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Speaker 1: First Date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 2: Zayin is on the phone today for our first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Marissa, who we

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Speaker 2: went on a date with. So in a few minutes

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Speaker 2: we're going to call her and see if she tell

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Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date.

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Speaker 2: But first zaying, how long has it been since you

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Speaker 2: heard from Marissa?

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Speaker 3: It's been about a week since I since I've texted

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Speaker 3: her and I haven't gotten a respond.

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Speaker 4: How many times you try to reach out to her

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Speaker 4: in the week.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, the last thing I sent it was just asking

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Speaker 3: her if we were going to catch up again, since

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Speaker 3: it was I messaged her follow up. We had a

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Speaker 3: we had a couple of glasses of wine in our

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Speaker 3: date and whatnot, and I kind of made made reilly

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Speaker 3: joke about a wine hangover or something, and she did

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Speaker 3: give me this like winky tongue skin out face, so

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Speaker 3: I kind of thought it was flirty and whatnot, and

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Speaker 3: I said, Hey, when are we going to do this again?

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Speaker 3: And that's really been it. I haven't I don't want

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Speaker 3: to push because I kind of want to you know

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Speaker 3: what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, that's like the worst one to

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Speaker 1: get ghosted on selfies. And then when it's like when

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Speaker 1: are we gonna hang out, let's go backwards sane. Why

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Speaker 1: don't you tell us about the day. How did you

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Speaker 1: meet Marissa?

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Speaker 5: Oh? So we met work.

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Speaker 3: We're going out and they wanted to go to a

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Speaker 3: karaoke bar, and I at a karaoke bar. Person. I

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Speaker 3: don't like it, for I have a musician music background,

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Speaker 3: and just hearing people singing poorly just kind of racks

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Speaker 3: my brain. But I need more to them. I want

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Speaker 3: them to have fun. I just don't need to listen

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Speaker 3: to it, you know. But I went anyway because it

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Speaker 3: was a group, and you know, I felt like kind

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Speaker 3: I met Marissa at the Marsa and myself when her

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Speaker 3: we met and we actually started flirting a lot, which

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Speaker 3: was a great distraction from the bad singing, and we

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Speaker 5: And just had a great time.

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Speaker 3: We ended up getting up and do a karaoke song.

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Speaker 3: And again I'm not a karaoke singer, but we've seen

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Speaker 3: something from Grief on the summer eleven. But we had

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Speaker 3: an absolute lass and talked like about it. We finished

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Speaker 3: the night, I got her number. It was very friendly

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Speaker 3: but very fun, but nothing too forward, you know, got

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Speaker 3: her number. We ended up meeting up at a wine

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Speaker 3: bar and had a really great time. Talked the entire time.

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Speaker 3: We did the whole tasting menu too, so I'm sure

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Speaker 3: the wine helped the conversation. It is back and forth.

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Speaker 3: A lot of great bans are back and forth, and

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Speaker 3: it was like we were bouncing off of each other.

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Speaker 5: You know. So the time went really fast and.

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Speaker 3: Just not a dull moment, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: And yeah, we talked literally about everything. So no, I'm

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Speaker 3: a little confused as to why, what's going on and

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Speaker 3: how I didn't hear anything.

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Speaker 5: I guess was.

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Speaker 1: There a moment at any point where it was like

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Speaker 1: this could be why?

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Speaker 3: So yeah, during the whole conversation or during the whole time,

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Speaker 3: We're going through these wine tests and like we're chatting

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Speaker 3: and I'm I can drink relatively fast, but it was

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Speaker 3: obviously that she was a obviously a slow drinker.

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Speaker 5: So I was kind of helping her along so we

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Speaker 5: could get to the next palate.

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Speaker 4: So did you tell your drinks and you chugged hers.

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Speaker 5: Also, well, I mean I wouldn't say chug.

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Speaker 3: She would take a hip, maybe another ship, and I'm done,

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Speaker 3: and I'm oh, let me.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah that's nice, isn't it. Let me take another

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Speaker 5: ship of that? Isn't that nice?

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Speaker 3: And I just kind of help her along, you know,

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Speaker 3: And maybe maybe that's a little really crappy, right, best

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Speaker 3: to play it as a joke, like I wasn't trying

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Speaker 3: to be at a hole about it, which I was making.

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Speaker 5: But that's the only thing I could think that. Maybe

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Speaker 5: she didn't take it funny.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that could that could be.

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Speaker 1: It's like this dude's just drinking my drink. Yeah, she

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Speaker 1: thought you just were so ciry.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, well we'll try to figure it out

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Speaker 2: Then we'll play a song come back, and then call

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Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting

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Speaker 2: you and hopefully get you another date.

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Speaker 5: Okay, fantastic, that'd be awesome.

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Speaker 4: We please on come back, Get your first Day follow

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Speaker 4: up next.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of today's first Day follow up,

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Zayin is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and he's getting ghosted from a date he went on

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Speaker 2: with a girl named Marissa. So we're about to call

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Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting

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Speaker 2: him and hopefully get him another date. But first, Zay,

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Speaker 2: why don't you recap your date with Marissa?

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Speaker 5: A sure thing.

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Speaker 3: We met at karaoke bar. We got along really really well.

