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Speaker 2: say the same thing. Have you seen an achievement gossip?
Speaker 1: He says, She say, don't believe it all. I've been
Speaker 1: going through so much.
Speaker 2: But you know what, whenever I have the opportunity of
Speaker 2: connecting with you guys and just talking to you, inventing
Speaker 2: and you know, talking about my experiences or the things
Speaker 2: that are going on in the world, I feel so
Speaker 2: much better.
Speaker 1: And today we're talking about people that.
Speaker 2: Are getting caught on tape or behaving like an ass.
Speaker 1: And everybody's just applauding it like it's all good.
Speaker 2: Everyday racism and bullying can now be recorded and if
Speaker 2: you're acting out, you know, automatically, you go viral.
Speaker 1: The more you act like you have no set, the
Speaker 1: more popular you become. And not only because of you know,
Speaker 1: you may.
Speaker 2: Be doing tiktoks and while it out and doing dumb things.
Speaker 2: But then we had these videos of the Karen videos
Speaker 2: online as well. There's so many things going on right
Speaker 2: now in society and how social media is not making
Speaker 2: people famous or basically doing nothing of importance in life,
Speaker 2: nothing of value to society realistically, and we're just applauding it.
Speaker 2: That's why I wanted to bring my special guest, who
Speaker 2: I've grown to love him, because our energy is just matched.
Speaker 2: He understands me. We're in the same frequency. He's an
Speaker 2: amazing spirit. And I have today on the show Kelvin
Speaker 2: Davis memoricalsas how you been.
Speaker 3: I've been great? How have you been?
Speaker 2: So? If I've been like beyoncet to, let me tell
Speaker 2: you it is tough out here in these streets. I'm
Speaker 2: just gonna give a little quick something about what happened
Speaker 2: to me yesterday. I was on a private jet. I
Speaker 2: couldn't find a flight home. It was a whole bunch
Speaker 2: of you know, famous artists all together. It was a
Speaker 2: really small jet. There was really bad turbulence. The luggages
Speaker 2: moved from one side to the other street like in
Speaker 2: the movies. I hit myself in the head. It was crazy.
Speaker 2: I was praying to God just to make it home safe,
Speaker 2: because you never know what can happen. And we've seen
Speaker 2: so many terrible situations happen to not just artists, but
Speaker 2: just you know, to people. Overall, God has our back,
Speaker 2: but sometimes going on, he makes us, you know, he
Speaker 2: makes us go through little turbulence, and I felt it yesterday. Anyways,
Speaker 2: I see life with a different perspective today. It was
Speaker 2: a lot, but maybe you have a lighter story. How
Speaker 2: how have your days been?
Speaker 4: Both of my daughters in the school on Friday to
Speaker 4: go see The Little Mermaid.
Speaker 1: Yes, I've heard everybody talking about Little Mermaid? How was it?
Speaker 3: It was so good?
Speaker 4: It exceeded all my explain chasings. It was truly amazing.
Speaker 1: They meant to that, It meant to that.
Speaker 2: Well, I can't wait till my girls are old enough
Speaker 2: to see and understand, you know, a Little Mermaid. Right now,
Speaker 2: they're too little for that, so all they probably wan
Speaker 2: I'm getting it. Yeah, today we have a really good
Speaker 2: show because we're going to talk about something that's really
Speaker 2: happening in society right now, and it's just learning how
Speaker 2: to manage it and deal with it. And I'll say
Speaker 2: as far as everybody wanting to have a viral moment,
Speaker 2: having the validation of society of the people that are
Speaker 2: following you, or whatever the hell it may be, has
Speaker 2: made people go crazy. Has made people do these little
Speaker 2: TikTok dances, which is cool if you're on your phone
Speaker 2: dancing all day trying to get it together so someone
Speaker 2: can give you a like, I get it, or you're
Speaker 2: just doing it for fun, that's cool too. But we've
Speaker 2: gone from the dancing tiktoks to the TikTok challenges where
Speaker 2: you have to like choke yourself or drink bleach or
Speaker 2: you know, throw yourself off a bridge and look and
Speaker 2: see if you survive, and like all types of craziness. Right,
Speaker 2: we have so many things going on right now that
Speaker 2: I just thought it would be such an important moment
Speaker 2: to discuss this with you.
