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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl Alex Pete any Sugarl

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Speaker 1: dre in the cold and.

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Speaker 2: You are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mine,

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Speaker 2: where a drunk mind speaks soat.

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Speaker 1: You know, how do we come up with that intro?

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Speaker 1: I really don't. I don't remember. I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: just think we just said.

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Speaker 2: It over and it just like just because like I

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Speaker 2: don't ever remember as being like, okay, this little official

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Speaker 2: poor mind slow.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's the official.

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Speaker 3: Now, it's official.

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Speaker 2: Like the girls be like, it's your girl, Drew and

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Speaker 2: the cow like they know they know what we're gonna

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Speaker 2: say every time.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's how we start the sheet out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well the girls are looking good today period. You know.

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Speaker 1: With me, y'all, I had to bounce back.

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Speaker 2: Literally, first of all, I came back. I'm still I'm

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Speaker 2: still talking about my trip because I'm still shugging me

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Speaker 2: and mister Cowbo. Y'all know that's my dog, like me

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Speaker 2: and mister that's my dog. Like so anyways, but I

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Speaker 2: came back. My wig was gone, lashes was gone, everything.

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Speaker 2: I was discombobulated last week. But I'm back, bitch.

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Speaker 1: I got my hair done. Shout out to Barb.

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Speaker 2: Y'all know, I got the Emerald Goddess hair in and

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Speaker 2: then let me say this, I love my lash tip.

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Speaker 2: You know what's crazy is like she doesn't know what

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Speaker 2: I do or like what no, like I don't we

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Speaker 2: don't be talking.

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Speaker 1: Now, you don't have like she ain't never seen you

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Speaker 1: on Instagram.

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Speaker 2: I don't follow her, ain't no no, because this is

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Speaker 2: the thing I want to. I just want to see

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Speaker 2: how people treat me and see if the and she

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Speaker 2: gives me amazing service. Does my lashes mom every time,

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Speaker 2: and I swear by her like I love her.

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Speaker 1: She don't even know have to be walking he like,

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Speaker 1: hey girl, hey girl. But yeah, she does really really good.

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Speaker 1: So I got my lashes done this morning.

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Speaker 2: So if you're in Atlanta, and make sure you hit

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Speaker 2: up Barb to get your hair done, and hit up

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Speaker 2: Jay Lily to get your lashes done. Her Instagram is

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Speaker 2: ja I underscore l I l l y She's My

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Speaker 2: lashes look good as fuck.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like I'm back, baby girl.

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Speaker 4: I had to go back to my old ash girl

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Speaker 4: to get my lashes done.

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Speaker 1: Why don't you my girls?

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Speaker 4: I mean I wanted to, but she didn't have no availability.

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Speaker 4: And you know I had wanted to get my lashes

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Speaker 4: in before I had left to go to baggies. But

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Speaker 4: m yeah, so I just thought I went back to

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Speaker 4: her just this time to get my last She's done

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Speaker 4: or whatever.

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Speaker 1: That look good? Thank you?

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Speaker 4: The girl I had went to before that I was

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Speaker 4: trying to go to. I can't go to her no more.

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Speaker 4: She be telling me all her busies.

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Speaker 2: What you mean?

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Speaker 1: I like the little key a little bit. This is

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Speaker 1: my thing.

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Speaker 4: When I go to get my lashes done for me,

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Speaker 4: it's supposed to be like a moment of relaxation.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I still.

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Speaker 4: I'm chilling, and I might try to take a little

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Speaker 4: quick one, you know what I mean, get a little nappy, And.

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Speaker 2: I can't do that if Y'll ask keep talking to me.

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Speaker 2: And then on top of that, it's like this.

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Speaker 4: I could see if like I had been coming to

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Speaker 4: you to get my lashes done for a while, so

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Speaker 4: we don't build.

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Speaker 1: A report like relationship. Yeah now you're telling me.

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Speaker 4: Oot, it was my first time ever getting my lashes

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Speaker 4: done by her.

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Speaker 1: What was she telling you?

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Speaker 5: Then?

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Speaker 1: She was telling me? And I ain't gonna say who

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Speaker 1: it is. I ain't gonna do her like that.

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Speaker 4: But she was like, yeah, she was like, girl, my nigga,

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Speaker 4: he finally moved in because he finally like lift his

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Speaker 4: each other for some years. She was like, and we

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Speaker 4: just whin. She was like, girl, like all these TVs

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Speaker 4: in my house right now, And I'm like, why are

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Speaker 4: And she was like, girl because we had went over

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Speaker 4: to his baby mama house and took all the TVs

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Speaker 4: because she put him on child support.

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Speaker 1: You know what. And she was supporting that. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: see that's not in our ministry, so.

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Speaker 4: You know that you didn't need to go back, like

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Speaker 4: and she'll be real mad if she knew I was

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Speaker 4: over there too.

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Speaker 1: While she was she was probably doing your lessures, like.

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Speaker 2: Y'all, she was feeling, oh my god, like this pol

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Speaker 2: lady when she gets home, she ain't gonna have no TVs.

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Speaker 2: And you know what, what is she a listener? Like

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Speaker 2: that's where the fuck my TV's at? Dirt and bitch

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Speaker 2: she no, now, no, I'm sorry you had to find

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Speaker 2: out this way.

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Speaker 1: Damn that.

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Speaker 4: It was funny though, because it's just like it's so

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Speaker 4: crazy to me how people be like that when you

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Speaker 4: first meet them.

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Speaker 1: I think that I'm so privy.

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Speaker 4: Like I'm not going to tell you, I think this

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Speaker 4: is when I first meet Well, I'll say this.

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Speaker 2: I think you have that same quality as I do.

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Speaker 2: I think we make people feel comfortable. Yeah, so a

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Speaker 2: lot of times people because remember when we first met,

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Speaker 2: a lot of y'all asked how we met. We've told

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Speaker 2: this story a million times, but I know a lot

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Speaker 2: of y'all are new listeners. But we met in the club.

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Speaker 2: We were bartending together. Yeah, and it was just like

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Speaker 2: a lot of the girls that were there used to

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Speaker 2: always come and tell me all of their business, and

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Speaker 2: I just thought it was so weird. And it was

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Speaker 2: the same thing with her, Like people would just come

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Speaker 2: up to us and I'm telling y'all people be like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: cause my mama got an abortion when she was eleven.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, damn, that was my little brother.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh, bitch, slow down, what's your name again?

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Speaker 4: People do have the tendency to do that a lot

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Speaker 4: when it comes to us. I mean, I guess that's

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Speaker 4: a good thing. Like that's an endearing quality I get

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Speaker 4: is that people feel like they can talk to.

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Speaker 1: You and yeah, that's a good us and stuff. So

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Speaker 1: your girl, So I'm about to start going to your

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Speaker 2: Yeah she's bomb, she's she's quiet, she got the music playing, like,

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Speaker 2: you know, what's so crazy? We were listening to like

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Speaker 2: old Drake stuff this morning, Like we were listening to

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Speaker 2: like his old stuff, and you know, she don't say nothing.

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Speaker 2: She just gets my lashes done and asks me what

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Speaker 2: I need. She don't give me no problem. She's always

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Speaker 2: on toime, very professional. And I was listening to Drake's

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Speaker 2: old stuff and what was crazy to me is like

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Speaker 2: I'm so glad that trend of how people used to

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Speaker 2: wrap us over.

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Speaker 1: Like Nikki said a line, Remember what was that bar

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Speaker 1: she had?

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Speaker 2: She was like, I'm a star Sheriff badge, and we

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Speaker 2: was like, bro.

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Speaker 6: This shit, this ship hot, this ship hard, like I'm

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Speaker 6: going up blooms.

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Speaker 1: Like Nika. We was really jamming that ship lie on

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Speaker 1: that Niky song was hard? What song was that? Oh?

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Speaker 2: God, sureff it was like that that dad, I am

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Speaker 2: that it was that one And because I'm mad, yes,

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Speaker 2: but I'm like why did you? But just at the

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Speaker 2: rhythm bars, That's what I'm saying it was just really weird,

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Speaker 2: like it was like, it's going down basement, Like why

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Speaker 2: did we do that?

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Speaker 1: Was making a point, it's going down base me. I'm

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Speaker 1: a whole drail always. I'm just kidding. You always got

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Speaker 1: to say, but.

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Speaker 2: No, it was just funny because I was like laughing

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Speaker 2: in my head because I'm like dog. They really used

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Speaker 2: and around at the time.

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Speaker 1: But I don't remember Drake rapping like that.

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Speaker 2: He said one bar like that. I don't remember exactly

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Speaker 2: what he said rapping the same like, but I'm not

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Speaker 2: gonna lie. He was singing his ass. He always be seeing,

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Speaker 2: Yeah we're gonna get in. He gonna he gonna sing something.

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Speaker 2: But anyways, what you been up to this past week update?

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Speaker 4: I went to Vegas for a few days on this

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Speaker 4: past weekend and it was fun, you know, like a

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Speaker 4: quick little getaway. But you know, per usual, we'd always

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Speaker 4: be some ship with these niggas.

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Speaker 2: Mmm ah.

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Speaker 1: So you went out there with Okay, is that what

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Speaker 1: you're saying? I mean, no, but ran into you.

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Speaker 2: Ran into somebody out there and it was I love Vegas,

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Speaker 2: but I'm not gonna lie it's too hot right now

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Speaker 2: because honestly, I learned my lesson. I'm not going on

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Speaker 2: a vacation with a wig, no mobro. I was literally

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Speaker 1: Bro, I'm not doing that ship no more for me.

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Speaker 4: As far as vacation hairstyles, braids is like my goals

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Speaker 4: braids from now. I feel like, yeah, trying to have

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Speaker 1: Yeah right now, it.

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Speaker 2: Was just the too much, it's too much, had much

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Speaker 1: But yeah, you know, it was a quick, little, fun

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Speaker 1: little trip. But I'm glad. Yeah, but what did you do.

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Speaker 1: I've been chilling this week.

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Speaker 2: Like I said, I had to get myself back, revived myself.

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Speaker 1: I've been chilling.

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Speaker 2: I went out the other night with one of my

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Speaker 2: friends and I had a good time.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I never go out, so for me.

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Speaker 2: To just like get dressed up and get out the house,

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Speaker 2: because it's crazy because people think we always outside.

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Speaker 1: I'm really a homebody.

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Speaker 2: Like so I really just been at home, you know,

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Speaker 2: playing another trip on mister Cabo.

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Speaker 1: I mean, were about to be outside, but many time

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Speaker 1: about to leave me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we got you we got you, but I'm also

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Speaker 2: going don't forget it's Big Papa is still Big Papa, Bitch.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I'm dating right now, and I like

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Speaker 2: I like it.

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Speaker 1: I'm having a good supposed to.

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Speaker 4: I feel like that's what dating is. Like, You're supposed

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Speaker 4: to date multiple people. That's what dating is. Yeah, you

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Speaker 4: dating one person and to meeting you got.

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Speaker 1: Doing it right, nigga best nigga?

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Speaker 4: Wee right, Okay, It's like if it's only one nigga,

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Speaker 4: y'all exclusive in my means, well, yeah, I mean, you

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Speaker 4: gotta make them think that they're the only one. I mean,

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Speaker 4: but if that's the only nigga you're dating, Like, if

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Speaker 4: that's the only person you're going on day, sweeten, you

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Speaker 4: chilling weed and.

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Speaker 1: Talking to chechnically is right, right, right, right right? Okay,

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Speaker 1: So what's up, y'all? Is show girl lex p Any

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Speaker 1: Sugarl Drey in the call.

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Speaker 1: Like, nah, I want you. I think that you know.

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Speaker 1: Like you could tell. I think we're all somewhat intelligent

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Speaker 1: Like I've tried everything, I'm not gonna lie. I had

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Speaker 2: But sometimes when I would get bored, he would be like,

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Speaker 1: Let's go do something. I would go do it. I

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Speaker 2: I would used to be real short, real dry, I mean,

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Speaker 4: Well I just said, I feel like that's not always

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Speaker 2: So that's one thing about me, just because you know.

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Speaker 1: It's really not hard to fuck these these women. Bro,

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Speaker 2: But it's for them and for the men too, if

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Speaker 2: where you wounting it?

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Speaker 1: Girl? Where you want on a dress? On the floor?

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Speaker 1: You want chair? Do you want flow? Do you want

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I feel like I feel like men are

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Speaker 1: But it's like it goes and some men like to

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Speaker 1: But I feel like applying pressure.

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Speaker 2: You can apply pressure, but if you apply pressure, how

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Speaker 2: He like, hell nah, crag. Applying pressure is good morning.

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Speaker 2: What you're doing today, but being due to I have like.

