1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:11,920 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all at all, 3 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:28,319 Speaker 2: given black amicus busy listening to me to show up to. 4 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 3: I don't Joy, Yeah, Joy. 5 00:00:59,040 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 4: You know you. 6 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 5: Love you? 7 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:31,839 Speaker 3: Where you're gonna turn? I can't. 8 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 2: You have to turn the mouth turn You probably got 9 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 2: to turn the mouth turn out, turn the water. 10 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 1: The money up, come. 11 00:01:58,480 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 5: Come out? 12 00:01:59,080 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 6: You think. 13 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 4: I so will? 14 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 6: Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, come on, 15 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 6: dig me now? 16 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 7: Want it only Steve Harvey Man oh Man got a 17 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 7: radio show, got a good one for you today. 18 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 6: And it just happened to me. 19 00:02:15,200 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 7: You know, I was going through something that I've been 20 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 7: going through for a long long time and just weary 21 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 7: of it all. And I was I've been talking to 22 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 7: God about it, and I mean for years. 23 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 6: Though. 24 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 7: What happened was I had to go through some more 25 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 7: of it yesterday again a situation. But you know what, 26 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 7: after it was over, you know, I kind of laid 27 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 7: in it for a little while. You know how you've 28 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:41,799 Speaker 7: been going through something for so long and then even 29 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 7: if it's over or appears to be over, you still 30 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 7: kind of lay in it a little bit. And you know, 31 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,520 Speaker 7: you have a while. Man, I can't believe I've been 32 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 7: dealing with this this long, even though even though it's over. 33 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 7: I don't know how you do it, but this was 34 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:59,519 Speaker 7: so good for me. Have you ever counted, Steve Harvey, 35 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 7: how many times you made it? And so that's what 36 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 7: I started doing yesterday, And that's what I did this morning. 37 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:09,639 Speaker 7: When I woke up. I was actually taking an inventory 38 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 7: account of how many times I made it. How many times, man, 39 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 7: I didn't have the rent and somehow I came up 40 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 7: with it. How many times I didn't have my house 41 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 7: payment and somehow I came up with it. How many 42 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 7: times I was out of money, did not have enough, 43 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 7: didn't see no way, but somehow I came up with it. 44 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 7: How many times I got sick, thought, well, man, this 45 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 7: one right here. I don't know what I'm gonna do, 46 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 7: but somehow I got my health back. How many situations 47 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 7: I have found myself in? That was I thought at 48 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 7: the time, detrimental and diabolical and man so sinister at times. 49 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 6: Somehow I made it. I look at all the accidents 50 00:03:57,440 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 6: I've been in, but he kept me. I made it. 51 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 7: I think about even the simplest times of like stepping 52 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 7: off a curve and almost got hit, but I made it. 53 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 7: I was just tripping the other day. I was thinking 54 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 7: about the times that I've been hit by a car 55 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 7: and it could have been worse, but it wouldn't, And 56 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 7: I made it through that too. I was thinking about, Man, 57 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 7: when they count you out? Do you know how many 58 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:23,840 Speaker 7: times I've been counted out? He's done? 59 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:29,040 Speaker 6: He ain't gonna be nothing, he ain't nobody See who 60 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:31,600 Speaker 6: I told y'all look at over that they counsel this. 61 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:34,480 Speaker 6: He offered that he out of here. He ain't gonna 62 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 6: make it. He didne got fired. Man, You know how 63 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:38,719 Speaker 6: many times I've been counted out? You know how many 64 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 6: times they done wrote me off? How many times have 65 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 6: you been written off? Man? 66 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 7: But here you still stand? Yeah, you're a tripped on it. 67 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:50,360 Speaker 7: Take an inventory, y'all of how many times? Count the 68 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 7: times you've made it? What about the times man, when 69 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:56,600 Speaker 7: nobody was there to encourage you, but you still here 70 00:04:56,720 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 7: though you have tripped on that? Ain't nobody you and 71 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:02,600 Speaker 7: told you good day? Nobody called you and told you 72 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:05,040 Speaker 7: recently thank you. No one's called you and told you 73 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 7: how much you meant to them, how much you've done 74 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:09,040 Speaker 7: for them or man, that you can make it. Never 75 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 7: give up, Keep your head up, man, keep grinding. But 76 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 7: you still here even when nobody. Have you counted the 77 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 7: times man, that you made it anyway? Have you counted 78 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 7: the times that you felt like quitting, you felt like 79 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:24,040 Speaker 7: giving up. 80 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:27,600 Speaker 6: You kept going. How about the time this is a 81 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:28,360 Speaker 6: good one right here? 82 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 7: How about the times man, when everybody's standing around saying, 83 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 7: ain't no way, ain't no way. 84 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:33,840 Speaker 6: Man. 85 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 7: I can't tell how many times I've heard this, ain't 86 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 7: no way, and then somehow there is a way. You 87 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 7: know why, because he make a way. 88 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 6: You understand. 89 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 7: You know how many times I've heard this one right here, Steve, 90 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 7: listen to me, man, nobody ever before has done that. 91 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 6: You can't do that. How many times you done? 92 00:05:54,360 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 5: Heart? 93 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 6: No, you or you know anybody that done that? You 94 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 6: can't do that. No one has ever done that. I 95 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 6: made it anyway? You know, they don't normally or we 96 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:14,440 Speaker 6: don't normally allowed this, but in this case, for you, 97 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:18,160 Speaker 6: we gonna make an exception. How many times have you 98 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 6: heard that, Oh, I think I'm onto something. How many 99 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 6: times have you heard in your lifetime? We don't normally 100 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:30,520 Speaker 6: or they don't normally allowed this, but we gonna make 101 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 6: this exception in your case. How many times you done 102 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:39,840 Speaker 6: heard that? Have you ever counted the times that you 103 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 6: made it? Everybody out except me? How can that be? 104 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:53,360 Speaker 7: You know you're the only one that got through this? Congratulations? Wow, man, 105 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:56,160 Speaker 7: I don't hardly see this too many times. But do 106 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:59,239 Speaker 7: you realize that normally this is what happened to people? 107 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 7: But man, y'all, I don't know how your name came up, 108 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 7: but here you are. Wow, it never happens like that. 109 00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:08,960 Speaker 7: You ever counted those times I was doing it yesterday? 110 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 7: I was doing it this morning. I was just taking 111 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 7: an inventory everybody of how many times I've made it. 112 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 7: So what I learned yesterday was when God gets you 113 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 7: through something, when he pulled you out on the other side, 114 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 7: no matter how difficult or how long it took. When 115 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 7: he gets you out on the other side, why don't 116 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 7: you get up, dust yourself off, and start troting what 117 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 7: you laying there for? Man, wallowing in it, going over it, 118 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 7: recycling it in your mind. So many people can't move 119 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:48,840 Speaker 7: forward because we keep recycling stuff in our mind when 120 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:53,840 Speaker 7: clearly it's time to move on, it's time to let go, 121 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 7: it's time to go and see what God has for you. 122 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 7: Stop looking at what you lost. What you lost was 123 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 7: probably not yours to have in the first all, oh, 124 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 7: in the first place. 125 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 6: Do you know the things I've lost? 126 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 7: Now, I'm not talking about losing a loved one, a 127 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 7: mother or father, nothing like that. I'm talking about innate 128 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 7: objects or situation. Do you know the things I've lost? Man, 129 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 7: I look back on it. I wasn't supposed to have 130 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 7: them in the first place, or they was. 131 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 6: Doing me no good. I wasn't wasn't mine to lose, 132 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 6: but I claimed I lost it. 133 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 7: Come on, man, take an inventory, everybody. Start looking at 134 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:38,960 Speaker 7: the things man, that God has brought you through. Start 135 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 7: looking at how many times He allowed you to make it. 136 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:43,880 Speaker 7: And get glad about waking up in the morning. Man, 137 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:47,199 Speaker 7: Get glad about your life. Start feeling something positive about 138 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 7: your situation. You cannot expect God to continue to bless 139 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:54,439 Speaker 7: you if you're not grateful for the things that you have. 140 00:08:54,960 --> 00:09:00,440 Speaker 7: Why would God sitting down here looking at you, upset, angry, 141 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 7: laying in the wall of what you are not grateful for. 142 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:09,199 Speaker 7: You just can't find the scene and find no gratitude 143 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:11,719 Speaker 7: in your heart about nothing but you steady asking God 144 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:14,640 Speaker 7: for something, So now you think God is crazy? You 145 00:09:14,720 --> 00:09:16,719 Speaker 7: think he gonna give you some more stuff to not 146 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 7: be grateful for. Are you kidding me? 147 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 6: Why would he do that. He's too full of too 148 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:25,000 Speaker 6: much mercy to send you through that over and over 149 00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 6: and over. 150 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:29,240 Speaker 7: The more I give my child, the more ungrateful they are, 151 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:32,199 Speaker 7: the less gratitude they show. But I'm gonna keep dumping 152 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 7: it on them so they can keep feeling ungrateful and 153 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 7: then show like a gratitude. God's not gonna do that 154 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 7: to you. Come on, man, have you ever counted how 155 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 7: many times you made it? I can't count how many 156 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 7: times God done got me through something. But when He 157 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 7: gets you through it, you ain't get up and get 158 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 7: on about your business. Don't lay that in it. 159 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:56,280 Speaker 6: It's over, it's done, you made it, you survived it. 160 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:57,439 Speaker 6: Let's go, let's go. 161 00:09:58,080 --> 00:09:58,960 Speaker 1: You're listening. 162 00:10:00,559 --> 00:10:06,439 Speaker 6: Show, ladies and gentlemen. It's time again. I ain't miss it. 163 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 7: This morning, I told him thank you as soon as 164 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 7: I got up. Man caught myself this morning early told 165 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 7: him how much I appreciate it. My measure of health, opportunities, 166 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 7: my chances, everything. He's allowed me to overcome everything He's 167 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 7: pulling me through everything that might come my way, that 168 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 7: he'll strengthen me. For man, I did it do the same, y'all. 169 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:27,600 Speaker 7: Today is a gift from God. That's why they call 170 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 7: it the present. Yeah, so let's get with it. Steve 171 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:34,320 Speaker 7: Harvey Morning Show, Shirley Strawberry call it for real, Mississippi 172 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:35,679 Speaker 7: moniccause Junior's out today. 173 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:37,600 Speaker 6: The legend that is. 174 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 7: Nephew, Tommy, Well, it pains me and Junior's out today. Yeah, 175 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 7: and I have to go to a certified food and 176 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 7: ask him what's on his mind? That's always always, you know, 177 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 7: I've known. 178 00:10:55,960 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 6: Him so long, Tommy, what was What's what's on your mind? 179 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 4: You know what? 180 00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:08,199 Speaker 8: Let me just let's see. I got a question we 181 00:11:08,360 --> 00:11:09,719 Speaker 8: at the end of the year, at the end of 182 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 8: twenty twenty three. So I guess the question for you 183 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:16,680 Speaker 8: is best thing you did this year and the worst thing. 184 00:11:16,600 --> 00:11:20,240 Speaker 6: You did this year? Oh? 185 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:21,319 Speaker 9: I know. 186 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:24,520 Speaker 7: The best thing I did this year is I became 187 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 7: more trusting in God's timing. This was the year that 188 00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 7: really had to teach me that at sixty six, I'm 189 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:37,559 Speaker 7: still learning. But this was the year that I that 190 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 7: I really began to understand trusting in God's timing because, man, 191 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 7: let me tell you something. He put the test on me. Man, 192 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:49,080 Speaker 7: he put the test on me this year to see 193 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 7: if I got it. And I think I passed the test. 194 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:55,040 Speaker 7: So I began more became more trusting in God's timing. 195 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 7: And when it don't go my way, I have to 196 00:11:57,120 --> 00:12:01,120 Speaker 7: understand God's timing is different from ours. That's that's been 197 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:04,600 Speaker 7: a real battle for me majority of my life, I'll admit. 198 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:07,840 Speaker 7: But this year he said, Okay, I don't know how 199 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 7: long it's taking you to get this, boy, but you 200 00:12:11,880 --> 00:12:14,720 Speaker 7: go get this this year, Colin, I ain't gonna let 201 00:12:14,800 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 7: up with the test. See, because everything you're going through 202 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:20,559 Speaker 7: is preparing you for what you ask God for. And 203 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 7: what I'm asking God for is gonna require that I 204 00:12:23,559 --> 00:12:25,200 Speaker 7: trust more in His time and substance. 