Speaker 3: What do you think for me, it's like you're chasing
Speaker 3: to go viral.
Speaker 4: At the same time, when you go viral, there's a
Speaker 4: hot chance that.
Speaker 3: That's the only thing that will happen.
Speaker 4: Because once someone goes viral on the internet, unless it's
Speaker 4: something that goes along with their content that they do
Speaker 4: all at the time like that one viral video does
Speaker 4: not make them a content creator creator, right right, They're
Speaker 4: still just like the average person with one viral video.
Speaker 4: That's crazy.
Speaker 2: No, you know what's crazy is that we make them
Speaker 2: go viral because if they don't have our support, they
Speaker 2: don't go anywhere. So if that also puts in context
Speaker 2: the fact that there's people out here who bother to
Speaker 2: go to college study, you know, they bust their ass,
Speaker 2: they do all these things and don't even get one
Speaker 2: third of the money that these influencers are. These people
Speaker 2: that go viral, make and create, So that makes it
Speaker 2: really hard on society overall, and it makes people think
Speaker 2: that going viral is the way to go. If I
Speaker 2: go viral, I can become famous. If I become famous,
Speaker 2: I can make money. If I make money, I never
Speaker 2: have to work. And boom, I just in my life
Speaker 2: off some stupidity and some of these viral moments can
Speaker 2: also lead to your death. Limited there's so many layers
Speaker 2: into this. Honestly, Kevin tell me this. People have always
Speaker 2: behaved badly, but now we have the power to record
Speaker 2: them on our phones. Do you think that it scares
Speaker 2: people from doing it or saying racist things, or it
Speaker 2: just makes him feel like I just don't care and
Speaker 2: I'm going to say what it want and maybe this
Speaker 2: will be made viral.
Speaker 3: Moment depending on what state and city you're in.
Speaker 4: I feel like, if you're in Alabama and there's like
Speaker 4: a racist moment and it goes viral, I feel like
Speaker 4: people are like, well, you know, that's Alabama. But I
Speaker 4: feel like it depends on where you are. Like, there
Speaker 4: was a situation that happened in New York recently where
Speaker 4: there was like a group of black kids trying to
Speaker 4: get like a bike, and this white woman was trying
Speaker 4: to steal the bike await, even though he y for it,
Speaker 4: and she started crying and doing all this stuff. So
Speaker 4: to me, I was like, watching the video, I'm like, bro,
Speaker 4: this woman is literally turning on the white privilege tears,
Speaker 4: acting like this man is like trying to harm her
Speaker 4: and she and he purchased the bike, and then you
Speaker 4: have these people that come from the outside to her
Speaker 4: aid because she's crying. So I'm glad that got on
Speaker 4: video because for me, it's like she didn't have to
Speaker 4: say anything to be racist. Her actions showed that she
Speaker 4: was racist because she was just trying to be trying
Speaker 4: to make this situation seem as though it was these
Speaker 4: four or five black boys that were harming her by
Speaker 4: screaming and crying all these things that all these white
Speaker 4: men come.
Speaker 3: To her aid.
Speaker 4: So for me, it's like, sometimes it could work, and sometimes,
Speaker 4: you know, it doesn't really help, Like people are going
Speaker 4: to act a fucking fool anyway.
Speaker 1: But does it?
Speaker 2: Does it really matter to be able to get it
Speaker 2: in recording when someone is being racist, Like, I'm glad
Speaker 2: they were able to record it, and I'm glad they
Speaker 2: were able to have this on evidence.
Speaker 1: But even when you have situations like George.
Speaker 2: Floyd where we can all, oh, yeah, what the hell
Speaker 2: was going on? You know, we've seen so many cases
Speaker 2: where we have the video, we have the evidence from
Speaker 2: the beginning to the end, we have it on tape,
Speaker 2: we have it on your phone, we have it on cameras,
Speaker 2: we have whatever, and sometimes you can't even use it
Speaker 2: as evidence because they'll still say that's not true, that's
Speaker 2: not what happened, this is not it was. So to
Speaker 2: a certain extent, yes, it's good that we're able to
Speaker 2: record these situations, it just sucks and not in all
Speaker 2: occasions people actually validating care for what they see as
Speaker 2: the truth, you know, So that really sucks because and
Speaker 2: like I said, we saw the George Floyd situation.