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Speaker 2: But then I'm like, dang, his niggas keep calling me,

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Speaker 4: Really see if I like him, get to know him

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Speaker 1: But in the beginning, you can tell me I was

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Speaker 2: That niggas right right, You know what I mean? You

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Speaker 1: See, I'm the opposite.

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Speaker 2: I know right off the bat if I want to

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Speaker 2: meet you, I'll be like, Okay, physically he got everything

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Speaker 2: I like. He can get some pussy out of me,

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Speaker 2: but let's let me see how he does moving forward

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Speaker 2: and moving forward, Sometimes niggas fumble, sometimes they end up

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's what I'm saying sometimes, so it's very rare. Though.

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Speaker 2: It's very rare that I meet a guy that I

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Speaker 2: I mean one thing about me, I'm very I hate

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Speaker 2: a little bigger, okay, and he already didn't have hair.

438
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Speaker 2: You know, I don't really fuck with the ball heads.

439
00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:45,399
Speaker 1: Nah, yeah, even Uncle T.

440
00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:45,960
Speaker 3: Yeah.

441
00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:47,720
Speaker 1: So he was a little bigger and he had bout hair.

442
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Speaker 2: But when we moved to Atlanta, he started getting in

443
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Speaker 2: the gym, he was working out. You know, his style

444
00:18:52,680 --> 00:18:54,840
Speaker 2: has changed. You know, he started getting more money.

445
00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:57,840
Speaker 1: I was like, holdo, po Paul, let me see what

446
00:18:57,880 --> 00:19:01,240
Speaker 1: that thing hitting fun? Yeah, because he was looking good.

447
00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:04,280
Speaker 2: He was looking good to me. He was looking good

448
00:19:04,320 --> 00:19:05,520
Speaker 2: to me. I'm not gonna lie.

449
00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:06,600
Speaker 1: So I do feel like.

450
00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:09,280
Speaker 2: Sometimes if I was somebody with a curved joey, like

451
00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:14,000
Speaker 2: I love it here he looked that high. But that's

452
00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:16,399
Speaker 2: like my best friend now, like that's my nigga, like

453
00:19:17,080 --> 00:19:19,320
Speaker 2: we cool, Like that's my dog. But yeah, like that's

454
00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:23,360
Speaker 2: an example of you know, I feel like applying pressure

455
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Speaker 2: versus harassment.

456
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Speaker 1: I feel like, you gonna know, right off the bed,

457
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Speaker 1: I say a week or.

458
00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:31,040
Speaker 2: Two, a week or two, Like, if somebody is applying pressure,

459
00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:33,320
Speaker 2: especially to a woman, when we like you and you

460
00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:37,280
Speaker 2: applying pressure, you're gonna see it straight up. You're gonna

461
00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:39,439
Speaker 2: see it straight up. When I like people too, I

462
00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:41,240
Speaker 2: want to spend time with him, I'll be going to

463
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Speaker 2: spend time with you.

464
00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:43,200
Speaker 1: Niggas like this.

465
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Speaker 4: So it's like, if I really want to spend time

466
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Speaker 4: with you, I really like you.

467
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Speaker 2: Bro, I swear to God, I if Big Papa tell me,

468
00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:51,000
Speaker 2: come on, I will walk.

469
00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:53,880
Speaker 1: I will walk to that nigga house right to a.

470
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Speaker 3: Barefoot, barefoot nigga, barefoot nigga wig In Tope's gonna get

471
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Speaker 3: across the I'm a I would walk a thousand miles,

472
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Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying.

473
00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:10,080
Speaker 1: Like, that's the type of time I'm on.

474
00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:12,879
Speaker 2: But sometimes nigga could Some niggas can't even get a

475
00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:14,840
Speaker 2: text back from me. Yeah, but I feel like a

476
00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:15,840
Speaker 2: week or two you should know.

477
00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:16,000
Speaker 1: So.

478
00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:19,040
Speaker 2: Man, if you're applying pressure and she's not giving you

479
00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:22,400
Speaker 2: the kind of reaction you want within a week or two,

480
00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:23,840
Speaker 2: trust me, you're wasting your time.

481
00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:24,919
Speaker 1: Let's be real here too.

482
00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:27,280
Speaker 4: It's niggas out here who don't be even having to

483
00:20:27,359 --> 00:20:30,000
Speaker 4: apply pressure. We just be fucking niggas and they don't

484
00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:31,919
Speaker 4: be applying No, for sure, they just be fucking them

485
00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:33,440
Speaker 4: because they like them.

486
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Speaker 1: Well that's not in our ministry. Did you don't fuck

487
00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:37,959
Speaker 1: the nigga because you liked him?

488
00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:39,040
Speaker 5: Back?

489
00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:43,400
Speaker 2: I'm no, no, back then. Now you have to show

490
00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:46,320
Speaker 2: me a little something. No, I mean right, I get

491
00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:48,240
Speaker 2: what you're saying, but I'm saying you have fucked the

492
00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:49,640
Speaker 2: nigga genuinely because you're like.

493
00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:51,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, nothing, it ain't nothing.

494
00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:53,360
Speaker 2: No, there's not I'm not saying that a nigga has

495
00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:55,399
Speaker 2: to go, but you have to like show me that

496
00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:58,400
Speaker 2: you're going to put in the effort for me. That's

497
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Speaker 2: what I'm saying. Like, I'm not a to just let

498
00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:03,080
Speaker 2: a nigga come over. Let's say, like me and a

499
00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:06,240
Speaker 2: nigga been texting, we ain't hung out, he's never took

500
00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:09,520
Speaker 2: me to dinner on a vacation, never done anything for me.

501
00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:11,840
Speaker 2: You're not about to just come over and get some

502
00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:13,160
Speaker 2: pussy just because I like you.

503
00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:15,560
Speaker 1: That's what I mean. Well, I mean, who the fuck

504
00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:18,439
Speaker 1: to me? That's dating? Like, are you not going on

505
00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:21,760
Speaker 1: a date first? Nos, Like you said, some women just

506
00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:23,840
Speaker 1: like a nigga. How we even end up back in

507
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Speaker 1: my house.

508
00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:26,720
Speaker 2: That's what took me on a day, because that's how

509
00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:28,560
Speaker 2: some that's how some women are.

510
00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:31,240
Speaker 1: Like niggas just be like yeah.

511
00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:33,400
Speaker 2: Shit, I mean, I ain't even trying to do nothing

512
00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:35,200
Speaker 2: to Now you've seen that new candy man, I got

513
00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:36,480
Speaker 2: it on my five stick.

514
00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:39,400
Speaker 1: And she be like, yeah, just come through.

515
00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:43,280
Speaker 2: I'm gonna order some pizza or something, not a pizza pia,

516
00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:46,240
Speaker 2: you like Hallapeno's.

517
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Speaker 1: That's how I be, bro. That's embarrassed. But I'm telling

518
00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:54,440
Speaker 1: you how to real go. Bro. You not thinking, you're

519
00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:57,120
Speaker 1: thinking about our lives and what we do. Not everybody

520
00:21:57,160 --> 00:21:58,919
Speaker 1: is doing. I was younger, though, I guess when I

521
00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:03,920
Speaker 1: was younger, I definitely used to be like he he

522
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:06,040
Speaker 1: get his belly phone with that Papa John's and he

523
00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:09,600
Speaker 1: gonna be But that ain't happen it many times though,

524
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:12,120
Speaker 1: but it does. But I'm but I'm saying right now,

525
00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:13,960
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that no more, boyfriend. When I was

526
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:16,040
Speaker 1: in my early twenties, that nigga was broke. It's fuzz.

527
00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:19,960
Speaker 1: My ex was so broke. My ex was so fucking broke, y'all.

528
00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:22,000
Speaker 1: He didn't even have a car. No, let me tell

529
00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:23,119
Speaker 1: you how broke my ex was.

530
00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:27,639
Speaker 2: Well, that wasn't my early twenties. Actually, I started fucking

531
00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:29,560
Speaker 2: with him when I was like eighteen.

532
00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:32,639
Speaker 4: I was in college and I was at school, and

533
00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:34,560
Speaker 4: he was in Houston, and I used to drive down

534
00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:35,640
Speaker 4: come see him all the time.

535
00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:37,280
Speaker 1: That's the nigga I went to jail with for fucking

536
00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:39,560
Speaker 1: in the car. Y'all. He was so fucking broke. He

537
00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:41,680
Speaker 1: didn't have no car or anything, but that was a fire.

538
00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:43,840
Speaker 2: Let me tell you how broke my ex was. My

539
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:46,879
Speaker 2: ex was so broke. He didn't have a bank account,

540
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 2: a debit card, nothing, So listen, let me finish. Though

541
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:53,000
Speaker 2: this nigga was away at college. This nigga was so broke.

542
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:54,600
Speaker 2: I sent him one hundred dollars out to send it

543
00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:55,360
Speaker 2: in the mail, right.

544
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Speaker 1: I wrapped it up, and that was before you could zeal. Yeah,

545
00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:03,120
Speaker 1: it was before sale. It was before cash out.

546
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:05,879
Speaker 2: So literally, y'all, I wrapped a hundred dollar bill in

547
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:08,560
Speaker 2: an envelope and I melded to him and I was like, oh,

548
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:10,879
Speaker 2: I sent you somemel bab, did you get it? He

549
00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 2: opened it up, he said, he started crazy at you.

550
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:17,359
Speaker 2: The realist bitch of him. I was like, yeah, I

551
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:20,200
Speaker 2: thought I was doing something one hundred dollars.

552
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:22,080
Speaker 1: I broke that nigga.

553
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:25,159
Speaker 2: One my nigga might top yo nigga though he was

554
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:26,560
Speaker 2: fucking bro He was so broke.

555
00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:28,560
Speaker 4: He had broke his cell phone and I had an

556
00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:30,440
Speaker 4: extra phone, so I had to give it to him

557
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:33,239
Speaker 4: to let him use like my other phone, and I

558
00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:34,919
Speaker 4: forgot to the lead a hall bunch of shoot out

559
00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:35,639
Speaker 4: of it, and he fought out.

560
00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 1: I cheated on him. Not a cheating bitch.

561
00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:41,480
Speaker 2: Man?

562
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Speaker 1: What's broke? What the fuck you thought? I mean, he

563
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:46,480
Speaker 1: was pretty broke to like. I remember we had to

564
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Speaker 1: go to cheating on you your boat. No, see, you

565
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:51,200
Speaker 1: didn't have to go there. We were.

566
00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:54,840
Speaker 2: I went and bought him a cricket phone. He had

567
00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:55,639
Speaker 2: a cricket phone.

568
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Speaker 4: Then I was a freshman in college. I was the

569
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Speaker 4: new TENDRONI young me definitely cheated on his egg I am.

570
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:05,800
Speaker 4: It was funny becausehim and a nigga had the same name,

571
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Speaker 4: so it's.

572
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Speaker 1: Easy to hide time. You know you always show girl

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574
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Speaker 1: go out of town a lot.

575
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Speaker 2: Drea be working now you know, sometimes you just gotta

576
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Speaker 2: whenever you just want to listen to some music.

577
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Speaker 4: And Tula world out and yeah, so I love my

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579
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Speaker 4: I'm listening to my music and the gym. People always

580
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Speaker 4: be asking me, girl, what are the those that you

581
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582
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583
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584
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Speaker 1: And they sound just you know what I'm saying.

585
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Speaker 2: So you can also put them in awareness mode so

586
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Speaker 2: you can listen to what's going around because you know

587
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Speaker 2: people trying to sneak up on Yeah, you need to see,

588
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Speaker 2: you need to hear what's going you know what's going on.

589
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592
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593
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Speaker 1: So you don't like, I'm just sitting back, but you

596
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Speaker 1: don't like them, and we know you will. Shit, but yeah,

597
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 1: it's back to the topic in hand.

598
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:20,280
Speaker 2: We're not talking about our own relationships, but I feel

599
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:22,000
Speaker 2: like man to have day broken.

600
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 1: Because yeah, that's the point we was geting. Because I

601
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:25,439
Speaker 1: know we do have a lot of young listeners.

602
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 2: So if y'all are like dating a man and you're like, y'all,

603
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:30,160
Speaker 2: a lot of y'all be like eighteen nineteen twenty, y'all

604
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 2: be like, why this nigga ain't buy me a car?

605
00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, baby dah, you just got out of diapers yesterday.

606
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:42,879
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Calm down, it's baby steps.

607
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:45,200
Speaker 2: I mean, life is a lot different than it is

608
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 2: now versus when we was coming up in the game.

609
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:51,679
Speaker 1: Social media wasn't how it is coming up in the game.

610
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 1: We only thirty at thirty No what I'm talking about.

