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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Shell.

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Speaker 1: Hey Tom, good morning, welcome to the program. How are you.

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Speaker 2: I'm doing all right. How about you?

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Speaker 1: I'm doing okay as well. But we want to help

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Speaker 1: you out with this woman Julie on waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 1: You think maybe you've been ghosted. So we got to

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Speaker 1: kind of know everything. How did you, guys meet? I

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Speaker 1: want to hear about any dates that you've been on,

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Speaker 1: and then where things are now.

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Speaker 2: We met We actually met in church, and I thought

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Speaker 2: she was really nice, and we talked for a bit

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Speaker 2: and I got her number and we were texting back

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Speaker 2: and forth for a bit, and it seems like she

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Speaker 2: was really into me. You know, she really really shirty

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Speaker 2: flirty flirty because yeah, I gotta tell.

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Speaker 1: I mean, a church slurty is a different kind of flirty,

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Speaker 1: like you know what I mean, Like, you know, we're

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Speaker 1: being flirty at church. We are we are flirty, you know. Well, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: so she wanted to go out with you. You were getting

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Speaker 1: the vibe and so you asked her out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I asked her she word get brunch and she

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Speaker 2: said yeah, And I don't know, like when we were

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Speaker 2: on that brunch stage. She was a little shyer then

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Speaker 2: that she was over the text, but I thought maybe

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Speaker 2: that's just normal for like a first date. I do

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Speaker 2: like her and I want to see her again. But

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Speaker 2: ever since that day, she hasn't responded back to me

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Speaker 2: and hasn't even been back to church. I don't know

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Speaker 2: what's going on.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, she lost her religion over this. I had

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Speaker 1: to go to a different parish now over there? Yeah

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Speaker 1: this wow. Okay, So you go from really flirting a

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Speaker 1: church to brunch to you don't hear from this woman again.

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Speaker 1: You don't even see her again, and I can appreciate

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Speaker 1: that you'd like to know why.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, let me call Julian just a second.

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Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone and to play a song.

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Speaker 1: Come back, we'll do it. I don't want you to

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Speaker 1: say anything right at first, but I will chat for

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Speaker 1: a little bit. You're welcome to jump in at some point,

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Speaker 1: and hopefully we can figure out where she's been and

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Speaker 1: straighten everything out and set you guys up on another

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Speaker 1: date and we'll pay for it. All right, Hey, tom, Right,

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Speaker 1: I was called Julie. You guys met at church and

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Speaker 1: you asked her to go to brunch. You did that,

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Speaker 1: you felt like that went pretty well, but you have

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Speaker 1: not heard from her since the brunch date. You haven't

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Speaker 1: even seen her at church since then, and you want

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Speaker 1: to know why. Okay, let's call her now. Good luck?

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Julie.

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Speaker 3: This is Julie.

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Speaker 1: Hey Julie, good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling

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Speaker 1: from the Friend's Show, the morning radio show, and I

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Speaker 1: have to tell you that you are on the radio

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Speaker 1: right now, and I would need your permission to continue

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Speaker 1: with this call. Can we chat for just a second

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Speaker 1: on the show, Okay for sure? Yeah, I know, I

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Speaker 1: know it's weird to get a call like this, kind

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Speaker 1: of startling, and I appreciate that. But we're calling on

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Speaker 1: behalf of a guy named Tom. I guess you guys

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Speaker 1: met at church and you had a little brunch recently.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember this man?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah, of course.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what happened with him? Because we just talked

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Speaker 1: to him and he said that you guys met and

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Speaker 1: vibe that he felt like you were pretty flirty with

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Speaker 1: him his words, and then you went at a brunch

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Speaker 1: and then he hasn't heard from you or seen you

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Speaker 1: since then. You haven't gone to church either, So what

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Speaker 1: happened like kind of what's your side of the story?

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Speaker 3: I really, I really, I'm sorry. I really don't feel

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Speaker 3: comfortable talking about this, especially on the radio.

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Speaker 1: Well I don't want you to feel uncomfortable, and you're

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Speaker 1: welcome to hang up anytime. I'm not going to cry.

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Speaker 1: But you know, he called us, and so he knows

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Speaker 1: whatever happened. He I guess he was on the date too,

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Speaker 1: but he's confused. He doesn't know why you won't call him.

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Speaker 1: So we would love to be able to tell him why.

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Speaker 3: I just don't know if it's appropriate to say.

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Speaker 1: Well, why don't you tell us? And then we'll decide

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Speaker 1: if it's appropriate, right, I would love to be the

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Speaker 1: judge of appropriateness on this. Okay, thank you, all.

