wedding. Yeah, I mean I 575 00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:49,959 Speaker 1: I specifically chose to have a wedding in Italy so 576 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:51,760 Speaker 1: that I could cut the fat and I wouldn't have 577 00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,240 Speaker 1: like six hundred stories sisters show up from the University 578 00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:58,080 Speaker 1: of Missiffic. But then, um, now we had to rush 579 00:26:58,119 --> 00:26:59,320 Speaker 1: and go to the courthouse by the end of the 580 00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:01,119 Speaker 1: year because they're Everything that we've had to do has 581 00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:03,800 Speaker 1: been so non glamorous. Our accountant was like, hey, you'll 582 00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:05,920 Speaker 1: save a lot of money if you file jointly. So 583 00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:08,959 Speaker 1: it was like December one and we were like rushing 584 00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:12,439 Speaker 1: to the courthouse to save a couple of dollars um. 585 00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:14,359 Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean listen, at this point, we pushed 586 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,440 Speaker 1: it off another year. I'm like, do I want to have 587 00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:18,840 Speaker 1: have the party? Yes? Well I were why did this point? 588 00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,520 Speaker 1: Probably not, you know, but I'm always an animal break 589 00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 1: gal anyways, So but I'm hoping to have that party 590 00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:27,879 Speaker 1: one day. Yeah, I love it, as as noticed to 591 00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:29,840 Speaker 1: the Oh sorry, you go ahead. No, I was just 592 00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:31,679 Speaker 1: gonna say, what's your favorite I was thinking about this 593 00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:33,600 Speaker 1: last night because we were talking about Italy and how 594 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:36,600 Speaker 1: we can't wait to go back favorite dish in Italy, 595 00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,720 Speaker 1: favorite just restaurant? What do you got for me? Because 596 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:41,399 Speaker 1: I don't know where you like to go in Italy. 597 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:45,040 Speaker 1: I go everywhere, but I am okay, my heart isn't Tuscany, 598 00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:49,240 Speaker 1: I said, I haven't been there yet. Girl, Well we've 599 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:53,520 Speaker 1: just set a Malfi coast love Amalfi. It's yeah, yeah, yeah, 600 00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:57,639 Speaker 1: very very ririch. Um. I love Tuscany though, because I 601 00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:59,560 Speaker 1: love just like you can get into these tiny little 602 00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:01,880 Speaker 1: town here's one of my favorite restaurants. I don't even 603 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:03,800 Speaker 1: know the name of it. That. It's this tinytown name 604 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,879 Speaker 1: called monthro Gione, and you just go in and you 605 00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:08,960 Speaker 1: just order whatever they're cooking and they just make it. 606 00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:11,960 Speaker 1: It's not one specific dish, it's just It's also that 607 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:13,880 Speaker 1: you can drink like three bubbles of wine at lunch 608 00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:16,920 Speaker 1: and it's never frowned upon. You know, is there ever 609 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,200 Speaker 1: an early time? I mean I may or may not 610 00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:21,480 Speaker 1: have already opened up a Corona light that's sitting over there. 611 00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:23,760 Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean it's a Monday. We're here, 612 00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:27,600 Speaker 1: you're right, right, I mean? Why not? Um? You know 613 00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:29,720 Speaker 1: your podcast you mentioned to Jay law sending you the 614 00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:32,360 Speaker 1: email because she loved it. She's not alone. Um, why 615 00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:34,960 Speaker 1: did you want to start a podcast? And what has been? 616 00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:37,760 Speaker 1: As you know, we're newbies in the space. What would 617 00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:39,840 Speaker 1: be a piece of advice that you could give us 618 00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 1: the pros and the best advice that you got and 619 00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:46,960 Speaker 1: the one thing we shouldn't do. Great question. Well, you know, 620 00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:50,960 Speaker 1: it's interesting doing comedy. I think that the podcast is 621 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:54,840 Speaker 1: just another extension of like stand up and it's interesting. 622 00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:57,680 Speaker 1: I got so um bogged down and trying to have 623 00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:59,720 Speaker 1: like these perfect guests and these big names, and I 624 00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:01,800 Speaker 1: felt like, oh, I've got to have people, and I've 625 00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:03,600 Speaker 1: gotta have somebody else carry it. But then it's like 626 00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 1: I was carrying my own ship. So nowadays I just teased. 