1 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:17,959 Speaker 1: Hey, it's your celebrity mentor Kelly ben Simone. 2 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:20,599 Speaker 2: Here on I do part two, the podcast that's a 3 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:24,919 Speaker 2: unique social experiment in love, dating and relationships with people 4 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 2: that are open to finding love the second time around. 5 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 2: Today I'm joined by someone who's one of a kind. 6 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 2: She's loved and just like the rest of us. My 7 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 2: former co starred Real Housewives of New York and Ultimate 8 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:41,920 Speaker 2: Girl Strip. She's on tour with her cabaret my true friend, 9 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:44,960 Speaker 2: the Countess herself low Adela SEPs. 10 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:51,159 Speaker 1: Hello, Luenn, I love you, Love New York. How are 11 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 1: you look? Gorgeous? 12 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 3: Per usual? Good morning darling. How are you So? 13 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 2: This podcast is all about people that are just like us, 14 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:02,280 Speaker 2: people that got married and maybe single parents. But the 15 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 2: one thing we haven't given up on is finding love. 16 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 2: So for those who don't know, tell the listeners Leanne 17 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 2: a little bit about your love journey. 18 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:17,399 Speaker 3: Well, first husband, you know was the count that you know. 19 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 3: We met and he asked me to marry him five 20 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 3: days later, but I made him wait and we got 21 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:26,520 Speaker 3: married two weeks later, and now it's two kids later. 22 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 3: So yeah, I mean it was a coupdufoo we say 23 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 3: in French, which is the first sight as you know, Kelly, 24 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:36,280 Speaker 3: because you speak a little French, and so you know, 25 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 3: it was just magic. When the magic happens, it happens. 26 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 3: And you you know, when that train pulls up to 27 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 3: the station, don't have fear, right jump on the train 28 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 3: because you can always go home, right, And so you 29 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 3: know I did. I jumped from my career in Italian television. 30 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 3: I was working in Italy at the time. I was 31 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 3: living in Milan, and I said, you know what, this 32 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 3: is the love of my life. It's time to go. 33 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 3: And so I left my career and moved to Switzerland 34 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 3: with him and had my two kids, who you know, 35 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 3: Victoria Nowell. I was married for sixteen years and then 36 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 3: seven years later I would make the second husband. And 37 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 3: you know I work in seven year cycles. It's interesting 38 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 3: because it is now. So I married in twenty sixteen, 39 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 3: then I divorced in twenty seventeen. That was the quickie 40 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:24,839 Speaker 3: and now where are we We are in twenty twenty four, 41 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 3: seven years later. I manifested that this is my year 42 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 3: of love and it's just part of you know, the 43 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 3: rhythm of life. I think there's a rhythm and a flow, 44 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:36,839 Speaker 3: and so that is my flow and in twenty twenty four, 45 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 3: I've actually, you know, met a couple of guys that 46 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 3: I really like. So so twenty twenty four is my 47 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 3: year of love. And to prove it, I even got 48 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 3: cast on a show called The Love Hotel. And I 49 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 3: can't tell you how that ends because I can't give 50 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 3: away too much on that show, but it's going to 51 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 3: er in twenty twenty five, and I do find some 52 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:01,360 Speaker 3: magic over at the Love which is kind of crazy. 53 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 2: So how do you feel we're both single? How do 54 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:05,400 Speaker 2: you how are you feeling about sin being single? 55 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 1: Right now? I mean, do you like dat fucking dating? 56 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,640 Speaker 3: And I say this, I ran into Scott yesterday on 57 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 3: the street. No, I didn't really recognize it. I was like, 58 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 3: I know him, but I don't. I'm not sure, but 59 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 3: he's like hi, and I game an air kiss and 60 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 3: said hello and then kept walking. But how funny, right anyway, 61 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 3: So back to what we're talking about. 62 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 2: What was the question You're like, anyway, just ran into 63 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 2: your eggs, No, that we're both single. We bar are 64 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 2: both the single now, and I was just was wondering, like, 65 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 2: how are you feeling about sib being single? 66 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 1: Man? 67 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:40,880 Speaker 2: You said about the flow in the seven years, But like, 68 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 2: are you liking being single or are you really are 69 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 2: you ready to get married again? 70 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: Like how are you feeling? 71 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 3: You know, at this point, I'm living my best life 72 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 3: in my fifties. I have to say it's the best decade. 73 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 3: I mean, I love my twenties and my thirties. Forties 74 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 3: and fifties has really been the best decade for me. 75 00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 3: I'm just living my best life. I love my career 76 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 3: in Cabaret. I you know, I loved you know, still 77 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 3: working for the network for Bravo, and you know, and 78 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 3: I love dating. I mean, I'm having a great time. 79 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 3: But I actually, you know, did meet somebody and and 80 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 3: so you know, we'll see what happens. But for the moment, 81 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 3: I'm kind of taken. I gotta say. 82 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 2: So, I was going to ask you how many guys 83 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:24,599 Speaker 2: you are dating, But now you're saying you're kind of taken. 84 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 1: That's amazing, you know. 85 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:31,280 Speaker 3: I mean, I'm struggling between a couple couple actually so, 86 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:34,600 Speaker 3: but but I feel like I finally found what I'm 87 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:35,040 Speaker 3: looking for. 88 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:36,720 Speaker 2: So did you when you were dating, did you have 89 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 2: like more loca would like dating apps or is it 90 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 2: just organic? I mean, you're you are a very uh 91 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 2: sensual woman, and I'm so I'm sure it's like. 92 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:48,040 Speaker 1: Very easy for you to pick up as I've seen 93 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:48,719 Speaker 1: in real life. 94 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:50,280 Speaker 2: You know. 95 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 3: I was on the dating apps during COVID, I have 96 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:54,839 Speaker 3: to say, and that's where I found Garth, Remember Garth on. 97 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:57,599 Speaker 2: The last Yeah, right. 