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Speaker 2: This soul sucker MC stepped up to me challenge Andre

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Speaker 2: a cage in this side, niggas dust in that side,

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Speaker 2: Post Long Just two dope boys and the Cadillac. Hey,

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Speaker 2: welcome to the Black Autists podcast, your host Rod and Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and you know it's been exactly twenty years since that

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Speaker 3: That's hard to believe.

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Speaker 2: One of the greatest albums are all time. Let me

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Speaker 2: see some of the best group of all time in

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Speaker 2: years ago high school, yeah, I think it was, I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was from high school.

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Speaker 2: I was listening to this tape. What's funny about the

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Speaker 2: You youngins don't know anything about that. For some reason,

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Speaker 2: it doesn't start with that, Okay, it doesn't like I

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Speaker 2: think the way I had it. I thought it started

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Speaker 2: with Babylon or or like you May Die or something like.

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Speaker 2: It was like or no, it wasn't you may Die.

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Speaker 2: It was whichever one start with the I came into

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Speaker 2: I know it sounds like sir. I never tood it,

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Speaker 2: but to see in my veins by the rest of us,

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Speaker 2: D's air club like whatever song that was, that's that

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Speaker 2: it opens up so good. It's like one of the

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Speaker 2: best openings I ever heard of my life. It's like

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Speaker 3: To and you didn't know we Oh yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, our cast man some revolutionary ship for the South for.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you couldn't tell me, Yeah, you can't tell me

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, this album was a masterpiece.

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Speaker 3: So to me, I was like, they sound like me, nig.

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Speaker 2: Right, and they sound like it wasn't just that, but

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Speaker 2: I know. Yeah, I saw a tweeters like twenty years

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Speaker 2: I just started bumping uh motherfucking at aliens. When I

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Speaker 1: I'm looking at them downloads and the reviews don't mess downloads, y'all.

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Speaker 2: the coach has all this time to go talk to

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00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:46,359
Speaker 2: the boys so you can get your story straight, you

431
00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:48,680
Speaker 2: can get rid of any evidence. Even in a Jameis

432
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:54,960
Speaker 2: Winston case, you know, the there was allegedly a videotape

433
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:58,320
Speaker 2: on the phone of this shit phone missing, you know,

434
00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 2: because you didn't prosecute or is pursued it for over

435
00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:05,480
Speaker 2: a year. Everyone if someone told you, let's say you

436
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:09,920
Speaker 2: did do a crime, like you stole a bike, right,

437
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 2: you stole a bike. If the police say we're gonna

438
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:17,600
Speaker 2: talk to you in this in about eleven months, I

439
00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:19,479
Speaker 2: got a feeling that the bike ain't gonna be there

440
00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:21,920
Speaker 2: when they get there any evident, Like you're not gonna

441
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,080
Speaker 2: just stand there with a stolen bike driving it around.

442
00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 2: You're gonna you're gonna do whatever you can to protect yourself.

443
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:31,400
Speaker 2: That's the kind of weird shit that happens when politics, sports,

444
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:36,160
Speaker 2: and police and get involved, you know. So I think

445
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 2: that's I think that's what a lot of people avoid

446
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:42,640
Speaker 2: because they don't like thinking about that shit. Just wanna

447
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:44,840
Speaker 2: watch game. I just want to like this person because

448
00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:47,280
Speaker 2: they throw touchdowns and they play for my team, and

449
00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:51,639
Speaker 2: that's that's all we think about. So anyway, the reason

450
00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:55,600
Speaker 2: I said what I said, which was like straight black

451
00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:59,160
Speaker 2: men are really the white people of black people, which

452
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:01,240
Speaker 2: I've said on the show for I really didn't find

453
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:03,640
Speaker 2: it to be that controversial, but of course it's the show,

454
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 2: which is different than social media. I was like, because

455
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 2: we do shit to each other, to other people in

456
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:17,399
Speaker 2: our groups, LGBT people, women, children, like other people in

457
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 2: our groups, we are quick to opt out on the empathy.

458
00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:23,120
Speaker 2: We're quick to blame them for shit, like I saw

459
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,240
Speaker 2: so many black men blaming women like black women, which

460
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:29,640
Speaker 2: is funny because this thing happened, the sexual assault happened

461
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:33,840
Speaker 2: to a white woman. And it's like, since people didn't

462
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:35,680
Speaker 2: buy the whole a white woman trying to take a

463
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:39,159
Speaker 2: black man down, it was these damn feminists that's the

464
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:41,640
Speaker 2: real problem, instead of just being like, you know what,

465
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 2: good point. You know, maybe he did do it. I

466
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 2: don't know, you know what I'm saying, Like you could

467
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 2: have just went with I don't know, but instead it

468
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:53,480
Speaker 2: was y'all bitches want to take these niggs down, blah

469
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:57,159
Speaker 2: blah blah. And you know, a couple people kind of

470
00:25:57,200 --> 00:26:00,919
Speaker 2: retweeted my thread about it, and then it got, you know,

471
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:05,199
Speaker 2: even worse, and so in the hay of all this

472
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:09,679
Speaker 2: shit coming, I just said, you know that you know,

473
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 2: straight black men or the white people really the white

474
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 2: people of black people. And it's so funny, man, because

475
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 2: The responses immediately proved me right, Yes, sir, we and

476
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:27,200
Speaker 2: I mean us straight black men. We sounded like white

477
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:30,320
Speaker 2: people responding to me, right, Like that's how white people

478
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 2: respond anytime a black person brings up race. If people

479
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 2: could have sought the responses, it was uncanny. It was

480
00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:39,959
Speaker 2: I mean, and I'm talking thousands, like this isn't just

481
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:43,640
Speaker 2: a couple of responses, Like people don't get the opt

482
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:45,960
Speaker 2: out of this and act like it's not us, it's

483
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:49,600
Speaker 2: us like it. I don't know what the percentage is.

484
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:52,400
Speaker 2: I don't know, but I know that the most vocal

485
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 2: people were straight black men being like talking like white people.

486
00:26:58,080 --> 00:26:59,360
Speaker 2: Let me tell you some of the shit I saw.

487
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:04,160
Speaker 2: Oh so it's bad to be straight and black. Then

488
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 2: that sounded like whenever we bring up racism, Oh so

489
00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 2: it's bad to be a white person. Now, I mean

490
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 2: I can't help out. Yeah, I can't be a white

491
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:17,280
Speaker 2: man no more. Wow O other things? You being divisive?

492
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:21,239
Speaker 2: Why can't we do like uplifting things and bring Then

493
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:22,720
Speaker 2: that sounds a lot like why are you always making

494
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:26,000
Speaker 2: it about race? You know, President Obama's the most divisive

495
00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:29,200
Speaker 2: president ever. Keep in mind this is a tweet. How

496
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:32,920
Speaker 2: fuck am I dividing everybody with one tweet. I ain't nobody,

497
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:35,360
Speaker 2: you know. It's like, you know what I mean, I'm

498
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 2: not a black leader, nigga. I just have a Twitter account.

499
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 2: I don't know if it's a check markt what. But

500
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:43,440
Speaker 2: it ain't nothing changed for me, you know what I mean? So, oh,

501
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 2: there's that. There was the of course, a whole lot

502
00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 2: of homophobic flurs. Many people, even some of the people

503
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 2: that agree with my sentiment, assumed I was I must

504
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 2: be gay uh two or LGBTQ somehow in order to

505
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 2: even and access this this this this this thought pattern,

506
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:08,720
Speaker 2: which is funny because that tells you how fucked up

507
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 2: they that straight black men must be the people for

508
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,160
Speaker 2: them to be like, oh, so you must be something

509
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 2: because a straight black person is not gonna come to this.

510
00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:20,600
Speaker 2: A black man is not gonna come to this conclusion.

511
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:22,479
Speaker 2: So what so what is it?

512
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 5: You know?

513
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:25,400
Speaker 2: So there were either people calling me that stuff not

514
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 2: and by I mean it was pejorative, but I just

515
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 2: want to be clear, they also did think I was gay,

516
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:35,480
Speaker 2: Like it wasn't It wasn't pejorative, and like, let me

517
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 2: emasculate you quote unquote it was pejorative. In a way

518
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 2: of if if I was a gay person, they clearly

519
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 2: were trying to like trigger something in me to make

520
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 2: me be like, oh, wow, you just called me a faggot.

521
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 2: Or there were people telling me, uh, y'all gonna get

522
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 2: you're gonna get aids, You're gonna die. Y'all can't reproduce,

523
00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 2: don't you? You know what's wrong with y'all? What straight

524
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:03,520
Speaker 2: man hurts you? Shit like that?

525
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 5: Wow?

526
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, people call me some people you don't have a father,

527
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 2: which is hilarious, you know. To me, like a lot

528
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 2: of this stuff rolled off my back, But you gotta

529
00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 2: remember it's rolling off my back because I am a

530
00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 2: straight black man. So I've been built like my confidence

531
00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:21,720
Speaker 2: and all this shit has been built up my whole

532
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 2: life anyway, and these things don't apply to me. So

533
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 2: to me, it's like, wow, that doesn't reflect my life experience.

534
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 2: So it's not a trigger for me, but it would

535
00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 2: have been for somebody else, you know, Like like, for example,

536
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 2: at no point that I think I was the first

537
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 2: person to type this or the first person to think this.

538
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 2: I honestly, I know I've said it on the show

539
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,520
Speaker 2: many times. I didn't think it was a controversial statement

540
00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 2: at all. Right, to be honest, I don't like, well, yeah, obviously,

541
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 2: you know what's funny is a black woman said the

542
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 2: same thing.

543
00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 6: Maybe.

544
00:29:58,360 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 2: I think the day of the tweet was like the

545
00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 2: first to August, and they said she got so bad

546
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 2: that she had to lock her account. So I know

547
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:08,840
Speaker 2: whatever I got still was as bad as what that

548
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 2: black woman went through. Because at the end of the day,

549
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:13,960
Speaker 2: these niggas might talk shit to me, not one person

550
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 2: threatened to do anything to me, not one, no, of course,

551
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 2: not that was never threatened with physical violence. I was

552
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 2: never threatened with rape, right, I wasn't even None of

553
00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 2: that shit happened to me. It was a whole lot

554
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 2: of like I'm a you should need to shut the

555
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 2: fuck up and ship like that, But it was nothing,

556
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:35,960
Speaker 2: nothing physical. No one thought that. Matter of fact, that

557
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 2: one person called me a simp. They went on my

558
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 2: Instagram and commented on a picture of me with Layla,

559
00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:44,520
Speaker 2: talking about you like a simp and all this shit.

560
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 2: That's the only comment that actually did make me kind

561
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 2: of mad. And it makes sense that they would find

562
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:53,440
Speaker 2: a picture of me with a black woman to try

563
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:55,040
Speaker 2: to start that ship, you know what I mean, Like

564
00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 2: it's no coincidence that, you know what I mean, right,

565
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 2: there's no coincidence. That's the when you decided to lead

566
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:04,720
Speaker 2: that that that horrible comment on that was the one

567
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 2: person that I was like, well, I was physically like

568
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:11,120
Speaker 2: if I knew who they were, I would find them,

569
00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Like, that's one of the

570
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 2: That was the only person that got to me like that.

571
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 2: Everybody else it was kind of like more sad, let

572
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 2: me see other responses. I got, what are your solutions?

573
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:27,440
Speaker 2: That's a good one.

574
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:27,800
Speaker 5: You know.

575
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 2: It's like what white people say to us when you go, well,

576
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 2: you know, this is this ship that happened is racist.

577
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 2: What do you want to do about it? I mean,

578
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:36,720
Speaker 2: if you just pointed out a problem, you're not bringing

579
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 2: up a solution. So now it's not just I can't

580
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 2: bring it up, but I have to fix it, as

581
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 2: if bringing up a problem isn't part of the discussion

582
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 2: like that. You know, I understand the idea of people

583
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 2: that all they do is point out problems and then

584
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:54,400
Speaker 2: they think that they think the work is done and

585
00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 2: they think that that's the end of the issue. That's cool,

586
00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Like, I understand that can

587
00:31:59,920 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 2: be tiring, you know, to constantly be told what this

588
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 2: is a problem, and you're like, well what the fuck?

589
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 2: You know, some problems you can't do anything about, you know,

590
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 2: like oh why I don't know? Uh, I hate that

591
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 2: it's eighty degrees today? Yeah, yeah, the weather is a problem.

592
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:16,920
Speaker 2: Are you gonna move?

593
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 5: Are you? Like?

594
00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 2: No? Okay? So I just got to hear about the

595
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 2: weather all day.

596
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 3: Cool?

597
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 2: You either opt to hang out with that person or not.

598
00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 2: What I found interesting though, is it wasn't a actual

599
00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 2: considered what is the solution? What can we do? It

600
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 2: was actually just a defensive deflection method method to be like,

601
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:40,840
Speaker 2: oh but what about this? You know, like like, well,

602
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 2: you ain't got no solutions, then I ain't got to

603
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 2: care about this. You just want to find a way

604
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:47,560
Speaker 2: to not have to care. Which if you didn't care,

605
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:51,720
Speaker 2: just don't say shit right there would have I'm a

606
00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 2: good I'm a good straight black man people, which why

607
00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 2: you had to yeah, hashagg not all white people? You

608
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:01,720
Speaker 2: know what about me? Well, then don't respond if the

609
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 2: shoot don't fit, why you gotta say all? I didn't

610
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 2: say all, but I generalize when I've talked all the

611
00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 2: time and The only people that respond to generalizations are

612
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 2: hit dogs hollering, because when you don't ask me to

613
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,040
Speaker 2: clarify when I say, man, white people are so crazy,

614
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 2: you don't say not all white people unless you're wanting

615
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:22,080
Speaker 2: them to hit dogs hollering. You never no one ever

616
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:24,480
Speaker 2: does that. And if you do have a reflexive moment

617
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 2: where you're gonna say that when someone didn't literally say ah,

618
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:30,600
Speaker 2: and you're gonna put all in the sentence, you're fucked up.

619
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:34,120
Speaker 2: It's you, you know what I'm saying. That's how it works.

620
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:38,560
Speaker 2: If someone says, look, men are rapist, and I go, well,

621
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 2: not all men. I didn't say all. You know what

622
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 2: I'm saying, Like literally, you threw that end so you

623
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:49,320
Speaker 2: could be offended. You know, well, generalizations don't help anybody. Bitch,

624
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 2: I got one hundred forty characters. Dog, I don't have

625
00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:58,000
Speaker 2: the time. We can't do this. So that that was

626
00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 2: another big one. That not all the whole bunch of

627
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:06,360
Speaker 2: hotels people. You're bringing us apart the community. This is

628
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:10,239
Speaker 2: anti blackness. It is anti black men saying that we

629
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:17,799
Speaker 2: can treat women, children, LGBTQ people better with respect. And

630
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:21,240
Speaker 2: you're sitting up here correcting me saying I'm anti black,

631
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 2: and the same if you look in the same responses

632
00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 2: to this tweet, I'm being called every fucked up name

633
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:30,240
Speaker 2: in the book, and you ain't saying a word because

634
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:33,680
Speaker 2: that's how it's supposed to go. You're cool with that.

635
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 2: That's how it's supposed to flow. People that speak up

636
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 2: are supposed to deal with that. Motherfuckers ain't taking no

637
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 2: time to say nothing to these people like it's just

638
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:45,360
Speaker 2: And I was retweeting them on purpose so people can see, like,

639
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:47,960
Speaker 2: you know, cause some people are like, well, this will

640
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 2: be interesting. A black woman tweeted this, and for the record,

641
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:55,920
Speaker 2: I know people care about attribution, but specifically I did

642
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:57,400
Speaker 2: not want to tag her to this. If she had

643
00:34:57,440 --> 00:35:01,200
Speaker 2: already gone through this before, right, that's fucked up and

644
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:04,160
Speaker 2: I saw what I was getting. Two, I never claimed

645
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 2: to come up with this concept. I really thought it

646
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 2: would be like a white person saying I'm the first

647
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:10,200
Speaker 2: person that came up with black Lives matter. That doesn't

648
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:12,400
Speaker 2: even make sense. Obviously you didn't think it at first.

649
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 2: So at no point did I feel like, oh, look

650
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 2: what I invented, And no point was I think am

651
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:20,799
Speaker 2: I getting credit? I didn't think this would blow up,

652
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 2: you know. And also if I would love to give

653
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 2: the credit and let the trolls go somewhere else, I

654
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:31,400
Speaker 2: voted for Ryan Lockey. Let's just give it to him

655
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 2: and the trolls, the ashes, the Ashes, they can roll

656
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:37,320
Speaker 2: with his ass too. But of course not everybody was

657
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 2: on board that, okay, But so that was that was

658
00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:43,440
Speaker 2: a huge part of it, because I think attribution does matter,

659
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:46,839
Speaker 2: and I just didn't want to have her go through

660
00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 2: that shit again. And at this point, the ship I said,

661
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 2: was and it's probably because she put her praise private,

662
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:56,280
Speaker 2: but the tweet I had was going bigger and bigger

663
00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 2: and bigger, like to like I said, four thousand, two

664
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 2: thousand people still responding to it today. Let's see what

665
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:04,799
Speaker 2: other responses I got.

666
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 3: Video.

667
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:11,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I forgot about the video. Yeah, the video. I

668
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 2: don't know if you guys have seen the video I'll

669
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:17,320
Speaker 2: posted on my Facebook page. But there was a dude

670
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 2: that was so confused and offended by my tweet that

671
00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:30,640
Speaker 2: he had he had to make his own video of it,

672
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 2: which it was ridiculous, y'all. I'm gonna see if I

673
00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 2: can find it and play it. But it was so

674
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 2: just stupid, you know, like, well, I'm just sitting here

675
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:45,319
Speaker 2: watching this, like, cause here's another thing. The number one

676
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 2: response I kept getting was huh, what you know, where

677
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 2: people are trying to act really like I don't understand

678
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:55,960
Speaker 2: this is so you know, like what you're saying is

679
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 2: just so out there, you know. Oh. There was also

680
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 2: the you can't make that comparison thing, which people love.

681
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,280
Speaker 2: It's like when white people say, don't bring up slavery,

682
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:09,800
Speaker 2: or when black people who are anti gay when you say, well,

683
00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 2: the civil rights movement of LGBTQ people mirrors a lot

684
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 2: of the things that were done to black people, and

685
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 2: they go, you can't even compare those two, motherfucker is

686
00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 2: a comparison. Okay, it's not. I didn't say equal, I

687
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 2: didn't even say the same, but I god damn well

688
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:27,600
Speaker 2: can compare some things. In the scope of privilege, the

689
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 2: comparison stands. I'm not saying black men fucking are colonial

690
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 2: or whatever the fuck, Like this is not about that,

691
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:37,919
Speaker 2: and you know it. You just don't want to talk

692
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:40,880
Speaker 2: about it. It's obvious that we still have male privilege

693
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 2: within our things. Oh, there was a whole lot of

694
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:44,839
Speaker 2: we're the real victims. If I got male privilege. Why

695
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:47,240
Speaker 2: Kyle shooting me? I don't know you heard the Daniel

696
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:49,879
Speaker 2: hostkom Was he shooting niggas? Or was he raping black women?

697
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:54,759
Speaker 2: Why was he targeting those women? Also? Only our shit count, right,

698
00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:57,359
Speaker 2: we the real There was a whole lot. Feminists are

699
00:37:57,400 --> 00:37:59,799
Speaker 2: the real. They the ones that are behind this. And

700
00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:02,240
Speaker 2: the black man is a victim of a black woman.

701
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 2: There was a lot of that, just like when people

702
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 2: do the white women or white people are the victims

703
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 2: of black people. Whenever you talk about crimes or cop

704
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 2: shooting people, Well, you ain't say nothing about doing four

705
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:14,319
Speaker 2: black people that got arrested for hitting a white man.

706
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:18,360
Speaker 2: You say got arrested, right, sounds like you got justice

707
00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:20,760
Speaker 2: still waiting on the minute, go jail.

708
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:21,200
Speaker 5: You know.

709
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 2: It's that kind of shit. And let me see if

710
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 2: I can find this. Oh yeah, here it is. I

711
00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:30,960
Speaker 2: don't even know this dude's name. He only got fifteen

712
00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:35,320
Speaker 2: hundred views off of this. But yeah, I'll play the

713
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 2: video for you guys. Oh wait, I need to let

714
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:41,040
Speaker 2: me put it on put it on the screen so

715
00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:45,400
Speaker 2: y'all can see that shit. All right, So this is

716
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 2: the dudes. Hell, he's like he filmed on the step

717
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 2: port of his house.

718
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:52,640
Speaker 5: What's going on YouTube? Uncle Hotel? Back at it again,

719
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:53,880
Speaker 5: Uncle Hotel.

720
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 2: Now, I know what you guys are thinking, click turn off.

721
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:01,680
Speaker 2: I know, but he went on for four minutes, so

722
00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:03,879
Speaker 2: I was you gotta I listen to it now, y'all

723
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:04,719
Speaker 2: gotta listen to it.

724
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, I just read a tweet to set up.

725
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:17,839
Speaker 7: Straight black men are the white people of black people.

726
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 7: I don't really even know what that means.

727
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:26,759
Speaker 2: If you don't know what it means, how is the

728
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:30,719
Speaker 2: video four minutes? Because I feel like if you don't

729
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 2: know what it means, we could stop there. It's like

730
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:35,239
Speaker 2: when people get mad at the times. By the way,

731
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:36,880
Speaker 2: and that was the only thing about my tweet that

732
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:38,880
Speaker 2: really was messed up, and somebody did correct me. That

733
00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:42,520
Speaker 2: was like you should have said sis hit the straight

734
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:46,759
Speaker 2: black man, sis gender heterosexual black man, because there's a

735
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 2: whole bunch of classifications. Honestly, at the time, I just

736
00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:52,120
Speaker 2: wasn't sure what the phraseology was and I didn't want

737
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 2: to use it wrong. So I just like straight black men.

738
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:58,920
Speaker 2: But yeah, that's I'm not disagreeing with anybody, is you know.

739
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:02,040
Speaker 2: I didn't want to stumble over those terms because I

740
00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:04,040
Speaker 2: think the only thing worse than being ignorant to a

741
00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:07,400
Speaker 2: term is using that shit and fucking it up. I know,

742
00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:11,439
Speaker 2: like I, you know and I and like I said,

743
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:13,920
Speaker 2: it does a better definition than that, So be it.

744
00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:15,799
Speaker 2: You know, this isn't it's not a fight for me.

745
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 2: But all right, So back to the Uncle Hotel.

746
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 5: One. I don't know what you consider the white people?

747
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:31,799
Speaker 5: Uh two? What's wrong with straight black men?

748
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 2: I mean, how now if you don't know what I

749
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:39,279
Speaker 2: consider the white people, then why did you assume it's

750
00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 2: something wrong? What if I thought white people are the

751
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 2: best people on the earth, and straight black men or

752
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:46,239
Speaker 2: the white people of black people, so that means, hey,

753
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 2: y'all the best of the blacks. What if that's what

754
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:50,840
Speaker 2: I thought? You didn't even ask, you just went.

755
00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 7: In, okay, I god, one, you're obviously being racist. I

756
00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:57,560
Speaker 7: guess you're insinuating white people are all a certain way,

757
00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 7: and you're insinuating all straight black men are all.

758
00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:01,759
Speaker 5: A certain way.

759
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:04,239
Speaker 2: Ah never said.

760
00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:05,360
Speaker 5: I just don't get it.

761
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 7: I don't get white black men, particularly straight black men.

762
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:13,239
Speaker 7: I guess apparently, I guess. I guess the transgender men

763
00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:16,200
Speaker 7: black men and the gay black men are okay, and

764
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:19,439
Speaker 7: everybody else's book. But I don't get white straight black

765
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:20,960
Speaker 7: men get this hate.

766
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:23,400
Speaker 5: Your father will.

767
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:25,960
Speaker 2: Tell me he don't sound like white people. Tell me

768
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 2: he don't sound like white people. I don't get why

769
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:33,560
Speaker 2: we get out this hatred for when you know, just

770
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 2: when look, someone shoot you in your neighborhood. What about

771
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,279
Speaker 2: black on black crime? I don't know. I mean, I

772
00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 2: guess you're doing nothing wrong.

773
00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:41,800
Speaker 3: In your neighborhood in Chicago.

774
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:43,799
Speaker 2: What about the kids in Chicago? I guess you guys

775
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 2: are perfect, and now I gotta be perfect? Okay, all right?

776
00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:52,359
Speaker 5: What I just don't get it. What is the hate? Well,

777
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:52,919
Speaker 5: this is wrong.

778
00:41:55,280 --> 00:41:58,799
Speaker 2: At no point do I say I hate straight black men.

779
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 2: That would be saying I hate myself. I wouldn't even

780
00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:06,840
Speaker 2: be saying this if I didn't love us, you know

781
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:08,959
Speaker 2: what I mean? Like, I just think we can love

782
00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 2: everybody like I. It's not that difficult. It doesn't mean

783
00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 2: everybody's gonna get along. It doesn't mean everybody's gonna like you.

784
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 2: It doesn't mean it won't be awkward. I mean, it's

785
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 2: like when white people talk about race, sometimes they gonna

786
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:23,240
Speaker 2: say some shit where you like, fuck this motherfucker, theay wrong,

787
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 2: and maybe they can learn from that, maybe they can

788
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 2: become a better person from that or whatever. But if

789
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:29,919
Speaker 2: you don't even open up the idea that you might

790
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 2: not be fucking perfect and that in mass some of

791
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:37,239
Speaker 2: the effect we have on people might be negative in mass. Right,

792
00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 2: You like, if you can't even like, I don't understand

793
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:43,800
Speaker 2: how you can ask for your freedom on one hand

794
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 2: and then on the other hand tell people I ain't

795
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 2: got this, hain't my problem when it comes to that shit,

796
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 2: and it's obviously people that look like you and act

797
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:54,840
Speaker 2: like you playing a role in that shit. You know,

798
00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 2: when you look at the fact that black women are

799
00:42:57,200 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 2: killed three times more than white women when it comes

800
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 2: to domestic violence intimate partner violence, when you look at

801
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:09,880
Speaker 2: that shit and you know who doing the killing, you

802
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:12,600
Speaker 2: don't feel nothing, like nothing about you feel like we

803
00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:13,320
Speaker 2: could do better?

804
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:18,920
Speaker 1: Right because overall, in a large percentage, black women married

805
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:22,240
Speaker 1: inside their race, literally larger than any other group.

806
00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:25,879
Speaker 2: Right, Like, the problem isn't like because what happened once

807
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 2: people started being like, well, well that's just male privilege.

808
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:32,719
Speaker 2: That's cool, But that's my point, Like, you're also illustrated

809
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:34,840
Speaker 2: my point. I didn't say that they were being white

810
00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:37,200
Speaker 2: people or that they are white people, or that they're

811
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 2: even equal to white people, just that we wield our

812
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:42,480
Speaker 2: privilege and we and some of the responses we have

813
00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:45,400
Speaker 2: are the way that white people treat us as black people.

814
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 2: And I wanted and I picked those words very carefully,

815
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:51,520
Speaker 2: and I chose that example very carefully because only black

816
00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 2: men that and black people that follow in these categories

817
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:59,759
Speaker 2: would recognize the hypocrisy of the way that we talk

818
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:02,839
Speaker 2: of by white people and then expect to be able

819
00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:05,479
Speaker 2: to weld that privilege on other people. That's the point

820
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:07,800
Speaker 2: of the analogy. It ain't even deep. It's not deep,

821
00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:11,280
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. Like if I said Drake

822
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:15,440
Speaker 2: is a if I said that Drake is the jay

823
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:18,920
Speaker 2: Z in Canada, I'm not saying Drake is Jay z R.

