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Speaker 1: Yeah, scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and I Heart Radio Podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody. Okay, so we have a big freaking day today.

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Speaker 1: We have Jojo you good people have been asking for this,

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Speaker 1: such a good day. We're honored for you to be here.

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Speaker 1: Tanya's right here, right here, Jojo. You know, I've seeing

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Speaker 1: you guys for the last couple of days, but it

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Speaker 1: is different today, just hanging it. I'm here for and

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Speaker 1: for like what a week? Yeah, for a full week.

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Speaker 1: You have been staying at my home. But you loved

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Speaker 1: me last night. I left you last night and I

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Speaker 1: will say I was glad to see Jordan, but it

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Speaker 1: was sadly I do. I say. I was watching your

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Speaker 1: Instagram story of Becca like literally laying on top of you,

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Speaker 1: and I will say that it's been I have been

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Speaker 1: that person that I'm like laying on top of Becca

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Speaker 1: and she's pushing me off of her. She wasn't really,

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Speaker 1: I was more like it was Can we address this

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Speaker 1: and have you all discussed who there's a lot of

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Speaker 1: sort of touching amongst your Yeah, okay, well there's this

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Speaker 1: fan account out there, like I don't know, should we

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Speaker 1: can talk about this? Okay? I'm a very touchy feely

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Speaker 1: person with my friends, with my family. But there's someone

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Speaker 1: out there that had that's made an Instagram called Jojo

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Speaker 1: and Becca are lesbian loversunt So now I'm always a

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Speaker 1: little snared vers Okay, it's always a little scary too.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, should I post that snap? It was a

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Speaker 1: little too closs. I know. Every time we post a photo,

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Speaker 1: Jo's like anxiety goes to the room. I look like

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Speaker 1: her girlfriend. I'm like, listen, you have a fiance. I'm

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Speaker 1: the suspicious one at this point. That's very true. It's

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Speaker 1: fine though, I don't care. I mean, I'm like very

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Speaker 1: I would say, like Tanya, literally we're basically girlfriends at

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Speaker 1: this point, and so like it's I've just accepted it.

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Speaker 1: If people think we're lesbians, whatever, right, No, no shame,

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Speaker 1: no shame in my game. I like that your person.

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Speaker 1: It's like the Persian in me. My whole family is

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Speaker 1: like that is that a thing? Yeah, like my mom,

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Speaker 1: the whole culture so touchy feely's always kiss on the

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Speaker 1: lips and squeeze a face. And do people know you're

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Speaker 1: half Persian? I don't know. I wish I wish I

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Speaker 1: looked more half person. I'm really trying to go for

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Speaker 1: this ethnic look. I can seek the Kim Kardashian. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I'm halfway there, Like I'm halfway Armenian, Persian, They're so close,

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Speaker 1: yet I'm so far. So it's really fresh. Jojo tries

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Speaker 1: to do things that Kim Kardashian doesn't like. Your You're

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Speaker 1: coloring is a little different. You're the silver white hair

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Speaker 1: might not look the same. I'm gonna have to leave

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Speaker 1: an hour. I'm gonna ask for the white hair. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna see what they say. Let me know what they say,

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Speaker 1: because that does not go well. Okay, do you know

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Speaker 1: what I want you two to talk about? Tell us

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Speaker 1: because I know everybody knows that you guys obviously met

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Speaker 1: on The Bachelor, But I think it's interesting to talk

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Speaker 1: about how you go on the show to essentially date

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Speaker 1: the same guy and you come out with the best

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Speaker 1: friend and kind of how you how that happens on

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Speaker 1: like a show where you're wanting to date the same guy.

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Speaker 1: Does that make sense? Yeah, it's a very question, And

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Speaker 1: I want to know when was the moment. Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: know there's a very clear moment and our friendship, okay,

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Speaker 1: but we were we were close before that, but that

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Speaker 1: was when it was like, but we were still on

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Speaker 1: the mansion though, so it's had it in the first

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Speaker 1: two weeks. Now I'm talking about that night. Oh no, no,

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Speaker 1: the night where we got just hammered and I broke

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Speaker 1: your toe like kind of gone to fight with Jublie

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Speaker 1: that we didn't even know that happened. Okay, it was

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Speaker 1: first of all, I did not drink on Chris Soul

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Speaker 1: season at all. Don't put this on me, okay. And

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Speaker 1: then Joe, Joe's all, let's take a shot of fireball

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Speaker 1: one night. I was nervous and really escalated. I think

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Speaker 1: there's video on the bloopers and we're sitting on the

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Speaker 1: couch and your stomach or throat and you remember that

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Speaker 1: night we were like, man, yeah, that was a good night. Though.

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Speaker 1: It was good. But and then the night that we

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Speaker 1: were like we are Connector's no going back was when

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Speaker 1: Jojo let me wear her spanks that I had already

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Speaker 1: worn walking around Mexico City in a hundred degrees. Not

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Speaker 1: to mention it was a thong spank. I know, guys,

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Speaker 1: I needed my dresser. She asked for it, not that

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Speaker 1: I gave it to your They were underwear. There was blockage,

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Speaker 1: there was like a barrier. I was so gross. So

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Speaker 1: it wasn't It wasn't either of our best moments. But

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Speaker 1: more on you, More on you. I was just being disgusting.

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Speaker 1: Whatever by all mean nothing to me. I'm talking to

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Speaker 1: Amy now. Um. I started think about things that I

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Speaker 1: of one wouldn't pass past. Maybe if you wash them

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Speaker 1: in the sink. I did, and then they were wet

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Speaker 1: we couldn't dry on. It was really like, let's just say,

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Speaker 1: we ended up throwing them away. I won't share underwear

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Speaker 1: or deodorant, and those are just no. I'm I'm not

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Speaker 1: worried about I thought it was worried about a lot

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Speaker 1: of these things, But now that I'm thinking about it,

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Speaker 1: maybe I'm not. Maybe I'm just gross. Yeah, some people

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Speaker 1: are really worried about sharing their lipsticks. For there, I

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Speaker 1: would would y'all share your toothbrush. I've used your toothbrush? Actually,

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Speaker 1: why you have your own? Now? The last time I

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Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know I don't think I like

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Speaker 1: the tooth brusd. I don't love it, but I like

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Speaker 1: I've used Jordan's. Yeah, I'll use a boyfriend, no problem,

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Speaker 1: I don't care. That's like the same germs whatever. Consider

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Speaker 1: you're like clean, right, thank you, thank you? Did you

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Speaker 1: like to like like you're kind of clan? Yeah? I

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Speaker 1: bought a new toothbrush immediately actually switched out with my

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Speaker 1: quip should we go into equipment? I feel like it's

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Speaker 1: nice to have Jojo because she is in a steady,

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Speaker 1: good relationship. But she's something that Becca and I. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but you all are very different. Y'all are so different,

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Speaker 1: but both very single, very single. But y'all are so different.

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Speaker 1: Becca I think has a fear commitment where Tanya, where

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Speaker 1: Tania wants it so badly and so that is such

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Speaker 1: an excellent observation. But Tanya, honestly, I feel like you've

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Speaker 1: need anybody. Yeah, yeah, and you we're still working on

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Speaker 1: what do I fix? Though? Do you think you're like

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Speaker 1: a sexual You have no feelings towards anything anyone? I

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Speaker 1: do know I do. I just haven't felt them in

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Speaker 1: a while. That's the one question I feel like you

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Speaker 1: always are asking. You're like, is it possible for me

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Speaker 1: long time? Do you know what? Though? I started thinking,

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Speaker 1: and I'm not going to talk about too many details,

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Speaker 1: but I started thinking about the last person that I

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Speaker 1: I got semi rejected in that, And so I think

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Speaker 1: I fear that that's normal. I think, breath right here.