611
00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:56,119
Speaker 2: No, we ain't coming up in the game as far

612
00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:58,359
Speaker 2: as like getting what we want and doing what we

613
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Speaker 2: want to do.

614
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm just yeah, that's what I'm saying.

615
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:08,520
Speaker 2: So anyways, applying pressure versus harassment one week two weeks

616
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 2: at the most. If you are talking to a girl

617
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 2: over two weeks and you applying pressure and she hasn't

618
00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:15,120
Speaker 2: reciprocated anything, she don't.

619
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:17,199
Speaker 1: Like you bruh, she don't like you. I'm sorry to

620
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 1: tell you. Just keeping motherfucking moving. Next topic.

621
00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:25,080
Speaker 2: We're gonna talk about this because this is something that

622
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 2: happens a lot you do, and we get a lot

623
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:30,280
Speaker 2: of actually questions about this because a lot of the

624
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 2: girls writing and they'd be like, oh, this nigga said.

625
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 1: He was gonna do this, He said he was gonna

626
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 1: do that.

627
00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 2: So we want to talk about men pulling you with

628
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:42,440
Speaker 2: false pretenses because a lot of men be like, hey, shawty,

629
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:44,879
Speaker 2: I pay your rent, I pay your car note, I

630
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:47,600
Speaker 2: do this and that, whatever you need, give me your number.

631
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 1: We're gonna talk.

632
00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:52,879
Speaker 2: Give me your number, and I and I follow that

633
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 2: ass in the mom Notice he said follow you in

634
00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:57,640
Speaker 2: the mall. He didn't stay by you nothing in the mall.

635
00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:00,040
Speaker 2: False pretendents, bitch.

636
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not false. Pretty as bitch followed bread on,

637
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 1: you beat gonna follow.

638
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,680
Speaker 2: So how do you handle a situation a nigga try

639
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:11,359
Speaker 2: to fuck with you, he saying I'm gonna do X,

640
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:13,080
Speaker 2: Y and Z and he don't do none of that.

641
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:14,359
Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop talking to.

642
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:20,040
Speaker 2: That's it, not even like understand why why he tried

643
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 2: to commit you like that?

644
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:24,679
Speaker 4: No, because I don't need to understand why we just

645
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,679
Speaker 4: started talking and we just met and he was gonna.

646
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:28,480
Speaker 1: Do something and you didn't do it.

647
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:31,399
Speaker 4: While I'm diad in that ship right there, because I

648
00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 4: don't know you yet, why the do I give a

649
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:35,960
Speaker 4: fulk about what your excuse is for why you didn't

650
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 4: do what you was telling you was gonna do.

651
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:38,840
Speaker 1: Goodbye? You're just not a man in your word in

652
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:40,240
Speaker 1: my eyes, and I'm gonna move around.

653
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 2: Let me say this, I feel like men. They say

654
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 2: things and they do things. They think, well, I said

655
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:47,440
Speaker 2: I was gonna do this, but it's not that big

656
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 2: of a deal.

657
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:50,400
Speaker 1: Is that all you was here for? And they're like, okay, But.

658
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:52,280
Speaker 2: Let me put it to you like this. Imagine I

659
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 2: meet a nigga. Imagine I meet you, and I'm like, man,

660
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:57,480
Speaker 2: you find as fuck. I'm about to put this wet

661
00:27:57,600 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 2: slop and nast that coaching on.

662
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:02,359
Speaker 1: You, and it's gonna be so good. You're gonna slap

663
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 1: your mama and I don't give you none of that.

664
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 1: You gonna be mad as fun.

665
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 2: You'll be like, damn, this girl told me she got

666
00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:09,680
Speaker 2: that sloppy topic.

667
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:12,440
Speaker 1: Good good, gonna change my life. And I didn't get it.

668
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:15,119
Speaker 1: You gonna feel some motherfucking type of way.

669
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, So why is it okay for men to approach

670
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:20,399
Speaker 2: us and tell us, oh, I'm gonna do X, Y

671
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 2: and Z, and when it comes down to it, you.

672
00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 1: Don't do it. I didn't say it was okay. No,

673
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:26,920
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that. You said it's really not.

674
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:28,960
Speaker 4: Okay, you know what I mean. But I think sometimes

675
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:30,680
Speaker 4: you just gotta keep it moving.

676
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 2: Now, me personally, if a nigga tell me he gonna

677
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:36,640
Speaker 2: do something, I'm gonna be like, what's up?

678
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 1: You're gonna pull that card? Well? Yeah, cause at first

679
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 1: I'm like okay.

680
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 4: Like if I go on a trip with a nigga,

681
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 4: or if I go do something with a dude and

682
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 4: we hanging out for like a few days and he

683
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 4: tell me he gonna do this, I don't wait the

684
00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 4: first few days like I just chill, you know what

685
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 4: I mean, enjoy the vibes she cause I don't want

686
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 4: to fuck she up, you know what I mean?

687
00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:56,760
Speaker 1: Because sometimes niggas be wanting to warm up to you.

688
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:58,400
Speaker 4: They want to see if they like you first before

689
00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:00,920
Speaker 4: they spend some money, like spence real money or do

690
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 4: something for real.

691
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 2: But That's the thing though, Why do you have to

692
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 2: warm up to me because you said you was gonna

693
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:07,400
Speaker 2: do this you did.

694
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 1: So it's like, why are you out a warman? You

695
00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 1: shouldn't have said nothing at all.

696
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:11,560
Speaker 4: Then, Yeah, I mean I agree with you, but yeah,

697
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 4: like I said, so, I'm like, if I say, if

698
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 4: I go somewhere and me and a dude together for

699
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 4: like a few days, first day, second day, I probably

700
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 4: won't say sheit, but the third day. By the third day,

701
00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:21,640
Speaker 4: if you tell me you was gonna take me shopping

702
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 4: or do something and you ain't eady, I'm trying to

703
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 4: figure out, like why the fuck we ain't made it

704
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 4: to the mall? Yi, And I'm about to ask because

705
00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 4: I ain't got time to keep wasting.

706
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 1: It's motherfucking Labor day. Moll's close. Dray like, well you

707
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 1: can order it online.

708
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 4: Well you can sell me so I can go get

709
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 4: it when I get back to Atlanta, Like the fuck, Yeah,

710
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 4: don't fucking play with me.

711
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 1: I just think that I don't poking play with me.

712
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,720
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I do be like like that,

713
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 1: But I'm only like that if a nigga come at

714
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 1: me like.

715
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:49,960
Speaker 4: That, That's what I'm never said that you was gonna

716
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 4: do some shit if you don't really plan on doing it,

717
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 4: Cause I'm not one of them type of beaches whill

718
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 4: be filing for the okie dog and gonna fuck you

719
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:56,920
Speaker 4: off the hope of what you're gonna do.

720
00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 2: But I just don't understand, like in twenty twenty one,

721
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 2: Like I honestly feel like if a nigga leads with that,

722
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 2: that's like a little kind of a red flag to me.

723
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 2: May I don't think so, cause this niggas who lead

724
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 2: with that, who really do?

725
00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, but I don't like that.

726
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 2: That's actually like I just want to say, don't tell

727
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 2: me what you're gonna do, Just fucking do it and

728
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 2: show me a hood babe.

729
00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:20,200
Speaker 1: Hood babe Hoe. That was a long time ago. I

730
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 1: can't even remember who that is.

731
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 4: Well, I was talking to hood babe. Remember he told

732
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:24,960
Speaker 4: me he was gonna take me shopping and he did

733
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 4: on the first day.

734
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,320
Speaker 2: I mean, oh, okay, I remember hood Bank. Now I'm like,

735
00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:30,800
Speaker 2: that's like four bays ago. I'm trying to keep up.

736
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 2: I don't know, but I okay, yeah, he kept his word.

737
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:39,240
Speaker 2: But the thing is, it's like, you don't even have

738
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 2: to lead with that, like, let's just do it, like

739
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 2: if just I feel like you mean, like, come pick

740
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 2: me up, take me on the day, and then we

741
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 2: just pull up at the mob. Yeah, the element of surprise,

742
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 2: Like I feel like a lot of you niggas that

743
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:54,400
Speaker 2: have money, y'all feel like just because y'all got money,

744
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 2: you already in the dog and a lot of y'all

745
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 2: just don't have gang no more.

746
00:30:58,880 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 1: So y'all be one.

747
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:02,800
Speaker 2: Why Okay, I got all this money, but why am

748
00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 2: I not pulling quality women?

749
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 1: Why am I still stuck with Because.

750
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 2: You're leading with your money and you're attracting women who

751
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 2: just want you for your money versus if you want

752
00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 2: to do something nice for somebody, that's cool. So you

753
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 2: know what, be like I'm gonna take her out to

754
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 2: dinner or let's go to lunch or something.

755
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 1: Let me take this go to lunch.

756
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 2: Oh you know what, I see she had on a

757
00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 2: Chanel and I see her tweet that she wanted another Chanelle.

758
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 1: Let me just pull up tomorrowal quick.

759
00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 2: Because it ain't nothing to you but the element of

760
00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 2: surprise and being like alone, the element of surprise and

761
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:35,880
Speaker 2: just being like somebody being shocked goes a long way

762
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 2: versus you being like, oh yeah, baby girl, I'm gonna

763
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 2: take you to Chanel. And it's so now she and

764
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:43,640
Speaker 2: her mind like, even if I don't end up liking this, nigga,

765
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 2: let me stick around enough long enough just to get

766
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 2: my Chanelle. I mean, yeah, nobody likes being led on exactly, So,

767
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:52,040
Speaker 2: I mean that's just what it boils down to at

768
00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 2: the end of the day.

769
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 1: Nobody likes to be led on. So at the end

770
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:55,480
Speaker 1: of the day, is a man.

771
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 4: If you're telling a woman you want to do something

772
00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:58,720
Speaker 4: for hood, and that's how you're trying to holler a

773
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:00,840
Speaker 4: hood in the beginning of course, or she's gonna expect

774
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 4: you to do that, and if you don't do it, well,

775
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 4: then she ain't gonna end well with most women, you

776
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:09,600
Speaker 4: know what I mean, you do have the few what

777
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 4: because it's not it's not gonna end well with most women.

778
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, but you do.

779
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 4: Have the few that's still gonna be like cause you know,

780
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 4: some women don't really like confrontation and she so they

781
00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:22,720
Speaker 4: just gonna chill. They gonna be like, Okay, well guess

782
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 4: he's not gonna take me shopping, or you know, they

783
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:27,480
Speaker 4: might end up still sucking you because they hoping if

784
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 4: they fucked then they might.

785
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:32,040
Speaker 2: I'm that definitely not definitely not me neither. If anything,

786
00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 2: I'm gonna leave your ass.

787
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:36,680
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna start a fight about my book earlier flight,

788
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 1: I'm be like, actually, I gotta go. I forgot it.

789
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:41,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm I'm I'm not gonna start a fight about it.

790
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 2: But I am gonna be like on some shit like,

791
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:47,280
Speaker 2: oh okay, like it's gonna get real dry. It's the

792
00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:49,320
Speaker 2: conversation's gonna get real motherfucking dry.

793
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 4: No, I don't be starting to fight somebody neither. I

794
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 4: think I'll just be being real dry too. And then

795
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:54,600
Speaker 4: a nigga be like, well.

796
00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:55,240
Speaker 1: What's wrong with you?

797
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:58,560
Speaker 4: And I'll be like, well, see you, motherfucking ass. Well

798
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 4: while we went to the mow, why you tell me

799
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 4: chop it right?

800
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 1: I just don't understand why.

801
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 2: I Like, I'm not gonna sit up here and tell

802
00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:12,320
Speaker 2: the nigga he about to get some great best pussy

803
00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 2: you ever had?

804
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 1: Why would I do that? Pussy is very much mediocre.

805
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie relate. Look I told you I

806
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:24,560
Speaker 1: ain't upselling nothing. You know how you go to a restaurant.

807
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 1: They be like, Oh, what what good marcurita do you have? Oh?

808
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:29,480
Speaker 1: We got this one margarita.

809
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:33,120
Speaker 2: It's got this cented, it's got the tough chef liquor,

810
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 2: the best, the best taste.

811
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 1: You ever had. Not me what kind of pussy you got?

812
00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 1: I mean you gonna nut. Not you got the med?

813
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:43,320
Speaker 1: You gonna nothing? You want another or not?

814
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:46,479
Speaker 2: You know, it's like how you got like the Reggie

815
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:49,600
Speaker 2: on that gas. It's like in between you gonna get.

816
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 1: Hot, not just giving Reggie. Y'all don't like I didn't

817
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:55,959
Speaker 1: say it was giving Reggie. It's like that med.

818
00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 2: You ain't gonna be like trying to You ain't gotta

819
00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 2: smoke like eight You gotta smoke like eight blunts of

820
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 2: Reggie to get high.

