WEBVTT - Shutdown Woes & Debt Consolidation Qs

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey, we're back. We're black, we're.

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<v Speaker 2>Brown, we harmonize.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh a little earlier today, Mandy, how you feel about it?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, these midday recording sessions are a bit challenging,

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<v Speaker 2>I have to say, but I'm working with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for accommodating me.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh So, Unfortunately, you were talking a little earlier and

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<v Speaker 3>you were saying that we're still in this still in

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<v Speaker 3>the government shutdown, which I'm like, yikes, is there any

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<v Speaker 3>word on the street of there being, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>a slowdown to this.

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<v Speaker 2>We're officially in our what is it the fourth week? Now,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a record, a record long government shutdown. My husband,

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<v Speaker 2>I was talking to him. We've been through since I've

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<v Speaker 2>been with him for seven years. I think there's been

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<v Speaker 2>maybe two shutdowns that he's had to go through, but

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<v Speaker 2>none has lasted as long as this one. I mean

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<v Speaker 2>this past weekend he did not get paid at all.

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<v Speaker 2>I can safely say he has not been working over

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<v Speaker 2>time or trying to stay later than he absolutely needs to.

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<v Speaker 2>Because what's really sucky is like if you're deemed essential,

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<v Speaker 2>which means you still have to go into work, and

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<v Speaker 2>you're still not getting paid. Some people are furloughed, which

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<v Speaker 2>means you just don't have to go to work and

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<v Speaker 2>you're not getting paid. But hopefully what they'll do is

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<v Speaker 2>they'll repay, they'll like back pay people when the shutdown's

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<v Speaker 2>finally over. But it sucks because some people are I mean, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>no one's getting paid, and that's really really challenging for

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<v Speaker 2>some families who are living, you know, paycheck to paycheck.

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<v Speaker 2>But at least if you're not getting paid, don't have

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<v Speaker 2>to go to work. You know, he still has to

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<v Speaker 2>go to work.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he's still to the expense of going to work,

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<v Speaker 3>whether it's the train or toll or gas or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep, it's like insult to injury. So I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>what the hell's happening. In Congress. You know, we had

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<v Speaker 2>some Republican representative whatever his name is, make a comment

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<v Speaker 2>about how he's not sure why white supremacy was ever

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<v Speaker 2>seemed like such a negative.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw that. Okay, Republican racism is so bad. It's bad.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone was like man, but wasn't it good to see

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<v Speaker 2>the Republicans, you know, immediately denounce him and try and

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<v Speaker 2>get him off these committees and ousd him and stuff

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like cool, So they did the bare minimum.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, they had one good instinct, which is like, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>racism is bad. Pat on the back for that one.

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<v Speaker 2>You know realization. The bar is very low.

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<v Speaker 1>The bar is low.

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<v Speaker 3>Even like like I, you know, I thought the government

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<v Speaker 3>shutdown was not directly directly affecting me until I got

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<v Speaker 3>some letter for two of my businesses about filing a

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<v Speaker 3>specific type of like form. But we had already taken

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<v Speaker 3>care of it digitally, so we tried to call just

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<v Speaker 3>to be like, oh, just the FYI, this is done,

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<v Speaker 3>and it was like, oh wait, no one's there, Like

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<v Speaker 3>we could not get through.

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<v Speaker 1>There was no one to pick up.

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<v Speaker 3>So it was like wow, So if you have an IRS

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<v Speaker 3>question or you know, whatever it is for your business

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<v Speaker 3>or for yourself personally, you know there you might not

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<v Speaker 3>be able to you know, you might.

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<v Speaker 1>Have to just basically wait.

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<v Speaker 3>So we're just kind of waiting and it's just a

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<v Speaker 3>little questrating because you know, there's a fee attached if

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<v Speaker 3>you don't act within a timely manner according to the letter.

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<v Speaker 3>So it just makes me like a little worried, like

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<v Speaker 3>wait a minute, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, one thing I'll say is we got some We

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<v Speaker 2>got some emails from the banks that we bank with,

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<v Speaker 2>and a lot of banks are being cool about, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>with the shutdown and saying like, if you're afraid you're

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<v Speaker 2>going to be laid on a payment, to call your bank.

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<v Speaker 2>And if you're having trouble making ends meet, credit unions,

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of financial institutions will issue or offer loans

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<v Speaker 2>potentially to people impacted by the furlough if you you know,

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<v Speaker 2>at a at a low rate, so it's it's one

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<v Speaker 2>possibility if you guys are struggling to make ends meet.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm thankful that we have our emergency fund, so we're

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<v Speaker 2>not you know, and we have a dual income household,

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<v Speaker 2>so we're not as stressed as some family. Is that

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<v Speaker 2>I feel really blessed to be in that position, But there.