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Speaker 1: I know. I think that you could really benefit from therapy.

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Speaker 1: We talked about this yesterday. We talked about how I

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Speaker 1: think it's very good, Like I'm not going to therapy

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Speaker 1: right now, um, but I do think it's not a

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Speaker 1: bad idea for people to go and talk about their

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Speaker 1: sometimes you don't even know there's That's what I was

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Speaker 1: going to say. I need someone to ask the right questions.

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Speaker 1: We can do it here. Yeah, I don't think I

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Speaker 1: think that because I call your dad dad, isn't he

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Speaker 1: a therapist? I was like, my dad, he says psychiatrists,

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Speaker 1: So I mean he could help Becca, but I feel

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Speaker 1: like he deals with like deep yeah, like depression and

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Speaker 1: I want to talk about something about First of all,

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Speaker 1: We got an email and this is from Whitney. The

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Speaker 1: podcast is absolutely amazing. Do you think you should instantly

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Speaker 1: feel butterflies or fireworks when dating someone or do you

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Speaker 1: think sometimes it happens within time the more you get

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Speaker 1: Beccan Tania's thoughts on this, if they've experienced it. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I think it's totally situational. I think sometimes you feel

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Speaker 1: over time. I think the fireworks and the butterflies are

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Speaker 1: want that, I know. And this is the thing. We

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Speaker 1: like if I'm not feeling that, like, is this what

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Speaker 1: be like dangs. Not even physically though, I think you

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Speaker 1: become attracted to just like everything about them. They're like essence.

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Speaker 1: But what do I know? I need therapy. I didn't

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Speaker 1: it's bad. Okay, Okay, I'm like, I'm just saying. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I think the advice you give is amazing. I think

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Speaker 1: that time that I think is still hunting me today

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Speaker 1: that I don't know what it is. So that's why

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Speaker 1: I want to go to therapy. It's the only phrase

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Speaker 1: one giving advice. Yeah, there you go. I like that. Um,

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Speaker 1: you brought up a great topic that I want to discuss,

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Speaker 1: which is Graysonatomy. We all three watch Graysonnatomy religiously last week.

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Speaker 1: I think it's it's not on a good path right now.

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Speaker 1: I'm so scared it's about to come to an end.

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Speaker 1: I am so I'm scared about it. And you didn't

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Speaker 1: like this last episode either, No, I heard you liked it.

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Speaker 1: What did you like? I didn't just like it. I

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Speaker 1: like I want to fight. I think it shows a

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Speaker 1: sadly rest in peace ended up dying. Spoiler, Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: gotta say spoiler. But I think that she showed showed

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, you have the schedule where you have

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Speaker 1: to run into them for four months if you're like

421
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:01,399
Speaker 1: but whenever you're not you you just kind of, you know,

422
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:03,720
Speaker 1: do your own thing. I'm all, can I just ask

423
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:07,520
Speaker 1: a couple of questions? Very curious? So, I know on

424
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:10,840
Speaker 1: The Bachelor and The Bachelorette, you know, producers they kind

425
00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:15,400
Speaker 1: of you know, plant situational things to happen where they

426
00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:18,720
Speaker 1: create the drama, and um, you know, I'm not the

427
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 1: best like faking my reactions because I already kind of

428
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 1: know something that happened when I watched the House Wise,

429
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:29,520
Speaker 1: you guys are crazy, No, I would agree, crazy, And

430
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:32,080
Speaker 1: it's like, I know that's not fake. Yes, you're like

431
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 1: really good at acting. So a lot of so a

432
00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:36,520
Speaker 1: lot of this stuff happened, you know, like a lot

433
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:39,320
Speaker 1: of the drama happens. I almost feel like especially season

434
00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:41,119
Speaker 1: when when I ended, I was like, it's almost like

435
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 1: you're like on Survivor and it's I don't know, it's

436
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:46,080
Speaker 1: like get her before she gets You don't want anyone, Yeah,

437
00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:47,520
Speaker 1: it's like you don't want to be the person that

438
00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:50,920
Speaker 1: like GE's exiled at it. So I feel like sometimes

439
00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:53,080
Speaker 1: like people say things to you about somebody else, but

440
00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:56,280
Speaker 1: then you're petting a really awkward position. Do not relay

441
00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:58,560
Speaker 1: this information that you know is on air to the

442
00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:02,360
Speaker 1: next person. It's kind of a you know, it's bad

443
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 1: if you do bad if you don't. And then also

444
00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 1: like you will set at a dinner for eight nine

445
00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:13,160
Speaker 1: hours until something interesting happens. So sometimes it's like yeah, yeah,

446
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 1: well and and you know, usually there are things that

447
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:17,399
Speaker 1: are said, you know, and also if you say stuff

448
00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:20,240
Speaker 1: to producers, just be careful because it's probably gonna come back.

449
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:22,919
Speaker 1: So you I don't know, I think you just have

450
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:25,679
Speaker 1: to be smart and it's hard because you're living in

451
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 1: a bubble for you know, four to five months. Um,

452
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:30,960
Speaker 1: and with people that I mean they're smart. With people

453
00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:33,880
Speaker 1: that you're really not friends with and you're so different with,

454
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 1: then there's going to be some drama. Yeah, well and

455
00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:42,480
Speaker 1: the producer you're being feel like they're telling you, and

456
00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:44,960
Speaker 1: you do you get a little like you get you know,

457
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:46,840
Speaker 1: a little paranoid. You're like, oh my gosh, what you know?

458
00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:49,320
Speaker 1: And what's being said by my back? What's going on?

459
00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:51,920
Speaker 1: And so yeah, I mean this was it was hard

460
00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:53,720
Speaker 1: because you know, like I went in with my best

461
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:55,320
Speaker 1: friend and then in the beginning of the year we

462
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:58,920
Speaker 1: weren't even talking. So this year I was extremely stressed out,

463
00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 1: in paranoid in the beginning, and then towards the end,

464
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, as long as I have this

465
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:05,639
Speaker 1: friendship intact. But it's hard. It's also hard to maintain friendships.

466
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 1: That was another thing. I was cruised. But you know,

467
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:09,760
Speaker 1: you keep hearing about all these relationships that are marriages

468
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:12,480
Speaker 1: that are ending from the housewives, there's like two divorces

469
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 1: going on right now, and friendships that are just bizzling

470
00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 1: and blowing up in flames. I'm so curious how you

471
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:22,120
Speaker 1: manage your your relationship and your marriage and your kids

472
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:26,480
Speaker 1: and all that and it go unaffected, and well it doesn't.

473
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:31,440
Speaker 1: The season one before I even started this started or

474
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 1: it started filming. Um, I talked to Travis. I'm like,

475
00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 1: we've got to be in therapy just to make sure

476
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:39,400
Speaker 1: that we're talking about everything, to make sure that we

477
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,119
Speaker 1: are marriages on track, and to make sure that doesn't

478
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:45,400
Speaker 1: go off track because it was so it was so hard.

479
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 1: Um with the children, I'm just a mama bear, honestly. Um,

480
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:51,479
Speaker 1: Like a lot of times this year, you'll see like

481
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 1: that I have one child filming with me and the

482
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:56,120
Speaker 1: other one not there, and it's just because I realized

483
00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:58,720
Speaker 1: that I get paid for this. So yes, I guess

484
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,439
Speaker 1: I am for selling a sense, but my children are

485
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:03,480
Speaker 1: not getting paid. And there's six and eight, and I'm

486
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 1: not going to humiliate them at school. So if they

487
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:07,200
Speaker 1: come home and one of them is in a really

488
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,320
Speaker 1: bad mood he's had a hard day, I'm not going

489
00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 1: to say, awesome, we'll come from with mommy and let

490
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 1: the whole world see how piste off you are today.

