WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: Flea Market Find + Due The Math 0:00:00.240 --> 0:00:01.960 Hey, thanks so much for being here on the weekend. 0:00:02.000 --> 0:00:03.960 It is the second Date podcast with Brooke and Jeffrey 0:00:04.000 --> 0:00:06.440 in the morning, the official one, and every. 0:00:06.320 --> 0:00:10.399 Saturday we feature two classics. Yeah, yeah, exactly that. 0:00:10.720 --> 0:00:10.800 Ye. 0:00:11.000 --> 0:00:12.520 Put them back to back so you get a little 0:00:12.560 --> 0:00:13.240 longer dose. 0:00:13.680 --> 0:00:13.760 Ye. 0:00:14.280 --> 0:00:17.520 And also if you guys love these and you want 0:00:17.520 --> 0:00:20.079 to see what they look like live, we're actually doing 0:00:20.239 --> 0:00:21.000 video now. 0:00:21.320 --> 0:00:23.920 Yes, this is a visual aspect to it all. 0:00:24.239 --> 0:00:24.520 Yeah. 0:00:24.760 --> 0:00:27.720 The better worse, I don't know. Yeah, And we're rolling 0:00:27.720 --> 0:00:28.520 out a little slowly. 0:00:28.600 --> 0:00:30.560 We don't have the biggest team in the world, so 0:00:30.600 --> 0:00:33.000 we're doing as much as we can. We've got two 0:00:33.159 --> 0:00:35.360 live videos up right now on our YouTube page at 0:00:35.360 --> 0:00:37.519 Briock and Jeffrey. Thank you so much for checking those 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:40.040 out and for subscribing and leaving a comment. 0:00:40.080 --> 0:00:42.279 Even if it's a comment that you were disappointed. We'll 0:00:42.360 --> 0:00:43.720 take that perfect too. 0:00:44.040 --> 0:00:46.080 Honestly, you took time out of your day to write 0:00:46.120 --> 0:00:49.879 us can appreciate you. So if you haven't, go check 0:00:49.920 --> 0:00:52.000 them out on YouTube again at Brick and Jeffrey, and 0:00:52.040 --> 0:00:53.720 your back to back classics start right now. 0:00:54.480 --> 0:00:58.320 It's good to set rules and boundaries early on in 0:00:58.360 --> 0:00:59.520 a new relationship. 0:00:59.720 --> 0:01:01.960 Yeah, Communications key there. 0:01:02.080 --> 0:01:04.800 Yeah, Like when Brooks started dating her husband, she made 0:01:04.840 --> 0:01:08.240 a rule on night one he wasn't allowed to cry 0:01:08.319 --> 0:01:14.400 when they hooked up. Well, let's just say that rule 0:01:14.520 --> 0:01:20.800 didn't last very long. One of them, but one of 0:01:20.840 --> 0:01:24.759 our listeners, was given a different stipulation before his first date. 0:01:25.200 --> 0:01:27.440 He had to say yes to it in order for 0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:31.160 them to meet. Is it better or worse than Brooks 0:01:31.280 --> 0:01:34.240 list of strict demands? We're gonna find out when we 0:01:34.319 --> 0:01:36.080 do your second date update. 0:01:35.959 --> 0:01:39.360 Next, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update. 0:01:41.000 --> 0:01:44.080 If anyone's been out on a date recently, you know 0:01:44.160 --> 0:01:48.200 how expensive it can be, not just for the food 0:01:48.240 --> 0:01:51.320 and drinks, but the blindfolds and the rubber bands. 0:01:51.880 --> 0:01:53.120 I thought you're going to say parking. 0:01:53.720 --> 0:01:57.080 Oh yeah, you do need a place to park before 0:01:57.080 --> 0:01:58.920 you set up all the rubber bands. I see, and 0:01:58.960 --> 0:02:01.360 I cannot find one strong enough to hold my wrists 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:05.840 down anymore. Wow, I don't know that is it's the tariffs, God, 0:02:06.040 --> 0:02:10.000 the tariffs on maximum strength rubber bands from Indonesia. They 0:02:10.040 --> 0:02:11.639 are through the roof right now. 0:02:11.720 --> 0:02:13.800 You just drive the rubber bands they put on a sparagus. 