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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to You on air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 2: So, Tanya, I think you I'm hearing you're you're having

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Speaker 2: fear of missing out? Is that what I'm hearing? You're

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Speaker 2: having a fomo episode.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I actually don't really have fomo that much, but

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Speaker 3: I have really been feeling it lately because last week

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Speaker 3: we had Katie Perry in here and she was talking

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Speaker 3: about her lucky number and how she sees it everywhere

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Speaker 3: and one four one four three, yeah, and it made

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Speaker 3: me realize, like, I don't have a lucky number. One

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Speaker 3: of my girlfriends, her lucky number is eight. She books

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Speaker 3: every flight that she takes. I'll row eight because that's

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Speaker 3: like her lucky and I do that with my lucky number.

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Speaker 1: I don't have one.

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Speaker 4: Score.

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Speaker 2: By the way, there's nothing stopping you from making up

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Speaker 2: a lot, but I don't have.

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Speaker 5: Issue how to make it like there should be there

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Speaker 5: should be nine?

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Speaker 1: Why nine?

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Speaker 5: Well, that's how I made mine up. It's my birthdays

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Speaker 5: at thirty. First, I just added the three in the

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Speaker 5: one and that's four. And I did that when I

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Speaker 5: was about like seven years old.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's not it's not a difficult exercise.

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Speaker 3: Well then couldn't also be eighteen. If my birthday's on the.

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Speaker 2: Saturn, mine's one O two seventh. It is, I do everything.

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Speaker 2: Every every seat is the one hundred and second of

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Speaker 2: zero point seventy.

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Speaker 5: Do you ever make a wish when you when the

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Speaker 5: when the clock is twenty.

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Speaker 2: Seven, I lay me down to sleep, Pray the Lord

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Speaker 2: my soul to keep. If I should die before I wake,

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Speaker 2: I pray the Lord my soul take one O two

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Speaker 2: seven good night. That's what I do. Do you still

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Speaker 2: say your prayer like that? And I was like, my

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Speaker 2: prayers a chance you got me too?

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Speaker 1: No, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's a bit dark if I die before I wake,

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Speaker 2: Like why my yeah, before I wait, you should not

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Speaker 2: be Yeah, my last thought before I sleep should not be.

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Speaker 6: I think it's going to remix to yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I spend my time on one O two seven, uh,

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Speaker 2: every day and it's for twenty plus years, and it

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Speaker 2: feels like a lucky number to me, but like that's what.

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Speaker 3: I don't have, and like I really want it, but

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Speaker 3: I don't like eight and one nine nine doesn't feel

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Speaker 3: special to me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, when you think of.

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Speaker 5: The numbers, what's the first thought that comes to you.

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Speaker 6: That they're like, ooh, I like that one. Okay, then

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Speaker 6: maybe one? What's wrong with that cliche?

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Speaker 2: I'm number one, number one one. It won't get you far.

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Speaker 1: Because I'm like the third child.

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Speaker 2: Great, I do love that this is your biggest crisis

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Speaker 2: right now. I know a lot of problems in the world.

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Speaker 1: It's not a crisis. I just feel left out.

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Speaker 3: Like everybody has a lucky number and I just never

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Speaker 3: have had one, And like I'm you know.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be fine, Tony.

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Speaker 2: Do you have the date you meant Robbie?

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Speaker 1: Yes, is November fifth?

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Speaker 2: There you go?

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Speaker 6: Number five?

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Speaker 2: Eleven five?

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Speaker 1: Eleven five five is a good number?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Five's good? Is it better than three? Do you ever

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Speaker 1: play roulette? No?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I do like my favorite numbers.

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Speaker 2: There If you don't want to take our suggestions, no,

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Speaker 2: I like them. I like them. Why not eleven or

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Speaker 2: eleven five or one?

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Speaker 5: One?

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Speaker 2: Five? Is that too much? That's too big? Like it is?

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Speaker 2: Because can it not be in the hundreds? Oh?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: But remember I said I like the number one, And

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Speaker 3: if November is eleven, then maybe one is lucky.

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Speaker 2: The lucky number will write itself one day time.

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Speaker 3: Taylor got her this week, I have to Yeah, Taylor

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Speaker 3: has thirteen.

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Speaker 2: Like, yeah, good morning Ashley in Los Angeles. How are

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Speaker 2: you doing good?

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Speaker 7: How are you guys?

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Speaker 2: We are I can't speak for everybody, but I think

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Speaker 2: we're fine. We're good. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Good.

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Speaker 2: So you're calling us and uh, it's a call about

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Speaker 2: your current job. An issue there.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm hoping to get a little advice. So the

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Speaker 7: backstory is essentially, I started a new job last year.

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Speaker 7: It's been going great. I have a wonderful manager, a

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Speaker 7: great team. I've been very happy in this role. I

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Speaker 7: left my previous job because it was an extremely toxic

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Speaker 7: work environment with a really toxic manager. So I was

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Speaker 7: very happy to get away and land in this role

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Speaker 7: that I'm in now. My current manager very sadly announced

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Speaker 7: that she's leaving. My team were all really sad about it.

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Speaker 7: But she has this wonderful opportunity, and in a very weird,

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Speaker 7: crazy twist of events, my old toxic manager might be

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Speaker 7: hired into my current manager's role, so I might be

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Speaker 7: stuff back in. I know, it seems it's like unbelievable.

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Speaker 7: It seems like a little bit of a joke, like

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Speaker 7: it's not even real, And so I'm kind of in

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Speaker 7: a weird position, and I don't know if it's appropriate

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Speaker 7: to HR or the director just to kind of give

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Speaker 7: them the heads up about what could possibly be, you know,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know that you do it before. I

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Speaker 2: mean it kind of if something happens, then you sure

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Speaker 2: could go to HR with that report. But I don't

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Speaker 2: know that you should do anything before. I can't believe

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Speaker 2: your luck of now having this happen to you.

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Speaker 1: I know why I was the manager.

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Speaker 7: Oh she I truly like in like my all my years,

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Speaker 7: like in working, She's the worst manager I ever had.

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Speaker 7: She was an authoritarian, micromanager. She like had no empathy,

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Speaker 7: she was indecisive, she was like inappropriate basically like any

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Speaker 7: bullet point that's under like what toxic leadership looks like.

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Speaker 7: It was her. We had the most turnover of every team.

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Speaker 7: I was unsure how she really was still manager at

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Speaker 7: the point that I left, and so was everybody else.

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Speaker 7: It was, you know, like a widely known thing and

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Speaker 7: that's why people left. And you know, this company that

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Speaker 7: I work for now has such opposite ideals. It's such

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Speaker 7: a great company. So I would be sad to leave it,

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Speaker 7: but I definitely would have to leave again because it

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Speaker 7: was it just put everyone that worked with her in

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Speaker 1: It's terrible.

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Speaker 7: So I didn't know if I try to write it

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Speaker 7: out and then you know, just start looking, or if

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Speaker 7: I give the heads up. It's a tough, tough thing.

