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Speaker 1: you know what? He said? Oh? I was crushed. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: That's where we are. Okay, Shade, they've been sitting now.

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Speaker 1: top of the hour, and entertainment news it is Stevie

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Speaker 1: Wonders birthday, Love us and Stevie wonder and yes, and

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Speaker 1: we'll tell you about what she's doing going out, but

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Speaker 1: first it is time for church complaints. Yeah, come on,

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Speaker 1: or so sorry to the Houston Rockets. What's that got

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Speaker 1: You're not a fan. I don't have time to pray

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Speaker 1: All right. My next complaint is brother Rashid Ambros has

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Speaker 1: The problem we're having, Pastor is when he hears the

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Speaker 1: not gonna do it? Nah? Nah nah, Now you're gonna

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Speaker 1: come on and do them dead Deacon sister, your linder Adam.

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Speaker 1: It is asking to join I would church, not by

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Speaker 1: this right here, ain't sissy, you loan the Adam from Houston,

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Speaker 1: we gotta go, pastor, we got to go, got go

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Speaker 1: mighty well with my anchor SHOWCA Church. Coming up at

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Speaker 1: you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. In today's entertainment News,

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Speaker 1: we have to say happy birthday to our friend and legend,

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Speaker 1: musical legend Stevie wonder Man. Did you wonder sixty eight today?

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Speaker 1: Steve Man, Go Horrs, Baby Taurus Doubo Musical Genius, one

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Speaker 1: of the greatest albums of all time. Songs in the

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Speaker 1: Key of Life, Yo boy, I gotta tell you another

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Speaker 1: good one, though, talking book, I gotta tell you another

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Speaker 1: good one. Do you use aquarium? I gotta tell you

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Speaker 1: another hotter than your lie that boy been making heat

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Speaker 1: he's ain't about thirteen hours, all them songs to hit

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Speaker 1: Stevie Wonder. We love you, Stevie legend boy. Appreciate all

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Speaker 1: the great music. Yes, sir, they don't make him, No,

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Speaker 1: they don't. Don't. Don't do a double album with a

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Speaker 1: forty five on the inside of the case. Superstitious like

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Speaker 1: that stuff. And wh what did you say you heard of?

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Speaker 1: Were you didn't put jodas in the same dinner group

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Speaker 1: with Stevie? Warned stupid young? Is that what? Just did?

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Speaker 1: Don't know? Abody ever say Judaic birthday, jas birthday. Junior

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Speaker 1: thinks he's the fifth member of Joda. See Steve, you

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Speaker 1: don't tell me Jeosi and Steve tell me never said

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Speaker 1: us in the same term. Jake, Yeah, once you said

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Speaker 1: around the world, wait a while before you bring up

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Speaker 1: josy Okay. I think Coli days the Rosebuds know the bloom.

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Speaker 1: It really may come on. Boy, just this kindness knows

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Speaker 1: no shame, no through all your joy in pain, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna be loving you always. Come on, boy, Tomorrow's no

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Speaker 1: I'm living, but tomorrow row could make me the past.

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Speaker 1: For that, I mustn't feel boy. You that song, right, Joe,

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Speaker 1: she got anything like that? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, we got fun.

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Speaker 1: They got nothing loes Yeah got one peg my mon,

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Speaker 1: same feeling come on the exact same feeling, different at

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Speaker 1: different j as and as me on the rock and

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Speaker 1: you gave me you'll stop and half a mother from helping.

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Speaker 1: You dropped me back down to this cold cold oh

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Speaker 1: too cold. You took me what you got Peening, you

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Speaker 1: got me feen. It's the same feeling. It's the same.

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Speaker 1: It's the same thing. You better listen to Jon Pening.

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Speaker 1: Different things go about you. Yeah, think about you, baby, baby,

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Speaker 1: Oh we got something just like what Come and talk

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Speaker 1: to me. I really want to me, you can I

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Speaker 1: talk to you? And that well anyway, Good morning everybody, Okay,

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Speaker 1: good morning. This is entered with the news The Chairman

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Speaker 1: of the House Intelligence Committee, Adam Schiff, says that Special

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Speaker 1: Counsel Robin Mueller has agreed to testify before the Palel

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Speaker 1: about his team's Russian meddling report. Just when that's going

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Speaker 1: to happen, though, is not clear. Schiff says on ABC

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Speaker 1: News this Week Sunday, the quote, the American people have

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Speaker 1: a right to hear what the man who did the

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Speaker 1: investigation has to say, and we now know we certainly

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Speaker 1: can't rely on the Attorney General who misrepresented his conclusions.

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Speaker 1: Cops in Houston have charged an area man in connection

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Speaker 1: with the disappearance of a four year old African American girl.

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Speaker 1: His stepdaughter thought he'd say that. Little Malia Davis has

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Speaker 1: been missing for a week ever since her stepfather claims

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Speaker 1: he was taken She was taken by a carjacker. Investigators

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Speaker 1: say that blood from the stepfather, dari and Vince's apartment

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Speaker 1: has been linked to Malia, so he's now being charged

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Speaker 1: or tampering with evidence. Surveillance video shows him carrying a

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Speaker 1: full laundry basket out of his apartment and that that

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Speaker 1: basket was recovered out of the trunk of his car,

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Speaker 1: and Malia or her body have yet been found. Finally,

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Speaker 1: the long long long delay Department trial departmental trial of

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Speaker 1: Staten Island New York City cop Daniel Pantaleo begins today.

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Speaker 1: Pantalo's accused in the twenty fourteen chokehole death of Eric Garner,

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Speaker 1: which the medical examine labeled a homicide and which caused

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Speaker 1: of reactions all over the country demonstrations against police brutality.

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Speaker 1: A ruling last week stipulates that the watchdog agency bringing

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Speaker 1: the case to court, the Civilian Complaint Review Board, has

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Speaker 1: to prove that Pamphalleo violated departmental rules, but also that

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Speaker 1: his actions fit for criminal charges. A Staten Island grand

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Speaker 1: jury refused to indict this guy. However, if he's convicted

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Speaker 1: in his police departmental trial, he'll either be fired or

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Speaker 1: lose some vacation. Meanwhile, according to The New York Times, chokeholes,

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Speaker 1: which police brass in New York claim have been banned,

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Speaker 1: there still being used by members of the NYPD. The

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Speaker 1: Time says that records of complaint show that some cops

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Speaker 1: are still using chokeholes, but that only a timely fraction

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Speaker 1: of the cops accused of using chokeholes have been found

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Speaker 1: guilty or faced discipline. Sad news tributes are pouring in

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Speaker 1: for actress Peggy Lipton, who played Julie on the sixties

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Speaker 1: TV detective show The Mod Squad and who died on

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Speaker 1: Satdie After losing her battle with cancer at age seventy two,

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Speaker 1: Peggy Lifton was divorced on Quincy Jones. Their daughters were

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Speaker 1: Sheida and Kadada, were at her bedside when she passed. Finally,

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Speaker 1: even though the detective Pikachu made fifty eight million dollars

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Speaker 1: over the Mother's Day weekend, number one was Avenger's End

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Speaker 1: Game and for the third weekend in our own even

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Speaker 1: if there's a small chance we owe this to everyone's

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Speaker 1: not in this firm to try three will whatever it takes,

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Speaker 1: whatever it takes, whatever it takes. Well they've got whatever

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Speaker 1: it takes. End Game made another sixty three mill. Now

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Speaker 1: back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening show

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Speaker 1: all right, Steve and Mother's Day trending news. We have

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Speaker 1: to say congratulations to your beautiful wife, Marjorie Harvey. Marjorie

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Speaker 1: was honored this past weekend at the Women of Excellence Luncheon,

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Speaker 1: Yes by the Lady Like Foundation through the Stephen Marjorie

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Speaker 1: Harvey Foundation. You guys gifted. This is really special, Steve,

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Speaker 1: and wonderful You guys gifted a young lady to pay

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Speaker 1: for the rest of her college tuition. Yeah, that's big

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Speaker 1: right there. Thank you guys, Yeah, thank you guys. You're

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Speaker 1: gonna pay for the rest of her college tuition. Here's

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Speaker 1: a moment when Marjorie surprised a young lady with the announcement.

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Speaker 1: Take a listen. I understand that we unders paying for

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Speaker 1: one year of your college. I don't know if you're

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Speaker 1: going for two years, three years, four years, or whatever.

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Speaker 1: It is. My husband, not you. A lot of people

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Speaker 1: don't know what that really mean. That's so big. A

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Speaker 1: lot of people have no idea what that means when

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Speaker 1: you're getting your tuition pay right man, because you don't know.

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Speaker 1: I really do, because that's an important that my wife

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Speaker 1: recognizes that stuff. This young girl was in Falster Care.

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Speaker 1: She had aged out of Falster Care. She had nowhere

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Speaker 1: to go. She has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend convinced of

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Speaker 1: his parents to let her live with him or with them,

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Speaker 1: and so this parent, these people over in Crenshaw just

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Speaker 1: took this girl in. So she just had somewhere to live.