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<v Speaker 3>Are people who are like I can't imagine being like

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<v Speaker 3>a single mom or single dad and being like, but

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<v Speaker 3>how am I going to buy things? You know, like

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<v Speaker 3>this is four weeks is that's two paychecks, and you

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<v Speaker 3>know most people don't couldn't miss one, let alone two.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's just very Yeah, I just I wonder what

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<v Speaker 3>the longest shutdown has ever been just in history.

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<v Speaker 1>Periods you know this.

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<v Speaker 2>No really, yeah, yeah, I'm pretty sure this is a

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<v Speaker 2>record government shutdown and it's not Government shutdowns aren't even

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<v Speaker 2>that common of a thing. I mean, they have been

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<v Speaker 2>in me being the last I don't know, Obama had

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<v Speaker 2>a couple, but before that, there hadn't really been any

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<v Speaker 2>since the seventies. I was looking at a list of

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<v Speaker 2>you know, historical government shutdowns, and no, it's not something

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<v Speaker 2>that happens all the time, and certainly not for this

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<v Speaker 2>long period of time, a full months. That's not common.

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<v Speaker 2>And meanwhile, we're playing a game of economic chicken over

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<v Speaker 2>a wall, which I have to say. I did listen

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<v Speaker 2>to a couple of podcasts where they interviewed law enforcement

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<v Speaker 2>from the border, and it was interesting to hear their perspective.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's really sad to me because there is so

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<v Speaker 2>much there is, like a valid concern over border security

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<v Speaker 2>and the humanitarian crisis at the border and families you know,

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<v Speaker 2>risking their lives to cross and being you know, doing

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<v Speaker 2>it really unsafely. There is so much that needs to

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<v Speaker 2>be done, and yet we're just kind of getting stuck

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<v Speaker 2>on this one conversation over a wall, and there's so

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<v Speaker 2>much more nuance to it than just that, and it's

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<v Speaker 2>just like, you know, it's not even about Trump anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>It's as much about Trump as I think, as it

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<v Speaker 2>is with just Congress people in general not being able

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<v Speaker 2>to you know, amend their differences and create some kind

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<v Speaker 2>of actual reform that will help people versus, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>getting stuck on this whole the wall symbol of the wall.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's like twenty nineteen is already starting like this

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<v Speaker 3>because one, I don't know if ever, I was reading

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<v Speaker 3>some article I forget what newspaper's saying that they feel

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<v Speaker 3>like Europe is already in a recession. Really oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm like, oh my gosh, out nineteen, can I

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<v Speaker 3>get my friends the door before you slam it?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, there's still there's still good to be had.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that is, you know, hopefully a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>our listeners, if you work, you know, your typical nine

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<v Speaker 2>to five. This is performance review season. So this is

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<v Speaker 2>the time. I always say, don't wait till the performance

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<v Speaker 2>review to ask for that promotion or that raise. But

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<v Speaker 2>I'm curious to hear how people's performance reviews have been

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<v Speaker 2>and if they feel like they're beneficial. I'm about to

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<v Speaker 2>do my whole round of them next week, and I

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<v Speaker 2>always and if especially if you're like on the other side,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if you do performance reviews with the

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<v Speaker 2>budget needs to crew, But for me, we do weekly

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<v Speaker 2>check ins and I try to make sure that nothing

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<v Speaker 2>I say in that annual review is a surprise, and

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<v Speaker 2>as a manager, I would like the same in return,

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<v Speaker 2>Like you know, as long as we're being open and

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<v Speaker 2>candid during like the weekly one on ones, then the

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<v Speaker 2>performance review really shouldn't be a surprise or a shock

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<v Speaker 2>to anybody. So if I've been like meeting with you

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<v Speaker 2>once a week and then you wait until like the

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<v Speaker 2>day of the review to be like, oh yeah, I'd

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<v Speaker 2>love a promotion or I really have ambitions to do this,

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<v Speaker 2>or that, there's nothing wrong with it, but it's it's

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<v Speaker 2>not as guaranteed to like actually like you know happen

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<v Speaker 2>in some cases sometimes those things take You need some

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<v Speaker 2>more of an opportunity to plan or put the pieces

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<v Speaker 2>in place to get things going.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean it is.

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<v Speaker 3>It's I mean I'm kind of thinking we don't we

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<v Speaker 3>do I guess some performance reviews, but not like in

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<v Speaker 3>a we still don't have like a like a super system.

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<v Speaker 3>That's something that we were working on at the end

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<v Speaker 3>of last year, like a place where things can be

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<v Speaker 3>held and like a specific maybe like performance review tool.

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<v Speaker 3>So we're still kind of flying by the seat of

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<v Speaker 3>our pants pants when it comes to that, like seems

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<v Speaker 3>like you're doing a good job.

