WEBVTT - BOBBY LEE GIVES ADVICE AS A GECKO 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:02.920 Hey, folks, it's Lyle. Before we get into the episode, 0:00:02.920 --> 0:00:05.640 I wanted to remind you guys that I am taking 0:00:05.720 --> 0:00:10.560 this podcast on tour to several cities across the country 0:00:10.840 --> 0:00:13.360 in just a couple of weeks, and I would love 0:00:13.400 --> 0:00:15.360 to see you guys there. I will be being a 0:00:15.440 --> 0:00:18.720 Gecko and bringing folks up on stage to interview them, 0:00:18.840 --> 0:00:22.400 just like I do on here in New York City, Boston, 0:00:22.880 --> 0:00:28.720 d C, Philadelphia, Miami, Nashville, and Denver. Tickets for Seattle 0:00:28.760 --> 0:00:33.000 and Chicago are sold out completely, and other cities will 0:00:33.040 --> 0:00:35.360 soon follow. So if you want to come see Therapy 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:37.760 Gecko Live, you can get your tickets from the link 0:00:37.840 --> 0:00:40.920 in the description. All right, let's get into the episode. 0:00:41.000 --> 0:00:42.959 But it's like if I call myself the martial arts, 0:00:43.040 --> 0:00:46.000 get goo. I don't know martial arts, okay, false advertising. 0:00:46.400 --> 0:00:48.600 Well I'm okay. I'm not licensed as a therapist, but 0:00:49.440 --> 0:00:52.479 I don't really do I don't. I wouldn't say that 0:00:52.600 --> 0:00:56.640 on here. We do like therapy, and I don't. I 0:00:56.640 --> 0:01:00.320 don't approach this from a point of like, I know 0:01:00.640 --> 0:01:03.840 things come to me. It's more like, I, you know, 0:01:03.880 --> 0:01:08.120 I'm talking to people through about stuff. You're a nice guy, thanks, 0:01:08.240 --> 0:01:11.280 but for the little I know of you, I know 0:01:11.360 --> 0:01:16.160 as much. Yes, And I wouldn't call myself like therapy Korean. Sure, 0:01:16.400 --> 0:01:18.479 I don't, and I can I tell you I don't. 0:01:18.760 --> 0:01:21.040 I don't like the name. I've always kind of hated 0:01:21.040 --> 0:01:24.200 the name therapy gecko because it kind of sets a 0:01:24.560 --> 0:01:27.479 precedent that I'm going to give therapy, and it's it's 0:01:27.520 --> 0:01:29.160 more just about talking than it is, like. 0:01:29.160 --> 0:01:29.720 Let's just speak. 0:01:29.959 --> 0:01:32.920 Fat geckos might just be fat echoes. Yeah, I'll pull 0:01:32.920 --> 0:01:36.759 out your stomach. Do you have anything in your belly 0:01:36.760 --> 0:01:39.120 button right now? Do you have anything in your belly button? 0:01:39.880 --> 0:01:44.120 Maybe some pizza? Well, just things spill over, things spill over. 0:01:45.000 --> 0:01:48.000 And my my belly button is very deep. It's like 0:01:48.000 --> 0:01:51.040 an abyss. So sometimes I'll find like black stuff in it. 0:01:51.160 --> 0:01:54.000 Really, Yeah, you're found something in there that is like 0:01:54.080 --> 0:01:55.040 of any value. 0:01:55.520 --> 0:01:57.360 I don't think the black gunk. That's no, there's no 0:01:57.440 --> 0:01:59.400 value there unless it's crude oil. But I don't think 0:01:59.400 --> 0:02:00.200 it Isobby. 0:02:00.240 --> 0:02:02.480 What's been the most persistent thought on your mind lately? 0:02:03.080 --> 0:02:03.480 Today? 0:02:03.920 --> 0:02:06.320 Just in general, I'm alone. You're feeling lonely. 0:02:06.320 --> 0:02:07.000 I feel lonely. 0:02:07.240 --> 0:02:10.200 How does how are you like dealing with your your loneliness. 0:02:10.240 --> 0:02:11.799 What are you doing porn hub? 0:02:11.840 --> 0:02:12.000 Yeah? 0:02:12.120 --> 0:02:13.079 What do you watch on porn hub? 0:02:13.800 --> 0:02:15.480 I have my own searches that I like that are 0:02:15.520 --> 0:02:16.720 specifically my own. 0:02:16.919 --> 0:02:18.240 Okay, can I Can I hear one of them? 0:02:18.280 --> 0:02:19.000 Or is that private? 0:02:19.720 --> 0:02:24.240 I like new faces okay, yeah, yeah, like the new 0:02:25.040 --> 0:02:29.000 Is that a it's like Montreal comedy fashion? Yeah, but 0:02:29.000 --> 0:02:33.240 it's a new face, like the new kids. Okay, not kids, 0:02:33.280 --> 0:02:37.120 I mean new adults. Yeah, but yeah, I like that. 0:02:38.680 --> 0:02:40.040 I like it when they just don't know, like when 0:02:40.040 --> 0:02:44.000 they're pro, because I'm not pro. I've I've smashed before, 0:02:44.639 --> 0:02:47.480 but I you know, I'm okay with missionary. 0:02:47.840 --> 0:02:48.040 Sure? 0:02:48.120 --> 0:02:49.720 Are you good with missionary? 0:02:49.800 --> 0:02:50.200 Yeah? 0:02:50.480 --> 0:02:53.040 I I like missionary because you. 0:02:53.120 --> 0:02:54.079 Like looking at the face. 0:02:54.200 --> 0:02:57.240 Sure, not the face that's nice. I never lock eyes. 0:02:57.320 --> 0:02:58.000 You never like eyes. 0:02:58.040 --> 0:02:59.480 No, I like to look at the cheek or something. 0:02:59.560 --> 0:03:00.800 Really, are you are you afraid? 0:03:01.120 --> 0:03:03.120 I'm afraid that they're gonna see through me? Why? What 0:03:03.160 --> 0:03:05.760 are you afraid that they'll say I'm not good? 0:03:06.000 --> 0:03:06.600 But you're not good? 0:03:06.639 --> 0:03:09.520 Yeah? Yeah? Do you doggy style? 0:03:09.520 --> 0:03:11.760 I'm not good really because I'm short, so I have 0:03:11.760 --> 0:03:14.200 stubby legs, so I have to prop them up in 0:03:14.240 --> 0:03:15.960 some weird way. It's got to be like it just 0:03:16.000 --> 0:03:19.079 turns into some sort of like cheerleading thing. 0:03:19.480 --> 0:03:21.440 Do you think that though, Okay, do you think there's 0:03:21.560 --> 0:03:25.560 like an objective good bad binary thing with sex or 0:03:25.600 --> 0:03:27.040 do you think if a girl is with you, she 0:03:27.160 --> 0:03:29.600 just likes you for you and the way that you 0:03:29.639 --> 0:03:32.480 do things. So if you do sex in a way 0:03:32.480 --> 0:03:33.920 that you think is bad, but the girls with you 0:03:33.919 --> 0:03:36.000 because she likes you and she likes the way that 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:38.760 you do things, and she likes your body, So what 0:03:38.800 --> 0:03:40.480 you think is bad, she might be. 0:03:40.680 --> 0:03:42.880 Well, I think that the love and the like and 0:03:42.880 --> 0:03:47.240 and their feelings right kind of you know, supersedes the 0:03:47.600 --> 0:03:50.880 skill level. Is that the right you GeSe what I'm saying, 0:03:51.640 --> 0:03:53.760 If they like you a lot, then they'll just go, ah, 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:56.400 you know what I mean, you get two pumps and 0:03:56.440 --> 0:03:58.680 they just nutted. But yeah, you know what I mean, 0:03:58.800 --> 0:04:00.440 I like him so much, I'm I'm going to buy 0:04:00.960 --> 0:04:01.680 see through that. 0:04:02.120 --> 0:04:04.040 And that's where you want to be, right, is where 0:04:04.080 --> 0:04:07.240 you're not like judging yourself so much on your your skill, 0:04:07.280 --> 0:04:09.440 but you're just kind of confident in that wall. 0:04:09.440 --> 0:04:11.480 If you start focusing on your skill, then it's it. 0:04:11.840 --> 0:04:14.320 Then it's like you're not in the moment, right, I 0:04:14.320 --> 0:04:15.520 start thinking about other. 0:04:15.360 --> 0:04:17.480 Things, like I'm doing this wrong. My back hurts, you 0:04:17.480 --> 0:04:17.800 know what I mean? 0:04:17.839 --> 0:04:20.320 I think any neat my operations on my knee because 0:04:20.320 --> 0:04:22.280 my knees there's like a little cartilage in it. 0:04:22.400 --> 0:04:24.160 Really, Yeah, have you been to a doctor about that? 0:04:24.400 --> 0:04:24.599 No? 0:04:24.760 --> 0:04:27.120 But I'm doing the Softball movie and I had to 0:04:27.160 --> 0:04:29.599 do a slide and I slid and I felt cartilage 0:04:29.640 --> 0:04:30.560 in my knee. 0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:31.520 Really, and it hurts so bad? 0:04:31.600 --> 0:04:32.520 Does it hurt right now? 0:04:32.600 --> 0:04:32.840 Yeah? 0:04:32.920 --> 0:04:34.000 If I touched it, would it hurt? 0:04:34.720 --> 0:04:36.120 It depends on how hard you touch it. I don't 0:04:36.120 --> 0:04:38.599 want you touch my name. I want Yeah, I don't 0:04:38.640 --> 0:04:39.240 know you that well. 0:04:39.560 --> 0:04:41.000 You don't know me that well. It would be weird 0:04:41.080 --> 0:04:41.840 for me to touch a name. 0:04:41.960 --> 0:04:43.960 If like you could, I'd rather you touch my penis 0:04:43.960 --> 0:04:44.360 than my knee. 0:04:44.400 --> 0:04:46.000 You'd rather you touch your penis in your name? 0:04:46.080 --> 0:04:48.080 Yeah? He is so intimate, you think. 0:04:47.880 --> 0:04:50.400 So I that does kind of make sense. Like if 0:04:50.400 --> 0:04:52.039 I were to do I don't even I won't. 0:04:52.080 --> 0:04:54.839 Yeah, yeah, I'm sorry, but like, uh, yeah, can I 0:04:54.880 --> 0:04:55.719 touch your knee? Yeah? 0:04:55.720 --> 0:04:56.360 You can touch my name? 0:04:56.360 --> 0:04:58.320 Okay, I will later, you will later? 0:04:58.360 --> 0:05:00.520 Yeah, yeah, I'll only let you touch my knee if 0:05:00.560 --> 0:05:02.039 I know when you're going to do it, Like, you 0:05:02.040 --> 0:05:04.160 can't just surprise me because it's a different thing. 0:05:05.120 --> 0:05:07.920 I'll make a I'll make like an announcements song. 0:05:08.240 --> 0:05:09.680 You make an announcement song. 0:05:09.839 --> 0:05:12.560 Like something like da da or something like that, and 0:05:12.600 --> 0:05:13.240 then I'll do it. 0:05:13.440 --> 0:05:15.800 Okay, Now you can only do it if you do 0:05:15.800 --> 0:05:22.920 the announcement song. Now I feel like it's unbalanced kind 0:05:22.920 --> 0:05:27.640 of touchers. No, no, I have a CD. I don't 0:05:27.680 --> 0:05:29.520 have to touch yourn. It's weird. It's weird that I'm 0:05:30.720 --> 0:05:31.640 trying to touch your name. 0:05:32.040 --> 0:05:35.599 Is this how this usually begins? Or you don't go, hey, 0:05:35.600 --> 0:05:37.280 welcome to the therapy gecko or anything like that. 0:05:37.320 --> 0:05:39.279 I don't I feel weird doing that? 0:05:39.520 --> 0:05:40.280 Are you doing? Yeah? 0:05:40.640 --> 0:05:44.680 Like, hey everybody, I'm here with Comedy Sensation Bobby Lee 0:05:44.839 --> 0:05:47.240 and today we're gonna be geckos and talk to people 0:05:47.240 --> 0:05:47.760 on the phone. 0:05:48.000 --> 0:05:49.640 Yeah that felt weird? They did? 0:05:49.760 --> 0:05:51.080 Yeah, Okay, how did it feel for real? 0:05:51.160 --> 0:05:52.240 I like the way we're doing it. 0:05:52.320 --> 0:05:54.240 Okay, Yeah, you feel comfortable right now? 0:05:54.640 --> 0:05:55.440 I'm okay. 0:05:55.680 --> 0:05:59.120 So you said you felt alone? What you said you 0:05:59.120 --> 0:06:01.640 felt alone? When I asked you how your that's been 0:06:01.680 --> 0:06:04.239 your your primary it's. 0:06:04.040 --> 0:06:06.000 Not you know, when when you're in a relationship for 0:06:06.160 --> 0:06:08.600 as long as I was for ten years and I 0:06:09.000 --> 0:06:12.559 still do she know, she's my co host on Tiger Belly, 0:06:12.640 --> 0:06:17.600 my podcast, and when that they're just I think there 0:06:17.640 --> 0:06:19.240 just needs to be a time where you're just kind 0:06:19.279 --> 0:06:20.839 of like feeling things, you know what I mean. I 0:06:20.839 --> 0:06:24.600 think that's where I'm at. Yeah, what can you hear 0:06:24.600 --> 0:06:25.520 yourself in the air pods? 0:06:25.640 --> 0:06:28.440 No? Is that you're supposed to? What's the point of them? 0:06:28.440 --> 0:06:30.440 We'll get to We'll get to the point of the AirPods. Okay, 0:06:31.400 --> 0:06:37.000 we'll take calls. I just had no idea what the 0:06:37.240 --> 0:06:40.440 point of them? You know, you'll be all of your 0:06:40.480 --> 0:06:43.200 questions will soon be answered, maybe probably. Okay, do you 0:06:43.240 --> 0:06:44.560 have you have a real therapist you talked to? 0:06:44.680 --> 0:06:45.240 I do? 0:06:45.400 --> 0:06:46.960 Can I ask what your therapist has been telling you 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:49.840 when you tell them that you feel alone? I'm always okay, 0:06:49.880 --> 0:06:51.400 you were ragging on me for not being really I'm 0:06:51.400 --> 0:06:54.239 always very when people told me things on this show. 0:06:54.400 --> 0:06:57.320 I'm always very curious what a real therapist has to say. 0:06:57.440 --> 0:06:59.080 What does your real therapist tell you when you tell 0:06:59.080 --> 0:06:59.880 them that you feel alone? 0:07:01.120 --> 0:07:05.479 Well, I mean I think it's like, well, she's more 0:07:05.520 --> 0:07:08.040 of a trauma therapist, so I don't really generally you know, mean, 0:07:08.400 --> 0:07:12.360 I know that feelings are just feelings and they'll pass, right, 0:07:12.400 --> 0:07:14.040 so I don't generally go in there go I feel 0:07:14.080 --> 0:07:16.280 alone right now at this very second, because it's like 0:07:16.680 --> 0:07:18.600 we both will talk about well, it's a feeling that 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:19.720 will pass, you know what I mean? 0:07:19.800 --> 0:07:21.600 So my issues go deeper. 0:07:21.720 --> 0:07:23.880 So it's not something like I'm like, let's talk about 0:07:24.200 --> 0:07:27.000 me being alone, because there are moments in my life 0:07:27.040 --> 0:07:29.920 where I feel not alone. I feel happy, or there 0:07:29.920 --> 0:07:35.800 are moments when I feel joy sadness, all all the feelings, 0:07:35.840 --> 0:07:37.160 the gamp bit of feelings. 0:07:37.760 --> 0:07:39.760 Yeah, what kinds of things make you feel joy? 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:49.520 Lately? I feel I don't want to brag, I mean, 0:07:49.600 --> 0:07:52.280 I don't want to brag, but I feel joy. I 0:07:52.280 --> 0:07:54.120 feel joy. You know what, If I look. 0:07:54.000 --> 0:07:59.440 At my the longevity of my career, I feel proud 0:07:59.440 --> 0:08:02.920 of my I feel proud of myself when I feel 0:08:03.040 --> 0:08:05.280 I feel proud of myself. When I feel like, Okay, 0:08:05.320 --> 0:08:08.720 you're still relevant and you're still like getting asked to 0:08:08.800 --> 0:08:11.200 do jobs and stuff, I feel good about that. I 0:08:11.240 --> 0:08:14.040 feel a good that I'm sober again yeah, seven months. 0:08:14.640 --> 0:08:16.960 I mean I feel good about like you know, I 0:08:16.960 --> 0:08:23.560 mean thinking about like you know, Starfield or the new 0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:26.440 Harry Potter legacy, Hogwarts Legacy is about to come out, 0:08:27.080 --> 0:08:29.160 or the Haunted Chocolate Tear like video games are about 0:08:29.200 --> 0:08:29.560 to come out. 0:08:29.560 --> 0:08:30.440 I can't wait for those. 0:08:31.360 --> 0:08:33.080 So you feel you feel good about the longevity of 0:08:33.080 --> 0:08:34.800 your career, and I think that's I mean. I was 0:08:34.840 --> 0:08:37.520 telling you before you I was no, no, I was 0:08:37.800 --> 0:08:40.080 sorry for touching you don't touch sorry for touching it. 0:08:40.760 --> 0:08:44.680 We were just talking about how I told you that 0:08:44.720 --> 0:08:47.120 I was a big fan of you when I was fourteen, 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:48.760 ten years ago, and it. 0:08:48.640 --> 0:08:50.439 Makes me feel old. Well, it makes me feel old. 0:08:50.640 --> 0:08:51.200 So which is it? 0:08:51.200 --> 0:08:52.800 Are you proud or do you feel old? 0:08:53.240 --> 0:08:53.720 Fuck face? 0:08:54.000 --> 0:08:58.880 I'm sorry you can no please shit anything, bro, I 0:08:58.960 --> 0:09:02.240 just want to say that, like, you know, it's cool 0:09:02.240 --> 0:09:02.840 that you like. 0:09:02.920 --> 0:09:04.319 Here's what I hate. Please. 0:09:04.320 --> 0:09:06.320 I hate going like I'll go to a Korean restaurant 0:09:06.320 --> 0:09:09.840 and they'll go, hey, dude, I remember you were on 0:09:09.840 --> 0:09:11.600 Mad TV, But what have you what have you been 0:09:11.600 --> 0:09:12.200 doing lately? 0:09:12.480 --> 0:09:12.760 Sure? 0:09:12.920 --> 0:09:15.520 Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, but. 0:09:15.640 --> 0:09:17.679 I okay, I understand, I understand that, but you have this, 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:19.599 uh I mean you have this podcast that lots and 0:09:19.640 --> 0:09:20.400 lots of too. 0:09:20.520 --> 0:09:20.679 Man. 0:09:20.920 --> 0:09:24.319 Yeah, I have two good podcasts, have good podcasts. I 0:09:24.360 --> 0:09:26.439 sold a couple of shows to networks. 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:30.200 Yeah, that's still there. I'm reoccurring on three shows. Yeah. 0:09:30.840 --> 0:09:33.760 And you know, I'm doing little independent movies here and 0:09:33.800 --> 0:09:35.000 there and everything's fine. 0:09:35.000 --> 0:09:35.200 Man. 0:09:35.240 --> 0:09:37.120 People love you, man, They're all right. 0:09:37.280 --> 0:09:37.480 Man. 0:09:37.559 --> 0:09:38.760 I'm stoked to have you here. 0:09:39.080 --> 0:09:40.400 I'm good to be here too. Man. 0:09:41.120 --> 0:09:42.400 Do you wanna do you want to take a photo? 0:09:42.440 --> 0:09:46.040 Let's if it's it's racist, can I just move on? 0:09:46.400 --> 0:09:48.160 You know? Okay, So I'll tell you I'll tell you this. 0:09:48.640 --> 0:09:51.560 I used to not screen the calls. Now I have 0:09:51.640 --> 0:09:54.080 call screeners, so there's somebody on who talks to the 0:09:54.559 --> 0:09:59.280 person first before they come on. And before I screened 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:02.760 the calls, somebody would call in and randomly say something racist, 0:10:02.840 --> 0:10:09.960 like once every month maybe, And now now it never happens. 0:10:10.200 --> 0:10:12.600 Yeah, but during the screening, what if they go, oh, no, 0:10:12.840 --> 0:10:14.720 I'm not racist, and then they get on the line 0:10:14.720 --> 0:10:16.440 and they go, hey, ching chong, what happens? 0:10:16.440 --> 0:10:19.640 Then that could theoretically happen. Yeah, but it has never 0:10:19.720 --> 0:10:20.319 happened before. 0:10:20.720 --> 0:10:22.600 Let's happen. Let's I want it to happen. 0:10:22.840 --> 0:10:24.520 I want it to happen. Do you want me? Do 0:10:24.559 --> 0:10:26.400 you want me to instruct the screen orthing? I don't 0:10:26.400 --> 0:10:28.199 want them to say, but I'm just saying racist to 0:10:28.280 --> 0:10:29.880 let them through. You want me to tell them. 0:10:30.400 --> 0:10:31.960 I don't want that. I don't want you to tell 0:10:32.000 --> 0:10:33.240 them to do it. I just want to see if 0:10:33.280 --> 0:10:35.120 it happens. Then I'm going to say that your system 0:10:35.160 --> 0:10:35.640 doesn't work. 0:10:35.679 --> 0:10:37.720 Do you believe in manifestation and all? Do you believe 0:10:37.720 --> 0:10:39.920 that if you say that something might happen, it would happen. 0:10:39.960 --> 0:10:41.160 I do believe the manifestation? 0:10:41.240 --> 0:10:41.400 You do? 0:10:41.760 --> 0:10:41.960 Yeah? 0:10:42.120 --> 0:10:42.280 You do? 0:10:42.320 --> 0:10:44.600 You are you manifesting? Somebody calling it? 0:10:45.559 --> 0:10:45.599 No? 0:10:45.679 --> 0:10:49.720 I manifested things that are generally like on a broader pick, 0:10:49.960 --> 0:10:51.880 broader things in general. 0:10:51.960 --> 0:10:53.040 You know what I mean to answer question? 0:10:53.280 --> 0:10:56.280 I I don't believe in a manifestation in like a 0:10:56.280 --> 0:10:59.520 spiritual sense, but I believe in like your thoughts become 0:10:59.559 --> 0:11:01.840 your acts type type of shit. 0:11:02.120 --> 0:11:04.439 So I'm I disagree. 0:11:04.640 --> 0:11:05.240 You disagree? 0:11:05.320 --> 0:11:07.959 Yeah, I think there's some spiritual involved in that. 0:11:08.320 --> 0:11:11.480 What have you been manifesting lately? I've manifested my life 0:11:12.760 --> 0:11:14.680 and you feel like it turned out? Yeah, though you 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:16.840 wanted it to it is everything kind of the way 0:11:16.840 --> 0:11:18.800 that you thought it would be when you were no. 0:11:18.880 --> 0:11:19.960 But that's what's great about it. 0:11:19.960 --> 0:11:22.560 It's like if you dream big, your big goals, you 0:11:22.600 --> 0:11:25.040 never know what's going to happen. But it's like, if 0:11:25.040 --> 0:11:27.080 I got everything that I asked for, I don't think 0:11:27.120 --> 0:11:30.920 it'd be as exciting as it is now because if 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:33.240 there are things that I get, like I never even 0:11:33.360 --> 0:11:37.360 would dream about being here, right, and yet it's still 0:11:37.440 --> 0:11:41.680 a cool experience. You know, I didn't expect it. It's 0:11:41.840 --> 0:11:43.920 bigger than I thought, you know what I mean that 0:11:43.960 --> 0:11:45.400 I didn't dream big enough. 0:11:45.400 --> 0:11:47.600 I don't think you didn't dream big enough. Maybe does 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:50.040 that do you feel like you're it's it's good that 0:11:50.080 --> 0:11:52.280 you didn't just like map out everything and then now 0:11:52.320 --> 0:11:54.439 everything happened according to the map, because that would. 