WEBVTT - Countess Luann Teaches Us All How To Flirt and Get It Done 0:00:15.560 --> 0:00:17.959 Hey, it's your celebrity mentor Kelly ben Simone. 0:00:18.000 --> 0:00:20.599 Here on I do part two, the podcast that's a 0:00:20.720 --> 0:00:24.919 unique social experiment in love, dating and relationships with people 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:27.960 that are open to finding love the second time around. 0:00:28.360 --> 0:00:30.720 Today I'm joined by someone who's one of a kind. 0:00:31.240 --> 0:00:33.680 She's loved and just like the rest of us. My 0:00:33.800 --> 0:00:36.960 former co starred Real Housewives of New York and Ultimate 0:00:37.000 --> 0:00:41.920 Girl Strip. She's on tour with her cabaret my true friend, 0:00:42.320 --> 0:00:44.960 the Countess herself low Adela SEPs. 0:00:45.760 --> 0:00:51.159 Hello, Luenn, I love you, Love New York. How are 0:00:51.240 --> 0:00:52.440 you look? Gorgeous? 0:00:52.440 --> 0:00:55.680 Per usual? Good morning darling. How are you So? 0:00:55.800 --> 0:00:58.600 This podcast is all about people that are just like us, 0:00:58.640 --> 0:01:02.280 people that got married and maybe single parents. But the 0:01:02.320 --> 0:01:05.560 one thing we haven't given up on is finding love. 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:08.640 So for those who don't know, tell the listeners Leanne 0:01:08.680 --> 0:01:10.360 a little bit about your love journey. 0:01:11.880 --> 0:01:17.399 Well, first husband, you know was the count that you know. 0:01:17.520 --> 0:01:19.800 We met and he asked me to marry him five 0:01:19.840 --> 0:01:22.640 days later, but I made him wait and we got 0:01:22.720 --> 0:01:26.520 married two weeks later, and now it's two kids later. 0:01:27.640 --> 0:01:29.920 So yeah, I mean it was a coupdufoo we say 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:32.520 in French, which is the first sight as you know, Kelly, 0:01:32.520 --> 0:01:36.280 because you speak a little French, and so you know, 0:01:36.480 --> 0:01:38.800 it was just magic. When the magic happens, it happens. 0:01:38.800 --> 0:01:41.000 And you you know, when that train pulls up to 0:01:41.040 --> 0:01:44.120 the station, don't have fear, right jump on the train 0:01:44.120 --> 0:01:46.720 because you can always go home, right, And so you 0:01:46.760 --> 0:01:49.200 know I did. I jumped from my career in Italian television. 0:01:49.240 --> 0:01:51.080 I was working in Italy at the time. I was 0:01:51.120 --> 0:01:53.520 living in Milan, and I said, you know what, this 0:01:53.600 --> 0:01:55.240 is the love of my life. It's time to go. 0:01:55.880 --> 0:01:59.720 And so I left my career and moved to Switzerland 0:01:59.760 --> 0:02:02.680 with him and had my two kids, who you know, 0:02:02.840 --> 0:02:06.160 Victoria Nowell. I was married for sixteen years and then 0:02:06.800 --> 0:02:10.960 seven years later I would make the second husband. And 0:02:11.000 --> 0:02:13.120 you know I work in seven year cycles. It's interesting 0:02:13.200 --> 0:02:17.720 because it is now. So I married in twenty sixteen, 0:02:18.280 --> 0:02:20.960 then I divorced in twenty seventeen. That was the quickie 0:02:21.440 --> 0:02:24.839 and now where are we We are in twenty twenty four, 0:02:25.200 --> 0:02:28.520 seven years later. I manifested that this is my year 0:02:28.560 --> 0:02:31.000 of love and it's just part of you know, the 0:02:31.080 --> 0:02:33.880 rhythm of life. I think there's a rhythm and a flow, 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:36.839 and so that is my flow and in twenty twenty four, 0:02:36.880 --> 0:02:39.680 I've actually, you know, met a couple of guys that 0:02:39.720 --> 0:02:44.120 I really like. So so twenty twenty four is my 0:02:44.200 --> 0:02:47.600 year of love. And to prove it, I even got 0:02:47.600 --> 0:02:50.960 cast on a show called The Love Hotel. And I 0:02:51.000 --> 0:02:52.960 can't tell you how that ends because I can't give 0:02:52.960 --> 0:02:55.400 away too much on that show, but it's going to 0:02:55.520 --> 0:02:59.160 er in twenty twenty five, and I do find some 0:02:59.200 --> 0:03:01.360 magic over at the Love which is kind of crazy. 