627 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:09,520 Speaker 1: For the last like four weeks on my podcast, I've 628 00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:11,840 Speaker 1: been like we had a huge exciting guest coming in 629 00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:15,040 Speaker 1: that I've had no one on It's just me, and 630 00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:17,600 Speaker 1: those end up being like the episodes that uh like 631 00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:20,000 Speaker 1: people enjoy the most, where it's just me jogging to 632 00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:21,880 Speaker 1: a wall for an hour and a half. You know. 633 00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:24,240 Speaker 1: But I think it's just don't put the pressure on 634 00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:27,240 Speaker 1: yourself to try and make it perfect. It's just whatever 635 00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:29,320 Speaker 1: you're feeling in that moment is what you got to 636 00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:33,080 Speaker 1: roll with, you know. I just I think we all 637 00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:36,160 Speaker 1: try to make everything so perfect and and tie up 638 00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:38,120 Speaker 1: with a button and a bow. But like, screw it, 639 00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:41,480 Speaker 1: just say you're freaking feeling you know. I gotta tell you. 640 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:44,560 Speaker 1: My girlfriend she texted me, whatever day it was the 641 00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:47,160 Speaker 1: day after your last one came out, and you were 642 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:51,200 Speaker 1: talking about being out and we are back and the 643 00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:55,240 Speaker 1: Neo song being on and you were, you know, getting 644 00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:58,440 Speaker 1: after it, and she just texted me and she goes, you, guys, 645 00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:02,240 Speaker 1: this podcast, I like feel it in my soul. Well, 646 00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:05,760 Speaker 1: cut to Saturday. We were feeling a lot of things 647 00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:08,600 Speaker 1: in our soul. We were all together and um, we 648 00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:10,560 Speaker 1: were just having a time. And as I kept saying, 649 00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 1: we were passing the remote around of who wanted to 650 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:16,440 Speaker 1: play what music. Wise, someone put on like a prayer. 651 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,960 Speaker 1: I started re enacting the video. I was screaming, give 652 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:21,800 Speaker 1: me a PEPSI. A lot of my friends are in 653 00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:24,320 Speaker 1: their early thirties, so they didn't get it. Um, but 654 00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:26,960 Speaker 1: I was like, give me a PEPSI. My girlfriend who 655 00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:29,440 Speaker 1: had texted me about you, I was like, her name 656 00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:32,200 Speaker 1: is Heather as Well. I'm like, hey, this is like 657 00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,960 Speaker 1: the podcast, and she's like, I feel it in my soul. 658 00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:37,560 Speaker 1: Like it was just we were dropping down, you know, 659 00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:40,200 Speaker 1: like like you and the hair was getting wrapped around 660 00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:43,240 Speaker 1: like it was a time I missed. I'm not even 661 00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:45,160 Speaker 1: a nightclub girl, but I missed being in like a 662 00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:49,560 Speaker 1: tight bandage dress from like BB What was it? What 663 00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:52,000 Speaker 1: was that? That one we could never afford so we 664 00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 1: could never knocked off? Yeah, we couldn't be knock off. Yeah, 665 00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:57,560 Speaker 1: I thought it was bab and then somebody said it 666 00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,600 Speaker 1: was baby, And I'm like, if I stands you close 667 00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:03,000 Speaker 1: to a fire or a loose cigarette in this dress, 668 00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:05,200 Speaker 1: like the whole place is going to burn down. And 669 00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:08,560 Speaker 1: I'm not talking about my extensions, but the dress. Yeah, 670 00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:11,720 Speaker 1: the dress, I mean those I just I went on 671 00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:13,440 Speaker 1: this girls trip with some of my girlfriends and we 672 00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:15,400 Speaker 1: were just like in a beach far and they're blasting 673 00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:17,880 Speaker 1: like pitfull, which is like my favorite artist, and I 674 00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:20,360 Speaker 1: just felt so alive. I had a cold drink in 675 00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:22,960 Speaker 1: my ind and I just hyped. The hair was matted 676 00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:24,600 Speaker 1: to the back of my neck. I was so sweaty 677 00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:26,760 Speaker 1: from dancing, and I was like, I feel slutty and 678 00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:30,880 Speaker 1: I feel fabulous right Well, when Mr worldwidees on, nothing 679 00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:33,320 Speaker 1: can go wrong, but it is, can you? I can't. 680 00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:35,000 Speaker 1: I mean, there's already a little bit of chaos in 681 00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:38,560 Speaker 1: the streets because everyone just like, Okay, this summer is 682 00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:42,280 Speaker 1: gonna a lot of people are getting STDs pregnant. Things 683 00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:47,160 Speaker 1: are happening over here because while on I mean, I'm 684 00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:49,120 Speaker 1: not even mad at it, we don't even know how 685 00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:51,640 Speaker 1: to control ourselves. And that's the thing. Like when things 686 00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:53,120 Speaker 1: started to kind of open up, but I was just 687 00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:55,800 Speaker 1: going back out for work meetings and working again, I'm like, oh, 688 00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:58,840 Speaker 1: I like social butterfly, and I don't know how to 689 00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:01,720 Speaker 1: like have a pool call Brsachia with somebody. I didn't 690 00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:03,240 Speaker 1: even know like what to do with my body, Like 691 00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:05,360 Speaker 1: my body language has been weird. So then when I 692 00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:08,160 Speaker 1: really got to like let my hair down, I was like, oh, yeah, 693 00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:10,520 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna be clubbing this summer. I don't know why, 694 00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:13,240 Speaker 1: but just gonna find me in a dirty nightlill probably 695 00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:16,360 Speaker 1: by myself, not even when, not even with my girlfriends. 696 00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,680 Speaker 1: Just I'm gonna go out for a solo drip. I 697 00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:21,680 Speaker 1: died when you were on your I G and you 698 00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:24,000 Speaker 1: had just you I think you were visiting New York 699 00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:26,400 Speaker 1: and you were like you had a cab salve in 700 00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:28,200 Speaker 1: your hand and you were like, this is just how 701 00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:31,760 Speaker 1: I feel. You ordered a goddamn a rugula pizza or something. 702 00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:34,480 Speaker 1: I was like dying because I get it. Yeah, like 703 00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:36,800 Speaker 1: we just want to be back to that, back to it. 704 00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:42,080 Speaker 1: How is Atlanta these days? It's hot, It's hot. It's great. 705 00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:44,480 Speaker 1: I mean, I never It's so funny. Every time I 706 00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:47,000 Speaker 1: leave Atlanta, it pulls me back, you know, I like 707 00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:48,880 Speaker 1: left to go do the thing, and then it just 708 00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:51,080 Speaker 1: drags me back. And so we were living in New 709 00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:53,240 Speaker 1: York during the pandemic and came down here to keep 710 00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 1: an eye on my mom. And my husband looked at me, 711 00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:57,280 Speaker 1: and he's a born and raised New Yorker and he 712 00:32:57,360 --> 00:32:58,520 Speaker 1: was the one who was like, you want to get 713 00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:00,040 Speaker 1: out of New York. I was like, you said it. 714 00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:01,800 Speaker 1: I didn't. But if you're the New Yorker and you 715 00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:05,440 Speaker 1: want about I'm reading about Yeah, it's great. I mean 716 00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:08,120 Speaker 1: I love being here. I love being back in the South. 717 00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:10,960 Speaker 1: So we're having to go down. How's your mom? We 718 00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:13,959 Speaker 1: love your mom? I mean, who doesn't what I hoped? 719 00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:17,760 Speaker 1: She just tells it like it is. Yes, an looks great, 720 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:20,800 Speaker 1: Yes she does. Listen. Okay, since y'all are in like 721 00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:23,520 Speaker 1: you know the world and I know I know, especially Aaron, 722 00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:28,080 Speaker 1: who knows um big like football owners. My mom My 723 00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:34,440 Speaker 1: mom is looking for like uhst Arthur Blank Arthur. Well 724 00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:38,000 Speaker 1: he's got a girl. Well, yes, they all do until 725 00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:42,360 Speaker 1: you know, gay meet your mom. Yeah, that's a good idea. 726 00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:44,840 Speaker 1: That is great for me, hot on the trail. For 727 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:47,680 Speaker 1: your mom, that'd be perfect. And my mom who always 728 00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:49,680 Speaker 1: say she's like, I didn't understand why these