0:11:54.240 --> 0:11:56.360 Be a little Well I always had a dream to 0:11:56.360 --> 0:11:59.400 be on SNL, Yeah I never that never happened. Well, 0:11:59.440 --> 0:12:01.800 now you're on, but I got mad TV. Yeah right, 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:04.679 So it's like it was just a different thing, you 0:12:04.720 --> 0:12:06.480 know what I mean. But it's something not something. 0:12:06.240 --> 0:12:11.160 That I expected, and that's it. That's tychical. Hey is 0:12:11.200 --> 0:12:11.560 this ava? 0:12:11.720 --> 0:12:11.920 Yeah? 0:12:12.160 --> 0:12:13.360 And I'm here with my friend. 0:12:13.120 --> 0:12:15.360 Alex too Avo, how's it going today. 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:20.400 I wish I could say it's going well. I mean, 0:12:20.440 --> 0:12:22.360 I'm having a good time hanging out with my friend, 0:12:22.440 --> 0:12:27.959 but uh, you know, something just happened earlier, and I, 0:12:28.040 --> 0:12:31.160 you know, I don't feel very good about my my 0:12:31.280 --> 0:12:32.360 physical appearance. 0:12:33.280 --> 0:12:33.880 What happened? 0:12:36.559 --> 0:12:40.360 So, I was we were hanging out with my brother 0:12:40.480 --> 0:12:46.160 and his friend and we kind of I said that 0:12:46.200 --> 0:12:48.840 I wish I was a guy. I felt like being 0:12:48.840 --> 0:12:52.120 a guy might be easier than being a woman. And uh. 0:12:52.440 --> 0:12:55.120 And then so my brother's friend was like, I wish 0:12:55.120 --> 0:12:56.800 I was a girl. And I was just like and 0:12:56.840 --> 0:12:59.560 I was like, why would you wish you were a girl? 0:13:00.200 --> 0:13:03.320 And he was, uh. He started talking about like I 0:13:03.320 --> 0:13:04.920 don't know if I can say this, but like uh, 0:13:05.320 --> 0:13:10.160 female orgasm and stuff and like how there's so many, 0:13:10.880 --> 0:13:12.520 so many more ways to do that. And I was 0:13:12.559 --> 0:13:18.600 just like, okay, uh, that's okay, good for you. Then 0:13:19.080 --> 0:13:23.320 but I was talking about I like this one guy. 0:13:23.480 --> 0:13:25.920 He was another one of my brother's friends, and we 0:13:26.000 --> 0:13:28.720 had like a lot in common, but he didn't like me. 0:13:29.760 --> 0:13:34.800 But he has like a specific interest in women's women 0:13:35.600 --> 0:13:39.080 and uh, like goth girls with a big buds and 0:13:39.120 --> 0:13:41.319 boob and. 0:13:40.679 --> 0:13:45.240 And I was just like, well, okay, what would you 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:47.600 say that that? Just if you had to really get 0:13:47.600 --> 0:13:49.560 down to it, the crux of your issue. 0:13:49.240 --> 0:13:56.600 Is so with guys. I uh, I stand in the 0:13:56.600 --> 0:13:57.160 middle of. 0:13:57.160 --> 0:13:57.880 What guys like. 0:13:58.080 --> 0:14:03.040 I'm either not golf enough or I'm not basic enough, 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:06.000 and I know guys seem to be interested in me, 0:14:06.120 --> 0:14:07.439 and it makes me sad. 0:14:09.920 --> 0:14:15.079 Uh. Well, I mean the goth look they're pale, they 0:14:15.080 --> 0:14:17.959 look like they're dead. I don't like it. You know, 0:14:18.040 --> 0:14:20.160 everything's there's pentagrams, it's dark. 0:14:21.480 --> 0:14:23.120 What, Oh my god. 0:14:23.560 --> 0:14:25.840 Okay, well I'm not that not like that. 0:14:25.840 --> 0:14:32.320 I'm why Why are you focused on what other people 0:14:32.560 --> 0:14:34.520 want from you and trying to be what other. 0:14:34.360 --> 0:14:35.320 People want to you? 0:14:35.400 --> 0:14:37.760 That's gonna That's just that is just not a great 0:14:37.760 --> 0:14:40.920 way for you to approach your life and what you're doing. 0:14:43.800 --> 0:14:47.040 Well, I mean, I guess I just really I really 0:14:47.080 --> 0:14:50.760 want a relationship, and I really want someone that obviously 0:14:50.880 --> 0:14:53.440 likes me for me, But it doesn't seem that there's really. 0:14:53.320 --> 0:14:56.840 Anybody listen to me. 0:14:56.920 --> 0:15:01.720 Okay, most women in America especially, they want blue eyed 0:15:01.840 --> 0:15:05.560 Ryan Reynolds, Matt Damon. You know these types of looks, right, 0:15:06.040 --> 0:15:10.240 I'm a five foot three, fat Korean dude. Right, It's 0:15:10.320 --> 0:15:13.920 I'm not anywhere near what any girl wants. And yet 0:15:13.960 --> 0:15:17.240 I still have met girls that are very I'm very 0:15:17.240 --> 0:15:20.320 attracted to, that are very beautiful, right, that just like 0:15:20.440 --> 0:15:21.920 my look you know what I mean, So you might 0:15:21.960 --> 0:15:25.000 have to wait a little longer. Right, look at Lyle, 0:15:25.040 --> 0:15:26.880 this fat piess of shit, you know what I mean. 0:15:26.880 --> 0:15:30.560 This guy is just like he looks like a fucking marshmallow, 0:15:30.640 --> 0:15:33.840 this duy. Yeah, yeah, yeah, and yet girls still like him, right, 0:15:35.200 --> 0:15:37.040 you know what I mean, Girls that like schmores or whatever, 0:15:37.120 --> 0:15:37.600 you know what I mean. 0:15:37.960 --> 0:15:39.920 And I feel so I used to be like obsessed 0:15:39.960 --> 0:15:41.840 with like I need to get in shape to get 0:15:42.280 --> 0:15:44.400 girls to like me, And now I'm like, I would 0:15:44.480 --> 0:15:47.920 so much rather just be like, if you go the 0:15:48.000 --> 0:15:51.000 other way, lean exactly into being who I am. 0:15:51.120 --> 0:15:51.960 Yeah, feels so. 0:15:52.000 --> 0:15:54.360 Much better and people pick up on that. People like that. 0:15:54.400 --> 0:15:57.120 When also if you work on the insides, right, So 0:15:57.200 --> 0:16:00.800 my personality, I've always worked on my personality and my 0:16:00.920 --> 0:16:04.160 social skill sets and things that God gave me in 0:16:04.240 --> 0:16:07.240 terms of gifts, like being funny or all these other things. 0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:09.840 I work with what I have. Yes, you gotta work 0:16:09.840 --> 0:16:10.600 with whether you have. 0:16:10.720 --> 0:16:15.120 Gotta work with what you have, Ava, with what I have? 0:16:16.320 --> 0:16:19.640 Yeah, how old? How old are you? Ava? 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:22.200 I'm eighteen. 0:16:22.200 --> 0:16:25.360 You're a kidding, You're a fucking kid. 0:16:26.560 --> 0:16:28.320 I didn't get laid until I was twenty three. 0:16:28.400 --> 0:16:32.360 I mean what I mean? 0:16:32.400 --> 0:16:32.920 Good time? 0:16:35.520 --> 0:16:40.080 What do we even do here? Ava? 0:16:40.200 --> 0:16:45.120 Ava? I get the impulse if you haven't had the 0:16:45.200 --> 0:16:49.080 big love that you've always been dreaming of having right now, 0:16:49.120 --> 0:16:53.480 But Ava, listen to Bobby, lean into yourself, do what 0:16:53.520 --> 0:16:56.360 you can with what you have, and please, for the 0:16:56.400 --> 0:16:59.520 love of God, don't be so obsessed with what you 0:16:59.680 --> 0:17:01.280 think other guys like. 0:17:04.320 --> 0:17:08.239 Yeah, my greatest Eva, My greatest loves have been in 0:17:08.240 --> 0:17:16.040 my thirties and forties. M okay, if if, if When 0:17:16.080 --> 0:17:18.320 I was nineteen, twenty years old, I met this girl 0:17:18.400 --> 0:17:21.720 and I used to pray every night, Please Lord Jesus, 0:17:22.119 --> 0:17:25.240 let this woman be my wife. Right, And it never happened. 0:17:25.520 --> 0:17:27.639 I saw her three years ago. She looks like the 0:17:27.680 --> 0:17:29.760 thing from Fantastic four. 0:17:30.720 --> 0:17:32.600 If that would have happened, I would have been fucked 0:17:32.680 --> 0:17:36.920 right now, right, So everything happens in God's time. Right, 0:17:37.920 --> 0:17:39.639 I could be right now have making love to the 0:17:40.000 --> 0:17:43.840 thing every night. Rocky you know what I mean, ry skin, 0:17:44.000 --> 0:17:46.240 You know what I mean? Do you understand what I'm saying? 0:17:46.600 --> 0:17:47.320 Yeah? 0:17:47.119 --> 0:17:58.640 Yeah, I understand a. 0:17:53.920 --> 0:17:56.080 Ava, listen, I hope this was helpful for you. Is 0:17:56.080 --> 0:17:57.720 there anything else you want to say to the people 0:17:57.720 --> 0:17:58.760 of the computer before we go? 0:18:02.480 --> 0:18:03.199 I love therapy. 0:18:03.320 --> 0:18:07.920 I go, and I'm so happy that I got on here. 0:18:06.240 --> 0:18:09.440 Thank you, Thank you. Have a good night, Ava. 0:18:10.880 --> 0:18:11.080 Yes? 0:18:12.720 --> 0:18:16.080 What does she at? Eighteen? I did? I had no 0:18:16.280 --> 0:18:19.359 money you have. I was still living in my parents' house. 0:18:20.440 --> 0:18:22.880 You know what I mean? I was cutting myself with razors. 0:18:23.240 --> 0:18:28.280 And things are better now ten times a thousand times better. Yeah? Yeah, yeah. 0:18:28.320 --> 0:18:30.880 It's like it's crazy. You're young, you have your whole 0:18:30.880 --> 0:18:33.359 life ahead of your eye. I would trade anything to 0:18:33.400 --> 0:18:34.480 get youth back. 0:18:34.720 --> 0:18:37.040 Hello. Yes, what's going on? 0:18:37.160 --> 0:18:37.320 Is this? 0:18:37.680 --> 0:18:38.040 Sonny? 0:18:39.840 --> 0:18:40.199 It is? 0:18:40.320 --> 0:18:40.520 Yeah? 0:18:41.480 --> 0:18:41.880 Sonny? 0:18:42.000 --> 0:18:45.560 How can we get you? We're called chilling as well? Dog? 0:18:45.600 --> 0:18:46.120 What's up? 0:18:48.640 --> 0:18:49.359 Not much? 0:18:49.760 --> 0:18:49.960 Uh? 0:18:50.080 --> 0:18:51.639 Sonny? What is it that you call it? 0:18:53.320 --> 0:18:55.720 What's the question? Sonny? 0:18:56.640 --> 0:18:58.679 What is it that you called in to talk about today? Sonny? 0:19:02.400 --> 0:19:05.320 I I don't know. I mean, we could talk about anything. 0:19:05.359 --> 0:19:06.439 Do you want me to get Do you want me 0:19:06.480 --> 0:19:08.359 to son you want me to Here's what I'm gonna do. 0:19:08.400 --> 0:19:10.080 I'm gonna put you back in the queue, and then 0:19:10.080 --> 0:19:11.600 I'll give you a second to think about it. 0:19:14.720 --> 0:19:21.719 I can tell you about my eyes. I had a okay, so, 0:19:22.000 --> 0:19:24.840 uh like one day I woke up and my my 0:19:24.920 --> 0:19:28.480 eyes hurt, and I go to work and like and everything, 0:19:28.560 --> 0:19:30.320 and they just got worse and worse. And one day 0:19:30.520 --> 0:19:34.480 I woke up and I didn't have like, like any vision, 0:19:34.680 --> 0:19:39.520 Like my pupils separated and it looked like a fucking 0:19:39.640 --> 0:19:40.440 goat pupil. 0:19:42.080 --> 0:19:43.919 Are you a lizard alien? 0:19:46.280 --> 0:19:49.879 I I mean I've pondered that question before, which I 0:19:49.920 --> 0:19:54.879 mean that would mean that means. 0:19:53.520 --> 0:19:56.760 Right, yeah, can you see now? 0:19:57.160 --> 0:20:02.240 Yeah? Yeah, I can see now. You know everything is good. 0:20:03.119 --> 0:20:05.000 Oh, so you got some cataract or what I mean 0:20:05.040 --> 0:20:06.200 something was going on your eyes? 0:20:08.840 --> 0:20:11.000 Yeah, I mean I don't know. It could have been genetic. 0:20:11.960 --> 0:20:13.200 You didn't go to the hospital. 0:20:15.720 --> 0:20:18.159 Yeah, I went to the hospital. I was in the military. 0:20:18.200 --> 0:20:19.880 This is when I was in Okinaw with a fan. 0:20:21.400 --> 0:20:24.879 Oh you're in the military, what branch Let me guess Army? 0:20:26.880 --> 0:20:27.600 No, the marine? 0:20:28.600 --> 0:20:31.199 Oh my bad? The one higher? Is that higher up? 0:20:31.680 --> 0:20:33.480 Is that higher higher up? I don't know, are there 0:20:33.480 --> 0:20:35.560 are I feel like they're not ranked like officially. 0:20:36.080 --> 0:20:37.359 Yeah, I'd rather be in the army. 0:20:38.119 --> 0:20:39.080 I don't be in any of them. 0:20:39.200 --> 0:20:40.680 You don't see. 0:20:42.359 --> 0:20:44.240 Okay, is your eye feeling better now? 0:20:46.600 --> 0:20:46.840 Yeah? 0:20:46.840 --> 0:20:47.199 It is. 0:20:47.800 --> 0:20:50.320 I mean I got medically retired. I was the military 0:20:50.440 --> 0:20:56.200 and yeah, now I got I got diagnosed with schizophrenian depression. 0:20:56.920 --> 0:20:59.439 Mm hm oh man, that's tough. Let me ask you 0:20:59.480 --> 0:21:02.159 just a side. Know in Okinawa, did you give me 0:21:02.240 --> 0:21:05.480 any raw denim? You have a really good rownam like jeans, 0:21:05.520 --> 0:21:05.960 like the jeans. 0:21:06.119 --> 0:21:06.880 H Yeah. 0:21:07.920 --> 0:21:11.520 I actually had a Turkish friend. He tailored suits for 0:21:11.640 --> 0:21:15.000 me and he brought back at denim jacket from Turkey, 0:21:15.240 --> 0:21:16.280 which was pretty cool. 0:21:17.240 --> 0:21:21.080 Yeah, that's not the question it was. 0:21:21.359 --> 0:21:24.119 I guess he was like it was a side of 0:21:24.160 --> 0:21:24.679 a side. 0:21:24.920 --> 0:21:27.600 Yeah, but I don't buy it, Like who buys Turkish danim? 0:21:27.640 --> 0:21:29.639 I've never heard of Turkish dana. I've never heard of 0:21:29.600 --> 0:21:31.760 a Japanese You never heard of Okinawa. 0:21:31.840 --> 0:21:33.240 I've never heard of Okawa demo. 0:21:34.119 --> 0:21:37.479 But now I'll go, guess you haven't. All right, Well 0:21:37.480 --> 0:21:39.200 maybe I'm the only hipster here. 0:21:40.720 --> 0:21:43.600 All right, Sonny, do you feel okay in this very moment? 0:21:46.480 --> 0:21:46.720 Yeah? 0:21:46.760 --> 0:21:50.240 I feel okay. I'm getting more comfortable with you guys? 0:21:51.160 --> 0:21:55.119 Yeah, Sonny, are you? What nationality are you? What ethnicity 0:21:55.160 --> 0:21:57.000 are you? I mean, is that weird to ask you? 0:21:57.280 --> 0:21:59.800 I mean, I'm white? 0:22:00.160 --> 0:22:06.920 Why you sound white? Yeah? Eyes, it's a good look, man. 0:22:08.480 --> 0:22:10.000 Yeah, my friends here. 0:22:10.720 --> 0:22:11.880 Oh, I heard him. I heard. 0:22:12.160 --> 0:22:13.480 I'm starting to feel comfortable. 0:22:13.720 --> 0:22:14.119 How are you? 0:22:15.960 --> 0:22:16.720 I'm doing well? 0:22:17.280 --> 0:22:17.399 Uh? 0:22:17.640 --> 0:22:20.440 You wanted someone to say something racist, but Lyle, you're 0:22:20.480 --> 0:22:23.159 a mao slurping glacier and it's not racist. 0:22:23.200 --> 0:22:25.680 It's just why did you hear what he said? 0:22:26.560 --> 0:22:28.520 Glamor? Right? I don't wont know what that means. 0:22:28.880 --> 0:22:35.000 Say that one, Lyle is a mao slurping glacier. 0:22:34.520 --> 0:22:41.280 Age male slurping glacier? Egg ape ape or egg? 0:22:41.720 --> 0:22:45.240 That doesn't sound ape a. 0:22:45.520 --> 0:22:47.520 It has to be ape because eggs is not racist. 0:22:47.600 --> 0:22:54.000 Okay, should I hang up? I'll hang up? Yeah, yeah, alright, 0:22:54.000 --> 0:22:55.679 you manifested what you wanted? How does it? 0:22:55.960 --> 0:22:58.080 How does it? But that wasn't toward Asians? 0:22:58.720 --> 0:23:02.080 Was that? You never seen what he said? 0:23:02.680 --> 0:23:04.840 I don't I have no idea what the hell he said? 0:23:05.160 --> 0:23:07.320 Does he think I'm Eskimo? Maybe the glacier? 0:23:09.000 --> 0:23:12.200 I don't think he. I don't think anyone in that 0:23:12.280 --> 0:23:14.240 situation kind of knew what was going on. 0:23:14.320 --> 0:23:17.119 Yeah, these two dudes, man, they need they need a 0:23:17.600 --> 0:23:18.520 cereal therapys. 0:23:18.720 --> 0:23:20.639 They need they needed a party or something, you know, 0:23:20.840 --> 0:23:21.520 they to go out. 0:23:22.560 --> 0:23:25.200 Next question, Angel, Hello. 0:23:26.880 --> 0:23:28.800 Oh what's good? 0:23:29.280 --> 0:23:37.440 Hello? Was good? What's good? What's good with you? I'm Angel, 0:23:38.880 --> 0:23:41.240 I'm Bob and this is Lyle. We're geckos. 0:23:43.000 --> 0:23:45.600 Oh it's a I did not expect to get on. 0:23:45.680 --> 0:23:46.520 I'm so happy that. 0:23:47.119 --> 0:23:48.440 Okay, So what do you have a question? 0:23:53.160 --> 0:23:53.360 Well? 0:23:53.440 --> 0:23:55.400 I kind of had like a well, I mean, first 0:23:55.440 --> 0:23:57.040 of all, I'm at a funeral right now. 0:23:57.640 --> 0:23:59.240 Oh, this is a great time. 0:23:59.160 --> 0:23:59.760 My great grandma. 0:23:59.880 --> 0:24:03.160 Just you you're at a funeral right now? 0:24:03.480 --> 0:24:06.560 Your I mean, it ended already. We're we're kind of 0:24:06.560 --> 0:24:08.200 having the food right now, we're having the dinner. 0:24:08.880 --> 0:24:09.200 Okay. 0:24:09.200 --> 0:24:11.800 How was the funeral road? Was it moving time? 0:24:13.320 --> 0:24:14.480 Uh? 0:24:14.560 --> 0:24:15.199 Yeah, it was. 0:24:15.320 --> 0:24:16.159 It was emotional. 0:24:17.119 --> 0:24:20.960 I'm sorry, man. How old was she when she passed? 0:24:23.280 --> 0:24:24.120 She was ninety two. 0:24:25.000 --> 0:24:26.400 Well that's a long live. 0:24:26.680 --> 0:24:29.719 That's a pretty good lie. Yeah, yeah, can I can 0:24:29.800 --> 0:24:31.760 I get personal? Is it open casket? 0:24:32.359 --> 0:24:35.640 That very peaceful? Was it open casket? 0:24:35.880 --> 0:24:36.120 Yeah? 0:24:37.000 --> 0:24:38.640 Yeah, open casket and. 0:24:38.560 --> 0:24:39.480 Did you look in the face. 0:24:42.000 --> 0:24:44.920 Yeah, it's very strange in me honestly. 0:24:44.960 --> 0:24:47.720 Yeah, it's don't you hate open casket? I don't. 0:24:47.720 --> 0:24:50.439 I don't never been. I'm close it. I'm Jewish, so 0:24:50.520 --> 0:24:52.880 with only like family funerals that have been to they 0:24:52.960 --> 0:24:55.479 are closed, they are I think I think open casket 0:24:55.520 --> 0:24:56.480 is not a Jewish thing. 0:24:56.359 --> 0:24:58.119 Like I can already imagine what it looks like. Is 0:24:58.280 --> 0:25:00.840 just close it, Yeah, just because I don't have to see. Yeah, 0:25:00.960 --> 0:25:02.600 what kind of woman was your great grandmother? 0:25:02.760 --> 0:25:05.119 Did you I feel like, did you get like a 0:25:05.119 --> 0:25:08.200 good sense of her personality when she was alive? 0:25:08.359 --> 0:25:11.960 Did you see she was very Why I feel like 0:25:12.000 --> 0:25:14.840 most of my life like I wouldn't really talk to 0:25:14.840 --> 0:25:16.359 her too much. She was just kind of there on 0:25:16.400 --> 0:25:18.680 the couch in the corner, you know. And then. 0:25:24.320 --> 0:25:28.600 Personal connection, I mean she was wise, but you didn't 0:25:28.640 --> 0:25:31.360 ask her questions like what's life about great grandmother? 0:25:32.600 --> 0:25:36.080 Well, it's like, uh so, like we're Mexican, and like 0:25:36.280 --> 0:25:39.199 my Spanish is like not too good, so it's kind 0:25:39.240 --> 0:25:41.359 of like a language barrier there. And then she's also 0:25:41.400 --> 0:25:42.760 like very hard of hearing as well. 0:25:43.720 --> 0:25:44.800 Oh she was hard of hearing. 0:25:46.320 --> 0:25:49.120 Yeah, so if anby I'd say, like my grandma, right now, 0:25:49.160 --> 0:25:52.200 I have more of a personal connection to rather than 0:25:52.200 --> 0:25:52.960 my great grandma. 0:25:53.680 --> 0:25:55.720 So your grandma, now, what kind of questions would you 0:25:55.760 --> 0:25:56.680 ask her about life? 0:25:59.280 --> 0:25:59.600 Uh? 0:26:00.040 --> 0:26:02.400 That's crazy. I mean I've like asked her like what 0:26:02.440 --> 0:26:04.119 it was like growing up, because like they crossed the 0:26:04.119 --> 0:26:07.160 border and everything, and like they were literally like cavemen 0:26:07.240 --> 0:26:09.320 at one point, like living in a cave, and I 0:26:09.359 --> 0:26:13.119 was like living in a cave. Yeah, like. 0:26:15.160 --> 0:26:16.600 I was saying another racist thing. 0:26:20.359 --> 0:26:23.160 Yeah, but you know, like they crossed the border, and 0:26:23.200 --> 0:26:27.080 like with all their kids, they have three three girls, 0:26:27.080 --> 0:26:27.600 three boys. 0:26:27.600 --> 0:26:28.680 One of the girls is my mom. 0:26:29.320 --> 0:26:33.639 I think that's nice that your your great grandma dying 0:26:34.000 --> 0:26:37.480 like gave you a little bit of a sense of urgency, Like, oh, 0:26:37.560 --> 0:26:39.919 the older people in my life, I really need to 0:26:40.000 --> 0:26:44.000 take the time now to get their stories before they're gone. 0:26:44.040 --> 0:26:47.040 I feel like it's a weird, like blessing in disguise, 0:26:47.160 --> 0:26:50.440 sour sweet kind of thing to get woken up by 0:26:50.680 --> 0:26:51.639 by death like that. 0:26:52.440 --> 0:26:52.640 Yeah. 0:26:52.720 --> 0:26:55.639 Also, can I ask you something? Are you you? Would 0:26:55.640 --> 0:26:57.280 you be good atcrossing the border? I don't think I 0:26:57.280 --> 0:26:58.280 would be that good at it. 0:26:59.400 --> 0:27:02.760 I wouldn't know, I wouldn't know what and. 0:27:02.160 --> 0:27:04.679 I'm not a climber. You know what I mean, like 0:27:04.680 --> 0:27:05.679 what what what would. 0:27:05.400 --> 0:27:12.480 You do places alone? I'm like you like with. 0:27:12.440 --> 0:27:16.280 Me, right, so to cross the border alone, that'd be 0:27:16.280 --> 0:27:18.840 scary huh yeah exactly. 0:27:19.720 --> 0:27:20.080 Yeah. 0:27:20.280 --> 0:27:21.600 But would you. 0:27:21.520 --> 0:27:23.760 Take would you would you pay for somebody to sneak 0:27:23.760 --> 0:27:25.520 in a van? Like maybe I would do that route? 