0:03:01.480 --> 0:03:03.480 So how do you feel we're both single? How do 0:03:03.520 --> 0:03:05.400 you how are you feeling about sin being single? 0:03:05.480 --> 0:03:08.560 Right now? I mean, do you like dat fucking dating? 0:03:08.880 --> 0:03:11.640 And I say this, I ran into Scott yesterday on 0:03:11.680 --> 0:03:16.200 the street. No, I didn't really recognize it. I was like, 0:03:16.400 --> 0:03:18.840 I know him, but I don't. I'm not sure, but 0:03:18.880 --> 0:03:22.400 he's like hi, and I game an air kiss and 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:26.480 said hello and then kept walking. But how funny, right anyway, 0:03:26.560 --> 0:03:27.880 So back to what we're talking about. 0:03:28.160 --> 0:03:31.160 What was the question You're like, anyway, just ran into 0:03:31.200 --> 0:03:34.480 your eggs, No, that we're both single. We bar are 0:03:34.600 --> 0:03:36.680 both the single now, and I was just was wondering, like, 0:03:36.680 --> 0:03:38.080 how are you feeling about sib being single? 0:03:38.120 --> 0:03:38.280 Man? 0:03:38.360 --> 0:03:40.880 You said about the flow in the seven years, But like, 0:03:41.080 --> 0:03:43.560 are you liking being single or are you really are 0:03:43.560 --> 0:03:44.760 you ready to get married again? 0:03:44.920 --> 0:03:45.720 Like how are you feeling? 0:03:46.560 --> 0:03:49.160 You know, at this point, I'm living my best life 0:03:49.200 --> 0:03:51.640 in my fifties. I have to say it's the best decade. 0:03:51.680 --> 0:03:54.320 I mean, I love my twenties and my thirties. Forties 0:03:55.400 --> 0:03:57.760 and fifties has really been the best decade for me. 0:03:57.800 --> 0:04:01.000 I'm just living my best life. I love my career 0:04:01.120 --> 0:04:03.880 in Cabaret. I you know, I loved you know, still 0:04:03.920 --> 0:04:09.000 working for the network for Bravo, and you know, and 0:04:09.040 --> 0:04:11.320 I love dating. I mean, I'm having a great time. 0:04:12.240 --> 0:04:15.760 But I actually, you know, did meet somebody and and 0:04:15.800 --> 0:04:18.520 so you know, we'll see what happens. But for the moment, 0:04:19.000 --> 0:04:20.560 I'm kind of taken. I gotta say. 0:04:20.680 --> 0:04:22.240 So, I was going to ask you how many guys 0:04:22.279 --> 0:04:24.599 you are dating, But now you're saying you're kind of taken. 0:04:24.720 --> 0:04:26.640 That's amazing, you know. 0:04:26.760 --> 0:04:31.280 I mean, I'm struggling between a couple couple actually so, 0:04:31.800 --> 0:04:34.600 but but I feel like I finally found what I'm 0:04:34.640 --> 0:04:35.040 looking for. 0:04:35.160 --> 0:04:36.720 So did you when you were dating, did you have 0:04:36.800 --> 0:04:39.200 like more loca would like dating apps or is it 0:04:39.440 --> 0:04:42.640 just organic? I mean, you're you are a very uh 0:04:42.920 --> 0:04:45.080 sensual woman, and I'm so I'm sure it's like. 0:04:45.120 --> 0:04:48.040 Very easy for you to pick up as I've seen 0:04:48.080 --> 0:04:48.719 in real life. 0:04:50.040 --> 0:04:50.280 You know. 0:04:50.360 --> 0:04:52.560 I was on the dating apps during COVID, I have 0:04:52.640 --> 0:04:54.839 to say, and that's where I found Garth, Remember Garth on. 0:04:55.160 --> 0:04:57.599 The last Yeah, right. 