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Speaker 1: in the description. All right, let's get into the episode.

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Speaker 2: But it's like if I call myself the martial arts,

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Speaker 2: get goo. I don't know martial arts, okay, false advertising.

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Speaker 3: Well I'm okay. I'm not licensed as a therapist, but

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Speaker 3: I don't really do I don't. I wouldn't say that

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Speaker 3: on here. We do like therapy, and I don't. I

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Speaker 3: don't approach this from a point of like, I know

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Speaker 3: things come to me. It's more like, I, you know,

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Speaker 3: I'm talking to people through about stuff. You're a nice guy, thanks,

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Speaker 3: but for the little I know of you, I know

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Speaker 3: as much. Yes, And I wouldn't call myself like therapy Korean. Sure,

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Speaker 3: I don't, and I can I tell you I don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't like the name. I've always kind of hated

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Speaker 3: the name therapy gecko because it kind of sets a

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Speaker 3: precedent that I'm going to give therapy, and it's it's

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Speaker 3: more just about talking than it is, like.

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Speaker 4: Let's just speak.

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Speaker 3: Fat geckos might just be fat echoes. Yeah, I'll pull

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Speaker 3: out your stomach. Do you have anything in your belly

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Speaker 3: button right now? Do you have anything in your belly button?

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Speaker 2: Maybe some pizza? Well, just things spill over, things spill over.

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Speaker 2: And my my belly button is very deep. It's like

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Speaker 2: an abyss. So sometimes I'll find like black stuff in it.

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Speaker 3: Really, Yeah, you're found something in there that is like

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Speaker 3: of any value.

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Speaker 2: I don't think the black gunk. That's no, there's no

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Speaker 2: value there unless it's crude oil. But I don't think

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Speaker 2: it Isobby.

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Speaker 3: What's been the most persistent thought on your mind lately?

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Speaker 4: Today?

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Speaker 3: Just in general, I'm alone. You're feeling lonely.

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Speaker 4: I feel lonely.

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Speaker 3: How does how are you like dealing with your your loneliness.

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Speaker 3: What are you doing porn hub?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: What do you watch on porn hub?

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Speaker 4: I have my own searches that I like that are

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Speaker 4: specifically my own.

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Speaker 3: Okay, can I Can I hear one of them?

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Speaker 4: Or is that private?

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Speaker 2: I like new faces okay, yeah, yeah, like the new

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Speaker 2: Is that a it's like Montreal comedy fashion? Yeah, but

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Speaker 2: it's a new face, like the new kids. Okay, not kids,

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Speaker 2: I mean new adults. Yeah, but yeah, I like that.

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Speaker 2: I like it when they just don't know, like when

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Speaker 2: they're pro, because I'm not pro. I've I've smashed before,

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Speaker 2: but I you know, I'm okay with missionary.

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Speaker 4: Sure?

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Speaker 3: Are you good with missionary?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I I like missionary because you.

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Speaker 4: Like looking at the face.

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Speaker 3: Sure, not the face that's nice. I never lock eyes.

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Speaker 3: You never like eyes.

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Speaker 4: No, I like to look at the cheek or something.

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Speaker 3: Really, are you are you afraid?

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Speaker 4: I'm afraid that they're gonna see through me? Why? What

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Speaker 4: are you afraid that they'll say I'm not good?

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Speaker 3: But you're not good?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah? Do you doggy style?

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Speaker 2: I'm not good really because I'm short, so I have

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Speaker 2: some weird way. It's got to be like it just

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Speaker 3: Do you think that though, Okay, do you think there's

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Speaker 3: like an objective good bad binary thing with sex or

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Speaker 2: Well, I think that the love and the like and

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Speaker 2: skill level. Is that the right you GeSe what I'm saying,

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Speaker 2: If they like you a lot, then they'll just go, ah,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean, you get two pumps and

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Speaker 2: they just nutted. But yeah, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 2: I like him so much, I'm I'm going to buy

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Speaker 3: And that's where you want to be, right, is where

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Speaker 3: you're not like judging yourself so much on your your skill,

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Speaker 3: but you're just kind of confident in that wall.

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Speaker 4: If you start focusing on your skill, then it's it.

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Speaker 2: Then it's like you're not in the moment, right, I

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Speaker 4: Things, like I'm doing this wrong. My back hurts, you

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Speaker 2: I think any neat my operations on my knee because

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Speaker 3: Really, Yeah, have you been to a doctor about that?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: But I'm doing the Softball movie and I had to

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Speaker 4: Really, and it hurts so bad?

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Speaker 3: Does it hurt right now?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: If I touched it, would it hurt?

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Speaker 2: It depends on how hard you touch it. I don't

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Speaker 2: want you touch my name. I want Yeah, I don't

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Speaker 3: You don't know me that well. It would be weird

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Speaker 3: for me to touch a name.

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Speaker 4: If like you could, I'd rather you touch my penis

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Speaker 4: than my knee.

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Speaker 3: You'd rather you touch your penis in your name?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? He is so intimate, you think.

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Speaker 3: So I that does kind of make sense. Like if

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Speaker 3: I were to do I don't even I won't.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I'm sorry, but like, uh, yeah, can I

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Speaker 4: touch your knee? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: You can touch my name?

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Speaker 4: Okay, I will later, you will later?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'll only let you touch my knee if

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Speaker 3: I know when you're going to do it, Like, you

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Speaker 3: can't just surprise me because it's a different thing.

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Speaker 4: I'll make a I'll make like an announcements song.

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Speaker 3: You make an announcement song.

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Speaker 4: Like something like da da or something like that, and

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Speaker 4: then I'll do it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Now you can only do it if you do

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Speaker 3: the announcement song. Now I feel like it's unbalanced kind

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Speaker 3: of touchers. No, no, I have a CD. I don't

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Speaker 3: have to touch yourn. It's weird. It's weird that I'm

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Speaker 3: trying to touch your name.

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Speaker 2: Is this how this usually begins? Or you don't go, hey,

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Speaker 3: I don't I feel weird doing that?

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Speaker 4: Are you doing? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Like, hey everybody, I'm here with Comedy Sensation Bobby Lee

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Speaker 4: Yeah that felt weird? They did?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, how did it feel for real?

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Speaker 4: I like the way we're doing it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, you feel comfortable right now?

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Speaker 4: I'm okay.

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Speaker 3: So you said you felt alone? What you said you

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Speaker 3: felt alone? When I asked you how your that's been

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Speaker 3: your your primary it's.

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Speaker 2: Not you know, when when you're in a relationship for

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Speaker 2: as long as I was for ten years and I

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Speaker 2: still do she know, she's my co host on Tiger Belly,

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Speaker 2: my podcast, and when that they're just I think there

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Speaker 2: just needs to be a time where you're just kind

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Speaker 2: of like feeling things, you know what I mean. I

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Speaker 2: think that's where I'm at. Yeah, what can you hear

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Speaker 2: yourself in the air pods?

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Speaker 4: No? Is that you're supposed to? What's the point of them?

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Speaker 3: We'll get to We'll get to the point of the AirPods. Okay,

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Speaker 3: we'll take calls. I just had no idea what the

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Speaker 3: point of them? You know, you'll be all of your

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Speaker 3: questions will soon be answered, maybe probably. Okay, do you

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Speaker 3: have you have a real therapist you talked to?

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Speaker 4: I do?

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Speaker 3: Can I ask what your therapist has been telling you

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Speaker 3: when you tell them that you feel alone? I'm always okay,

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Speaker 3: you were ragging on me for not being really I'm

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Speaker 3: always very when people told me things on this show.

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Speaker 3: I'm always very curious what a real therapist has to say.

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Speaker 3: What does your real therapist tell you when you tell

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Speaker 3: them that you feel alone?

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean I think it's like, well, she's more

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Speaker 2: I know that feelings are just feelings and they'll pass, right,

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Speaker 4: So my issues go deeper.

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Speaker 2: So it's not something like I'm like, let's talk about

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Speaker 2: where I feel not alone. I feel happy, or there

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Speaker 2: are moments when I feel joy sadness, all all the feelings,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what kinds of things make you feel joy?

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Speaker 4: Lately? I feel I don't want to brag, I mean,

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Speaker 4: I don't want to brag, but I feel joy. I

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Speaker 2: At my the longevity of my career, I feel proud

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Speaker 2: I feel proud of myself. When I feel like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: you're still relevant and you're still like getting asked to

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Speaker 2: do jobs and stuff, I feel good about that. I

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Speaker 2: feel a good that I'm sober again yeah, seven months.

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Speaker 2: I mean I feel good about like you know, I

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Speaker 2: mean thinking about like you know, Starfield or the new

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Speaker 2: Harry Potter legacy, Hogwarts Legacy is about to come out,

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Speaker 2: or the Haunted Chocolate Tear like video games are about

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Speaker 4: I can't wait for those.

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Speaker 3: So you feel you feel good about the longevity of

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Speaker 3: your career, and I think that's I mean. I was

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Speaker 3: telling you before you I was no, no, I was

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Speaker 3: sorry for touching you don't touch sorry for touching it.

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Speaker 3: We were just talking about how I told you that

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Speaker 3: I was a big fan of you when I was fourteen,

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Speaker 3: ten years ago, and it.

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Speaker 4: Makes me feel old. Well, it makes me feel old.

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Speaker 4: So which is it?

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Speaker 3: Are you proud or do you feel old?

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Speaker 4: Fuck face?

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry you can no please shit anything, bro, I

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Speaker 3: just want to say that, like, you know, it's cool

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Speaker 3: that you like.

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Speaker 4: Here's what I hate. Please.

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Speaker 2: I hate going like I'll go to a Korean restaurant

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Speaker 2: and they'll go, hey, dude, I remember you were on

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Speaker 2: Mad TV, But what have you what have you been

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Speaker 4: Man.

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Speaker 4: Let's if it's it's racist, can I just move on?

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Speaker 3: Then that could theoretically happen. Yeah, but it has never

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Speaker 4: Let's happen. Let's I want it to happen.

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Speaker 3: Do you believe in manifestation and all? Do you believe

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Speaker 4: I do believe the manifestation?

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Speaker 3: What have you been manifesting lately? I've manifested my life

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Speaker 2: It's like if you dream big, your big goals, you

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Speaker 2: Be a little Well I always had a dream to

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Speaker 3: That I expected, and that's it. That's tychical. Hey is

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: And I'm here with my friend.

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Speaker 3: Alex too Avo, how's it going today.

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Speaker 8: I wish I could say it's going well. I mean,

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Speaker 3: And I was just like, well, okay, what would you

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Speaker 8: Is so with guys. I uh, I stand in the

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Speaker 8: I'm either not golf enough or I'm not basic enough,

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Speaker 4: Uh. Well, I mean the goth look they're pale, they

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Speaker 10: What, Oh my god.

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Speaker 8: Okay, well I'm not that not like that.

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Speaker 3: I'm why Why are you focused on what other people

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Speaker 4: People want to you?

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Speaker 3: That's gonna That's just that is just not a great

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Speaker 8: Well, I mean, I guess I just really I really

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Speaker 4: Anybody listen to me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, most women in America especially, they want blue eyed

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Speaker 2: Ryan Reynolds, Matt Damon. You know these types of looks, right,

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Speaker 2: I'm a five foot three, fat Korean dude. Right, It's

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Speaker 2: have to wait a little longer. Right, look at Lyle,

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Speaker 2: This guy is just like he looks like a fucking marshmallow,

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Speaker 2: this duy. Yeah, yeah, yeah, and yet girls still like him, right,

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Speaker 3: And I feel so I used to be like obsessed

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Speaker 4: Yeah, feels so.

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Speaker 3: Much better and people pick up on that. People like that.

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Speaker 2: When also if you work on the insides, right, So

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Speaker 2: I work with what I have. Yes, you gotta work

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Speaker 3: Gotta work with what you have, Ava, with what I have?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, how old? How old are you? Ava?

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Speaker 8: I'm eighteen.

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Speaker 3: You're a kidding, You're a fucking kid.

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Speaker 4: I didn't get laid until I was twenty three.

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Speaker 9: I mean what I mean?

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Speaker 11: Good time?

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Speaker 4: What do we even do here? Ava?

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Speaker 3: Ava? I get the impulse if you haven't had the

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Speaker 3: But Ava, listen to Bobby, lean into yourself, do what

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Speaker 3: you can with what you have, and please, for the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, my greatest Eva, My greatest loves have been in

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Speaker 2: and I used to pray every night, Please Lord Jesus,

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Speaker 4: If that would have happened, I would have been fucked

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Speaker 4: right now, right, So everything happens in God's time. Right,

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Speaker 4: I could be right now have making love to the

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Speaker 4: You know what I mean? Do you understand what I'm saying?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 12: Yeah, I understand a.

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Speaker 3: Ava, listen, I hope this was helpful for you. Is

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Speaker 3: there anything else you want to say to the people

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Speaker 3: of the computer before we go?

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Speaker 10: I love therapy.

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Speaker 8: I go, and I'm so happy that I got on here.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Thank you. Have a good night, Ava.

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Speaker 13: Yes?

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Speaker 4: What does she at? Eighteen? I did? I had no

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Speaker 4: You know what I mean? I was cutting myself with razors.

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Speaker 3: And things are better now ten times a thousand times better. Yeah? Yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: It's like it's crazy. You're young, you have your whole

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Speaker 3: Hello. Yes, what's going on?

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Speaker 6: Is this?

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Speaker 3: Sonny?

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Speaker 4: It is?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Sonny?

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Speaker 4: How can we get you? We're called chilling as well? Dog?

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Speaker 4: What's up?

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Speaker 5: Not much?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Sonny? What is it that you call it?

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Speaker 4: What's the question? Sonny?

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Speaker 3: What is it that you called in to talk about today? Sonny?

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Speaker 6: I I don't know. I mean, we could talk about anything.

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Speaker 3: Do you want me to get Do you want me

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Speaker 3: to son you want me to Here's what I'm gonna do.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna put you back in the queue, and then

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Speaker 4: Are you a lizard alien?

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Speaker 6: I I mean I've pondered that question before, which I

449
00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:54,879
Speaker 6: mean that would mean that means.

450
00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:56,760
Speaker 4: Right, yeah, can you see now?

451
00:19:57,160 --> 00:20:02,240
Speaker 6: Yeah? Yeah, I can see now. You know everything is good.

452
00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:05,000
Speaker 4: Oh, so you got some cataract or what I mean

453
00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:06,200
Speaker 4: something was going on your eyes?

454
00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:11,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I don't know. It could have been genetic.

455
00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:13,200
Speaker 4: You didn't go to the hospital.

456
00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:18,159
Speaker 6: Yeah, I went to the hospital. I was in the military.

457
00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:19,880
Speaker 6: This is when I was in Okinaw with a fan.

458
00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:24,879
Speaker 4: Oh you're in the military, what branch Let me guess Army?

459
00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:27,600
Speaker 6: No, the marine?

460
00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:31,199
Speaker 4: Oh my bad? The one higher? Is that higher up?

461
00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:33,480
Speaker 3: Is that higher higher up? I don't know, are there

462
00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:35,560
Speaker 3: are I feel like they're not ranked like officially.

463
00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:37,359
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'd rather be in the army.

464
00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:39,080
Speaker 3: I don't be in any of them.

465
00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:40,680
Speaker 4: You don't see.

466
00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:44,240
Speaker 3: Okay, is your eye feeling better now?

467
00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:46,840
Speaker 11: Yeah?

468
00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:47,199
Speaker 3: It is.

469
00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:50,320
Speaker 6: I mean I got medically retired. I was the military

470
00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:56,200
Speaker 6: and yeah, now I got I got diagnosed with schizophrenian depression.

471
00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:59,439
Speaker 2: Mm hm oh man, that's tough. Let me ask you

472
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Speaker 2: just a side. Know in Okinawa, did you give me

473
00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:05,480
Speaker 2: any raw denim? You have a really good rownam like jeans,

474
00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:05,960
Speaker 2: like the jeans.

475
00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:06,880
Speaker 4: H Yeah.

476
00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:11,520
Speaker 6: I actually had a Turkish friend. He tailored suits for

477
00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:15,000
Speaker 6: me and he brought back at denim jacket from Turkey,

478
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:16,280
Speaker 6: which was pretty cool.

479
00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:21,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's not the question it was.

480
00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:24,119
Speaker 3: I guess he was like it was a side of

481
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Speaker 3: a side.

482
00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:27,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I don't buy it, Like who buys Turkish danim?

483
00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:29,639
Speaker 2: I've never heard of Turkish dana. I've never heard of

484
00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,760
Speaker 2: a Japanese You never heard of Okinawa.

485
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:33,240
Speaker 3: I've never heard of Okawa demo.

486
00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:37,479
Speaker 4: But now I'll go, guess you haven't. All right, Well

487
00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:39,200
Speaker 4: maybe I'm the only hipster here.

488
00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:43,600
Speaker 3: All right, Sonny, do you feel okay in this very moment?

489
00:21:46,480 --> 00:21:46,720
Speaker 12: Yeah?

490
00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:50,240
Speaker 6: I feel okay. I'm getting more comfortable with you guys?

491
00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:55,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, Sonny, are you? What nationality are you? What ethnicity

492
00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:57,000
Speaker 2: are you? I mean, is that weird to ask you?

493
00:21:57,280 --> 00:21:59,800
Speaker 5: I mean, I'm white?

494
00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:06,920
Speaker 4: Why you sound white? Yeah? Eyes, it's a good look, man.

495
00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:10,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, my friends here.

496
00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:11,880
Speaker 4: Oh, I heard him. I heard.

497
00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:13,480
Speaker 3: I'm starting to feel comfortable.

498
00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:14,119
Speaker 4: How are you?

499
00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:16,720
Speaker 12: I'm doing well?

500
00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:17,399
Speaker 6: Uh?

501
00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:20,440
Speaker 14: You wanted someone to say something racist, but Lyle, you're

502
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:23,159
Speaker 14: a mao slurping glacier and it's not racist.

503
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:25,680
Speaker 3: It's just why did you hear what he said?

504
00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:28,520
Speaker 4: Glamor? Right? I don't wont know what that means.

505
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:35,000
Speaker 9: Say that one, Lyle is a mao slurping glacier.

506
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:41,280
Speaker 4: Age male slurping glacier? Egg ape ape or egg?

507
00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:45,240
Speaker 3: That doesn't sound ape a.

508
00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 4: It has to be ape because eggs is not racist.

509
00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:54,000
Speaker 3: Okay, should I hang up? I'll hang up? Yeah, yeah, alright,

510
00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:55,679
Speaker 3: you manifested what you wanted? How does it?

511
00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,080
Speaker 4: How does it? But that wasn't toward Asians?

512
00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:02,080
Speaker 3: Was that? You never seen what he said?

513
00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:04,840
Speaker 2: I don't I have no idea what the hell he said?

514
00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 2: Does he think I'm Eskimo? Maybe the glacier?

515
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:12,200
Speaker 3: I don't think he. I don't think anyone in that

516
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:14,240
Speaker 3: situation kind of knew what was going on.

517
00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:17,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, these two dudes, man, they need they need a

518
00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 2: cereal therapys.

519
00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:20,639
Speaker 4: They need they needed a party or something, you know,

520
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:21,520
Speaker 4: they to go out.

521
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:25,200
Speaker 3: Next question, Angel, Hello.

522
00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:28,800
Speaker 5: Oh what's good?

523
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:37,440
Speaker 4: Hello? Was good? What's good? What's good with you? I'm Angel,

524
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 4: I'm Bob and this is Lyle. We're geckos.

525
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:45,600
Speaker 5: Oh it's a I did not expect to get on.

526
00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:46,520
Speaker 5: I'm so happy that.

527
00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:48,440
Speaker 4: Okay, So what do you have a question?

528
00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:53,360
Speaker 11: Well?

529
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:55,400
Speaker 5: I kind of had like a well, I mean, first

530
00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:57,040
Speaker 5: of all, I'm at a funeral right now.

531
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Speaker 4: Oh, this is a great time.

532
00:23:59,160 --> 00:23:59,760
Speaker 5: My great grandma.

533
00:23:59,880 --> 00:24:03,160
Speaker 3: Just you you're at a funeral right now?

534
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 5: Your I mean, it ended already. We're we're kind of

535
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:08,200
Speaker 5: having the food right now, we're having the dinner.

536
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:09,200
Speaker 4: Okay.

537
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,800
Speaker 3: How was the funeral road? Was it moving time?

538
00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:14,480
Speaker 9: Uh?

539
00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:15,199
Speaker 6: Yeah, it was.

540
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:16,159
Speaker 5: It was emotional.

541
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:20,960
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, man. How old was she when she passed?

542
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:24,120
Speaker 5: She was ninety two.

543
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:26,400
Speaker 4: Well that's a long live.

544
00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:29,719
Speaker 2: That's a pretty good lie. Yeah, yeah, can I can

545
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 2: I get personal? Is it open casket?

546
00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:35,640
Speaker 4: That very peaceful? Was it open casket?

547
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:36,120
Speaker 6: Yeah?

548
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:38,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, open casket and.

549
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:39,480
Speaker 4: Did you look in the face.

550
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's very strange in me honestly.

551
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's don't you hate open casket? I don't.

552
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:50,439
Speaker 3: I don't never been. I'm close it. I'm Jewish, so

553
00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:52,880
Speaker 3: with only like family funerals that have been to they

554
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:55,479
Speaker 3: are closed, they are I think I think open casket

555
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:56,480
Speaker 3: is not a Jewish thing.

556
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:58,119
Speaker 2: Like I can already imagine what it looks like. Is

557
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,840
Speaker 2: just close it, Yeah, just because I don't have to see. Yeah,

558
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 2: what kind of woman was your great grandmother?

559
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:05,119
Speaker 3: Did you I feel like, did you get like a

560
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:08,200
Speaker 3: good sense of her personality when she was alive?

561
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:11,960
Speaker 5: Did you see she was very Why I feel like

562
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:14,840
Speaker 5: most of my life like I wouldn't really talk to

563
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:16,359
Speaker 5: her too much. She was just kind of there on

564
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:18,680
Speaker 5: the couch in the corner, you know. And then.

565
00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:28,600
Speaker 2: Personal connection, I mean she was wise, but you didn't

566
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:31,360
Speaker 2: ask her questions like what's life about great grandmother?

567
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Speaker 5: Well, it's like, uh so, like we're Mexican, and like

568
00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:39,199
Speaker 5: my Spanish is like not too good, so it's kind

569
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:41,359
Speaker 5: of like a language barrier there. And then she's also

570
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:42,760
Speaker 5: like very hard of hearing as well.

571
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:44,800
Speaker 4: Oh she was hard of hearing.

572
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:49,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, so if anby I'd say, like my grandma, right now,

573
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:52,200
Speaker 5: I have more of a personal connection to rather than

574
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:52,960
Speaker 5: my great grandma.

575
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 4: So your grandma, now, what kind of questions would you

576
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:56,680
Speaker 4: ask her about life?

577
00:25:59,280 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 10: Uh?

578
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,400
Speaker 5: That's crazy. I mean I've like asked her like what

579
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:04,119
Speaker 5: it was like growing up, because like they crossed the

580
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:07,160
Speaker 5: border and everything, and like they were literally like cavemen

581
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,320
Speaker 5: at one point, like living in a cave, and I

582
00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:13,119
Speaker 5: was like living in a cave. Yeah, like.

583
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 3: I was saying another racist thing.

584
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:23,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, but you know, like they crossed the border, and

585
00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 5: like with all their kids, they have three three girls,

586
00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 5: three boys.

587
00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:28,680
Speaker 14: One of the girls is my mom.

588
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:33,639
Speaker 3: I think that's nice that your your great grandma dying

589
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 3: like gave you a little bit of a sense of urgency, Like, oh,

590
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:39,919
Speaker 3: the older people in my life, I really need to

591
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 3: take the time now to get their stories before they're gone.

592
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 3: I feel like it's a weird, like blessing in disguise,

593
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:50,440
Speaker 3: sour sweet kind of thing to get woken up by

594
00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 3: by death like that.