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Speaker 2: It's a miserable thing. I'm thinking back. There were a

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Speaker 2: that I don't I don't know if they were toxic

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Speaker 2: and was not it was it was not a pleasant experience. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: And I remember how excited I was when I found

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Speaker 2: out they were being transferred, and it just it just

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Speaker 2: changes your whole oh yeah, how and mentality and your

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Speaker 2: whole energy. So yeah, you know, you got to do

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Speaker 2: what's best for you. And if that's the start looking,

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Speaker 2: then maybe you got to do that. It's like, what's

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Speaker 2: what's the universe trying to tell you here by this

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Speaker 2: person coming back to your life, and how should you respond?

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Speaker 5: And is it your place to tell your new company

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Speaker 5: about how toxic that might not come off the right way?

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Speaker 1: No, And because you're new there. What if you just

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Speaker 1: say that you're too.

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Speaker 3: New, you don't have like that that they don't have

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Speaker 3: that trust in you, per se. And let's say this

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Speaker 3: old manager has some like what's the word come to

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Speaker 3: Jesus moment and they totally are like a different manager

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Speaker 3: in this new role and then people don't believe your word.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and maybe you've changed.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so yeah, dual track it.

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Speaker 2: Maybe let's let's see how it goes. Well, you have

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Speaker 2: a move. But thank you for calling. I'm serving that situation.

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Speaker 7: Thank you, guys. This is really helpful, all right.

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Speaker 2: You take care by hearing her voice, she's just like

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Speaker 2: a little hopeless ye, rock hard place, rock hard place,

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Speaker 2: scissors shot, just take it out of my head since

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Speaker 2: you told me that story. How's your day going so far? Well,

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Speaker 2: hopefully it hasn't gone that long, so hopefully it's just

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Speaker 2: shut off on the right foot, continue that way. I

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Speaker 2: was just looking at my schedule and I have a

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Speaker 2: dentist appointment later which I just had mine. That was

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Speaker 2: just getting the way I know every time I scheduled

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Speaker 2: my I'll be fine. I want to I want to

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Speaker 2: go do it and then just having a having a

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Speaker 2: doctor's or a dentist's appointment in the late afternoon in

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Speaker 5: The pits and you book it six months in advance

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but matter, you have to do it, but it's amazing.

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Speaker 2: Like just appointments in Los Angeles because of distances and

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Speaker 3: I have a friend that takes one full day off

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Speaker 2: I mean it may. I don't know if I could

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Speaker 2: do all of them in one day. My body couldn't

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Speaker 5: I'll do that on Fridays after like because we get

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Speaker 5: I do, like my nails, it's more like self care,

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Speaker 5: maybe all throwing a massage before I have to get

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Speaker 5: much as account on Fridays.

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Speaker 2: So did you go to the dentist to get this mouthguard?

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Speaker 5: I just went to the dentist and he's and he

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Speaker 5: was like, Sisney, your gums are receding so bad.

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Speaker 1: Are you wearing your mouthguard at night?

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Speaker 5: And I was like, no, doctor Pima, I don't even

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Speaker 5: know where my mouthguard is right. Part doesn't even fit anymore,

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Speaker 5: all the things. And he's like, okay, you need to

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Speaker 5: get another one.

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Speaker 1: Ah whatever.

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Speaker 5: So fine, I got a mouthguard, but I'm like, I

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Speaker 5: don't like wearing them because they're just so ugly and uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: You're supposed to wear a twenty four to seven. No,

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Speaker 1: you wear it at night after you brush your teeth,

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Speaker 1: you put it in, you pop it in.

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Speaker 2: But the mouthguard is not for straightening your teeth back

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Speaker 2: out there, he says, for your gumlet.

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Speaker 6: It's for grinding my teeth.

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Speaker 5: I grind my teeth that night, and that's where the

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Speaker 5: line and that's what's hap causing the receding of my gum.

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Speaker 5: But he's like, okay, I can do that on. I

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Speaker 5: can do the mouth guard for your bottom teeth. And

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Speaker 5: I was like, hmm, right, it seems a little you

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Speaker 5: got to wear it. I do have to wear it.

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Speaker 5: I have it now, and I would say I'm wearing

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Speaker 5: it like eighty percent of the time.

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Speaker 6: I just forget, and then I just don't want to

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Speaker 6: put it on.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and it's the.

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Speaker 2: That should scare you enough.

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Speaker 1: You protect your mouth, you know, protect your mouth talk.

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Speaker 1: Taping your mouth shut at night? Okay, that doesn't with

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Speaker 6: Aially, let me Google. I don't know you, but let

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Speaker 2: Taping your mouth shut is not going to correct her

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Speaker 6: No, let me see.

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Speaker 5: And I want your search to come from the Mayo Clinic.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so uh, there's not much research to support that

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Speaker 2: Recently we talked about things that couples should never say

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Speaker 2: maybe it's good just to hear it. I would away.

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Speaker 2: you know, just out of the blue, these are great.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, this.

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Speaker 2: Is not a time for you to brag. Sorry, So

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Speaker 2: I know you do. And I don't advocate this one

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's a given, don't we all say that?

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Speaker 2: But do you really want to go through it all?

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Speaker 2: And then finally, and this is a good one too.

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Speaker 2: and you say this, I appreciate you.

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Speaker 5: Okay, but you can just say I appreciate you with

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Speaker 2: You're fine. But I think it's like when when Michael

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Speaker 5: That goes all around. By this, I add it to

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Speaker 2: Christy, I love having you around.

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Speaker 6: I love having you around.

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Speaker 1: That's so nice.

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Speaker 6: Mormon fuzzy.

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Speaker 2: We have a quote today, Thursday's quote focusing on your

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Speaker 6: Amen.

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Speaker 1: I need to hear that again.

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Speaker 2: It's a long one. Can you read it? So are

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Speaker 2: the backroom lights off?

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Speaker 5: There?

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Speaker 2: Looks looks like it is. Yeah, ladies, you have it too,

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Speaker 2: very ambiyonce.

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Speaker 6: Wow, big difference.

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Speaker 2: There we go. Now we can see everybody in the

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Speaker 6: He's right there.

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Speaker 1: They're just like a Claire, Yeah, there you are.

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Speaker 2: What's up? Okay, let's get to this. Claire is on

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Speaker 2: the line and she has a question about a red flag. Claire,

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Speaker 2: good morning, and thank you for listening. So you have

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Speaker 8: Good morning, Ryan.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: So yeah, So we're getting married soon ish and I'm

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Speaker 8: stoked about it, and we're doing like bachelorette bachelor party stuff.

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Speaker 8: We're like planning or whatever. And my fiance has a

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Speaker 8: It's great. But now that we're getting married, he wants

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Speaker 8: I think it's a little weird that, like it's all

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Speaker 8: they're like, oh, that's sweet, you know, and that's not

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Speaker 2: I think it's actually a really good sign that he

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Speaker 2: friends and they teach you a lot. Like I've got

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Speaker 2: and there's there's a lot of benefit to that from

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Speaker 2: me my view. Has he dated all of these people? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: female friends, and have you met them?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I've met all of them and they're all great.

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Speaker 8: He's dated two of them, but but they're lovely.