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Speaker 1: She's a sweetheart of a young girl, and her boyfriend's

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Speaker 1: parents was good enough to let her live that she

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Speaker 1: had no way of paying for college. So my wife

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Speaker 1: picked up the other three years. And I thought that

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Speaker 1: was absolutely fabulous because I didn't know abody till it

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Speaker 1: was done. And then on my last show of the

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Speaker 1: season that we taped Thursday, I went to Kent State

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Speaker 1: and I got seven boys, eight eight boys, eight African

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Speaker 1: American boys. We're paying for eight African boys full scholarship

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Speaker 1: rides to Kent State un WHOA. So that's a ton

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Speaker 1: of nineteens in one week that we'll be sending to college.

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Speaker 1: And one of our goals is margin. I we don't

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Speaker 1: speak about it, but our goal is throughout our career,

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Speaker 1: and we're on our way. I'm not gonna say the

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Speaker 1: number we're now, but it's up there. We're sending ten

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Speaker 1: thousand students to college full pay ten thousand. That's how

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Speaker 1: go out. We're looking at the supply that God has

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Speaker 1: a God has an endless source of supply, So that's

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Speaker 1: what we're depending on. How we're gonna do it. We

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Speaker 1: don't exactly know how, but whenever we get the money

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Speaker 1: put together like we did nine this week, and we're

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Speaker 1: gonna do when we can, and we're gonna see it through.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna make that goal happen before our leaders world.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna send ten thousand kids to college full page scholarship.

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Speaker 1: Whoa go ahead, Yes, thank you guys, Thank you guys.

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Speaker 1: All right, well listen. Coming up next, Jamesony Brown is here.

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Speaker 1: He's going to murder another hit right after this. You're listening,

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Speaker 1: Steven show, All right, Steve introduced Jay Jay Anthony Brown.

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Speaker 1: You can do better than that, ladies and gentlemen. This

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Speaker 1: boy right here, from that other station that was so

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Speaker 1: sorely losing and using him. I picked him up, dusting

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Speaker 1: him off, turned him into somebody. Ladies and gentlemen. He's hell,

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Speaker 1: he is, friends, I do this boy right here, come

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Speaker 1: to work with a smile on his face in spite

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Speaker 1: of his adversity, and God has blessing him in ladies

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Speaker 1: and gentleman, standing strong. Why he's sick? Come on, Joe,

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Speaker 1: hands together for that damn janfing it bron oh man,

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Speaker 1: hit it, create it, hit it, hit it rest, come

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Speaker 1: broke down again. Gotta kiss the bus again. Can't win,

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Speaker 1: can't Yeah, I gotta catch that bus to work. I

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Speaker 1: gotta do. I'm gonna ride and do my buckets. So

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Speaker 1: I gotta take that bus to work. I gotta do.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna ride into my buckets, so you know I'm

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Speaker 1: tying off around Bud. I gotta get to work. Got

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Speaker 1: my get a boot sown, and my feet are really hurt.

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Speaker 1: And I just missed the last bus to drive A

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Speaker 1: saw me way, Mom. I'm standing at the bus stop,

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Speaker 1: sweating like to stay. Was somebody telling me something when

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Speaker 1: there's another bus coming? Was somebody tell me something when

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Speaker 1: there's another bus come? My child's a board is dude,

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Speaker 1: I gotta get paid. A boss said he would find

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Speaker 1: me if I ever shortly? Ain't the world is getting

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Speaker 1: due in my life should be. I'm moved. Hey, sitting

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Speaker 1: on my bus. I got some gum stuck on my

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Speaker 1: boot and want somebody tell me something when there's another

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Speaker 1: us coming? Want somebody tell me something when there's another bus?

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Speaker 1: Time I got against that bus. Gotta do. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: ride into my buckets, So I gotta take that bus.

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Speaker 1: I gotta do. I wanna ride to my bucket. That

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Speaker 1: was at get missed up Jay, that was the trails

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Speaker 1: off with good sorget sor gets. Yeah, you want a bus?

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Speaker 1: Got a fleetless. But that's that country songs that you

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Speaker 1: on the harmonica. Yah, he wanted to hits over here.

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Speaker 1: That's what we do. You're still talented. That's just money

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Speaker 1: who kids love. That's all there is. The number one

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Speaker 1: song in the Come Yesterday, is it? Yes? Yeah? What

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Speaker 1: we do here? You true, Jake? You are the true

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Speaker 1: right up there with Stevie One, that Joe to see

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Speaker 1: last week big the biggest rapper this week I got

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Speaker 1: I got news for Junior. Hurt him, Jake, But I'll

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Speaker 1: put you right up there right after Stevie One. I'll

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Speaker 1: put you and Junior about to kill him. Did that

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Speaker 1: you actually take joas is better than Earth Wind Fry,

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Speaker 1: don't you? No? No, no no, They just asked, as

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Speaker 1: I get the same feeling when I hear both, I

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Speaker 1: don't know how to he are you they? You don't

601
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Speaker 1: get the same feeling? You think the nephew is up

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Speaker 1: next with the praying phone call that's coming up right

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Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to show coming up at the

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Speaker 1: top of the hour. Guys, right about four minutes after,

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Speaker 1: it's my Strawberry letter for today. The subject he can't

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Speaker 1: get rid of his hood mentality right now though it

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Speaker 1: could be three people on this show. Well, actually the

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Speaker 1: phone actually actually actual calling. Yeah, you know you now,

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Speaker 1: come on, I'm good. I don't even know right now

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Speaker 1: the nephew is here with today's bring phone call, what

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Speaker 1: you got for us? And after? Sometimes you got to

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00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:15,360
Speaker 1: bring the news, Charlett. Sometimes you gotta let them know

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Speaker 1: you're not graduating. Man, you are not graduating. Wow. Somebody

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Speaker 1: got to bring the news. Somebody got to tell them.

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Speaker 1: Some got to be Everybody got their own role. This

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Speaker 1: is my role. I gotta let you know you're not graduating.

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Speaker 1: Running Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach a travad place,

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Speaker 1: this humble of this Uh, this is my name is

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Speaker 1: Joseph Work open, student affairs. How are you doing today?

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Speaker 1: I'm good? How are you? I'm good. Listen, you're supposed

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Speaker 1: to be UM. This is your fifth year here at

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Speaker 1: the university. You're graduating and UM in the next seven

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Speaker 1: eight days? Am I right? Yes? There? Have you out

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Speaker 1: of this joint? Okay, listen, I'm giving you a call.

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Speaker 1: We got a bit of a problem here that we

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Speaker 1: want to try and discuss with you, and maybe we

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Speaker 1: can get you over at student affairs and come in

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Speaker 1: and have a meeting with us, but we wanted to

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Speaker 1: bring it to your attention. Now, you took a one

630
00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:20,399
Speaker 1: of your last subjects was English, uh, and you had

631
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Speaker 1: an English exam with a You guys are writing an essay.

632
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:27,320
Speaker 1: Am I am? I am? I correct about that? Yeah,

633
00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 1: and yeah, that's true. Okay, see that we got some

634
00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:33,839
Speaker 1: problems here that the professor there is actually a senior

635
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:36,919
Speaker 1: meeting that you may have cheated on this on this

636
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:42,960
Speaker 1: essay that you've actually written cheated. No, I mean from

637
00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 1: from what he's telling us here at Student Affairs is

638
00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:50,279
Speaker 1: that you may have plagiarized some things that that we're

639
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:53,080
Speaker 1: in your essay. Dude, No, I didn't. I didn't plagiarize

640
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:55,239
Speaker 1: nothing that was in the essay. Everything is documented like

641
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 1: it should be. So I don't know what you're talking about,

642
00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:00,440
Speaker 1: especially cheating on no exam on no paper now like that.

643
00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:03,000
Speaker 1: You must got me mixed up with somebody else. No, no, no,

644
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:06,080
Speaker 1: not at all. You're actually mister Travan correct. I mean

645
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 1: that's me. But I didn't cheat on no exam. But

646
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 1: that matter. Okay, Well, let me let me try to

647
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:12,960
Speaker 1: bring you up to speed here at Travan. What we're

648
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 1: gonna need is We're gonna need you to actually come

649
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 1: in and talk to us over here at student affairs

650
00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 1: so we can try to get this thing rectified. But

651
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:23,160
Speaker 1: I will let you know, it's gonna take a few

652
00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:26,839
Speaker 1: more days longer than graduation. So as of right now,

653
00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:30,319
Speaker 1: you're actually not gonna be walking uh and graduating with

654
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 1: the rest of the students. Man, dude, Man, you got

655
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 1: me messed up. What's what you mean? I'm not gonna

656
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:39,279
Speaker 1: be walking well until we get this situation rectified here.