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<v Speaker 1>Keep it up.

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<v Speaker 3>No, but we're getting there sometimes you don't, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>as we start to It's crazy when you like with

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<v Speaker 3>the business, as we get like bigger, we definitely move,

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<v Speaker 3>we make bigger moves, but it takes a little longer,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, yeah, because there's just people to consider.

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<v Speaker 1>So before it was literally like what do.

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<v Speaker 3>You think, Tiffany, Sure, Tiffany, okay, you know, and you pivot.

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<v Speaker 3>And then now it's like, okay, well if we make

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<v Speaker 3>that decision, what does that mean for the finance team

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<v Speaker 3>and what about the marketing team and will they have

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<v Speaker 3>the fun you know, so I can see how like

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<v Speaker 3>I can't even imagine like a huge corporation like a

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<v Speaker 3>Coca Cola or something, or like a Ford, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like what it takes to turn that vehicle around, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, yeah, yeah, yes.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's do on the house front.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you know what I did find a really good

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<v Speaker 3>cabinet person. So I was just looking for different like

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<v Speaker 3>cabinet people. And you know, the thing about cabinets is

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<v Speaker 3>is once people make a design for you, they don't

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<v Speaker 3>necessarily like to give it to you because they don't

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<v Speaker 3>want you to shop it around, you know really, So yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>well sometimes I mean like because if they give you

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<v Speaker 3>all the specs or whatever, you can literally take it

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<v Speaker 3>from person. I mean that that takes you know, maybe

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<v Speaker 3>like an hour or maybe not even maybe half an

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<v Speaker 3>hour to hour orn hour if not more for someone

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<v Speaker 3>to create and then you shop it around and then

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<v Speaker 3>someone else might end up getting the you know, getting

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<v Speaker 3>the payment for the work that.

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<v Speaker 1>That person has done.

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<v Speaker 3>So there was a little shopping around can be a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit difficult because you're wanting to remember the pair

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<v Speaker 3>compare apples to apples, but you know, the only way

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<v Speaker 3>to do that to be like, these are the same

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<v Speaker 3>specs over and over. But I found a good cabinet

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<v Speaker 3>person M and D. I think cabinets are something in

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<v Speaker 3>like Belleville Bloomfield. I really like him, Lou he was Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>he was great, honestly he he What I liked about

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<v Speaker 3>him is you can sell so it's a family owned

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<v Speaker 3>business with which I liked. But what I liked is

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<v Speaker 3>that you can tell that he's been doing this like

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<v Speaker 3>thirty forty years, because like when I showed him the

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<v Speaker 3>drawings from other places that I had gone, he was

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<v Speaker 3>really like, oh, you know, they put this too close

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<v Speaker 3>to the wall. You don't realize it, but when you

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<v Speaker 3>open his door, it's going to hit this, you know. Oh,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, like just little nuances that people missed out on.

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<v Speaker 3>And so I got to see the rendering today and

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<v Speaker 3>it looked awesome. It looks honestly really because he also

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<v Speaker 3>came with his own kind of like design sensibility, So

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<v Speaker 3>I'm excited.

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<v Speaker 1>The tile for the.

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<v Speaker 3>Kitchen is picked out, the bathroom, all the bathrooms kind

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<v Speaker 3>of like tile and backsplash, all that stuff I picked out.

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<v Speaker 3>So now the only thing is is like ordering. The

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<v Speaker 3>hard part is with the cabinets is that they come

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<v Speaker 3>in fairly quickly, within like two weeks, but we're still

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<v Speaker 3>not ready. We're stay still haven't closed up the walls yet,

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<v Speaker 3>so it's like you can't where you put them, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>And apparently there's a there's a pending tariff coming that

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<v Speaker 3>I guess the President has threatened. So that way it flows,

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<v Speaker 3>that slows down how much foreign goods that we purchased,

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<v Speaker 3>and so that I have to be mindful because.

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<v Speaker 2>Where the cabinets come from.

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<v Speaker 3>Most cabinets come from China, they tell you. Even the

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<v Speaker 3>American ones they tell you usually they're put together in America,

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<v Speaker 3>but the components typically come from China. Interest yeah, and

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<v Speaker 3>so there are a few that are made in America,

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<v Speaker 3>but very few. Like like I said that, we saw

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<v Speaker 3>some hapbins that they posture as American cabinets, but really

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<v Speaker 3>they're like, girl, these they put them together here. So

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<v Speaker 3>potentially the TARFF could be as high as twenty percent,

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<v Speaker 3>and sou you know, Lou was like, just be my

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<v Speaker 3>I know. So you know, let's just say your cabinets

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<v Speaker 3>are going to be you know, ten thousand dollars. That's

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<v Speaker 3>another two thousand dollars on top of that. So he

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<v Speaker 3>was like, typically they get a heads up about a

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<v Speaker 3>week in advance, but he's been getting letters like faxes

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<v Speaker 3>every day saying like, you know, potential tariff is coming.