821
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 1: You ain't got it. Ain't. It ain't like you're gonna

822
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 1: have to fuck for a long time.

823
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:10,760
Speaker 2: I mean, you gonna noth It ain't gonna be like damn,

824
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:13,800
Speaker 2: but it's gonna be like I come back with shot

825
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:17,719
Speaker 2: and she kudo na see and she funny though I'm

826
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:20,400
Speaker 2: but but you know what, I might be on my

827
00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:23,279
Speaker 2: A game that day. I might have had a little titos.

828
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:25,920
Speaker 2: I'd have smoked a little Hookah, I might be in

829
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:29,360
Speaker 2: a good moon, so I might turn dude the titos.

830
00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:33,319
Speaker 2: Get grandma loose your auntie, Lou.

831
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:36,359
Speaker 1: I know you are unty because only unteas drink tea. Man,

832
00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 1: give me that short of name. I put little shot

833
00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:40,320
Speaker 1: of titos.

834
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 2: A little only person goes to the club, be like,

835
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:44,640
Speaker 2: can I get titos.

836
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:44,759
Speaker 1: Or I ordered?

837
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:46,319
Speaker 2: They'd be like, you know, bitches old when she goes

838
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:47,880
Speaker 2: to the club and order shardonnay.

839
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:50,799
Speaker 1: Let me get that best foot Why I'm not gonna lie.

840
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 1: I be ordering chardonnay though, and That's what I'm saying.

841
00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:55,439
Speaker 2: So I'm not about to upsell myself because I don't

842
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:56,839
Speaker 2: know what pussy you're gonna get.

843
00:34:57,200 --> 00:35:00,759
Speaker 1: Garfield got a monitor of her own, okay, So I'm

844
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:02,960
Speaker 1: not about to until he's consistent.

845
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 2: No, hell no, cause some niggas they do what they

846
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:13,239
Speaker 2: supposed to do. And Godfield be ready. Sometimes God feel no, bitch,

847
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 2: we just clocking in.

848
00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:17,400
Speaker 1: Man. You you know you gotta.

849
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 2: Pay the tab. What I told you, Sometimes you gotta

850
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:22,400
Speaker 2: pay the tap. I'm not gonna lie like y'all. Everybody

851
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 2: know I loved Nigerian Bank. Nageria Bank was my man.

852
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 1: But that first night in Legos, we didn't fuck.

853
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:30,560
Speaker 2: It was a second night we fucked. I wasn't necessarily

854
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 2: ready to fuck, but I knew I had.

855
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 1: To pay for the trap. The tab tap. You gotta

856
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:36,360
Speaker 1: pay your tab.

857
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 4: I ain't never fucked the nigga that I didn't want

858
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:40,760
Speaker 4: to fuck when I fucked him.

859
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:47,359
Speaker 1: Never, not one time. I definitely did that before any

860
00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:48,240
Speaker 1: nigga that I fucked.

861
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 2: It's like maybe things happen are transpired after we fucked.

862
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:53,320
Speaker 2: That made me feel like, damn, I wish I wouldn't

863
00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:55,840
Speaker 2: have fucked that nigga. But like when I decided to

864
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:58,280
Speaker 2: fuck them, it was always yuh, like I was ready

865
00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 2: because I mean, I feel like a lot of things

866
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 2: have changed, so it's like like I'm not go along

867
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 2: like when I missed the Cowboy maybe except for that

868
00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:09,399
Speaker 2: one time.

869
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 1: I remember that one time. That's what I was about

870
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:13,399
Speaker 1: to say. But I talked about that on the show though.

871
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 4: But that was the only time in my life that

872
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:17,600
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873
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874
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875
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Speaker 2: But like I said, I mean, I don't do that.

876
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:26,560
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877
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878
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882
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883
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884
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885
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886
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887
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Speaker 1: And I don't even got to use a blender. Yes,

888
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889
00:36:57,160 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 2: But I feel like it's just easier, especially for people

890
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:01,920
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891
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892
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894
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895
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896
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897
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Speaker 4: my favorite ones is the orange piece.

898
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:20,960
Speaker 1: Yes, I like to.

899
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Speaker 2: Cash you Mocha, you know, I like a little nuts

900
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901
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:27,680
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902
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908
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913
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Speaker 1: I don't so speaking of it nasty.

914
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:07,920
Speaker 2: We don't get into the bit out bow about about about.

915
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 1: Bow bow I'll be a gig every time we do that.

916
00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:11,840
Speaker 1: It is about.

917
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 2: So today I wanted to talk about weird turn on

918
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:18,560
Speaker 2: because I think a lot of men don't understand the

919
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:20,760
Speaker 2: things that get you the pussy. A lot of times

920
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 2: are things that turn women on outside of the bedroom

921
00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 2: that are non sexual, like nothing sexual at all, and

922
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:30,759
Speaker 2: that just be like making a pussy jump a little bit,

923
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:33,319
Speaker 2: like sometimes you should a nigga do something, you be like,

924
00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:35,440
Speaker 2: h what makes you go?

925
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:38,919
Speaker 1: Like there? What makes you do that? I know Youvene

926
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:39,479
Speaker 1: did that before.

927
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:41,640
Speaker 2: You'd be like I have seen you in the club

928
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 2: one time sweat and I'm like, damn, what's she swing?

929
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:50,239
Speaker 1: What was you a liar? What? What? What's a weird

930
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 1: turn on that you have?

931
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:54,760
Speaker 2: A weird like that's I won't use the word weird,

932
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 2: but just a turn on that's non sexual, like like

933
00:38:57,760 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 2: why are you turned.

934
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:01,239
Speaker 1: On right now? Like what niggas have good smelling breaths.

935
00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:03,839
Speaker 2: Okay, that's not that's not weird though. That's just like

936
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 2: you like good hygiene. It is a little weird though,

937
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:08,480
Speaker 2: I mean it'd be weird if you like open a

938
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:15,480
Speaker 2: nigga mouth and you're like that's different, that's different, Like

939
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:18,640
Speaker 2: you say you just like a nice smelling breath. It's

940
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:20,200
Speaker 2: like to the point that it's like I'll be trying

941
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:21,880
Speaker 2: to get close because I'll be trying to sniffy.

942
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 1: I mean, so I can like see what this meant, right, Okay,

943
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 1: I get it. I can go to the bathroom real

944
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:30,800
Speaker 1: quik Okay, but do not come bag. That's not bad.

945
00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:32,719
Speaker 1: That's not bad me.

946
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:36,640
Speaker 2: I love one thing that turned me on, Like I

947
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:41,359
Speaker 2: love when a nigga can drive good, drive hell yeah,

948
00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:45,799
Speaker 2: swinging when he put on that blink up not.

949
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:47,120
Speaker 1: The blinker.

950
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 2: I love because I feel like I hate when guys

951
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:53,680
Speaker 2: like be scared to drive and they be like, oh,

952
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 2: this traffic is bad.

953
00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:56,839
Speaker 1: You ain't got no ball.

954
00:39:56,960 --> 00:40:00,160
Speaker 2: Let your ball drop or cut that nigga off be

955
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:01,600
Speaker 2: saying it traffic.

956
00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:04,080
Speaker 1: I mean some people, this traffic is so bad.

957
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:09,759
Speaker 2: Edity five South, I cannot, Oh God, this traffic Atlanta is.

958
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 1: Just cutting up. That sounds like a fucking nerd. I

959
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:14,400
Speaker 1: feel I'm some niggas be nerd ass niggas. I like

960
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 1: my nigga be like, fuck this ship. We about those

961
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 1: swin niggas be swain that is. I guess that is

962
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 1: a turnover.

963
00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:23,360
Speaker 2: I love when a nigga can drive good because I

964
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 2: can't drive, So I feel like, if you drive like me,

965
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:27,080
Speaker 2: you gotta puss it.

966
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:30,319
Speaker 1: Let's drive like miss Days. I sure knew. I mean

967
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:35,279
Speaker 1: that be me. This traffic is so bad, y'all. I

968
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:37,839
Speaker 1: like the old ass lady. I can't.

969
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 2: I can't now, I'm never gonna make it on time.

970
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:44,800
Speaker 2: Tie here, I'm five minutes away. I am not gonna

971
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 2: be on time today.

972
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:46,800
Speaker 1: That be me.

973
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,200
Speaker 2: So I feel like if you drive like that, it's

974
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:51,280
Speaker 2: only one pussy in this car in his mind.

975
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 1: Now, yeah, I say it's a drive good. That's that's

976
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:56,440
Speaker 1: a good that's a good point. Yeah.

977
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 2: I like a nigga that I know how to drive.

978
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 2: I like when niggas call me baby girl. You love

979
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:03,160
Speaker 2: baby girl, And it's crazy because rapper Bak calls.

980
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 1: Me that all the time.

981
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:10,600
Speaker 2: He'd be like, baby girl, baby girl. Alright, alright, so

982
00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:13,880
Speaker 2: baby girl, baby girl, baby girl, and the forehead keys,

983
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 2: hood niggas love to give you a four head keys,

984
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:18,279
Speaker 2: I don't talk about it. You love hood niggas, bro,

985
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:22,960
Speaker 2: you really do. Your roster is full of hood niggas dogs.

986
00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 2: Some of them are reformed though, don't do this. I

987
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 2: mean they're but they're still hood niggas.

988
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:27,480
Speaker 1: No, they' not.

989
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:30,239
Speaker 2: They far removed from the hoods, bikes removed, but they

990
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:33,839
Speaker 2: still be like what's up dryer? They do not talk

991
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:35,520
Speaker 2: Like last time I seen her, nigga, he had an

992
00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:39,960
Speaker 2: ankle bracetan and it wasn't diamonds, bitch, it wouldn't dimite.

993
00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 2: She had diamins on tuto the same speaking of dominds.

994
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:46,960
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. That's another weird turn on mine.

995
00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 2: I love it when a nigga icy who it ain't

996
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 2: nothing like an icy ass nigga, Like, I'm not gonna lie.

997
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:59,279
Speaker 2: Mister Carlo, when we went out that first icy as

998
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 2: a fault, I said, you, I see us the fault.

999
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:02,479
Speaker 1: What girl?

1000
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:03,640
Speaker 2: What man?

1001
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:07,279
Speaker 1: He had on the bus down? He had on, he.

1002
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 2: Had on a bunch of rings, he had on the chains.

1003
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 1: I said, good Field, behave behave yourself. I'm a lady, okay.

1004
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:21,120
Speaker 1: I like when niggas you got. I like a little.

1005
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 2: I like niggas that care about like details stuff like that.

1006
00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:28,600
Speaker 1: Like I feel like, you know, dress up and ken dress.

1007
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:34,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I feel like, oh my god, smell like

1008
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:37,080
Speaker 2: I told y'all, I get. I told you how I

1009
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 2: am by my perfume. I went to the doctor yesterday

1010
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:42,279
Speaker 2: to do my little check up everything. Literally I'm laying

1011
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:44,319
Speaker 2: on the table. The doctor was like, what's that that

1012
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 2: you have one? You're supposed to smell.

1013
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:48,320
Speaker 1: Good at all?

1014
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 2: When I tell you, that is the number one compliment

1015
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:54,239
Speaker 2: I get out of everything is that I smell good.

1016
00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:57,279
Speaker 2: So when a man smells good, look y'all, man, we're

1017
00:42:57,320 --> 00:42:59,879
Speaker 2: really putting y'all on game right now. If you want

1018
00:42:59,920 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 2: to really get the pussy out of a bad bitch,

1019
00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:03,880
Speaker 2: you do all these things.

1020
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 1: You gotta smell good.

1021
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 2: You gotta smell good, drive good, get you a little ice.

1022
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 1: The pussy is yours.

1023
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 4: Now this is a weird because to me, this stuff

1024
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:13,640
Speaker 4: isn't really weird though. That's like, I mean, it's just

1025
00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:16,160
Speaker 4: not one. But I think, like a weird turn on

1026
00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:18,880
Speaker 4: it I have. I like when niggas have like long eyelids,

1027
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:20,480
Speaker 4: she's like nice oledg's.

1028
00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 1: I like that too. I used to ask my nigga

1029
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:24,799
Speaker 1: what you got on seven quarter to something? Remember Mark?

1030
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 2: Remember uh remember Marine that we used to work with,

1031
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 2: Marine the nicest, last.

1032
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:32,359
Speaker 1: Marine had beautiful last year, thick it for. I used

1033
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:34,680
Speaker 1: to be like, who your last lady? He did?

1034
00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:36,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I mean I have to do it like

1035
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 2: features turn on. I guess yeah, but I also, okay,

1036
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 2: this is the last one and then we're gonna move on.

