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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show, Austin.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Welcome to the program.

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Speaker 2: How are you.

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Speaker 3: Well. I'm hoping to be a lot better actually after

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Speaker 3: I talk with.

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Speaker 2: You and maybe helped me out.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, it's waiting on the phone. We're trying to

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Speaker 1: figure out if you've been ghosted by this woman Bella.

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Speaker 1: But we got to have the backstory, So tell us

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Speaker 1: how you guys met, about any dates that you've been

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Speaker 1: on and where things are now.

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Speaker 3: So, I mean we met through the dating apps. We

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Speaker 3: met her hinge actually, and we've actually been on two dates.

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Speaker 3: So they went really you know, I mean they.

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Speaker 2: Went really well.

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Speaker 3: You know, usually these things, I mean I've been I've

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Speaker 3: been ghosted before, but it's usually after one date. So

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Speaker 3: you know, after two that went really well where you know,

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Speaker 3: I you know, we went back to each other. I

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Speaker 3: went back to her place. You know, I was pretty

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Speaker 3: much thinking that third date was you know, in the cards,

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Speaker 3: but I have not. I have not heard from her

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Speaker 3: at all, as I've just gotten there was my text.

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Speaker 3: I even called once and just them.

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Speaker 2: Okay, and standard questions.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, if you're able to look back

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Speaker 1: on these dates, the conversation was good, no tricky topics,

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Speaker 1: no weird stuff. You really thought that there was a

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Speaker 1: connection and that things were going well, and that you'd

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Speaker 1: go on a third date and who knows, maybe something

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Speaker 1: more serious would come from it. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know, you didn't get into any like

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Speaker 3: the taboo stuff. But I mean no, I was just

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Speaker 3: getting to know each other. And there's a lot of laughing.

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Speaker 3: It didn't seem if there was a lull in the conversation.

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Speaker 3: I just I don't know. It so great.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so this is frustrating, I'm sure, and you'd

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Speaker 1: like to see her again. So that's where we come in.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call Bella in just a second. You'll be

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Speaker 1: on the phone. We're gonna ask the questions on your behalf.

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Speaker 1: At some point you're welcome to jumping on a call.

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Speaker 1: And the whole year, as always, is that we can

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Speaker 1: straighten this out and then set you guys up on

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Speaker 1: another date that we pay for.

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Speaker 2: Sound good, that's great.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna find out what's going on, and you've got

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Speaker 1: to hear in Part two of Waiting by the Phone

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Speaker 1: is two minutes away. After Sabrina Carpenter, it's the French show.

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Speaker 1: Hey Austin, all right, let's call Bella. You met on Hinge,

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Speaker 1: one of the dating apps. You went on two dates.

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Speaker 1: You thought both dates went really well. Usually a second

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Speaker 1: date's a good sign. But for whatever reason, after the

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Speaker 1: second date, you haven't heard from this woman. She hasn't

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Speaker 1: reached out to you at all. You want to know why.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it just doesn't make sense.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well let's see if we can make it

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Speaker 1: make sense. Right now, we're gonna call her. Good luck, Austin. Thanks, Hello,

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Bella?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, hey Bella, good morning.

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Speaker 2: My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning Radio Show,

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Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 1: the radio right now, and I would need your permission

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Speaker 1: to continue with the call. Sod okay if we chat

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Speaker 1: for just a minute on the show.

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Speaker 2: Oh y, yeah, that's fine with me.

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you very much. I don't want to take

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Speaker 1: up too much of your time. But we're calling on

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Speaker 1: behalf of a guy named Austin who reached out to us.

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Speaker 1: Says he met you on Hinge and I guess you

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Speaker 1: guys went on.

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Speaker 2: Two dates. Does that sound right?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? We did?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, so This is the part where like mm hmm,

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Speaker 1: like that kind of reads to me that something weird

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Speaker 1: must have happened. But he reached out to us, and

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Speaker 1: he told us that he really enjoyed meeting you and

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Speaker 1: thought the dates went well, and he's surprised that you

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Speaker 1: aren't calling him back for another date or at all.

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Speaker 2: Really, Uh, can you tell us why? You know?

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Speaker 4: I don't know if I really feel comfortable telling you

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Speaker 4: all what happened.

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Speaker 2: To be honest, well, I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to make you uncomfortable at all, but

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Speaker 1: I also at this point really now kind of want

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Speaker 1: to know what happened. And the hope here, obviously is

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Speaker 1: that we can tell Austin and give him some closure.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if you don't intend to ever go out

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Speaker 1: with him again, then hopefully we can figure out why.

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Speaker 4: I just like, really don't even know if I can

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Speaker 4: say this on the radio, I'll.

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Speaker 1: Tell you what you say it, and then we'll decide

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Speaker 1: if it should go on the radio, even though it is,

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Speaker 1: but we'll decide if if it should or shouldn't. How

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Speaker 1: about that it'll see it's on us again. I don't

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Speaker 1: want to pressure you, but I feel like whatever this

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Speaker 1: is is going to be pretty good, so I I

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Speaker 1: really want to know, all right.