98 00:04:57,760 --> 00:04:59,320 Speaker 3: So I was on the apps and then I got 99 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 3: off because just you know, I like to meet people 100 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 3: in person. I prefer, you know, to have that personal experience. 101 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 3: And so yeah, so I'm you know, I find guys, 102 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 3: you know, everywhere. You can find a guy walking down 103 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 3: the streets, you know, And people always ask me about 104 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 3: my dating tips, et cetera. But I feel like timing 105 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 3: is everything. And you know, I was tarting to this 106 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 3: to make up ours yesterday and she was saying, you 107 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:28,480 Speaker 3: know that she's always falling into the wrong guys, right, 108 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 3: that she caught cheating on her, et cetera. I said, 109 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 3: you know what, why don't you just be alone and 110 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:36,719 Speaker 3: love on yourself? Because I feel like a lot of 111 00:05:36,720 --> 00:05:39,599 Speaker 3: women aren't loving on themselves. There is certain they're in 112 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 3: a kind of a desperate search to find a guide 113 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:44,599 Speaker 3: to complete them you know, And I think the real 114 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:48,599 Speaker 3: magic is to be complete yourself, be complete and loving yourself, 115 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 3: being happy with yourself, and that kind of energy is 116 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 3: what draws around that positive energy because you think more 117 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 3: with your heart than you do with like, oh, you 118 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:00,640 Speaker 3: need to find a guy. He needs to be this, 119 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 3: he needs to be that, he needs to be the 120 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 3: other thing. So you know I said this all the time, 121 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 3: you know, you know, put down, put down, the keep down, 122 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:13,159 Speaker 3: the you know, the energy which is like you're looking 123 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 3: for the right man. And she said to me, you 124 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 3: know this makeup board is I you know, I'm looking 125 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 3: for a guy, and you know this guy a chieved 126 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 3: on me exactly. I said, you know what, why don't 127 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:23,480 Speaker 3: you just take care of yourself? Why don't you just 128 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 3: enjoy and pamper yourself and love yourself? And before you 129 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:28,479 Speaker 3: know it, you're going to turn around and the guy's 130 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 3: going to be standing there because you have to put 131 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:34,159 Speaker 3: yourself in the right place. You know, timing is one thing, 132 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:36,479 Speaker 3: but you have to be in the right place for 133 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:39,240 Speaker 3: that timing, and you can only be there if you're 134 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:43,280 Speaker 3: living in love of your of self first. That's how 135 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:43,840 Speaker 3: I feel about it. 136 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:49,839 Speaker 2: Speaking of timing, let's talk you Grant. So let's set 137 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:54,359 Speaker 2: this up right here in the Hamptons. And you find 138 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:57,160 Speaker 2: out that Hugh Grant is at Pierre's, which is in Bridgehampton, 139 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:59,719 Speaker 2: a restaurant in Bridgehampton, which is such a beautiful restaurant, 140 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:03,600 Speaker 2: and you call Pierra and you say, Pierre, is there 141 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 2: a table next to you Grant. 142 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:07,479 Speaker 1: Because I'm going to be sitting there. And you show 143 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 1: up and you sit next to him. 144 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 3: I said, behind him, And then you know, I push 145 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 3: up my chair, I push out my chair and bump 146 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 3: his chair. I bump his chair, and I turn around 147 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 3: and go, oh, I'm so sorry. Oh, let me buy 148 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:25,760 Speaker 3: you a drink. And that's how the conversation starts. And 149 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 3: he knows who I am, because he's a friend of Andy's, right. 150 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 3: I don't know if he knows who I am or not. 151 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 3: I don't really care. He's a man and I'm a woman, 152 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 3: and I'm going to let him know that I'm interested. 153 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 3: And so that's how I. 154 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 1: Started bought him a drink. 155 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:40,680 Speaker 3: Well, first of all, I asked him if he wanted 156 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 3: a drink, and he said, I'll take a shot at tequila, 157 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:45,680 Speaker 3: and he goes, but I'm going to join you your chair. 158 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 3: So he came to sit with me and my brother 159 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 3: was there, my sister in law Paul, and my sitting 160 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:53,840 Speaker 3: there right and before you know it, you know, he's 161 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 3: like sitting at the table doing shots, talking lah blah, 162 00:07:56,480 --> 00:08:00,280 Speaker 3: and then we start kissing. And was like, I can't 163 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 3: believe you're making out with you Grant, I said me neither. 164 00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:05,240 Speaker 1: Wait hold on, So now we have t back. 165 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 2: I mean, I love first of all, I love his 166 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 2: whole Hugh grand story that and all that, But I 167 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 2: have to ask you one question about offering a guy 168 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 2: a drink? So what do you think about it? I've 169 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 2: never offered a guy a drink, but do you think 170 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 2: maybe why not? And I should be like why not? 171 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:21,600 Speaker 3: Why? Why can a man offer a woman a drink 172 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 3: and a woman can offer a man a drink? Right? 173 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 1: Okay, so that's back to Hugh Grant. 174 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 2: So your guys are having shots, then you're kissing in 175 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 2: front of your brother. 176 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:42,080 Speaker 3: I brought it up to the other day because it 177 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 3: went it's the news has been spread around recently, and 178 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 3: you know, and I love Hugh Grant's reply. Didn't you 179 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:48,439 Speaker 3: love his reply? 180 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:51,839 Speaker 1: He's so elegant, Well, he. 181 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:55,200 Speaker 3: Said, you know, he said, apparently my memory is not 182 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 3: as good as the countesses. 