824
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:22,319
Speaker 2: The of Canada. Part matters, you know what I'm saying.

825
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:26,600
Speaker 2: Like people, It's amazing what people will ignore. It's almost

826
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 2: like when people say, well, I believe all lives matter.

827
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:33,840
Speaker 2: Why because they added a word in their head, the

828
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 2: black lives matter, which is only black lives matter. They

829
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:41,160
Speaker 2: added only to that something that nobody's ever said, right,

830
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:44,560
Speaker 2: but just your insecurity and defensiveness that adds that word,

831
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:47,640
Speaker 2: and that's what happened. All black men, which I hate,

832
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:52,360
Speaker 2: are the same as white people the like. That's what

833
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:55,760
Speaker 2: people decided it must have meant, even though they couldn't

834
00:44:55,960 --> 00:44:58,759
Speaker 2: possibly understand it, quote unquote, but they had to come

835
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:01,320
Speaker 2: up with their own underst standing, which was the worst

836
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:01,920
Speaker 2: possible one.

837
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:05,160
Speaker 5: This is wrong with the kaa shine, the nicknog.

838
00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:09,440
Speaker 2: He was just talking about me being anti black and

839
00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:12,920
Speaker 2: just call me a kada a shine and a nicknog,

840
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:15,120
Speaker 2: which is a nig nag is by the worst. By

841
00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:17,919
Speaker 2: the way, these are all racial slurs. Nignaw is by

842
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:20,560
Speaker 2: far the worst one because that's not even a black

843
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 2: term like nig nood comes from white supremacists that talk

844
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:27,680
Speaker 2: about black people on forms like riyan people that talk

845
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:30,040
Speaker 2: about us and call us. They don't like that. You

846
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:32,680
Speaker 2: can't say nigga, but they'll say nignog. So, okay, what

847
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,759
Speaker 2: a shine? You never heard that? It's just a term

848
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:40,879
Speaker 2: White people came out for black people, and a kada

849
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 2: is like a hotel were calling somebody, com okay, and this.

850
00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:45,680
Speaker 5: Is what's wrong with him.

851
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:53,080
Speaker 7: They they fitting off the white liberal mindset and their

852
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:54,960
Speaker 7: view points and ran with it.

853
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 5: And if you know, anything about black people.

854
00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:01,719
Speaker 7: They will overdo something in a minute, Like you go

855
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:04,160
Speaker 7: to a black church pastor, he'll put us all in

856
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:07,280
Speaker 7: the pastor and they'll Howelujah and praise be the Lord

857
00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:08,439
Speaker 7: all day long.

858
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 5: The same thing.

859
00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:12,840
Speaker 7: If you go to watch people play black people play football,

860
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:14,880
Speaker 7: they let the negro celebrate.

861
00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 5: They spiky. They've just come up with new celebrations like

862
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 5: o choue sinko. He just went off the hook, like

863
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:21,800
Speaker 5: terrell os off the hook.

864
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:24,920
Speaker 2: At this point, he's rambling, right, I mean, that's not

865
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 2: just me that has He's lost the plot. I've lost

866
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 2: the plot. We've all lost the plot. The plot is

867
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:33,520
Speaker 2: not in this book. It's nowhere to be found. Yeah, yeah,

868
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:36,399
Speaker 2: this is what. This is my touchdown celebration of white

869
00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 2: liberalism that I've embraced. Okay, guys, that's what's going on here.

870
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:44,360
Speaker 7: Any anywhere, any walk of life, black folks will go

871
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:45,280
Speaker 7: overboard or something.

872
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:48,920
Speaker 5: They just overduced it. Now that's it. That can be

873
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:50,840
Speaker 5: a blessing or that can be a curse.

874
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:55,280
Speaker 2: Now, how come my generalization was so wrong and bad?

875
00:46:56,320 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 2: But his generalization is just understood, which is which a

876
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:02,480
Speaker 2: lot of people did. By the way, I don't like

877
00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 2: you generalizing, this is fucked up. See black people always up.

878
00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:09,879
Speaker 2: That's generalized. You just say so, you say, you say,

879
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:12,279
Speaker 2: you say half, you say a percentage, you say number,

880
00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:15,640
Speaker 2: You just say black people. So you can do it out.

881
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:18,319
Speaker 2: I can't because because it because it hit you at home,

882
00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 2: because it's something you do, you know. It's the idea

883
00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:26,080
Speaker 2: is very simple. When it's Nate Parker, we line up

884
00:47:26,080 --> 00:47:28,359
Speaker 2: with him because he a black man. When it's when

885
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 2: it's Bill Cosey, we line up with him because he's

886
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:34,320
Speaker 2: a black man. When it when it's uh, Mike Tyson,

887
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:37,480
Speaker 2: when it's r Kelly, it's a black man. And and

888
00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 2: the most sad people I saw man, the ones that

889
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:42,879
Speaker 2: actually like kind of broke my heart, was sisters. There

890
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:46,680
Speaker 2: were sisters defending the right for black men to not

891
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:51,399
Speaker 2: treat them or LGBT people or our children as at

892
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:54,520
Speaker 2: with respect. They were there were women. And that's how

893
00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 2: much sadly I've said it on the show, But that's

894
00:47:57,120 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 2: how black women love us so much, sometimes to a

895
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:07,879
Speaker 2: point where ir yeah, whereas iric is unrequired. Uh it's yeah,

896
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:11,960
Speaker 2: it's it's not reciprocated at all. Like it's like very

897
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:15,399
Speaker 2: very often like some of these men. And I don't

898
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:17,200
Speaker 2: know if it was just choose me Twitter, because some

899
00:48:17,239 --> 00:48:19,200
Speaker 2: of it was choose me people, Like I was looking

900
00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:22,120
Speaker 2: at people's timeline before, you know, I would block them

901
00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:24,560
Speaker 2: over when they was fine, and some of these people

902
00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:27,560
Speaker 2: that tweets would be like, you see a woman needs

903
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 2: to do this, that, and the other like, you know,

904
00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:31,920
Speaker 2: and then the next tweet was telling me him what

905
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:34,160
Speaker 2: like trying to get the attention to some of these men.

906
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:36,840
Speaker 2: Some of it was that, but some of it was

907
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:40,680
Speaker 2: just people being like, this seems like something that has

908
00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:43,160
Speaker 2: hurt a lot of straight black men, and I want

909
00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 2: to voice my disagreement with this because I don't want

910
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 2: them to be hurt, you know, which is that prerogative,

911
00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 2: you know, and uh, but it's still sad to me.

912
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:58,759
Speaker 2: It's still sad because they're hurt over me saying, yo, man,

913
00:48:58,800 --> 00:49:00,879
Speaker 2: we not to be all in the definition of what

914
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:05,080
Speaker 2: blackness is. That's not you know, like I saw people

915
00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:07,759
Speaker 2: for the record saying the reason Black Lives Matter is

916
00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:10,840
Speaker 2: gonna fail because LGBT people and women were at the

917
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:14,040
Speaker 2: forefront of it, and that's why black protests was gonna fail.

918
00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:16,000
Speaker 2: And the Black liberation movement was gonna fail and all

919
00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 2: this shit. I saw people saying that, uh oh, that

920
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:32,560
Speaker 2: black women were the like not they were also taking

921
00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 2: credit for what black men were actually organizing, and that

922
00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 2: they would make hashtags. But on the ground, the black

923
00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:41,960
Speaker 2: men do all the work and then the women do

924
00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 2: all the social media.

925
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:46,640
Speaker 1: Get the fuck up out of here with that bullshit.

926
00:49:47,000 --> 00:49:50,200
Speaker 2: Several people said that. Several people so like Leslie Jack,

927
00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:53,640
Speaker 2: Feminist to Jones, all these people, you know, people that

928
00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:57,279
Speaker 2: we know that are organizers. Basically they're essentially saying, no

929
00:49:57,400 --> 00:49:59,440
Speaker 2: black men did this, and these women come in and

930
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:02,960
Speaker 2: take the credit like that, Like that is It's sad,

931
00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:04,359
Speaker 2: It's sick.

932
00:50:04,719 --> 00:50:05,880
Speaker 3: When have you ever seen that?

933
00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:08,279
Speaker 1: Now you've seen black men take the credit for the

934
00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:11,319
Speaker 1: work the women do. Because everybody wanna put Martin, Luther

935
00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:13,360
Speaker 1: King and all these motherfuckers on the goddamn pedestal.

936
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:14,640
Speaker 3: But I tell you one motherfucking thing.

937
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:16,680
Speaker 1: When they was doing these marshalship, guess who wouldn't at

938
00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:19,640
Speaker 1: the forefront women. Guess who wasn't allowed to speak women?

939
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:23,920
Speaker 1: So I don't want to hear that our things we

940
00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:26,359
Speaker 1: do in the civil rights is more than motherfucker sitting

941
00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:28,160
Speaker 1: on the bus stop and my goddamn feet hurt. We

942
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:31,080
Speaker 1: did a whole lot more than that shit. But when

943
00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 1: push come to show, we don't get credit for it.

944
00:50:33,120 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 1: But when we do shit, all of a sudden, they

945
00:50:34,600 --> 00:50:36,800
Speaker 1: gotta be a man behind us, motherfucker pushing us like

946
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 1: we didn't have the intelligence enough or the sensing us

947
00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 1: to come up with.

948
00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:41,319
Speaker 3: The shit on our own. And we're doing it out

949
00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:42,800
Speaker 3: of love, because I'm gonna tell you right now that

950
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:44,520
Speaker 3: wouldn't love for your black ass.

951
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:47,440
Speaker 1: Half the shit that people are protesting for would not

952
00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:49,840
Speaker 1: get started and would not get done if it was

953
00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:52,440
Speaker 1: laid at the feet of black men in general to

954
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:55,239
Speaker 1: do it. Most of these martals in protests and most

955
00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 1: of this shit going on would not get motherfucking done

956
00:50:58,160 --> 00:50:59,799
Speaker 1: because dudes would be like, dog, you're doing it?

957
00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:02,640
Speaker 3: Now, Dog you doing it? I ain't got down. Guess what, nigga,

958
00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:05,160
Speaker 3: the game on, So shit wouldn't get done. And we

959
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:08,439
Speaker 3: do this because we love you, that's it.

960
00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:10,879
Speaker 1: If we didn't love you, why would we go through

961
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:15,000
Speaker 1: this harassment? Why would we deal with people harassing us,

962
00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:17,880
Speaker 1: giving us death threats, talking about raping us. And this

963
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:20,759
Speaker 1: is just the black people, black men. This is not

964
00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 1: considered a rapist. I mean the white people that you

965
00:51:23,040 --> 00:51:25,480
Speaker 1: have to deal with. This is not considered. The government

966
00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:27,520
Speaker 1: that you have to deal with, this is not considered.

967
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:29,680
Speaker 1: The people that actually put their lives on the line

968
00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:32,399
Speaker 1: with police officers getting shot at, going back and forth

969
00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 1: to jail. We do it out of love, because the

970
00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:38,360
Speaker 1: thing about love black women, Black women's love for black

971
00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:41,840
Speaker 1: men is unconditional. And that's something black men don't understand.

972
00:51:41,880 --> 00:51:45,520
Speaker 1: It's unconditional, which means despite of how you treat me,

973
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:48,120
Speaker 1: despite of what you say to me, despite on how

974
00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:50,239
Speaker 1: you walk out on me, despite on how you turn

975
00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:53,040
Speaker 1: your back on me, despite on how you leave me pregnant,

976
00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:56,160
Speaker 1: despite on how you leave me homeless, despite on how

977
00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:59,320
Speaker 1: you leave me with these kids, I'm gonna love you anyway.

978
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:02,040
Speaker 1: It does not makes sense, but we do it.

979
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:04,800
Speaker 3: Because we love you. Just like you know you undertack.

980
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 1: We know you're under attack, and the thing is we

981
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:09,799
Speaker 1: are woulding to take a bullet that you won't take

982
00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:10,560
Speaker 1: for us.

983
00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:18,360
Speaker 2: What's wild, too, is whenever a black woman does is like, well,

984
00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:23,920
Speaker 2: I'm out, Like this is enough, Like I've run out

985
00:52:23,960 --> 00:52:27,120
Speaker 2: of the like it's actually not an infinite amount of

986
00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:30,160
Speaker 2: love that I have to keep sacrificing and doing this

987
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:34,879
Speaker 2: shit and it's thankless. Then it's see, these black women

988
00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:37,240
Speaker 2: don't care about us, y'all don't. It's it's like we're

989
00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:40,560
Speaker 2: we're infantilized, you know what I mean, Like we're babies.

990
00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 5: Oh.

991
00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:46,680
Speaker 2: Another a woman said this one, Well, who's raising these

992
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:50,600
Speaker 2: black men? These black women are raising them because most

993
00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:54,080
Speaker 2: of them an't got their fathers around. What is the

994
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:57,759
Speaker 2: head trip on that? Like, what is the logical leap

995
00:52:57,800 --> 00:53:00,480
Speaker 2: you have to come to? It takes two people to

996
00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:04,759
Speaker 2: make a baby. If one person shirks their responsibilities, the

997
00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:10,439
Speaker 2: other person is now to blame the person who's there

998
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:15,120
Speaker 2: every day, who works, who fees you, that's the person

999
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:18,040
Speaker 2: that gets to blame. The other person is just let

1000
00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:20,799
Speaker 2: the fuck off the hook. That's not it. Literally, I'm

1001
00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:25,520
Speaker 2: like that literally is the statement I'm making is we

1002
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:27,759
Speaker 2: can use our privilege to opt out and people will

1003
00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:30,960
Speaker 2: still covet us, and they'll still protect us, and they'll

1004
00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:33,600
Speaker 2: still take out side because with men, they'll still be like,

1005
00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 2: you know what, you didn't raise your kid, and that's fine.

1006
00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:39,680
Speaker 2: It's really these women's fault, right, raising these hood rats.

1007
00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:42,680
Speaker 2: And you're like, how are you blind to this?

1008
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:47,480
Speaker 3: Right, and it doesn't make sense. It's one of those things.

1009
00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:51,200
Speaker 1: It and it irritates the fuck out of me because

1010
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:53,800
Speaker 1: for some reason people is particularly in the black community,

1011
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:57,480
Speaker 1: people act like single black mothers want to be single

1012
00:53:57,560 --> 00:54:01,240
Speaker 1: black mothers. They act like, what me, as a single

1013
00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:03,759
Speaker 1: black women woman, no matter how many children I have,

1014
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:08,719
Speaker 1: I desire is what is so great about being a

1015
00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:11,439
Speaker 1: single parent that people don't understand.

1016
00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:15,200
Speaker 3: It's hard, it's rhydicy. It's hard when you got two parents.

1017
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:17,040
Speaker 1: So when you have one parent and then the other

1018
00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:19,800
Speaker 1: person walks away from the responsibility, and then what really

1019
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:22,319
Speaker 1: trips me out, what really pisces me off about when

1020
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:24,520
Speaker 1: it comes to single black women is that people act

1021
00:54:24,600 --> 00:54:27,400
Speaker 1: like you're wrong for demanding child support. People act like

1022
00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:29,719
Speaker 1: you're wrong for taking them to court. People act like

1023
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:33,280
Speaker 1: you're wrong for garnishing. Rageous, motherfucker, this child ain't free.

1024
00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 2: It's not free. I'm not gonna pretend out of the

1025
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:39,839
Speaker 2: sake of unity. I'm not gonna pretend because that's another thing.

1026
00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:42,480
Speaker 2: You you're dividing us. This is talking about our divisions.

1027
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:44,919
Speaker 2: We should be bringing people together. I'm like, well, here's

1028
00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 2: what you don't get. It's already divided. Because it's divided

1029
00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:52,040
Speaker 2: that way. If you treat somebody like shit, it's already

1030
00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:54,000
Speaker 2: like you might think it's together, and it's that's not

1031
00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:56,239
Speaker 2: actually unity. When you're telling somebody else to shut the

1032
00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:59,200
Speaker 2: fuck up and get in line, that's not actually unity.

1033
00:54:59,360 --> 00:55:01,760
Speaker 2: That's not what you he would look like, because that's

1034
00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:04,400
Speaker 2: to me, and I know that you know this is

1035
00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:07,919
Speaker 2: not everybody's issue with it, but it's mine. It's why

1036
00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:10,680
Speaker 2: I don't watch the Olympics because it feels like everybody

1037
00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:12,239
Speaker 2: got to shut the fuck up and get in line

1038
00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:15,279
Speaker 2: and put on for company, knowing that shit ain't right here,

1039
00:55:16,040 --> 00:55:18,040
Speaker 2: Like we know that the shit ain't right. We know

1040
00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:21,160
Speaker 2: that you don't care about us. The second we step

1041
00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:23,880
Speaker 2: off the mat. You don't give a fuck anymore. And

1042
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:27,960
Speaker 2: to me, I can't watch it like it does something

1043
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:29,440
Speaker 2: to me. I get upset watching it.

1044
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:31,879
Speaker 3: And that's like.

1045
00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:34,640
Speaker 2: A lot in a lot of ways what we see

1046
00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:37,040
Speaker 2: that Like I can explain that to most black people

1047
00:55:37,040 --> 00:55:40,279
Speaker 2: and they go, I see why that would Yeah, I

1048
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:44,120
Speaker 2: can understand. But if I say, well, it's got to

1049
00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:48,120
Speaker 2: irritate women to be organizing these marches and shit, and

1050
00:55:48,160 --> 00:55:50,920
Speaker 2: then they go on Twitter and it's some dude telling

1051
00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:55,319
Speaker 2: them that, you know, they're the reason that that that

1052
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:57,640
Speaker 2: people don't raise their kids and they shouldn't ask for

1053
00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:01,800
Speaker 2: child's poor and that they're taking the credit for the

1054
00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:06,560
Speaker 2: black the black liberation movement and black protest movement even

1055
00:56:06,600 --> 00:56:10,480
Speaker 2: though they don't deserve it, and feminism is an invention

1056
00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:14,239
Speaker 2: of the white woman, and equality is basically some shit

1057
00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:17,200
Speaker 2: you need to give up on. And at the same

1058
00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:19,799
Speaker 2: time that these hotel niggas talk about how we the

1059
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:22,719
Speaker 2: kings of the house and all this, whenever you bring

1060
00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:26,840
Speaker 2: something up, they become the most powerless motherfuckers. They become like,

1061
00:56:26,880 --> 00:56:30,440
Speaker 2: they become punks. The second that you go, well, well,

1062
00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:33,560
Speaker 2: why can't you weld your power in a way that's

1063
00:56:33,560 --> 00:56:35,839
Speaker 2: more fair to everybody, Then all of a sudden it's well,

1064
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:37,960
Speaker 2: I ain't got no power. I mean shit, I mean

1065
00:56:38,239 --> 00:56:41,919
Speaker 2: we go to jail, more offten, we get the don't

1066
00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:44,440
Speaker 2: forget that, you know, we get killed by the cops.

1067
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:46,920
Speaker 2: And then it's like, well, hold up, now you can't

1068
00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:49,880
Speaker 2: go from I'm the king. I should run shit, I

1069
00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:53,640
Speaker 2: should tell these women what to do too. Now I'm

1070
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:55,839
Speaker 2: a I'm just I'm just out here, like you dog,

1071
00:56:55,920 --> 00:56:57,799
Speaker 2: I'm just getting it, like I get like, nah, man,

1072
00:56:57,920 --> 00:57:01,160
Speaker 2: you can't have it both ways. But that's something white

1073
00:57:01,160 --> 00:57:05,240
Speaker 2: people do all the time. The similarities are too fucking

1074
00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:07,879
Speaker 2: close for me to pretend that I didn't what I said.

1075
00:57:07,960 --> 00:57:10,560
Speaker 2: It struck a nerve because it was close. It's struck

1076
00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:12,919
Speaker 2: a nerve because people don't want to think about that shit.

1077
00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:15,759
Speaker 2: It's struck a nerve because especially struck a nerve with

1078
00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:18,680
Speaker 2: people that really do hate white people. It's struck a

1079
00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 2: nerve with them the most. You know, my favorite people, though,

1080
00:57:21,720 --> 00:57:25,480
Speaker 2: favorite people that got offended, White people that resented being

1081
00:57:25,520 --> 00:57:30,720
Speaker 2: compared to black people that oh, why delicious. I cannot

1082
00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:33,080
Speaker 2: There's no fucking way I could have thought of that,

1083
00:57:33,160 --> 00:57:36,040
Speaker 2: Like no, it blew my mind. And there were multiple

1084
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:39,680
Speaker 2: white people like, don't I'm offended to this? This is racist,

1085
00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:43,880
Speaker 2: like racist for who? Though you you racist for you

1086
00:57:43,920 --> 00:57:46,560
Speaker 2: the white person, like you shouldn't be comparing us to

1087
00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:49,920
Speaker 2: And I'm like, yes, that's what the that's that That

1088
00:57:50,040 --> 00:57:52,640
Speaker 2: is the ultimate height of whiteness right there, like that

1089
00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:56,240
Speaker 2: the what about me of all this shit? You know?

1090
00:57:56,320 --> 00:57:58,480
Speaker 2: And by the way, there were tons of people that say,

1091
00:57:58,560 --> 00:58:02,080
Speaker 2: I see what you're saying. He's right, I agree. A

1092
00:58:02,160 --> 00:58:04,760
Speaker 2: ton of people. You know, I'm only talking about the

1093
00:58:04,760 --> 00:58:07,360
Speaker 2: people that really had issue with it. There were people

1094
00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:08,560
Speaker 2: that are like, oh, you could have framed it a

1095
00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:11,160
Speaker 2: little better. Cool, I don't really want to get into

1096
00:58:11,200 --> 00:58:12,680
Speaker 2: the details. I framed it the way I framed it

1097
00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:15,439
Speaker 2: on purpose, and now and it doesn't. I don't think

1098
00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:18,240
Speaker 2: it can be better other than I left out cis

1099
00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:22,520
Speaker 2: nor unless I'm already gonna suck it up since gender

1100
00:58:22,560 --> 00:58:24,880
Speaker 2: head or normdif I left that out, I should have

1101
00:58:24,920 --> 00:58:27,520
Speaker 2: put that in. That's the only thing that really would

1102
00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:29,320
Speaker 2: have made it more exact to what I meant. But

1103
00:58:29,400 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 2: other than that, not a motherfucking thing I said do

1104
00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:35,040
Speaker 2: I take back or disagree with or think it should

1105
00:58:35,040 --> 00:58:39,720
Speaker 2: be better. That's exactly what I meant. Because watching niggas

1106
00:58:39,840 --> 00:58:43,959
Speaker 2: opt out of caring about this shit, and a whole

1107
00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:45,720
Speaker 2: lot of people tied it back to Nate Parker. See

1108
00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:48,000
Speaker 2: this is why this is what's wrong with y'all. Y'all

1109
00:58:48,000 --> 00:58:50,520
Speaker 2: trying to boycott Nate Parking. Y'all say shuper stupid shit

1110
00:58:50,640 --> 00:58:54,080
Speaker 2: like this like it was that, you know, don't even

1111
00:58:54,120 --> 00:58:56,360
Speaker 2: compare that kind of shit. It was very much like

1112
00:58:56,360 --> 00:58:57,640
Speaker 2: that all right back to Uncle Hotel.

1113
00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:01,080
Speaker 7: You see they've taken the weight liberal mindset and their

1114
00:59:01,240 --> 00:59:02,840
Speaker 7: propaganda and just ate it up.

1115
00:59:02,880 --> 00:59:04,439
Speaker 5: And they're just going too far with this shit.

1116
00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:09,280
Speaker 7: There's not another race on this planet that will demean

1117
00:59:09,360 --> 00:59:11,920
Speaker 7: they're men like black people.

1118
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:12,120
Speaker 6: Will.

1119
00:59:13,760 --> 00:59:16,240
Speaker 5: I want y'all to name one, tell me one, and

1120
00:59:16,320 --> 00:59:20,800
Speaker 5: it's not any none.

1121
00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:23,840
Speaker 2: So once again, black men, straight black man, we the

1122
00:59:23,840 --> 00:59:26,959
Speaker 2: real victims. We the real victims. Care No other race

1123
00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:30,840
Speaker 2: talks about straight men this way. Okay, it's only us

1124
00:59:31,520 --> 00:59:35,720
Speaker 2: in India where there's mass raping going on on buses

1125
00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:38,760
Speaker 2: and stuff and they're passing laws. They don't talk about

1126
00:59:38,800 --> 00:59:42,160
Speaker 2: men like this. Okay, this doesn't happen there. You know,

1127
00:59:42,440 --> 00:59:48,040
Speaker 2: when we get where white people obviously everybody loves white men,

1128
00:59:48,240 --> 00:59:51,720
Speaker 2: nobody ever says anything bad about white men. Only black

1129
00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:56,440
Speaker 2: people have this issue, guys, Just name another, just any

1130
00:59:56,480 --> 01:00:00,360
Speaker 2: other race. It's impossible aging people. There's no such thing

1131
01:00:00,760 --> 01:00:05,000
Speaker 2: as Asian people that say that. Japanese people, you know,

1132
01:00:05,360 --> 01:00:09,000
Speaker 2: Chinese peop, they never say anything, guys. And that's that's

1133
01:00:09,040 --> 01:00:13,320
Speaker 2: the difference. Okay, we the only ones that do that.

1134
01:00:13,640 --> 01:00:15,520
Speaker 2: Let alone the fact that I'm a straight black man,

1135
01:00:15,520 --> 01:00:18,120
Speaker 2: I'm a trader. Really I should have I shouldn't have

1136
01:00:18,160 --> 01:00:22,000
Speaker 2: said this, like you.

1137
01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:26,320
Speaker 7: Can be Asians and East Indians and white, team you

1138
01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:29,800
Speaker 7: go white. They won't even do it like this, But

1139
01:00:29,920 --> 01:00:33,120
Speaker 7: somehow a straight black man is the worst person in

1140
01:00:33,120 --> 01:00:34,439
Speaker 7: the goddamn world.

1141
01:00:35,160 --> 01:00:40,320
Speaker 2: I didn't say that literally. An analogy means that, I

1142
01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:44,200
Speaker 2: didn't say that like a lot of this was also

1143
01:00:44,880 --> 01:00:49,959
Speaker 2: and this is sad, but the educational system in America, man,

1144
01:00:50,320 --> 01:00:59,320
Speaker 2: I learned. I learned the difference between a metaphor, similes, homonyms, analogies.

1145
01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:04,680
Speaker 2: I learned this shit in fourth grade. I have never

1146
01:01:04,760 --> 01:01:10,120
Speaker 2: forgotten these lessons, Like, as you know, it's what I

1147
01:01:10,200 --> 01:01:12,640
Speaker 2: know what an equation is because I took math. I

1148
01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:15,000
Speaker 2: know when someone's saying two things are the exact same.

1149
01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:21,440
Speaker 2: I know what a comparison is. I took English. Like

1150
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:25,440
Speaker 2: it is amazing how many people literally now I don't

1151
01:01:25,480 --> 01:01:27,560
Speaker 2: know if it's just the privileged talking. So they were like,

1152
01:01:27,640 --> 01:01:29,560
Speaker 2: I don't want to I want to pretend like I

1153
01:01:29,560 --> 01:01:32,120
Speaker 2: don't know when I do. And how many people were

1154
01:01:32,160 --> 01:01:35,800
Speaker 2: literally confused at a sentence that wasn't that complex right

1155
01:01:36,680 --> 01:01:40,960
Speaker 2: either way? The education system that's sad, Like that that

1156
01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:43,320
Speaker 2: response right there was the one that was just like ee,

1157
01:01:44,480 --> 01:01:47,080
Speaker 2: like you might want to look up. Did you fail

1158
01:01:47,120 --> 01:01:50,880
Speaker 2: the part of the sat that was like a bird

1159
01:01:51,440 --> 01:01:58,080
Speaker 2: is to a tree as a bicycle is to a garage,

1160
01:01:59,120 --> 01:02:02,760
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Right see the ocean, like

1161
01:02:02,840 --> 01:02:04,680
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Like, did you fail that shit?