595
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:52,640
Speaker 4: Yeah.

596
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:55,639
Speaker 2: Also, can I ask you something? Are you you? Would

597
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 2: you be good atcrossing the border? I don't think I

598
00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 2: would be that good at it.

599
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 3: I wouldn't know, I wouldn't know what and.

600
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,679
Speaker 4: I'm not a climber. You know what I mean, like

601
00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:05,679
Speaker 4: what what what would.

602
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 5: You do places alone? I'm like you like with.

603
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 2: Me, right, so to cross the border alone, that'd be

604
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 2: scary huh yeah exactly.

605
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 4: Yeah.

606
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:21,600
Speaker 3: But would you.

607
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 4: Take would you would you pay for somebody to sneak

608
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 4: in a van? Like maybe I would do that route?

609
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:27,959
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I couldn't do any version of it that

610
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:29,960
Speaker 3: would require any amount of athletics.

611
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:31,200
Speaker 4: Athleticism, yeah.

612
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:33,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, that ship would have.

613
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 2: Also, I probably crossed the wrong border, like I'm in Peru.

614
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:50,159
Speaker 4: You can't. I crossed different. I don't know where to go.

615
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:54,679
Speaker 3: There's only one yeah yeah thing to go. But you

616
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:57,240
Speaker 3: I guess if you, I guess if you were that

617
00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 3: bad at crossing borders, you could suck it up to

618
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:06,919
Speaker 3: a place. Angel Well, let Angel go eat more of

619
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:10,240
Speaker 3: the food. It sounds like your great grandma has an.

620
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 5: I like you like like a story real quick?

621
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:14,880
Speaker 4: Oh we love stories here at the therapy get go

622
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 4: go ahead.

623
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, So, like I was gonna say, like I've never

624
00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:22,239
Speaker 5: really had like a death, like like that's close to me,

625
00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:25,120
Speaker 5: like very personal, but like I like recently found out

626
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:28,720
Speaker 5: something like like I'm in high school still, like I'm

627
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 5: a senior, right and uh So I was talking to

628
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:34,879
Speaker 5: this girl over this summer and she lives in Arizona.

629
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 5: I live in Idaho, and basically like we're kind of

630
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 5: hitting off and like she used to live in Idaho,

631
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:43,360
Speaker 5: and she's like, hey, I'm coming back in like two weeks,

632
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 5: and I was like, nah, that's cap. I was like,

633
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 5: you're not coming back, Like that's such a lot, you know.

634
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 5: And then she's like, no, my brother's just over there

635
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 5: and they had a plane ticket book for for like

636
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:56,240
Speaker 5: June sixteenth, right, and then out of nowhere, she just

637
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 5: goes goes and I was like, damn.

638
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 3: I was angel Listen, Angel, Angel, Angel, Angel, be patient

639
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:04,360
Speaker 3: and you will find love one day.

640
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 5: No, listen, listen. That's not that I'm not I'm not

641
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 5: even there yet.

642
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 4: Okay.

643
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:11,720
Speaker 3: I feel less bad for hanging up because he's at

644
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:12,240
Speaker 3: a funeral.

645
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 4: You had a funeral, number one.

646
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 2: It's also it's like he just had to learn how

647
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 2: the skills of storytelling.

648
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 3: Sure, well, you know, it's it's a little bit difficult

649
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:22,479
Speaker 3: when people want to come on here and tell stories

650
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 3: because sometimes sometimes people want to come on here and

651
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:27,960
Speaker 3: tell stories and they're actually very interesting, and then sometimes

652
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 3: they like have an interesting premise and you accept the

653
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 3: telling of a story. And then it kind of rude.

654
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 3: You told me to do it?

655
00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 2: You wanted to do that because I respect you, Bobby,

656
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 2: I told you tell me to do something. I didn't

657
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:45,280
Speaker 2: say that, and you know that you took advantage of

658
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:45,840
Speaker 2: that power.

659
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 4: You're told time, what's the time? What's the time?

660
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 3: That's not what you did. You told me and then

661
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 3: you hung up. No, you knew, you knew that I

662
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 3: would do something if you told me to do it,

663
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 3: and you took advantage of that power, and you told

664
00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 3: And now I feel bad.

665
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 4: I feel bad too. Is he gonna? Is he depressed

666
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:02,640
Speaker 4: now or a hen?

667
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 3: I feel I don't feel that bad that I hung

668
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 3: up on him because he has he should not be

669
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 3: on the phone with us.

670
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 2: Right, you should call him the next day like I

671
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 2: would probably wait on tomorrow.

672
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 3: I was at a funeral yesterday, only a couple, only

673
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 3: a few. What's the saddest funeral you've been to? It's

674
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 3: what's the saddest funerals? Are probably comedians?

675
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 4: Really? Okay?

676
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:32,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, those are the tough ones, especially when they're

677
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:37,640
Speaker 2: my age, and you know what I mean. It's usually devastating.

678
00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 3: Have you uh, kind of similar to what the color

679
00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 3: experience had, Like a death to somebody that was close

680
00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 3: to you that kind of woke a thing within you.

681
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 4: We woke a thing like you know.

682
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 3: Just you know how he's he Okay, he had a revelation. Okay,

683
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 3: his great grandma died. Okay. The people who are older

684
00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 3: than me, I gotta get their stories while they're still here.

685
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:00,600
Speaker 3: Like he had a lesson from it.

686
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 4: Thing.

687
00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, you ever ever had a thing like that?

688
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 4: No? No, no, whenever somebody does, I just think of

689
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:07,240
Speaker 4: my own death.

690
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:11,120
Speaker 3: Okay, So that's that's something, right, Like whenever I was

691
00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 3: like I'm gonna die?

692
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 2: You are going to and then and then I start

693
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:15,960
Speaker 2: spinning like how am I going to die? I don't

694
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 2: want to die, you know what I mean? All those things?

695
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:18,480
Speaker 4: What is life about?

696
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 7: You know?

697
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:19,800
Speaker 4: Yeah? That type of thing?

698
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 3: Okay, those are lessons?

699
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:21,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, those are lessons.

700
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 3: What are you afraid of death?

701
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 4: I'm so are you scared?

702
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 3: Am I scared?

703
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 4: Yeah? When you're twenty four, sure I wouldn't be as

704
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 4: but when you're when you turn fifty, you start thinking

705
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 4: about it more. It's weird. It's like when is it

706
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 4: going to happen?

707
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:38,560
Speaker 2: And then you start looking up other celebrities that died,

708
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 2: what age they were, and how they died.

709
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 4: Sure, you know what I mean.

710
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 3: I've been thinking of a thing lately and what I'm

711
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 3: about that. I don't know how I would feel if

712
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:48,480
Speaker 3: I was actually there in a situation where I was

713
00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 3: about to die. But I would like to think, you know,

714
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 3: even though I'm you know whatever, twenty four, like I

715
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,280
Speaker 3: I've had I've had a nice life, like I don't

716
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 3: want I don't want to be too greedy, like I've

717
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 3: had a good one. I mean like I've I've had

718
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 3: friends and family and I get to do this, and

719
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 3: I've seen cool mountains. I got to drink water. I

720
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:10,560
Speaker 3: got to see cool mountains. I'm just any, just anything, man.

721
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 3: Just I get to.

722
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 4: Look and die now because I saw Mount Everest.

723
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 3: But that's something, you know. Some people they are like

724
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 3: born and then die immediately. I got to live a

725
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 3: little bit of a life. I'm grateful for however much

726
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 3: I got to have. Why do I need more.

727
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 2: I'm glad you said that, Lyle, because the truth is

728
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:34,240
Speaker 2: we've had it better than ninety nine point nine nine

729
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:36,240
Speaker 2: zeros ers or you know, I mean, like so many

730
00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 2: people like imagine all the people that grew up on

731
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:45,800
Speaker 2: this planet historically. Yeah, famine, you know what I mean, atrocities,

732
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:49,320
Speaker 2: global events like you know what I mean, Yeah, asteroids,

733
00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 2: I mean just different things.

734
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 4: We live in the best time, and you and I

735
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 4: have the best lives.

736
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 3: It should be very grateful, absolutely, But everyone should be

737
00:32:56,800 --> 00:33:01,240
Speaker 3: feeling that way right right. I feel like if I, like,

738
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:03,400
Speaker 3: you know, obviously I don't obviously I don't want it

739
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:06,120
Speaker 3: to end. But in the and I would be like,

740
00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 3: like if I were like falling from I would be

741
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:09,600
Speaker 3: fucking terrified, Like I don't want to die. I don't

742
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 3: want to die or that. But if like I was

743
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:13,040
Speaker 3: in like a calm place with it, I'd be like,

744
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 3: I got to have something.

745
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 4: How would you fall?

746
00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 3: How would I feel?

747
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 4: Like you're in a plane? Would you be cool about it?

748
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 4: Or would you go wild? I just be terrified.

749
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 3: I think at certain you know what I would do

750
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:29,040
Speaker 3: is I would I heard that uh a funk. I

751
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:33,560
Speaker 3: was on some sky diving reddit thing and someone was like,

752
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 3: uh said, if if they if they knew that their

753
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:39,400
Speaker 3: parachute wasn't gonna open, they would just turn around their

754
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 3: back to the ground and just look up at the

755
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 3: sky and like kind of.

756
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 4: Oh, there's no way I would do that.

757
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 2: You know what I would do if it was a plane, yeah,

758
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 2: and I was on it, like a commercial plane, I

759
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 2: would probably fly toward a fat guy.

760
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:55,640
Speaker 3: Fly what do you mean?

761
00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:58,720
Speaker 2: Fly towards like you know where everyone's falling, right, I

762
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 2: would try to. I think I would have to find

763
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 2: a fatter guy. So and maybe he could be like

764
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:08,000
Speaker 2: my cushion.

765
00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:11,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll die anyway, die anyway, and then would die anyway,

766
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 3: and then you would just make another guy's death a

767
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:15,880
Speaker 3: lot worse.

768
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:18,640
Speaker 2: And also then other people would be like, that's weird.

769
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:20,880
Speaker 2: Bobby was inside a big.

770
00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 3: Fat guy he hate you before?

771
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, like if they wouldn't know what went on,

772
00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:28,839
Speaker 2: because I think we would like implode together.

773
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:29,839
Speaker 4: And we would be mixed up.

774
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:31,800
Speaker 3: That sounds a good. Actually, I can't tell if that

775
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:35,240
Speaker 3: would be a beautiful thing, you and another person together

776
00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:38,880
Speaker 3: at this one time in the universe, just melding, or

777
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 3: if it would just be sad and upsetting for everyone.

778
00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, let's just let's not't even think about it.

779
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 3: Let's that's call hello bye hi bye.

780
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 4: Bye. Hi.

781
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 11: Can you guys hear me?

782
00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:58,719
Speaker 9: Okay, I can hear you?

783
00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 4: Can you hear me? I can, Raven?

784
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:10,719
Speaker 3: What's up? What's going on? Dude, Raven? Bird? What did

785
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:11,759
Speaker 3: you say about birds?

786
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:12,720
Speaker 4: Raven?

787
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 3: Like the bird? Like the birds? Raven? We're doing good.

788
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 3: How are you doing? What's uh? What's what's on your mind?

789
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:24,200
Speaker 10: I'm doing Okay, I am.

790
00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 11: I'm in a bit of a predicament.

791
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:27,440
Speaker 4: Let's hear it.

792
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 12: Well, it's not really a predicament anymore.

793
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:32,400
Speaker 10: So.

794
00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:37,319
Speaker 11: Earlier this year, my brother went missing and I was

795
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:41,919
Speaker 11: the only person like actively looking for him, and he's

796
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 11: kind of off of his rocker now, like he's fine.

797
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:48,359
Speaker 11: Thought with boiler alert, he's perfectly fine.

798
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:48,759
Speaker 7: He's alive.

799
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 9: Well, but.

800
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's kind of How long was he missing for?

801
00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 12: Sick freaking weeks?

802
00:35:58,120 --> 00:35:59,240
Speaker 10: Man, six weeks?

803
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:00,399
Speaker 3: It's a long time as long.

804
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 11: But now that he's not missing anymore, I kind of

805
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 11: take him like.

806
00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:09,279
Speaker 7: It wasn't so bad while he was missing because we've always.

807
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:11,359
Speaker 11: Been close, but like, now that he's back and just

808
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 11: acting like a completely ass, I hate his guck.

809
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:14,920
Speaker 7: I liked him so.

810
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:18,840
Speaker 3: Much interesting, Okay while he was Okay, so while he

811
00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 3: was missing, you were had these like ones my brother

812
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:23,839
Speaker 3: and I need to go find him, and it was

813
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:25,920
Speaker 3: you know you you liked him a lot, but now

814
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:29,759
Speaker 3: that he's back, you're like, why do you? Why do you?

815
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 3: Why do you not like him now?

816
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 12: So at first, like when he first became unmissing, I

817
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:40,719
Speaker 12: was sending him money because he was he was homeless.

818
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:41,200
Speaker 7: He was like.

819
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:44,040
Speaker 11: Living from couch to couch.

820
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 12: So I was sending him money, and he was like, Frank,

821
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:51,719
Speaker 12: call me, threatening to kill himself and act crazy and

822
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 12: then start.

823
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:55,120
Speaker 11: Laughing about it, like it was just like awful wall shit,

824
00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:58,280
Speaker 11: like like he honestly sounds like he's wasted by the devil.

825
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 11: Like it was just craziness.

826
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 12: And now I'm trying to.

827
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 11: Despise him for it. I hadn't heard from him since

828
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:08,400
Speaker 11: Mother's Day, but I don't know he like, I'm in

829
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 11: real therapy because of it, but.

830
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:11,959
Speaker 9: He's no hope.

831
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:15,359
Speaker 4: Yeah, you gotta let it go.

832
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 9: Man.

833
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 4: He seems like a crazy person.

834
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 3: I mean, so he basically went missing, but he started CouchSurfing,

835
00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:25,760
Speaker 3: didn't return people's phone calls, probably got off social media,

836
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 3: and people go, where is he is that?

837
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:29,120
Speaker 4: Yeah?

838
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:31,919
Speaker 11: Everybody? Yeah, he had everybody worried.

839
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 7: Like I would wake up at six.

840
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 11: O'clock in the morning and I had a list like

841
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:39,879
Speaker 11: hotels and hospitals and stuff that I would call. And

842
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:42,720
Speaker 11: that was every day for six months, man, And that's

843
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 11: not when I would like out in the streets physically

844
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 11: listening for him.

845
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:50,480
Speaker 4: So wow, I don't know.

846
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:53,160
Speaker 11: It's like a douchebag move to go missing and then

847
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:56,520
Speaker 11: just fought back up and trubby in an asshole everybody.

848
00:37:57,280 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, and did he apologize?

849
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:03,959
Speaker 7: No, he thinks it's hilarious.

850
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:06,480
Speaker 11: He thinks that people looking for him is like the

851
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 11: funniest thing in the world. He loves the attention.

852
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 4: You got to get him back, You got to get

853
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 4: him back.

854
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:14,320
Speaker 3: How do you suggest she get him back?

855
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 4: You go missing?

856
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:20,319
Speaker 2: No, you should go missing to see tell him how

857
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:24,080
Speaker 2: it feels. But you do it for a do it

858
00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 2: for a year.

859
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:29,280
Speaker 3: What if she goes what if she like goes missing

860
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:31,359
Speaker 3: to a new place, then she finds a new, even

861
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 3: better life there.

862
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:32,319
Speaker 10: And just.

863
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 3: You don't think he would notice your absence?

864
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:41,120
Speaker 12: Oh well, he's not how he makes his mother's day.

865
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:42,799
Speaker 11: So I really don't think he'd give a shit if

866
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 11: I went missing. Honestly, Well, then.

867
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,759
Speaker 2: Just cut up, cut him out your life, cut him

868
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 2: out of your life, right to keep doing your therapy

869
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 2: and just move on.

870
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 4: We all have crazy family members, do you do?

871
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:57,919
Speaker 5: You're right?

872
00:38:59,120 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 4: Wild?

873
00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:00,840
Speaker 3: No, I have a nice family.

874
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:02,880
Speaker 4: You do. Not even a cousin. That's a little weird.

875
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 3: Oh my god. I'm trying to think. Nothing like crazy, crazy, nothing, nothing,

876
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 3: nothing like that, right, So let me.

877
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 4: Ask you this.

878
00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:16,240
Speaker 2: If you have children, there's no one in your family

879
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:17,879
Speaker 2: member where you were like, I'm not going to have

880
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:19,799
Speaker 2: my cousin John babysit my kids.

881
00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:25,400
Speaker 3: I'm trying to think any of my my extended family.

882
00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 4: So you're a healthy Get go. Wow, that's crazy.

883
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:32,440
Speaker 11: I'm so happy for you.

884
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:32,759
Speaker 13: Get go.

885
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:34,440
Speaker 11: That makes you really happy that.

886
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:35,320
Speaker 7: You have a good family.

887
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:36,680
Speaker 3: Thank you, Raven.

888
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:37,319
Speaker 4: Where do you live?

889
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:44,320
Speaker 11: I live in Tennessee, so i mean family somewhere along

890
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:44,879
Speaker 11: down the line.

891
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:46,319
Speaker 7: I'm sure we're all cousins.

892
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 11: So I've got a pretty big family.

893
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 4: Are there a lot of Koreans in Tennessee? I have

894
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:51,920
Speaker 4: to ask you please.

895
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 11: I know two Korean girls, but actually that they own

896
00:39:57,560 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 11: the nail salon and.

897
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:02,240
Speaker 7: They're really sweet.

898
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:02,880
Speaker 9: They make it.

899
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 4: It's always a fucking nails Koreans.

900
00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 2: Koreans don't make egg rolls, but they do know they do, okay,

901
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:16,440
Speaker 2: but they work at the nails.

902
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:30,880
Speaker 11: I think just as.

903
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 4: They have a side hustle egg.

904
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:30,160
Speaker 3: Roll business, egg roll nelsle.

905
00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:35,279
Speaker 4: It's like black market egg roll Oh they deliver.

906
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:38,600
Speaker 9: And have you really profitable?

907
00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 2: Okay, let me ask you something because are you, like,

908
00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:44,920
Speaker 2: are you a pro when it comes to egg rolls?

909
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 11: Like?

910
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:47,439
Speaker 2: Have you eaten so many egg rolls that you can

911
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 2: judge the their egg rolls?

912
00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:50,319
Speaker 4: Are they good?

913
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:53,880
Speaker 7: I'm gonna be honest with you.

914
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:57,440
Speaker 11: I don't like but I see so.

915
00:40:57,480 --> 00:41:01,359
Speaker 3: Your opinion on this is if you don't like egg rolls,

916
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:03,840
Speaker 3: your opinion on the quality of these egg rolls is

917
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:04,760
Speaker 3: a little useless.

918
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:06,839
Speaker 1: Yeah.

919
00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:09,319
Speaker 3: See, I mean, do you like getting your nails done?

920
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:11,880
Speaker 12: Everybody raves about them.

921
00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:14,879
Speaker 4: Oh well that's good that the street that's street crowd.

922
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:17,240
Speaker 3: Sure, yeah, okay, there's a vibe.

923
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 4: Let me ask you. Are they good at nails?

924
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 7: That's a really good hustle.

925
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 4: Are they good at nails?

926
00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:27,040
Speaker 11: Oh yeah, they're great at nails.

927
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:29,799
Speaker 7: I know, like they were giving me advice one time

928
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 7: I got my nails done and they were like flotched,

929
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:36,839
Speaker 7: looked awful, not by the Korean girls, but they were

930
00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:38,120
Speaker 7: telling me like what they.

931
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:41,680
Speaker 11: Did wrong and showing me exactly what they would have done.

932
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:43,640
Speaker 7: They're really smart girls.

933
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:46,359
Speaker 4: But do you would you would you hang out?

934
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:50,680
Speaker 2: Would you hang out without would you hang out with them?

935
00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:53,640
Speaker 11: I would. I don't hang out with a lot of people,

936
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 11: but I mean, if I was going to I might

937
00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:58,319
Speaker 11: call them and be like, hey, you want to do

938
00:41:58,360 --> 00:41:58,760
Speaker 11: my nails?

939
00:41:59,840 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 9: Right?

940
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:06,240
Speaker 4: They do nails? Because it's like it's a stereotype.

941
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 3: I was wishing that they were like, oh, I know

942
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:11,600
Speaker 3: these two Korean ladies and they own a cowboy bootstore

943
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 3: that cool strap.

944
00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:19,440
Speaker 4: Asian ladies doing nails is pretty stereotypical.

945
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:23,400
Speaker 12: Oh, you're right, Well, the only other nails one we

946
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:23,839
Speaker 12: have in.

947
00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:25,960
Speaker 7: Town is wearing by all white people.

948
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:31,359
Speaker 4: So and you go to the Asian one.

949
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:34,640
Speaker 11: Oh yeah, definitely, I'm not gonna we Raven.

950
00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 4: You're not racist. You're a good person. Oh you have

951
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:45,680
Speaker 4: black Oh that's good. That's good. That's good, Raven.

952
00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:46,799
Speaker 3: Is there anything else you want to say to the

953
00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 3: people the computer before we go?

954
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 13: No, thank you, guys.

955
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:54,720
Speaker 7: I really enjoyed getting to talk to you guys.

956
00:42:54,719 --> 00:42:55,320
Speaker 11: It was awesome.

957
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:56,640
Speaker 4: Of course, you.

958
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:03,280
Speaker 3: Were asking if she's an is there a food type

959
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:05,800
Speaker 3: that you are a like kind of sore of.

960
00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:10,320
Speaker 2: I think I'm a kindosaur of a lot of food types.

961
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:12,719
Speaker 2: But in terms of like Korean food, I'm sure I'm

962
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:16,319
Speaker 2: pretty knowledgeable. Okay, we don't do egg rolls. Okay, yeah,

963
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 2: I mean so, I don't know what these two Korean

964
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 2: ladies are doing.

965
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 3: They're reinventing the wheel.

966
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:22,200
Speaker 2: I think that what they're doing is it's like, Okay,

967
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do an act.

968
00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 4: They don't know. I know better, we just do aggroll.

969
00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:28,800
Speaker 4: They don't know.

970
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:30,920
Speaker 2: Because if they did it in Korea, they'd be like,

971
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:33,720
Speaker 2: fuck you. Koreans would be like, you don't do egg rolls.

972
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:35,280
Speaker 2: We're gonna go to a Chinese person.

973
00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 3: Do you like a Korean barbecue?

974
00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 4: Okay? What kind of questions is that you said.

975
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:44,240
Speaker 3: Of Korean food? I'm trying to do you like Manzo balls?

976
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 3: I do like Manci balls, obviously, you know what I know. No,

977
00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:51,160
Speaker 3: you can't. You just said you like Korean food.

978
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:53,839
Speaker 4: I'm Korean, obviously I like it.

979
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:56,719
Speaker 2: But that's like, that's like if you asked me like

980
00:43:57,200 --> 00:43:59,080
Speaker 2: balls and that doesn't like fucking Korean food.

981
00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:02,279
Speaker 3: You aren't Jews that don't like moths, like.

982
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:05,719
Speaker 4: Going to a Sebastian monoscalco go. Do you like pasta.

983
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:08,799
Speaker 3: Honestly, but no, because you just said it.

984
00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 4: What did I say? You said?

985
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:12,279
Speaker 3: I asked you if you there's a food group that

986
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:14,319
Speaker 3: you like, and you said, I like Korean food. I

987
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 3: didn't start with, oh you like Korean food.

988
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:20,160
Speaker 4: Okay, that's fair, I guess fair. Yeah, that's fair. I guess.

989
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:22,720
Speaker 4: I don't know why you get angry. I got angry.

990
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 3: You you know why you get angry because it's fun.

991
00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:26,640
Speaker 4: It's when they get fun to go. Yeah, it's when

992
00:44:26,640 --> 00:44:27,239
Speaker 4: they get to do that.

993
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:32,480
Speaker 3: I'm like feeling endorphins go into my body. Yeah, and

994
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:32,960
Speaker 3: that is.