0:04:57.760 --> 0:04:59.320 So I was on the apps and then I got 0:04:59.360 --> 0:05:01.680 off because just you know, I like to meet people 0:05:01.720 --> 0:05:04.920 in person. I prefer, you know, to have that personal experience. 0:05:05.080 --> 0:05:08.800 And so yeah, so I'm you know, I find guys, 0:05:08.800 --> 0:05:10.640 you know, everywhere. You can find a guy walking down 0:05:10.680 --> 0:05:13.400 the streets, you know, And people always ask me about 0:05:13.440 --> 0:05:18.360 my dating tips, et cetera. But I feel like timing 0:05:18.440 --> 0:05:21.520 is everything. And you know, I was tarting to this 0:05:21.680 --> 0:05:24.320 to make up ours yesterday and she was saying, you 0:05:24.320 --> 0:05:28.480 know that she's always falling into the wrong guys, right, 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:31.320 that she caught cheating on her, et cetera. I said, 0:05:31.360 --> 0:05:33.760 you know what, why don't you just be alone and 0:05:33.920 --> 0:05:36.719 love on yourself? Because I feel like a lot of 0:05:36.720 --> 0:05:39.599 women aren't loving on themselves. There is certain they're in 0:05:39.640 --> 0:05:41.960 a kind of a desperate search to find a guide 0:05:42.080 --> 0:05:44.599 to complete them you know, And I think the real 0:05:44.680 --> 0:05:48.599 magic is to be complete yourself, be complete and loving yourself, 0:05:49.160 --> 0:05:52.560 being happy with yourself, and that kind of energy is 0:05:52.600 --> 0:05:57.000 what draws around that positive energy because you think more 0:05:57.000 --> 0:05:59.200 with your heart than you do with like, oh, you 0:05:59.279 --> 0:06:00.640 need to find a guy. He needs to be this, 0:06:00.720 --> 0:06:01.760 he needs to be that, he needs to be the 0:06:01.760 --> 0:06:04.240 other thing. So you know I said this all the time, 0:06:04.279 --> 0:06:09.240 you know, you know, put down, put down, the keep down, 0:06:09.279 --> 0:06:13.159 the you know, the energy which is like you're looking 0:06:13.160 --> 0:06:14.960 for the right man. And she said to me, you 0:06:15.000 --> 0:06:17.400 know this makeup board is I you know, I'm looking 0:06:17.440 --> 0:06:19.960 for a guy, and you know this guy a chieved 0:06:20.040 --> 0:06:21.760 on me exactly. I said, you know what, why don't 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:23.480 you just take care of yourself? Why don't you just 0:06:23.600 --> 0:06:26.440 enjoy and pamper yourself and love yourself? And before you 0:06:26.480 --> 0:06:28.479 know it, you're going to turn around and the guy's 0:06:28.480 --> 0:06:31.320 going to be standing there because you have to put 0:06:31.360 --> 0:06:34.159 yourself in the right place. You know, timing is one thing, 0:06:34.480 --> 0:06:36.479 but you have to be in the right place for 0:06:36.560 --> 0:06:39.240 that timing, and you can only be there if you're 0:06:39.279 --> 0:06:43.280 living in love of your of self first. That's how 0:06:43.279 --> 0:06:43.840 I feel about it. 0:06:43.960 --> 0:06:49.839 Speaking of timing, let's talk you Grant. So let's set 0:06:49.839 --> 0:06:54.359 this up right here in the Hamptons. And you find 0:06:54.360 --> 0:06:57.160 out that Hugh Grant is at Pierre's, which is in Bridgehampton, 0:06:57.200 --> 0:06:59.719 a restaurant in Bridgehampton, which is such a beautiful restaurant, 0:07:00.120 --> 0:07:03.600 and you call Pierra and you say, Pierre, is there 0:07:03.600 --> 0:07:04.960 a table next to you Grant. 