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Speaker 1: All right, Steve.

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Speaker 2: This is from G on Reddit. G says, over the weekend,

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Speaker 2: I was excited to be invited to a surprise birthday

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Speaker 2: party for a friend I hadn't seen since college. My

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Speaker 2: wife went with me, and it was supposed to be

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Speaker 2: a great time as I introduced her to people from

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Speaker 2: my past and exchanged old stories. That all backfired. However,

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Speaker 2: when one couple there whom I've never met before, made

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Speaker 2: it clear that they were swingers and very interested in us,

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Speaker 2: my wife tuned them out and now refuses to ever

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Speaker 2: go to another party with old friends of mine. And

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Speaker 2: she's even questioning whether I've been honest with her about

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Speaker 2: my past or what I'm interested in sexually. It's not

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Speaker 2: a lifestyle I've never participated in, nor have I ever

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Speaker 2: wanted to, but it seems like now I'm guilty by association.

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Speaker 2: Is there any getting past this?

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Speaker 1: Well? Wow, bruh.

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Speaker 3: I mean, obviously some of your old friends have some

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Speaker 3: people in their life that are suspect.

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Speaker 1: And I don't know why you would keep wanting to

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Speaker 1: take your.

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Speaker 3: Wife around somebody that can raise questions and start fires in.

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Speaker 1: Your own house.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't do it, So you trying to make your

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Speaker 3: wife still go to these parties.

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Speaker 1: With your old friends.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes, man, you got to cut people loose, you know.

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Speaker 3: Man, my daddy always says something, everybody come with you

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Speaker 3: can't go with you.

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Speaker 1: It's people in your life that's in your life for

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Speaker 1: a season.

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Speaker 3: You gotta start recognizing that just because you hung with

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Speaker 3: somebody doing a certain time in your life, it don't

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Speaker 3: mean you need to hang with them now.

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Speaker 1: Some people never change.

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Speaker 3: Just hey man, everybody, everybody ain't for you no more,

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Speaker 3: you know. And the average person has has trouble with

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Speaker 3: that because you think you're supposed to stay loyal to

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Speaker 3: a relationship them relationships is in your past.

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Speaker 1: Man, you ain't got to stay with them kind of

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Speaker 1: people for the movie.

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Speaker 3: I mean, we can just go look and just see

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Speaker 3: what they're talking about there right there.

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Speaker 1: I mean just to see I just see what they're doing.

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Speaker 3: Now, your wife back at the house, well, what is

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Speaker 3: all this? What is they looking upside my head phones?

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Speaker 3: And they yet and they're your friends.

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Speaker 1: So what was you doing?

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Speaker 3: I ain't never been interested in that, But every time

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Speaker 3: they go something like that, pop up, r quite.

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Speaker 1: Exposing your wife to that. Get some new friends? Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, being.

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Speaker 2: Steve Harvey says, my ex cheated on me with another

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Speaker 2: guy for three months before I found out and we

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Speaker 2: broke up over it. I just learned that he's married

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Speaker 2: and has two kids. I've moved on, but I feel

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Speaker 2: bad for his poor wife. Should I tell her about

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Speaker 2: her cheating husband? Or just mind my own business?

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Speaker 3: Man?

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Speaker 1: Come on, doll, for real, I've got nothing to do

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Speaker 1: with you.

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Speaker 2: Bro.

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Speaker 1: You feel bad for his cheating one? Now you don't.

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Speaker 3: You feel bad because your girl stepped out on you

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Speaker 3: with this married man? Now you're trying to lie I

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Speaker 3: feel bad for now? You don't, man, stop that you

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Speaker 3: don't even know this woman? You feel bad for his wife?

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Speaker 3: Should I tell her?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: You just trying to get back at the due for

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Speaker 3: scooping your girl up. Who wasn't your girl to begin with?

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Speaker 3: If they can be scooped, they ain't yours to begin with.

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Speaker 3: Now what you all are telling this woman? You don't

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Speaker 3: even know her? Man?

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Speaker 1: Right? Dog?

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Speaker 3: Come on, man, dog dog, You got to take this

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Speaker 3: al on the jaw, you got hitting the mouth, and

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Speaker 3: you gotta just take this hell.

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Speaker 1: That's all. Take your man? Okay? Sorry?

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Speaker 3: How you going down there talking to this woman for

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Speaker 3: you know, I just feel so bad for you, Clarissa,

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Speaker 3: I mean Patricia, I mean Dane.

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Speaker 1: You don't even know how.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's trying to get back at the husband.

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Speaker 1: You're so right, that's all that is, man, you know,

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Speaker 1: come on man?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, wow, bro, your problem ain't with him, Your problem

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Speaker 3: with your girl.

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Speaker 1: Your ex.

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Speaker 2: Well, they broke up. Yeah, yeah, it happens.

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Speaker 1: They broke up.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's life, man, stuff like that happening.

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Speaker 1: I feel so bad for her.

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Speaker 3: Boy, boy, boy, it ain't a man listening to this

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Speaker 3: radio show talking about I feel bad for Hunty man.

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Speaker 1: Come on, bro, come on, they know what it is.

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Speaker 1: I know what it is.

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Speaker 2: None of all right, We'll have more of the Steve

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Speaker 2: Harvey Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes after the hour.

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