0:02:13.840 --> 0:02:14.760 Those are the fat boys. 0:02:15.280 --> 0:02:16.640 Are still not strong enough. 0:02:18.240 --> 0:02:19.760 Expensive, not stronger, Jeff. 0:02:20.160 --> 0:02:21.880 But that was the only place that make them stronger, 0:02:22.600 --> 0:02:25.320 and they cost so much money. I'm just I'm happy 0:02:25.360 --> 0:02:27.880 that our listener Leo figured out how to save a 0:02:27.919 --> 0:02:30.680 buck or two on his date recently, and I'm very 0:02:30.720 --> 0:02:33.240 curious how we did it. So Leo, welcome to the show. 0:02:35.080 --> 0:02:37.359 It's like what we get. 0:02:37.200 --> 0:02:39.919 Hello, Leo, are the rubber band tariffs hitting you hard 0:02:39.960 --> 0:02:41.600 to or did you rubber band yourself? 0:02:41.760 --> 0:02:42.560 Oh? 0:02:42.760 --> 0:02:43.760 No, I'm still here. 0:02:44.280 --> 0:02:45.120 I'm doing all right. 0:02:45.680 --> 0:02:49.880 Okay, where you get your extra strength rubber bands from? 0:02:50.960 --> 0:02:54.200 I don't typically need to get a lot of them. 0:02:55.760 --> 0:02:57.480 People just save them from random mail. 0:02:57.800 --> 0:02:59.000 That's actually kind of smart. 0:02:59.240 --> 0:03:01.639 I got them, or though I got too many of them. 0:03:01.520 --> 0:03:02.320 Actually. 0:03:03.560 --> 0:03:07.000 Share the wealth at some point. But hey, I know 0:03:07.040 --> 0:03:09.360 you went on a date with somebody recently. What's her name? 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:10.760 He names Marissa? 0:03:11.120 --> 0:03:12.680 Okay, where'd you meet her? 0:03:13.120 --> 0:03:17.160 We matched on bumble and we connected over a love 0:03:17.160 --> 0:03:21.080 of dogs. You know, we have two dogs, and it's 0:03:21.280 --> 0:03:23.000 just we we can't get enough of them. I mean, 0:03:23.000 --> 0:03:25.240 if we lived in bigger places, then we probably have 0:03:25.360 --> 0:03:26.919 more than just two, you know what I mean. 0:03:28.120 --> 0:03:32.840 Like one hundred and one Dalmatians that movie like yeah, okay, 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:35.520 but you said in your email you were able to 0:03:35.560 --> 0:03:37.960 save some money on your date. How did you do that? 0:03:38.760 --> 0:03:38.960 Oh? 0:03:39.080 --> 0:03:43.200 Yeah, So when we matched at first, she was very 0:03:43.240 --> 0:03:44.840 clear that she wanted to be friends. 0:03:44.840 --> 0:03:47.000 She didn't want to jump into anything like relationship. 0:03:47.080 --> 0:03:47.840 Here we go, she was. 0:03:49.360 --> 0:03:50.000 Yeah, yeah. 0:03:50.040 --> 0:03:53.360 So I suggested after we matched, just grabbing a coffee, 0:03:53.600 --> 0:03:56.000 but she countered with, how about we go to a 0:03:56.040 --> 0:03:56.840 flea market. 0:03:57.480 --> 0:04:03.080 Oh okay, that's how you say you come from. I 0:04:03.080 --> 0:04:04.880 was gonna say, that's how you saved money on your 0:04:04.960 --> 0:04:06.640 day with the flea market discounts. 0:04:06.960 --> 0:04:09.120 Yeah, I was willing to spend it. It was her idea. 0:04:09.360 --> 0:04:10.920 Yeah, that's awesome. 0:04:11.040 --> 0:04:14.440 I think it's impressive that you are good with being 0:04:14.480 --> 0:04:15.160 friends first. 