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Speaker 2: So you're fine with the ones he's dated. But I

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Speaker 2: don't think, just generally speaking, it's a red flag.

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Speaker 3: Tanya, Well, I didn't know that you were engaged to

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Speaker 3: be married, so it feels like we're a little far

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Speaker 2: That would, wouldn't you. I think it's a good thing

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Speaker 2: that he has great relationships with females.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I love the females that he has as his

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Speaker 3: friends love him a lot. But I think I would

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Speaker 1: I would.

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Speaker 5: I don't think it would bug me. It wouldn't bug

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So I don't think you should think too much

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Speaker 2: about this in the red flag.

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Speaker 3: Because she's having these feelings, and so that means that

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Speaker 3: she's having them and those are her feelings and they're valid.

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Speaker 5: If the tables were turned and you had three best

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Speaker 5: guy friends and they were going to come to your

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Speaker 5: bachelorette party, would you want him causing a big scene?

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Speaker 8: That's that's a really good point, because yeah, I do

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Speaker 8: have two guy friends that are coming that area.

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Speaker 2: All right, Claire, Well, congratulations, the big excitement of a

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Speaker 2: wedding coming up, all the fun. Remember, you'll be with

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Speaker 2: them every single day for the rest of your life.

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Speaker 6: That's how you chose.

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Speaker 2: Enjoy these days now, every single day, until death do

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Speaker 2: you part?

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Speaker 1: Every noise that they make, all of that.

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Speaker 2: It's a long time.

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Speaker 1: Do people still say until death do we part?

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Speaker 6: You can choose to have it said however you want.

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Speaker 2: Basically, you're going to die with the person.

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Speaker 1: I took the whole thing.

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Speaker 6: I took the thing out.

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Speaker 5: If anybody objects to this matrimony or whatever, like how yeah.

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Speaker 2: I invite you to get your opinion and objects.

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Speaker 5: I was like, I was kind of worried, like what

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Speaker 5: if someone does it's like such.

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Speaker 3: A down or like even when it's said and nobody,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's still a weird thing to do. I only

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's coming out?

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Speaker 2: Is that un object?

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Speaker 9: Yes?

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Speaker 8: I do.

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Speaker 9: I still love her and I'm here and I'll tell

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Speaker 9: the world now, please we need.

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Speaker 2: To be together seen Todd movie speak now or forever

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Speaker 2: hold your piece? Yes, but yes, till death do you part?

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Speaker 1: That's gonna come out of ours too.

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Speaker 10: Well.

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Speaker 2: You gotta tell me, because I was writing the whole script.

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Speaker 6: No, I'll write it.

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Speaker 1: I'll write it.

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Speaker 5: You got to say it for as long as we

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Speaker 5: both are living or something like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, something like that.

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Speaker 2: Well, no, I'll decide how I want to say it. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you a couple. I got a couple of things here.

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Speaker 6: I gave the microphone.

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Speaker 2: You too are going to die together?

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Speaker 9: Okay, die number two while we're here. Anybody want to

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Speaker 9: stand up and argue this? Yeah, anybody object to any

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Speaker 9: of this?

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Speaker 1: People in and I'll go round the room, take some

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Speaker 1: time of my speed and start the whole thing. I'll you,

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Speaker 1: guys sure you really want to do this?

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Speaker 2: Are you sure? And I m give away some Disneyland

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Speaker 2: tickets to people who attend it to us to get

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Speaker 2: a little perking, I'll give jingle ball. I'll spike him in.

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Speaker 1: There and at the very end and iHeart radio.

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Speaker 2: With a dast card and an MGM Park Hotels day.

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Speaker 6: That's right.

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Speaker 2: I mean time him come and packed with prizes.

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Speaker 6: I love that problem.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he'll break the icel. But it gets too serious

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Speaker 2: or downer, I'll break the ices.

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Speaker 1: There's gonna be no downer.

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Speaker 2: Just up, Okay, just stop. That's right, Katie, Good morning.

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 11: I'm good? How are you?

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Speaker 2: We're doing all right? So you're calling about an issue

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Speaker 2: with the guy you're dating, Yeah, what's the issue.

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Speaker 11: So we've been seeing each other for like about five

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Speaker 11: months now, and I think everything's going really well. Like

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Speaker 11: I've met his family, he's met mine, Like we go

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Speaker 11: on dates like every week, like we see each other

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Speaker 11: all the time. But he and he told me he's

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Speaker 11: not seeing anyone else, but he doesn't want to put

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Speaker 2: Why does he not want to put a labe? We

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Speaker 2: need to find out why. So if he's not seen

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Speaker 2: anybody and he wants to see you, what's the reason

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Speaker 11: So he was married before we met, and they've just

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Speaker 11: he was with her for like years and years before that.

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Speaker 11: So I just think that that's the reason.

448
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Speaker 2: Why I scarred a little bit from whatever happened in

449
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Speaker 2: the past. Yeah, if you were to come over to

450
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Speaker 2: Tanya's house, I mean you would have been invited and

451
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Speaker 2: she and Robbie were to host you and Katie he

452
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Speaker 2: were to come and introduce you. He would say, Hi, Robbie, Tanya,

453
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Speaker 2: this is Katie my What what would he say?

454
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Speaker 11: I don't know. See, that's the thing is, like I

455
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Speaker 11: want to be able to say this is my boyfriend,

456
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Speaker 11: and yeah, I feel like I would be awkward, like

457
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Speaker 11: what would he say, like that's why I'm calling because

458
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Speaker 11: I'm like.

459
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Speaker 2: I, well, maybe I learned this lesson very quickly when

460
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Speaker 2: I had a girlfriend, but I wasn't so trained to

461
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Speaker 2: introduce her as my girlfriend. And we were at something

462
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Speaker 2: and I was like, this is so and so without

463
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Speaker 2: saying this is my girlfriend so and so, and I

464
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Speaker 2: was corrected and understood. So I learned that lesson. But

465
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Speaker 2: there must be a reason why he doesn't want the label.

466
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Speaker 2: Maybe it is because he went through something in the

467
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Speaker 2: past and his fear of maybe going too fast or

468
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Speaker 2: his fear of your expectation is holding him back. It

469
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Speaker 2: may not be such a red flag. It may be

470
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Speaker 2: part of what he's his trauma.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, no, definitely, I was thinking that, like, maybe it's

472
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Speaker 11: just I have to give it a little bit more time.

473
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Speaker 6: How long happened to me?

474
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Speaker 10: We've been We met.

475
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Speaker 11: Like five months ago, so I mean it's still pretty new.

476
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Speaker 11: And yeah, we met for a friend, so it's not

477
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Speaker 11: like he was like on a dating like looking for anything.

478
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Speaker 11: You know, it was like a casual I.

479
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Speaker 5: Feel like five months is an okay, time to yeah,

480
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Speaker 5: and get a label on it.

481
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Speaker 2: Though, can you do something that I don't love to do,

482
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Speaker 2: which is say, hey, can we talk about why? Just

483
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Speaker 2: talk and about why he doesn't want the label, so

484
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Speaker 2: that you can understand from his point of view what's

485
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Speaker 2: going on there.

486
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Speaker 1: That's an interesting way to get into the conversation.