183 00:08:57,280 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 1: Which I love. He didn't deny it. 184 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 3: I thought that was so she No, he did not 185 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:06,959 Speaker 3: deny it because it's true. So so on. 186 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 1: A scale to one to ten, how how good of 187 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 1: a kisser is? 188 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'm sure you know how long ago 189 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 3: this is? 190 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:14,199 Speaker 1: Is like, come on, let's. 191 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:20,199 Speaker 3: Yeah, fifteen years ago. So I mean he was really hot. Yeah, 192 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 3: he's a good kisser. Went to ten, he was at ten. 193 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 3: I love that. 194 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 1: I love that you gets a ten. 195 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 2: You know, it's so funny because remember when a Rod 196 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:31,200 Speaker 2: was texting me, like literally sent me thousands and thousands 197 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 2: of texts. 198 00:09:32,040 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 1: You know, I love how q Grant is like maybe 199 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 1: I did. 200 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:37,000 Speaker 2: Maybe you know her memory is better than mine, which 201 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:38,560 Speaker 2: is such an elegant response. 202 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:42,480 Speaker 1: Like a Rod like literally twice he met. 203 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 2: Me in an art Basle was literally like pulling me 204 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 2: around art Basle. And then later he knew he like 205 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 2: knew I was single through a friend of our, a 206 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 2: mutual friend of ours, and starts texting me, I mean 207 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:56,560 Speaker 2: thousands and thousands of texts like things like do you 208 00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 2: like me? 209 00:09:56,920 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't even know you. 210 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:00,720 Speaker 3: Well, maybe you should have shared the t sterling so 211 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:02,880 Speaker 3: you could have I don't like that. I mean, if 212 00:10:02,880 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 3: something happens, a guy should take responsibility for that. You know, 213 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:09,560 Speaker 3: he should have said, you know, yeah it's true and 214 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 3: Kelly's gorgeous, and who wouldn't want to take Kelly? You know? 215 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 3: Instead he denied it, which is it says a lot 216 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:16,440 Speaker 3: about his character and who he is. 217 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:18,480 Speaker 2: Well, I think he just is like he's like a 218 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:20,440 Speaker 2: mad texter and all he wants to do is just 219 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:22,960 Speaker 2: text women, like and just so he's like instead of 220 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 2: being like you know, I mean, he's he has a 221 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:27,200 Speaker 2: great business, he's a he's a smart guy. But I 222 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 2: think like he gets like sidetracked, and it's like that's 223 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:33,080 Speaker 2: just a gen for me. I've noticed that, like guys 224 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 2: who are mad textures not just like hey, how's your day? 225 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:38,080 Speaker 1: Thinking of you? 226 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 2: I feel like when they're texting a lot of people, 227 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 2: it's just like they're just super insecure and like you 228 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 2: don't need that serotonin uptake because all day, you know, 229 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:48,680 Speaker 2: you can get it from other things. 230 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 3: Well I know, but guys, do you know, they're just 231 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 3: you know, especially a guy like a Rod, he's like 232 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:56,160 Speaker 3: a peacock, right, so he needs to show his feathers, 233 00:10:56,200 --> 00:10:59,240 Speaker 3: you know, and they and you know, and they it 234 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:01,400 Speaker 3: gives them excite and it makes their heart beat. I mean, 235 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 3: I'm not mad at that. I'm mad at the fact 236 00:11:03,760 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 3: that he didn't admit it. You know me too. 237 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:08,559 Speaker 2: But he's also not a deal closer. He just likes 238 00:11:08,559 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 2: to like have a lot of friends out about. 239 00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 3: It's what they call the player. And guess what isn't 240 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 3: he He's a baseball player, right, I don't know. I 241 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 3: can't keep my athletes straight, Darling, can't keep my athletes straight. 242 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 3: You can keep your actors straight, but not your athletes. 243 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 3: Actors straight, but the athletes, I have no idea. I mean, 244 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 3: you took me to my first Knicks game, Gods, Sicker Rangers? 245 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 3: Finally the way, which one did you like better? 246 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 1: Did you like the next of the Rangers game? 247 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:41,959 Speaker 3: You know, they're so different, but it was, I mean 248 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 3: something else. Being on the floor of the next game 249 00:11:43,880 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 3: where the basketballs, you know, it was almost in our face, 250 00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:48,719 Speaker 3: and the sneakers were skicking towards us. I was like, ah, 251 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 3: we're gonna get hurt. 252 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 1: Here, and You're like, oh my god, I love his legs. 253 00:11:53,679 --> 00:11:55,680 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I was checking out all the guy's legs 254 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:58,320 Speaker 3: and their bodies and what you know, in the moves 255 00:11:58,320 --> 00:12:00,320 Speaker 3: of the next I mean, they just have a low 256 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:03,200 Speaker 3: which is unbeatable. Those guys. I mean they work so 257 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 3: well together as a team. It was so great to 258 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 3: watch that because you know, I love sports. 259 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:08,440 Speaker 1: I'm a jock. 260 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 3: I love sports. You know, I grew up playing sports, 261 00:12:11,040 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 3: So you know, I love the boys that likes to 262 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:13,800 Speaker 3: play sports. 263 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 1: Did you play basketball too? But play basketball? 264 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 3: I was on the basketball team at the high school. 265 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 1: So I have athletic tendencies. 266 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 2: I mean I like to ride horse and stuff like that, 267 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 2: but I wouldn't say that I'm necessarily a jock. So 268 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 2: I think it's very funny that, Like, I mean, I 269 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 2: love going with you because you definitely you are a 270 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:29,839 Speaker 2: real jock. 271 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:30,320 Speaker 1: I am not. 272 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, totally. So you know, I grew up with 273 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:35,480 Speaker 3: four older brothers, so they told me how to do everything. 274 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 3: You know, I got hit in the face of baseball's. 275 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 3: You know, we had our own volleyball games. We were 276 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:42,680 Speaker 3: seven kids. You know, we had our own team of everything. 277 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:47,760 Speaker 3: We played flag football, we played you know, I know, 278 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 3: ride snowmobiles and motorcycles. I mean, they told me how 279 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 3: to do everything. 