0:07:04.760 --> 0:07:07.479 Because I'm going to be sitting there. And you show 0:07:07.560 --> 0:07:10.640 up and you sit next to him. 0:07:10.880 --> 0:07:13.560 I said, behind him, And then you know, I push 0:07:13.680 --> 0:07:16.360 up my chair, I push out my chair and bump 0:07:16.440 --> 0:07:20.560 his chair. I bump his chair, and I turn around 0:07:20.560 --> 0:07:23.200 and go, oh, I'm so sorry. Oh, let me buy 0:07:23.240 --> 0:07:25.760 you a drink. And that's how the conversation starts. And 0:07:25.800 --> 0:07:28.400 he knows who I am, because he's a friend of Andy's, right. 0:07:28.480 --> 0:07:29.920 I don't know if he knows who I am or not. 0:07:30.040 --> 0:07:32.360 I don't really care. He's a man and I'm a woman, 0:07:32.800 --> 0:07:34.360 and I'm going to let him know that I'm interested. 0:07:34.920 --> 0:07:36.080 And so that's how I. 0:07:36.080 --> 0:07:37.760 Started bought him a drink. 0:07:38.320 --> 0:07:40.680 Well, first of all, I asked him if he wanted 0:07:40.960 --> 0:07:43.320 a drink, and he said, I'll take a shot at tequila, 0:07:43.480 --> 0:07:45.680 and he goes, but I'm going to join you your chair. 0:07:46.360 --> 0:07:48.240 So he came to sit with me and my brother 0:07:48.360 --> 0:07:51.480 was there, my sister in law Paul, and my sitting 0:07:51.480 --> 0:07:53.840 there right and before you know it, you know, he's 0:07:53.880 --> 0:07:56.440 like sitting at the table doing shots, talking lah blah, 0:07:56.480 --> 0:08:00.280 and then we start kissing. And was like, I can't 0:08:00.280 --> 0:08:02.800 believe you're making out with you Grant, I said me neither. 0:08:03.280 --> 0:08:05.240 Wait hold on, So now we have t back. 0:08:05.240 --> 0:08:06.560 I mean, I love first of all, I love his 0:08:06.680 --> 0:08:09.000 whole Hugh grand story that and all that, But I 0:08:09.080 --> 0:08:12.080 have to ask you one question about offering a guy 0:08:12.120 --> 0:08:13.520 a drink? So what do you think about it? I've 0:08:13.520 --> 0:08:15.040 never offered a guy a drink, but do you think 0:08:15.080 --> 0:08:19.480 maybe why not? And I should be like why not? 0:08:19.600 --> 0:08:21.600 Why? Why can a man offer a woman a drink 0:08:21.600 --> 0:08:23.800 and a woman can offer a man a drink? Right? 0:08:33.880 --> 0:08:35.520 Okay, so that's back to Hugh Grant. 0:08:35.600 --> 0:08:39.160 So your guys are having shots, then you're kissing in 0:08:39.160 --> 0:08:40.000 front of your brother. 0:08:40.600 --> 0:08:42.080 I brought it up to the other day because it 0:08:42.080 --> 0:08:44.760 went it's the news has been spread around recently, and 0:08:45.320 --> 0:08:47.800 you know, and I love Hugh Grant's reply. Didn't you 0:08:47.800 --> 0:08:48.439 love his reply? 0:08:49.520 --> 0:08:51.839 He's so elegant, Well, he. 0:08:51.800 --> 0:08:55.200 Said, you know, he said, apparently my memory is not 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:57.400 as good as the countesses. 0:08:57.280 --> 0:08:58.920 Which I love. He didn't deny it. 0:08:59.000 --> 0:09:01.360 I thought that was so she No, he did not 0:09:01.440 --> 0:09:06.959 deny it because it's true. So so on. 0:09:06.920 --> 0:09:09.360 A scale to one to ten, how how good of 0:09:09.360 --> 0:09:09.920 a kisser is? 0:09:10.040 --> 0:09:12.120 Oh my god, I'm sure you know how long ago 0:09:12.160 --> 0:09:12.600 this is? 0:09:12.600 --> 0:09:14.199 Is like, come on, let's. 0:09:15.520 --> 0:09:20.199 Yeah, fifteen years ago. So I mean he was really hot. Yeah, 0:09:20.240 --> 0:09:22.480 he's a good kisser. Went to ten, he was at ten. 0:09:23.240 --> 0:09:23.760 I love that. 0:09:24.280 --> 0:09:25.760 I love that you gets a ten. 0:09:26.080 --> 0:09:28.320 You know, it's so funny because remember when a Rod 0:09:28.360 --> 0:09:31.200 was texting me, like literally sent me thousands and thousands 0:09:31.240 --> 0:09:31.880 of texts. 