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Speaker 1: Why do pilots tell us the entire specific route, Like

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Speaker 1: am I gonna Like when you're in a car, you

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Speaker 1: might have a difference of opinion. You know what, take

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Speaker 1: that road I heard it's not traffic, or I listened

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Speaker 1: to ways, or I did Google directions, like I was

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Speaker 1: on a flight recently, and it wasn't like they were

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Speaker 1: just giving a broad stroke like Wow, we're gonna do this,

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Speaker 1: and then we're gonna go down there. They're gonna go

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Speaker 1: up twenty five thousand feet, then we're gonna do some

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Speaker 1: we think we gonna make a right and we're gonna

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Speaker 1: pass over. None of this involves us, Like I'm not

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Speaker 1: looking at anything. We don't get to look at the

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Speaker 1: window and there's gonna be a bunch of puppies, Like

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Speaker 1: it's nothing that involves us. It wasn't like, oh, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna see the Grand Canyon or the sun or the eclipse.

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Speaker 1: Like it is very strange when a pilot, because you're

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Speaker 1: watching your movies, you're trying to disconnect, decides to take

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Speaker 1: like thirty five minutes in choppy pieces and tell you

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Speaker 1: the entire specific route. This is not like a collaborative experience.

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Speaker 1: I don't get to okay, I don't. I have no

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Speaker 1: further thoughts at this time. You're on or like there's

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Speaker 1: nothing I can say. I'm not gonna interject and be

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Speaker 1: like I don't agree with the roots you're taking pilot.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't given the route ahead of time. No one

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Speaker 1: asked my opinion at which road we should take in

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Speaker 1: the air, So I just I don't understand their logic.

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Speaker 1: Like sometimes they'll do like the you know, the flight,

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Speaker 1: his hands will be funny when they do get the

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Speaker 1: mask and like it's funny, or they'll have a little

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Speaker 1: comedy and since they'll put it on the internet, that's okay,

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Speaker 1: like a little little levity's good. But when there's a

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Speaker 1: captain up front, it's just telling us the root. I

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Speaker 1: just don't understand what the hell our options are and

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Speaker 1: I don't want to know the route. What am I

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Speaker 1: have nothing to add at this time? I have nothing

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Speaker 1: further at this time. I just saw a clip of

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Speaker 1: Adam Sandler talking about how he saw Paul McCartney and

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Speaker 1: was going to approach him at his table because his

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Speaker 1: wife was cheering him on and saying go say hello,

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Speaker 1: and he saw him eating a bite and saw the

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Speaker 1: side of his head and went to approach him, and

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Speaker 1: then he saw that Ringo was at the table, and

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Speaker 1: he choked, and then he said he was gonna talk

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Speaker 1: to him again, but then he was talking to his wife,

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Speaker 1: and then he choked, and he said that the restaurant

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Speaker 1: was watching him choke when he went to say hi

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Speaker 1: to Paul McCartney. Which is so funny to me because

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Speaker 1: I was with Brynn at Mark Gervitz, his comedy manager,

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Speaker 1: his house, and Brynn cries when she thinks about her

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Speaker 1: talks about Adam Sandler, cries like there's no one you

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Speaker 1: could say justin Bieber. You could say Olivia Rodrigo, you

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Speaker 1: could say anyone. Adam Sandler is her goat, her number one.

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Speaker 1: And when we were at that party, I was so

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Speaker 1: horrified because people knew who I was there and I'm

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Speaker 1: supposed to be like at the level with them, and

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Speaker 1: I'm a peer, I'm invited, and I paid for my

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Speaker 1: own charity ticket and whatever, but like I was like

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Speaker 1: a twelve year old because I was my daughter's thirteen,

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Speaker 1: to be fair, but I was like, she wouldn't do it,

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Speaker 1: she wouldn't do it. So I was standing lingering lurking

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Speaker 1: like a weirdo. And it's so funny to be saying that,

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Speaker 1: because I was thinking more about what other people were

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Speaker 1: thinking that with, like Adam Sandler was thinking, like, it's fine,

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Speaker 1: he thinks I'm a loser, but like the other people

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Speaker 1: that watch if I'm lurking. It was just and it

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Speaker 1: happened again multiple times because we were then about to

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Speaker 1: go out to the car and he was there one

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Speaker 1: last time. I'm like, all right, Brin, you could take

