WEBVTT - The Viral Effect: Balancing the Pros and Cons of Going Viral 0:00:02.200 --> 0:00:04.200 Well, the welcome, guys, what's going on? 0:00:04.320 --> 0:00:09.000 It's your girl, Amada La and you're listening to exactly Amada, 0:00:09.280 --> 0:00:11.200 a production of iHeart and thank you so much for 0:00:11.320 --> 0:00:14.360 Twenian as usual. Don't forget to give us those five stars. 0:00:14.600 --> 0:00:18.599 Subscribe to the podcast on your favorite podcast platform, which 0:00:18.640 --> 0:00:20.040 everyone maybe if you. 0:00:20.040 --> 0:00:21.319 Just want to see you get to know a little 0:00:21.320 --> 0:00:24.120 bit about me more. Except dolo chie may I always 0:00:24.120 --> 0:00:27.200 say the same thing. Have you seen an achievement gossip? 0:00:27.440 --> 0:00:30.480 He says, She say, don't believe it all. I've been 0:00:30.520 --> 0:00:31.640 going through so much. 0:00:32.200 --> 0:00:34.159 But you know what, whenever I have the opportunity of 0:00:34.159 --> 0:00:36.680 connecting with you guys and just talking to you, inventing 0:00:36.760 --> 0:00:39.680 and you know, talking about my experiences or the things 0:00:39.680 --> 0:00:41.199 that are going on in the world, I feel so 0:00:41.280 --> 0:00:41.840 much better. 0:00:42.360 --> 0:00:44.279 And today we're talking about people that. 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:48.080 Are getting caught on tape or behaving like an ass. 0:00:47.920 --> 0:00:50.400 And everybody's just applauding it like it's all good. 0:00:50.720 --> 0:00:53.880 Everyday racism and bullying can now be recorded and if 0:00:53.920 --> 0:00:57.520 you're acting out, you know, automatically, you go viral. 0:00:58.000 --> 0:01:00.480 The more you act like you have no set, the 0:01:00.600 --> 0:01:04.840 more popular you become. And not only because of you know, 0:01:04.880 --> 0:01:05.440 you may. 0:01:05.280 --> 0:01:08.800 Be doing tiktoks and while it out and doing dumb things. 0:01:08.840 --> 0:01:12.080 But then we had these videos of the Karen videos 0:01:12.120 --> 0:01:15.600 online as well. There's so many things going on right 0:01:15.640 --> 0:01:19.280 now in society and how social media is not making 0:01:19.319 --> 0:01:23.640 people famous or basically doing nothing of importance in life, 0:01:23.720 --> 0:01:28.280 nothing of value to society realistically, and we're just applauding it. 0:01:28.600 --> 0:01:32.240 That's why I wanted to bring my special guest, who 0:01:32.360 --> 0:01:36.399 I've grown to love him, because our energy is just matched. 0:01:36.480 --> 0:01:39.320 He understands me. We're in the same frequency. He's an 0:01:39.360 --> 0:01:43.479 amazing spirit. And I have today on the show Kelvin 0:01:43.920 --> 0:01:47.200 Davis memoricalsas how you been. 0:01:47.680 --> 0:01:49.200 I've been great? How have you been? 0:01:49.680 --> 0:01:51.840 So? If I've been like beyoncet to, let me tell 0:01:51.880 --> 0:01:55.160 you it is tough out here in these streets. I'm 0:01:55.200 --> 0:01:57.200 just gonna give a little quick something about what happened 0:01:57.200 --> 0:02:00.280 to me yesterday. I was on a private jet. I 0:02:00.280 --> 0:02:02.640 couldn't find a flight home. It was a whole bunch 0:02:02.680 --> 0:02:05.560 of you know, famous artists all together. It was a 0:02:05.560 --> 0:02:09.239 really small jet. There was really bad turbulence. The luggages 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:11.360 moved from one side to the other street like in 0:02:11.400 --> 0:02:15.360 the movies. I hit myself in the head. It was crazy. 