0:09:32.040 --> 0:09:34.400 You know, I love how q Grant is like maybe 0:09:34.400 --> 0:09:34.920 I did. 0:09:34.920 --> 0:09:37.000 Maybe you know her memory is better than mine, which 0:09:37.040 --> 0:09:38.560 is such an elegant response. 0:09:38.920 --> 0:09:42.480 Like a Rod like literally twice he met. 0:09:42.400 --> 0:09:45.800 Me in an art Basle was literally like pulling me 0:09:45.880 --> 0:09:49.160 around art Basle. And then later he knew he like 0:09:49.240 --> 0:09:50.760 knew I was single through a friend of our, a 0:09:50.840 --> 0:09:52.880 mutual friend of ours, and starts texting me, I mean 0:09:53.240 --> 0:09:56.560 thousands and thousands of texts like things like do you 0:09:56.679 --> 0:09:56.880 like me? 0:09:56.920 --> 0:09:58.040 I'm like, I don't even know you. 0:09:58.320 --> 0:10:00.720 Well, maybe you should have shared the t sterling so 0:10:00.760 --> 0:10:02.880 you could have I don't like that. I mean, if 0:10:02.880 --> 0:10:06.480 something happens, a guy should take responsibility for that. You know, 0:10:07.200 --> 0:10:09.560 he should have said, you know, yeah it's true and 0:10:09.640 --> 0:10:12.160 Kelly's gorgeous, and who wouldn't want to take Kelly? You know? 0:10:12.520 --> 0:10:15.040 Instead he denied it, which is it says a lot 0:10:15.120 --> 0:10:16.440 about his character and who he is. 0:10:16.960 --> 0:10:18.480 Well, I think he just is like he's like a 0:10:18.520 --> 0:10:20.440 mad texter and all he wants to do is just 0:10:20.520 --> 0:10:22.960 text women, like and just so he's like instead of 0:10:22.960 --> 0:10:24.840 being like you know, I mean, he's he has a 0:10:24.840 --> 0:10:27.200 great business, he's a he's a smart guy. But I 0:10:27.240 --> 0:10:30.400 think like he gets like sidetracked, and it's like that's 0:10:30.440 --> 0:10:33.080 just a gen for me. I've noticed that, like guys 0:10:33.080 --> 0:10:37.320 who are mad textures not just like hey, how's your day? 0:10:37.320 --> 0:10:38.080 Thinking of you? 0:10:39.360 --> 0:10:40.920 I feel like when they're texting a lot of people, 0:10:40.920 --> 0:10:43.480 it's just like they're just super insecure and like you 0:10:43.520 --> 0:10:47.480 don't need that serotonin uptake because all day, you know, 0:10:47.520 --> 0:10:48.680 you can get it from other things. 0:10:48.920 --> 0:10:51.280 Well I know, but guys, do you know, they're just 0:10:52.000 --> 0:10:53.880 you know, especially a guy like a Rod, he's like 0:10:53.880 --> 0:10:56.160 a peacock, right, so he needs to show his feathers, 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:59.240 you know, and they and you know, and they it 0:10:59.280 --> 0:11:01.400 gives them excite and it makes their heart beat. I mean, 0:11:01.760 --> 0:11:03.760 I'm not mad at that. I'm mad at the fact 0:11:03.760 --> 0:11:06.240 that he didn't admit it. You know me too. 0:11:06.320 --> 0:11:08.559 But he's also not a deal closer. He just likes 0:11:08.559 --> 0:11:11.160 to like have a lot of friends out about. 0:11:11.960 --> 0:11:14.480 It's what they call the player. And guess what isn't 0:11:14.520 --> 0:11:20.120 he He's a baseball player, right, I don't know. I 0:11:20.160 --> 0:11:23.280 can't keep my athletes straight, Darling, can't keep my athletes straight. 0:11:23.440 --> 0:11:26.120 You can keep your actors straight, but not your athletes. 0:11:26.280 --> 0:11:30.000 Actors straight, but the athletes, I have no idea. I mean, 0:11:30.040 --> 0:11:34.600 you took me to my first Knicks game, Gods, Sicker Rangers? 0:11:34.720 --> 0:11:37.160 Finally the way, which one did you like better? 