0:27:25.640 --> 0:27:27.959 Yeah yeah, I couldn't do any version of it that 0:27:27.960 --> 0:27:29.960 would require any amount of athletics. 0:27:29.960 --> 0:27:31.200 Athleticism, yeah. 0:27:32.760 --> 0:27:33.680 Yeah, that ship would have. 0:27:38.480 --> 0:27:45.560 Also, I probably crossed the wrong border, like I'm in Peru. 0:27:46.520 --> 0:27:50.159 You can't. I crossed different. I don't know where to go. 0:27:50.800 --> 0:27:54.679 There's only one yeah yeah thing to go. But you 0:27:54.840 --> 0:27:57.240 I guess if you, I guess if you were that 0:27:57.760 --> 0:28:00.520 bad at crossing borders, you could suck it up to 0:28:00.560 --> 0:28:06.919 a place. Angel Well, let Angel go eat more of 0:28:06.960 --> 0:28:10.240 the food. It sounds like your great grandma has an. 0:28:09.960 --> 0:28:11.800 I like you like like a story real quick? 0:28:12.880 --> 0:28:14.880 Oh we love stories here at the therapy get go 0:28:14.880 --> 0:28:15.720 go ahead. 0:28:17.040 --> 0:28:19.280 Yeah, So, like I was gonna say, like I've never 0:28:19.320 --> 0:28:22.239 really had like a death, like like that's close to me, 0:28:22.280 --> 0:28:25.120 like very personal, but like I like recently found out 0:28:25.160 --> 0:28:28.720 something like like I'm in high school still, like I'm 0:28:28.720 --> 0:28:31.760 a senior, right and uh So I was talking to 0:28:31.800 --> 0:28:34.879 this girl over this summer and she lives in Arizona. 0:28:35.000 --> 0:28:37.720 I live in Idaho, and basically like we're kind of 0:28:37.760 --> 0:28:39.840 hitting off and like she used to live in Idaho, 0:28:40.080 --> 0:28:43.360 and she's like, hey, I'm coming back in like two weeks, 0:28:43.400 --> 0:28:44.840 and I was like, nah, that's cap. I was like, 0:28:44.880 --> 0:28:46.920 you're not coming back, Like that's such a lot, you know. 0:28:47.240 --> 0:28:49.120 And then she's like, no, my brother's just over there 0:28:49.520 --> 0:28:51.840 and they had a plane ticket book for for like 0:28:52.000 --> 0:28:56.240 June sixteenth, right, and then out of nowhere, she just 0:28:56.760 --> 0:28:59.520 goes goes and I was like, damn. 0:28:59.720 --> 0:29:03.000 I was angel Listen, Angel, Angel, Angel, Angel, be patient 0:29:03.040 --> 0:29:04.360 and you will find love one day. 0:29:05.360 --> 0:29:07.880 No, listen, listen. That's not that I'm not I'm not 0:29:07.920 --> 0:29:08.840 even there yet. 0:29:09.160 --> 0:29:09.520 Okay. 0:29:09.760 --> 0:29:11.720 I feel less bad for hanging up because he's at 0:29:11.720 --> 0:29:12.240 a funeral. 0:29:12.560 --> 0:29:13.640 You had a funeral, number one. 0:29:13.720 --> 0:29:15.400 It's also it's like he just had to learn how 0:29:15.520 --> 0:29:16.840 the skills of storytelling. 0:29:16.960 --> 0:29:20.680 Sure, well, you know, it's it's a little bit difficult 0:29:20.720 --> 0:29:22.479 when people want to come on here and tell stories 0:29:22.480 --> 0:29:24.440 because sometimes sometimes people want to come on here and 0:29:24.440 --> 0:29:27.960 tell stories and they're actually very interesting, and then sometimes 0:29:28.440 --> 0:29:31.520 they like have an interesting premise and you accept the 0:29:31.560 --> 0:29:33.880 telling of a story. And then it kind of rude. 0:29:34.280 --> 0:29:35.320 You told me to do it? 0:29:36.240 --> 0:29:38.800 You wanted to do that because I respect you, Bobby, 0:29:38.880 --> 0:29:42.440 I told you tell me to do something. I didn't 0:29:42.440 --> 0:29:45.280 say that, and you know that you took advantage of 0:29:45.280 --> 0:29:45.840 that power. 0:29:46.520 --> 0:29:48.640 You're told time, what's the time? What's the time? 0:29:49.160 --> 0:29:50.400 That's not what you did. You told me and then 0:29:50.640 --> 0:29:53.360 you hung up. No, you knew, you knew that I 0:29:53.360 --> 0:29:54.920 would do something if you told me to do it, 0:29:55.520 --> 0:29:57.160 and you took advantage of that power, and you told 0:29:57.200 --> 0:29:58.000 And now I feel bad. 0:29:58.280 --> 0:30:01.360 I feel bad too. Is he gonna? Is he depressed 0:30:01.360 --> 0:30:02.640 now or a hen? 0:30:02.760 --> 0:30:05.080 I feel I don't feel that bad that I hung 0:30:05.160 --> 0:30:08.640 up on him because he has he should not be 0:30:08.760 --> 0:30:09.880 on the phone with us. 0:30:09.840 --> 0:30:12.600 Right, you should call him the next day like I 0:30:12.640 --> 0:30:14.200 would probably wait on tomorrow. 0:30:14.280 --> 0:30:22.200 I was at a funeral yesterday, only a couple, only 0:30:22.280 --> 0:30:26.200 a few. What's the saddest funeral you've been to? It's 0:30:26.200 --> 0:30:29.000 what's the saddest funerals? Are probably comedians? 0:30:29.320 --> 0:30:29.880 Really? Okay? 0:30:29.920 --> 0:30:32.480 Yeah, yeah, those are the tough ones, especially when they're 0:30:34.040 --> 0:30:37.640 my age, and you know what I mean. It's usually devastating. 0:30:37.920 --> 0:30:40.320 Have you uh, kind of similar to what the color 0:30:40.360 --> 0:30:43.320 experience had, Like a death to somebody that was close 0:30:43.360 --> 0:30:46.240 to you that kind of woke a thing within you. 0:30:47.560 --> 0:30:49.160 We woke a thing like you know. 0:30:49.400 --> 0:30:52.600 Just you know how he's he Okay, he had a revelation. Okay, 0:30:52.640 --> 0:30:56.320 his great grandma died. Okay. The people who are older 0:30:56.320 --> 0:30:59.080 than me, I gotta get their stories while they're still here. 0:30:59.080 --> 0:31:00.600 Like he had a lesson from it. 0:31:00.880 --> 0:31:01.080 Thing. 0:31:01.680 --> 0:31:03.080 Yeah, you ever ever had a thing like that? 0:31:03.280 --> 0:31:06.640 No? No, no, whenever somebody does, I just think of 0:31:06.640 --> 0:31:07.240 my own death. 0:31:07.680 --> 0:31:11.120 Okay, So that's that's something, right, Like whenever I was 0:31:11.160 --> 0:31:12.560 like I'm gonna die? 0:31:12.680 --> 0:31:14.160 You are going to and then and then I start 0:31:14.200 --> 0:31:15.960 spinning like how am I going to die? I don't 0:31:16.000 --> 0:31:17.520 want to die, you know what I mean? All those things? 0:31:17.560 --> 0:31:18.480 What is life about? 0:31:18.560 --> 0:31:18.760 You know? 0:31:19.080 --> 0:31:19.800 Yeah? That type of thing? 0:31:19.800 --> 0:31:20.840 Okay, those are lessons? 0:31:20.920 --> 0:31:21.800 Yeah, those are lessons. 0:31:21.960 --> 0:31:23.640 What are you afraid of death? 0:31:23.960 --> 0:31:25.120 I'm so are you scared? 0:31:25.480 --> 0:31:26.080 Am I scared? 0:31:26.120 --> 0:31:28.960 Yeah? When you're twenty four, sure I wouldn't be as 0:31:29.040 --> 0:31:32.120 but when you're when you turn fifty, you start thinking 0:31:32.120 --> 0:31:35.080 about it more. It's weird. It's like when is it 0:31:35.120 --> 0:31:35.520 going to happen? 0:31:35.560 --> 0:31:38.560 And then you start looking up other celebrities that died, 0:31:38.600 --> 0:31:40.560 what age they were, and how they died. 0:31:41.000 --> 0:31:41.760 Sure, you know what I mean. 0:31:42.000 --> 0:31:44.400 I've been thinking of a thing lately and what I'm 0:31:44.400 --> 0:31:46.160 about that. I don't know how I would feel if 0:31:46.200 --> 0:31:48.480 I was actually there in a situation where I was 0:31:48.480 --> 0:31:50.360 about to die. But I would like to think, you know, 0:31:50.400 --> 0:31:53.960 even though I'm you know whatever, twenty four, like I 0:31:53.960 --> 0:31:56.280 I've had I've had a nice life, like I don't 0:31:56.280 --> 0:31:58.320 want I don't want to be too greedy, like I've 0:31:58.360 --> 0:32:01.120 had a good one. I mean like I've I've had 0:32:01.200 --> 0:32:04.080 friends and family and I get to do this, and 0:32:04.120 --> 0:32:07.240 I've seen cool mountains. I got to drink water. I 0:32:07.240 --> 0:32:10.560 got to see cool mountains. I'm just any, just anything, man. 0:32:11.120 --> 0:32:11.920 Just I get to. 0:32:12.160 --> 0:32:14.520 Look and die now because I saw Mount Everest. 0:32:14.520 --> 0:32:17.120 But that's something, you know. Some people they are like 0:32:17.280 --> 0:32:20.040 born and then die immediately. I got to live a 0:32:20.080 --> 0:32:22.960 little bit of a life. I'm grateful for however much 0:32:23.000 --> 0:32:25.680 I got to have. Why do I need more. 0:32:25.880 --> 0:32:29.160 I'm glad you said that, Lyle, because the truth is 0:32:30.200 --> 0:32:34.240 we've had it better than ninety nine point nine nine 0:32:34.320 --> 0:32:36.240 zeros ers or you know, I mean, like so many 0:32:36.320 --> 0:32:40.120 people like imagine all the people that grew up on 0:32:40.120 --> 0:32:45.800 this planet historically. Yeah, famine, you know what I mean, atrocities, 0:32:46.400 --> 0:32:49.320 global events like you know what I mean, Yeah, asteroids, 0:32:49.320 --> 0:32:50.600 I mean just different things. 0:32:50.960 --> 0:32:53.480 We live in the best time, and you and I 0:32:53.560 --> 0:32:54.320 have the best lives. 0:32:54.360 --> 0:32:56.760 It should be very grateful, absolutely, But everyone should be 0:32:56.800 --> 0:33:01.240 feeling that way right right. I feel like if I, like, 0:33:01.440 --> 0:33:03.400 you know, obviously I don't obviously I don't want it 0:33:03.440 --> 0:33:06.120 to end. But in the and I would be like, 0:33:06.120 --> 0:33:08.160 like if I were like falling from I would be 0:33:08.160 --> 0:33:09.600 fucking terrified, Like I don't want to die. I don't 0:33:09.600 --> 0:33:11.600 want to die or that. But if like I was 0:33:11.640 --> 0:33:13.040 in like a calm place with it, I'd be like, 0:33:13.080 --> 0:33:14.400 I got to have something. 0:33:14.400 --> 0:33:15.120 How would you fall? 0:33:15.880 --> 0:33:16.520 How would I feel? 0:33:16.560 --> 0:33:19.160 Like you're in a plane? Would you be cool about it? 0:33:19.280 --> 0:33:22.920 Or would you go wild? I just be terrified. 0:33:23.480 --> 0:33:25.080 I think at certain you know what I would do 0:33:25.160 --> 0:33:29.040 is I would I heard that uh a funk. I 0:33:29.080 --> 0:33:33.560 was on some sky diving reddit thing and someone was like, 0:33:33.880 --> 0:33:35.920 uh said, if if they if they knew that their 0:33:35.960 --> 0:33:39.400 parachute wasn't gonna open, they would just turn around their 0:33:39.440 --> 0:33:41.920 back to the ground and just look up at the 0:33:41.960 --> 0:33:43.280 sky and like kind of. 0:33:43.280 --> 0:33:44.880 Oh, there's no way I would do that. 0:33:45.200 --> 0:33:47.440 You know what I would do if it was a plane, yeah, 0:33:47.640 --> 0:33:50.160 and I was on it, like a commercial plane, I 0:33:50.160 --> 0:33:54.600 would probably fly toward a fat guy. 0:33:54.880 --> 0:33:55.640 Fly what do you mean? 0:33:55.720 --> 0:33:58.720 Fly towards like you know where everyone's falling, right, I 0:33:58.720 --> 0:34:00.480 would try to. I think I would have to find 0:34:00.480 --> 0:34:06.560 a fatter guy. So and maybe he could be like 0:34:06.640 --> 0:34:08.000 my cushion. 0:34:08.480 --> 0:34:11.880 Yeah, I'll die anyway, die anyway, and then would die anyway, 0:34:11.920 --> 0:34:14.920 and then you would just make another guy's death a 0:34:14.960 --> 0:34:15.880 lot worse. 0:34:16.040 --> 0:34:18.640 And also then other people would be like, that's weird. 0:34:18.680 --> 0:34:20.880 Bobby was inside a big. 0:34:20.719 --> 0:34:23.200 Fat guy he hate you before? 0:34:23.280 --> 0:34:25.080 Yeah, yeah, like if they wouldn't know what went on, 0:34:25.160 --> 0:34:28.839 because I think we would like implode together. 0:34:28.680 --> 0:34:29.839 And we would be mixed up. 0:34:30.000 --> 0:34:31.800 That sounds a good. Actually, I can't tell if that 0:34:31.840 --> 0:34:35.240 would be a beautiful thing, you and another person together 0:34:35.400 --> 0:34:38.880 at this one time in the universe, just melding, or 0:34:38.920 --> 0:34:41.040 if it would just be sad and upsetting for everyone. 0:34:41.200 --> 0:34:43.759 Yeah, let's just let's not't even think about it. 0:34:43.840 --> 0:34:51.160 Let's that's call hello bye hi bye. 0:34:52.320 --> 0:34:54.120 Bye. Hi. 0:34:56.360 --> 0:34:57.160 Can you guys hear me? 0:34:57.239 --> 0:34:58.719 Okay, I can hear you? 0:34:58.719 --> 0:35:05.000 Can you hear me? I can, Raven? 0:35:05.160 --> 0:35:10.719 What's up? What's going on? Dude, Raven? Bird? What did 0:35:10.760 --> 0:35:11.759 you say about birds? 0:35:12.400 --> 0:35:12.720 Raven? 0:35:12.880 --> 0:35:17.640 Like the bird? Like the birds? Raven? We're doing good. 0:35:17.640 --> 0:35:20.520 How are you doing? What's uh? What's what's on your mind? 0:35:22.080 --> 0:35:24.200 I'm doing Okay, I am. 0:35:24.360 --> 0:35:26.080 I'm in a bit of a predicament. 0:35:27.000 --> 0:35:27.440 Let's hear it. 0:35:29.120 --> 0:35:31.560 Well, it's not really a predicament anymore. 0:35:32.320 --> 0:35:32.400 So. 0:35:32.719 --> 0:35:37.319 Earlier this year, my brother went missing and I was 0:35:37.360 --> 0:35:41.919 the only person like actively looking for him, and he's 0:35:42.000 --> 0:35:44.640 kind of off of his rocker now, like he's fine. 0:35:45.440 --> 0:35:48.359 Thought with boiler alert, he's perfectly fine. 0:35:48.400 --> 0:35:48.759 He's alive. 0:35:49.000 --> 0:35:49.560 Well, but. 0:35:51.560 --> 0:35:53.640 Yeah, he's kind of How long was he missing for? 0:35:56.520 --> 0:35:58.000 Sick freaking weeks? 0:35:58.120 --> 0:35:59.240 Man, six weeks? 0:35:59.280 --> 0:36:00.399 It's a long time as long. 0:36:01.560 --> 0:36:03.759 But now that he's not missing anymore, I kind of 0:36:03.800 --> 0:36:04.759 take him like. 0:36:06.200 --> 0:36:09.279 It wasn't so bad while he was missing because we've always. 0:36:09.000 --> 0:36:11.359 Been close, but like, now that he's back and just 0:36:11.400 --> 0:36:13.600 acting like a completely ass, I hate his guck. 0:36:14.200 --> 0:36:14.920 I liked him so. 0:36:14.920 --> 0:36:18.840 Much interesting, Okay while he was Okay, so while he 0:36:18.960 --> 0:36:21.520 was missing, you were had these like ones my brother 0:36:21.640 --> 0:36:23.839 and I need to go find him, and it was 0:36:24.400 --> 0:36:25.920 you know you you liked him a lot, but now 0:36:25.920 --> 0:36:29.759 that he's back, you're like, why do you? Why do you? 0:36:29.840 --> 0:36:31.120 Why do you not like him now? 0:36:33.920 --> 0:36:38.200 So at first, like when he first became unmissing, I 0:36:38.280 --> 0:36:40.719 was sending him money because he was he was homeless. 0:36:40.719 --> 0:36:41.200 He was like. 0:36:41.239 --> 0:36:44.040 Living from couch to couch. 0:36:44.719 --> 0:36:47.200 So I was sending him money, and he was like, Frank, 0:36:47.320 --> 0:36:51.719 call me, threatening to kill himself and act crazy and 0:36:51.760 --> 0:36:52.560 then start. 0:36:52.360 --> 0:36:55.120 Laughing about it, like it was just like awful wall shit, 0:36:55.280 --> 0:36:58.280 like like he honestly sounds like he's wasted by the devil. 0:36:59.200 --> 0:37:01.000 Like it was just craziness. 0:37:01.040 --> 0:37:02.000 And now I'm trying to. 0:37:02.000 --> 0:37:04.600 Despise him for it. I hadn't heard from him since 0:37:04.680 --> 0:37:08.400 Mother's Day, but I don't know he like, I'm in 0:37:08.560 --> 0:37:10.920 real therapy because of it, but. 0:37:10.640 --> 0:37:11.959 He's no hope. 0:37:14.320 --> 0:37:15.359 Yeah, you gotta let it go. 0:37:15.480 --> 0:37:15.640 Man. 0:37:15.840 --> 0:37:17.160 He seems like a crazy person. 0:37:17.360 --> 0:37:22.480 I mean, so he basically went missing, but he started CouchSurfing, 0:37:22.960 --> 0:37:25.760 didn't return people's phone calls, probably got off social media, 0:37:25.800 --> 0:37:27.360 and people go, where is he is that? 0:37:28.520 --> 0:37:29.120 Yeah? 0:37:29.360 --> 0:37:31.919 Everybody? Yeah, he had everybody worried. 0:37:31.960 --> 0:37:34.080 Like I would wake up at six. 0:37:33.840 --> 0:37:36.680 O'clock in the morning and I had a list like 0:37:36.800 --> 0:37:39.879 hotels and hospitals and stuff that I would call. And 0:37:39.880 --> 0:37:42.720 that was every day for six months, man, And that's 0:37:42.760 --> 0:37:45.680 not when I would like out in the streets physically 0:37:45.880 --> 0:37:47.520 listening for him. 0:37:48.120 --> 0:37:50.480 So wow, I don't know. 0:37:50.600 --> 0:37:53.160 It's like a douchebag move to go missing and then 0:37:53.239 --> 0:37:56.520 just fought back up and trubby in an asshole everybody. 0:37:57.280 --> 0:38:01.640 Yeah, and did he apologize? 0:38:02.200 --> 0:38:03.959 No, he thinks it's hilarious. 0:38:04.239 --> 0:38:06.480 He thinks that people looking for him is like the 0:38:06.520 --> 0:38:09.200 funniest thing in the world. He loves the attention. 0:38:09.840 --> 0:38:11.200 You got to get him back, You got to get 0:38:11.239 --> 0:38:11.520 him back. 0:38:12.800 --> 0:38:14.320 How do you suggest she get him back? 0:38:14.960 --> 0:38:15.640 You go missing? 0:38:18.400 --> 0:38:20.319 No, you should go missing to see tell him how 0:38:20.320 --> 0:38:24.080 it feels. But you do it for a do it 0:38:24.160 --> 0:38:24.600 for a year. 0:38:27.280 --> 0:38:29.280 What if she goes what if she like goes missing 0:38:29.280 --> 0:38:31.359 to a new place, then she finds a new, even 0:38:31.400 --> 0:38:32.080 better life there. 0:38:32.080 --> 0:38:32.319 And just. 0:38:35.560 --> 0:38:37.200 You don't think he would notice your absence? 0:38:37.880 --> 0:38:41.120 Oh well, he's not how he makes his mother's day. 0:38:41.160 --> 0:38:42.799 So I really don't think he'd give a shit if 0:38:42.800 --> 0:38:45.080 I went missing. Honestly, Well, then. 0:38:45.120 --> 0:38:47.759 Just cut up, cut him out your life, cut him 0:38:47.800 --> 0:38:51.480 out of your life, right to keep doing your therapy 0:38:52.160 --> 0:38:53.040 and just move on. 0:38:53.239 --> 0:38:56.640 We all have crazy family members, do you do? 0:38:56.680 --> 0:38:57.919 You're right? 0:38:59.120 --> 0:38:59.440 Wild? 0:38:59.719 --> 0:39:00.840 No, I have a nice family. 0:39:00.880 --> 0:39:02.880 You do. Not even a cousin. That's a little weird. 0:39:04.440 --> 0:39:08.040 Oh my god. I'm trying to think. Nothing like crazy, crazy, nothing, nothing, 0:39:08.080 --> 0:39:10.520 nothing like that, right, So let me. 0:39:10.560 --> 0:39:10.960 Ask you this. 0:39:13.480 --> 0:39:16.240 If you have children, there's no one in your family 0:39:16.280 --> 0:39:17.879 member where you were like, I'm not going to have 0:39:18.040 --> 0:39:19.799 my cousin John babysit my kids. 0:39:21.800 --> 0:39:25.400 I'm trying to think any of my my extended family. 0:39:26.200 --> 0:39:31.080 So you're a healthy Get go. Wow, that's crazy. 0:39:31.280 --> 0:39:32.440 I'm so happy for you. 0:39:32.480 --> 0:39:32.759 Get go. 0:39:33.239 --> 0:39:34.440 That makes you really happy that. 0:39:34.400 --> 0:39:35.320 You have a good family. 0:39:35.880 --> 0:39:36.680 Thank you, Raven. 0:39:36.719 --> 0:39:37.319 Where do you live? 0:39:39.080 --> 0:39:44.320 I live in Tennessee, so i mean family somewhere along 0:39:44.360 --> 0:39:44.879 down the line. 0:39:44.880 --> 0:39:46.319 I'm sure we're all cousins. 0:39:46.880 --> 0:39:48.200 So I've got a pretty big family. 0:39:48.800 --> 0:39:51.040 Are there a lot of Koreans in Tennessee? I have 0:39:51.120 --> 0:39:51.920 to ask you please. 0:39:53.760 --> 0:39:57.520 I know two Korean girls, but actually that they own 0:39:57.560 --> 0:39:59.640 the nail salon and. 0:40:01.120 --> 0:40:02.240 They're really sweet. 0:40:02.320 --> 0:40:02.880 They make it. 0:40:02.880 --> 0:40:06.480 It's always a fucking nails Koreans. 0:40:07.400 --> 0:40:15.080 Koreans don't make egg rolls, but they do know they do, okay, 0:40:15.280 --> 0:40:16.440 but they work at the nails. 0:40:16.680 --> 0:40:30.880 I think just as. 0:40:26.440 --> 0:40:28.000 They have a side hustle egg. 0:40:27.880 --> 0:40:30.160 Roll business, egg roll nelsle. 0:40:30.680 --> 0:40:35.279 It's like black market egg roll Oh they deliver. 0:40:36.960 --> 0:40:38.600 And have you really profitable? 0:40:39.120 --> 0:40:42.080 Okay, let me ask you something because are you, like, 0:40:42.280 --> 0:40:44.920 are you a pro when it comes to egg rolls? 0:40:44.920 --> 0:40:45.000 Like? 0:40:45.120 --> 0:40:47.439 Have you eaten so many egg rolls that you can 0:40:47.800 --> 0:40:49.640 judge the their egg rolls? 0:40:49.760 --> 0:40:50.319 Are they good? 0:40:52.840 --> 0:40:53.880 I'm gonna be honest with you. 0:40:53.960 --> 0:40:57.440 I don't like but I see so. 0:40:57.480 --> 0:41:01.359 Your opinion on this is if you don't like egg rolls, 0:41:01.400 --> 0:41:03.840 your opinion on the quality of these egg rolls is 0:41:03.880 --> 0:41:04.760 a little useless. 0:41:06.600 --> 0:41:06.839 Yeah. 0:41:07.040 --> 0:41:09.319 See, I mean, do you like getting your nails done? 0:41:09.600 --> 0:41:11.880 Everybody raves about them. 0:41:12.080 --> 0:41:14.879 Oh well that's good that the street that's street crowd. 0:41:15.120 --> 0:41:17.240 Sure, yeah, okay, there's a vibe. 0:41:17.320 --> 0:41:18.640 Let me ask you. Are they good at nails? 0:41:18.719 --> 0:41:20.200 That's a really good hustle. 0:41:22.800 --> 0:41:24.960 Are they good at nails? 0:41:25.560 --> 0:41:27.040 Oh yeah, they're great at nails. 