0:04:15.400 --> 0:04:16.160 Yeah. 0:04:16.640 --> 0:04:19.680 I wouldn't do that, but that's great that I'm sort 0:04:19.720 --> 0:04:21.120 of the kind of guy that doesn't really want to 0:04:21.160 --> 0:04:25.280 jump into anything too fast myself. So I do have 0:04:25.520 --> 0:04:28.920 friends that are women, So like, if we decide that 0:04:29.040 --> 0:04:31.600 it doesn't work out, it's like, okay, well if we're 0:04:31.600 --> 0:04:33.640 at that friendship level first and we can stay that 0:04:33.680 --> 0:04:36.480 way and then you know, it's a positive. 0:04:37.000 --> 0:04:37.200 Yeah. 0:04:37.320 --> 0:04:40.159 I love that when you're like naturally friends totally. But 0:04:40.560 --> 0:04:42.560 what Brooke was saying too, to be like, I'm setting 0:04:42.560 --> 0:04:43.960 the tone friend zone right away. 0:04:44.279 --> 0:04:45.400 It's good that you work with that. 0:04:45.560 --> 0:04:47.919 Yeah, it's refreshing, I guess, is the thing. 0:04:48.080 --> 0:04:50.520 So take us to the flea market though, How did 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:50.760 that go? 0:04:52.240 --> 0:04:55.800 It went okay, which is better than okay, which is 0:04:55.880 --> 0:04:59.320 kind of weird to me. Why I haven't heard from 0:04:59.360 --> 0:04:59.960 her since then? 0:05:00.800 --> 0:05:02.599 But before I get into that, Yeah, we met up 0:05:02.640 --> 0:05:04.800 there and she looked like her pictures. 0:05:04.800 --> 0:05:07.440 Thank god, she was really really cute. 0:05:07.480 --> 0:05:09.480 You didn't want a friend that looks like somebody else. 0:05:11.480 --> 0:05:14.240 A friend thing does make it different, now, Yeah, yeah, 0:05:14.440 --> 0:05:16.960 that's right. You can't really judge that. Okay. 0:05:17.120 --> 0:05:20.000 So she was excited to be there too, and bargain 0:05:20.080 --> 0:05:22.080 hunt and all that, and we walked around that flee 0:05:22.160 --> 0:05:24.040 market for a good hour and a half. 0:05:26.320 --> 0:05:28.240 Yeah, what did you get into like a creative old 0:05:28.360 --> 0:05:30.080 used VHS tapes. 0:05:29.920 --> 0:05:31.960 Or rubber bands favorite? 0:05:32.120 --> 0:05:32.320 Yeah? 0:05:32.400 --> 0:05:35.240 Yeah, no rubber bands, but we did see vhss. There 0:05:35.360 --> 0:05:37.080 was a station that had a lot of those. 0:05:37.240 --> 0:05:44.680 Oh yeah, man, shocking, they're not selling so quickly. 0:05:42.160 --> 0:05:43.279 Has the machines to play them? 0:05:43.480 --> 0:05:46.760 Okay, So how was your connection with Marissa? 0:05:47.240 --> 0:05:50.040 It was good And I know that sometimes for these things. 0:05:50.040 --> 0:05:53.120 You guys ask what we talked about. We actually talked 0:05:53.120 --> 0:05:55.039 about taxidermy. 0:05:56.080 --> 0:05:57.000 Friends don't. 0:05:58.520 --> 0:06:01.800 Bund to find a couple whirls. 0:06:01.520 --> 0:06:04.360 Or yeah, we saw a boot for that actually for 0:06:04.480 --> 0:06:07.040 the texto Durny and uh. In fact, there was actually 0:06:07.040 --> 0:06:12.240 a fox there with a monocle on. So Marissa thought 0:06:12.320 --> 0:06:15.840 that it looks like elegance and I thought it. 0:06:15.800 --> 0:06:18.160 Looked straight up haunted. I was like, I would never 0:06:18.320 --> 0:06:19.760 let that into my home. 0:06:21.279 --> 0:06:23.680 Stuff fox, Well, that sounds like a funny point of 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:25.080 conversation one moments. 