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Speaker 1: First, have you heard of DBL, DBL DBL DBL digital

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Speaker 1: body language? And if you're single, it's important to be

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Speaker 1: fluent in this. Apparently, go ahead, I.

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Speaker 2: Agree, and it's I think essential in modern dating. And

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Speaker 2: this is twenty twenty four, so we all need to

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Speaker 2: be very fluent in digital body language. The majority of

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Speaker 2: app daters rely on DBL to decide if they want

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Speaker 2: to commit to going out with someone.

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Speaker 3: So what is DBL.

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Speaker 2: It's all about the subtext that you that are kind

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Speaker 2: of sprinkled throughout digital communication, like emojis. The message length

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Speaker 2: is very important, punctuation, the response time.

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Speaker 1: Oh, let's hone in on this for a second. So emojis,

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Speaker 1: like I use a big load of exclamation points at

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Speaker 1: the end of things, sometimes like a ton of them,

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Speaker 1: or questions, response time. What do we need to know

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Speaker 1: about that. You're not supposed to have a fast response?

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Speaker 2: Then, I think it's a very delicate dance because you

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Speaker 2: don't want to seem too eager.

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Speaker 1: But you don't see my bubbles. If I start and

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Speaker 1: then go.

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Speaker 2: Away, you zones are typing unless you're gonna really actually type.

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Speaker 2: But you also don't want to have too much time

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Speaker 2: go by, So I think the days of trying to.

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Speaker 3: Play it cool or over.

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Speaker 2: You have to be a little bit more direct and

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Speaker 2: get to the point and all of that is a

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Speaker 2: little bit more attractive than the I guess the quote

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Speaker 2: unquote playing games.

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Speaker 3: Does that make sense?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you want to be there's a finesse to it,

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Speaker 1: there's a subtlety to it.

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Speaker 3: Exactly.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's like so hard, I know because I think

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Speaker 2: I think you want to play. You thought before I'm

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Speaker 2: not going to text him back for like three days.

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Speaker 2: I think those days are over, Like you don't do

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Speaker 2: that anymore.

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Speaker 1: Three days mean whatever it was, make.

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Speaker 3: Something happen, But I think that's three minutes. I was

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Speaker 3: like responding right away. You have to have the right

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Speaker 3: DBL these days.

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Speaker 2: And it's awesome because people, I think are so quick

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Speaker 2: to dismiss people because there's they have so much more

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Speaker 2: at their fingertips now because of dating apps. So if

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Speaker 2: it's not working out with this dude, it's like all right, bye,

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Speaker 2: moving on.

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Speaker 3: So you have to have the right DBL.

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Speaker 1: Don't obsessed about it right exactly, don't obsess up DVL.

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Speaker 1: But you need to think about DVL and play it cool, right, play.

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Speaker 3: Cool have the right emojis, have the right punctuation, have the.

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Speaker 2: Right have digital DBL no c R and I did

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Speaker 2: for you though correct.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean you had co you had, you had

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Speaker 1: ghost DBL writers Prase B.