487
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Speaker 11: Yeah. No, I definitely have to do that.

488
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Speaker 2: I don't like doing that myself, but I definitely advise

489
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Speaker 2: you do it. Okay, all right, well, good luck it out. Yeah.

490
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Speaker 2: I would give him a beat on this and benefit

491
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Speaker 2: of the doubt on it too, since he's been through

492
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Speaker 2: something it sounds like, all right.

493
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Speaker 11: Katie, Yeah, definitely, thanks so much.

494
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Speaker 2: Thank you very much. I mean, I have been in

495
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Speaker 2: that moment where I was not ready for labels.

496
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Speaker 6: At five months into a thing already.

497
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Speaker 2: I don't know the timing. I can't remember that the calendar,

498
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Speaker 2: but I have been in that point where, like I say,

499
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Speaker 2: I wasn't quite sure where I was yet with myself.

500
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Speaker 2: So it's like and coming off of some thing, not

501
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Speaker 2: ready to call it anything yet. Now I could evolve

502
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Speaker 2: into something yet, but I happened that place where I'm

503
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Speaker 2: not ready yet, Tanya, I have not.

504
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Speaker 3: Been in that position in my life, but I have

505
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Speaker 3: been with somebody in that position. But I think it's

506
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Speaker 3: interesting because you know, they say love is patient. That's

507
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Speaker 3: the first thing that I love.

508
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Speaker 2: They said it's blind.

509
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Speaker 1: Yeah, love is patient.

510
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Speaker 2: So if it's meant to be able to wait, yeah, But.

511
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Speaker 3: Also I think there's a there's a balance, right, you know,

512
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Speaker 3: like sometimes you might not meet somebody that's on the

513
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Speaker 3: same page as you, Like when Robbin and I met,

514
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Speaker 3: we were not on the same pace or the same page,

515
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Speaker 3: but we compromise and met in the middle in ways

516
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Speaker 3: that made us both feel comfortable.

517
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Speaker 1: And I think that's kind of what you have to do.

518
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Speaker 2: And you guys took the treadmill down to one point

519
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Speaker 2: z here on a one point incline. I mean, you guys,

520
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Speaker 2: really you took the speed down on your relationship a

521
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Speaker 2: little bit.

522
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Speaker 3: We did in the beginning, and then I got to

523
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Speaker 3: a point where I was like, I don't want to

524
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Speaker 3: do this any this one point one on a one

525
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Speaker 3: point six point five with an incline exactly, And you

526
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Speaker 3: know what, he gave me the six point five on

527
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Speaker 3: an incline.

528
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Speaker 2: And then something, I mean, you guys are really at

529
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Speaker 2: an incline. I like it. You're going right up that mountain,

530
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Speaker 2: right to the peak. Right, guys, this is fun and

531
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Speaker 2: anytime you have a relationship issue, we'd love to hear it.

532
00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 2: I'm not quite sure how our advice all shakes out,

533
00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:18,919
Speaker 2: but we do try. I mean we do like we

534
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Speaker 2: do try kiss time for Ryan's roses. If you've been

535
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Speaker 2: waiting here it is so check it out. My husband

536
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,760
Speaker 2: and I. This is the email had people over last weekend.

537
00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:33,199
Speaker 2: In the backyard. He and his friends were listening to

538
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Speaker 2: a soccer game on his phone. That's when his phone

539
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Speaker 2: announced to everyone that he'd received a photo from someone

540
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Speaker 2: in the six to six one. The photo was completely inappropriate,

541
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Speaker 2: and I think I know who it was from. That's Sabrina. Sabrina,

542
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Speaker 2: thank you for coming on in, Santa Clarita. Can you

543
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Speaker 2: tell us anyone about this inappropriate photo? What did you see?

544
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Speaker 10: H Yeah, well, the phone was closer to us, and

545
00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:08,680
Speaker 10: so Fiery interrupted like the phone speaker to say, oh,

546
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:12,360
Speaker 10: the phone number six six one, blah blah blah has

547
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Speaker 10: set you a photo. And I saw him looking for it.

548
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Speaker 10: He looked kind of panicked, but it was right in

549
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Speaker 10: front of me. So I picked it up, and I

550
00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 10: saw a naked woman on the phone, so I just

551
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Speaker 10: set it down and I stood up and I went inside,

552
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Speaker 10: and once everyone was gone, he came to find me,

553
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Speaker 10: and he was like swearing up and down that it's

554
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Speaker 10: like just spam.

555
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Speaker 2: Okay, but you think you knew who it was? How

556
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Speaker 2: did you recognize the person?

557
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Speaker 9: Well?

558
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Speaker 10: It okay, So it was like a woman with dark hair,

559
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Speaker 10: but like her hair was covering half her face. But

560
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Speaker 10: it looked a lot like his coworker Melanie. And it

561
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Speaker 10: had a six six 's one area code, and she

562
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Speaker 10: lived in Palmdale, which is in the sixty sixth one.

563
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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, Tom Dale's sixty sixth one. Got it? Well,

564
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Speaker 2: how did your husband explain any of this or the

565
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:14,640
Speaker 2: people around you how they react?

566
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Speaker 10: I mean he said he had no idea who this

567
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Speaker 10: like picture is or where it came from, the who

568
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Speaker 10: the number is.

569
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Speaker 8: It's hard to.

570
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Speaker 10: Tell because of her hair covering her face. But like

571
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Speaker 10: he was, he was freaking out too much.

572
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Speaker 2: Yeah, his reaction was too over the top. He panicked, Okay,

573
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Speaker 2: all right, we got it. I mean, look naked full

574
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Speaker 2: are you thinking of who it is? It's in the

575
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Speaker 2: six sixth one. We've got all we need. Has he

576
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Speaker 2: ever been unfaithful to you in the past? I'm just curious.

577
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Speaker 10: Uh no, no, yeah, he's like lied to me before,

578
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:56,040
Speaker 10: like little stuff and I found stuff in his web

579
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Speaker 10: history but he and he like denies how it caught

580
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:01,120
Speaker 10: there too.

581
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:06,119
Speaker 2: We are set, everything's in place to call. Sobrina's husband.

582
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:10,359
Speaker 2: So here's the deal. Over the weekend barbecue and the

583
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:13,560
Speaker 2: guys ringing out together, a photo comes in on his

584
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:16,320
Speaker 2: phone or husband's phone from someone in the sixty six

585
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:18,920
Speaker 2: to one, and it's a naked picture. It's a picture

586
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:23,119
Speaker 2: of a naked woman. And she thinks she recognizes the

587
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 2: naked woman in the photo. The name of the woman

588
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:27,719
Speaker 2: is Melanie, and Melanie lives in the sixty sixth one

589
00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 2: in Palmdum. So she was saying, sprinted you were saying,

590
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 2: you're your husband's never cheated, but he's lied to you.

591
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 2: What does he lied to you about?

592
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:41,719
Speaker 10: Uh, it's just like little stuff like I found some

593
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:45,640
Speaker 10: stuff in his web history and he denied knowing how

594
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:49,400
Speaker 10: it's got there, which I don't that sort of thing

595
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 10: where he'll just like lie about little things like looking

596
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Speaker 10: on Instagram.