0:11:37.200 --> 0:11:38.920 Did you like the next of the Rangers game? 0:11:39.480 --> 0:11:41.959 You know, they're so different, but it was, I mean 0:11:42.040 --> 0:11:43.880 something else. Being on the floor of the next game 0:11:43.880 --> 0:11:46.600 where the basketballs, you know, it was almost in our face, 0:11:46.640 --> 0:11:48.719 and the sneakers were skicking towards us. I was like, ah, 0:11:49.760 --> 0:11:50.760 we're gonna get hurt. 0:11:50.559 --> 0:11:53.400 Here, and You're like, oh my god, I love his legs. 0:11:53.679 --> 0:11:55.680 Oh yeah, I was checking out all the guy's legs 0:11:55.720 --> 0:11:58.320 and their bodies and what you know, in the moves 0:11:58.320 --> 0:12:00.320 of the next I mean, they just have a low 0:12:00.600 --> 0:12:03.200 which is unbeatable. Those guys. I mean they work so 0:12:03.400 --> 0:12:06.120 well together as a team. It was so great to 0:12:06.120 --> 0:12:07.880 watch that because you know, I love sports. 0:12:07.920 --> 0:12:08.440 I'm a jock. 0:12:08.800 --> 0:12:11.040 I love sports. You know, I grew up playing sports, 0:12:11.040 --> 0:12:13.120 So you know, I love the boys that likes to 0:12:13.120 --> 0:12:13.800 play sports. 0:12:14.320 --> 0:12:17.520 Did you play basketball too? But play basketball? 0:12:17.800 --> 0:12:19.520 I was on the basketball team at the high school. 0:12:19.920 --> 0:12:21.880 So I have athletic tendencies. 0:12:22.040 --> 0:12:23.400 I mean I like to ride horse and stuff like that, 0:12:23.440 --> 0:12:25.280 but I wouldn't say that I'm necessarily a jock. So 0:12:25.280 --> 0:12:27.120 I think it's very funny that, Like, I mean, I 0:12:27.160 --> 0:12:29.360 love going with you because you definitely you are a 0:12:29.400 --> 0:12:29.839 real jock. 0:12:29.960 --> 0:12:30.320 I am not. 0:12:30.600 --> 0:12:32.800 Yeah, no, totally. So you know, I grew up with 0:12:32.840 --> 0:12:35.480 four older brothers, so they told me how to do everything. 0:12:35.720 --> 0:12:38.040 You know, I got hit in the face of baseball's. 0:12:38.480 --> 0:12:40.160 You know, we had our own volleyball games. We were 0:12:40.200 --> 0:12:42.680 seven kids. You know, we had our own team of everything. 0:12:42.679 --> 0:12:47.760 We played flag football, we played you know, I know, 0:12:48.000 --> 0:12:50.520 ride snowmobiles and motorcycles. I mean, they told me how 0:12:50.520 --> 0:12:51.160 to do everything. 0:12:51.400 --> 0:12:51.880 I love that. 0:12:52.320 --> 0:12:53.960 Do you think that like that, going to the Knicks 0:12:54.040 --> 0:12:55.719 or to the Rangers where there's a lot of men, 0:12:55.800 --> 0:12:58.040 do you think that's a good place to find guys or. 0:12:58.600 --> 0:13:00.839 Darling, I can't think the better place to find men 0:13:00.880 --> 0:13:05.640 then then a next game or or or the Rangers. 0:13:06.000 --> 0:13:07.040 Everybody loves seeing you. 0:13:07.160 --> 0:13:10.560 Everyone loved They were like literally going crazy seeing you there. 0:13:10.920 --> 0:13:16.000 They're going crazy for you. And we're a good wing man, 0:13:16.440 --> 0:13:16.720 we are. 0:13:16.760 --> 0:13:18.560 But I think it's also when they see us together. 0:13:18.720 --> 0:13:20.320 I think people think that, like you know, most people 0:13:20.360 --> 0:13:22.280 are like, oh, they just are on its show and 0:13:22.280 --> 0:13:24.000 they don't they don't see people together. 