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Speaker 1: Hey, thanks so much for being here on the weekend.

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Speaker 2: It is the second Date podcast with Brooke and Jeffrey

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Speaker 2: in the morning, the official one, and every.

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Speaker 1: Saturday we feature two classics. Yeah, yeah, exactly that.

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Speaker 3: Ye.

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Speaker 4: Ye.

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Speaker 1: Yes, this is a visual aspect to it all.

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Speaker 1: The better worse, I don't know. Yeah, And we're rolling

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Speaker 2: Briock and Jeffrey. Thank you so much for checking those

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Speaker 6: It's good to set rules and boundaries early on in

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Speaker 6: a new relationship.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Communications key there.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Like when Brooks started dating her husband, she made

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Speaker 6: a rule on night one he wasn't allowed to cry

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Speaker 6: when they hooked up. Well, let's just say that rule

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Speaker 6: didn't last very long. One of them, but one of

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Speaker 6: our listeners, was given a different stipulation before his first date.

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Speaker 6: He had to say yes to it in order for

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Speaker 6: them to meet. Is it better or worse than Brooks

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Speaker 6: list of strict demands? We're gonna find out when we

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Speaker 6: do your second date update.

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Speaker 7: Next, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update.

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Speaker 6: If anyone's been out on a date recently, you know

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Speaker 6: how expensive it can be, not just for the food

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Speaker 6: and drinks, but the blindfolds and the rubber bands.

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Speaker 1: I thought you're going to say parking.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, you do need a place to park before

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Speaker 6: you set up all the rubber bands. I see, and

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Speaker 6: I cannot find one strong enough to hold my wrists

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Speaker 6: down anymore. Wow, I don't know that is it's the tariffs, God,

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Speaker 6: the tariffs on maximum strength rubber bands from Indonesia. They

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Speaker 1: You just drive the rubber bands they put on a sparagus.

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Speaker 1: Those are the fat boys.

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Speaker 6: Are still not strong enough.

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Speaker 8: Expensive, not stronger, Jeff.

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Speaker 6: But that was the only place that make them stronger,

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Speaker 6: and they cost so much money. I'm just I'm happy

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Speaker 6: that our listener Leo figured out how to save a

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Speaker 6: buck or two on his date recently, and I'm very

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Speaker 6: curious how we did it. So Leo, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 6: It's like what we get.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Leo, are the rubber band tariffs hitting you hard

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Speaker 2: to or did you rubber band yourself?

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Speaker 8: Oh?

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Speaker 5: No, I'm still here.

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Speaker 9: I'm doing all right.

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Speaker 6: Okay, where you get your extra strength rubber bands from?

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Speaker 10: I don't typically need to get a lot of them.

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Speaker 8: People just save them from random mail.

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Speaker 6: That's actually kind of smart.

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Speaker 9: I got them, or though I got too many of them.

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Speaker 11: Actually.

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Speaker 6: Share the wealth at some point. But hey, I know

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Speaker 6: you went on a date with somebody recently. What's her name?

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Speaker 9: He names Marissa?

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Speaker 6: Okay, where'd you meet her?

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Speaker 10: We matched on bumble and we connected over a love

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Speaker 10: of dogs. You know, we have two dogs, and it's

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Speaker 10: just we we can't get enough of them. I mean,

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Speaker 6: Like one hundred and one Dalmatians that movie like yeah, okay,

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Speaker 6: but you said in your email you were able to

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Speaker 6: save some money on your date. How did you do that?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, So when we matched at first, she was very

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Speaker 10: So I suggested after we matched, just grabbing a coffee,

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Speaker 6: Oh okay, that's how you say you come from. I

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I was willing to spend it. It was her idea.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's awesome.

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Speaker 2: I think it's impressive that you are good with being

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Speaker 10: I wouldn't do that, but that's great that I'm sort

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: I love that when you're like naturally friends totally. But

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Speaker 8: what Brooke was saying too, to be like, I'm setting

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Speaker 8: the tone friend zone right away.

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Speaker 6: It's good that you work with that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's refreshing, I guess, is the thing.

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Speaker 6: So take us to the flea market though, How did

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Speaker 9: It went okay, which is better than okay, which is

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Speaker 9: kind of weird to me. Why I haven't heard from

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Speaker 9: Thank god, she was really really cute.

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Speaker 1: You didn't want a friend that looks like somebody else.