491
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:16,200
Speaker 1: So so I will if one of them isn't a

492
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:18,879
Speaker 1: bad mood, I will separate him and just have like

493
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,040
Speaker 1: my other child come firm with me because I do

494
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:23,800
Speaker 1: think it's important to like Travis and I what we say,

495
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:26,880
Speaker 1: what we do. We're adults, but kids you have to protect.

496
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 1: Like those are my babies. So that's my biggest thing,

497
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:31,199
Speaker 1: Like as long as I can protect them. And and

498
00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 1: that's kind of how I did it this year. Yeah.

499
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:36,200
Speaker 1: So on one of our past podcasts, we've talked about

500
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 1: working with your spouse. So Carrie works with Mark. Okay,

501
00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:43,560
Speaker 1: so is there a weird like, is there any issue

502
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 1: as far as them working together? Has that been a

503
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:49,720
Speaker 1: confide in you and Um, you know, I think I

504
00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 1: think I think sometimes it's hard. Um, she kind of

505
00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:54,920
Speaker 1: cut back a lot this year, and now I feel

506
00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 1: like they just opened a new um like medical spa,

507
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 1: so they're doing more like laser therapies, and I think

508
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 1: she's really hands on with that. But I think for

509
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:06,119
Speaker 1: her and Mark, I feel like they've done it for

510
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 1: so long. I think they're able to have a really

511
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:10,840
Speaker 1: nice balance. Um. I mean sometimes I think they get

512
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 1: on each other's nerves. But I think that she she

513
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:17,159
Speaker 1: does more injectables and lasers and he's more surgery and

514
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 1: and um, she goes in for the tough surgeries, but

515
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:21,000
Speaker 1: a lot of the surgery she kind of stays away

516
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 1: from because they're together so much, even on camera. So

517
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 1: are they both physicians or so she's a she's a

518
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:31,160
Speaker 1: nurse first assistance, so she's actually a nurse that goes

519
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:37,399
Speaker 1: in and helps with surgeries and everything. Meredith, So yeah,

520
00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:41,480
Speaker 1: I hear that you bring it back always bringing it

521
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:46,240
Speaker 1: back to Yes, I mean it seems ideal, but I

522
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:48,359
Speaker 1: would think I would think, like working with your husband,

523
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:54,120
Speaker 1: having that, you know, both very strong personal I think

524
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 1: it works. But Carrie is really good at not really

525
00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:59,399
Speaker 1: complaining about her husband that much, like I complain a

526
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:02,480
Speaker 1: lot my Travis has kissed me off today, But she's

527
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 1: really pretty good about that. So what do you find

528
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 1: about money? So honest I love it. I feel like

529
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:15,359
Speaker 1: that's yeah, yeah, that's interesting, Like you spend too much? Yeah,

530
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:17,680
Speaker 1: like I think he's yeah, pretty much. I mean in

531
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 1: a nutshell. You know. It's like right now we're remodeling

532
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 1: and furnishing a house and he's always like he always

533
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:27,160
Speaker 1: gets annoyed with me because, you know, because I want

534
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:30,200
Speaker 1: to buy all new furniture and I spend a lot

535
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:32,080
Speaker 1: and I hide things from him, like I'll buy a

536
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:35,480
Speaker 1: new person like taking you know, things out of the

537
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:39,160
Speaker 1: closet like every month and making money. Yeah, I know,

538
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 1: I know, but he's always just like, oh my gosh,

539
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 1: you spend like crazy. Do you work before the housewife?

540
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 1: I did? I UM, I worked in the social service field,

541
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 1: so I worked for homeless pregnant women and their children

542
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 1: for six years and then I also worked for a headstart,

543
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 1: so I did um social work for women children. Okay,

544
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 1: so this is actually really funny because our ask a

545
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 1: guy question this week because where we ask a guy

546
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 1: his opinion on a certain subject, and this week it's

547
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 1: what if the woman makes more money in her career

548
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 1: and what if the woman is more passionate in her career?

549
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 1: So what are your thoughts on that? How's that dynamic?

550
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 1: So my my housewives money, he's very nice, like he

551
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:18,600
Speaker 1: doesn't pay all my taxes with it, and I do

552
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 1: get to keep it all, so I am very lucky.

553
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 1: Like he's like, we need to pay taxes and like, no,

554
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 1: because you're in a higher tax packert than me and

555
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:31,200
Speaker 1: that's just not fair. But um, but honestly, he makes

556
00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:33,200
Speaker 1: more money than me, and he's honestly much I mean,

557
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:35,959
Speaker 1: like his career, he eats, loves the breeze that he's

558
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 1: still good at it, so he's probably more passionate. I'm

559
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 1: really not passionate about fighting with my friends, and if

560
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 1: I was, that would be so horrible. But no, but

561
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 1: he really loves what he does and and he's he's

562
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 1: very generous but um, but yeah, but he is like

563
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 1: that person that I feel like as always. He's always like,

564
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 1: you know, you know, a fool and his money will

565
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 1: be separated. We can't act foolish, and I act foolish

566
00:29:57,720 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 1: with money because if I want something, I don't buy

567
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:04,760
Speaker 1: it and hi it. Yeah, I do. I need a

568
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 1: guy who is more like, you know, structured, because I'm

569
00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: just for all. But it's really cute because my dad's

570
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 1: so like um, he wears like Levi jeans. He was

571
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 1: dollars for his clothes and my mom will come home

572
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 1: from shopping and he'll be like, O, how much was

573
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:32,840
Speaker 1: that bag? It's like a great sea. It's good. Yeah,

574
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 1: a successful marriage. Okay, So tell us where we can

575
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 1: watch the reunion and um, I just I'm excited to

576
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:46,680
Speaker 1: see what all the drama happens tonight. Oh it's very special. No,

577
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 1: we we got rid of the indoorabole too. It's done. Yeah,

578
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 1: it's like, well we move in January, but the house

579
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 1: has been like seven months of like gutting and totally

580
00:30:54,680 --> 00:31:00,400
Speaker 1: different Austin. Yes' are moving into. Yes we bought it,

581
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 1: we're moving into. But it was so not kid friendly.

582
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 1: It looked almost like you were at a hotel. Does

583
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 1: that make sense? It just so so um so yeah.

584
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 1: I worked about seven months on it, which is why

585
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 1: we This is all of our biting right now. It's

586
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:18,880
Speaker 1: getting expensive. Yes, it's part of it too. Yeah, okay,

587
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 1: so special. Yeah. So the reunion is two parts. So

588
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 1: it's going to be this month or today and next Monday,

589
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 1: um to nine Central and um hope you guys check

590
00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 1: it out. And I hope you're at least a little entertained.

591
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:34,360
Speaker 1: I'm sure. Always so much drama. I love it. Well,

592
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 1: thank you so much for coming out. So fun, are

593
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 1: so sweet, Thank you so fun. She was so cute,

594
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:46,320
Speaker 1: so cute. That ring, that ring right, that was no

595
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 1: Neil Lane diamond was the size of my eyeball. Literally

596
00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:00,960
Speaker 1: it was large, large. Yeah for her. Yeah, we're happy

597
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:07,239
Speaker 1: for any successful relationship. I'm like, I know, beyond the ring,

598
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 1: just ten years of marriage. It's like good for you

599
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 1: off of a drunk of makeout. Anything's possible? Anything? Okay?