995
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:35,680
Speaker 2: But I might report these two Korean ladies you should.

996
00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:40,399
Speaker 2: They're doing a side aggroll business. They're probably not paying taxes, right,

997
00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 2: and I don't like that you.

998
00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:43,200
Speaker 3: Think they're not paying taxes?

999
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:46,200
Speaker 2: Well, she said, it's a side hustle. And also let

1000
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:49,360
Speaker 2: me ask let me ask you this, right, they're doing nails.

1001
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:52,239
Speaker 2: Imagine this, You're getting your nails done and one of

1002
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 2: the Koreans looks up at you and goes, do you

1003
00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:55,600
Speaker 2: like egir?

1004
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:59,799
Speaker 4: All like, how do you? I mean, how do you

1005
00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:00,919
Speaker 4: you pitch it? How?

1006
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:03,880
Speaker 3: I I if so? If that happened to me, I

1007
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:05,839
Speaker 3: would say, I do like egg grolls, and they were like,

1008
00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:06,879
Speaker 3: do you want an egg roll?

1009
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:08,400
Speaker 4: It's only no tax?

1010
00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:11,800
Speaker 3: Just do you do you think? I mean, just in general,

1011
00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 3: people like you know, if you like, if a guy

1012
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:15,279
Speaker 3: is running a hot dog stand and getting cash for

1013
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:17,360
Speaker 3: the hot dogs, is eBay in taxes?

1014
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:20,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, but if that hot but if that hot dogs

1015
00:45:20,360 --> 00:45:24,600
Speaker 2: stand was also they were selling lamp fixtures on the side,

1016
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:25,680
Speaker 2: that would be weird.

1017
00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 4: That's what the Korean ladies are doing.

1018
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:27,279
Speaker 5: I think.

1019
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:28,840
Speaker 3: So you think it's like it's like a it's like

1020
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:32,200
Speaker 3: a weird random thing that they're selling off the side.

1021
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:33,640
Speaker 4: Is that weird?

1022
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:39,240
Speaker 3: I don't think that that is actually what it's hadened.

1023
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 3: I don't some I think that somewhere in that phone

1024
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:47,920
Speaker 3: call that girl mentioned egg rolls and I don't, And

1025
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:50,759
Speaker 3: then we kind of ran with that in some way

1026
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:52,759
Speaker 3: that got into our head like, oh, there is a

1027
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:55,279
Speaker 3: nail salum that sells egg rolls. But I don't think

1028
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:58,320
Speaker 3: that that's a place that exists because all we heard

1029
00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 3: the caller say was some egg roll I just heard

1030
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:05,319
Speaker 3: the phrase egg rolls as a side hustle. There was

1031
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:09,480
Speaker 3: no like noun to it, and I think we just

1032
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:11,319
Speaker 3: pieced together the gaps, right.

1033
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:16,440
Speaker 2: I made the assumption that was it said nail salon, and.

1034
00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:17,440
Speaker 3: And we made that assumption because it's fun.

1035
00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:19,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, that would be a good business, would be a

1036
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 4: cool place I would go.

1037
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 3: I would want to go there.

1038
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 4: I was just going by the way.

1039
00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:25,080
Speaker 3: I think this is going great. I hope so, no,

1040
00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:25,520
Speaker 3: this is.

1041
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:28,680
Speaker 4: I don't know. How do you feel like it's fun? Yeah?

1042
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 3: I just don't know much. No, this is perfect. I

1043
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:33,600
Speaker 3: feel that it's always feel like it's better. It'd be

1044
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:35,880
Speaker 3: weird if you knew, like a lot, right, if you

1045
00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:39,239
Speaker 3: like listen to I listened to every episode before I

1046
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:40,320
Speaker 3: came here. I'm ready.

1047
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:42,319
Speaker 2: It's so funny because I came here and I was like,

1048
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:45,200
Speaker 2: should I google what therapy get go is?

1049
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:47,279
Speaker 4: I had no idea. What the fuck?

1050
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:47,560
Speaker 7: It was?

1051
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:47,839
Speaker 4: Sure?

1052
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:50,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, And the only reason I'll just be yeah, please

1053
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:53,200
Speaker 3: be honest with is people.

1054
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 4: Around me were like, you have to do it.

1055
00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:57,120
Speaker 3: It makes me happy to hear.

1056
00:46:57,160 --> 00:46:59,799
Speaker 2: Right, and like, I'll be honest with you. Yeah, I

1057
00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:01,879
Speaker 2: go fuck, no, yeah, there's no way.

1058
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1059
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:05,239
Speaker 2: And just through months of people going you have to

1060
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 2: do it, it's so cool to hear yeah, well no,

1061
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:08,480
Speaker 2: it's cool.

1062
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:09,920
Speaker 4: It doesn't hurt your feelings.

1063
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:12,760
Speaker 2: I was like fuck, no, no, I just a natural impulse,

1064
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:16,120
Speaker 2: all right. And then finally I had today off. Yeah

1065
00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:18,680
Speaker 2: I had to pod later, but my own podcast. But

1066
00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:22,759
Speaker 2: and they just looked at it on my schedule. And

1067
00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:24,640
Speaker 2: then I tried to get out of it, right yeah, yeah,

1068
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:26,600
Speaker 2: I was like I can't. And then you know, my

1069
00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:27,239
Speaker 2: people were like.

1070
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:27,920
Speaker 4: You have to do it.

1071
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:29,560
Speaker 3: They said you have to do it.

1072
00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:29,920
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1073
00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:32,240
Speaker 2: And then when I was driving, I was in traffic

1074
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 2: because it's so far away from my house. I was

1075
00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 2: so angry. Yeah yeah, and I thought of my pocket.

1076
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 2: If I walked in here and they were remotely rude.

1077
00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:44,400
Speaker 4: I would have left. But you have good people. They

1078
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 4: were so nice.

1079
00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:45,919
Speaker 3: Man.

1080
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:48,880
Speaker 4: You want to drink, here's a room, there's a water,

1081
00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:51,160
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. You can do whatever. We

1082
00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:54,160
Speaker 4: love you. Thanks for so good you have good staff.

1083
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:56,960
Speaker 3: Thanks man, I appreciate that. I'm glad that you. I'm

1084
00:47:56,960 --> 00:47:58,960
Speaker 3: glad that you cause you look man like you don't

1085
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:02,359
Speaker 3: owe me anything. You could absolutely just been like yeah, funck,

1086
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:08,640
Speaker 3: I love you too. Let's take a phone call. Is

1087
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:11,880
Speaker 3: this Bobby?

1088
00:48:12,000 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 4: Yes, this is Bobby, that's my name.

1089
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:17,600
Speaker 5: Hello.

1090
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:19,320
Speaker 4: Cool?

1091
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 3: Uh Bobby, what is it that you called in to

1092
00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:22,680
Speaker 3: talk about today.

1093
00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:28,120
Speaker 14: I think I'm addicted to masturbating, and I know that

1094
00:48:28,120 --> 00:48:31,200
Speaker 14: that's something that Bobby Lee has been open with as

1095
00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:34,040
Speaker 14: well in the past. So I'd love to get some

1096
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 14: some insight from you guys. When you think, yeah, I mean,

1097
00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 14: it's kind of like when I wake up in the morning,

1098
00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:46,360
Speaker 14: it's like one of the first things I think about,

1099
00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:51,440
Speaker 14: you know, anytime I have the house to myself, usually

1100
00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:55,200
Speaker 14: one of the first things I do. And even just

1101
00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:58,760
Speaker 14: like the things that I come across on the internet,

1102
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 14: it's like it's not even like I'm looking for it

1103
00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:04,279
Speaker 14: all the time, but like random things that I see,

1104
00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:07,400
Speaker 14: it'll just be like a picture of you know, not

1105
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:10,520
Speaker 14: even in a sexual picture, it just like, well make

1106
00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:12,279
Speaker 14: me think about it. I feel like my mind is

1107
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:16,880
Speaker 14: always thinking about it, and it's kind of like I

1108
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:18,880
Speaker 14: feel like it's not like a huge problem where I

1109
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:21,239
Speaker 14: like I can't do anything, but it's starting to get

1110
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:26,960
Speaker 14: in the way of like my mental shit and just

1111
00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:29,919
Speaker 14: like I don't know, it's starting to kind of fuck

1112
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 14: me up a little bit. So curious curious what you

1113
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:33,560
Speaker 14: guys think.

1114
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:42,120
Speaker 2: I mean, here's my honest opinion, bro, is that you know, drugs, alcohol,

1115
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:47,120
Speaker 2: any kind of addiction, gambling, even excessive video gameplay. It's

1116
00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:51,319
Speaker 2: all a symptom of a problem, right. But but porn

1117
00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:54,760
Speaker 2: addiction is a real thing, and it can really affect

1118
00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:57,960
Speaker 2: your life. You can affect your family life, your relationships.

1119
00:49:58,440 --> 00:50:00,839
Speaker 2: And what I'm gonna say to you is that you

1120
00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 2: probably need help.

1121
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:05,440
Speaker 9: Yeah, you know what I mean.

1122
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:06,520
Speaker 4: I know, God I will.

1123
00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:12,040
Speaker 14: I was gonna say, I think there's like another level

1124
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:15,920
Speaker 14: to this, Like it's not even really porn. I mean,

1125
00:50:15,960 --> 00:50:19,480
Speaker 14: obviously I do watch porn, but a lot of times

1126
00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:23,160
Speaker 14: I'll I'll masturbate to like people I know in real

1127
00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:24,000
Speaker 14: life too.

1128
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:30,000
Speaker 4: Like, yeah, we all do that, we do that. Yeah,

1129
00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:32,439
Speaker 4: oh the girl the girl coffee shot. That was hot.

1130
00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:36,520
Speaker 4: I masturbated that. I've masturbated cartoon.

1131
00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 2: Characters like anime, like anime, not like you know, I mean,

1132
00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:41,719
Speaker 2: not like the Jetsons or anything like.

1133
00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:43,080
Speaker 4: Okay, but like you know what I mean.

1134
00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:46,840
Speaker 3: Try the just would you ever try checking off to.

1135
00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:48,279
Speaker 4: The just the older ones? Yeah?

1136
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:52,360
Speaker 3: I don't know their names, but anyway, maybe tried seeking

1137
00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:53,759
Speaker 3: help at all from like a professional.

1138
00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:58,200
Speaker 4: Yes, I have number one. This is what my So

1139
00:50:58,400 --> 00:50:58,960
Speaker 4: here's the deal.

1140
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:03,280
Speaker 2: Okay, when you're watching pornography, are going to strip clubs

1141
00:51:03,280 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 2: and doing that kind of behavior. I had a therapist,

1142
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:08,520
Speaker 2: not the therapist I have now, but one a couple

1143
00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:14,399
Speaker 2: of years ago say to me that you're supporting trauma, right,

1144
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:17,720
Speaker 2: because people generally when people that when they go through

1145
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:19,760
Speaker 2: when they're doing sex work.

1146
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 4: I'm not all of them, you know, but a lot

1147
00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:23,640
Speaker 4: of them have.

1148
00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:26,640
Speaker 2: Gone through deep trauma and they've had terrible lives and

1149
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:28,960
Speaker 2: they're you know, I mean, their only options are to

1150
00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:31,560
Speaker 2: do you know, I mean that kind of work, and

1151
00:51:31,560 --> 00:51:35,759
Speaker 2: you're sort of supporting that, right. And then number two,

1152
00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:39,399
Speaker 2: it's like you're not. You're disconnecting and you're not You're

1153
00:51:39,880 --> 00:51:42,200
Speaker 2: going to be unable to be intimate with your partner

1154
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:45,440
Speaker 2: or your family members or anybody right when you're doing

1155
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 2: that shit. So what I'm saying is that I know

1156
00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:50,960
Speaker 2: a lot of dudes. I can't say their names, but

1157
00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:53,040
Speaker 2: I know a lot of guys that you wouldn't even know,

1158
00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:57,840
Speaker 2: like other really famous male comedians, a lot of actors

1159
00:51:57,840 --> 00:52:00,200
Speaker 2: that are super famous that they go to sl A

1160
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:01,640
Speaker 2: meetings and they.

1161
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:02,919
Speaker 4: Really do that program.

1162
00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:07,000
Speaker 2: I'm thinking about doing it myself, right because for me,

1163
00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:11,400
Speaker 2: it's like the twelve step growth programs I do address

1164
00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:15,960
Speaker 2: alcoholism and drug addiction, which I've been sober for seven months,

1165
00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:19,239
Speaker 2: but now I think that it's it's I think I

1166
00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:21,880
Speaker 2: need more help, but it is affecting.

1167
00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:24,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll be honest with you too, dude. Let me

1168
00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:24,760
Speaker 4: say something.

1169
00:52:25,080 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 2: You know, I broke up with Kolila after ten years

1170
00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:29,880
Speaker 2: and it had to do with my porn addiction.

1171
00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:35,160
Speaker 4: It destroyed me. Yeah, so I'm just saying that. I

1172
00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:38,719
Speaker 4: just that's a real problem.

1173
00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:40,960
Speaker 14: Yeah, that's something that I'm actually worried about because I'm

1174
00:52:40,960 --> 00:52:43,520
Speaker 14: in a relationship and that's you know, I've you know,

1175
00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:46,640
Speaker 14: I've been following Tiger Belly since like episode thirty, so

1176
00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:48,920
Speaker 14: I have heard, I know all about all of that.

1177
00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 14: So yeah, I think it's definitely not like to the

1178
00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:58,359
Speaker 14: point where I can't perform, Like we still have a

1179
00:52:58,440 --> 00:53:02,879
Speaker 14: sex life, but there's definitely been times where like I'll

1180
00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 14: have masturbated multiple times and then my girlfriend will come

1181
00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:09,560
Speaker 14: home and I'm not trying to do that and that

1182
00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 14: doesn't make me feel kind of guilty. And you know,

1183
00:53:13,080 --> 00:53:15,759
Speaker 14: I don't I don't drink, I don't do drugs. I

1184
00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:19,360
Speaker 14: smoke weeds every day and I eat like shit. So

1185
00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:22,680
Speaker 14: I think it's kind of like I don't know. Like

1186
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:25,200
Speaker 14: I've had two different therapists. One told me that I

1187
00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:27,040
Speaker 14: was an addict, and one told me that I wasn't

1188
00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:28,839
Speaker 14: an addict. So I don't really know what to think,

1189
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:31,560
Speaker 14: just because it's not like, you know, I'm not like

1190
00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:34,280
Speaker 14: bingerin I'm not like doing hard drugs, but I definitely

1191
00:53:34,360 --> 00:53:39,920
Speaker 14: have like addict tendencies. I would say, but it's kind

1192
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:41,120
Speaker 14: of hard smoking.

1193
00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:44,040
Speaker 2: Weed every day, you're escaping, right, even smoking weed every day?

1194
00:53:44,160 --> 00:53:46,120
Speaker 2: You know, you can justify it all you want, but

1195
00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:49,960
Speaker 2: it's like you're basically checking out, and there's a reason

1196
00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:50,880
Speaker 2: why you're checking out.

1197
00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:53,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, right, there's a reason. Yeah, go ahead.

1198
00:53:54,160 --> 00:53:55,520
Speaker 14: No, I was just gonna say, I don't I don't

1199
00:53:55,520 --> 00:53:58,760
Speaker 14: want to justify it either, like I'm not. I obviously

1200
00:53:58,840 --> 00:54:01,200
Speaker 14: it's safer than other things, but I'm aware that it's

1201
00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:03,480
Speaker 14: a problem for sure, like at least for me, Like

1202
00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:06,120
Speaker 14: I know maybe it works for some people, but my

1203
00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:09,600
Speaker 14: mind is telling me that it's a problem, but I can't.

1204
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:12,040
Speaker 4: Also, it's like it's not a therapist job to diagnose you.

1205
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:14,480
Speaker 4: I die. I diagnose myself, right.

1206
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:18,200
Speaker 2: I know that when I drink, I can't stop, right,

1207
00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:20,920
Speaker 2: and then my life falls apart, you know. I mean,

1208
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:24,200
Speaker 2: I know that when I go ahead.

1209
00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:28,280
Speaker 14: Sorry, sorry, I was gonna say a lot of the times,

1210
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:31,400
Speaker 14: like I'll smoke weed, and that's sort of like the

1211
00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:33,440
Speaker 14: the jumping off point for all this other shit, you know,

1212
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:35,399
Speaker 14: like I'll smoke weed and then I want to jerk off,

1213
00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:36,719
Speaker 14: and then I want to eat a bunch of shit,

1214
00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:38,960
Speaker 14: and then I want to like play video games for

1215
00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:42,080
Speaker 14: six hours. So it's like, that's sort of like the

1216
00:54:42,160 --> 00:54:42,959
Speaker 14: jumping off point.

1217
00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 4: And you are so similar.

1218
00:54:47,200 --> 00:54:49,719
Speaker 14: And we have the same name, we.

1219
00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:50,960
Speaker 2: Have the same thing. But well, let me say. The

1220
00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:53,439
Speaker 2: difference though, is that I'm trying to do something about it.

1221
00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:58,759
Speaker 14: Yeah, well yeah, I mean I've been to therapy for

1222
00:54:58,840 --> 00:55:02,680
Speaker 14: like other mental health issues like I have. I've technically

1223
00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:05,359
Speaker 14: been diagnosed with four different mental illnesses, but I don't

1224
00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:09,239
Speaker 14: really whatever, But addiction has never been something that's been

1225
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:11,320
Speaker 14: like a.

1226
00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:12,920
Speaker 4: Are you taking medication for those mental diagnoses?

1227
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:15,400
Speaker 5: No?

1228
00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:17,320
Speaker 14: No, I don't take any medications.

1229
00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:21,320
Speaker 2: Like I like, for many years, I refuse. But in

1230
00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:23,440
Speaker 2: the last couple of years I've been on medication.

1231
00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:24,879
Speaker 3: Has it has it been working?

1232
00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:27,959
Speaker 2: For its changed my life? My point is is that, bro,

1233
00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:29,280
Speaker 2: what's your name again?

1234
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:31,320
Speaker 4: Bobby?

1235
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:32,160
Speaker 14: Name is Bobby.

1236
00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:35,000
Speaker 4: Bobby, I'm Bobby. We already said that.

1237
00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:37,759
Speaker 2: But my point is, Bobby, is what I want for

1238
00:55:37,880 --> 00:55:41,839
Speaker 2: you is to really take a look. It's an inside job, right,

1239
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:46,960
Speaker 2: And I think Socrates has once said a life not

1240
00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:49,760
Speaker 2: self examined is a life not worth living.

1241
00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:50,480
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1242
00:55:50,640 --> 00:55:54,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, so it's like, look at yourself, look

1243
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:55,120
Speaker 2: at your behaviors.

1244
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:55,560
Speaker 4: Right.

1245
00:55:55,640 --> 00:56:00,120
Speaker 2: And I'm telling you as a friend, I don't know you,

1246
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:03,440
Speaker 2: but like, you know, as a fellow human that you know.

1247
00:56:03,440 --> 00:56:06,520
Speaker 4: How old are you, Bobby, fellow Bobby, how old are you?

1248
00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:09,320
Speaker 5: I'm twenty eight, dude.

1249
00:56:09,360 --> 00:56:12,600
Speaker 4: This is the perfect time to address these things. It

1250
00:56:12,680 --> 00:56:17,520
Speaker 4: really is. Yeah, okay, so I would really you know,

1251
00:56:17,680 --> 00:56:20,960
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, no.

1252
00:56:21,080 --> 00:56:22,800
Speaker 14: I was just going to say, like I'm I'm the

1253
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:25,080
Speaker 14: type of person that thinks that I'm like aware of

1254
00:56:25,120 --> 00:56:28,799
Speaker 14: everything in my life. Like I'm definitely you know, like

1255
00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:30,960
Speaker 14: I said, I've been to therapy for years. I've been

1256
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:33,800
Speaker 14: to multiple therapists, different types of therapy for different things.

1257
00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:36,520
Speaker 14: So I like, I like to think that I'm aware

1258
00:56:36,520 --> 00:56:39,200
Speaker 14: of everything that I'm dealing with and that I'm going through.

1259
00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:42,200
Speaker 14: But this is definitely something that I've been like kind

1260
00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:45,759
Speaker 14: of pretending isn't real and just kind of ignoring it.

1261
00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:50,160
Speaker 14: So it's it's like, I mean, I didn't think that Bobby,

1262
00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:53,439
Speaker 14: Lee and Lyle would be the people that would force

1263
00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:57,239
Speaker 14: me to confront this. But I feel like I don't know. Well,

1264
00:56:57,280 --> 00:57:01,960
Speaker 14: like I said, thinking about I know that it's it's there. No, No,

1265
00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:04,080
Speaker 14: I'm saying it's a good thing, like it's just it's

1266
00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:06,560
Speaker 14: really I don't know. I don't know what the fuck

1267
00:57:06,600 --> 00:57:07,359
Speaker 14: I'm talking about.

1268
00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:08,680
Speaker 6: But anyway, but.

1269
00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:10,960
Speaker 2: Here, Bob, Bobby, I want to say one last thing.

1270
00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:13,360
Speaker 2: Though you might not be able to change now. You

1271
00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:15,680
Speaker 2: might have to lose your girlfriend, you might have to

1272
00:57:15,760 --> 00:57:18,720
Speaker 2: lose some things in your life for you to like change.

1273
00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:21,520
Speaker 2: So it's like I'm just telling you to work on

1274
00:57:21,560 --> 00:57:23,960
Speaker 2: it now so that you don't lose these things, but

1275
00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:25,680
Speaker 2: you might have to go through a journey.

1276
00:57:25,680 --> 00:57:25,880
Speaker 4: Man.

1277
00:57:25,960 --> 00:57:29,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, Bobby Man, is there anything else you want to

1278
00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:30,640
Speaker 3: say to the people of the computer before we go?

1279
00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:35,760
Speaker 14: Uh No, I think that's all. Thank you guys for

1280
00:57:35,800 --> 00:57:41,960
Speaker 14: taking my call and buy it's all the thank Thank

1281
00:57:42,000 --> 00:57:42,760
Speaker 14: you guys so much.

1282
00:57:43,200 --> 00:57:44,960
Speaker 3: I love you, Bobby, Hey, take care, Bobby. Thanks for

1283
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:48,480
Speaker 3: being honest with us. Is that how you feel? Do

1284
00:57:48,480 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 3: you feel like it's it's a part of the process

1285
00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:56,440
Speaker 3: to like lose a lot before you make a big change.

1286
00:57:56,920 --> 00:57:59,840
Speaker 2: Well, here's for me, it's like I've always because I've

1287
00:57:59,840 --> 00:58:03,680
Speaker 2: been sober three or four times in my life, you know,

1288
00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:06,680
Speaker 2: I mean, I had long term sobriety, but I usually

1289
00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:10,720
Speaker 2: quit before because I have this ability, which I'm grateful for,

1290
00:58:11,360 --> 00:58:15,360
Speaker 2: Whereas I can look at my behavior and then think

1291
00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:20,480
Speaker 2: to myself, if I continued this behavior in a year, right,

1292
00:58:20,720 --> 00:58:22,360
Speaker 2: I know I'll lose these things.

1293
00:58:22,480 --> 00:58:24,680
Speaker 4: Sure, so I'll quit before that happens.

1294
00:58:25,600 --> 00:58:27,160
Speaker 2: I mean, because I can kind of sort of see

1295
00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:30,920
Speaker 2: the future a little bit, right, So it's like this

1296
00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:34,600
Speaker 2: guy might have to lose some things before you know

1297
00:58:34,640 --> 00:58:37,640
Speaker 2: what I mean, he decides to do something about it.

1298
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:40,320
Speaker 3: Do you think it's hard to close the gap between

1299
00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:44,560
Speaker 3: in awareness of because I you know, being aware of

1300
00:58:44,760 --> 00:58:49,720
Speaker 3: problems and then mustering the fucking whatever to like actually

1301
00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:53,640
Speaker 3: fix them. Where for you, what has been like the

1302
00:58:53,720 --> 00:58:55,360
Speaker 3: closing of that gap.