205 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:27,560 Speaker 6: That's the best thing. What's the worst thing I've done 206 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:31,439 Speaker 6: this year? Yeah, I gave my sale number to the 207 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:41,000 Speaker 6: wrong person. Are they blowing you up? Tommy? 208 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:41,960 Speaker 4: Man? 209 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:47,680 Speaker 6: You know I ain't never regretted nothing more than giving 210 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:49,080 Speaker 6: this number to this dude. 211 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:49,360 Speaker 4: Man. 212 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:54,079 Speaker 6: I mean, I mean, man, it has been man, I 213 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 6: mean it's it's like unbelievable stuff. Like I mean, every 214 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:01,480 Speaker 6: day something. Man, hey man, what you doing? 215 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 4: Hell? 216 00:13:02,679 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 9: What you mean? 217 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:04,120 Speaker 6: What I'm doing? Man? 218 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 10: Talk? 219 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 6: What do you mean? Hey man? What you doing? I 220 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:11,760 Speaker 6: ain't never thinking? 221 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 7: And then he and then he's a professional texta so 222 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 7: he got them little short w y d boy. 223 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:21,439 Speaker 6: Look man, I'm grown ass man. 224 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 5: Who are you? 225 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:22,960 Speaker 4: Laurie? 226 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 6: What did you think there was? Text me like Lori 227 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:34,959 Speaker 6: doll bring eyeballs. I ain't got figured this house. That's 228 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 6: the worst than. 229 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:39,079 Speaker 11: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour. We'll 230 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 11: hear yet again from the nephew as he runs that 231 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:47,640 Speaker 11: prank back right after this. You're listening hard morning show. 232 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:50,319 Speaker 11: It is time now for the nephew to run that 233 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 11: prank back. What you got first? 234 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 8: And f ad you know lies y'all BA bought me 235 00:13:57,760 --> 00:14:03,520 Speaker 8: this glove. This right here is the sixth I said. 236 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 8: That's what they had used to say that the sticks 237 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:08,920 Speaker 8: and shutty, sick and shut in. It is the sick 238 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 8: and shutting, the sick and shuddy, all right, the sick 239 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:16,600 Speaker 8: and shut in. Everybody had that list right, all right, 240 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:18,120 Speaker 8: kept up, let's go stick and shut in. 241 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:24,520 Speaker 5: So I'm trying to speaking. You got him? How you 242 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 5: do that? I'm doing I ain't doing too good. You'd 243 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:31,160 Speaker 5: never been over here praying for my wife again? Right right, right, yes, sir, 244 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 5: you have came over here three times in one week. 245 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 5: My wife had already went through the operation and all 246 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 5: that she's gonna be pining. I don't need you over 247 00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 5: a praying three times a week, because, honestly, I think 248 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 5: it's something else on your mind when you come over 249 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:48,040 Speaker 5: here praying for my wife. I ain't stupid, brother. 250 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:52,320 Speaker 12: You kind of hold it, brother, This, buddy, this is well. 251 00:14:53,080 --> 00:14:55,960 Speaker 12: Your wife was on the sick and shutting list. I 252 00:14:56,160 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 12: rever actually to come back. Reveren ain't questioned that I 253 00:14:59,680 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 12: come by. 254 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:02,960 Speaker 5: Uh okay, he ain't requested for you to bring your 255 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 5: black to my house for no three times in one week, man, 256 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:08,880 Speaker 5: So you can cut that down with me. You can 257 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:10,040 Speaker 5: cut that out. 258 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 12: Hold it, brother. I came with sister Georgia the first time. 259 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 12: The second time I came by myself because she was 260 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:22,400 Speaker 12: able to come by, and I only stayed fifteen minutes 261 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:23,080 Speaker 12: the time. 262 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 5: So what's the problem. Could I already know what you 263 00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 5: what you're doing. I know you're trying to holler at 264 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 5: my wife. I ain't shoo hop at your wife. I 265 00:15:30,440 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 5: had a wife. 266 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:32,640 Speaker 12: Why would I happen to your wife? 267 00:15:32,920 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 5: She's partly already You already know what you already know 268 00:15:36,200 --> 00:15:38,280 Speaker 5: what you're doing. Man, you up in the other house 269 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:40,840 Speaker 5: my wife, Why wind up whind nobody at the house. 270 00:15:40,840 --> 00:15:42,600 Speaker 5: I already know what you do. Let me tell you something. 271 00:15:42,920 --> 00:15:45,880 Speaker 5: Keep your black away from my house. If you want 272 00:15:45,920 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 5: to pray for my wife. 273 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 12: I'm wait, man, Wait minute, wait man, You can't talk 274 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 12: to nobody hand. 275 00:15:55,240 --> 00:15:56,520 Speaker 5: That's what you're gonna now. 276 00:15:56,560 --> 00:15:58,720 Speaker 12: Brother, ain't gonna be none of that, and ain't gonna 277 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:00,560 Speaker 12: be none of that. You're talking to the wrong brother, 278 00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:03,680 Speaker 12: and I okay. Now, first of all, you're not gonna 279 00:16:03,680 --> 00:16:08,400 Speaker 12: disrespect me and curse me out. Okay, that's not even 280 00:16:08,440 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 12: the way brothers should be talking to brothers. Second of all, 281 00:16:11,360 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 12: if there's any laying on the hands, it's gonna be 282 00:16:13,520 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 12: my hands laying on you. Okay. 283 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 5: Late, I know you're trying to my wife. If I 284 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 5: find you out, you know you mess around with my wife, 285 00:16:23,280 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 5: it's gonna. 286 00:16:23,680 --> 00:16:26,520 Speaker 12: Be I'm crazy trying to be crazy. 287 00:16:27,160 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 4: I'm just letting you. 288 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:30,400 Speaker 5: I'm gonna say it one more time. Keep your black 289 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 5: off around my You know, first. 290 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:35,120 Speaker 12: Of all, I told you once again. You can't be 291 00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 12: talking to me like that. Now, I'm trying to be 292 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 12: cool about the situation because I know you may be 293 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 12: just upset. Okay, I can appreciate that. Okay, I have 294 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 12: a wife, and I'll be. 295 00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:47,680 Speaker 5: Upset if somebody was coming out there. 296 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:48,320 Speaker 11: My wife. 297 00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 5: Out with your wife. I do spend my time with 298 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:52,360 Speaker 5: my wife. 299 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:53,280 Speaker 6: I do you know. 300 00:16:55,800 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 5: Your house? May if I need to come on your 301 00:16:57,680 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 5: house and let your wife, well, you're welcome to come 302 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:05,320 Speaker 5: and come lay something over there on huh God, now 303 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 5: trying to do it? 304 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 12: Hold older one man, older one man. I'll told you 305 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:14,800 Speaker 12: before it's being disrespectful. Now, that was a very idiotic 306 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 12: statement for you to make. 307 00:17:16,320 --> 00:17:17,840 Speaker 5: Okay, that's what's gonna happen. 308 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:20,600 Speaker 13: If I catch your black set my house again, I'm 309 00:17:20,640 --> 00:17:22,159 Speaker 13: gonna play this man, and then I'm getting on the 310 00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:24,840 Speaker 13: phone with you, you, your pastor any more of them, 311 00:17:24,920 --> 00:17:27,639 Speaker 13: because if anybody come by my house again and I 312 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:29,800 Speaker 13: ain't there, I'm kicking your black. 313 00:17:30,359 --> 00:17:34,720 Speaker 12: That's a promise, you know, Just that's it. Look here, brother, 314 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 12: if that's gonna be any whooping gone on, I'll be 315 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:40,520 Speaker 12: kicking yop. I'm gonna lay my hands on you, and 316 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:45,000 Speaker 12: I'm gonna give you a good sanctified whooping, and then 317 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 12: I'm gonna pray for you. I'm gonna pray to heal 318 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:50,520 Speaker 12: you by this foot I'm gonna put up, okay, because 319 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:53,080 Speaker 12: I've had it with you, you know. And I only 320 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:55,800 Speaker 12: went by to visit your wife because I was asked 321 00:17:55,840 --> 00:17:58,120 Speaker 12: to go visit your wife. Now that was a problem. 322 00:17:58,200 --> 00:18:00,359 Speaker 12: You should have called the pastor. Okay, but you're not 323 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:03,320 Speaker 12: gonna disrespect me my wife to church on the phone. Now, 324 00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:05,359 Speaker 12: if you want to do somebody, you can meet me 325 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:06,160 Speaker 12: any place. 326 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 5: Well. As a matter of fact, I. 327 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:11,119 Speaker 12: Can go anywhere I want in this town. If I 328 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:13,359 Speaker 12: be at your house talking to your wife, if the 329 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:15,399 Speaker 12: path asks me to go, I'm gonna be there. Okay. 330 00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:19,080 Speaker 12: You you know, you just you know. It's just a 331 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 12: stupid brother. Okay. 332 00:18:21,359 --> 00:18:22,040 Speaker 5: You need to come to. 333 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:26,720 Speaker 12: You need to come to church more off. 334 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:27,679 Speaker 5: And that's the problem. 335 00:18:27,960 --> 00:18:29,800 Speaker 12: You don't come to church more off. If you come 336 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 12: to church more off, you want to be talking to 337 00:18:31,920 --> 00:18:34,280 Speaker 12: me like that, You wouldn't be worried about me and 338 00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:37,040 Speaker 12: your wife because there must be something wrong at your house. 339 00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 5: You be worried about me fooling with your wife. 340 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 12: Okay, So you need to check her. Okay, how about that? 341 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:46,120 Speaker 5: Why don't you do that? Why don't you why don't 342 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:46,919 Speaker 5: you just check her? 343 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:47,800 Speaker 12: Okay? 344 00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:51,359 Speaker 5: Commy said, you the one that's cheating with my wife. 345 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:54,879 Speaker 5: That's that is all I know? Who Tommy, let me 346 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:57,560 Speaker 5: say you Tommy the one said Thomas said, you're the 347 00:18:57,640 --> 00:18:59,359 Speaker 5: one that's cheating around with my wife. 348 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:00,320 Speaker 4: Man? 349 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 12: Who who is Tommy? 350 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:10,800 Speaker 5: Tommy who? This is a nephew, tom Me? Man, So 351 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:13,680 Speaker 5: this is nephew. Tell me from Steve Harvey Morning Show man. 352 00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:18,359 Speaker 5: Your church member got me the prayt ball, but not. 353 00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 4: Wrong for that? 354 00:19:20,200 --> 00:19:22,240 Speaker 5: You know you're wrong, You're wrong. 355 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 12: You know y'all a high way to hell, all of y'all. 356 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 12: You know none stop no, you know y'all just you 357 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:30,800 Speaker 12: know y'all just gone. 358 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 5: You know, ain't no stop signed you know, I finla go. 359 00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:37,240 Speaker 5: I'm gonna pray for all of y'all, all. 360 00:19:37,119 --> 00:19:40,240 Speaker 12: Of your brothers and if you tire me, Steve hobby 361 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 12: Bus wrong for that, Okay, I'm gonna check him. I'm 362 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:48,200 Speaker 12: gonna check out. I'm finna go. I said, I wanta 363 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 12: talk to you all no more. I'm paying for I'm. 364 00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:53,720 Speaker 5: Gonna say, ain't brother, brother, cause you go man, what's 365 00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:56,000 Speaker 5: what you gotta tell me? What's the badness? Radio show 366 00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:56,800 Speaker 5: with the Lamb. 367 00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:58,600 Speaker 12: Man Steve Holly, Morning the Show. 368 00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:01,600 Speaker 8: Any of y'all that have been on the sick and 369 00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:07,560 Speaker 8: shut in there, that's good, that's good, that's good. That's 370 00:20:07,600 --> 00:20:08,720 Speaker 8: the list you don't want to be on. 371 00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:10,439 Speaker 6: That's the list. I don't want to be up. 372 00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:14,960 Speaker 7: No, I've been sick before. But that's shut in part 373 00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:24,240 Speaker 7: of what. It's rough, but shut in part. I can't 374 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 7: go nowhere. 375 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:27,520 Speaker 6: But it's like you're not getting out. That's what it's 376 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:31,600 Speaker 6: sounds like. You can't sit on the porch. M Yeah, 377 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:35,120 Speaker 6: I'm sorry. I'll be back. I'll be back at the hour. 378 00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:39,880 Speaker 6: I'll be stupid again. Don't let it one hour. I'll 379 00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 6: be stupid again. This whole tame. 380 00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:44,439 Speaker 1: Okay, long for the turnaround. 381 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:47,439 Speaker 6: Don't take long, baby, I got you, I got you covered. 382 00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:48,320 Speaker 4: Oh. 383 00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:54,000 Speaker 11: I started thinking about church and the announcements. Tommy, all right, 384 00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:56,760 Speaker 11: thanking of you? Coming up next, it is asked the 385 00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:58,680 Speaker 11: clo or You're listening. 386 00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 6: Show coming up. 387 00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:04,879 Speaker 11: At the top of the hour. And entertainment news. Carla 388 00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:07,960 Speaker 11: has some music news about eighties blue eyed soul pop 389 00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 11: group Haullen oats. 390 00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:16,679 Speaker 1: I heard about that smile. 391 00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:24,040 Speaker 6: Why don't you stay until tomorrow? 