0:02:15.800 --> 0:02:18.799 I was praying to God just to make it home safe, 0:02:18.919 --> 0:02:21.120 because you never know what can happen. And we've seen 0:02:21.160 --> 0:02:24.960 so many terrible situations happen to not just artists, but 0:02:25.120 --> 0:02:28.240 just you know, to people. Overall, God has our back, 0:02:28.280 --> 0:02:30.920 but sometimes going on, he makes us, you know, he 0:02:30.960 --> 0:02:35.040 makes us go through little turbulence, and I felt it yesterday. Anyways, 0:02:35.080 --> 0:02:38.360 I see life with a different perspective today. It was 0:02:38.400 --> 0:02:40.760 a lot, but maybe you have a lighter story. How 0:02:41.400 --> 0:02:42.600 how have your days been? 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:45.560 Both of my daughters in the school on Friday to 0:02:45.639 --> 0:02:47.280 go see The Little Mermaid. 0:02:47.520 --> 0:02:51.440 Yes, I've heard everybody talking about Little Mermaid? How was it? 0:02:51.440 --> 0:02:52.120 It was so good? 0:02:52.200 --> 0:02:55.359 It exceeded all my explain chasings. It was truly amazing. 0:02:55.360 --> 0:02:57.240 They meant to that, It meant to that. 0:02:57.440 --> 0:02:59.440 Well, I can't wait till my girls are old enough 0:02:59.440 --> 0:03:02.840 to see and understand, you know, a Little Mermaid. Right now, 0:03:02.840 --> 0:03:04.520 they're too little for that, so all they probably wan 0:03:04.480 --> 0:03:06.320 I'm getting it. Yeah, today we have a really good 0:03:06.320 --> 0:03:08.320 show because we're going to talk about something that's really 0:03:08.320 --> 0:03:10.840 happening in society right now, and it's just learning how 0:03:10.880 --> 0:03:12.760 to manage it and deal with it. And I'll say 0:03:12.760 --> 0:03:15.280 as far as everybody wanting to have a viral moment, 0:03:15.840 --> 0:03:19.320 having the validation of society of the people that are 0:03:19.360 --> 0:03:21.959 following you, or whatever the hell it may be, has 0:03:22.000 --> 0:03:24.920 made people go crazy. Has made people do these little 0:03:24.919 --> 0:03:27.640 TikTok dances, which is cool if you're on your phone 0:03:27.760 --> 0:03:29.800 dancing all day trying to get it together so someone 0:03:29.800 --> 0:03:31.760 can give you a like, I get it, or you're 0:03:31.800 --> 0:03:34.880 just doing it for fun, that's cool too. But we've 0:03:34.920 --> 0:03:38.680 gone from the dancing tiktoks to the TikTok challenges where 0:03:38.720 --> 0:03:42.040 you have to like choke yourself or drink bleach or 0:03:42.360 --> 0:03:44.320 you know, throw yourself off a bridge and look and 0:03:44.360 --> 0:03:48.160 see if you survive, and like all types of craziness. Right, 0:03:48.640 --> 0:03:51.240 we have so many things going on right now that 0:03:51.400 --> 0:03:53.320 I just thought it would be such an important moment 0:03:53.360 --> 0:03:54.240 to discuss this with you. 0:03:54.320 --> 0:03:57.080 What do you think for me, it's like you're chasing 0:03:57.840 --> 0:03:58.880 to go viral. 0:03:59.240 --> 0:04:02.000 At the same time, when you go viral, there's a 0:04:02.120 --> 0:04:04.520 hot chance that. 0:04:03.760 --> 0:04:05.320 That's the only thing that will happen. 0:04:05.400 --> 0:04:08.360 Because once someone goes viral on the internet, unless it's 0:04:08.400 --> 0:04:11.480 something that goes along with their content that they do 0:04:11.640 --> 0:04:16.400 all at the time like that one viral video does 0:04:16.480 --> 0:04:20.880 not make them a content creator creator, right right, They're 0:04:20.920 --> 0:04:23.719 still just like the average person with one viral video. 0:04:23.800 --> 0:04:24.360 That's crazy. 