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Speaker 6: A friend thing does make it different, now, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 6: that's right. You can't really judge that. Okay.

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Speaker 9: So she was excited to be there too, and bargain

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Speaker 9: hunt and all that, and we walked around that flee

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Speaker 6: Yeah, what did you get into like a creative old

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Speaker 8: Or rubber bands favorite?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, no rubber bands, but we did see vhss. There

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Speaker 9: was a station that had a lot of those.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, man, shocking, they're not selling so quickly.

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Speaker 8: Has the machines to play them?

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Speaker 6: Okay, So how was your connection with Marissa?

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Speaker 9: It was good And I know that sometimes for these things.

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Speaker 9: You guys ask what we talked about. We actually talked

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Speaker 9: about taxidermy.

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Speaker 6: Friends don't.

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Speaker 1: Bund to find a couple whirls.

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Speaker 10: Or yeah, we saw a boot for that actually for

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Speaker 10: the texto Durny and uh. In fact, there was actually

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Speaker 10: a fox there with a monocle on. So Marissa thought

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Speaker 9: Looked straight up haunted. I was like, I would never

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Speaker 2: Stuff fox, Well, that sounds like a funny point of

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Speaker 9: Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 6: It was did you guys buy anything? Take anything home? Yeah?

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Speaker 9: We each got one thing. I got a Fleetwood mac

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Speaker 9: it looks like there's a shirtless firefighter on the front.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, so is that is that it?

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Speaker 9: Well, yeah, that's it. We each got the one thing,

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Speaker 9: and then I walked her back to her place, and

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Speaker 10: Because I was so confident that we would meet up again,

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Speaker 10: because that's how well the first date went. And now

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Speaker 10: she's not answering any of my text or calls, and

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Speaker 10: it's like, Hey, as much as I would like to

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Speaker 10: see Marissa, I would also like my jacket back.

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Speaker 12: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: You know, if you think about it, this cheap date

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Speaker 2: actually costs you a lot of money if you lose

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Speaker 2: that jacket.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, taxidermy is not cheap.

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Speaker 6: Jeff I could imagine that.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, that didn't happen. Thank god.

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Speaker 1: Thoughts is only haunting his dreams, not his house.

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Speaker 6: Yeah right, how long has it been since the Flea

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Speaker 9: It's been about two weeks.

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Speaker 2: Oh, bit, you've gone without a jacket for two weeks.

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Speaker 6: That's not its only.

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Speaker 2: Jacket, I don't know, only favorite if you wore it,

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Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, it is my favorite jacket. I've got like

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Speaker 9: one or two others, but they're not they're not my favorite.

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Speaker 6: Oh, this is dire, Jeffrey, this is code red. We're

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Speaker 6: going to reach out and call Marissa trying gets you

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Speaker 6: coming up right after this.

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Speaker 7: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second date update.

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Speaker 6: Friends ghost each other, right, yeah, I.

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Speaker 2: Mean I mean politely, Yeah, eventually you get back together.

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Speaker 6: Alexis if a friend wore the same outfit as you,

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Speaker 6: they're getting blackballed.

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Speaker 13: For like, right, I mean I usually want to copies

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Speaker 8: Yeah, just like.

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Speaker 6: It just seems like if you agree to go out

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Speaker 6: as friends first, then there'd be less pressure on the

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Speaker 6: like hangout, you wouldn't get ditched.

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Speaker 8: If you're just focused on friends, You're just focused on

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Speaker 8: having a good day.

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Speaker 1: Maybe she's a terrible friend.

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Speaker 6: It is weird because our listener Leo has not heard

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Speaker 6: from Marissa for the last two weeks after they hung out.

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Speaker 6: And the worst case scenario I'm thinking of is if

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Speaker 6: Leo goes back to that flea market and his jack

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Speaker 6: it is up.

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Speaker 2: For sale worn.

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Speaker 1: By the fox with the monocle.

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Speaker 6: Oh even worse. That would not be good. Leo. Have

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Speaker 6: you checked the flea market or possibly eBay for your.

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Speaker 9: Jacket to be fair?

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Speaker 8: No?

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Speaker 9: I have not.

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Speaker 1: Okay, great jacket caper.

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Speaker 2: That's what she does to steal their jackets and then

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Speaker 2: resell them on second hand storm.