392 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:28,680 Speaker 11: I read the Franklin Sons awarded real estate thanks to 393 00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:33,680 Speaker 11: a twenty fourteen will found between couch cushions in her house, 394 00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 11: and the Lebron James Museum opens up in Akron, Ohio. 395 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:39,720 Speaker 11: We'll talk about all of these stories at the top 396 00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:42,040 Speaker 11: of the hour, but right now it is time to 397 00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:46,920 Speaker 11: ask the clo All right, this one's with me, Lilian 398 00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:57,520 Speaker 11: and sort worth' what. My son's drinks a lot and 399 00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:00,240 Speaker 11: she called my husband to drive her home. Left wekend 400 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:03,080 Speaker 11: because my son was out of town. My husband says 401 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:06,840 Speaker 11: she hit on him, but she told me, But she 402 00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:09,440 Speaker 11: told me that she doesn't remember doing that. I think 403 00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 11: my son should know this, but my husband won't let 404 00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:14,760 Speaker 11: me tell him. Why is he protecting her? 405 00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:17,320 Speaker 7: Yeah, well, you ain't got to go through all that. 406 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:19,359 Speaker 7: It ain't protected her. What you need to do is 407 00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:22,800 Speaker 7: slap her. See people that don't remember stuff. You need 408 00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:25,159 Speaker 7: to put your hands on her. Yeah, that's all. You 409 00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:28,359 Speaker 7: can slap her from her husband and your son. Slap her. 410 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:31,520 Speaker 7: Women can slap each other. Y'all can get away with that. 411 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:32,399 Speaker 6: Slap her. 412 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:35,520 Speaker 7: I bet she'll remember next time. You ain't that damn 413 00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:43,000 Speaker 7: drunk er. Yeah, you ain't that damn drunk And that's 414 00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:51,119 Speaker 7: your daughter in law. Yeah yeah, yes, yeah slap. I 415 00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:54,640 Speaker 7: promise you you will remember it all next. 416 00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:56,520 Speaker 1: Time, all right. 417 00:22:56,640 --> 00:23:02,480 Speaker 11: Eileen in Orlando says, my female boss wears designer shoes, bags, 418 00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:05,840 Speaker 11: and jewelry, but she doesn't do it tastefully. She wears 419 00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:09,440 Speaker 11: several different designers all at once. And I don't think 420 00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:12,639 Speaker 11: she knows any better. Aren't there fashion rules? I'm wearing 421 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:13,680 Speaker 11: designer clothing? 422 00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:17,479 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, it probably is. But see, you ain't got 423 00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:19,440 Speaker 6: none of that stuff. So what you wear about it? Folk? 424 00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 7: See lean, I know people that want to put on 425 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 7: all that stuff at one time. I know people like 426 00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:31,480 Speaker 7: that and they blended, you know they and and it 427 00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:34,680 Speaker 7: ain't the way to do it. But you just want 428 00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:36,200 Speaker 7: everybody to see what you've got. 429 00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:37,360 Speaker 6: It's people everything. 430 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:40,720 Speaker 7: You know, got that Gucci shoe on with the with 431 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,440 Speaker 7: the with the green and red band on them with 432 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:47,200 Speaker 7: two big g's, and then you got that Lewis bag 433 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:47,679 Speaker 7: with the. 434 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:52,120 Speaker 6: Whole monogram print on it. But your pants is findy. 435 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:54,920 Speaker 6: They got them f's all over your pants. You just 436 00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:56,960 Speaker 6: have come out this No boy, just looking like the 437 00:23:57,160 --> 00:23:59,120 Speaker 6: mall do too much? 438 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:02,280 Speaker 3: What you bought it out? 439 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:06,200 Speaker 6: I'm talking about it. Yeah, well you got that do 440 00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:09,359 Speaker 6: your blouse over all of your signs on it, Morna 441 00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:10,320 Speaker 6: Graham on it like that. 442 00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:15,639 Speaker 1: You just Wris you got a star, thank you? 443 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:19,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, I got that pot of scaff with all that. 444 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:27,919 Speaker 11: Yeah, wed girl, all right, uh Monette and Philly Wrights. 445 00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:30,680 Speaker 11: I'm seeing a married man and his wife thinks we're 446 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:34,160 Speaker 11: just friends. I can fight it in my friend that's 447 00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:36,960 Speaker 11: also having an affair, and she told me that she's 448 00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:41,280 Speaker 11: friends with my man's wife. So basically, I need to 449 00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:44,800 Speaker 11: find someone else to mess with. Was that an ultimatum? 450 00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:48,560 Speaker 1: Wow, she's seeing. 451 00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:51,280 Speaker 11: A married man, but the married man's wife thinks that 452 00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:53,520 Speaker 11: they're just friends. So she can fight it in her 453 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:57,920 Speaker 11: girlfriend who's also having an affair. Her girlfriend who's having 454 00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:01,639 Speaker 11: an affair is friends with the AND's wife that she's singing. 455 00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:04,800 Speaker 11: So the girlfriend told her she needs to find somebody 456 00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:08,640 Speaker 11: else to have an affair with her friend's husband. 457 00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,439 Speaker 6: In other words, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, you got to. 458 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:15,760 Speaker 1: Shut this down down, that's all you've been worn. 459 00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:20,560 Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, get away from this. But 460 00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:22,920 Speaker 6: I'll tell you what though, your little girlfriend that you 461 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:24,960 Speaker 6: went and told her that you were seeing this married 462 00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:28,360 Speaker 6: man who is also the married man's wife's friend. Right 463 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:29,399 Speaker 6: is she tell on you? 464 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:34,960 Speaker 7: Please know you have some information? Okay, see all this 465 00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:37,320 Speaker 7: here right here? Hey, hey, hey, but know this. I 466 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,399 Speaker 7: might go away, but I ain't gonna go away quietly. 467 00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:43,880 Speaker 7: But don't go to the Christmas party this year. It's 468 00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:52,560 Speaker 7: gonna be confusing, right crazy the world? 469 00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:57,480 Speaker 6: Now, man, God had like the first time you read it? 470 00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:02,800 Speaker 6: Or No, I ain't even saying nothing else. I rubbed 471 00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:07,200 Speaker 6: in my heads. Man, that's all I'm man. Brother, Two 472 00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:10,440 Speaker 6: trains left, Yeah, be going. 473 00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:13,800 Speaker 7: If a bird flies south at fifteen miles hour, he 474 00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:15,320 Speaker 7: stops for two days in Georgia. 475 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:17,040 Speaker 6: I don't given Winnyburg get there. 476 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:23,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, that is a mess right there. That is a mess. 477 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:24,159 Speaker 10: All right. 478 00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 1: Last one, Steve. This one's from Carmen and Olney. 479 00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:31,040 Speaker 11: She says, my son is fifteen years old and his 480 00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:34,520 Speaker 11: girlfriend is a senior this year. I'm trying to avoid 481 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:37,399 Speaker 11: him getting his heart broken when his girlfriend goes to 482 00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:40,000 Speaker 11: college and forgets about him. How do I get him 483 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:43,320 Speaker 11: to stop dating her before he gets his feelings crushed? 484 00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:48,359 Speaker 7: No, No, this diouldn't happen this is life. Come on now, 485 00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:52,200 Speaker 7: all is going down? Ain't no way round? Oh he 486 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:54,280 Speaker 7: didn't get in a little thief and to get a. 487 00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:58,040 Speaker 6: Little feelings told out the little boy right here, all 488 00:26:58,119 --> 00:26:59,680 Speaker 6: that little man stuff he's been doing. 489 00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:02,760 Speaker 7: I don't even see how that's your concern right there. 490 00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:07,600 Speaker 7: Oh the problem is this senior, this fifteen year old boy, teacher. 491 00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:14,239 Speaker 7: There are things that I still have to learn. See, 492 00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:18,400 Speaker 7: you got that song man, You don't know what that's 493 00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:19,560 Speaker 7: George Michael. 494 00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:25,000 Speaker 6: Oh wow, Charlie. We want him being illegal? 495 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:25,680 Speaker 5: You know that? 496 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:30,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's freaking means fifteen. He's a sophomore. She's a senior. 497 00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:35,080 Speaker 7: He about to turn eighteen age at some point she 498 00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:39,000 Speaker 7: might be eighteen. Most people listen in high school. He 499 00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:39,640 Speaker 7: is eighteen. 500 00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:44,240 Speaker 1: But the point is he's fifteen. He's too young too. 501 00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:45,679 Speaker 1: I mean, this is crazy. 502 00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:46,960 Speaker 6: He too young for what show? 503 00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:50,879 Speaker 1: He's fifteen to be dating and old to be dating 504 00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,480 Speaker 1: a senior. He is gonna get his heart crushed. 505 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:54,639 Speaker 4: His mom is. 506 00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:58,960 Speaker 6: He made out your house? Mode? You in your house 507 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:02,240 Speaker 6: too much? You got you didn't get out? What is 508 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:03,080 Speaker 6: wrong with you? 509 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:04,000 Speaker 4: What you know? 510 00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:05,320 Speaker 6: The kids doing that show? 511 00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:05,840 Speaker 4: Yes? 512 00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:07,399 Speaker 6: I do, I do. 513 00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:09,879 Speaker 1: You don't want me to tell you how I know. 514 00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:15,480 Speaker 14: The act like it, act like you don't her some 515 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:21,720 Speaker 14: shockingan though, Yeah, fifteen, you can get a learning. 516 00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:32,040 Speaker 6: Driving the prom she drives right sophomore, she's get in 517 00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:39,360 Speaker 6: the car. That's his name though, that is you know 518 00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:44,520 Speaker 6: that's he's naming our kids, says after Spanish people killing me? 519 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:48,080 Speaker 6: All right? 520 00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,760 Speaker 11: How does he the mom wants to know. How does 521 00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:53,080 Speaker 11: she get him to stop dating her before he gets. 522 00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:57,200 Speaker 7: Mama got the stain this boy, Frida, stop dating this girl. 523 00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:01,600 Speaker 6: You finishing this boy and say you've had a taste 524 00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:07,560 Speaker 6: of a fruit. Quit eating the fruit. Face back in 525 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:08,080 Speaker 6: that tub. 526 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:14,560 Speaker 1: All right, thank you. Cilo. Coming up, we'll have some 527 00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:20,040 Speaker 1: entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening morning show? 528 00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:24,960 Speaker 11: All right, Carlo, So what is going on with Hauling 529 00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:27,760 Speaker 11: Oats and music news? What's happening? 530 00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:29,160 Speaker 1: Listen to me? 531 00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:30,120 Speaker 8: So now? 532 00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:33,360 Speaker 14: According to TMZ, Steve, you know how much you love 533 00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:38,840 Speaker 14: Hauling Oats, they have been in arbitration over which songs 534 00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:43,080 Speaker 14: Oats is allowed to perform live at his solo concerts. 535 00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:47,040 Speaker 14: So Oats John Oates, he co wrote She's Gone Sarah 536 00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:48,560 Speaker 14: Smile and this one right here. 537 00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:51,200 Speaker 1: I can't go for that a man eater. 538 00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:56,800 Speaker 14: But John Oates didn't write kiss on my list private eyes, 539 00:29:57,400 --> 00:30:02,880 Speaker 14: you know, rich girl. Anyway, word, I'm telling you the 540 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:06,360 Speaker 14: real reason is Darrel Hall is issuing John Oates because 541 00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:10,920 Speaker 14: Oats plans to sell a portion of their joint venture 542 00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:15,040 Speaker 14: to a third party, and Hall says that would violate 543 00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:17,520 Speaker 14: their business agreement that they had put in place back in. 544 00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:18,480 Speaker 1: Twenty twenty one. 545 00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:26,320 Speaker 14: Today today in Nashville, this mounting their schedule. 546 00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:27,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's all man. 547 00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:35,080 Speaker 7: When all ass hard be people is beefing, that'd be 548 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,480 Speaker 7: down there like a skinny ass Al Green was in 549 00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:41,800 Speaker 7: there fighting with very white wouldn't be right it it'd. 550 00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:45,080 Speaker 6: Just look wrong'll they wanted to say that all these 551 00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:47,440 Speaker 6: things is going on in this complain, I want to 552 00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:49,880 Speaker 6: have it dropped in the name. Well, I just wanted 553 00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:53,960 Speaker 6: to tell you, Yanna, that all these things don't have 554 00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:56,280 Speaker 6: to be this way. You know that we can all 555 00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:57,320 Speaker 6: just settle it down. 556 00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:02,200 Speaker 1: And no, what's a good Al Green? 557 00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:11,840 Speaker 7: But you want to start preaching, Yeah, and there going 558 00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:16,040 Speaker 7: song for song that lood that Al Greener gets very white? 559 00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:20,040 Speaker 7: What about what about you're gonna mess around and get 560 00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:26,560 Speaker 7: some gritch throad on your ass. Yeah, Hall of those man. 561 00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:29,640 Speaker 7: They got some jams, ma'am they. 562 00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:35,360 Speaker 6: Need I'm watching you. Yes, that's how I can see 563 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:41,120 Speaker 6: whoever got smiled? Though? 564 00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:54,280 Speaker 1: Who co wrote Smile? Watching it interesting to baby and 565 00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:55,360 Speaker 1: another entertainment. 566 00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:58,920 Speaker 11: The Queen of Soul, Aretha Franklin, passed away from pancreatic 567 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:02,360 Speaker 11: cancer back in twenty eighteen, and now five years later, 568 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:05,760 Speaker 11: her properties have been allocated based on a handwritten will. 569 00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:10,040 Speaker 11: On Monday, a judge in Detroit awarded the real estate 570 00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:13,440 Speaker 11: based on a handwritten will from twenty fourteen that had 571 00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:17,520 Speaker 11: been found between her couch cushions and based on the will, 572 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:21,880 Speaker 11: Aretha's youngest son, kick Kaf Franklin, will get her Detroit home, 573 00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:25,000 Speaker 11: which was valued at one point one million dollars back 574 00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:29,280 Speaker 11: in twenty eighteen, and her second son, Edward, was awarded 575 00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:33,160 Speaker 11: another property, and her third son, ted White Junior inherited 576 00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:34,600 Speaker 11: a house in Detroit. 