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Speaker 2: You know, I tried.

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Speaker 4: I tried to protect his privacy here, but I don't worry.

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Speaker 2: But no, don't worry about that. Now. We don't care

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Speaker 2: about that.

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Speaker 1: No, No, he Austin gave us full permission to find

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Speaker 1: out what's going on when he agreed to do this.

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Speaker 4: All right, I'm okay, I'll tell you so. I'm pretty sure.

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Speaker 4: I just can't get over this, the fact that he

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Speaker 4: laughs whenever he finishes.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So okay, hold on, so rufioda? Did you just

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Speaker 1: never mind? I don't want to know, so you're not excused? Okay,

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Speaker 1: So wait a minute. So you guys, and you're when

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Speaker 1: you're intimate and you get to the when he gets

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Speaker 1: to the end point, he starts laughing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I've like never experienced it in this capacity

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Speaker 4: how he laughed.

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Speaker 2: Can you re enact it for us?

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Speaker 4: I can never reenact it. It's just he just lets

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Speaker 4: go and he's just cracking up.

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Speaker 1: I mean, do you think, like, okay, huh, I can

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Speaker 1: see what that would be distracting. Let me bring the

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Speaker 1: man of the hour in Austin. I forgot to mention

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Speaker 1: that Austin this year, and I'm very forgetful, and I

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Speaker 1: apologize I left that detail out Austin.

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Speaker 3: Uh really yeah, yeah, it's no, I'm kind of regarding this. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's just it's been my whole life. I don't know

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Speaker 3: why I tried to like stop it, but it's just

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Speaker 3: it's just what it It's just what it is, so I,

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Speaker 3: you know, feels good. I can't do it.

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Speaker 1: It does it like tickle?

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Speaker 2: I mean, how much how much people do you want? Okay,

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't. I don't want it.

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Speaker 1: I don't at all want it, actually, but I'm just

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Speaker 1: curious where the is it? Like a I don't know

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Speaker 1: where do you think it comes from?

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Speaker 2: That reaction?

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Speaker 3: If I knew, I would probably be able to stop it.

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Speaker 3: It's just a full body thing, you know. It's just

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Speaker 3: it's just it's you know, I'm it's happening, and then

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Speaker 3: that happens as well, and it's just kind of connected

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Speaker 3: and there's nothing that I can do about it.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I will say, like any form of laughter

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Speaker 1: in that act might make me feel self conscious, like

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Speaker 1: you're laughing at me? Is that sort of where you're

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Speaker 1: at with this Bella or is it just sort of weird?

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Speaker 4: It's weird. I'm like even nervous laughing thinking about it.

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Speaker 4: So I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I just think it's it's just too much.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's definitely a distraction. That's a good way to

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Speaker 4: put it.

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Speaker 1: Now, Otherwise, did you like him? I mean, if not

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Speaker 1: for that, would everything have been okay?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I had a really great time on We did go

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Speaker 4: on two dates, and he's a really funny guy, and

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Speaker 4: maybe that's where.

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Speaker 2: The laughter comes from.

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Speaker 4: Like he's always really witty and funny, so I guess

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Speaker 4: he makes himself last.

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Speaker 1: Would you give him another chance? I mean, I realize

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Speaker 1: right now you're not calling him back, But now that

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Speaker 1: this is all out there and sort of the elephant

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Speaker 1: in the room and everyone understands what your issue was,

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Speaker 1: I mean, would you maybe one more date? We'll pay

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Speaker 1: for it, I mean, if you liked him otherwise, I

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Speaker 1: don't know if there's something you get used to or

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Speaker 1: something he gets over, I really don't know. But would

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Speaker 1: you try one more?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I don't know either, but I'm willing to try again.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, let's yes.

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Speaker 1: I think everyone should laugh on a date. Everyone should

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Speaker 1: get to laugh first, and maybe you first in a

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Speaker 1: couple of times, and then him. But you know whatever

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know it's I hope he's got it

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Speaker 1: like that. That's what you deserve, Vella. But all right,

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Speaker 1: this is great, Austin. Look at this. You got another shot.

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Speaker 4: Amazing.

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Speaker 3: This is fantastic, not how it don't laugh great?

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Speaker 1: Ye Now every time you laugh I have it's I'm

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Speaker 1: thinking about. It's something I don't want to think about.

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Speaker 1: But this is great. This is wonderful. Okay, So we're

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Speaker 1: gonna we'll put you guys on hold, and we're gonna

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Speaker 1: make sure we have everyone's info, and we'll set you

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Speaker 1: up on this another date. And then how about we

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Speaker 1: follow up in a couple of weeks and we see

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Speaker 1: how I went, and hopefully everything is going great.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I love a happy ending to start the weekend.

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Speaker 1: But let's see if it's still happy ending in two weeks,

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Speaker 1: I'll cross my fingers out of the inn.