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<v Speaker 3>So he's like, I'll let you know and then I'll

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<v Speaker 3>just have to order them and put him in like

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<v Speaker 3>storage or something, because I don't want to spen an

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<v Speaker 3>extra two thousand dollars you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, yeah, nope, buano. Or if someone I was sharing

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<v Speaker 2>my Instagram, my Instagram story, I was sharing like pictures

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<v Speaker 2>of the reno and like what the before and the

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<v Speaker 2>after my kitchen and everything like that, and one of

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<v Speaker 2>the I think when of our listeners asked, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>how much of the kitchen actually costs, it's kind of

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<v Speaker 2>hard for me to like say how much the kitchen

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<v Speaker 2>costs because so much of it was it's all wrapped

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<v Speaker 2>up into the total rhino cost because we did the

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<v Speaker 2>whole ground floor, but my countertops alone were countertops and

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<v Speaker 2>cabinets alone. Do the math real quick for nine at

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<v Speaker 2>least like eleven to twelve thousand dollars just for that

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<v Speaker 2>by itself. So that gives you a sense if you're

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<v Speaker 2>listening of the cost. And that's just new cabinetry. I

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<v Speaker 2>think the hardware for the cabinets, which we got from

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<v Speaker 2>build dot com, that was like another five hundred bucks.

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<v Speaker 2>And then the appliance is if you have to get

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<v Speaker 2>all new appliances, that adds to it as well. But

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<v Speaker 2>let me tell you, my husband just got back to

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<v Speaker 2>me with an update. I've given a boost to the

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<v Speaker 2>City Price Rewind program before. And he just was g

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<v Speaker 2>chatting me earlier letting me know that the fridge that

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<v Speaker 2>we bought went down in price by two hundred and

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<v Speaker 2>eighty eight dollars and they just sent him the refund.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait wait, wait, wait, wait, So what tell me about

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<v Speaker 1>the thing again? I've told you, I know, but you

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<v Speaker 1>know I've got the memory of for eighty year old.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't have the first time. See, you got to

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<v Speaker 1>take notes.

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<v Speaker 2>It's called the City. So if you get a City

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<v Speaker 2>I had the City Double Cash Card and it comes

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<v Speaker 2>with access to the City Price Rewind program. And I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know if it's the only card, the only city

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<v Speaker 2>card that offers it, but it certainly does. And what

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<v Speaker 2>happens if you make the purchase with your City card,

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<v Speaker 2>which offers you one percent cash back on the purchase

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<v Speaker 2>and then one percent cash back when you pay off

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<v Speaker 2>the card. On top of that, if the price of

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<v Speaker 2>that item that you purchase with the card goes down.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what the I forget what the timeframe is.

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<v Speaker 2>Then if you tell them or they may find it themselves. Actually,

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<v Speaker 2>like sometimes we'll get an email just saying, hey, the

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<v Speaker 2>price dropped on this, We're going to give you a refund.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you see that a price drops and you

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<v Speaker 2>alert them, then they will refund you as long as

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<v Speaker 2>it's within the terms and conditions of And I'm telling

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<v Speaker 2>you we've saved hundreds of dollars, like no joke purchasing

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<v Speaker 2>our appliances on.

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<v Speaker 1>I do remember now now that my flash back. I'm like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you said that like three times. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, it's legit, especially if you're buying like appliances this January. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>we purchase our appliances like in November, December and the

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<v Speaker 2>end of the years when they start discounting last year's

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<v Speaker 2>models and rolling out the new stuff. So I think

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<v Speaker 2>that's why we're seeing the stuff that we purchase drop

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<v Speaker 2>in price now. So there's no such thing as boy

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<v Speaker 2>is remorse as far as the appliances thing.

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<v Speaker 3>No, when you went with the Pliente, did you guys

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<v Speaker 3>get the clients is from the same like manufacturer, like

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<v Speaker 3>all LG or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>Lord. Yeah, my husband was like became really obsessed. I'm like, listen,

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<v Speaker 2>our entire like the entire house sings now, the dishwasher sings,

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<v Speaker 2>the oven freaking sings, the microwave sings, the laundry machine sings.

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<v Speaker 2>We it's all just like do do doo doo doo

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<v Speaker 2>doo doo whenever, everything when it's preheated, when the cycle's over.

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<v Speaker 2>And not only that, but he's got it set up

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<v Speaker 2>to text him because everything's wi fi ing. Don't ask

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<v Speaker 2>me why so what I let me tell you. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like cooking dinner, doing laundry, and I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>I used the microwave, the dishwasher or something, and at

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<v Speaker 2>one moment, like everything was beeping and d and jingling,

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<v Speaker 2>and his phone was going off, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>this is freaking insane. Our place is not this big.