280 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 1: I love that. 281 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:53,960 Speaker 2: Do you think that like that, going to the Knicks 282 00:12:54,040 --> 00:12:55,719 Speaker 2: or to the Rangers where there's a lot of men, 283 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:58,040 Speaker 2: do you think that's a good place to find guys or. 284 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:00,839 Speaker 3: Darling, I can't think the better place to find men 285 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:05,640 Speaker 3: then then a next game or or or the Rangers. 286 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 1: Everybody loves seeing you. 287 00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:10,560 Speaker 2: Everyone loved They were like literally going crazy seeing you there. 288 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 3: They're going crazy for you. And we're a good wing man, 289 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:16,720 Speaker 3: we are. 290 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 1: But I think it's also when they see us together. 291 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:20,320 Speaker 2: I think people think that, like you know, most people 292 00:13:20,360 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 2: are like, oh, they just are on its show and 293 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 2: they don't they don't see people together. 294 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:26,800 Speaker 1: So when they see people together, they get really excited. Okay, 295 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 1: so your bold flirting move, let's get started. Tell me, 296 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 1: tell me what to do, teach me, guide me. 297 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:36,600 Speaker 3: Well, besides backing your chair up to a guy in 298 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 3: a restaurant, I mean, you could always let your napkin 299 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:41,680 Speaker 3: on fire, you know. I think when you make eyes 300 00:13:41,720 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 3: at someone you know, and you and you luck eyes 301 00:13:44,559 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 3: with someone, I think that that's important. I think, for example, okay, 302 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:52,640 Speaker 3: you're out with your girlfriends for drinks, all right, and 303 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 3: there's a guy at the bar that's eyeing you, right, 304 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 3: so you kind of connected that way. But you know 305 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 3: the guy is not going to walk up to a 306 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 3: gaggle of girls, right, maybe a little insecure about that. 307 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 3: And a woman is not going to walk up to 308 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:08,240 Speaker 3: the bar, right, So what do we do? We use 309 00:14:08,320 --> 00:14:12,560 Speaker 3: our waiters to write a note. So the way, so 310 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 3: you write a note. Nobody writes notes anymore. Right, write 311 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 3: a note, give to the waiter saying please join us 312 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 3: for a drink, and you invite him. So women have 313 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 3: to invite men. It's really up to women to make 314 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 3: the first move. So when you asked me about the shot, sure, 315 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 3: why not by a man of shot? And you know 316 00:14:31,360 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 3: in this instance, you know the guy is going to 317 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 3: be like, oh, now I have an invitation to the table, 318 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 3: right since over son, he's going to come over and say, 319 00:14:39,520 --> 00:14:41,640 Speaker 3: look if you know, because you can tell by the 320 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 3: way somebody looks to you if they like you're not right? 321 00:14:44,040 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 1: So what do you say in them? 322 00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 2: Am? 323 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:46,920 Speaker 3: So write a love note? 324 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:49,080 Speaker 1: I'm saying, what do you say, like I love you? 325 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 1: Come over? Like? What do you say like? 326 00:14:50,800 --> 00:14:54,480 Speaker 3: Oh, you say, please join us for a drink? Very simple, 327 00:14:55,280 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 3: all right? And then the waiter will say over there, and. 328 00:14:57,640 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna have both printed out and instead of 329 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:01,280 Speaker 2: life is cars, I'm just gonna give those. 330 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, please join me for a drink with oh and 331 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:08,680 Speaker 3: put you know not yeah, maybe it's too much, but 332 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:12,160 Speaker 3: thinking a little lipstick on there, but that you should do. 333 00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 3: You know, when you already have a guy who want 334 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:15,720 Speaker 3: to keep a man, leave a love note on the 335 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:19,800 Speaker 3: mirror and red lipstick I love you or whatever it is, 336 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 3: you know, leave a note to me. In the morning, 337 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 3: he goes to brush his teeth and he sees his 338 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 3: lipstick in his mirror. I mean, how great is that? 339 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 3: I did that once to a guy was dating who 340 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 3: was actually a Mexican footballer. I don't know if you 341 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 3: remember him Rom He was so hot for Mexico. Yeah, 342 00:15:34,800 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 3: and I left him a love note oh my, because 343 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:39,560 Speaker 3: I had to go back to New York and he 344 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:43,920 Speaker 3: took jureby took a video that he loved it so much. Yeah, 345 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:44,800 Speaker 3: it's very sweet. 346 00:15:45,280 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 1: What are some of the things that are too bold? 347 00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:49,600 Speaker 2: So we talked about things like love notes you like 348 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 2: and you know, making them feel special, But what are 349 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 2: the things you think are too bold? 350 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 3: Too bold? Oh gosh, Well, you know going up to 351 00:15:57,480 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 3: a guy and just you know, staying the wrong thing 352 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 3: and you know, let's see, uh, that's something I would do, 353 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 3: you know, doing something that can be not very That's 354 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:15,560 Speaker 3: where I'm looking. We're not but not pleasant, you know 355 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:17,600 Speaker 3: what I mean? Those are the wrong moves. You know. 356 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 3: It's like it's like texting. You know, they're drinking and texting. 357 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:25,480 Speaker 3: Don't ever do it drinking and texting. It's no No. 358 00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:28,600 Speaker 2: I know a lot of women who will like insult 359 00:16:28,640 --> 00:16:31,280 Speaker 2: a guy to get him to say hello, to say 360 00:16:31,280 --> 00:16:31,880 Speaker 2: a load to them. 361 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:34,360 Speaker 3: Well, I think that's not a good way to go. 362 00:16:34,720 --> 00:16:36,200 Speaker 2: One of our mutual friends, I wanted to I want 363 00:16:36,240 --> 00:16:37,640 Speaker 2: to ask you this our mutual friends. 364 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 1: She does that. 365 00:16:38,680 --> 00:16:41,880 Speaker 2: She insults the guys to get them to, like, you know, 366 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:44,040 Speaker 2: be on them on their back foot, which I think 367 00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:47,040 Speaker 2: is actually funny. Have you ever dated anyone that's Bethan 368 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 2: these data? Because I've been on a lot of dates 369 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:50,200 Speaker 2: with guys in New York obviously I'm single. 