1303
00:58:56,840 --> 00:59:02,120
Speaker 2: It's my pain threshold, right in the combination with seeing

1304
00:59:02,120 --> 00:59:06,240
Speaker 2: in the future, there's also I'm in pain, right, and

1305
00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:09,400
Speaker 2: I can't take a lot. It's not physical pain. I

1306
00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:11,800
Speaker 2: can take a lot of physical pain. I can take

1307
00:59:12,000 --> 00:59:13,920
Speaker 2: a lot of emotional pain. I just can't take a

1308
00:59:13,920 --> 00:59:19,440
Speaker 2: lot of spiritual pain right, this emptiness, right, this hole

1309
00:59:19,480 --> 00:59:22,520
Speaker 2: in my God, right, it just I can't live like that.

1310
00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:25,240
Speaker 2: I need to fulfill it with you know, my version

1311
00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:27,600
Speaker 2: of God. I need to fill it with love from

1312
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:30,800
Speaker 2: my family and my friends and who I'm in a

1313
00:59:30,840 --> 00:59:34,280
Speaker 2: relationship with, my sponsor, you know, my therapist.

1314
00:59:34,520 --> 00:59:37,080
Speaker 4: I just need the comedy community, you know what I mean.

1315
00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:40,480
Speaker 2: So it's like I just need to fill that with

1316
00:59:40,560 --> 00:59:43,560
Speaker 2: healthy things, kind.

1317
00:59:43,400 --> 00:59:46,360
Speaker 3: Of talking with talking with Bobby just now, does it

1318
00:59:46,600 --> 00:59:50,960
Speaker 3: help you, like when you're kind of like advising somebody

1319
00:59:51,360 --> 00:59:54,000
Speaker 3: who you know, maybe you're, as you said, you're dealing

1320
00:59:54,040 --> 00:59:55,920
Speaker 3: with the issues you know a little bit better than

1321
00:59:55,960 --> 00:59:58,800
Speaker 3: he is at this time, does it like help reinforce

1322
00:59:58,920 --> 01:00:02,680
Speaker 3: the things that you're to talk somebody else through a

1323
01:00:02,720 --> 01:00:04,120
Speaker 3: similar problem?

1324
01:00:04,680 --> 01:00:05,760
Speaker 4: So interesting you say that.

1325
01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:12,560
Speaker 2: It's so interesting you say that because yes, that's how

1326
01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:16,280
Speaker 2: twelve step groups even started, right It was Bill w

1327
01:00:16,880 --> 01:00:20,360
Speaker 2: Right was desperate once he linked up with linked up

1328
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:23,720
Speaker 2: with doctor Bob, who was also an alcoholic, they realized

1329
01:00:23,760 --> 01:00:27,520
Speaker 2: by staying together right and then helping like going to

1330
01:00:27,680 --> 01:00:31,920
Speaker 2: like insane asylums and hospitals to find other alcoholics and

1331
01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:35,280
Speaker 2: just sharing their story. They found that that was the

1332
01:00:35,400 --> 01:00:39,040
Speaker 2: key to them having long term sobriety, you know what

1333
01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:42,000
Speaker 2: I mean. There's just something about, like, you know, getting

1334
01:00:42,000 --> 01:00:46,560
Speaker 2: out of yourself and listening to somebody else, right, just

1335
01:00:46,560 --> 01:00:52,000
Speaker 2: to be in service, right, So yeah.

1336
01:00:51,200 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I feel like it helps a lot to

1337
01:00:53,280 --> 01:00:55,680
Speaker 3: just get out of your own stuff. That's one of

1338
01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:58,880
Speaker 3: the things I really liked doing about this podcast is like,

1339
01:00:58,960 --> 01:01:02,520
Speaker 3: I feel like I take a vacation from my own

1340
01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:05,960
Speaker 3: whatever and dive into other people's stuff. And that's a

1341
01:01:06,080 --> 01:01:08,640
Speaker 3: more like it's like a I don't know, getting into

1342
01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:11,360
Speaker 3: other people's stuff is just a break from your own.

1343
01:01:11,400 --> 01:01:13,400
Speaker 4: But why do you needed to do it as a gecko?

1344
01:01:17,280 --> 01:01:22,680
Speaker 3: I like, I like presenting as a Gecko character more

1345
01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:26,040
Speaker 3: than I'm like, this is my name is Lyle Dresser

1346
01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:30,440
Speaker 3: and this is the Lyle podcast starring me a fucking guy.

1347
01:01:31,080 --> 01:01:32,200
Speaker 3: You know, it's more fun.

1348
01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:33,800
Speaker 4: But let me ask you please, do.

1349
01:01:33,800 --> 01:01:37,560
Speaker 2: You get recognized because you have green face?

1350
01:01:37,800 --> 01:01:41,480
Speaker 3: I have a great thing where if I walk out

1351
01:01:41,480 --> 01:01:43,400
Speaker 3: in public in the suit, people will be like, oh,

1352
01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:44,840
Speaker 3: I've seen you on the thing, I'll see you other thing.

1353
01:01:44,920 --> 01:01:46,520
Speaker 3: Can we take a bit and it's wonderful.

1354
01:01:46,840 --> 01:01:47,240
Speaker 4: I love it.

1355
01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:50,600
Speaker 3: And then when I'm not wearing the costume, nothing nothing.

1356
01:01:50,720 --> 01:01:50,919
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1357
01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:52,960
Speaker 3: So I'll be at a I'll perform at a festival

1358
01:01:53,560 --> 01:01:56,680
Speaker 3: and I'm in the suit and I'm doing my thing,

1359
01:01:56,720 --> 01:02:00,000
Speaker 3: and then I'll walk around the festival grounds and people

1360
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:03,040
Speaker 3: we oh, we're just on. And then later at night

1361
01:02:03,120 --> 01:02:05,480
Speaker 3: I'll go back and I'll just walk through the crowd.

1362
01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:06,439
Speaker 4: How do you get women?

1363
01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:12,080
Speaker 2: Has this ever happened where a woman like you're in

1364
01:02:12,120 --> 01:02:14,960
Speaker 2: the Get Go and they you're at a festival and

1365
01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:17,000
Speaker 2: girl goes, I think, you know, I'm attracted you this

1366
01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:18,760
Speaker 2: and that, and then you took the green off your

1367
01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:22,440
Speaker 2: face and took and they're like, yeah, I think it's.

1368
01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:25,760
Speaker 3: Uh, probably the the well I've had somebody tell me

1369
01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:31,040
Speaker 3: that I really actually don't look the same as the

1370
01:02:31,080 --> 01:02:34,320
Speaker 3: g Yeah, you can say whatever you want.

1371
01:02:34,880 --> 01:02:35,680
Speaker 4: Lyle the human.

1372
01:02:35,880 --> 01:02:39,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's cute as fuck. Ah that means a lot.

1373
01:02:39,640 --> 01:02:41,240
Speaker 4: Man, this, I wouldn't suck you off.

1374
01:02:41,240 --> 01:02:43,200
Speaker 3: You wouldn't suck me off like this. I would suck

1375
01:02:43,240 --> 01:02:51,400
Speaker 3: you off like this. Next caller, aj, aj, what's going

1376
01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:53,200
Speaker 3: on with you? How can we get you today?

1377
01:02:55,040 --> 01:02:55,400
Speaker 4: Well?

1378
01:02:56,040 --> 01:02:59,720
Speaker 9: As your color green for you? My best friend is

1379
01:02:59,720 --> 01:03:02,919
Speaker 9: Mary a monster and this weekend and I'm the best

1380
01:03:02,960 --> 01:03:04,600
Speaker 9: man at this whole shit show.

1381
01:03:04,760 --> 01:03:08,840
Speaker 4: What kind of off chopocabrio lockness? What kind I.

1382
01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:11,000
Speaker 9: Wish that'd be easier to deal with? This one has

1383
01:03:11,000 --> 01:03:12,840
Speaker 9: two legs and two arms and can talk.

1384
01:03:13,920 --> 01:03:17,480
Speaker 3: Yuck, scary? What is it that you don't like about

1385
01:03:17,520 --> 01:03:17,840
Speaker 3: this week?

1386
01:03:17,880 --> 01:03:19,120
Speaker 4: What don't you like?

1387
01:03:20,760 --> 01:03:23,280
Speaker 9: Okay, well, let me give you guys an example. First

1388
01:03:23,320 --> 01:03:26,880
Speaker 9: two weeks into their dating, I'm sitting in the car

1389
01:03:26,920 --> 01:03:29,240
Speaker 9: with them on a thirteen hour drive down to Disney World.

1390
01:03:29,600 --> 01:03:31,720
Speaker 9: And she has never met me. I've never met her

1391
01:03:31,760 --> 01:03:34,080
Speaker 9: in my entire life, and she's already accusing me of

1392
01:03:34,120 --> 01:03:36,880
Speaker 9: trying to get him to cheat on her while in

1393
01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:39,200
Speaker 9: Disney World, because that's obviously what you do when you

1394
01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:40,040
Speaker 9: go to Disney World.

1395
01:03:40,440 --> 01:03:42,680
Speaker 2: Wait, wait, she was trying to get Yeah, she wanted

1396
01:03:42,680 --> 01:03:43,440
Speaker 2: to link up with you.

1397
01:03:43,600 --> 01:03:44,479
Speaker 4: Is that what you're saying that.

1398
01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:49,520
Speaker 3: She accused No No of trying to get his friends

1399
01:03:49,560 --> 01:03:52,480
Speaker 3: to cheat on her while at Disney World?

1400
01:03:54,640 --> 01:03:55,160
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1401
01:03:55,200 --> 01:03:57,400
Speaker 3: Wow? What did you.

1402
01:03:59,120 --> 01:03:59,320
Speaker 11: Ask?

1403
01:03:59,520 --> 01:03:59,560
Speaker 3: What?

1404
01:03:59,760 --> 01:04:00,240
Speaker 9: Down hill?

1405
01:04:00,240 --> 01:04:00,560
Speaker 5: From there?

1406
01:04:00,640 --> 01:04:00,960
Speaker 4: Can I ask?

1407
01:04:01,040 --> 01:04:04,920
Speaker 3: Can I ask what she felt like? You said that

1408
01:04:05,080 --> 01:04:07,640
Speaker 3: was trying to encourage your friend to cheat on her?

1409
01:04:09,400 --> 01:04:13,520
Speaker 9: I didn't say anything at all, I didn't instigate anything.

1410
01:04:13,600 --> 01:04:16,280
Speaker 9: I sat there quietly the entire car ride, whenever he

1411
01:04:16,360 --> 01:04:17,200
Speaker 9: was on the phone with her.

1412
01:04:18,320 --> 01:04:20,480
Speaker 2: Would you live up with her if if, if you

1413
01:04:20,520 --> 01:04:22,440
Speaker 2: had the opportunity, just I just want to see here?

1414
01:04:22,640 --> 01:04:24,000
Speaker 5: Would absolutely not?

1415
01:04:24,680 --> 01:04:26,080
Speaker 4: Well, you're not attracted to her physically?

1416
01:04:26,160 --> 01:04:26,920
Speaker 9: Absolutely not.

1417
01:04:28,400 --> 01:04:28,680
Speaker 11: No.

1418
01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:32,400
Speaker 9: She looks like somebody, uh decided to make it right,

1419
01:04:32,480 --> 01:04:34,160
Speaker 9: yournoceros look like a human being?

1420
01:04:35,560 --> 01:04:38,560
Speaker 3: Can I can I ask? Can I ask you this? AJ? What?

1421
01:04:40,080 --> 01:04:40,400
Speaker 13: All right?

1422
01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:40,520
Speaker 1: So?

1423
01:04:40,600 --> 01:04:48,640
Speaker 3: You clearly do not like this person? You're so so?

1424
01:04:48,640 --> 01:04:53,040
Speaker 3: So does your friend know that you don't like his

1425
01:04:53,040 --> 01:04:53,680
Speaker 3: his fiance?

1426
01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:54,400
Speaker 5: Yes?

1427
01:04:54,560 --> 01:04:55,960
Speaker 9: And what kind of friend would I be if I

1428
01:04:56,000 --> 01:04:57,080
Speaker 9: wasn't honest with my friends?

1429
01:04:57,480 --> 01:04:59,920
Speaker 3: Okay? And what does your friend have to say? In response?

1430
01:05:02,080 --> 01:05:05,040
Speaker 9: He says that I'm taking it out context, things like that,

1431
01:05:05,080 --> 01:05:07,440
Speaker 9: But I can. I have two eyes, and I can see,

1432
01:05:07,520 --> 01:05:10,240
Speaker 9: and I can see that she is clearly not good

1433
01:05:10,280 --> 01:05:10,680
Speaker 9: for him.

1434
01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:14,000
Speaker 3: Do you think that she makes him happy?

1435
01:05:16,520 --> 01:05:20,440
Speaker 9: I think that he thinks that she makes him happy.

1436
01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:24,560
Speaker 2: Boy caught the wedding, mostly because like he boycott the wedding.

1437
01:05:26,560 --> 01:05:28,000
Speaker 9: When's the wedding is this Saturday?

1438
01:05:28,720 --> 01:05:28,800
Speaker 3: No?

1439
01:05:28,920 --> 01:05:30,120
Speaker 4: Boy caught it? Don't go.

1440
01:05:32,440 --> 01:05:37,200
Speaker 9: As the best man? Uh, no, I wish I could.

1441
01:05:40,880 --> 01:05:42,560
Speaker 4: Down shut that down. All right.

1442
01:05:43,240 --> 01:05:45,959
Speaker 3: Well, okay, so you know, it's an interesting thing because

1443
01:05:46,000 --> 01:05:48,760
Speaker 3: I've had friends who have girlfriends that I you know,

1444
01:05:48,880 --> 01:05:52,440
Speaker 3: I'm like, like, I've seen my friend's girlfriend be like

1445
01:05:52,520 --> 01:05:54,720
Speaker 3: mean to him, and I'm like, I don't know, but

1446
01:05:54,800 --> 01:05:57,480
Speaker 3: it's not it's what because I'm like, it's not my place.

1447
01:05:58,080 --> 01:06:00,160
Speaker 3: But you seem to have a lot of patt you

1448
01:06:00,320 --> 01:06:04,400
Speaker 3: really passionately. Do not like this girl.

1449
01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:09,720
Speaker 4: And your passion. I like the example ahead example.

1450
01:06:11,240 --> 01:06:14,840
Speaker 9: Yes, okay, so how many of your you said you've

1451
01:06:14,880 --> 01:06:18,000
Speaker 9: had friends marry other people? Of course, how many of

1452
01:06:18,040 --> 01:06:21,560
Speaker 9: those people have had their bachelor party and bachelorette parties

1453
01:06:21,600 --> 01:06:23,360
Speaker 9: together in one place at the same time.

1454
01:06:24,480 --> 01:06:28,440
Speaker 4: Never that just goes exactly, yeah.

1455
01:06:29,560 --> 01:06:34,640
Speaker 9: Exactly exactly. They did this, So you can imagine how

1456
01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:37,000
Speaker 9: bad this was going to get what you do.

1457
01:06:38,480 --> 01:06:40,320
Speaker 4: There's no strip club, but you guys go to strip club.

1458
01:06:40,320 --> 01:06:40,840
Speaker 4: What happened?

1459
01:06:42,320 --> 01:06:45,320
Speaker 9: No, they She didn't allow that, absolutely not, was not

1460
01:06:45,360 --> 01:06:47,600
Speaker 9: going to allow him to do anything without him her

1461
01:06:47,680 --> 01:06:50,720
Speaker 9: being him being very close to her the entire time,

1462
01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:55,080
Speaker 9: and him doing literally everything that she asked the entire time.

1463
01:06:55,160 --> 01:06:58,120
Speaker 9: And still she has a problem with it, Like one

1464
01:06:58,160 --> 01:07:01,040
Speaker 9: of the guys ended up drinking a little too much

1465
01:07:01,520 --> 01:07:03,480
Speaker 9: and got himself into a little bit of trouble that

1466
01:07:03,520 --> 01:07:05,800
Speaker 9: he was fine with in the end, but she decided

1467
01:07:05,800 --> 01:07:07,880
Speaker 9: to dress him down in front of all of her

1468
01:07:07,880 --> 01:07:10,920
Speaker 9: friends and family, and mostly her entire bridal party is

1469
01:07:11,000 --> 01:07:14,760
Speaker 9: her brother, her brothers, and sisters, so even the family

1470
01:07:14,840 --> 01:07:16,840
Speaker 9: knows she's a little nuts. And by a little, I

1471
01:07:16,880 --> 01:07:17,960
Speaker 9: mean a lot.

1472
01:07:18,240 --> 01:07:21,919
Speaker 4: So wow, Yeah, can I tell you a story?

1473
01:07:22,040 --> 01:07:25,520
Speaker 9: Dressing him down, saying, oh, you don't make this much money.

1474
01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:27,840
Speaker 9: I pay for everything, which isn't true at all.

1475
01:07:28,160 --> 01:07:28,800
Speaker 5: She's just dressed.

1476
01:07:31,760 --> 01:07:32,800
Speaker 4: Can I tell you a story?

1477
01:07:34,160 --> 01:07:34,440
Speaker 6: Sure?

1478
01:07:34,560 --> 01:07:36,600
Speaker 4: Sure, Okay.

1479
01:07:36,640 --> 01:07:39,600
Speaker 2: So years ago I went I used to open up

1480
01:07:39,600 --> 01:07:42,480
Speaker 2: for Polly Shore. Do you know who that is?

1481
01:07:44,720 --> 01:07:46,520
Speaker 9: Uh No, I'm not familiar.

1482
01:07:47,080 --> 01:07:49,720
Speaker 2: Okay, he used to be a nineties comedian. He had

1483
01:07:49,840 --> 01:07:52,680
Speaker 2: a bunch of movies. Anyway, I used to open from

1484
01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:57,960
Speaker 2: and one time I opened from in not Louisville, Kentucky, Shreveport, Louisiana.

1485
01:07:58,160 --> 01:07:58,520
Speaker 4: Okay.

1486
01:07:59,640 --> 01:08:01,920
Speaker 2: And each tells me I met this girl I like,

1487
01:08:02,880 --> 01:08:05,120
Speaker 2: and I go, okay, whatever, I mean. I'm an opener,

1488
01:08:05,160 --> 01:08:06,000
Speaker 2: so what do I give a fuck?

1489
01:08:06,120 --> 01:08:06,240
Speaker 4: Right?

1490
01:08:07,080 --> 01:08:10,320
Speaker 2: And so he was on stage and when I went

1491
01:08:10,360 --> 01:08:12,640
Speaker 2: to the green room, and I caught her stealing money

1492
01:08:12,960 --> 01:08:16,920
Speaker 2: from my wallet. She had my wallet in her hand

1493
01:08:16,960 --> 01:08:18,719
Speaker 2: and she's taking money out of my wallet.

1494
01:08:18,880 --> 01:08:19,080
Speaker 4: Right.

1495
01:08:20,000 --> 01:08:23,080
Speaker 2: So when Paulie got off the stage, When Paulie got

1496
01:08:23,080 --> 01:08:24,559
Speaker 2: off the stage, I ran up to him.

1497
01:08:24,560 --> 01:08:27,920
Speaker 4: I go, I go, you're that girl.

1498
01:08:28,720 --> 01:08:32,320
Speaker 2: I caught her stealing money, and he goes, I don't care, did,

1499
01:08:32,400 --> 01:08:33,160
Speaker 2: She's my girl?

1500
01:08:34,280 --> 01:08:38,559
Speaker 4: Right? Yeah, So for the whole weekend, for the whole weekend,

1501
01:08:38,680 --> 01:08:43,599
Speaker 4: I had to hang out with her, right, and I

1502
01:08:43,640 --> 01:08:45,960
Speaker 4: had to love her because he loves her.

1503
01:08:50,600 --> 01:08:53,920
Speaker 5: Geez oh man, that fuck.

1504
01:08:54,080 --> 01:08:54,240
Speaker 9: Yeah.

1505
01:08:54,280 --> 01:08:57,439
Speaker 2: Whatever my opinion is, whatever my opinion, and it doesn't

1506
01:08:57,479 --> 01:09:00,559
Speaker 2: really matter because as long as you're friend is in

1507
01:09:00,560 --> 01:09:03,320
Speaker 2: love with her and likes her and he doesn't have

1508
01:09:03,360 --> 01:09:06,280
Speaker 2: a problem, you're just gonna have to support that, bud.

1509
01:09:06,680 --> 01:09:06,920
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1510
01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:08,840
Speaker 6: Man, that's what I've.

1511
01:09:08,680 --> 01:09:10,679
Speaker 9: Been trying to do, is in this entire time. But man,

1512
01:09:10,720 --> 01:09:13,840
Speaker 9: it takes literally everything in me not to like speak

1513
01:09:13,880 --> 01:09:15,679
Speaker 9: my mind in front of like all these other people.

1514
01:09:17,680 --> 01:09:20,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not good to start rumors and all that.

1515
01:09:20,160 --> 01:09:22,519
Speaker 9: So it's just like, no, you know, and I'm not

1516
01:09:22,600 --> 01:09:24,760
Speaker 9: I'm not about to start rumors or anything like that.

1517
01:09:24,840 --> 01:09:26,479
Speaker 9: It's just I just need a safe place to just

1518
01:09:26,560 --> 01:09:29,559
Speaker 9: let this off my chest before this like whole thing happens,

1519
01:09:29,640 --> 01:09:29,840
Speaker 9: you know.

1520
01:09:30,840 --> 01:09:33,240
Speaker 2: And also if it bothers you and that much and

1521
01:09:33,360 --> 01:09:35,320
Speaker 2: affects you, you might have to tell your buddies like,

1522
01:09:35,400 --> 01:09:37,680
Speaker 2: I love you and I'm so happy for you, but

1523
01:09:38,160 --> 01:09:40,360
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to distance myself a little bit because

1524
01:09:40,360 --> 01:09:42,160
Speaker 2: it's like it's ruining me, you know what I mean,

1525
01:09:42,200 --> 01:09:45,000
Speaker 2: It's like and there's I can't I have to figure

1526
01:09:45,040 --> 01:09:47,120
Speaker 2: it out any some time or whatever. It might be

1527
01:09:47,680 --> 01:09:49,880
Speaker 2: you but you might have to separate yourself from the

1528
01:09:49,880 --> 01:09:50,679
Speaker 2: situation too.

1529
01:09:50,720 --> 01:09:51,120
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1530
01:09:51,920 --> 01:09:55,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like, uh again, this is like doing

1531
01:09:56,560 --> 01:09:57,479
Speaker 3: uh what is it?

1532
01:09:57,600 --> 01:09:58,080
Speaker 4: Uh?

1533
01:09:58,439 --> 01:10:01,120
Speaker 3: Only focusing on things that you can control. And you

1534
01:10:01,200 --> 01:10:05,439
Speaker 3: totally cannot control whether or not your friend is in

1535
01:10:05,479 --> 01:10:08,120
Speaker 3: love with someone or married to someone. But you can

1536
01:10:08,240 --> 01:10:11,920
Speaker 3: control you know, your your emotions about it and whether

1537
01:10:12,040 --> 01:10:14,600
Speaker 3: or not and how much if you decide to you

1538
01:10:14,680 --> 01:10:17,840
Speaker 3: express those emotions. And at a certain point it does

1539
01:10:17,880 --> 01:10:22,000
Speaker 3: become futile to just get so worked up about this,

1540
01:10:22,520 --> 01:10:24,360
Speaker 3: And if you're going to decide to do something about

1541
01:10:24,360 --> 01:10:27,479
Speaker 3: your worked upness, it's like doing what Bobby said and

1542
01:10:27,520 --> 01:10:29,439
Speaker 3: just being like, man, I listen, I I this is

1543
01:10:29,439 --> 01:10:32,200
Speaker 3: getting me fucking furious, and I hate feeling like this

1544
01:10:32,400 --> 01:10:35,280
Speaker 3: and I just need to distance myself. That's an option.