597
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:57,199
Speaker 2: Got it all right? Need you to say Ryan. You

598
00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 2: my permission to call, and then his name on Kiss FM.

599
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:05,680
Speaker 10: Go ahead, Uh, you have my permission to call.

600
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 2: Okay, we're going to do that right now. And her

601
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Speaker 2: name is Melanie. Her name is Melanie. Thank you, Sabrina.

602
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,639
Speaker 2: Good luck. We'll see we can find out. Be very quiet,

603
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 2: Sistany's calling now.

604
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, can I speak to Tony please?

605
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 4: This is Tony.

606
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 10: Hi.

607
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:37,520
Speaker 1: My name is Vicky. I'm calling from V's Flowers.

608
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Speaker 6: How are you doing this morning?

609
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Speaker 9: Good?

610
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Speaker 1: Great? You know we actually deliver all over Santa Clarita

611
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Speaker 1: parts of LA.

612
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 5: We're right on McBean Parkway near the hospital and promoting

613
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Speaker 5: our new business. It's a free dozen red roses that

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Speaker 5: you can send to anybody that you'd like today.

615
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Speaker 12: No, I'm okay, thank you?

616
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Speaker 1: Are you sure? They're absolutely free?

617
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Speaker 5: Like, I don't need cash, I don't need credit card info,

618
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Speaker 5: I don't need anything. We can just start with the

619
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Speaker 5: name of the person you want to send them to

620
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Speaker 5: and a note.

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Speaker 12: I mean, a three dozen roses, no credit cards, no

622
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Speaker 12: strings attached.

623
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Speaker 2: Exactly.

624
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Speaker 6: Do you live in the area?

625
00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 7: Yeah? I do.

626
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Speaker 2: Yeah.

627
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Speaker 5: So we're just hoping that you like our arrangements and

628
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Speaker 5: then you come back as a customer one day.

629
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Speaker 1: We did this promotion about once a month to local residence.

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Speaker 12: You just like you, just like Josie randomly.

631
00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:31,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, you may purchase something online in the last six

632
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Speaker 5: to eighteen months and selected to receive promotional offers.

633
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Speaker 12: Okay, I guess as long as it's free. No credit cards,

634
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 12: I guess, just send them to my wife.

635
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 6: Okay, why don't we start there?

636
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 1: What's your wife's name, Sabrina?

637
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:52,720
Speaker 6: And what do you like to put on the note?

638
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 5: Oh?

639
00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 12: Just put I love you dot dot dot always forever.

640
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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Tony, your voice is being broadcast on

641
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 2: the radio. I have your wife Sabrina, on the line,

642
00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 2: and we are here together for this occasion to ask

643
00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 2: you a couple of questions. Tony, if you don't mind,

644
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 2: your wife has real concern that something may be going

645
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 2: on with another woman. Can you talk about that at all?

646
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 2: You received a naked picture from a woman in Palmdale.

647
00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:28,400
Speaker 2: Does that sound familiar?

648
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 12: Okay, I'm sorry? What the heck is going on right now?

649
00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 2: So your wife reached out to us here to call

650
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 2: you to find out who you might be sending roses to.

651
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:45,200
Speaker 2: Did another woman cross your mind?

652
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:47,560
Speaker 13: No?

653
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 12: My Sabrina is my wife.

654
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Speaker 2: There's no other okay. And who's the woman just Carrie

655
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Speaker 2: when you're a barbecue with a friends the other day?

656
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Speaker 2: Who's the woman that sent the naked photo of herself

657
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Speaker 2: from the six six to one? I'm curious.

658
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:03,240
Speaker 12: Uh, we went over this, I thought, but I don't

659
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 12: know who that was, so I don't know what she's

660
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Speaker 12: trying to do.

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Speaker 2: So m hm and the wrong number?

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Speaker 6: How often do you send you pictures like that?

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Speaker 12: That was the only time I've ever gotten a picture

664
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Speaker 12: from but your wife, and your wife recognizes Yeah, your

665
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:26,720
Speaker 12: wife recognized the woman, Sabrina.

666
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Speaker 2: Do you want to tell him who you thought it was?

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Speaker 10: Yeah? Is it Melanie? I just really need to know.

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Speaker 8: Are you there?

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Speaker 12: First of all, no, And second of all, I don't

670
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Speaker 12: think that we should be saying my coworkers' names on

671
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Speaker 12: the radio.

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00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:43,720
Speaker 8: Okay.

673
00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:47,680
Speaker 10: Well, I'm really worried, and it doesn't seem like you're

674
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 10: it just it looked like Melanie to me.

675
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:57,560
Speaker 12: Right, Okay, it wasn't her. I don't know who it was,

676
00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:00,960
Speaker 12: so I don't know what else to'll tell you.

677
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 6: Is there something going on with you and Melanie radio?

678
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,680
Speaker 12: There's nothing going on with me and Melanie. The picture

679
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:11,600
Speaker 12: was not Melanie. I don't know why this is happening

680
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 12: right now, but and.

681
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 2: Did you tell me when you saw this picture come in?

682
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:15,720
Speaker 2: What was your reaction?

683
00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 12: I don't know. I mean it is a random naked

684
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:23,560
Speaker 12: lady being texted to my phone, so I was kind

685
00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 12: of shocked, but either blocked the number and uh, and

686
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 12: that's it.

687
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, Tony, thank you for coming on with us,

688
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:36,240
Speaker 2: Thank you for answering the questions. Sabrina. You'll have to

689
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:41,520
Speaker 2: listen to those responses and create your opinion. And I

690
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 2: don't know there's any more we can do.

691
00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 10: Yeah, I feel like we still need to do something

692
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 10: about it. So I'm gonna I'm gonna say, let's text

693
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 10: that phone number back together, and let's say hi Melanie

694
00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:58,360
Speaker 10: and text that person, and we will see how that

695
00:32:58,400 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 10: person responds.

696
00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:05,959
Speaker 12: For I blocked the number. I blocked it, I deleted it.

697
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 12: I don't even know what that number was. So even

698
00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:10,920
Speaker 12: if I wanted to do that, which I would, I

699
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 12: don't even know the number.

700
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 10: I know how to access block numbers, will unblock it,

701
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 10: and we will text the phone number. And if you

702
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 10: have nothing to hide, then you should be fine with it.

703
00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 2: Okay, So we have a plan, too much work, Tony,

704
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 2: it's not who you say it is. If it is

705
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 2: somebody you know, then this is the response. See now

706
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 2: I'm concerned, Tony. I was starting to believe you. Now

707
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:38,720
Speaker 2: I think that you're fighting this from your wife, trying

708
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:40,480
Speaker 2: to cover something up. What gives.

709
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 12: I don't think it's worth all this trouble, coluntor Radio is.

710
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 2: Because your wife. You're digging. Indeed, now we're hacking in

711
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:53,440
Speaker 2: my phone.

712
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 6: It shouldn't be an issue.