girls go 729 00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:51,560 Speaker 1: for the play It go for the guy who owns 730 00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:55,440 Speaker 1: the team. And I'm like, yeah, yeah, man, who's signing 731 00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:59,440 Speaker 1: those checks? Mom? That's right, I love it. We gotta 732 00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:02,520 Speaker 1: find well. I mean, your rolodex is way more extensive 733 00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:04,560 Speaker 1: than ours. I feel like you could connect some dots, 734 00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:08,640 Speaker 1: but mine. Yeah no, I know, I know, like yeah, 735 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,120 Speaker 1: I know Oscar winners, but they don't they have any 736 00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:14,800 Speaker 1: connections to you know. I need a sports owner. I 737 00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:18,520 Speaker 1: need some guy. By the way, Oscar winners are football rich. 738 00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:21,840 Speaker 1: You know, there's a different different rich. Hey can I 739 00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:24,200 Speaker 1: because I lived in Atlanta for a while, I still 740 00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:25,920 Speaker 1: have a four or four number. I may give it 741 00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:27,320 Speaker 1: to you just because I want you to have it. 742 00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:31,479 Speaker 1: Um oh I well, um, but you always talk about 743 00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:33,399 Speaker 1: the Henhouse and I want to go there so bad. 744 00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:36,239 Speaker 1: It's the Henhouse right which called hen Mother cook House 745 00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:39,760 Speaker 1: and it's sorry hen Mother. Yeah, hen Mother Cookous. It's amazing. 746 00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:42,400 Speaker 1: But if you didn't ever go to the Flying Biscuit, 747 00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:45,880 Speaker 1: because I would go there every second day. I loved 748 00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:48,960 Speaker 1: the Flying Biscuit. Let's love the Flying Biscuit. But once 749 00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:51,360 Speaker 1: you have hand Mother Cookous, it'll change your life. And 750 00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:54,200 Speaker 1: I found Chefs Rayah. I literally was like bitching on 751 00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:56,960 Speaker 1: um Instagram one day. I was like, where is your 752 00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:58,719 Speaker 1: like and I'm gonna move back. Where do I get 753 00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:01,239 Speaker 1: great breakfast? And she messaged me She's like, girl on 754 00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:03,080 Speaker 1: down the street from your house. So it is in 755 00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:06,080 Speaker 1: the birds, but it's incredible, and I think Atlanta is 756 00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:07,640 Speaker 1: one of these cool cities where I think it is 757 00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:10,680 Speaker 1: the best of everything we have incoment restaurants scene. We've 758 00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:13,800 Speaker 1: got Southern hospitality, we've got great shopping, we have great nightlife. 759 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:16,160 Speaker 1: Like you know, if we're not in the pandemic, we're thriving. 760 00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:19,160 Speaker 1: So the city is coming back and I'm so excited 761 00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:21,200 Speaker 1: to be back. It's awesome. I love it. Heather, You're 762 00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:23,800 Speaker 1: very busy, but um quickly. Of course you've got the podcast. 763 00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:27,160 Speaker 1: Absolutely not, You've got good grief. You've got Love Hard 764 00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:30,799 Speaker 1: a new Netflix movie? What can you tell us about that? Um, 765 00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:34,040 Speaker 1: it's hysterical, it's coming out this Christmas. Put Netflix on 766 00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:37,560 Speaker 1: my vision board and they hired me, so it works. Um, 767 00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:41,719 Speaker 1: you have to do what I'm gonna do. Yeah, time 768 00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:43,960 Speaker 1: you do a vision board, because I've never done one, 769 00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:46,840 Speaker 1: and I feel like I should. No, listen, it's so cheesy. 770 00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:49,240 Speaker 1: I did it one time. I was very like stoned 771 00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:51,080 Speaker 1: on New Year's Day, hungover, and I was like, I'm 772 00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:52,720 Speaker 1: just gonna do it because I like arts and crafts. 773 00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:55,680 Speaker 1: And then two years later everything came true and it 774 00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:57,960 Speaker 1: really freaked me out. So now I do it and 775 00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:00,879 Speaker 1: it's wild. I just think Aaron was doing it. Yeah, 776 00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:02,520 Speaker 1: do it? What do you do with it? Do you 777 00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:04,440 Speaker 1: look at it every day? Do you say a prayer? 