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Speaker 3: Right, this is awkward. But yeah, so we went on

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Speaker 3: the date, but he one had hickeys all over his neck.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, all right, So okay, so so shirts unbuttoned

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Speaker 1: a little bit. You know, we had exposed neck and

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Speaker 1: we had lots of hickeys. We're sure that's what it

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Speaker 1: was not. Kind of maybe like a razor burn situation. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: maybe the man was allergic to poison. IVY or something.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if he was recently camping. I mean,

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Speaker 1: is there sure? Are were certain they were hickeys?

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Speaker 3: I am one.

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Speaker 4: Hundred percent certain. And it was like I had just

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Speaker 4: seen him at church too, and he didn't have them done,

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Speaker 4: so to me, like that is completely gross, And I

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Speaker 4: just felt really uncomfortable and I didn't want to I

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Speaker 4: didn't want to be on the date honestly, and I

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Speaker 4: don't really want to see him again, and like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: now I can't even.

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Speaker 3: Go back to church.

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Speaker 1: Well let's just say for a second, Julia, they were hickeys, Like,

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Speaker 1: let's just say that you know he is a single

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Speaker 1: man and this is the first day that you've gone on. Well,

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Speaker 1: I would probably cover those up. I also think it's

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Speaker 1: not like he necessarily did something wrong. I mean it's

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Speaker 1: not you guys aren't dating, you haven't been together for

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Speaker 1: a while or anything. Are you just saying that for you,

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Speaker 1: the idea that he may have, you know, had some

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Speaker 1: fun with somebody else is enough for you to say.

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Speaker 3: Not for me, yeah, completely.

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Speaker 5: I mean to show up on a first date and

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Speaker 5: to like clearly be flauntine that you've been, you know,

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Speaker 5: doing some illicit business with somebody else one that's.

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Speaker 3: Just so offensive to me too. It's just gross.

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Speaker 5: I don't want to know that.

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Speaker 4: And three, like I don't know, he could have just

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Speaker 4: covered it up, like there's so many other things he

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Speaker 4: could have done.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I want to hear hiky too, But that's

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Speaker 1: that's Tom, the Hickey man. Tom. So what why did

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Speaker 1: you show up on the date with exposed hickeys? Then?

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, by the way, Julie, she's here, Yes.

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Speaker 6: Sir, Julia, I uh, those are not okay. I had

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Speaker 6: an allergic.

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Speaker 2: Reaction to something earlier that day.

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Speaker 1: It's not well, an allergic reaction to a female or

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Speaker 1: a male, I mean a man. I could have been either.

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Speaker 1: I suppose I just want to be I want to

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Speaker 1: be inclusive. You know, we all do hickeys.

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Speaker 6: I had in a world cergic reaction of chocolate, okay,

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Speaker 6: Like I meant to tell you that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, did you roll around? Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I look. Look it's like even if they were Hickey's, Like, like,

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Speaker 6: I am single, So it's it's not like I'm not allowed.

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Speaker 1: To have them if they were hickey because we just

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Speaker 1: went from chocolate reaction to the potential of a hickey.

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Speaker 1: What kind of church, y'all. Go, it's a very active church, very.

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Speaker 6: I can think I go to a nice one.

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Speaker 1: They're seeing the light. I mean, yeah, people meet a church.

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Speaker 1: By the way, Yes, you should meet in church. I

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Speaker 1: don't know if he should lead like he got the

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Speaker 1: hickey between leaving church and meeting up with her. So

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Speaker 1: did you have to leave church like.

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Speaker 2: A church?

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Speaker 1: I got a lot of questions. Yeah, I mean truly,

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Speaker 1: so for you, it's just it's just sort of was distasteful,

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Speaker 1: Like you didn't want to have to see that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Absolutely, would anyone want to see that?

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Speaker 1: I know? But I also think you're just meeting right,

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Speaker 1: So it's possible that he's kissing other women and that

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Speaker 1: wouldn't necessarily be out of bounds. It wouldn't be And.

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Speaker 2: You know what, you know, I can I can cover

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Speaker 2: them up.

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Speaker 1: You think ourselves said vau him down?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Was it your curling iron? It's chocolate, Caitlin, Okay, look,

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Speaker 1: I don't I don't know. Would you consider giving him

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Speaker 1: another opportunity?

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Speaker 3: No, absolutely not. I don't think that the situation is

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Speaker 3: for me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, thank you. You go back to church though, now

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Speaker 1: that everything's settled settled, I mean you know, you don't

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Speaker 1: have to not go. That's not cool.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm going to have to find a new church

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Speaker 3: and you know that time. Hush.

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Speaker 1: But it sounds like it might be a wild place

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Speaker 1: over there. It's great. They gets okay, all right. Well

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Speaker 1: look Tom, I'm sorry talking to work out. I wish

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Speaker 1: you well. Julie, thank you for your time as well.

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Speaker 1: Thanks