1545
01:10:35,439 --> 01:10:37,920
Speaker 3: But like, do you know, like do something, you know,

1546
01:10:38,040 --> 01:10:42,400
Speaker 3: don't just like sit and seethe unproductively.

1547
01:10:41,600 --> 01:10:45,720
Speaker 9: Like, yeah, get up and leave the wedding for you

1548
01:10:46,080 --> 01:10:46,799
Speaker 9: and other people.

1549
01:10:49,000 --> 01:10:52,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah you feel better?

1550
01:10:54,160 --> 01:10:54,800
Speaker 9: Yeah, I do.

1551
01:10:55,000 --> 01:10:55,320
Speaker 4: I do.

1552
01:10:55,960 --> 01:10:56,880
Speaker 5: Seriously, Thanks guys.

1553
01:10:56,920 --> 01:11:02,519
Speaker 9: I appreciates before all this all this goes down on Saturday.

1554
01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:04,519
Speaker 3: Hey, thanks for calling age.

1555
01:11:04,520 --> 01:11:07,559
Speaker 5: I Hey, thank you guys.

1556
01:11:07,680 --> 01:11:10,519
Speaker 9: I appreciate that I have a great guest interest.

1557
01:11:10,640 --> 01:11:11,599
Speaker 4: That's an interesting one.

1558
01:11:11,720 --> 01:11:12,479
Speaker 3: That was interesting.

1559
01:11:12,520 --> 01:11:14,040
Speaker 4: Do you have any friends that you don't like their

1560
01:11:14,120 --> 01:11:16,240
Speaker 4: spouse or their their girlfriends.

1561
01:11:16,240 --> 01:11:18,639
Speaker 3: In the past. Yeah, I've had friends who have had

1562
01:11:18,640 --> 01:11:22,000
Speaker 3: a girlfriend who I've seen like yell at them or

1563
01:11:22,040 --> 01:11:23,320
Speaker 3: something like that, and I'm.

1564
01:11:23,160 --> 01:11:26,120
Speaker 4: Like, ah, this is a little yeah.

1565
01:11:26,120 --> 01:11:28,960
Speaker 3: But I never I don't like voic it's not I've

1566
01:11:29,000 --> 01:11:31,400
Speaker 3: never I've never like said anything to them because this

1567
01:11:31,520 --> 01:11:33,880
Speaker 3: is it's never I feel like my place to do

1568
01:11:33,920 --> 01:11:37,519
Speaker 3: anything like that. Yeah, unless if I thought, like with

1569
01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:39,960
Speaker 3: the wallet thing, with the story you told, what would

1570
01:11:40,040 --> 01:11:41,760
Speaker 3: have done? I would have told Yeah, because that's like

1571
01:11:42,320 --> 01:11:44,320
Speaker 3: because there's there's I think there's certain situations where you

1572
01:11:44,360 --> 01:11:45,960
Speaker 3: look at it and you're like, that was a little

1573
01:11:45,960 --> 01:11:47,880
Speaker 3: bit weird, but it's not my place. But someone's like

1574
01:11:48,240 --> 01:11:49,840
Speaker 3: if I saw, like if I had a friend who

1575
01:11:49,840 --> 01:11:52,519
Speaker 3: had a girlfriend, I saw their girlfriend stealing from him, yeah,

1576
01:11:52,520 --> 01:11:55,920
Speaker 3: I would tell him. Or if she like was like

1577
01:11:55,160 --> 01:11:57,759
Speaker 3: but she hit him or something like that.

1578
01:11:57,439 --> 01:11:59,880
Speaker 4: That you do though, if your friend was like, I

1579
01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:00,800
Speaker 4: don't care about he.

1580
01:12:01,360 --> 01:12:03,719
Speaker 3: Oh, then I would have if he if I if

1581
01:12:03,920 --> 01:12:05,760
Speaker 3: if he was like, yeah, I know she's stilling with me. Yeah,

1582
01:12:05,760 --> 01:12:07,720
Speaker 3: I know she does this. And she said he said

1583
01:12:07,760 --> 01:12:11,280
Speaker 3: he didn't care a dude, what what the fuck can

1584
01:12:11,320 --> 01:12:11,559
Speaker 3: you do?

1585
01:12:11,720 --> 01:12:11,960
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1586
01:12:12,000 --> 01:12:13,000
Speaker 3: What the fuck can you do?

1587
01:12:13,439 --> 01:12:16,640
Speaker 2: What sucks about this that story is that she was beautiful.

1588
01:12:17,760 --> 01:12:21,120
Speaker 2: She was beautiful, right, and so because she was beautiful,

1589
01:12:21,200 --> 01:12:24,799
Speaker 2: he was he's allowing her to be a terrible person,

1590
01:12:24,880 --> 01:12:27,479
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. And it's just like we

1591
01:12:27,520 --> 01:12:29,320
Speaker 2: got to get out of that as a society.

1592
01:12:29,479 --> 01:12:31,240
Speaker 3: Well that I mean, that's I mean, look, you know

1593
01:12:31,280 --> 01:12:34,439
Speaker 3: that's this, that's this This guy. When the guy is

1594
01:12:34,479 --> 01:12:36,800
Speaker 3: sitting there doing everything his girlfriend is telling him to

1595
01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:39,800
Speaker 3: do at the joint bachelor bachelorette party, he's look, he's

1596
01:12:39,840 --> 01:12:42,439
Speaker 3: sitting in a life that he has chosen, that he,

1597
01:12:42,920 --> 01:12:46,960
Speaker 3: as an independent human being, has the complete freedom to

1598
01:12:46,960 --> 01:12:50,040
Speaker 3: put himself in that situation. Who is his friend or

1599
01:12:50,080 --> 01:12:52,840
Speaker 3: any of us to argue that he shouldn't do that.

1600
01:12:52,880 --> 01:12:54,200
Speaker 3: I mean, he can think, I can do whatever the

1601
01:12:54,240 --> 01:12:58,080
Speaker 3: hell he wants. It's sweet that his friend loves him

1602
01:12:58,120 --> 01:13:00,559
Speaker 3: so much that he cares about his wealth being. But

1603
01:13:01,080 --> 01:13:03,160
Speaker 3: at the end of the day, you know, you got

1604
01:13:03,320 --> 01:13:05,880
Speaker 3: you can't control what other people fucking do. You know?

1605
01:13:06,680 --> 01:13:09,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, man, I'm just because I'm just going through a

1606
01:13:09,680 --> 01:13:13,599
Speaker 2: thing right now where I know female girls that really

1607
01:13:13,640 --> 01:13:17,360
Speaker 2: have no talent, really, but they're making ten times the

1608
01:13:17,360 --> 01:13:19,559
Speaker 2: amount of money I am because they're on only fans.

1609
01:13:20,600 --> 01:13:22,080
Speaker 4: That's How does that bother you or not?

1610
01:13:22,280 --> 01:13:22,479
Speaker 11: No?

1611
01:13:22,560 --> 01:13:22,680
Speaker 3: Not?

1612
01:13:22,800 --> 01:13:26,880
Speaker 4: Ang? Okay, no me either. I guess well like the.

1613
01:13:28,400 --> 01:13:31,760
Speaker 3: No no at a if look, if you're attractive and

1614
01:13:31,760 --> 01:13:34,080
Speaker 3: people want to pay to see photos of you, then

1615
01:13:34,120 --> 01:13:38,559
Speaker 3: fuck that. Do whatever fucking do it? Why not?

1616
01:13:38,680 --> 01:13:41,960
Speaker 4: You know? I think you're right? Yeah? Why I don't

1617
01:13:41,960 --> 01:13:42,599
Speaker 4: know why it bothers?

1618
01:13:42,920 --> 01:13:47,360
Speaker 3: Why? Why? Why do you think about this? You? You

1619
01:13:47,400 --> 01:13:48,960
Speaker 3: know what this is? Here's something I've heard a lot.

1620
01:13:49,040 --> 01:13:51,760
Speaker 3: I'll just to say, like I've heard guys say like, oh,

1621
01:13:51,800 --> 01:13:53,800
Speaker 3: I wish I could do that. You can do that

1622
01:13:53,840 --> 01:13:55,840
Speaker 3: if you do if like, if you're a guy and

1623
01:13:55,880 --> 01:13:56,880
Speaker 3: you see you couldn't do that.

1624
01:13:57,320 --> 01:13:58,880
Speaker 4: No, if you're you couldn't do that.

1625
01:13:59,080 --> 01:14:01,599
Speaker 3: Hold on, hold on. If you're a guy and you're

1626
01:14:01,640 --> 01:14:03,559
Speaker 3: seeing girls make money only fans and you're like, oh,

1627
01:14:03,560 --> 01:14:05,599
Speaker 3: wish I could take off my clothes and charge, you

1628
01:14:05,640 --> 01:14:06,880
Speaker 3: can do you can do that?

1629
01:14:07,600 --> 01:14:10,640
Speaker 4: Nothing. Yeah, yes, you can't do it because no one

1630
01:14:10,760 --> 01:14:11,400
Speaker 4: will watch it.

1631
01:14:11,680 --> 01:14:13,200
Speaker 3: Somebody there is somebody.

1632
01:14:13,320 --> 01:14:15,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you're not gonna but you're not gonna make

1633
01:14:15,120 --> 01:14:18,639
Speaker 2: as much money as some really hot chick like five

1634
01:14:18,640 --> 01:14:19,280
Speaker 2: bucks a month.

1635
01:14:20,800 --> 01:14:22,880
Speaker 3: But I but, but but I could do it. I

1636
01:14:22,880 --> 01:14:23,320
Speaker 3: could try.

1637
01:14:23,360 --> 01:14:26,360
Speaker 2: I could feel on beauty in this country and sexuality

1638
01:14:26,400 --> 01:14:27,120
Speaker 2: and all that stuff.

1639
01:14:27,120 --> 01:14:28,320
Speaker 4: It's just like, you know what I mean.

1640
01:14:29,840 --> 01:14:30,400
Speaker 3: I just don't.

1641
01:14:30,439 --> 01:14:35,000
Speaker 4: I don't like I worked so hard to get here.

1642
01:14:36,479 --> 01:14:39,599
Speaker 2: But it's I worked so hard to get I went

1643
01:14:39,600 --> 01:14:43,559
Speaker 2: through years of open mic and crawling my way up,

1644
01:14:43,720 --> 01:14:45,639
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, and going through so much

1645
01:14:45,760 --> 01:14:50,080
Speaker 2: fear and rejection and devastation, and then it's like, you know,

1646
01:14:50,120 --> 01:14:51,920
Speaker 2: you get to a point where I, oh, I'm finally

1647
01:14:52,000 --> 01:14:55,280
Speaker 2: after thirty years, You're like, oh, I'm fucking starting to

1648
01:14:55,280 --> 01:14:58,120
Speaker 2: make some money, right, and then you see some girl

1649
01:14:58,200 --> 01:15:02,520
Speaker 2: that like, you know what I mean shows Okay, okay.

1650
01:15:01,800 --> 01:15:04,240
Speaker 3: Sure, but but but I feel like, and you know,

1651
01:15:04,280 --> 01:15:06,120
Speaker 3: this is something I'm learning just in general with like

1652
01:15:06,200 --> 01:15:12,559
Speaker 3: jealousy and ship is like to I think jealous, I'm

1653
01:15:12,600 --> 01:15:14,800
Speaker 3: not jealous. You're not jealous. You're not jealous of people

1654
01:15:14,800 --> 01:15:16,680
Speaker 3: who make more money on you by going on, why

1655
01:15:16,680 --> 01:15:17,280
Speaker 3: are you angry?

1656
01:15:17,439 --> 01:15:18,519
Speaker 4: I'm kidding, I'm fine.

1657
01:15:18,560 --> 01:15:20,559
Speaker 3: Well, okay, so so this is something I'm trying to

1658
01:15:20,640 --> 01:15:25,400
Speaker 3: with my own, Like jealousy and for me is a

1659
01:15:25,479 --> 01:15:31,120
Speaker 3: total undeniable product of ungratefulness to me, to me, to me,

1660
01:15:31,320 --> 01:15:33,280
Speaker 3: like when I see a guy out there who, like,

1661
01:15:33,360 --> 01:15:35,720
Speaker 3: you know, it's I see somebody who has a podcast

1662
01:15:36,000 --> 01:15:38,080
Speaker 3: and they seem like they're getting more downloads than me.

1663
01:15:38,200 --> 01:15:41,120
Speaker 3: This person's making more money than me, this person's going

1664
01:15:41,160 --> 01:15:44,040
Speaker 3: on cooler adventures than me. It's like it's a it's

1665
01:15:44,080 --> 01:15:48,040
Speaker 3: a total disdain and disregard for like any cool things

1666
01:15:48,080 --> 01:15:49,800
Speaker 3: that I have gotten to do in my life.

1667
01:15:49,840 --> 01:15:51,840
Speaker 2: And I'm like, why the fun It doesn't bother me

1668
01:15:51,880 --> 01:15:54,400
Speaker 2: because it's they still have a skill set.

1669
01:15:54,600 --> 01:15:55,040
Speaker 4: Why does it?

1670
01:15:55,479 --> 01:15:58,360
Speaker 3: Why does it? Why does anything about them matter.

1671
01:15:58,840 --> 01:16:01,479
Speaker 4: That's true. What does any I learned so much from me?

1672
01:16:01,520 --> 01:16:06,720
Speaker 4: Thank you? Next caller, I should have said what I

1673
01:16:06,760 --> 01:16:07,120
Speaker 4: just said.

1674
01:16:07,160 --> 01:16:12,120
Speaker 3: No, it's okay, man, Let's talk to.

1675
01:16:14,760 --> 01:16:16,640
Speaker 4: Some single not is there any single women? Can you

1676
01:16:16,680 --> 01:16:17,040
Speaker 4: do that?

1677
01:16:17,880 --> 01:16:20,240
Speaker 3: Does anyone want to call in to date Bobby?

1678
01:16:20,360 --> 01:16:20,760
Speaker 4: Not date?

1679
01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:22,519
Speaker 3: Does anyone want to.

1680
01:16:22,640 --> 01:16:24,639
Speaker 4: What I need to change about myself? Maybe to tell

1681
01:16:24,680 --> 01:16:25,479
Speaker 4: Bobby what he needs?

1682
01:16:26,200 --> 01:16:27,000
Speaker 3: Why do you need to change?

1683
01:16:27,000 --> 01:16:29,479
Speaker 2: Why are you changing you into the cologne or like

1684
01:16:29,520 --> 01:16:31,400
Speaker 2: you may maybe the shoes I'm wearing or whatever.

1685
01:16:31,280 --> 01:16:32,479
Speaker 3: You think it's the shoes or the clones.

1686
01:16:32,520 --> 01:16:33,320
Speaker 4: It might be. I don't know.

1687
01:16:33,720 --> 01:16:36,639
Speaker 3: People have liked you in the past for who you are.

1688
01:16:36,720 --> 01:16:38,760
Speaker 4: Correct, that's true. People in the future will like you

1689
01:16:38,800 --> 01:16:39,080
Speaker 4: for here.

1690
01:16:39,160 --> 01:16:40,960
Speaker 3: Do you believe in that?

1691
01:16:42,720 --> 01:16:42,920
Speaker 6: Well?

1692
01:16:43,080 --> 01:16:52,360
Speaker 4: I have to say this. It's harder. It's harder. It's

1693
01:16:52,360 --> 01:16:53,679
Speaker 4: harder for me than the next guy.

1694
01:16:54,680 --> 01:16:57,280
Speaker 3: Why, okay? Thinking about the would you?

1695
01:16:57,640 --> 01:16:58,320
Speaker 4: But okay?

1696
01:16:58,360 --> 01:17:00,240
Speaker 3: So? Can I just want like I to be?

1697
01:17:00,439 --> 01:17:01,720
Speaker 4: Why are you getting so confrontational?

1698
01:17:01,760 --> 01:17:04,200
Speaker 3: I'm not confrontational. I'm we're an aggressive Get go? You

1699
01:17:04,240 --> 01:17:05,040
Speaker 3: think I'm an aggressive?

1700
01:17:05,120 --> 01:17:06,040
Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, Well I.

1701
01:17:07,560 --> 01:17:10,720
Speaker 3: Feel like because I used to be very I used

1702
01:17:10,760 --> 01:17:13,559
Speaker 3: to be very self conscious by being short. You know,

1703
01:17:13,800 --> 01:17:15,280
Speaker 3: I like it. I used to be very self conscious

1704
01:17:15,280 --> 01:17:17,240
Speaker 3: of making sure and I'm not self conscious there because

1705
01:17:17,240 --> 01:17:19,000
Speaker 3: I I was. These are these are the hands that

1706
01:17:19,000 --> 01:17:21,920
Speaker 3: I've been to. I'm a short, fat, hairy.

1707
01:17:21,840 --> 01:17:23,760
Speaker 4: Understand this is what this is what I got.

1708
01:17:23,760 --> 01:17:25,120
Speaker 3: What can I do with what I got?

1709
01:17:25,160 --> 01:17:25,320
Speaker 7: You know?

1710
01:17:25,360 --> 01:17:25,880
Speaker 4: But guess what?

1711
01:17:26,160 --> 01:17:26,479
Speaker 3: Tell me?

1712
01:17:27,520 --> 01:17:28,640
Speaker 4: It's still harder for you.

1713
01:17:29,680 --> 01:17:31,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, but there's other people who it's way.

1714
01:17:31,400 --> 01:17:32,280
Speaker 4: Harder for.

1715
01:17:34,080 --> 01:17:34,360
Speaker 11: Hello.

1716
01:17:36,040 --> 01:17:39,120
Speaker 4: Hello, that nice voice?

1717
01:17:40,840 --> 01:17:44,880
Speaker 5: Oh my god, No fucking way, what's going on? I mean,

1718
01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:50,439
Speaker 5: I'm nothing. This is just this struck me. I've been

1719
01:17:50,439 --> 01:17:53,400
Speaker 5: a big fan of you, Bobby for like super long time,

1720
01:17:53,560 --> 01:17:56,400
Speaker 5: lyle love you to death. Watching your streams get me

1721
01:17:56,400 --> 01:17:57,400
Speaker 5: through stuff all the time.

1722
01:17:57,800 --> 01:17:58,519
Speaker 4: Would you like more?

1723
01:17:58,760 --> 01:17:58,920
Speaker 13: Man?

1724
01:18:00,280 --> 01:18:00,960
Speaker 3: You can be honest with.

1725
01:18:04,600 --> 01:18:07,080
Speaker 5: And you know it. Really that sucks you guys put

1726
01:18:07,080 --> 01:18:16,840
Speaker 5: me in this position, you know, but that's life. Uh okay, Bobby,

1727
01:18:17,080 --> 01:18:20,000
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, Like I gotta go with Bobby, you know

1728
01:18:20,000 --> 01:18:20,400
Speaker 5: what I mean?

1729
01:18:21,000 --> 01:18:23,960
Speaker 4: Of course, Bobby, Bobby, don't please?

1730
01:18:24,320 --> 01:18:24,680
Speaker 3: All right?

1731
01:18:24,760 --> 01:18:26,840
Speaker 4: I shouldn't asked, won't You're great? Man?

1732
01:18:26,920 --> 01:18:29,400
Speaker 3: Well, I I appreciate that, but of course you have.

1733
01:18:29,560 --> 01:18:32,880
Speaker 3: I've been around long you've been around is longer? Yes,

1734
01:18:32,920 --> 01:18:37,679
Speaker 3: you've been off lyle.

1735
01:18:37,760 --> 01:18:41,280
Speaker 5: If you were on Mad TV in the early two thousands,

1736
01:18:41,360 --> 01:18:42,640
Speaker 5: I think you couldn't have done it.

1737
01:18:43,160 --> 01:18:44,920
Speaker 3: But you know I couldn't have done it. I didn't.

1738
01:18:44,960 --> 01:18:46,679
Speaker 3: I don't have the thing you have, the thing.

1739
01:18:46,760 --> 01:18:49,479
Speaker 4: You have the thing? You were just a baby. They

1740
01:18:49,520 --> 01:18:50,479
Speaker 4: didn't put babies on that.

1741
01:18:50,479 --> 01:18:54,439
Speaker 3: When when did Mad TV come out in the late nineties? Okay,

1742
01:18:54,479 --> 01:18:56,639
Speaker 3: I was a baby. Yeah, I was a tiny little baby.

1743
01:18:57,000 --> 01:19:01,760
Speaker 2: So what's your name again? Many David? What's do you

1744
01:19:01,760 --> 01:19:02,680
Speaker 2: have a question for us?

1745
01:19:04,479 --> 01:19:04,759
Speaker 13: Uh?

1746
01:19:04,880 --> 01:19:08,200
Speaker 5: Yeah? So well, me and my buddy just moved from

1747
01:19:08,240 --> 01:19:11,400
Speaker 5: like this tiny, little small with midwestern town in northern

1748
01:19:11,400 --> 01:19:16,320
Speaker 5: Michigan to uh to Austin, Texas, just kind of uprooted

1749
01:19:16,320 --> 01:19:21,080
Speaker 5: our whole lives there. Love it, yep, and uh. I

1750
01:19:21,120 --> 01:19:24,240
Speaker 5: guess my my question for you guys is, like, for

1751
01:19:24,360 --> 01:19:26,760
Speaker 5: two guys coming into a city like that, you know,

1752
01:19:27,040 --> 01:19:30,439
Speaker 5: what would your what would your advice be for like

1753
01:19:30,479 --> 01:19:32,559
Speaker 5: getting out there and getting like into the flow of

1754
01:19:32,600 --> 01:19:33,200
Speaker 5: a big city.

1755
01:19:35,120 --> 01:19:38,200
Speaker 3: When's the last time you moved from one city to another? Bobby?

1756
01:19:38,280 --> 01:19:38,880
Speaker 4: Never have you?

1757
01:19:38,960 --> 01:19:39,280
Speaker 3: Never have?

1758
01:19:39,560 --> 01:19:39,720
Speaker 4: Well?

1759
01:19:39,800 --> 01:19:42,320
Speaker 2: I moved from San Diego to La but only because

1760
01:19:42,360 --> 01:19:45,400
Speaker 2: of the fact that because I was following that's my

1761
01:19:45,520 --> 01:19:46,599
Speaker 2: show business dream.

1762
01:19:46,720 --> 01:19:47,040
Speaker 3: Sure.

1763
01:19:47,120 --> 01:19:47,519
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1764
01:19:47,520 --> 01:19:50,640
Speaker 2: But like first of all, are you are you a

1765
01:19:50,680 --> 01:19:53,280
Speaker 2: part of any club or group or activity.

1766
01:19:55,000 --> 01:19:57,519
Speaker 5: No, No, we're well I mean like we have our

1767
01:19:57,560 --> 01:19:59,200
Speaker 5: own like hobbies and stuff like that.

1768
01:19:59,280 --> 01:20:00,840
Speaker 4: By the way, to be a give you a hobby,

1769
01:20:00,880 --> 01:20:02,439
Speaker 4: Give me a hobby, Give you.

1770
01:20:02,439 --> 01:20:04,759
Speaker 5: A hobby, Give you a hobby. Okay, So a hobby

1771
01:20:04,760 --> 01:20:09,960
Speaker 5: that I have that I really enjoy is probably like, uh, ship,

1772
01:20:10,400 --> 01:20:12,120
Speaker 5: we played a lot of video games, but you can

1773
01:20:12,320 --> 01:20:16,120
Speaker 5: video games okay. Yeah. Yeah, so I'd say like I'd say,

1774
01:20:16,120 --> 01:20:20,120
Speaker 5: like like listen, finding new music. Probably like I enjoy

1775
01:20:20,160 --> 01:20:21,800
Speaker 5: going to jazz clubs and things like that.

1776
01:20:22,439 --> 01:20:29,320
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so I would go to a jazz club, right, yeah.

1777
01:20:29,360 --> 01:20:32,680
Speaker 2: And then like what I find to be good is

1778
01:20:32,720 --> 01:20:35,680
Speaker 2: to be a regular anywhere, you know what I mean.