1162
01:02:04,760 --> 01:02:05,000
Speaker 2: Were you?

1163
01:02:05,120 --> 01:02:05,400
Speaker 1: Just? Like?

1164
01:02:05,560 --> 01:02:08,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I failed? I mean, what the fuck does that

1165
01:02:08,560 --> 01:02:11,000
Speaker 2: even mean? Dog, you're trying to tell me a bird

1166
01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:13,760
Speaker 2: is the same as a bicycle. I don't understand. Those

1167
01:02:13,760 --> 01:02:17,080
Speaker 2: are two different things. Like, no, you're not that stupid.

1168
01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:20,200
Speaker 2: So either you're willfully up to or you're actually up to.

1169
01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:22,760
Speaker 2: Either way, it is bad. It's just bad. Anyway, back

1170
01:02:22,760 --> 01:02:24,080
Speaker 2: to this Uncle hotel.

1171
01:02:24,160 --> 01:02:30,000
Speaker 5: Like this is y'all using They don't even understand they're using.

1172
01:02:32,320 --> 01:02:36,800
Speaker 7: What they are using the white liberals viewpoints, the democrats,

1173
01:02:38,840 --> 01:02:43,320
Speaker 7: the original slave owners, the starters of the KKK.

1174
01:02:44,200 --> 01:02:45,360
Speaker 5: This is their viewpoints.

1175
01:02:51,840 --> 01:02:54,120
Speaker 7: It's sad, man, I mean, I know, I mean, I'm

1176
01:02:54,120 --> 01:02:55,680
Speaker 7: a Hope Tep you know what I mean, Hope Tepper die.

1177
01:02:55,720 --> 01:03:02,720
Speaker 7: You see the shirt. But man, come on, man, it's

1178
01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:08,760
Speaker 7: like if you do with everything that they're new, whatever

1179
01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:13,120
Speaker 7: they're come up with next, then you're Blake Street, Black MILLI.

1180
01:03:13,160 --> 01:03:16,040
Speaker 7: You're an enemy, You're you're you're an average.

1181
01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:18,960
Speaker 2: You have to agree with everything and everything you know,

1182
01:03:19,080 --> 01:03:23,560
Speaker 2: such as women should be treated with respecting as egos,

1183
01:03:23,960 --> 01:03:28,400
Speaker 2: or you know, let's not kill trans people, or how

1184
01:03:28,440 --> 01:03:31,760
Speaker 2: aby we stop admonishing people for being gay and calling

1185
01:03:31,760 --> 01:03:35,320
Speaker 2: their life a choice and calling uh and saying that

1186
01:03:35,360 --> 01:03:37,600
Speaker 2: because people were telling me that gay people need to die. Shit,

1187
01:03:37,720 --> 01:03:41,480
Speaker 2: It wasn't This wasn't some like, this wasn't some accidental

1188
01:03:41,600 --> 01:03:44,800
Speaker 2: language barrier. Shit, This wasn't some I just believe it's

1189
01:03:44,800 --> 01:03:47,000
Speaker 2: a choice. Some people are trying to be like, well,

1190
01:03:47,040 --> 01:03:49,640
Speaker 2: don't you mean religious black people, No, nigga, A lot

1191
01:03:49,680 --> 01:03:51,400
Speaker 2: of y'all don't go to church, and y'all steal some

1192
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:55,360
Speaker 2: mother fucking homophobic, racist, misogynistic, anti black motherfuckers. They ain't

1193
01:03:55,400 --> 01:03:56,840
Speaker 2: never had to step a foot up in church to

1194
01:03:56,880 --> 01:03:59,440
Speaker 2: get that that lesson right there, that spiritual, that religion,

1195
01:03:59,640 --> 01:04:02,840
Speaker 2: that shit all around us. That shit is anti blackness

1196
01:04:02,880 --> 01:04:04,640
Speaker 2: all around us. You don't need to step up footing

1197
01:04:04,680 --> 01:04:06,880
Speaker 2: the church to learn that shit. A lot of people

1198
01:04:06,920 --> 01:04:09,120
Speaker 2: do go to churches that are like that. One of

1199
01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:12,080
Speaker 2: the reason I don't go to church, Like the start

1200
01:04:12,120 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 2: of me being like, you know, I think I don't

1201
01:04:13,600 --> 01:04:16,120
Speaker 2: believe any of this shit was going to church and

1202
01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:18,720
Speaker 2: watching how bad they talked about the people that were there,

1203
01:04:18,760 --> 01:04:21,880
Speaker 2: Like black women show up to your church just so

1204
01:04:21,920 --> 01:04:25,680
Speaker 2: you can tell them they basically how bad they are.

1205
01:04:25,800 --> 01:04:28,560
Speaker 2: Y'all out here having sex, y'all, single mothers, y'all, y'all

1206
01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:30,720
Speaker 2: ain't got no man, y'all this and Jesus gonna give

1207
01:04:30,720 --> 01:04:32,160
Speaker 2: you a man if you act right and shit like.

1208
01:04:32,200 --> 01:04:35,080
Speaker 2: It's like, yo, y'all are fucked up. You know what

1209
01:04:35,160 --> 01:04:37,200
Speaker 2: I mean. I don't need a weekly dose of this.

1210
01:04:37,640 --> 01:04:39,720
Speaker 2: And I still know outside of the church where all

1211
01:04:39,840 --> 01:04:43,200
Speaker 2: people still have those lessons, whether Jesus is involved or not.

1212
01:04:43,880 --> 01:04:47,240
Speaker 2: So a lot of people that don't. They do everything wrong,

1213
01:04:47,360 --> 01:04:51,360
Speaker 2: quote unquote. They're not really religious or spiritual. They fucking smoke,

1214
01:04:51,440 --> 01:04:54,720
Speaker 2: they drink, they have sex, they gamble, they do all

1215
01:04:54,800 --> 01:04:56,960
Speaker 2: the sins quote unquote. They don't give a fuck about

1216
01:04:56,960 --> 01:04:59,080
Speaker 2: any of that. The only time they might bring up

1217
01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:01,560
Speaker 2: religion is to it minded somebody that's gay. Get the

1218
01:05:01,560 --> 01:05:03,760
Speaker 2: fuck out of here. You're not religious. You're a biggie dog.

1219
01:05:03,840 --> 01:05:06,560
Speaker 2: That's it. The biggo tree in religion not necessarily the

1220
01:05:06,600 --> 01:05:08,720
Speaker 2: same dog. There's people that are religious that don't harbor

1221
01:05:08,720 --> 01:05:10,800
Speaker 2: that shit inside of them. There's some people that are

1222
01:05:10,800 --> 01:05:13,760
Speaker 2: religious and the reason that they do the good that

1223
01:05:13,840 --> 01:05:16,520
Speaker 2: they do, that they do in the community, they'll attribute

1224
01:05:16,560 --> 01:05:20,120
Speaker 2: it to their beliefs or whatever. Cool. I don't have

1225
01:05:20,120 --> 01:05:22,680
Speaker 2: a problem with those people. But when you start putting

1226
01:05:22,680 --> 01:05:24,920
Speaker 2: your beliefs on other people and shit and walking around

1227
01:05:25,240 --> 01:05:27,120
Speaker 2: and monishing folks for the way that they were born

1228
01:05:27,160 --> 01:05:29,400
Speaker 2: and shit, yeah, you you fucked up dog, You are

1229
01:05:29,400 --> 01:05:33,240
Speaker 2: a fucked up person. And that so the people that

1230
01:05:33,320 --> 01:05:36,080
Speaker 2: try to fashion it into so you're talking about, I

1231
01:05:36,120 --> 01:05:38,200
Speaker 2: would say Baptists, not shut the fuck up. It's not

1232
01:05:38,320 --> 01:05:41,720
Speaker 2: I said what I fucking said. I meant what I said. Anyway.

1233
01:05:41,840 --> 01:05:48,680
Speaker 7: Sorry, it's sad, man, it really really is.

1234
01:05:48,760 --> 01:05:53,040
Speaker 5: It's sad. It's disgusting inside.

1235
01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:58,520
Speaker 7: Straight black man's the most hated, So we must be

1236
01:05:58,600 --> 01:06:02,240
Speaker 7: doing something right. So straight black men keep doing what

1237
01:06:02,280 --> 01:06:05,760
Speaker 7: you're doing because these haters gonna keep hating. And we

1238
01:06:05,840 --> 01:06:07,720
Speaker 7: all know you ain't nothing. If you ain't getting it,

1239
01:06:07,760 --> 01:06:10,680
Speaker 7: you don't got no haters, You ain't nothing. Work on

1240
01:06:10,760 --> 01:06:15,040
Speaker 7: getting you some haters. And the straight black men has

1241
01:06:15,080 --> 01:06:16,200
Speaker 7: the most haters in the world.

1242
01:06:17,640 --> 01:06:18,840
Speaker 5: Thanks y'all. Peace.

1243
01:06:19,560 --> 01:06:21,280
Speaker 2: So I'm just a head of y'all. That's all. It

1244
01:06:21,360 --> 01:06:24,080
Speaker 2: is guys. Now, maybe you agree with some of the

1245
01:06:24,120 --> 01:06:28,080
Speaker 2: things Uncle Hotel was saying. Guys, Okay, that's possible. Maybe

1246
01:06:28,160 --> 01:06:30,200
Speaker 2: y'all listen to this and y'all like, actually, I never

1247
01:06:30,240 --> 01:06:33,720
Speaker 2: really fuck with Rod, so it is what it is,

1248
01:06:33,800 --> 01:06:36,480
Speaker 2: you know, fuck that dude. Well, Uncle Hotel does have

1249
01:06:36,880 --> 01:06:44,640
Speaker 2: a channel on YouTube and he has other videos, you know. Now,

1250
01:06:44,680 --> 01:06:46,480
Speaker 2: they don't have a lot of views. I think this

1251
01:06:46,520 --> 01:06:48,960
Speaker 2: one probably has his most. Yeah, appears that this one

1252
01:06:49,040 --> 01:06:52,480
Speaker 2: has his most views, which he is welcome. Maybe he'll

1253
01:06:52,520 --> 01:06:54,640
Speaker 2: go back. Oh no, I see one seeing it? Okay,

1254
01:06:54,640 --> 01:06:58,680
Speaker 2: he has one, uh Dwayne from scott Okay, he has

1255
01:06:58,720 --> 01:07:02,040
Speaker 2: a couple that have more views. Okay, good, So hopefully

1256
01:07:02,080 --> 01:07:05,440
Speaker 2: he won't be going back to this. Well, but you know,

1257
01:07:05,760 --> 01:07:08,760
Speaker 2: he also has videos about how he's gonna vote for Trump.

1258
01:07:11,080 --> 01:07:14,160
Speaker 2: Mm hmm. No issues with women, no issues with women, guys,

1259
01:07:14,760 --> 01:07:17,640
Speaker 2: just gonna vote for Trump. You know he's the obviously

1260
01:07:18,240 --> 01:07:22,360
Speaker 2: huh oh yeah, Hillary blames the black Man for email scandal.

1261
01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:28,560
Speaker 2: Of course you know he's into that. But he does

1262
01:07:28,600 --> 01:07:31,160
Speaker 2: cover things such as meat meal catching the al from Drake.

1263
01:07:31,280 --> 01:07:35,080
Speaker 2: So I mean he's you know, eco opportunity, fair fair assessment,

1264
01:07:35,280 --> 01:07:40,000
Speaker 2: you know, versatile yeah, so this, you know, you guys

1265
01:07:40,040 --> 01:07:42,840
Speaker 2: can definitely go check out his h his other work.

1266
01:07:43,560 --> 01:07:46,520
Speaker 2: But uh, yeah, man, it's just been an interesting fucking

1267
01:07:46,680 --> 01:07:49,200
Speaker 2: forty eight hours man, honestly, and you know what, I

1268
01:07:49,240 --> 01:07:52,280
Speaker 2: don't regret none of it. I don't like it wore

1269
01:07:52,400 --> 01:07:55,480
Speaker 2: on me, but I kept the thing I kept thinking

1270
01:07:55,480 --> 01:07:58,200
Speaker 2: about was if I would have been a black woman

1271
01:07:58,320 --> 01:08:01,680
Speaker 2: or if I would have been LGBT you and saying

1272
01:08:01,720 --> 01:08:04,840
Speaker 2: that it would have been worse, and that's really all. Like,

1273
01:08:05,280 --> 01:08:07,040
Speaker 2: So I didn't even want to, like, you know, this

1274
01:08:07,080 --> 01:08:08,800
Speaker 2: show is kind of safe haven where I can talk

1275
01:08:08,840 --> 01:08:11,320
Speaker 2: about my feelings and shit. But I didn't even really

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01:08:11,320 --> 01:08:12,800
Speaker 2: want to talk about it on Twitter and shit because

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01:08:12,800 --> 01:08:14,680
Speaker 2: I don't want people to be like, well, yeah, you're

1278
01:08:14,680 --> 01:08:16,680
Speaker 2: gonna make it all about you. Well imagine what it

1279
01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:19,400
Speaker 2: was like for like, yo, I get it. I'm not

1280
01:08:19,479 --> 01:08:23,160
Speaker 2: saying that it was the worst, but it does affect you,

1281
01:08:23,160 --> 01:08:25,240
Speaker 2: you know. Like I went out and went to a

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01:08:25,280 --> 01:08:28,080
Speaker 2: movie last night. I saw Don't Breathe. It was so good.

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01:08:28,720 --> 01:08:30,760
Speaker 2: I saw it in the black theater. Oh, we had

1284
01:08:30,840 --> 01:08:34,240
Speaker 2: such a good time. Everybody. If you can go see

1285
01:08:34,240 --> 01:08:36,240
Speaker 2: that movie, go see it in the black theater. It's

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01:08:36,320 --> 01:08:41,840
Speaker 2: so fun. It's so fun, oh man, that old blind

1287
01:08:41,920 --> 01:08:45,519
Speaker 2: man was getting it. Boy, whoa who? That movie good

1288
01:08:45,600 --> 01:08:48,800
Speaker 2: y'all and it's only an hour twenty some minutes, like

1289
01:08:48,880 --> 01:08:51,120
Speaker 2: you in and out like thirty minutes of previews, obviously,

1290
01:08:51,160 --> 01:08:53,880
Speaker 2: but you are in and out of them, man. Our

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01:08:54,040 --> 01:08:55,800
Speaker 2: only thing I didn't I wouldn't able to do is

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01:08:55,800 --> 01:08:58,320
Speaker 2: I wanted to call someone on craizelist and see if

1293
01:08:58,320 --> 01:09:01,000
Speaker 2: they'll let me be, like could I be platonic arm

1294
01:09:01,160 --> 01:09:04,720
Speaker 2: just to hold on my way because Karen sold me out.

1295
01:09:04,800 --> 01:09:10,360
Speaker 2: But it was so good y'all anyway, So I saw that,

1296
01:09:10,600 --> 01:09:14,439
Speaker 2: and you know, I got to laugh at some things.

1297
01:09:14,479 --> 01:09:17,519
Speaker 2: I came back. One dude had the most ridiculous comment

1298
01:09:17,640 --> 01:09:20,400
Speaker 2: to all of them, which was, first, y'all say, I

1299
01:09:20,479 --> 01:09:23,400
Speaker 2: talked white, and now you say this, I don't want

1300
01:09:23,400 --> 01:09:27,880
Speaker 2: to even be black anymore? And right I was like,

1301
01:09:28,640 --> 01:09:31,680
Speaker 2: that might be the best response, like I don't. I

1302
01:09:31,760 --> 01:09:34,559
Speaker 2: wasn't even mad at him. I mean I blocked him, obviously,

1303
01:09:34,600 --> 01:09:37,519
Speaker 2: because I told everybody that morning, like I have to

1304
01:09:37,520 --> 01:09:39,800
Speaker 2: start blocking people because what was happening was people were

1305
01:09:39,840 --> 01:09:43,439
Speaker 2: having whole conversations and the conversations were fucked up. I

1306
01:09:43,520 --> 01:09:46,160
Speaker 2: don't know why I mean, look, if you had a

1307
01:09:46,200 --> 01:09:48,080
Speaker 2: patience the reason with some of these people, that's fine.

1308
01:09:48,200 --> 01:09:50,360
Speaker 2: I didn't need it in my mentions. And there was

1309
01:09:50,400 --> 01:09:52,559
Speaker 2: a whole lot of like, so why do you call

1310
01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:55,400
Speaker 2: them queers that need to die and go to hell?

1311
01:09:55,800 --> 01:09:58,519
Speaker 2: And black women are all insufferable bitches? Do you want

1312
01:09:58,560 --> 01:10:00,559
Speaker 2: to like talk this out? And I'm like, fuck that day.

1313
01:10:00,760 --> 01:10:02,680
Speaker 2: That dude is exemple what I'm talking about. He's never

1314
01:10:02,720 --> 01:10:05,200
Speaker 2: coming back to pastor why the fuck did that even

1315
01:10:05,400 --> 01:10:08,280
Speaker 2: make you so mad? You actually are that person. You

1316
01:10:08,360 --> 01:10:12,840
Speaker 2: do believe the worst in everybody but yourself, like you're

1317
01:10:12,960 --> 01:10:17,080
Speaker 2: you're you're a bad person. So that was part of

1318
01:10:17,080 --> 01:10:21,160
Speaker 2: it too, But yeah, so it was just it was

1319
01:10:21,760 --> 01:10:23,920
Speaker 2: it was just so many different responses, man, and I

1320
01:10:24,200 --> 01:10:27,800
Speaker 2: couldn't do this show without talking about it, honestly, Uh,

1321
01:10:27,840 --> 01:10:29,479
Speaker 2: even though we have a whole lot of feedback to

1322
01:10:29,479 --> 01:10:32,720
Speaker 2: get to, it's probably be a long one, but I

1323
01:10:32,760 --> 01:10:35,240
Speaker 2: definitely wanted to talk about it because you know, we

1324
01:10:35,479 --> 01:10:42,040
Speaker 2: had all the textbook responses to what of what white

1325
01:10:42,080 --> 01:10:46,519
Speaker 2: people would say, you know, like, h we we can't

1326
01:10:46,560 --> 01:10:50,639
Speaker 2: fight for so so we're supposed to fight the police

1327
01:10:50,680 --> 01:10:53,679
Speaker 2: and white supremacy, but we also supposed to be against

1328
01:10:53,720 --> 01:10:57,360
Speaker 2: homophobia and masiding in our community. Man, can't do We

1329
01:10:57,439 --> 01:10:58,800
Speaker 2: just need to do one thing at a time.

1330
01:10:59,040 --> 01:10:59,240
Speaker 5: You know.

1331
01:10:59,280 --> 01:11:02,320
Speaker 2: It's like sound like white people, you know what I mean,

1332
01:11:03,080 --> 01:11:07,120
Speaker 2: pick a fight, you know, you know, blaming victims, Well,

1333
01:11:07,200 --> 01:11:10,160
Speaker 2: that's because white women, and that's because gay people are terrible.

1334
01:11:09,960 --> 01:11:10,160
Speaker 8: You know.

1335
01:11:11,880 --> 01:11:18,040
Speaker 2: You know anytime somebody did actually, anytime someone brought up like,

1336
01:11:18,040 --> 01:11:20,479
Speaker 2: well what about Black Lives matter, that's a movement, it matters,

1337
01:11:20,479 --> 01:11:22,639
Speaker 2: and d d da da, oh, well that's because black

1338
01:11:22,640 --> 01:11:26,479
Speaker 2: men did the real work, you know, and a whole

1339
01:11:26,520 --> 01:11:29,160
Speaker 2: lot of was just like I'm so hurt as a

1340
01:11:29,200 --> 01:11:32,880
Speaker 2: straight black man that it's more I'm the most hated,

1341
01:11:33,000 --> 01:11:36,160
Speaker 2: not black women. I mean, Malcolm X said the black

1342
01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:38,720
Speaker 2: women is the most you know, the black Malcolm X.

1343
01:11:39,120 --> 01:11:42,000
Speaker 2: Y'all niggas God said that, and you up here like, no,

1344
01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:43,800
Speaker 2: the black man is the real one is.

1345
01:11:43,800 --> 01:11:44,479
Speaker 3: To hate it.

1346
01:11:44,479 --> 01:11:47,080
Speaker 2: It's like, we can't do anything without us being first,

1347
01:11:47,880 --> 01:11:49,960
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, We first and foremost need

1348
01:11:50,000 --> 01:11:53,240
Speaker 2: to get all the credit to anything. And that's it.

1349
01:11:53,800 --> 01:11:58,960
Speaker 2: So you know, it was just that struck the third rail, y'all.

1350
01:11:59,040 --> 01:12:02,720
Speaker 2: I had no idea. Yeah, man, I'm tired like, I

1351
01:12:02,840 --> 01:12:06,280
Speaker 2: was physically tired yesterday because I'm just reading this shit, like.

1352
01:12:06,240 --> 01:12:06,640
Speaker 5: Is this more?

1353
01:12:06,920 --> 01:12:10,240
Speaker 2: These motherfuckers still going? They probably still going during the show.

1354
01:12:10,280 --> 01:12:12,720
Speaker 2: I'm sure if I go, looks people still retweeting it,

1355
01:12:12,880 --> 01:12:14,920
Speaker 2: people still mad about it, people still acting like they

1356
01:12:14,960 --> 01:12:18,840
Speaker 2: don't understand Cool. All right, now, let's get the y'alls feedback. Okay,

1357
01:12:19,479 --> 01:12:22,400
Speaker 2: we had episode twelve sixty six going to Miami. I

1358
01:12:22,520 --> 01:12:26,040
Speaker 2: was listening feedback. We had five comments. Man, we normally

1359
01:12:26,040 --> 01:12:29,120
Speaker 2: don't have that many comments. Prof Corey, Oh she loves

1360
01:12:29,200 --> 01:12:32,519
Speaker 2: three comments by herself. Okay, you're handling of the question

1361
01:12:32,560 --> 01:12:34,559
Speaker 2: about pro black people who are married to white folks

1362
01:12:34,680 --> 01:12:37,160
Speaker 2: was very sensitive. I often avoid talking about this is

1363
01:12:37,360 --> 01:12:40,400
Speaker 2: because my circle is full of interracial couples. In fact,

1364
01:12:40,520 --> 01:12:42,439
Speaker 2: what's striking about my circle is that the number of

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01:12:42,439 --> 01:12:44,479
Speaker 2: black women with white husbands is at least equal to

1366
01:12:44,479 --> 01:12:46,840
Speaker 2: the number of black men with white wives. Usually it's

1367
01:12:46,880 --> 01:12:49,280
Speaker 2: just a black man who just happened to fall in

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01:12:49,280 --> 01:12:51,639
Speaker 2: love with someone much lighter. But you're making me want

1369
01:12:51,640 --> 01:12:54,960
Speaker 2: to wait until this topic. Just enough to say this American.

1370
01:12:55,760 --> 01:12:57,160
Speaker 2: I like that she said just enough to say this,

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01:12:57,240 --> 01:13:01,640
Speaker 2: But it's three more comments, two more comments. Yeah, this

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01:13:01,720 --> 01:13:05,160
Speaker 2: one got her. This one got her. I don't even

1373
01:13:05,240 --> 01:13:09,240
Speaker 2: know what got her. Motive of it. Americans in general

1374
01:13:09,280 --> 01:13:11,759
Speaker 2: love to insist that love is different from everything else.

1375
01:13:12,439 --> 01:13:14,760
Speaker 2: Just uh, but that doesn't make a lot of sense.

1376
01:13:14,800 --> 01:13:17,040
Speaker 2: How could it be possible that racism doesn't help determine

1377
01:13:17,040 --> 01:13:19,400
Speaker 2: who a person finds attractive? How could it not help

1378
01:13:19,439 --> 01:13:22,559
Speaker 2: determine who you think you can make a lifelong partnership with.

1379
01:13:22,760 --> 01:13:24,800
Speaker 2: How could it not shape those things it does? But

1380
01:13:24,880 --> 01:13:27,679
Speaker 2: Americans clearly have an investment in pretending that personal choices

1381
01:13:27,680 --> 01:13:29,680
Speaker 2: are not tainted by the very force we know it's

1382
01:13:29,680 --> 01:13:32,680
Speaker 2: seeping into every crack and crevice of our lives. I

1383
01:13:32,720 --> 01:13:34,719
Speaker 2: have some guesses as to why we like to pretend,

1384
01:13:34,760 --> 01:13:37,360
Speaker 2: but that would make this too long, no matter the reasons.

1385
01:13:37,439 --> 01:13:39,559
Speaker 2: Claiming that choices about love exists on a level that

1386
01:13:39,640 --> 01:13:42,920
Speaker 2: racism doesn't alter its way too convenient for anyone who's

1387
01:13:43,000 --> 01:13:45,599
Speaker 2: interested in delving deeper into this and doesn't mind reading

1388
01:13:45,600 --> 01:13:48,840
Speaker 2: a theoretically dense book and also grapple with every it

1389
01:13:48,880 --> 01:13:52,839
Speaker 2: also grapples with every day issues. I recommend Sharon Hollands

1390
01:13:52,880 --> 01:13:55,760
Speaker 2: The Erotic Life of Racism. All Right, that's already too long.

1391
01:13:55,800 --> 01:13:58,280
Speaker 2: It's always your show goes there in ways that I appreciate.

1392
01:14:00,120 --> 01:14:03,080
Speaker 2: I read the other two comments before we talk about this,

1393
01:14:03,200 --> 01:14:05,559
Speaker 2: or you want to or you want to talk about

1394
01:14:05,560 --> 01:14:09,400
Speaker 2: it between each comments. It's up to you. We're going

1395
01:14:09,439 --> 01:14:11,000
Speaker 2: to town to mean all right?

1396
01:14:11,600 --> 01:14:11,920
Speaker 3: All right?

1397
01:14:11,960 --> 01:14:15,559
Speaker 2: Well the first one, I don't think you can separate

1398
01:14:16,320 --> 01:14:20,920
Speaker 2: racism as a constant from everything, and especially in America.

1399
01:14:21,680 --> 01:14:26,320
Speaker 2: So judging for that constant, that means you also can't

1400
01:14:26,320 --> 01:14:28,639
Speaker 2: separate it from when we pick somebody of our own

1401
01:14:28,720 --> 01:14:31,920
Speaker 2: race as well. Like it's a constant, you know, like

1402
01:14:32,040 --> 01:14:35,360
Speaker 2: everyone is making choices. It's like if you said the

1403
01:14:35,439 --> 01:14:40,439
Speaker 2: whole if everything in America was under one foot of water, right,

1404
01:14:40,600 --> 01:14:42,880
Speaker 2: just one foot, Like everywhere you went you had to

1405
01:14:42,920 --> 01:14:47,000
Speaker 2: walk through at least one foot deep of water. Every

1406
01:14:47,040 --> 01:14:49,240
Speaker 2: decision you make is effected by that water. Am I

1407
01:14:49,240 --> 01:14:54,400
Speaker 2: gonna leave my hounds a thing? Do? I? Can? I swim? Right?

1408
01:14:56,240 --> 01:14:56,360
Speaker 4: So?

1409
01:14:56,640 --> 01:14:59,960
Speaker 2: I you know, I do think that what happens is

1410
01:15:00,120 --> 01:15:04,000
Speaker 2: is we romanticize relationships and love the way that we're

1411
01:15:04,040 --> 01:15:06,000
Speaker 2: taught a lot of that has to do with religion,

1412
01:15:06,080 --> 01:15:08,880
Speaker 2: in my opinion. Were you know, a lot of us

1413
01:15:08,920 --> 01:15:13,160
Speaker 2: are taught monogamy. We're taught, you know, want to death?