657
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:41,600
Speaker 1: You're not gonna be graduating with the rest of the

658
00:46:41,640 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 1: students now. Dot. I don't know what y'all gotta do,

659
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 1: but y'all need to figure it out or find out

660
00:46:46,080 --> 00:46:48,000
Speaker 1: what the problem. Man, I didn't cheat on no exam

661
00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:50,480
Speaker 1: there you're talking about. Dude, My family is coming down

662
00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:53,080
Speaker 1: here and you're talking about cheating on an English exam. There,

663
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 1: I look like cheating on an example. And I'm getting

664
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:57,440
Speaker 1: ready to graduate. Man, Now, y'all need to fix it,

665
00:46:57,520 --> 00:46:59,440
Speaker 1: like right now, like today while we're on the phone.

666
00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 1: We can't do that. It's a little it's a sensitive

667
00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:04,440
Speaker 1: subject and like I said, it seems like it's plagiarism.

668
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:06,160
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, if we can get you to

669
00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 1: actually come over the student affairs next Wednesday. Man, you man,

670
00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:12,880
Speaker 1: you got me? So what you mean next Wednesday? Dude?

671
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:15,319
Speaker 1: I'm graduating in a few days. When you saw about

672
00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:18,200
Speaker 1: next wednesday? Man, why don't my professor didn't give me

673
00:47:18,239 --> 00:47:20,920
Speaker 1: a call? Why are you calling me sir? This is

674
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:23,319
Speaker 1: not something that professors actually take care of. This is

675
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:27,080
Speaker 1: a student affair situation now, and it's a very sensitive situation.

676
00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:28,399
Speaker 1: And what we want to do is try to get

677
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:30,480
Speaker 1: this thing taken care of. And if you if what

678
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:35,760
Speaker 1: you're saying is actually true, then you'll probably graduating AUGUSTA

679
00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 1: you got me. I'm telling you writing that this is

680
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 1: a you got me August. I'm graduating. This to me,

681
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:45,759
Speaker 1: to me here too long to go through some my

682
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:51,960
Speaker 1: last few weeks of school, and you talk about August

683
00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:54,000
Speaker 1: n you didn't even time to hear what you got

684
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:56,239
Speaker 1: to say. Man, My family is coming down here from

685
00:47:56,239 --> 00:47:58,520
Speaker 1: everywhere to see me graduate. Ma, I'm a first fair

686
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:01,399
Speaker 1: graduate from my family. Are you talking about some telling

687
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:04,960
Speaker 1: about my cheat on the paper? A paper due a paper?

688
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 1: Can you come here? Man, i''m gonna work two and

689
00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:10,279
Speaker 1: three jobs to see me through this school and now

690
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 1: I'm coming getting rid of graduate? Are you talking about

691
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:15,360
Speaker 1: how to wait until August? A graduate? Man? Hell? Now,

692
00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:17,680
Speaker 1: I'm on my way to the office right now, and

693
00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:19,960
Speaker 1: you can tell whoever the professor is, that I'm on

694
00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 1: my way and he needs to be there too, Sir.

695
00:48:21,920 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 1: I can really tell you that we can try and

696
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:26,680
Speaker 1: get this thing rectified and earlier the next Wednesday. Man,

697
00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:29,879
Speaker 1: what's your name again? And where's where's your office? I'm

698
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 1: in suiting the prayers. I'm Joe. Okay, okay, okay, okay.

699
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:34,680
Speaker 1: So I'm about to get in my car right now

700
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:36,040
Speaker 1: and I'm about to come over there and we're gonna

701
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:38,360
Speaker 1: handle it today. And how are you singing to me?

702
00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:42,960
Speaker 1: Cheating on the exam paper? Then? Is that all the

703
00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 1: thing is? The professor here? Man? Are you kidding me? Dude?

704
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:52,800
Speaker 1: I've been here five Yes, I'm the first man to

705
00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 1: graduate from Callers. Man. My grandmom is eighty two years

706
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:58,719
Speaker 1: old and she coming in here and see me graduate

707
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:01,400
Speaker 1: and you're telling me the somebody seeing on the paper

708
00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 1: and I got a way to I'll get a graduates man. Man,

709
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:07,960
Speaker 1: you tell it professor to come to your office right now,

710
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:10,239
Speaker 1: because I'm already in my car. On my way to

711
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:13,719
Speaker 1: come to your office, and we're gonna handing this today. Man,

712
00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:16,400
Speaker 1: you got me. I don't have any more room or

713
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:19,839
Speaker 1: my schedule to actually pull anybody in today, or you're

714
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:22,640
Speaker 1: gonna call me with like this something you ain't got

715
00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:26,400
Speaker 1: room on your schedule. Man, Hell now, miss missile, whatever

716
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:28,320
Speaker 1: your name is, I'm all my way to your office

717
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:31,279
Speaker 1: right now, and I sad you. I'm gonna tell you,

718
00:49:31,320 --> 00:49:33,920
Speaker 1: and I'm telling you up front it's gonna be a problem.

719
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:36,440
Speaker 1: I ain't graduating in a few days. You got to

720
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:38,520
Speaker 1: be with me. You got to deal with my family

721
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:40,759
Speaker 1: and my mama. We're gonna play this thing. I got

722
00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:44,759
Speaker 1: a start, sir, I understand. Is there a possibility that

723
00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:47,879
Speaker 1: maybe you plagiarized and didn't know that you did that? Man?

724
00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:51,120
Speaker 1: You mean the paper was Officer and I already knew, sir?

725
00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:52,960
Speaker 1: Can I can? I can? I tell you one more

726
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:55,280
Speaker 1: thing and then and then all that you can't say

727
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:57,359
Speaker 1: you're not ready to call me with somebody. I can't

728
00:49:57,400 --> 00:49:59,719
Speaker 1: graduate with my class after I hadn't been this for

729
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:04,600
Speaker 1: five yep, and you're telling me I can't graduate until August.

730
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:07,480
Speaker 1: You ain't got to tell me. I do have one

731
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 1: more thing I need to tell you, and then I'll

732
00:50:09,080 --> 00:50:11,879
Speaker 1: let you be on your way. Okay, man, go ahead,

733
00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 1: Can I tell you what I want to tell you?

734
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:16,520
Speaker 1: New go ahead. I'm telling you this. It was nephew

735
00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:19,879
Speaker 1: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got

736
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:33,320
Speaker 1: prink phone called by your best Frian, Brian. What hello? Man?

737
00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 1: Do somebody gonna playing jokes like that? Dude? Man? Do

738
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:44,919
Speaker 1: you know how hard I get out five years years? Man?

739
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 1: I'm you are the first black male in your family

740
00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:52,919
Speaker 1: to graduate from college. You're doing a big boy man.

741
00:50:53,040 --> 00:50:56,880
Speaker 1: I know. Man, it's been a journey. Bros A. I

742
00:50:56,920 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 1: got one more thing. Ask your baby, what is what

743
00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:01,920
Speaker 1: is the baddest that? I mean, the baddest radio show

744
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 1: in the land? Man? As that Steve Harvey Morning. Was

745
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:12,640
Speaker 1: I wrong for that? Yes? No? No, not ready. Anybody

746
00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:16,120
Speaker 1: feel like I crossed the line? Ain't crossed dead? You

747
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:19,680
Speaker 1: always do. Get home? It hit home, you know. I

748
00:51:19,680 --> 00:51:22,120
Speaker 1: don't care nothing about him, the first one graduate. Ain't

749
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:25,680
Speaker 1: need him his grandmama coming. I can't remembo. I don't

750
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:28,239
Speaker 1: care nobody. I got a look pass. Why would you?

751
00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:33,239
Speaker 1: Thank you? Thank you? You never let nothing get in

752
00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:37,399
Speaker 1: the weight of the break. You not graduate. I don't

753
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 1: came about your grandmama coming out and into the school.

754
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:42,080
Speaker 1: You ain't your ass, saint. Yeah, take his ass to

755
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:47,080
Speaker 1: the private room because he ain't gonna graduate. That man,

756
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:52,960
Speaker 1: get ready, chuckles. The nephew was coming to town. Chuckles, chuckles, chuckles. Memphis, Tennessee.

757
00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:56,080
Speaker 1: The nephew is coming to town Memorial weekend. That is Friday, Saturday,

758
00:51:56,120 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 1: and Sunday. Take us our own sale right now. The

759
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:02,359
Speaker 1: nephew was come to town, Shirley, and call all your

760
00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:05,960
Speaker 1: relatives that are there. I will not be giving them

761
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:10,399
Speaker 1: complimentary tickets. I'm telling you get your tickets. They don't

762
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:17,120
Speaker 1: sail right now. I have so many, so many, Oh

763
00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:20,160
Speaker 1: they will they welcome. I I catch you on the

764
00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 1: nixt city. All right, listen, thank you, nephew. We'll be

765
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:29,200
Speaker 1: back with the Strawberry Letter. The subject is he can't

766
00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:31,960
Speaker 1: get rid of his hood mentality. We'll get into it

767
00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:35,840
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.