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<v Speaker 2>We're never not gonna hear when some things is done.

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<v Speaker 2>And he's like, it's fun. It's he just loves his gadgets.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, no, that's awesome though.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we're gonna I just can't wait to get you know,

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<v Speaker 3>when you get over the when you start closing up walls,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm just like, I just can't wait till we

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<v Speaker 3>get over the hump.

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<v Speaker 2>You'll be there soon, You'll be there soon.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I think I'll get another week or two because

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<v Speaker 3>all the electricals done except for the HVAC and.

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<v Speaker 1>Then all the plumbing is done.

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<v Speaker 3>So I really I feel like we have another week

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<v Speaker 3>at the most of like of the HVAC and then

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<v Speaker 3>we start closing up walls and that's when you start

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<v Speaker 3>really rocking and rollway. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, it's exciting.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, So are you good with your buzz anything else

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<v Speaker 3>you're buzzing about? I'm all buzzed out, all right, So

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<v Speaker 3>let's go for couestionon. We're gonna do something special today.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm excited and we haven't done this before. But if

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<v Speaker 3>you are Agurine Catcher, you know that I have a

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<v Speaker 3>DreamCatcher Facebook group. It's about three hundred and fifty or

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<v Speaker 3>sixty thousand women. We're actually to pull some questions from

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<v Speaker 3>the DreamCatcher group. I will keep your name anonymous since

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<v Speaker 3>you didn't consent publicly. So first question come to well,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll just use a fake name. Comes from Maria. Maria says,

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<v Speaker 3>my husband and I are thinking about consolidating our debt.

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<v Speaker 3>It's about seven thousand hours and this would include all

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<v Speaker 3>of our debts, loans, credit cards, all that.

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<v Speaker 1>Kind of stuff. Do you think that's a good idea

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<v Speaker 1>to consolidate our debt?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I mean, I think consolidating debt, especially if you

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<v Speaker 2>can save money on interest, is an amazing idea, and

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think people do it often enough. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>love the idea of debt consolidation. It's also a way

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<v Speaker 2>to like if you, for example, you're struggling to afford

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<v Speaker 2>your monthly payments on a loan or something like that,

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<v Speaker 2>if you take out a new loan and use that

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<v Speaker 2>loan to pay off your existing loan, the new loan

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<v Speaker 2>may have terms that are better suited to your needs,

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<v Speaker 2>like they may have lower payment which you can achieve

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<v Speaker 2>by maybe get a longer term loan. That's one reason

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<v Speaker 2>people consolidate their debt. Just understand that when you extend

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<v Speaker 2>the time the term of the loan, which means you

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<v Speaker 2>pay it off for longer, even if you're saving money,

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<v Speaker 2>it feels like monthly because your payments are lower, you

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<v Speaker 2>are adding to your interest costs, right because you're you know,

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<v Speaker 2>dragging on the debt for longer. So if you do that,

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<v Speaker 2>just keep that in mind, and you know, once things,

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<v Speaker 2>hopefully the financial picture gets a little bit better and

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<v Speaker 2>you can start making bigger payments than the minimum and

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<v Speaker 2>you know, not end up paying way more down the line.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm also I know, go ahead.

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<v Speaker 2>I was also going to shout out to balance get

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<v Speaker 2>so excited about balance transfers.

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<v Speaker 1>Tip no, gokay, go ahead for that.

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<v Speaker 2>Balance transferred out. So credit card consolidation balance transfer offers

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<v Speaker 2>are really awesome, especially if you have good credit. You

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<v Speaker 2>tend to need to have you know, high six hundreds,

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<v Speaker 2>low seven hundreds minimum to get approved for good zero

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<v Speaker 2>percent interest intro offer on a balance transfer card. But

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<v Speaker 2>let's say you know, you spend money on one car

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<v Speaker 2>credit card and you know you're struggling to make the

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<v Speaker 2>payments on time, but you know you can do it

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<v Speaker 2>in a few months, or you know, maybe it'll take

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<v Speaker 2>you even longer than that. A balance transfer, if you

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<v Speaker 2>get approved, you can transfer money to a new card

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<v Speaker 2>and then enjoy a zero percent interest rate for however

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<v Speaker 2>long the term says. And then let's say you get

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<v Speaker 2>to the end of that term and you still have

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<v Speaker 2>some leftover, if your credit is still good, then you

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<v Speaker 2>kind of apply for another balance transfer and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>keep it moving. That's just one way to get around

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<v Speaker 2>interest fees.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I remember I did that when I That was

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<v Speaker 3>one thing like when I was going through like my

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<v Speaker 3>financial struggle before I knew this is like I knew

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<v Speaker 3>I was going to miss my mortgage payment, and this