0:04:24.400 --> 0:04:26.400 No, you know what's crazy is that we make them 0:04:26.440 --> 0:04:29.480 go viral because if they don't have our support, they 0:04:29.480 --> 0:04:32.800 don't go anywhere. So if that also puts in context 0:04:32.880 --> 0:04:34.880 the fact that there's people out here who bother to 0:04:35.040 --> 0:04:38.520 go to college study, you know, they bust their ass, 0:04:38.520 --> 0:04:40.840 they do all these things and don't even get one 0:04:40.960 --> 0:04:43.679 third of the money that these influencers are. These people 0:04:43.680 --> 0:04:46.640 that go viral, make and create, So that makes it 0:04:46.680 --> 0:04:49.320 really hard on society overall, and it makes people think 0:04:49.360 --> 0:04:52.479 that going viral is the way to go. If I 0:04:52.520 --> 0:04:54.880 go viral, I can become famous. If I become famous, 0:04:54.880 --> 0:04:56.800 I can make money. If I make money, I never 0:04:56.839 --> 0:04:58.760 have to work. And boom, I just in my life 0:04:58.839 --> 0:05:01.840 off some stupidity and some of these viral moments can 0:05:01.880 --> 0:05:04.960 also lead to your death. Limited there's so many layers 0:05:04.960 --> 0:05:08.200 into this. Honestly, Kevin tell me this. People have always 0:05:08.279 --> 0:05:11.560 behaved badly, but now we have the power to record 0:05:11.600 --> 0:05:14.080 them on our phones. Do you think that it scares 0:05:14.160 --> 0:05:18.600 people from doing it or saying racist things, or it 0:05:18.680 --> 0:05:20.400 just makes him feel like I just don't care and 0:05:20.400 --> 0:05:22.240 I'm going to say what it want and maybe this 0:05:22.279 --> 0:05:23.520 will be made viral. 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:27.240 Moment depending on what state and city you're in. 0:05:27.400 --> 0:05:29.440 I feel like, if you're in Alabama and there's like 0:05:29.480 --> 0:05:32.159 a racist moment and it goes viral, I feel like 0:05:32.839 --> 0:05:34.719 people are like, well, you know, that's Alabama. But I 0:05:34.720 --> 0:05:36.680 feel like it depends on where you are. Like, there 0:05:36.720 --> 0:05:39.719 was a situation that happened in New York recently where 0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:41.719 there was like a group of black kids trying to 0:05:41.760 --> 0:05:44.760 get like a bike, and this white woman was trying 0:05:44.800 --> 0:05:47.120 to steal the bike await, even though he y for it, 0:05:47.400 --> 0:05:49.600 and she started crying and doing all this stuff. So 0:05:49.880 --> 0:05:51.719 to me, I was like, watching the video, I'm like, bro, 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:55.200 this woman is literally turning on the white privilege tears, 0:05:55.320 --> 0:05:57.400 acting like this man is like trying to harm her 0:05:57.800 --> 0:06:00.680 and she and he purchased the bike, and then you 0:06:00.720 --> 0:06:04.400 have these people that come from the outside to her 0:06:04.440 --> 0:06:08.640 aid because she's crying. So I'm glad that got on 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:12.359 video because for me, it's like she didn't have to 0:06:12.400 --> 0:06:17.080 say anything to be racist. Her actions showed that she 0:06:17.200 --> 0:06:20.559 was racist because she was just trying to be trying 0:06:20.600 --> 0:06:22.960 to make this situation seem as though it was these 0:06:22.960 --> 0:06:26.400 four or five black boys that were harming her by 0:06:26.440 --> 0:06:28.799 screaming and crying all these things that all these white 0:06:28.800 --> 0:06:29.680 men come. 0:06:29.800 --> 0:06:30.440 To her aid. 0:06:30.960 --> 0:06:35.960 So for me, it's like, sometimes it could work, and sometimes, 0:06:36.000 --> 0:06:38.680 you know, it doesn't really help, Like people are going 0:06:38.760 --> 0:06:40.800 to act a fucking fool anyway. 0:06:40.920 --> 0:06:41.960 But does it? 0:06:42.000 --> 0:06:44.280 Does it really matter to be able to get it 0:06:44.360 --> 0:06:48.239 in recording when someone is being racist, Like, I'm glad 0:06:48.279 --> 0:06:50.240 they were able to record it, and I'm glad they 0:06:50.240 --> 0:06:51.840 were able to have this on evidence. 