1037
00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 2: I like men who are open with their food palette too,

1038
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:51,880
Speaker 2: Like if we go somewhere, like you don't mind trying

1039
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:56,239
Speaker 2: different things, or you don't mind like like you know

1040
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:57,759
Speaker 2: what you want, Like if we go somewhere and you

1041
00:43:57,800 --> 00:43:59,040
Speaker 2: are in a well done state.

1042
00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:02,719
Speaker 1: You shaking the table, trying to cut that file at

1043
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:04,399
Speaker 1: and I'm like.

1044
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:06,719
Speaker 2: This, you're trying to hold it still, you spilling my

1045
00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:13,280
Speaker 2: sharp neck. Put your steak open, nigga.

1046
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:12,719
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.

1047
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:16,920
Speaker 4: I absolutely agree with you because I went out or

1048
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 4: I went on a date not that long ago, and like,

1049
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:22,960
Speaker 4: the dude had ordered a well done steak and I'm like,

1050
00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:25,919
Speaker 4: you don't want to order a medium and he was like, no,

1051
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 4: I don't want it to wear blood coming out, and shit,

1052
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 4: I said, this medium blood is not going to be

1053
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:30,600
Speaker 4: coming out.

1054
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:32,520
Speaker 1: I was like, but I feel like you'll enjoy it better.

1055
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:34,840
Speaker 4: It's gonna be a little more tender, easier to choose

1056
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:36,760
Speaker 4: flavor flavor.

1057
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:38,200
Speaker 1: I don't trust your palate.

1058
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:39,799
Speaker 2: Because if you eat a well done steak, what type

1059
00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:40,880
Speaker 2: of pussy is you eating?

1060
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 1: Bro well done pussy, pussy, you know what I'm saying.

1061
00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:52,399
Speaker 1: Pussy that's cooked, cooked, good, dry, you know what I'm saying.

1062
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:53,760
Speaker 1: So I don't trust.

1063
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:56,000
Speaker 2: I like a nigga that like when we sit down

1064
00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 2: to eat, he's like suggesting, oh, this is good, this

1065
00:44:58,520 --> 00:44:58,839
Speaker 2: is good.

1066
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 1: Oh you should try to want to try different stuff. Yes,

1067
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:04,040
Speaker 1: Like I know a guy.

1068
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:05,759
Speaker 2: That my friend had that long time ago. All this

1069
00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 2: nigga used to eat was fries. Not that's all he

1070
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 2: used to eat.

1071
00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:12,680
Speaker 1: I know him, Yeah, I mean we all know him.

1072
00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 1: That's my nigga. Be like, all you eat is fries.

1073
00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:17,120
Speaker 2: Bro, I'm telling you, no't matter where he goes, you

1074
00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:19,839
Speaker 2: had stay forty eight, you can order you some law.

1075
00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:22,320
Speaker 1: He's gonna pay for everything because he's definitely a b B.

1076
00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:27,480
Speaker 2: But he's like, let me get them fries, make them trustfleettle.

1077
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:30,600
Speaker 2: But I'm like, all he eat is fried, I would imagine,

1078
00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:33,080
Speaker 2: but I would imagine. You gotta switch it up if

1079
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:35,560
Speaker 2: all you eat is fries, Like you gotta try that.

1080
00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:36,920
Speaker 1: It's such a turn off to me.

1081
00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 2: Like, I understand people like what they like, but I

1082
00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:40,760
Speaker 2: like a man with a nice palate.

1083
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:42,400
Speaker 1: I used to fuck with a nigga who are he

1084
00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 1: would eat with chicken senders? See, I don't like that.

1085
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 2: That is child is everywhere you used to talk to

1086
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:49,920
Speaker 2: Jackson because that's the only person.

1087
00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 1: I know that girl.

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00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 4: Yes, he used to That's all he would order every

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00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 4: time we would go out to eat chicken fucking senders.

1090
00:45:56,760 --> 00:46:04,399
Speaker 1: Fried baked salt. But it was a tender shout out

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Speaker 1: to him.

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Speaker 2: Yes, no, you're not lying about that, because I had

1093
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:14,399
Speaker 2: a cousin, like one of my little cousins when we

1094
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:17,480
Speaker 2: was growing up, Like they would cook and everybody would

1095
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:19,680
Speaker 2: eat all of the like whatever, you know, people in

1096
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:21,960
Speaker 2: the family would cook, but for his ass, they would

1097
00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 2: always go to fucking Popeyes and KFC and get him

1098
00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:28,680
Speaker 2: cheeky and because he wouldn't eat the food.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.

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00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:31,479
Speaker 2: I feel like growing up, I was a picky eater,

1101
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 2: but like as I grew up and I experienced things,

1102
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 2: like you.

1103
00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:37,879
Speaker 1: Just learned to like new things.

1104
00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:39,920
Speaker 2: So I feel like that says a lot about your

1105
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:43,440
Speaker 2: mentality as well, like you're just not even wanting to

1106
00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:44,919
Speaker 2: try anything else, you know what I'm saying.

1107
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:46,680
Speaker 1: So you think it's a personality thing.

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00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 4: Some people are just like that, like they're not really

1109
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 4: open to trying and trying new stuff.

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00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:55,760
Speaker 1: Because I could never just eat fries and all the time.

1111
00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:57,839
Speaker 1: So yeah, those are a weird turn on.

1112
00:46:57,960 --> 00:46:59,839
Speaker 2: So if y'all have any weird turn ons, I want

1113
00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 2: to know what they are, because I feel like those

1114
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:04,879
Speaker 2: are things that really just be like, Okay, I can

1115
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:10,600
Speaker 2: fuck with that. So now we're gonna get into ay about.

1116
00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:13,920
Speaker 1: Ay about about bow bow.

1117
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:17,120
Speaker 2: You want to go first, You want to go first first, girl.

1118
00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:19,160
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna tell you what they said about you,

1119
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:20,040
Speaker 2: for you got.

1120
00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:26,319
Speaker 1: Here to me. What they say, I'm gonna say after

1121
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:27,399
Speaker 1: I do my bop of the week.

1122
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:30,600
Speaker 2: So my bop of the week is by max So

1123
00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:33,320
Speaker 2: Cream and it has Tyler the Creator on there. That

1124
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:36,480
Speaker 2: just dropped a song called Big Persona. So, first of all,

1125
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:38,160
Speaker 2: shout out to Maxo Cream. I know a lot of

1126
00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:40,480
Speaker 2: y'all have bm bus about this. Yes, that was us

1127
00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:43,160
Speaker 2: on the intro Maxo Cream song a long time ago.

1128
00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:48,120
Speaker 2: But let me say this about Tyler the Creator. I feel, Okay,

1129
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 2: Tyler the Creator has Grammys, he has the numbers, he's

1130
00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:53,279
Speaker 2: super talented. But I feel like every time we have

1131
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:58,400
Speaker 2: conversations about the best rappers out right now, people always

1132
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:01,240
Speaker 2: talk about you know, they'll say the dress of future,

1133
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:04,319
Speaker 2: like whoever is relevant at the moment, and they never

1134
00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:07,840
Speaker 2: bring Tyler the Creator up in these conversations. When I

1135
00:48:07,880 --> 00:48:10,480
Speaker 2: tell you this, nigga be rapping his ass off, and

1136
00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:12,840
Speaker 2: I think it's because his style is a little different.

1137
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:15,760
Speaker 2: He's not too open about his sexuality. He's not rapping

1138
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:16,960
Speaker 2: about fucking holes, but.

1139
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:18,239
Speaker 1: He popped his shit.

1140
00:48:18,480 --> 00:48:20,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, he talked his shit because at the end of

1141
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:22,080
Speaker 2: the day, you niggas don't got more money to him,

1142
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:23,960
Speaker 2: y'all ain't got better cards than him.

1143
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 1: Y'all not fucking with him, period.

1144
00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:28,160
Speaker 2: So it's like a lot of times they just want

1145
00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:31,360
Speaker 2: to leave him out of the conversation because of other factors.

1146
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:33,360
Speaker 1: But don't get it twisted.

1147
00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:38,480
Speaker 2: Tyler the Creator eight on this song, he was just

1148
00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:40,640
Speaker 2: popping his shit. And you know, I love when people

1149
00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:42,960
Speaker 2: pop they shit. That's another weird turn on. I like

1150
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:45,520
Speaker 2: when niggas talk that shit like I'm that nigga and

1151
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:46,120
Speaker 2: Tyler the Crea.

1152
00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:47,719
Speaker 1: I used to have a big crush on him back

1153
00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:48,839
Speaker 1: in the day. Really I did.

1154
00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:52,200
Speaker 2: Like if people want to ask, I don't have a type,

1155
00:48:52,320 --> 00:48:54,279
Speaker 2: but if you really, like, if I had to say

1156
00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:56,840
Speaker 2: what my type is, I would say, like a Tyler

1157
00:48:56,840 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 2: the Creator type personally, physically and stuff.

1158
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:00,359
Speaker 1: Yes, every thing.

1159
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 2: I think he's so cute, but well we're not talking

1160
00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:08,760
Speaker 2: about that. God damn it, Tylerer Creator. Maxo Cream, big persona.

1161
00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:13,160
Speaker 2: Maxo Cream is very slept on. He's one of the

1162
00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:16,160
Speaker 2: top artists out of Houston, A lot of people fuck

1163
00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 2: with him, but not enough in my opinion, because he

1164
00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:19,400
Speaker 2: always delivers.

1165
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:20,600
Speaker 1: The song is amazing.

1166
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:23,960
Speaker 2: It's definitely like a pop my ship song, and you

1167
00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:27,160
Speaker 2: know we love to pop our ships. So yeah, yeah,

1168
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:31,359
Speaker 2: Maxo Cream featuring Tyller the Creator, Big Persona shout out

1169
00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 2: to a little Toby shout out. So let's go, Joya,

1170
00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:41,600
Speaker 2: Let's go. They were making a bit on what your

1171
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:42,400
Speaker 2: bop of the week was.

1172
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:45,360
Speaker 1: Of course everyone knows what of the week is gonna be?

1173
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 1: Dum Which song they said? They on song and song

1174
00:49:58,880 --> 00:49:59,680
Speaker 1: the whole album.

1175
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 2: I'm kidding, but I feel like it was a few

1176
00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:04,480
Speaker 2: songs on the album.

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00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:06,960
Speaker 1: But you got to tell them what album drink album?

1178
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:07,239
Speaker 2: Duh.

1179
00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:11,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, Oliver Boy came out with a few days ago

1180
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:14,920
Speaker 4: or whatever, So yeah, of course, I know. I've been

1181
00:50:14,920 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 4: listening to it. Everybody been listening to it, everybody's been

1182
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:20,520
Speaker 4: talking about it. I would have to say, like my

1183
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 4: top five songs on the album is like the song

1184
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:25,279
Speaker 4: with Little Baby, the.

1185
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:29,080
Speaker 1: Girls Want Girl song, the one would give You on Yeah,

1186
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 1: that's that's one of my top too.

1187
00:50:30,840 --> 00:50:35,120
Speaker 4: I like pipe Downie, I like the song with Ye.

1188
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:37,040
Speaker 1: But yeah, but what how are you saying? I mean,

1189
00:50:37,080 --> 00:50:38,080
Speaker 1: it's just really her song.

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00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:40,720
Speaker 4: Well it's just her song, but yeah, I'm saying it's

1191
00:50:41,120 --> 00:50:43,680
Speaker 4: on the album. But yeah, so and then I also

1192
00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 4: like I like knife Talk. But then I also got

1193
00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:51,000
Speaker 4: a shout out the into Deep song with Future because

1194
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:56,320
Speaker 4: if you know you now, if you're from Houston, from Texas,

1195
00:50:57,200 --> 00:51:00,279
Speaker 4: what was the name of that song? Get throwed Houston class.

1196
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:02,680
Speaker 2: See, and then you know he has a TSU. You know,

1197
00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 2: I'm a TSU alumni. Shout out to TSU. But I'm

1198
00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:08,560
Speaker 2: not gonna lie, y'all. I was in the club the

1199
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 2: other night and wait, too Sexy came on. Y'all know,

1200
00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 2: I'm all bitch. I threw that ass so hard my

1201
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:15,000
Speaker 2: back blue out bit.

1202
00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna like, I'm not gonna lie, like way too,

1203
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:19,799
Speaker 1: Saxty too, that shit went hard in the club. I'm

1204
00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:22,439
Speaker 1: not gonna lie to you. Yeah, that shit go hard.