577 00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:40,120 Speaker 8: But that's Wreatha Neim. That ain't really my concern, I shirt, 578 00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:42,080 Speaker 8: I don't. I mean, that's Wreatha Neim. That's what's going 579 00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:45,360 Speaker 8: on in Nate family. But as far as the Hobby Foundation, 580 00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:49,160 Speaker 8: the Hobby Clean, Now you got two houses in Atlanta, 581 00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:56,360 Speaker 8: you got two in Dallas, you got a ranch in Atlanta, 582 00:32:57,040 --> 00:33:00,360 Speaker 8: you got a house over across the world, all them. 583 00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:04,000 Speaker 8: So I'm just trying to figure out which cushion did 584 00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:04,560 Speaker 8: you put it in? 585 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:08,240 Speaker 6: What my name is? Is in one need house? What houses? Man? 586 00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:10,840 Speaker 6: I guess what I mean. First of all, first of all, 587 00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:12,720 Speaker 6: let me learn. Let me say you're a lot of pain, 588 00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:17,200 Speaker 6: because it's gonna be a while four our before our 589 00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:20,320 Speaker 6: wheels come into play. But let me just say a 590 00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:23,800 Speaker 6: lot of pain. And where. First of all, we ain't 591 00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:25,880 Speaker 6: got no wheels and no cushions or no capture. So 592 00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:26,680 Speaker 6: don't come in here. 593 00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:30,520 Speaker 1: Tearing the furniture, open cushions. 594 00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:32,280 Speaker 6: Stuff. 595 00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:35,600 Speaker 7: Yeah, trying to figure out all that. Don't don't don't 596 00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:37,560 Speaker 7: do that in here. All our stuff is in safety 597 00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:40,920 Speaker 7: positive boxes on computers. It's at the wheel house. We 598 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:44,160 Speaker 7: as a company that stores your wheels. Well, where's the 599 00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:45,680 Speaker 7: wheel nothing ever happened? 600 00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:52,160 Speaker 6: Were where? And other things I need to know. Well, 601 00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:53,880 Speaker 6: and my wheel reading. 602 00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:55,960 Speaker 7: I just want you to know that the majority of 603 00:33:56,080 --> 00:34:01,360 Speaker 7: people there present will be crying harder at the wheel 604 00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:04,720 Speaker 7: reading than they asked was at the news that I'm gone. 605 00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:08,480 Speaker 6: Gonna repeat this. 606 00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:13,120 Speaker 7: There will be people at the wheel reading that will 607 00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:16,600 Speaker 7: be crying harder they was when they got the news 608 00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:21,040 Speaker 7: that I was going I'm going to shockingly disappoint. 609 00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:22,279 Speaker 1: The animals and all that. 610 00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:25,719 Speaker 7: Right, Marjorie, he asked me at one point, She said, 611 00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:27,600 Speaker 7: Steve Harvey, are you serious? 612 00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:32,920 Speaker 6: My response was as comedic as I could. Dead serious, 613 00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:33,840 Speaker 6: dead serious. 614 00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:38,160 Speaker 1: You haven't answered Tommy's question, which house is he. 615 00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:40,479 Speaker 6: Wants? 616 00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:44,840 Speaker 7: If Tommy looking for any property of any kind, he 617 00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:47,440 Speaker 7: will be one at the wheel reading crying. 618 00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:05,440 Speaker 1: Is your goal, Steve, to spend it all while you're here, Not. 619 00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:10,760 Speaker 6: All of it, but eighty five percent. God, you can't. 620 00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:16,960 Speaker 7: You can't, well being nephew, listen to me, property, you kids, 621 00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:18,839 Speaker 7: I'm sixty six years old. 622 00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 6: Man, I'm not doing that. I'm not doing that. 623 00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:26,000 Speaker 7: Man, I'm not working and stacking up all this paperman 624 00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:29,360 Speaker 7: for a future that I ain't even I don't know about. 625 00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:33,640 Speaker 6: No, man, eighty five percent of all me and my girl, 626 00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:37,040 Speaker 6: Me and my girl will join us. We're gonna enjoy that. 627 00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:42,799 Speaker 7: Okay, I'm going to heaven having done a full run. 628 00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:48,279 Speaker 7: I mean, leave me something in a folding chair. 629 00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:49,279 Speaker 6: Something I mean. 630 00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:54,080 Speaker 11: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, We're gonna 631 00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:57,799 Speaker 11: check your voicemail Steve. If you want to leave Steve 632 00:35:57,880 --> 00:35:59,879 Speaker 11: a message, you can call him at age seven seven 633 00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:01,760 Speaker 11: so you can get twenty nine Steve. 634 00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:06,080 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Hard Morning Show. 635 00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:09,560 Speaker 11: All right, it is time to check Steve's voicemail. Call 636 00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:12,320 Speaker 11: eight seven seven twenty nine Steve to leave a message 637 00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:15,520 Speaker 11: for Steve. Now you might just hear your call on 638 00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:18,360 Speaker 11: the air. Steve, you recently said that if you have 639 00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:20,400 Speaker 11: a problem with your mother, you need to try and 640 00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:20,920 Speaker 11: fix it. 641 00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:23,719 Speaker 1: Okay, I think that was yesterday or day before on 642 00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:24,120 Speaker 1: the air. 643 00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:27,080 Speaker 11: Well, this caller has a question about what to do 644 00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:30,080 Speaker 11: with a complicated mother daughter relationship. 645 00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:30,840 Speaker 1: Take a listen. 646 00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:31,920 Speaker 6: Good morning. 647 00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:34,560 Speaker 15: So this is a comment on what you said about 648 00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:37,000 Speaker 15: being upset with your mom or your dad. Good morning, 649 00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:39,400 Speaker 15: and you got to have a real problem. But what 650 00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:41,160 Speaker 15: if your parents are the problem. 651 00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:43,799 Speaker 5: My mom is a narcissist. 652 00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:48,400 Speaker 15: He's artistic, and she uses any and everything against me, 653 00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:52,120 Speaker 15: even my son, to make it seem like she's done 654 00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:54,120 Speaker 15: it theing wrong, like I'm the bad guy because of 655 00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:55,839 Speaker 15: the life that I live, that I chose to live, 656 00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:59,960 Speaker 15: like she's applied with it. Everyone at around is all 657 00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:02,399 Speaker 15: too before me and I'm always doing something wrong. 658 00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:03,840 Speaker 5: So how am I to hear that? 659 00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:04,719 Speaker 10: Tim? 660 00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:08,040 Speaker 15: I not to have a feeling against my mom if 661 00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:09,279 Speaker 15: she does those types of things. 662 00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:10,759 Speaker 12: But it says really, really thinks to me. 663 00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:12,120 Speaker 15: So I'm just got to sit there and take it. 664 00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:13,840 Speaker 15: I don't understand that I can't do that. 665 00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:16,160 Speaker 7: Here's a deal, sister. First of all, I don't know 666 00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:19,160 Speaker 7: the particulars. I don't know the route that you chose 667 00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:21,840 Speaker 7: to go that makes you be pointed out as the 668 00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:26,759 Speaker 7: bad guy. I don't know the particulars. I know that 669 00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:29,560 Speaker 7: little baby's voice you got. I know you really need 670 00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:30,880 Speaker 7: to go back there and fix it with your mom 671 00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:31,360 Speaker 7: and daddy. 672 00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:34,000 Speaker 6: Can sound like you nine and don't sound like you 673 00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:38,040 Speaker 6: on your own, But that aside from itself, let's get 674 00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:42,799 Speaker 6: serious about this for a moment. Here's the deal. Listen 675 00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:45,400 Speaker 6: to me, people, I've heard Bishop Jake say this a 676 00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:50,719 Speaker 6: million times. Forgiveness is not for the other person. Forgiveness 677 00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:53,720 Speaker 6: is actually for you. Because you said in your statement, 678 00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:56,320 Speaker 6: I can't do that, how am I supposed to forget? 679 00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:57,279 Speaker 6: I can't do that? 680 00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:01,440 Speaker 7: Well, you not forgiven a person is like you drinking 681 00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:05,520 Speaker 7: the poison, waiting on them to die. So now you 682 00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:08,440 Speaker 7: got to have a reaction to your mother. Look, everybody 683 00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:13,120 Speaker 7: don't get great parents, you know, ma'am. My watch. I 684 00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:16,680 Speaker 7: watched my father make a few mistakes in his life, 685 00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:19,320 Speaker 7: but I still loved and honored him. He was my father, 686 00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:23,040 Speaker 7: and it kept us in a relationship that was a 687 00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:27,160 Speaker 7: beautiful relationship with this mad because, as Shirley just said, 688 00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:30,719 Speaker 7: these people are humans. You know, you don't get to 689 00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:33,040 Speaker 7: you don't get to stop being human. You don't get 690 00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:35,759 Speaker 7: to not make mistakes. So it's really up to you. Now, 691 00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:38,080 Speaker 7: if you feel that horrible about it, you're gonna just 692 00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:41,560 Speaker 7: another thing. My daddy said to me, He said, son, 693 00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:44,319 Speaker 7: two things can happen in life. You can get over 694 00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:49,279 Speaker 7: it or you can die mad. Now you can pick 695 00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:52,600 Speaker 7: one in what you want. And he said, son, just 696 00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:55,399 Speaker 7: go and get over And I know you say, well 697 00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:57,879 Speaker 7: I can't. Well, if you say you can't, then you can't. 698 00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:00,480 Speaker 7: Steve Harvey and nobody else can help you. You can 699 00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:03,400 Speaker 7: go to a therapist. If you saying you kate, forgive 700 00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:06,160 Speaker 7: her and let it go. There's nothing nobody can do 701 00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:06,440 Speaker 7: for you. 702 00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:09,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's not even trying. She's not gonna try. 703 00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:13,319 Speaker 6: I would just look write it off, Mom, She making 704 00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:16,359 Speaker 6: a mistake. That's her, you know, that's it all. 705 00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:19,200 Speaker 1: Right, coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour. 706 00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:21,319 Speaker 1: Thank you, Steve. We'll have more calls at eight seven 707 00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:22,840 Speaker 1: seven twenty nine. Steve. 708 00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:28,439 Speaker 11: You're listening hard Morning Show. It is time once again 709 00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:31,960 Speaker 11: to check Steve's voicemail. These calls, we're going to continue 710 00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:35,000 Speaker 11: them eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve and Steve, we 711 00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:38,040 Speaker 11: have a lot of messages about yesterday's strawberry letter. Remember 712 00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:40,040 Speaker 11: it was called too Good to be True. It was 713 00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:42,200 Speaker 11: about a woman who was dating a man for about 714 00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:44,960 Speaker 11: a month and he took her to his high school reunion. 715 00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:48,920 Speaker 11: At the reunion, he ate some bad tuna. She warned 716 00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:51,680 Speaker 11: him about this tuna, telling him it didn't smell right, 717 00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:54,560 Speaker 11: but he didn't listen ate it anyway. He got sick 718 00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:57,560 Speaker 11: and while at home, he asked her to stay with him. 719 00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:00,640 Speaker 11: She said no and suggested that he go to the er, 720 00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:03,560 Speaker 11: and she left. The next day she called to check 721 00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:06,600 Speaker 11: on him. He told her basically he didn't want to 722 00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:10,040 Speaker 11: see her again. This is from Sophia in New Orleans. 723 00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:14,920 Speaker 9: Good morning, Steve. This is Sophia from New Orleans and 724 00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:18,040 Speaker 9: I'm riding to work and I'm listening to the Steve 725 00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:22,800 Speaker 9: Harvey Morning Show. I just heard part one of the 726 00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:26,200 Speaker 9: Strawberry Letter Too Good to be True, and I'm with 727 00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:28,480 Speaker 9: you one hundred percent. 728 00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:33,239 Speaker 3: Steve, because young lady does not know how to take 729 00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:34,040 Speaker 3: care of a man. 730 00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:37,759 Speaker 10: She should have stayed with him, She should. 731 00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:41,480 Speaker 9: Have taken him to the hospital. She blew it, and 732 00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:45,600 Speaker 9: she doesn't deserve the good man that she claimed to 733 00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:50,200 Speaker 9: have had the opportunity to share one month with. 734 00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:51,960 Speaker 10: She killed it. 735 00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:56,920 Speaker 9: You guys, keep doing what you're doing and have a 736 00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:57,600 Speaker 9: blessed day. 737 00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:00,920 Speaker 7: You know, I agree with you say, because you know what, man, 738 00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:04,600 Speaker 7: it don't hurt to care about a person. He was 739 00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:07,520 Speaker 7: sick as hell. He wasn't trying to sleep with the girl. 740 00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:10,320 Speaker 7: He said, just would you stay with me? She said, no, 741 00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:13,799 Speaker 7: if you that's it, go to the er. Okay, cool, 742 00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:16,480 Speaker 7: here this man trying to find somebody to ride with. 743 00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:18,680 Speaker 7: You know, it's just a simple test. 744 00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:20,040 Speaker 6: You could have said. 745 00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:22,120 Speaker 7: She could have said, hey, listen, I will stay with you, 746 00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:23,640 Speaker 7: but I'm gonna stay here on the sofa, and if 747 00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:25,239 Speaker 7: I hear you need anything, I'm here for you. 748 00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:25,680 Speaker 4: Now. 749 00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:27,759 Speaker 6: That would have made the dude feel one hundred percent better. 750 00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:30,360 Speaker 6: But oh no, h if you that's sick. Go to 751 00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:35,320 Speaker 6: the er. I'm bouncing deuces. Okay, cool, Okay, clearly you 752 00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:37,279 Speaker 6: ain't what he needs. He just worked, okay, and that's 753 00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:41,719 Speaker 6: just a sickness. And I tell this crazy help out 754 00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:48,640 Speaker 6: and ran out of money. Bruh, bruh. If you ain't there, 755 00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:53,520 Speaker 6: you you That's why I tell people about relationships. Man, 756 00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:56,800 Speaker 6: your relationship got to be tested. Go ahead, sutless. 757 00:41:56,920 --> 00:42:00,560 Speaker 1: We have another one from Houston. Her name is Let's 758 00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:01,279 Speaker 1: see what she says. 759 00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:04,720 Speaker 16: Hey, Steve and the crew, this is Marie from Houston, Texas. 760 00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:08,719 Speaker 16: I'm calling about the strawberry letter the guys did Tuesday. 