600
00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 1: Sorry ask a guy topic. We have an email from mindy.

601
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,440
Speaker 1: Hey Becca, I'm sorry guys you're not including this one.

602
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:25,479
Speaker 1: I love this segment where you call guys to get

603
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 1: their perspective. I'm wondering if you could can do a

604
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,840
Speaker 1: call with the following question prompt. I recently dated a

605
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 1: guy and one of the reasons he ended it was

606
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 1: because he felt I was more passionate about my career

607
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 1: than he was. I work hard, but I'm not a

608
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 1: workaholic and make plenty of time for him. So either

609
00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:41,280
Speaker 1: he was reading too much into my job or was

610
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 1: intimidated by my career success. O. My guy, our biggest

611
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:54,240
Speaker 1: fights normally come from me being so passionate about my job.

612
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:56,960
Speaker 1: You know, I think it's more about money than it

613
00:32:57,080 --> 00:33:00,320
Speaker 1: is about passion. But typically I would say, someone who's

614
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:04,440
Speaker 1: super passionate about their job is making money. If there

615
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:06,560
Speaker 1: if it's the right career, I think if it's the

616
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 1: right career, the right persons, they're making money probably more money. Yeah,

617
00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:13,239
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think it's I don't know if

618
00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 1: it's about money. I think it's about success. I think

619
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:18,520
Speaker 1: there's a difference between money and success. It just depends

620
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:21,040
Speaker 1: on I think, guess how you calculate success. I think

621
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:24,080
Speaker 1: if you're very passionate, you'll be successful no matter what.

622
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 1: But what is success to you? You know what I'm saying?

623
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 1: Like Joe Jo, do you think your brothers would like

624
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 1: it if they had a wife or a girlfriend that

625
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 1: made more money than them? So I think my brothers

626
00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 1: are different. Like I have Matt and Ben. They both

627
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 1: are very successful. I think Ben wants a girl who's

628
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 1: very passionate about work. I don't think he cares about money.

629
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:47,200
Speaker 1: He just wants somebody that's very passionate about doing anything something.

630
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:49,440
Speaker 1: I think they both want passion. I don't think they

631
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:52,240
Speaker 1: care as much about how much money they make. Okay,

632
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 1: but it's it's interesting because a girl. I don't know

633
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 1: any women who are like my husband makes more money

634
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 1: than me, or my spouse makes more money than right.

635
00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 1: This is causing so many fights, But you hear way

636
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 1: more from the guys having an issue with the women

637
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:09,080
Speaker 1: making more money. So is that a thing with like

638
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 1: the man wanting to be the leader and the um

639
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 1: provider provider? I mean I'm sure it's like their ego,

640
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 1: but at the same time, like, good for you if

641
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 1: you have a wife that is just crushing it, rushing

642
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:24,360
Speaker 1: the game, and I wouldn't want to be with a

643
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:28,320
Speaker 1: man that's like offended or or not offended, not supporting,

644
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 1: like you're inferior about that. Yeah, that's what I think.

645
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:35,560
Speaker 1: I also think it has to do with the emasculation

646
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 1: in terms of early on in a relationship. He wants

647
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:40,239
Speaker 1: to be impressive to your friends, he wants to be

648
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:42,840
Speaker 1: impressive to your family and your parents, and he doesn't

649
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 1: want to feel that he's losing respect from you or

650
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 1: the people in your world. Totally agree with that. It's

651
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 1: something that I feel like a lot of people say

652
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 1: that to me. They're like, Tanya, I feel like you

653
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:57,440
Speaker 1: intimidate a lot of men, And I'm like, but do

654
00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:04,840
Speaker 1: or is that just an excuse? That's amazing. People should

655
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,360
Speaker 1: be supporting that. I used to say I did not

656
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:10,840
Speaker 1: care if I made more money. Oh, I'm fine with that.

657
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:13,959
Speaker 1: I could totally be the breadwinner. New I was lying

658
00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:16,319
Speaker 1: to myself. So you want a guy obviously that makes

659
00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 1: more than you. It doesn't have to be more, but

660
00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 1: equally as successful. Something like that because I thought the

661
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:26,880
Speaker 1: other until I got into sort of a thing and

662
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:31,920
Speaker 1: it was awful. It was so awful, I think, And

663
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 1: I know that's bad and people were probably right hateful

664
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 1: emails to me, But like I can just only tell

665
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:39,400
Speaker 1: you how I feel. It didn't work. No, I could understand,

666
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 1: like how it could make you feel a certain type

667
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:44,360
Speaker 1: of way. That's not I mean, I get it is

668
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:47,960
Speaker 1: this part of our politically correct conversation. I'm so I

669
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:50,719
Speaker 1: only have four, like five ten minutes left to talk.

670
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 1: I want to talk about that. Everything has to be

671
00:35:54,239 --> 00:36:01,239
Speaker 1: politically correct. I'm so over. Yeah, I'm sorry we were talking. Yeah, No,

672
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:03,880
Speaker 1: I'm just saying I'm so over. You can't write a caption,

673
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:06,360
Speaker 1: you can't say something on air, you can't say anything

674
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 1: without someone being offended by it. And I feel like

675
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 1: we walk around on eggshells every single day of our life.

676
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 1: And I'm over it, Like haven't as a humor, like relax.

677
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:17,000
Speaker 1: Do you know what I found? I completely agree with you.

678
00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 1: I think it's really it's gotten to like the next level.

679
00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:21,839
Speaker 1: But I think that if you say something and you're

680
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:24,479
Speaker 1: and it's like your conviction, like you believe it, people

681
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 1: are gonna have opinions no matter what. No matter what

682
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:28,839
Speaker 1: you say, I can say I like bubblegum, and I'm

683
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,320
Speaker 1: going to have like the bubble gums association haters or

684
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 1: whatever you know, but whatever. But I think if you're

685
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:35,799
Speaker 1: passionate about it and it's it's it's true to who

686
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 1: you are, I think you just have to say it.

687
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 1: Like you know, I've said some things on air before

688
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 1: that I've offended people and have gotten some tweets about it,

689
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:44,960
Speaker 1: and you just have to such a difference though, Like,

690
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:46,920
Speaker 1: I don't think any of us in this room are

691
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:49,360
Speaker 1: saying things to be offensive or hurt people. I would

692
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:52,640
Speaker 1: never say anything to hurt someone's feelings. If it's being

693
00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:55,279
Speaker 1: unaware of how certain people take things. I just feel

694
00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 1: like there needs to be some sort of grace given,

695
00:36:57,520 --> 00:36:58,759
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I feel there's no grace.

696
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 1: So let's talk about Ellen of generous. Did you guys

697
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 1: see the photos she posted for Katie Perry's birthday? Yes,

698
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 1: I think it's hilarious. And she got like a lot

699
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:10,759
Speaker 1: of brief about it because she was like, what, pointing

700
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:14,440
Speaker 1: at her bob, and it was it was right around

701
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 1: the harbor, wasn't it all the Harvey ones. This is

702
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:21,440
Speaker 1: my thing. Why is why is everyone entitled to an

703
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:24,919
Speaker 1: opinion until until you disagree with their opinion. Then it's

704
00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 1: not You're not allowed to happen to like everyone's like.

705
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:29,200
Speaker 1: You're allowed to have your own opinion, that's the whole thing,

706
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:37,520
Speaker 1: until you disagree with speaking your truth and not offending

707
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 1: somebody because you don't know what their truth is. It's

708
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 1: just hard these days everything. So I guess if we

709
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:45,280
Speaker 1: were like mean spirited and like her people, I posted

710
00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 1: a caption and I said something, yeah, this is what

711
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:51,560
Speaker 1: kind of sparked this conversation. I posted a caption. I

712
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 1: said it was for Pond's face wipes getting your makeup off?