1205
00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:25,200
Speaker 2: I feel like it is and it's a video to Yeah,

1206
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:27,360
Speaker 2: the video is fired. But I also feel like a

1207
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:30,040
Speaker 2: lot of people are kind of scared to make club

1208
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:32,759
Speaker 2: music right now because everybody wants to be like, oh,

1209
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:35,720
Speaker 2: we got to prove that hip hop is still alive,

1210
00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:37,840
Speaker 2: and everybody want to wrap like j Cole and Kendrick.

1211
00:51:37,880 --> 00:51:39,759
Speaker 2: But y'all not Jake Cole and Kendrick, you know what

1212
00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:42,279
Speaker 2: I'm saying. So one thing I can appreciate about Drake

1213
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:44,319
Speaker 2: is he stays in his lane. He don't give a

1214
00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:46,560
Speaker 2: fuck what y'all doing. He's gonna do what he does,

1215
00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:49,520
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So, Yeah, Certifi Loverable Boy

1216
00:51:49,640 --> 00:51:51,400
Speaker 2: is not my favorite album, but it was good.

1217
00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:53,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not my favorite Drake album either.

1218
00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:57,440
Speaker 2: Absolutely, But I love the Rollout though, Like the Rollout

1219
00:51:57,520 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 2: was fired after Blackboards and yeah, with the Billboards, that

1220
00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:04,680
Speaker 2: was amazing. The song with Tims, you know, like, let

1221
00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:06,400
Speaker 2: me tell y'all something about Tim. Let me go on

1222
00:52:06,600 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 2: Tim's rent real quick, and then we're gonna move on.

1223
00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:12,520
Speaker 2: Tims ate Drake up on that song, first of all,

1224
00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:14,880
Speaker 2: but she eats everybody up. You have never heard a

1225
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:17,080
Speaker 2: song with Tim's on it, and she didn't eat somebody up.

1226
00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:19,799
Speaker 2: So I say this all the time. If you haven't

1227
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:21,839
Speaker 2: listened to Tim's album, please go listen to it. Her

1228
00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:24,680
Speaker 2: talent is out of this world. Her voice is something

1229
00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:26,759
Speaker 2: that I haven't heard in a long time. You know

1230
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:29,440
Speaker 2: how people have that voice? Like not comparing the two,

1231
00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:31,760
Speaker 2: but you remember how like shot Ages has that voice

1232
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:35,040
Speaker 2: that you can always recognize no matter what it can

1233
00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:37,960
Speaker 2: be on any kind of record. Tims has that voice.

1234
00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:40,160
Speaker 2: It don't matter what you hear her on, you're gonna

1235
00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:42,320
Speaker 2: know that. Oh that's Tims, you know what I'm saying.

1236
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:45,319
Speaker 2: So shout out to Tims. She's a superstar. I don't

1237
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 2: care what she dropped. I'm supporting it, love it. I'm

1238
00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:50,759
Speaker 2: glad Drake brought her on the album because, yeah, she

1239
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:53,959
Speaker 2: was the only female on the album besides the Yebber girl.

1240
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:56,240
Speaker 2: You know, it wasn't a lot of females on the album.

1241
00:52:56,560 --> 00:52:57,920
Speaker 2: It was a lot of women on the album.

1242
00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, talk talk. She was just talking, you know

1243
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:03,000
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

1244
00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:05,640
Speaker 2: She per you shout out to me, But yeah, I

1245
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:08,759
Speaker 2: feel but Tims was the only feature on there that

1246
00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:11,919
Speaker 2: was like with Drake, like they're on there together. So yeah,

1247
00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:14,080
Speaker 2: shout out to Tims. You're doing big things. We love

1248
00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:17,480
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Speaker 1: Today of course.

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Speaker 4: Okay, and don't forget to send in your testimonial.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're doing testimonials now. So and before we begin

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Speaker 2: into this, I know we always forget to say this.

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Speaker 2: get our subscribers up, so, y'all because a lot of

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Speaker 2: times y'all be like, what an episode? At the episode,

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Speaker 2: make sure y'all subscribe. If you subscribe to the channel,

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Speaker 2: you're gonna get notifications as soon as it drops. So

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Speaker 2: make sure y'all subscribe to the channel. It's like one click,

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Speaker 2: like that's.

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Speaker 4: E'lso subscribe to the patreon. Yeah, well we join bonus

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Speaker 4: content every week.

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Speaker 1: You want to read the first one? Okay? Question one?

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Speaker 4: Hey ladies, hope all is well with you all. I'm

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Speaker 4: thirty and my man is fifty. We now one another

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Speaker 4: for eleven years now. He's a cop and works off

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Speaker 4: duty at my job. We've been intimate and exclusive for

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Speaker 4: about three years now, y'all. My BDB has been good

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Speaker 4: to me. I have no complaints in our relationship. He

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Speaker 4: supported me financially the past two years. My personal money

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Speaker 4: is completely mine and your girl savings is bursting. I

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Speaker 4: bought my first home last year and we lived together

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Speaker 4: and now we live together in my home.

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Speaker 1: Okay. Now this year he has started a company.

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Speaker 4: Something happened with the company where he needed a couple

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Speaker 4: thousand dollars.

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Speaker 1: I offered to give him the money.

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Speaker 4: He said, okay, the problem has come where I told

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Speaker 4: him to sign a promisary note. Y'all, this man got

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Speaker 4: in his feelings tough and didn't take my money and

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Speaker 4: claims that I'm wrong and he has never had anyone

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Speaker 4: do that to him forgetting I'm a business woman.

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Speaker 1: First.

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Speaker 4: His frustration was that he gives me half of all

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Speaker 4: his money and never asks for anything for me.

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Speaker 1: Y'all.

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Speaker 4: I don't care about none of that. I told him

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Speaker 4: he's been paying and his way, that's hor leaving money.

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Speaker 4: We are not married and he could leave me anytime

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Speaker 4: and the next pretty young thing that's her eyes. I

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Speaker 4: have to cover my ass, he says, I ax single.

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Speaker 4: Any who am I wrong?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 4: I quit my job this year and currently unemployeed. So

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Speaker 4: my savings is all I have.

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Speaker 2: Do you want me to ja?

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Speaker 1: Yes? Let me say this.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So, first of all, no, you said a couple

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Speaker 2: of thousand dollars. A couple is two, so it's two

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Speaker 2: thousand dollars. Okay, that's how I'm taking it as And

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Speaker 2: this man has been financially taking care of you for

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Speaker 2: two years and he came up on some hard times

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Speaker 2: and you make it hang you for two thousand dollars.

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Speaker 1: You should have really rethought before quitting that job.

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Speaker 2: Sound like to me because I feel like if you

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Speaker 2: have a BDB, especially as a business owner, you know,

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Speaker 2: sometimes shit gets hard. That's the if y'all want to

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Speaker 2: attract these men that have all these things, you know,

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Speaker 2: sometimes shit happens and you tripping over two thousand dollars?

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Speaker 1: You tripping? You wrong?

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Speaker 4: You a promisary? I would never ask no nigga who

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Speaker 4: didn't need a How is she for me?

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Speaker 1: You have my house because of him?

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Speaker 4: Can he sign a promisary now? Because at the end

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Speaker 4: of the day, all of she you do indeed for me?

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Speaker 4: Who even gives the fuck if you give me their

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Speaker 4: two bands?

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Speaker 2: Big? Who cares about two bands? You're in a holl Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you're in the house. You have saved money. You're like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's in your savings and y'all aren't married. But at

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Speaker 2: the end of the day, this man has bent over

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Speaker 2: backwards for you and I'm pretty sure that once he

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Speaker 2: gets back on his feet, he's gonna continue to do

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Speaker 2: the things that he's done for you before. So you're

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Speaker 2: not even thinking in the long run, girl, like you

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Speaker 2: really tripping two thousand dollars?

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Speaker 4: That ain't nothing a few thousand dollars, even if it

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Speaker 4: was more than two thousand dollars, even if it was

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Speaker 4: like five, over the course the time of the things

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Speaker 4: that he's done for you, Like why you're tripping over

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Speaker 4: with some bread when you know he like when he

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Speaker 4: got it, he give me.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, arguing over money in a relationship,

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Speaker 2: like just having each other back, especially if he's proven

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Speaker 2: himself and he's taking care of you and he's done

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Speaker 2: what he's supposed to do for two years. I hate

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Speaker 2: talking about money and I hate doing that, but you

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Speaker 2: tripping You're right?

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Speaker 1: Am I wrong? Yes?

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Speaker 4: And then it's like, if you know what I mean,

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Speaker 4: like help him out, like give him a little bread.

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Speaker 1: Because he doesn't have so much for you. But then

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Speaker 1: if he don't get back on his.

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Speaker 2: Feed, that's when look, I'll give you this two thousand dollars,

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Speaker 2: but you got six months now you.

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Speaker 1: Knew it was a kid exactly. It's always a catch.

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Speaker 2: Give him the money, but hold on, she makes together.

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Speaker 1: You gotta do right, all right?

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Speaker 2: So next question, it says, Hey, ladies, I came across

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Speaker 2: y'all from y'all first time on eighty five South, and

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Speaker 2: I've been hooked ever since. Keep it up and keep

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Speaker 2: teaching us how to secure the bag. I'm twenty four

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Speaker 2: with two kids. Let's start there. I'm with my baby daddy.

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Speaker 2: Though he is a great father and a good man overall,

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Speaker 2: on good are bad terms. He makes sure I keep

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Speaker 2: money in my pocket and I appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: Here's the problem. We argue daily over small stuff.

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Speaker 2: We've had our problems like every couple, but I was

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Speaker 2: drawn from the relations ship Mentally. I'm completely done in

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Speaker 2: my head, but I find myself staying so he can

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Speaker 2: have a close relationship with his kids. I don't want

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Speaker 2: him to feel like I'm taking his kids if I leave,

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Speaker 2: because he gives off narcissistic, manipulative vibes.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I know y'all don't have kids, but I need some

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Speaker 2: big sister advice. What should I do? Please help me? Okay, Oh,

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Speaker 2: go ahead, you want to say something.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like.

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Speaker 4: Any relationship that you're in with anybody where y'all arguing

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Speaker 4: every day is unhealthy. So I would definitely like revaluate

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Speaker 4: the relationship and I probably would like take a break

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Speaker 4: from me.

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Speaker 2: I feel like this when it comes to having kids,

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Speaker 2: just because, like I said, y'all know, my sister has kids.

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Speaker 2: I love my nephews, and I know, like I'm not

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Speaker 2: ever putting my sister's business out there, but you know,

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Speaker 2: people go through things. So being somebody that witnessed that,

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Speaker 2: because like we don't have kids, let me tell you something.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't matter what you're going through with somebody that

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Speaker 2: y'all not getting along. Put the kids first. Just put

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Speaker 2: the kids first. You don't have to be there for

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Speaker 2: him to be there for the kids. Right, y'all go

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Speaker 2: your separate ways because you're not happy, you can leave,

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Speaker 2: you can split up with him. Just make sure you

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Speaker 2: give him his kids so he can see his kids.

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Speaker 2: It needs to be about the kids, period. Nothing else

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Speaker 2: needs to be saying. The thing is too It's like,

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Speaker 2: if you're staying with him, just off the strength because

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Speaker 2: you want you don't be able to have a relationship

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Speaker 2: with his kids.

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Speaker 1: But then y'all arguing every day. Then you not happy.

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Speaker 2: So it's like you're not really putting your child, your

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Speaker 2: children in the environment, honestly, because what type of.

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Speaker 4: Parent are you if you're not happy? Mm hm, I

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Speaker 4: agree with you, know what I'm saying. How can you

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Speaker 4: really be there for your kids in the way you

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Speaker 4: need to when you're unhappy?

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Speaker 1: To his face?

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Speaker 4: Mentally, I just feel like, yeah, just because y'all have

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Speaker 4: kids together, their history and all this shit, don't mean

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Speaker 4: to go after all, you know what I mean? I

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Speaker 4: would take a break from the situation, and if y'all

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Speaker 4: meant to get back together, whatever the case may be,

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Speaker 4: then maybe it'll happen one day.

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Speaker 1: But if he's a good dad, he gonna be there

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Speaker 1: for your kids, whether y'all together or not.

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Speaker 2: And then it's like, you, young girl, the type of

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Speaker 2: man you're attracted to right now, you're probably not.

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Speaker 1: You're not.

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Speaker 2: Probably you're not gonna be attracted to whenever you turn thirty. Like,

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Speaker 2: so live your life, do what you do. Just make

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Speaker 2: it about y'all's relationship needs to be about the kids only.

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Speaker 1: Right, I agree? Question A three. Look at us giving

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Speaker 1: good advice? Hate this always?

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Speaker 4: Hey, lex Andrea, I'm a huge hate when they spell

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Speaker 4: your name like that. Yeh me either, because it's literally

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Speaker 4: everywhere dre Ea like all you like in the little

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Speaker 4: cap sheen on I here post a video.