Speaker 1: If it wasn't because of all the phones, nobody would
Speaker 1: have known.
Speaker 2: And just like him, there's so many black people, there's
Speaker 2: so many immigrants, there's so many people who have suffered
Speaker 2: injustice from police brutality, and at least, you know, being
Speaker 2: able to record it allows us to see what happened.
Speaker 2: Like I said, sometimes we don't get justice fum.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean sometimes we don't get justice.
Speaker 1: For it, yeah for sure.
Speaker 4: But I'm like white American, like the majority of society
Speaker 4: paces this image of well, you know, if you just
Speaker 4: would have did what the cops said, then that wouldn't
Speaker 4: have happened.
Speaker 3: But it's like that's not the way this.
Speaker 1: Writes, right exactly, Like.
Speaker 4: How many like how many white boys, how many white
Speaker 4: girls have like done the same thing and getting to
Speaker 4: go home at the end of the day, and even
Speaker 4: like the whole bad Batti thing, Like I have a
Speaker 4: hot take on that, because I have a hot take
Speaker 4: on all those like all those white girls that go
Speaker 4: viral for their bad behavior and all this the stuff,
Speaker 4: and I say it, and I'll say it until the
Speaker 4: day that I die. If Bad Battie was black, she
Speaker 4: would not be vial read, she would not be hanging
Speaker 4: out with celebrities.
Speaker 1: She would not be a.
Speaker 2: Moment because at the same time, okay, so wait, I
Speaker 2: don't think she would have made as much money then
Speaker 2: you happen.
Speaker 1: And I love her. I love her. She's you know,
Speaker 1: I don't. I can't say she's my friend friend, but
Speaker 1: I know her.
Speaker 2: We've spent time together, we've worked together, we're in the
Speaker 2: same show, in the same franchise. But we have a
Speaker 2: perfect example. We have, for example, Suki. You know Suki
Speaker 2: with the good Kuchi. I don't know if you know her. Yeah,
Speaker 2: she's also gone viral. I think she's an amazing talent.
Speaker 2: I wish that people got to know her and see
Speaker 2: her in real life away from the you know, persona
Speaker 2: that she shows to the world. But she's another one
Speaker 2: you know that's very similar to she She's an artist,
Speaker 2: she has only fans, she has a big personality. She
Speaker 2: is just herself, unapologeticy herself, and she also is very similar.
Speaker 2: So it's like the race thing does influence but not
Speaker 2: necessarily in all cases. I just think that people overall
Speaker 2: like certain behaviors, maybe not for themselves, but they enjoy
Speaker 2: watching other people at a certain type of way.
Speaker 1: Now I'll ask you this.
Speaker 2: Have you ever gone through a racist moment, a racist
Speaker 2: situation that you wish you could have had your phone to
Speaker 2: record it, or any type of moment you're like, damn,
Speaker 2: why didn't I have my phone here for this?
Speaker 4: Unfortunately I had an ex mother in law who was
Speaker 4: pretty racist, Like.
Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 4: So there were many moments where I wish I would
Speaker 4: have recorded certain things that she said and recorded certain
Speaker 4: things that she did, just so you know, I could
Speaker 4: play it back for just even so like like why
Speaker 4: would you say this? Like why would you do this?
Speaker 4: Even if like even if you don't you know like
Speaker 4: like me marry your daughter? Like why would you say
Speaker 4: this stuff about me being black?
Speaker 2: And then break it down? Break it down stuff about
Speaker 2: you being black? How gonna get worded? Yes, but she's
Speaker 2: sick achievement. We want to know.
Speaker 3: It was like there were more like microaggressions.