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<v Speaker 3>is like post recession or during the recession and before

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<v Speaker 3>that hit and drag my score down. Is that a

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<v Speaker 3>really great score. I went ahead and opened up you

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<v Speaker 3>know about I think one, maybe even two balance transfer

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<v Speaker 3>cards because I had some high, high credit card balances,

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<v Speaker 3>and that saved me because I think one of my

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<v Speaker 3>credit card balances was maybe it was a combined of

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<v Speaker 3>like thirty thousand dollars and that like the interest what

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<v Speaker 3>I would have paid on that thirty thousand dollars would

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<v Speaker 3>have been, I don't know that I could have paid

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<v Speaker 3>it off, but it gave me because my balance was

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<v Speaker 3>my credit was so good at the time because I

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<v Speaker 3>had not this my mortgage payment yet I think it

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<v Speaker 3>gave me like a year and some change for a

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<v Speaker 3>zero percent interest, so I was able to actually just

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<v Speaker 3>pay on the thirty like as well as it was,

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<v Speaker 3>and so that that, you know, it gave me a

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<v Speaker 3>significant like running head start.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's always a good idea.

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<v Speaker 3>It's crazycause I know, you know, you hear like the

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<v Speaker 3>Dave Ramsey's of the world that tell you like, so

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<v Speaker 3>you're going to get into more debt to get rid

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<v Speaker 3>of your debt, like and they tell you, don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Do it, don't do it.

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<v Speaker 3>And I can understand in idealistic theory, like you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like you know, taking on debt to get out of debt.

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<v Speaker 1>But sometimes you you know, it's like you have to

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<v Speaker 1>do what you have to do.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, Yeah, I understand, because what happens is sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>you'll pay off. So let's say you take out a

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<v Speaker 2>loan and you pay off like three credit cards on

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<v Speaker 2>your auto loan or whatever, and then you have three

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<v Speaker 2>you have those four payments which are no longer stressed

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<v Speaker 2>you out, and you have one payment now, and you

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<v Speaker 2>may feel like, oh, you know, I'm debt free now,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm more relaxed. I can go to the mall, or

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<v Speaker 2>I could spend money on lunch today or whatever. But

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<v Speaker 2>you're really not debt free. You have to, like mentally

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<v Speaker 2>remind yourself the debt has not gone anywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>It still exists.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just more simple for you to manage. So mentally

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<v Speaker 2>you have to just shift that mindset so that you're

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<v Speaker 2>not feeling like you're debt free, because you definitely aren't.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, and you don't want to all of a sudden

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<v Speaker 3>have one card you paid off and another card you

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<v Speaker 3>transferred it to, and then start using that card.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you have two cards with high balances.

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<v Speaker 3>So you know, yeah, Okay, next up, we've got let's

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<v Speaker 3>call her Cynthia. So Cynthia says, I am looking to

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<v Speaker 3>sell my home. Has anyone negotiated commission fees for the

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<v Speaker 3>listing with them? I guess, with the listing agent? And

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<v Speaker 3>if so, how much did you save?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? I read this wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was telling you earlier, Mandy that I have

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<v Speaker 3>negotiated commission fees. But honestly, I negotiated commission fees with

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<v Speaker 3>the I was. I was a buyer with the buying agent.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't realize I didn't see the listening. But I've

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<v Speaker 3>definitely heard because a couple of my friends are realtors.

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<v Speaker 3>So you can always negotiate, I mean, you can always ask.

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<v Speaker 3>It depends on what kind of market it is, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>if if there's not a lot of buyers and not

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of sellers, and people are kind of like, look,

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<v Speaker 3>I you know, I you know, if someone has like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, a hundred different homes, they might be like, no,

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<v Speaker 3>I really don't have to.

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<v Speaker 1>It really depends on the market that you're in. And

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<v Speaker 1>honestly too, like how well you know the agent.

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<v Speaker 3>Oftentimes agents that you know that you're cool with, Like

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<v Speaker 3>my my seller's agent, she knew me and knew what

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<v Speaker 3>I did, and she cut her commission down in exchange

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<v Speaker 3>for one on one budgeting session, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>And so in my experience, like my real so example,

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<v Speaker 2>the agent that we used when we bought our house,

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<v Speaker 2>the seller paid his commission, not us. So typically, like

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<v Speaker 2>if you're the seller, you have to pay your own

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<v Speaker 2>agent's fees plus the buyer's agent's fees. And in that

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<v Speaker 2>case sometimes you can negotiate with either your agent or

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<v Speaker 2>maybe the seller's agent to try and decrease the cost.

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<v Speaker 1>Of those fees.