1414
01:15:13,200 --> 01:15:15,200
Speaker 2: Do you part pro create?

1415
01:15:16,000 --> 01:15:16,120
Speaker 1: Uh?

1416
01:15:16,520 --> 01:15:21,639
Speaker 2: You know, even the ways that marriage is viewed when

1417
01:15:21,640 --> 01:15:25,840
Speaker 2: we talk about marriage equality, marriage equality typically for most

1418
01:15:25,880 --> 01:15:28,719
Speaker 2: people just means well, now you can have a marriage

1419
01:15:28,760 --> 01:15:32,360
Speaker 2: that mimics the monogamous till death? Do you part marriage? Right?

1420
01:15:32,680 --> 01:15:35,760
Speaker 2: It's not like you can go marry three people. You know,

1421
01:15:36,080 --> 01:15:39,280
Speaker 2: you can't have an open marriage that we know about,

1422
01:15:39,360 --> 01:15:42,800
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Yeah, like you can't go

1423
01:15:42,960 --> 01:15:45,519
Speaker 2: for them, you know, like you can't go for them

1424
01:15:45,640 --> 01:15:48,600
Speaker 2: like a big love family and shit. So so like

1425
01:15:48,680 --> 01:15:51,320
Speaker 2: we do have all that. Like you know, religion is

1426
01:15:51,360 --> 01:15:53,679
Speaker 2: a constant in this country, at least religious the way

1427
01:15:53,720 --> 01:15:56,840
Speaker 2: that you know, ain't go saxon religions and shit like that. So,

1428
01:15:56,920 --> 01:16:02,080
Speaker 2: like the point being, I don't separate it. But the

1429
01:16:02,200 --> 01:16:04,679
Speaker 2: question that person asked, because I think they even brought

1430
01:16:04,800 --> 01:16:12,040
Speaker 2: up W Mile Bell as a specific example, I do

1431
01:16:12,120 --> 01:16:17,240
Speaker 2: not get into saying which pro black people or black

1432
01:16:17,240 --> 01:16:21,519
Speaker 2: people even in general married to someone of a different

1433
01:16:21,600 --> 01:16:25,880
Speaker 2: race or like, I don't question their allegiance to blackness either.

1434
01:16:26,240 --> 01:16:29,920
Speaker 2: The same way that I said, I think throughout history,

1435
01:16:30,080 --> 01:16:35,960
Speaker 2: men in general have been abusive to women. You know,

1436
01:16:36,240 --> 01:16:38,880
Speaker 2: how could any woman marry a man knowing the shit

1437
01:16:38,960 --> 01:16:40,960
Speaker 2: that our society would let that person get away with,

1438
01:16:41,120 --> 01:16:44,719
Speaker 2: and the shit that that men have typically done to women,

1439
01:16:44,880 --> 01:16:49,760
Speaker 2: whether it's death, whether it's abuse, whether it's you know,

1440
01:16:49,920 --> 01:16:51,719
Speaker 2: just the fact that you don't have the same access

1441
01:16:51,760 --> 01:16:53,759
Speaker 2: to the justice, and like, how could you ever trust

1442
01:16:53,760 --> 01:16:56,280
Speaker 2: the person that way? But love is fucked up like that.

1443
01:16:56,320 --> 01:16:59,719
Speaker 2: Love is not a smart thing. Love is, in my opinion,

1444
01:17:00,040 --> 01:17:02,479
Speaker 2: the dumbest things that you can do is attach yourself

1445
01:17:02,479 --> 01:17:05,320
Speaker 2: to one decision for the rest of your fucking life forever.

1446
01:17:05,640 --> 01:17:11,160
Speaker 2: Like it's just an emotionally fulfilling thing that we get

1447
01:17:11,240 --> 01:17:14,559
Speaker 2: an intangible thing out of that. You know, it's the

1448
01:17:14,640 --> 01:17:16,559
Speaker 2: ultimate hot that a lot of people are chasing. But

1449
01:17:16,640 --> 01:17:22,160
Speaker 2: in general, I ain't starting ship. Okay, listen, y'all need

1450
01:17:22,160 --> 01:17:25,720
Speaker 2: to start a new session on this. Oh okay, so

1451
01:17:25,760 --> 01:17:29,080
Speaker 2: we're not okay, we're not even all right? How long

1452
01:17:29,479 --> 01:17:29,960
Speaker 2: was he off?

1453
01:17:30,200 --> 01:17:31,280
Speaker 3: We just switched over?

1454
01:17:31,680 --> 01:17:36,880
Speaker 2: Okay, cool, it's not it's not your fault. I did too.

1455
01:17:37,000 --> 01:17:38,840
Speaker 2: I wasn't even looking at them. I was like, I

1456
01:17:38,880 --> 01:17:40,519
Speaker 2: don't care if these niggas can see this, you know

1457
01:17:40,560 --> 01:17:44,360
Speaker 2: what I mean, just about me, you know, let me

1458
01:17:44,400 --> 01:17:47,240
Speaker 2: prepare to go live for these niggas be on my Twitter,

1459
01:17:49,720 --> 01:17:54,280
Speaker 2: all right, cool, cool, and I'll add you to the screen, caring.

1460
01:17:55,720 --> 01:18:00,160
Speaker 2: I just invited you, telling you the register for this too,

1461
01:18:01,560 --> 01:18:06,600
Speaker 2: I just done, all right cool. So yeah, love is

1462
01:18:06,640 --> 01:18:11,559
Speaker 2: already like a stupid ass decision just in general. You know,

1463
01:18:11,760 --> 01:18:14,040
Speaker 2: in a society where most people like options, you wouldn't

1464
01:18:14,120 --> 01:18:17,800
Speaker 2: fucking buy a car you were gonna have forever. You

1465
01:18:17,800 --> 01:18:19,519
Speaker 2: don't even want to live in a city forever, a

1466
01:18:19,600 --> 01:18:21,800
Speaker 2: house forever, or you know what I mean, Like, there's

1467
01:18:21,880 --> 01:18:25,599
Speaker 2: nothing we want to do forever other than love and

1468
01:18:25,680 --> 01:18:28,040
Speaker 2: like children and shit, that's those are the things we've

1469
01:18:28,040 --> 01:18:31,160
Speaker 2: decided off forever. You know, with our society, everything else

1470
01:18:31,240 --> 01:18:33,280
Speaker 2: is just like fuck that. It's student loans of course,

1471
01:18:33,280 --> 01:18:38,000
Speaker 2: off forever. But ah, but my point was, I can't

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01:18:38,040 --> 01:18:40,800
Speaker 2: measure someone's pro blackness by that, because love is an

1473
01:18:40,800 --> 01:18:45,759
Speaker 2: individual choice. Like just knowing the macro of it doesn't

1474
01:18:45,840 --> 01:18:49,840
Speaker 2: change the fact that for each individual, they picked their

1475
01:18:49,960 --> 01:18:54,840
Speaker 2: mate or mates based on what they want. And I

1476
01:18:54,880 --> 01:18:58,400
Speaker 2: can't like, while I could easily be like well, obviously,

1477
01:18:59,120 --> 01:19:02,640
Speaker 2: in a society that puts white beauty standards at the highest,

1478
01:19:03,240 --> 01:19:06,080
Speaker 2: there's gonna be a lot of people gravitating towards that

1479
01:19:06,120 --> 01:19:10,519
Speaker 2: in their minds as the biggest achievement they can make.

1480
01:19:11,200 --> 01:19:14,200
Speaker 2: Some people don't even look at love as the like

1481
01:19:14,880 --> 01:19:17,920
Speaker 2: as a soulmate type thing, but almost like an acquisition,

1482
01:19:18,160 --> 01:19:22,680
Speaker 2: you know, like, look how bad my bitch is. Look

1483
01:19:22,720 --> 01:19:24,640
Speaker 2: how much I have this much money, I have this

1484
01:19:24,720 --> 01:19:26,479
Speaker 2: kind of car, I have this kind of house, and

1485
01:19:26,520 --> 01:19:29,600
Speaker 2: I need this kind of wife. You know, there's a

1486
01:19:29,640 --> 01:19:32,679
Speaker 2: lot to it. You know, it's complicated. So I don't

1487
01:19:32,720 --> 01:19:35,120
Speaker 2: want to say some broadsweeping shit like well, if a

1488
01:19:35,160 --> 01:19:38,320
Speaker 2: black person got a white mate, then they can't be

1489
01:19:38,400 --> 01:19:40,800
Speaker 2: pro black, because I'm like, I don't know that shit,

1490
01:19:40,840 --> 01:19:43,599
Speaker 2: and I don't want to know, honestly, if we're keeping

1491
01:19:43,640 --> 01:19:46,840
Speaker 2: it one hundred, I don't really want to know about

1492
01:19:46,880 --> 01:19:49,840
Speaker 2: anybody's relationship y'all. If we keeping it one hundred, like

1493
01:19:50,800 --> 01:19:53,120
Speaker 2: beyond some celebrity gossip or some shit, I don't give

1494
01:19:53,160 --> 01:19:56,719
Speaker 2: a fuck. Like, just as long as it's consitting adun'ts

1495
01:19:56,720 --> 01:19:59,120
Speaker 2: and nobody being abused, y'all can do what the fuck

1496
01:19:59,200 --> 01:20:02,320
Speaker 2: y'all want, you know what I mean, Like, that's it

1497
01:20:02,360 --> 01:20:05,920
Speaker 2: is for me, you know, So I won't just be

1498
01:20:06,120 --> 01:20:09,599
Speaker 2: like with a broad sweeping like, oh you pro black,

1499
01:20:09,640 --> 01:20:11,479
Speaker 2: but you got a white husband.

1500
01:20:11,840 --> 01:20:16,280
Speaker 1: I don't get into that judging people's love for their race,

1501
01:20:16,280 --> 01:20:18,960
Speaker 1: because it's funny. Nobody ever questions the white person's love

1502
01:20:19,040 --> 01:20:20,840
Speaker 1: for their race, and they're if they're ever in an

1503
01:20:20,840 --> 01:20:23,559
Speaker 1: interracial marriage to anybody outside of.

1504
01:20:23,760 --> 01:20:25,439
Speaker 2: No people do people do?

1505
01:20:25,720 --> 01:20:27,600
Speaker 3: Oh people question them about their whiteness.

1506
01:20:27,840 --> 01:20:30,760
Speaker 2: No, they question their love for that white yeah, oh absolutely,

1507
01:20:31,280 --> 01:20:34,200
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, nigger lover, where do you think that came from?

1508
01:20:34,240 --> 01:20:37,639
Speaker 2: Like you betrayed your race, like you could have got

1509
01:20:37,680 --> 01:20:40,080
Speaker 2: you a white woman. Yeah.

1510
01:20:40,320 --> 01:20:42,400
Speaker 1: I take that phrasing back, but I was looking at

1511
01:20:42,439 --> 01:20:44,400
Speaker 1: it from from from the perspective what you just said.

1512
01:20:44,400 --> 01:20:45,840
Speaker 3: But yes, in fact, they.

1513
01:20:48,080 --> 01:20:51,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah they. I mean that's how fucked up racism is.

1514
01:20:51,320 --> 01:20:54,960
Speaker 2: If you, even if you are white married to someone else,

1515
01:20:55,479 --> 01:20:59,040
Speaker 2: people will because of the way we've been it's been structured. Yeah,

1516
01:20:59,280 --> 01:21:02,040
Speaker 2: they'll be like, oh, you married down. You must hate

1517
01:21:02,040 --> 01:21:05,360
Speaker 2: yourself and your race, right, some must be wrong with

1518
01:21:05,439 --> 01:21:11,000
Speaker 2: you because everything the like idealistically, when you get into

1519
01:21:11,040 --> 01:21:14,639
Speaker 2: this whole thing about what does your marriage say about

1520
01:21:14,680 --> 01:21:20,240
Speaker 2: your stance on blackness or whatever on race, essentially we

1521
01:21:20,360 --> 01:21:23,240
Speaker 2: arrive at this thing where nobody's supposed to be interracially married.

1522
01:21:24,160 --> 01:21:25,880
Speaker 2: If you get if you ride it out to its

1523
01:21:25,880 --> 01:21:28,320
Speaker 2: full conclusion. And I don't believe that.

1524
01:21:29,640 --> 01:21:30,760
Speaker 3: You want to marry love.

1525
01:21:31,000 --> 01:21:33,639
Speaker 2: You want to love, you know. And also, like I said,

1526
01:21:33,680 --> 01:21:37,000
Speaker 2: there's plenty of people that in black relationships or white

1527
01:21:37,400 --> 01:21:39,880
Speaker 2: like where there's the same race, treat us like shit.

1528
01:21:40,240 --> 01:21:42,080
Speaker 2: Come on, dog, you know what I mean. Get your

1529
01:21:42,080 --> 01:21:45,040
Speaker 2: happy where you get your happy. It ain't my business. Really,

1530
01:21:45,640 --> 01:21:48,360
Speaker 2: She says, your point about the possibility of considering women

1531
01:21:48,360 --> 01:21:49,920
Speaker 2: who are married to men is being in bed with

1532
01:21:49,920 --> 01:21:52,439
Speaker 2: the enemy as well. Taken, Holland's book is really good,

1533
01:21:52,439 --> 01:21:55,479
Speaker 2: though complications, the easy personal nature, the decision and productive ways.

1534
01:21:55,760 --> 01:21:57,760
Speaker 2: I want to avoid saying this outright, but I now

1535
01:21:57,800 --> 01:21:59,400
Speaker 2: realize it doesn't make sense to leave it out. So

1536
01:21:59,479 --> 01:22:02,040
Speaker 2: last thing add is racism and sexism definitely played a

1537
01:22:02,120 --> 01:22:03,640
Speaker 2: role in the fact that a black man is the

1538
01:22:03,640 --> 01:22:06,599
Speaker 2: person I just happen to fall in love with and marrying.

1539
01:22:06,680 --> 01:22:10,000
Speaker 2: Racism and sexism certainly affect our marriage. They help shape

1540
01:22:10,000 --> 01:22:11,680
Speaker 2: what our marriage is and what kind of heaven it

1541
01:22:12,000 --> 01:22:15,160
Speaker 2: does and does not offer, et cetera. Our initial attraction, dating,

1542
01:22:15,200 --> 01:22:17,759
Speaker 2: and ultimate partnership never took place on a plane untouched

1543
01:22:17,760 --> 01:22:20,760
Speaker 2: by racism and sexism. Contrary to what many Americans can

1544
01:22:20,840 --> 01:22:23,320
Speaker 2: like to claim about interracial relationships. The exact same things

1545
01:22:23,320 --> 01:22:25,559
Speaker 2: the true for my black friends that have white husbands

1546
01:22:25,600 --> 01:22:31,400
Speaker 2: and wanes. Yes, I agree. The only thing I would

1547
01:22:31,400 --> 01:22:37,639
Speaker 2: say is like I think race shapes it, like and

1548
01:22:37,720 --> 01:22:40,680
Speaker 2: racism and all our experiences, Like when you hear a

1549
01:22:40,680 --> 01:22:44,479
Speaker 2: person say I only want a light skinned woman or

1550
01:22:44,520 --> 01:22:49,280
Speaker 2: I only date white men or something like that, I mean,

1551
01:22:49,400 --> 01:22:54,160
Speaker 2: I think that's a different level. Right, then this idea

1552
01:22:54,320 --> 01:22:57,639
Speaker 2: of someone falls within a spectrum of people I would

1553
01:22:57,680 --> 01:23:01,280
Speaker 2: consider dating or marrying, and some of that spectrum includes

1554
01:23:01,320 --> 01:23:03,519
Speaker 2: white people. You see what I'm saying, Like, it's to me,

1555
01:23:03,680 --> 01:23:06,000
Speaker 2: it's different. I don't think there's any such thing as

1556
01:23:06,040 --> 01:23:09,919
Speaker 2: like this pure love or whatever. But I'm also very cynical.

1557
01:23:10,000 --> 01:23:15,320
Speaker 2: I think, you know, I don't know that. I think

1558
01:23:15,560 --> 01:23:22,439
Speaker 2: certain people have personality types that are very predisposed to

1559
01:23:22,560 --> 01:23:25,479
Speaker 2: being in a relationship and being good at it. I

1560
01:23:25,520 --> 01:23:28,599
Speaker 2: think I have a good personality type for like that

1561
01:23:28,640 --> 01:23:34,320
Speaker 2: type of certain shit, for certain type of people, you know, patience, carrying, empathy,

1562
01:23:34,400 --> 01:23:37,280
Speaker 2: things of that nature. But I wouldn't be compatible with

1563
01:23:37,320 --> 01:23:43,000
Speaker 2: just everybody, and I don't and I don't know that

1564
01:23:43,080 --> 01:23:47,360
Speaker 2: I would only be compatible with black woman. But at

1565
01:23:47,400 --> 01:23:51,160
Speaker 2: the same time, I don't know what white woman or

1566
01:23:51,360 --> 01:23:53,280
Speaker 2: woman of a different race want to hear me talk

1567
01:23:53,320 --> 01:23:55,840
Speaker 2: about this black shit all the time, Like that's gonna

1568
01:23:55,840 --> 01:23:58,160
Speaker 2: get tired quick, but I ain't never gonna stop talking

1569
01:23:58,160 --> 01:24:00,800
Speaker 2: about it. So, you know, I don't know what my

1570
01:24:00,920 --> 01:24:03,519
Speaker 2: spectrum is or whatever. I'm happy I found Karen and

1571
01:24:03,520 --> 01:24:05,400
Speaker 2: we found each other early, and I don't have to

1572
01:24:05,400 --> 01:24:08,120
Speaker 2: deal with that kind of shit, to be honest, But

1573
01:24:09,880 --> 01:24:14,240
Speaker 2: if you are dating somebody that they can deal with,

1574
01:24:14,479 --> 01:24:20,720
Speaker 2: or they agree with, or they empathize with your experience,

1575
01:24:21,080 --> 01:24:24,040
Speaker 2: that's really all you can hope for. Because they're another person.

1576
01:24:24,720 --> 01:24:26,680
Speaker 2: They're just not going to have the same operience of

1577
01:24:26,880 --> 01:24:29,920
Speaker 2: opinions and experiences you and the same goals, and like

1578
01:24:29,960 --> 01:24:32,040
Speaker 2: I said, the same goals for just men versus women.

1579
01:24:32,840 --> 01:24:34,599
Speaker 2: It happens all the time. I don't know what it's

1580
01:24:34,680 --> 01:24:35,400
Speaker 2: like to be a woman.

1581
01:24:36,120 --> 01:24:36,360
Speaker 5: You know.

1582
01:24:36,479 --> 01:24:38,400
Speaker 2: I can empathize with certain things. I might be able

1583
01:24:38,400 --> 01:24:41,439
Speaker 2: to see things from certain perspectives, but end of the day,

1584
01:24:41,479 --> 01:24:44,160
Speaker 2: I don't have that experience. I don't get street harassed,

1585
01:24:44,160 --> 01:24:48,719
Speaker 2: I don't get threatened. I don't feel unsafe in certain

1586
01:24:48,760 --> 01:24:52,720
Speaker 2: situations that a woman might feel unsafe in So ultimately,

1587
01:24:52,920 --> 01:24:55,040
Speaker 2: you just have to trust that that person cares enough

1588
01:24:55,040 --> 01:24:58,400
Speaker 2: about you for that shit to matter. And for some

1589
01:24:58,479 --> 01:25:02,719
Speaker 2: folks that racist and sexism and all the other shit

1590
01:25:02,720 --> 01:25:04,400
Speaker 2: gonna get in the way, and for some folks that won't.

1591
01:25:04,479 --> 01:25:09,400
Speaker 2: You know, everybody's kind of different. Yeah, Like I hate

1592
01:25:09,439 --> 01:25:12,400
Speaker 2: to go back to that cliche, but it's true. Like, ultimately,

1593
01:25:12,760 --> 01:25:17,160
Speaker 2: there's no broadsweeping rule because, like I said, micro decision,

1594
01:25:17,479 --> 01:25:19,840
Speaker 2: I don't know why each individual made the decision for

1595
01:25:19,880 --> 01:25:22,599
Speaker 2: their mate macro. I can look at the whole picture

1596
01:25:22,640 --> 01:25:25,799
Speaker 2: and be like, Okay, a lot of people gravitating towards

1597
01:25:25,920 --> 01:25:28,920
Speaker 2: this specific type of person, Now what does that come from?

1598
01:25:29,320 --> 01:25:29,519
Speaker 5: You know?

1599
01:25:29,960 --> 01:25:31,680
Speaker 2: Sure there's got to be some people that are with

1600
01:25:31,720 --> 01:25:34,800
Speaker 2: Asian women because of the stereotypes about Asian women, And

1601
01:25:34,840 --> 01:25:36,360
Speaker 2: there's some people that just like I fell in love

1602
01:25:36,400 --> 01:25:39,559
Speaker 2: with somebody and she hasn't been Asian woman. I don't

1603
01:25:39,560 --> 01:25:41,280
Speaker 2: know how I'm supposed to parse all that shit. I'm

1604
01:25:41,320 --> 01:25:43,880
Speaker 2: not going into each person's house. I don't read their mind.

1605
01:25:43,960 --> 01:25:47,879
Speaker 2: So personally, I stay out of that shit because that's

1606
01:25:47,960 --> 01:25:50,000
Speaker 2: your business, you know, And if you are a fucked

1607
01:25:50,040 --> 01:25:54,000
Speaker 2: up person, then it'll come to light. Hopefully she says

1608
01:25:54,040 --> 01:25:56,880
Speaker 2: this SI. I know this October will celebrate eighteen years together.

1609
01:25:57,280 --> 01:26:00,519
Speaker 2: August seventh was our twelfth wedding anniversary. But he hasn't

1610
01:26:00,520 --> 01:26:02,880
Speaker 2: shown any interest in the black out tips, no matter

1611
01:26:02,920 --> 01:26:04,800
Speaker 2: how much I talk about y'all as if we just

1612
01:26:04,800 --> 01:26:07,360
Speaker 2: got off the phone. So I agree with y'all side

1613
01:26:07,400 --> 01:26:09,799
Speaker 2: that he ain't shit. I didn't call that man ain't shit. Okay,

1614
01:26:10,560 --> 01:26:12,640
Speaker 2: just for the record, like I said, I keep that

1615
01:26:12,760 --> 01:26:17,840
Speaker 2: business shit. That's between y'all. Okay, But anyway, I feel

1616
01:26:17,840 --> 01:26:21,280
Speaker 2: you though, like I said, I'm not trying to I'm

1617
01:26:21,320 --> 01:26:24,320
Speaker 2: not trying to avoid or act like racism and shit

1618
01:26:24,360 --> 01:26:30,200
Speaker 2: don't play effect in every decision we make. But you know,

1619
01:26:30,280 --> 01:26:33,759
Speaker 2: and we've seen it. You know, you've seen you see,

1620
01:26:34,080 --> 01:26:36,479
Speaker 2: and like that's the only time I really when people

1621
01:26:36,520 --> 01:26:39,320
Speaker 2: come out and just say it, that's when I'm like, okay,

1622
01:26:39,479 --> 01:26:42,120
Speaker 2: Like if someone goes I don't like black women because

1623
01:26:42,200 --> 01:26:45,520
Speaker 2: this they always angry. Yeah, that's racism affecting.

1624
01:26:45,080 --> 01:26:46,479
Speaker 5: That or.

1625
01:26:48,240 --> 01:26:51,280
Speaker 2: Uh man, I see just look, man, when I see

1626
01:26:51,280 --> 01:26:53,160
Speaker 2: a white woman with a big ass, and you're like,

1627
01:26:54,479 --> 01:26:57,800
Speaker 2: only a white woman, huh, Like you know, big asses

1628
01:26:57,840 --> 01:27:01,479
Speaker 2: in general not my thing, but a white woman like that. Yeah,

1629
01:27:01,600 --> 01:27:04,479
Speaker 2: racism affects all that shit. Man, there's a cuckold section

1630
01:27:04,560 --> 01:27:08,120
Speaker 2: on every web for porn website, three website. We're all

1631
01:27:08,120 --> 01:27:10,840
Speaker 2: infected with that shit. Like all of us have some

1632
01:27:11,120 --> 01:27:13,400
Speaker 2: level of that shit. Whether it's you know, there's black

1633
01:27:13,439 --> 01:27:16,080
Speaker 2: women like I don't find white men attractive at all,

1634
01:27:16,200 --> 01:27:20,400
Speaker 2: none of them fuck them like like that is like,

1635
01:27:20,479 --> 01:27:23,760
Speaker 2: we're all affected by it. It's not just you know,

1636
01:27:23,920 --> 01:27:27,960
Speaker 2: any one individual or something. The problem is until somebody

1637
01:27:27,960 --> 01:27:29,920
Speaker 2: comes out and says some fucked up shit, I don't

1638
01:27:29,920 --> 01:27:32,200
Speaker 2: know how you just tell that. I mean, you can

1639
01:27:32,200 --> 01:27:35,360
Speaker 2: assume what you want, but I don't. I won't assume

1640
01:27:35,400 --> 01:27:37,760
Speaker 2: the worst of people. Just offer that, right.

1641
01:27:37,800 --> 01:27:41,400
Speaker 1: And it's hard to especially as an adult untrained, because

1642
01:27:41,720 --> 01:27:44,479
Speaker 1: a lot of your thought process as don't. You literally

1643
01:27:44,520 --> 01:27:47,160
Speaker 1: have to untrain your mind, which is very difficult to

1644
01:27:47,160 --> 01:27:50,240
Speaker 1: do after years of stuff being put in there.

1645
01:27:50,800 --> 01:27:54,200
Speaker 2: Right so comfort Treachery says man, I heard Rod was

1646
01:27:54,240 --> 01:27:56,479
Speaker 2: with that Illuminati shit. Let me find out, but hold

1647
01:27:56,479 --> 01:27:59,479
Speaker 2: it down until Karen Queen Karen gets her check hash

1648
01:27:59,479 --> 01:28:04,320
Speaker 2: had verified. Flow Girl says Karen, you came through with

1649
01:28:04,360 --> 01:28:06,120
Speaker 2: your comments. If I had a wig, I would have

1650
01:28:06,560 --> 01:28:09,880
Speaker 2: had to snatch it off. You were gonna make us

1651
01:28:09,960 --> 01:28:11,280
Speaker 2: learn today, so I appreciate you.

1652
01:28:11,400 --> 01:28:11,479
Speaker 1: Ry.

1653
01:28:11,600 --> 01:28:13,799
Speaker 2: You touched on a part of my question from episode

1654
01:28:13,800 --> 01:28:16,599
Speaker 2: twelve sixty three about pro black with a non black

1655
01:28:16,640 --> 01:28:19,439
Speaker 2: spouse that I left out. I'm totally aware that they're

1656
01:28:19,439 --> 01:28:23,519
Speaker 2: awoke non black people and real love just happens. I

1657
01:28:23,560 --> 01:28:27,479
Speaker 2: get that you refer to those who do anti black things,

1658
01:28:27,800 --> 01:28:30,840
Speaker 2: that's who I'm talking about. Well, yeah, yeah, fuck those people.