1779
01:20:35,720 --> 01:20:39,439
Speaker 2: So like like there's a couple of a meetings where

1780
01:20:39,479 --> 01:20:41,760
Speaker 2: I'm a regular, There's a couple of comedy clubs where

1781
01:20:41,760 --> 01:20:43,640
Speaker 2: I'm a regular, you know what I mean. And when

1782
01:20:43,680 --> 01:20:45,200
Speaker 2: you're a regular in a place, you know, I mean,

1783
01:20:45,240 --> 01:20:48,200
Speaker 2: you get to know the people around you, right, so

1784
01:20:48,240 --> 01:20:54,120
Speaker 2: they'll go hey, right, you know, they'll go, hey, David's back,

1785
01:20:54,760 --> 01:20:57,080
Speaker 2: David's back. You know what I mean and then like, wait,

1786
01:20:57,800 --> 01:21:00,240
Speaker 2: maybe a waitress to go. Oh, David, so I see

1787
01:21:00,240 --> 01:21:00,960
Speaker 2: you here often?

1788
01:21:01,720 --> 01:21:01,880
Speaker 4: Right?

1789
01:21:02,000 --> 01:21:06,640
Speaker 2: You like jazz. Let's just I'm the girl. Respond no,

1790
01:21:06,840 --> 01:21:09,240
Speaker 2: just respond to me like you're David and I'm the girl. Right,

1791
01:21:09,320 --> 01:21:13,559
Speaker 2: So I'm at We're at a jazz club, right, Hey, David,

1792
01:21:13,920 --> 01:21:14,400
Speaker 2: your name.

1793
01:21:14,280 --> 01:21:16,800
Speaker 4: Is David, right? Yeah?

1794
01:21:16,880 --> 01:21:17,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, my name is David.

1795
01:21:18,200 --> 01:21:19,479
Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, you like jazz?

1796
01:21:21,400 --> 01:21:24,360
Speaker 5: Uh yeah, actually I actually love jazz. Like, what's your

1797
01:21:24,400 --> 01:21:24,960
Speaker 5: favorite artist?

1798
01:21:25,040 --> 01:21:25,200
Speaker 4: I love?

1799
01:21:25,320 --> 01:21:27,360
Speaker 5: I love Minga? So you know like these you ever?

1800
01:21:28,000 --> 01:21:29,479
Speaker 4: I mean I like Mingas too.

1801
01:21:30,960 --> 01:21:31,719
Speaker 3: This is really cute.

1802
01:21:31,720 --> 01:21:34,080
Speaker 5: You kind of look like him actually a little bit.

1803
01:21:34,520 --> 01:21:36,439
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, no, bro, David, David, I'm not a

1804
01:21:36,520 --> 01:21:39,640
Speaker 2: Korean dude. I'm a white girl in the in the

1805
01:21:39,680 --> 01:21:41,559
Speaker 2: in the scene, I'm not. I'm not Bobby Ly, a

1806
01:21:41,560 --> 01:21:42,559
Speaker 2: fat Korean guy.

1807
01:21:43,160 --> 01:21:47,800
Speaker 4: Right so oh okay yeah yeah, so just imagine I'm

1808
01:21:47,800 --> 01:21:49,960
Speaker 4: a white girl, you know what I mean? A hot girl?

1809
01:21:50,920 --> 01:21:53,200
Speaker 4: Oh so okay, okay, So I like Mingas too. I

1810
01:21:53,240 --> 01:21:54,800
Speaker 4: like Mingas too. I like Mingus too.

1811
01:21:54,840 --> 01:21:56,400
Speaker 3: Who is Mingus?

1812
01:21:58,000 --> 01:21:59,919
Speaker 5: Charles Minga's like he's a huge.

1813
01:22:00,640 --> 01:22:02,800
Speaker 3: Yeah I'm not here, I'm omnipotently watching.

1814
01:22:02,960 --> 01:22:05,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, and see what anyway, let's fuck the role play.

1815
01:22:06,000 --> 01:22:08,240
Speaker 2: So basically that will happen. You'll know you'll develop a

1816
01:22:08,280 --> 01:22:09,320
Speaker 2: relationship with this girl.

1817
01:22:10,400 --> 01:22:12,839
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, okay, okay, cool? Cool?

1818
01:22:13,080 --> 01:22:16,000
Speaker 3: Do you feel? Do you feel? Do you feel better now?

1819
01:22:16,040 --> 01:22:18,400
Speaker 3: Do you feel ready to go out? Are you go tonight?

1820
01:22:18,560 --> 01:22:20,439
Speaker 3: What time is it in Austin right now? It's like

1821
01:22:20,520 --> 01:22:24,280
Speaker 3: three or something, right like, yeah, tonight? What are you

1822
01:22:24,320 --> 01:22:24,880
Speaker 3: doing tonight?

1823
01:22:26,800 --> 01:22:29,160
Speaker 5: Nothing? I probably should. We just moved down here so

1824
01:22:29,200 --> 01:22:31,760
Speaker 5: we don't have we don't have jobs yet, so you've

1825
01:22:31,800 --> 01:22:34,320
Speaker 5: been trying to stay inside and conserve money a little bit.

1826
01:22:34,360 --> 01:22:37,960
Speaker 4: But oh so so there a how old are you, David?

1827
01:22:39,400 --> 01:22:40,040
Speaker 5: Twenty four?

1828
01:22:41,000 --> 01:22:43,400
Speaker 4: Okay, so here's a dal dude. Let me, I'm going

1829
01:22:43,479 --> 01:22:44,400
Speaker 4: to tell you to be honest.

1830
01:22:44,960 --> 01:22:50,000
Speaker 2: At twenty four, you know, right now, that's an age

1831
01:22:50,080 --> 01:22:52,320
Speaker 2: where you're trying to figure out what do I want

1832
01:22:52,360 --> 01:22:55,240
Speaker 2: to do here? You know, I want to be able

1833
01:22:55,320 --> 01:22:58,000
Speaker 2: to find a job that I love, right, and I

1834
01:22:58,040 --> 01:23:00,960
Speaker 2: want I need to get on my feet finance, right,

1835
01:23:01,640 --> 01:23:02,960
Speaker 2: you know, what are my dreams?

1836
01:23:03,000 --> 01:23:03,160
Speaker 4: All?

1837
01:23:03,160 --> 01:23:06,639
Speaker 2: That's figuring that stuff out right, you know, I mean going

1838
01:23:06,680 --> 01:23:09,280
Speaker 2: out and mingling and trying to get a This is

1839
01:23:09,320 --> 01:23:11,960
Speaker 2: just who I am at that age. At twenty, I

1840
01:23:12,000 --> 01:23:15,080
Speaker 2: was a gung ho about hitting open mics and like,

1841
01:23:15,160 --> 01:23:17,040
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, trying to get better at

1842
01:23:17,080 --> 01:23:17,799
Speaker 2: what I'm doing.

1843
01:23:17,880 --> 01:23:18,080
Speaker 4: You know.

1844
01:23:18,200 --> 01:23:21,080
Speaker 2: So it's like, I don't know, man, Like I said

1845
01:23:21,080 --> 01:23:26,360
Speaker 2: to the lady before, my thirties and forties were the

1846
01:23:26,400 --> 01:23:29,000
Speaker 2: best years of my life. I mean where I was,

1847
01:23:29,040 --> 01:23:30,960
Speaker 2: I had a little money, you know, I mean, I

1848
01:23:30,960 --> 01:23:33,240
Speaker 2: had great girlfriends, I could travel, you know, I mean

1849
01:23:33,280 --> 01:23:36,479
Speaker 2: all that's The twenties were my dark years. Those are

1850
01:23:36,479 --> 01:23:38,320
Speaker 2: the years not for you. You fuck but you don't

1851
01:23:38,360 --> 01:23:40,200
Speaker 2: think he's a chilling it. But my point is that,

1852
01:23:40,560 --> 01:23:42,040
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, maybe your forties are gonna

1853
01:23:42,040 --> 01:23:42,320
Speaker 2: be bad.

1854
01:23:42,520 --> 01:23:44,360
Speaker 3: They could be really bad, worse.

1855
01:23:44,880 --> 01:23:47,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, But my point is is that generally these are

1856
01:23:47,920 --> 01:23:49,360
Speaker 2: the years to fucking hustle.

1857
01:23:51,640 --> 01:23:52,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, one hundred.

1858
01:23:54,479 --> 01:23:55,000
Speaker 4: Do that first.

1859
01:23:55,040 --> 01:23:58,600
Speaker 5: I feel a lot better they yeah. Yeah, No, just like,

1860
01:23:58,680 --> 01:24:00,439
Speaker 5: focus on what I'm going to be. You're saying, so

1861
01:24:00,479 --> 01:24:02,479
Speaker 5: you're saying I should be a comedian. I should I

1862
01:24:02,479 --> 01:24:03,040
Speaker 5: should start?

1863
01:24:03,120 --> 01:24:05,639
Speaker 4: Uh, what is your dream?

1864
01:24:06,000 --> 01:24:06,360
Speaker 5: Maybe?

1865
01:24:06,400 --> 01:24:07,479
Speaker 4: What is your dream, David?

1866
01:24:07,600 --> 01:24:11,320
Speaker 5: Maybe like surpass you. Honestly, my dream is some some

1867
01:24:11,360 --> 01:24:13,320
Speaker 5: sort of entertainment. I just want to be in the

1868
01:24:13,439 --> 01:24:17,160
Speaker 5: entertainment scene, whether that be music, comedy, acting, anything like that.

1869
01:24:18,160 --> 01:24:20,320
Speaker 2: Here's what you do, dude, I just had a gut instinct.

1870
01:24:20,439 --> 01:24:22,879
Speaker 2: Please search out Adam Egitt.

1871
01:24:25,760 --> 01:24:26,880
Speaker 5: Adam Egitt.

1872
01:24:27,280 --> 01:24:29,439
Speaker 4: He lives in Austin, he does.

1873
01:24:29,640 --> 01:24:32,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, and so Joe Rogan flew him out from LA

1874
01:24:33,200 --> 01:24:34,719
Speaker 2: to run his comedy club.

1875
01:24:35,240 --> 01:24:35,840
Speaker 3: Oh he runs.

1876
01:24:35,880 --> 01:24:38,000
Speaker 2: So Joe Rogan has a new comedy club opening up

1877
01:24:38,120 --> 01:24:40,000
Speaker 2: I think in January.

1878
01:24:40,200 --> 01:24:42,160
Speaker 4: Right, So this is what I want you to do.

1879
01:24:43,439 --> 01:24:45,360
Speaker 2: I want you to go to the comedy club, right,

1880
01:24:45,880 --> 01:24:49,840
Speaker 2: and go to Adam he's the manager the.

1881
01:24:50,479 --> 01:24:52,800
Speaker 4: Right and go. Bobby Lee sent me. He said, you

1882
01:24:52,800 --> 01:24:56,040
Speaker 4: can get me a job. Dude.

1883
01:24:56,120 --> 01:24:57,120
Speaker 5: That's fucking awesome.

1884
01:24:57,160 --> 01:24:58,080
Speaker 6: Thank you so much.

1885
01:24:58,800 --> 01:25:01,360
Speaker 2: Right, and then you're gonna work at that new comedy club.

1886
01:25:02,120 --> 01:25:04,639
Speaker 2: And then I'll headline down and then you'll come over

1887
01:25:04,680 --> 01:25:05,680
Speaker 2: and then you'll come up to me and.

1888
01:25:05,600 --> 01:25:08,000
Speaker 4: Go, I got a job because of you. Right, and

1889
01:25:08,000 --> 01:25:10,519
Speaker 4: then I'm going to take you into a little room

1890
01:25:10,720 --> 01:25:11,559
Speaker 4: and we're gonna do some.

1891
01:25:11,520 --> 01:25:19,240
Speaker 3: Stuff, exciting, exciting things ahead for you to but.

1892
01:25:21,760 --> 01:25:23,679
Speaker 5: Yeah, cool, cool, all right.

1893
01:25:23,640 --> 01:25:26,240
Speaker 4: That's awesome, Adam has.

1894
01:25:29,720 --> 01:25:31,920
Speaker 5: I'll see you until next time.

1895
01:25:32,000 --> 01:25:32,240
Speaker 12: Thank you.

1896
01:25:32,320 --> 01:25:32,559
Speaker 8: Guys.

1897
01:25:34,240 --> 01:25:37,080
Speaker 3: You know it's funny about I don't I don't know Adam,

1898
01:25:37,360 --> 01:25:40,400
Speaker 3: but I always wonder, like, are people in real life

1899
01:25:40,880 --> 01:25:44,000
Speaker 3: mean to him? Because they've seen people be mean to

1900
01:25:44,080 --> 01:25:46,519
Speaker 3: him on the Normal Nor McDonald's show.

1901
01:25:47,160 --> 01:25:47,960
Speaker 4: Oh do you know Adam?

1902
01:25:48,120 --> 01:25:48,720
Speaker 3: I know, I don't know.

1903
01:25:49,400 --> 01:25:49,960
Speaker 4: I don't know who.

1904
01:25:50,240 --> 01:25:54,920
Speaker 2: I think people are afraid of him really, yeah, because

1905
01:25:55,000 --> 01:25:58,160
Speaker 2: he's he did Norms podcast because they were good friends.

1906
01:25:58,760 --> 01:26:02,479
Speaker 2: But Adam is a talent booker. Yeah, right, So every

1907
01:26:02,600 --> 01:26:04,640
Speaker 2: comic in Austin is gonna want to get on his

1908
01:26:04,760 --> 01:26:06,679
Speaker 2: good side. Every city has.

1909
01:26:06,640 --> 01:26:07,080
Speaker 4: One of them.

1910
01:26:07,360 --> 01:26:09,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, Like you know, in San Francisco there's

1911
01:26:09,680 --> 01:26:12,719
Speaker 2: a woman named Mollie who runs the punchline and she's

1912
01:26:13,400 --> 01:26:15,960
Speaker 2: the person that you got to just get passed to

1913
01:26:16,040 --> 01:26:19,040
Speaker 2: become a comic. So Adam is gonna be that in Austin.

1914
01:26:19,160 --> 01:26:21,200
Speaker 2: So he's not gonna he might. He's gonna have hater

1915
01:26:21,280 --> 01:26:21,880
Speaker 2: as a for sure.

1916
01:26:22,240 --> 01:26:24,519
Speaker 3: Not even hater's just people who are like I mean,

1917
01:26:24,560 --> 01:26:27,160
Speaker 3: the vibe of Norm McDonald live is just like relentless

1918
01:26:27,520 --> 01:26:30,839
Speaker 3: shitting on him. And I've people I have bad blurring

1919
01:26:30,880 --> 01:26:34,439
Speaker 3: the lines between like on screen person or whatever. I get.

1920
01:26:34,479 --> 01:26:35,920
Speaker 3: I feel like it would be more fans. I guess

1921
01:26:35,960 --> 01:26:38,519
Speaker 3: it would just be like hey, fucking yeah. But he's

1922
01:26:38,560 --> 01:26:40,960
Speaker 3: also but you have to understand that, you know, in

1923
01:26:41,080 --> 01:26:45,240
Speaker 3: the comedy world. Yeah, he's got power, Yeah, definitely, you know.

1924
01:26:45,280 --> 01:26:48,519
Speaker 2: I mean so he's got big allies too, like Rogan

1925
01:26:48,560 --> 01:26:53,120
Speaker 2: On these guys and they were I love him like

1926
01:26:53,240 --> 01:26:54,720
Speaker 2: I would lay my life down for him.

1927
01:26:54,840 --> 01:26:56,679
Speaker 3: Can I ask you, do you are you enjoying doing

1928
01:26:56,840 --> 01:27:01,240
Speaker 3: stand up comedy in this current phase of your life

1929
01:27:01,439 --> 01:27:04,200
Speaker 3: more than before? Are you enjoying?

1930
01:27:04,360 --> 01:27:05,680
Speaker 4: Is it like because I never enjoyed it?

1931
01:27:05,760 --> 01:27:06,720
Speaker 3: You never enjoyed it? Really?

1932
01:27:07,439 --> 01:27:07,960
Speaker 4: I just do it?

1933
01:27:08,320 --> 01:27:08,559
Speaker 3: Really?

1934
01:27:08,760 --> 01:27:08,960
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1935
01:27:09,040 --> 01:27:09,679
Speaker 3: Have you been serious?

1936
01:27:10,560 --> 01:27:10,640
Speaker 1: Well?

1937
01:27:10,880 --> 01:27:16,200
Speaker 2: A joy is that it's not like you know, I'd

1938
01:27:16,320 --> 01:27:19,400
Speaker 2: rather fuck, would rather fuck? Yeah, I mean that's joy.

1939
01:27:19,680 --> 01:27:21,280
Speaker 3: So like you're telling me that if you had the

1940
01:27:21,360 --> 01:27:26,120
Speaker 3: option to do absolutely nothing but sit around and fuck

1941
01:27:26,520 --> 01:27:27,800
Speaker 3: all day and that.

1942
01:27:27,960 --> 01:27:29,640
Speaker 2: Was your life, I think I would get tired of it.

1943
01:27:29,680 --> 01:27:31,280
Speaker 2: But I think right now I would say yeah, but

1944
01:27:32,160 --> 01:27:34,240
Speaker 2: because I think I do stand up to Fox, you do.

1945
01:27:34,320 --> 01:27:34,880
Speaker 3: Stand up too Fu?

1946
01:27:35,000 --> 01:27:36,479
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, so I have to do it to Fu.

1947
01:27:37,400 --> 01:27:39,920
Speaker 3: Has that been true for your entire career?

1948
01:27:40,560 --> 01:27:40,800
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1949
01:27:41,320 --> 01:27:43,200
Speaker 3: Really? Yeah?

1950
01:27:43,760 --> 01:27:46,120
Speaker 4: Hmm, I couldn't get anything before.

1951
01:27:46,280 --> 01:27:47,400
Speaker 3: Why do you do podcasts?

1952
01:27:47,880 --> 01:27:49,200
Speaker 4: The fuck you?

1953
01:27:49,439 --> 01:27:52,200
Speaker 3: How how long? How how long? How long were you

1954
01:27:52,280 --> 01:27:54,800
Speaker 3: with your girlfriend for ten years? Ten years? So why

1955
01:27:54,840 --> 01:27:56,000
Speaker 3: were you doing stand up in that time if you

1956
01:27:56,040 --> 01:27:56,599
Speaker 3: had a girlfriend.

1957
01:27:57,320 --> 01:28:01,200
Speaker 4: That's true, You're smart, you know. I love it. You're right.

1958
01:28:01,360 --> 01:28:04,360
Speaker 2: Here's why I love it though. Yeah, I don't necessarily

1959
01:28:04,439 --> 01:28:07,160
Speaker 2: like going on the road, right. I like going to

1960
01:28:07,240 --> 01:28:08,719
Speaker 2: the clubs, like I have a show. I think tonight

1961
01:28:08,800 --> 01:28:11,640
Speaker 2: at the store, I do the Comedy Store. And I

1962
01:28:11,680 --> 01:28:13,960
Speaker 2: think the reason why I like it is because number One,

1963
01:28:14,000 --> 01:28:17,240
Speaker 2: I'll see my friends. Number Two, I like performing where

1964
01:28:17,240 --> 01:28:19,639
Speaker 2: there's no pressure. Sure, you know what I mean.

1965
01:28:19,760 --> 01:28:25,400
Speaker 4: And then it's just it's like going to like in cheers,

1966
01:28:25,479 --> 01:28:29,000
Speaker 4: you know that. You know, yeah, dude, And I was

1967
01:28:29,080 --> 01:28:31,400
Speaker 4: telling David that I go going to that jazz club.

1968
01:28:31,479 --> 01:28:31,840
Speaker 4: You know what I mean.

1969
01:28:31,840 --> 01:28:34,080
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying is it's like going to comedy

1970
01:28:34,120 --> 01:28:36,880
Speaker 2: clubs and stuff and performing in La especially, it's like

1971
01:28:36,960 --> 01:28:40,040
Speaker 2: meeting my old friends. I'll see Harlan Williams, Ornie Adams,

1972
01:28:40,160 --> 01:28:44,800
Speaker 2: you know, Anthony Jazzlneck, these type of guys, even the

1973
01:28:44,880 --> 01:28:47,560
Speaker 2: with Whitney Cummings, whoever it might be, Ali Wong, I

1974
01:28:47,680 --> 01:28:50,040
Speaker 2: hug them, we hug house lying what's going on.

1975
01:28:50,520 --> 01:28:52,679
Speaker 4: So it's like it's a part of all that as well. Yeah.

1976
01:28:52,720 --> 01:28:53,800
Speaker 3: No, it's a great way to make for it. I

1977
01:28:53,960 --> 01:28:56,680
Speaker 3: I did stand up for like five years and then

1978
01:28:56,680 --> 01:28:59,720
Speaker 3: I quit because I just fucking couldn't hack it. But like,

1979
01:29:00,040 --> 01:29:02,759
Speaker 3: it's a great community. I mean, you know, people complain

1980
01:29:02,800 --> 01:29:04,360
Speaker 3: a lot about like they talk about a lot a

1981
01:29:04,400 --> 01:29:06,400
Speaker 3: lot about how it's hard to make friends as an

1982
01:29:06,400 --> 01:29:09,200
Speaker 3: adult comedian. Comedians don't have that problem at all because

1983
01:29:09,240 --> 01:29:11,800
Speaker 3: they just have a built in network of people that

1984
01:29:11,840 --> 01:29:13,760
Speaker 3: you're around all the time. There are people I don't like,

1985
01:29:14,040 --> 01:29:16,400
Speaker 3: oh yeah, you want to name them, but there are

1986
01:29:16,439 --> 01:29:19,320
Speaker 3: people that if I saw them, I'd be like, oh,

1987
01:29:19,320 --> 01:29:22,120
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go this way. Really, Yeah, have you or

1988
01:29:22,200 --> 01:29:23,240
Speaker 3: do you keep a lot of grudges?

1989
01:29:23,640 --> 01:29:24,479
Speaker 4: Do I hold grudges?

1990
01:29:24,560 --> 01:29:26,800
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1991
01:29:27,800 --> 01:29:28,000
Speaker 1: Do you.

1992
01:29:29,720 --> 01:29:34,600
Speaker 2: No, Well, nobody's you think so, I think because in

1993
01:29:34,640 --> 01:29:37,640
Speaker 2: the Korean culture, there's a lot of revenge movies that

1994
01:29:37,760 --> 01:29:40,519
Speaker 2: Korean has, you know what I mean, there's a you know, and.

1995
01:29:42,200 --> 01:29:44,200
Speaker 4: I just think that it's just a part of our culture.

1996
01:29:44,360 --> 01:29:46,400
Speaker 2: I just it's it's not like I lash out and

1997
01:29:46,479 --> 01:29:49,400
Speaker 2: get revenge, but I do do revenge fantasies, which is

1998
01:29:49,479 --> 01:29:50,040
Speaker 2: not that healthy.

1999
01:29:50,880 --> 01:29:57,920
Speaker 3: What's the have you ever enacted revenge on somebody? What

2000
01:29:58,200 --> 01:29:59,080
Speaker 3: what's what's that story?

2001
01:29:59,120 --> 01:30:03,439
Speaker 4: You know? You because they don't know that he didn't

2002
01:30:03,439 --> 01:30:06,240
Speaker 4: revenge okay, you know I mean like ninja revee.

2003
01:30:06,120 --> 01:30:08,040
Speaker 3: Ninja Okay, so they don't know. Let me ask you

2004
01:30:08,120 --> 01:30:10,439
Speaker 3: this is did you plant a seed of something? And

2005
01:30:10,520 --> 01:30:13,240
Speaker 3: like in ten years from now, they'll they will know you, like,

2006
01:30:14,439 --> 01:30:17,240
Speaker 3: did you like put some kind of poison?

2007
01:30:17,439 --> 01:30:19,439
Speaker 4: It's like this. It's like this the kind of revenge.

2008
01:30:19,439 --> 01:30:19,760
Speaker 4: I guess.