768
00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:39,319
Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and listen. If you

769
00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:42,839
Speaker 1: need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more,

770
00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:47,240
Speaker 1: please please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot

771
00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:51,160
Speaker 1: com and click submit strawberry letter. Okay, we could be

772
00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:53,439
Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

773
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:56,440
Speaker 1: going to read this one right here, right now today.

774
00:52:56,920 --> 00:52:58,800
Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for

775
00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 1: you here. It is these straw very lenin. Thank you,

776
00:53:03,160 --> 00:53:07,440
Speaker 1: ev subject he can't get rid of his hood mentality

777
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:10,560
Speaker 1: Here Stephen Shirley, I'm a twenty eight year old married

778
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:13,680
Speaker 1: woman and my husband just turned thirty. We have a

779
00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 1: great marriage, but I need you to help me settle

780
00:53:16,200 --> 00:53:19,160
Speaker 1: an argument. We are both black, but we come from

781
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:23,080
Speaker 1: very different backgrounds. He was raised in a poor urban

782
00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:26,319
Speaker 1: area that was predominantly black. I was raised in a

783
00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:30,440
Speaker 1: middle class suburb that was very racially diverse. I often

784
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:32,880
Speaker 1: have to tell him that certain things like wearing a

785
00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:36,480
Speaker 1: dow rag outside the house or blasting loud rap music

786
00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:39,719
Speaker 1: is not acceptable at his age and in the community

787
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:42,319
Speaker 1: we live in. Now, we just found out that I'm

788
00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:45,040
Speaker 1: pregnant with twins, and we are having a boy and

789
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:48,400
Speaker 1: a girl. We've started planning for the two babies, and

790
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:51,759
Speaker 1: we've been discussing baby names. All of the names that

791
00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:56,720
Speaker 1: he has suggested our stereotypical ghetto names, and I won't

792
00:53:56,760 --> 00:53:59,160
Speaker 1: give you an example because I don't want to offend

793
00:53:59,200 --> 00:54:03,200
Speaker 1: anyone that is listening. There have been numerous studies on

794
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:07,000
Speaker 1: black children with these made up names. These kids constantly

795
00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:09,920
Speaker 1: have to correct people on the pronunciation and spelling of

796
00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:12,960
Speaker 1: their names, and they are often ridiculed and passed over

797
00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:16,279
Speaker 1: for jobs later on. I think it is ignorance on

798
00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:18,719
Speaker 1: the parents part to do that to a child. I

799
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:22,000
Speaker 1: will not do it to my twins. My husband's argument

800
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:25,120
Speaker 1: is that the names he chose represent the black culture,

801
00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:28,120
Speaker 1: and our children will be proud of their names when

802
00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:31,879
Speaker 1: they are old enough to understand their culture and heritage.

803
00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:35,080
Speaker 1: No one in my family has a ghetto name, and

804
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:38,400
Speaker 1: it won't start now. I love this man, but he

805
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:42,520
Speaker 1: can't separate stereotypes from real life, and he can adapt

806
00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:45,520
Speaker 1: to a different lifestyle. How can I explain to him

807
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 1: that I want our kids to have every advantage and

808
00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:52,040
Speaker 1: not ever be made to feel different. What are your thoughts?

809
00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:56,440
Speaker 1: Please help us? While you guys are very different, I'm

810
00:54:56,480 --> 00:54:59,240
Speaker 1: surprised you were able to come together and get married

811
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:01,760
Speaker 1: and you got a know that you can't change anyone.

812
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:03,799
Speaker 1: You guys are married now and you're still trying to

813
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:07,880
Speaker 1: change your husband. I don't understand why you're trying to

814
00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:10,400
Speaker 1: do that, because how's that working for you? It doesn't

815
00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:12,799
Speaker 1: sound like it's going too well. But I am with

816
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:16,440
Speaker 1: you one hundred percent as far as um you know

817
00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:18,640
Speaker 1: what you're talking about the culture and all of that,

818
00:55:18,719 --> 00:55:22,720
Speaker 1: and studies have shown that, you know, kids with certain

819
00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:26,960
Speaker 1: names are held can be held back. Unfortunately, you know

820
00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:30,919
Speaker 1: that is true. Certain names do hold us back and

821
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:33,160
Speaker 1: all of that. As far as the culture goes, there

822
00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:35,520
Speaker 1: are many ways for your children to learn it. You

823
00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:38,840
Speaker 1: can teach them their history and their heritage. Books always

824
00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:41,880
Speaker 1: a go to the internet, museums, movies, all of that.

825
00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:44,480
Speaker 1: You can teach them about President Obama. There's plenty of

826
00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:47,760
Speaker 1: time for them to learn their heritage and learn about

827
00:55:47,760 --> 00:55:50,600
Speaker 1: their history, just like we had to. Uh. You know,

828
00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:53,200
Speaker 1: there's going to be many many ways to bring cultural

829
00:55:53,200 --> 00:55:57,840
Speaker 1: awareness to your kids. We're sitting queath them. The cultural

830
00:55:58,080 --> 00:56:01,640
Speaker 1: differences between you and your husband, though, to me, that's

831
00:56:01,760 --> 00:56:05,720
Speaker 1: a much bigger thing, and it might take some counseling

832
00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:09,120
Speaker 1: to work that out. Because he is who he is

833
00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:11,560
Speaker 1: and you are who you are, and you guys married

834
00:56:11,600 --> 00:56:14,839
Speaker 1: each other, you know, and I say this, you might

835
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:18,160
Speaker 1: need counseling because the twins are coming and you both

836
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:20,000
Speaker 1: want to be good role models for them. You with

837
00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:23,160
Speaker 1: your middle class background, your husband with this inner city upbringing.

838
00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:27,000
Speaker 1: You know there's value in both. No one is not

839
00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:30,360
Speaker 1: better than the other one. You both bring unique experiences.

840
00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:33,359
Speaker 1: You guys are going to have to come together. I mean, yeah,

841
00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:36,160
Speaker 1: with the do rags in public and the loud music. Yeah,

842
00:56:36,719 --> 00:56:41,040
Speaker 1: he definitely cantone that down. But you guys, these arguments

843
00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:43,160
Speaker 1: and things like that, you're gonna have to figure out

844
00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:46,120
Speaker 1: a way to work it out or else you're gonna

845
00:56:46,560 --> 00:56:53,640
Speaker 1: bring these twins into a major problem here in your marriage. Steve, Well,

846
00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:56,359
Speaker 1: this is going to be interesting because this is right

847
00:56:56,480 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 1: up my alley. Oh, my wife and I suffer from

848
00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:07,080
Speaker 1: the same problem. So this is very good. Up. Mardree

849
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:10,719
Speaker 1: is a lot more polished and diverse than I am. I,

850
00:57:11,160 --> 00:57:17,040
Speaker 1: on the other hand, am immersed deeply into my cultural blackness.

851
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:20,880
Speaker 1: First of all, in your letter you said we have

852
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:24,120
Speaker 1: a great manage, were soo do Mardred, But we come

853
00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:29,520
Speaker 1: from very different backgrounds. Well, not necessarily, but I grew

854
00:57:29,640 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 1: up urban, predominantly black. She grew up too, but she

855
00:57:33,920 --> 00:57:38,920
Speaker 1: acted mit a class suburb I often have to tell

856
00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:41,160
Speaker 1: him certain things like where to do rag outside of

857
00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:43,280
Speaker 1: the house of blasts a love learning. Well, let let's

858
00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:46,400
Speaker 1: just go back here. She said, we are both black.

859
00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:50,040
Speaker 1: You need to make a correction. Both of y'all black.

860
00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:56,320
Speaker 1: He just black up. See not in you can't. This

861
00:57:56,600 --> 00:58:01,360
Speaker 1: is a gift, lady, This is a get. There are

862
00:58:01,520 --> 00:58:05,200
Speaker 1: times when the fact that he is blacker can come

863
00:58:05,280 --> 00:58:13,480
Speaker 1: into play. That's right. Oh, you need blacker people in

864
00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:19,960
Speaker 1: certain situations. All right, all right, there are times when

865
00:58:20,080 --> 00:58:25,120
Speaker 1: the black knob got to get turned up. The situation.

866
00:58:25,280 --> 00:58:28,640
Speaker 1: Sister Shirley. Let me just go watch this. See Sister

867
00:58:28,720 --> 00:58:33,040
Speaker 1: Shirley's bullshie. Give me any situation and just say something

868
00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:36,040
Speaker 1: you do. Just name me something you do, and I'll

869
00:58:36,040 --> 00:58:39,160
Speaker 1: show you how to turn it up. Anything I do,

870
00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:44,560
Speaker 1: anything you do. Uh, I put my get up, shower,

871
00:58:44,680 --> 00:58:48,000
Speaker 1: put my clothes on, put my makeup on, and go

872
00:58:48,120 --> 00:58:51,960
Speaker 1: to work work. That's not now. We got to hear up.