761 00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:11,919 Speaker 16: He turned out he was too good to be true. 762 00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:15,440 Speaker 16: Shirley's like, you know, well, you too, let it go. 763 00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:19,120 Speaker 16: And then Steve just went in on this woman because 764 00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:22,400 Speaker 16: she wouldn't stay with the man. Baby who wasn't you know, 765 00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:26,000 Speaker 16: thoughtful enough, wasn't smart enough to listen to She told 766 00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:29,279 Speaker 16: him the tuna fish was bad. He didn't listen. He 767 00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:32,000 Speaker 16: scarfed down, and heled a bunch of them anyway, which 768 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:34,480 Speaker 16: is why he wound up being in the bathroom for 769 00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:37,400 Speaker 16: a long damn time. And then he's mad because she 770 00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:40,600 Speaker 16: wouldn't stay overnight. With him and baby him, And Steve's 771 00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:42,879 Speaker 16: all on the on the woman talking about that's why 772 00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:45,040 Speaker 16: you that's probably why you ain't got nobody now. Well, 773 00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:49,480 Speaker 16: first of all, she had him, and secondly he was 774 00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:53,560 Speaker 16: singled who thirty eight years old, no kids, never married, 775 00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:57,160 Speaker 16: so that's a that's a bad thing for her to 776 00:42:57,520 --> 00:42:59,880 Speaker 16: like still be single at that point, but not for 777 00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:02,759 Speaker 16: him as some double standard, Steve, he didn't have no 778 00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:05,879 Speaker 16: damn body either before he started dating her the month 779 00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:09,319 Speaker 16: before and I kind of I'm tried with the woman. 780 00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:10,600 Speaker 16: She didn't feel like staying there. 781 00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:12,840 Speaker 1: There han't been dating that damn long. 782 00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:14,239 Speaker 16: You're talking about, get some super. 783 00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:15,080 Speaker 10: So she didn't feel like it. 784 00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:18,239 Speaker 16: And if he's out because of that, oh well, he 785 00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:19,399 Speaker 16: sounds like a big old man. 786 00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:19,719 Speaker 5: Baby. 787 00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:22,040 Speaker 16: If he just listened to her about the dad tunic 788 00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:25,120 Speaker 16: fish that began with his ass, wouldn't have gotten food 789 00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:26,360 Speaker 16: poisoning sinning. 790 00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:28,080 Speaker 1: Steve, you look too hard on her. 791 00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:32,560 Speaker 16: Damn him, you know if his ass thirty eight, never 792 00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:34,640 Speaker 16: been married and stuff, he didn't it sounded like too 793 00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:36,319 Speaker 16: big of a prize of damn self. 794 00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:40,400 Speaker 5: Bye, guys, And. 795 00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:45,400 Speaker 6: I one hundred percent, I one hundred percent agree with 796 00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:52,239 Speaker 6: you too. That's right, baby, Yeah, you said what you said. 797 00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:52,719 Speaker 6: That's fine. 798 00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:54,160 Speaker 7: That's how you want to view it. That's how you 799 00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:57,000 Speaker 7: can view it. But no, ain't nobody got nobody now, damn. 800 00:43:57,160 --> 00:44:00,800 Speaker 7: And you know dudes don't listen. Good he should have listened, 801 00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:03,320 Speaker 7: but he didn't, now you know. But then you know 802 00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:05,160 Speaker 7: she's sitting up here. She's gonna walk away from good 803 00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:07,440 Speaker 7: ass man over that right there, y'all keep doing it 804 00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:10,640 Speaker 7: like this, you ain't gonna have nobody. 805 00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:13,120 Speaker 1: All right, coming right next all the. 806 00:44:13,280 --> 00:44:16,480 Speaker 6: Blocks for date, well here, I'll. 807 00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:19,440 Speaker 11: Say you and today's prank phone call. Right after this 808 00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:25,000 Speaker 11: you're listening Hard Morning Show coming up at the top 809 00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:27,279 Speaker 11: of the hour. Right about four minutes after, it's my 810 00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:31,040 Speaker 11: strawberry letter for today and the subject is three times 811 00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:31,560 Speaker 11: in a row? 812 00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:32,480 Speaker 6: Should I go? 813 00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:33,560 Speaker 4: Uh? 814 00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:35,720 Speaker 11: We'll get into that find out what that's all about 815 00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:37,920 Speaker 11: in just a few because right now it is time 816 00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:41,160 Speaker 11: for the nephew. He is here with today's prank phone call. 817 00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:43,520 Speaker 11: What you got for his nest erl Are we about 818 00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:44,400 Speaker 11: to have a funeral? 819 00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:45,359 Speaker 1: Oh? 820 00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:48,560 Speaker 6: No, yeah, yeah, we about to have a funeral, So 821 00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:51,080 Speaker 6: don't you know? But I gotta ask y'all. 822 00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:53,560 Speaker 8: When we when we have these funerals and we say 823 00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:58,279 Speaker 8: three minute rama, What does that mean? Doesn't that mean three? 824 00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:04,600 Speaker 8: Keep it to three minutes of Yes? Why at black funerals? 825 00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:06,160 Speaker 6: Why why do we not understand it? 826 00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:07,000 Speaker 4: Why? Why? Why? 827 00:45:07,640 --> 00:45:09,279 Speaker 8: Why do you want to get up there and do ten? 828 00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:14,200 Speaker 8: And this ain't about you, This ain't about you at all. 829 00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:17,120 Speaker 8: So this right here is three minute remarks. 830 00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:18,560 Speaker 6: We would like you to keep it to that. 831 00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:20,880 Speaker 8: We're gonna call the person to let them know that 832 00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:24,000 Speaker 8: we want your remarks kept the three minutes. All right, 833 00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:31,680 Speaker 8: all minds clear? All right, got dog, if you would, Yes. 834 00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:34,840 Speaker 4: I'm trying to reach your brother Keith please, Yeah, this 835 00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:38,239 Speaker 4: is Keith, Keith. How you doing? This is Lawrence's overhead, 836 00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:40,160 Speaker 4: your funeral home? 837 00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:40,840 Speaker 10: Okay. 838 00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:44,200 Speaker 4: We are the ones doing the funeral for sister Dolores. 839 00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:48,560 Speaker 4: And that is your am my understanding. 840 00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:51,759 Speaker 12: Right, yeah, that's Launchi okay, and. 841 00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:55,719 Speaker 4: Yes, you know the funeral is this coming Thursday. 842 00:45:56,600 --> 00:45:58,120 Speaker 5: Yes, I'll be that Thursday. 843 00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:02,439 Speaker 4: I'm giving you a call all because it's been brought 844 00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:07,160 Speaker 4: to my attention, uh that you are going to be 845 00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:10,920 Speaker 4: giving remarks for the funeral. Is that correct? 846 00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:11,719 Speaker 5: Yes? 847 00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:15,880 Speaker 4: Absolutely, Okay. I wanted to call you because we're getting 848 00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:20,040 Speaker 4: ready to print the programs for the funeral and let 849 00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:23,759 Speaker 4: you know that they have taken you off for the 850 00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:27,640 Speaker 4: remarks because they say that you're not. 851 00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:31,879 Speaker 5: Going to be Oh, what do you mean taking me off? 852 00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:35,640 Speaker 4: Well, what I'm saying that they say that you're not 853 00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:39,520 Speaker 4: going to abide by the two three minute rule that 854 00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:42,400 Speaker 4: they have for remarks, and they wanted they've they've taken 855 00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:42,919 Speaker 4: you off. 856 00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:49,319 Speaker 10: And uh, who is they come out? Who? 857 00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:53,160 Speaker 4: Who? What's the name again, lawd, I'm Lawn, I'm the 858 00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:57,320 Speaker 4: actual funeral director, lord, and who who told you to 859 00:46:57,400 --> 00:47:01,320 Speaker 4: take me off? One of the one of the family 860 00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:04,640 Speaker 4: members I'm assuming is who who made the adjustment? 861 00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:08,800 Speaker 10: And an adjustice that ain't no adjustment. That's that's changing 862 00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:11,279 Speaker 10: the whole program? Who else is on the list? 863 00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:14,640 Speaker 4: I mean there's quite a few family members doing different 864 00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:16,960 Speaker 4: things throughout the funeral. 865 00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:20,600 Speaker 10: Okay, so how did you get to my name? Is 866 00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:21,759 Speaker 10: what I'm trying to figure. 867 00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:25,120 Speaker 4: Out That they said that listen to me, listen, listen 868 00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:27,880 Speaker 4: to me. Listen to me, brother, keep listen to me. 869 00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:31,759 Speaker 4: What they said is that you weren't going to abide 870 00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:35,840 Speaker 4: by the time, you weren't going to do your remarks 871 00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:37,120 Speaker 4: in three minutes or less. 872 00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:41,560 Speaker 5: Listen, listen, listen, listen. Mini raised me. 873 00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:44,800 Speaker 10: He put me through college, and you think I'm Finna, 874 00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:49,160 Speaker 10: I'm Finla goes down her funeral and be under two minutes. 875 00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:54,800 Speaker 4: Well, well, listen, listen, brother Keith, Brother Keith, listen to me. Normally, 876 00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:58,680 Speaker 4: when we have these funerals, people who give remarks, we 877 00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:00,600 Speaker 4: have them three minutes or less. 878 00:48:01,600 --> 00:48:03,400 Speaker 10: Okay, So I'll tell you what. 879 00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:05,000 Speaker 5: I'll tell you what mister Lors. 880 00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:06,919 Speaker 6: On the list. 881 00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:13,120 Speaker 4: Uh, we have a Seala. Yes, there's a Seala that's singing. 882 00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:15,319 Speaker 5: Name off the list. 883 00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:17,520 Speaker 10: Take her off the list and put me where she's 884 00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:19,839 Speaker 10: supposed to be with my current and her time. 885 00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:22,319 Speaker 5: Is Bobby there too? 886 00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:30,759 Speaker 4: Bobby now, Yes, Bobby Jr. Is given remarks. That's that's 887 00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:34,960 Speaker 4: that's Delorous. That's miss Delorus's son, right, Yes, her. 888 00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:37,360 Speaker 10: Son, the one that get locked up. He just got 889 00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:39,680 Speaker 10: out to tell the truth. He told he's the one 890 00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:42,000 Speaker 10: down there. Put her in the coat. You need to 891 00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:44,359 Speaker 10: take him off the list too, give me all that time, 892 00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:46,920 Speaker 10: because I mean, if I ain't gonna take nothing that. 893 00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:49,000 Speaker 4: My brother, Keith, let me let me let me just 894 00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:54,280 Speaker 4: say this to you. I cannot take Sheela or Bobby Jr. 895 00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:58,920 Speaker 4: Off I can't make any alterations to this program unless they. 896 00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:03,840 Speaker 5: Say that what you mean, sir, you already you already 897 00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:06,040 Speaker 5: take you already taking people name off. 898 00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:07,200 Speaker 10: We're taking my name off. 899 00:49:07,600 --> 00:49:11,839 Speaker 4: But but they they orchestrated this though his day. 900 00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:13,000 Speaker 5: Who is day? 901 00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:16,080 Speaker 10: They for having much problems, they try to take me 902 00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:18,080 Speaker 10: off my hockey program? 903 00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:22,120 Speaker 4: Who is day? Sir? I'm not gonna get into a 904 00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:24,920 Speaker 4: family matter. But until they say that you can do 905 00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:29,040 Speaker 4: in a family matter, sure, I'm not gonna. I don't wanna. 906 00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:31,440 Speaker 4: I don't want to have this. This turned out to 907 00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:34,120 Speaker 4: be bad, and we want to have a great homegoing 908 00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:37,080 Speaker 4: for sister Delord's okay, damn right. 909 00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:39,840 Speaker 10: And if I don't get to say nothing, I guarantee you, 910 00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:42,080 Speaker 10: I guarantee you it's gonna be a tooth for one 911 00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:45,120 Speaker 10: in there. Somebody else gonna get in the coffee too. 912 00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:47,920 Speaker 10: I guarantee you that if I don't get to say 913 00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:49,240 Speaker 10: nothing in my auntief. 914 00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:51,920 Speaker 4: You know myndn't pay for them college. 915 00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:53,680 Speaker 10: I just put six thousand dollars. 916 00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:55,800 Speaker 6: I bet you. 917 00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:56,440 Speaker 5: I'll tell you this. 918 00:49:56,680 --> 00:49:59,520 Speaker 10: I tell you this, mister Laws. I bet you whether 919 00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:02,399 Speaker 10: I'm the program I'm not. I bet you, I say 920 00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:05,160 Speaker 10: with the I want to I betch you that much. 921 00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:09,879 Speaker 10: You tell day Zach, how did you find you didn't 922 00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:14,319 Speaker 10: put me through college? Put money on the funeral? Called 923 00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:15,840 Speaker 10: around to see who ain't putting no money on the 924 00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:18,040 Speaker 10: feudal Tell them they can't see on the program? 925 00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:25,560 Speaker 4: Man, uh keith they when they decide who who who's 926 00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:28,960 Speaker 4: on it? If they changed the format. 927 00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:32,520 Speaker 5: That I will call you back. Who who is they? 928 00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:34,040 Speaker 10: That's what I'm trying to get. 929 00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:35,719 Speaker 5: Get you understand who is they? 930 00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:38,439 Speaker 4: Can I can I tell you something? And I don't 931 00:50:38,440 --> 00:50:41,880 Speaker 4: want you to get to our rape. Okay, right ahead, 932 00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:44,640 Speaker 4: go ahead, go ahead, man. I just want to say this, 933 00:50:45,440 --> 00:50:47,959 Speaker 4: keep with them. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve 934 00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:51,759 Speaker 4: Harvey Mornings Show. You just got breaked. You just got 935 00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:54,520 Speaker 4: breaked by your cousin, bobbin Jr. 936 00:50:57,080 --> 00:51:05,120 Speaker 10: You bos, I'm junior up. I'm kicking Bobby. 937 00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:05,920 Speaker 4: I know that. 938 00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:09,560 Speaker 5: My mother pressure is all up. 939 00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:13,400 Speaker 10: I ain't gonna be playing man taking me off program. 