0:06:25.400 --> 0:06:26.080 Yeah, it was. 0:06:26.160 --> 0:06:29.520 It was did you guys buy anything? Take anything home? Yeah? 0:06:29.560 --> 0:06:32.320 We each got one thing. I got a Fleetwood mac 0:06:32.400 --> 0:06:35.520 record and she got one of those novelty aprons where 0:06:35.520 --> 0:06:41.920 it looks like there's a shirtless firefighter on the front. 0:06:38.880 --> 0:06:46.080 Oh yeah, so is that is that it? 0:06:46.160 --> 0:06:48.159 Well, yeah, that's it. We each got the one thing, 0:06:48.440 --> 0:06:50.840 and then I walked her back to her place, and 0:06:51.360 --> 0:06:53.600 on the way back it was starting to get kind 0:06:53.640 --> 0:06:56.440 of chilly, so I gave her my jacket and when 0:06:56.440 --> 0:06:58.039 we got to her place, I was like, oh, yeah, 0:06:58.080 --> 0:06:59.520 you could just you can just hang on to it. 0:06:59.560 --> 0:07:03.200 Because I was so confident that we would meet up again, 0:07:03.360 --> 0:07:07.359 because that's how well the first date went. And now 0:07:07.520 --> 0:07:10.040 she's not answering any of my text or calls, and 0:07:10.080 --> 0:07:12.800 it's like, Hey, as much as I would like to 0:07:12.840 --> 0:07:16.760 see Marissa, I would also like my jacket back. 0:07:17.160 --> 0:07:18.040 Yeah. 0:07:18.120 --> 0:07:20.560 You know, if you think about it, this cheap date 0:07:20.640 --> 0:07:22.560 actually costs you a lot of money if you lose 0:07:22.560 --> 0:07:23.120 that jacket. 0:07:23.200 --> 0:07:23.640 Room. 0:07:23.800 --> 0:07:25.760 Yeah, taxidermy is not cheap. 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:27.160 Jeff I could imagine that. 0:07:27.360 --> 0:07:28.840 Yeah, that didn't happen. Thank god. 0:07:29.960 --> 0:07:32.240 Thoughts is only haunting his dreams, not his house. 0:07:32.360 --> 0:07:34.840 Yeah right, how long has it been since the Flea 0:07:34.880 --> 0:07:35.400 market date. 0:07:35.960 --> 0:07:37.640 It's been about two weeks. 0:07:37.920 --> 0:07:41.240 Oh, bit, you've gone without a jacket for two weeks. 0:07:41.280 --> 0:07:43.160 That's not its only. 0:07:43.040 --> 0:07:45.600 Jacket, I don't know, only favorite if you wore it, 0:07:45.760 --> 0:07:48.080 I know, and the one he feels like he looks 0:07:48.080 --> 0:07:48.400 good in it. 0:07:48.520 --> 0:07:50.840 Yeah, yeah, it is my favorite jacket. I've got like 0:07:50.880 --> 0:07:53.000 one or two others, but they're not they're not my favorite. 0:07:53.040 --> 0:07:53.240 Yeah. 0:07:54.360 --> 0:07:58.040 Oh, this is dire, Jeffrey, this is code red. We're 0:07:58.040 --> 0:08:00.440 going to reach out and call Marissa trying gets you 0:08:00.840 --> 0:08:04.120 one your jacket back, and then two possibly another meet 0:08:04.200 --> 0:08:06.600 up with her when we do your second date update 0:08:06.680 --> 0:08:08.000 coming up right after this. 0:08:08.080 --> 0:08:10.880 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second date update. 0:08:12.120 --> 0:08:15.280 Friends ghost each other, right, yeah, I. 0:08:15.240 --> 0:08:18.760 Mean I mean politely, Yeah, eventually you get back together. 0:08:19.640 --> 0:08:21.920 Alexis if a friend wore the same outfit as you, 0:08:21.960 --> 0:08:23.480 they're getting blackballed. 0:08:22.960 --> 0:08:25.480 For like, right, I mean I usually want to copies 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:29.680 my friend's outfreudn't talk to you. 0:08:30.520 --> 0:08:31.600 Yeah, just like. 0:08:32.480 --> 0:08:34.720 It just seems like if you agree to go out 0:08:34.880 --> 0:08:38.640 as friends first, then there'd be less pressure on the 0:08:38.800 --> 0:08:40.559 like hangout, you wouldn't get ditched. 