0:06:52.320 --> 0:06:56.239 But even when you have situations like George. 0:06:55.640 --> 0:06:59.640 Floyd where we can all, oh, yeah, what the hell 0:06:59.800 --> 0:07:02.800 was going on? You know, we've seen so many cases 0:07:03.000 --> 0:07:05.760 where we have the video, we have the evidence from 0:07:05.800 --> 0:07:09.360 the beginning to the end, we have it on tape, 0:07:09.640 --> 0:07:11.920 we have it on your phone, we have it on cameras, 0:07:11.960 --> 0:07:14.480 we have whatever, and sometimes you can't even use it 0:07:14.480 --> 0:07:17.000 as evidence because they'll still say that's not true, that's 0:07:17.040 --> 0:07:20.240 not what happened, this is not it was. So to 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:22.600 a certain extent, yes, it's good that we're able to 0:07:22.640 --> 0:07:25.440 record these situations, it just sucks and not in all 0:07:25.520 --> 0:07:30.560 occasions people actually validating care for what they see as 0:07:30.600 --> 0:07:34.440 the truth, you know, So that really sucks because and 0:07:34.480 --> 0:07:36.320 like I said, we saw the George Floyd situation. 0:07:36.400 --> 0:07:38.800 If it wasn't because of all the phones, nobody would 0:07:38.840 --> 0:07:39.200 have known. 0:07:39.240 --> 0:07:42.080 And just like him, there's so many black people, there's 0:07:42.120 --> 0:07:45.640 so many immigrants, there's so many people who have suffered 0:07:45.680 --> 0:07:49.600 injustice from police brutality, and at least, you know, being 0:07:49.640 --> 0:07:52.480 able to record it allows us to see what happened. 0:07:53.320 --> 0:07:55.080 Like I said, sometimes we don't get justice fum. 0:07:55.160 --> 0:07:57.000 Yeah, I mean sometimes we don't get justice. 0:07:56.800 --> 0:07:58.400 For it, yeah for sure. 0:07:58.800 --> 0:08:03.520 But I'm like white American, like the majority of society 0:08:03.600 --> 0:08:06.600 paces this image of well, you know, if you just 0:08:06.640 --> 0:08:08.720 would have did what the cops said, then that wouldn't 0:08:08.720 --> 0:08:09.120 have happened. 0:08:09.120 --> 0:08:10.440 But it's like that's not the way this. 0:08:10.400 --> 0:08:12.400 Writes, right exactly, Like. 0:08:12.520 --> 0:08:15.080 How many like how many white boys, how many white 0:08:15.200 --> 0:08:18.560 girls have like done the same thing and getting to 0:08:18.600 --> 0:08:21.040 go home at the end of the day, and even 0:08:21.120 --> 0:08:23.000 like the whole bad Batti thing, Like I have a 0:08:23.040 --> 0:08:25.320 hot take on that, because I have a hot take 0:08:25.400 --> 0:08:28.280 on all those like all those white girls that go 0:08:28.560 --> 0:08:30.840 viral for their bad behavior and all this the stuff, 0:08:31.240 --> 0:08:33.079 and I say it, and I'll say it until the 0:08:33.160 --> 0:08:36.200 day that I die. If Bad Battie was black, she 0:08:36.240 --> 0:08:39.880 would not be vial read, she would not be hanging 0:08:39.880 --> 0:08:40.800 out with celebrities. 0:08:41.040 --> 0:08:41.720 She would not be a. 0:08:43.559 --> 0:08:49.800 Moment because at the same time, okay, so wait, I 0:08:49.800 --> 0:08:52.400 don't think she would have made as much money then 0:08:52.480 --> 0:08:52.880 you happen. 0:08:53.120 --> 0:08:55.160 And I love her. I love her. She's you know, 0:08:55.440 --> 0:08:57.600 I don't. I can't say she's my friend friend, but 0:08:57.640 --> 0:08:58.199 I know her. 0:08:58.360 --> 0:09:01.160 We've spent time together, we've worked together, we're in the 0:09:01.200 --> 0:09:03.680 same show, in the same franchise. But we have a 0:09:03.720 --> 0:09:06.960 perfect example. We have, for example, Suki. You know Suki 0:09:07.040 --> 0:09:10.080 with the good Kuchi. I don't know if you know her. Yeah, 0:09:10.800 --> 0:09:14.280 she's also gone viral. I think she's an amazing talent. 