370 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:52,120 Speaker 1: And if one more. 371 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 2: Guy says, oh my god, I know your friend, I'm 372 00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:56,240 Speaker 2: like who And I like Bethan, And I'm like. 373 00:16:56,240 --> 00:16:59,040 Speaker 3: We are not. Well, you know, it's funny because I 374 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 3: don't think Bethany and I have the same taste of 375 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 3: men for sure, So that hasn't happened to me once. 376 00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:06,159 Speaker 1: I think I need to. I think I need to 377 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:07,000 Speaker 1: get on Europe. 378 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:10,120 Speaker 2: I'm like, you're like your your vibe and not for 379 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:12,000 Speaker 2: some reason, they're all her vibe. 380 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:14,080 Speaker 3: And I'm like, oh yeah, I mean, well, you know, 381 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:15,399 Speaker 3: downtown similar. 382 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:16,920 Speaker 2: I don't know why on earth that they would like 383 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:19,879 Speaker 2: someone like me and like her like we're totally different. 384 00:17:20,480 --> 00:17:25,640 Speaker 3: Well, totally go back to here and there. I had 385 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:26,160 Speaker 3: to do it. 386 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:28,719 Speaker 1: I love you so much. 387 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:30,680 Speaker 3: You're here on the dating pool and she's over here 388 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:35,680 Speaker 3: on the dating pool. Right, we're up here. I'm talking 389 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:36,560 Speaker 3: about dating now. 390 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 2: All right, now, let's talk all things cabaret. First of all, 391 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:51,359 Speaker 2: your cabaret is just so fired. You're doing so great 392 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:53,400 Speaker 2: and it's just so much fun, and you look drop 393 00:17:53,440 --> 00:17:57,639 Speaker 2: dead gorgeous, and you are an unbelievable entertainer, hands down, 394 00:17:58,480 --> 00:17:59,760 Speaker 2: incredibly entertaining. 395 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 1: You do. I know you're working so hard, and I'm 396 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:07,560 Speaker 1: just I'm really really proud of you. So Mary, which 397 00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:10,199 Speaker 1: I love. So what what can they? 398 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:13,840 Speaker 3: What do they? Mary? F kill is is you know 399 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:17,119 Speaker 3: that came from my fans. So I'm always inspired by 400 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 3: my fans, because every cap ray show was doing, and 401 00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:21,160 Speaker 3: I talk about this in the show is they asked 402 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:22,359 Speaker 3: me because I do a Q and A with the 403 00:18:22,359 --> 00:18:25,240 Speaker 3: audience like Mary f Kill, Countess, but every show. And 404 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:27,560 Speaker 3: it's so funny because we never played Mary f Kill 405 00:18:27,560 --> 00:18:30,000 Speaker 3: in The Housewives, which is crazy to me because it's 406 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:32,040 Speaker 3: a game that girls play all the time and I 407 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:34,679 Speaker 3: don't ever playing Mary f Kill on the show. So 408 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:37,720 Speaker 3: it's really inspired by my fans, you know, that show, 409 00:18:37,760 --> 00:18:39,400 Speaker 3: and that's where the song came from and the tour 410 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:43,199 Speaker 3: came from. And it's actually f mary Kill, right, but 411 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:44,879 Speaker 3: it didn't sound good to me, so I changed it 412 00:18:44,920 --> 00:18:48,520 Speaker 3: to Mary f Kill and you know, so that sure 413 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:50,439 Speaker 3: has been so much fun. You know, I include that 414 00:18:50,480 --> 00:18:53,200 Speaker 3: song on my homecoming tour for the Holidays because really 415 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:56,040 Speaker 3: I'm doing holiday shows right now. It's it's Christmas with 416 00:18:56,119 --> 00:18:59,480 Speaker 3: the Countess now, and so I'm playing dates in Chicago, 417 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:08,639 Speaker 3: in Chicago, Cleveland, Cincinnati, and Royal Oak, Michigan. So I 418 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:11,880 Speaker 3: have Christmas tour, you know, finishing up my Christmas tour now, 419 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:15,200 Speaker 3: and you know, it's so much fun because I take 420 00:19:15,280 --> 00:19:17,080 Speaker 3: Christmas music, I turn it on its head. You know. 421 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:19,280 Speaker 3: I wrote a new song called Sonya Got Run over 422 00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:23,240 Speaker 3: by a reindeer. You heard it? And then I go, 423 00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:27,080 Speaker 3: Bethany got run over by a reindeer? Good? And you 424 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 3: know it's it's just tongue in che what's your website? 425 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 3: Countain Slanta Confert tickets for the upcoming Chicago, Cleveland and 426 00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:39,320 Speaker 3: Cincinnati shows in Michigan, Michigan, so check it out. And 427 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:42,359 Speaker 3: then I'm going to Europe for my new UH tour 428 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:46,080 Speaker 3: that's gonna be in February, and I'm playing you know, 429 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:49,480 Speaker 3: England and Dublin and Scotland. So you know, I love 430 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:53,399 Speaker 3: I love creating the show. You know, for me, it's 431 00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:55,920 Speaker 3: all about the creativity. People think they know my cab 432 00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:59,000 Speaker 3: Ratio from TV. They do not because they never show 433 00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:03,600 Speaker 3: the music because of music rights. And so's the drama 434 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:07,120 Speaker 3: around my cabaret show. You never get to see my show, right, 435 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:10,960 Speaker 3: So so it's you know, it's it's cabaret. People don't 436 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:13,280 Speaker 3: know what cabaret. So cav rat is really personal stories 437 00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 3: of your life. 438 00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:14,399 Speaker 1: Right. 439 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:16,680 Speaker 3: So I start with, you know, a song I love, 440 00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 3: Then I back into it with the story that why 441 00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:22,080 Speaker 3: I want to sing this song? What's the story there? 442 00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 3: And then I picked the perfect Giovanni dress as you know, 443 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:30,040 Speaker 3: it's so my show is not culture right meets cabaret 444 00:20:30,240 --> 00:20:32,480 Speaker 3: meets comedy meets a fashion. 445 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:35,920 Speaker 2: You're so fine, Let's do our own Mary f Kill 446 00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:36,960 Speaker 2: Housewives edition. 447 00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:41,359 Speaker 1: Okay, So Mauricio, Kyle's X, p K. 448 00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:47,160 Speaker 2: Duritz X, Michael Darby, Ashley's X on Potomac. 449 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:49,919 Speaker 3: I mean, can you imagine with you she was on 450 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:53,199 Speaker 3: the show with the they're all xes at disappoint I mean, 451 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:57,160 Speaker 3: it's the Housewives curse anyway. You know that's why they're 452 00:20:57,200 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 3: doing a dating show right now, because they they built 453 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:04,320 Speaker 3: a stable of single housewives, didn't they anyway? So I 454 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:08,040 Speaker 3: had to say that anyway, So Mary F Killed. Well, 455 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:15,200 Speaker 3: I'm going to Mary p K, I'm going to f Mauricio, 456 00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 3: and I'm going to kill Ashley Darby's X. 457 00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:28,960 Speaker 2: Speaking of divorce, we've both been there, so have our listeners. 458 00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:31,359 Speaker 2: What's the one piece of advice that got you through 459 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:32,320 Speaker 2: your last divorce? 