0:13:24.240 --> 0:13:26.800 So when they see people together, they get really excited. Okay, 0:13:26.800 --> 0:13:30.280 so your bold flirting move, let's get started. Tell me, 0:13:30.400 --> 0:13:32.800 tell me what to do, teach me, guide me. 0:13:33.760 --> 0:13:36.600 Well, besides backing your chair up to a guy in 0:13:36.600 --> 0:13:39.360 a restaurant, I mean, you could always let your napkin 0:13:39.400 --> 0:13:41.680 on fire, you know. I think when you make eyes 0:13:41.720 --> 0:13:44.520 at someone you know, and you and you luck eyes 0:13:44.559 --> 0:13:49.160 with someone, I think that that's important. I think, for example, okay, 0:13:49.160 --> 0:13:52.640 you're out with your girlfriends for drinks, all right, and 0:13:52.679 --> 0:13:55.280 there's a guy at the bar that's eyeing you, right, 0:13:55.720 --> 0:13:58.600 so you kind of connected that way. But you know 0:13:58.640 --> 0:14:00.480 the guy is not going to walk up to a 0:14:00.520 --> 0:14:04.120 gaggle of girls, right, maybe a little insecure about that. 0:14:04.520 --> 0:14:05.880 And a woman is not going to walk up to 0:14:05.960 --> 0:14:08.240 the bar, right, So what do we do? We use 0:14:08.320 --> 0:14:12.560 our waiters to write a note. So the way, so 0:14:12.600 --> 0:14:15.800 you write a note. Nobody writes notes anymore. Right, write 0:14:15.840 --> 0:14:21.000 a note, give to the waiter saying please join us 0:14:21.040 --> 0:14:23.240 for a drink, and you invite him. So women have 0:14:23.320 --> 0:14:26.080 to invite men. It's really up to women to make 0:14:26.120 --> 0:14:28.880 the first move. So when you asked me about the shot, sure, 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:31.280 why not by a man of shot? And you know 0:14:31.360 --> 0:14:33.240 in this instance, you know the guy is going to 0:14:33.280 --> 0:14:35.600 be like, oh, now I have an invitation to the table, 0:14:36.000 --> 0:14:39.400 right since over son, he's going to come over and say, 0:14:39.520 --> 0:14:41.640 look if you know, because you can tell by the 0:14:41.680 --> 0:14:43.680 way somebody looks to you if they like you're not right? 0:14:44.040 --> 0:14:45.040 So what do you say in them? 0:14:44.920 --> 0:14:45.040 Am? 0:14:45.480 --> 0:14:46.920 So write a love note? 0:14:47.320 --> 0:14:49.080 I'm saying, what do you say, like I love you? 0:14:49.120 --> 0:14:50.560 Come over? Like? What do you say like? 0:14:50.800 --> 0:14:54.480 Oh, you say, please join us for a drink? Very simple, 0:14:55.280 --> 0:14:57.520 all right? And then the waiter will say over there, and. 0:14:57.640 --> 0:14:59.640 I'm just gonna have both printed out and instead of 0:14:59.640 --> 0:15:01.280 life is cars, I'm just gonna give those. 0:15:02.200 --> 0:15:06.280 Yeah, please join me for a drink with oh and 0:15:06.360 --> 0:15:08.680 put you know not yeah, maybe it's too much, but 0:15:09.120 --> 0:15:12.160 thinking a little lipstick on there, but that you should do. 0:15:12.200 --> 0:15:13.680 You know, when you already have a guy who want 0:15:13.720 --> 0:15:15.720 to keep a man, leave a love note on the 0:15:15.720 --> 0:15:19.800 mirror and red lipstick I love you or whatever it is, 0:15:20.000 --> 0:15:21.880 you know, leave a note to me. In the morning, 0:15:21.920 --> 0:15:24.680 he goes to brush his teeth and he sees his 0:15:24.720 --> 0:15:27.000 lipstick in his mirror. I mean, how great is that? 0:15:27.080 --> 0:15:28.840 I did that once to a guy was dating who 0:15:28.920 --> 0:15:31.560 was actually a Mexican footballer. I don't know if you 0:15:31.560 --> 0:15:34.760 remember him Rom He was so hot for Mexico. Yeah, 0:15:34.800 --> 0:15:37.760 and I left him a love note oh my, because 0:15:37.800 --> 0:15:39.560 I had to go back to New York and he 0:15:39.600 --> 0:15:43.920 took jureby took a video that he loved it so much. Yeah, 0:15:44.000 --> 0:15:44.800 it's very sweet. 