Speaker 4: So we used to go down to her beach house
Speaker 4: in Venice, Florida, and we used to like hang out
Speaker 4: with me and the kids stuff. And both of my
Speaker 4: kids are mixed, but obviously they look black, and you know,
Speaker 4: I'll be outside playing with them, and she would say
Speaker 4: things like children, don't you think you don't need to
Speaker 4: be outside in the sun, Like, don't you think you're
Speaker 4: black enough? Do you want to get darker? I said,
Speaker 4: I'm not going out in the sun for the same
Speaker 4: reasons that you do. You go out in the sun
Speaker 4: to get darker, to get a tear, And I'm going
Speaker 4: on the sun to play with my kids, right like microaggressive,
Speaker 4: And you know it would happen continuously, like even when
Speaker 4: our first daughter was born, we were putting stuff on
Speaker 4: the baby registry and she looked me dead in my
Speaker 4: black face and said, I'm going to get this blue
Speaker 4: dress to match her blonde hair and blue eyes. And
Speaker 4: I'm looking at her like, they're going to get this
Speaker 4: blue dress to mess the blond hair and blue eyes
Speaker 4: up the baby that me and your daughter are going
Speaker 4: to have. She's like, yeah, because she's going to have
Speaker 4: blond hair and blue ass. I said, you do realize
Speaker 4: that you're insinuating that you hope that I'm not the father,
Speaker 4: because it's very unlikely that I will produce a kid
Speaker 4: that has blond hair and blue eyes.
Speaker 3: I mean, come on it, but yeah, I know. But
Speaker 3: I was like, you know, that's kind of like, that's
Speaker 3: not right. And she was like, I didn't.
Speaker 1: Mean it, Yes, that hell you did? You know you
Speaker 1: meant it?
Speaker 3: Girl back exactly.
Speaker 1: Well, you know what, that.
Speaker 2: Really sucks because I love the word microaggression because there's
Speaker 2: a lot of people they do that and consider themselves
Speaker 2: not to be racist, which they are, but they feel
Speaker 2: that if I.
Speaker 1: Do it in a nice way and just throw my little.
Speaker 2: Bit in or my little jabs, they won't notice it
Speaker 2: as much or they won't take it as badly. But
Speaker 2: I still said what I felt, So that's messed up.
Speaker 2: There's been so many occasions I wish I wish I
Speaker 2: would have had a phone. I wish somebody would have
Speaker 2: been recording me, Like record this moment. Let this moment
Speaker 2: go viral. Let this moment go viral, because a lot
Speaker 2: of people showcase to the world like I'm so nice,
Speaker 2: I would never I'm not racist, I'm not this I
Speaker 2: hate him just to it, But then in their privacy,
Speaker 2: when they feel that nobody's watching, they really make dirty
Speaker 2: as common and they're really theirselves. I've heard people call
Speaker 2: me mona, you know, you know, calling me monkey. But
Speaker 2: in many occasions, you know, they'll they'll say, like, oh,
Speaker 2: you don't wash your hair because you know you have
Speaker 2: a you know, I have an afro, and my afro
Speaker 2: is supposed to be nappy, bad hair, this and that,
Speaker 2: you know. And I've said in many occasions or for
Speaker 2: being black and read pretty so basically by black people
Speaker 2: are ugly.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 2: I've heard so many different things like there, I've heard
Speaker 2: so many things. I've heard the whole thing too about
Speaker 2: being in the in the sun. I've already heard so
Speaker 2: many races as comments. And I wish that we had
Speaker 2: a phone we could record it the same energy that
Speaker 2: we put to the Karens.
Speaker 1: You know, sometimes it's not just.
Speaker 2: The Karens, because I feel like Karens just mean when
Speaker 2: they're Caucasian, right, But we have Karens that are Latinos,
Speaker 2: we have Karens that are Asians, we have Karens that
Speaker 2: are from different parts of the world, and even amongst
Speaker 2: our own people, we can be racist there.
Speaker 1: We got some Karens within our own people as well.
Speaker 2: I really wish that we had moments where we can
Speaker 2: record it and give that same energy we give to
Speaker 2: them to our own people and you know, make them
Speaker 2: accountable for the comments and the things that.
Speaker 1: They do, because if we don't, then this is just
Speaker 1: going to be a.
Speaker 2: Pattern that is going to continue on and on and
Speaker 2: our generation is only but going to get worse.
Speaker 4: It's just like these moments where it's like I feel
Speaker 4: like a lot a lot of society ADULTI files black
Speaker 4: kids like they look at like a fourteen year old
Speaker 4: black boy, and they like look look at him as any.
Speaker 2: And also as a threat. It's already yeah, yeah, you
Speaker 2: know your you're a threat. And I was just talking
Speaker 2: about it the other day of how as a parent
Speaker 2: when you have dark skinned children, the darker the more
Speaker 2: as a parent you have to be worried and concerned
Speaker 2: when your child, you know, leaves your household because the
Speaker 2: darker your skin is, the more people see you as
Speaker 2: a threat.