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Speaker 6: See, anything is possible, especially since she's the one that

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Speaker 6: recommended the flea market in the first place. But you

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Speaker 6: never thought about.

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Speaker 5: That, Leo, No, I didn't think about that anybody.

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Speaker 2: You probably won't put a lot more thought into it.

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Speaker 6: It's probably not the case, is why you come to

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Speaker 6: the show. We're creative, creative investigators.

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Speaker 1: Here's the thing, like, do we bring up the jacket.

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Speaker 6: is this Marissa. Yes, Hey, this is probably the weirdest

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Speaker 13: That's weird.

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Speaker 8: It's actually not weird. It's our bread and butter.

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Speaker 1: We get understand why that would be strange. Strange call.

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Speaker 5: I've never heard this, so it's just uh total.

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Speaker 6: So we're trying to help out our listener that you

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we we spoke to him before and he told

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Speaker 13: Okay, so he probably wants his jacket, I assume, so

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Speaker 13: I can just like leave it outside my place.

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Speaker 8: That's all your focus on is the jacket. You're not

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Speaker 6: After one Well, it's fair like you're allowed to feel

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Speaker 12: It's so bad that you know, Yeah, I mean, what

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Speaker 6: Was there something like one particular thing that made you

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Speaker 13: I can tell you this, The date itself was pretty good. Okay,

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Speaker 6: But for knowing, I mean, no, I know exactly what

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Speaker 2: Wow, I know, but sometimes I do better in my

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it depends on what things he was telling himself

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Speaker 13: There was one that said, don't talk about the X

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Speaker 2: Well, that's an important reminder, which should be number one

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Speaker 13: It's's weird that it's been an issue, Like it's something

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Speaker 1: Okay, what's another one.

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Speaker 13: There was something that said a girl who don't like

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Speaker 1: Why is that already being to crypto?

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Speaker 6: This means he's potentially rich.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, he's a no, not no, she is right.

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Speaker 8: Every crypto bro will tell you they're rich, but not

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Speaker 2: I mean, but you don't see these things as just

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Speaker 13: I just think it's better to plan nice things than

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Speaker 8: Oh that's me being like, don't talk much. I know,

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Speaker 8: don't exactly.

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Speaker 6: Because one of the things that I wrote down was

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Speaker 1: Forgot. Oh was I not supposed to Oh my.

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Speaker 6: God, Marissa. Wait, yeah, Leo's on the other line listening

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Speaker 13: You're kidding, You're kidding right now.

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Speaker 6: I told myself not to say that to you. I'm sorry, Leo.

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Speaker 6: Are you there?

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Speaker 9: Oh yeah, I'm here.

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Speaker 13: I can't believe you did that. I can't believe and

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Speaker 1: Wait your Madame Jeffrey though, right, not Leo.

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Speaker 13: I'm I don't even I'm upset. I don't know.

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Speaker 6: It was my fault. It was my fault. I'll take

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Speaker 5: Leo.

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Speaker 6: Talk to Marissa about what you just heard.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, the good thing now is that you

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Speaker 13: Well, you also wrote on your little list, remember to

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Speaker 13: tip this time. This is all They're all red flags

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Speaker 13: and things that you're saying that you usually do and

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Speaker 13: don't do this. Don't let her like see who you are?

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Speaker 13: Is what this list feels like.

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Speaker 9: Marissa. I don't think you were reading the note right.

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Speaker 9: The note actually said don't forget to tip big Oh no.

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Speaker 13: No I didn't, And now you're just lying.

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Speaker 1: Listen, listen.

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Speaker 2: I mean you've got a person here who really likes you,

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Speaker 1: I mean, what more can you want from someone who

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Speaker 13: I get someone who doesn't have so many red flags

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Speaker 11: This is so messed up.

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Speaker 2: I think it's your perspective, though. I think if you

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Speaker 6: And I haven't heard him mention his ex girlfriend once

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Speaker 1: We didn't even know he had one.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I actually I actually wrote that on the paper

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Speaker 13: Okay, I feel like I'm being set up and I

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Speaker 6: Well, Mersa, don't you feel like maybe you're being a

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Speaker 13: No, not really like I'm not even like someone I

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Speaker 6: No, but you will hold onto his jacket for two weeks.

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Speaker 8: On the jacket?

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Speaker 1: She said that she'd leave it on her doorstep.

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Speaker 13: I'll put it out today.