940 00:51:17,880 --> 00:51:23,400 Speaker 4: Oh Mama said, y'all grew up like brothers man, and 941 00:51:23,840 --> 00:51:26,920 Speaker 4: you was you was basically another son of mister Lord's. 942 00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:28,880 Speaker 5: That's right, yes, yes, I was. 943 00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:29,279 Speaker 12: Man. 944 00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:32,680 Speaker 5: Oh my, hey, let me ask. 945 00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:34,839 Speaker 4: You this man, what is the baddest and I mean 946 00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:37,000 Speaker 4: the baddest radio show in the. 947 00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:39,960 Speaker 10: Land, the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 948 00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:48,920 Speaker 6: Talk to me, Talk to me. Franks, come on up 949 00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:52,560 Speaker 6: in here. Let's get some praise. Franks up in here. 950 00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:58,040 Speaker 14: Speaker speak, taking up the time. 951 00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:02,880 Speaker 6: Y'all know, y'all the funeral get out of hand. Y'all know. 952 00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:07,360 Speaker 14: You know when they get up there and say it 953 00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:09,719 Speaker 14: all started when we were five, you'd be like. 954 00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:15,400 Speaker 6: Me and uh me and Ryanye. Let's see, we was 955 00:52:15,680 --> 00:52:20,120 Speaker 6: nine and was pl y'all. I could go on to 956 00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:25,919 Speaker 6: a funeral that just lasted way too long. Yeah, yeah, left, 957 00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:27,520 Speaker 6: I'm left. 958 00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:30,120 Speaker 7: Let me tell you something, man, I kid you, no, 959 00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:32,800 Speaker 7: I'm not making this up. I've been to a funeral 960 00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:36,320 Speaker 7: that was four hours. That's too long when. 961 00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:38,800 Speaker 8: The person already in heaven, they already made it and 962 00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:39,759 Speaker 8: we still at the urch. 963 00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:42,360 Speaker 6: Just something wrong. Well that it was a question, that 964 00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:48,759 Speaker 6: was a question. That was my boy too. 965 00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:54,640 Speaker 7: I knew, I knew it wasn't a guaranteed heaven shot. Yeah, 966 00:52:55,719 --> 00:52:57,840 Speaker 7: that's why I was in there, going it's gonna be 967 00:52:57,920 --> 00:52:59,680 Speaker 7: some voting going on on this one right now. 968 00:53:00,760 --> 00:53:01,240 Speaker 1: Committee. 969 00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:04,640 Speaker 7: Yes, he'll be at the gate and had to present 970 00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:07,880 Speaker 7: some closing arguments or sup I just do right here. 971 00:53:08,120 --> 00:53:10,360 Speaker 6: He can get in because God is forgiving. 972 00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:13,080 Speaker 7: I would like to know if he's in heaven right now, 973 00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:15,279 Speaker 7: because if I knew that, it'll take a lot of 974 00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:16,080 Speaker 7: pressure off me. 975 00:53:16,680 --> 00:53:18,640 Speaker 1: Oh you know, you're. 976 00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:23,719 Speaker 6: Definitely in there. Yeah, eight nine ten. 977 00:53:23,840 --> 00:53:28,320 Speaker 8: Tommy T's eight nine Timmy Tommy T's in Oakland, Well, Pleasant, California. 978 00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:31,040 Speaker 8: The Nephew come to town December eight nine ten. Tickets 979 00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:32,600 Speaker 8: on sale right now. 980 00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:35,799 Speaker 11: All right, nephew, thank you? Coming up next, Strawberry Letter 981 00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:36,960 Speaker 11: three times in a row? 982 00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:40,040 Speaker 1: Should I go? Is the subject. We'll get into that 983 00:53:40,280 --> 00:53:44,239 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show. 984 00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:48,279 Speaker 11: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if 985 00:53:48,280 --> 00:53:53,000 Speaker 11: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, 986 00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:56,680 Speaker 11: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM dot com. 987 00:53:57,440 --> 00:53:59,319 Speaker 1: And click submit Strawberry Letter. 988 00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:01,560 Speaker 11: We could be reading your letter live on the air, 989 00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:03,480 Speaker 11: just like we're going to read this one right here, 990 00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:06,480 Speaker 11: right now, and you never know, it could be yours. 991 00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:08,879 Speaker 8: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. 992 00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:11,439 Speaker 8: We got it four you here it is Strawberry LETTA 993 00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:12,120 Speaker 8: thank you. 994 00:54:12,239 --> 00:54:15,520 Speaker 11: Nephew's subject three times in a row. Should I go, 995 00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:20,080 Speaker 11: Dear Stephen Shirley. I was married for six years to 996 00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:22,960 Speaker 11: a miserable man that had low self esteem, so he 997 00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:25,799 Speaker 11: cheated on me multiple times, and I stayed with him 998 00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:28,120 Speaker 11: because I didn't earn enough money to take care of 999 00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:32,239 Speaker 11: my daughter on my own. Seven years later, and I 1000 00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:36,040 Speaker 11: am in the same situation, or a very similar situation. 1001 00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:39,520 Speaker 11: My partner got divorced the same year I did, and 1002 00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:41,120 Speaker 11: we met at my daughter's school. 1003 00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:43,600 Speaker 1: He's got a daughter that's two years older. 1004 00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:46,520 Speaker 11: Than mine, and we agreed that we would keep things 1005 00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:49,480 Speaker 11: between us so the kids won't feel some type of way. 1006 00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:52,719 Speaker 1: So the fact that he keeps me hidden is beneficial 1007 00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:53,319 Speaker 1: to him. 1008 00:54:54,000 --> 00:54:56,560 Speaker 11: He has had three different women spend the night at 1009 00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:59,080 Speaker 11: his house lately, and one of the ladies dropped his 1010 00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:02,439 Speaker 11: daughter off at school in his car. I couldn't ask 1011 00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:06,880 Speaker 11: the woman any questions, so I questioned him. He said 1012 00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:10,279 Speaker 11: that woman was an old friend and she was in 1013 00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:13,479 Speaker 11: town for only one night and he wanted to catch 1014 00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:16,000 Speaker 11: up with her, so he invited her to stay with him. 1015 00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:18,960 Speaker 11: Whenever I'm at his house, I snooped to see if 1016 00:55:19,000 --> 00:55:21,480 Speaker 11: there's any signs that a woman has been over there. 1017 00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:24,040 Speaker 11: The two other times he had a woman stay over. 1018 00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:27,080 Speaker 11: He offered up the information. He said he did not 1019 00:55:27,239 --> 00:55:29,160 Speaker 11: think it was a big deal because I should know 1020 00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:31,360 Speaker 11: that I am his number one woman. 1021 00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:33,920 Speaker 1: I want to be the only woman. 1022 00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:36,120 Speaker 11: But I respect the fact that he's not ready to 1023 00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:39,600 Speaker 11: get married. He has entertained three other women, and he's 1024 00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:42,040 Speaker 11: comfortable telling me about it, so I'm sure there have 1025 00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:45,359 Speaker 11: been more than three. There's no way the women are 1026 00:55:45,400 --> 00:55:48,600 Speaker 11: staying at his place and there's no sex. I wonder 1027 00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:51,279 Speaker 11: why he keeps me around. Could he be telling the 1028 00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:53,600 Speaker 11: truth or is it time for me to go? 1029 00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:56,480 Speaker 1: Is it time for you to go? 1030 00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:01,440 Speaker 11: Yes, I think you've stayed way too long already. And 1031 00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:03,840 Speaker 11: why did you agree to keep it to yourselves for 1032 00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:07,120 Speaker 11: the kids? Why would you want to be hidden so 1033 00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:09,560 Speaker 11: the kids won't feel some kind of some type of 1034 00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:10,359 Speaker 11: way you said? 1035 00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:11,640 Speaker 1: And what way is that? 1036 00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:12,120 Speaker 5: I mean? 1037 00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:15,120 Speaker 11: What would the kids say about their parents dating? What 1038 00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:19,560 Speaker 11: would they have to say? You were hidden so he 1039 00:56:19,600 --> 00:56:23,320 Speaker 11: could do whatever he wanted to do, like entertain other women. 1040 00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:27,279 Speaker 11: In his case, when he says you're his number one woman, 1041 00:56:27,440 --> 00:56:29,760 Speaker 11: it means you're number one out of the many women 1042 00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:30,560 Speaker 11: he's dating. 1043 00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:33,080 Speaker 1: If he doesn't want to get. 1044 00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:36,440 Speaker 11: Married and you do. You are wasting your time with 1045 00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:39,480 Speaker 11: this guy. Don't you see that he keeps you around? 1046 00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:41,879 Speaker 11: You ask why does he keep you around? He keeps 1047 00:56:41,880 --> 00:56:45,719 Speaker 11: you around because you won't leave. You won't leave this situation. 1048 00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:49,000 Speaker 11: I mean, this relationship is going nowhere, and as long 1049 00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:51,360 Speaker 11: as you stay, he's going to keep you around. 1050 00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:52,040 Speaker 1: Simple as that. 1051 00:56:52,400 --> 00:56:57,480 Speaker 6: Steve, Lady, you have no self of Steve, and insteaded 1052 00:56:57,760 --> 00:56:59,560 Speaker 6: further knocking you down. 1053 00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:03,360 Speaker 7: Give you a couple of suggestions. Let me, let me, 1054 00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:05,759 Speaker 7: let me try to help you out, because this is 1055 00:57:05,920 --> 00:57:09,080 Speaker 7: bad right here. You were married for six years to 1056 00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:11,920 Speaker 7: a miserable man. He had low self esteem. Now, this 1057 00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:14,440 Speaker 7: is what you say. He had low self esteem, so 1058 00:57:14,520 --> 00:57:17,600 Speaker 7: he cheated on me multiple times, and I stayed with 1059 00:57:17,760 --> 00:57:20,240 Speaker 7: him because I didn't earn enough money to take care 1060 00:57:20,240 --> 00:57:23,640 Speaker 7: of my daughter on my own. Okay, wait a minute, 1061 00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:28,320 Speaker 7: that don't sound like he got low self esteem. It 1062 00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:31,960 Speaker 7: sounds like you have low self esteem. I don't think 1063 00:57:32,000 --> 00:57:35,040 Speaker 7: you understand the narrative of your own letter. You have 1064 00:57:35,160 --> 00:57:38,680 Speaker 7: got to change your view of yourself. See, let me 1065 00:57:38,720 --> 00:57:42,760 Speaker 7: help everybody understand something. You can't change nobody but yourself. 1066 00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:46,840 Speaker 7: You cannot change people. If people don't want to be 1067 00:57:47,080 --> 00:57:50,440 Speaker 7: changed or are unwilling to. There's nothing you can do. 1068 00:57:51,080 --> 00:57:54,360 Speaker 7: The only person you can change is yourself. So you 1069 00:57:54,440 --> 00:57:56,640 Speaker 7: can say he has low self esteem, that's why he 1070 00:57:56,760 --> 00:57:57,320 Speaker 7: cheated on you. 1071 00:57:57,880 --> 00:57:58,360 Speaker 6: That ain't why. 1072 00:57:58,800 --> 00:58:01,040 Speaker 7: That ain't really the reason why me and cheap because 1073 00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:05,240 Speaker 7: they have low self esteem? That ain't It ain't good reason. 1074 00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:08,680 Speaker 7: I don't know where you got that one from. But 1075 00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:11,680 Speaker 7: what the hell is that he cheating because he got 1076 00:58:11,720 --> 00:58:12,160 Speaker 7: low self? 1077 00:58:12,200 --> 00:58:17,440 Speaker 6: Misteak? What so he thought? He thought so lower himself? 1078 00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:22,400 Speaker 7: He convinced three other women to think that he low 1079 00:58:22,560 --> 00:58:24,640 Speaker 7: enough to sleep with Help me? 1080 00:58:25,520 --> 00:58:28,480 Speaker 6: You see me over here and it misery? Like, come 1081 00:58:28,520 --> 00:58:31,120 Speaker 6: on over here and get in this misery within me. 1082 00:58:32,160 --> 00:58:35,000 Speaker 7: Lady, Come on now now, you didn't want to leave 1083 00:58:35,120 --> 00:58:37,320 Speaker 7: him because you didn't have enough money to take care 1084 00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:39,760 Speaker 7: of your daughter on your own. Seven years later, I'm 1085 00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:40,960 Speaker 7: in the same situation. 1086 00:58:41,520 --> 00:58:42,520 Speaker 6: Are very similar one. 1087 00:58:43,120 --> 00:58:45,440 Speaker 7: My partner got divorced the same time you did, and 1088 00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:48,200 Speaker 7: he met him at your daughter school. He got a 1089 00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:51,160 Speaker 7: daughter two years older than mine, so we agreed that 1090 00:58:51,240 --> 00:58:53,800 Speaker 7: we would keep things between us so the. 1091 00:58:53,920 --> 00:58:58,960 Speaker 6: Kids won't feel some kind of way. What wit what? 1092 00:59:00,720 --> 00:59:05,080 Speaker 7: Y'all both divorced? Y'all still seeing each other. But y'all 1093 00:59:05,120 --> 00:59:07,720 Speaker 7: won't keep it a secret so the kids don't feel 1094 00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:11,360 Speaker 7: some kind of way. I promise you this was his idea. Yeah, 1095 00:59:12,400 --> 00:59:15,760 Speaker 7: this was all his idea, so the kids won't feel 1096 00:59:15,840 --> 00:59:18,120 Speaker 7: some type way. So the fact that he keeps me 1097 00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:22,640 Speaker 7: hidden is beneficial to him. He has had three different 1098 00:59:22,680 --> 00:59:25,880 Speaker 7: women spend the night at his house lately. Wait a minute, lady, 1099 00:59:25,960 --> 00:59:29,520 Speaker 7: what and one of the ladies dropped his door off 1100 00:59:29,560 --> 00:59:31,360 Speaker 7: in school in his car? I couldn't ask a woman 1101 00:59:31,400 --> 00:59:33,480 Speaker 7: is a question? So I questioned him. He said that 1102 00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:36,520 Speaker 7: the woman was an old friend. So I questioned him 1103 00:59:36,560 --> 00:59:38,200 Speaker 7: and said that the woman was an old friend and 1104 00:59:38,320 --> 00:59:40,200 Speaker 7: she was in town only one night and he wanted 1105 00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:40,840 Speaker 7: to catch up with. 1106 00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:43,120 Speaker 6: Her, so it invited her to the house. How the 1107 00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:48,280 Speaker 6: hell you let a woman who you oh and drop 1108 00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:53,280 Speaker 6: your baby off in school? Who do that? Hey, come on, 1109 00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:55,080 Speaker 6: spend the night so we can catch up. Hey take 1110 00:59:55,120 --> 00:59:55,960 Speaker 6: the baby to school? 1111 00:59:56,080 --> 00:59:56,120 Speaker 4: What? 1112 00:59:58,160 --> 01:00:00,680 Speaker 6: Lady? What is wrong with you? You sit up here. 1113 01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:03,560 Speaker 7: Talking about He wanted to keep it between us, and 1114 01:00:03,680 --> 01:00:05,920 Speaker 7: then he didn't have three different women spend the night 1115 01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:06,800 Speaker 7: at the house lately. 1116 01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:10,920 Speaker 1: But no, no, no, And you know this, and you. 1117 01:00:11,120 --> 01:00:14,400 Speaker 6: Still dealing with him. See remember the letter when you 1118 01:00:14,480 --> 01:00:18,080 Speaker 6: said he has your first husband had low self esteem 1119 01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:21,240 Speaker 6: because he cheated on you three times, So you'd met 1120 01:00:21,320 --> 01:00:24,520 Speaker 6: another dude with low self esteem and he got three 1121 01:00:24,560 --> 01:00:25,400 Speaker 6: other women to him. 1122 01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:28,560 Speaker 11: Hey on, well, that's part two of your response coming 1123 01:00:28,640 --> 01:00:32,000 Speaker 11: up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letters, 1124 01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:33,480 Speaker 11: subject three times in a row? 1125 01:00:33,680 --> 01:00:34,400 Speaker 6: Should I Go? 1126 01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:38,200 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening 1127 01:00:39,760 --> 01:00:40,320 Speaker 1: Morning show. 1128 01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:43,920 Speaker 6: Hey, folks, I got a simple question for you. Do 1129 01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:46,800 Speaker 6: you like winning cash? How about a new car? 1130 01:00:47,120 --> 01:00:47,280 Speaker 5: Well? 1131 01:00:47,360 --> 01:00:49,440 Speaker 7: Guess what you need to download the app that I 1132 01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:53,320 Speaker 7: launched with PCH called word Mania. Word Mania is a 1133 01:00:53,440 --> 01:00:56,000 Speaker 7: fun word game that lets you earn entries into a 1134 01:00:56,080 --> 01:00:59,400 Speaker 7: great prize every Monday Night. Recent winners have won a 1135 01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:03,800 Speaker 7: Ford x podition and twenty five thousand dollars. For official 1136 01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:06,800 Speaker 7: rules and details, download word Mania on the Apple App 1137 01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:09,760 Speaker 7: Store or Google Plate. Standard messaging rates and Internet day 1138 01:01:09,760 --> 01:01:10,560 Speaker 7: the race may apply. 1139 01:01:11,560 --> 01:01:14,280 Speaker 11: All right, Come on, Steve, Let's recap today's strawberry letter. 1140 01:01:14,360 --> 01:01:16,240 Speaker 11: Three times in a row? Should I go? 1141 01:01:17,120 --> 01:01:18,800 Speaker 6: Lady? Should I go? 1142 01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:24,240 Speaker 7: The name of this letter should have been gone after 1143 01:01:24,360 --> 01:01:29,480 Speaker 7: the third time, or then the title of this letter 1144 01:01:29,520 --> 01:01:30,040 Speaker 7: should have been. 1145 01:01:31,400 --> 01:01:36,160 Speaker 6: Oh, y'all must think I'm booboo to fool or something, 1146 01:01:36,280 --> 01:01:39,800 Speaker 6: but not you. Was married six years to a miserable 1147 01:01:39,880 --> 01:01:42,040 Speaker 6: man that had low self fateen so he cheated on 1148 01:01:42,160 --> 01:01:42,960 Speaker 6: you three times. 1149 01:01:44,080 --> 01:01:48,560 Speaker 7: That ain't low self esteeve. He pretty full of himself. 