713
00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 2: It's not an issue trying to cover something up here, Tony,

714
00:33:57,160 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 2: it sounds like you are, Tony. Your wife thinks you cheating. No,

715
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 2: she's not being dramatic. You are blowing it off in

716
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 2: you're gas sliding, and you try to spin us all

717
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:11,320
Speaker 2: right here. And Tony, if it is such an important

718
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:14,279
Speaker 2: thing that you believe your wife should believe you, then

719
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 2: let her do this because she thinks you're cheating right

720
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:18,520
Speaker 2: now she thinks that, so let her get all of

721
00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:19,560
Speaker 2: the things out of her head.

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00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:22,719
Speaker 12: Really have time for this right now.

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00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:25,760
Speaker 3: Sorry, And I just want to say, be careful texting

724
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:28,440
Speaker 3: these random numbers, because I had to have gotten a

725
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:30,920
Speaker 3: weird photo sent to my phone that was just a

726
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 3: random weird.

727
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 1: I don't know who it was, where it came from,

728
00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 1: and I just want to say, no, I don't.

729
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:37,880
Speaker 2: Know, but it was.

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00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:40,759
Speaker 3: It was kind of a provocative photo and it was

731
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:43,400
Speaker 3: sent to me and it was very weird out of nowhere.

732
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 3: And so just say, be careful texting that number because

733
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 3: if it is some sort of spam or scam, just

734
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:49,600
Speaker 3: be careful.

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00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:52,759
Speaker 12: Yeah, I blocked it as spam and the numbers gone.

736
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Speaker 2: I just I just don't know why you wouldn't open

737
00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 2: up all of this to your wife if she thinks

738
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Speaker 2: you're cheating. So all right, well, good luck to both

739
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 2: of me. Thank you. He's definitely covering someone's not a scam.

740
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:06,799
Speaker 2: He's like not letting her go. Look, which is That's it?

741
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 2: That's it. That's it. On air with Ryan Seacrest, going

742
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 2: back to Ryan's rose a few minutes ago. So here's

743
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:22,080
Speaker 2: the deal. Sabrina and Tony together married. Tony got a

744
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 2: naked picture sent to him from a six six to

745
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:26,800
Speaker 2: one area code. Sabrina saw it, Sprina thinks she recognized

746
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:31,920
Speaker 2: a woman. Tony sends the flowers to his wife, but Sabrina,

747
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:35,400
Speaker 2: his wife, still believes that this was a woman he

748
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:37,799
Speaker 2: knew He says it was just an accident or a

749
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:42,000
Speaker 2: mistake or spam or somebody didn't know. And I believe him,

750
00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 2: I really believe him. He sent the flower to his wife,

751
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:45,799
Speaker 2: he said it was a mistake. It wasn't for him.

752
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:49,680
Speaker 2: I believed him until his wife said, Okay, we'll text

753
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:53,520
Speaker 2: that number back and see if Melanie responds or not.

754
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 2: And he's like, no, no, no, we don't need to do that.

755
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:57,800
Speaker 2: But if your wife thinks you're cheating, why wouldn't you

756
00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:00,239
Speaker 2: go to every and you're not guilty. Why you go

757
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 2: to every single length to let her have the peace

758
00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 2: of mind in proof you're not. He won't let her.

759
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:06,240
Speaker 2: He wont let fall.

760
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:10,279
Speaker 3: Because if it's spam or scam, you don't want your

761
00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 3: wife to Texas spam or scam number.

762
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 2: And then the guy is in a situation where she

763
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 2: thinks he's cheating. She thinks she recognized the naked photo.

764
00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:22,480
Speaker 2: He says it was a mistake. She says, prove it.

765
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:25,640
Speaker 2: He says I won't, and he can't. But he won't.

766
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:28,560
Speaker 2: So now I want eighty this and I think he's lying.

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00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:32,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was believing his whole story up until that moment.

768
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 2: Well, let's get Jeremiah's point of view in Lawndale. Jeremiah,

769
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:36,839
Speaker 2: good morning.

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00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:40,400
Speaker 4: Hey, good morning, how are you.

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00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:41,760
Speaker 2: I'm good.

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00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 4: I want to share a quote based on what we

773
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:49,960
Speaker 4: just listened to, which is, once you crumble a piece

774
00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:52,280
Speaker 4: of paper, it can never be made the same again.

775
00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:55,840
Speaker 4: And I think this is kind of a great example

776
00:36:55,880 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 4: of this because you gotta trust your significant others. But

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00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 4: if he's lied in the past, and the fact that

778
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:07,279
Speaker 4: he's a prayer to text a random spam number, that's

779
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:08,919
Speaker 4: a huge red flag. Yep.

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00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:11,400
Speaker 1: So I love that.

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00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:14,000
Speaker 2: I think he's lying. I think he's covering it up.

782
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:15,440
Speaker 2: Is he cheating, I don't know, but I think he's

783
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:17,399
Speaker 2: getting photos from the woman she recognized you.

784
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:19,480
Speaker 1: Can't put the toothpaste back in the tube.

785
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,919
Speaker 4: On why won't you text that person back? I get

786
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 4: random spam messages all the time and I love to,

787
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:28,319
Speaker 4: you know, prank them a little bit.

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00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 2: Well, Jeremi, I appreciate a male's point of view on this.

789
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:36,640
Speaker 2: Thank you for listening, Dave for calling Ryan's roses. Everybody's

790
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 2: always got an opinion, and thank you for sharing that

791
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:41,760
Speaker 2: quote with us.

792
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:42,759
Speaker 1: I love that quote.

793
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:44,759
Speaker 2: It's a public service. It's a great quote. Same with

794
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 2: a toothpaste quote. Thank you, m fact is he lied right?

795
00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:55,439
Speaker 2: He lied before. It's a major issue. Remember she said

796
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 2: he's a liar, he covered stuff up.

797
00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 1: I know with him on this one.

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00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:02,880
Speaker 3: Like if I if Robbie tried to contact this person

799
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:05,760
Speaker 3: that sent me the weird photo, I would say, please don't.

800
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:06,880
Speaker 1: It's a scam.

801
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:09,400
Speaker 2: That's because you know, and he doesn't believe you're cheating.

802
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:13,280
Speaker 2: I know, but time you're missing. It would be different.

803
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:15,279
Speaker 2: If Robbie thought you were cheating, you'd say, do whatever

804
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 2: you want.

805
00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 6: I'm telling you the truth.

806
00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 1: And then these scammers are scary, not scared of no scammer.

807
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,640
Speaker 2: Let's get to this. Yesterday, Tony brought up this concept

808
00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 2: of anniversaries. Okay, which do you celebrate? Do you go

809
00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 2: for the first state anniversary? Is it the becoming exclusive anniversary? Engagement?

810
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 2: Obviously once you have a marriage, it's just a wedding anniversary, yes, right.

811
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 1: But there are certain people that take it that extra

812
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 1: step of like the first time we kissed and the

813
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:50,040
Speaker 1: first thing. It's like, there's there's five anniversaries.

814
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 2: Just because I celebrate those things. You don't have to

815
00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 2: bring me back. There's a guy so by coincidence. This

816
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:58,360
Speaker 2: was posted on Reddit yesterday and it's dividing the internet.