1659
01:28:30,880 --> 01:28:33,280
Speaker 2: I don't fuck with nobody like yeah, Like I said,

1660
01:28:33,280 --> 01:28:38,760
Speaker 2: I've seen that and that. I mean, it's one of

1661
01:28:38,800 --> 01:28:40,600
Speaker 2: them things where I'm like, I'm glad you let me

1662
01:28:40,640 --> 01:28:42,639
Speaker 2: know so I can know not to fuck with you, right,

1663
01:28:42,720 --> 01:28:45,360
Speaker 2: But that is the worst. I mean, if y'all listen

1664
01:28:45,360 --> 01:28:47,559
Speaker 2: to show long enough, y'all know I've had conversations. It's

1665
01:28:47,600 --> 01:28:50,200
Speaker 2: heartbreaking when I when I'm at the wild, I'm talking

1666
01:28:50,200 --> 01:28:52,559
Speaker 2: to black dudes, and some of the time ways they

1667
01:28:52,560 --> 01:28:56,639
Speaker 2: talk about black women, it's so prevalent, it's so fucked up,

1668
01:28:56,680 --> 01:28:59,200
Speaker 2: it's so toxic. And I will tell the truth about it,

1669
01:28:59,200 --> 01:29:02,519
Speaker 2: because you know, I'm not interested in pretending like shit

1670
01:29:02,680 --> 01:29:05,160
Speaker 2: is all good when it's not. But you know, I've

1671
01:29:05,240 --> 01:29:08,400
Speaker 2: had you know, it's heartbreaking it. It's like, Yo, you're

1672
01:29:08,439 --> 01:29:11,920
Speaker 2: talking about these are our women. And by our women,

1673
01:29:11,920 --> 01:29:14,559
Speaker 2: I mean they come from our bloodlines. This is like

1674
01:29:14,640 --> 01:29:17,320
Speaker 2: you came from these How can you talk like this

1675
01:29:17,400 --> 01:29:21,800
Speaker 2: about somebody like like that raised you, somebody that you

1676
01:29:21,840 --> 01:29:25,679
Speaker 2: know loves you, Like, how can you talk like that?

1677
01:29:25,760 --> 01:29:28,840
Speaker 2: You know it was, you know, not saying any names.

1678
01:29:28,840 --> 01:29:30,759
Speaker 2: There's a dude, you know, you got two black parents,

1679
01:29:30,800 --> 01:29:32,760
Speaker 2: his dad and shit comes in that shoes ball with

1680
01:29:32,840 --> 01:29:35,479
Speaker 2: him and shit and you know the whole last time,

1681
01:29:35,520 --> 01:29:38,920
Speaker 2: he just kept talking about white girls. Liked I was like, mom,

1682
01:29:39,000 --> 01:29:41,120
Speaker 2: seen these two white girls. Man. So I'm I'm like,

1683
01:29:41,720 --> 01:29:44,640
Speaker 2: what the fuck is Like, where's this? What's the significance

1684
01:29:44,680 --> 01:29:47,360
Speaker 2: of this coming through? And what makes you think telling

1685
01:29:47,400 --> 01:29:49,080
Speaker 2: me this is a good idea? And every time I

1686
01:29:49,080 --> 01:29:52,280
Speaker 2: would push back on it, like, hey man, so what's

1687
01:29:52,360 --> 01:29:54,280
Speaker 2: the significance of them being white? White? Does it matter?

1688
01:29:54,280 --> 01:29:56,439
Speaker 2: Because the white man is just I'm like, yeah, but

1689
01:29:56,439 --> 01:29:59,599
Speaker 2: why would that? Why would that matter? Though? Like, I mean,

1690
01:29:59,640 --> 01:30:01,519
Speaker 2: I had black girlfriend, but you know I never slept

1691
01:30:01,560 --> 01:30:03,040
Speaker 2: with a white woman. I'm like, what do you think

1692
01:30:03,080 --> 01:30:06,400
Speaker 2: the pussy is different? You think it's got couch cushions

1693
01:30:06,439 --> 01:30:07,000
Speaker 2: inside with you?

1694
01:30:08,120 --> 01:30:09,520
Speaker 3: And sps and glitters.

1695
01:30:09,680 --> 01:30:12,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, what are all functions the same, y'all?

1696
01:30:12,160 --> 01:30:15,360
Speaker 2: I'm sorry for your size. It all functions the same,

1697
01:30:15,439 --> 01:30:19,040
Speaker 2: but we just fucked up like that. Everybody has that shit,

1698
01:30:19,240 --> 01:30:21,200
Speaker 2: you know, and vice versa. By the way, I'm sure

1699
01:30:21,200 --> 01:30:23,920
Speaker 2: there's I just want I gotta get some black dick,

1700
01:30:24,040 --> 01:30:27,439
Speaker 2: you know, like that shit too, or like, well, it's

1701
01:30:27,479 --> 01:30:32,000
Speaker 2: still the same size as a white dick, so fine,

1702
01:30:32,439 --> 01:30:35,160
Speaker 2: I mean, what is the difference. It's some psychological shit

1703
01:30:35,280 --> 01:30:39,040
Speaker 2: we've been fucked with. You can't separate it from from

1704
01:30:39,040 --> 01:30:42,280
Speaker 2: this country, you just you know, And when people come

1705
01:30:42,280 --> 01:30:44,679
Speaker 2: out and say that kind of shit, I just feel

1706
01:30:44,720 --> 01:30:47,479
Speaker 2: like a lot of my programs and I I just

1707
01:30:47,520 --> 01:30:48,960
Speaker 2: had to write that, write them off.

1708
01:30:48,960 --> 01:30:49,120
Speaker 7: Man.

1709
01:30:49,280 --> 01:30:51,519
Speaker 2: I don't want that around me, honestly. It's fucked up.

1710
01:30:51,520 --> 01:30:51,720
Speaker 1: Man.

1711
01:30:51,760 --> 01:30:54,679
Speaker 2: You think a lot of fucked up things about our people.

1712
01:30:56,800 --> 01:30:59,360
Speaker 2: That's what I'm talking about, Like black women that refuse

1713
01:30:59,400 --> 01:31:01,519
Speaker 2: the day black men because all black men ain't shit.

1714
01:31:01,560 --> 01:31:03,360
Speaker 2: The black men are refuse to day black women because

1715
01:31:03,400 --> 01:31:05,920
Speaker 2: all black women are too in a any insulting word here,

1716
01:31:06,560 --> 01:31:08,880
Speaker 2: but say they are pro black. Yeah, those people are

1717
01:31:08,920 --> 01:31:12,559
Speaker 2: fucked up, man, call those hotels. I truly don't understand that.

1718
01:31:12,920 --> 01:31:15,559
Speaker 2: I can't take them seriously when they say black lives matter.

1719
01:31:15,800 --> 01:31:17,439
Speaker 2: But I guess that goes back to what I was

1720
01:31:17,439 --> 01:31:19,800
Speaker 2: saying about people act like black lives matter as long

1721
01:31:19,800 --> 01:31:23,200
Speaker 2: as they're straight or men, but don't say that on Twitter. Okay, guys,

1722
01:31:23,240 --> 01:31:24,040
Speaker 2: take my advice.

1723
01:31:27,840 --> 01:31:29,920
Speaker 1: You'll be about a week straight of trying to clean

1724
01:31:30,040 --> 01:31:31,080
Speaker 1: your minches out.

1725
01:31:31,920 --> 01:31:39,160
Speaker 2: Don't say, oh my god, oh man, if I didn't

1726
01:31:39,280 --> 01:31:42,960
Speaker 2: love us, boy, don't, I don't know what I would do. Man.

1727
01:31:44,439 --> 01:31:46,920
Speaker 2: People were saying so much fucked up shit, and I'm like, man,

1728
01:31:47,280 --> 01:31:52,160
Speaker 2: I we can just do better. I'm not backing down. Man, I.

1729
01:31:53,680 --> 01:31:54,320
Speaker 5: Can do better.

1730
01:31:54,360 --> 01:31:56,720
Speaker 2: We can all do better. Man, I'm not perfect or

1731
01:31:56,720 --> 01:31:58,839
Speaker 2: no shit like that. You know, I've had my runnings,

1732
01:31:58,880 --> 01:32:03,000
Speaker 2: I had my moments. It ain't you know. You know,

1733
01:32:03,560 --> 01:32:08,160
Speaker 2: I understand that we come from a flawed place trying

1734
01:32:08,200 --> 01:32:12,800
Speaker 2: to balance this shit out. But god man, it was

1735
01:32:12,880 --> 01:32:17,720
Speaker 2: a lot yo. All right, But I guess that goes

1736
01:32:17,720 --> 01:32:19,920
Speaker 2: back to what y'all saying. Some people are going, Okay, yeah,

1737
01:32:20,040 --> 01:32:22,400
Speaker 2: I guess all those folks go in the same fake

1738
01:32:22,560 --> 01:32:25,439
Speaker 2: pro and real anti black group. So y'all actually answered

1739
01:32:25,439 --> 01:32:28,599
Speaker 2: my question several episodes back shame on me, hashtag waste

1740
01:32:28,640 --> 01:32:31,960
Speaker 2: that time twenty sixteen. I'll do better on my listening comprehension.

1741
01:32:32,479 --> 01:32:34,639
Speaker 2: I've not stopped not it led to some good discussions.

1742
01:32:35,080 --> 01:32:37,240
Speaker 2: I've not stopped listening since my first time, and we'll

1743
01:32:37,240 --> 01:32:39,559
Speaker 2: continue to tune in to get these gems a value

1744
01:32:39,560 --> 01:32:42,280
Speaker 2: to perspectives and opinions. Y'all give the comedy keys from

1745
01:32:42,720 --> 01:32:46,760
Speaker 2: walking off this job. I was finally able to get

1746
01:32:46,800 --> 01:32:48,800
Speaker 2: some change together to give y'all. It's not much, but

1747
01:32:48,840 --> 01:32:52,599
Speaker 2: hopefully I'll be able to give more in the future.

1748
01:32:52,880 --> 01:32:57,200
Speaker 2: Thank you, and I love y'all accounts. Ps. I think

1749
01:32:57,240 --> 01:32:59,840
Speaker 2: that flex sound comes from a song by Young Ma

1750
01:33:00,360 --> 01:33:05,639
Speaker 2: called ooh Yeah, I found it and I have added

1751
01:33:05,680 --> 01:33:13,680
Speaker 2: it to the repertoire. Oh we got it, y'all. Uh so,

1752
01:33:14,080 --> 01:33:18,479
Speaker 2: thank you all right? And the pole was simple, who

1753
01:33:18,520 --> 01:33:24,240
Speaker 2: you got Batman or Superman? And Batman won six mm hm.

1754
01:33:24,240 --> 01:33:26,760
Speaker 2: That was an easy one. I thought, y'all we was

1755
01:33:26,760 --> 01:33:29,000
Speaker 2: gonna leave comments and ship. Everybody was like, nah, we

1756
01:33:29,120 --> 01:33:32,840
Speaker 2: good keeping it simple van fucking tastic is when we

1757
01:33:32,960 --> 01:33:39,160
Speaker 2: had jul and Leslie on from the Interracial John kicking

1758
01:33:39,200 --> 01:33:42,519
Speaker 2: in with them, you know, discuss a lot of seeking

1759
01:33:42,520 --> 01:33:46,479
Speaker 2: the black women organizing MLK sitting, the one that black

1760
01:33:46,520 --> 01:33:49,280
Speaker 2: men organized, and Leslie Cook came in and took the

1761
01:33:49,280 --> 01:33:50,240
Speaker 2: credit for remember that.

1762
01:33:50,360 --> 01:33:51,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, she bounced it like a bouser.

1763
01:33:51,960 --> 01:33:53,679
Speaker 1: Was like, y'all niggas, get out of here, I'm taking

1764
01:33:53,680 --> 01:33:54,840
Speaker 1: over clap Clay right.

1765
01:33:55,080 --> 01:33:57,840
Speaker 2: I feel so bad for those pure, poor, poor straight

1766
01:33:57,880 --> 01:33:58,439
Speaker 2: black men.

1767
01:33:58,720 --> 01:33:59,439
Speaker 3: Pushed that the way.

1768
01:34:00,080 --> 01:34:02,960
Speaker 2: Hope they get to go somewhere and be homophobics soon

1769
01:34:03,000 --> 01:34:06,479
Speaker 2: so they can release the real victims, the real victims, y'all,

1770
01:34:06,560 --> 01:34:09,000
Speaker 2: y'all know how it is. Farr says, I used to

1771
01:34:09,040 --> 01:34:11,479
Speaker 2: live in San Pedro where the lady fell off the cliff.

1772
01:34:11,520 --> 01:34:13,519
Speaker 2: I used to walk my dogs there on the daily.

1773
01:34:13,960 --> 01:34:15,640
Speaker 2: I can tell y'all how many I can't tell you

1774
01:34:15,720 --> 01:34:17,519
Speaker 2: how many times I've seen people scaling those clips to

1775
01:34:17,520 --> 01:34:20,320
Speaker 2: go fishing and hiking, pass the numerous signs telling you

1776
01:34:20,360 --> 01:34:23,960
Speaker 2: the ground is unstable beyond the concrete walls, while drinking

1777
01:34:24,120 --> 01:34:25,080
Speaker 2: even at night.

1778
01:34:26,840 --> 01:34:27,160
Speaker 1: M hm.

1779
01:34:27,960 --> 01:34:30,800
Speaker 2: So periodically someone falls off. You see the helicopters come out.

1780
01:34:30,880 --> 01:34:33,120
Speaker 2: You know, what's up. It's one of the most beautiful

1781
01:34:33,200 --> 01:34:36,040
Speaker 2: views in the Pacific, and what's up and so cal.

1782
01:34:36,479 --> 01:34:39,559
Speaker 2: But I was able to get plenty of pictures without

1783
01:34:39,600 --> 01:34:41,040
Speaker 2: risking my black ass life.

1784
01:34:41,439 --> 01:34:43,760
Speaker 3: I don't blame you. It could be pretty from afar.

1785
01:34:44,200 --> 01:34:46,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't know what's up, you know what's down?

1786
01:34:46,760 --> 01:34:48,679
Speaker 3: Them going down?

1787
01:34:48,840 --> 01:34:50,920
Speaker 2: Oh and one note on the round lockey ish, this

1788
01:34:51,000 --> 01:34:52,760
Speaker 2: dude is thirty two years old. Why is the media

1789
01:34:52,760 --> 01:34:56,000
Speaker 2: calling him a kid? A flow Girl says word I

1790
01:34:56,040 --> 01:34:57,559
Speaker 2: was one of the same thing, and the mody says

1791
01:34:57,600 --> 01:35:00,400
Speaker 2: he's older than Lebron and his boys. He got pulled

1792
01:35:00,400 --> 01:35:02,120
Speaker 2: off a plane? Who got pulled off the plane with

1793
01:35:02,120 --> 01:35:04,080
Speaker 2: twenty and twenty one? They were probably listening to him

1794
01:35:04,120 --> 01:35:07,360
Speaker 2: as the adulting situation. Then again, like he's from Florida

1795
01:35:07,400 --> 01:35:10,080
Speaker 2: in two thousand and seven, so he was hanging out

1796
01:35:10,120 --> 01:35:13,280
Speaker 2: on campus with Percy Harvin, Aaron Hernandez and Roley Cooper,

1797
01:35:13,320 --> 01:35:16,680
Speaker 2: so we shouldn't be too surprised. Flow Girl says, I

1798
01:35:16,800 --> 01:35:19,400
Speaker 2: enjoyed Drew and Leslie. Good to know they participate. They

1799
01:35:19,439 --> 01:35:22,320
Speaker 2: periodically come on the show, so I'll be looking forward

1800
01:35:22,360 --> 01:35:26,200
Speaker 2: to their next visit. Oh, thank you. Yeah, we've been

1801
01:35:26,200 --> 01:35:29,360
Speaker 2: on that show as well. Eve, He says, our roka

1802
01:35:29,479 --> 01:35:31,559
Speaker 2: was all of us. He kept staring at the tea

1803
01:35:31,720 --> 01:35:34,479
Speaker 2: because he knew if he stopped, Billy was gonna catch

1804
01:35:34,560 --> 01:35:38,040
Speaker 2: those hands. Well, I always said it. I could be

1805
01:35:38,439 --> 01:35:44,080
Speaker 2: half as strong as our Roca Straw. I'll be twice

1806
01:35:44,120 --> 01:35:45,320
Speaker 2: as strong as I need to be.

1807
01:35:45,520 --> 01:35:49,160
Speaker 3: I think that the truth that a strong Asstrow uh.

1808
01:35:49,120 --> 01:35:51,080
Speaker 2: In the Green part is the Green Party for real?

1809
01:35:51,200 --> 01:35:53,760
Speaker 2: Yes or no? Ninety two percent of y'all said no,

1810
01:35:53,920 --> 01:35:57,360
Speaker 2: and eight eight percent of y'all said yeah, So happy

1811
01:35:57,479 --> 01:36:04,960
Speaker 2: voting for them. Niggas anti Beyonce, motherfucker. We had episode

1812
01:36:05,320 --> 01:36:11,400
Speaker 2: twelve sixty eight Sexism is Over where we have a

1813
01:36:11,439 --> 01:36:15,200
Speaker 2: man Chef Gregorio on and I just realized I copy

1814
01:36:15,280 --> 01:36:20,000
Speaker 2: and pasted this wrong. No, well, I'll fix that. I'll

1815
01:36:20,040 --> 01:36:22,920
Speaker 2: fix that some Jesus hey when I'm looking at the

1816
01:36:23,720 --> 01:36:28,720
Speaker 2: even no one told me anyway, ha ha. Yeah. So

1817
01:36:29,479 --> 01:36:31,599
Speaker 2: Chef Gregorio was on as the guests, and we talked

1818
01:36:31,640 --> 01:36:35,040
Speaker 2: about a bunch of stuff let's see Cassie sixty seven

1819
01:36:35,080 --> 01:36:37,880
Speaker 2: and policies. The tipping thing is such a weird custom

1820
01:36:37,920 --> 01:36:40,720
Speaker 2: slash social norm. My old boss from Australia said that

1821
01:36:40,760 --> 01:36:43,679
Speaker 2: no one tips because people are bad and are paid

1822
01:36:43,680 --> 01:36:46,000
Speaker 2: a fair wage. I don't know if you guys have

1823
01:36:46,160 --> 01:36:48,719
Speaker 2: wegmans down in North Carolina, but nor if the Wegmans

1824
01:36:48,760 --> 01:36:51,120
Speaker 2: here have puzs and you're not allowed to tip because

1825
01:36:51,160 --> 01:36:53,120
Speaker 2: the service make a minimum of ten dollars an hour.

1826
01:36:53,200 --> 01:36:55,519
Speaker 2: I'd pay a little extra for a meal now in

1827
01:36:55,560 --> 01:36:58,040
Speaker 2: the service getting a fair wage. And like all other

1828
01:36:58,120 --> 01:37:01,800
Speaker 2: customer service industry employee, if the employee is terrible, it

1829
01:37:01,800 --> 01:37:04,800
Speaker 2: gets bad service. You put on your white woman's wig

1830
01:37:04,880 --> 01:37:05,920
Speaker 2: and speak to the manager.

1831
01:37:07,479 --> 01:37:12,360
Speaker 1: You type that letter, you've been try better than me.

1832
01:37:12,520 --> 01:37:13,639
Speaker 3: Cats cats cats.

1833
01:37:18,000 --> 01:37:22,760
Speaker 1: Cats cats for stre and you know what, and you

1834
01:37:22,880 --> 01:37:24,360
Speaker 1: be sure did you send it?

1835
01:37:25,840 --> 01:37:29,280
Speaker 3: Uh straight to the corporate mm hmm.

1836
01:37:29,439 --> 01:37:32,120
Speaker 2: Karen will still ain't get that thanks and chilias.

1837
01:37:31,800 --> 01:37:34,519
Speaker 3: Though, Oh they're gonna hear from me. They promised me

1838
01:37:34,560 --> 01:37:36,479
Speaker 3: a gift card. We're gonna get that gift card.

1839
01:37:36,800 --> 01:37:39,760
Speaker 2: Demetria says, I couldn't agree with you all more about

1840
01:37:39,760 --> 01:37:41,840
Speaker 2: how people treat their white staff, and I'm talking about

1841
01:37:41,880 --> 01:37:45,320
Speaker 2: customers and manage your staff. My mother and grandmother used

1842
01:37:45,360 --> 01:37:48,240
Speaker 2: to gives the waiters attitudes when we would have to

1843
01:37:48,320 --> 01:37:51,080
Speaker 2: wait forever to be seated, when really the host is

1844
01:37:51,160 --> 01:37:53,880
Speaker 2: responsible for that issue. And even still there's only so

1845
01:37:54,000 --> 01:37:55,960
Speaker 2: much they can do. Listen, I only wait the table

1846
01:37:56,000 --> 01:37:58,720
Speaker 2: for three days, that's how bad it was for me.

1847
01:37:58,760 --> 01:38:00,760
Speaker 2: They trained me. During the lunch rush, I gave a

1848
01:38:01,200 --> 01:38:05,000
Speaker 2: diabetic man sweet tea by mistaken the waitress that tame me,

1849
01:38:05,000 --> 01:38:07,400
Speaker 2: messed up someone's ticking and put it on the new girl.

1850
01:38:07,840 --> 01:38:09,960
Speaker 2: Then she didn't even split that tip with me. So

1851
01:38:10,000 --> 01:38:12,160
Speaker 2: then when I clocked out, I clocked all the way out.

1852
01:38:12,439 --> 01:38:15,640
Speaker 2: Those three days pushed me to give more than what

1853
01:38:15,760 --> 01:38:17,560
Speaker 2: I think is good enough of a tip, and that

1854
01:38:17,680 --> 01:38:19,720
Speaker 2: couraged my family to do the same. Two and thirty

1855
01:38:19,760 --> 01:38:23,559
Speaker 2: five cent an hour doesn't help those keep the lights on. Yeah,

1856
01:38:23,680 --> 01:38:29,439
Speaker 2: that's so real, Demetria. Yeah, Flew. You couldn't agree more, honey,

1857
01:38:29,560 --> 01:38:29,800
Speaker 2: I have.

1858
01:38:30,320 --> 01:38:33,440
Speaker 1: It's been something else, Honey, I done did some things serving.

1859
01:38:33,479 --> 01:38:35,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, three days, man, I feel you.

1860
01:38:36,280 --> 01:38:36,519
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1861
01:38:36,720 --> 01:38:39,280
Speaker 2: I remember one of my first days. I had this

1862
01:38:39,360 --> 01:38:42,920
Speaker 2: couple come in and the dude they were the dude

1863
01:38:42,960 --> 01:38:46,040
Speaker 2: was clearly trying to get free meals, like he ordered

1864
01:38:46,040 --> 01:38:49,800
Speaker 2: his steak. Then, like, you know, I had other tables,

1865
01:38:49,840 --> 01:38:52,040
Speaker 2: like four or five tables. They all got sat at

1866
01:38:52,080 --> 01:38:55,320
Speaker 2: the same time. You know, I'm basically juggling plates to

1867
01:38:55,360 --> 01:39:01,360
Speaker 2: help everybody and stuff, and he's like, my food cold,

1868
01:39:01,640 --> 01:39:03,519
Speaker 2: and I was like, I just got it off the

1869
01:39:03,920 --> 01:39:06,880
Speaker 2: heated window like a second and he's like, how long

1870
01:39:06,960 --> 01:39:09,160
Speaker 2: was it sitting up there? I was like, it couldn't

1871
01:39:09,160 --> 01:39:11,759
Speaker 2: have been sitting there a minute, like more than a minute.

1872
01:39:12,120 --> 01:39:14,200
Speaker 2: And he's like, well, it's cold. I don't want this

1873
01:39:14,200 --> 01:39:17,280
Speaker 2: stake no more. I'm like, okay, so you ate three

1874
01:39:17,320 --> 01:39:20,080
Speaker 2: fours to the stak, but now you but now it's cold.

1875
01:39:20,120 --> 01:39:22,200
Speaker 2: I mean it's been ten minutes since you've been eating

1876
01:39:22,200 --> 01:39:24,439
Speaker 2: on it. He's like, I'll take it back. I don't

1877
01:39:24,439 --> 01:39:26,559
Speaker 2: want it. I want to talk to a manager. And

1878
01:39:26,760 --> 01:39:29,599
Speaker 2: I remember it at the same time that this is happening,

1879
01:39:30,800 --> 01:39:33,479
Speaker 2: like cause it flustered me. I just never dealt with

1880
01:39:33,520 --> 01:39:37,400
Speaker 2: someone so fucking mean and cruel at that moment, you know,

1881
01:39:37,600 --> 01:39:40,000
Speaker 2: and you know, he's cussing the ship and there's people around,

1882
01:39:40,600 --> 01:39:43,360
Speaker 2: and so I go get the manager tell them what happened.

1883
01:39:43,360 --> 01:39:47,120
Speaker 2: Of course, the manager sells me out immediately. And then

1884
01:39:47,439 --> 01:39:51,120
Speaker 2: I remember they were like, okay, well can you get

1885
01:39:52,640 --> 01:39:55,160
Speaker 2: get drinks for this? This It was like a big

1886
01:39:55,200 --> 01:39:57,800
Speaker 2: table like ten twelve people, you know, like whatever. So

1887
01:39:57,840 --> 01:40:00,400
Speaker 2: I go to get drinks. I get the tray and

1888
01:40:00,439 --> 01:40:04,400
Speaker 2: stuff and I'm walking and I fall a slipped and

1889
01:40:05,080 --> 01:40:08,799
Speaker 2: all the glasses break cut my arms up. I needed

1890
01:40:08,800 --> 01:40:13,800
Speaker 2: a new shirt after that band aids everything, and so

1891
01:40:16,200 --> 01:40:17,880
Speaker 2: you know, I go in the back, I get a

1892
01:40:17,880 --> 01:40:22,960
Speaker 2: new shirt, I get bandaged up. You know, it's funny.

1893
01:40:22,960 --> 01:40:24,599
Speaker 2: I was so young. I didn't think about sewing them

1894
01:40:24,680 --> 01:40:27,160
Speaker 2: or anything, or how dangerous that any any of that ship.

1895
01:40:27,680 --> 01:40:29,840
Speaker 2: So I get it all bandaged up, I get a

1896
01:40:29,880 --> 01:40:33,599
Speaker 2: new shirt. I come out. I finished my shift, and

1897
01:40:33,760 --> 01:40:37,040
Speaker 2: it was crazy. Every table that was around for that

1898
01:40:38,200 --> 01:40:42,760
Speaker 2: tip the ship out of me, like yeah, yeah, like

1899
01:40:42,800 --> 01:40:45,639
Speaker 2: everybody because everyone knew that that dude was being a jerk.

1900
01:40:46,080 --> 01:40:50,320
Speaker 2: And it was so so all that to say, like, yeah,

1901
01:40:50,360 --> 01:40:53,360
Speaker 2: people are fucked up, but it wouldn't be that bad

1902
01:40:53,600 --> 01:40:57,880
Speaker 2: if motherfuckers would calm down on so much of this

1903
01:40:58,120 --> 01:40:59,000
Speaker 2: entitlement and ship.

1904
01:40:59,280 --> 01:41:03,040
Speaker 3: Yeah that's that's. That's all that it is. And like

1905
01:41:03,160 --> 01:41:05,800
Speaker 3: I said, I slept for a very very long time.

1906
01:41:06,000 --> 01:41:09,280
Speaker 1: And once you become a veteran at it, there's certain

1907
01:41:09,280 --> 01:41:11,200
Speaker 1: things that you just will not deal with that you

1908
01:41:11,280 --> 01:41:14,000
Speaker 1: dealt with when you was younger. I had somebody come

1909
01:41:14,080 --> 01:41:16,080
Speaker 1: up and question about the menu.

1910
01:41:16,160 --> 01:41:17,200
Speaker 2: I don't know if.

1911
01:41:17,080 --> 01:41:18,720
Speaker 1: A lot of people fail to realize this. Lot oftimes

1912
01:41:18,800 --> 01:41:22,599
Speaker 1: we go to restaurants, particularly like a phase. Uh, when

1913
01:41:22,640 --> 01:41:26,640
Speaker 1: they have a lunch time and the dinner time. The

1914
01:41:26,720 --> 01:41:30,040
Speaker 1: computer automatically changes on certain things, like it changes on

1915
01:41:30,080 --> 01:41:31,800
Speaker 1: its own, and there's nothing you can do about that.