2009
01:30:19,800 --> 01:30:20,080
Speaker 8: It's like.

2010
01:30:21,960 --> 01:30:24,200
Speaker 2: If somebody, like early on in my career says you

2011
01:30:24,320 --> 01:30:26,160
Speaker 2: don't have talent or you know what I mean, I'm

2012
01:30:26,200 --> 01:30:30,320
Speaker 2: not going to help you. It gives me motivation to

2013
01:30:30,439 --> 01:30:31,240
Speaker 2: prove them wrong.

2014
01:30:31,600 --> 01:30:34,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I always do. And then I'll always go

2015
01:30:34,320 --> 01:30:35,000
Speaker 4: back to that person.

2016
01:30:35,080 --> 01:30:37,360
Speaker 2: I won't say it, yeah right, I'll just give them

2017
01:30:37,439 --> 01:30:40,960
Speaker 2: a look like and they'll look up and they'll go

2018
01:30:42,240 --> 01:30:42,960
Speaker 2: and I'll just walk a.

2019
01:30:43,120 --> 01:30:43,920
Speaker 3: Lot on that of like.

2020
01:30:44,040 --> 01:30:48,360
Speaker 4: It doesn't relieve you wrong, No, it doesn't feel good.

2021
01:30:48,439 --> 01:30:52,040
Speaker 4: It doesn't feel good. Next question, I have done.

2022
01:30:52,120 --> 01:30:55,320
Speaker 3: Let's talk to guinny. We have We've done about an hour.

2023
01:30:55,240 --> 01:30:57,960
Speaker 4: And forty and what did I say? I how long

2024
01:30:58,000 --> 01:30:58,519
Speaker 4: you said you were?

2025
01:30:58,760 --> 01:30:59,920
Speaker 3: Let me ask you how long did I say I

2026
01:31:00,120 --> 01:31:01,560
Speaker 3: was gonna do though you said you were going to

2027
01:31:01,720 --> 01:31:05,800
Speaker 3: go until one thirty and it's currently one thirty four. Yeah,

2028
01:31:05,840 --> 01:31:07,760
Speaker 3: I'll do a little long keep going a little longer.

2029
01:31:07,800 --> 01:31:08,559
Speaker 4: I love you, that's why.

2030
01:31:08,680 --> 01:31:09,160
Speaker 3: Oh thanks.

2031
01:31:09,280 --> 01:31:10,240
Speaker 4: I think we have a good vibe.

2032
01:31:10,240 --> 01:31:12,599
Speaker 3: I think so too, and having a lot of fun. Yeah,

2033
01:31:12,680 --> 01:31:15,400
Speaker 3: it feels like it. Yeah, time pass when you're having.

2034
01:31:15,680 --> 01:31:17,240
Speaker 2: The reason why I said this is we're gonna get

2035
01:31:17,280 --> 01:31:20,040
Speaker 2: get back to what's your name, k K jinny, We'll

2036
01:31:20,040 --> 01:31:21,920
Speaker 2: get we'll get back to it for a second.

2037
01:31:22,280 --> 01:31:24,080
Speaker 3: You know. I know why you said that, because it's

2038
01:31:24,120 --> 01:31:25,960
Speaker 3: like a it's a but in case if it doesn't

2039
01:31:26,000 --> 01:31:27,240
Speaker 3: go well, you want to I didn't think it.

2040
01:31:27,280 --> 01:31:29,960
Speaker 4: Was gonna go well understandable putting green makeup. I was like,

2041
01:31:30,000 --> 01:31:31,320
Speaker 4: this is no understandable.

2042
01:31:31,439 --> 01:31:34,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, well of course understand.

2043
01:31:36,439 --> 01:31:40,479
Speaker 4: Yeah. What's up? I yeah, what's up?

2044
01:31:40,520 --> 01:31:40,680
Speaker 3: Man?

2045
01:31:43,600 --> 01:31:46,040
Speaker 13: You know, just just waiting for you guys.

2046
01:31:47,520 --> 01:31:49,160
Speaker 4: So what's going on? You have a problem?

2047
01:31:51,120 --> 01:31:51,320
Speaker 11: Yeah?

2048
01:31:51,560 --> 01:31:55,840
Speaker 10: So my boyfriend and I we It wasn't like an

2049
01:31:55,920 --> 01:31:58,240
Speaker 10: argument or anything. It was just more of a discussion

2050
01:31:58,960 --> 01:32:02,120
Speaker 10: and he had airs some concerns about me being on

2051
01:32:02,240 --> 01:32:06,240
Speaker 10: the internet, like way too much and like just to

2052
01:32:06,320 --> 01:32:09,160
Speaker 10: get some backstory. I do list from home, so I

2053
01:32:09,320 --> 01:32:12,200
Speaker 10: have like a shitload of free time and I just

2054
01:32:12,320 --> 01:32:14,600
Speaker 10: spend it like with my phone on in the background,

2055
01:32:14,720 --> 01:32:17,240
Speaker 10: just kind of working. So I do watch like a

2056
01:32:17,360 --> 01:32:22,360
Speaker 10: fair amount of like YouTube, Twitch everything like that, And like,

2057
01:32:22,520 --> 01:32:24,840
Speaker 10: I see where he's coming from, you know what I mean,

2058
01:32:24,960 --> 01:32:28,400
Speaker 10: Like I don't think that he's totally wrong, but at

2059
01:32:28,400 --> 01:32:31,000
Speaker 10: the same time, it's kind of like I don't want

2060
01:32:31,040 --> 01:32:32,000
Speaker 10: to be told what to do.

2061
01:32:32,600 --> 01:32:36,560
Speaker 3: You know, does him telling you that you're on the

2062
01:32:36,600 --> 01:32:39,479
Speaker 3: internet too much make you go, you know, fuck you.

2063
01:32:39,520 --> 01:32:40,519
Speaker 3: I don't want to be told what to do. I'm

2064
01:32:40,520 --> 01:32:44,120
Speaker 3: gonna use the Internet even more, you know.

2065
01:32:44,360 --> 01:32:45,120
Speaker 10: Because that's the thing.

2066
01:32:45,200 --> 01:32:47,240
Speaker 3: I do love him very much, and I know that what.

2067
01:32:47,320 --> 01:32:50,000
Speaker 10: He's saying comes out of like concerns because he loves

2068
01:32:50,080 --> 01:32:53,639
Speaker 10: me too. We've been together a really, really long time,

2069
01:32:53,880 --> 01:32:57,360
Speaker 10: so I've kind of gotten over that whole like retali

2070
01:32:57,560 --> 01:33:01,880
Speaker 10: or retaliatory phase where now I can be like, Okay,

2071
01:33:02,120 --> 01:33:02,760
Speaker 10: we're grown up.

2072
01:33:03,160 --> 01:33:04,479
Speaker 11: I get where you're coming from.

2073
01:33:04,640 --> 01:33:06,840
Speaker 10: So it doesn't make me want to use it more,

2074
01:33:07,479 --> 01:33:09,240
Speaker 10: but it does kind of makes me feel weird when

2075
01:33:09,280 --> 01:33:13,080
Speaker 10: I use the Internet at all, because it's like, like

2076
01:33:13,200 --> 01:33:16,200
Speaker 10: I don't want to be the shitty person there, you know.

2077
01:33:19,080 --> 01:33:19,759
Speaker 4: I think.

2078
01:33:21,160 --> 01:33:25,360
Speaker 2: Using gadgets and watching the Internet and doing all these things,

2079
01:33:26,040 --> 01:33:28,679
Speaker 2: it takes away from you being present. I think that's

2080
01:33:28,920 --> 01:33:35,400
Speaker 2: his concern, and you have to be mindful about when

2081
01:33:35,439 --> 01:33:39,439
Speaker 2: he's around to really be present with him. And so

2082
01:33:39,720 --> 01:33:42,120
Speaker 2: that like if you're doing gadgets and this and that,

2083
01:33:42,200 --> 01:33:45,240
Speaker 2: and he wants to connect with you, right, I mean

2084
01:33:45,360 --> 01:33:47,759
Speaker 2: I think that that's probably and if he's saying something,

2085
01:33:48,040 --> 01:33:50,840
Speaker 2: I think that's probably what he's feeling. You know, he

2086
01:33:50,960 --> 01:33:53,000
Speaker 2: might not be able to articulate it, but it's like

2087
01:33:53,560 --> 01:33:55,280
Speaker 2: I think that's what it is. It's like, you know,

2088
01:33:55,920 --> 01:33:59,080
Speaker 2: people want to be you know, and I know why

2089
01:33:59,120 --> 01:34:02,840
Speaker 2: I do it. You know, like I watch porn and

2090
01:34:03,320 --> 01:34:06,479
Speaker 2: I'll watch like Game of Thrones porn, and I'll be

2091
01:34:06,600 --> 01:34:09,519
Speaker 2: on my Xbox all at the same time. It's because

2092
01:34:09,520 --> 01:34:11,360
Speaker 2: I don't want to feel I don't want to be here,

2093
01:34:11,600 --> 01:34:13,439
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I'm just trying to distract myself.

2094
01:34:14,000 --> 01:34:17,080
Speaker 2: It's really going on and right, so it's like maybe

2095
01:34:17,120 --> 01:34:21,400
Speaker 2: it's time to maybe put away your gadgets for a month, right,

2096
01:34:21,560 --> 01:34:23,639
Speaker 2: and just to be with yourself to see what's really

2097
01:34:23,720 --> 01:34:26,040
Speaker 2: going on and to figure that out.

2098
01:34:26,600 --> 01:34:28,519
Speaker 3: Do you do you to that point, do you feel

2099
01:34:28,600 --> 01:34:33,639
Speaker 3: like there's anything that you're like, you know, escaping from

2100
01:34:33,920 --> 01:34:37,720
Speaker 3: or distracting yourself from with with all the online use.

2101
01:34:39,600 --> 01:34:42,439
Speaker 10: That is so funny that you guys say that, because

2102
01:34:42,840 --> 01:34:44,880
Speaker 10: and it started off as a joke, but now that

2103
01:34:45,000 --> 01:34:48,120
Speaker 10: you guys explain it, I understand that it's probably a

2104
01:34:48,200 --> 01:34:52,479
Speaker 10: bit more serious. He goes to the flea market every weekend,

2105
01:34:53,200 --> 01:34:56,240
Speaker 10: and in all honesty, he goes super duper early. There's

2106
01:34:56,240 --> 01:34:59,120
Speaker 10: almost nobody ever there, but he just likes to walk

2107
01:34:59,160 --> 01:35:00,880
Speaker 10: around and be with the people.

2108
01:35:00,680 --> 01:35:01,320
Speaker 11: And stuff like that.

2109
01:35:02,040 --> 01:35:05,519
Speaker 10: And I do have a tendency to be like, nah,

2110
01:35:05,560 --> 01:35:07,960
Speaker 10: I got stuff to do, and then do a little

2111
01:35:08,000 --> 01:35:10,960
Speaker 10: bit of tours and then just watch a shitload of YouTube.

2112
01:35:11,080 --> 01:35:14,840
Speaker 10: So honestly, like you guys are really just salad. And

2113
01:35:15,000 --> 01:35:17,360
Speaker 10: that's not really something considered until you brought it up.

2114
01:35:18,200 --> 01:35:20,160
Speaker 3: Go to the flea market and leave your you ever

2115
01:35:20,320 --> 01:35:22,920
Speaker 3: go out and just leave your phone completely at home?

2116
01:35:25,640 --> 01:35:29,240
Speaker 3: Oh my god, No, that's like Terri, No, you should

2117
01:35:29,280 --> 01:35:31,080
Speaker 3: do if you should, you should you should give that

2118
01:35:31,160 --> 01:35:31,439
Speaker 3: a try.

2119
01:35:31,479 --> 01:35:31,720
Speaker 4: I try.

2120
01:35:31,760 --> 01:35:34,920
Speaker 3: I try to do that every at least, you know,

2121
01:35:35,400 --> 01:35:36,240
Speaker 3: every once in a while.

2122
01:35:36,439 --> 01:35:39,280
Speaker 2: Just got even, like right now, I left my phone

2123
01:35:39,880 --> 01:35:42,280
Speaker 2: in the green room because if it was sitting here,

2124
01:35:42,920 --> 01:35:44,040
Speaker 2: I would not be present.

2125
01:35:44,800 --> 01:35:46,559
Speaker 4: I mean, I would still be doing it. But yeah,

2126
01:35:47,360 --> 01:35:47,760
Speaker 4: you know what I mean.

2127
01:35:47,800 --> 01:35:50,240
Speaker 2: So it's like I try to like when I'm working

2128
01:35:51,160 --> 01:35:53,120
Speaker 2: right or I need to be focused and I need

2129
01:35:53,160 --> 01:35:55,559
Speaker 2: to be present no gadgets around.

2130
01:35:59,320 --> 01:36:02,920
Speaker 10: Oh yeah, gosh, I'm gonna have to try it. I'm

2131
01:36:02,960 --> 01:36:06,760
Speaker 10: gonna have to because that's a scary, scary feeling right

2132
01:36:06,840 --> 01:36:09,400
Speaker 10: off the bat. And that's how I know, like, Okay,

2133
01:36:09,520 --> 01:36:10,360
Speaker 10: maybe I do need.

2134
01:36:10,280 --> 01:36:12,360
Speaker 4: To do it then, But what are you scared?

2135
01:36:12,520 --> 01:36:15,080
Speaker 2: I mean, when you're if you leave your phone, what

2136
01:36:15,160 --> 01:36:16,800
Speaker 2: are you scared about? Are you scared that you're going

2137
01:36:16,880 --> 01:36:19,800
Speaker 2: to miss a call or a message? Or is it

2138
01:36:19,880 --> 01:36:22,439
Speaker 2: because you can't look at Twitter and Instagram?

2139
01:36:22,600 --> 01:36:29,640
Speaker 10: And honestly, and if I'm be because you know, if

2140
01:36:29,680 --> 01:36:33,519
Speaker 10: I'm being honest, it's probably a decent mix because a

2141
01:36:33,640 --> 01:36:36,280
Speaker 10: certain part of me is so used to being accessible

2142
01:36:36,360 --> 01:36:38,680
Speaker 10: that I'm like, the moment that I'm not, I get

2143
01:36:39,280 --> 01:36:42,720
Speaker 10: like really nervous. But at the same time, it is

2144
01:36:42,880 --> 01:36:45,840
Speaker 10: kind of like one of those luxuries that you kind

2145
01:36:45,840 --> 01:36:48,600
Speaker 10: of look and don't think of when you can just

2146
01:36:48,760 --> 01:36:50,920
Speaker 10: look up anything at any given.

2147
01:36:50,720 --> 01:36:53,800
Speaker 8: Moment or you know, distract yourself from the conversation.

2148
01:36:54,240 --> 01:36:57,519
Speaker 10: So honestly, like I said, I'm I'm gonna have to

2149
01:36:57,600 --> 01:37:00,439
Speaker 10: do it because that sounds like a really good idea,

2150
01:37:02,479 --> 01:37:02,880
Speaker 10: and do it.

2151
01:37:02,920 --> 01:37:03,400
Speaker 4: For a month.

2152
01:37:05,040 --> 01:37:05,360
Speaker 3: That could be.

2153
01:37:05,560 --> 01:37:08,720
Speaker 10: That could be just leave my phone and like just

2154
01:37:08,840 --> 01:37:11,520
Speaker 10: at home and just run my errands.

2155
01:37:11,320 --> 01:37:15,240
Speaker 3: Without That's where they fucking get you, is like you

2156
01:37:15,800 --> 01:37:17,960
Speaker 3: you need You're like, oh I need my maps, Oh

2157
01:37:18,040 --> 01:37:20,120
Speaker 3: I need my grocery list. You Like, That's where they

2158
01:37:20,120 --> 01:37:22,360
Speaker 3: fucking get you as you have stuff that you genuinely

2159
01:37:22,479 --> 01:37:25,000
Speaker 3: kind of do need or like I need to But

2160
01:37:25,120 --> 01:37:27,000
Speaker 3: then it comes with all.

2161
01:37:26,920 --> 01:37:30,400
Speaker 4: This other shit. They're enslaving us. Yeah, that's what it is.

2162
01:37:30,640 --> 01:37:31,320
Speaker 4: We're we're in.

2163
01:37:31,680 --> 01:37:35,639
Speaker 2: We're a slave to it, and we're not really fully

2164
01:37:35,760 --> 01:37:40,080
Speaker 2: living and feeling and enjoying and being present.

2165
01:37:41,000 --> 01:37:41,160
Speaker 11: You know.

2166
01:37:41,240 --> 01:37:43,679
Speaker 2: It's like, you know, I went to the last rehab

2167
01:37:43,800 --> 01:37:45,880
Speaker 2: I went to. They wouldn't let my phone. I couldn't

2168
01:37:46,000 --> 01:37:48,920
Speaker 2: have my phone for months. And that one day, and

2169
01:37:49,000 --> 01:37:51,200
Speaker 2: this is a really real story. One day I was

2170
01:37:51,320 --> 01:37:54,840
Speaker 2: out in front of this building, right and they had

2171
01:37:54,880 --> 01:37:58,760
Speaker 2: this weird bush with these red flowers on it, and

2172
01:37:58,880 --> 01:38:01,400
Speaker 2: there was these two ants that were fighting to get

2173
01:38:01,479 --> 01:38:04,040
Speaker 2: onto one of the leaves, and I sat there and

2174
01:38:04,160 --> 01:38:07,640
Speaker 2: I observed that happening. I also was observing how the

2175
01:38:07,720 --> 01:38:10,800
Speaker 2: flower looked in terms of the colors and then the

2176
01:38:10,920 --> 01:38:14,040
Speaker 2: vibrancy of it all, and I realized.

2177
01:38:14,400 --> 01:38:19,200
Speaker 4: I just I would have missed. I missed this. I mean,

2178
01:38:19,200 --> 01:38:20,880
Speaker 4: I'm a slave to all this stuff, and I miss

2179
01:38:21,120 --> 01:38:23,840
Speaker 4: life going on around me, you know, I mean.

2180
01:38:23,840 --> 01:38:23,920
Speaker 5: So.

2181
01:38:27,080 --> 01:38:30,240
Speaker 3: Go to the flea market, Jenny, I go to the

2182
01:38:30,280 --> 01:38:32,280
Speaker 3: flea market. Don't bring your phone, and just like, look

2183
01:38:32,320 --> 01:38:34,960
Speaker 3: at when you're walking with your boy, really look at

2184
01:38:35,000 --> 01:38:38,240
Speaker 3: his face and his eyes. When there's like a pattern

2185
01:38:38,360 --> 01:38:40,960
Speaker 3: on a shirt, just like, stare at the pattern and

2186
01:38:41,120 --> 01:38:41,920
Speaker 3: get really into that.

2187
01:38:42,160 --> 01:38:45,360
Speaker 2: Like or just look at the sky. Sometimes I look

2188
01:38:45,360 --> 01:38:49,599
Speaker 2: at the sky and I'm in wonder right, the mystery

2189
01:38:49,680 --> 01:38:52,880
Speaker 2: of life. Like there's galaxies and you know what I mean,

2190
01:38:52,920 --> 01:38:55,400
Speaker 2: And we're on this floating rock and crazy look at

2191
01:38:55,439 --> 01:38:58,280
Speaker 2: all these buildings that human being has made and all

2192
01:38:58,320 --> 01:39:00,400
Speaker 2: these cars, and look at what I'm a hard of.

2193
01:39:01,479 --> 01:39:03,360
Speaker 2: This is insane, this is you know what I mean.

2194
01:39:03,400 --> 01:39:05,960
Speaker 2: I'm a part of this huge thing, but we miss

2195
01:39:06,040 --> 01:39:09,240
Speaker 2: it all because we're on some fucking Instagram thing, you

2196
01:39:09,280 --> 01:39:09,640
Speaker 2: know what I mean.

2197
01:39:09,760 --> 01:39:10,720
Speaker 4: Or TikTok.

2198
01:39:11,560 --> 01:39:15,200
Speaker 3: You ever catch yourself like watching Instagram stories of people

2199
01:39:15,320 --> 01:39:17,680
Speaker 3: that you you fucking like went to high school with

2200
01:39:18,280 --> 01:39:20,000
Speaker 3: and talked to once, and you're like, why am I

2201
01:39:20,120 --> 01:39:22,640
Speaker 3: doing this when there's stuff everywhere?

2202
01:39:25,040 --> 01:39:29,639
Speaker 10: Yeah, I definitely have, like especially like with the TikTok

2203
01:39:29,720 --> 01:39:33,400
Speaker 10: and stuff. And honestly, to Bobby's point, I don't think

2204
01:39:33,439 --> 01:39:36,680
Speaker 10: I've had one of those moments is just pure like

2205
01:39:36,960 --> 01:39:42,160
Speaker 10: in the now at least five years, maybe even ten's.

2206
01:39:42,200 --> 01:39:44,600
Speaker 4: Oh my god, it's crazy, Like.

2207
01:39:44,640 --> 01:39:46,800
Speaker 10: When I actually think about the last time that I

2208
01:39:47,360 --> 01:39:50,040
Speaker 10: sat down and just like took a deep breath in

2209
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Speaker 10: and just had that moment, It's it's been a while.

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01:39:54,240 --> 01:39:55,280
Speaker 13: It's been a long while.

2211
01:39:56,320 --> 01:39:56,479
Speaker 5: You know.

2212
01:39:56,520 --> 01:39:58,840
Speaker 2: When I was a kid in my early twenties, I

2213
01:39:58,920 --> 01:40:01,240
Speaker 2: had this a a spams Her, and he was this

2214
01:40:01,360 --> 01:40:05,680
Speaker 2: old Korean man and every year, for three weeks we

2215
01:40:05,720 --> 01:40:07,800
Speaker 2: would go to a monastery. But in this monster you

2216
01:40:07,880 --> 01:40:10,599
Speaker 2: had to sleep there, and in this monastery you couldn't

2217
01:40:10,640 --> 01:40:14,439
Speaker 2: talk right, And those were the happiest moments of my life.

2218
01:40:16,439 --> 01:40:18,200
Speaker 4: No phone back in then.

2219
01:40:18,400 --> 01:40:21,560
Speaker 2: That was back in the early nineties because there was

2220
01:40:21,600 --> 01:40:24,080
Speaker 2: no cell phones back there anyway. But it's like you

2221
01:40:24,160 --> 01:40:27,720
Speaker 2: couldn't talk and you had just had to meditate and

2222
01:40:27,920 --> 01:40:31,200
Speaker 2: eat and be in the moment and to observe life

2223
01:40:31,960 --> 01:40:34,760
Speaker 2: around you in this garden or whatever, and it's just

2224
01:40:34,840 --> 01:40:37,400
Speaker 2: a peaceful It's the most peace I've ever felt.

2225
01:40:37,600 --> 01:40:40,360
Speaker 3: When you first got there and you were like easing

2226
01:40:40,439 --> 01:40:41,720
Speaker 3: into was there like a lot of it.

2227
01:40:41,800 --> 01:40:43,880
Speaker 4: It was really hard. It was like a lot of

2228
01:40:43,880 --> 01:40:44,840
Speaker 4: anxiety and this and that.

2229
01:40:45,000 --> 01:40:47,439
Speaker 2: But it was like after a couple of days, I

2230
01:40:47,600 --> 01:40:49,760
Speaker 2: just got into the groove of it, you know, and

2231
01:40:49,880 --> 01:40:54,560
Speaker 2: it's like, I don't know, man, don't miss out on life, buddy.

2232
01:40:55,080 --> 01:40:58,160
Speaker 3: Jenny, go get yourself one of those. Thank you for calling.

2233
01:41:00,280 --> 01:41:02,120
Speaker 8: Thanks so much, real quick for me.

2234
01:41:02,479 --> 01:41:05,160
Speaker 10: My boyfriend absolutely loved you the back Friends podcast.

2235
01:41:05,240 --> 01:41:06,920
Speaker 6: You guys agree, Thank you.

2236
01:41:07,160 --> 01:41:08,719
Speaker 4: Tell them I love them, lady Jenny.