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Speaker 1: Like I don't understand, but anyways.

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Speaker 4: I'm a huge fan. I love how independent y'all are.

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Speaker 4: Please keep it anonymous. My ex boyfriend beat me up

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Speaker 4: on a trip that we took a couple months ago.

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Speaker 4: We were both drunk and he accused me of cheating.

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Speaker 4: I got I got on a flight that morning and

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Speaker 4: lift his ass. That was the first and last time

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Speaker 4: I went home with cuts, bruises, and rug burns. He

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Speaker 4: continues to contact me from random text nine numbers, trying

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Speaker 4: to give me back. He blames it on the alcohol.

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Speaker 4: He seems genuinely sorry about what he did. I loved

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Speaker 4: him so much. I thought he would be the father

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Speaker 4: of my kids. Now I see him as a potential abuser.

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Speaker 4: He did it once, will he do it again? Can

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Speaker 4: an abuser change? Not a potential abuser?

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Speaker 1: He is an abuser? Leave it alone? Yeah, I agree,

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Speaker 1: because and.

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Speaker 2: If you cheated on him, I just I just sat

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Speaker 2: and told the story earlier in the episode about how

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Speaker 2: somebody had found out I was cheating on him, but

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Speaker 2: he didn't put his hands on me. Well, it's like,

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Speaker 2: it's never no excuse.

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Speaker 1: Even if he find out some shit like this, ain't

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Speaker 1: never no reason for you.

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Speaker 2: And I'll say this coming from somebody who I've been

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Speaker 2: in the abusive relationship before. I have been with somebody

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Speaker 2: who put their hands on me. It don't get better.

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Speaker 2: It does not get better. And you think that you

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Speaker 2: love this person, this is the end all be all.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. If you love somebody, you

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Speaker 2: ain't never gonna put your hands on them. I don't

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Speaker 2: care what anybody says. The smartest thing that you did

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Speaker 2: was leave. Because now when I look back on my

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Speaker 2: situation that I was in, I was like, what the

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Speaker 2: fuck were you think?

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Speaker 1: Thinking? Why the fuck did you stay for so long?

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: So I feel like a lot of times women we

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Speaker 2: feel like, oh, he's sorry, because those are the most

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01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:12,400
Speaker 2: manipulative people. They'll hurt you and they want to break

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Speaker 2: you down, and then they're gonna start crying and make

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Speaker 2: you feel like they're sorry. I don't care how much

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Speaker 2: I've been drinking. You don't do that to anybody.

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Speaker 4: I mean, and people love sublame shit on alcohol, but

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01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:26,880
Speaker 4: alcohol by giving people liquid courage exactly. I just be

1513
01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:29,160
Speaker 4: feeling like, when you do certain shit when you be drunk, beach,

1514
01:04:29,240 --> 01:04:30,080
Speaker 4: that's really who you are.

1515
01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:32,840
Speaker 1: And he's not a potential abuser. He is an abuser.

1516
01:04:32,880 --> 01:04:34,800
Speaker 2: So you need to stop making excuses for him in

1517
01:04:34,840 --> 01:04:36,880
Speaker 2: your head because that's what I did for a long time.

1518
01:04:37,240 --> 01:04:40,400
Speaker 2: Stop making excuses for him, girl, because he not gonna change.

1519
01:04:40,800 --> 01:04:42,680
Speaker 1: Move on. Let that shit be.

1520
01:04:42,640 --> 01:04:45,200
Speaker 4: Dead, yo, girl, you can find you another niggas to

1521
01:04:45,240 --> 01:04:49,480
Speaker 4: be your baby daddy period. Next question, My husband and

1522
01:04:49,520 --> 01:04:52,400
Speaker 4: I have been together for seventeen years and married for thirteen.

1523
01:04:52,880 --> 01:04:55,680
Speaker 4: We have an awesome friendship, but recently experienced a law

1524
01:04:55,760 --> 01:04:58,520
Speaker 4: that really had me reevaluating what I want. We have

1525
01:04:58,600 --> 01:05:02,840
Speaker 4: been discussing a pelamoory.

1526
01:05:04,200 --> 01:05:08,640
Speaker 1: Why I couldn't say this sit polamori, I don't know.

1527
01:05:08,840 --> 01:05:09,840
Speaker 6: Well, you're a smart one.

1528
01:05:11,160 --> 01:05:14,480
Speaker 2: I always think of polygamy. It's like polygamy relationships. I

1529
01:05:14,480 --> 01:05:16,920
Speaker 2: can't pronounce it, but maybe it's.

1530
01:05:16,800 --> 01:05:17,360
Speaker 1: The same thing.

1531
01:05:17,840 --> 01:05:20,080
Speaker 4: For about five to six years and agreed in the

1532
01:05:20,160 --> 01:05:23,360
Speaker 4: last year to open our marriage. I connected with my

1533
01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:26,560
Speaker 4: lover and it's divine. A few months into it and

1534
01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:29,280
Speaker 4: now my husband no longer wants to keep the marriage open.

1535
01:05:29,640 --> 01:05:31,600
Speaker 4: In fact, he has said he cannot be with me

1536
01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:34,080
Speaker 4: as his wife if I want to continue the relationship

1537
01:05:34,120 --> 01:05:37,200
Speaker 4: with my lover. I'm devastated because I love my husband

1538
01:05:37,240 --> 01:05:40,720
Speaker 4: and also my lover. They're both intelligence, sexy, confident, and

1539
01:05:40,760 --> 01:05:42,960
Speaker 4: wealthy men who I enjoy spending time with.

1540
01:05:43,400 --> 01:05:44,000
Speaker 1: I spend my.

1541
01:05:44,000 --> 01:05:47,280
Speaker 4: Time and energy at home and my family is my foundation.

1542
01:05:47,720 --> 01:05:50,160
Speaker 4: But I still want my lover. My husband and I

1543
01:05:50,200 --> 01:05:54,120
Speaker 4: have had ongoing conversations and we will restart counseling to

1544
01:05:54,200 --> 01:05:56,600
Speaker 4: address these. But it's hard because I feel like I

1545
01:05:56,640 --> 01:05:59,080
Speaker 4: want to live fully as my best self, a free

1546
01:05:59,120 --> 01:06:02,880
Speaker 4: woman and a mother and love who I want to love.

1547
01:06:03,200 --> 01:06:05,680
Speaker 4: I want my cake and eat it too. What else

1548
01:06:05,720 --> 01:06:08,400
Speaker 4: do you suppose, shoots? What else are you supposed to

1549
01:06:08,480 --> 01:06:13,000
Speaker 4: do with cake and my Drea voice? Honestly, what should

1550
01:06:13,040 --> 01:06:13,640
Speaker 4: I do?

1551
01:06:13,640 --> 01:06:15,640
Speaker 1: You know what song was in my mind? I can

1552
01:06:15,720 --> 01:06:17,440
Speaker 1: be your week love?

1553
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:18,600
Speaker 2: Really?

1554
01:06:19,160 --> 01:06:20,560
Speaker 1: Okay, So first of all, let me say this.

1555
01:06:21,280 --> 01:06:23,560
Speaker 2: Men love a open relationship because they think they about

1556
01:06:23,560 --> 01:06:25,080
Speaker 2: to have all the pussy, and they about to have

1557
01:06:25,160 --> 01:06:27,120
Speaker 2: all this. He didn't expect that you was gonna get

1558
01:06:27,160 --> 01:06:29,880
Speaker 2: some good dick on the side. That's what he wasn't

1559
01:06:29,920 --> 01:06:33,560
Speaker 2: ready for y'all need counseling because you getting dicked down

1560
01:06:33,560 --> 01:06:35,200
Speaker 2: on the side and the dick is good to you.

1561
01:06:35,920 --> 01:06:40,240
Speaker 2: So my thing is you need to have a conversation

1562
01:06:40,360 --> 01:06:45,360
Speaker 2: with your husband on why because y'all were discussing having

1563
01:06:45,360 --> 01:06:49,640
Speaker 2: an open relationship for five or six years and y'all

1564
01:06:49,640 --> 01:06:53,320
Speaker 2: finally decide to open y'all's relationship and now it's like,

1565
01:06:53,440 --> 01:06:55,880
Speaker 2: oh wait, never mind, because you win' and got some

1566
01:06:55,960 --> 01:06:59,560
Speaker 2: pussy that wasn't good, and she went and got some

1567
01:06:59,640 --> 01:07:01,880
Speaker 2: dick that was great. I think a lot of men

1568
01:07:01,960 --> 01:07:03,520
Speaker 2: do that. They want to say, I want to have

1569
01:07:03,560 --> 01:07:06,240
Speaker 2: an open relationship, but you're not thinking about the other

1570
01:07:06,320 --> 01:07:06,880
Speaker 2: side of it.

1571
01:07:07,280 --> 01:07:09,520
Speaker 1: And she was happy and you weren't.

1572
01:07:09,760 --> 01:07:11,479
Speaker 2: So the reason, let me tell you the real reason

1573
01:07:11,520 --> 01:07:14,400
Speaker 2: why he med agreed, Well, let me just finish real quick.

1574
01:07:15,320 --> 01:07:18,440
Speaker 2: He didn't find what he was looking for when they

1575
01:07:18,520 --> 01:07:20,640
Speaker 2: kept it open, and she found what she was looking

1576
01:07:20,680 --> 01:07:23,000
Speaker 2: for when they kept it open, and he mad about it.

1577
01:07:24,120 --> 01:07:26,040
Speaker 4: That's how he mad, because it's a man, and it's

1578
01:07:26,040 --> 01:07:26,960
Speaker 4: a man with his ego.

1579
01:07:27,280 --> 01:07:29,360
Speaker 1: That's all he did. Yeah, that's all I feel.

1580
01:07:29,720 --> 01:07:31,200
Speaker 4: I don't think it got nothing to do with him

1581
01:07:31,360 --> 01:07:33,480
Speaker 4: looking for whatever and not finding it.

1582
01:07:33,520 --> 01:07:34,440
Speaker 1: Like I feel like, if he.

1583
01:07:34,440 --> 01:07:37,360
Speaker 4: Wanted to have an open relationship, he definitely was getting

1584
01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:39,240
Speaker 4: what he wanted because he was fucking on other beaches.

1585
01:07:39,400 --> 01:07:41,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, but obviously not in a bitch I was better

1586
01:07:41,480 --> 01:07:43,400
Speaker 2: than her because he feeling.

1587
01:07:43,240 --> 01:07:45,080
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, but I feel like when you decide

1588
01:07:45,080 --> 01:07:47,840
Speaker 4: to have an open relationship, you not necessarily especially when

1589
01:07:47,840 --> 01:07:48,520
Speaker 4: you're married.

1590
01:07:48,600 --> 01:07:51,120
Speaker 1: I don't think he was looking for love with these other.

1591
01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:53,360
Speaker 2: Things, but he was looking for something to satisfy him,

1592
01:07:53,360 --> 01:07:56,760
Speaker 2: and he wasn't satisfying me gy Like pussy is pussy beach,

1593
01:07:56,880 --> 01:08:01,600
Speaker 2: That's all it is. Like, he definitely, you know what

1594
01:08:01,680 --> 01:08:03,320
Speaker 2: I mean, God, what he wanted, But at the end

1595
01:08:03,360 --> 01:08:05,560
Speaker 2: of the day, he's a man and you're still his

1596
01:08:05,640 --> 01:08:06,800
Speaker 2: wife at the end of the day.

1597
01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 1: So the fact that he could potentially be.

1598
01:08:08,760 --> 01:08:10,800
Speaker 4: Like, damn, you like this nigga, mother, you like me

1599
01:08:11,080 --> 01:08:13,440
Speaker 4: because that did good, That's all it is.

1600
01:08:14,720 --> 01:08:16,080
Speaker 1: And that's why he don't like this shit.

1601
01:08:16,160 --> 01:08:17,880
Speaker 4: He like, nah, we gotta did this she because you

1602
01:08:18,000 --> 01:08:21,519
Speaker 4: wasn't never supposed to like these niggas more than she'd.

1603
01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:26,040
Speaker 1: Be coming home. Like so what do you suggest she do?

1604
01:08:28,120 --> 01:08:31,000
Speaker 4: I think that you should do whatever make you happy,

1605
01:08:31,040 --> 01:08:32,360
Speaker 4: Like if you want to be with the lover Leo.