0:09:14.600 --> 0:09:16.320 I wish that people got to know her and see 0:09:16.360 --> 0:09:19.000 her in real life away from the you know, persona 0:09:19.040 --> 0:09:22.320 that she shows to the world. But she's another one 0:09:22.440 --> 0:09:25.160 you know that's very similar to she She's an artist, 0:09:25.240 --> 0:09:28.840 she has only fans, she has a big personality. She 0:09:28.920 --> 0:09:33.120 is just herself, unapologeticy herself, and she also is very similar. 0:09:33.160 --> 0:09:37.080 So it's like the race thing does influence but not 0:09:37.120 --> 0:09:39.960 necessarily in all cases. I just think that people overall 0:09:40.720 --> 0:09:44.440 like certain behaviors, maybe not for themselves, but they enjoy 0:09:44.520 --> 0:09:50.480 watching other people at a certain type of way. 0:09:55.559 --> 0:09:56.480 Now I'll ask you this. 0:09:56.559 --> 0:10:00.520 Have you ever gone through a racist moment, a racist 0:10:00.559 --> 0:10:04.400 situation that you wish you could have had your phone to 0:10:04.520 --> 0:10:07.000 record it, or any type of moment you're like, damn, 0:10:07.000 --> 0:10:08.360 why didn't I have my phone here for this? 0:10:09.800 --> 0:10:14.120 Unfortunately I had an ex mother in law who was 0:10:15.040 --> 0:10:17.080 pretty racist, Like. 0:10:17.240 --> 0:10:17.959 Do you know what I mean? 0:10:18.040 --> 0:10:20.760 So there were many moments where I wish I would 0:10:20.760 --> 0:10:24.199 have recorded certain things that she said and recorded certain 0:10:24.200 --> 0:10:27.360 things that she did, just so you know, I could 0:10:27.960 --> 0:10:30.240 play it back for just even so like like why 0:10:30.280 --> 0:10:33.199 would you say this? Like why would you do this? 0:10:33.640 --> 0:10:37.880 Even if like even if you don't you know like 0:10:37.880 --> 0:10:40.679 like me marry your daughter? Like why would you say 0:10:40.720 --> 0:10:42.360 this stuff about me being black? 0:10:42.440 --> 0:10:46.240 And then break it down? Break it down stuff about 0:10:46.240 --> 0:10:49.199 you being black? How gonna get worded? Yes, but she's 0:10:49.240 --> 0:10:50.960 sick achievement. We want to know. 0:10:52.160 --> 0:10:55.000 It was like there were more like microaggressions. 0:10:55.040 --> 0:10:56.880 So we used to go down to her beach house 0:10:56.880 --> 0:10:59.079 in Venice, Florida, and we used to like hang out 0:10:59.080 --> 0:11:01.520 with me and the kids stuff. And both of my 0:11:01.640 --> 0:11:04.680 kids are mixed, but obviously they look black, and you know, 0:11:04.720 --> 0:11:07.160 I'll be outside playing with them, and she would say 0:11:07.200 --> 0:11:09.440 things like children, don't you think you don't need to 0:11:09.440 --> 0:11:11.920 be outside in the sun, Like, don't you think you're 0:11:12.240 --> 0:11:15.199 black enough? Do you want to get darker? I said, 0:11:15.360 --> 0:11:17.199 I'm not going out in the sun for the same 0:11:17.280 --> 0:11:19.040 reasons that you do. You go out in the sun 0:11:19.240 --> 0:11:21.520 to get darker, to get a tear, And I'm going 0:11:21.520 --> 0:11:25.040 on the sun to play with my kids, right like microaggressive, 0:11:25.400 --> 0:11:28.800 And you know it would happen continuously, like even when 0:11:28.960 --> 0:11:31.960 our first daughter was born, we were putting stuff on 0:11:32.000 --> 0:11:34.800 the baby registry and she looked me dead in my 0:11:34.840 --> 0:11:36.920 black face and said, I'm going to get this blue 0:11:37.000 --> 0:11:40.440 dress to match her blonde hair and blue eyes. And 0:11:40.480 --> 0:11:43.040 I'm looking at her