Speaker 1: Whenever a black person does something.
Speaker 2: Oh you know, the terror that this is, the danger,
Speaker 2: the thug that this. But when when a copy heaven
Speaker 2: does it all he's going.
Speaker 1: Through depression, Hey, you.
Speaker 2: Know all these things he needs there. But if it's
Speaker 2: a black person, a black person will go to jail
Speaker 2: for life for someone that a white person will go
Speaker 2: to jail for a month.
Speaker 1: If that are too so, of course, you know that
Speaker 1: black people at this.
Speaker 2: Point and black people, immigrants, minority overall, are tired, are sick,
Speaker 2: are frustrated, are just over it.
Speaker 1: So yes, I get that part.
Speaker 2: And I was talking about how when you raise a
Speaker 2: dark skinned child, you have to raise them differently.
Speaker 1: You have to raise them knowing you are different. You know,
Speaker 1: when the cop.
Speaker 2: Comes, put your hands up, you know, don't look into
Speaker 2: nobody's eyes. If you have a hoodie off, take it off,
Speaker 2: you know, don't put your hands in your pocket. There's
Speaker 2: these whole list of rules and regulations that people of
Speaker 2: Connor have to do and live by then no other
Speaker 2: race has to do, you know, and it's just so
Speaker 2: much pressure. It is so unfair. It is well, it's
Speaker 2: it really is hurtful. It's it's crazy to mean people have.
Speaker 4: Other racers have to worry about if they get pulled over,
Speaker 4: will it be their last time?
Speaker 2: Well, me, personally, I'm really scared of the police. I've
Speaker 2: always been open about it, and I'm scared because of
Speaker 2: just you know, the first thing that they see is
Speaker 2: gonna see.
Speaker 1: They're gonna see color. They're not gonna be like.
Speaker 2: She's one of us or whatever or whatever, and shouldn't
Speaker 2: even be like that in the first place.
Speaker 1: But the first thing they're gonna see is color.
Speaker 2: So whenever a cop gets behind me while I'm driving,
Speaker 2: I'm automatically panicking.
Speaker 1: I'm automatically bubble guts. You're like nervous, Yeah, I get nervous.
Speaker 1: It really sucks.
Speaker 2: It is that way, and that even brings me to
Speaker 2: think that now it is so important to even have
Speaker 2: cameras inside of your car to record and film.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm even thinking, but I should probably.
Speaker 2: Go to Amazon and buy middle cameras, buy a camera,
Speaker 2: put it in your car, because you just never know
Speaker 2: when it's gonna be your day.
Speaker 1: Anything can happen at any moment, and we.
Speaker 2: Live in a world where we have to protect ourselves
Speaker 2: so much consistently, even while you're in your car, Like
Speaker 2: it's really crazy. Now, let's also talk about this, right
Speaker 2: because since we're talking about viral moments and how we're
Speaker 2: making people famous off viral moments, we're also making justice
Speaker 2: and protecting ourselves with these cameras by recording the things
Speaker 2: that happen in our society. Some of the people that
Speaker 2: have gone viral after being caught up on tape for
Speaker 2: behaving badly have also been fired from their jobs.
Speaker 1: I just feel about that.
Speaker 3: I feel good about it.
Speaker 4: I mean, I honestly feel like people that do it
Speaker 4: and get caught on camera, well, I'll think that people
Speaker 4: that do it, they get caught on camera, I feel
Speaker 4: like they've done it in the past.
Speaker 3: It's not the first time. Okay, it's not the first time.
Speaker 4: So it's like when it gets caught on camera, it
Speaker 4: gives me the evidence and the pre consumption that you've
Speaker 4: done this somewhere before. It's sex an example, and like
Speaker 4: in practice, we get people are second chance. It's a
Speaker 4: second opportunity.
Speaker 2: Doesn't matter, like because let's say, it doesn't all have
Speaker 2: to be for being bad. I know of a person
Speaker 2: called Ali Bray who now is well known for doing
Speaker 2: only fans, who makes thousands of dollars on only fans,
Speaker 2: who is a veteran.
Speaker 1: I believe she's a Navy veteran.
Speaker 2: She's also a nurse, a whole bunch of things, and
Speaker 2: she got fired from her job at the hospital as
Speaker 2: a nurse because they found.