0:41:27.080 --> 0:41:29.799 I know, like they were giving me advice one time 0:41:29.880 --> 0:41:32.080 I got my nails done and they were like flotched, 0:41:32.200 --> 0:41:36.839 looked awful, not by the Korean girls, but they were 0:41:36.840 --> 0:41:38.120 telling me like what they. 0:41:37.920 --> 0:41:41.680 Did wrong and showing me exactly what they would have done. 0:41:41.960 --> 0:41:43.640 They're really smart girls. 0:41:44.200 --> 0:41:46.359 But do you would you would you hang out? 0:41:46.360 --> 0:41:50.680 Would you hang out without would you hang out with them? 0:41:50.840 --> 0:41:53.640 I would. I don't hang out with a lot of people, 0:41:53.680 --> 0:41:56.719 but I mean, if I was going to I might 0:41:56.760 --> 0:41:58.319 call them and be like, hey, you want to do 0:41:58.360 --> 0:41:58.760 my nails? 0:41:59.840 --> 0:41:59.960 Right? 0:42:03.239 --> 0:42:06.240 They do nails? Because it's like it's a stereotype. 0:42:06.640 --> 0:42:08.160 I was wishing that they were like, oh, I know 0:42:08.280 --> 0:42:11.600 these two Korean ladies and they own a cowboy bootstore 0:42:12.560 --> 0:42:14.120 that cool strap. 0:42:16.800 --> 0:42:19.440 Asian ladies doing nails is pretty stereotypical. 0:42:20.800 --> 0:42:23.400 Oh, you're right, Well, the only other nails one we 0:42:23.480 --> 0:42:23.839 have in. 0:42:23.840 --> 0:42:25.960 Town is wearing by all white people. 0:42:26.120 --> 0:42:31.359 So and you go to the Asian one. 0:42:31.800 --> 0:42:34.640 Oh yeah, definitely, I'm not gonna we Raven. 0:42:34.640 --> 0:42:42.960 You're not racist. You're a good person. Oh you have 0:42:43.080 --> 0:42:45.680 black Oh that's good. That's good. That's good, Raven. 0:42:45.719 --> 0:42:46.799 Is there anything else you want to say to the 0:42:46.800 --> 0:42:48.000 people the computer before we go? 0:42:50.880 --> 0:42:51.960 No, thank you, guys. 0:42:52.200 --> 0:42:54.720 I really enjoyed getting to talk to you guys. 0:42:54.719 --> 0:42:55.320 It was awesome. 0:42:55.960 --> 0:42:56.640 Of course, you. 0:42:59.280 --> 0:43:03.280 Were asking if she's an is there a food type 0:43:03.320 --> 0:43:05.800 that you are a like kind of sore of. 0:43:08.239 --> 0:43:10.320 I think I'm a kindosaur of a lot of food types. 0:43:10.360 --> 0:43:12.719 But in terms of like Korean food, I'm sure I'm 0:43:12.760 --> 0:43:16.319 pretty knowledgeable. Okay, we don't do egg rolls. Okay, yeah, 0:43:16.360 --> 0:43:17.920 I mean so, I don't know what these two Korean 0:43:18.000 --> 0:43:18.719 ladies are doing. 0:43:19.000 --> 0:43:20.200 They're reinventing the wheel. 0:43:20.320 --> 0:43:22.200 I think that what they're doing is it's like, Okay, 0:43:22.480 --> 0:43:24.680 I'm gonna do an act. 0:43:25.200 --> 0:43:27.960 They don't know. I know better, we just do aggroll. 0:43:28.040 --> 0:43:28.800 They don't know. 0:43:29.280 --> 0:43:30.920 Because if they did it in Korea, they'd be like, 0:43:30.960 --> 0:43:33.720 fuck you. Koreans would be like, you don't do egg rolls. 0:43:33.920 --> 0:43:35.280 We're gonna go to a Chinese person. 0:43:35.600 --> 0:43:37.040 Do you like a Korean barbecue? 0:43:38.560 --> 0:43:40.680 Okay? What kind of questions is that you said. 0:43:40.640 --> 0:43:44.240 Of Korean food? I'm trying to do you like Manzo balls? 0:43:44.560 --> 0:43:48.680 I do like Manci balls, obviously, you know what I know. No, 0:43:48.719 --> 0:43:51.160 you can't. You just said you like Korean food. 0:43:51.320 --> 0:43:53.839 I'm Korean, obviously I like it. 0:43:54.239 --> 0:43:56.719 But that's like, that's like if you asked me like 0:43:57.200 --> 0:43:59.080 balls and that doesn't like fucking Korean food. 0:44:00.440 --> 0:44:02.279 You aren't Jews that don't like moths, like. 0:44:02.360 --> 0:44:05.719 Going to a Sebastian monoscalco go. Do you like pasta. 0:44:05.920 --> 0:44:08.799 Honestly, but no, because you just said it. 0:44:09.080 --> 0:44:10.520 What did I say? You said? 0:44:10.560 --> 0:44:12.279 I asked you if you there's a food group that 0:44:12.320 --> 0:44:14.319 you like, and you said, I like Korean food. I 0:44:14.320 --> 0:44:17.040 didn't start with, oh you like Korean food. 0:44:17.360 --> 0:44:20.160 Okay, that's fair, I guess fair. Yeah, that's fair. I guess. 0:44:20.360 --> 0:44:22.720 I don't know why you get angry. I got angry. 0:44:22.880 --> 0:44:24.600 You you know why you get angry because it's fun. 0:44:24.920 --> 0:44:26.640 It's when they get fun to go. Yeah, it's when 0:44:26.640 --> 0:44:27.239 they get to do that. 0:44:27.320 --> 0:44:32.480 I'm like feeling endorphins go into my body. Yeah, and 0:44:32.520 --> 0:44:32.960 that is. 0:44:33.400 --> 0:44:35.680 But I might report these two Korean ladies you should. 0:44:36.160 --> 0:44:40.399 They're doing a side aggroll business. They're probably not paying taxes, right, 0:44:40.719 --> 0:44:41.960 and I don't like that you. 0:44:41.960 --> 0:44:43.200 Think they're not paying taxes? 0:44:43.239 --> 0:44:46.200 Well, she said, it's a side hustle. And also let 0:44:46.239 --> 0:44:49.360 me ask let me ask you this, right, they're doing nails. 0:44:49.600 --> 0:44:52.239 Imagine this, You're getting your nails done and one of 0:44:52.280 --> 0:44:55.000 the Koreans looks up at you and goes, do you 0:44:55.160 --> 0:44:55.600 like egir? 0:44:55.680 --> 0:44:59.799 All like, how do you? I mean, how do you 0:44:59.800 --> 0:45:00.919 you pitch it? How? 0:45:01.080 --> 0:45:03.880 I I if so? If that happened to me, I 0:45:03.920 --> 0:45:05.839 would say, I do like egg grolls, and they were like, 0:45:05.960 --> 0:45:06.879 do you want an egg roll? 0:45:06.960 --> 0:45:08.400 It's only no tax? 0:45:09.560 --> 0:45:11.800 Just do you do you think? I mean, just in general, 0:45:11.800 --> 0:45:13.160 people like you know, if you like, if a guy 0:45:13.200 --> 0:45:15.279 is running a hot dog stand and getting cash for 0:45:15.320 --> 0:45:17.360 the hot dogs, is eBay in taxes? 0:45:17.680 --> 0:45:20.400 Yeah, but if that hot but if that hot dogs 0:45:20.360 --> 0:45:24.600 stand was also they were selling lamp fixtures on the side, 0:45:25.040 --> 0:45:25.680 that would be weird. 0:45:25.719 --> 0:45:27.040 That's what the Korean ladies are doing. 0:45:27.080 --> 0:45:27.279 I think. 0:45:27.320 --> 0:45:28.840 So you think it's like it's like a it's like 0:45:28.880 --> 0:45:32.200 a weird random thing that they're selling off the side. 0:45:33.040 --> 0:45:33.640 Is that weird? 0:45:34.920 --> 0:45:39.240 I don't think that that is actually what it's hadened. 0:45:39.239 --> 0:45:42.560 I don't some I think that somewhere in that phone 0:45:42.600 --> 0:45:47.920 call that girl mentioned egg rolls and I don't, And 0:45:47.960 --> 0:45:50.759 then we kind of ran with that in some way 0:45:50.880 --> 0:45:52.759 that got into our head like, oh, there is a 0:45:52.840 --> 0:45:55.279 nail salum that sells egg rolls. But I don't think 0:45:55.320 --> 0:45:58.320 that that's a place that exists because all we heard 0:45:58.600 --> 0:46:02.680 the caller say was some egg roll I just heard 0:46:02.719 --> 0:46:05.319 the phrase egg rolls as a side hustle. There was 0:46:05.400 --> 0:46:09.480 no like noun to it, and I think we just 0:46:09.560 --> 0:46:11.319 pieced together the gaps, right. 0:46:11.440 --> 0:46:16.440 I made the assumption that was it said nail salon, and. 0:46:15.360 --> 0:46:17.440 And we made that assumption because it's fun. 0:46:17.560 --> 0:46:19.160 Yeah, that would be a good business, would be a 0:46:19.160 --> 0:46:20.120 cool place I would go. 0:46:20.239 --> 0:46:21.040 I would want to go there. 0:46:22.000 --> 0:46:23.000 I was just going by the way. 0:46:23.040 --> 0:46:25.080 I think this is going great. I hope so, no, 0:46:25.200 --> 0:46:25.520 this is. 0:46:25.480 --> 0:46:28.680 I don't know. How do you feel like it's fun? Yeah? 0:46:28.680 --> 0:46:31.520 I just don't know much. No, this is perfect. I 0:46:31.520 --> 0:46:33.600 feel that it's always feel like it's better. It'd be 0:46:33.600 --> 0:46:35.880 weird if you knew, like a lot, right, if you 0:46:36.040 --> 0:46:39.239 like listen to I listened to every episode before I 0:46:39.280 --> 0:46:40.320 came here. I'm ready. 0:46:40.400 --> 0:46:42.319 It's so funny because I came here and I was like, 0:46:42.360 --> 0:46:45.200 should I google what therapy get go is? 0:46:45.800 --> 0:46:47.279 I had no idea. What the fuck? 0:46:47.320 --> 0:46:47.560 It was? 0:46:47.680 --> 0:46:47.839 Sure? 0:46:47.920 --> 0:46:50.919 Yeah, And the only reason I'll just be yeah, please 0:46:50.920 --> 0:46:53.200 be honest with is people. 0:46:52.960 --> 0:46:56.040 Around me were like, you have to do it. 0:46:56.040 --> 0:46:57.120 It makes me happy to hear. 0:46:57.160 --> 0:46:59.799 Right, and like, I'll be honest with you. Yeah, I 0:46:59.840 --> 0:47:01.879 go fuck, no, yeah, there's no way. 0:47:02.040 --> 0:47:02.600 Yeah. 0:47:02.640 --> 0:47:05.239 And just through months of people going you have to 0:47:05.280 --> 0:47:08.120 do it, it's so cool to hear yeah, well no, 0:47:08.160 --> 0:47:08.480 it's cool. 0:47:08.800 --> 0:47:09.920 It doesn't hurt your feelings. 0:47:10.160 --> 0:47:12.760 I was like fuck, no, no, I just a natural impulse, 0:47:12.800 --> 0:47:16.120 all right. And then finally I had today off. Yeah 0:47:16.520 --> 0:47:18.680 I had to pod later, but my own podcast. But 0:47:20.040 --> 0:47:22.759 and they just looked at it on my schedule. And 0:47:22.800 --> 0:47:24.640 then I tried to get out of it, right yeah, yeah, 0:47:24.680 --> 0:47:26.600 I was like I can't. And then you know, my 0:47:26.640 --> 0:47:27.239 people were like. 0:47:27.200 --> 0:47:27.920 You have to do it. 0:47:28.600 --> 0:47:29.560 They said you have to do it. 0:47:29.640 --> 0:47:29.920 Yeah. 0:47:30.040 --> 0:47:32.240 And then when I was driving, I was in traffic 0:47:32.239 --> 0:47:34.560 because it's so far away from my house. I was 0:47:34.600 --> 0:47:37.640 so angry. Yeah yeah, and I thought of my pocket. 0:47:37.680 --> 0:47:40.680 If I walked in here and they were remotely rude. 0:47:41.360 --> 0:47:44.400 I would have left. But you have good people. They 0:47:44.440 --> 0:47:45.680 were so nice. 0:47:45.719 --> 0:47:45.919 Man. 0:47:46.280 --> 0:47:48.880 You want to drink, here's a room, there's a water, 0:47:49.440 --> 0:47:51.160 you know what I mean. You can do whatever. We 0:47:51.160 --> 0:47:54.160 love you. Thanks for so good you have good staff. 0:47:54.280 --> 0:47:56.960 Thanks man, I appreciate that. I'm glad that you. I'm 0:47:56.960 --> 0:47:58.960 glad that you cause you look man like you don't 0:47:59.000 --> 0:48:02.359 owe me anything. You could absolutely just been like yeah, funck, 0:48:03.400 --> 0:48:08.640 I love you too. Let's take a phone call. Is 0:48:08.680 --> 0:48:11.880 this Bobby? 0:48:12.000 --> 0:48:14.200 Yes, this is Bobby, that's my name. 0:48:17.280 --> 0:48:17.600 Hello. 0:48:19.000 --> 0:48:19.320 Cool? 0:48:20.120 --> 0:48:21.960 Uh Bobby, what is it that you called in to 0:48:21.960 --> 0:48:22.680 talk about today. 0:48:24.560 --> 0:48:28.120 I think I'm addicted to masturbating, and I know that 0:48:28.120 --> 0:48:31.200 that's something that Bobby Lee has been open with as 0:48:31.280 --> 0:48:34.040 well in the past. So I'd love to get some 0:48:34.040 --> 0:48:39.200 some insight from you guys. When you think, yeah, I mean, 0:48:39.239 --> 0:48:42.520 it's kind of like when I wake up in the morning, 0:48:42.560 --> 0:48:46.360 it's like one of the first things I think about, 0:48:46.480 --> 0:48:51.440 you know, anytime I have the house to myself, usually 0:48:51.480 --> 0:48:55.200 one of the first things I do. And even just 0:48:55.239 --> 0:48:58.760 like the things that I come across on the internet, 0:48:58.840 --> 0:49:01.960 it's like it's not even like I'm looking for it 0:49:02.000 --> 0:49:04.279 all the time, but like random things that I see, 0:49:04.320 --> 0:49:07.400 it'll just be like a picture of you know, not 0:49:07.440 --> 0:49:10.520 even in a sexual picture, it just like, well make 0:49:10.640 --> 0:49:12.279 me think about it. I feel like my mind is 0:49:12.320 --> 0:49:16.880 always thinking about it, and it's kind of like I 0:49:16.880 --> 0:49:18.880 feel like it's not like a huge problem where I 0:49:19.000 --> 0:49:21.239 like I can't do anything, but it's starting to get 0:49:21.280 --> 0:49:26.960 in the way of like my mental shit and just 0:49:27.040 --> 0:49:29.919 like I don't know, it's starting to kind of fuck 0:49:29.960 --> 0:49:33.080 me up a little bit. So curious curious what you 0:49:33.080 --> 0:49:33.560 guys think. 0:49:35.719 --> 0:49:42.120 I mean, here's my honest opinion, bro, is that you know, drugs, alcohol, 0:49:42.600 --> 0:49:47.120 any kind of addiction, gambling, even excessive video gameplay. It's 0:49:47.160 --> 0:49:51.319 all a symptom of a problem, right. But but porn 0:49:51.360 --> 0:49:54.760 addiction is a real thing, and it can really affect 0:49:54.840 --> 0:49:57.960 your life. You can affect your family life, your relationships. 0:49:58.440 --> 0:50:00.839 And what I'm gonna say to you is that you 0:50:01.040 --> 0:50:02.200 probably need help. 0:50:04.360 --> 0:50:05.440 Yeah, you know what I mean. 0:50:05.520 --> 0:50:06.520 I know, God I will. 0:50:09.800 --> 0:50:12.040 I was gonna say, I think there's like another level 0:50:12.120 --> 0:50:15.920 to this, Like it's not even really porn. I mean, 0:50:15.960 --> 0:50:19.480 obviously I do watch porn, but a lot of times 0:50:19.520 --> 0:50:23.160 I'll I'll masturbate to like people I know in real 0:50:23.200 --> 0:50:24.000 life too. 0:50:24.440 --> 0:50:30.000 Like, yeah, we all do that, we do that. Yeah, 0:50:30.040 --> 0:50:32.439 oh the girl the girl coffee shot. That was hot. 0:50:32.440 --> 0:50:36.520 I masturbated that. I've masturbated cartoon. 0:50:36.239 --> 0:50:39.640 Characters like anime, like anime, not like you know, I mean, 0:50:40.480 --> 0:50:41.719 not like the Jetsons or anything like. 0:50:41.760 --> 0:50:43.080 Okay, but like you know what I mean. 0:50:44.280 --> 0:50:46.840 Try the just would you ever try checking off to. 0:50:46.840 --> 0:50:48.279 The just the older ones? Yeah? 0:50:48.520 --> 0:50:52.360 I don't know their names, but anyway, maybe tried seeking 0:50:52.360 --> 0:50:53.759 help at all from like a professional. 0:50:53.880 --> 0:50:58.200 Yes, I have number one. This is what my So 0:50:58.400 --> 0:50:58.960 here's the deal. 0:50:59.040 --> 0:51:03.280 Okay, when you're watching pornography, are going to strip clubs 0:51:03.280 --> 0:51:06.080 and doing that kind of behavior. I had a therapist, 0:51:06.280 --> 0:51:08.520 not the therapist I have now, but one a couple 0:51:08.560 --> 0:51:14.399 of years ago say to me that you're supporting trauma, right, 0:51:14.800 --> 0:51:17.720 because people generally when people that when they go through 0:51:18.320 --> 0:51:19.760 when they're doing sex work. 0:51:20.200 --> 0:51:23.080 I'm not all of them, you know, but a lot 0:51:23.120 --> 0:51:23.640 of them have. 0:51:23.560 --> 0:51:26.640 Gone through deep trauma and they've had terrible lives and 0:51:26.680 --> 0:51:28.960 they're you know, I mean, their only options are to 0:51:29.000 --> 0:51:31.560 do you know, I mean that kind of work, and 0:51:31.560 --> 0:51:35.759 you're sort of supporting that, right. And then number two, 0:51:36.680 --> 0:51:39.399 it's like you're not. You're disconnecting and you're not You're 0:51:39.880 --> 0:51:42.200 going to be unable to be intimate with your partner 0:51:42.360 --> 0:51:45.440 or your family members or anybody right when you're doing 0:51:45.440 --> 0:51:47.640 that shit. So what I'm saying is that I know 0:51:47.840 --> 0:51:50.960 a lot of dudes. I can't say their names, but 0:51:51.160 --> 0:51:53.040 I know a lot of guys that you wouldn't even know, 0:51:53.280 --> 0:51:57.840 like other really famous male comedians, a lot of actors 0:51:57.840 --> 0:52:00.200 that are super famous that they go to sl A 0:52:00.360 --> 0:52:01.640 meetings and they. 0:52:01.520 --> 0:52:02.919 Really do that program. 0:52:03.280 --> 0:52:07.000 I'm thinking about doing it myself, right because for me, 0:52:07.120 --> 0:52:11.400 it's like the twelve step growth programs I do address 0:52:12.440 --> 0:52:15.960 alcoholism and drug addiction, which I've been sober for seven months, 0:52:16.360 --> 0:52:19.239 but now I think that it's it's I think I 0:52:19.280 --> 0:52:21.880 need more help, but it is affecting. 0:52:22.560 --> 0:52:24.200 Yeah, I'll be honest with you too, dude. Let me 0:52:24.239 --> 0:52:24.760 say something. 0:52:25.080 --> 0:52:28.040 You know, I broke up with Kolila after ten years 0:52:28.280 --> 0:52:29.880 and it had to do with my porn addiction. 0:52:30.719 --> 0:52:35.160 It destroyed me. Yeah, so I'm just saying that. I 0:52:35.239 --> 0:52:38.719 just that's a real problem. 0:52:38.840 --> 0:52:40.960 Yeah, that's something that I'm actually worried about because I'm 0:52:40.960 --> 0:52:43.520 in a relationship and that's you know, I've you know, 0:52:43.560 --> 0:52:46.640 I've been following Tiger Belly since like episode thirty, so 0:52:46.760 --> 0:52:48.920 I have heard, I know all about all of that. 0:52:49.160 --> 0:52:54.480 So yeah, I think it's definitely not like to the 0:52:54.520 --> 0:52:58.359 point where I can't perform, Like we still have a 0:52:58.440 --> 0:53:02.879 sex life, but there's definitely been times where like I'll 0:53:02.920 --> 0:53:06.680 have masturbated multiple times and then my girlfriend will come 0:53:06.680 --> 0:53:09.560 home and I'm not trying to do that and that 0:53:09.600 --> 0:53:13.040 doesn't make me feel kind of guilty. And you know, 0:53:13.080 --> 0:53:15.759 I don't I don't drink, I don't do drugs. I 0:53:15.800 --> 0:53:19.360 smoke weeds every day and I eat like shit. So 0:53:19.440 --> 0:53:22.680 I think it's kind of like I don't know. Like 0:53:22.880 --> 0:53:25.200 I've had two different therapists. One told me that I 0:53:25.239 --> 0:53:27.040 was an addict, and one told me that I wasn't 0:53:27.080 --> 0:53:28.839 an addict. So I don't really know what to think, 0:53:29.160 --> 0:53:31.560 just because it's not like, you know, I'm not like 0:53:31.640 --> 0:53:34.280 bingerin I'm not like doing hard drugs, but I definitely 0:53:34.360 --> 0:53:39.920 have like addict tendencies. I would say, but it's kind 0:53:39.960 --> 0:53:41.120 of hard smoking. 0:53:40.760 --> 0:53:44.040 Weed every day, you're escaping, right, even smoking weed every day? 0:53:44.160 --> 0:53:46.120 You know, you can justify it all you want, but 0:53:46.160 --> 0:53:49.960 it's like you're basically checking out, and there's a reason 0:53:50.000 --> 0:53:50.880 why you're checking out. 0:53:50.920 --> 0:53:53.920 Yeah, right, there's a reason. Yeah, go ahead. 0:53:54.160 --> 0:53:55.520 No, I was just gonna say, I don't I don't 0:53:55.520 --> 0:53:58.760 want to justify it either, like I'm not. I obviously 0:53:58.840 --> 0:54:01.200 it's safer than other things, but I'm aware that it's 0:54:01.200 --> 0:54:03.480 a problem for sure, like at least for me, Like 0:54:03.520 --> 0:54:06.120 I know maybe it works for some people, but my 0:54:06.320 --> 0:54:09.600 mind is telling me that it's a problem, but I can't. 0:54:09.600 --> 0:54:12.040 Also, it's like it's not a therapist job to diagnose you. 0:54:12.200 --> 0:54:14.480 I die. I diagnose myself, right. 0:54:14.920 --> 0:54:18.200 I know that when I drink, I can't stop, right, 0:54:18.280 --> 0:54:20.920 and then my life falls apart, you know. I mean, 0:54:20.960 --> 0:54:24.200 I know that when I go ahead. 0:54:25.920 --> 0:54:28.280 Sorry, sorry, I was gonna say a lot of the times, 0:54:28.280 --> 0:54:31.400 like I'll smoke weed, and that's sort of like the 0:54:31.400 --> 0:54:33.440 the jumping off point for all this other shit, you know, 0:54:33.480 --> 0:54:35.399 like I'll smoke weed and then I want to jerk off, 0:54:35.400 --> 0:54:36.719 and then I want to eat a bunch of shit, 0:54:36.840 --> 0:54:38.960 and then I want to like play video games for 0:54:39.040 --> 0:54:42.080 six hours. So it's like, that's sort of like the 0:54:42.160 --> 0:54:42.959 jumping off point. 0:54:43.000 --> 0:54:45.560 And you are so similar. 0:54:47.200 --> 0:54:49.719 And we have the same name, we. 0:54:49.640 --> 0:54:50.960 Have the same thing. But well, let me say. The 0:54:51.000 --> 0:54:53.439 difference though, is that I'm trying to do something about it. 0:54:55.360 --> 0:54:58.759 Yeah, well yeah, I mean I've been to therapy for 0:54:58.840 --> 0:55:02.680 like other mental health issues like I have. I've technically 0:55:02.719 --> 0:55:05.359 been diagnosed with four different mental illnesses, but I don't 0:55:05.360 --> 0:55:09.239 really whatever, But addiction has never been something that's been 0:55:09.280 --> 0:55:11.320 like a. 0:55:10.360 --> 0:55:12.920 Are you taking medication for those mental diagnoses? 0:55:15.120 --> 0:55:15.400 No? 0:55:15.400 --> 0:55:17.320 No, I don't take any medications. 