713
00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:57,200
Speaker 1: And I said, is anyone else O c D about

714
00:37:57,239 --> 00:37:59,480
Speaker 1: not getting makeup? And I would say, I'm almost like

715
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:01,360
Speaker 1: a weird about it, Like I really don't like it.

716
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:04,480
Speaker 1: I get that there's people who have O c D

717
00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 1: and it's like a serious thing to where they can't

718
00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 1: leave the house because it's that drafting. But in no

719
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 1: way was my caption supposed to be offensive. I have

720
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 1: a lot of like weird O c D things that

721
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:16,839
Speaker 1: I do. I mean, we all know offend not at all.

722
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:19,560
Speaker 1: And also there's thought it was funny, like I think

723
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 1: O c D about from things, and even though I've

724
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:25,319
Speaker 1: been medically diagnosed, like I am obsessive and compulsive about

725
00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 1: certain things. So I don't know. But I mean, I

726
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 1: think if you literally have an opinion on literally anything,

727
00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:34,880
Speaker 1: you're gonna get, you're gonna get hate, which sucks about it.

728
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:37,360
Speaker 1: That sucks a lot of people do not want to

729
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 1: tell somebody else at work now like oh you look nice,

730
00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:44,040
Speaker 1: or they're totally scared of it. But I also think

731
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 1: these things come and go. I remember this happening ten

732
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 1: years ago or twenty years ago or something where everybody

733
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:53,960
Speaker 1: was all freaky and then it goes away. There's just

734
00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:56,400
Speaker 1: so many things. Remember that girl, you know? Cash me

735
00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:58,759
Speaker 1: off side? How about dat you know that girl? I

736
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:00,840
Speaker 1: did a hashtag. It was a photo of Beck and

737
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:04,680
Speaker 1: I and I was like cash me outside. People freaked out.

738
00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:09,280
Speaker 1: What was just saying that I'm promoting someone who's that disrespectful?

739
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 1: How my morals aren't a lot? I was like, do

740
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:15,960
Speaker 1: you want to know the tip of the iceberg? Where

741
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:17,879
Speaker 1: I was like, we are in a very strange world

742
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 1: right now. There was this baby born in Canada and

743
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:23,560
Speaker 1: the mom didn't put it. It was the first birth

744
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:25,800
Speaker 1: certificate where the mom didn't put a gender because she

745
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:30,600
Speaker 1: said it was going against the child's um rights to

746
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:34,920
Speaker 1: choose what gender. I'm like. And then the lawyer or

747
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:38,000
Speaker 1: whoever was working for didn't have any capital letters in

748
00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:40,480
Speaker 1: her name because she didn't want it to be there

749
00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:42,520
Speaker 1: was like a reason why she didn't have like a

750
00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 1: capital first letter of her name. I was like, well,

751
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:49,040
Speaker 1: these two belong together. I think moral of this conversation

752
00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 1: is people need to be a little more forgiving. Also,

753
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:54,560
Speaker 1: people are so quick a little bit well, I mean,

754
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:57,840
Speaker 1: guess there's a lot of morals to the story. I

755
00:39:57,920 --> 00:40:02,760
Speaker 1: think out be so offended by everything. No, not everyone's

756
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:05,840
Speaker 1: out to get you. True, that's the moral. Not everyone's

757
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:07,919
Speaker 1: out to get you. Give people the benefit of the doubt.

758
00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 1: I mean, I said one day that I thought adults

759
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:13,839
Speaker 1: that sleep with teddy bears were freaks, and I got

760
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:17,400
Speaker 1: a lot of hate on that, and I stand by it.

761
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 1: I stand by it. I do not care if you

762
00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:22,279
Speaker 1: are over the age of eighteen and you're sleeping with

763
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:27,960
Speaker 1: a baby, blanket or animal. We're done so good and

764
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:31,759
Speaker 1: I don't care. Bring on the hate tweets, text send

765
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:39,320
Speaker 1: them our away. Come on, come at gosh, how about debt? Okay?

766
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 1: So anyway, sorry, we got off topic a little bit,

767
00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:43,440
Speaker 1: but we're gonna do our ask a Guy segment. Now

768
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:46,800
Speaker 1: I love this part because we are so we have

769
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 1: Mark like chimes in, but Mark standing alone, so we

770
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:52,880
Speaker 1: have to bring in the other guys. I thought we

771
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:55,960
Speaker 1: were going to talk about how we um how uh

772
00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:59,160
Speaker 1: if guys over analyzed like we do. That was part

773
00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 1: of it. We did a great question. I want to

774
00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 1: know the answer. We had one guy that wrote us

775
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 1: one sack. Simon slacked me and he said that guys

776
00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:10,560
Speaker 1: do obsessed just as much as we do. I have

777
00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:14,400
Speaker 1: proof I forgot. I thought of this in the Showers

778
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 1: song light It Up? Do you guys know Luke Brian's

779
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:23,240
Speaker 1: song lighted Up? But the whole song is I'm neurotic.

780
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:25,480
Speaker 1: I'm staring at my phone. I'm staring at my phone.

781
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:28,960
Speaker 1: Light it up, Please light it up. So maybe he's

782
00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:32,839
Speaker 1: not analyzing his text messages, but he is freaking out

783
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:36,399
Speaker 1: for the girl to light him up. Yeah. Well see,

784
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:38,800
Speaker 1: we think they don't, but they do. I have to

785
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 1: call my uber. Okay, sorry, sorry to get my hairt on.

786
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:49,359
Speaker 1: So sad. I'm missing this little phone call you're about

787
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:55,759
Speaker 1: to make, but I'm pushing confirmed uber later. It's great

788
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 1: having thanks for being here. Good time for us. Love

789
00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:02,800
Speaker 1: you guys. He'll invite me back. Okay, my opers on

790
00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:04,879
Speaker 1: in a way. Love you guys, Love you. We'll see

791
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:08,319
Speaker 1: you later on in here by Joe Joe. Good luck

792
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:12,840
Speaker 1: with your hair. See you in seven hours, four hours?

793
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:16,320
Speaker 1: How long it will take? Um? Okay, So we have

794
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:19,000
Speaker 1: Brooks on the phone. Wait do I know this Brooks?

795
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:24,319
Speaker 1: Brooks and talk? Hey Brooks? How are you? I'm doing well?

796
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 1: How are you doing? I'm great. We'll have Tanya here,

797
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:29,600
Speaker 1: I'm Brooks. Have you'll met? I don't know if you

798
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 1: all met. I don't think I have met Tanya. I

799
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 1: don't think it's unfortunate. But you sounds sound great. Okay,

800
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 1: So we have a few questions for you. Should we

801
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:45,000
Speaker 1: start with the analyzing because I like that one. Okay.

802
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:47,799
Speaker 1: We want to know do you if you are kind

803
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:49,600
Speaker 1: of talking with a girl at the beginning of a

804
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:52,800
Speaker 1: relationship getting to know someone, do you over analyze text

805
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 1: messages or how often they're texting you or when you

806
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 1: should text them. That's always going to be a function

807
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:04,480
Speaker 1: how to like somebody, right, don't don't We all give

808
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:08,080
Speaker 1: it a little extra tout if we're acutely interested. But girls,

809
00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:11,279
Speaker 1: this is what we do. We send a text and

810
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:13,640
Speaker 1: then we reread it. We look at the time we

811
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:15,919
Speaker 1: sent it, we count the minutes that have passed since

812
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:18,680
Speaker 1: we sent it. True, did we reread it again? Very true?