Speaker 1: Out she had an only fan. She went viral for it.
Speaker 1: So that's what I'm saying, like, when.
Speaker 2: We say badly behavior, let's clarify, because if you're being racist,
Speaker 2: should that be a reason for you to get fired
Speaker 2: from your job? If you're being racist outside of workspace,
Speaker 2: should you get fired for that?
Speaker 3: I think so yes.
Speaker 4: And the reason why I say that is because I
Speaker 4: feel like, if you have a racist moment on camera,
Speaker 4: chances are that you've had a racist moments off camera.
Speaker 1: So you're thinking that they get fired.
Speaker 2: They're not going to be racist in their next job
Speaker 2: because they get fired from this one job.
Speaker 3: I think they will.
Speaker 4: But I think what it does is it sets of
Speaker 4: consequence and the sets a president that if you behave
Speaker 4: this way, you will not have another job.
Speaker 2: I was on Love and Hip Hop Miami on my
Speaker 2: first season with a known producer called you know Young Hollywood,
Speaker 2: and he had a very racist moment publicly when he
Speaker 2: said that I was never going to succeed for the
Speaker 2: way that I looked. I needed to be less Macy
Speaker 2: Grace and more Beyonce. You know, change my hair, clean
Speaker 2: my act this and that. I changed my hair eventually
Speaker 2: because I wanted to. I felt it was my moment
Speaker 2: to evolve and try different hairstyles. I've always clarified that
Speaker 2: my hair is not who I am, it is part
Speaker 2: of me. I could be ball headed tomorrow and still
Speaker 2: be a and still be a fu Latina and still
Speaker 2: represent my culture, my race, my ancestors, you know, and
Speaker 2: represents so many other things. So to me, it wasn't
Speaker 2: just about the hair. It was about the moral, the principle,
Speaker 2: about the comments that came behind it. Right, and he
Speaker 2: he had a very public racist moment. However, we were
Speaker 2: able to sit down and talk after so many conversations
Speaker 2: and after so many people, you know, hitting him over
Speaker 2: the head, and he later on understood and he apologized
Speaker 2: and people may have seen him in a bad light.
Speaker 2: But I think that we have to be forgiving as
Speaker 2: well in many occasions, because some.
Speaker 1: People act out of ignorance.
Speaker 2: That's also a question the way that you were raised, right,
Speaker 2: because nobody is born racist, nobody is born you know,
Speaker 2: whatever way something had to happen, someone had to convince you.
Speaker 2: You must have lived some type of experience what happened,
Speaker 2: you know. I think there's sometimes we were so ready
Speaker 2: to be judgmental and point fingers and just ah instead
Speaker 2: of trying to fix the problem. It's like when you
Speaker 2: put a dangerous person or someone who committed a crime
Speaker 2: in jail and you stick them in a box with
Speaker 2: no therapy, with no help. That's not going to help,
Speaker 2: and then you throw them back into society. How about
Speaker 2: us helping each other? What happened to you? Why do
Speaker 2: you feel this way? We've been dehumanized so much, you know,
Speaker 2: by society, social media, comments, music video, all this other stuff.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I just feel like, can we come back together as
Speaker 2: humans again and figure out a way how to connect
Speaker 2: with each other to fix what's wrong instead of trying
Speaker 2: to just blame us and blame each other and put
Speaker 2: each other in a box.
Speaker 4: I get the whole thing about you know, like giving
Speaker 4: people a second chance. But do you think that if
Speaker 4: like a nurse have like a viral moment, a racist
Speaker 4: no no, let's say for season Starbucks and she has
Speaker 4: like a racist moment, do you think that, like if
Speaker 4: she got fired for doing that, Like, do you think
Speaker 4: that she give a second chance?
Speaker 1: Listen? I don't know.
Speaker 2: And like I said before, I think that every situation
Speaker 2: needs to be monitored and and you know and seeing
Speaker 2: you know, one situation at a time, because we've had
Speaker 2: we've had even our with you had even black cops, right,
Speaker 2: Even black cops do you know, do a lot of
Speaker 2: in justice to their to their.
Speaker 1: Brothers and sisters. Right. So we've had those.