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Speaker 9: No, wait, don't put it outside. Someone's gonna steal it.

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Speaker 9: It's a really nice jacket.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and then they're going to have all the tips

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Speaker 13: I'll put your jacket out at seven, come and get

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Speaker 1: Okay, well there's a deadline.

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Speaker 9: Wow, Marissa, I'm just going to say that you're not

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Speaker 9: if you're not this nice, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 6: That's her. That's some friendly advice.

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Speaker 13: For the tip. I think I'll be fine.

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Speaker 6: Oh and he tips. See look what he does. He

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Speaker 1: Those bullet points.

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Speaker 6: Are it really is thrilling?

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Speaker 7: Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 6: Man, I'm just reading the textboard after that second date,

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Speaker 6: and someone actually scored each of our performances. Oh they said,

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Speaker 1: No one.

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Speaker 6: Text Alexis, Jose and Brooke combined nine out of ten.

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Speaker 6: Combine though, yikes, I like it. I'm disappointed in all

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Speaker 6: of you that you guys didn't try harder for that

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Speaker 6: even sure, Jose you win on doing better. I don't

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Speaker 8: Yes?

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Speaker 6: Always, no wonder you guys were all rated threes. But

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Speaker 7: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 6: We've heard of people meeting in public places before, like

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Speaker 6: But I promise you you've never heard of anything like

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Speaker 6: it's unique, it's even funny. So it's no wonder our

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Speaker 7: This brooken Jeffrey in the morning Second date Updates.

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Speaker 6: Is there any way to do the math to figure

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Speaker 6: out what type of person you're the most compatible with?

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Speaker 1: Is there math for that?

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Speaker 6: Start with affectionate, multiply by heavy petting, subtract two blindfolds,

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Speaker 6: keep one, divide with an overbearing mother, and oh, this

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Speaker 6: is maths.

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Speaker 1: I get it.

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Speaker 6: Now, You're going to die alone. Every time I try

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Speaker 6: to calculate this, I keep coming up with the same answer.

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Speaker 1: It's like time zero anytime you add the mother.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, exactly, saying goodness, our listener, Justine found a different formula,

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Speaker 6: and hopefully her results are better than mine, because apparently

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Speaker 6: she's been single for a bit now. But Justine, how's

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Speaker 6: the dating worlds going for you? Are you also reserving

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Speaker 6: a burial plot for one?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I could hear you.

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Speaker 2: I can hear you laughing through the tears, So that's good.

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Speaker 2: It's all right, Justine.

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Speaker 1: But the funny thing is you're not alone in that.

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Speaker 6: A lot of us are out there with you. But

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Speaker 6: you said that you figured out some sort of mathematic

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Speaker 6: formula to help you with your dating life. What was that?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, it's like this online test. You put in all

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Speaker 11: the stuff that you care about, like your preferences and

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Speaker 11: whatever for like finding a partner, and it's suppose we'll

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Speaker 11: come back with like the percentage of men on dating

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Speaker 11: apps who like fit those preferences.

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Speaker 1: Oh really, wait they also take the test center.

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Speaker 2: No, I think that it probably I'm guessing it's an

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Speaker 2: algorithm that goes through and looks at their dating profiles.

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Speaker 1: Is that how it works?

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Speaker 13: Yeah?

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Speaker 11: And so like I started out like super basic. I

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Speaker 11: was like, they have to have a job, they have

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Speaker 11: to like not live at their parents' house, like have

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Speaker 11: a car.

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Speaker 6: Like okay, well, standards are crazy on your end.

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Speaker 12: I didn't put a single thing that was physical like

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Speaker 12: height or anything, and it came back with less than

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Speaker 12: one percent of men.

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Speaker 9: A job truly.

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Speaker 2: Oh my okay, so you weren't feeling positive I'm guessing at.

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Speaker 12: That number or you know that's like very bleak.

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Speaker 6: Okay.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 11: Anyway, I like after all of that, ended up meeting

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Speaker 11: this guy named James, like just in a coffee shop.

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Speaker 6: Oh didn't even need the dating apps.

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Speaker 1: She ran into the one percent.

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Speaker 6: Okay, that's funny, like the irony. How did that interaction happen?

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Speaker 12: I literally was just sitting down and I was like

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Speaker 12: scrolling and he comes up to me and he's like,

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Speaker 12: are you accepting applications? And I'm like, oh, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 12: I don't work here. Like I thought he was like

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Speaker 12: a sign at the coffee shop.