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<v Speaker 3>So yes, So for me, because I bought my house

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<v Speaker 3>the through or foreclosure, there was no the she was

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<v Speaker 3>getting her feed directly for me.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was a unique situation, gotcha, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>So her name is Amena, and so it was like

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<v Speaker 3>I was gonna have to pay her the three percent,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, just out of pocket basically because the site

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<v Speaker 3>that we use real Ty bids, it was just the

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<v Speaker 3>bidding site, so they're not gonna pay her anything. So

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<v Speaker 3>but in exchange, like I said, matter of fact, I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I owe you your own session. But that was what

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<v Speaker 3>we that was what we negotiated, and I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>that's fine. And so you know, I say, it's some money,

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<v Speaker 3>and and then you know, I get to do a session,

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<v Speaker 3>which I like doing anyway. But to me, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>it's not even just about bartering some that's just about asking.

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<v Speaker 3>And if it's the right environment for that kind of negotiation,

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<v Speaker 3>then it doesn't hurt.

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<v Speaker 2>To ask, you know, yeah, one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to take one more?

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<v Speaker 2>Sure?

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<v Speaker 1>All right?

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<v Speaker 3>This one is from Tanetta. I'm the worst of covering

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<v Speaker 3>gods name. Hey, that's what Taneda said. So I got

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<v Speaker 3>my first credit card from Navy Federal. The limit is

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<v Speaker 3>two hundred dollars because it's a secured card. I use

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<v Speaker 3>twenty dollars of it. But am I supposed to pay

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<v Speaker 3>it back when I get the bill? Or can I

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<v Speaker 3>pay it now? I'm trying to rebuild my credit so tonight,

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<v Speaker 3>and first of all, congratulations, because that's good that you

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<v Speaker 3>know you're clearly trying to raise your credit score and

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<v Speaker 3>a secured card, do you want to maybe explain what

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<v Speaker 3>a secured card is, just in case folks are new.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I'm then listen to the show. Apparently, secured

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<v Speaker 2>cards are different than an unsecured credit cards. When unsecured

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<v Speaker 2>credit card is when you apply for a credit card online,

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<v Speaker 2>you give the lender nothing in return except for your

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<v Speaker 2>good credit score, and you get approved and they issue

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<v Speaker 2>a line of credit. Secured card works the opposite way.

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<v Speaker 2>You actually give the bank money to hold and typically

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<v Speaker 2>a CD account, and now that they've got your money

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<v Speaker 2>held up, they will issue you a line of credit

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<v Speaker 2>for around the same amount, maybe a little bit more.

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<v Speaker 2>And what you'll do is you'll pay a monthly payment

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<v Speaker 2>against that account for twelve months or however long it is.

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<v Speaker 2>And after that time, as long as you've made on

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<v Speaker 2>time payments and everything, they'll return your deposit to you.

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<v Speaker 2>And you may wonder, why the hell am I giving

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<v Speaker 2>people money just to borrow money from them? It makes

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<v Speaker 2>no sense. Typically, secured cards are used when you're trying

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<v Speaker 2>to build credit. So if you're someone who's recently moved

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<v Speaker 2>to the United States and you don't have a credit

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<v Speaker 2>history here, or you're someone who has poor credit, you

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<v Speaker 2>can't get approved for a traditional credit card and you

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<v Speaker 2>want to rebuild your credit, It's one way to build

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<v Speaker 2>your credit back up. Or if you're someone who's young

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<v Speaker 2>and has no credit history, you may not get approved

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<v Speaker 2>for the card that you want, so you want to

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<v Speaker 2>open up a secured card account to start building credit.

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<v Speaker 1>I like to say the secured card is like a

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<v Speaker 1>credit card with training mails.

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<v Speaker 3>And because Saneta, you got it from Navy Federal, which

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<v Speaker 3>is good, they likely have a unsecured card which has

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<v Speaker 3>just been basically like a regular credit card where when

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<v Speaker 3>you swipe your basically taking out a temporary loan. That

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<v Speaker 3>what will happen is it's easier to make the transition

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<v Speaker 3>from a secured card to an unsecured card because it's

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<v Speaker 3>already with the bank versus like a secured card that's

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<v Speaker 3>not with the bank, which those are fine, but depends

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<v Speaker 3>on what your end goal is. So Tanta, to answer

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<v Speaker 3>your question, it's best if you wait till you get

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<v Speaker 3>your bill, or at the very least ask your your

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<v Speaker 3>credit card companies, ask Navy Federal what it's my statement date?

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<v Speaker 1>Because if you're trying to raise your credit score.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm assuming you're wanting the credit bureaus to get the

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<v Speaker 3>report from Navy federals saying, hey, Tanetta used her card

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<v Speaker 3>and if you paid off too soon, by the time

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<v Speaker 3>they report, the card is at zero and so there's

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<v Speaker 3>nothing to report. So you're wanting the statement date. It's

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<v Speaker 3>just the date that they release the statement. And that's

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<v Speaker 3>why it's fine for you to just wait till you

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<v Speaker 3>actually get your statement and paid off. Then that way

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<v Speaker 3>you know they've reported to that used it and then

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<v Speaker 3>they're going to report today that paid it off.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's what you're wanting.