2237
01:41:11,320 --> 01:41:13,880
Speaker 3: Dude, it's so hard to get past that, like the

2238
01:41:14,040 --> 01:41:18,720
Speaker 3: initial fucking resistance of like boredom that you feel when

2239
01:41:18,760 --> 01:41:22,280
Speaker 3: you're just not doing anything. A minute of not doing

2240
01:41:22,320 --> 01:41:26,760
Speaker 3: anything feels like so long, it's like going to turn ah.

2241
01:41:27,479 --> 01:41:27,840
Speaker 4: I like that.

2242
01:41:27,960 --> 01:41:28,799
Speaker 3: That was a good callback.

2243
01:41:29,400 --> 01:41:29,640
Speaker 4: Thank you.

2244
01:41:30,080 --> 01:41:30,840
Speaker 3: How are you feeling?

2245
01:41:30,840 --> 01:41:31,000
Speaker 8: I know?

2246
01:41:31,120 --> 01:41:34,439
Speaker 4: We uh, I did longer than I thought I was

2247
01:41:34,479 --> 01:41:36,680
Speaker 4: did longer than you thought you good enough time or

2248
01:41:36,800 --> 01:41:39,920
Speaker 4: I'll go the thing. I'll go, follow you go.

2249
01:41:40,880 --> 01:41:42,800
Speaker 3: I mean I've gone with people for like three and

2250
01:41:42,840 --> 01:41:46,840
Speaker 3: a half hours. Why not I don't I don't have

2251
01:41:46,920 --> 01:41:50,120
Speaker 3: anything else to do? Yeah, yeah, what we do.

2252
01:41:50,439 --> 01:41:52,120
Speaker 4: I'll make you a deal. Yes, sure, we do. One

2253
01:41:52,160 --> 01:41:54,799
Speaker 4: more caller, let's do it and then I'm done. Perfect,

2254
01:41:55,160 --> 01:41:56,120
Speaker 4: I'm leaving. Let's do it.

2255
01:41:56,520 --> 01:41:58,280
Speaker 3: Okay, where are you gonna go?

2256
01:41:58,640 --> 01:41:59,800
Speaker 4: You have to tell me if you don't I have

2257
01:41:59,840 --> 01:42:01,800
Speaker 4: an eating Okay you want to eat?

2258
01:42:01,880 --> 01:42:02,040
Speaker 9: Or no?

2259
01:42:02,400 --> 01:42:04,439
Speaker 4: Yeah you do? Do you know places around here?

2260
01:42:05,360 --> 01:42:06,080
Speaker 3: We can find one.

2261
01:42:06,840 --> 01:42:10,479
Speaker 4: Where do you eat around here? Do you have?

2262
01:42:10,640 --> 01:42:11,720
Speaker 3: How long have you lived in La four?

2263
01:42:12,160 --> 01:42:14,080
Speaker 4: But this is a specific area. This is not this

2264
01:42:14,200 --> 01:42:14,840
Speaker 4: is the West side.

2265
01:42:16,479 --> 01:42:19,800
Speaker 3: My phone knows a place I don't go to, Like

2266
01:42:20,040 --> 01:42:24,200
Speaker 3: I don't go to this Panda Express that's where you

2267
01:42:24,280 --> 01:42:25,479
Speaker 3: eats Pan Express.

2268
01:42:27,080 --> 01:42:28,600
Speaker 4: I might not commit to it. I don't know.

2269
01:42:28,720 --> 01:42:33,559
Speaker 3: You don't have to commit to Let's finish you. Okay, okay,

2270
01:42:34,040 --> 01:42:37,000
Speaker 3: stick a phone call? Hello?

2271
01:42:39,120 --> 01:42:40,960
Speaker 4: What's up? Hey?

2272
01:42:41,080 --> 01:42:41,559
Speaker 3: Is this Brie?

2273
01:42:43,960 --> 01:42:44,920
Speaker 13: Yeah, dude, it is GK.

2274
01:42:46,000 --> 01:42:49,559
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is GEK and Bobby and uh we're two

2275
01:42:49,640 --> 01:42:51,600
Speaker 3: geckos and we're hanging out in the sky. Geckos just

2276
01:42:51,640 --> 01:42:53,400
Speaker 3: hanging out in the sky and we're living, and we're

2277
01:42:54,320 --> 01:42:55,080
Speaker 3: we're starting out with you.

2278
01:42:56,760 --> 01:42:59,439
Speaker 13: I am so honored that I have the last call.

2279
01:43:00,040 --> 01:43:01,040
Speaker 13: Well maybe the last call.

2280
01:43:02,600 --> 01:43:04,920
Speaker 3: It is, it is the last last, the last one.

2281
01:43:06,680 --> 01:43:08,639
Speaker 13: Fuck yeah, that's so awesome.

2282
01:43:09,080 --> 01:43:10,800
Speaker 4: Make it good, make a good break.

2283
01:43:12,720 --> 01:43:17,160
Speaker 13: Okay, okay. Well, so here's the thing. Your tongue knows

2284
01:43:17,240 --> 01:43:21,280
Speaker 13: what fucking everything feels like. Any object that you look at,

2285
01:43:21,360 --> 01:43:22,400
Speaker 13: your tongue is like, yeah.

2286
01:43:22,200 --> 01:43:22,680
Speaker 6: You know what it is.

2287
01:43:23,439 --> 01:43:24,400
Speaker 13: Isn't that crazy.

2288
01:43:26,240 --> 01:43:28,320
Speaker 4: My specific tongue or only yours.

2289
01:43:29,680 --> 01:43:31,760
Speaker 13: Everyone's tongue, I think, well at least nine.

2290
01:43:32,760 --> 01:43:37,160
Speaker 3: So you're saying that our tongues know what an object

2291
01:43:37,320 --> 01:43:39,200
Speaker 3: tastes like just by looking at it.

2292
01:43:40,880 --> 01:43:44,240
Speaker 2: No, it feels like all right, So if I see

2293
01:43:45,000 --> 01:43:47,880
Speaker 2: whale ship on the side of the beach, my tongue

2294
01:43:47,920 --> 01:43:51,439
Speaker 2: would know what that whale ship would feel like.

2295
01:43:53,000 --> 01:43:54,880
Speaker 13: I mean, think about it, does it?

2296
01:43:56,880 --> 01:43:58,840
Speaker 3: No? I don't have to I have to go and

2297
01:43:58,920 --> 01:44:00,960
Speaker 3: taste the whale ship. No, I'm never tastes a whale ship.

2298
01:44:01,680 --> 01:44:05,040
Speaker 3: I have to ask you, where is this? Where is this?

2299
01:44:05,280 --> 01:44:07,560
Speaker 3: Where's your source on this information? I think I know

2300
01:44:07,600 --> 01:44:12,040
Speaker 3: what you're saying. What you're saying saying that your your redit,

2301
01:44:13,040 --> 01:44:15,439
Speaker 3: like if ice, that's where you get all the information.

2302
01:44:16,920 --> 01:44:18,720
Speaker 2: I think what you're saying is is that if you

2303
01:44:18,800 --> 01:44:21,120
Speaker 2: look at whale ship, you know what pudding tastes like,

2304
01:44:21,600 --> 01:44:23,800
Speaker 2: and that looks like pudding, so you make your mind

2305
01:44:23,920 --> 01:44:24,719
Speaker 2: just makes a connection.

2306
01:44:25,439 --> 01:44:28,120
Speaker 3: Uh so, but then that would be wrong, right because

2307
01:44:28,120 --> 01:44:29,559
Speaker 3: it doesn't taste like putting it tasts like whale ship.

2308
01:44:31,040 --> 01:44:32,880
Speaker 13: So like think about like, okay, so everybody knows what

2309
01:44:32,920 --> 01:44:35,120
Speaker 13: the bottom of a van's shoe looks like, right, like

2310
01:44:35,200 --> 01:44:36,280
Speaker 13: it has like those little.

2311
01:44:36,120 --> 01:44:37,880
Speaker 4: Square shoe Yeah.

2312
01:44:37,920 --> 01:44:40,800
Speaker 13: Yah, yeah, I feel like the tip of your tongue

2313
01:44:40,880 --> 01:44:43,640
Speaker 13: can like visualize, like it can like feel what that

2314
01:44:43,640 --> 01:44:44,200
Speaker 13: would feel like.

2315
01:44:44,920 --> 01:44:46,679
Speaker 3: Well, I can imagine what the bottom of a van's

2316
01:44:46,680 --> 01:44:48,599
Speaker 3: shoe feels like. But that's only because I have licked

2317
01:44:48,640 --> 01:44:49,040
Speaker 3: one before.

2318
01:44:49,200 --> 01:44:52,960
Speaker 4: Me too, I do it all the time, you really? Yeah?

2319
01:44:53,080 --> 01:44:55,800
Speaker 13: I mean yeah, I think like every thirteen year old

2320
01:44:55,800 --> 01:44:57,800
Speaker 13: has licked the bottom of the shoe, don't they?

2321
01:44:57,800 --> 01:44:58,920
Speaker 3: I mean, have you have you looked on before?

2322
01:44:58,960 --> 01:44:59,120
Speaker 4: Bree?

2323
01:44:59,160 --> 01:45:01,960
Speaker 3: Don't they look kind of uh look waff when I.

2324
01:45:02,040 --> 01:45:03,920
Speaker 13: Was when I was younger. I mean, it's like one

2325
01:45:03,960 --> 01:45:06,240
Speaker 13: of those universal things that I feel like everybody's just done.

2326
01:45:07,560 --> 01:45:09,640
Speaker 4: But I think she's right because I never tasted my

2327
01:45:09,720 --> 01:45:12,160
Speaker 4: own com Yeah, but I had. I think I know

2328
01:45:12,240 --> 01:45:12,679
Speaker 4: what it takes.

2329
01:45:13,240 --> 01:45:15,960
Speaker 3: But you've you felt your own com like in your

2330
01:45:15,960 --> 01:45:17,439
Speaker 3: own body but my tongue.

2331
01:45:17,520 --> 01:45:20,799
Speaker 4: No, it's not the best task.

2332
01:45:22,120 --> 01:45:24,439
Speaker 3: How would you know? You never taste it? Breeze correct,

2333
01:45:26,360 --> 01:45:31,960
Speaker 3: because you can bring anything else interesting you've read on Reddit,

2334
01:45:32,000 --> 01:45:35,679
Speaker 3: Reddit before we go, before we get.

2335
01:45:35,680 --> 01:45:37,200
Speaker 13: Moves now, not that I can think of.

2336
01:45:38,680 --> 01:45:41,280
Speaker 4: I love you guys, dude, Thank you, Bri.

2337
01:45:41,479 --> 01:45:44,960
Speaker 2: I think I feel like you brought up this reddit thing, right,

2338
01:45:45,080 --> 01:45:48,160
Speaker 2: but there's other things going on. You just sound like

2339
01:45:48,240 --> 01:45:50,400
Speaker 2: somebody that has a lot of other things going on,

2340
01:45:50,600 --> 01:45:54,240
Speaker 2: but you use these little superficial things as a conversation

2341
01:45:54,400 --> 01:45:56,600
Speaker 2: piece to hide what's really going on.

2342
01:45:58,760 --> 01:46:00,920
Speaker 3: We'll give you the opportunities. There is there a deeper

2343
01:46:01,000 --> 01:46:03,080
Speaker 3: thing that you want to talk about before we go, Brie?

2344
01:46:03,720 --> 01:46:06,280
Speaker 3: Or is it just the the taste thing.

2345
01:46:06,760 --> 01:46:09,800
Speaker 13: I'm I'm pretty entranced by this whole punk thing. I

2346
01:46:09,840 --> 01:46:12,400
Speaker 13: mean honestly, like we can talk about anything else really, but.

2347
01:46:13,000 --> 01:46:15,000
Speaker 4: Let me ask you some questions. I can ask you

2348
01:46:15,080 --> 01:46:17,680
Speaker 4: some questions, breathe though. How old are you?

2349
01:46:19,360 --> 01:46:19,960
Speaker 13: I'm twenty eight?

2350
01:46:21,120 --> 01:46:23,040
Speaker 4: Do you have a are you boyfriend, girlfriend? What do

2351
01:46:23,120 --> 01:46:23,280
Speaker 4: you have?

2352
01:46:25,080 --> 01:46:27,600
Speaker 13: I have a husband. His name is Jackson, also loves you.

2353
01:46:29,240 --> 01:46:31,200
Speaker 3: Do you know what you're talking about? You're talking about Bobby.

2354
01:46:31,240 --> 01:46:32,519
Speaker 3: Does he like getck go or Bobby?

2355
01:46:34,240 --> 01:46:34,360
Speaker 9: Oh?

2356
01:46:34,439 --> 01:46:34,679
Speaker 4: Both?

2357
01:46:35,000 --> 01:46:37,120
Speaker 13: But he's he's watched Bad Friends forever. He loves you

2358
01:46:37,200 --> 01:46:38,880
Speaker 13: an Andrew to Oh cool?

2359
01:46:38,920 --> 01:46:42,360
Speaker 4: Awesome? So is that relationship going good?

2360
01:46:43,960 --> 01:46:44,160
Speaker 9: Yeah?

2361
01:46:44,520 --> 01:46:46,040
Speaker 13: Yeah, I'd like to say we're pretty happy. I mean

2362
01:46:46,160 --> 01:46:48,679
Speaker 13: he's kind of you know, he can be a turd sometimes,

2363
01:46:48,720 --> 01:46:49,800
Speaker 13: but I think everybody can.

2364
01:46:50,720 --> 01:46:51,679
Speaker 4: Yeah, do you have children?

2365
01:46:53,520 --> 01:46:53,560
Speaker 3: No?

2366
01:46:54,000 --> 01:46:54,439
Speaker 6: Fuck? Now?

2367
01:46:56,040 --> 01:46:57,720
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, good to talk to you.

2368
01:47:00,160 --> 01:47:02,840
Speaker 3: I feel like Kurt, you know, it's you're hitting on

2369
01:47:02,920 --> 01:47:05,120
Speaker 3: Brea right now, but I feel like her husband would

2370
01:47:05,680 --> 01:47:06,880
Speaker 3: be interested in you as well.

2371
01:47:07,520 --> 01:47:11,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, not sexually probably. Well, so what you're saying to

2372
01:47:11,600 --> 01:47:13,920
Speaker 2: me right now? You're Jackson your husband?

2373
01:47:14,760 --> 01:47:14,920
Speaker 4: Right?

2374
01:47:15,320 --> 01:47:15,559
Speaker 13: Yeah?

2375
01:47:15,800 --> 01:47:18,040
Speaker 4: If if I said to him, like, what town do

2376
01:47:18,080 --> 01:47:18,400
Speaker 4: you live in?

2377
01:47:20,560 --> 01:47:22,799
Speaker 13: I live in a place called Port Townsend in Washington.

2378
01:47:23,760 --> 01:47:26,240
Speaker 2: All right, So if I'm in Port Town, right and

2379
01:47:26,360 --> 01:47:28,599
Speaker 2: I go, hey, Jackson, I'm at you know what I mean,

2380
01:47:28,920 --> 01:47:29,559
Speaker 2: the High End.

2381
01:47:30,000 --> 01:47:33,080
Speaker 4: I'm in room three oh three. You think he would

2382
01:47:33,120 --> 01:47:33,400
Speaker 4: come up.

2383
01:47:34,840 --> 01:47:36,599
Speaker 13: I think he'd go gay for you for sure.

2384
01:47:37,560 --> 01:47:39,519
Speaker 4: And then would you let me? I just want to

2385
01:47:39,520 --> 01:47:40,920
Speaker 4: because I'm not gay, But let me can I just

2386
01:47:40,960 --> 01:47:41,720
Speaker 4: ask him that? Right?

2387
01:47:43,200 --> 01:47:46,439
Speaker 2: What you know about Jackson? If I said, hey, I

2388
01:47:46,439 --> 01:47:48,160
Speaker 2: don't have any condoms, you think he would let me

2389
01:47:48,240 --> 01:47:48,639
Speaker 2: raw dog?

2390
01:47:50,479 --> 01:47:51,160
Speaker 6: Oh for sure?

2391
01:47:52,200 --> 01:47:55,200
Speaker 2: Okay, what you know about Jackson? If I whispered in

2392
01:47:55,240 --> 01:47:57,160
Speaker 2: a ziar should do it on your back?

2393
01:48:00,840 --> 01:48:01,280
Speaker 6: I think so.

2394
01:48:02,000 --> 01:48:03,719
Speaker 13: I think I think he'd be pretty into you, Bobby.

2395
01:48:04,560 --> 01:48:06,200
Speaker 13: I think he would definitely come to your room. He'd

2396
01:48:06,200 --> 01:48:07,320
Speaker 13: probably even brings flowers.

2397
01:48:08,479 --> 01:48:11,400
Speaker 4: Wow, I don't like cuddling, so that's out.

2398
01:48:12,000 --> 01:48:13,080
Speaker 3: Does Jackson like cuddling?

2399
01:48:13,320 --> 01:48:16,519
Speaker 13: No, you don't have to cuddle them. He's a right cuddler.

2400
01:48:16,600 --> 01:48:19,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, let me ask you this. If jack he said

2401
01:48:19,880 --> 01:48:22,599
Speaker 4: to you, do you want to watch what you watch?

2402
01:48:24,560 --> 01:48:27,080
Speaker 13: Oh? For sure I would film it if if that

2403
01:48:27,160 --> 01:48:27,559
Speaker 13: was allowed.

2404
01:48:27,680 --> 01:48:29,200
Speaker 4: I don't want to film. I don't. I don't need

2405
01:48:29,720 --> 01:48:30,679
Speaker 4: problems on the internet.

2406
01:48:30,720 --> 01:48:33,639
Speaker 3: Film that you could put on only achieve your dreamy.

2407
01:48:33,840 --> 01:48:38,400
Speaker 4: Yeah. Okay, good, so that's true. To work something out.

2408
01:48:38,439 --> 01:48:39,320
Speaker 3: What town is this again?

2409
01:48:40,040 --> 01:48:40,200
Speaker 10: Hell?

2410
01:48:40,280 --> 01:48:40,479
Speaker 4: Yeah?

2411
01:48:40,960 --> 01:48:46,639
Speaker 13: Yeah, Port townsends. Do they have a high townsend?

2412
01:48:48,360 --> 01:48:48,400
Speaker 3: No?

2413
01:48:49,040 --> 01:48:51,200
Speaker 13: But we do have a man Resa Castle and it's haunted.

2414
01:48:51,560 --> 01:48:54,240
Speaker 13: It's like super haunted like castle. I live in a

2415
01:48:54,320 --> 01:48:55,000
Speaker 13: Victorian town.

2416
01:48:56,040 --> 01:48:56,680
Speaker 4: Wow, we'll do that.

2417
01:48:56,960 --> 01:49:00,400
Speaker 3: You Bobby, your husband, and some ghosts and Lyle. I'll

2418
01:49:00,400 --> 01:49:00,720
Speaker 3: show up.

2419
01:49:01,120 --> 01:49:01,320
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2420
01:49:01,439 --> 01:49:02,880
Speaker 3: I won't like to do anything, but.

2421
01:49:02,920 --> 01:49:05,639
Speaker 4: I'll Yeah, you'll sit next to Brie.

2422
01:49:05,840 --> 01:49:08,360
Speaker 3: I'll sit next to bre We can make polite conversations.

2423
01:49:08,400 --> 01:49:10,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, don't laugh though it'll throw me.

2424
01:49:13,400 --> 01:49:13,600
Speaker 7: Like that.

2425
01:49:14,720 --> 01:49:15,640
Speaker 3: Is there anything else you want to say to the

2426
01:49:15,640 --> 01:49:16,480
Speaker 3: people of the computer.

2427
01:49:16,240 --> 01:49:22,599
Speaker 4: Before we go? Just uh, just party on, dude, party

2428
01:49:22,680 --> 01:49:26,200
Speaker 4: on Brie. Thank you Bret before we and I would

2429
01:49:26,280 --> 01:49:29,320
Speaker 4: like to say I'd be willing to do this again

2430
01:49:29,400 --> 01:49:29,760
Speaker 4: one day.

2431
01:49:29,920 --> 01:49:30,160
Speaker 3: Yay.

2432
01:49:30,840 --> 01:49:32,400
Speaker 4: Do you have regulars or no? Yeah?

2433
01:49:32,439 --> 01:49:32,920
Speaker 3: Come on back.

2434
01:49:33,640 --> 01:49:34,320
Speaker 4: You've had people on.

2435
01:49:34,960 --> 01:49:36,800
Speaker 3: Never, I've never had anyone do it more than once. Yeah,

2436
01:49:36,800 --> 01:49:38,519
Speaker 3: but then I don't want to do it. Okay, do

2437
01:49:38,560 --> 01:49:40,120
Speaker 3: you would you? Would you do it if you were

2438
01:49:40,200 --> 01:49:41,760
Speaker 3: the third person to do it more than once?

2439
01:49:41,880 --> 01:49:42,040
Speaker 4: Yes?

2440
01:49:42,160 --> 01:49:43,800
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, I'll have to other people do because

2441
01:49:43,800 --> 01:49:44,960
Speaker 3: I don't want people to go Why do you have

2442
01:49:45,040 --> 01:49:47,040
Speaker 3: that guy on again? And I'll have all right, I'll

2443
01:49:47,080 --> 01:49:48,599
Speaker 3: make sure that I have at least two other people

2444
01:49:48,640 --> 01:49:48,840
Speaker 3: on for.

2445
01:49:49,080 --> 01:49:50,360
Speaker 4: I also want next time.

2446
01:49:50,680 --> 01:49:52,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like you didn't put the green on

2447
01:49:52,640 --> 01:49:54,200
Speaker 2: my eyes because you want people to think, no that

2448
01:49:54,280 --> 01:49:57,120
Speaker 2: I was Korean. No, no, it was a racial thing

2449
01:49:57,160 --> 01:49:59,080
Speaker 2: you No, no, no, it was why did you put

2450
01:49:59,120 --> 01:49:59,840
Speaker 2: green around my eyes?

2451
01:49:59,840 --> 01:50:00,000
Speaker 5: There?

2452
01:50:00,400 --> 01:50:03,599
Speaker 4: My how do my eyes look fully green? Okay?

2453
01:50:03,640 --> 01:50:05,559
Speaker 3: You know what it was? I actually looked just right

2454
01:50:05,640 --> 01:50:08,559
Speaker 3: before we started. Yeah, your eyes they weren't that green.

2455
01:50:08,640 --> 01:50:13,320
Speaker 3: And I was gonna go downstairs and get more paint.

2456
01:50:13,400 --> 01:50:14,880
Speaker 4: Like, you're way more greener than I am.

2457
01:50:16,560 --> 01:50:19,559
Speaker 3: My body kind of your faces, my face knows how

2458
01:50:19,600 --> 01:50:22,479
Speaker 3: to my like cellular structure and the paint have kind

2459
01:50:22,479 --> 01:50:25,840
Speaker 3: of gotten to know each other very well. Okay, good,

2460
01:50:26,120 --> 01:50:27,920
Speaker 3: Thanks for having me, of course, anything you want to

2461
01:50:28,040 --> 01:50:30,960
Speaker 3: plug or say or I have two podcasts, Tiger Belly,

2462
01:50:31,040 --> 01:50:34,320
Speaker 3: Bad Friends, and I guess you can see me on

2463
01:50:34,400 --> 01:50:36,719
Speaker 3: this season's Reservation Dog that's on Fax.

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01:50:37,520 --> 01:50:37,800
Speaker 4: That's it.

2465
01:50:38,080 --> 01:50:39,360
Speaker 3: Thanks for not canceling doing this.

2466
01:50:41,080 --> 01:50:44,240
Speaker 4: Goes on the line, taking its own calls every night.

2467
01:50:44,640 --> 01:50:47,440
Speaker 4: Every beancon goes to his Eye's teaching.

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01:50:47,240 --> 01:50:48,760
Speaker 8: You loud in the Made Life.

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01:50:49,160 --> 01:50:51,280
Speaker 11: Money's not really an expert.