460 00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:39,240 Speaker 3: Run run run fast, you know, especially if you know 461 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:41,639 Speaker 3: this person is not good for you. I mean, you know, 462 00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:49,040 Speaker 3: I think that when you're not happy and someone is 463 00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:51,520 Speaker 3: not making you happy, you need to change it up. 464 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:55,439 Speaker 3: And you know, divorce is not easy, and you know 465 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 3: it's like it's like moving, divorce and taxes. You know, 466 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:04,199 Speaker 3: those are the three stressors in life that could kill you. 467 00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:06,840 Speaker 3: So you know, bad marriage is you know, and a 468 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:09,600 Speaker 3: divorce and you know, and there's nothing wrong with that. 469 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:11,800 Speaker 3: You know, it's not a failure. It is it is 470 00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:14,720 Speaker 3: closing one door and opening another. You know, if something 471 00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:16,920 Speaker 3: doesn't work for you, you have to move on, and 472 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:20,280 Speaker 3: you know, and you just have to know that it's 473 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 3: not a it's not your fault, right, it's it's just 474 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:26,480 Speaker 3: how it is. And and it's not easy, like I said, 475 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:29,720 Speaker 3: but you know, you have to keep staying the driver's 476 00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:35,720 Speaker 3: seat and try to try to know that this is 477 00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:38,000 Speaker 3: one door that's closing and another door is opening. This 478 00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:40,119 Speaker 3: is just the stepping ladder of life. 479 00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:40,720 Speaker 1: Yeah. 480 00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:42,880 Speaker 2: What I was just trying to think, Like the best 481 00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,960 Speaker 2: advice that I got through when I was getting divorced 482 00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:50,520 Speaker 2: is actually my neighbor. Uh he pulled up because he 483 00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:52,639 Speaker 2: was taking his Our children were the same age, and 484 00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:54,600 Speaker 2: he pulled up in the Hampton's right in front of 485 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:56,520 Speaker 2: my house and he goes, I'm going to help you 486 00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,800 Speaker 2: unravel the situation. You're going to get a mediator, and 487 00:22:59,800 --> 00:23:01,720 Speaker 2: you're going to just handle it. And you're gonna tie 488 00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:04,320 Speaker 2: a bow on it. That's why I learned Tiabo. He said, 489 00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:05,879 Speaker 2: you're going to tie a bow on it, and you're. 490 00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:06,679 Speaker 1: Just going to move forward. 491 00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:09,440 Speaker 2: And then you're gonna do a nice You're gonna do 492 00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 2: a nice piece in the in the press that you 493 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 2: know just says nice things about both of you, and 494 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:15,399 Speaker 2: you're just going to move on gently. And it was 495 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:20,159 Speaker 2: the most elegant way. And most people have asked me 496 00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:22,040 Speaker 2: so many times, like, oh. 497 00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:23,040 Speaker 1: My god, how was it? 498 00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:25,320 Speaker 2: Listen, And it was not easy. I mean, I had 499 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:28,160 Speaker 2: two young kids. I have a lot of fear of. 500 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:30,399 Speaker 1: How I was going to provide for them. 501 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 2: But I also knew that the way that my children 502 00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:37,320 Speaker 2: are being raised in that environment was not good. 503 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:39,200 Speaker 3: Well I totally get it, you know, because so after 504 00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:43,040 Speaker 3: I divorced the count, I you know, it almost destroyed me. Right, 505 00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:45,199 Speaker 3: So I went to I was going to go to 506 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:47,720 Speaker 3: Saint Bert's and partty with girlfriends of mine, and I 507 00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:50,440 Speaker 3: had a girlfriend called me and she said, no, you're not. 508 00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:52,960 Speaker 3: You're going to go and take care of yourself. So 509 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:57,280 Speaker 3: Papper yourself, take care of yourself, be kind to yourself, 510 00:23:57,320 --> 00:23:59,720 Speaker 3: be good to yourself. So I went to Deepak Troper 511 00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:02,400 Speaker 3: and that's that's how I discovered meditation and yoga, so 512 00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:05,400 Speaker 3: and that changed my life, you know, and I realized, 513 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:08,960 Speaker 3: oh my god, there's a being and you're a human being. 514 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 3: We're just beings, right, and you have to take care 515 00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:15,879 Speaker 3: of that inner being and that you know your soul 516 00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:19,640 Speaker 3: and you can't let it wreck you because, like I said, 517 00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:22,240 Speaker 3: it's not about you. It's about things not working out, 518 00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:24,600 Speaker 3: and sometimes they don't and you got to take it 519 00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:27,400 Speaker 3: one day at a time and and just take care 520 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:28,040 Speaker 3: of yourself. 521 00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:30,000 Speaker 1: I love that. Let's go back to dating. 522 00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:33,480 Speaker 2: How did you meet this new man friend that you 523 00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:34,800 Speaker 2: have eyes for? 524 00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:38,080 Speaker 3: Well, listen, I you know, I met somebody. I really 525 00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 3: liked the Love Hotel. I've been dating somebody in the 526 00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:43,520 Speaker 3: hamp since we met at a hotel. 527 00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:46,320 Speaker 2: I'm by the way, I'm so sad didn't get to 528 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:48,320 Speaker 2: go in the Love Hotel. I liked what I was 529 00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:51,280 Speaker 2: so excited to meet you there and see all these 530 00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:54,239 Speaker 2: guys and like check out, like who was interested in 531 00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:54,680 Speaker 2: my lib? 532 00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:56,840 Speaker 1: I'm like very protective of my love. 533 00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,600 Speaker 3: It's like every woman's wet dream come true, darling to 534 00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:02,120 Speaker 3: be present did with a ton of guys. I mean, hello, 535 00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:04,600 Speaker 3: get paid and go on vacation for three weeks. It 536 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:06,040 Speaker 3: was paradise. I loved it. 537 00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:09,280 Speaker 2: Where do you think of good places to find to 538 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:11,720 Speaker 2: find guys? Not the Regency place? 