1916
01:41:32,280 --> 01:41:34,280
Speaker 1: So if people rushing at the last minute to get

1917
01:41:34,320 --> 01:41:35,960
Speaker 1: the lunch, but it changed the dinner by time you

1918
01:41:36,160 --> 01:41:37,719
Speaker 1: come in, they got to get the dinner price.

1919
01:41:38,240 --> 01:41:39,960
Speaker 3: And so somebody will say, well, I.

1920
01:41:39,880 --> 01:41:41,439
Speaker 1: Didn't know it was this price, that that that.

1921
01:41:41,920 --> 01:41:42,640
Speaker 3: They was talking to me.

1922
01:41:43,040 --> 01:41:45,799
Speaker 1: I walked away from that man while he was yacking,

1923
01:41:46,479 --> 01:41:49,080
Speaker 1: and while he was talking and with the loudest boss

1924
01:41:49,120 --> 01:41:49,439
Speaker 1: I can.

1925
01:41:49,520 --> 01:41:51,840
Speaker 3: I said, hey, manager, you need to come talk to it.

1926
01:41:51,840 --> 01:41:53,439
Speaker 3: I ain't get customer and took.

1927
01:41:53,280 --> 01:41:55,080
Speaker 1: My ass on back in the back and sit down.

1928
01:41:55,120 --> 01:41:57,000
Speaker 1: I want dealing with that for two dollars. Thirteen said out,

1929
01:41:57,000 --> 01:41:58,599
Speaker 1: fuck you, you talk to the manager.

1930
01:41:59,120 --> 01:42:02,840
Speaker 2: I really wish, I really wish I could just go

1931
01:42:03,000 --> 01:42:07,320
Speaker 2: back and know what I know now about respecting myself.

1932
01:42:08,400 --> 01:42:10,200
Speaker 2: It'd been a whole different. I wouldn't have made it.

1933
01:42:10,240 --> 01:42:12,040
Speaker 2: I wouldn't have lasted because I would have cut somebody out.

1934
01:42:12,040 --> 01:42:14,720
Speaker 2: First day. I'm like, what you're not gonna do? And

1935
01:42:14,760 --> 01:42:15,880
Speaker 2: that would be the last thing.

1936
01:42:19,160 --> 01:42:22,000
Speaker 3: I was like, motherfucker, you do know I'm educated, right?

1937
01:42:22,400 --> 01:42:25,439
Speaker 3: Who do you think you talking to? I wouldn't have last.

1938
01:42:25,280 --> 01:42:27,680
Speaker 2: See see niggas I am in college. That would be

1939
01:42:27,680 --> 01:42:31,000
Speaker 2: where it went wrong anyway, Lucked Out says, some places

1940
01:42:31,040 --> 01:42:34,000
Speaker 2: already include gratuity, feeding that total and then leave the

1941
01:42:34,439 --> 01:42:36,599
Speaker 2: face blank. So it's not like it's a mind blowing

1942
01:42:36,640 --> 01:42:40,280
Speaker 2: concept that included in the meal instead of being an option. Karen,

1943
01:42:40,320 --> 01:42:41,960
Speaker 2: I hear you, and I'm not alone when it comes

1944
01:42:41,960 --> 01:42:44,600
Speaker 2: to sexism. In my experience, there are hidden costs in

1945
01:42:44,680 --> 01:42:48,200
Speaker 2: everyday decisions for women. Besides the pink tax, women have

1946
01:42:48,320 --> 01:42:51,800
Speaker 2: to make decisions to choose safety over savings. Several years back,

1947
01:42:51,840 --> 01:42:54,160
Speaker 2: before uber was was that big of a thing, I

1948
01:42:54,200 --> 01:42:56,880
Speaker 2: was living in California and had to get my car fixed.

1949
01:42:56,920 --> 01:42:59,160
Speaker 2: I was working on retail job and the only way

1950
01:42:59,240 --> 01:43:02,200
Speaker 2: I had a full shift was to work till closing.

1951
01:43:02,320 --> 01:43:05,960
Speaker 2: I planned on commuting to save money and avoid a loan.

1952
01:43:06,600 --> 01:43:09,280
Speaker 2: The experiences I had as a woman alone at night

1953
01:43:09,360 --> 01:43:12,080
Speaker 2: made me hyper vigilant. Asked if I was a prostitute

1954
01:43:12,080 --> 01:43:14,400
Speaker 2: on the bus because I had pretty lips waiting for

1955
01:43:14,479 --> 01:43:16,960
Speaker 2: somebody to take a cab in the queue, so I

1956
01:43:17,000 --> 01:43:19,080
Speaker 2: didn't get in with the guy who made me uncomfortable

1957
01:43:19,080 --> 01:43:22,600
Speaker 2: already and asking myself if I shouldn't get off my

1958
01:43:23,120 --> 01:43:27,960
Speaker 2: vaart stop because I didn't feel safe letting the creep

1959
01:43:28,000 --> 01:43:31,320
Speaker 2: know that much. I keep switching plans to see if

1960
01:43:31,360 --> 01:43:34,000
Speaker 2: I can find a sweet spot. I'm independent and wanted

1961
01:43:34,040 --> 01:43:35,760
Speaker 2: to get things done on my own. But no matter

1962
01:43:35,840 --> 01:43:38,880
Speaker 2: my attitude, several men only saw an available woman because

1963
01:43:38,920 --> 01:43:41,080
Speaker 2: obviously if a man was taking care of me, I

1964
01:43:41,120 --> 01:43:43,880
Speaker 2: wouldn't be out at that hour. So yeah, got alone.

1965
01:43:43,960 --> 01:43:45,960
Speaker 2: Lost out on a few more hundreds that I wanted

1966
01:43:46,000 --> 01:43:48,720
Speaker 2: to then I wanted to. I can't imagine if I

1967
01:43:48,800 --> 01:43:51,639
Speaker 2: couldn't get it and had to choose between working less

1968
01:43:51,640 --> 01:43:54,400
Speaker 2: hours of risking my safety. I moved on the better things,

1969
01:43:54,439 --> 01:43:56,680
Speaker 2: but to still suck. It still sticks to me that

1970
01:43:56,720 --> 01:43:59,320
Speaker 2: I'm driving at night because I feel robbed. I don't

1971
01:43:59,360 --> 01:44:01,559
Speaker 2: need to be told what did you expect? Or it

1972
01:44:01,680 --> 01:44:04,120
Speaker 2: was stupid to even try? So I appreciate you caring

1973
01:44:04,360 --> 01:44:05,880
Speaker 2: for your passion on this topic.

1974
01:44:06,840 --> 01:44:07,639
Speaker 3: Yeah that's real.

1975
01:44:07,720 --> 01:44:09,519
Speaker 1: And then some states they don't have it here in

1976
01:44:09,560 --> 01:44:12,000
Speaker 1: North Carolina, but in some states. I forgot what state

1977
01:44:12,040 --> 01:44:15,599
Speaker 1: they just dropped the tampon tax, like they actually taxed

1978
01:44:15,680 --> 01:44:18,639
Speaker 1: you for tampon. It's like, not the regular tax. It's

1979
01:44:18,640 --> 01:44:21,840
Speaker 1: the regular tax and the tampon tax. You're like, motherfucker,

1980
01:44:22,320 --> 01:44:26,120
Speaker 1: you do No, I can't control the bleeding. The bleeding happens.

1981
01:44:27,439 --> 01:44:29,759
Speaker 1: Why are you charging me just because I bleed?

1982
01:44:30,000 --> 01:44:32,680
Speaker 2: Because you're a woman, can now? Condoms are free? Did

1983
01:44:32,680 --> 01:44:34,360
Speaker 2: you go to the condom machine because you can get

1984
01:44:34,400 --> 01:44:36,800
Speaker 2: you a couple of free condoms? Maybe use those? Stick

1985
01:44:36,800 --> 01:44:41,880
Speaker 2: those up there, Mark Gen Mark G says, Okay, So

1986
01:44:41,920 --> 01:44:43,360
Speaker 2: I don't know if I should saw this with y'all,

1987
01:44:43,439 --> 01:44:45,519
Speaker 2: but that should have been the end. But that is.

1988
01:44:46,680 --> 01:44:49,320
Speaker 2: But that industrial parking Boco Returned, Florida where the Uber

1989
01:44:49,360 --> 01:44:51,599
Speaker 2: driver rape those women is very close to home. In fact,

1990
01:44:51,680 --> 01:44:53,840
Speaker 2: I used to work there in twenty fifteen. It's where

1991
01:44:53,840 --> 01:44:55,679
Speaker 2: I discovered and fell in love with the black guy

1992
01:44:55,680 --> 01:44:57,960
Speaker 2: who tips At night, I will put on my headphones

1993
01:44:58,000 --> 01:45:01,000
Speaker 2: while working outside at the sundown. That place. It's totally isolated.

1994
01:45:01,280 --> 01:45:04,000
Speaker 2: There's one security guard for multitudes or large empty buildings

1995
01:45:04,000 --> 01:45:06,760
Speaker 2: and warehouses. I'm not surprised at all that's where he

1996
01:45:06,800 --> 01:45:09,439
Speaker 2: took them. What did surprise me, though, is I haven't

1997
01:45:09,479 --> 01:45:12,360
Speaker 2: heard anything at all about this horrific incident in my area.

1998
01:45:12,960 --> 01:45:15,120
Speaker 2: I talked today to some people at work and it's

1999
01:45:15,120 --> 01:45:17,920
Speaker 2: the same reaction. It hadn't been making the news. Sadly,

2000
01:45:17,960 --> 01:45:20,280
Speaker 2: many women like those at my job of Conne except

2001
01:45:20,280 --> 01:45:22,760
Speaker 2: the civil public services aren't safe for them to use.

2002
01:45:23,080 --> 01:45:25,200
Speaker 2: One girl told me, yeah, that's why we can't ride

2003
01:45:25,200 --> 01:45:29,560
Speaker 2: our uber. Can't ride uber alone, right right, Yeah it was.

2004
01:45:30,000 --> 01:45:31,680
Speaker 2: There was a day on Twitter if someone brought that up,

2005
01:45:31,720 --> 01:45:34,879
Speaker 2: and it was really amazing to see how many dudes

2006
01:45:35,120 --> 01:45:37,360
Speaker 2: had never considered that, like they were shocked, Like we

2007
01:45:37,760 --> 01:45:40,720
Speaker 2: just called it uber and people was like, why I

2008
01:45:40,760 --> 01:45:42,799
Speaker 2: would never do that by myself, like.

2009
01:45:42,800 --> 01:45:43,759
Speaker 3: Uber by myself.

2010
01:45:44,000 --> 01:45:47,000
Speaker 1: No, And I know some people use and have never

2011
01:45:47,040 --> 01:45:50,080
Speaker 1: had no problem. And truthfully, it may I'm not trying

2012
01:45:50,080 --> 01:45:50,400
Speaker 1: to funy.

2013
01:45:50,439 --> 01:45:52,400
Speaker 2: It may depend on what city you're in, Like it

2014
01:45:52,479 --> 01:45:55,480
Speaker 2: may be some cities and some places across the country

2015
01:45:55,840 --> 01:45:58,840
Speaker 2: where it's not that bad, but in most.

2016
01:45:58,560 --> 01:46:00,120
Speaker 3: Places it's like I've never.

2017
01:46:01,920 --> 01:46:05,240
Speaker 1: Uber, uh, but I don't ever think I will go

2018
01:46:05,280 --> 01:46:08,400
Speaker 1: in the uber alone mm hmm yep.

2019
01:46:09,479 --> 01:46:13,400
Speaker 2: Anonymous says it's fairly embarrassing that Harrisburg is trending because

2020
01:46:13,400 --> 01:46:15,800
Speaker 2: of racism. I've lived and worked there for two years,

2021
01:46:15,880 --> 01:46:17,680
Speaker 2: lived thirty minutes away for most of my life, and

2022
01:46:17,680 --> 01:46:19,880
Speaker 2: I've always been surprised by how the verse it is

2023
01:46:19,920 --> 01:46:20,799
Speaker 2: considering this placement.

2024
01:46:20,960 --> 01:46:21,200
Speaker 4: VA.

2025
01:46:22,280 --> 01:46:24,879
Speaker 2: The couple that left that message our ass had certainly

2026
01:46:24,960 --> 01:46:27,800
Speaker 2: and certainly are Trump supporters. The local news interviewed them

2027
01:46:27,840 --> 01:46:29,920
Speaker 2: and they had a Trump sticker on the back of

2028
01:46:29,920 --> 01:46:32,360
Speaker 2: their truck. But it's situations like this that makes the

2029
01:46:32,400 --> 01:46:34,439
Speaker 2: practice of forcing service to rely on tipping.

2030
01:46:35,000 --> 01:46:35,200
Speaker 5: Uh.

2031
01:46:35,400 --> 01:46:40,240
Speaker 2: It's fairly embarrassing that Harrisonburg is trending because of racism.

2032
01:46:40,680 --> 01:46:43,920
Speaker 2: Oh wait, hold on, I think they accidentally copy the

2033
01:46:43,960 --> 01:46:52,280
Speaker 2: pastes twice. Okay. As a black woman serving, okay, it's

2034
01:46:52,280 --> 01:46:54,200
Speaker 2: a situation like this that makes the practice of forcing

2035
01:46:54,240 --> 01:46:58,000
Speaker 2: service to reply on tipping for income ridiculous and untenable

2036
01:46:58,200 --> 01:46:59,960
Speaker 2: as a black woman serving with some of the best,

2037
01:47:00,000 --> 01:47:01,760
Speaker 2: that's times that I had as the absolute worst and

2038
01:47:01,800 --> 01:47:04,720
Speaker 2: most terrifying moments as well. I was a host and

2039
01:47:04,760 --> 01:47:09,479
Speaker 2: a server throughout high school and most made some lifelong

2040
01:47:09,520 --> 01:47:12,400
Speaker 2: friends there, but I was also harassed by patrons, cussed out,

2041
01:47:12,439 --> 01:47:14,280
Speaker 2: grabbed and grove, had drinks spilled on me, and on

2042
01:47:14,400 --> 01:47:17,120
Speaker 2: particularly bad night, I was followed to my car by

2043
01:47:17,160 --> 01:47:19,800
Speaker 2: an angry customer. As a teenager who was aligned on

2044
01:47:19,840 --> 01:47:22,360
Speaker 2: those tips to both buy a car and save a college.

2045
01:47:22,360 --> 01:47:24,200
Speaker 2: I had to bite my tongue to get that money

2046
01:47:24,360 --> 01:47:27,439
Speaker 2: from these creeps who had this power over me, most

2047
01:47:27,479 --> 01:47:30,160
Speaker 2: of whom were white men. And I always ask myself,

2048
01:47:30,280 --> 01:47:33,040
Speaker 2: is this more because I'm a woman or because I'm Black?

2049
01:47:33,200 --> 01:47:36,080
Speaker 2: How uncomfortable or scared do I need to be? Is

2050
01:47:36,160 --> 01:47:38,200
Speaker 2: this going to be a situation where I get called

2051
01:47:38,280 --> 01:47:41,160
Speaker 2: nigger or bitch? But yes, sex is and over in

2052
01:47:41,640 --> 01:47:42,879
Speaker 2: in this post racial society.

2053
01:47:43,160 --> 01:47:43,479
Speaker 1: Colon.

2054
01:47:43,600 --> 01:47:46,000
Speaker 2: Now, we took a pole, guys, and the men decided,

2055
01:47:46,280 --> 01:47:50,160
Speaker 2: so it's sober, all right. Sorry, ladies, Next time, be

2056
01:47:50,200 --> 01:47:52,519
Speaker 2: born with a penis and we'll we'll get you up

2057
01:47:52,560 --> 01:47:56,160
Speaker 2: in there, all right. Should we abolish tipping? Yes, just

2058
01:47:56,240 --> 01:47:58,120
Speaker 2: add the cost of the food eighty four percent of

2059
01:47:58,120 --> 01:48:00,880
Speaker 2: people and no, I like lord and no servants sixteen

2060
01:48:00,880 --> 01:48:03,639
Speaker 2: percent of y'all. Of course, there's always some petty people,

2061
01:48:04,680 --> 01:48:06,760
Speaker 2: you know. That was another thing when you actually work there,

2062
01:48:07,040 --> 01:48:11,439
Speaker 2: like as a man, waiter experience is different. You just

2063
01:48:11,520 --> 01:48:14,679
Speaker 2: like like, that's the one time being a man really

2064
01:48:14,720 --> 01:48:19,519
Speaker 2: works against you in the industry, because dudes will straight

2065
01:48:19,600 --> 01:48:22,240
Speaker 2: up be like, nope, I'm perving on them titties. Get

2066
01:48:22,280 --> 01:48:26,439
Speaker 2: the fuck out of my face. Bro, It's like, oh, okay,

2067
01:48:27,560 --> 01:48:30,519
Speaker 2: excuse me. I won't sweet titch to weight on me.

2068
01:48:30,600 --> 01:48:32,400
Speaker 2: It's like, I'm sorry you have to go through this,

2069
01:48:32,479 --> 01:48:35,320
Speaker 2: and I'm sorry that I don't get the money as well.

2070
01:48:35,400 --> 01:48:37,719
Speaker 1: Right. Oh, if you do su a lot of times,

2071
01:48:37,760 --> 01:48:39,599
Speaker 1: you won't get as big as a Yeah.

2072
01:48:39,520 --> 01:48:41,599
Speaker 2: Of course not. Never have an attitude the whole time.

2073
01:48:41,680 --> 01:48:44,840
Speaker 2: And shit, it's bad people ain't shit, man. We cannot

2074
01:48:44,920 --> 01:48:46,160
Speaker 2: lead as much power when people.

2075
01:48:46,439 --> 01:48:49,160
Speaker 3: And something else they don't talk about truth be told.

2076
01:48:49,600 --> 01:48:50,800
Speaker 3: A lot of times.

2077
01:48:50,560 --> 01:48:53,519
Speaker 1: Race plays are factor too, because you know it's it's

2078
01:48:53,600 --> 01:48:56,559
Speaker 1: some people who once you walk up to the table,

2079
01:48:56,560 --> 01:48:58,800
Speaker 1: you can go okay, y'all don't like black folks.

2080
01:48:58,680 --> 01:49:01,639
Speaker 2: All the time, and says in regards to the poll

2081
01:49:01,720 --> 01:49:03,519
Speaker 2: that are many states they do things like this, but

2082
01:49:03,680 --> 01:49:08,040
Speaker 2: that suspend driver's license, professional licenses, and gun licenses, et cetera.

2083
01:49:09,000 --> 01:49:10,760
Speaker 2: And it can be effective. It takes a lot for

2084
01:49:10,800 --> 01:49:12,400
Speaker 2: someone to be put in jail for non payment the

2085
01:49:12,479 --> 01:49:14,800
Speaker 2: child support. The hope is that you can inconvenience a

2086
01:49:14,880 --> 01:49:17,519
Speaker 2: parent enough to get them current on payments, but to

2087
01:49:17,560 --> 01:49:20,519
Speaker 2: get to the point where child support enforcement employed such

2088
01:49:20,600 --> 01:49:23,639
Speaker 2: methods would take WillFull non compliance with court orders. Most

2089
01:49:23,720 --> 01:49:26,080
Speaker 2: judges give numerous chances and work with parents to avoid

2090
01:49:26,120 --> 01:49:29,600
Speaker 2: having to do this. I feel your agent. I just

2091
01:49:29,600 --> 01:49:31,680
Speaker 2: don't trust the government that much or the criminal justice

2092
01:49:31,720 --> 01:49:32,280
Speaker 2: system that much.

2093
01:49:32,320 --> 01:49:33,760
Speaker 3: Right, did theyre going to implement it? Right?

2094
01:49:34,600 --> 01:49:37,000
Speaker 2: Yeah? I hope you right. I hope. I hope it's

2095
01:49:37,000 --> 01:49:40,920
Speaker 2: done without bias. I hope that it works. You know,

2096
01:49:41,200 --> 01:49:44,400
Speaker 2: I just know that in the same country that had

2097
01:49:45,040 --> 01:49:46,760
Speaker 2: and it's not just this one place, but this is

2098
01:49:46,760 --> 01:49:49,280
Speaker 2: a good example, the same place I have in Ferguson, Missouri,

2099
01:49:49,880 --> 01:49:53,719
Speaker 2: which turns their jails into debtors prisons. I don't trust.

2100
01:49:53,880 --> 01:49:55,960
Speaker 2: I don't trust to be implemented, right, I'm sorry, I

2101
01:49:55,960 --> 01:49:57,799
Speaker 2: feel a little bit. I feel a way.

2102
01:49:57,680 --> 01:50:00,000
Speaker 3: About it, right because that was my first response.

2103
01:50:00,960 --> 01:50:04,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, well, anything that gets someone to take

2104
01:50:04,240 --> 01:50:07,040
Speaker 2: care responsibilities, I think everybody's always on board with it.

2105
01:50:07,080 --> 01:50:10,719
Speaker 2: But sometimes we have systems in place that do that already,

2106
01:50:11,400 --> 01:50:13,600
Speaker 2: and so we're basically trying to make it more punitive.

2107
01:50:13,920 --> 01:50:17,240
Speaker 2: And we know certain people in society have such a

2108
01:50:17,240 --> 01:50:20,559
Speaker 2: bad rep that if I told you we're gonna punish

2109
01:50:20,560 --> 01:50:22,760
Speaker 2: them harsher, there's never gonna be a point where people go,

2110
01:50:22,960 --> 01:50:25,840
Speaker 2: yeah that we should stop everybody's gonna go yeah, keep

2111
01:50:25,840 --> 01:50:28,479
Speaker 2: doing it, you know, and people that don't take care

2112
01:50:28,479 --> 01:50:31,000
Speaker 2: of their kids are one of those groups. If we

2113
01:50:31,000 --> 01:50:33,000
Speaker 2: were like we're gonna start castraighting people, a lot of

2114
01:50:33,040 --> 01:50:35,320
Speaker 2: people be like that makes sense. Fuck them, you know

2115
01:50:35,360 --> 01:50:35,800
Speaker 2: what I mean?

2116
01:50:37,080 --> 01:50:37,960
Speaker 3: They follow in the group.

2117
01:50:38,040 --> 01:50:40,479
Speaker 2: Take care of your kids, you know. Like I said,

2118
01:50:40,640 --> 01:50:44,760
Speaker 2: I if it works, then then then and they've done

2119
01:50:44,800 --> 01:50:46,519
Speaker 2: studies and ship and shows it works, than good.

2120
01:50:46,600 --> 01:50:49,439
Speaker 3: If itah not, I worry.

2121
01:50:49,479 --> 01:50:51,479
Speaker 2: I worry. I'm not saying you can't do it, but

2122
01:50:51,520 --> 01:50:52,040
Speaker 2: I worry.

2123
01:50:52,960 --> 01:50:53,120
Speaker 5: Uh.

2124
01:50:53,200 --> 01:50:55,320
Speaker 2: Cassie sixty seven in Policies from Again in the end,

2125
01:50:55,400 --> 01:50:57,639
Speaker 2: this was a good episode. I'm so happy you talked

2126
01:50:57,640 --> 01:51:01,120
Speaker 2: about Childishcambing Dollar Glove slashed out. There are so many

2127
01:51:01,120 --> 01:51:03,120
Speaker 2: people I know that write him off immediately. I can't

2128
01:51:03,120 --> 01:51:04,920
Speaker 2: figure it out. His music changed my life. When I

2129
01:51:04,920 --> 01:51:06,920
Speaker 2: first heard his music, I felt like, oh my god,

2130
01:51:07,240 --> 01:51:09,919
Speaker 2: that's finally a rabbit and understands some of my black experience.

2131
01:51:10,280 --> 01:51:12,240
Speaker 2: There have been times where I teared up thinking about

2132
01:51:12,280 --> 01:51:15,200
Speaker 2: those times when I fell alone, ostracized or hurt by

2133
01:51:15,200 --> 01:51:17,120
Speaker 2: black and white people because I was too black for

2134
01:51:17,160 --> 01:51:19,519
Speaker 2: white people but not black enough for black people, and

2135
01:51:19,560 --> 01:51:22,439
Speaker 2: Gambino knows how to convey that. In my opinion, Donald

2136
01:51:22,439 --> 01:51:24,599
Speaker 2: Glover is winning. He was on Community, made his own

2137
01:51:24,600 --> 01:51:27,639
Speaker 2: independent film, Clapping for the Wrong Reasons, he had a tour,

2138
01:51:28,160 --> 01:51:32,479
Speaker 2: played ten festivals, dropped a solid album. In twenty thirteen,

2139
01:51:32,560 --> 01:51:35,320
Speaker 2: new album Pharaohs to be released, and now he's got

2140
01:51:35,320 --> 01:51:37,679
Speaker 2: it leant On Fax. I'd say the worst thing he's

2141
01:51:37,680 --> 01:51:40,320
Speaker 2: done is that movie The Last Effect, But I can't

2142
01:51:40,320 --> 01:51:42,639
Speaker 2: even blame him for all that. And lastly, I think

2143
01:51:42,680 --> 01:51:45,280
Speaker 2: I laughed about Little Poopy and Can's comments for two hours.

2144
01:51:45,280 --> 01:51:47,840
Speaker 2: If don't finished that episode. I was having a crazy

2145
01:51:47,880 --> 01:51:49,680
Speaker 2: dad work and this episode put me in such a

2146
01:51:49,680 --> 01:51:51,880
Speaker 2: good mood. Got through the day because of you, y'all,

2147
01:51:51,960 --> 01:51:54,920
Speaker 2: because of y'all. Ah, thank you, Hey man, I'm glad.

2148
01:51:54,920 --> 01:51:58,080
Speaker 2: I'm glad to hear that. Sometime I'm worried about the

2149
01:51:58,080 --> 01:51:59,559
Speaker 2: shit we cover on this show, and like, I hope

2150
01:51:59,560 --> 01:52:02,040
Speaker 2: this ain't a owner, Like I hope we're making this

2151
01:52:02,080 --> 01:52:04,519
Speaker 2: shit funny and entertaining. I it's not just people feeling

2152
01:52:04,520 --> 01:52:06,360
Speaker 2: like we turn this shit into a classroom, because it's

2153
01:52:07,080 --> 01:52:10,160
Speaker 2: not that for me, but but some shit pop up.

2154
01:52:10,040 --> 01:52:11,200
Speaker 3: That you have to address.

2155
01:52:11,640 --> 01:52:15,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, look, man, I like I said to me, the

2156
01:52:15,439 --> 01:52:18,000
Speaker 2: most impressive thing about Donald Glover is that he's been

2157
01:52:18,080 --> 01:52:22,919
Speaker 2: able to not be one of them fuck niggas that

2158
01:52:22,920 --> 01:52:29,479
Speaker 2: that turns against black people, Like people completely discredit that struggle,

2159
01:52:30,280 --> 01:52:32,559
Speaker 2: but it's but it's a real thing, and acknowledging it

2160
01:52:32,600 --> 01:52:35,679
Speaker 2: doesn't make us less of a community. It makes us

2161
01:52:36,000 --> 01:52:38,760
Speaker 2: more of a community to be like, sometimes we hurt

2162
01:52:38,800 --> 01:52:42,400
Speaker 2: each other, but that doesn't mean we don't love each other.