0:55:17.760 --> 0:55:21.320 Like I like, for many years, I refuse. But in 0:55:21.320 --> 0:55:23.440 the last couple of years I've been on medication. 0:55:23.880 --> 0:55:24.879 Has it has it been working? 0:55:24.880 --> 0:55:27.959 For its changed my life? My point is is that, bro, 0:55:28.400 --> 0:55:29.280 what's your name again? 0:55:30.960 --> 0:55:31.320 Bobby? 0:55:31.440 --> 0:55:32.160 Name is Bobby. 0:55:33.000 --> 0:55:35.000 Bobby, I'm Bobby. We already said that. 0:55:35.040 --> 0:55:37.759 But my point is, Bobby, is what I want for 0:55:37.880 --> 0:55:41.839 you is to really take a look. It's an inside job, right, 0:55:42.920 --> 0:55:46.960 And I think Socrates has once said a life not 0:55:47.040 --> 0:55:49.760 self examined is a life not worth living. 0:55:50.040 --> 0:55:50.480 Yeah. 0:55:50.640 --> 0:55:54.040 Yeah, I mean, so it's like, look at yourself, look 0:55:54.080 --> 0:55:55.120 at your behaviors. 0:55:55.360 --> 0:55:55.560 Right. 0:55:55.640 --> 0:56:00.120 And I'm telling you as a friend, I don't know you, 0:56:00.160 --> 0:56:03.440 but like, you know, as a fellow human that you know. 0:56:03.440 --> 0:56:06.520 How old are you, Bobby, fellow Bobby, how old are you? 0:56:06.880 --> 0:56:09.320 I'm twenty eight, dude. 0:56:09.360 --> 0:56:12.600 This is the perfect time to address these things. It 0:56:12.680 --> 0:56:17.520 really is. Yeah, okay, so I would really you know, 0:56:17.680 --> 0:56:20.960 I mean, yeah, no. 0:56:21.080 --> 0:56:22.800 I was just going to say, like I'm I'm the 0:56:22.880 --> 0:56:25.080 type of person that thinks that I'm like aware of 0:56:25.120 --> 0:56:28.799 everything in my life. Like I'm definitely you know, like 0:56:28.840 --> 0:56:30.960 I said, I've been to therapy for years. I've been 0:56:31.000 --> 0:56:33.800 to multiple therapists, different types of therapy for different things. 0:56:33.840 --> 0:56:36.520 So I like, I like to think that I'm aware 0:56:36.520 --> 0:56:39.200 of everything that I'm dealing with and that I'm going through. 0:56:39.239 --> 0:56:42.200 But this is definitely something that I've been like kind 0:56:42.200 --> 0:56:45.759 of pretending isn't real and just kind of ignoring it. 0:56:46.520 --> 0:56:50.160 So it's it's like, I mean, I didn't think that Bobby, 0:56:50.239 --> 0:56:53.439 Lee and Lyle would be the people that would force 0:56:53.520 --> 0:56:57.239 me to confront this. But I feel like I don't know. Well, 0:56:57.280 --> 0:57:01.960 like I said, thinking about I know that it's it's there. No, No, 0:57:02.120 --> 0:57:04.080 I'm saying it's a good thing, like it's just it's 0:57:04.320 --> 0:57:06.560 really I don't know. I don't know what the fuck 0:57:06.600 --> 0:57:07.359 I'm talking about. 0:57:07.440 --> 0:57:08.680 But anyway, but. 0:57:08.800 --> 0:57:10.960 Here, Bob, Bobby, I want to say one last thing. 0:57:11.000 --> 0:57:13.360 Though you might not be able to change now. You 0:57:13.480 --> 0:57:15.680 might have to lose your girlfriend, you might have to 0:57:15.760 --> 0:57:18.720 lose some things in your life for you to like change. 0:57:18.760 --> 0:57:21.520 So it's like I'm just telling you to work on 0:57:21.560 --> 0:57:23.960 it now so that you don't lose these things, but 0:57:24.040 --> 0:57:25.680 you might have to go through a journey. 0:57:25.680 --> 0:57:25.880 Man. 0:57:25.960 --> 0:57:29.200 Yeah, Bobby Man, is there anything else you want to 0:57:29.200 --> 0:57:30.640 say to the people of the computer before we go? 0:57:33.640 --> 0:57:35.760 Uh No, I think that's all. Thank you guys for 0:57:35.800 --> 0:57:41.960 taking my call and buy it's all the thank Thank 0:57:42.000 --> 0:57:42.760 you guys so much. 0:57:43.200 --> 0:57:44.960 I love you, Bobby, Hey, take care, Bobby. Thanks for 0:57:45.000 --> 0:57:48.480 being honest with us. Is that how you feel? Do 0:57:48.480 --> 0:57:51.400 you feel like it's it's a part of the process 0:57:51.480 --> 0:57:56.440 to like lose a lot before you make a big change. 0:57:56.920 --> 0:57:59.840 Well, here's for me, it's like I've always because I've 0:57:59.840 --> 0:58:03.680 been sober three or four times in my life, you know, 0:58:03.720 --> 0:58:06.680 I mean, I had long term sobriety, but I usually 0:58:06.800 --> 0:58:10.720 quit before because I have this ability, which I'm grateful for, 0:58:11.360 --> 0:58:15.360 Whereas I can look at my behavior and then think 0:58:15.400 --> 0:58:20.480 to myself, if I continued this behavior in a year, right, 0:58:20.720 --> 0:58:22.360 I know I'll lose these things. 0:58:22.480 --> 0:58:24.680 Sure, so I'll quit before that happens. 0:58:25.600 --> 0:58:27.160 I mean, because I can kind of sort of see 0:58:27.640 --> 0:58:30.920 the future a little bit, right, So it's like this 0:58:31.000 --> 0:58:34.600 guy might have to lose some things before you know 0:58:34.640 --> 0:58:37.640 what I mean, he decides to do something about it. 0:58:37.760 --> 0:58:40.320 Do you think it's hard to close the gap between 0:58:40.480 --> 0:58:44.560 in awareness of because I you know, being aware of 0:58:44.760 --> 0:58:49.720 problems and then mustering the fucking whatever to like actually 0:58:50.200 --> 0:58:53.640 fix them. Where for you, what has been like the 0:58:53.720 --> 0:58:55.360 closing of that gap. 0:58:56.840 --> 0:59:02.120 It's my pain threshold, right in the combination with seeing 0:59:02.120 --> 0:59:06.240 in the future, there's also I'm in pain, right, and 0:59:06.280 --> 0:59:09.400 I can't take a lot. It's not physical pain. I 0:59:09.400 --> 0:59:11.800 can take a lot of physical pain. I can take 0:59:12.000 --> 0:59:13.920 a lot of emotional pain. I just can't take a 0:59:13.920 --> 0:59:19.440 lot of spiritual pain right, this emptiness, right, this hole 0:59:19.480 --> 0:59:22.520 in my God, right, it just I can't live like that. 0:59:23.080 --> 0:59:25.240 I need to fulfill it with you know, my version 0:59:25.240 --> 0:59:27.600 of God. I need to fill it with love from 0:59:27.600 --> 0:59:30.800 my family and my friends and who I'm in a 0:59:30.840 --> 0:59:34.280 relationship with, my sponsor, you know, my therapist. 0:59:34.520 --> 0:59:37.080 I just need the comedy community, you know what I mean. 0:59:37.160 --> 0:59:40.480 So it's like I just need to fill that with 0:59:40.560 --> 0:59:43.560 healthy things, kind. 0:59:43.400 --> 0:59:46.360 Of talking with talking with Bobby just now, does it 0:59:46.600 --> 0:59:50.960 help you, like when you're kind of like advising somebody 0:59:51.360 --> 0:59:54.000 who you know, maybe you're, as you said, you're dealing 0:59:54.040 --> 0:59:55.920 with the issues you know a little bit better than 0:59:55.960 --> 0:59:58.800 he is at this time, does it like help reinforce 0:59:58.920 --> 1:00:02.680 the things that you're to talk somebody else through a 1:00:02.720 --> 1:00:04.120 similar problem? 1:00:04.680 --> 1:00:05.760 So interesting you say that. 1:00:08.000 --> 1:00:12.560 It's so interesting you say that because yes, that's how 1:00:13.320 --> 1:00:16.280 twelve step groups even started, right It was Bill w 1:00:16.880 --> 1:00:20.360 Right was desperate once he linked up with linked up 1:00:20.360 --> 1:00:23.720 with doctor Bob, who was also an alcoholic, they realized 1:00:23.760 --> 1:00:27.520 by staying together right and then helping like going to 1:00:27.680 --> 1:00:31.920 like insane asylums and hospitals to find other alcoholics and 1:00:31.960 --> 1:00:35.280 just sharing their story. They found that that was the 1:00:35.400 --> 1:00:39.040 key to them having long term sobriety, you know what 1:00:39.040 --> 1:00:42.000 I mean. There's just something about, like, you know, getting 1:00:42.000 --> 1:00:46.560 out of yourself and listening to somebody else, right, just 1:00:46.560 --> 1:00:52.000 to be in service, right, So yeah. 1:00:51.200 --> 1:00:53.160 Yeah, yeah, I feel like it helps a lot to 1:00:53.280 --> 1:00:55.680 just get out of your own stuff. That's one of 1:00:55.720 --> 1:00:58.880 the things I really liked doing about this podcast is like, 1:00:58.960 --> 1:01:02.520 I feel like I take a vacation from my own 1:01:02.640 --> 1:01:05.960 whatever and dive into other people's stuff. And that's a 1:01:06.080 --> 1:01:08.640 more like it's like a I don't know, getting into 1:01:08.640 --> 1:01:11.360 other people's stuff is just a break from your own. 1:01:11.400 --> 1:01:13.400 But why do you needed to do it as a gecko? 1:01:17.280 --> 1:01:22.680 I like, I like presenting as a Gecko character more 1:01:22.760 --> 1:01:26.040 than I'm like, this is my name is Lyle Dresser 1:01:26.080 --> 1:01:30.440 and this is the Lyle podcast starring me a fucking guy. 1:01:31.080 --> 1:01:32.200 You know, it's more fun. 1:01:32.360 --> 1:01:33.800 But let me ask you please, do. 1:01:33.800 --> 1:01:37.560 You get recognized because you have green face? 1:01:37.800 --> 1:01:41.480 I have a great thing where if I walk out 1:01:41.480 --> 1:01:43.400 in public in the suit, people will be like, oh, 1:01:43.440 --> 1:01:44.840 I've seen you on the thing, I'll see you other thing. 1:01:44.920 --> 1:01:46.520 Can we take a bit and it's wonderful. 1:01:46.840 --> 1:01:47.240 I love it. 1:01:47.480 --> 1:01:50.600 And then when I'm not wearing the costume, nothing nothing. 1:01:50.720 --> 1:01:50.919 Yeah. 1:01:50.920 --> 1:01:52.960 So I'll be at a I'll perform at a festival 1:01:53.560 --> 1:01:56.680 and I'm in the suit and I'm doing my thing, 1:01:56.720 --> 1:02:00.000 and then I'll walk around the festival grounds and people 1:02:00.040 --> 1:02:03.040 we oh, we're just on. And then later at night 1:02:03.120 --> 1:02:05.480 I'll go back and I'll just walk through the crowd. 1:02:05.680 --> 1:02:06.439 How do you get women? 1:02:10.000 --> 1:02:12.080 Has this ever happened where a woman like you're in 1:02:12.120 --> 1:02:14.960 the Get Go and they you're at a festival and 1:02:15.000 --> 1:02:17.000 girl goes, I think, you know, I'm attracted you this 1:02:17.040 --> 1:02:18.760 and that, and then you took the green off your 1:02:18.800 --> 1:02:22.440 face and took and they're like, yeah, I think it's. 1:02:22.520 --> 1:02:25.760 Uh, probably the the well I've had somebody tell me 1:02:26.760 --> 1:02:31.040 that I really actually don't look the same as the 1:02:31.080 --> 1:02:34.320 g Yeah, you can say whatever you want. 1:02:34.880 --> 1:02:35.680 Lyle the human. 1:02:35.880 --> 1:02:39.560 Yeah, it's cute as fuck. Ah that means a lot. 1:02:39.640 --> 1:02:41.240 Man, this, I wouldn't suck you off. 1:02:41.240 --> 1:02:43.200 You wouldn't suck me off like this. I would suck 1:02:43.240 --> 1:02:51.400 you off like this. Next caller, aj, aj, what's going 1:02:51.440 --> 1:02:53.200 on with you? How can we get you today? 1:02:55.040 --> 1:02:55.400 Well? 1:02:56.040 --> 1:02:59.720 As your color green for you? My best friend is 1:02:59.720 --> 1:03:02.919 Mary a monster and this weekend and I'm the best 1:03:02.960 --> 1:03:04.600 man at this whole shit show. 1:03:04.760 --> 1:03:08.840 What kind of off chopocabrio lockness? What kind I. 1:03:08.800 --> 1:03:11.000 Wish that'd be easier to deal with? This one has 1:03:11.000 --> 1:03:12.840 two legs and two arms and can talk. 1:03:13.920 --> 1:03:17.480 Yuck, scary? What is it that you don't like about 1:03:17.520 --> 1:03:17.840 this week? 1:03:17.880 --> 1:03:19.120 What don't you like? 1:03:20.760 --> 1:03:23.280 Okay, well, let me give you guys an example. First 1:03:23.320 --> 1:03:26.880 two weeks into their dating, I'm sitting in the car 1:03:26.920 --> 1:03:29.240 with them on a thirteen hour drive down to Disney World. 1:03:29.600 --> 1:03:31.720 And she has never met me. I've never met her 1:03:31.760 --> 1:03:34.080 in my entire life, and she's already accusing me of 1:03:34.120 --> 1:03:36.880 trying to get him to cheat on her while in 1:03:36.960 --> 1:03:39.200 Disney World, because that's obviously what you do when you 1:03:39.240 --> 1:03:40.040 go to Disney World. 1:03:40.440 --> 1:03:42.680 Wait, wait, she was trying to get Yeah, she wanted 1:03:42.680 --> 1:03:43.440 to link up with you. 1:03:43.600 --> 1:03:44.479 Is that what you're saying that. 1:03:44.400 --> 1:03:49.520 She accused No No of trying to get his friends 1:03:49.560 --> 1:03:52.480 to cheat on her while at Disney World? 1:03:54.640 --> 1:03:55.160 Yeah? 1:03:55.200 --> 1:03:57.400 Wow? What did you. 1:03:59.120 --> 1:03:59.320 Ask? 1:03:59.520 --> 1:03:59.560 What? 1:03:59.760 --> 1:04:00.240 Down hill? 1:04:00.240 --> 1:04:00.560 From there? 1:04:00.640 --> 1:04:00.960 Can I ask? 1:04:01.040 --> 1:04:04.920 Can I ask what she felt like? You said that 1:04:05.080 --> 1:04:07.640 was trying to encourage your friend to cheat on her? 1:04:09.400 --> 1:04:13.520 I didn't say anything at all, I didn't instigate anything. 1:04:13.600 --> 1:04:16.280 I sat there quietly the entire car ride, whenever he 1:04:16.360 --> 1:04:17.200 was on the phone with her. 1:04:18.320 --> 1:04:20.480 Would you live up with her if if, if you 1:04:20.520 --> 1:04:22.440 had the opportunity, just I just want to see here? 1:04:22.640 --> 1:04:24.000 Would absolutely not? 1:04:24.680 --> 1:04:26.080 Well, you're not attracted to her physically? 1:04:26.160 --> 1:04:26.920 Absolutely not. 1:04:28.400 --> 1:04:28.680 No. 1:04:29.280 --> 1:04:32.400 She looks like somebody, uh decided to make it right, 1:04:32.480 --> 1:04:34.160 yournoceros look like a human being? 1:04:35.560 --> 1:04:38.560 Can I can I ask? Can I ask you this? AJ? What? 1:04:40.080 --> 1:04:40.400 All right? 1:04:40.440 --> 1:04:40.520 So? 1:04:40.600 --> 1:04:48.640 You clearly do not like this person? You're so so? 1:04:48.640 --> 1:04:53.040 So does your friend know that you don't like his 1:04:53.040 --> 1:04:53.680 his fiance? 1:04:54.160 --> 1:04:54.400 Yes? 1:04:54.560 --> 1:04:55.960 And what kind of friend would I be if I 1:04:56.000 --> 1:04:57.080 wasn't honest with my friends? 1:04:57.480 --> 1:04:59.920 Okay? And what does your friend have to say? In response? 1:05:02.080 --> 1:05:05.040 He says that I'm taking it out context, things like that, 1:05:05.080 --> 1:05:07.440 But I can. I have two eyes, and I can see, 1:05:07.520 --> 1:05:10.240 and I can see that she is clearly not good 1:05:10.280 --> 1:05:10.680 for him. 1:05:11.240 --> 1:05:14.000 Do you think that she makes him happy? 1:05:16.520 --> 1:05:20.440 I think that he thinks that she makes him happy. 1:05:20.840 --> 1:05:24.560 Boy caught the wedding, mostly because like he boycott the wedding. 1:05:26.560 --> 1:05:28.000 When's the wedding is this Saturday? 1:05:28.720 --> 1:05:28.800 No? 1:05:28.920 --> 1:05:30.120 Boy caught it? Don't go. 1:05:32.440 --> 1:05:37.200 As the best man? Uh, no, I wish I could. 1:05:40.880 --> 1:05:42.560 Down shut that down. All right. 1:05:43.240 --> 1:05:45.959 Well, okay, so you know, it's an interesting thing because 1:05:46.000 --> 1:05:48.760 I've had friends who have girlfriends that I you know, 1:05:48.880 --> 1:05:52.440 I'm like, like, I've seen my friend's girlfriend be like 1:05:52.520 --> 1:05:54.720 mean to him, and I'm like, I don't know, but 1:05:54.800 --> 1:05:57.480 it's not it's what because I'm like, it's not my place. 1:05:58.080 --> 1:06:00.160 But you seem to have a lot of patt you 1:06:00.320 --> 1:06:04.400 really passionately. Do not like this girl. 1:06:04.360 --> 1:06:09.720 And your passion. I like the example ahead example. 1:06:11.240 --> 1:06:14.840 Yes, okay, so how many of your you said you've 1:06:14.880 --> 1:06:18.000 had friends marry other people? Of course, how many of 1:06:18.040 --> 1:06:21.560 those people have had their bachelor party and bachelorette parties 1:06:21.600 --> 1:06:23.360 together in one place at the same time. 1:06:24.480 --> 1:06:28.440 Never that just goes exactly, yeah. 1:06:29.560 --> 1:06:34.640 Exactly exactly. They did this, So you can imagine how 1:06:34.680 --> 1:06:37.000 bad this was going to get what you do. 1:06:38.480 --> 1:06:40.320 There's no strip club, but you guys go to strip club. 1:06:40.320 --> 1:06:40.840 What happened? 1:06:42.320 --> 1:06:45.320 No, they She didn't allow that, absolutely not, was not 1:06:45.360 --> 1:06:47.600 going to allow him to do anything without him her 1:06:47.680 --> 1:06:50.720 being him being very close to her the entire time, 1:06:51.400 --> 1:06:55.080 and him doing literally everything that she asked the entire time. 1:06:55.160 --> 1:06:58.120 And still she has a problem with it, Like one 1:06:58.160 --> 1:07:01.040 of the guys ended up drinking a little too much 1:07:01.520 --> 1:07:03.480 and got himself into a little bit of trouble that 1:07:03.520 --> 1:07:05.800 he was fine with in the end, but she decided 1:07:05.800 --> 1:07:07.880 to dress him down in front of all of her 1:07:07.880 --> 1:07:10.920 friends and family, and mostly her entire bridal party is 1:07:11.000 --> 1:07:14.760 her brother, her brothers, and sisters, so even the family 1:07:14.840 --> 1:07:16.840 knows she's a little nuts. And by a little, I 1:07:16.880 --> 1:07:17.960 mean a lot. 1:07:18.240 --> 1:07:21.919 So wow, Yeah, can I tell you a story? 1:07:22.040 --> 1:07:25.520 Dressing him down, saying, oh, you don't make this much money. 1:07:25.520 --> 1:07:27.840 I pay for everything, which isn't true at all. 1:07:28.160 --> 1:07:28.800 She's just dressed. 1:07:31.760 --> 1:07:32.800 Can I tell you a story? 1:07:34.160 --> 1:07:34.440 Sure? 1:07:34.560 --> 1:07:36.600 Sure, Okay. 1:07:36.640 --> 1:07:39.600 So years ago I went I used to open up 1:07:39.600 --> 1:07:42.480 for Polly Shore. Do you know who that is? 1:07:44.720 --> 1:07:46.520 Uh No, I'm not familiar. 1:07:47.080 --> 1:07:49.720 Okay, he used to be a nineties comedian. He had 1:07:49.840 --> 1:07:52.680 a bunch of movies. Anyway, I used to open from 1:07:52.680 --> 1:07:57.960 and one time I opened from in not Louisville, Kentucky, Shreveport, Louisiana. 1:07:58.160 --> 1:07:58.520 Okay. 1:07:59.640 --> 1:08:01.920 And each tells me I met this girl I like, 1:08:02.880 --> 1:08:05.120 and I go, okay, whatever, I mean. I'm an opener, 1:08:05.160 --> 1:08:06.000 so what do I give a fuck? 1:08:06.120 --> 1:08:06.240 Right? 1:08:07.080 --> 1:08:10.320 And so he was on stage and when I went 1:08:10.360 --> 1:08:12.640 to the green room, and I caught her stealing money 1:08:12.960 --> 1:08:16.920 from my wallet. She had my wallet in her hand 1:08:16.960 --> 1:08:18.719 and she's taking money out of my wallet. 1:08:18.880 --> 1:08:19.080 Right. 1:08:20.000 --> 1:08:23.080 So when Paulie got off the stage, When Paulie got 1:08:23.080 --> 1:08:24.559 off the stage, I ran up to him. 1:08:24.560 --> 1:08:27.920 I go, I go, you're that girl. 1:08:28.720 --> 1:08:32.320 I caught her stealing money, and he goes, I don't care, did, 1:08:32.400 --> 1:08:33.160 She's my girl? 1:08:34.280 --> 1:08:38.559 Right? Yeah, So for the whole weekend, for the whole weekend, 1:08:38.680 --> 1:08:43.599 I had to hang out with her, right, and I 1:08:43.640 --> 1:08:45.960 had to love her because he loves her. 1:08:50.600 --> 1:08:53.920 Geez oh man, that fuck. 1:08:54.080 --> 1:08:54.240 Yeah. 1:08:54.280 --> 1:08:57.439 Whatever my opinion is, whatever my opinion, and it doesn't 1:08:57.479 --> 1:09:00.559 really matter because as long as you're friend is in 1:09:00.560 --> 1:09:03.320 love with her and likes her and he doesn't have 1:09:03.360 --> 1:09:06.280 a problem, you're just gonna have to support that, bud. 1:09:06.680 --> 1:09:06.920 Yeah. 1:09:06.960 --> 1:09:08.840 Man, that's what I've. 1:09:08.680 --> 1:09:10.679 Been trying to do, is in this entire time. But man, 1:09:10.720 --> 1:09:13.840 it takes literally everything in me not to like speak 1:09:13.880 --> 1:09:15.679 my mind in front of like all these other people. 1:09:17.680 --> 1:09:20.040 Yeah, it's not good to start rumors and all that. 1:09:20.160 --> 1:09:22.519 So it's just like, no, you know, and I'm not 1:09:22.600 --> 1:09:24.760 I'm not about to start rumors or anything like that. 1:09:24.840 --> 1:09:26.479 It's just I just need a safe place to just 1:09:26.560 --> 1:09:29.559 let this off my chest before this like whole thing happens, 1:09:29.640 --> 1:09:29.840 you know. 1:09:30.840 --> 1:09:33.240 And also if it bothers you and that much and 1:09:33.360 --> 1:09:35.320 affects you, you might have to tell your buddies like, 1:09:35.400 --> 1:09:37.680 I love you and I'm so happy for you, but 1:09:38.160 --> 1:09:40.360 I'm gonna have to distance myself a little bit because 1:09:40.360 --> 1:09:42.160 it's like it's ruining me, you know what I mean, 1:09:42.200 --> 1:09:45.000 It's like and there's I can't I have to figure 1:09:45.040 --> 1:09:47.120 it out any some time or whatever. It might be 1:09:47.680 --> 1:09:49.880 you but you might have to separate yourself from the 1:09:49.880 --> 1:09:50.679 situation too. 1:09:50.720 --> 1:09:51.120 I don't know. 1:09:51.920 --> 1:09:55.960 Yeah, I feel like, uh again, this is like doing 1:09:56.560 --> 1:09:57.479 uh what is it? 1:09:57.600 --> 1:09:58.080 Uh? 1:09:58.439 --> 1:10:01.120 Only focusing on things that you can control. And you 1:10:01.200 --> 1:10:05.439 totally cannot control whether or not your friend is in 1:10:05.479 --> 1:10:08.120 love with someone or married to someone. But you can 1:10:08.240 --> 1:10:11.920 control you know, your your emotions about it and whether 1:10:12.040 --> 1:10:14.600 or not and how much if you decide to you 1:10:14.680 --> 1:10:17.840 express those emotions. And at a certain point it does 1:10:17.880 --> 1:10:22.000 become futile to just get so worked up about this, 1:10:22.520 --> 1:10:24.360 And if you're going to decide to do something about 1:10:24.360 --> 1:10:27.479 your worked upness, it's like doing what Bobby said and 1:10:27.520 --> 1:10:29.439 just being like, man, I listen, I I this is 1:10:29.439 --> 1:10:32.200 getting me fucking furious, and I hate feeling like this 1:10:32.400 --> 1:10:35.280 and I just need to distance myself. That's an option. 