like, they're going to get this 0:11:43.120 --> 0:11:45.000 blue dress to mess the blond hair and blue eyes 0:11:45.080 --> 0:11:47.280 up the baby that me and your daughter are going 0:11:47.360 --> 0:11:49.920 to have. She's like, yeah, because she's going to have 0:11:49.960 --> 0:11:52.080 blond hair and blue ass. I said, you do realize 0:11:52.120 --> 0:11:55.040 that you're insinuating that you hope that I'm not the father, 0:11:55.640 --> 0:11:59.360 because it's very unlikely that I will produce a kid 0:11:59.360 --> 0:12:00.880 that has blond hair and blue eyes. 0:12:00.960 --> 0:12:05.360 I mean, come on it, but yeah, I know. But 0:12:05.400 --> 0:12:08.160 I was like, you know, that's kind of like, that's 0:12:08.240 --> 0:12:10.600 not right. And she was like, I didn't. 0:12:10.400 --> 0:12:13.160 Mean it, Yes, that hell you did? You know you 0:12:13.320 --> 0:12:13.760 meant it? 0:12:14.280 --> 0:12:15.320 Girl back exactly. 0:12:15.320 --> 0:12:16.400 Well, you know what, that. 0:12:16.320 --> 0:12:20.480 Really sucks because I love the word microaggression because there's 0:12:20.480 --> 0:12:22.920 a lot of people they do that and consider themselves 0:12:22.960 --> 0:12:25.240 not to be racist, which they are, but they feel 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:25.719 that if I. 0:12:25.720 --> 0:12:28.280 Do it in a nice way and just throw my little. 0:12:28.040 --> 0:12:30.680 Bit in or my little jabs, they won't notice it 0:12:30.720 --> 0:12:33.240 as much or they won't take it as badly. But 0:12:33.280 --> 0:12:36.200 I still said what I felt, So that's messed up. 0:12:36.240 --> 0:12:39.319 There's been so many occasions I wish I wish I 0:12:39.320 --> 0:12:41.280 would have had a phone. I wish somebody would have 0:12:41.280 --> 0:12:44.839 been recording me, Like record this moment. Let this moment 0:12:44.920 --> 0:12:47.200 go viral. Let this moment go viral, because a lot 0:12:47.240 --> 0:12:50.040 of people showcase to the world like I'm so nice, 0:12:50.320 --> 0:12:53.839 I would never I'm not racist, I'm not this I 0:12:53.920 --> 0:12:56.439 hate him just to it, But then in their privacy, 0:12:56.480 --> 0:13:00.600 when they feel that nobody's watching, they really make dirty 0:13:00.640 --> 0:13:03.920 as common and they're really theirselves. I've heard people call 0:13:03.960 --> 0:13:08.520 me mona, you know, you know, calling me monkey. But 0:13:08.600 --> 0:13:11.000 in many occasions, you know, they'll they'll say, like, oh, 0:13:12.480 --> 0:13:14.160 you don't wash your hair because you know you have 0:13:14.200 --> 0:13:16.280 a you know, I have an afro, and my afro 0:13:16.320 --> 0:13:18.520 is supposed to be nappy, bad hair, this and that, 0:13:18.920 --> 0:13:21.120 you know. And I've said in many occasions or for 0:13:21.200 --> 0:13:24.640 being black and read pretty so basically by black people 0:13:24.720 --> 0:13:25.199 are ugly. 0:13:25.640 --> 0:13:25.880 You know. 0:13:26.000 --> 0:13:29.079 I've heard so many different things like there, I've heard 0:13:29.200 --> 0:13:30.960 so many things. I've heard the whole thing too about 0:13:31.000 --> 0:13:33.000 being in the in the sun. I've already heard so 0:13:33.080 --> 0:13:36.000 many races as comments. And I wish that we had 0:13:36.000 --> 0:13:37.800 a phone we could record it the same energy that 0:13:37.840 --> 0:13:39.120 we put to the Karens. 0:13:39.600 --> 0:13:41.880 You know, sometimes it's not just. 0:13:41.840 --> 0:13:44.280 The Karens, because I feel like Karens just mean when 0:13:44.280 --> 0:13:48.760 they're Caucasian, right, But we have Karens that are Latinos, 0:13:49.200 --> 0:13:52.000 we have Karens that are Asians, we have Karens that 0:13:52.080 --> 0:13:54.800 are from different parts of the world, and even amongst 0:13:54.800 --> 0:13:58.080 our own people, we can be racist there. 