778 00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:07,560 Speaker 1: What do you do? Um? I kind of you know what. 779 00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:09,239 Speaker 1: I keep it in my office like I have it 780 00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:11,320 Speaker 1: like right over my desk, and I just kind of 781 00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:13,600 Speaker 1: look at it. And then as things come to fruition, 782 00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:16,319 Speaker 1: I feel like it's just constantly keeping what you want 783 00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:19,000 Speaker 1: to do in your goals, like in your forefront of 784 00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:21,320 Speaker 1: your subconscious you know what I mean? I love Okay, 785 00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:22,719 Speaker 1: I've gone about too, and I used to think it 786 00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:24,040 Speaker 1: was cheesy and I was like, are we doing this? 787 00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:25,640 Speaker 1: Are we cutting out the magazine? Do we even have 788 00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:27,680 Speaker 1: magazines to cut out what's going on here? But I'm 789 00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:30,600 Speaker 1: gonna do it because if you look, I'm gonna follow 790 00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:35,480 Speaker 1: in your footsteps, sister, because it's true. It's wild how 791 00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:37,279 Speaker 1: much how many things I've been able to, like check 792 00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:39,400 Speaker 1: off the vision board. I'm like, guys, I did this 793 00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:43,840 Speaker 1: kind of ironically and it's insane. So yeah, don we 794 00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:46,000 Speaker 1: can have a Vision Moore party. We'll take mushrooms and 795 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:51,319 Speaker 1: door to crack. That sounds like, say for me, Heather, 796 00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:54,600 Speaker 1: you're busy, We appreciate your time, thanks for having me. 797 00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:57,000 Speaker 1: We need to calm down a word, yep, before we 798 00:36:57,120 --> 00:37:00,120 Speaker 1: let you go. Who needs to calm down? I'll tell you, 799 00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:02,399 Speaker 1: And I'm calling one out on the women out there 800 00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:04,680 Speaker 1: with ladies did a calm down when they say just 801 00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:06,719 Speaker 1: have a baby? You know what I mean? Why aren't 802 00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:09,120 Speaker 1: you just having the baby? You don't know what I'm 803 00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:11,800 Speaker 1: going through. You don't know whether I'm dealing with fertility. 804 00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:15,000 Speaker 1: You don't know whether it's not the right timing. These 805 00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:16,520 Speaker 1: women who come up to you and you're like, why 806 00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:18,239 Speaker 1: aren't you Why aren't you pregnant? Why don't you have 807 00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:20,960 Speaker 1: a baby? Want your mom? You have no idea? Home? 808 00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:24,359 Speaker 1: The funk down. Let's deal with your ovaries and I'll 809 00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:26,600 Speaker 1: deal with mine. In the meantime, we can support one another. 810 00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:28,480 Speaker 1: But I'm not dealing with you asked me why I'm 811 00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:33,919 Speaker 1: not pregnant yet? Okay, thank you? Check. Please we hear you, Heather, 812 00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:36,480 Speaker 1: We are we are you on all of that, the 813 00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:40,360 Speaker 1: community that is Instagram that brings people together and podcasts. 814 00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:42,520 Speaker 1: You know, it all works out. So thank you so 815 00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:45,040 Speaker 1: much for your time, thank you for having me, and 816 00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:48,120 Speaker 1: we'll continue to support all of your endeavors. It's awesome 817 00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:51,360 Speaker 1: to see you succeed the way you are give amazing. 818 00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:54,800 Speaker 1: Oh I will yeah, Well, y'all are amazing. Uh Aaron's 819 00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:57,760 Speaker 1: mere number. Well you know we'll do our vision boards. 820 00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:00,080 Speaker 1: I got you, We'll do our boards. Um you. Her 821 00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,239 Speaker 1: bio says she's the best friend everybody wants. I tell 822 00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:05,320 Speaker 1: everyone Charity is. So there you go. You know what 823 00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:08,319 Speaker 1: I mean? There? You got him. I'll see it at him. Mother. 824 00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:10,400 Speaker 1: We'll get we'll get some drinks and do some mushrooms 825 00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:12,560 Speaker 1: and ex vision boards. Oh my gosh, I love you. 826 00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:19,479 Speaker 1: Bie had a thank you, thank you, thank you. Calm 827 00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:22,520 Speaker 1: Down with Aaron Carissa is a production of I heart Radio. 828 00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:24,840 Speaker 1: For more podcasts from my heart Radio, visit the i 829 00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:28,600 Speaker 1: heart Radio app, Apple podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts.