Speaker 1: Rooking jewels. Second update. You know, sometimes we do second
Speaker 1: date updates that are more than just one date. Like
Speaker 1: the guy who's on the phone right now to do
Speaker 1: a second date update. He actually hung out with the
Speaker 1: woman that he wants to call the entire weekend, and
Speaker 1: now he's not getting a call back. I think it's
Speaker 1: probably because he was a weekend lovers what happens Sometimes
Speaker 1: people take weekend love us and maybe Sam, maybe you
Speaker 1: were a weekend love you everything about that? I don't
Speaker 1: think so. I never did much like actual lovn. But
Speaker 1: maybe it's fun. Mama just wanted a tasty morsel of
Speaker 1: meat for the weekend, and that meat was named Sam,
Speaker 1: who just wanted some iron candy for her son's baseball
Speaker 1: game or something. I don't know, but I don't think
Speaker 1: that's what was happening. Your weekend lover experience involved her son. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's a single mom, but she's really really pretty and
Speaker 1: she's super fun. She's got a great personality too. I
Speaker 1: was really pleasantly surprised. How did you meet this single mom?
Speaker 1: We met online we get lovers dot com kind of
Speaker 1: the way you have to say it, all right, So
Speaker 1: he for a weekend and then don't call me back
Speaker 1: ghost me dot com. So the first time you guys
Speaker 1: hung out, you met her son, and that didn't alarm
Speaker 1: you at all. Oh no, no, no, we didn't. It
Speaker 1: wasn't the first time we hung out. The first time
Speaker 1: we did it actually kind of like the classic way.
Speaker 1: We went for drinks and we had a lot of fun.
Speaker 1: But she had to leave early because she said, you know,
Speaker 1: she had to go take care of her kid, and
Speaker 1: I was, yeah, it made total sense. But we had
Speaker 1: a lot of fun. So because we hadn't really spent
Speaker 1: a huge amount of time together that first night, I said, well, hey,
Speaker 1: why don't we go out to dinner tomorrow night, which
Speaker 1: was Saturday. Okay? So she said okay, sure, And things
Speaker 1: weren't even better the second time. You know, it was great.
Speaker 1: We were laughing, we were telling each other jokes, getting
Speaker 1: to know each other better. And the next day she says, well, hey,
Speaker 1: my son has a little league baseball game. So I
Speaker 1: was like, cool, and she said why don't you come?
Speaker 1: And I said I'd love to. So boring I watched
Speaker 1: professional sports kids don't know how to play very well.
Speaker 1: Little league baseball is more interesting than real baseball. Because
Speaker 1: you know, they whiffed the ball and they don't know
Speaker 1: what they're doing. That's funny, you know, real baseball is
Speaker 1: just like they spit and they scratched themselves. I don't know,
Speaker 1: I can't stand it. Yeah, I love it. So you
Speaker 1: actually went along to watch her son's baseball game. That's
Speaker 1: it feels like a big commitment to me. Well, I
Speaker 1: mean yeah, but I was feeling it, so I said,
Speaker 1: you know what, cast your fate to the win. Let's
Speaker 1: see what happens. You know, it could be fun. And
Speaker 1: what was that like? Was it what you expected it
Speaker 1: to be? Well? Pretty much, yeah, nobody really. You know,
Speaker 1: it's a little league baseball game, so you know, we'll
Speaker 1: spend some time talking to the other parents. So we
Speaker 1: watched the game a little bit. But after the game,
Speaker 1: I was trying to score some brownie points with their kids,
Speaker 1: so I took them aside and I bought them a
Speaker 1: hot dog and an ice cream cone. And I said, well,
Speaker 1: don't let's don't tell your mom because you know she's
Speaker 1: probably gonna get mad that you had the sweets et cetera. Wait,
Speaker 1: hold up, you went in ahead and bought her son
Speaker 1: something that you told him to keep as a secret,
Speaker 1: Like that's kind of creepy. Yeah, it's not creepy. It's
Speaker 1: it's it's man time, you know, like like man to man.
Speaker 1: Sounds creepier that I've heard that before. Trust mean, nothing
Speaker 1: good game of that. So well, I mean, I'm just
Speaker 1: saying that's my first red flag is that you're buying
Speaker 1: her son ice cream without asking her. Well he wanted it,
Speaker 1: and I was, again, you're just making yourself sounds terrible,
Speaker 1: sound not doing myself any favors right now, You're not anyway,
Speaker 1: you got the kids some ice cream? And did his
Speaker 1: did his mom like give explicit details not to give
Speaker 1: him any ice cream? No? I mean she hadn't said
Speaker 1: not too, but she hadn't said it was okay either.
Speaker 1: I didn't even ask. Okay, you're just trying to be
Speaker 1: that cool guy, like, hey, dude, here's some ice cream down.
Speaker 1: Tell your mommy, I'm the man by the way, own
Speaker 1: a leather jacket and a car. Want your mommy to
Speaker 1: like me? Hi? Five? Is that what you were doing? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Have a stretched that out over like ten minutes, and
Speaker 1: that's that's basically all right. So how did the t
Speaker 1: ball game end? And did it fine. She just talked
Speaker 1: a little bit. Then she said she had to get
Speaker 1: him home and I said okay, and you know, then
Speaker 1: she took off and then I took off. But then
Speaker 1: I tried to call her that evening, do you know,
Speaker 1: tell her I had fun and see if we could
Speaker 1: make plans to hang out again. And she didn't pick up.
Speaker 1: So I left her a voicemail and she didn't answer.
Speaker 1: And then a day or two went by and I
Speaker 1: texted her and she still hadn't answer. She's just like,
Speaker 1: as soon as she left the game, that's the last
Speaker 1: I've heard of her. And I've been pouring over my
Speaker 1: head and I'm thinking, and I'll bet you any amount
Speaker 1: of money that that little probably told on me and
Speaker 1: ratted me out totally okay because I bought them ice
Speaker 1: cream and she probably flipped out and got mad that
Speaker 1: I've got and it was just there's just stupid. But
Speaker 1: there's one scoop. But it's not the ice cream. It's
Speaker 1: the going behind her back thing because you don't know
Speaker 1: her parenting style, you don't know what rules she has
Speaker 1: set up. I mean there's eight thousand different Wow, that's
Speaker 1: not a good idea. None of them are good though,
Speaker 1: it's just an ice cream cone. If you're that kind
Speaker 1: of like, you know, hyper parent, it's like, come on,
Speaker 1: loosen up a little bit. Yeah, all right, Well we'll
Speaker 1: play a song come back Caller and see if that
Speaker 1: bastard rated you out. Then your second date update right
Speaker 1: after this. Okay, sounds good? All right, Brook and jubil
Speaker 1: in the morning, and welcome back to Brook and jubil
Speaker 1: Field and your second date update up to bat Right
Speaker 1: now is Sam and Sam's in quite the pickle. He
Speaker 1: went out with Brenda and spent the entire weekend hanging
Speaker 1: out with her, some dinner and some drinks, and then
Speaker 1: concluded his weekend with a wonderful day at the ballpark
Speaker 1: watching her son play in a little league game. But
Speaker 1: now Sam isn't getting a call back. Will he be
Speaker 1: oh for one? In career second date updates, We'll find
Speaker 1: out in just a moment. But first let's talk to
Speaker 1: Sam and see if he's ready to make the call. Sam,
Speaker 1: are you ready? Yeah, I'm ready. This is actually I'm
Speaker 1: asleep listening to your baseball announcer voice. But like Moose
Speaker 1: people are when they watch baseball, Sam, We're gonna give
Speaker 1: her a call and find out why she's not calling
Speaker 1: you back after what you thought was a wonderful weekend.
Speaker 1: Any other thoughts before we get started. I'm just confused
Speaker 1: as to why she wouldn't call me back, because you know,
Speaker 1: we spend three straight days together. So well, I'll doll
Speaker 1: their phone number right now then and see if we
Speaker 1: can figure out what happened. Okay, okay, all right, here
Speaker 1: we go. Hello him, I speak to Brenda. Please. This
Speaker 1: is hey Brenda. How are you? This is Jewil from
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Okay, I'm fine. Who
Speaker 1: is this again? Jewbil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.
Speaker 1: It's a radio show. Oh okay, okay, obviously long time listener,
Speaker 1: appreciate that, Brenda. You're welcome. Any idea why a radio
Speaker 1: show would be calling you? I don't know. Did I
Speaker 1: win something? No, you didn't. You actually went out on
Speaker 1: a date with one of our listeners and now you're
Speaker 1: not calling him back and he's wondering what happened. His
Speaker 1: name is Sam, right right, and Sam told us that
Speaker 1: you guys spent like a whole weekend together, but now
Speaker 1: you won't call him back. Well, I don't think I
Speaker 1: would call it a whole weekend. I mean, it wasn't
Speaker 1: like we were together every waking moment. He said, you
Speaker 1: did dinner, you did drinks. Yeah. Yeah, it doesn't sound
Speaker 1: like it was a fun time for you. Uh yeah, well,
Speaker 1: I mean it started off all right. But it started
Speaker 1: off started off all right. That's usually how people like
Speaker 1: dates recapped. Did you just not enjoy hanging out with him?
Speaker 1: You know? I mean I was kind of into him
Speaker 1: the first night. He was nice. I mean, I'm nice
Speaker 1: enough for me to try again for dinner. You're just
Speaker 1: showering this dude with compliments. I thought for sure you
Speaker 1: would have been like head over heels for this guy
Speaker 1: since you invited him to your son's teaball game, because
Speaker 1: that's a big leap. Yeah, how do you know he
Speaker 1: went to my kids game? He told us all about it,
Speaker 1: Oh he did, He told you everything. Yeah, he said
Speaker 1: that you guys went out on a Friday night, had
Speaker 1: some drinks and dinner on Saturday, and then your son's
Speaker 1: baseball game on Sunday. Yeah, and he's confused because he
Speaker 1: thought you had a wonderful time each of those days. Well,
Speaker 1: something changed Sunday at the baseball game changed. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: we're at the little league game, having a nice time,
Speaker 1: and suddenly he kind of starts it's like talking trash
Speaker 1: about these little kids split skills. He's ripping on the kids.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's understandable. Little league play is terrible. They're children, yeah,
Speaker 1: I know. And the little kids yeah, I mean, they're
Speaker 1: five years old and it's time to step it up
Speaker 1: and play like an eight year old. That's what I say.
Speaker 1: But so he was ripping out in the kids the
Speaker 1: whole time. Yeah, I mean, he's like cracking jokes about
Speaker 1: I'm kind of loudly, and like other parents are starting
Speaker 1: to kind of give weird glances. And then at one
Speaker 1: point he like turns to me and says, in all seriousness,
Speaker 1: and he says, it looks like your son could use
Speaker 1: some throwing lessons. What don't worry, don't worry about it.
Speaker 1: I'll teach him how to not throw like a girl.
Speaker 1: That was he serious about that or was a really
Speaker 1: bad joke? He seemed totally warious about it to me, Like,
Speaker 1: I mean he made a point about it two or
Speaker 1: three times, two or three times? Yes, what was your response,
Speaker 1: I mean, did you say anything back to him? I mean,
Speaker 1: my mom would have been like, yeah, you're right, the
Speaker 1: kids sucks. But did you say don't talk about my
Speaker 1: kid that way? No, I didn't say a thing. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna honor that with a response. But I
Speaker 1: was fuming, Okay, understandable, So well, yeah, I mean I
Speaker 1: don't want some jerks like that around me or my
Speaker 1: kids totally. Well, unfortunately he's kind of around you right now,
Speaker 1: because he's actually on the other line listening to this
Speaker 1: phone call and wants to talk to you. What yep, Sam,
Speaker 1: are you there right? Brand? Uh? Hello? Um, I guess
Speaker 1: we should probably have a little chat then, shouldn't we? Um?
Speaker 1: Yeast of all, I don't know what there is to
Speaker 1: say right now, Sam, except you know, maybe you'd like
Speaker 1: to apologize. What's just how you? So let me finish right.
Speaker 1: Just for the record, I was trying to help, all right.
Speaker 1: I didn't mean anything malicious. I wasn't trying to be nasty.
Speaker 1: I'm just calling it like it was. I like sports
Speaker 1: and kind of get into sports. I wasn't being vicious
Speaker 1: or nasty. I mean, I didn't like, you know, get
Speaker 1: drunk or throw my beer. You make it sound like
Speaker 1: I was, So I'm sort of yetty out there and
Speaker 1: in the stand. I wasn't not to my estimation anyway.
Speaker 1: And yeah, you know, look, I was trying to find
Speaker 1: a way to honestly kind of bond with your kid,
Speaker 1: and I thought maybe if we could play some baseball.
Speaker 1: I mean, because I know you've got your son, and
Speaker 1: your son's your top priorities. Show if I want to
Speaker 1: be with you, I have to get along with your
Speaker 1: son as well. That's that's a part of who you are.
Speaker 1: So I'm trying. I was trying to help. I was honestly.
Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna lie to you or sugarcoat anything. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying it like it was. You're not gonna bond
Speaker 1: with a five year old kid by killing his mother
Speaker 1: that he spucks. I'm sorry, I know it's just gonna
Speaker 1: sound weird, but I didn't mean that in a bad way.