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Speaker 6: Oh okay, were he wearing like an apron or something?

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Speaker 12: No, I guess I just like looked like I was.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 7: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Or you're a manager.

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Speaker 2: You know sometimes you walk into a restaurant or something

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Speaker 2: you see a manager working a good point.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, how did you respond to him when he asked

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Speaker 6: about applications?

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Speaker 12: I was like, oh, sorry, I don't work here, and

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Speaker 12: he was like no, no, like to be your boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh it was okay? Did you like that?

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Speaker 12: I mean I thought it was funny, but he like

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Speaker 12: fully went along with it, and he was like, listen,

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Speaker 12: I brought my resume. I've got like my history and

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Speaker 12: experience and he legitimately like pulled out a piece of paper.

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Speaker 1: Wait what he had a dating resume?

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Speaker 9: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Oh, I have to know what was on it?

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Speaker 6: Or is it a move that he pulls on women

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Speaker 6: all the time, and he has twenty quote unquote dating

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Speaker 6: resumes in his pocket to hand out whenever he sees

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Speaker 6: someone cute.

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Speaker 1: Kind of like the real world of getting a job.

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Speaker 2: If she liked the resume, who cares how many other

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Speaker 2: people like what was on it?

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Speaker 12: You know, like basic stuff like he likes going to

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Speaker 12: games and hiking. But he was like, yeah, if you

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Speaker 12: want to set up an interview, you can just like

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Speaker 12: call the number. And I was like, why don't you

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Speaker 12: just sit down now when I can interview you?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 1: My great response.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, and it was really nice, like he turned out

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Speaker 12: to be an awesome guy. He like offer to literally

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Speaker 12: venmo me for the coffee that I had already bought.

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Speaker 6: Guy, you look poor here. You probably need this.

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Speaker 5: Ye.

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Speaker 2: What was the hardest boyfriend interview question that you asked him?

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Speaker 12: Well, okay, so I've actually like done interviews at my

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Speaker 12: real job. So I was like, okay, I'm just gonna

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Speaker 12: pull some of these. And I was like, what's one

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Speaker 12: thing you don't want me to know about you?

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Speaker 13: Dude?

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Speaker 1: He is so not prepared for the day.

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Speaker 14: It.

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Speaker 6: I would hate that question to be asked to me

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Speaker 6: on a first day but did he have an answer

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Speaker 6: for you?

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Speaker 12: He did, and it was like it was like ready made.

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Speaker 12: It's like he expected it. And he legitimately said, I

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Speaker 12: pry when I watched the Matrix because I'm scared about

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Speaker 12: the future.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, I don't think that was prepared.

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Speaker 1: I feel like that was honest.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, he was so scared. There's no way he

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Speaker 6: just thought of that. How did you feel about that response?

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Speaker 12: Honestly, I thought her was really funny and it was

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Speaker 12: really clever, and like because it was so quick, I

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Speaker 12: was like, oh, no, you're serious.

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Speaker 6: Yeah. Yeah, it's not a red flag to you that

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Speaker 6: he thinks the Matrix is actually going to happen in

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Speaker 6: the next few years.

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Speaker 1: You could have made so many worse answers. He said, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that is so much better than anything.

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Speaker 12: Okay, So anyway, at the end, he's like, today I

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Speaker 12: get the job, and I was like, well, we probably

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Speaker 12: should set up like a second interview.

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Speaker 4: Oh.

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Speaker 12: Then I definitely got the job, and we kind of

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Speaker 12: like left it off there and it was funny and

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Speaker 12: we laughed and then he like never called me again.

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Speaker 12: What I like texted him made jokes about like, hey,

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Speaker 12: we need to set up your second interview, and it

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Speaker 12: was just silence.

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Speaker 8: No, did you guys cancer anything or like hug was

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Speaker 8: her physical viouce?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, like a normal job interview.

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Speaker 8: Yes, it's not a real job.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't like a transition.

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Speaker 6: How do you think I got hired to?

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Speaker 2: I mean that is strange though, because he's the one

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Speaker 2: that approached you. He's the one that did the line,

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Speaker 2: like why wouldn't he.

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Speaker 6: But she's the one that took it to the next

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Speaker 6: level that actually made him sit down for it. He

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Speaker 6: probably just thought it was a smooth line and was

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Speaker 6: going to back away.

