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Speaker 1: Fred Show. Hey Marcy, good morning, Welcome to the Selle.

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Speaker 1: How are you.

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Speaker 2: I'm good.

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Speaker 1: Let's see if you're good in a few minutes. It's

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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone. You think this guy Ron may

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Speaker 2: Okay? So I met Ron on match dot com and

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Speaker 2: But he never called Matt sorry about that. She just

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Speaker 1: Did you and Ron have a child or did you

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Speaker 1: Is that what this is? All? Right?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 1: I hope everybody is okay. But what happened next?

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Speaker 2: He couldn't wait to ask me out, and he eventually

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Speaker 1: I feel like every time people bring up Match dot Com,

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Speaker 2: Hi?

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Speaker 1: Is this Ron.

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Speaker 1: My name is Fredam calling from the Fred Show, the

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you hear that, Ron, So if you thought

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Speaker 1: Oh no, it's like SuperH Yeah, of course I kiss

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I wanted to beat you right away.

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Speaker 1: But look, Ron, are you gonna get her another chance?

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Speaker 1: Let's say she's fully recovered by now, it's been at

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Speaker 3: No Way on Earth. I gotta tell you. She made

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I will go on a second date.

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Speaker 1: Each other. I wouldn't expect you to say.

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Speaker 3: I really wasn't, but she kind of got me there.

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Speaker 1: I think our legal team wants Marsha to get swabbed

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Speaker 1: light like I'm the thick one. Yes, all right, well,

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