0:08:41.120 --> 0:08:43.040 If you're just focused on friends, You're just focused on 0:08:43.080 --> 0:08:43.640 having a good day. 0:08:43.840 --> 0:08:45.920 Maybe she's a terrible friend. 0:08:47.440 --> 0:08:50.040 It is weird because our listener Leo has not heard 0:08:50.080 --> 0:08:54.040 from Marissa for the last two weeks after they hung out. 0:08:54.240 --> 0:08:56.920 And the worst case scenario I'm thinking of is if 0:08:57.000 --> 0:08:59.960 Leo goes back to that flea market and his jack 0:09:00.080 --> 0:09:00.760 it is up. 0:09:00.600 --> 0:09:04.240 For sale worn. 0:09:03.240 --> 0:09:04.480 By the fox with the monocle. 0:09:04.640 --> 0:09:07.880 Oh even worse. That would not be good. Leo. Have 0:09:07.960 --> 0:09:10.640 you checked the flea market or possibly eBay for your. 0:09:10.600 --> 0:09:13.240 Jacket to be fair? 0:09:13.400 --> 0:09:13.559 No? 0:09:13.640 --> 0:09:14.120 I have not. 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:16.440 Okay, great jacket caper. 0:09:16.679 --> 0:09:20.080 That's what she does to steal their jackets and then 0:09:20.160 --> 0:09:21.959 resell them on second hand storm. 0:09:22.040 --> 0:09:24.440 See, anything is possible, especially since she's the one that 0:09:24.520 --> 0:09:27.240 recommended the flea market in the first place. But you 0:09:27.320 --> 0:09:28.200 never thought about. 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:31.200 That, Leo, No, I didn't think about that anybody. 0:09:31.400 --> 0:09:34.200 You probably won't put a lot more thought into it. 0:09:34.200 --> 0:09:36.280 It's probably not the case, is why you come to 0:09:36.360 --> 0:09:39.719 the show. We're creative, creative investigators. 0:09:40.240 --> 0:09:43.280 Here's the thing, like, do we bring up the jacket. 0:09:43.200 --> 0:09:46.440 And maybe after you know, she'll bring it if she 0:09:46.480 --> 0:09:47.400 says yes to a date. 0:09:47.600 --> 0:09:49.439 Is it more important that you get the jacket back 0:09:49.520 --> 0:09:52.160 or that you have another hangout and stay friends with Marissa. 0:09:52.480 --> 0:09:54.839 I gotta be honest, It's more important to me that 0:09:54.920 --> 0:09:57.439 I get the jacket back because I really liked that jacket. 0:09:57.760 --> 0:09:59.559 Okay, and you've only met this girl one time and 0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:03.079 she just wan be friends with you. It's gonna really 0:10:03.160 --> 0:10:05.240 hurt her feelings when I tell her that. But you 0:10:05.280 --> 0:10:09.400 know what, that's what he wants. Okay, let me know what. 0:10:09.440 --> 0:10:10.439 I'll hold off. Hold off. 0:10:10.480 --> 0:10:12.080 I mean she might want the jacket more than him too, 0:10:12.120 --> 0:10:12.480 We don't know. 0:10:13.360 --> 0:10:15.240 Let's find out. I'm going to dial her number right now. 0:10:15.280 --> 0:10:27.240 Let's see if she picks up. But here we go. Hello, Hey, 0:10:27.320 --> 0:10:34.679 is this Marissa. Yes, Hey, this is probably the weirdest 0:10:34.679 --> 0:10:37.280 phone call you're going to get all day, unless he's 0:10:37.320 --> 0:10:39.160 like already talk to your ex or something. But you're 0:10:39.160 --> 0:10:40.880 on the radio right now with a show called Brook 0:10:40.880 --> 0:10:41.800 and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:45.400 Wait, I'm wait this is the radio. 