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Speaker 12: So he literally was the one asking like, did I

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Speaker 12: get the job?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? He just wants the ego boosts to accept offer.

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Speaker 8: The company gives you. Isn't good.

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Speaker 1: He's got to put in two weeks at his last job.

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Speaker 1: Ye find out.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, there's clearly a lot of options on the table.

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Speaker 6: We're gonna find out for sure what happened when we

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Speaker 6: come back and call James to do your second date

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Speaker 6: update right after this.

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Speaker 7: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second date Update.

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Speaker 6: Is there any setting more romantic than a job interview?

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Speaker 1: It shouldn't be romantic.

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Speaker 6: I don't know, Brook, You're dressed all nice. You're talking

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Speaker 6: about your biggest strengths and your greatest weaknesses. All of

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Speaker 6: a sudden, what comes out of your pants?

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Speaker 4: Oops?

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Speaker 6: Oh god, a resume? Would you look at that? I

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Speaker 6: just happened to have that on me.

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Speaker 1: No wonder, it's so warm.

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Speaker 6: That's actually kind of what happened to one of our

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Speaker 6: listeners who met a guy recently. It wasn't an official

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Speaker 6: job application, but some dudes saw at a cop the

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Speaker 6: shop and ask, hey, are you taking boyfriend? Application is

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Speaker 6: so smooth, and he even had a resume in his pants.

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Speaker 2: That's why it's even smooth pocket okay, or who knows

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Speaker 2: where it was?

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Speaker 1: We don't know either way.

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Speaker 6: It's kind of sus that he just carries that around

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Speaker 6: waiting to whip out to any cute girl, if that's

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Speaker 6: what he does. But we don't know.

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Speaker 8: He may have done this just.

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Speaker 1: For the thing he's putting some effort in.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it did work, and he got to sit down

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Speaker 6: with her for a little interview slash mini first date.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: By the end he said he was definitely going to

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Speaker 6: call her, and according to her, he definitely didn't. Ah man,

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Speaker 6: I think we're all a little bit concerned that this

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Speaker 6: little stick he's doing is working too well, and maybe

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Speaker 6: he's applying to multiple boyfriend positions all throughout the city.

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Speaker 1: There are a lot of openings.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a lot.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Justine, if this turns out where he actually does

641
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Speaker 6: this all the time and meets hundreds of women this way,

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Speaker 6: how could we make him remember you? And have you

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Speaker 6: stand like, how do we identify you? Or do you

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Speaker 6: still even want to go out with him? At that point?

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Speaker 12: We at least I'm curious to hear what he has

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Speaker 12: to say.

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Speaker 11: But yeah, I was wearing a green ramper, I have

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Speaker 11: red hair and glasses.

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Speaker 2: Okay, cute, Okay, Like you are the only one that

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Speaker 2: sat him down and actually gave him like a legit

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Speaker 2: interviews like how could he remember you?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? Alright, so we'll see if he does remember you

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Speaker 6: and what he asked to say. We're James's phone number

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Speaker 6: right now? Here we go? Hello, Hey, we're looking for

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Speaker 6: James h Yeah?

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Speaker 13: Uh?

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Speaker 6: Where we we are a radio show?

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Speaker 8: Jeff, Sorry you fled like the first word.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, thanks for pointing on all my flawsbody, you know,

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Speaker 6: job going on? Behalf of our boss, Justine, and apparently

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Speaker 6: you applied for the position of her boyfriend role recently?

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, yeah, yeah, do you remember that interview?

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Speaker 1: Do you remember that interview?

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Speaker 5: I mean I remember a few of them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right though, I mean we expected that.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we heard about the move that you pulled on

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Speaker 6: our listener where you walked up to her and you

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Speaker 6: like had a resume and asked if there was a

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Speaker 6: boyfriend opening. Is that something that you've done a lot?

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Speaker 11: Uh?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I've done that a good amount.

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Speaker 6: Can I guess how many times? Is it two hundred times?

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Speaker 5: I don't know about two hundred.

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Speaker 2: I want to know the success rate? How many of

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Speaker 2: those turn into a date?

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Speaker 5: They do?

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Speaker 4: Sometimes? I've definitely met some interesting people, Okay.

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Speaker 6: I am curious about that before we get to like

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Speaker 6: Justine specifically, Like, what are some of the quirky things

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Speaker 6: that you found out while trying this on other people? Before?