817
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:00,720
Speaker 2: There's a guy that's been with his girlfriend for a year. Right, Okay,

818
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 2: they had an amazing, magical first date. They both called

819
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 2: it the best night of their lives.

820
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 1: Wow.

821
00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 2: So fast forward five months later, he found out she

822
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 2: slept with her ex between their first and second dates,

823
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,760
Speaker 2: so they were not exclusive, not cheating, that's not the issue.

824
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 2: But he still doesn't want to celebrate the anniversary of

825
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:21,720
Speaker 2: the first date because it reminds him of what happened

826
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:23,399
Speaker 2: between the first and the second date.

827
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 1: Right.

828
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:28,360
Speaker 2: She says this show said that he's not forgiven her

829
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:31,600
Speaker 2: and it's still hung up on it. Well, I I

830
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:36,080
Speaker 2: blame her. I I do blame her. It would have

831
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:38,759
Speaker 2: been so easy just to go from date one to

832
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:39,879
Speaker 2: day two without that.

833
00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, in a perfect world, for sure. But yeah, and

834
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 5: I can't I see his side a little bit. It's

835
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:46,759
Speaker 5: tainted love.

836
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:51,880
Speaker 3: I'm not tainted love. This is their magical day. Stuff happened.

837
00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:53,920
Speaker 2: But wait a minute. If that was the best night

838
00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 2: of their lives, then why do you go back to

839
00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 2: where you were where it wasn't the best thing?

840
00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:00,200
Speaker 3: Because she probably had plans already set with this this

841
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:02,640
Speaker 3: X of hers and she wasn't gonna bail because she

842
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 3: was like, this is two early early days, one date.

843
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 1: So she went on it. She maybe accidentally had with

844
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 1: him and.

845
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:13,879
Speaker 13: Then accidentally fall on top of this saying if if

846
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:15,719
Speaker 13: you say this was the best night of our lives,

847
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:19,080
Speaker 13: you have that mutual magical moment together, then I feel

848
00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 13: bad for him because he now has to celebrate the

849
00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:22,239
Speaker 13: second date is.

850
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 2: The first day for him.

851
00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 1: Yea, his heart's broken.

852
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:27,880
Speaker 6: If this happened to Michael.

853
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:30,280
Speaker 5: And if I found this out and it would ruin

854
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 5: the first date.

855
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 2: You're correct, it would not.

856
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:34,719
Speaker 5: I would be like, it doesn't count from that date,

857
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 5: then it counts from when we picked up afterwards.

858
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:38,520
Speaker 2: I'm my second guess the whole relationship.

859
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 1: Note, Oh this is this is henhouse.

860
00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 2: You don't even know what that means?

861
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:43,319
Speaker 6: Yes, I do.

862
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 3: I think that they should celebrate from that first day.

863
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:47,520
Speaker 3: There's always great area.

864
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:49,279
Speaker 1: I just think it's.

865
00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:53,480
Speaker 2: Appropriate to the gentleman that this happened to I'm on

866
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:55,759
Speaker 2: your side, but we could go on in circles. Let's

867
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 2: get Grace and Fontana on the phone. Grace, good morning,

868
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:04,400
Speaker 2: good morning. So explain this to me, So, your son's wife,

869
00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 2: this is some wedding drama. I believe your son's wife

870
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 2: is a bridesmaid, but your son is not a groomsman.

871
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 14: Correct, So let me back up the sorry. I none

872
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:19,840
Speaker 14: of my friends have ever like done this fancy weddings

873
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:23,440
Speaker 14: like Tanya is about to do and like Susany has done.

874
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:25,080
Speaker 2: So I've never been invited.

875
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 14: To be a bridesmaid or anything.

876
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:28,840
Speaker 12: All my friends want to elope or do something like that.

877
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 14: And of course I haven't gotten married like that, so

878
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:34,120
Speaker 14: I don't know like.

879
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:36,919
Speaker 15: The procedure or how things work.

880
00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:39,800
Speaker 14: So my son came to me. He was very upset

881
00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 14: with his wife. One of her good friends is getting married.

882
00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:46,960
Speaker 15: They know my sons but not they're not super closed.

883
00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:48,480
Speaker 8: But she's really good.

884
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:49,440
Speaker 12: Friends with the wife.

885
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:52,720
Speaker 14: So the wife sent her a little thing, a little bouquet.

886
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:54,759
Speaker 14: Would you be my bridesmad who's so inspripes to go?

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Speaker 14: Oh my god, this is so cool.

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Speaker 15: So she's gonna walk down the aisle with somebody else,

889
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:01,799
Speaker 15: And he was invited to be part of the grooms mess.

890
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Speaker 15: So it opened up the whole can of warms and

891
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Speaker 15: started saying like, oh, you know, why is she gonna

892
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Speaker 15: walk with somebody else on the Ohio and I'm I'm

893
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:13,279
Speaker 15: the husband and they know she's married, So I don't

894
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:14,280
Speaker 15: know if that's right wrong.

895
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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I'm gonna defer to the experts marriage counselor

896
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Speaker 2: here siciny, I don't think what would you do and

897
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:23,000
Speaker 2: what's right and wrong?

898
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Speaker 5: Well, you know, it's at the end of the day,

899
00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:27,200
Speaker 5: it comes down to the wife and the groom and

900
00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 5: what they want for their wedding and if he has

901
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:34,280
Speaker 5: more friends, more groomsmen, and it just was too many

902
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:35,719
Speaker 5: to have your son in it.

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Speaker 6: That's just what it is.

904
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Speaker 5: Like I know for my wedding, I had my brother

905
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Speaker 5: and my sister, like my sister had her husband, like

906
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Speaker 5: I think they were all in it.

907
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Speaker 2: But how many what do you call them bridal party people?

908
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:49,480
Speaker 5: I think I had about seven on each side. So

909
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 5: I had seven bridesmaids and my and Michael had and doesn't.

910
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:55,879
Speaker 1: Have to be it doesn't have to be even.

911
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 5: But my point is, like my sister was the matron

912
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Speaker 5: of honor, but Adam her husban Been was not the

913
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,920
Speaker 5: best man. So when they walk down the aisle, Jeanette

914
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 5: walked with the best man, right, you know what I mean?

915
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:09,839
Speaker 5: So and it wasn't her husband and everyone knows like, okay,

916
00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:12,000
Speaker 5: it's not like it's not that big of a deal.

917
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Speaker 2: So Grace, here's I don't know anything about weddings, but

918
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Speaker 2: I do have perspective because we've talked to a lot

919
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Speaker 2: of married people about their you know, issues getting married,

920
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:24,720
Speaker 2: in the stress and all this stuff. It's their wedding.

921
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:30,080
Speaker 2: It's not about anybody else, right, So whatever they the

922
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:34,200
Speaker 2: couple want to do, it's okay, right, I mean, it's

923
00:43:34,280 --> 00:43:38,400
Speaker 2: it's for them, about them, and all this other stuff

924
00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:41,640
Speaker 2: is not for us or you or we to create

925
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 2: any issue about or overthink. Don't you agree?