0:13:58.240 --> 0:14:00.680 We got some Karens within our own people as well. 0:14:01.000 --> 0:14:02.600 I really wish that we had moments where we can 0:14:02.640 --> 0:14:04.760 record it and give that same energy we give to 0:14:04.800 --> 0:14:07.360 them to our own people and you know, make them 0:14:07.360 --> 0:14:09.480 accountable for the comments and the things that. 0:14:09.440 --> 0:14:11.680 They do, because if we don't, then this is just 0:14:11.720 --> 0:14:12.160 going to be a. 0:14:12.080 --> 0:14:13.960 Pattern that is going to continue on and on and 0:14:14.000 --> 0:14:16.040 our generation is only but going to get worse. 0:14:16.280 --> 0:14:18.320 It's just like these moments where it's like I feel 0:14:18.320 --> 0:14:23.520 like a lot a lot of society ADULTI files black 0:14:23.600 --> 0:14:26.520 kids like they look at like a fourteen year old 0:14:26.520 --> 0:14:29.120 black boy, and they like look look at him as any. 0:14:29.880 --> 0:14:33.120 And also as a threat. It's already yeah, yeah, you 0:14:33.160 --> 0:14:35.000 know your you're a threat. And I was just talking 0:14:35.040 --> 0:14:37.680 about it the other day of how as a parent 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:41.760 when you have dark skinned children, the darker the more 0:14:41.960 --> 0:14:44.080 as a parent you have to be worried and concerned 0:14:44.080 --> 0:14:47.320 when your child, you know, leaves your household because the 0:14:47.400 --> 0:14:50.160 darker your skin is, the more people see you as 0:14:50.160 --> 0:14:50.600 a threat. 0:14:50.760 --> 0:14:52.880 Whenever a black person does something. 0:14:53.280 --> 0:14:57.440 Oh you know, the terror that this is, the danger, 0:14:57.520 --> 0:15:00.320 the thug that this. But when when a copy heaven 0:15:00.400 --> 0:15:02.120 does it all he's going. 0:15:01.880 --> 0:15:03.560 Through depression, Hey, you. 0:15:03.480 --> 0:15:09.120 Know all these things he needs there. But if it's 0:15:09.120 --> 0:15:11.840 a black person, a black person will go to jail 0:15:11.920 --> 0:15:14.160 for life for someone that a white person will go 0:15:14.440 --> 0:15:15.840 to jail for a month. 0:15:16.200 --> 0:15:19.840 If that are too so, of course, you know that 0:15:19.920 --> 0:15:20.840 black people at this. 0:15:20.840 --> 0:15:25.120 Point and black people, immigrants, minority overall, are tired, are sick, 0:15:25.200 --> 0:15:27.400 are frustrated, are just over it. 0:15:27.520 --> 0:15:29.040 So yes, I get that part. 0:15:29.080 --> 0:15:31.360 And I was talking about how when you raise a 0:15:31.480 --> 0:15:34.160 dark skinned child, you have to raise them differently. 0:15:34.520 --> 0:15:36.960 You have to raise them knowing you are different. You know, 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:37.680 when the cop. 0:15:37.560 --> 0:15:40.160 Comes, put your hands up, you know, don't look into 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:42.560 nobody's eyes. If you have a hoodie off, take it off, 0:15:42.800 --> 0:15:44.720 you know, don't put your hands in your pocket. There's 0:15:44.840 --> 0:15:48.840 these whole list of rules and regulations that people of 0:15:48.920 --> 0:15:52.280 Connor have to do and live by then no other 0:15:52.400 --> 0:15:55.440 race has to do, you know, and it's just so 0:15:55.520 --> 0:15:59.800 much pressure. It is so unfair. It is well, it's 0:16:00.120 --> 0:16:04.080 it really is hurtful. It's it's crazy to mean people have. 0:16:04.000 --> 0:16:07.280 Other racers have to worry about if they get pulled over, 0:16:07.600 --> 0:16:08.760 will it be their last time? 0:16:08.920 --> 0:16:11.480 Well, me, personally, I'm really scared of the police. I've 0:16:11.520 --> 0:16:14.560 always been open about it, and I'm scared because of 0:16:15.480 --> 0:16:18.080 just you know, the first thing that they see is 0:16:18.120 --> 0:16:18.560 gonna see. 0:16:18.560 --> 0:16:20.520 They're gonna see color. They're not gonna be like. 0:16:23.400 --> 0:16:25.880 She's one of us or whatever or whatever, and shouldn't 0:16:25.880 --> 0:16:27.120 even be like that in the first place. 