2163
01:52:42,439 --> 01:52:44,879
Speaker 2: And Black people are gonna probably be his biggest supporters

2164
01:52:44,880 --> 01:52:49,040
Speaker 2: of this Atlanta show, even if his hip hop isn't

2165
01:52:49,080 --> 01:52:52,479
Speaker 2: necessarily for them or the type that they enjoy. It

2166
01:52:52,600 --> 01:52:54,719
Speaker 2: just sucked that so many people assume the worst about

2167
01:52:54,720 --> 01:52:58,080
Speaker 2: that dude without even listening. You know, people said some

2168
01:52:58,160 --> 01:53:00,920
Speaker 2: fucked up like I'll never because I was a like

2169
01:53:00,960 --> 01:53:03,240
Speaker 2: I said, I was a fan from either could a

2170
01:53:03,360 --> 01:53:07,360
Speaker 2: Sack or whichever came out first, Could a Sack. I

2171
01:53:07,400 --> 01:53:09,120
Speaker 2: think I was a fan from culd de Sack. Matter

2172
01:53:09,160 --> 01:53:10,760
Speaker 2: of fact, a white dude told me about him because

2173
01:53:10,800 --> 01:53:12,680
Speaker 2: most of his fans were white and may still be

2174
01:53:12,800 --> 01:53:15,400
Speaker 2: white at that time. But I was like, Yo, this

2175
01:53:15,479 --> 01:53:19,760
Speaker 2: dude is dope as fuck. He's lyricist, and you know,

2176
01:53:19,840 --> 01:53:25,879
Speaker 2: I love this joint and he like it was a connection,

2177
01:53:26,000 --> 01:53:28,120
Speaker 2: and it was. It was an experience that I hadn't

2178
01:53:28,160 --> 01:53:32,360
Speaker 2: lived necessarily fully, but I understood parts of it because

2179
01:53:32,439 --> 01:53:37,040
Speaker 2: it was I did understand some of it. So anyway,

2180
01:53:37,280 --> 01:53:40,800
Speaker 2: Uh yeah, I hopefully people come around on this Atlanta thing.

2181
01:53:40,920 --> 01:53:44,400
Speaker 2: I just hope everybody's prepared to see a show where

2182
01:53:44,439 --> 01:53:46,880
Speaker 2: he might talk about some of the anti blackness he

2183
01:53:46,960 --> 01:53:49,960
Speaker 2: experienced from black people as well as white people. It

2184
01:53:50,040 --> 01:53:52,679
Speaker 2: might not be as it might not just be white

2185
01:53:52,720 --> 01:53:55,120
Speaker 2: people are evil every week, and it's gonna be interesting

2186
01:53:55,120 --> 01:53:57,920
Speaker 2: to see how people handle that. Max says enjoyed the

2187
01:53:57,920 --> 01:53:59,800
Speaker 2: comments about Donna Glove and never see is amazed me

2188
01:53:59,800 --> 01:54:01,479
Speaker 2: how which we deal with as adults in terms of

2189
01:54:01,479 --> 01:54:04,760
Speaker 2: our interactions with others, that it's colored by our childhood interactions. Yop,

2190
01:54:07,560 --> 01:54:11,559
Speaker 2: let's see this one's kind of anonymous. Ain't putting name

2191
01:54:11,680 --> 01:54:16,640
Speaker 2: fives hi Rod and Karen. Look, I couldn't figure it

2192
01:54:16,760 --> 01:54:19,200
Speaker 2: out how to do this on Stitcher, so I hope

2193
01:54:19,240 --> 01:54:21,160
Speaker 2: you see this here. I need to tell y'all how

2194
01:54:21,200 --> 01:54:23,519
Speaker 2: this episode touched me as an African American in Madison,

2195
01:54:23,520 --> 01:54:27,880
Speaker 2: Wisconsin Sins nineteen eighty. I also haven't heard music that

2196
01:54:27,880 --> 01:54:30,599
Speaker 2: equates my experience to t your show. Your honest, self

2197
01:54:30,640 --> 01:54:33,720
Speaker 2: reflective answer has helped me with my own internal dilemma

2198
01:54:33,960 --> 01:54:37,160
Speaker 2: so I could be fully about we what we was

2199
01:54:37,200 --> 01:54:39,120
Speaker 2: as a people and let that negative crap go.

2200
01:54:40,200 --> 01:54:40,480
Speaker 5: I was.

2201
01:54:40,720 --> 01:54:42,440
Speaker 2: It was a moving experience for me, and as much

2202
01:54:42,440 --> 01:54:44,440
Speaker 2: as I love Donna Glover as an act on community,

2203
01:54:44,520 --> 01:54:47,360
Speaker 2: his music may be even better. Thank you so much. PS.

2204
01:54:47,480 --> 01:54:50,160
Speaker 2: Karen's dark KFC story having me laughing so hard that

2205
01:54:50,240 --> 01:54:54,840
Speaker 2: folks called me, came to check on me. Everybody else

2206
01:54:54,880 --> 01:54:57,880
Speaker 2: people was on Twitter talking about that story went dark quick.

2207
01:54:58,840 --> 01:55:03,000
Speaker 2: It's two reals Real in the Street next season on Underground.

2208
01:55:03,080 --> 01:55:08,080
Speaker 2: The KFC recipe too many Spices Cappa. Donna says. When

2209
01:55:08,120 --> 01:55:10,080
Speaker 2: my wife and I moved out to the far hint

2210
01:55:10,200 --> 01:55:14,920
Speaker 2: lands of south southern California from LA, we joined next

2211
01:55:14,960 --> 01:55:16,920
Speaker 2: Door so we can meet our neighbors. What I found

2212
01:55:17,080 --> 01:55:19,400
Speaker 2: is that basically it was the I saw Juggie bohoo

2213
01:55:19,480 --> 01:55:27,680
Speaker 2: chat room, no events, no party is just the spot

2214
01:55:27,760 --> 01:55:31,120
Speaker 2: of darky network. My wife just stopped using it because

2215
01:55:31,160 --> 01:55:35,320
Speaker 2: she got she got tired of the racism. So I'm

2216
01:55:35,320 --> 01:55:37,840
Speaker 2: glad that this social network step stepped up to do

2217
01:55:37,920 --> 01:55:42,720
Speaker 2: something I seen the coon. Uh, it's coon time over here.

2218
01:55:43,720 --> 01:55:48,360
Speaker 2: Watch six Maya two twenty says, everything you touched on

2219
01:55:48,400 --> 01:55:50,879
Speaker 2: when it comes to Donald Glover was a one hundred emoji.

2220
01:55:50,920 --> 01:55:53,360
Speaker 2: I've been a fan of his since the stand up days,

2221
01:55:53,560 --> 01:55:55,560
Speaker 2: and it's been great watching him grow talent wise, when

2222
01:55:55,600 --> 01:55:58,120
Speaker 2: unfortunately it seems like people can't get past his stand

2223
01:55:58,200 --> 01:56:00,840
Speaker 2: up online. I see a lot of cherry picking of

2224
01:56:00,920 --> 01:56:03,600
Speaker 2: his old jokes that made that made it seem like

2225
01:56:03,640 --> 01:56:06,760
Speaker 2: he hated black women and fetishized Asian women. Oh, I'm

2226
01:56:06,760 --> 01:56:09,400
Speaker 2: glad I don't see those. There was even this list

2227
01:56:09,440 --> 01:56:12,360
Speaker 2: of problematic things he said that would make his rounds

2228
01:56:12,360 --> 01:56:15,120
Speaker 2: on Tumblr and Twitter where whatever his name was mentioned.

2229
01:56:15,160 --> 01:56:20,160
Speaker 2: Oh listen, tumbl on Twitter is like such a Tumblr

2230
01:56:20,240 --> 01:56:22,960
Speaker 2: is like the worst for that. I remember, like there

2231
01:56:23,000 --> 01:56:25,920
Speaker 2: was a whole thing and it's just like such and

2232
01:56:25,960 --> 01:56:29,560
Speaker 2: such your favorite is problematic, and then just try to

2233
01:56:29,600 --> 01:56:32,640
Speaker 2: find things like it's entertainment for people like that and

2234
01:56:33,320 --> 01:56:36,280
Speaker 2: that's cool. That's not very entertaining for me, so I

2235
01:56:36,400 --> 01:56:38,480
Speaker 2: just gravitate away from that medium.

2236
01:56:39,040 --> 01:56:39,240
Speaker 6: You know.

2237
01:56:39,320 --> 01:56:41,040
Speaker 2: More power to the people that do that. But it

2238
01:56:41,080 --> 01:56:43,320
Speaker 2: was like people, well it's one joke on Ricky Morty.

2239
01:56:43,320 --> 01:56:46,040
Speaker 2: I'm just like Yo, all I said was I like

2240
01:56:46,120 --> 01:56:48,880
Speaker 2: Ricky Morty, I didn't ask for a critical fucking analysis,

2241
01:56:49,360 --> 01:56:51,760
Speaker 2: Like you don't have a thesis to be writing, Like

2242
01:56:52,280 --> 01:56:56,400
Speaker 2: shouldn't you be getting a degree for this? Because I

2243
01:56:56,480 --> 01:56:59,200
Speaker 2: don't care about this free work you did. I'm sorry

2244
01:56:59,280 --> 01:57:02,840
Speaker 2: to tell you that I watched the TV show. Either

2245
01:57:02,840 --> 01:57:05,200
Speaker 2: I laugh or don't laugh. I'm not really doing a

2246
01:57:05,240 --> 01:57:09,520
Speaker 2: critical analysis of it on any level beyond whether I

2247
01:57:09,520 --> 01:57:12,760
Speaker 2: think it's funny or not. And and it doesn't mean

2248
01:57:12,800 --> 01:57:15,440
Speaker 2: you can't, but I don't. I'm not opted in for

2249
01:57:15,520 --> 01:57:19,280
Speaker 2: that on this one. And but but yeah, so I

2250
01:57:19,280 --> 01:57:22,240
Speaker 2: wouldn't be shocked to see people bring up old shit. Plus,

2251
01:57:22,240 --> 01:57:24,600
Speaker 2: I mean, when you first started rapping, if y'all can

2252
01:57:24,640 --> 01:57:28,640
Speaker 2: hear my first raps, like when you first start rapping,

2253
01:57:28,680 --> 01:57:30,880
Speaker 2: you you don't even know who you are. You rap

2254
01:57:30,920 --> 01:57:32,720
Speaker 2: about what you want to be, You rap about what

2255
01:57:32,720 --> 01:57:35,440
Speaker 2: you think people want to hear. And that's actually one

2256
01:57:35,480 --> 01:57:37,120
Speaker 2: of the things I liked about him is watching his

2257
01:57:37,200 --> 01:57:41,960
Speaker 2: development to a more confident individual because you know, could

2258
01:57:41,960 --> 01:57:44,600
Speaker 2: de sac well. I liked it the EP I like that,

2259
01:57:44,880 --> 01:57:46,880
Speaker 2: you know, like I liked every stage of him. But

2260
01:57:46,920 --> 01:57:48,960
Speaker 2: sometimes I go back and I'm like, yeah, he just

2261
01:57:49,840 --> 01:57:51,960
Speaker 2: he was trying to find a way to get that

2262
01:57:52,120 --> 01:57:56,040
Speaker 2: into a bar and it just wasn't as clever as

2263
01:57:56,040 --> 01:57:57,400
Speaker 2: he thought, or as good as he thought, or he

2264
01:57:57,480 --> 01:57:59,800
Speaker 2: pot or maybe he wouldn't do it now because it's

2265
01:57:59,840 --> 01:58:07,240
Speaker 2: not real basically, you know. But at any rate, for

2266
01:58:07,320 --> 01:58:09,280
Speaker 2: a lot of people that that's all they know about him,

2267
01:58:09,280 --> 01:58:10,800
Speaker 2: and they get turned out from wanting to support him

2268
01:58:10,800 --> 01:58:12,680
Speaker 2: in the first place. The problem is that all those

2269
01:58:12,720 --> 01:58:15,280
Speaker 2: jokes were said over five years ago. It's frustrating to

2270
01:58:15,320 --> 01:58:17,760
Speaker 2: see that even though he's apologized to change his behavior

2271
01:58:18,160 --> 01:58:21,240
Speaker 2: things people claim they want problematic celebrities to do, people

2272
01:58:21,240 --> 01:58:23,200
Speaker 2: still don't want to won't let him live it down.

2273
01:58:23,360 --> 01:58:25,480
Speaker 2: It seems like Gambino was right when he said because

2274
01:58:25,520 --> 01:58:31,160
Speaker 2: the Internet mistakes up forever, yep, yep, that's that's yeah.

2275
01:58:31,280 --> 01:58:34,440
Speaker 2: That is a thing like you could you know, you

2276
01:58:34,480 --> 01:58:36,840
Speaker 2: could grow, you could talk better, you could do better,

2277
01:58:36,880 --> 01:58:38,520
Speaker 2: and people, I mean, at the end of the day,

2278
01:58:39,080 --> 01:58:43,200
Speaker 2: we now had the Internet. Anything you say is gonna

2279
01:58:43,200 --> 01:58:46,320
Speaker 2: be Google a wall like it's sticking with you. If

2280
01:58:46,360 --> 01:58:48,720
Speaker 2: people don't like you, it's a trust issue. If people

2281
01:58:48,760 --> 01:58:51,200
Speaker 2: trust you, they let shit go. They don't trust you,

2282
01:58:51,320 --> 01:58:53,520
Speaker 2: then they just hold on the shit forever. And it's

2283
01:58:53,560 --> 01:58:55,480
Speaker 2: just kind of the nature of where we're at with

2284
01:58:55,560 --> 01:58:58,520
Speaker 2: a society because we have computers in our hands at

2285
01:58:58,520 --> 01:59:03,280
Speaker 2: all times now, Ana said Springsteen, the city because the

2286
01:59:03,320 --> 01:59:05,920
Speaker 2: city we were born to run. Difference by Childe is

2287
01:59:05,920 --> 01:59:09,400
Speaker 2: gonna be no or. I know. I have been offensis

2288
01:59:09,440 --> 01:59:11,360
Speaker 2: of Donald Glover slash Chotage gonna me know for quite

2289
01:59:11,360 --> 01:59:13,000
Speaker 2: some time, and I was happy to hear your comments

2290
01:59:13,000 --> 01:59:15,640
Speaker 2: about him. He is an immensely talented individual. In my eyes,

2291
01:59:15,680 --> 01:59:18,120
Speaker 2: he is a comedian, he writes with television shows, he's

2292
01:59:18,120 --> 01:59:19,760
Speaker 2: an actor. He is a rapper that writes his own

2293
01:59:19,800 --> 01:59:21,800
Speaker 2: raps and produces most of his own music. I think

2294
01:59:21,840 --> 01:59:23,360
Speaker 2: the main reason that I'm a fan of his is

2295
01:59:23,360 --> 01:59:25,640
Speaker 2: because I can identify with Donald Glover and his experiences

2296
01:59:25,680 --> 01:59:28,280
Speaker 2: that he raps about to black, to be white, not

2297
01:59:28,360 --> 01:59:31,120
Speaker 2: black enough for some black people. He raps about some

2298
01:59:31,240 --> 01:59:33,480
Speaker 2: things that may go over people's heads if they're not

2299
01:59:33,520 --> 01:59:36,120
Speaker 2: into nerd culture. In these ways and others, I can

2300
01:59:36,160 --> 01:59:38,760
Speaker 2: easily connect with him and many other things that he

2301
01:59:38,840 --> 01:59:40,800
Speaker 2: raps about. And on top of that, his music is

2302
01:59:40,800 --> 01:59:42,880
Speaker 2: dope to me. In many ways. He can be an

2303
01:59:42,880 --> 01:59:45,720
Speaker 2: example of the personification of the idea that the black experience,

2304
01:59:46,320 --> 01:59:50,480
Speaker 2: that what is to be black is not monolithic. I

2305
01:59:50,520 --> 01:59:53,760
Speaker 2: think he obviously knows that challenges of stereotypes black people

2306
01:59:53,800 --> 01:59:56,320
Speaker 2: are subjected to, and the idea that black people being

2307
01:59:56,360 --> 01:59:59,800
Speaker 2: a monolith explicitly through his lyrics, are implicitly or implicitly

2308
02:00:00,000 --> 02:00:03,840
Speaker 2: implicitly through his actions. Example, not going back by child

2309
02:00:04,040 --> 02:00:07,840
Speaker 2: childs canbino you want a do to keep it real statehood.

2310
02:00:07,920 --> 02:00:10,960
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, baby, but I act me. I don't act black.

2311
02:00:11,080 --> 02:00:14,040
Speaker 2: Whatever that be. The black experience has a lot of

2312
02:00:14,120 --> 02:00:17,800
Speaker 2: variants depending on where you grow up, how you were raised,

2313
02:00:17,880 --> 02:00:21,440
Speaker 2: et cetera. Therefore, black people talk, dress, act as well

2314
02:00:21,480 --> 02:00:25,960
Speaker 2: as others as other things Differently, it all looks to

2315
02:00:26,000 --> 02:00:28,640
Speaker 2: be if all it took to be black was the

2316
02:00:28,680 --> 02:00:31,520
Speaker 2: way you talk, dress and act, etc. There are many

2317
02:00:31,520 --> 02:00:34,000
Speaker 2: people that would be considered black. Obviously that is not

2318
02:00:34,040 --> 02:00:36,240
Speaker 2: the case. As a result, I think he triggers that

2319
02:00:36,320 --> 02:00:39,960
Speaker 2: I will be called the blacker than now conversation. Oh,

2320
02:00:40,000 --> 02:00:42,880
Speaker 2: I will call it the blacker then our conversation and

2321
02:00:43,000 --> 02:00:45,960
Speaker 2: challenges some people's ideas of blackness. Some black people will

2322
02:00:46,000 --> 02:00:48,080
Speaker 2: be critical of him because his blackness does not aligned

2323
02:00:48,080 --> 02:00:51,040
Speaker 2: with their idea of blackness. Therefore, people like him can

2324
02:00:51,440 --> 02:00:55,920
Speaker 2: experience levels of ostracization from people in our own of

2325
02:00:56,000 --> 02:00:58,040
Speaker 2: our own race, as well as people of other races,

2326
02:00:58,040 --> 02:01:00,800
Speaker 2: for simply being who they want to be instead of

2327
02:01:01,160 --> 02:01:04,240
Speaker 2: being the people they are expected to be. Yeah, one

2328
02:01:04,240 --> 02:01:08,440
Speaker 2: thing I always like thought was very telling his music

2329
02:01:09,000 --> 02:01:10,920
Speaker 2: is a lot of times when he talks about not

2330
02:01:11,000 --> 02:01:15,640
Speaker 2: fitting black stereotypes he's talking about to white people like

2331
02:01:16,440 --> 02:01:20,360
Speaker 2: you know, y'all want y'all are like, it's not healthy

2332
02:01:20,480 --> 02:01:23,920
Speaker 2: that y'all are looking for black dudes to be a

2333
02:01:23,960 --> 02:01:26,760
Speaker 2: certain way as well, Like, that's also fucked up in racist,

2334
02:01:27,320 --> 02:01:29,920
Speaker 2: Like you know, if your whole thing is I only

2335
02:01:30,000 --> 02:01:31,560
Speaker 2: I want a white I want a black dude that

2336
02:01:31,640 --> 02:01:33,840
Speaker 2: you got to have a fitted hat and this, that

2337
02:01:33,880 --> 02:01:36,040
Speaker 2: and the other way, that's a racial stereotype as well

2338
02:01:36,080 --> 02:01:39,880
Speaker 2: that you're harboring. You know, I have many other thoughts

2339
02:01:39,920 --> 02:01:42,120
Speaker 2: that can easily keep this going. I greatly appreciate the

2340
02:01:42,160 --> 02:01:43,560
Speaker 2: work that you too are putting in. Thank you for

2341
02:01:44,000 --> 02:01:46,720
Speaker 2: from a relatively new fan. Fun fact rumor has it

2342
02:01:46,760 --> 02:01:50,120
Speaker 2: that Miles Morales Okay, spider Man was inspired or and

2343
02:01:50,280 --> 02:01:54,240
Speaker 2: or based on Donald Glover. That is interesting. I know

2344
02:01:54,320 --> 02:01:56,360
Speaker 2: they were they thought he would play that part in

2345
02:01:56,400 --> 02:01:58,640
Speaker 2: the movie, and there was a campaign for that, and

2346
02:01:58,680 --> 02:02:01,920
Speaker 2: that actually was I think that really was the start

2347
02:02:01,960 --> 02:02:04,640
Speaker 2: of Marble really realizing they needed a diverse fire of shit.

2348
02:02:04,760 --> 02:02:09,000
Speaker 2: Up Amani said, See, it's stuff like this that kills

2349
02:02:09,000 --> 02:02:12,080
Speaker 2: all my desire to be black. Y'all make using proper English.

2350
02:02:12,200 --> 02:02:15,800
Speaker 2: Now this I quit call me agent. Not that's the

2351
02:02:15,840 --> 02:02:17,720
Speaker 2: one of the tweets I got nah, But for real,

2352
02:02:17,800 --> 02:02:20,080
Speaker 2: love both of y'all, it's so appro appropriate to have

2353
02:02:20,200 --> 02:02:23,080
Speaker 2: this episode with all the strangers being serious in your mentions,

2354
02:02:23,360 --> 02:02:25,400
Speaker 2: freaking out in a cloud of ash. But your pod

2355
02:02:25,440 --> 02:02:29,000
Speaker 2: family knows how to make you love being black. It's

2356
02:02:29,080 --> 02:02:31,640
Speaker 2: just dope to have this space where there's always going

2357
02:02:31,720 --> 02:02:33,760
Speaker 2: to be, where that's always going to be the finish

2358
02:02:33,840 --> 02:02:36,640
Speaker 2: out to the blackout, to this day next week. But Karen,

2359
02:02:37,360 --> 02:02:40,120
Speaker 2: you're you better shape up making fun of John Legends hair.

2360
02:02:46,920 --> 02:02:49,560
Speaker 2: You better shape up making fun of John Legends hair.

2361
02:02:52,120 --> 02:02:54,400
Speaker 2: You said, that's just out of line. You need to

2362
02:02:54,400 --> 02:02:57,879
Speaker 2: cut it, for sure, son of a bitch of mine.

2363
02:02:58,440 --> 02:03:01,080
Speaker 2: You had me going there. I was like, he's not

2364
02:03:01,160 --> 02:03:06,320
Speaker 2: gonna be a problem today. Of course, little poopy, even

2365
02:03:06,320 --> 02:03:08,000
Speaker 2: he says, little poop, he needs to sit his little

2366
02:03:08,040 --> 02:03:10,720
Speaker 2: ass down. That being said, he's still a better rapper

2367
02:03:10,720 --> 02:03:14,840
Speaker 2: than bow Wow. Ever was out and the poll was

2368
02:03:15,240 --> 02:03:18,360
Speaker 2: not allowing people behind on child support to renew that

2369
02:03:18,480 --> 02:03:22,160
Speaker 2: car registration. Bad idea or a good idea? Eighty seven

2370
02:03:22,280 --> 02:03:25,800
Speaker 2: cent said bad idea, thirteen cent said good idea, Monie

2371
02:03:25,800 --> 02:03:28,800
Speaker 2: said ce Rod. For the good all your fans in Texas,

2372
02:03:29,440 --> 02:03:31,480
Speaker 2: for the good of all your fans in Texas, you

2373
02:03:31,520 --> 02:03:33,600
Speaker 2: need to put them into the child's port, onto the

2374
02:03:33,640 --> 02:03:36,200
Speaker 2: child's report form for two hundred dollars. They could keep

2375
02:03:36,240 --> 02:03:38,600
Speaker 2: their car and not take care of their kids. Hey, listen,

2376
02:03:39,760 --> 02:03:42,760
Speaker 2: that is for premium people only. Okay, these regular folks

2377
02:03:42,760 --> 02:03:46,680
Speaker 2: don't even get that joke. She got going to balls

2378
02:03:46,680 --> 02:03:49,720
Speaker 2: deep archives get that one. So we like to call

2379
02:03:49,760 --> 02:03:54,000
Speaker 2: a deep cut in the podcasting industry. M's a call

2380
02:03:54,120 --> 02:03:59,560
Speaker 2: back and some premium shit. Damn. And the last episode

2381
02:03:59,680 --> 02:04:02,400
Speaker 2: was time Flies or jess She got attacked by flies

2382
02:04:02,440 --> 02:04:05,080
Speaker 2: in the middle of the show. Yes she did, uh,

2383
02:04:05,200 --> 02:04:07,839
Speaker 2: prop Cory says, Okay, now I listened to this episode

2384
02:04:07,840 --> 02:04:10,960
Speaker 2: that felt Jessic's horror. Y'all are wrong for this photo

2385
02:04:11,120 --> 02:04:13,080
Speaker 2: yuck because it was a picture of a bunch of flies.

2386
02:04:14,400 --> 02:04:16,520
Speaker 2: I mean what else could we have called it? Guys, Okay,

2387
02:04:16,560 --> 02:04:19,240
Speaker 2: it's like the flies were guesting on the show. It's

2388
02:04:19,280 --> 02:04:21,680
Speaker 2: not like we tried to make it happen. And some

2389
02:04:21,720 --> 02:04:23,880
Speaker 2: people was mad at her, and I was like, nigga,

2390
02:04:24,000 --> 02:04:26,160
Speaker 2: if a bunch of flies came in here during the podcast,

2391
02:04:26,400 --> 02:04:29,080
Speaker 2: y'all wouldn't get a show. I don't know what to

2392
02:04:29,080 --> 02:04:30,600
Speaker 2: tell y'all, but I'm not about to be in the

2393
02:04:30,680 --> 02:04:34,160
Speaker 2: exorsus too, like I'll be moving around this motherfucker time.

2394
02:04:36,320 --> 02:04:38,880
Speaker 2: Mark G says, man, I can't stand white dudes thinking

2395
02:04:38,880 --> 02:04:41,000
Speaker 2: that movies at video games. You only catered it in

2396
02:04:41,200 --> 02:04:44,280
Speaker 2: Leslie Leslie Jones. It's catching it from these trolls double

2397
02:04:44,320 --> 02:04:46,640
Speaker 2: time for being a woman and for being black. You

2398
02:04:46,680 --> 02:04:49,120
Speaker 2: only need to visit Reddit and four Chance aka to

2399
02:04:49,200 --> 02:04:51,640
Speaker 2: Underbelly of the Internet to see the things they say

2400
02:04:51,680 --> 02:04:54,480
Speaker 2: about women. The sad thing is when they threaten women,

2401
02:04:54,560 --> 02:04:57,080
Speaker 2: a lot of them have the tech know how to

2402
02:04:57,120 --> 02:04:59,960
Speaker 2: make people's lives hell. This is an extension the game again,

2403
02:05:00,120 --> 02:05:03,160
Speaker 2: punishing women and others for having the audacity to certa

2404
02:05:03,200 --> 02:05:05,880
Speaker 2: themselves and spaces monopolized by white by the white, by

2405
02:05:05,920 --> 02:05:09,560
Speaker 2: white man. It's bullshit. I hear you Marchie, and the

2406
02:05:09,640 --> 02:05:12,920
Speaker 2: poll was, do you think the old man downstairs died?

2407
02:05:13,960 --> 02:05:21,520
Speaker 2: And the one that caused the boy? Let us know, Karen,

2408
02:05:21,520 --> 02:05:23,440
Speaker 2: what'd you come down on that? Do you think he died?

2409
02:05:23,720 --> 02:05:28,880
Speaker 2: Of course, Karen thinks he's dead. Well, eighty eighty two

2410
02:05:28,920 --> 02:05:32,640
Speaker 2: point three five percent of y'all think he's dead. Seventeen

2411
02:05:33,160 --> 02:05:35,520
Speaker 2: percent of y'all basically about eighteen percent of y'all think

2412
02:05:35,560 --> 02:05:41,880
Speaker 2: he is alive. All right. We had no no poll,

2413
02:05:42,080 --> 02:05:45,520
Speaker 2: of course, I mean no phone calls, but we did

2414
02:05:45,560 --> 02:05:52,360
Speaker 2: have some emails. Girl, Patricia Rising, that's the title girl,

2415
02:05:52,560 --> 02:05:59,120
Speaker 2: Three dots, three piers, then points Karen, Karen, Karen, Yes,

2416
02:05:59,720 --> 02:06:04,360
Speaker 2: your Josy feeding the Nanny remix gave me everlasting life,

2417
02:06:04,440 --> 02:06:07,040
Speaker 2: laughing my butt off. Y'all keep doing what y'all do.