539 00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,600 Speaker 3: Well, I mean you listen to the Regency bar ain't bad. 540 00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 3: I think I think bars are a great place. I mean, 541 00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:21,399 Speaker 3: I think you could go to the bank, you know, 542 00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:23,439 Speaker 3: drop something on the floor if you like a guy 543 00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:26,000 Speaker 3: who's gonna come and pick it up, and then you 544 00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:28,639 Speaker 3: can lose and say hello. So you know you have 545 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:34,280 Speaker 3: to like what Bill okay or pierres or I think 546 00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:37,720 Speaker 3: every I think everywhere, restaurants, you know, bars, I'm trying 547 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:39,879 Speaker 3: to think, or at the Love Hotel. You got to 548 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:41,960 Speaker 3: go to the Love Hotel. Daring I'm gonna I'm gonna 549 00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:43,600 Speaker 3: put your name in for next. 550 00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:50,240 Speaker 2: I'm very excited about my my new my new love life. 551 00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:51,120 Speaker 1: I am not gonna lie. 552 00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:53,280 Speaker 3: I am yeah. What's going on with you? By the way, 553 00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:54,000 Speaker 3: so I. 554 00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:56,400 Speaker 1: I was dating to guys. 555 00:25:57,320 --> 00:25:59,800 Speaker 2: One of them I had to put on pause and 556 00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:03,240 Speaker 2: the other one is amazing. I'm just kind of waiting 557 00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:06,439 Speaker 2: to see you know, like how more of that is going. 558 00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:08,240 Speaker 1: I'm just like. 559 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:11,600 Speaker 2: Excited about Uh, it's interesting what you said before at 560 00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:14,080 Speaker 2: the at the at the top about you know, and 561 00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:15,240 Speaker 2: I think Jlo. 562 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:15,919 Speaker 1: Did a disservice. 563 00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:18,760 Speaker 2: She said to everyone, I have a bad picker, and 564 00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:21,480 Speaker 2: so people started using that as like a way of 565 00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 2: talking about the way that they meet men. And I 566 00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:27,800 Speaker 2: don't think that women have bad pickers. I think that 567 00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,320 Speaker 2: women aren't like you said. I think there they put 568 00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:34,000 Speaker 2: there in that kind of tone in their in their 569 00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:36,920 Speaker 2: day or their life where they're putting it out there 570 00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:39,480 Speaker 2: that they're single and they want to meet someone. 571 00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:41,640 Speaker 3: And then they'rey happy on their own that they don't 572 00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:43,840 Speaker 3: need a man. You know, this is all about it. 573 00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:46,280 Speaker 3: It's like putting out there that you're happy, you don't 574 00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:49,000 Speaker 3: need a man, and you know what, then that then 575 00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:51,840 Speaker 3: they can come to you, because you know, otherwise, if 576 00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:53,720 Speaker 3: you're looking to you know, it is if you're looking 577 00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:57,439 Speaker 3: so hard, you're never going to find it. It's the magic. 578 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:01,160 Speaker 2: I remember after I got you know, I called off 579 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:03,560 Speaker 2: the wedding and someone from page six called me and 580 00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:04,840 Speaker 2: they said, you know, are you single? 581 00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:05,359 Speaker 1: You dating? 582 00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:05,960 Speaker 3: What are you doing? 583 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,520 Speaker 2: And I said, I was like, I like that word single. 584 00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:11,199 Speaker 2: Single means like to kind of desperate, and I'm definitely 585 00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:13,520 Speaker 2: not desperate. You know, I have a lot of great friends, 586 00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:16,000 Speaker 2: I beautiful family, I love my children, I love what 587 00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:19,199 Speaker 2: I do, so I'm very happy in my life. I 588 00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:22,480 Speaker 2: just want to share that with someone special. So I'm 589 00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,720 Speaker 2: not like desperately looking for someone. 590 00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:28,560 Speaker 3: Well, that's that's on them. That's what they're thinking. It's 591 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:31,040 Speaker 3: it's not your thing, And who cares what people think? 592 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,520 Speaker 3: This is the first thing is like, who cares what 593 00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:37,960 Speaker 3: people think? Single is not desperate. Single is single and 594 00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:41,119 Speaker 3: ready to mingle. Like Kim Petrell on Sex and the City. 595 00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:45,479 Speaker 3: That's single. So wait our seat. That's I'm in charge, 596 00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:47,480 Speaker 3: and I will pick you if you're lucky. That's how 597 00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:47,920 Speaker 3: I feel. 598 00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:52,320 Speaker 2: You're you're a marrying kind of woman, and so am 599 00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:55,040 Speaker 2: I. I'm I definitely want to get married again. And I've 600 00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:59,359 Speaker 2: been very you know, specific about who I think could 601 00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:02,480 Speaker 2: be a good person and for me, and when they're not, 602 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:07,600 Speaker 2: I do not go through with that. But what do 603 00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:09,359 Speaker 2: you think of getting married again? Do you want to 604 00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:10,119 Speaker 2: get married again? 605 00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:13,040 Speaker 3: You know, listen, I'm spontaneous. I don't you know. I'm 606 00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:15,720 Speaker 3: trying not to predict my future. You know, I'm the 607 00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:18,399 Speaker 3: kind of girl that rolls day by day you know. 608 00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:21,680 Speaker 3: I you know, I get I married quickly. I dive 609 00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:24,000 Speaker 3: in quickly. That's how I live my life. You know, 610 00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:29,040 Speaker 3: I'm passionate. I don't try to predict the future like 611 00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:31,680 Speaker 3: predict the housewives. You know every year, Are you coming 612 00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:33,400 Speaker 3: back to the houses again? I don't know. I don't 613 00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:35,879 Speaker 3: know until I get to that bridge if I'm going 614 00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:37,720 Speaker 3: to cross it or not. So I feel the same 615 00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:39,880 Speaker 3: way about dating and men. I don't. I don't try 616 00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:41,440 Speaker 3: to predict that. Am I gonna get married again? 617 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:41,880 Speaker 2: Sure? 618 00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:44,160 Speaker 3: I would love to get married again because I'm hopeless romantic. 619 00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:47,000 Speaker 3: You know that about and I know you are too, 620 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,080 Speaker 3: and you're, you know, looking to get married again. But 621 00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:51,880 Speaker 3: I wouldn't say I'm looking to get married again. I'm 622 00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:54,880 Speaker 3: looking for a partner in my life. Yeah, somebody I 623 00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:57,840 Speaker 3: can count, who has my back, who loves me, who 624 00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:00,840 Speaker 3: is protecting me. And you know that's what I'm looking 625 00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:05,120 Speaker 3: for married again. It's yeah, you know, we're we're hopeless romantic. 626 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:06,400 Speaker 3: Son't white. 627 00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:09,320 Speaker 1: Look, you're a beautiful bride. I was at that wedding. 628 00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:10,120 Speaker 1: You're gorgeous. 