813
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 1: We start paint it to our friends and did we

814
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:23,440
Speaker 1: start panicking and read it to our friends? So do

815
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:25,360
Speaker 1: guys go to that level or is it more just

816
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 1: you think about it? I don't think so. I don't

817
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:33,080
Speaker 1: think guys in general do per se. But having come

818
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 1: out of the womb with a woman myself with a

819
00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 1: twins sister, was like, that took a little explaining. We

820
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:42,319
Speaker 1: all were like, yeah, that might have been a little

821
00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 1: t m I for a Monday. I have a question.

822
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:47,759
Speaker 1: Have you ever screenshot at a conversation with a girl

823
00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:49,520
Speaker 1: and sent it to a friend of yours to get

824
00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:52,880
Speaker 1: their take on like what to respond with? Um? Not

825
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:56,239
Speaker 1: in the context of early dating scenarios, but certainly in

826
00:43:56,280 --> 00:44:00,600
Speaker 1: the context of unfortunate breakup. Okay, so more at the

827
00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 1: I feel like guys are a little more sensitive at

828
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 1: the end when things end and they are maybe at

829
00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:08,719
Speaker 1: the beginning of being like all gushy and butterfly. I

830
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 1: mean that said, I try to be thoughtful and responsive

831
00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:16,320
Speaker 1: in a in the context of text exchange and early exchanges, Okay,

832
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:18,880
Speaker 1: I mean, don't leave thinks hanging out there. If somebody

833
00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:22,160
Speaker 1: sends you something thoughtful, don't just make it seem ignored.

834
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, that's the goal, is to not feel ignored.

835
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:31,040
Speaker 1: That's all. That's all we're really looking for. It's not

836
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:32,800
Speaker 1: like we need to prepe in the bottom of the

837
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 1: barrel here. Just just don't ignore us and don't forget

838
00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:39,280
Speaker 1: about us. I think that the reasonable expectations and pretty

839
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 1: good indicator of the quality of person. If they are

840
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:45,239
Speaker 1: not responsive in our context, that should be responded to.

841
00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 1: There you go. I like that. Okay. Our other question

842
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 1: is is it a problem if a woman makes more

843
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:56,560
Speaker 1: money than you or is more passionate in her career

844
00:44:56,640 --> 00:44:59,960
Speaker 1: than you. Well, given and I'm trying to be retired,

845
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:02,840
Speaker 1: I would have to say that can't be an issue

846
00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:07,359
Speaker 1: because I'm hopeful that there that they're trying to carve

847
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:09,279
Speaker 1: theirs out in the world. I mean, and I think

848
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:11,719
Speaker 1: that's probably unique to my age and having had a

849
00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 1: moderately successful career of my own self. Yeah, that's not

850
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 1: threatening to me. So you like, if a woman's like

851
00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 1: making more money or more passionate than you, you're not

852
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 1: intimidated by that. No. I mean again in the context

853
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:32,360
Speaker 1: of can't be retired with investments? So what do you like?

854
00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 1: What is retirement? Why does that entice you so much?

855
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:36,960
Speaker 1: To me? A retirement seems so boring? What do you

856
00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:41,120
Speaker 1: do with your time? Like yards are come on? As

857
00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 1: a human being on this planet is time and issue

858
00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 1: for any of us. I golf a ton, I see

859
00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:50,600
Speaker 1: a ton, I travel it ton. I'm driving out of

860
00:45:50,600 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 1: San Francisco right now, where my social world is still

861
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:59,279
Speaker 1: heavily based. Um, he's an adventure. Yeah, I don't. I

862
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 1: don't really, I don't really struggle with that that. I mean,

863
00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:04,680
Speaker 1: certainly have your mornings and occasional days where you get

864
00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:09,279
Speaker 1: a little restless. But I certainly teach that dreading going

865
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 1: into an office on Monday despitely waiting for Friday to come.

866
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:15,319
Speaker 1: That's true. I mean, I prefer even if I'm I'm

867
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:17,440
Speaker 1: rarely restless on my couch, but if I happen to

868
00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 1: be restless on my couch, it's better than being restle

869
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 1: listening in an office or something. Right. I mean, that's

870
00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 1: a pretty high quality problem to try and reconcile. True. True,

871
00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:29,919
Speaker 1: All right, well, we appreciate you. Thank you for taking

872
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:33,319
Speaker 1: your time and chatting with us, giving us a guy's opinion. Well,

873
00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:35,920
Speaker 1: I appreciate you reaching out. It's nice to nice talk

874
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:39,160
Speaker 1: to you back. Then, nice to meet you, broke, have

875
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 1: a safe trip. We'll see you when you're down here

876
00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:45,440
Speaker 1: in l A sound to get out? All right? Bye? Bye? Okay?

877
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 1: Um should we call my brother? Should we? It's more

878
00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:53,839
Speaker 1: like when can we? We should have it on speed dial.

879
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:56,319
Speaker 1: I think this is interesting because he's young, like kind

880
00:46:56,360 --> 00:47:00,160
Speaker 1: of just getting into his career. He's what twenty four?

881
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 1: He might have a very interesting nine. He might be like,

882
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:10,440
Speaker 1: please sure, Mama, save me Chris? What the we needed

883
00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:14,440
Speaker 1: the expert? Last time I got a little bit of

884
00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 1: a heads up. I was a little off guard this top. No,

885
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:19,319
Speaker 1: they're all he's not answering him, like one second, well

886
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:24,359
Speaker 1: sometimes Chris, Uh, we're sitting here and and we think, well,

887
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:28,759
Speaker 1: who would Chris say about this? So here we go.

888
00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:34,440
Speaker 1: Now we need all the honesty and sarcasm and what

889
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:36,919
Speaker 1: that you can provide us with our game. I'll see

890
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:39,880
Speaker 1: what I can do. So we just got Um Brooks,

891
00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 1: who's forty seven. We got his opinion on these topics.

892
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 1: So we wanted someone you know, younger, and I thought

893
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:50,399
Speaker 1: who better to call? Perfect? Okay, So first of all,

894
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:54,080
Speaker 1: we want to know do guys over analyze text messages?

895
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:56,200
Speaker 1: Like do you over analyze if you text a girl

896
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 1: how long it takes for her to respond? Or do

897
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:00,960
Speaker 1: you look back on what you sent her and like

898
00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:07,200
Speaker 1: overthink it? Yes? I think we overthink it. Uh, sometimes

899
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:09,560
Speaker 1: worse than other times, but I do that. I don't

900
00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:11,680
Speaker 1: do that just with girls? How do that with everybody?

901
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:16,160
Speaker 1: If I respond like if I send something to the

902
00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 1: to the family group, check and nobody responds like, man,

903
00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:22,319
Speaker 1: what did I do? That happens a lot though, even

904
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:25,279
Speaker 1: I like, I like, sometimes don't even initiate things. Who

905
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:28,320
Speaker 1: that can't handle the rejection of start thinking. I'm like,

906
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:30,040
Speaker 1: you know, I got a couple of days without talking

907
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:33,960
Speaker 1: to mom, and I'm like, man, did I the same

908
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:35,920
Speaker 1: thing with Mom? I'm like, why isn't she called me?

909
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:38,960
Speaker 1: And I'm like, maybe I should call her, like my

910
00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:41,160
Speaker 1: last my last conversation with her and I'm like, God,

911
00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:46,239
Speaker 1: did I use me like curse words? Wait, Chris, go ahead.