Speaker 1: You didn't mean it in a bad way. You were
Speaker 1: actually critiquing a five year old performance, like you should
Speaker 1: just be happy if they make it to first base
Speaker 1: instead of third base. Look, if you start now, you
Speaker 1: might actually have like a cal ripkin on your hands.
Speaker 1: You know, if you could have started early, you totally
Speaker 1: be one of those dads when you have kids, won't you? Yeah? Maybe?
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't see any problem with wanting your
Speaker 1: kids to be the best that they can be. And Brenda, honestly,
Speaker 1: that's all I want for your son is just I
Speaker 1: don't want him to suck as bad as you did
Speaker 1: that day. Oh my god. And I mean that with all.
Speaker 1: Don't do you respect? That is so rude. If you're
Speaker 1: gonna take it rude, it's gonna be rude. You could just,
Speaker 1: you know, laugh at all. You have no idea about
Speaker 1: what you're saying, do you? I have every idea what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I was offering to help him be better.
Speaker 1: If you didn't want me to help, you just said thanks,
Speaker 1: but no thanks. You didn't have to ghost me on
Speaker 1: the phone like this. I don't even know what to
Speaker 1: say to that. There's nothing wrong with my son's athletic ability.
Speaker 1: There's something mentally wrong with you sizing five year old kids.
Speaker 1: Look again, for the record, it's not that there's anything
Speaker 1: wrong quote unquote with your kids athletic ability. I just
Speaker 1: said he could be better. Well in that case, Brenda,
Speaker 1: would you like to go on a second date with Sam?
Speaker 1: I know he'd like to see you again. We'll pay
Speaker 1: for it. Oh yeah, I'd love to go on a
Speaker 1: second date with some guy. He's gonna criticize my son's spelling.
Speaker 1: Kiss well, you know if he's if he's not a
Speaker 1: good speller. I was a great speller growing up. I see, Brenda,
Speaker 1: Sam could coach your kid in all the ways of
Speaker 1: being a man. Yeah, he's the worst super dad. Are
Speaker 1: you sure you don't want to go out with him? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm positive on this very snary. That's extremely disappointing. I
Speaker 1: guess we did find out that Sam is oh for
Speaker 1: one in the date department. Just shows Sam that every
Speaker 1: time he criticizes a five year old throwing skills, he
Speaker 1: definitely doesn't get a date. Maybe next time he'll try
Speaker 1: to not do that. What do you think, Sam, Well,
Speaker 1: at least he didn't wrap me out about the ice cream,
Speaker 1: So that's night. Yeah, don't worry about it, Brenda. Next
Speaker 1: for your time. In the text in at seven eight,
Speaker 1: five to nine, two says I don't really support the
Speaker 1: guy ripping on the kids baseball skills, but the kid
Speaker 1: probably did suck. Let's give him that. It's broken jewel
Speaker 1: in the morning. That second date up, that you just
Speaker 1: heard was obviously tapeball. Brooke was still here. She's out
Speaker 1: on attorney leaving. Jackie is filling in. But the dude
Speaker 1: named Sam wanted to call a woman named Brenda. He
Speaker 1: was confused why she wasn't calling back after they spent
Speaker 1: like the whole weekend together, even went to her kids
Speaker 1: little league game, and Brenda wasn't calling him back because
Speaker 1: during the game, he just ripped on the kid the
Speaker 1: whole time. It was like, you know, I can teach
Speaker 1: him how to throw like a boy if you want to.
Speaker 1: That's some of a turn off off, you know, I mean,
Speaker 1: on a date, if he's already kind of being a bully,
Speaker 1: why would you go on another date with a bull
Speaker 1: bullying and stepping in as a father figure, like, I'll
Speaker 1: take care of this kid out of throw. We're only
Speaker 1: going to raise champions together, you and I. So at
Speaker 1: the end of everything, she yelled at him and told
Speaker 1: him never to call her again, and he still didn't
Speaker 1: get it. He's still like, what I was just trying
Speaker 1: to help kid sucks. I'm a nice guy. Yeah, he
Speaker 1: should just be a little league coach and get all
Speaker 1: his aggressions on another you know, and I really should
Speaker 1: keep been separate from his dating life. Remember, if you
Speaker 1: want to do a second day up date, I'll have
Speaker 1: to do his email the show, and we will call
Speaker 1: the person that didn't call you back