0:10:45.840 --> 0:10:49.600 Yeah, but yes, yes, we're a show. We try to 0:10:49.600 --> 0:10:52.160 help out our listeners who've hung out with somebody recently 0:10:52.600 --> 0:10:54.960 and they're not getting a call back to hang out 0:10:55.000 --> 0:10:55.720 a second time. 0:10:56.360 --> 0:10:56.920 That's weird. 0:10:57.600 --> 0:10:59.280 It's actually not weird. It's our bread and butter. 0:11:00.559 --> 0:11:03.280 A lot of people don't get, but it's weird for you. 0:11:03.360 --> 0:11:06.600 We get understand why that would be strange. Strange call. 0:11:06.800 --> 0:11:09.480 I've never heard this, so it's just uh total. 0:11:10.000 --> 0:11:12.200 So we're trying to help out our listener that you 0:11:12.280 --> 0:11:13.800 hung out with recently named Leo. 0:11:14.880 --> 0:11:18.360 Oh yeah you remember Leo. 0:11:19.120 --> 0:11:22.560 Yeah, sorry, I'm like catching up right now. Okay, so 0:11:22.640 --> 0:11:23.240 he called you. 0:11:23.920 --> 0:11:26.840 Yeah, we we spoke to him before and he told 0:11:26.920 --> 0:11:28.720 us about your hangout at the flea market. 0:11:29.240 --> 0:11:32.760 Okay, so he probably wants his jacket, I assume, so 0:11:32.920 --> 0:11:35.560 I can just like leave it outside my place. 0:11:36.960 --> 0:11:39.360 That's all your focus on is the jacket. You're not 0:11:39.360 --> 0:11:40.280 focused on him at all. 0:11:40.880 --> 0:11:42.679 I'm I'm just not really into. 0:11:42.559 --> 0:11:45.160 Him, Okay, but I thought that you just wanted to 0:11:45.200 --> 0:11:47.319 be friends. That's what you said, Like you're not into 0:11:47.440 --> 0:11:48.440 him even as a friend. 0:11:49.160 --> 0:11:51.880 Yeah. I think when people start dating, the idea should 0:11:51.880 --> 0:11:54.360 be that you start as friends and then if it 0:11:54.400 --> 0:11:57.040 progresses from there, great, But I just don't really see 0:11:57.040 --> 0:11:59.080 any hope for that in this situation. 0:12:00.640 --> 0:12:03.400 After one Well, it's fair like you're allowed to feel 0:12:03.400 --> 0:12:04.520 that way. I don't know. 0:12:04.600 --> 0:12:06.080 I just feel like if you're going to start it 0:12:06.280 --> 0:12:08.320 as friends, you've got to be more open. You've got 0:12:08.360 --> 0:12:10.600 to give it a little bit more time, because sometimes 0:12:10.640 --> 0:12:13.000 friendship in general just takes time. 0:12:13.559 --> 0:12:15.559 It's so bad that you know, Yeah, I mean, what 0:12:15.679 --> 0:12:16.120 can I ask? 0:12:16.360 --> 0:12:19.480 Was there something like one particular thing that made you 0:12:19.520 --> 0:12:21.640 feel that way when you were hanging out with him? 0:12:22.200 --> 0:12:22.800 Overall? 0:12:23.280 --> 0:12:28.720 I can tell you this, The date itself was pretty good. Okay, 0:12:28.760 --> 0:12:32.560 it was nice. He's cute, I liked him. We did 0:12:32.920 --> 0:12:33.640 have a nice time. 0:12:33.800 --> 0:12:35.760 That is not the response I thought you were going 0:12:35.840 --> 0:12:37.000 to say. I thought you were going to say like 0:12:37.040 --> 0:12:39.040 there was no sexual chemistry. 0:12:38.920 --> 0:12:41.920 Or Brooke does have a lot of sexual chemistry with 0:12:41.960 --> 0:12:44.920 all of her friends. I can understand a lot of 0:12:44.920 --> 0:12:47.920 family members too, so it kind of blurs the lines. 0:12:47.960 --> 0:12:50.240 But for knowing, I mean, no, I know exactly what 0:12:50.280 --> 0:12:54.280 you mean. So for you, what was it exactly? 