912
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:49,080
Speaker 1: Do you ever take screenshots of your conversations with girls

913
00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:50,880
Speaker 1: and send them to your friends to get their opinion

914
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:54,520
Speaker 1: on what you should say? Never, that's a hard no.

915
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:57,279
Speaker 1: That's a hard no. First of all, that's that's a

916
00:48:57,320 --> 00:49:00,600
Speaker 1: little too far. I think that's more of a girl thing. Also,

917
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:02,920
Speaker 1: my friends are all terrible with dating, so they wouldn't

918
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:05,320
Speaker 1: be much help, and they would harass you for that.

919
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:08,279
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you're I mean, you're you're setting yourself up

920
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:14,000
Speaker 1: for some some serious uh you know, Kate, Oliver, Lane, Oliver,

921
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:16,439
Speaker 1: you got you gonna watch what you stay for those guys.

922
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:19,799
Speaker 1: But no, I definitely I think guys over I mean,

923
00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:22,480
Speaker 1: you start to over analyze it. But I don't. Never

924
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:24,800
Speaker 1: like train shot into a group, take like a like

925
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:26,919
Speaker 1: a group of girls. My friend Angie and I spent

926
00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:32,240
Speaker 1: one full hour analyzing a text trail that her husband

927
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:35,840
Speaker 1: said like, please stop, he just doesn't have his phone

928
00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:39,000
Speaker 1: and we were like no, and we analyzed it for

929
00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 1: so long and we were one million percent wrong. Yeah,

930
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:44,879
Speaker 1: he totally. I don't. I don't usually when I over

931
00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:48,279
Speaker 1: analyze it. It's not like lack of response time. It's

932
00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:51,520
Speaker 1: more kind of the content of it, you know, like,

933
00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 1: did that come across in a way that I didn't

934
00:49:53,560 --> 00:49:58,360
Speaker 1: necessarily mean it? Especially you know with sarcasm. Uh, sometimes

935
00:49:58,440 --> 00:50:00,680
Speaker 1: that can come across on a tech nest when when

936
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:02,600
Speaker 1: you don't hear the person say it, you'll hear their tone.

937
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:06,960
Speaker 1: I can really come across not the way you meant it, right, Yeah,

938
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:09,680
Speaker 1: I agree. Okay, our other question, and I like this

939
00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:12,640
Speaker 1: one for you, But is it a problem if a

940
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:15,520
Speaker 1: girl that you're dating is more successful and makes more

941
00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:18,760
Speaker 1: money than you or is more passionate about her career.

942
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:22,719
Speaker 1: Well that's a tough one because I'm gonna sound like

943
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:26,960
Speaker 1: a scumbag if I say yes. Uh. As a as

944
00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:29,560
Speaker 1: a man, I think, yeah, you kind of want to

945
00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:35,759
Speaker 1: be the breadwinner of the household. But at some time, Uh,

946
00:50:36,120 --> 00:50:38,120
Speaker 1: that's that's great. You know, you find a great girl

947
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:40,759
Speaker 1: with a good career. It makes a lot of money.

948
00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:43,160
Speaker 1: I could see myself being a stay at home dad.

949
00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:52,480
Speaker 1: You know, anybody, anybody, I mean, you do have experience

950
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:55,719
Speaker 1: change in diapers, you you can do that stuff. I mean,

951
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:57,640
Speaker 1: there was that Lone Star song a lot back, like

952
00:50:57,840 --> 00:51:00,560
Speaker 1: Mr Mom like that. I could I could make that work.

953
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:04,799
Speaker 1: So you're done with the sugar mama, is what you're saying, Yeah,

954
00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:09,560
Speaker 1: I could be Yeah, absolutely, Um, but it's not bad

955
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:12,320
Speaker 1: because it's like, oh man, well you know that's that

956
00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:14,400
Speaker 1: sounds terrible for a guy to act like, oh, you

957
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:17,319
Speaker 1: don't want you're intimidated by No. I don't think that's bad.

958
00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:20,160
Speaker 1: I don't know that's the conversation. I think a lot

959
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:22,840
Speaker 1: of guys want to be the provider. But is it

960
00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:25,800
Speaker 1: necessarily like a negative thing if you're not or is

961
00:51:25,840 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 1: it just kind of like oh man, but I'm happy

962
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 1: that I'm with someone who's passionate. And I don't think

963
00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:33,480
Speaker 1: it's a native I think uh. I think a big

964
00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:38,960
Speaker 1: part of it is your father in law. Yeah, you know,

965
00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:41,320
Speaker 1: I think about the movie Meet the Parents, where you

966
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 1: know he's he's just a nurse, he's not a real doctor, right,

967
00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 1: just gives him hail the whole trip, the whole time. That. Yeah,

968
00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 1: you know, but like I said, I wouldn't. I would

969
00:51:56,680 --> 00:52:00,120
Speaker 1: love to find somebody. Um, I think you know, well

970
00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:06,759
Speaker 1: established and makes a good money. So Kanya, what's up girl, Chris?

971
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:11,320
Speaker 1: I would only be so lucky please? Yeah, Well, I

972
00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:13,040
Speaker 1: don't make very much. I'm gonna need all the help

973
00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:15,560
Speaker 1: I can yet. But you're so young, that's what we're saying.

974
00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:18,280
Speaker 1: Like as someone who's young, if you met someone who's

975
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:20,960
Speaker 1: your age and she's you know, say she is a

976
00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:23,759
Speaker 1: little more established in her career, but maybe you have

977
00:52:23,880 --> 00:52:26,840
Speaker 1: the potential to be the bread runner, like it's not

978
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:29,880
Speaker 1: a do breaker. Well, and you know nowadays everything is

979
00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:32,920
Speaker 1: so expensive. You know some some households that you know,

980
00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:36,200
Speaker 1: the mom all she does to stay at home dad.

981
00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:38,680
Speaker 1: You know you have a decent job. There's a lot

982
00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:41,239
Speaker 1: of things you don't just from a financial standpoint, you're

983
00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:43,880
Speaker 1: not able to do. Whereas you have money coming in

984
00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:46,720
Speaker 1: from from husband and wife, you know, that really opens

985
00:52:46,800 --> 00:52:50,799
Speaker 1: up the door, uh, to do a lot more fun activities.

986
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:53,480
Speaker 1: You gotta get. You gotta put your ego thide, say hey,

987
00:52:53,520 --> 00:52:56,360
Speaker 1: look she makes more money than I do. Kick my coverage.

988
00:52:57,400 --> 00:53:06,320
Speaker 1: Um So again, Tanya, Chris, do you have any plans

989
00:53:06,360 --> 00:53:10,760
Speaker 1: to move to l A ever? Never? Say never? Okay,

990
00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:13,520
Speaker 1: I like that answer. I didn't. I didn't never really

991
00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:17,200
Speaker 1: think I would be living in Atlanta. But I just

992
00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:20,959
Speaker 1: take it one day at a time, so maybe maybe

993
00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:23,239
Speaker 1: one day and said he was I like this, let's

994
00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:27,239
Speaker 1: put in the universe Tanya Tilly has a nice ring

995
00:53:27,320 --> 00:53:31,480
Speaker 1: to it's got a ring. Uh. You know, we'd have

996
00:53:31,520 --> 00:53:33,920
Speaker 1: to get over Like I said, your your issues with texting.

997
00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:36,440
Speaker 1: That might be a problem. We could work around it.

998
00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:39,080
Speaker 1: Would you imagine if we started dating and I'm screenshotting

999
00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:41,040
Speaker 1: him and sending the bacap being like, hell, how do

1000
00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:44,080
Speaker 1: I respond to this one? Like this is so? That

1001
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:46,360
Speaker 1: would be Yeah, that'd be a tough spot. Yeah for me,

1002
00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:50,640
Speaker 1: might put a real real clamp on our relationship, to

1003
00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:55,600
Speaker 1: be honest. All right, Well thanks for answering. You had

1004
00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:58,520
Speaker 1: him and you just blew in like right before my eyes.