629 00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,440 Speaker 3: Oh my god, Oh that was a fabulous wedding. Too 630 00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:16,600 Speaker 3: bad the guy wasn't white. But you know, he was amazing. 631 00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:19,440 Speaker 3: What a fabulous party weekend it was. What about for 632 00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:21,840 Speaker 3: our kids, because we both have daughters, So what kind of. 633 00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:24,680 Speaker 2: What kind of advice do you in part to Victoria, 634 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:26,840 Speaker 2: and what kind of advice should I, you know, tell 635 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:28,320 Speaker 2: my girls about dating? 636 00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:32,400 Speaker 3: And well, listen, you know it's so funny because Victoria 637 00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:36,520 Speaker 3: met a guy in the Hampton this last summer and 638 00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:39,040 Speaker 3: and it was primarily a lot of older people, very 639 00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:43,800 Speaker 3: wealthy people, in some mansion in East Tampton. And she 640 00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:46,880 Speaker 3: went with a gay friend of mine, right, a gay queen. 641 00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:49,520 Speaker 3: I love my queens. So she went with the queen 642 00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:52,200 Speaker 3: and it's like queens and older people, right, and then 643 00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 3: a boy plops down across from her at the table, right, 644 00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:58,840 Speaker 3: and and she goes, she leans over and she goes, 645 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:05,280 Speaker 3: are you And he goes, yeah. They've been together ever since. 646 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:09,600 Speaker 3: So you just never know, you know, And you know, me, 647 00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:12,640 Speaker 3: I want my daughter to be happy. I want her 648 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:14,200 Speaker 3: to be to have I want to see a man 649 00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:16,680 Speaker 3: loving on her. I mean, I just want to see 650 00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:19,479 Speaker 3: her happy and and you know, and get married one 651 00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:20,600 Speaker 3: day and have her own children. 652 00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:20,800 Speaker 1: You know. 653 00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:25,040 Speaker 3: So you know, that's that's the kind of wisdom in 654 00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:27,640 Speaker 3: part to her, which is like she was dating guy 655 00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:30,080 Speaker 3: for like twelve years, my daughter since she's a teenager, 656 00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:33,120 Speaker 3: and I knew he wasn't right, and I said, you know, 657 00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:35,800 Speaker 3: were you brought out of him? And she would be 658 00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:40,640 Speaker 3: like and because we can see right what they don't 659 00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:44,600 Speaker 3: see as parents, right, right, And so I could tell 660 00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:48,480 Speaker 3: that now this guy, I think he might be right 661 00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:50,080 Speaker 3: for her. I mean, I have to get to know 662 00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:53,000 Speaker 3: him better. I haven't spent a lot a lot of time. 663 00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:55,120 Speaker 3: He's actually gonna be spending the holidays with us, so 664 00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:56,880 Speaker 3: I'm going to get them a lot better. 665 00:30:57,480 --> 00:30:58,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I do, I do. 666 00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:00,440 Speaker 3: I love him very much. I think he's a great guy. 667 00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:03,960 Speaker 3: He's a European boy, speaks French, grew up in Paris. 668 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:07,200 Speaker 3: So I love my daughter with a European. 669 00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:09,360 Speaker 1: Yes, I love that. 670 00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 2: Okay, So, Luanne, last question for you, what advice do 671 00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:16,360 Speaker 2: you have for single parents when they get back out 672 00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:17,640 Speaker 2: there and they're starting to date. 673 00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:20,560 Speaker 3: Well, listen, you know I never as a single parent 674 00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:24,080 Speaker 3: when I was dating and single. You know, I didn't 675 00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:26,400 Speaker 3: bring a guy around until I was absolutely sure that 676 00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:28,760 Speaker 3: this is somebody that I want in my life. So 677 00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:32,280 Speaker 3: you know, it's sleepovers with men, and you know, all 678 00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:34,600 Speaker 3: that kind of stuff I don't think is a good 679 00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:39,320 Speaker 3: thing for kids, because you know, I think it just 680 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:44,080 Speaker 3: shows them that you're unsure, right, because if you're bumping 681 00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:47,400 Speaker 3: around to different guys, you're unsure of your own, you know, 682 00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:52,560 Speaker 3: dating life. And I'm sure of you know who it 683 00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:54,560 Speaker 3: is that you want in your life. I think that 684 00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:56,720 Speaker 3: it's so important for as a parent and you're dating, 685 00:31:57,040 --> 00:32:00,360 Speaker 3: to not bring anywhere. I think so important is parent 686 00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:03,520 Speaker 3: to not bring anyone around your kids until you really 687 00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:05,560 Speaker 3: are positive that they're going to be a part of 688 00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:06,120 Speaker 3: your life. 689 00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:08,040 Speaker 1: I totally agree. I totally agree. 690 00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:10,720 Speaker 2: And on that note, we love you, lou so so 691 00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:11,520 Speaker 2: so much. 692 00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:13,120 Speaker 1: I want to spend that I love you. 693 00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,640 Speaker 3: Congratulations on the show. 694 00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:18,480 Speaker 2: I love you, I love you, I love you you 695 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:20,040 Speaker 2: and more fun. 696 00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:21,680 Speaker 1: We have more fun to come. We have more. 697 00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:23,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, let's go to another Knicks game. I love it. 698 00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:26,480 Speaker 1: I'll thank you on just are you here? Deceummer twenty third? 699 00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:31,720 Speaker 3: Oh I am, let's go. Yeah, I fly on the 700 00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:36,120 Speaker 3: twenty third. Let's go all right? Perfect, Yeah, let's do that. 701 00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:40,680 Speaker 3: I love you, thank you. I Happy holidays. Oh yeah, 702 00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:46,480 Speaker 3: happy holidays, Darling. It's very count is Christmas I Love You, 703 00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:46,920 Speaker 3: I Love You. 704 00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:51,800 Speaker 2: Darling by Beauty Luanne is so great. Be sure to 705 00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:55,200 Speaker 2: see her on tour, and I love all the great 706 00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,240 Speaker 2: flirting tips she gave us. I'm going to go out 707 00:32:57,280 --> 00:33:00,680 Speaker 2: and try some of those, especially the love note. We'd 708 00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:03,000 Speaker 2: love hearing from you listeners on the podcast, so be 709 00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:06,320 Speaker 2: sure to reach out to us, call us or email us, 710 00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 2: follow us on socials. All the information will be in 711 00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:12,600 Speaker 2: the show notes. Make sure to rate and review the podcast. 712 00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:15,840 Speaker 2: I Do Part two an iHeartRadio 713 00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:22,080 Speaker 1: Podcast where falling in love is the main objective.