0:12:54.760 --> 0:12:57.160 Okay, So the date was good. It's just when I 0:12:57.200 --> 0:13:00.240 got home, he let me borrow his jacket because it 0:13:00.280 --> 0:13:02.599 got kind of chilly. And when I hung up with 0:13:02.640 --> 0:13:07.360 the jacket, this little okay, this little piece of paper 0:13:07.679 --> 0:13:10.679 fell out and I picked it up and he had 0:13:10.760 --> 0:13:14.760 made a list titled things not to say on the 0:13:14.880 --> 0:13:16.240 date with Marissah. 0:13:17.360 --> 0:13:21.360 Wow, I know, but sometimes I do better in my 0:13:21.400 --> 0:13:22.680 head if I write things down. 0:13:22.840 --> 0:13:25.640 Yeah, it depends on what things he was telling himself 0:13:25.880 --> 0:13:28.280 to say to her. Yeah, can we know what some 0:13:28.320 --> 0:13:28.920 of the things were. 0:13:29.440 --> 0:13:33.000 There was one that said, don't talk about the X 0:13:33.160 --> 0:13:34.560 like you did with the last girl. 0:13:35.440 --> 0:13:39.240 Well, that's an important reminder, which should be number one 0:13:39.280 --> 0:13:39.520 on this. 0:13:41.080 --> 0:13:41.200 Right. 0:13:41.240 --> 0:13:43.520 It's's weird that it's been an issue, Like it's something 0:13:43.520 --> 0:13:45.319 you have to remind yourself not to do. I mean, 0:13:45.360 --> 0:13:47.040 that's like a red flag for me. 0:13:47.320 --> 0:13:48.640 Okay, what's another one. 0:13:49.200 --> 0:13:51.760 There was something that said a girl who don't like 0:13:52.040 --> 0:13:57.960 crypto chat? Yeah, again, like it's just another weird thing, 0:13:58.040 --> 0:14:00.400 Like is he super into crypto, then like me. 0:14:00.640 --> 0:14:02.760 Why is that already being to crypto? 0:14:03.640 --> 0:14:05.480 This means he's potentially rich. 0:14:05.559 --> 0:14:10.920 Yeah, he's a no, not no, she is right. 0:14:11.000 --> 0:14:13.280 Every crypto bro will tell you they're rich, but not 0:14:13.400 --> 0:14:13.960 all of them are. 0:14:15.320 --> 0:14:17.680 I mean, but you don't see these things as just 0:14:18.280 --> 0:14:20.560 I don't know, thoughtful preparation before a date. 0:14:21.000 --> 0:14:23.560 I just think it's better to plan nice things than 0:14:23.600 --> 0:14:25.560 to write out things you should not do that you 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:27.680 usually do that turns people off. 0:14:28.040 --> 0:14:32.520 Oh that's me being like, don't talk much. I know, 0:14:32.600 --> 0:14:34.280 you know, it's like it's a good thing to say, 0:14:34.360 --> 0:14:35.760 don't exactly. 0:14:35.400 --> 0:14:37.560 Because one of the things that I wrote down was 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:40.960 don't tell Marissa that Leo is on the other line 0:14:41.040 --> 0:14:42.440 listening and wants to talk to it. 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:47.000 Forgot. Oh was I not supposed to Oh my. 0:14:46.880 --> 0:14:51.920 God, Marissa. Wait, yeah, Leo's on the other line listening 0:14:52.000 --> 0:14:52.760 to this conversation. 0:14:53.160 --> 0:14:54.800 You're kidding, You're kidding right now. 0:14:54.920 --> 0:14:59.400 I told myself not to say that to you. I'm sorry, Leo. 0:14:59.480 --> 0:14:59.880 Are you there? 0:15:01.280 --> 0:15:02.680 Oh yeah, I'm here. 0:15:02.800 --> 0:15:04.960 This is this is pretty awkward. 0:15:05.120 --> 0:15:07.720 Okay, yeah, I. 0:15:07.720 --> 0:15:09.280 Know, I'm sorry, and I know I wasn't supposed to 0:15:09.280 --> 0:15:10.040 say it. So the awkward. 0:15:10.520 --> 0:15:12.200 I can't believe you did that. I can't believe and 0:15:12.280 --> 0:15:13.040 tell me that effort. 