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<v Speaker 3>This consistent she used it, she paid it off, and

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<v Speaker 3>congratulations on being smart and really keeping your your balance low.

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<v Speaker 3>You really want to be low and under thirty percent

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<v Speaker 3>really should be the maximum that you should be charging

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<v Speaker 3>on that card. Ideally lower than that. And and honestly too,

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't know if it like two hundred dollars. That's

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<v Speaker 3>a good rate, right, Mandy, Like that's a good down

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<v Speaker 3>payment for a secured card, because sometimes they could be

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<v Speaker 3>like six hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, definitely, that's not bad. I can I can share

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<v Speaker 2>a list on the podcast notes of we have a

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<v Speaker 2>good roundup on Magnifying Money of the best secured cards,

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<v Speaker 2>you should look at the deposit amount. Also, some of

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<v Speaker 2>them carry interest rates that are pretty high, so you

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<v Speaker 2>want to get ones that have a lower interest rate,

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<v Speaker 2>few fees, if not no fees at all. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>the lower the deposit amount the better because it's hard

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<v Speaker 2>to come up with like a few hundred bucks on

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<v Speaker 2>the fly for some people.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, so this is that was actually a pretty

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<v Speaker 1>good one.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's not so.

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<v Speaker 3>If you guys have questions, you can certainly hit us up.

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<v Speaker 3>If you go to Brown Ambition podcast dot com, there's

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<v Speaker 3>an ask us anything button you can ask there. You

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<v Speaker 3>can email us at the BA podcast at gmail dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>Did I get that right?

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<v Speaker 2>From Brown Ambition Podcasts at gmail dot com?

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<v Speaker 1>Done it?

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<v Speaker 2>Twitter handles you?

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, remember someone wrote there like it's hilarious.

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<v Speaker 1>Activity still goes to know the handle.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, whatever, girl, funny business funny. I was

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<v Speaker 2>just thinking, how funny.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, my business girl. Everybody does have the shop.

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<v Speaker 1>It's memory, your memory shaving.

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<v Speaker 2>We love you just the way you are.

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<v Speaker 3>No, we love your questions honestly, career questions, business questions,

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<v Speaker 3>finance questions, personal questions.

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<v Speaker 1>Send them on over all right, So we always like

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<v Speaker 1>to end with.

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<v Speaker 3>A brown break or a brown boost, booster a break

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<v Speaker 3>or a booster a break.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you gonna boost? Are you gonna break? Man? Draft?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, let me just count my boost as a city

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<v Speaker 2>price rewind for today because my brain is shot.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I am going to break, so you know how well?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I think Mandy, typically you cut it out that almost

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<v Speaker 3>every time we tape, somehow Superman like opens the door

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<v Speaker 3>like no other time, Like I could take a three

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<v Speaker 3>hour nap, no door opening. But he's, like I said, no,

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<v Speaker 3>tificanally tape it her podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>So not only so thank got I have my phone

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<v Speaker 1>on quiet, and I told him.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, hey, babe, your lunch because where we

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<v Speaker 3>live is where he works. Your lunch is on the

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<v Speaker 3>it's on the it's on the snow. Here's what like,

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<v Speaker 3>everything is here. And then I called to the town

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<v Speaker 3>and I text him, I'm taping my podcast, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>so just you know, do what you need to do.

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<v Speaker 3>So I heard him coming a little bit, I heard

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<v Speaker 3>him eat lunch. Then I see my phone ring because

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<v Speaker 3>why not? And then he just text me, I locked

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<v Speaker 3>my keys in the house. Text me when you're donb

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<v Speaker 3>taping and leave the door unlocked.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, yo, oh god, wait so if they locked

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<v Speaker 2>out right now, yes, let that man into the house.

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<v Speaker 2>It's cold out there.

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<v Speaker 1>I am.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's just hilarics because like yo, Superman, like any

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<v Speaker 3>other time, you are a fully functioning human being, except

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<v Speaker 3>when I take me when we're taping at a different time.

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<v Speaker 1>I swear he's doing this some purpose.

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<v Speaker 3>So that is my brown break break from man Sinan again. No,

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<v Speaker 3>I love him, but it was just like really funny

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<v Speaker 3>because I'm like, wow, really every time you just can't

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<v Speaker 3>help yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>Work from home struggles.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, it's been real, Mandra.

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<v Speaker 2>Please let him into the house. It's really cold outside.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm gonna go downstairs break now.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, all right, rest here weed.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you guys for listening.