873
00:58:52,360 --> 00:58:57,560
Speaker 1: We got to roll up out of hill. See sometimes

874
00:58:57,880 --> 00:59:01,960
Speaker 1: we got to roll up out of hill. Hey, give

875
00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:06,600
Speaker 1: me something else. I go to the store. I want

876
00:59:06,600 --> 00:59:09,080
Speaker 1: to buy something. I pull my credit card out and

877
00:59:09,360 --> 00:59:12,240
Speaker 1: pay for it. We're gonna go down here and get

878
00:59:12,320 --> 00:59:14,000
Speaker 1: what we can get, and we're gonna leave the rest

879
00:59:14,040 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 1: of it down. Now. We'll be back with part two

880
00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:23,360
Speaker 1: of Steve response right after this Today's Strawberry letter. The

881
00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:26,000
Speaker 1: subject is he can't get rid of his hood mentality?

882
00:59:26,520 --> 00:59:32,320
Speaker 1: Coming up right after this. You're listening to show, all right, Steve,

883
00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:36,760
Speaker 1: Let's recap today's Strawberry letter, the subject he can't get

884
00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:41,800
Speaker 1: rid of his hood mentality. We've got a woman who's

885
00:59:41,880 --> 00:59:46,200
Speaker 1: gonna mess her marriage here because she can't get next

886
00:59:46,240 --> 00:59:51,080
Speaker 1: to her husband's hood ways. But you married him with

887
00:59:51,200 --> 00:59:54,520
Speaker 1: these hoods. That's one of the things that drew you

888
00:59:54,640 --> 00:59:59,920
Speaker 1: to him. His strength, his stamina, his ability to handle

889
01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:06,479
Speaker 1: critical situations, the toughness that's made from everybody living. You see,

890
01:00:07,400 --> 01:00:12,040
Speaker 1: we understand that. Well, now let's get into the second

891
01:00:12,080 --> 01:00:16,200
Speaker 1: half of this letter. We need to go over some

892
01:00:16,360 --> 01:00:21,040
Speaker 1: black names. Now, let's go. I've asked y'all to send

893
01:00:21,120 --> 01:00:23,240
Speaker 1: me some if you would look at your phones, But

894
01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:29,000
Speaker 1: obviously y'all don't want to help out, so I just start.

895
01:00:29,920 --> 01:00:32,160
Speaker 1: We'll just read your texas and get them to me

896
01:00:32,240 --> 01:00:38,400
Speaker 1: as I begin. Now. Now, these twins a boy and

897
01:00:38,480 --> 01:00:47,040
Speaker 1: a girl, Shida and Taquita. Now I know that you

898
01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:54,000
Speaker 1: don't want this board name Taquia, but Taquito is a

899
01:00:54,120 --> 01:00:58,560
Speaker 1: good name simply cause it rhyme with schiquita, you see,

900
01:00:59,320 --> 01:01:02,880
Speaker 1: and that's probably what his thinking is. Now you got

901
01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:09,560
Speaker 1: Darkisha is the girl and Tai Kuan is the boy.

902
01:01:10,560 --> 01:01:14,400
Speaker 1: Now Tai Kuan, we need that name because somebody gonna

903
01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:17,080
Speaker 1: misspelling and they're gonna get asked with everybody that or

904
01:01:17,120 --> 01:01:19,320
Speaker 1: teach you to learn how to take time, learn the

905
01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:25,360
Speaker 1: black names to quill to this Tai Kuan. See. Yeah,

906
01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:29,000
Speaker 1: then you can go like like we like cause its

907
01:01:29,160 --> 01:01:32,360
Speaker 1: names like the girl named Mercedes and the boy named

908
01:01:32,440 --> 01:01:37,480
Speaker 1: chevn Wow. See Chevy heavy Chevin Chevy gets your asked

909
01:01:37,520 --> 01:01:44,520
Speaker 1: for you understand. Then you got you got Lucresia m

910
01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:56,040
Speaker 1: h and Trevante. Yeah yeah, Lucresha and Trevante. Trevante is

911
01:01:56,120 --> 01:02:00,880
Speaker 1: a member of a singing group in the Tramps. See,

912
01:02:00,920 --> 01:02:04,080
Speaker 1: you need stuff like that. And so I'm just telling you,

913
01:02:05,440 --> 01:02:12,160
Speaker 1: see so you can have like Charles Letter and Charles okay,

914
01:02:13,440 --> 01:02:17,680
Speaker 1: now Charles that see that on the hood what that

915
01:02:17,840 --> 01:02:23,720
Speaker 1: on hooded it you got? Then you can go with

916
01:02:23,840 --> 01:02:35,480
Speaker 1: stuff like oh you can go John Minnel, God what

917
01:02:36,920 --> 01:02:41,800
Speaker 1: John Minnell John Minnell because we had a lot of

918
01:02:42,640 --> 01:02:45,200
Speaker 1: John that's a girl, that's John Mennell. We had a

919
01:02:45,240 --> 01:02:47,240
Speaker 1: lot of names in the John wet. It was many

920
01:02:47,280 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 1: of men that we just pulled out one. So we're

921
01:02:49,400 --> 01:02:53,120
Speaker 1: gonna name her John Minnel, John Minnell. What's his name?

922
01:02:53,360 --> 01:03:04,760
Speaker 1: Boosy like the player? Yeah, yeah, you know. Then you

923
01:03:04,880 --> 01:03:09,320
Speaker 1: got a Quinella because she I want her to grow

924
01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:18,920
Speaker 1: up to be a swimmer, Aquinella and TrackMan. Yeah, she

925
01:03:19,040 --> 01:03:22,400
Speaker 1: gonna swim and he gonna be a track star. Yeah.

926
01:03:23,520 --> 01:03:26,520
Speaker 1: All we can just go straight old schoolhood and be

927
01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:35,640
Speaker 1: Stella and lero that damned slavery. That's all right. Don't

928
01:03:35,680 --> 01:03:38,720
Speaker 1: nobody want to be called Stella nomo, But that's what

929
01:03:38,880 --> 01:03:47,600
Speaker 1: you're gonna be going. Oh, Or we can go h

930
01:03:48,680 --> 01:03:58,120
Speaker 1: real old schooling Harriet for the girl and Orenthal for

931
01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:02,880
Speaker 1: the boys, or old j Yeah, but we just gonna

932
01:04:02,920 --> 01:04:04,840
Speaker 1: call him or Inhalt. You ain't got to bring up

933
01:04:04,880 --> 01:04:07,440
Speaker 1: old Jay. Okay, we don't want the getting in no

934
01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:12,400
Speaker 1: trouble people. But or inhal but because you know they're

935
01:04:12,440 --> 01:04:16,040
Speaker 1: going but they're not, they're not gonna they're gonna call

936
01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:23,240
Speaker 1: him o all or or or all. We can name

937
01:04:23,320 --> 01:04:32,920
Speaker 1: the girl, Jo Safius, whoa spell that? And Myrin Myra

938
01:04:33,200 --> 01:04:39,840
Speaker 1: is like, ask you a question, you can ask this question.

939
01:04:40,480 --> 01:04:45,680
Speaker 1: But these people get called a lot for interviews. Yes, yes, yeah,

940
01:04:46,040 --> 01:04:49,160
Speaker 1: don't worry about that. You know they're gonna end up

941
01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:55,400
Speaker 1: self employed anyway. You know, we need to be more entrepreneurs. Anyway.

942
01:04:55,560 --> 01:04:58,000
Speaker 1: We ain't raised our kids getting no damn interviews. Our

943
01:04:58,040 --> 01:05:04,080
Speaker 1: kids gonna open up reb shacks and stuff. Oh, then

944
01:05:04,120 --> 01:05:10,320
Speaker 1: we're gonna go keep it real old school. Milly and Marcus, okay,

945
01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:18,960
Speaker 1: Million MILLI. These is good, strong names Milly and all right,

946
01:05:19,400 --> 01:05:22,840
Speaker 1: we gotta get out of here. Guys, email us your

947
01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:27,280
Speaker 1: Instagram at your thoughts names on today? Yeah are your names? Yeah?

948
01:05:27,400 --> 01:05:30,160
Speaker 1: On Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM. You can

949
01:05:30,240 --> 01:05:33,840
Speaker 1: check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand coming up

950
01:05:33,840 --> 01:05:37,360
Speaker 1: at forty six after the hour, trending sports news and

951
01:05:37,520 --> 01:05:45,520
Speaker 1: the NBAS last two okay and but no you love,

952
01:05:48,040 --> 01:05:52,040
Speaker 1: we'll be back in right after this. You're listening to

953
01:05:52,440 --> 01:05:57,520
Speaker 1: Steven show. All right, here we go, NBA playoffs, Go junior.