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Speaker 4: I mean, there was this one girl who was an

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Speaker 4: extreme coupon her.

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Speaker 5: Oh whoa I've never met before.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, that's interesting about people they call.

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Speaker 6: Them cheap skates, but you go ahead.

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Speaker 4: There was another girl who kept talking about alien abductions,

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Speaker 4: so that was really interesting.

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Speaker 2: Was that a turn on for you? I'm curious, Like

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Speaker 2: it sounds like you're just meeting people to meet weird people?

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Speaker 2: Are you actually looking for supting in this?

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Speaker 4: You know, I don't really know what I'm looking for,

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Speaker 4: to be honest, it's just it's proven to be a

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Speaker 4: great way to meet people, maybe more really respond interesting.

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Speaker 6: Maybe you're looking for a girl who wears a green

695
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Speaker 6: romper to a coffee shop and has bright red hair,

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Speaker 6: and it just tells you to sit down for the

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Speaker 6: interview right away when you ask.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, thank god you told me what she was wearing,

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Speaker 4: because that now I know who you're talking about.

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Speaker 9: Ok.

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Speaker 2: Wait, women ask you to sit down for the interview too,

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Speaker 2: find out the aliens.

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Speaker 1: That's a good pad.

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Speaker 6: So now you remember Justine?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I remember Justine.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Here's the thing. I do this a good amount, and

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Speaker 4: it's just, you know, it's all over the place the

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Speaker 4: reactions that I get. But Justine's was like she was

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Speaker 4: really quick with it, and she was she was different, and.

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Speaker 5: I'll be honest, that kind of freaked me out.

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Speaker 1: Oh it did.

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Speaker 5: I didn't know.

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Speaker 1: How to respond because she beat you at your own

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Speaker 1: game essentially.

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Speaker 5: Right, Yeah, yeah, pretty much.

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Speaker 1: But that seems like it'd be a turn on.

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Speaker 6: Men don't like to be outsmart I was just kidding,

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Speaker 6: how do they ever meet anyone? James? How did you

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Speaker 6: feel talking to Justine like that? Were you scared of her?

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Speaker 9: You know?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, honestly, I just I never take this thing seriously.

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Speaker 4: It's just it's just sort of a gimmick, and she

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Speaker 4: for the first time, I felt like, Wow, this really

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Speaker 4: could be something.

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Speaker 2: You can't let your own insecurity stand of the way

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Speaker 2: that you want someone who challenges you.

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Speaker 6: Who makes what's your hold up?

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Speaker 5: Then I guess I'm just not used to that. I've

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Speaker 5: never never had that happen before.

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Speaker 8: So you finally found her and you're like, what do

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Speaker 8: I do?

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Speaker 1: That's why you're single? My man?

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Speaker 6: Like, you don't know how to move forward now that

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Speaker 6: you realize you actually like her.

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Speaker 5: Kind of like she might she might just be quicker

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Speaker 5: than me.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I think she is.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that's terrifying.

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Speaker 1: No, I mean I appreciate the honesty.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you know what, if you think that's terrifying, just

742
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Speaker 6: wait till you hear that she's actually been listening to

743
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Speaker 6: this conversation the entire time. It is on the other

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Speaker 6: line right now. Serious, he scary Justice trying out.

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Speaker 5: To scream, Hey, Justine.

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Speaker 12: Come on, James, you were like I thought we had

747
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Speaker 12: like a banter.

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Speaker 5: We did we did? It freaked me out. I've never

749
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Speaker 5: had a banter.

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Speaker 11: You have every right to be like confident and witty

751
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Speaker 11: and like the guy that I met, like play ball,

752
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Speaker 11: like he could play chess, and I feel like you're

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Speaker 11: just like afraid of that. But honestly, you you kept

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Speaker 11: up in the conversation great like it was. I really

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Speaker 11: enjoyed our conversation.

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Speaker 12: I'm a little sad, but like now you're like backing out.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I'm not backing out. I'm just sort of

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Speaker 5: like frozen. I'm not sure what to do.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, this is positive.

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Speaker 6: Now I need to dethaw you and get you back

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Speaker 6: into action.

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Speaker 1: What did I picture popping him in a microwaves?

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Speaker 6: Well, whatever you got to do. She liked your energy

764
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Speaker 6: when you first met, so just bring that back and

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Speaker 6: talk to her.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I I can definitely do that.