1005
00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:01,319
Speaker 1: You literally had Chris and you just screwed it up.

1006
00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:04,239
Speaker 1: You do it it up because you just admitted you're

1007
00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:08,120
Speaker 1: gonna go to a sister about your relationship back up

1008
00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:10,600
Speaker 1: for everything I've kind of forgotten about it. And then

1009
00:54:10,640 --> 00:54:13,799
Speaker 1: I just gotta a hint of anxiety. I'm gonna need

1010
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:18,520
Speaker 1: some space. You have a week before we call you again,

1011
00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:22,560
Speaker 1: so enjoy, you can get excellent. We'll do all right,

1012
00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:24,719
Speaker 1: Love you, Love you, talk to you all later. I

1013
00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:30,680
Speaker 1: love you. I didn't get it back, love you. Um,

1014
00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:33,200
Speaker 1: I tend to do that. Shoot myself in the foot.

1015
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:37,640
Speaker 1: I've never seen a car crash that way. If you

1016
00:54:37,760 --> 00:54:40,200
Speaker 1: were on the Housewives, you're what would your tagline be,

1017
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:44,640
Speaker 1: I'm Tanya and I screw things up before they even start.

1018
00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:51,600
Speaker 1: It's a talent, I swear. I mean, what would your

1019
00:54:51,640 --> 00:54:56,520
Speaker 1: tagline be? I feel nothing? Hi, my name is Beatillian.

1020
00:54:56,560 --> 00:55:05,880
Speaker 1: I feel nothing. Actually pretty accurate. Um, I smell something.

1021
00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:10,200
Speaker 1: It smells heavenly in this room. It smells delicious. I

1022
00:55:10,280 --> 00:55:13,239
Speaker 1: love a good French fry. Yeah. I mean McDonald's brought

1023
00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:15,040
Speaker 1: us lunch today and we just want to say thank

1024
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:17,480
Speaker 1: you they brought us. I smell French fries. It's like

1025
00:55:17,560 --> 00:55:22,720
Speaker 1: invading my everything. Mike rib is back. That is Dean

1026
00:55:23,320 --> 00:55:27,200
Speaker 1: Nglert just walked in the building. He raised his arms.

1027
00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:29,920
Speaker 1: He raised his arms like he was making an entrance.

1028
00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:32,880
Speaker 1: I texted you a few times. I've gotten response. So

1029
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:38,839
Speaker 1: you got anything to say? I text you back every

1030
00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:42,400
Speaker 1: single time you said, yeah, let's look at it. I

1031
00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:43,759
Speaker 1: don't think I have it on my phone. I would

1032
00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:46,480
Speaker 1: just like to say I text you a lot, and

1033
00:55:46,800 --> 00:55:50,799
Speaker 1: and sometimes you don't respond, and I have to go Becca, Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello.

1034
00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:52,640
Speaker 1: So this is this is not the same thing. I

1035
00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:56,720
Speaker 1: haven't talked to him in like weeks. Instagram messages seeny

1036
00:55:56,800 --> 00:55:59,440
Speaker 1: baby was his name? Weenie baby is his game? What

1037
00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:04,239
Speaker 1: am I so to say in response? You could say

1038
00:56:04,320 --> 00:56:05,920
Speaker 1: what am I supposed to say in response? And I

1039
00:56:05,960 --> 00:56:08,080
Speaker 1: thought you were just like bored, like going through your

1040
00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:10,880
Speaker 1: of you and I was like, I haven't seen Dean

1041
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:15,520
Speaker 1: in so long. I'm gonna sew Okay, so now I

1042
00:56:15,600 --> 00:56:17,560
Speaker 1: know that's you asking me how I am. That was

1043
00:56:17,600 --> 00:56:23,160
Speaker 1: a greeting, a rap per se. Wait, but your Instagram

1044
00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:28,200
Speaker 1: message her, yeah, yeah, this was after that. It's just

1045
00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:31,040
Speaker 1: like it's like, I don't know, it's like a catalyst

1046
00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:34,520
Speaker 1: to have a conversation instead of saying he's ridiculous raping.

1047
00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 1: Some people said that Klein looked like Dean, Wait your

1048
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Speaker 1: your client? That's right, that's right, Yeah it was there

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Speaker 1: was you look like my brother, pretty excited about it

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Speaker 1: so much. I'm going to sign off the mic now bye.

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Speaker 1: Um okay, So we had a fun day today. We

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Speaker 1: had a really fun day today. I want to say

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Speaker 1: thank you to Jojo Fletcher, Jojo Fletcher, Stephanie Hollman, Stephanie Holman.

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Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Dallas Reunion show airs tonight Monday and

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Speaker 1: next Monday on Bravo. I had so many more questions

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Speaker 1: to ask Jojoe. I feel like she wasn't here long enough.

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Speaker 1: We'll have her in again, Okay, next week we'll fly

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Speaker 1: her out, give her exsiter in studio, and of course

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Speaker 1: Dean for joining um. Next week we'll break down a

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Speaker 1: promising episode of Grey's Anatomy, Mark, do you have a snops? Okay,

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Speaker 1: I do it. It looks good. I told you guys,

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Speaker 1: this was a promising turning point. It's called Who Lives,

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Speaker 1: Who Dies? Who Tells Your Story? After after a roller

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Speaker 1: coaster car falls off the track at the County Fair.

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Speaker 1: The doctors at Gray Sloan tend to patients who spark

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Speaker 1: memories about ghosts from their past. Derek Shepherd. I don't

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Speaker 1: know if I can name a lot. It's good, It's

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Speaker 1: gonna be good, and can I tell you guys, we

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Speaker 1: can talk about this next week. I read an article

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Speaker 1: on BuzzFeed that basically says every single episode of Grey's

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Speaker 1: Anatomy is a song title. You know what, people, and

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Speaker 1: I was offended that I never knew exactly that. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: you're not even a fan, Oh you knew this the

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Speaker 1: whole time forever. Talk to me when you're on my level. Okay. Also, sorry,

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Speaker 1: I agrees anatomy you have married Gray on your back

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Speaker 1: now sorry that you're not married Gray. Um. Including another

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Speaker 1: topic we need to discuss next week, is it is

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Speaker 1: it okay to two in front of your partner? I say,

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Speaker 1: I love that I'm saying to my mom hated when

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Speaker 1: I said fart growing up, and so like, if she

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Speaker 1: listens to this, I'm gonna I feel like she's gonna

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Speaker 1: be proud that I said too. I actually have a

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Speaker 1: very strong opinion on this, so we can discuss next week.

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Speaker 1: I used to be one way. I used to be

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Speaker 1: one way, and I completely changed my tune. Um, so

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Speaker 1: I guess Bonnie emailed us about that and has an opinion. Also,

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Speaker 1: Janet Kramer will be here. She was Alex on one

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Speaker 1: tree hille Hill. I'm excited to talk to her about that.

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Speaker 1: She was on Dancing with the Stars and and she's

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Speaker 1: a singer as well. She's an amazing boy. She's a

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Speaker 1: triple threat. Sounds like a tuple threat dancer singer Tree Hiller.

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Speaker 1: That's three pretty, isn't she personal? Pretty too? Okay? Um,

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Speaker 1: until then, you want to call it, or about did

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Speaker 1: you call it? Yeah, you can call it. Time of

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Speaker 1: Death PM