0:15:45.280 --> 0:15:47.160 What are some of the things that are too bold? 0:15:47.600 --> 0:15:49.600 So we talked about things like love notes you like 0:15:49.720 --> 0:15:51.920 and you know, making them feel special, But what are 0:15:51.920 --> 0:15:53.120 the things you think are too bold? 0:15:54.520 --> 0:15:57.400 Too bold? Oh gosh, Well, you know going up to 0:15:57.480 --> 0:16:00.360 a guy and just you know, staying the wrong thing 0:16:00.400 --> 0:16:05.120 and you know, let's see, uh, that's something I would do, 0:16:06.200 --> 0:16:12.280 you know, doing something that can be not very That's 0:16:12.280 --> 0:16:15.560 where I'm looking. We're not but not pleasant, you know 0:16:15.560 --> 0:16:17.600 what I mean? Those are the wrong moves. You know. 0:16:17.880 --> 0:16:21.160 It's like it's like texting. You know, they're drinking and texting. 0:16:21.560 --> 0:16:25.480 Don't ever do it drinking and texting. It's no No. 0:16:25.920 --> 0:16:28.600 I know a lot of women who will like insult 0:16:28.640 --> 0:16:31.280 a guy to get him to say hello, to say 0:16:31.280 --> 0:16:31.880 a load to them. 0:16:32.440 --> 0:16:34.360 Well, I think that's not a good way to go. 0:16:34.720 --> 0:16:36.200 One of our mutual friends, I wanted to I want 0:16:36.240 --> 0:16:37.640 to ask you this our mutual friends. 0:16:38.040 --> 0:16:38.640 She does that. 0:16:38.680 --> 0:16:41.880 She insults the guys to get them to, like, you know, 0:16:42.120 --> 0:16:44.040 be on them on their back foot, which I think 0:16:44.120 --> 0:16:47.040 is actually funny. Have you ever dated anyone that's Bethan 0:16:47.040 --> 0:16:48.560 these data? Because I've been on a lot of dates 0:16:48.560 --> 0:16:50.200 with guys in New York obviously I'm single. 0:16:50.600 --> 0:16:52.120 And if one more. 0:16:52.040 --> 0:16:54.600 Guy says, oh my god, I know your friend, I'm 0:16:54.640 --> 0:16:56.240 like who And I like Bethan, And I'm like. 0:16:56.240 --> 0:16:59.040 We are not. Well, you know, it's funny because I 0:16:59.120 --> 0:17:00.840 don't think Bethany and I have the same taste of 0:17:00.920 --> 0:17:03.640 men for sure, So that hasn't happened to me once. 0:17:04.840 --> 0:17:06.159 I think I need to. I think I need to 0:17:06.160 --> 0:17:07.000 get on Europe. 0:17:07.119 --> 0:17:10.120 I'm like, you're like your your vibe and not for 0:17:10.119 --> 0:17:12.000 some reason, they're all her vibe. 0:17:12.000 --> 0:17:14.080 And I'm like, oh yeah, I mean, well, you know, 0:17:14.119 --> 0:17:15.399 downtown similar. 0:17:15.440 --> 0:17:16.920 I don't know why on earth that they would like 0:17:17.040 --> 0:17:19.879 someone like me and like her like we're totally different. 0:17:20.480 --> 0:17:25.640 Well, totally go back to here and there. I had 0:17:25.640 --> 0:17:26.160 to do it. 0:17:27.560 --> 0:17:28.719 I love you so much. 0:17:28.760 --> 0:17:30.680 You're here on the dating pool and she's over here 0:17:30.720 --> 0:17:35.680 on the dating pool. Right, we're up here. I'm talking 0:17:35.680 --> 0:17:36.560 about dating now. 0:17:46.440 --> 0:17:48.800 All right, now, let's talk all things cabaret. First of all, 0:17:48.840 --> 0:17:51.359 your cabaret is just so fired. You're doing so great 0:17:51.400 --> 0:17:53.400 and it's just so much fun, and you look drop 0:17:53.440 --> 0:17:57.639 dead gorgeous, and you are an unbelievable entertainer, hands down, 0:17:58.480 --> 0:17:59.760 incredibly entertaining. 0:17:59.760 --> 0:18:03.040 You do. I know you're working so hard, and I'm 0:18:03.080 --> 0:18:07.560 just I'm really really proud of you. So Mary, which 0:18:07.560 --> 0:18:10.199 I love. So what what can they? 0:18:10.240 --> 0:18:13.840 What do they? Mary? F kill is is you know 0:18:14.400 --> 0:18:17.119 that came from my fans. So I'm always inspired by 0:18:17.119 --> 0:18:19.000 my fans, because every cap ray show was doing, and 0:18:19.080 --> 0:18:21.160