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Speaker 6: More confident than that though, Yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 5: Justine, I would like that. I would like if we

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Speaker 5: did this late.

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Speaker 8: It sounds kind of timid to me.

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Speaker 14: Let's start, Can you try to say it a little

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Speaker 14: more assertive?

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Speaker 6: Some flair on it, James, Justine, let's do this, all right,

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Speaker 6: let's do this.

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Speaker 1: I mean I thought we're going to talk right now.

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Speaker 8: I thought.

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Speaker 5: Not in front of you, dude.

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Speaker 1: You can't ask for interviews. You can't apply to be

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Speaker 1: people's boyfriends and then not.

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Speaker 8: It's like you put on your application, but you have

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Speaker 8: no show it to us.

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Speaker 9: You're the thing.

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Speaker 12: I think you do have, riz. I think you're just

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Speaker 12: afraid of messing up, and it keeps you from.

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Speaker 8: Being bold like you did.

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Speaker 5: Really you got in your head. I think so.

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Speaker 4: When there are no steaks, it's easy. But now that

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Speaker 4: there's steaks, that's.

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Speaker 1: That's actually true?

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Speaker 6: Is true? There will be steaks if we pay for them,

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Speaker 6: because we will offer to send you to a steakhouse.

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Speaker 1: Really, our gift cards cover.

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Speaker 6: This, and it's going to be an Apple.

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Speaker 1: I thought we were going to Sizzlers.

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Speaker 6: We'd like to send you guys out on one more

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Speaker 6: date that we would pay for, if you're not too afraid.

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Speaker 4: James, come on, James, yeah, I would love that.

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Speaker 6: I feel like if we didn't call and push you

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Speaker 6: into this, then this date never even would have happened.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I we don't know that.

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Speaker 6: Well, Okay, Justine, you're still okay with it.

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Speaker 14: I am open to a second interview, but he honestly

803
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Speaker 14: sounds like pretty different, a lot more timid, So we'll

804
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Speaker 14: just have to see how a less rehearsed interview goes.

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Speaker 1: Okay, was the first one just to show or is

806
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Speaker 1: it really who he is?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you find out in a real world experience. I'm

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Speaker 6: doing the dating math on this, just like Justine did originally,

809
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,799
Speaker 6: and I'm saying this relationship is probably at a five

810
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Speaker 6: percent chance right now than.

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Speaker 1: I was going to give it. So yeah, that's good.

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Speaker 6: Unless he says something really smooth right now.

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Speaker 5: I got nothing.

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Speaker 6: Okay, it's a chance. Good lucky guys. It's broken Jeffrey

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Speaker 6: in the morning.

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Speaker 7: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 6: Does anybody think they're actually going to meet up for

818
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Speaker 6: a date or did this whole experience just lower his

819
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Speaker 6: confidence even more?

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Speaker 8: I think we broke him.

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Speaker 1: I think so he broke himself.

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Speaker 2: I love this a guy who's saying I'm handing out

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Speaker 2: boyfriend applications but doesn't actually want a relationship.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like why why?

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Speaker 8: He's literally all.

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Speaker 6: Talk and there's a lot of people that go into

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Speaker 6: something with just their first move planned, and that's all

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Speaker 6: that you have.

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Speaker 2: You're right, Jeff, exactly, But it's such an elaborate first move,

830
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Speaker 2: it's so good, like why not be in?

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Speaker 1: I hope they go out again?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? Why do? I feel like there's gonna be a

833
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 6: whole lot more copycat resume guys out there now though,

834
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Speaker 6: all trying to apply for the open boyfriend position. Luckily

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Speaker 6: for you ladies, I don't know how to make a resume. Actually, Brooke,

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Speaker 6: there's a lot of text coming in at seven eighty

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Speaker 6: five night too, asking if you have any open positions.

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Speaker 1: Very awful her husband and Roy right now.

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Speaker 6: We'll keep you posted on that, but yes, very much so.

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Speaker 1: Venny's are great over here.

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Speaker 6: Make sure to email in if you ever want some

842
00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:58,919
Speaker 6: help with your dating life. We'll call that person who's

843
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Speaker 6: not calling you back and go check. I got all

844
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Speaker 6: of our second dates wherever you get your podcasts at

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Speaker 6: Brooke and Jeffrey