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Speaker 1: a bye again, like I went in so many times

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Speaker 1: for embarrassment, Like it wasn't once, it was multiple times,

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Speaker 1: just to like get every piece of meat off the

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Speaker 1: bone for her. Oh. Right at the valet, they were

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Speaker 1: getting into the car, he and his wife and everybody else,

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Speaker 1: which is like a more vulnerable moment, like hey, we're all,

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Speaker 1: you know, valet getting in people and Brynn. And he

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Speaker 1: loved Brynn. He was nice to Brn. I mean, he

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Speaker 1: was like, but I was just like the embarrassing loser

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Speaker 1: facilitator that made it happen and was just lurking in

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Speaker 1: the back, you know, not even by the way, I

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Speaker 1: and vanished like I was Brinn's handler. I never was like, hey, Adam,

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Speaker 1: you know what the hell would I've said, I'm a person,

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Speaker 1: you're a person. I think he's able to see I'm

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Speaker 1: a person. But the guy that I choked to say

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Speaker 1: hello to being embarrassed to make a fool out of

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Speaker 1: myself on behalf of my beautiful daughter Brynn. That guy,

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Speaker 1: my choke guy choked when going up to Paul McCartney.

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Speaker 1: It's a full circle of embarrassing choking and Adam Sandler's

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Speaker 1: my Paul McCartney, Adam Sandler's brins, Paul McCartney. I don't

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Speaker 1: know why I am involving myself. Adam Sandler is Brind's,

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Speaker 1: Paul McCartney, Paul McCartney is Adam's. So I'm noticing something

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Speaker 1: interesting in women in their forties and fifties, and these

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Speaker 1: are public figures, but I think it's important to mention it.

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Speaker 1: So Hoda was on her show with Jenna the other

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Speaker 1: day and they were talking about how Hoda had dipped

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Speaker 1: her toe into the dating pool and had gone on

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Speaker 1: a couple of dates. And Jenna, who's married, I think

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Speaker 1: was saying to Hoda, like, you know, this is the

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Speaker 1: and it's going on a date and it's someplace to

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Speaker 1: get dressed up. And I'm paraphrasing for both of them,

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Speaker 1: but it was like Hodo was explaining that going out

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Speaker 1: It's a great means you're going out. You're not with

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Speaker 1: your kids, you're not being just about like you know

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Speaker 1: how women get and we get like you're just all

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Speaker 1: the ugly pajamas, and so Hoda went on a couple

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Speaker 1: was interesting because Jenna said, you know, and it also

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Speaker 1: means there's hope. And it's funny because I wasn't getting

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Speaker 1: it means hope. It was just like she's going on

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Speaker 1: a couple of dates. It doesn't mean she's looking for anything.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't mean anyone has anything she needs. She has

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Speaker 1: a survivor. I mean, she's just that person. Okay, So

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Speaker 1: then you move on to to other women in daytime television.

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Speaker 1: Drew Barrymore also attractive, also single, also quote unquote marketable, smart, successful,

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Speaker 1: And she kind of cares and like that self deprecating,

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Speaker 1: I don't know her. I'm not with her on the holidays,

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Speaker 1: It doesn't feel like there's anything that anyone has that

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Speaker 1: And then I saw that Kelly Clarkson, when Hoda was

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Speaker 1: Like she has a career, she went through a brutal divorce,

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Speaker 1: she has her children. It's just an interesting thing that

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Speaker 1: these women that are also role models, they could each

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Speaker 1: be with men if they wanted to. They're all saying

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Speaker 1: I mean, they just are conveying that they're strong women

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Speaker 1: for filling. And they've all been married before. That's interesting too.

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Speaker 1: one of them has had a challenging divorce, and you

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Speaker 1: just don't know how the previous situation affects the next situation.

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Speaker 1: And you also don't know how children affect your decisions,

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Speaker 1: and it's just it's there are people that I see

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Speaker 1: to need to go hunt for something, or like Rene

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Speaker 1: Zellweger said in the movie with Tom Cruise, you know

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Speaker 1: if they do meet someone then it will be a

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Speaker 1: choice or additive. But they're basically role models to other

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Speaker 1: this amazing source of incommon passion too, like purpose is interesting,

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Speaker 1: to some currency that you're not only trading, but like

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Speaker 1: that's interesting for all three of them also in similar careers,

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