1150 01:01:49,880 --> 01:01:53,240 Speaker 7: Seven years later, y'am in the same situation. Because now 1151 01:01:53,280 --> 01:01:55,200 Speaker 7: the man you're dating right now, he got a two 1152 01:01:55,280 --> 01:01:56,960 Speaker 7: year old to go to the same school as y'all. 1153 01:01:57,320 --> 01:01:59,680 Speaker 7: Y'all seeing each other, and y'all all agreed to keep 1154 01:01:59,720 --> 01:02:02,280 Speaker 7: things between us so the kids don't feel some kind 1155 01:02:02,280 --> 01:02:05,160 Speaker 7: of way. What So the fact that he keeps me 1156 01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:09,000 Speaker 7: hitting this beneficial to him. He that had three different 1157 01:02:09,040 --> 01:02:12,240 Speaker 7: women spend the night at his house. Lady, Oh, so 1158 01:02:12,360 --> 01:02:16,000 Speaker 7: you'd have met another man with low self esteve by you? 1159 01:02:16,760 --> 01:02:18,400 Speaker 7: I don't know how do you find these all these 1160 01:02:18,440 --> 01:02:20,240 Speaker 7: men with this low self esteeve and that's got all 1161 01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:24,320 Speaker 7: these damn women. What I'm gonna have to go get 1162 01:02:24,400 --> 01:02:27,360 Speaker 7: me some of this damn low self esteeve. I'm looking 1163 01:02:27,400 --> 01:02:31,360 Speaker 7: at this way. I'm really too full of myself. Anyway, 1164 01:02:32,000 --> 01:02:33,920 Speaker 7: and you met one of the ladies who dropped his 1165 01:02:34,040 --> 01:02:36,080 Speaker 7: daughter off at school in his car. You couldn't ask 1166 01:02:36,120 --> 01:02:38,360 Speaker 7: a woman no questions? You say, so, you questioned him. 1167 01:02:39,480 --> 01:02:41,640 Speaker 6: He told you the woman was an old friend. She 1168 01:02:41,800 --> 01:02:43,200 Speaker 6: was in town for one night and he wanted to 1169 01:02:43,240 --> 01:02:45,400 Speaker 6: catch up with her, so he invited her to stay 1170 01:02:45,440 --> 01:02:45,720 Speaker 6: with him. 1171 01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:48,920 Speaker 5: What what. 1172 01:02:50,760 --> 01:02:53,280 Speaker 6: I'd have told y'all about these friends? I keep telling 1173 01:02:53,360 --> 01:02:54,640 Speaker 6: y'all about these male friends. 1174 01:02:55,000 --> 01:02:57,880 Speaker 7: Y'all ain't here, and Uncle Steve, okay, here's another one 1175 01:02:58,600 --> 01:03:03,520 Speaker 7: came through and spent the night. Whenever I'm at the house, 1176 01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:06,400 Speaker 7: and I want to see if there's any signs that 1177 01:03:06,520 --> 01:03:07,200 Speaker 7: a woman has. 1178 01:03:07,160 --> 01:03:07,720 Speaker 6: Been over there. 1179 01:03:08,240 --> 01:03:11,160 Speaker 7: The two other times he had a woman stay over, 1180 01:03:11,560 --> 01:03:14,440 Speaker 7: he offered up the information. He said he didn't think 1181 01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:16,760 Speaker 7: it was a big deal because I should know that 1182 01:03:16,880 --> 01:03:19,720 Speaker 7: I'm his number one woman. I want to be the 1183 01:03:19,800 --> 01:03:24,240 Speaker 7: only woman I respect that he's not ready to get remarried. What, Katie, 1184 01:03:24,280 --> 01:03:27,080 Speaker 7: what is wrong with you? Do you know what's happening here? 1185 01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:31,320 Speaker 7: This man is feeding you garbage and you. 1186 01:03:31,520 --> 01:03:32,200 Speaker 6: Keep eating it? 1187 01:03:33,320 --> 01:03:35,640 Speaker 1: Ye Basically, how. 1188 01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:40,280 Speaker 6: Does taste this stuff that he's saying to you? How 1189 01:03:40,400 --> 01:03:43,600 Speaker 6: this taste? He gave you the information that the two 1190 01:03:43,680 --> 01:03:45,320 Speaker 6: other women's over there. You know what he said to you? 1191 01:03:45,480 --> 01:03:47,240 Speaker 6: You ought to be cool. You know you my number 1192 01:03:47,320 --> 01:03:50,919 Speaker 6: one and then guess what you said. 1193 01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:54,200 Speaker 7: You gave him a past by saying, I respect the 1194 01:03:54,320 --> 01:03:56,480 Speaker 7: fact that he's not ready to get remarried. 1195 01:03:58,000 --> 01:04:04,960 Speaker 6: Remarried. What happened to respecting the fact that he respects you? 1196 01:04:05,680 --> 01:04:09,040 Speaker 7: You ever thought of that? You respect the fact that 1197 01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:12,240 Speaker 7: he's not getting mad. Stop letting these men have all 1198 01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:14,720 Speaker 7: these passes and these excuses with you. 1199 01:04:15,360 --> 01:04:16,840 Speaker 1: What is wrong with you? 1200 01:04:18,200 --> 01:04:23,600 Speaker 7: Damn everybody, everybody talk to you something wrong with him, 1201 01:04:24,160 --> 01:04:25,560 Speaker 7: but you make it about you. 1202 01:04:26,560 --> 01:04:28,840 Speaker 6: Your first husband cheated on you three times. He was 1203 01:04:28,880 --> 01:04:29,640 Speaker 6: a miserable man. 1204 01:04:29,760 --> 01:04:32,240 Speaker 7: He had low self esteem to do you dating down 1205 01:04:32,280 --> 01:04:34,440 Speaker 7: at your daughter school, then told you to keep it 1206 01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:34,960 Speaker 7: a secret. 1207 01:04:35,440 --> 01:04:37,840 Speaker 6: He'd haven't been with three other women, and he told you. 1208 01:04:39,120 --> 01:04:41,800 Speaker 6: He told you one of them was just a friend, 1209 01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:44,560 Speaker 6: came spend the night, and the other two. He told 1210 01:04:44,600 --> 01:04:46,320 Speaker 6: you you ought to be cool with it because you 1211 01:04:46,400 --> 01:04:51,360 Speaker 6: know you my number boy. Betty, Come on system, get 1212 01:04:51,400 --> 01:04:56,040 Speaker 6: yourself together, think more of yourself, and stop being involved 1213 01:04:56,120 --> 01:04:59,959 Speaker 6: in relationships that are only beneficial to the other person. 1214 01:05:01,360 --> 01:05:05,160 Speaker 6: You are the most beneficial relationship these guys could be in. 1215 01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:08,440 Speaker 6: He can cheat with you because you made a financial 1216 01:05:08,520 --> 01:05:11,000 Speaker 6: decision to stay with your husband because you didn't have 1217 01:05:11,120 --> 01:05:14,200 Speaker 6: enough money to take care of your daughter. Girl, get 1218 01:05:14,240 --> 01:05:16,600 Speaker 6: over there and get on the struggle bus so you 1219 01:05:16,680 --> 01:05:19,640 Speaker 6: can have some dignity. Now, this other guy feeding you 1220 01:05:19,720 --> 01:05:22,880 Speaker 6: this garbage? You know you number one? What the hell 1221 01:05:23,040 --> 01:05:24,360 Speaker 6: is number one of his eight people? 1222 01:05:25,000 --> 01:05:25,160 Speaker 4: Right? 1223 01:05:25,400 --> 01:05:26,680 Speaker 1: Number one? Out of how many? 1224 01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:27,280 Speaker 4: What is that? 1225 01:05:28,480 --> 01:05:30,560 Speaker 7: I'm the first one half his baby? But he got 1226 01:05:30,640 --> 01:05:36,840 Speaker 7: seven more, seven different Mama? What what you think you special? 1227 01:05:36,880 --> 01:05:39,520 Speaker 7: Because you were the first, he'd have done it six 1228 01:05:39,640 --> 01:05:40,280 Speaker 7: more times? 1229 01:05:42,040 --> 01:05:44,400 Speaker 6: What is wrong with you? Since the Come on, now, 1230 01:05:44,520 --> 01:05:46,160 Speaker 6: let me read the rest of this letter. If I 1231 01:05:46,200 --> 01:05:48,240 Speaker 6: could say anything beneficial to this girl. 1232 01:05:51,480 --> 01:05:54,520 Speaker 7: He has entertained three other women, and he's comfortable telling 1233 01:05:54,600 --> 01:05:57,360 Speaker 7: me about it, so I'm sure that have been more 1234 01:05:57,440 --> 01:05:57,840 Speaker 7: than three. 1235 01:05:58,040 --> 01:06:01,600 Speaker 6: Of course it is. There's no way the women are 1236 01:06:01,680 --> 01:06:07,200 Speaker 6: staying in his place, and there's no sex. Okay. I 1237 01:06:07,440 --> 01:06:09,240 Speaker 6: wonder why he keeps me around? 1238 01:06:10,000 --> 01:06:10,040 Speaker 5: You? 1239 01:06:10,200 --> 01:06:11,520 Speaker 6: Wonder why he keep you around? 1240 01:06:15,240 --> 01:06:15,280 Speaker 4: You? 1241 01:06:15,520 --> 01:06:20,880 Speaker 7: You won't know why he keep you around because you easy, 1242 01:06:21,640 --> 01:06:25,520 Speaker 7: You're simple. He can tell you anything and you'll accept it. 1243 01:06:26,480 --> 01:06:32,240 Speaker 7: He keep you around because you have low self esteem. Sister, 1244 01:06:32,800 --> 01:06:36,920 Speaker 7: get some dignity about yourself. I'm gonna tell y'all something 1245 01:06:36,960 --> 01:06:40,160 Speaker 7: about men. We treat you the way you treat yourself. 1246 01:06:42,760 --> 01:06:46,680 Speaker 7: Are y'all listening to me? We treat you the way 1247 01:06:46,760 --> 01:06:49,920 Speaker 7: you treat yourself. If you treat yourself respectful, guess what 1248 01:06:50,200 --> 01:06:51,440 Speaker 7: We're gonna treat you with respect? 1249 01:06:52,600 --> 01:06:52,960 Speaker 1: All right? 1250 01:06:53,400 --> 01:06:55,320 Speaker 6: If you can let me do anything I want to 1251 01:06:55,360 --> 01:07:00,600 Speaker 6: do and still have you thank you? What's oh. 1252 01:07:01,880 --> 01:07:04,000 Speaker 1: Poster comment? Can't be any more clear than that? 1253 01:07:04,200 --> 01:07:07,400 Speaker 11: Steve Bosler comments on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey 1254 01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:07,920 Speaker 11: f album. 1255 01:07:07,920 --> 01:07:10,440 Speaker 7: Want to say something else too, Shirlly, I sacrificed a 1256 01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:12,640 Speaker 7: lot of jokes to try to help you this morning. 1257 01:07:15,000 --> 01:07:16,600 Speaker 6: I would not be doing this tomorrow. 1258 01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:21,080 Speaker 11: You back on Instagram and Facebook and check out the 1259 01:07:21,120 --> 01:07:25,600 Speaker 11: Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app Free Never 1260 01:07:25,680 --> 01:07:26,520 Speaker 11: Sounded So good? 1261 01:07:26,680 --> 01:07:27,640 Speaker 1: Downloaded today. 1262 01:07:27,760 --> 01:07:30,280 Speaker 11: Coming up at forty six minutes after the hour, Tommy 1263 01:07:30,360 --> 01:07:32,320 Speaker 11: is in for Junior with Today's Sports Talk. 1264 01:07:32,480 --> 01:07:36,600 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Hard Morning show. 1265 01:07:37,280 --> 01:07:40,240 Speaker 11: All right, the nephew Tommy is in for Junior with 1266 01:07:40,400 --> 01:07:41,480 Speaker 11: today's Sports Talk. 1267 01:07:41,520 --> 01:07:43,760 Speaker 1: Which you got Tommy in for you all right? 1268 01:07:44,200 --> 01:07:46,040 Speaker 6: Quarterback Aaron Rodgers. 1269 01:07:46,360 --> 01:07:48,880 Speaker 8: He has returned to the New York Deck practice yesterday 1270 01:07:49,000 --> 01:07:52,880 Speaker 8: Wednesday on a limited basis. So he's exactly eleven weeks 1271 01:07:52,920 --> 01:07:55,040 Speaker 8: after surgery to repair torn achilles. 1272 01:07:55,360 --> 01:07:57,000 Speaker 6: Now Aaron was cleared. 1273 01:07:58,000 --> 01:08:01,520 Speaker 8: I guess what you call functional football activity but not 1274 01:08:02,040 --> 01:08:04,960 Speaker 8: contact activity. But now it just got twenty one days 1275 01:08:05,000 --> 01:08:07,440 Speaker 8: to decide whether they're going to activate Aaron Rodgers for 1276 01:08:08,320 --> 01:08:10,000 Speaker 8: keep him on injury reserve what you think? 1277 01:08:10,400 --> 01:08:15,880 Speaker 6: Better activated? All that money you done paid him and 1278 01:08:15,960 --> 01:08:20,800 Speaker 6: get your hop your ass out here. I don't get 1279 01:08:22,439 --> 01:08:24,439 Speaker 6: old as he is. Better be too soon and too 1280 01:08:24,560 --> 01:08:27,759 Speaker 6: late he old, yep, So get him affair. 1281 01:08:28,040 --> 01:08:31,600 Speaker 7: What you say, well, you know you can't rush that 1282 01:08:31,920 --> 01:08:36,400 Speaker 7: achilles entry. But that's astonishing that he's even back right now. 1283 01:08:37,720 --> 01:08:41,160 Speaker 7: That's astonished, which is testimony testimony to how well they 1284 01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:42,120 Speaker 7: take care of itself. 1285 01:08:43,560 --> 01:08:44,200 Speaker 6: All right, let's go. 1286 01:08:44,360 --> 01:08:47,280 Speaker 8: Let's go to the NBA Golden State Warriors basketball star 1287 01:08:47,520 --> 01:08:51,080 Speaker 8: Draymond Green is back from a five game suspension, and 1288 01:08:51,240 --> 01:08:55,320 Speaker 8: he said he dos no regrets for his actions whatsoever. 1289 01:08:55,400 --> 01:08:58,840 Speaker 8: Now you gotta remember, Draymond put Minnesota Timerwills center Rudy 1290 01:08:58,880 --> 01:09:03,560 Speaker 8: Gobert in a headlocked back on November fourteenth, and he 1291 01:09:03,880 --> 01:09:07,160 Speaker 8: was taking up for his teammate Klay Thompson. So what 1292 01:09:07,320 --> 01:09:10,360 Speaker 8: you think, big dog, is Draymond doing too much? Man, 1293 01:09:10,400 --> 01:09:13,120 Speaker 8: because he can't control I mean dog. He said, I 1294 01:09:13,240 --> 01:09:15,960 Speaker 8: have no regrets. I was taking up for my team. 1295 01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:17,160 Speaker 6: Man. I ain't mad at him. 1296 01:09:17,320 --> 01:09:20,040 Speaker 1: The NBA was saying unsportsmanlike conduct. 1297 01:09:20,400 --> 01:09:22,160 Speaker 8: I don't think it's gonna stop. I think that's just 1298 01:09:22,240 --> 01:09:24,519 Speaker 8: who Draymond is. I mean he taking up for his boys. 1299 01:09:24,600 --> 01:09:28,160 Speaker 8: But that's just who Draymond is. And he's light skinning. 1300 01:09:28,200 --> 01:09:30,200 Speaker 8: Boys gonna have to start fighting. Quit leaving it up 1301 01:09:30,200 --> 01:09:31,360 Speaker 8: to Draymond. Now, they gonna have to. 1302 01:09:31,400 --> 01:09:31,800 Speaker 5: Talk for you. 1303 01:09:32,360 --> 01:09:36,320 Speaker 7: That's one thing. See, light skinned people don't like to scrap. 1304 01:09:38,080 --> 01:09:40,000 Speaker 7: That's why I that's her du dog. That's why all 1305 01:09:40,080 --> 01:09:44,519 Speaker 7: my friends are dogs. Did exactly why I write. Do 1306 01:09:44,760 --> 01:09:48,120 Speaker 7: not have no high yell ass friend. Uh huh, I'm 1307 01:09:48,280 --> 01:09:52,200 Speaker 7: not gonna do it all. My friend has a dog. Dude, Man, 1308 01:09:52,280 --> 01:09:56,000 Speaker 7: come on home and let's go. Draymond and here getting 1309 01:09:56,080 --> 01:10:02,519 Speaker 7: suspended five game called Clayton. Oh, I like, I love Draymon, man, 1310 01:10:02,560 --> 01:10:05,400 Speaker 7: I'm with you. Hold away and he head locked another 1311 01:10:05,520 --> 01:10:07,599 Speaker 7: light skin dude. See your light skin dude is all 1312 01:10:07,720 --> 01:10:12,000 Speaker 7: quit fighting. Let's make a new rule in the NBA. 1313 01:10:12,160 --> 01:10:16,040 Speaker 6: If you see a person dog as Draymond or doctor 1314 01:10:16,200 --> 01:10:18,960 Speaker 6: Jeff run I can't say that. 1315 01:10:21,439 --> 01:10:21,879 Speaker 5: Crazy. 1316 01:10:22,360 --> 01:10:23,639 Speaker 6: You gonna get your head will. 1317 01:10:24,400 --> 01:10:28,599 Speaker 7: Don't be over there trying to fight Kevin Garnet, don't 1318 01:10:28,600 --> 01:10:30,679 Speaker 7: be it, don't don't grab Darryl Dawkins. 1319 01:10:30,680 --> 01:10:33,920 Speaker 1: It's just from people, you all right. Coming up at 1320 01:10:33,960 --> 01:10:36,439 Speaker 1: the top of the hour, a guy, thank you, ne 1321 01:10:36,640 --> 01:10:41,160 Speaker 1: you and Steve. I guess a guy on social media. 1322 01:10:41,240 --> 01:10:44,880 Speaker 11: Steve needs some advice on combating thieves stealing packages from 1323 01:10:44,960 --> 01:10:45,479 Speaker 11: his porch. 1324 01:10:45,640 --> 01:10:50,639 Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this you're listening morning show. 1325 01:10:52,760 --> 01:10:57,040 Speaker 11: Fountain Blue LUTs Vegas luxury Resort and Casino is bringing 1326 01:10:57,160 --> 01:11:01,719 Speaker 11: global superstar post Malone to headline ats inaugural New Year's 1327 01:11:01,760 --> 01:11:05,200 Speaker 11: Eve weekend December thirtieth and thirty first at the Blue 1328 01:11:05,439 --> 01:11:08,439 Speaker 11: Live Theater. Register now for your chance to win a 1329 01:11:08,479 --> 01:11:11,280 Speaker 11: trip for two to see post Malone live on New 1330 01:11:11,360 --> 01:11:15,400 Speaker 11: Year's Eve. It includes round trip coach airfare, two night, hotels, 1331 01:11:15,479 --> 01:11:18,920 Speaker 11: day and dinner for two. Enter now and get rules 1332 01:11:18,960 --> 01:11:23,120 Speaker 11: at STEVEHARVEYFM dot com. That's Steve Harvey FM dot com 1333 01:11:23,320 --> 01:11:26,400 Speaker 11: for all the info. It is sponsored by Fountain Blue, 1334 01:11:26,800 --> 01:11:27,639 Speaker 11: Las Vegas. 1335 01:11:28,560 --> 01:11:33,639 Speaker 14: Yeah you just want to say that act Yes, Yeah, 1336 01:11:34,120 --> 01:11:36,360 Speaker 14: Vegas Baby I can't wait. 1337 01:11:36,920 --> 01:11:39,559 Speaker 1: All right, it is time now to switch gears. 1338 01:11:40,000 --> 01:11:40,280 Speaker 3: Steve. 1339 01:11:40,360 --> 01:11:43,920 Speaker 11: This is from Bill on Steve HARVEYFM. Bill says, over 1340 01:11:43,960 --> 01:11:47,080 Speaker 11: the last couple of years, the homes in my neighborhood 1341 01:11:47,160 --> 01:11:51,040 Speaker 11: have been hit hard by thieves stealing holiday packages. I've 1342 01:11:51,120 --> 01:11:54,799 Speaker 11: installed a doorbell camera, but it's still a problem. Aside 1343 01:11:54,840 --> 01:11:58,880 Speaker 11: from putting up fake packages, pain inducing mousetraps, what are 1344 01:11:58,960 --> 01:12:01,439 Speaker 11: some other steps can take to make sure the gifts 1345 01:12:01,520 --> 01:12:04,840 Speaker 11: I order aren't stolen by porch thieves again this year? 1346 01:12:05,320 --> 01:12:09,040 Speaker 11: All thoughts are wanted and appreciated from the guy who 1347 01:12:09,160 --> 01:12:10,839 Speaker 11: loves to get packages delivered. 1348 01:12:11,280 --> 01:12:11,559 Speaker 1: Steve. 1349 01:12:12,320 --> 01:12:19,320 Speaker 6: Well, bro, I'm just calling. I don't know why you 1350 01:12:19,479 --> 01:12:20,240 Speaker 6: called me, but. 1351 01:12:22,600 --> 01:12:22,840 Speaker 4: You know. 1352 01:12:26,040 --> 01:12:26,439 Speaker 6: Nothing. 1353 01:12:28,680 --> 01:12:34,920 Speaker 7: Nothing can solve this problem better then headlines on eleven 1354 01:12:34,920 --> 01:12:46,440 Speaker 7: o'clock leave nothing, ladies and general details at eleven all packages. 1355 01:12:47,120 --> 01:12:53,360 Speaker 6: Thelves have stopped on the old main Street details at eleven. 1356 01:12:55,680 --> 01:13:01,400 Speaker 6: You could do something like this warning warning. 1357 01:13:02,840 --> 01:13:04,639 Speaker 7: The next pack. I said, this is what I think 1358 01:13:04,720 --> 01:13:07,160 Speaker 7: y'all should do. Okay, okay, let's let's let's scrap all that. 1359 01:13:07,400 --> 01:13:10,200 Speaker 7: Here's the better way. All of your neighbors, y'all should 1360 01:13:10,200 --> 01:13:13,840 Speaker 7: get together at the Homeown Association meetings and all y'all 1361 01:13:13,960 --> 01:13:17,360 Speaker 7: printed signs up it had the same sign in your yard. 1362 01:13:18,680 --> 01:13:21,400 Speaker 7: Next person come up here and steal a package, that's 1363 01:13:21,520 --> 01:13:30,479 Speaker 7: your ass, put that in the yard. Yeah, just put 1364 01:13:30,520 --> 01:13:33,880 Speaker 7: that in the yard. And if it's in every house, y'all, 1365 01:13:34,640 --> 01:13:37,000 Speaker 7: a person coming down the street and see that sign 1366 01:13:37,200 --> 01:13:42,360 Speaker 7: in every yard, what I like it? I really do 1367 01:13:42,600 --> 01:13:46,400 Speaker 7: like that can cut it out. That's what I think 1368 01:13:46,439 --> 01:13:48,840 Speaker 7: would stop it the most. But y'all all, y'all had 1369 01:13:48,880 --> 01:13:49,240 Speaker 7: to put the. 1370 01:13:49,280 --> 01:13:50,200 Speaker 6: Same sign out. 1371 01:13:53,760 --> 01:13:54,520 Speaker 1: They discussed. 1372 01:13:55,400 --> 01:13:57,720 Speaker 14: Yeah, but what if somebody doesn't agree to do it 1373 01:13:58,360 --> 01:14:01,920 Speaker 14: on that on that street, you still still go with it. 1374 01:14:02,040 --> 01:14:04,479 Speaker 7: See, yeah, it's always gonna be somebody. But listen to me, 1375 01:14:05,400 --> 01:14:09,240 Speaker 7: all of y'all make extra signs m M. And then 1376 01:14:09,400 --> 01:14:11,320 Speaker 7: and at night go down there and hamm it in 1377 01:14:11,439 --> 01:14:11,880 Speaker 7: their yard. 1378 01:14:14,600 --> 01:14:17,719 Speaker 6: But I think that'll work though. I like that had 1379 01:14:18,200 --> 01:14:20,080 Speaker 6: that in their yard in a damn way, they probably 1380 01:14:20,080 --> 01:14:20,960 Speaker 6: ain't even gonna see it. 1381 01:14:21,520 --> 01:14:23,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think the signs will work though with the 1382 01:14:24,040 --> 01:14:24,679 Speaker 1: with the message. 1383 01:14:24,720 --> 01:14:27,759 Speaker 7: I think that's if all of y'all, the next person 1384 01:14:29,120 --> 01:14:32,040 Speaker 7: we come up on these porches and take a package, 1385 01:14:32,800 --> 01:14:36,920 Speaker 7: that's your ass, and I'm telling you that street right there, Hey, man, 1386 01:14:37,000 --> 01:14:41,240 Speaker 7: you see them signs ain't got every watching, they said, 1387 01:14:41,360 --> 01:14:41,960 Speaker 7: every yard. 1388 01:14:42,120 --> 01:14:42,840 Speaker 6: Dumay. 