1:10:35.439 --> 1:10:37.920 But like, do you know, like do something, you know, 1:10:38.040 --> 1:10:42.400 don't just like sit and seethe unproductively. 1:10:41.600 --> 1:10:45.720 Like, yeah, get up and leave the wedding for you 1:10:46.080 --> 1:10:46.799 and other people. 1:10:49.000 --> 1:10:52.080 Yeah, yeah you feel better? 1:10:54.160 --> 1:10:54.800 Yeah, I do. 1:10:55.000 --> 1:10:55.320 I do. 1:10:55.960 --> 1:10:56.880 Seriously, Thanks guys. 1:10:56.920 --> 1:11:02.519 I appreciates before all this all this goes down on Saturday. 1:11:03.439 --> 1:11:04.519 Hey, thanks for calling age. 1:11:04.520 --> 1:11:07.559 I Hey, thank you guys. 1:11:07.680 --> 1:11:10.519 I appreciate that I have a great guest interest. 1:11:10.640 --> 1:11:11.599 That's an interesting one. 1:11:11.720 --> 1:11:12.479 That was interesting. 1:11:12.520 --> 1:11:14.040 Do you have any friends that you don't like their 1:11:14.120 --> 1:11:16.240 spouse or their their girlfriends. 1:11:16.240 --> 1:11:18.639 In the past. Yeah, I've had friends who have had 1:11:18.640 --> 1:11:22.000 a girlfriend who I've seen like yell at them or 1:11:22.040 --> 1:11:23.320 something like that, and I'm. 1:11:23.160 --> 1:11:26.120 Like, ah, this is a little yeah. 1:11:26.120 --> 1:11:28.960 But I never I don't like voic it's not I've 1:11:29.000 --> 1:11:31.400 never I've never like said anything to them because this 1:11:31.520 --> 1:11:33.880 is it's never I feel like my place to do 1:11:33.920 --> 1:11:37.519 anything like that. Yeah, unless if I thought, like with 1:11:37.600 --> 1:11:39.960 the wallet thing, with the story you told, what would 1:11:40.040 --> 1:11:41.760 have done? I would have told Yeah, because that's like 1:11:42.320 --> 1:11:44.320 because there's there's I think there's certain situations where you 1:11:44.360 --> 1:11:45.960 look at it and you're like, that was a little 1:11:45.960 --> 1:11:47.880 bit weird, but it's not my place. But someone's like 1:11:48.240 --> 1:11:49.840 if I saw, like if I had a friend who 1:11:49.840 --> 1:11:52.519 had a girlfriend, I saw their girlfriend stealing from him, yeah, 1:11:52.520 --> 1:11:55.920 I would tell him. Or if she like was like 1:11:55.160 --> 1:11:57.759 but she hit him or something like that. 1:11:57.439 --> 1:11:59.880 That you do though, if your friend was like, I 1:12:00.080 --> 1:12:00.800 don't care about he. 1:12:01.360 --> 1:12:03.719 Oh, then I would have if he if I if 1:12:03.920 --> 1:12:05.760 if he was like, yeah, I know she's stilling with me. Yeah, 1:12:05.760 --> 1:12:07.720 I know she does this. And she said he said 1:12:07.760 --> 1:12:11.280 he didn't care a dude, what what the fuck can 1:12:11.320 --> 1:12:11.559 you do? 1:12:11.720 --> 1:12:11.960 Yeah? 1:12:12.000 --> 1:12:13.000 What the fuck can you do? 1:12:13.439 --> 1:12:16.640 What sucks about this that story is that she was beautiful. 1:12:17.760 --> 1:12:21.120 She was beautiful, right, and so because she was beautiful, 1:12:21.200 --> 1:12:24.799 he was he's allowing her to be a terrible person, 1:12:24.880 --> 1:12:27.479 you know what I mean. And it's just like we 1:12:27.520 --> 1:12:29.320 got to get out of that as a society. 1:12:29.479 --> 1:12:31.240 Well that I mean, that's I mean, look, you know 1:12:31.280 --> 1:12:34.439 that's this, that's this This guy. When the guy is 1:12:34.479 --> 1:12:36.800 sitting there doing everything his girlfriend is telling him to 1:12:36.800 --> 1:12:39.800 do at the joint bachelor bachelorette party, he's look, he's 1:12:39.840 --> 1:12:42.439 sitting in a life that he has chosen, that he, 1:12:42.920 --> 1:12:46.960 as an independent human being, has the complete freedom to 1:12:46.960 --> 1:12:50.040 put himself in that situation. Who is his friend or 1:12:50.080 --> 1:12:52.840 any of us to argue that he shouldn't do that. 1:12:52.880 --> 1:12:54.200 I mean, he can think, I can do whatever the 1:12:54.240 --> 1:12:58.080 hell he wants. It's sweet that his friend loves him 1:12:58.120 --> 1:13:00.559 so much that he cares about his wealth being. But 1:13:01.080 --> 1:13:03.160 at the end of the day, you know, you got 1:13:03.320 --> 1:13:05.880 you can't control what other people fucking do. You know? 1:13:06.680 --> 1:13:09.640 Yeah, man, I'm just because I'm just going through a 1:13:09.680 --> 1:13:13.599 thing right now where I know female girls that really 1:13:13.640 --> 1:13:17.360 have no talent, really, but they're making ten times the 1:13:17.360 --> 1:13:19.559 amount of money I am because they're on only fans. 1:13:20.600 --> 1:13:22.080 That's How does that bother you or not? 1:13:22.280 --> 1:13:22.479 No? 1:13:22.560 --> 1:13:22.680 Not? 1:13:22.800 --> 1:13:26.880 Ang? Okay, no me either. I guess well like the. 1:13:28.400 --> 1:13:31.760 No no at a if look, if you're attractive and 1:13:31.760 --> 1:13:34.080 people want to pay to see photos of you, then 1:13:34.120 --> 1:13:38.559 fuck that. Do whatever fucking do it? Why not? 1:13:38.680 --> 1:13:41.960 You know? I think you're right? Yeah? Why I don't 1:13:41.960 --> 1:13:42.599 know why it bothers? 1:13:42.920 --> 1:13:47.360 Why? Why? Why do you think about this? You? You 1:13:47.400 --> 1:13:48.960 know what this is? Here's something I've heard a lot. 1:13:49.040 --> 1:13:51.760 I'll just to say, like I've heard guys say like, oh, 1:13:51.800 --> 1:13:53.800 I wish I could do that. You can do that 1:13:53.840 --> 1:13:55.840 if you do if like, if you're a guy and 1:13:55.880 --> 1:13:56.880 you see you couldn't do that. 1:13:57.320 --> 1:13:58.880 No, if you're you couldn't do that. 1:13:59.080 --> 1:14:01.599 Hold on, hold on. If you're a guy and you're 1:14:01.640 --> 1:14:03.559 seeing girls make money only fans and you're like, oh, 1:14:03.560 --> 1:14:05.599 wish I could take off my clothes and charge, you 1:14:05.640 --> 1:14:06.880 can do you can do that? 1:14:07.600 --> 1:14:10.640 Nothing. Yeah, yes, you can't do it because no one 1:14:10.760 --> 1:14:11.400 will watch it. 1:14:11.680 --> 1:14:13.200 Somebody there is somebody. 1:14:13.320 --> 1:14:15.080 Yeah, but you're not gonna but you're not gonna make 1:14:15.120 --> 1:14:18.639 as much money as some really hot chick like five 1:14:18.640 --> 1:14:19.280 bucks a month. 1:14:20.800 --> 1:14:22.880 But I but, but but I could do it. I 1:14:22.880 --> 1:14:23.320 could try. 1:14:23.360 --> 1:14:26.360 I could feel on beauty in this country and sexuality 1:14:26.400 --> 1:14:27.120 and all that stuff. 1:14:27.120 --> 1:14:28.320 It's just like, you know what I mean. 1:14:29.840 --> 1:14:30.400 I just don't. 1:14:30.439 --> 1:14:35.000 I don't like I worked so hard to get here. 1:14:36.479 --> 1:14:39.599 But it's I worked so hard to get I went 1:14:39.600 --> 1:14:43.559 through years of open mic and crawling my way up, 1:14:43.720 --> 1:14:45.639 you know what I mean, and going through so much 1:14:45.760 --> 1:14:50.080 fear and rejection and devastation, and then it's like, you know, 1:14:50.120 --> 1:14:51.920 you get to a point where I, oh, I'm finally 1:14:52.000 --> 1:14:55.280 after thirty years, You're like, oh, I'm fucking starting to 1:14:55.280 --> 1:14:58.120 make some money, right, and then you see some girl 1:14:58.200 --> 1:15:02.520 that like, you know what I mean shows Okay, okay. 1:15:01.800 --> 1:15:04.240 Sure, but but but I feel like, and you know, 1:15:04.280 --> 1:15:06.120 this is something I'm learning just in general with like 1:15:06.200 --> 1:15:12.559 jealousy and ship is like to I think jealous, I'm 1:15:12.600 --> 1:15:14.800 not jealous. You're not jealous. You're not jealous of people 1:15:14.800 --> 1:15:16.680 who make more money on you by going on, why 1:15:16.680 --> 1:15:17.280 are you angry? 1:15:17.439 --> 1:15:18.519 I'm kidding, I'm fine. 1:15:18.560 --> 1:15:20.559 Well, okay, so so this is something I'm trying to 1:15:20.640 --> 1:15:25.400 with my own, Like jealousy and for me is a 1:15:25.479 --> 1:15:31.120 total undeniable product of ungratefulness to me, to me, to me, 1:15:31.320 --> 1:15:33.280 like when I see a guy out there who, like, 1:15:33.360 --> 1:15:35.720 you know, it's I see somebody who has a podcast 1:15:36.000 --> 1:15:38.080 and they seem like they're getting more downloads than me. 1:15:38.200 --> 1:15:41.120 This person's making more money than me, this person's going 1:15:41.160 --> 1:15:44.040 on cooler adventures than me. It's like it's a it's 1:15:44.080 --> 1:15:48.040 a total disdain and disregard for like any cool things 1:15:48.080 --> 1:15:49.800 that I have gotten to do in my life. 1:15:49.840 --> 1:15:51.840 And I'm like, why the fun It doesn't bother me 1:15:51.880 --> 1:15:54.400 because it's they still have a skill set. 1:15:54.600 --> 1:15:55.040 Why does it? 1:15:55.479 --> 1:15:58.360 Why does it? Why does anything about them matter. 1:15:58.840 --> 1:16:01.479 That's true. What does any I learned so much from me? 1:16:01.520 --> 1:16:06.720 Thank you? Next caller, I should have said what I 1:16:06.760 --> 1:16:07.120 just said. 1:16:07.160 --> 1:16:12.120 No, it's okay, man, Let's talk to. 1:16:14.760 --> 1:16:16.640 Some single not is there any single women? Can you 1:16:16.680 --> 1:16:17.040 do that? 1:16:17.880 --> 1:16:20.240 Does anyone want to call in to date Bobby? 1:16:20.360 --> 1:16:20.760 Not date? 1:16:21.720 --> 1:16:22.519 Does anyone want to. 1:16:22.640 --> 1:16:24.639 What I need to change about myself? Maybe to tell 1:16:24.680 --> 1:16:25.479 Bobby what he needs? 1:16:26.200 --> 1:16:27.000 Why do you need to change? 1:16:27.000 --> 1:16:29.479 Why are you changing you into the cologne or like 1:16:29.520 --> 1:16:31.400 you may maybe the shoes I'm wearing or whatever. 1:16:31.280 --> 1:16:32.479 You think it's the shoes or the clones. 1:16:32.520 --> 1:16:33.320 It might be. I don't know. 1:16:33.720 --> 1:16:36.639 People have liked you in the past for who you are. 1:16:36.720 --> 1:16:38.760 Correct, that's true. People in the future will like you 1:16:38.800 --> 1:16:39.080 for here. 1:16:39.160 --> 1:16:40.960 Do you believe in that? 1:16:42.720 --> 1:16:42.920 Well? 1:16:43.080 --> 1:16:52.360 I have to say this. It's harder. It's harder. It's 1:16:52.360 --> 1:16:53.679 harder for me than the next guy. 1:16:54.680 --> 1:16:57.280 Why, okay? Thinking about the would you? 1:16:57.640 --> 1:16:58.320 But okay? 1:16:58.360 --> 1:17:00.240 So? Can I just want like I to be? 1:17:00.439 --> 1:17:01.720 Why are you getting so confrontational? 1:17:01.760 --> 1:17:04.200 I'm not confrontational. I'm we're an aggressive Get go? You 1:17:04.240 --> 1:17:05.040 think I'm an aggressive? 1:17:05.120 --> 1:17:06.040 Yeah? Yeah, Well I. 1:17:07.560 --> 1:17:10.720 Feel like because I used to be very I used 1:17:10.760 --> 1:17:13.559 to be very self conscious by being short. You know, 1:17:13.800 --> 1:17:15.280 I like it. I used to be very self conscious 1:17:15.280 --> 1:17:17.240 of making sure and I'm not self conscious there because 1:17:17.240 --> 1:17:19.000 I I was. These are these are the hands that 1:17:19.000 --> 1:17:21.920 I've been to. I'm a short, fat, hairy. 1:17:21.840 --> 1:17:23.760 Understand this is what this is what I got. 1:17:23.760 --> 1:17:25.120 What can I do with what I got? 1:17:25.160 --> 1:17:25.320 You know? 1:17:25.360 --> 1:17:25.880 But guess what? 1:17:26.160 --> 1:17:26.479 Tell me? 1:17:27.520 --> 1:17:28.640 It's still harder for you. 1:17:29.680 --> 1:17:31.639 Yeah, but there's other people who it's way. 1:17:31.400 --> 1:17:32.280 Harder for. 1:17:34.080 --> 1:17:34.360 Hello. 1:17:36.040 --> 1:17:39.120 Hello, that nice voice? 1:17:40.840 --> 1:17:44.880 Oh my god, No fucking way, what's going on? I mean, 1:17:47.000 --> 1:17:50.439 I'm nothing. This is just this struck me. I've been 1:17:50.439 --> 1:17:53.400 a big fan of you, Bobby for like super long time, 1:17:53.560 --> 1:17:56.400 lyle love you to death. Watching your streams get me 1:17:56.400 --> 1:17:57.400 through stuff all the time. 1:17:57.800 --> 1:17:58.519 Would you like more? 1:17:58.760 --> 1:17:58.920 Man? 1:18:00.280 --> 1:18:00.960 You can be honest with. 1:18:04.600 --> 1:18:07.080 And you know it. Really that sucks you guys put 1:18:07.080 --> 1:18:16.840 me in this position, you know, but that's life. Uh okay, Bobby, 1:18:17.080 --> 1:18:20.000 I'm sorry, Like I gotta go with Bobby, you know 1:18:20.000 --> 1:18:20.400 what I mean? 1:18:21.000 --> 1:18:23.960 Of course, Bobby, Bobby, don't please? 1:18:24.320 --> 1:18:24.680 All right? 1:18:24.760 --> 1:18:26.840 I shouldn't asked, won't You're great? Man? 1:18:26.920 --> 1:18:29.400 Well, I I appreciate that, but of course you have. 1:18:29.560 --> 1:18:32.880 I've been around long you've been around is longer? Yes, 1:18:32.920 --> 1:18:37.679 you've been off lyle. 1:18:37.760 --> 1:18:41.280 If you were on Mad TV in the early two thousands, 1:18:41.360 --> 1:18:42.640 I think you couldn't have done it. 1:18:43.160 --> 1:18:44.920 But you know I couldn't have done it. I didn't. 1:18:44.960 --> 1:18:46.679 I don't have the thing you have, the thing. 1:18:46.760 --> 1:18:49.479 You have the thing? You were just a baby. They 1:18:49.520 --> 1:18:50.479 didn't put babies on that. 1:18:50.479 --> 1:18:54.439 When when did Mad TV come out in the late nineties? Okay, 1:18:54.479 --> 1:18:56.639 I was a baby. Yeah, I was a tiny little baby. 1:18:57.000 --> 1:19:01.760 So what's your name again? Many David? What's do you 1:19:01.760 --> 1:19:02.680 have a question for us? 1:19:04.479 --> 1:19:04.759 Uh? 1:19:04.880 --> 1:19:08.200 Yeah? So well, me and my buddy just moved from 1:19:08.240 --> 1:19:11.400 like this tiny, little small with midwestern town in northern 1:19:11.400 --> 1:19:16.320 Michigan to uh to Austin, Texas, just kind of uprooted 1:19:16.320 --> 1:19:21.080 our whole lives there. Love it, yep, and uh. I 1:19:21.120 --> 1:19:24.240 guess my my question for you guys is, like, for 1:19:24.360 --> 1:19:26.760 two guys coming into a city like that, you know, 1:19:27.040 --> 1:19:30.439 what would your what would your advice be for like 1:19:30.479 --> 1:19:32.559 getting out there and getting like into the flow of 1:19:32.600 --> 1:19:33.200 a big city. 1:19:35.120 --> 1:19:38.200 When's the last time you moved from one city to another? Bobby? 1:19:38.280 --> 1:19:38.880 Never have you? 1:19:38.960 --> 1:19:39.280 Never have? 1:19:39.560 --> 1:19:39.720 Well? 1:19:39.800 --> 1:19:42.320 I moved from San Diego to La but only because 1:19:42.360 --> 1:19:45.400 of the fact that because I was following that's my 1:19:45.520 --> 1:19:46.599 show business dream. 1:19:46.720 --> 1:19:47.040 Sure. 1:19:47.120 --> 1:19:47.519 Yeah. 1:19:47.520 --> 1:19:50.640 But like first of all, are you are you a 1:19:50.680 --> 1:19:53.280 part of any club or group or activity. 1:19:55.000 --> 1:19:57.519 No, No, we're well I mean like we have our 1:19:57.560 --> 1:19:59.200 own like hobbies and stuff like that. 1:19:59.280 --> 1:20:00.840 By the way, to be a give you a hobby, 1:20:00.880 --> 1:20:02.439 Give me a hobby, Give you. 1:20:02.439 --> 1:20:04.759 A hobby, Give you a hobby. Okay, So a hobby 1:20:04.760 --> 1:20:09.960 that I have that I really enjoy is probably like, uh, ship, 1:20:10.400 --> 1:20:12.120 we played a lot of video games, but you can 1:20:12.320 --> 1:20:16.120 video games okay. Yeah. Yeah, so I'd say like I'd say, 1:20:16.120 --> 1:20:20.120 like like listen, finding new music. Probably like I enjoy 1:20:20.160 --> 1:20:21.800 going to jazz clubs and things like that. 1:20:22.439 --> 1:20:29.320 Okay, all right, so I would go to a jazz club, right, yeah. 1:20:29.360 --> 1:20:32.680 And then like what I find to be good is 1:20:32.720 --> 1:20:35.680 to be a regular anywhere, you know what I mean. 1:20:35.720 --> 1:20:39.439 So like like there's a couple of a meetings where 1:20:39.479 --> 1:20:41.760 I'm a regular, There's a couple of comedy clubs where 1:20:41.760 --> 1:20:43.640 I'm a regular, you know what I mean. And when 1:20:43.680 --> 1:20:45.200 you're a regular in a place, you know, I mean, 1:20:45.240 --> 1:20:48.200 you get to know the people around you, right, so 1:20:48.240 --> 1:20:54.120 they'll go hey, right, you know, they'll go, hey, David's back, 1:20:54.760 --> 1:20:57.080 David's back. You know what I mean and then like, wait, 1:20:57.800 --> 1:21:00.240 maybe a waitress to go. Oh, David, so I see 1:21:00.240 --> 1:21:00.960 you here often? 1:21:01.720 --> 1:21:01.880 Right? 1:21:02.000 --> 1:21:06.640 You like jazz. Let's just I'm the girl. Respond no, 1:21:06.840 --> 1:21:09.240 just respond to me like you're David and I'm the girl. Right, 1:21:09.320 --> 1:21:13.559 So I'm at We're at a jazz club, right, Hey, David, 1:21:13.920 --> 1:21:14.400 your name. 1:21:14.280 --> 1:21:16.800 Is David, right? Yeah? 1:21:16.880 --> 1:21:17.800 Yeah, my name is David. 1:21:18.200 --> 1:21:19.479 Yeah. Yeah, you like jazz? 1:21:21.400 --> 1:21:24.360 Uh yeah, actually I actually love jazz. Like, what's your 1:21:24.400 --> 1:21:24.960 favorite artist? 1:21:25.040 --> 1:21:25.200 I love? 1:21:25.320 --> 1:21:27.360 I love Minga? So you know like these you ever? 1:21:28.000 --> 1:21:29.479 I mean I like Mingas too. 1:21:30.960 --> 1:21:31.719 This is really cute. 1:21:31.720 --> 1:21:34.080 You kind of look like him actually a little bit. 1:21:34.520 --> 1:21:36.439 No, no, no, no, no, no, bro, David, David, I'm not a 1:21:36.520 --> 1:21:39.640 Korean dude. I'm a white girl in the in the 1:21:39.680 --> 1:21:41.559 in the scene, I'm not. I'm not Bobby Ly, a 1:21:41.560 --> 1:21:42.559 fat Korean guy. 1:21:43.160 --> 1:21:47.800 Right so oh okay yeah yeah, so just imagine I'm 1:21:47.800 --> 1:21:49.960 a white girl, you know what I mean? A hot girl? 1:21:50.920 --> 1:21:53.200 Oh so okay, okay, So I like Mingas too. I 1:21:53.240 --> 1:21:54.800 like Mingas too. I like Mingus too. 1:21:54.840 --> 1:21:56.400 Who is Mingus? 1:21:58.000 --> 1:21:59.919 Charles Minga's like he's a huge. 1:22:00.640 --> 1:22:02.800 Yeah I'm not here, I'm omnipotently watching. 1:22:02.960 --> 1:22:05.719 Yeah, and see what anyway, let's fuck the role play. 1:22:06.000 --> 1:22:08.240 So basically that will happen. You'll know you'll develop a 1:22:08.280 --> 1:22:09.320 relationship with this girl. 1:22:10.400 --> 1:22:12.839 Yeah yeah, okay, okay, cool? Cool? 1:22:13.080 --> 1:22:16.000 Do you feel? Do you feel? Do you feel better now? 1:22:16.040 --> 1:22:18.400 Do you feel ready to go out? Are you go tonight? 1:22:18.560 --> 1:22:20.439 What time is it in Austin right now? It's like 1:22:20.520 --> 1:22:24.280 three or something, right like, yeah, tonight? What are you 1:22:24.320 --> 1:22:24.880 doing tonight? 1:22:26.800 --> 1:22:29.160 Nothing? I probably should. We just moved down here so 1:22:29.200 --> 1:22:31.760 we don't have we don't have jobs yet, so you've 1:22:31.800 --> 1:22:34.320 been trying to stay inside and conserve money a little bit. 1:22:34.360 --> 1:22:37.960 But oh so so there a how old are you, David? 1:22:39.400 --> 1:22:40.040 Twenty four? 1:22:41.000 --> 1:22:43.400 Okay, so here's a dal dude. Let me, I'm going 1:22:43.479 --> 1:22:44.400 to tell you to be honest. 1:22:44.960 --> 1:22:50.000 At twenty four, you know, right now, that's an age 1:22:50.080 --> 1:22:52.320 where you're trying to figure out what do I want 1:22:52.360 --> 1:22:55.240 to do here? You know, I want to be able 1:22:55.320 --> 1:22:58.000 to find a job that I love, right, and I 1:22:58.040 --> 1:23:00.960 want I need to get on my feet finance, right, 1:23:01.640 --> 1:23:02.960 you know, what are my dreams? 1:23:03.000 --> 1:23:03.160 All? 1:23:03.160 --> 1:23:06.639 That's figuring that stuff out right, you know, I mean going 1:23:06.680 --> 1:23:09.280 out and mingling and trying to get a This is 1:23:09.320 --> 1:23:11.960 just who I am at that age. At twenty, I 1:23:12.000 --> 1:23:15.080 was a gung ho about hitting open mics and like, 1:23:15.160 --> 1:23:17.040 you know what I mean, trying to get better at 1:23:17.080 --> 1:23:17.799 what I'm doing. 