954
01:05:57,680 --> 01:06:03,000
Speaker 1: We don't have to talk about the yes, sir. One

955
01:06:03,200 --> 01:06:22,919
Speaker 1: last strong names Kizzie and Harpoo, kiz and harpo. Man,

956
01:06:24,240 --> 01:06:26,520
Speaker 1: we got the Western conference files. Everything is set for

957
01:06:26,600 --> 01:06:29,640
Speaker 1: the conference files. We got it. You know, Houston's not

958
01:06:29,800 --> 01:06:33,480
Speaker 1: in it no more. So we're gonna but Junior wet.

959
01:06:34,440 --> 01:06:38,320
Speaker 1: But go to State and Portland in the West. And

960
01:06:38,440 --> 01:06:42,280
Speaker 1: then we got Milwaukee versus Toronto. And shout out to

961
01:06:42,400 --> 01:06:47,360
Speaker 1: that boy. Man, you got to respect him, that boy Portland,

962
01:06:47,400 --> 01:06:54,440
Speaker 1: many kid. I had saucer. Yes, he got to go

963
01:06:54,560 --> 01:06:57,080
Speaker 1: in here. See they got to score on here. Message boy,

964
01:06:57,200 --> 01:06:59,560
Speaker 1: just greek boy. They got a strong team up in

965
01:06:59,680 --> 01:07:04,160
Speaker 1: mikey Man. Yeah, man, they got a strong team in Milwaker.

966
01:07:04,240 --> 01:07:06,600
Speaker 1: They really do man, they bad man. They want over

967
01:07:06,720 --> 01:07:10,760
Speaker 1: sixty games this year and in this final, go ahead up.

968
01:07:10,760 --> 01:07:12,360
Speaker 1: I want to everybody pick though, but I just want

969
01:07:12,400 --> 01:07:15,160
Speaker 1: to know you got Milwaukee or Toronto. Which how you gonna.

970
01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:21,200
Speaker 1: I'm going with Milwaukee, man, Okay, there, man, I'm going

971
01:07:21,320 --> 01:07:24,400
Speaker 1: I'm going with Milwaukee because I don't see see he

972
01:07:24,560 --> 01:07:28,760
Speaker 1: gets down in the paint, unlike Joel Lamb. He ain't

973
01:07:28,760 --> 01:07:30,920
Speaker 1: gonna be out there just mad threes. He going to

974
01:07:31,040 --> 01:07:33,560
Speaker 1: the rack. Oh. I know it was hard for Joel

975
01:07:33,600 --> 01:07:35,280
Speaker 1: and B to lose that game, but going that locker

976
01:07:35,360 --> 01:07:37,280
Speaker 1: room and getting that dough behind the dough for you.

977
01:07:40,040 --> 01:07:43,280
Speaker 1: I don't understand. I gotta stand that he was heartbroken.

978
01:07:43,560 --> 01:07:45,640
Speaker 1: But they ain't got nobody to blame but theirself. Their

979
01:07:45,760 --> 01:07:48,960
Speaker 1: last three possessions was really man and I agree with

980
01:07:49,080 --> 01:07:52,360
Speaker 1: the T and T its worst three worst possessions. I've

981
01:07:52,400 --> 01:07:56,280
Speaker 1: ever seen two shot clock violations and then out on

982
01:07:56,440 --> 01:07:59,200
Speaker 1: a time out, a shot clock violation because they don't

983
01:07:59,240 --> 01:08:01,600
Speaker 1: know how to run a at play because everybody out

984
01:08:01,640 --> 01:08:03,840
Speaker 1: at the three point line. Toronto went out there and

985
01:08:03,920 --> 01:08:06,320
Speaker 1: covered everybody and gotten in passing ling and they ain't

986
01:08:06,320 --> 01:08:09,120
Speaker 1: even have an option down low. Just dumbest basketball I've

987
01:08:09,160 --> 01:08:11,920
Speaker 1: ever seen. I want to measge this on in the West,

988
01:08:12,200 --> 01:08:13,960
Speaker 1: do you do? You just just give me how many

989
01:08:14,040 --> 01:08:16,840
Speaker 1: games it's gonna go between Portland and Golden State. They're

990
01:08:16,840 --> 01:08:22,040
Speaker 1: gonna go seven seven, Yeah, especially if especially if if

991
01:08:22,160 --> 01:08:25,880
Speaker 1: if Durant don't get back in there Portland. Portland got

992
01:08:25,960 --> 01:08:28,840
Speaker 1: a hell of a squad to defend. Boy, yeah they

993
01:08:28,920 --> 01:08:33,800
Speaker 1: do man, Portland Mike beat Golden State. Show really it is.

994
01:08:34,479 --> 01:08:36,960
Speaker 1: That's the sports update, right this shirt? All right, thank

995
01:08:37,000 --> 01:08:39,320
Speaker 1: you junior. All right, we'll see coming up at the

996
01:08:39,360 --> 01:08:41,800
Speaker 1: top of the hour. And trending social Media News Steve

997
01:08:41,840 --> 01:08:46,880
Speaker 1: Harvey's son Broderick talks about his relationship with his dad. Steve.

998
01:08:47,600 --> 01:08:49,680
Speaker 1: I can't wait for that. We'll be back right after this.

999
01:08:50,439 --> 01:08:58,040
Speaker 1: You're listening, okay, Stephen Trending news. Mother's Day was this

1000
01:08:58,200 --> 01:09:01,120
Speaker 1: past weekend, and Father's Day it's coming up next month.

1001
01:09:01,240 --> 01:09:05,679
Speaker 1: You know, well, your son, Broderick. We love Broderick. He'll

1002
01:09:05,720 --> 01:09:08,120
Speaker 1: be a special guest on your talk show. And he

1003
01:09:08,280 --> 01:09:11,559
Speaker 1: talked about his relationship with you, Steve. Take a listen.

1004
01:09:12,320 --> 01:09:14,360
Speaker 1: I didn't really have my dad full time into my

1005
01:09:14,400 --> 01:09:17,839
Speaker 1: life until I was sixteen. Right then, we're moving to Atlanta,

1006
01:09:17,840 --> 01:09:19,599
Speaker 1: and they said, hey, Broderick, we want you to move

1007
01:09:19,680 --> 01:09:22,759
Speaker 1: with us because we really want to bring his family together.

1008
01:09:23,439 --> 01:09:25,639
Speaker 1: Now my mind, I've been living in Cleveland my whole life.

1009
01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:27,400
Speaker 1: I've been living with my mom. It's been me and

1010
01:09:27,520 --> 01:09:30,120
Speaker 1: my mom. That's it. In the back of my mind,

1011
01:09:30,160 --> 01:09:32,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, it's going to hurt my mom. But

1012
01:09:33,760 --> 01:09:37,960
Speaker 1: at sixteen, I knew that's what I needed as a man. Wow,

1013
01:09:39,320 --> 01:09:44,439
Speaker 1: d Yeah, are you feeling here that? I mean, you know,

1014
01:09:44,640 --> 01:09:48,920
Speaker 1: it's the truth. You know, people don't no, you know, man,

1015
01:09:49,040 --> 01:09:51,800
Speaker 1: Like we talk about it all the time, all of

1016
01:09:51,880 --> 01:09:57,639
Speaker 1: our children our products of divorce, all of them. None

1017
01:09:57,680 --> 01:10:02,040
Speaker 1: of our kids have not lived through voice and separation,

1018
01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:06,640
Speaker 1: none of them. And so it's been challenging for us

1019
01:10:07,360 --> 01:10:12,280
Speaker 1: to blend our family and to make them feel at

1020
01:10:12,360 --> 01:10:15,360
Speaker 1: home and what love is really like. And we've done

1021
01:10:15,760 --> 01:10:18,080
Speaker 1: a good job of that getting it done. It has

1022
01:10:18,400 --> 01:10:22,320
Speaker 1: not been without challenges, though. Please understand that it has

1023
01:10:22,400 --> 01:10:25,280
Speaker 1: not been without challenging. It has been tough at times

1024
01:10:26,160 --> 01:10:28,400
Speaker 1: because you know, of course, from time to time, they

1025
01:10:28,439 --> 01:10:31,400
Speaker 1: want things the way they want it, and that oftentimes

1026
01:10:31,479 --> 01:10:33,920
Speaker 1: can't be the case. And so my son and I

1027
01:10:34,040 --> 01:10:36,880
Speaker 1: have had many talks. I think one of the moments

1028
01:10:36,920 --> 01:10:39,880
Speaker 1: in the show that you will see is when my

1029
01:10:40,080 --> 01:10:44,040
Speaker 1: son admitted to me years ago, Dad, I understand why

1030
01:10:44,120 --> 01:10:47,920
Speaker 1: you left. I do, because you could not have been

1031
01:10:48,000 --> 01:10:51,679
Speaker 1: who you are had you stayed. And because you left,

1032
01:10:52,600 --> 01:10:57,000
Speaker 1: you don't just belong to me. You belong to a

1033
01:10:57,120 --> 01:11:00,160
Speaker 1: lot of people. You a lot of people's uncle, that,

1034
01:11:00,240 --> 01:11:03,040
Speaker 1: a lot of people's father out there, and that was