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Speaker 3: We even sang together, which is unheard.

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Speaker 5: Of for me. We went on a date. It was fantastic.

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Speaker 3: I may, outside of possibly drinking too much of her

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Speaker 3: wine instead of as well as my own, it may

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Speaker 3: it was a perfect date.

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Speaker 5: It was fantastic. So just looking to see what happened.

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Speaker 4: All right? You ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, let's do it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, here we go. Hello him, speak to Marissa. Please,

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Speaker 4: this is she. Hey Marissa, how are you? My name

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Speaker 4: is Jewbell and I host a radio show. It's called

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Speaker 4: the Jewbill Show. Hi, Marissa, the Jewbill Show is here.

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Speaker 4: I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. How are you?

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Speaker 5: I'm doing good?

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Speaker 4: Did you listen to the show?

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Speaker 5: I do well?

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Speaker 4: Marissa? Have you ever heard a first date follow up before?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I do listen to those? Okay, great, how would you

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Speaker 4: like to be on one?

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Speaker 6: I honestly am not sure, but I'm here.

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Speaker 4: For the rye.

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Speaker 2: Okay, sweet, Well, we got an email about you from

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Speaker 2: a guy that you're ghosting. Do you have any idea

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Speaker 2: who that could be?

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Speaker 5: I would imagine you're talking about Zay.

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Speaker 4: Yes, okay, correct. Zay emailed us.

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Speaker 2: I said it's been about a week since your date

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Speaker 2: and he hasn't heard anything from you, and he's wondering why.

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Speaker 6: Well, after on a date to a wine bar, right,

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Speaker 6: and it was a great time.

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Speaker 4: I had a good time, but then we were like we.

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Speaker 6: Were getting a little buzzed, and he admitted that he

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Speaker 6: his favorite show was vander Pump Rules and like he

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Speaker 6: loves the Bravo Network. And that to me was a

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Speaker 6: bit of an ick because I mean, I'm a theater

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Speaker 6: kid and I don't really like reality TV. I think

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Speaker 6: it cheapens television. I think it takes away from people

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Speaker 6: who are real artists. If I'm like, if I'm going

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Speaker 6: to watch something on TV, it's going to be meaningful.

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Speaker 6: I mean, the people that are on reality television, they're

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Speaker 6: famous for no reason.

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Speaker 3: It just it.

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Speaker 7: Shepens TV for me, just love that it's vander Pump Rules.

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Speaker 7: For him, though, it was just cringe I just don't.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: It really turned me off in a moment.

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Speaker 4: And when you get the ick, you just get the hick.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you just can't get rid of it. I couldn't

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Speaker 4: Because he likes vander pump Ros.

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, okay, well, thank you for telling us.

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Speaker 2: Appreciate that Zaane is actually on the phone listening and

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Speaker 2: wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 4: It's like a reality.

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Speaker 5: Shows, that's it.

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Speaker 3: That's it, because I like, like, I understand that none

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Speaker 3: but it is dumb, simple comedy to me, and it

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Speaker 3: just you don't have to think about it. I don't understand.

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Speaker 3: Why is that, like a that's so odd to me?

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Speaker 3: Why would you not want to talk to me? Because

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Speaker 3: I like to cool down with a little bit of

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Speaker 3: really stupid, mindless television. I work in like really high stress,

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Speaker 3: nonsense tech industry, all that good stuff, so I'm high

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Speaker 3: ten out of the day and sometimes I just want

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Speaker 3: to turn on the TV and and watch idiots the

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Speaker 3: but I mean, that's really that's why you do you

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Speaker 3: ghosted me.

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Speaker 5: We had such a good time and that the uh,

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Speaker 5: that's that's it. I mean, I'm seeing pathetic.

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Speaker 6: I'm honestly embarrassed.

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Speaker 5: I didn't really I want you to hear what I thought,

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Speaker 5: and I don't. I certainly don't want to hurt your feelings. Well,

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Speaker 5: trust me, I did not hurt my feelings.

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Speaker 6: It just comes down to the fact that like, you're

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Speaker 6: not the one, Like I don't want to pursue you.

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Speaker 5: I don't want to pursue you.

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Speaker 3: Well, I didn't realize that the RAP network had that

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Speaker 3: much of an influence of your dating outcomes. But okay,

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Speaker 3: I'm my feelings aren't hurt. I understand cool, you don't

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Speaker 4: Would you like to go to another day with Zayne?

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Speaker 4: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 6: I really am sorry about all of this. I don't

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Speaker 6: think I'm interested. I mean, the reality TV of it

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Speaker 6: all is just not for me. I wouldn't want to

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Speaker 6: be around that for an extended period of time. And

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Speaker 6: if that's an interest.

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Speaker 5: Of yours, that's great for you, but it's not for me.

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Speaker 3: Well that is perfectly okay, because if it's going to

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Speaker 3: be about someone being so snapi about something is watching

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Speaker 3: something on television that I think the feeling's mutual.

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Speaker 5: Now thing, We're all.

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Speaker 6: Good, Okay, great, have a nice life with all the

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Speaker 6: reality TV stars, have.

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Speaker 5: A fun time getting that stick out your bumble.

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Speaker 4: First date to follow up