1389 01:14:44,320 --> 01:14:46,639 Speaker 11: We hope that helps you, Bill, because Bill just puts 1390 01:14:46,680 --> 01:14:52,120 Speaker 11: out fake packages. He puts out puts out mousetraps, and 1391 01:14:52,280 --> 01:14:54,360 Speaker 11: so he wanted to know another step you. 1392 01:14:54,640 --> 01:14:58,360 Speaker 1: So Bill, there you go. I like one more time, Steve, 1393 01:14:58,520 --> 01:14:59,120 Speaker 1: one more time. 1394 01:15:00,360 --> 01:15:05,400 Speaker 7: All y'all shit had the same sign block punt uh huh, 1395 01:15:05,680 --> 01:15:12,120 Speaker 7: white white sign, black letters read underline. The next person 1396 01:15:12,800 --> 01:15:16,479 Speaker 7: come up on this porch and take a package, dash 1397 01:15:16,600 --> 01:15:17,120 Speaker 7: your ass. 1398 01:15:18,520 --> 01:15:21,080 Speaker 6: If you see farny at them signs, they ain't. 1399 01:15:20,920 --> 01:15:22,120 Speaker 4: Know where this. 1400 01:15:25,240 --> 01:15:26,960 Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Steve. 1401 01:15:27,040 --> 01:15:29,720 Speaker 11: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming 1402 01:15:29,800 --> 01:15:31,439 Speaker 11: up at twenty minutes after the hour. 1403 01:15:31,960 --> 01:15:39,439 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, 1404 01:15:39,520 --> 01:15:41,439 Speaker 1: congratulations to Erica Baddu. 1405 01:15:41,800 --> 01:15:44,960 Speaker 11: Erica is on the cover of GQ Germany Men of 1406 01:15:45,040 --> 01:15:48,720 Speaker 11: the Year issue as a magazine's music Icon of the Year. 1407 01:15:49,200 --> 01:15:51,439 Speaker 1: In the article yeah It's not Good. 1408 01:15:51,880 --> 01:15:54,559 Speaker 11: In the article, Erica talks about the influence she's had 1409 01:15:54,640 --> 01:15:57,640 Speaker 11: on music. She said, quote, I was the first in 1410 01:15:57,760 --> 01:16:01,040 Speaker 11: my genre, and there was no genre for neo soul 1411 01:16:01,320 --> 01:16:01,959 Speaker 11: was created. 1412 01:16:02,200 --> 01:16:02,719 Speaker 1: End quote. 1413 01:16:03,040 --> 01:16:06,720 Speaker 11: We love Erica and Steve, you love her. She was 1414 01:16:06,800 --> 01:16:08,840 Speaker 11: one of your interns. She worked for you back in 1415 01:16:08,920 --> 01:16:09,759 Speaker 11: the day in Dallas. 1416 01:16:12,840 --> 01:16:17,280 Speaker 6: Yeah, well I first discovered her talent. I didn't discover her. 1417 01:16:17,360 --> 01:16:20,880 Speaker 6: I'm just saying discovered her talent. So I used to play, 1418 01:16:21,040 --> 01:16:23,400 Speaker 6: you know only I only know three songs on. 1419 01:16:23,520 --> 01:16:26,599 Speaker 7: Keyboard, and I had Offender Rhodes and I would sit 1420 01:16:26,760 --> 01:16:29,599 Speaker 7: on the keyboard and play for Erica and we wrote 1421 01:16:29,600 --> 01:16:32,400 Speaker 7: the album. We wrote an album called Section eight and 1422 01:16:32,520 --> 01:16:34,360 Speaker 7: all our songs was about being pope. 1423 01:16:35,720 --> 01:16:40,000 Speaker 6: And Erica would stay out there insane and I said, man, 1424 01:16:40,080 --> 01:16:43,280 Speaker 6: this little girl right here. It's kind of crazy, but. 1425 01:16:43,520 --> 01:16:47,600 Speaker 7: Man, this little girls and she thanked me and all that, 1426 01:16:47,680 --> 01:16:49,879 Speaker 7: and she's work on my comedy because I always supported 1427 01:16:50,000 --> 01:16:51,880 Speaker 7: I didn't know it was going to turn into this. 1428 01:16:52,680 --> 01:16:56,280 Speaker 6: Wow, and that girl became a major star, man, a. 1429 01:16:56,439 --> 01:17:03,599 Speaker 1: Major Yeah, come oh Street that was a nickname. 1430 01:17:03,840 --> 01:17:05,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, that was a nickname. 1431 01:17:05,200 --> 01:17:08,920 Speaker 8: Street Baby videos everybody do walking down the street naked 1432 01:17:09,000 --> 01:17:13,559 Speaker 8: and down be fair windows and see after that is thriller. 1433 01:17:13,640 --> 01:17:14,960 Speaker 6: But but yeah, well yeah. 1434 01:17:16,280 --> 01:17:19,800 Speaker 11: Coming up round three minutes after, we'll play another round. 1435 01:17:19,840 --> 01:17:24,280 Speaker 11: And would you rather right after this you're listening hard 1436 01:17:24,439 --> 01:17:27,439 Speaker 11: Morning show? It is time now for another round. I 1437 01:17:27,560 --> 01:17:30,840 Speaker 11: would you rather, would you rather never win a championship 1438 01:17:30,920 --> 01:17:33,800 Speaker 11: but get twenty million dollars a year? Or win four 1439 01:17:34,080 --> 01:17:37,280 Speaker 11: NBA championships and only get two million dollars a year? 1440 01:17:37,680 --> 01:17:38,280 Speaker 6: Man to hell? 1441 01:17:38,360 --> 01:17:38,479 Speaker 4: Does? 1442 01:17:39,000 --> 01:17:39,200 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1443 01:17:41,240 --> 01:17:43,920 Speaker 8: Win every every UFL if we're gonna badle it, we 1444 01:17:43,960 --> 01:17:45,479 Speaker 8: ain't gonna get that, But man, we're. 1445 01:17:45,320 --> 01:17:48,559 Speaker 6: Gonna have a good time. Twenty million. 1446 01:17:49,160 --> 01:17:53,000 Speaker 7: If I don't win two million, y'all win twenty million 1447 01:17:53,240 --> 01:17:54,240 Speaker 7: and make that trophy. 1448 01:17:54,760 --> 01:18:01,280 Speaker 6: Uh, I haven't no, no, no no, That second place 1449 01:18:01,320 --> 01:18:05,080 Speaker 6: trophy be bigger than first place trup. Ain't gonna get 1450 01:18:05,160 --> 01:18:10,920 Speaker 6: me a ring, mate, learn it. My rag gonna look 1451 01:18:11,040 --> 01:18:11,679 Speaker 6: like color. 1452 01:18:12,800 --> 01:18:14,920 Speaker 7: Second place trophy just gonna be bigger than the first 1453 01:18:14,960 --> 01:18:17,720 Speaker 7: place trupe. My second place ring gonna look like I 1454 01:18:17,880 --> 01:18:18,599 Speaker 7: won a super Bowl? 1455 01:18:19,000 --> 01:18:19,320 Speaker 6: All right? 1456 01:18:19,360 --> 01:18:23,200 Speaker 1: Would you rather it's no second place in championship? 1457 01:18:23,680 --> 01:18:23,880 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1458 01:18:24,160 --> 01:18:29,160 Speaker 8: The winners eighth grade, eighth eighth place pros what you're talking? 1459 01:18:29,280 --> 01:18:29,479 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1460 01:18:29,840 --> 01:18:33,720 Speaker 7: You get a participation trophy. Now now I don't give 1461 01:18:33,720 --> 01:18:35,000 Speaker 7: it down. I got twenty million. 1462 01:18:35,120 --> 01:18:35,360 Speaker 16: What what? 1463 01:18:35,760 --> 01:18:37,360 Speaker 4: What ye? 1464 01:18:38,479 --> 01:18:41,680 Speaker 11: Would you rather decorate the Christmas tree? Or would you 1465 01:18:41,800 --> 01:18:45,160 Speaker 11: rather wrap presents to put under the Christmas tree? 1466 01:18:46,200 --> 01:18:46,639 Speaker 1: Decorate? 1467 01:18:47,400 --> 01:18:47,639 Speaker 6: Rap? 1468 01:18:49,400 --> 01:18:49,599 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1469 01:18:49,960 --> 01:18:53,760 Speaker 7: That gift wrapping. I got give meet them ornaments. Man, 1470 01:18:53,840 --> 01:18:55,680 Speaker 7: let me let me throw this popcorns on this tree 1471 01:18:55,800 --> 01:18:56,160 Speaker 7: or something. 1472 01:18:56,439 --> 01:18:56,719 Speaker 4: Wrap. 1473 01:18:57,920 --> 01:19:02,000 Speaker 6: Yeah that damn, by said that ain't fitty wrap. It's 1474 01:19:02,080 --> 01:19:02,400 Speaker 6: got you. 1475 01:19:03,200 --> 01:19:07,160 Speaker 1: No, that's some work wrapping, all right. So you rather 1476 01:19:07,280 --> 01:19:08,120 Speaker 1: decorate the tree? 1477 01:19:08,280 --> 01:19:08,599 Speaker 6: Okay? 1478 01:19:09,040 --> 01:19:18,200 Speaker 11: Would you rather hot eggnog or pumpkin pie? What hog? 1479 01:19:20,040 --> 01:19:22,160 Speaker 6: Hey man, I don't want to tell you a true story. 1480 01:19:22,520 --> 01:19:23,040 Speaker 1: I don't want to. 1481 01:19:24,080 --> 01:19:28,240 Speaker 6: I'm overseas right. This chef comes in for Thanksgiving and 1482 01:19:28,360 --> 01:19:33,600 Speaker 6: he says, mister and missus hobby, I've made you a wonderful, 1483 01:19:33,720 --> 01:19:36,240 Speaker 6: wonderful punkin pie for Thanksgiving. 1484 01:19:36,840 --> 01:19:40,800 Speaker 7: My family looked at him. We got so quiet. He 1485 01:19:40,880 --> 01:19:43,519 Speaker 7: got through talking. I said, hey man, black people don't 1486 01:19:43,520 --> 01:19:49,240 Speaker 7: eat punkin pie. My wife kicked me under that table. Steve, Steve, 1487 01:19:49,320 --> 01:19:51,439 Speaker 7: don't this man that went out of his way? No, no, no, 1488 01:19:51,880 --> 01:19:52,920 Speaker 7: he went out of his way. 1489 01:19:52,960 --> 01:19:53,240 Speaker 4: He was. 1490 01:19:53,360 --> 01:19:55,680 Speaker 7: It's the wrong way. You went the wrong damn. But 1491 01:19:55,960 --> 01:19:57,720 Speaker 7: come in here, tell no black people nothing like that. 1492 01:19:57,920 --> 01:19:59,960 Speaker 7: I say, hey man, black people don't eat punkin pie. 1493 01:20:00,720 --> 01:20:05,160 Speaker 7: Excuse me, I heard what I said. Lack of people 1494 01:20:05,560 --> 01:20:08,600 Speaker 7: don't eat punkin pie. Ain't get damn by your the 1495 01:20:08,760 --> 01:20:12,599 Speaker 7: family recipe from Englands. Tet it on back over there? 1496 01:20:12,640 --> 01:20:15,439 Speaker 7: Anybody fit to eat that? Everybody drinking on hot ass 1497 01:20:15,479 --> 01:20:20,800 Speaker 7: egg nog? You're not doing that, vomiting drinkings from hot 1498 01:20:20,880 --> 01:20:21,640 Speaker 7: ass egg now? 1499 01:20:21,760 --> 01:20:23,920 Speaker 6: Egg now? I supposed to be cold? And where's that 1500 01:20:23,960 --> 01:20:24,920 Speaker 6: sweet potato pie? 1501 01:20:25,479 --> 01:20:27,360 Speaker 7: I may get this punk of power off this damn 1502 01:20:27,400 --> 01:20:29,840 Speaker 7: table before we turned it over, because that's what I'm 1503 01:20:30,680 --> 01:20:31,080 Speaker 7: all right. 1504 01:20:31,280 --> 01:20:32,760 Speaker 1: That's today's I wanted to hear. 1505 01:20:32,800 --> 01:20:36,280 Speaker 6: It's from an old English recipe. Look at us, all 1506 01:20:36,360 --> 01:20:38,280 Speaker 6: those black people here, any of us? Look English? 1507 01:20:39,320 --> 01:20:41,679 Speaker 11: Close out the show coming up in forty nine minutes 1508 01:20:41,720 --> 01:20:44,840 Speaker 11: after the hour, right after this, you're listening. 1509 01:20:46,160 --> 01:20:46,719 Speaker 1: Morning show. 1510 01:20:47,320 --> 01:20:49,560 Speaker 11: All right, guys, here we are our last break of 1511 01:20:49,640 --> 01:20:51,280 Speaker 11: the day on this Thursday. 1512 01:20:51,439 --> 01:20:52,360 Speaker 1: It's been a good day. 1513 01:20:53,160 --> 01:20:56,640 Speaker 11: Yeah, last day of the month, last day of the 1514 01:20:56,680 --> 01:20:57,960 Speaker 11: eleventh month of the year. 1515 01:20:59,479 --> 01:21:00,439 Speaker 1: One more month to go? 1516 01:21:01,120 --> 01:21:01,920 Speaker 6: And then what what? 1517 01:21:02,120 --> 01:21:02,160 Speaker 5: What? 1518 01:21:02,640 --> 01:21:03,280 Speaker 6: What's y'all say? 1519 01:21:05,200 --> 01:21:05,320 Speaker 4: Then? 1520 01:21:05,360 --> 01:21:05,920 Speaker 5: We still. 1521 01:21:07,840 --> 01:21:08,000 Speaker 4: Here? 1522 01:21:08,040 --> 01:21:10,439 Speaker 6: Y'all scared me for the hell? Y'all mean? 1523 01:21:10,560 --> 01:21:11,360 Speaker 4: This is it? Yeah? 1524 01:21:11,479 --> 01:21:15,000 Speaker 7: This is it, the last day of the month to 1525 01:21:15,160 --> 01:21:18,719 Speaker 7: help and have something. Man, it didn't sounds that didn't 1526 01:21:18,760 --> 01:21:20,000 Speaker 7: sound hopeful of nothing. 1527 01:21:20,680 --> 01:21:24,479 Speaker 6: This is November thirtieth. It's still the last day of 1528 01:21:24,560 --> 01:21:27,160 Speaker 6: the month. Yeah, we almost at the end of the year. 1529 01:21:27,280 --> 01:21:30,439 Speaker 1: This is it to help and have something? 1530 01:21:30,680 --> 01:21:33,479 Speaker 6: Man, it didn't sounds that didn't sound hopeful of nothing. 1531 01:21:34,160 --> 01:21:38,000 Speaker 6: This is November thirtieth, It's still the last day of 1532 01:21:38,040 --> 01:21:40,639 Speaker 6: the month. Yeah, we almost at the end of the year. 1533 01:21:40,760 --> 01:21:41,040 Speaker 4: This is it. 1534 01:21:42,439 --> 01:21:46,080 Speaker 6: Damn man. I'm sitting there going, man, did I did 1535 01:21:46,160 --> 01:21:47,080 Speaker 6: I miss the memo? 1536 01:21:47,800 --> 01:21:49,799 Speaker 1: Always hopeful? Always? 1537 01:21:50,640 --> 01:21:51,360 Speaker 6: I want to do a. 1538 01:21:51,439 --> 01:21:57,040 Speaker 7: Brief recap of today and what Timmy asked me a 1539 01:21:57,160 --> 01:21:59,679 Speaker 7: question at the beginning of the day. He said, Hey, man, 1540 01:22:00,080 --> 01:22:03,479 Speaker 7: what's the best thing happened to you this year? And 1541 01:22:03,640 --> 01:22:06,600 Speaker 7: the worst thing? And you know, it was at the 1542 01:22:06,640 --> 01:22:08,599 Speaker 7: beginning of the show, and I just kind of want 1543 01:22:08,720 --> 01:22:11,240 Speaker 7: recap that for a moment because, you know what, and 1544 01:22:11,400 --> 01:22:14,280 Speaker 7: I answered it because I discovered the best thing that 1545 01:22:14,479 --> 01:22:20,639 Speaker 7: happened to me this year was at sixty six. I'm 1546 01:22:20,760 --> 01:22:25,960 Speaker 7: really starting to understand for the first time how to 1547 01:22:26,160 --> 01:22:31,920 Speaker 7: trust in God's timing, because that has been a real 1548 01:22:32,160 --> 01:22:35,320 Speaker 7: problem for me my entire life. I'm just being real 1549 01:22:35,400 --> 01:22:40,320 Speaker 7: with you because I just I love God, but I 1550 01:22:40,680 --> 01:22:46,439 Speaker 7: just want things to happen when I wanted to happen. 1551 01:22:47,439 --> 01:22:51,679 Speaker 7: You know, I'm praying, and I'm going, man, I keep praying. 1552 01:22:53,240 --> 01:22:57,919 Speaker 7: What's the hold up? You said, ask and you shall receive. 1553 01:22:59,120 --> 01:23:02,519 Speaker 7: But I know this as I read that verse, asking 1554 01:23:02,640 --> 01:23:08,559 Speaker 7: you shall receive it, don't ever say next week, day. 1555 01:23:08,479 --> 01:23:13,000 Speaker 6: After the moth, in a little while, as soon as 1556 01:23:13,040 --> 01:23:15,240 Speaker 6: you get up, it's coming it. 1557 01:23:15,320 --> 01:23:20,360 Speaker 7: Don't ever say that. It just say ask and you 1558 01:23:20,479 --> 01:23:26,080 Speaker 7: shall receive. And I've had trouble with that, trusting in 1559 01:23:26,240 --> 01:23:26,960 Speaker 7: his timing. 1560 01:23:27,240 --> 01:23:32,280 Speaker 6: I just really have. And this is the first year 1561 01:23:33,000 --> 01:23:37,320 Speaker 6: that I've really really focused on it and understood it. 1562 01:23:38,000 --> 01:23:41,960 Speaker 7: I have two things that I've been working on. What 1563 01:23:42,400 --> 01:23:48,479 Speaker 7: what year did COVID start? Anybody know the year it started? Yeah, 1564 01:23:51,400 --> 01:23:55,679 Speaker 7: twenty at the very beginning of twenty twenty. Yeah, Trunk 1565 01:23:55,840 --> 01:24:03,360 Speaker 7: was president in March, Yeah Trump Trump was president. Yeah, 1566 01:24:04,240 --> 01:24:09,720 Speaker 7: that right there was when I started this one deal, 1567 01:24:10,560 --> 01:24:15,880 Speaker 7: and then I started another deal that I know in 1568 01:24:16,000 --> 01:24:19,240 Speaker 7: twenty twenty one. Do you know that neither one of 1569 01:24:19,280 --> 01:24:24,040 Speaker 7: those deals are done, but they're still in discussion and 1570 01:24:24,160 --> 01:24:30,639 Speaker 7: they're still so close now. The one that's I started 1571 01:24:30,920 --> 01:24:35,400 Speaker 7: at the beginning of COVID. I have been discussing that 1572 01:24:35,520 --> 01:24:40,880 Speaker 7: one a year prior to that. Steal no deal, this 1573 01:24:41,160 --> 01:24:45,080 Speaker 7: deal that's so close again. I started that over two 1574 01:24:45,200 --> 01:24:48,960 Speaker 7: years ago, Steal no Deal, and I have had to 1575 01:24:49,040 --> 01:24:52,840 Speaker 7: come to terms with that that is coming, but it's 1576 01:24:52,880 --> 01:24:56,320 Speaker 7: coming in God's timing. And I've just ca you know what, 1577 01:24:56,400 --> 01:24:59,080 Speaker 7: I've just really this year just had to realize my 1578 01:24:59,280 --> 01:25:03,479 Speaker 7: timing in God. God's timing is way off. It's way off, 1579 01:25:04,400 --> 01:25:06,400 Speaker 7: and I just really just had to come to terms 1580 01:25:06,439 --> 01:25:06,560 Speaker 7: with that. 1581 01:25:06,720 --> 01:25:10,320 Speaker 6: Man, you trip in, Steve, because you keep you know, 1582 01:25:10,439 --> 01:25:13,559 Speaker 6: A lady told me one time, Gloria Tucker, She's passed 1583 01:25:13,720 --> 01:25:15,559 Speaker 6: Gloria Tuck Frank Tuck's system. 1584 01:25:16,320 --> 01:25:23,639 Speaker 7: She said, you can't tell God how to bless you. See, 1585 01:25:23,680 --> 01:25:26,639 Speaker 7: you can't ask God for something and then tell him 1586 01:25:26,960 --> 01:25:30,680 Speaker 7: how to go about doing it. He said, you have 1587 01:25:30,920 --> 01:25:34,599 Speaker 7: no idea because his ways are so much different than yours. 1588 01:25:35,160 --> 01:25:37,759 Speaker 7: It's his ways is as different, it's as high above 1589 01:25:37,840 --> 01:25:38,479 Speaker 7: yours as. 1590 01:25:38,360 --> 01:25:41,000 Speaker 6: The heaven is of the earth. And I've just had 1591 01:25:41,040 --> 01:25:41,840 Speaker 6: to come to term with that. 1592 01:25:42,040 --> 01:25:44,559 Speaker 7: And that's probably the best lesson I've learned this year, 1593 01:25:44,920 --> 01:25:48,160 Speaker 7: to just keep trusting in God's timing and it will 1594 01:25:48,240 --> 01:25:49,160 Speaker 7: always work out. 1595 01:25:49,200 --> 01:25:49,760 Speaker 6: Because what I. 1596 01:25:49,880 --> 01:25:55,040 Speaker 7: Realized was He's never had me be without after certain 1597 01:25:55,080 --> 01:25:57,479 Speaker 7: now I've been without before now, but of late. 1598 01:25:58,200 --> 01:26:00,840 Speaker 6: I have never had to go without. It's been some 1599 01:26:00,960 --> 01:26:04,760 Speaker 6: close calls, it's been wholed right up to the wire, 1600 01:26:05,680 --> 01:26:07,160 Speaker 6: but he always comes through. 1601 01:26:08,520 --> 01:26:12,680 Speaker 7: He ain't ever late. God is never late, man, So 1602 01:26:12,840 --> 01:26:15,320 Speaker 7: that's the most valuable thing. And then Tommy said, what's 1603 01:26:15,360 --> 01:26:17,280 Speaker 7: the worst thing? Go ahead, tom you gonna say something. 1604 01:26:17,800 --> 01:26:19,760 Speaker 7: I was gonna say something, my daddy. Just tell me say. 1605 01:26:19,840 --> 01:26:26,439 Speaker 6: When you understand that God is never late, you wait different. Yeah. 1606 01:26:27,160 --> 01:26:29,680 Speaker 7: Now you understand that he's never late, you just you 1607 01:26:29,800 --> 01:26:33,920 Speaker 7: wait differently, You wait different. And that's really, Tommy, what 1608 01:26:34,080 --> 01:26:37,240 Speaker 7: I'm coming to. I just learned how to wait different. 1609 01:26:37,320 --> 01:26:40,519 Speaker 7: I keep whistling Dixie because I know he coming, because he. 1610 01:26:40,680 --> 01:26:44,080 Speaker 6: Never been late. That's the amazing thing. When you know. 1611 01:26:45,760 --> 01:26:48,640 Speaker 7: He coming, you wait different, boy, that's the true thing. 1612 01:26:48,680 --> 01:26:50,760 Speaker 7: I'm gonna keep that one. And then he asked me, 1613 01:26:50,840 --> 01:26:55,360 Speaker 7: what's the worst thing happened to me? I gave my 1614 01:26:55,600 --> 01:27:02,800 Speaker 7: cell number the wrong person. Is the worst damn thing 1615 01:27:03,080 --> 01:27:04,240 Speaker 7: I did this year? 1616 01:27:04,560 --> 01:27:06,719 Speaker 6: What are they do? You are they blocked? 1617 01:27:06,960 --> 01:27:07,160 Speaker 4: Dog? 1618 01:27:07,720 --> 01:27:10,120 Speaker 7: It was blocked, man, because then the key one of 1619 01:27:10,160 --> 01:27:14,200 Speaker 7: them tech dudes here. No, I just hey, man, what 1620 01:27:14,360 --> 01:27:14,800 Speaker 7: you doing? 1621 01:27:15,200 --> 01:27:16,120 Speaker 4: The hell? You mean? 1622 01:27:16,280 --> 01:27:16,960 Speaker 6: What I'm doing? 1623 01:27:18,920 --> 01:27:19,120 Speaker 4: Doug? 1624 01:27:19,200 --> 01:27:21,880 Speaker 6: You ain't one of my kids. Wyd what the hell 1625 01:27:22,000 --> 01:27:24,240 Speaker 6: you mean, Doug? You're sixty here, you mean? 1626 01:27:24,400 --> 01:27:24,439 Speaker 4: What? 1627 01:27:24,840 --> 01:27:27,120 Speaker 6: Wyd the worst thing I've ever done? 1628 01:27:27,200 --> 01:27:27,479 Speaker 4: This year? 1629 01:27:27,560 --> 01:27:30,080 Speaker 6: Y'all have a great day, man, and think about. 1630 01:27:29,840 --> 01:27:31,840 Speaker 7: The best thing that's happened to you, and then think 1631 01:27:31,880 --> 01:27:33,680 Speaker 7: of one worst thing that's happened to you so you 1632 01:27:33,760 --> 01:27:35,479 Speaker 7: don't do it again in twenty twenty four. 1633 01:27:35,800 --> 01:27:37,840 Speaker 6: I ain't giving out my cell number nombers. 1634 01:27:47,840 --> 01:27:51,280 Speaker 11: For all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, void were prohibited. 1635 01:27:51,360 --> 01:27:54,840 Speaker 11: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1636 01:27:54,960 --> 01:27:58,719 Speaker 11: unless otherwise stated. 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