1:23:17.880 --> 1:23:18.080 You know. 1:23:18.200 --> 1:23:21.080 So it's like, I don't know, man, Like I said 1:23:21.080 --> 1:23:26.360 to the lady before, my thirties and forties were the 1:23:26.400 --> 1:23:29.000 best years of my life. I mean where I was, 1:23:29.040 --> 1:23:30.960 I had a little money, you know, I mean, I 1:23:30.960 --> 1:23:33.240 had great girlfriends, I could travel, you know, I mean 1:23:33.280 --> 1:23:36.479 all that's The twenties were my dark years. Those are 1:23:36.479 --> 1:23:38.320 the years not for you. You fuck but you don't 1:23:38.360 --> 1:23:40.200 think he's a chilling it. But my point is that, 1:23:40.560 --> 1:23:42.040 you know what I mean, maybe your forties are gonna 1:23:42.040 --> 1:23:42.320 be bad. 1:23:42.520 --> 1:23:44.360 They could be really bad, worse. 1:23:44.880 --> 1:23:47.880 Yeah, But my point is is that generally these are 1:23:47.920 --> 1:23:49.360 the years to fucking hustle. 1:23:51.640 --> 1:23:52.800 Yeah, yeah, one hundred. 1:23:54.479 --> 1:23:55.000 Do that first. 1:23:55.040 --> 1:23:58.600 I feel a lot better they yeah. Yeah, No, just like, 1:23:58.680 --> 1:24:00.439 focus on what I'm going to be. You're saying, so 1:24:00.479 --> 1:24:02.479 you're saying I should be a comedian. I should I 1:24:02.479 --> 1:24:03.040 should start? 1:24:03.120 --> 1:24:05.639 Uh, what is your dream? 1:24:06.000 --> 1:24:06.360 Maybe? 1:24:06.400 --> 1:24:07.479 What is your dream, David? 1:24:07.600 --> 1:24:11.320 Maybe like surpass you. Honestly, my dream is some some 1:24:11.360 --> 1:24:13.320 sort of entertainment. I just want to be in the 1:24:13.439 --> 1:24:17.160 entertainment scene, whether that be music, comedy, acting, anything like that. 1:24:18.160 --> 1:24:20.320 Here's what you do, dude, I just had a gut instinct. 1:24:20.439 --> 1:24:22.879 Please search out Adam Egitt. 1:24:25.760 --> 1:24:26.880 Adam Egitt. 1:24:27.280 --> 1:24:29.439 He lives in Austin, he does. 1:24:29.640 --> 1:24:32.639 Yeah, and so Joe Rogan flew him out from LA 1:24:33.200 --> 1:24:34.719 to run his comedy club. 1:24:35.240 --> 1:24:35.840 Oh he runs. 1:24:35.880 --> 1:24:38.000 So Joe Rogan has a new comedy club opening up 1:24:38.120 --> 1:24:40.000 I think in January. 1:24:40.200 --> 1:24:42.160 Right, So this is what I want you to do. 1:24:43.439 --> 1:24:45.360 I want you to go to the comedy club, right, 1:24:45.880 --> 1:24:49.840 and go to Adam he's the manager the. 1:24:50.479 --> 1:24:52.800 Right and go. Bobby Lee sent me. He said, you 1:24:52.800 --> 1:24:56.040 can get me a job. Dude. 1:24:56.120 --> 1:24:57.120 That's fucking awesome. 1:24:57.160 --> 1:24:58.080 Thank you so much. 1:24:58.800 --> 1:25:01.360 Right, and then you're gonna work at that new comedy club. 1:25:02.120 --> 1:25:04.639 And then I'll headline down and then you'll come over 1:25:04.680 --> 1:25:05.680 and then you'll come up to me and. 1:25:05.600 --> 1:25:08.000 Go, I got a job because of you. Right, and 1:25:08.000 --> 1:25:10.519 then I'm going to take you into a little room 1:25:10.720 --> 1:25:11.559 and we're gonna do some. 1:25:11.520 --> 1:25:19.240 Stuff, exciting, exciting things ahead for you to but. 1:25:21.760 --> 1:25:23.679 Yeah, cool, cool, all right. 1:25:23.640 --> 1:25:26.240 That's awesome, Adam has. 1:25:29.720 --> 1:25:31.920 I'll see you until next time. 1:25:32.000 --> 1:25:32.240 Thank you. 1:25:32.320 --> 1:25:32.559 Guys. 1:25:34.240 --> 1:25:37.080 You know it's funny about I don't I don't know Adam, 1:25:37.360 --> 1:25:40.400 but I always wonder, like, are people in real life 1:25:40.880 --> 1:25:44.000 mean to him? Because they've seen people be mean to 1:25:44.080 --> 1:25:46.519 him on the Normal Nor McDonald's show. 1:25:47.160 --> 1:25:47.960 Oh do you know Adam? 1:25:48.120 --> 1:25:48.720 I know, I don't know. 1:25:49.400 --> 1:25:49.960 I don't know who. 1:25:50.240 --> 1:25:54.920 I think people are afraid of him really, yeah, because 1:25:55.000 --> 1:25:58.160 he's he did Norms podcast because they were good friends. 1:25:58.760 --> 1:26:02.479 But Adam is a talent booker. Yeah, right, So every 1:26:02.600 --> 1:26:04.640 comic in Austin is gonna want to get on his 1:26:04.760 --> 1:26:06.679 good side. Every city has. 1:26:06.640 --> 1:26:07.080 One of them. 1:26:07.360 --> 1:26:09.680 Yeah, of course, Like you know, in San Francisco there's 1:26:09.680 --> 1:26:12.719 a woman named Mollie who runs the punchline and she's 1:26:13.400 --> 1:26:15.960 the person that you got to just get passed to 1:26:16.040 --> 1:26:19.040 become a comic. So Adam is gonna be that in Austin. 1:26:19.160 --> 1:26:21.200 So he's not gonna he might. He's gonna have hater 1:26:21.280 --> 1:26:21.880 as a for sure. 1:26:22.240 --> 1:26:24.519 Not even hater's just people who are like I mean, 1:26:24.560 --> 1:26:27.160 the vibe of Norm McDonald live is just like relentless 1:26:27.520 --> 1:26:30.839 shitting on him. And I've people I have bad blurring 1:26:30.880 --> 1:26:34.439 the lines between like on screen person or whatever. I get. 1:26:34.479 --> 1:26:35.920 I feel like it would be more fans. I guess 1:26:35.960 --> 1:26:38.519 it would just be like hey, fucking yeah. But he's 1:26:38.560 --> 1:26:40.960 also but you have to understand that, you know, in 1:26:41.080 --> 1:26:45.240 the comedy world. Yeah, he's got power, Yeah, definitely, you know. 1:26:45.280 --> 1:26:48.519 I mean so he's got big allies too, like Rogan 1:26:48.560 --> 1:26:53.120 On these guys and they were I love him like 1:26:53.240 --> 1:26:54.720 I would lay my life down for him. 1:26:54.840 --> 1:26:56.679 Can I ask you, do you are you enjoying doing 1:26:56.840 --> 1:27:01.240 stand up comedy in this current phase of your life 1:27:01.439 --> 1:27:04.200 more than before? Are you enjoying? 1:27:04.360 --> 1:27:05.680 Is it like because I never enjoyed it? 1:27:05.760 --> 1:27:06.720 You never enjoyed it? Really? 1:27:07.439 --> 1:27:07.960 I just do it? 1:27:08.320 --> 1:27:08.559 Really? 1:27:08.760 --> 1:27:08.960 Yeah? 1:27:09.040 --> 1:27:09.679 Have you been serious? 1:27:10.560 --> 1:27:10.640 Well? 1:27:10.880 --> 1:27:16.200 A joy is that it's not like you know, I'd 1:27:16.320 --> 1:27:19.400 rather fuck, would rather fuck? Yeah, I mean that's joy. 1:27:19.680 --> 1:27:21.280 So like you're telling me that if you had the 1:27:21.360 --> 1:27:26.120 option to do absolutely nothing but sit around and fuck 1:27:26.520 --> 1:27:27.800 all day and that. 1:27:27.960 --> 1:27:29.640 Was your life, I think I would get tired of it. 1:27:29.680 --> 1:27:31.280 But I think right now I would say yeah, but 1:27:32.160 --> 1:27:34.240 because I think I do stand up to Fox, you do. 1:27:34.320 --> 1:27:34.880 Stand up too Fu? 1:27:35.000 --> 1:27:36.479 Yeah, yeah, so I have to do it to Fu. 1:27:37.400 --> 1:27:39.920 Has that been true for your entire career? 1:27:40.560 --> 1:27:40.800 Yeah? 1:27:41.320 --> 1:27:43.200 Really? Yeah? 1:27:43.760 --> 1:27:46.120 Hmm, I couldn't get anything before. 1:27:46.280 --> 1:27:47.400 Why do you do podcasts? 1:27:47.880 --> 1:27:49.200 The fuck you? 1:27:49.439 --> 1:27:52.200 How how long? How how long? How long were you 1:27:52.280 --> 1:27:54.800 with your girlfriend for ten years? Ten years? So why 1:27:54.840 --> 1:27:56.000 were you doing stand up in that time if you 1:27:56.040 --> 1:27:56.599 had a girlfriend. 1:27:57.320 --> 1:28:01.200 That's true, You're smart, you know. I love it. You're right. 1:28:01.360 --> 1:28:04.360 Here's why I love it though. Yeah, I don't necessarily 1:28:04.439 --> 1:28:07.160 like going on the road, right. I like going to 1:28:07.240 --> 1:28:08.719 the clubs, like I have a show. I think tonight 1:28:08.800 --> 1:28:11.640 at the store, I do the Comedy Store. And I 1:28:11.680 --> 1:28:13.960 think the reason why I like it is because number One, 1:28:14.000 --> 1:28:17.240 I'll see my friends. Number Two, I like performing where 1:28:17.240 --> 1:28:19.639 there's no pressure. Sure, you know what I mean. 1:28:19.760 --> 1:28:25.400 And then it's just it's like going to like in cheers, 1:28:25.479 --> 1:28:29.000 you know that. You know, yeah, dude, And I was 1:28:29.080 --> 1:28:31.400 telling David that I go going to that jazz club. 1:28:31.479 --> 1:28:31.840 You know what I mean. 1:28:31.840 --> 1:28:34.080 That's what I'm saying is it's like going to comedy 1:28:34.120 --> 1:28:36.880 clubs and stuff and performing in La especially, it's like 1:28:36.960 --> 1:28:40.040 meeting my old friends. I'll see Harlan Williams, Ornie Adams, 1:28:40.160 --> 1:28:44.800 you know, Anthony Jazzlneck, these type of guys, even the 1:28:44.880 --> 1:28:47.560 with Whitney Cummings, whoever it might be, Ali Wong, I 1:28:47.680 --> 1:28:50.040 hug them, we hug house lying what's going on. 1:28:50.520 --> 1:28:52.679 So it's like it's a part of all that as well. Yeah. 1:28:52.720 --> 1:28:53.800 No, it's a great way to make for it. I 1:28:53.960 --> 1:28:56.680 I did stand up for like five years and then 1:28:56.680 --> 1:28:59.720 I quit because I just fucking couldn't hack it. But like, 1:29:00.040 --> 1:29:02.759 it's a great community. I mean, you know, people complain 1:29:02.800 --> 1:29:04.360 a lot about like they talk about a lot a 1:29:04.400 --> 1:29:06.400 lot about how it's hard to make friends as an 1:29:06.400 --> 1:29:09.200 adult comedian. Comedians don't have that problem at all because 1:29:09.240 --> 1:29:11.800 they just have a built in network of people that 1:29:11.840 --> 1:29:13.760 you're around all the time. There are people I don't like, 1:29:14.040 --> 1:29:16.400 oh yeah, you want to name them, but there are 1:29:16.439 --> 1:29:19.320 people that if I saw them, I'd be like, oh, 1:29:19.320 --> 1:29:22.120 I'm gonna go this way. Really, Yeah, have you or 1:29:22.200 --> 1:29:23.240 do you keep a lot of grudges? 1:29:23.640 --> 1:29:24.479 Do I hold grudges? 1:29:24.560 --> 1:29:26.800 Yeah? 1:29:27.800 --> 1:29:28.000 Do you. 1:29:29.720 --> 1:29:34.600 No, Well, nobody's you think so, I think because in 1:29:34.640 --> 1:29:37.640 the Korean culture, there's a lot of revenge movies that 1:29:37.760 --> 1:29:40.519 Korean has, you know what I mean, there's a you know, and. 1:29:42.200 --> 1:29:44.200 I just think that it's just a part of our culture. 1:29:44.360 --> 1:29:46.400 I just it's it's not like I lash out and 1:29:46.479 --> 1:29:49.400 get revenge, but I do do revenge fantasies, which is 1:29:49.479 --> 1:29:50.040 not that healthy. 1:29:50.880 --> 1:29:57.920 What's the have you ever enacted revenge on somebody? What 1:29:58.200 --> 1:29:59.080 what's what's that story? 1:29:59.120 --> 1:30:03.439 You know? You because they don't know that he didn't 1:30:03.439 --> 1:30:06.240 revenge okay, you know I mean like ninja revee. 1:30:06.120 --> 1:30:08.040 Ninja Okay, so they don't know. Let me ask you 1:30:08.120 --> 1:30:10.439 this is did you plant a seed of something? And 1:30:10.520 --> 1:30:13.240 like in ten years from now, they'll they will know you, like, 1:30:14.439 --> 1:30:17.240 did you like put some kind of poison? 1:30:17.439 --> 1:30:19.439 It's like this. It's like this the kind of revenge. 1:30:19.439 --> 1:30:19.760 I guess. 1:30:19.800 --> 1:30:20.080 It's like. 1:30:21.960 --> 1:30:24.200 If somebody, like early on in my career says you 1:30:24.320 --> 1:30:26.160 don't have talent or you know what I mean, I'm 1:30:26.200 --> 1:30:30.320 not going to help you. It gives me motivation to 1:30:30.439 --> 1:30:31.240 prove them wrong. 1:30:31.600 --> 1:30:34.160 Yeah, and I always do. And then I'll always go 1:30:34.320 --> 1:30:35.000 back to that person. 1:30:35.080 --> 1:30:37.360 I won't say it, yeah right, I'll just give them 1:30:37.439 --> 1:30:40.960 a look like and they'll look up and they'll go 1:30:42.240 --> 1:30:42.960 and I'll just walk a. 1:30:43.120 --> 1:30:43.920 Lot on that of like. 1:30:44.040 --> 1:30:48.360 It doesn't relieve you wrong, No, it doesn't feel good. 1:30:48.439 --> 1:30:52.040 It doesn't feel good. Next question, I have done. 1:30:52.120 --> 1:30:55.320 Let's talk to guinny. We have We've done about an hour. 1:30:55.240 --> 1:30:57.960 And forty and what did I say? I how long 1:30:58.000 --> 1:30:58.519 you said you were? 1:30:58.760 --> 1:30:59.920 Let me ask you how long did I say I 1:31:00.120 --> 1:31:01.560 was gonna do though you said you were going to 1:31:01.720 --> 1:31:05.800 go until one thirty and it's currently one thirty four. Yeah, 1:31:05.840 --> 1:31:07.760 I'll do a little long keep going a little longer. 1:31:07.800 --> 1:31:08.559 I love you, that's why. 1:31:08.680 --> 1:31:09.160 Oh thanks. 1:31:09.280 --> 1:31:10.240 I think we have a good vibe. 1:31:10.240 --> 1:31:12.599 I think so too, and having a lot of fun. Yeah, 1:31:12.680 --> 1:31:15.400 it feels like it. Yeah, time pass when you're having. 1:31:15.680 --> 1:31:17.240 The reason why I said this is we're gonna get 1:31:17.280 --> 1:31:20.040 get back to what's your name, k K jinny, We'll 1:31:20.040 --> 1:31:21.920 get we'll get back to it for a second. 1:31:22.280 --> 1:31:24.080 You know. I know why you said that, because it's 1:31:24.120 --> 1:31:25.960 like a it's a but in case if it doesn't 1:31:26.000 --> 1:31:27.240 go well, you want to I didn't think it. 1:31:27.280 --> 1:31:29.960 Was gonna go well understandable putting green makeup. I was like, 1:31:30.000 --> 1:31:31.320 this is no understandable. 1:31:31.439 --> 1:31:34.519 Yeah, well of course understand. 1:31:36.439 --> 1:31:40.479 Yeah. What's up? I yeah, what's up? 1:31:40.520 --> 1:31:40.680 Man? 1:31:43.600 --> 1:31:46.040 You know, just just waiting for you guys. 1:31:47.520 --> 1:31:49.160 So what's going on? You have a problem? 1:31:51.120 --> 1:31:51.320 Yeah? 1:31:51.560 --> 1:31:55.840 So my boyfriend and I we It wasn't like an 1:31:55.920 --> 1:31:58.240 argument or anything. It was just more of a discussion 1:31:58.960 --> 1:32:02.120 and he had airs some concerns about me being on 1:32:02.240 --> 1:32:06.240 the internet, like way too much and like just to 1:32:06.320 --> 1:32:09.160 get some backstory. I do list from home, so I 1:32:09.320 --> 1:32:12.200 have like a shitload of free time and I just 1:32:12.320 --> 1:32:14.600 spend it like with my phone on in the background, 1:32:14.720 --> 1:32:17.240 just kind of working. So I do watch like a 1:32:17.360 --> 1:32:22.360 fair amount of like YouTube, Twitch everything like that, And like, 1:32:22.520 --> 1:32:24.840 I see where he's coming from, you know what I mean, 1:32:24.960 --> 1:32:28.400 Like I don't think that he's totally wrong, but at 1:32:28.400 --> 1:32:31.000 the same time, it's kind of like I don't want 1:32:31.040 --> 1:32:32.000 to be told what to do. 1:32:32.600 --> 1:32:36.560 You know, does him telling you that you're on the 1:32:36.600 --> 1:32:39.479 internet too much make you go, you know, fuck you. 1:32:39.520 --> 1:32:40.519 I don't want to be told what to do. I'm 1:32:40.520 --> 1:32:44.120 gonna use the Internet even more, you know. 1:32:44.360 --> 1:32:45.120 Because that's the thing. 1:32:45.200 --> 1:32:47.240 I do love him very much, and I know that what. 1:32:47.320 --> 1:32:50.000 He's saying comes out of like concerns because he loves 1:32:50.080 --> 1:32:53.639 me too. We've been together a really, really long time, 1:32:53.880 --> 1:32:57.360 so I've kind of gotten over that whole like retali 1:32:57.560 --> 1:33:01.880 or retaliatory phase where now I can be like, Okay, 1:33:02.120 --> 1:33:02.760 we're grown up. 1:33:03.160 --> 1:33:04.479 I get where you're coming from. 1:33:04.640 --> 1:33:06.840 So it doesn't make me want to use it more, 1:33:07.479 --> 1:33:09.240 but it does kind of makes me feel weird when 1:33:09.280 --> 1:33:13.080 I use the Internet at all, because it's like, like 1:33:13.200 --> 1:33:16.200 I don't want to be the shitty person there, you know. 1:33:19.080 --> 1:33:19.759 I think. 1:33:21.160 --> 1:33:25.360 Using gadgets and watching the Internet and doing all these things, 1:33:26.040 --> 1:33:28.679 it takes away from you being present. I think that's 1:33:28.920 --> 1:33:35.400 his concern, and you have to be mindful about when 1:33:35.439 --> 1:33:39.439 he's around to really be present with him. And so 1:33:39.720 --> 1:33:42.120 that like if you're doing gadgets and this and that, 1:33:42.200 --> 1:33:45.240 and he wants to connect with you, right, I mean 1:33:45.360 --> 1:33:47.759 I think that that's probably and if he's saying something, 1:33:48.040 --> 1:33:50.840 I think that's probably what he's feeling. You know, he 1:33:50.960 --> 1:33:53.000 might not be able to articulate it, but it's like 1:33:53.560 --> 1:33:55.280 I think that's what it is. It's like, you know, 1:33:55.920 --> 1:33:59.080 people want to be you know, and I know why 1:33:59.120 --> 1:34:02.840 I do it. You know, like I watch porn and 1:34:03.320 --> 1:34:06.479 I'll watch like Game of Thrones porn, and I'll be 1:34:06.600 --> 1:34:09.519 on my Xbox all at the same time. It's because 1:34:09.520 --> 1:34:11.360 I don't want to feel I don't want to be here, 1:34:11.600 --> 1:34:13.439 you know what I mean. I'm just trying to distract myself. 1:34:14.000 --> 1:34:17.080 It's really going on and right, so it's like maybe 1:34:17.120 --> 1:34:21.400 it's time to maybe put away your gadgets for a month, right, 1:34:21.560 --> 1:34:23.639 and just to be with yourself to see what's really 1:34:23.720 --> 1:34:26.040 going on and to figure that out. 1:34:26.600 --> 1:34:28.519 Do you do you to that point, do you feel 1:34:28.600 --> 1:34:33.639 like there's anything that you're like, you know, escaping from 1:34:33.920 --> 1:34:37.720 or distracting yourself from with with all the online use. 1:34:39.600 --> 1:34:42.439 That is so funny that you guys say that, because 1:34:42.840 --> 1:34:44.880 and it started off as a joke, but now that 1:34:45.000 --> 1:34:48.120 you guys explain it, I understand that it's probably a 1:34:48.200 --> 1:34:52.479 bit more serious. He goes to the flea market every weekend, 1:34:53.200 --> 1:34:56.240 and in all honesty, he goes super duper early. There's 1:34:56.240 --> 1:34:59.120 almost nobody ever there, but he just likes to walk 1:34:59.160 --> 1:35:00.880 around and be with the people. 1:35:00.680 --> 1:35:01.320 And stuff like that. 1:35:02.040 --> 1:35:05.519 And I do have a tendency to be like, nah, 1:35:05.560 --> 1:35:07.960 I got stuff to do, and then do a little 1:35:08.000 --> 1:35:10.960 bit of tours and then just watch a shitload of YouTube. 1:35:11.080 --> 1:35:14.840 So honestly, like you guys are really just salad. And 1:35:15.000 --> 1:35:17.360 that's not really something considered until you brought it up. 1:35:18.200 --> 1:35:20.160 Go to the flea market and leave your you ever 1:35:20.320 --> 1:35:22.920 go out and just leave your phone completely at home? 1:35:25.640 --> 1:35:29.240 Oh my god, No, that's like Terri, No, you should 1:35:29.280 --> 1:35:31.080 do if you should, you should you should give that 1:35:31.160 --> 1:35:31.439 a try. 1:35:31.479 --> 1:35:31.720 I try. 1:35:31.760 --> 1:35:34.920 I try to do that every at least, you know, 1:35:35.400 --> 1:35:36.240 every once in a while. 1:35:36.439 --> 1:35:39.280 Just got even, like right now, I left my phone 1:35:39.880 --> 1:35:42.280 in the green room because if it was sitting here, 1:35:42.920 --> 1:35:44.040 I would not be present. 1:35:44.800 --> 1:35:46.559 I mean, I would still be doing it. But yeah, 1:35:47.360 --> 1:35:47.760 you know what I mean. 1:35:47.800 --> 1:35:50.240 So it's like I try to like when I'm working 1:35:51.160 --> 1:35:53.120 right or I need to be focused and I need 1:35:53.160 --> 1:35:55.559 to be present no gadgets around. 1:35:59.320 --> 1:36:02.920 Oh yeah, gosh, I'm gonna have to try it. I'm 1:36:02.960 --> 1:36:06.760 gonna have to because that's a scary, scary feeling right 1:36:06.840 --> 1:36:09.400 off the bat. And that's how I know, like, Okay, 1:36:09.520 --> 1:36:10.360 maybe I do need. 1:36:10.280 --> 1:36:12.360 To do it then, But what are you scared? 1:36:12.520 --> 1:36:15.080 I mean, when you're if you leave your phone, what 1:36:15.160 --> 1:36:16.800 are you scared about? Are you scared that you're going 1:36:16.880 --> 1:36:19.800 to miss a call or a message? Or is it 1:36:19.880 --> 1:36:22.439 because you can't look at Twitter and Instagram? 1:36:22.600 --> 1:36:29.640 And honestly, and if I'm be because you know, if 1:36:29.680 --> 1:36:33.519 I'm being honest, it's probably a decent mix because a 1:36:33.640 --> 1:36:36.280 certain part of me is so used to being accessible 1:36:36.360 --> 1:36:38.680 that I'm like, the moment that I'm not, I get 1:36:39.280 --> 1:36:42.720 like really nervous. But at the same time, it is 1:36:42.880 --> 1:36:45.840 kind of like one of those luxuries that you kind 1:36:45.840 --> 1:36:48.600 of look and don't think of when you can just 1:36:48.760 --> 1:36:50.920 look up anything at any given. 1:36:50.720 --> 1:36:53.800 Moment or you know, distract yourself from the conversation. 1:36:54.240 --> 1:36:57.519 So honestly, like I said, I'm I'm gonna have to 1:36:57.600 --> 1:37:00.439 do it because that sounds like a really good idea, 1:37:02.479 --> 1:37:02.880 and do it. 1:37:02.920 --> 1:37:03.400 For a month. 1:37:05.040 --> 1:37:05.360 That could be. 1:37:05.560 --> 1:37:08.720 That could be just leave my phone and like just 1:37:08.840 --> 1:37:11.520 at home and just run my errands. 