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Speaker 2: You were supposed to see that, though I usually do

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Speaker 1: well let's judge Kik take it away.

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Speaker 3: He's getting into the courtroom. The gavel has been hit.

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Speaker 2: It says, hey, kiky, am I wrong for accidentally exposing

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Speaker 3: My friend has been yeah text here, hear her out.

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Speaker 3: Hear her out.

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Speaker 2: My friend has been cheating on her boyfriend for almost

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Speaker 2: a year. She tells me everything about her side piece.

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Speaker 2: But here's where it gets messy. Her boyfriend recently reached

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Speaker 2: out to me because he was planning to propose and

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Speaker 2: I knew the truth, and I told him he should

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Speaker 2: pressed me on my hesitancy, and I said, okay, fine,

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Speaker 2: I'll told I told him everything. So I told him

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Speaker 1: And this is her best friend.

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Speaker 3: Best friend.

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Speaker 2: Yes, now, my friend says I betrayed her and destroyed

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Speaker 3: Am I wrong for telling him?

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Speaker 1: Well? What do you think?

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Speaker 2: At first when I read this, I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: both of y'all wrong, Like your friend is wrong and

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Speaker 2: you're wrong because you're her girl, you're supposed to ride

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Speaker 2: with her. But actually, no, I take that back. I

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Speaker 2: proposed to her.

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Speaker 3: She's a great girl.

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Speaker 2: She loves you when I know ta down inside you

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Speaker 3: So no, I don't think you're wrong for telling him.

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Speaker 2: I think you know your friend is wrong for cheating,

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Speaker 2: and this is just a casualty of her decision to cheat.

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Speaker 1: Well, you got to the jury eight five five, five

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Speaker 1: you if my best friend. First of all, I think

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Speaker 1: it's messed up to involve third parties in your shenanigus exactly,

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Speaker 1: Like that's not cool. So I got to hang out

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Speaker 1: in your proclivities. You want to do some stuff, then

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Speaker 1: I think the loyalty is to the friend, and unfortunately

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Speaker 1: that's just part of being a best friend, is that

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Speaker 1: you bury this stuff you don't it's not for you

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Speaker 1: even though it's not your fault. That your friend is

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's I mean, I feel you on that, I do.

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Speaker 2: You go to our best friend because you're like, okay,

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, I don't really have mercy on the cheater, bro,

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Speaker 2: And it just gets so messy though, because you've involved me.

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Speaker 1: I knew somebody who used to travel with someone else

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Speaker 1: Like you do whatever you whatever you're up to, is

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Speaker 3: That, right, don't involve me, Like, don't make.

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Speaker 3: It's in the constitution, bro.

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Speaker 1: Because even though it's not his fault, Like what happens

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Speaker 1: a bad person because you witnessed all of this. Hey, Tay,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Hi, good morning, I tay so Kiki's court.

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Speaker 1: What say you? You're the jury?

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Speaker 3: I say, I am not a writer. Di I friend.

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Speaker 3: I would have been told on her like, don't give up.

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Speaker 1: Not to tell you nothing. I was about to tell

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Speaker 1: you some secrets, but I'm not telling you now.

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Speaker 2: I tell people all the time. I will not save

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Speaker 2: you from going to jail.

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Speaker 4: Like you're done, Okay, No.

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Speaker 1: No, do you have any friends saying I knew and

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Speaker 4: No, don't tell me, no, don't tell me nothing.

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Speaker 5: If you go to jail, you're on. You're good.

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Speaker 1: So you're not going to cover for your friend. You're

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Speaker 1: not gonna lie for even your best friend. All righty, Well,

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Speaker 1: I mean you're good. You sound like a decent human being.

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Speaker 1: But honestly, there is a select group of people I

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Speaker 1: will lie through my teeth. But don't rub it in

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Speaker 1: my face, is all I'm saying. You know, thank you,

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Speaker 1: I have a good day. I will lie for you,

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Speaker 1: but like, do not make it so that I'm like,

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Speaker 1: it needs to be a little lie, not a big lie. Like,

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Speaker 1: don't make this worse, right, you know, don't be bringing

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Speaker 1: me around your shenanigans. Olivia, Hi, Olivia, good morning.

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Speaker 4: Oh hi Fred, how are you.

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Speaker 1: Why did hey this happened to you?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, so my who was my best friend? We

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Speaker 4: are no longer friends and I'm going to put that

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Speaker 1: Okay, well why tell me to everything?