1035
01:11:03,120 --> 01:11:05,720
Speaker 1: your calling in life. And I've come to understand that

1036
01:11:06,520 --> 01:11:08,960
Speaker 1: I love and respect that man. My son works for

1037
01:11:09,120 --> 01:11:14,040
Speaker 1: me and with me, you know, so yeah, yeah, I

1038
01:11:14,120 --> 01:11:17,080
Speaker 1: mean it took some time, you know, he told me

1039
01:11:17,200 --> 01:11:21,280
Speaker 1: that we were on vacation in Africa one time, sitting

1040
01:11:21,360 --> 01:11:26,160
Speaker 1: up looking at the end the furthest point of the

1041
01:11:27,160 --> 01:11:30,000
Speaker 1: furthest southern part of the hemisphere of the world. We

1042
01:11:30,120 --> 01:11:34,040
Speaker 1: were looking at the last piece of land before it's

1043
01:11:34,120 --> 01:11:36,599
Speaker 1: just nothing but ocean for it goes around the curvage

1044
01:11:36,640 --> 01:11:39,599
Speaker 1: and starts back north. And he said, Dad, I get it, man,

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Speaker 1: I get why you left. This was a long time ago,

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Speaker 1: you know, And so that that meant a lot to me. Know,

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Speaker 1: we had a lot of moments to get to the

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Speaker 1: relationship that we have. I have a show with all

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Speaker 1: men on it tomorrow and talking about manhood and what

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01:11:55,160 --> 01:11:57,439
Speaker 1: it is, and there's so many men on the show

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01:11:57,520 --> 01:12:00,400
Speaker 1: that that didn't have their fathers in their life. Heario,

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Speaker 1: you know, huh, I was off and on in my

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01:12:04,040 --> 01:12:06,800
Speaker 1: son's like up two with sixteen is actually a little

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01:12:07,080 --> 01:12:10,840
Speaker 1: younger than that fourteen. But you know that was that

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Speaker 1: was it, man, And you know, it took us some time.

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Speaker 1: It took me some time to get him, but I

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Speaker 1: finally got him, and you know it worked out. You know,

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Speaker 1: he's a fine young dude now. So that's cool, Steve,

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Speaker 1: and he is he really is, he really Yeah, he's

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Speaker 1: a fine young man. He really is not right a

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Speaker 1: man become you know. Yeah, well it worked out, you know,

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Speaker 1: I can't get him to settle his ass down, but

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01:12:38,920 --> 01:12:41,559
Speaker 1: but it goes to right, and it goes to show

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01:12:41,600 --> 01:12:45,040
Speaker 1: you that no matter how things start off, you know,

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01:12:45,240 --> 01:12:47,880
Speaker 1: they don't they don't. They may not look good starting

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01:12:47,920 --> 01:12:50,720
Speaker 1: off when they first start off, when they finish, you know,

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01:12:51,200 --> 01:12:53,880
Speaker 1: that's that's what matters. How you run up, you know

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01:12:54,160 --> 01:12:57,360
Speaker 1: how you are now, it's not where you're gonna be right, right,

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01:12:57,479 --> 01:12:59,240
Speaker 1: and you just gotta hang in out because you don't

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01:12:59,240 --> 01:13:00,960
Speaker 1: know how to chap is going to play out in you.

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01:13:01,120 --> 01:13:06,600
Speaker 1: That's right, that's right, that's right. So don't judge. I

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01:13:06,640 --> 01:13:10,640
Speaker 1: think you know the journey. I think you know, you

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01:13:10,720 --> 01:13:15,200
Speaker 1: don't know what people keeping itself, that's right. And everybody

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01:13:15,320 --> 01:13:18,960
Speaker 1: has a story too, you know. Yep. But um, that

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Speaker 1: was good, Steve. I enjoyed hearing your son. That was

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01:13:23,000 --> 01:13:26,080
Speaker 1: interesting very much. So yeah, all right, we'll be back

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Speaker 1: with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steven Show. All right, this is

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Speaker 1: what time it is people, This is what time the

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Speaker 1: two thousand nineteen Steve Harvey, sand and Dull Festival Girl,

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Speaker 1: it is going down October October tenth through the fourteenth,

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Speaker 1: where Steve tell Ud. Yeah, oh you can drink, Oh

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01:13:58,400 --> 01:14:03,799
Speaker 1: you can part all night long, gamble all sitting around

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01:14:03,880 --> 01:14:06,960
Speaker 1: on the beach, y'all night, laying out in the water

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Speaker 1: all night long. What new people? Yeah, fella, it was

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01:14:12,640 --> 01:14:17,360
Speaker 1: so many fine women and your mercy boy fell. Listen

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Speaker 1: to me. I'm calling on all the frats out there,

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01:14:20,600 --> 01:14:23,799
Speaker 1: get your paraphernalion. Come on, I'm telling you, if you grown,

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01:14:24,200 --> 01:14:28,320
Speaker 1: that's what you want. Every ball you go to a stack.

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01:14:29,280 --> 01:14:32,920
Speaker 1: I'm talking what I ain't been that fine his birth?

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Speaker 1: Do you hit me? What is you? Rabsite shirt? Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey sanding Soul dot com, Steve Harvey, Sand and Solder

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Speaker 1: ain't been that birth, he said. Steve Harvey saying insoul

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Speaker 1: dot Com. Get y'all's tickets ordered. We got some specials

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01:14:53,760 --> 01:14:57,160
Speaker 1: redoing for Father's Day and you might want to copy

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01:14:57,240 --> 01:14:59,880
Speaker 1: in on that. Give your man a great gift, give

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01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:02,240
Speaker 1: if your girl a great guilt. See y'all out there,

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01:15:02,320 --> 01:15:05,920
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey saying, thesoul dot com in hot ass, poony

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Speaker 1: corn or call eight hundred and six eight four, twenty eight,

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Speaker 1: twenty five October tenth through the fourteen six eight fo

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Speaker 1: twenty eight twenty five. We'll be back with more of

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening

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01:15:18,200 --> 01:15:22,839
Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve and Mother's

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Speaker 1: Day trending news. We have to say congratulations to your

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Speaker 1: beautiful wife, Marjorie Harvey. Marjorie was honored this past weekend

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Speaker 1: at the Women of Excellence Luncheon, Yes by the Lady

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Speaker 1: Like Foundation through the Stephen Marjorie Harvey Foundation. You guys

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01:15:39,280 --> 01:15:42,360
Speaker 1: gifted This is really special, Steve and wonderful. You guys

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01:15:42,439 --> 01:15:44,920
Speaker 1: gifted a young lady to pay for the rest of

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Speaker 1: her college tuition. Yeah, that's big right there. Thank you guys. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: thank you guys. You're gonna pay for the rest of

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Speaker 1: her college tuition. Here's a moment when Marjorie surprised a

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Speaker 1: young lady with the announcement. Take a listen. I honestly

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01:16:00,320 --> 01:16:05,439
Speaker 1: that we are just paying for one year of your college.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you're going for two years, three years,

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Speaker 1: four years, or whatever it is. You A lot of

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01:16:22,280 --> 01:16:25,519
Speaker 1: people don't know what that really means. That a lot

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01:16:25,560 --> 01:16:28,120
Speaker 1: of people have no idea what that means when you're

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01:16:28,160 --> 01:16:34,280
Speaker 1: getting your tuition pay right man, because you don't know.

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Speaker 1: I really do, because that's an important uh that my

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Speaker 1: wife recognizes that stuff. This young girl was in foster care.

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01:16:43,040 --> 01:16:47,960
Speaker 1: She had aged out of falster care. She had nowhere

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Speaker 1: to go. She has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend convinced of

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Speaker 1: his parents to let her live with him, well with them,

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Speaker 1: and so this parent, these people over in Crenshaw just

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Speaker 1: took the girl in. So she just had somewhere to live.

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Speaker 1: She's a sweetheart of a young girl, and her boyfriend's

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Speaker 1: parents was good enough to let her live that she

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Speaker 1: had no way of paying for college. Who my wife

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Speaker 1: picked up the other three years And I thought that

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01:17:12,920 --> 01:17:15,360
Speaker 1: was absolutely fabulous because I didn't know about it till

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01:17:15,360 --> 01:17:19,000
Speaker 1: it was done. And then on my last show of

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Speaker 1: the season that we taped Thursday, I went to Kent

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Speaker 1: State and I got seven boys, eight eight boys, eight

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Speaker 1: African American boys. We're paying for eight African boys full

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Speaker 1: scholarship rides to Kent State Union. WHOA. So that's a

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Speaker 1: ton of nineteens in one week that we'll be sending

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Speaker 1: to college. And one of our goals is margin and

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01:17:45,040 --> 01:17:47,200
Speaker 1: I we don't speak about it, but our goal is

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01:17:48,000 --> 01:17:52,080
Speaker 1: throughout our career and we're on our way. I'm not

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01:17:52,160 --> 01:17:54,639
Speaker 1: gonna say the number we're now, but it's up there.