0:15:14.000 --> 0:15:16.440 Wait your Madame Jeffrey though, right, not Leo. 0:15:16.960 --> 0:15:20.040 I'm I don't even I'm upset. I don't know. 0:15:21.040 --> 0:15:22.760 It was my fault. It was my fault. I'll take 0:15:22.760 --> 0:15:23.080 the blame. 0:15:23.160 --> 0:15:23.360 Leo. 0:15:23.520 --> 0:15:26.720 Talk to Marissa about what you just heard. 0:15:26.720 --> 0:15:29.880 Well, I mean, the good thing now is that you 0:15:29.960 --> 0:15:33.240 know all my weaknesses, you know all the bad things 0:15:33.320 --> 0:15:36.240 that I tried to not do on our date. That's 0:15:36.240 --> 0:15:38.840 a positive, right, Okay? 0:15:38.880 --> 0:15:42.040 Well, you also wrote on your little list, remember to 0:15:42.160 --> 0:15:48.960 tip this time. This is all They're all red flags 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:51.360 and things that you're saying that you usually do and 0:15:51.440 --> 0:15:53.400 don't do this. Don't let her like see who you are? 0:15:53.600 --> 0:15:54.800 Is what this list feels like. 0:15:55.160 --> 0:15:57.880 Marissa. I don't think you were reading the note right. 0:15:58.000 --> 0:16:03.680 The note actually said don't forget to tip big Oh no. 0:16:04.120 --> 0:16:06.120 No I didn't, And now you're just lying. 0:16:07.320 --> 0:16:09.200 Listen, listen. 0:16:09.680 --> 0:16:12.120 I mean you've got a person here who really likes you, 0:16:12.160 --> 0:16:13.760 who's trying to be a better person. 0:16:13.840 --> 0:16:15.840 I mean, what more can you want from someone who 0:16:15.880 --> 0:16:17.640 a guy who can admit their flaws is nice? You 0:16:18.120 --> 0:16:21.000 actually and actually take action to change them. 0:16:21.480 --> 0:16:23.640 I get someone who doesn't have so many red flags 0:16:23.640 --> 0:16:25.760 and issues talking about his ex all the time and 0:16:25.800 --> 0:16:27.640 doesn't tip, and it's into crypto. 0:16:28.320 --> 0:16:29.520 This is so messed up. 0:16:29.920 --> 0:16:31.560 I think it's your perspective, though. I think if you 0:16:31.600 --> 0:16:33.440 looked at it the other way, they're all green flags. 0:16:33.560 --> 0:16:36.440 And I haven't heard him mention his ex girlfriend once 0:16:36.680 --> 0:16:39.320 during this entire fune throng, And he doesn't have his 0:16:39.360 --> 0:16:41.160 little paper in front of him to remind him not 0:16:41.240 --> 0:16:41.640 to do that. 0:16:41.680 --> 0:16:42.840 We didn't even know he had one. 0:16:42.960 --> 0:16:45.640 Yeah, I actually I actually wrote that on the paper 0:16:45.720 --> 0:16:50.560 before I called the radio station. Actually, but I'm doing well, Oh. 0:16:50.440 --> 0:16:52.360 You do have a paper right now as well. 0:16:53.080 --> 0:16:54.760 Okay, I feel like I'm being set up and I 0:16:54.800 --> 0:16:55.640 kind of want to go now. 0:16:55.760 --> 0:16:58.040 Well, Mersa, don't you feel like maybe you're being a 0:16:58.160 --> 0:17:01.840 little bit harsh and judging him a lot for like 0:17:01.880 --> 0:17:03.520 a piece of paper that you found. 0:17:04.240 --> 0:17:08.399 No, not really like I'm not even like someone I 0:17:08.440 --> 0:17:11.000 want to. I just don't even don't care enough. 0:17:11.320 --> 0:17:14.000 No, but you will hold onto his jacket for two weeks. 0:17:14.040 --> 0:17:14.840 On the jacket? 0:17:14.880 --> 0:17:15.680 What are you doing there? 0:17:15.880 --> 0:17:17.760 She said that she'd leave it on her doorstep. 0:17:18.440 --> 0:17:19.439