0:16:27.160 --> 0:16:28.800 But the first thing they're gonna see is color. 0:16:28.920 --> 0:16:31.600 So whenever a cop gets behind me while I'm driving, 0:16:31.720 --> 0:16:33.080 I'm automatically panicking. 0:16:33.640 --> 0:16:38.680 I'm automatically bubble guts. You're like nervous, Yeah, I get nervous. 0:16:38.800 --> 0:16:39.480 It really sucks. 0:16:39.480 --> 0:16:41.120 It is that way, and that even brings me to 0:16:41.200 --> 0:16:43.680 think that now it is so important to even have 0:16:43.760 --> 0:16:46.880 cameras inside of your car to record and film. 0:16:47.160 --> 0:16:49.720 You know, I'm even thinking, but I should probably. 0:16:49.440 --> 0:16:51.920 Go to Amazon and buy middle cameras, buy a camera, 0:16:52.360 --> 0:16:55.040 put it in your car, because you just never know 0:16:55.120 --> 0:16:56.920 when it's gonna be your day. 0:16:57.320 --> 0:17:00.280 Anything can happen at any moment, and we. 0:17:00.200 --> 0:17:02.280 Live in a world where we have to protect ourselves 0:17:02.280 --> 0:17:05.880 so much consistently, even while you're in your car, Like 0:17:06.000 --> 0:17:08.600 it's really crazy. Now, let's also talk about this, right 0:17:09.000 --> 0:17:12.280 because since we're talking about viral moments and how we're 0:17:12.320 --> 0:17:16.840 making people famous off viral moments, we're also making justice 0:17:17.200 --> 0:17:22.000 and protecting ourselves with these cameras by recording the things 0:17:22.000 --> 0:17:24.520 that happen in our society. Some of the people that 0:17:24.920 --> 0:17:27.919 have gone viral after being caught up on tape for 0:17:28.040 --> 0:17:32.040 behaving badly have also been fired from their jobs. 0:17:32.400 --> 0:17:33.360 I just feel about that. 0:17:33.560 --> 0:17:34.399 I feel good about it. 0:17:34.560 --> 0:17:37.439 I mean, I honestly feel like people that do it 0:17:37.520 --> 0:17:40.720 and get caught on camera, well, I'll think that people 0:17:40.720 --> 0:17:42.600 that do it, they get caught on camera, I feel 0:17:42.600 --> 0:17:43.760 like they've done it in the past. 0:17:43.800 --> 0:17:46.680 It's not the first time. Okay, it's not the first time. 0:17:46.720 --> 0:17:49.159 So it's like when it gets caught on camera, it 0:17:49.200 --> 0:17:52.760 gives me the evidence and the pre consumption that you've 0:17:52.800 --> 0:17:56.399 done this somewhere before. It's sex an example, and like 0:17:56.400 --> 0:17:58.679 in practice, we get people are second chance. It's a 0:17:58.720 --> 0:17:59.760 second opportunity. 0:18:00.080 --> 0:18:03.439 Doesn't matter, like because let's say, it doesn't all have 0:18:03.520 --> 0:18:06.399 to be for being bad. I know of a person 0:18:06.480 --> 0:18:10.400 called Ali Bray who now is well known for doing 0:18:10.400 --> 0:18:13.480 only fans, who makes thousands of dollars on only fans, 0:18:13.760 --> 0:18:15.600 who is a veteran. 0:18:15.920 --> 0:18:17.400 I believe she's a Navy veteran. 0:18:17.840 --> 0:18:20.399 She's also a nurse, a whole bunch of things, and 0:18:20.440 --> 0:18:23.520 she got fired from her job at the hospital as 0:18:23.520 --> 0:18:25.280 a nurse because they found. 0:18:24.960 --> 0:18:27.919 Out she had an only fan. She went viral for it. 0:18:28.119 --> 0:18:29.600 So that's what I'm saying, like, when. 0:18:29.480 --> 0:18:34.960