926
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Speaker 15: Okay, So what you're saying is even though they know

927
00:43:47,520 --> 00:43:49,920
Speaker 15: they're married and they're together, they don't have to be

928
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:50,719
Speaker 15: in the wedding.

929
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Speaker 8: To get correct correct.

930
00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:54,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. If it were my wedding, yes.

931
00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 14: Okay, if you want to find it so quiet, do

932
00:43:58,760 --> 00:43:59,400
Speaker 14: you have an opinion?

933
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:03,399
Speaker 2: Well, because when I when I said my wedding, they

934
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:04,359
Speaker 2: got scared.

935
00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 3: We got excited, our ears for excited. No, but I

936
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 3: think I think I feel the same way. It really

937
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:16,800
Speaker 3: is about the bride and the groom and what they want,

938
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 3: and maybe maybe he might not be a groomsman, but

939
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:22,520
Speaker 3: they might still have him walk down the aisle with her,

940
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:24,280
Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Like, we have some family

941
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:27,160
Speaker 3: members that aren't necessarily in our bridal party, but that

942
00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 3: will still walk down the aisle because they're part of

943
00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:30,279
Speaker 3: our family, you know.

944
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:33,040
Speaker 2: And just to put you on the spot, are Siany

945
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 2: or I in the bridal party?

946
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:36,280
Speaker 1: You're you're hosting?

947
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:38,239
Speaker 2: On you?

948
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:39,600
Speaker 1: You're the efficient, You're.

949
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:41,400
Speaker 2: Like in the people?

950
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:43,200
Speaker 1: You stand? You stand in the middle.

951
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:47,640
Speaker 2: Are you altered? Yeah?

952
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:49,320
Speaker 6: Why do you pick it?

953
00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 2: I'm comfortable? What do you mean? Why do you pick

954
00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 2: me stand? Because I don't care where I stand a couple?

955
00:44:57,840 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 3: You know where you stand right in front of us

956
00:44:59,600 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 3: because you're I think he knows.

957
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:03,520
Speaker 6: I don't think he knows.

958
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:06,840
Speaker 2: It's about you and your people. Thank you for calling.

959
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:09,440
Speaker 2: Make it about the couple. Let's not think twice about this.

960
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:13,680
Speaker 2: Good luck and take good care. I do love the

961
00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:16,480
Speaker 2: relationship we have with anybody that will call us to

962
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 2: talk about something that intimate. Yeah, and personal, that's personal

963
00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 2: to come to us with who we're not experts, nor

964
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 2: do we really we never met race, But I do

965
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:26,920
Speaker 2: love that relationship.

966
00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:28,440
Speaker 6: That's a family drama right there.

967
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 2: I stand between the brides people and the groom's people.

968
00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:35,399
Speaker 3: Yes, you stand right in the middle. So basically you

969
00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 3: are the this like the center. You are the centerpiece

970
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:41,439
Speaker 3: and then the centerpiece.

971
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:46,320
Speaker 2: All right, let's let's start you a photo.

972
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Speaker 1: Was the last year at a wedding?

973
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 2: Let's see, Well they're not they're no longer together. But yeah,

974
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:56,279
Speaker 2: I was a friend's wedding a few years ago. All right,

975
00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 2: so this was a fun little for the show exercise

976
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:05,359
Speaker 2: that ABC, GPD, GPS whatever. It has roasted our Instagram feed.

977
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Speaker 14: Huh.

978
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:08,200
Speaker 2: So are you know the comedy roast that they've done.

979
00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:10,000
Speaker 2: Would you ever want someone to do.

980
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:12,040
Speaker 5: A roast like that for I don't think I could

981
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:13,360
Speaker 5: handle it.

982
00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:15,880
Speaker 2: I don't think that's I didn't say it seems like

983
00:46:16,880 --> 00:46:17,239
Speaker 2: I know.

984
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:20,719
Speaker 6: But it's so funny to watch. It's funny to be

985
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 6: at one.

986
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:24,279
Speaker 2: Well, I'm still thinking of the Tom Brady roast that

987
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:25,320
Speaker 2: was all over the place.

988
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 10: Yeah.

989
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:27,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, there was a Kevin Hart one too.

990
00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:32,400
Speaker 2: Uh did I see I did see that one? That

991
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:35,799
Speaker 2: was a good special. Yeah. Yeah, all right, so you

992
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:38,759
Speaker 2: can basically it's very popular to do this. Right now,

993
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:44,279
Speaker 2: ask chat GPT to roast your Instagram fee. What you

994
00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 2: do is you upload a screenshot of your grid and

995
00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 2: you ask it to just roast, and it does it instantly. Neat.

996
00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 2: Would you like to read yours?

997
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:54,480
Speaker 6: All right?

998
00:46:56,960 --> 00:47:00,319
Speaker 5: And here's here's my Your feet is a kaleidoscope of

999
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:05,680
Speaker 5: colorful balloons, adorable kids, scenic getaways, and the occasional I'm

1000
00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 5: so relatable snap like a visit to the eye doctor,

1001
00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:11,959
Speaker 5: because nothing says down to earth like keeping it real.

1002
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:15,240
Speaker 5: Between a trip to Greece and hosting a radio show

1003
00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:17,800
Speaker 5: so sarcastic.

1004
00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:24,160
Speaker 3: With gosh, just get money, what about yours? Tanya between

1005
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 3: the oversized dog treats an exaggerated facial expression, It's like

1006
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 3: watching a rom com on fast forward. Honestly, this feed

1007
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:38,839
Speaker 3: has so much sunshine and positivity that it might as

1008
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:44,359
Speaker 3: well come with the disclaimer viewing may cause unrealistic life expectations.

1009
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Speaker 5: I mean, look, Instagram is like the highlights of people's lives.

1010
00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:53,319
Speaker 2: Chat GPTs nailing.

1011
00:47:53,040 --> 00:47:55,200
Speaker 6: Me, oh man, it's so good.

1012
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:58,960
Speaker 2: So here's mine. We put it up there for this

1013
00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:03,640
Speaker 2: AI to spit back out. The quote roast for mine

1014
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:06,440
Speaker 2: for my Instagram says your Instagram is sprinkled with just

1015
00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 2: enough relatable moments. To remind everyone you're still a human

1016
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 2: if humans regularly hung out with celebrities eightcurmet meals and

1017
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 2: dress like they're hosting the Oscars every other day, I mean, really,

1018
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:30,479
Speaker 2: I'll show you all. Stop posting food it's so good,

1019
00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:32,880
Speaker 2: dressed like the Oscars every other.

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Speaker 6: Day, that's how you picture you.

1021
00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:37,719
Speaker 2: Well, I'm right here in ahatt in the spine.

1022
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Speaker 1: But you don't post that. You need to post that.

1023
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:43,279
Speaker 2: I don't want to post if it's gonna spit that

1024
00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:46,239
Speaker 2: stuff back now tomorrow we shall do it to gain

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Speaker 2: and dare I say it? Tomorrow? It is finally Friday.

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Speaker 14: Mine.

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Speaker 2: Have a good Thursday, guys. Thanks for listening to On

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Speaker 2: Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe and we'll

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Speaker 2: talk to you again tomorrow