1606
01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:37,160
Speaker 2: But but changes because let me tell you something. This

1607
01:08:37,240 --> 01:08:40,120
Speaker 2: is coming from a serial cheating Now, a lot of

1608
01:08:40,120 --> 01:08:43,040
Speaker 2: time they're not cheating. He knows, yeah, but sometimes the

1609
01:08:43,520 --> 01:08:46,400
Speaker 2: thrill of knowing that, like I don't belong to you

1610
01:08:46,520 --> 01:08:49,880
Speaker 2: is what keeps the excitements. The thrill of when it

1611
01:08:49,920 --> 01:08:52,040
Speaker 2: comes to cheating, the thrill of like the other people

1612
01:08:52,080 --> 01:08:52,439
Speaker 2: not knowing.

1613
01:08:52,560 --> 01:08:54,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's not just not knowing.

1614
01:08:54,439 --> 01:08:56,439
Speaker 2: It's the thrill of because I feel like a lot

1615
01:08:56,479 --> 01:08:58,519
Speaker 2: of people know, like you know what the fuck I'm doing,

1616
01:08:59,760 --> 01:09:02,439
Speaker 2: But the thrill of knowing, I'm really not supposed to

1617
01:09:02,520 --> 01:09:05,479
Speaker 2: be here right now. We really not, because I'm pretty

1618
01:09:05,479 --> 01:09:08,320
Speaker 2: sure you and your love and be having conversations y'all

1619
01:09:08,360 --> 01:09:13,480
Speaker 2: not supposed to be having it's beyond because it's open relationship.

1620
01:09:13,560 --> 01:09:15,400
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is it's different though, Like if

1621
01:09:15,400 --> 01:09:17,479
Speaker 2: we have an old relationship, that means we're fucking other people,

1622
01:09:17,479 --> 01:09:19,400
Speaker 2: hanging out with other people. She probably laid up with

1623
01:09:19,439 --> 01:09:23,439
Speaker 2: that nigga, like I love you, but term that's.

1624
01:09:23,240 --> 01:09:25,639
Speaker 1: Not in a term you're not supposed to love nobody else.

1625
01:09:25,680 --> 01:09:28,639
Speaker 2: See, when I think of an open relationship, I always

1626
01:09:28,680 --> 01:09:31,280
Speaker 2: think of like, I'm open to do whatever I want

1627
01:09:31,320 --> 01:09:32,080
Speaker 2: with other people.

1628
01:09:32,600 --> 01:09:35,280
Speaker 4: It's not no boundaries. It's not like, oh, I could

1629
01:09:35,280 --> 01:09:37,400
Speaker 4: fuck you have but lay up with them.

1630
01:09:37,520 --> 01:09:39,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's supposed to be boundaries though, because that's where

1631
01:09:39,760 --> 01:09:42,080
Speaker 2: things get messy. That's how this shit got messy, because

1632
01:09:42,080 --> 01:09:43,440
Speaker 2: they didn't draw their boundaries.

1633
01:09:44,600 --> 01:09:46,320
Speaker 1: So she's in love with another man.

1634
01:09:48,479 --> 01:09:51,639
Speaker 2: I watched Temptations Tyler Perry wrong, we're gonna talk about

1635
01:09:51,640 --> 01:09:57,880
Speaker 2: that temptation I was. I was a Hulu the other

1636
01:09:57,960 --> 01:10:00,040
Speaker 2: day and and that movie did come up, and I

1637
01:10:00,120 --> 01:10:01,479
Speaker 2: was like, this movie was a hot ass me.

1638
01:10:01,680 --> 01:10:03,840
Speaker 1: I had to watch it again because I'm not gonna lie.

1639
01:10:04,400 --> 01:10:08,040
Speaker 1: It was hot. I'm not gonna lie, though. I would

1640
01:10:08,080 --> 01:10:10,960
Speaker 1: have been the mass wanted to say ash tray bitch,

1641
01:10:13,840 --> 01:10:14,640
Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna lit on.

1642
01:10:14,760 --> 01:10:16,360
Speaker 2: I would have loft like he had her own jets,

1643
01:10:16,360 --> 01:10:18,040
Speaker 2: but I would have been him with no condom, Like

1644
01:10:18,080 --> 01:10:18,839
Speaker 2: that was dumb.

1645
01:10:18,760 --> 01:10:19,599
Speaker 1: When you married.

1646
01:10:19,640 --> 01:10:22,960
Speaker 2: When you're married, tell me, y'alls, you could have been

1647
01:10:22,960 --> 01:10:24,599
Speaker 2: on the private jets having a good time, But why

1648
01:10:24,640 --> 01:10:25,240
Speaker 2: didn't you keep the.

1649
01:10:27,120 --> 01:10:29,519
Speaker 1: Keep the robound You can tell.

1650
01:10:29,560 --> 01:10:32,519
Speaker 2: You can tell she ain't been on the PJ before,

1651
01:10:32,600 --> 01:10:34,280
Speaker 2: how she was acting, she was excited.

1652
01:10:36,360 --> 01:10:42,640
Speaker 1: She ain't know what was going on, said tremendously. He

1653
01:10:42,840 --> 01:10:45,280
Speaker 1: knew what he was doing, what he was doing, That's

1654
01:10:45,280 --> 01:10:45,800
Speaker 1: what he gave her.

1655
01:10:45,880 --> 01:10:53,080
Speaker 2: That Karyan, We're not even gonna get into that. But anyway, girls,

1656
01:10:53,439 --> 01:10:57,400
Speaker 2: it's give me temptation. Be careful, but also do what

1657
01:10:57,479 --> 01:11:01,040
Speaker 2: makes you happy, you know, don't be trapped. So yeah,

1658
01:11:01,360 --> 01:11:04,680
Speaker 2: that's just be smart smart. So yeah, if you want

1659
01:11:04,680 --> 01:11:06,680
Speaker 2: your question answering the show, make sure you email us

1660
01:11:06,680 --> 01:11:09,160
Speaker 2: at ask poor Minds at gmail dot com.

1661
01:11:09,200 --> 01:11:11,960
Speaker 1: You ready for the song? This is a duet. We

1662
01:11:12,000 --> 01:11:16,120
Speaker 1: gonna sing this together. You ready? Have we sign this before? Bro?

1663
01:11:16,720 --> 01:11:20,760
Speaker 1: I know probably? I don't think so. I don't know

1664
01:11:20,800 --> 01:11:23,120
Speaker 1: why you want to sing me song? It's so good,

1665
01:11:23,640 --> 01:11:26,600
Speaker 1: is it? It always reminds me of what was the

1666
01:11:26,640 --> 01:11:30,400
Speaker 1: name of the movie? To say it all one Hun

1667
01:11:30,479 --> 01:11:34,880
Speaker 1: Blair Underwood was making what's it gonna nubby? Because I

1668
01:11:34,920 --> 01:11:36,040
Speaker 1: can't pretend.

1669
01:11:38,040 --> 01:11:45,360
Speaker 5: Don't you won't nub me more than frey, no letting,

1670
01:11:45,479 --> 01:11:52,679
Speaker 5: no jum. You have the right to lose control.

1671
01:11:52,920 --> 01:12:01,080
Speaker 1: Time, let up, oh, hold on often so that we

1672
01:12:01,320 --> 01:12:05,719
Speaker 1: could be more than just friends. I know you think

1673
01:12:05,920 --> 01:12:08,240
Speaker 1: that if we moved too soon.

1674
01:12:08,439 --> 01:12:13,559
Speaker 5: He would all in her living, misery, whining.

1675
01:12:13,000 --> 01:12:18,680
Speaker 6: You're not all around, and I won't be satisfied to

1676
01:12:18,840 --> 01:12:24,040
Speaker 6: a taken no smile, there'd be some love making hot

1677
01:12:24,200 --> 01:12:28,719
Speaker 6: aching so shaking hell love.

1678
01:12:28,800 --> 01:12:33,040
Speaker 2: Making hot aka? Oh?

1679
01:12:33,120 --> 01:12:37,440
Speaker 6: Was they go on me because I can't preteen?

1680
01:12:39,280 --> 01:12:39,400
Speaker 5: Jo?

1681
01:12:39,600 --> 01:12:47,720
Speaker 1: Won't me more home? I didn't no letting, No, no,

1682
01:12:50,360 --> 01:12:56,200
Speaker 1: you have the right to lose control. You better say

1683
01:12:56,360 --> 01:13:03,200
Speaker 1: that shit. I'm a fast forwarding in and out my life. Yeah,

1684
01:13:03,320 --> 01:13:05,599
Speaker 1: com is so comfious.

1685
01:13:05,760 --> 01:13:08,000
Speaker 6: You gotta make a sacrifice.

1686
01:13:09,040 --> 01:13:11,200
Speaker 1: Somebody's gotta choose.

1687
01:13:12,200 --> 01:13:15,840
Speaker 2: We can make it if we try for the sake

1688
01:13:16,000 --> 01:13:24,080
Speaker 2: of you, win together, wake and make it right. Was it.

1689
01:13:26,240 --> 01:13:29,840
Speaker 1: Because you can't keep running out on my life?

1690
01:13:30,000 --> 01:13:30,960
Speaker 3: Out on my life?

1691
01:13:31,040 --> 01:13:35,160
Speaker 1: I had on my life? It was his saistic like

1692
01:13:36,040 --> 01:13:37,479
Speaker 1: me like fucking grit.

1693
01:13:37,720 --> 01:13:42,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, like that was about I told you you think.

1694
01:13:41,960 --> 01:13:45,679
Speaker 1: I was feeling it? I was in my heart. See

1695
01:13:45,680 --> 01:13:50,320
Speaker 1: that's why it's you heavy? Oh was it going nubby? Yeah?

1696
01:13:50,360 --> 01:13:53,240
Speaker 2: It was about I used to always hit that hole

1697
01:13:53,240 --> 01:13:53,600
Speaker 2: when I was.

1698
01:13:54,120 --> 01:13:58,479
Speaker 1: Was it going nubby? Because I can't pretty?

1699
01:14:00,320 --> 01:14:06,920
Speaker 5: You gotta let her know your old dy mol and broadies,

1700
01:14:07,400 --> 01:14:10,240
Speaker 5: your nigga a homed hide and no let.

1701
01:14:11,720 --> 01:14:15,720
Speaker 2: I think he would be scared why why that was

1702
01:14:15,760 --> 01:14:16,720
Speaker 2: scary and that was.

1703
01:14:16,720 --> 01:14:22,320
Speaker 1: Not scary that day. You gotta do that and make

1704
01:14:22,360 --> 01:14:24,280
Speaker 1: him know you mean it. You look like Michael Jacks.

1705
01:14:24,400 --> 01:14:28,519
Speaker 1: You have the right to lose. That's like Michael Jackson

1706
01:14:28,600 --> 01:14:32,679
Speaker 1: move I've been waiting for my whole life.

1707
01:14:35,000 --> 01:14:38,000
Speaker 6: Would I told you about the cheers he homemade hide

1708
01:14:38,120 --> 01:14:39,080
Speaker 6: and no letting?

1709
01:14:41,560 --> 01:14:48,880
Speaker 1: Let no, you have a right to lose and hit

1710
01:14:49,000 --> 01:14:51,880
Speaker 1: it out my life. Okay, I can go. I can

1711
01:14:51,960 --> 01:14:56,880
Speaker 1: go all day. See. I love me, I love this song.

1712
01:14:57,120 --> 01:14:59,400
Speaker 1: I've been like, I cannot believe we haven't sang that

1713
01:14:59,479 --> 01:15:01,800
Speaker 1: song before. I think we have sung it before. We

1714
01:15:02,720 --> 01:15:04,840
Speaker 1: had to bring that ship back. Think of Michael Jackson

1715
01:15:04,880 --> 01:15:09,760
Speaker 1: song next time, you know, you know, can we beat it?

1716
01:15:10,840 --> 01:15:12,479
Speaker 1: But now we gotta wait till you get cald because

1717
01:15:12,479 --> 01:15:15,000
Speaker 1: we could pull off the live jack Oh and you

1718
01:15:15,040 --> 01:15:18,599
Speaker 1: know I got my short wi Thank y'all so much

1719
01:15:18,640 --> 01:15:19,320
Speaker 1: for tuning in.

1720
01:15:20,000 --> 01:15:22,280
Speaker 2: Maket y'all subscribed to the channel and we'll see y'all

1721
01:15:22,320 --> 01:15:22,800
Speaker 2: next week.

1722
01:15:24,120 --> 01:15:26,240
Speaker 1: No wait, that was a thriller.

1723
01:15:26,720 --> 01:15:31,519
Speaker 2: Thriller is good too, but he still had the jacket

1724
01:15:31,520 --> 01:15:33,800
Speaker 2: on and beat it.

1725
01:15:37,280 --> 01:15:41,519
Speaker 1: I got a woman, she's gonna be ready.

1726
01:15:43,640 --> 01:15:47,640
Speaker 2: I'll be telling you I'm coming for your ass.

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Speaker 1: I'm coming for you Spring stay. Oh my god, that

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Speaker 1: was funny.