Speaker 2: Issues amongst our own community because we just don't want
Speaker 2: to point into the racist. Sometimes we have racist among
Speaker 2: our own people. Like I said before, So we've had
Speaker 2: those moments. We've had, you know, moments that have really
Speaker 2: impacted people's careers for the rest of their lives in
Speaker 2: a positive or in a negative light. We've had so
Speaker 2: many different things, you know, even from bullying, which is
Speaker 2: another topic that we really didn't get to touch, like that,
Speaker 2: we have people that are committing suicide because of the
Speaker 2: pressures that they feel from society or even from videos.
Speaker 2: The power that social media has going viral has the
Speaker 2: way that we support the people that have badly behavior.
Speaker 2: What type of mindset does that create for the young
Speaker 2: generation that's growing up. What do they see if they
Speaker 2: see us supporting that, are they supposed to behave that
Speaker 2: way as well? Like, there is so much to unbus
Speaker 2: in this conversation that I'm so passionate about it because
Speaker 2: now also as a mother, I'm curious, I'm fearful, and
Speaker 2: I just wonder what their future is going to look like.
Speaker 2: If this is us now in twenty twenty three, I
Speaker 2: don't even want to know. You know, twenty years from now,
Speaker 2: what are they going to be living? You know, how's
Speaker 2: the world going to change for them? Because in my era,
Speaker 2: we went from having a map to having GPSS, to
Speaker 2: having the you know, the house phones, to having cell
Speaker 2: phones even inside your ear, to the tapes, the CDs,
Speaker 2: the But we've gone through all the evolution of technology.
Speaker 1: What will happen in their era?
Speaker 2: If this is us recording it off our phones. Who
Speaker 2: knows if when you just walk by there's cameras everywhere
Speaker 2: just recording your whole life all day everywhere with face
Speaker 2: recognition and this and that.
Speaker 4: I the meal if almost scariously from just being a human,
Speaker 4: Like everybody has human moments, right, everybody has a human experience.
Speaker 4: If we don't want to create a society where people
Speaker 4: always have to be on the edge and always have
Speaker 4: to walk on eggs, right right, that because that beats
Speaker 4: the purpose of being a human.
Speaker 2: I agree with you one hundred one hundred percent That's
Speaker 2: why I think this conversation.
Speaker 1: Was so important. Thank you so much for joining me today.
Speaker 2: Thank you for being such an amazing world, for being
Speaker 2: such a great human being, so outspoken and honestly transparently yourself.
Speaker 2: I appreciate that if anybody wants to follow you and
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Speaker 1: That sounds good to me. Well, I'll say this much.
Speaker 2: If there's anything you could take home with you today
Speaker 2: is listen, these phones have really big power, right, you
Speaker 2: have the power in your hand. Be careful of what
Speaker 2: you're supporting on social media when it comes to these
Speaker 2: viral moments.
Speaker 1: Be careful the type of behavior that you're supporting.
Speaker 2: Be careful the type of behavior that you are putting
Speaker 2: out there as well.
Speaker 1: On social media.
Speaker 2: Please don't think that just because you have a little
Speaker 2: viral moment your life is really going to change your
Speaker 2: to one thousand and you're going to become a millionaire.
Speaker 1: Doesn't always work that way, right.
Speaker 2: It could also be very damaging also remember that everything
Speaker 2: that you record stays on the internet, will stay online,
Speaker 2: and if it doesn't affect your career or your life
Speaker 2: at this moment in your life, it can be brought
Speaker 2: back up years from now, like it's happened in many occasions.
Speaker 2: If we want to roll in our society to change,
Speaker 2: we have to stop supporting the stupidity.
Speaker 1: Right, Let's stop supporting the stupidity. And I know that
Speaker 1: it may be funny.
Speaker 2: And it may be be entertaining for a second, but
Speaker 2: just look and see how it affects our society, our
Speaker 2: community in the long run, right, our kids, the TV,
Speaker 2: the music, just everything overall. Having by our moments also
Speaker 2: comes with big responsibilities. Be careful and if you have
Speaker 2: your phone and you see some type of injustice or
Speaker 2: something that can actually help somebody else's life by you
Speaker 2: just pressing record, go ahead and be fearless and do
Speaker 2: that because you never know what you may be recording,
Speaker 2: how impactful it may be. With that being said, guys,
Speaker 2: thank you so oh so much for being part of
Speaker 2: Exactly Amada.
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