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Speaker 4: So she started by cheating on her boyfriend. He panicked

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Speaker 1: And so she was cheating, and then she proposed.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, she was cheating, okay, and then he

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Speaker 4: And then he proposed.

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Speaker 1: Okay, terrible, terrible. It gets worse.

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Speaker 4: Then she started cheating on him with his best friend.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you're watching all this and you're aware of

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Speaker 4: Not right, which also you're like, how dumb is this guy?

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Speaker 1: But she's I mean, people smart people get cheated on.

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Speaker 5: And so I mean the three of.

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Speaker 4: Them are hanging out, the three of them.

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Speaker 1: Together, Like, when do you do that, Olivia? Because you're

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Speaker 1: aware of all this, So then you do you keep

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Speaker 4: Well, it was really tough. I tried to encourage her.

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Speaker 3: To tell him, like you need.

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Speaker 4: To tell him, you should tell him, you know, he

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Speaker 1: It was so bad.

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Speaker 4: Then, is okay? So the fiance's best friend, his other

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Speaker 4: and that guy's friend threatened her.

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Speaker 5: That he was going to expose them.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So then did he finally have to come clean?

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Speaker 5: Nope? They got married, they have a baby.

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Speaker 1: Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 5: You have no idea?

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Speaker 1: And she is the a fair persisting or is the

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Speaker 4: Have no idea because her and I stopped being friends

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Speaker 4: and that's kind of you know, I really liked what

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Speaker 4: to a point where you're like, you question people's morals,

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Speaker 4: and you're like, this is what are going to be

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Speaker 5: Not aligned right now?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Right? And as a friend, you're willing to include

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Speaker 1: for you, like right.

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Speaker 4: And and you know he's not my friend, so I

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Speaker 4: I don't really feel the.

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Speaker 6: Need to necessarily be.

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Speaker 4: Loyal to him. I don't want to cause drama and

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Speaker 4: involve myself, Like I'm not going to come clean for her.

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Speaker 5: It's not my job to do that.

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Speaker 4: But it is my job to hold her accountable and

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Speaker 4: kind of what.

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Speaker 1: It came down to, love you, there's only one thing

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Speaker 1: that's the only option that we have. That's the only

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Speaker 1: thing left, Olivia is now you mess around the husband.

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Speaker 1: That's the only thing. You know.

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Speaker 4: There's only one really interesting take, Fred, really interesting, that's

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Speaker 4: not that's the only thing.

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Speaker 1: There's only right, the one right there you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Thanks. You don't have a good days back. I mean

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Speaker 1: That's what I mean. Kelly, how you doing? Good morning?

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Speaker 6: Hello, friend and everybody.

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Speaker 1: Kelly, So keep scort here. Basically, we got a situation

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 6: I would have told the boyfriend initially like oh, okay,

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Speaker 6: Look, you got so many hours to let him know

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Speaker 1: I think I think that's what I think. You have

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, I agree.

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you, Kelly, have a good day, you too,

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Speaker 1: Glad you called Jessica. How you doing, Jessica, I'm doing good.

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Speaker 1: How are you guys doing great? You're the jury and

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Speaker 7: Well, I couldn't hear anything else before me, so I

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I do think it's unfortunate, Like I still feel

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Speaker 7: But that's unfortunately what the best friend did.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you Jessica, thanks for listening. Have a great day,

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Speaker 1: you two. Thanks guys, glad you called. Melissa. I'm Melissa.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Hey, good morning. Hey. So what are you

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Speaker 5: Well, Fred, me and my son are going to have

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Speaker 5: but I'm not gonna I'm not gonna tell on him,

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Speaker 1: I hear you. No, I haven't thought. This is a

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Speaker 5: That, yes, And that's why we're going to have a

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Speaker 5: come to Jesus meeting. So she ain't gonna be telling me.

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Speaker 5: She can be having that for me like she hading

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Speaker 1: It, Melissa. I'm one hundred percent you listen where you

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Speaker 1: listening to us today.

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Speaker 5: Hey, I am currently in Andrew, North Carolina.

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Speaker 1: Yes, ma'am, we love North Carolina. Melissa. It's nice to

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Speaker 1: hear your voice today. Have a good day, all right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah she look at that, and I wouldn't mess with Melissa.

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Speaker 1: Melissa like she's standing on business. She's like, look, i'll

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