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Speaker 1: We're sending ten thousand students to college full pay, ten thousand.

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Speaker 1: That's how I go out. That's big. Wow. We're looking

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Speaker 1: at the supply that God had AMENI an endless source

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01:18:11,160 --> 01:18:13,479
Speaker 1: of supply. So that's what we're depending on. How we're

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Speaker 1: gonna do it, we don't exactly know how, but whenever

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Speaker 1: we get the money put together like we did nine

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Speaker 1: this week, and we're gonna do when we can, and

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Speaker 1: we're gonna see it through. We're gonna make that goal

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Speaker 1: happen before our leaders world. We're gonna send ten thousand

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Speaker 1: kids to college full page scholarship. WHOA alright, yes, thank

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Speaker 1: you guys, Thank you guys. All right, well listen coming

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01:18:34,080 --> 01:18:36,519
Speaker 1: up next, JA Anthony Brown is here. He's going to

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Speaker 1: murder another hit right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve,

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01:18:43,880 --> 01:18:46,960
Speaker 1: here we are last break of the day and time

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Speaker 1: for your closing remarks. Now, all right, um, you know

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Speaker 1: what man on my last talk show, we recorded it.

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Speaker 1: I may release of it earlier because it was such

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Speaker 1: a powerful show. The two things I wanted to accomplish

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01:19:06,600 --> 01:19:10,680
Speaker 1: on my last show was I wanted to be inspirational

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Speaker 1: and motivational. So I had Bishop TD Jakes as my guest,

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Speaker 1: and I wanted to do something uplifting and soul. We

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Speaker 1: gave away to eight scholarships to the eight African American boys,

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01:19:22,120 --> 01:19:25,759
Speaker 1: four year full ride scholarships to the very same school

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Speaker 1: that I floaked out of. It was a great accomplishment

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Speaker 1: to do that. But Bishop Jakes was my guest and

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Speaker 1: he was promoting his book called Crushing, Crushing God Turns

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Speaker 1: Pressure into Power, and Bishop Jakes taught me something man,

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Speaker 1: and I just want to share. I'm paraphrasing what he said.

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Speaker 1: He said a lot more eloquently than I could ever said.

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Speaker 1: You know, he's one of the most He's one of

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Speaker 1: the best speakers, the best motivational speaker I've ever met

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Speaker 1: in my entire life. I've never ever met a man

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Speaker 1: more motivating than him. Now he's a preacher for show,

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01:20:05,160 --> 01:20:06,840
Speaker 1: but I want you to understand that he gives you

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01:20:06,960 --> 01:20:09,559
Speaker 1: real life lessons that can really really help you out.

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Speaker 1: And his book Crushing, How God Turns Pressure into power,

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01:20:16,040 --> 01:20:22,000
Speaker 1: and he was reminding us that under when you're being crushed,

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Speaker 1: it's because God is using you like a grape. You know,

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Speaker 1: we are all grapes. Grapes are the only fruit that

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Speaker 1: is grown to be crushed, and grapes are grown to

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01:20:38,479 --> 01:20:43,920
Speaker 1: be crushed because grapes are that are not crushed, they

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01:20:44,040 --> 01:20:46,960
Speaker 1: the fruit. They just simply grapes. I know a lot

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Speaker 1: of I don't know, nobody don't like grapes. But when

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Speaker 1: grapes are crushed, they become wine. And just because you've

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Speaker 1: been crushed doesn't mean your life is old. When you've

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Speaker 1: been crushed, it means that you're being turned into something

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Speaker 1: and that all of your crushings can take you to

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Speaker 1: a greater place, because grapes are designed to become wine,

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Speaker 1: and wine gets better with time. See, when you get crushed,

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01:21:21,680 --> 01:21:24,080
Speaker 1: it don't mean your life is over. It means you

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Speaker 1: now have a chance to become wine. Man, it's such

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Speaker 1: a powerful message if you understand what he's saying, because

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01:21:31,600 --> 01:21:34,519
Speaker 1: one of the things he was saying and says it

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Speaker 1: in such a great way, he says, in every painful

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Speaker 1: moment in your life, when the pain goes away, pain

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Speaker 1: always leaves a gift, a present. It's on the table,

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Speaker 1: it's right in front of you. Whenever the pain goes away,

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Speaker 1: it leaves a present for you, a little box with

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Speaker 1: a ribbon on it, and all you got to do

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01:21:59,720 --> 01:22:02,320
Speaker 1: is open it. And it's kind of like what I

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Speaker 1: used to side saying, behind every moment of adversity there's

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Speaker 1: a lesson and a blessing. Or Bishop put it better,

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01:22:09,479 --> 01:22:13,559
Speaker 1: he said, every time you go through pain, pain always

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Speaker 1: leaves you a present, a gift, and it's something for

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01:22:17,920 --> 01:22:22,760
Speaker 1: you to open and unlock. Sometimes the gift that you

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Speaker 1: receive as you are now after this pain, more experienced.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes pain leaves behind a gift of strength. You are

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Speaker 1: now stronger. Sometime pain leaves a gift of you are

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Speaker 1: now free. You know that break up that seems so

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Speaker 1: hurting at the time, that divorce that seems so debilitating

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01:22:44,200 --> 01:22:46,400
Speaker 1: and crushing at the time, and you look at all

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01:22:46,439 --> 01:22:48,559
Speaker 1: that time you put into that relationship and it's over.

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01:22:48,920 --> 01:22:52,280
Speaker 1: Or guess what, You're now free. You're now free to

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Speaker 1: go find a relationship that's really meant for you. That

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Speaker 1: person you thought you'd spend the rest of your life

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01:22:57,680 --> 01:22:59,880
Speaker 1: with it to turn out to dog you and cry,

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01:23:00,080 --> 01:23:03,160
Speaker 1: shoot well, now you're free. You ain't got to feel

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Speaker 1: that no more. Every time you get crushed, every time

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01:23:08,040 --> 01:23:11,200
Speaker 1: you finish your pain, it leaves a gift for you,

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01:23:12,520 --> 01:23:16,920
Speaker 1: a lesson and a blessing. The lesson is, now you

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Speaker 1: know not to do that no more. Now you become

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01:23:19,760 --> 01:23:23,479
Speaker 1: more knowledgeable, more experienced. So the next time you see that,

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01:23:23,800 --> 01:23:25,559
Speaker 1: you know how to handle it a little bit better.

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01:23:25,880 --> 01:23:30,360
Speaker 1: But there's also a blessing in it too. Now you

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01:23:30,520 --> 01:23:33,400
Speaker 1: get free to go do something else. When they close

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01:23:33,439 --> 01:23:36,200
Speaker 1: a chapter in your life, it's time to turn the page.

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Speaker 1: If they close the door, God ain't never close the

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01:23:39,160 --> 01:23:41,360
Speaker 1: door without having another door for you to go through.

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01:23:41,680 --> 01:23:45,080
Speaker 1: But you got to look for the present after the pain.

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01:23:45,640 --> 01:23:49,200
Speaker 1: Stop taking your pain and wearing it all the way

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01:23:49,320 --> 01:23:53,640
Speaker 1: out like it's just final, because it ain't. Man Like

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01:23:53,840 --> 01:23:57,200
Speaker 1: I said the other day, of all the bad days

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Speaker 1: you've ever had, on all the crushing time you've ever had,

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Speaker 1: your track record for surviving all previous crushings is one

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01:24:06,600 --> 01:24:12,760
Speaker 1: hundred percent. And that's pretty good. So Bishop Jake's book

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01:24:12,960 --> 01:24:16,640
Speaker 1: is called Crushing. I got it on my desk right now.

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01:24:16,720 --> 01:24:18,680
Speaker 1: I got my wife a copy. My wife was there

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01:24:18,760 --> 01:24:21,640
Speaker 1: that last show. She says, Steve, please get me one

1240
01:24:21,680 --> 01:24:24,599
Speaker 1: of those books. And so I sent out and I got.

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01:24:24,640 --> 01:24:27,559
Speaker 1: I bought four of the books, and I gave one

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Speaker 1: to my wife for Mother's Day. I just put it

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01:24:29,400 --> 01:24:31,960
Speaker 1: on her vanity, and I got one on my desk.

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Speaker 1: And I recommend everybody to get this book, man, because

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01:24:34,520 --> 01:24:39,160
Speaker 1: God does turn pressure into power. Every time you get crushed,

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01:24:39,520 --> 01:24:45,560
Speaker 1: it's an opportunity to become wine finer, more flavorful, more robust,

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01:24:46,360 --> 01:24:50,160
Speaker 1: a cabinet. You get to be something now, but you

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01:24:50,280 --> 01:24:52,880
Speaker 1: can't be it until you've been crushed. Crushing ain't a

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01:24:52,960 --> 01:24:55,519
Speaker 1: bad thing. You ain't a grape no more. You get

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