1:37:11.320 --> 1:37:15.240 Without That's where they fucking get you, is like you 1:37:15.800 --> 1:37:17.960 you need You're like, oh I need my maps, Oh 1:37:18.040 --> 1:37:20.120 I need my grocery list. You Like, That's where they 1:37:20.120 --> 1:37:22.360 fucking get you as you have stuff that you genuinely 1:37:22.479 --> 1:37:25.000 kind of do need or like I need to But 1:37:25.120 --> 1:37:27.000 then it comes with all. 1:37:26.920 --> 1:37:30.400 This other shit. They're enslaving us. Yeah, that's what it is. 1:37:30.640 --> 1:37:31.320 We're we're in. 1:37:31.680 --> 1:37:35.639 We're a slave to it, and we're not really fully 1:37:35.760 --> 1:37:40.080 living and feeling and enjoying and being present. 1:37:41.000 --> 1:37:41.160 You know. 1:37:41.240 --> 1:37:43.679 It's like, you know, I went to the last rehab 1:37:43.800 --> 1:37:45.880 I went to. They wouldn't let my phone. I couldn't 1:37:46.000 --> 1:37:48.920 have my phone for months. And that one day, and 1:37:49.000 --> 1:37:51.200 this is a really real story. One day I was 1:37:51.320 --> 1:37:54.840 out in front of this building, right and they had 1:37:54.880 --> 1:37:58.760 this weird bush with these red flowers on it, and 1:37:58.880 --> 1:38:01.400 there was these two ants that were fighting to get 1:38:01.479 --> 1:38:04.040 onto one of the leaves, and I sat there and 1:38:04.160 --> 1:38:07.640 I observed that happening. I also was observing how the 1:38:07.720 --> 1:38:10.800 flower looked in terms of the colors and then the 1:38:10.920 --> 1:38:14.040 vibrancy of it all, and I realized. 1:38:14.400 --> 1:38:19.200 I just I would have missed. I missed this. I mean, 1:38:19.200 --> 1:38:20.880 I'm a slave to all this stuff, and I miss 1:38:21.120 --> 1:38:23.840 life going on around me, you know, I mean. 1:38:23.840 --> 1:38:23.920 So. 1:38:27.080 --> 1:38:30.240 Go to the flea market, Jenny, I go to the 1:38:30.280 --> 1:38:32.280 flea market. Don't bring your phone, and just like, look 1:38:32.320 --> 1:38:34.960 at when you're walking with your boy, really look at 1:38:35.000 --> 1:38:38.240 his face and his eyes. When there's like a pattern 1:38:38.360 --> 1:38:40.960 on a shirt, just like, stare at the pattern and 1:38:41.120 --> 1:38:41.920 get really into that. 1:38:42.160 --> 1:38:45.360 Like or just look at the sky. Sometimes I look 1:38:45.360 --> 1:38:49.599 at the sky and I'm in wonder right, the mystery 1:38:49.680 --> 1:38:52.880 of life. Like there's galaxies and you know what I mean, 1:38:52.920 --> 1:38:55.400 And we're on this floating rock and crazy look at 1:38:55.439 --> 1:38:58.280 all these buildings that human being has made and all 1:38:58.320 --> 1:39:00.400 these cars, and look at what I'm a hard of. 1:39:01.479 --> 1:39:03.360 This is insane, this is you know what I mean. 1:39:03.400 --> 1:39:05.960 I'm a part of this huge thing, but we miss 1:39:06.040 --> 1:39:09.240 it all because we're on some fucking Instagram thing, you 1:39:09.280 --> 1:39:09.640 know what I mean. 1:39:09.760 --> 1:39:10.720 Or TikTok. 1:39:11.560 --> 1:39:15.200 You ever catch yourself like watching Instagram stories of people 1:39:15.320 --> 1:39:17.680 that you you fucking like went to high school with 1:39:18.280 --> 1:39:20.000 and talked to once, and you're like, why am I 1:39:20.120 --> 1:39:22.640 doing this when there's stuff everywhere? 1:39:25.040 --> 1:39:29.639 Yeah, I definitely have, like especially like with the TikTok 1:39:29.720 --> 1:39:33.400 and stuff. And honestly, to Bobby's point, I don't think 1:39:33.439 --> 1:39:36.680 I've had one of those moments is just pure like 1:39:36.960 --> 1:39:42.160 in the now at least five years, maybe even ten's. 1:39:42.200 --> 1:39:44.600 Oh my god, it's crazy, Like. 1:39:44.640 --> 1:39:46.800 When I actually think about the last time that I 1:39:47.360 --> 1:39:50.040 sat down and just like took a deep breath in 1:39:50.200 --> 1:39:54.000 and just had that moment, It's it's been a while. 1:39:54.240 --> 1:39:55.280 It's been a long while. 1:39:56.320 --> 1:39:56.479 You know. 1:39:56.520 --> 1:39:58.840 When I was a kid in my early twenties, I 1:39:58.920 --> 1:40:01.240 had this a a spams Her, and he was this 1:40:01.360 --> 1:40:05.680 old Korean man and every year, for three weeks we 1:40:05.720 --> 1:40:07.800 would go to a monastery. But in this monster you 1:40:07.880 --> 1:40:10.599 had to sleep there, and in this monastery you couldn't 1:40:10.640 --> 1:40:14.439 talk right, And those were the happiest moments of my life. 1:40:16.439 --> 1:40:18.200 No phone back in then. 1:40:18.400 --> 1:40:21.560 That was back in the early nineties because there was 1:40:21.600 --> 1:40:24.080 no cell phones back there anyway. But it's like you 1:40:24.160 --> 1:40:27.720 couldn't talk and you had just had to meditate and 1:40:27.920 --> 1:40:31.200 eat and be in the moment and to observe life 1:40:31.960 --> 1:40:34.760 around you in this garden or whatever, and it's just 1:40:34.840 --> 1:40:37.400 a peaceful It's the most peace I've ever felt. 1:40:37.600 --> 1:40:40.360 When you first got there and you were like easing 1:40:40.439 --> 1:40:41.720 into was there like a lot of it. 1:40:41.800 --> 1:40:43.880 It was really hard. It was like a lot of 1:40:43.880 --> 1:40:44.840 anxiety and this and that. 1:40:45.000 --> 1:40:47.439 But it was like after a couple of days, I 1:40:47.600 --> 1:40:49.760 just got into the groove of it, you know, and 1:40:49.880 --> 1:40:54.560 it's like, I don't know, man, don't miss out on life, buddy. 1:40:55.080 --> 1:40:58.160 Jenny, go get yourself one of those. Thank you for calling. 1:41:00.280 --> 1:41:02.120 Thanks so much, real quick for me. 1:41:02.479 --> 1:41:05.160 My boyfriend absolutely loved you the back Friends podcast. 1:41:05.240 --> 1:41:06.920 You guys agree, Thank you. 1:41:07.160 --> 1:41:08.719 Tell them I love them, lady Jenny. 1:41:11.320 --> 1:41:13.880 Dude, it's so hard to get past that, like the 1:41:14.040 --> 1:41:18.720 initial fucking resistance of like boredom that you feel when 1:41:18.760 --> 1:41:22.280 you're just not doing anything. A minute of not doing 1:41:22.320 --> 1:41:26.760 anything feels like so long, it's like going to turn ah. 1:41:27.479 --> 1:41:27.840 I like that. 1:41:27.960 --> 1:41:28.799 That was a good callback. 1:41:29.400 --> 1:41:29.640 Thank you. 1:41:30.080 --> 1:41:30.840 How are you feeling? 1:41:30.840 --> 1:41:31.000 I know? 1:41:31.120 --> 1:41:34.439 We uh, I did longer than I thought I was 1:41:34.479 --> 1:41:36.680 did longer than you thought you good enough time or 1:41:36.800 --> 1:41:39.920 I'll go the thing. I'll go, follow you go. 1:41:40.880 --> 1:41:42.800 I mean I've gone with people for like three and 1:41:42.840 --> 1:41:46.840 a half hours. Why not I don't I don't have 1:41:46.920 --> 1:41:50.120 anything else to do? Yeah, yeah, what we do. 1:41:50.439 --> 1:41:52.120 I'll make you a deal. Yes, sure, we do. One 1:41:52.160 --> 1:41:54.799 more caller, let's do it and then I'm done. Perfect, 1:41:55.160 --> 1:41:56.120 I'm leaving. Let's do it. 1:41:56.520 --> 1:41:58.280 Okay, where are you gonna go? 1:41:58.640 --> 1:41:59.800 You have to tell me if you don't I have 1:41:59.840 --> 1:42:01.800 an eating Okay you want to eat? 1:42:01.880 --> 1:42:02.040 Or no? 1:42:02.400 --> 1:42:04.439 Yeah you do? Do you know places around here? 1:42:05.360 --> 1:42:06.080 We can find one. 1:42:06.840 --> 1:42:10.479 Where do you eat around here? Do you have? 1:42:10.640 --> 1:42:11.720 How long have you lived in La four? 1:42:12.160 --> 1:42:14.080 But this is a specific area. This is not this 1:42:14.200 --> 1:42:14.840 is the West side. 1:42:16.479 --> 1:42:19.800 My phone knows a place I don't go to, Like 1:42:20.040 --> 1:42:24.200 I don't go to this Panda Express that's where you 1:42:24.280 --> 1:42:25.479 eats Pan Express. 1:42:27.080 --> 1:42:28.600 I might not commit to it. I don't know. 1:42:28.720 --> 1:42:33.559 You don't have to commit to Let's finish you. Okay, okay, 1:42:34.040 --> 1:42:37.000 stick a phone call? Hello? 1:42:39.120 --> 1:42:40.960 What's up? Hey? 1:42:41.080 --> 1:42:41.559 Is this Brie? 1:42:43.960 --> 1:42:44.920 Yeah, dude, it is GK. 1:42:46.000 --> 1:42:49.559 Yeah, this is GEK and Bobby and uh we're two 1:42:49.640 --> 1:42:51.600 geckos and we're hanging out in the sky. Geckos just 1:42:51.640 --> 1:42:53.400 hanging out in the sky and we're living, and we're 1:42:54.320 --> 1:42:55.080 we're starting out with you. 1:42:56.760 --> 1:42:59.439 I am so honored that I have the last call. 1:43:00.040 --> 1:43:01.040 Well maybe the last call. 1:43:02.600 --> 1:43:04.920 It is, it is the last last, the last one. 1:43:06.680 --> 1:43:08.639 Fuck yeah, that's so awesome. 1:43:09.080 --> 1:43:10.800 Make it good, make a good break. 1:43:12.720 --> 1:43:17.160 Okay, okay. Well, so here's the thing. Your tongue knows 1:43:17.240 --> 1:43:21.280 what fucking everything feels like. Any object that you look at, 1:43:21.360 --> 1:43:22.400 your tongue is like, yeah. 1:43:22.200 --> 1:43:22.680 You know what it is. 1:43:23.439 --> 1:43:24.400 Isn't that crazy. 1:43:26.240 --> 1:43:28.320 My specific tongue or only yours. 1:43:29.680 --> 1:43:31.760 Everyone's tongue, I think, well at least nine. 1:43:32.760 --> 1:43:37.160 So you're saying that our tongues know what an object 1:43:37.320 --> 1:43:39.200 tastes like just by looking at it. 1:43:40.880 --> 1:43:44.240 No, it feels like all right, So if I see 1:43:45.000 --> 1:43:47.880 whale ship on the side of the beach, my tongue 1:43:47.920 --> 1:43:51.439 would know what that whale ship would feel like. 1:43:53.000 --> 1:43:54.880 I mean, think about it, does it? 1:43:56.880 --> 1:43:58.840 No? I don't have to I have to go and 1:43:58.920 --> 1:44:00.960 taste the whale ship. No, I'm never tastes a whale ship. 1:44:01.680 --> 1:44:05.040 I have to ask you, where is this? Where is this? 1:44:05.280 --> 1:44:07.560 Where's your source on this information? I think I know 1:44:07.600 --> 1:44:12.040 what you're saying. What you're saying saying that your your redit, 1:44:13.040 --> 1:44:15.439 like if ice, that's where you get all the information. 1:44:16.920 --> 1:44:18.720 I think what you're saying is is that if you 1:44:18.800 --> 1:44:21.120 look at whale ship, you know what pudding tastes like, 1:44:21.600 --> 1:44:23.800 and that looks like pudding, so you make your mind 1:44:23.920 --> 1:44:24.719 just makes a connection. 1:44:25.439 --> 1:44:28.120 Uh so, but then that would be wrong, right because 1:44:28.120 --> 1:44:29.559 it doesn't taste like putting it tasts like whale ship. 1:44:31.040 --> 1:44:32.880 So like think about like, okay, so everybody knows what 1:44:32.920 --> 1:44:35.120 the bottom of a van's shoe looks like, right, like 1:44:35.200 --> 1:44:36.280 it has like those little. 1:44:36.120 --> 1:44:37.880 Square shoe Yeah. 1:44:37.920 --> 1:44:40.800 Yah, yeah, I feel like the tip of your tongue 1:44:40.880 --> 1:44:43.640 can like visualize, like it can like feel what that 1:44:43.640 --> 1:44:44.200 would feel like. 1:44:44.920 --> 1:44:46.679 Well, I can imagine what the bottom of a van's 1:44:46.680 --> 1:44:48.599 shoe feels like. But that's only because I have licked 1:44:48.640 --> 1:44:49.040 one before. 1:44:49.200 --> 1:44:52.960 Me too, I do it all the time, you really? Yeah? 1:44:53.080 --> 1:44:55.800 I mean yeah, I think like every thirteen year old 1:44:55.800 --> 1:44:57.800 has licked the bottom of the shoe, don't they? 1:44:57.800 --> 1:44:58.920 I mean, have you have you looked on before? 1:44:58.960 --> 1:44:59.120 Bree? 1:44:59.160 --> 1:45:01.960 Don't they look kind of uh look waff when I. 1:45:02.040 --> 1:45:03.920 Was when I was younger. I mean, it's like one 1:45:03.960 --> 1:45:06.240 of those universal things that I feel like everybody's just done. 1:45:07.560 --> 1:45:09.640 But I think she's right because I never tasted my 1:45:09.720 --> 1:45:12.160 own com Yeah, but I had. I think I know 1:45:12.240 --> 1:45:12.679 what it takes. 1:45:13.240 --> 1:45:15.960 But you've you felt your own com like in your 1:45:15.960 --> 1:45:17.439 own body but my tongue. 1:45:17.520 --> 1:45:20.799 No, it's not the best task. 1:45:22.120 --> 1:45:24.439 How would you know? You never taste it? Breeze correct, 1:45:26.360 --> 1:45:31.960 because you can bring anything else interesting you've read on Reddit, 1:45:32.000 --> 1:45:35.679 Reddit before we go, before we get. 1:45:35.680 --> 1:45:37.200 Moves now, not that I can think of. 1:45:38.680 --> 1:45:41.280 I love you guys, dude, Thank you, Bri. 1:45:41.479 --> 1:45:44.960 I think I feel like you brought up this reddit thing, right, 1:45:45.080 --> 1:45:48.160 but there's other things going on. You just sound like 1:45:48.240 --> 1:45:50.400 somebody that has a lot of other things going on, 1:45:50.600 --> 1:45:54.240 but you use these little superficial things as a conversation 1:45:54.400 --> 1:45:56.600 piece to hide what's really going on. 1:45:58.760 --> 1:46:00.920 We'll give you the opportunities. There is there a deeper 1:46:01.000 --> 1:46:03.080 thing that you want to talk about before we go, Brie? 1:46:03.720 --> 1:46:06.280 Or is it just the the taste thing. 1:46:06.760 --> 1:46:09.800 I'm I'm pretty entranced by this whole punk thing. I 1:46:09.840 --> 1:46:12.400 mean honestly, like we can talk about anything else really, but. 1:46:13.000 --> 1:46:15.000 Let me ask you some questions. I can ask you 1:46:15.080 --> 1:46:17.680 some questions, breathe though. How old are you? 1:46:19.360 --> 1:46:19.960 I'm twenty eight? 1:46:21.120 --> 1:46:23.040 Do you have a are you boyfriend, girlfriend? What do 1:46:23.120 --> 1:46:23.280 you have? 1:46:25.080 --> 1:46:27.600 I have a husband. His name is Jackson, also loves you. 1:46:29.240 --> 1:46:31.200 Do you know what you're talking about? You're talking about Bobby. 1:46:31.240 --> 1:46:32.519 Does he like getck go or Bobby? 1:46:34.240 --> 1:46:34.360 Oh? 1:46:34.439 --> 1:46:34.679 Both? 1:46:35.000 --> 1:46:37.120 But he's he's watched Bad Friends forever. He loves you 1:46:37.200 --> 1:46:38.880 an Andrew to Oh cool? 1:46:38.920 --> 1:46:42.360 Awesome? So is that relationship going good? 1:46:43.960 --> 1:46:44.160 Yeah? 1:46:44.520 --> 1:46:46.040 Yeah, I'd like to say we're pretty happy. I mean 1:46:46.160 --> 1:46:48.679 he's kind of you know, he can be a turd sometimes, 1:46:48.720 --> 1:46:49.800 but I think everybody can. 1:46:50.720 --> 1:46:51.679 Yeah, do you have children? 1:46:53.520 --> 1:46:53.560 No? 1:46:54.000 --> 1:46:54.439 Fuck? Now? 1:46:56.040 --> 1:46:57.720 Okay, Well, good to talk to you. 1:47:00.160 --> 1:47:02.840 I feel like Kurt, you know, it's you're hitting on 1:47:02.920 --> 1:47:05.120 Brea right now, but I feel like her husband would 1:47:05.680 --> 1:47:06.880 be interested in you as well. 1:47:07.520 --> 1:47:11.519 Yeah, not sexually probably. Well, so what you're saying to 1:47:11.600 --> 1:47:13.920 me right now? You're Jackson your husband? 1:47:14.760 --> 1:47:14.920 Right? 1:47:15.320 --> 1:47:15.559 Yeah? 1:47:15.800 --> 1:47:18.040 If if I said to him, like, what town do 1:47:18.080 --> 1:47:18.400 you live in? 1:47:20.560 --> 1:47:22.799 I live in a place called Port Townsend in Washington. 1:47:23.760 --> 1:47:26.240 All right, So if I'm in Port Town, right and 1:47:26.360 --> 1:47:28.599 I go, hey, Jackson, I'm at you know what I mean, 1:47:28.920 --> 1:47:29.559 the High End. 1:47:30.000 --> 1:47:33.080 I'm in room three oh three. You think he would 1:47:33.120 --> 1:47:33.400 come up. 1:47:34.840 --> 1:47:36.599 I think he'd go gay for you for sure. 1:47:37.560 --> 1:47:39.519 And then would you let me? I just want to 1:47:39.520 --> 1:47:40.920 because I'm not gay, But let me can I just 1:47:40.960 --> 1:47:41.720 ask him that? Right? 1:47:43.200 --> 1:47:46.439 What you know about Jackson? If I said, hey, I 1:47:46.439 --> 1:47:48.160 don't have any condoms, you think he would let me 1:47:48.240 --> 1:47:48.639 raw dog? 1:47:50.479 --> 1:47:51.160 Oh for sure? 1:47:52.200 --> 1:47:55.200 Okay, what you know about Jackson? If I whispered in 1:47:55.240 --> 1:47:57.160 a ziar should do it on your back? 1:48:00.840 --> 1:48:01.280 I think so. 1:48:02.000 --> 1:48:03.719 I think I think he'd be pretty into you, Bobby. 1:48:04.560 --> 1:48:06.200 I think he would definitely come to your room. He'd 1:48:06.200 --> 1:48:07.320 probably even brings flowers. 1:48:08.479 --> 1:48:11.400 Wow, I don't like cuddling, so that's out. 1:48:12.000 --> 1:48:13.080 Does Jackson like cuddling? 1:48:13.320 --> 1:48:16.519 No, you don't have to cuddle them. He's a right cuddler. 1:48:16.600 --> 1:48:19.840 Yeah, let me ask you this. If jack he said 1:48:19.880 --> 1:48:22.599 to you, do you want to watch what you watch? 1:48:24.560 --> 1:48:27.080 Oh? For sure I would film it if if that 1:48:27.160 --> 1:48:27.559 was allowed. 1:48:27.680 --> 1:48:29.200 I don't want to film. I don't. I don't need 1:48:29.720 --> 1:48:30.679 problems on the internet. 1:48:30.720 --> 1:48:33.639 Film that you could put on only achieve your dreamy. 1:48:33.840 --> 1:48:38.400 Yeah. Okay, good, so that's true. To work something out. 1:48:38.439 --> 1:48:39.320 What town is this again? 1:48:40.040 --> 1:48:40.200 Hell? 1:48:40.280 --> 1:48:40.479 Yeah? 1:48:40.960 --> 1:48:46.639 Yeah, Port townsends. Do they have a high townsend? 1:48:48.360 --> 1:48:48.400 No? 1:48:49.040 --> 1:48:51.200 But we do have a man Resa Castle and it's haunted. 1:48:51.560 --> 1:48:54.240 It's like super haunted like castle. I live in a 1:48:54.320 --> 1:48:55.000 Victorian town. 1:48:56.040 --> 1:48:56.680 Wow, we'll do that. 1:48:56.960 --> 1:49:00.400 You Bobby, your husband, and some ghosts and Lyle. I'll 1:49:00.400 --> 1:49:00.720 show up. 1:49:01.120 --> 1:49:01.320 Yeah. 1:49:01.439 --> 1:49:02.880 I won't like to do anything, but. 1:49:02.920 --> 1:49:05.639 I'll Yeah, you'll sit next to Brie. 1:49:05.840 --> 1:49:08.360 I'll sit next to bre We can make polite conversations. 1:49:08.400 --> 1:49:10.200 Yeah, yeah, don't laugh though it'll throw me. 1:49:13.400 --> 1:49:13.600 Like that. 1:49:14.720 --> 1:49:15.640 Is there anything else you want to say to the 1:49:15.640 --> 1:49:16.480 people of the computer. 1:49:16.240 --> 1:49:22.599 Before we go? Just uh, just party on, dude, party 1:49:22.680 --> 1:49:26.200 on Brie. Thank you Bret before we and I would 1:49:26.280 --> 1:49:29.320 like to say I'd be willing to do this again 1:49:29.400 --> 1:49:29.760 one day. 1:49:29.920 --> 1:49:30.160 Yay. 1:49:30.840 --> 1:49:32.400 Do you have regulars or no? Yeah? 1:49:32.439 --> 1:49:32.920 Come on back. 1:49:33.640 --> 1:49:34.320 You've had people on. 1:49:34.960 --> 1:49:36.800 Never, I've never had anyone do it more than once. Yeah, 1:49:36.800 --> 1:49:38.519 but then I don't want to do it. Okay, do 1:49:38.560 --> 1:49:40.120 you would you? Would you do it if you were 1:49:40.200 --> 1:49:41.760 the third person to do it more than once? 1:49:41.880 --> 1:49:42.040 Yes? 1:49:42.160 --> 1:49:43.800 Okay, all right, I'll have to other people do because 1:49:43.800 --> 1:49:44.960 I don't want people to go Why do you have 1:49:45.040 --> 1:49:47.040 that guy on again? And I'll have all right, I'll 1:49:47.080 --> 1:49:48.599 make sure that I have at least two other people 1:49:48.640 --> 1:49:48.840 on for. 1:49:49.080 --> 1:49:50.360 I also want next time. 1:49:50.680 --> 1:49:52.560 Yeah, I feel like you didn't put the green on 1:49:52.640 --> 1:49:54.200 my eyes because you want people to think, no that 1:49:54.280 --> 1:49:57.120 I was Korean. No, no, it was a racial thing 1:49:57.160 --> 1:49:59.080 you No, no, no, it was why did you put 1:49:59.120 --> 1:49:59.840 green around my eyes? 1:49:59.840 --> 1:50:00.000 There? 1:50:00.400 --> 1:50:03.599 My how do my eyes look fully green? Okay? 1:50:03.640 --> 1:50:05.559 You know what it was? I actually looked just right 1:50:05.640 --> 1:50:08.559 before we started. Yeah, your eyes they weren't that green. 1:50:08.640 --> 1:50:13.320 And I was gonna go downstairs and get more paint. 1:50:13.400 --> 1:50:14.880 Like, you're way more greener than I am. 1:50:16.560 --> 1:50:19.559 My body kind of your faces, my face knows how 1:50:19.600 --> 1:50:22.479 to my like cellular structure and the paint have kind 1:50:22.479 --> 1:50:25.840 of gotten to know each other very well. Okay, good, 1:50:26.120 --> 1:50:27.920 Thanks for having me, of course, anything you want to 1:50:28.040 --> 1:50:30.960 plug or say or I have two podcasts, Tiger Belly, 1:50:31.040 --> 1:50:34.320 Bad Friends, and I guess you can see me on 1:50:34.400 --> 1:50:36.719 this season's Reservation Dog that's on Fax. 1:50:37.520 --> 1:50:37.800 That's it. 1:50:38.080 --> 1:50:39.360 Thanks for not canceling doing this. 1:50:41.080 --> 1:50:44.240 Goes on the line, taking its own calls every night. 1:50:44.640 --> 1:50:47.440 Every beancon goes to his Eye's teaching. 1:50:47.240 --> 1:50:48.760 You loud in the Made Life. 1:50:49.160 --> 1:50:51.280 Money's not really an expert.