2418
02:06:07,160 --> 02:06:10,760
Speaker 2: Love from Chounston, South Carolina. Hey, sweet well, love back

2419
02:06:10,760 --> 02:06:16,520
Speaker 2: to you, Patricia, Thank you. Jared's writes saying white or

2420
02:06:16,600 --> 02:06:20,240
Speaker 2: flight Niehowe pronounced how I already knew how to pronounce white.

2421
02:06:20,320 --> 02:06:22,720
Speaker 3: I want you know what?

2422
02:06:23,080 --> 02:06:23,400
Speaker 2: You know what?

2423
02:06:23,520 --> 02:06:24,880
Speaker 3: No, I don't know how to pronounce.

2424
02:06:24,600 --> 02:06:28,080
Speaker 2: It, you know what? Valid? Because I'll be fucking foe up,

2425
02:06:28,640 --> 02:06:31,040
Speaker 2: so you don't know. I could Yeah, that's a good point.

2426
02:06:31,280 --> 02:06:35,200
Speaker 2: I'm not even it's not even offensive. Niehowe pronounced meehow

2427
02:06:35,880 --> 02:06:39,040
Speaker 2: Rod and Karen y'ard's checking in from Beijing again the

2428
02:06:39,080 --> 02:06:45,560
Speaker 2: Homer Ray Lewis's haircut. Oh you mean you mean China.

2429
02:06:45,640 --> 02:06:50,440
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I'm so sorry. That's not the same, confusing, confusing.

2430
02:06:51,320 --> 02:06:53,320
Speaker 2: I had to write in since I couldn't stay up

2431
02:06:53,360 --> 02:06:55,680
Speaker 2: for the full time to tune in live to episode

2432
02:06:55,680 --> 02:06:58,480
Speaker 2: twelve sixty seven vand Fucking Tasting. Drew and Leslie are

2433
02:06:58,560 --> 02:07:01,480
Speaker 2: hilarious together and Drew's we're wearing the flip flops that

2434
02:07:01,640 --> 02:07:03,480
Speaker 2: reminded me of whenever I hung out with my white

2435
02:07:03,480 --> 02:07:06,720
Speaker 2: friends in high school. Whenever we'd hang out outside of school,

2436
02:07:06,960 --> 02:07:10,680
Speaker 2: they'd always they always wore sandals. We go to play

2437
02:07:10,720 --> 02:07:14,160
Speaker 2: pickup ball and they be hooping in sandals. White folks crazy.

2438
02:07:14,320 --> 02:07:17,480
Speaker 2: Shout out to Leslie for seeing my white or flight

2439
02:07:17,600 --> 02:07:20,160
Speaker 2: joke in the chat room. I was proud of that one.

2440
02:07:20,240 --> 02:07:23,839
Speaker 2: I'll keep it short. Thanks both of you, Hey, thanks

2441
02:07:24,160 --> 02:07:26,919
Speaker 2: to both of you and all y'all guests for continuing

2442
02:07:26,920 --> 02:07:29,040
Speaker 2: to bring us or the five podcast. Crack y'all are

2443
02:07:29,080 --> 02:07:31,480
Speaker 2: my lifeline of black life in America. I love y'all,

2444
02:07:31,640 --> 02:07:35,720
Speaker 2: thank you, and keep them podcasts coming. Blessing Jared's ps.

2445
02:07:36,080 --> 02:07:39,000
Speaker 2: Y'all should look into allowing we chat or all pay

2446
02:07:39,040 --> 02:07:41,200
Speaker 2: payments on your site use a PayPal over here in

2447
02:07:41,240 --> 02:07:44,280
Speaker 2: China is a bit difficult. Ah, we might look in.

2448
02:07:45,000 --> 02:07:46,640
Speaker 2: I see what I can do. I don't know. It's

2449
02:07:46,640 --> 02:07:50,240
Speaker 2: been so difficult. Saying PayPal is just the easiest. Everybody

2450
02:07:50,240 --> 02:07:53,680
Speaker 2: else be like, let me see your niece's credit report.

2451
02:07:53,680 --> 02:07:56,040
Speaker 2: I'm like niggas. This is a lot of questions.

2452
02:07:58,160 --> 02:08:01,520
Speaker 3: Inferator. Do you own a I'm trying to make us

2453
02:08:01,520 --> 02:08:02,800
Speaker 3: both money. What's happening here?

2454
02:08:03,520 --> 02:08:03,960
Speaker 2: Mm hmm?

2455
02:08:04,000 --> 02:08:05,880
Speaker 3: A lot of phone lines up asking.

2456
02:08:06,200 --> 02:08:09,320
Speaker 2: Uh sure, seven O four five five seven zero one

2457
02:08:09,320 --> 02:08:13,160
Speaker 2: eight six is the phone line number? Seven O four

2458
02:08:13,280 --> 02:08:16,160
Speaker 2: five five seven zero one eight six. If you want

2459
02:08:16,160 --> 02:08:19,200
Speaker 2: to call in, I'll put it in the chat for you.

2460
02:08:21,960 --> 02:08:27,400
Speaker 2: Uh well, I said, zero one eight six. All right, cool?

2461
02:08:27,440 --> 02:08:31,840
Speaker 2: All right, back to these emails advertising money making. Oh wait,

2462
02:08:32,400 --> 02:08:35,480
Speaker 2: this is an old one. What was a How did

2463
02:08:35,480 --> 02:08:40,600
Speaker 2: I even get to that section? Podcasting email for feedback show? Okay,

2464
02:08:40,640 --> 02:08:43,960
Speaker 2: email for the feedback show. This from the Shondah soon

2465
02:08:44,000 --> 02:08:47,760
Speaker 2: to be doctor, well doctor now shiit Hi, guys, long time,

2466
02:08:47,800 --> 02:08:50,560
Speaker 2: no right to I know that made no sense. Sorry.

2467
02:08:50,760 --> 02:08:52,640
Speaker 2: I was so glad to meet you at Awesome Con.

2468
02:08:52,680 --> 02:08:55,720
Speaker 2: Thanks for the chat, Hudson discussion. You guys are just

2469
02:08:55,840 --> 02:08:58,800
Speaker 2: as great as I knew you would be. Same to you,

2470
02:08:59,440 --> 02:09:02,360
Speaker 2: Rod Deal, little brother. Thank you. I rejoined Twitter back

2471
02:09:02,400 --> 02:09:05,520
Speaker 2: in May. Thank you Apple for accessibility options and your

2472
02:09:05,520 --> 02:09:08,080
Speaker 2: tweet straight black men really all the white people of

2473
02:09:08,160 --> 02:09:12,760
Speaker 2: black people gave me a whole list of folks to block. Yeah,

2474
02:09:13,000 --> 02:09:14,760
Speaker 2: that was also sad to see a lot a lot

2475
02:09:14,760 --> 02:09:17,280
Speaker 2: of people was like, uh, some of the people responding

2476
02:09:17,320 --> 02:09:19,440
Speaker 2: to this all people I thought was cool, but.

2477
02:09:19,920 --> 02:09:22,640
Speaker 1: A black block block block, block, block block, I don't

2478
02:09:22,680 --> 02:09:23,560
Speaker 1: got time for hotel.

2479
02:09:23,840 --> 02:09:26,320
Speaker 2: You became verified and even more came your way, and

2480
02:09:26,400 --> 02:09:29,240
Speaker 2: you handled it. You handled it the way the two

2481
02:09:29,280 --> 02:09:31,320
Speaker 2: of you always handle it. I'm a lurker and on

2482
02:09:31,360 --> 02:09:34,360
Speaker 2: Twitter and normally normally so I just watch and see.

2483
02:09:34,560 --> 02:09:37,839
Speaker 2: Honestly believe I have black more people than I followed Listen.

2484
02:09:38,400 --> 02:09:40,840
Speaker 2: I was on. It was on point and relevant given

2485
02:09:40,880 --> 02:09:43,480
Speaker 2: how much energy folks are putting into defending Nate Parkers

2486
02:09:43,520 --> 02:09:46,360
Speaker 2: ain't shit ass while dismissing the very real attack on

2487
02:09:46,440 --> 02:09:49,160
Speaker 2: Leslie Jones. Yeah, that was another one that made people

2488
02:09:49,200 --> 02:09:51,920
Speaker 2: get mad. I was like, what a hotel conspiracy theories

2489
02:09:52,480 --> 02:09:53,960
Speaker 2: out here? Defending Leslie Jones.

2490
02:09:54,640 --> 02:09:57,240
Speaker 1: That got hacked and his dick Prince was at where

2491
02:09:56,720 --> 02:09:57,640
Speaker 1: you'll be.

2492
02:09:58,880 --> 02:10:00,640
Speaker 2: I just know, I just know when it came to

2493
02:10:00,680 --> 02:10:03,440
Speaker 2: her with no conspiracy, well but it was a conspiracy

2494
02:10:03,440 --> 02:10:05,440
Speaker 2: for mano. Yeah, why they need to take her down?

2495
02:10:05,600 --> 02:10:08,320
Speaker 2: Oh y'all y'all hate black women too, So y'all didn't

2496
02:10:08,360 --> 02:10:11,360
Speaker 2: say shit. Okay, keep doing what you do. But I

2497
02:10:11,400 --> 02:10:13,440
Speaker 2: always remember to take care of you and Karen first.

2498
02:10:13,520 --> 02:10:15,520
Speaker 2: Keep up the great work, guys, and good luck with

2499
02:10:15,560 --> 02:10:18,879
Speaker 2: the event in Florida. Beware the gators man. Hopefully Miami

2500
02:10:19,040 --> 02:10:20,560
Speaker 2: we won't be close to gators.

2501
02:10:20,560 --> 02:10:21,360
Speaker 5: I hope, I.

2502
02:10:21,320 --> 02:10:21,880
Speaker 3: Hope not to.

2503
02:10:22,120 --> 02:10:24,240
Speaker 1: In fact, you said that you may be thinking about it.

2504
02:10:24,280 --> 02:10:25,520
Speaker 1: I got to talk to Chill today, y'all.

2505
02:10:25,560 --> 02:10:26,280
Speaker 3: She's doing good.

2506
02:10:26,640 --> 02:10:30,280
Speaker 1: She told me to tell everybody that she's still around

2507
02:10:30,280 --> 02:10:31,240
Speaker 1: and she's doing good.

2508
02:10:31,440 --> 02:10:33,640
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she left me a message. I woke up

2509
02:10:33,640 --> 02:10:36,560
Speaker 2: and heard it this morning, so yeah, she was she's

2510
02:10:36,600 --> 02:10:40,360
Speaker 2: still She's still around, y'all, and hopefully when we go

2511
02:10:40,400 --> 02:10:42,080
Speaker 2: to Miami, hopeful we get a chance to see her.

2512
02:10:42,240 --> 02:10:44,200
Speaker 3: Right, that's what she was like, y'all niggas coming to

2513
02:10:44,320 --> 02:10:48,600
Speaker 3: Miami and yeah, and hopefully that'll get to see her.

2514
02:10:49,160 --> 02:10:54,760
Speaker 2: Mm hmm, all right, let's see. And lastly, Monica says

2515
02:10:55,560 --> 02:10:58,920
Speaker 2: White People News never fails. High Riding, Karen, I had

2516
02:10:58,960 --> 02:11:01,280
Speaker 2: to write into your show to say how much I

2517
02:11:01,320 --> 02:11:03,760
Speaker 2: love the newer segment White People News. It's such a

2518
02:11:03,760 --> 02:11:06,320
Speaker 2: funny contrast to the rest of the show. It actually

2519
02:11:06,480 --> 02:11:09,320
Speaker 2: is a palate cleanser, like you say. But the real

2520
02:11:09,360 --> 02:11:15,000
Speaker 2: reason I love it is the music. That's right. I'm

2521
02:11:15,000 --> 02:11:15,480
Speaker 2: the white.

2522
02:11:15,320 --> 02:11:18,680
Speaker 1: Person whispering because people would be trying to be like,

2523
02:11:18,760 --> 02:11:20,200
Speaker 1: I don't know that they like shit.

2524
02:11:20,280 --> 02:11:21,680
Speaker 3: I love everything he plays.

2525
02:11:22,160 --> 02:11:24,480
Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Yeah, they be trying to get down and

2526
02:11:24,520 --> 02:11:26,720
Speaker 2: be like, nah, I don't really mess with this, but no,

2527
02:11:26,800 --> 02:11:27,640
Speaker 2: you mess with it.

2528
02:11:27,800 --> 02:11:29,960
Speaker 3: Oh, these songs go hard because it's dope.

2529
02:11:30,240 --> 02:11:32,680
Speaker 2: It is m I know which white I know what

2530
02:11:32,760 --> 02:11:41,240
Speaker 2: gets the y'all souls every time, every time you transition

2531
02:11:41,360 --> 02:11:43,840
Speaker 2: to it, I let out of pat Nick caring yes,

2532
02:11:44,280 --> 02:11:48,040
Speaker 2: because every song pick is a gem, such perfect white music.

2533
02:11:48,320 --> 02:11:51,080
Speaker 2: I usually crack up and rock out simultaneously. It's so

2534
02:11:51,160 --> 02:11:54,120
Speaker 2: much fun to go from ug white people to yay

2535
02:11:54,120 --> 02:11:56,840
Speaker 2: hey white people, which is basically to become my life

2536
02:11:56,840 --> 02:12:00,640
Speaker 2: consuming pop coach as a minority in NYC. Thank you

2537
02:12:00,880 --> 02:12:03,160
Speaker 2: for another great week of shows. I really enjoyed out

2538
02:12:03,160 --> 02:12:05,800
Speaker 2: of guests, but I super duper loved Drew and Leslie

2539
02:12:06,080 --> 02:12:10,040
Speaker 2: as I do whenever that later guys Monica in a

2540
02:12:10,160 --> 02:12:14,480
Speaker 2: less hellishly hot manhatt, Hey, thank you for listening.

2541
02:12:14,520 --> 02:12:14,760
Speaker 5: Man.

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02:12:16,400 --> 02:12:20,720
Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh, and final notes, Okay, if you don't like

2543
02:12:21,120 --> 02:12:25,480
Speaker 2: somebody on the show, don't tell me. I don't need

2544
02:12:25,520 --> 02:12:30,520
Speaker 2: to know, like you know, we don't care.

2545
02:12:30,720 --> 02:12:33,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, guess what, we invited them on our show, you

2546
02:12:33,520 --> 02:12:34,200
Speaker 1: them on yours.

2547
02:12:34,440 --> 02:12:37,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, somebody hit me up and was just like being negative.

2548
02:12:37,800 --> 02:12:40,520
Speaker 2: Let me listen. If the first especially if the first

2549
02:12:40,520 --> 02:12:43,680
Speaker 2: interaction we have with each other is something negative, it's

2550
02:12:43,800 --> 02:12:45,760
Speaker 2: I don't know how to tell y'all, but it's bad.

2551
02:12:46,040 --> 02:12:50,080
Speaker 2: Like nobody want to be remembered for that, like, you know,

2552
02:12:50,160 --> 02:12:52,440
Speaker 2: and especially if you're gonna craft it in a non

2553
02:12:52,480 --> 02:12:55,440
Speaker 2: constructive way where it's mean and it's rude and shit,

2554
02:12:56,320 --> 02:12:58,960
Speaker 2: you can't get mad at me for being like, yeah,

2555
02:12:59,000 --> 02:13:02,280
Speaker 2: well that's kind of rude, and you know, just skip

2556
02:13:02,360 --> 02:13:05,320
Speaker 2: the episode or something if it's so fucking bad. But

2557
02:13:05,920 --> 02:13:08,360
Speaker 2: you know, this is not a joint venture. Y'all, you

2558
02:13:08,520 --> 02:13:11,919
Speaker 2: have no creative control over this. We do what we decide.

2559
02:13:11,960 --> 02:13:14,720
Speaker 2: If you dig it cool, if you don't cool. But

2560
02:13:15,280 --> 02:13:17,400
Speaker 2: the same way I feel about five star reviews is

2561
02:13:17,400 --> 02:13:18,760
Speaker 2: how I feel about that kind of shit.

2562
02:13:18,840 --> 02:13:18,960
Speaker 1: Man.

2563
02:13:18,960 --> 02:13:24,520
Speaker 2: It's passive aggressive, it's extremely mean, and it's the episode

2564
02:13:24,560 --> 02:13:27,600
Speaker 2: has been recorded, it's out. You didn't say you had

2565
02:13:27,600 --> 02:13:29,440
Speaker 2: a problem with their views or something they said on

2566
02:13:29,480 --> 02:13:29,880
Speaker 2: the show.

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02:13:29,920 --> 02:13:33,000
Speaker 3: That's completely like like that. It's completely different because you

2568
02:13:33,000 --> 02:13:35,200
Speaker 3: can disagree with people and things like that. That's like,

2569
02:13:35,240 --> 02:13:37,520
Speaker 3: we don't mind that. But just to come up, I

2570
02:13:37,560 --> 02:13:39,200
Speaker 3: don't like them, that's the problem.

2571
02:13:39,680 --> 02:13:45,040
Speaker 2: And I will continue to say this ship only happens

2572
02:13:45,040 --> 02:13:45,800
Speaker 2: with women guests.

2573
02:13:46,160 --> 02:13:47,040
Speaker 3: Come on out.

2574
02:13:48,040 --> 02:13:51,680
Speaker 2: You as an individual probably don't witness the pattern, and

2575
02:13:51,840 --> 02:13:54,480
Speaker 2: I don't because you wouldn't even think that, But as

2576
02:13:54,480 --> 02:13:57,800
Speaker 2: a as a creator, I do. Hold on. We got

2577
02:13:57,840 --> 02:14:00,640
Speaker 2: a call, Hey, you're on with the black Out? What's

2578
02:14:00,680 --> 02:14:01,080
Speaker 2: going on?

2579
02:14:02,640 --> 02:14:05,120
Speaker 6: Where's going on you guys with super Boy Double Ray

2580
02:14:05,200 --> 02:14:06,480
Speaker 6: coming off by from the tail?

2581
02:14:07,120 --> 02:14:07,520
Speaker 2: What's up?

2582
02:14:07,560 --> 02:14:09,720
Speaker 1: Man? Uh?

2583
02:14:09,960 --> 02:14:12,400
Speaker 6: You know another been in the life. I was just

2584
02:14:12,440 --> 02:14:15,160
Speaker 6: looking at the time finishing out the episode. It was like,

2585
02:14:16,320 --> 02:14:19,360
Speaker 6: all this talk about my platform life in which I

2586
02:14:19,440 --> 02:14:22,920
Speaker 6: see we all hate, you know, working on the tips

2587
02:14:23,000 --> 02:14:26,240
Speaker 6: or whatever. You know, put that a little lovely in

2588
02:14:26,280 --> 02:14:29,720
Speaker 6: my tumble or whatever. Is a lot of other ones

2589
02:14:29,760 --> 02:14:32,800
Speaker 6: around the house like a fool, So I was thinking

2590
02:14:32,840 --> 02:14:36,680
Speaker 6: that maybe uh we should put up.

2591
02:14:37,040 --> 02:14:42,240
Speaker 4: I don't go outside, so so so so so random

2592
02:14:42,320 --> 02:14:47,680
Speaker 4: question to former employees, what's your favorite syrup?

2593
02:14:48,640 --> 02:14:49,480
Speaker 2: Syrup?

2594
02:14:49,960 --> 02:14:54,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, you know they got the regular, they got that strong, Nigga, it's.

2595
02:14:53,920 --> 02:14:57,120
Speaker 2: The regular, man, it's the maple syrup. Now what this

2596
02:14:57,160 --> 02:14:57,800
Speaker 2: pays me? Off?

2597
02:14:57,840 --> 02:14:57,920
Speaker 1: Man?

2598
02:14:57,960 --> 02:15:00,520
Speaker 2: Because I went into ie hop the other day and

2599
02:15:00,600 --> 02:15:03,920
Speaker 2: I ordered I felt like an old person. I ordered

2600
02:15:04,280 --> 02:15:07,840
Speaker 2: armlet a little some pancakes and I was like, so,

2601
02:15:07,920 --> 02:15:09,720
Speaker 2: we're my syrup, and it was like it's already on

2602
02:15:09,760 --> 02:15:12,600
Speaker 2: the table, and man, I was so mad.

2603
02:15:12,680 --> 02:15:12,840
Speaker 1: Man.

2604
02:15:12,880 --> 02:15:15,000
Speaker 2: I was looking at that dude like, Nigga, this ain't warm.

2605
02:15:15,400 --> 02:15:17,520
Speaker 2: We used to have to warm that one up. It's

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02:15:17,520 --> 02:15:19,520
Speaker 2: the only reason it's the best is because the other

2607
02:15:19,560 --> 02:15:22,000
Speaker 2: ones be cold as fuck. So you get the hot

2608
02:15:22,040 --> 02:15:24,240
Speaker 2: syrupd from the kitchen and you know what I'm saying,

2609
02:15:24,280 --> 02:15:26,760
Speaker 2: like it melts the butter. It makes the whole thing better.

2610
02:15:27,240 --> 02:15:29,360
Speaker 2: I was so disappointed that I hop y'all have gotten

2611
02:15:29,440 --> 02:15:32,560
Speaker 2: lazy over there is terrible.

2612
02:15:32,600 --> 02:15:32,800
Speaker 3: Man.

2613
02:15:32,800 --> 02:15:34,640
Speaker 2: I didn't you know, I ain't say nothing to him

2614
02:15:34,640 --> 02:15:38,120
Speaker 2: about it, but that is whoever made that decision. It's

2615
02:15:38,120 --> 02:15:39,720
Speaker 2: like get rid of a woman. We tied of fixing

2616
02:15:39,720 --> 02:15:42,400
Speaker 2: the machines, right, they probably saved so much money, But

2617
02:15:42,480 --> 02:15:45,560
Speaker 2: that's some bullshit. Man, I pay put an extra quarter

2618
02:15:45,640 --> 02:15:49,160
Speaker 2: on my Omelet's like has some warm syrup. Damn. So

2619
02:15:49,200 --> 02:15:52,480
Speaker 2: that's that's mine. What about you care? Okay, there you

2620
02:15:52,480 --> 02:15:53,560
Speaker 2: got man.

2621
02:15:53,920 --> 02:16:00,840
Speaker 6: Ah, Well that's what it is, just giving that old

2622
02:16:00,880 --> 02:16:02,920
Speaker 6: fashioned to let you know that I'm old. I got

2623
02:16:02,920 --> 02:16:03,600
Speaker 6: grandma fear.

2624
02:16:05,520 --> 02:16:07,960
Speaker 2: What you didn't say what your favorite was? What's your favorite?

2625
02:16:09,040 --> 02:16:09,800
Speaker 1: Uh?

2626
02:16:10,240 --> 02:16:12,440
Speaker 6: It depends on what I'm actually eating now. See, I

2627
02:16:12,480 --> 02:16:14,840
Speaker 6: was gonna say today, I'm gonna go get that uh

2628
02:16:14,960 --> 02:16:17,480
Speaker 6: that stuff, that stuff front to joy. I was thinking

2629
02:16:17,520 --> 02:16:20,800
Speaker 6: about the strawberry, right, Okay, what you said just clashes

2630
02:16:20,880 --> 02:16:21,640
Speaker 6: all against that.

2631
02:16:21,920 --> 02:16:25,040
Speaker 2: So yeah, well you know, I mean listen, as long

2632
02:16:25,080 --> 02:16:27,080
Speaker 2: as you're not going with Boys and Berry, we can

2633
02:16:27,200 --> 02:16:30,280
Speaker 2: kick it. Everybody know, Boys and Berry is the worst.

2634
02:16:30,280 --> 02:16:32,680
Speaker 2: And somebody gonna write in this week and be like, no,

2635
02:16:32,720 --> 02:16:35,520
Speaker 2: it's the best. Man, I'll make it the pole.

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02:16:35,600 --> 02:16:35,920
Speaker 5: Guys.

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02:16:36,200 --> 02:16:39,120
Speaker 2: Uh, don't think it's strawberry, blueberry, maple and boys and

2638
02:16:39,160 --> 02:16:43,080
Speaker 2: Berry your choice. Yeah, that'll be the pole for the day.

2639
02:16:43,160 --> 02:16:43,400
Speaker 7: Man.

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02:16:43,840 --> 02:16:46,480
Speaker 2: Aaron, you you basically decided to pole man, so we

2641
02:16:46,480 --> 02:16:47,400
Speaker 2: we thank you.

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02:16:48,280 --> 02:16:50,480
Speaker 6: Oh okay, so in that case, you'll never writes into

2643
02:16:50,560 --> 02:16:54,240
Speaker 6: Boys and Berry. We're just chasing ips and automatically block them. Yeah,

2644
02:16:55,440 --> 02:16:56,840
Speaker 6: we do that ahead of time.

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02:16:56,959 --> 02:17:01,080
Speaker 8: You don't need them. We don't need that. Appreciate what

2646
02:17:01,120 --> 02:17:03,560
Speaker 8: y'all do. Y'all always put out that love. We always

2647
02:17:03,600 --> 02:17:08,160
Speaker 8: appreciate it, Yes, sir, specifically because you know, anytime you

2648
02:17:08,160 --> 02:17:10,840
Speaker 8: give us any more damns the next one, we were

2649
02:17:10,920 --> 02:17:13,880
Speaker 8: crusting the reason. So come up with some reasons for

2650
02:17:13,959 --> 02:17:16,560
Speaker 8: why we could have the region, and we will definitely

2651
02:17:16,640 --> 02:17:17,439
Speaker 8: be waiting.

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02:17:17,160 --> 02:17:20,800
Speaker 2: For that one, no doubt. Thank you man. All right now,

2653
02:17:21,280 --> 02:17:24,959
Speaker 2: all right, peace, all right man, we'll be back tomorrow.

2654
02:17:25,120 --> 02:17:27,560
Speaker 2: Our guess should be the crew from to Say Something

2655
02:17:27,680 --> 02:17:30,959
Speaker 2: Nice podcast. I don't know how we're gonna do the

2656
02:17:31,000 --> 02:17:32,880
Speaker 2: audio for that. I'm still working that out. How people

2657
02:17:32,879 --> 02:17:35,240
Speaker 2: could be on camera and stuff, because I know the

2658
02:17:35,280 --> 02:17:37,680
Speaker 2: audio said is gonna be crazy tomorrow. I think it's

2659
02:17:37,720 --> 02:17:41,440
Speaker 2: like four people, so we'll see.

2660
02:17:41,520 --> 02:17:42,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I be behind the scenes.

2661
02:17:42,800 --> 02:17:47,400
Speaker 2: It's not a problem even still though, because remember the

2662
02:17:47,520 --> 02:17:52,840
Speaker 2: audio from They can't turn off my audio in crowdcast,

2663
02:17:53,680 --> 02:17:56,080
Speaker 2: so it might be an echo. So we're gonna have

2664
02:17:56,120 --> 02:17:57,640
Speaker 2: a hell of a set up tomorrow, y'all.

2665
02:17:57,760 --> 02:17:59,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll figure that out hopefully behind this.

2666
02:18:00,440 --> 02:18:03,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, tomorrow ten A and we talked you out until then.

2667
02:18:03,080 --> 02:18:04,080
Speaker 2: I love you, I love you too.

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02:18:04,280 --> 02:18:04,520
Speaker 5: Why